WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High Flyer Liar

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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>Occasionally, we check back in with callers months after they

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<v Speaker 2>come on the show to see how their relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Is going love.

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<v Speaker 2>When we do that, we call it a second date

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<v Speaker 2>update update. Yeah, but today we're doing something kind of new.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Date update Update update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a triple update.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel now we're getting clingy, can you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean? Like, can't we just let people live their

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<v Speaker 3>lives at some point?

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, It's second update Square.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we want to be as deeply involved in our listeners'

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<v Speaker 2>lives as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>If with them, we're doing a trup date today.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a few of those different meaning though, but seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners, Anthony, reached out to us again.

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<v Speaker 2>So first of all, Anthony, welcome back to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I having a hard time placing with Anthony what you

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<v Speaker 3>were on before.

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<v Speaker 2>So last time Anthony was on, you're dating a woman

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<v Speaker 2>named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you were

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<v Speaker 2>happy together, but she was having you pay for a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of her and her friend's activities.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh. I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>she's using you, and then you're like, no, she's hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that in I remembering?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>That's pretty close.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, you broke what?

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<v Speaker 1>Just go get a bank loan? Man?

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<v Speaker 3>Did she wait? Did she leave you?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying for

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<v Speaker 4>everything for her and her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So alexis good.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I see where she's coming from, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>You go, girl. That sucks, man, But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're better off without.

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<v Speaker 3>That, which I think we told you so Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So is that it?

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<v Speaker 5>Guess if you went on at a date with another

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<v Speaker 5>person that you're interested in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, that has been happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, who's the new girl?

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<v Speaker 4>I found a new woman named Lisa.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the first thing that stands out to me about

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<v Speaker 4>her I find fascinating is that she does private security

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<v Speaker 4>detail for celebrity whoa.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's interesting one of your employees.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's just something that came out after but she

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<v Speaker 4>won't tell me who these clients are. And that's what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm always trying to get out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a job at least. Yeah, privacy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So have you guys been on one date? Two dates?

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<v Speaker 3>Were you at?

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<v Speaker 4>We just got out once?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>It went pretty well.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>The other thing that I thought was pretty funny is

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<v Speaker 4>one thing I did see on her profile is there's

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<v Speaker 4>like an ad that comes up on people's profiles that

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<v Speaker 4>says today's high flyer of the week, like when they're

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<v Speaker 4>getting a lot of action. I guess that's what they

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<v Speaker 4>call it.

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<v Speaker 3>App it's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a good thing for you or a red

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<v Speaker 4>flag jury's I don't know, but I mean I I

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<v Speaker 4>was calling her the high flyer as as a joke. Though.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that something that she puts on her profile or

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<v Speaker 3>is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>an idiot when it comes to apps.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really

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<v Speaker 4>popular on the app.

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<v Speaker 2>That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on

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<v Speaker 2>the date, like how did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>I was good At first. I couldn't tell if she

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<v Speaker 4>was like gonna be a real person or not. But

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<v Speaker 4>she was exactly how she described herself.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's real pretty, is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty casual. She showed up in

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<v Speaker 4>Gucci sweats, a Tupac couldie.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, she doesn't have a sense of style, she could do.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 4>But I thought it was pretty cool and we did

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<v Speaker 4>have fun. She talked a lot about this charity work

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<v Speaker 4>she does, so she's really big on giving back to

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<v Speaker 4>a community, and I was able to relate because I

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<v Speaker 4>was just involved with a charity with my ex girlfriend

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<v Speaker 4>and her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So I hope say that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, is that how you brought it up?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, I made that joke in the failed to

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<v Speaker 4>go in to further detail about it with their books.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were

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<v Speaker 3>you guys doing? Were you drinking? Eating? What was the

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<v Speaker 3>date about?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we got a couple of drinks, we went to

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<v Speaker 4>a happy hour.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so it's chill. So that's why she could wear

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<v Speaker 3>the sweatshirt and the sweatpants.

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<v Speaker 4>I see you budgeting that idea. I think she wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to see me in the daylight.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like you had a good connection with

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<v Speaker 1>her though, I did.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I could definitely tell why she is the

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<v Speaker 4>high flyer because her phone keeps buzzing the whole time

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<v Speaker 4>we're together. I have a suspicion that she's definitely talking

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<v Speaker 4>to more guys than just me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Probably.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Jose, if you were out on a date

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<v Speaker 2>with someone who was a high flyer, is that a

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<v Speaker 2>red flag to you?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I would just be happy.

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<v Speaker 4>That I'm on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>You're buying a ticket onto.

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<v Speaker 3>That point, maybe she wants to take step off the

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<v Speaker 3>fast plane move on to the slope plane with him.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm definitely over overall, though, how do you think

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<v Speaker 2>the first date went good?

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<v Speaker 4>Bad? I think it went good, Okay. I was hoping

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<v Speaker 4>that we're gonna go on another date. But her responses

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<v Speaker 4>are a little spotty.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, and I don't know if you did

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<v Speaker 2>this or not, But did you ever point out, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>your phone is buzzing a lot, or youre getting a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Come across as weirdly, I didn't think that would be

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<v Speaker 4>a good style on my fire. I played it cool.

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<v Speaker 4>I played it cool. It was it was just slightly

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<v Speaker 4>up inside.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, they seem to have answers. Let's find out what

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<v Speaker 2>Lisa has to say for herself. We're gonna call the

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<v Speaker 2>high flyer directly.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe as well.

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<v Speaker 1>What's on her chart? We do your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine being out with someone you're very interested in and

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<v Speaker 2>finding out that they do security detail for the rich

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<v Speaker 2>and famous, but they won't tell you who. Not only

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<v Speaker 2>that they're a verified high flyer on the dating app

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<v Speaker 2>where you met them.

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<v Speaker 3>Which means that they get a lot of action yea on.

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<v Speaker 2>The front page yeah yeah, or I don't know, someone

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<v Speaker 2>just paid to feature them or something like that. And

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<v Speaker 2>they wear Gucci sweats with Tupac hoodies to first dates

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<v Speaker 2>like it's no big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, they're cool for me personally.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a very interesting second date call because, like

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<v Speaker 2>jose said before, I really hope that she actually answers

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<v Speaker 2>us because we don't get to talk to people like

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<v Speaker 2>this very often.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he cannot be the one that also like prize

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<v Speaker 3>into who the celebrities are she works for. Just asked

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<v Speaker 3>why I know he already did want the date. She

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<v Speaker 3>didn't want to answer her.

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<v Speaker 2>But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right

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<v Speaker 2>now is like I can't talk. I mean, we do

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<v Speaker 2>want a lot of answers from her, but the main

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<v Speaker 2>thing we want to know is why she's not going

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<v Speaker 2>out with Anthony. That's true because this is a very

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<v Speaker 2>unique type of woman and Anthony. The best part is

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<v Speaker 2>she hasn't made you pay for anything yet either, but

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<v Speaker 2>you are willing to yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though,

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<v Speaker 3>right Anthony? You paid for happy Hour?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar, but

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her

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<v Speaker 4>parking and you know.

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<v Speaker 3>The last girl that you were on the show with.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you'll pay for her parking on the second

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<v Speaker 2>date at least.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's call her and try and figure out where

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to be and if she'll go out with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Lisa?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>It is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh hi, I guess I can't project us.

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<v Speaker 2>If you haven't heard us before. We're low key bougie,

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<v Speaker 2>the lowest key I feel like.

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<v Speaker 3>He's wearing a free show shirt.

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<v Speaker 6>Got Okay, what is this all about? I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners

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<v Speaker 2>with their dating lives. When they go out with someone

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<v Speaker 2>and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out

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<v Speaker 2>and try and help figure out.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason why.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh okay, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get paid

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<v Speaker 2>to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment, but I

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<v Speaker 3>like it to My.

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<v Speaker 1>Parents are really ashamed of it. But that's not it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about us.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to ask about you and your relationship with

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<v Speaker 2>a guy named Anthony.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, you guys went to a happy hour?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, pretty great guy, huh.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what was your thoughts on the date?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it was really chill. We just had a

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<v Speaker 6>couple drinks at happy hour and it was just a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, nothing to write home about.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean, was there any like big red flags

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<v Speaker 2>to you for why you're not going out with him again?

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<v Speaker 2>Because he said he's been trying to organize a second

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<v Speaker 2>meet up and it's not quite happening.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, No, there weren't any red flags when we

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<v Speaker 6>were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting.

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<v Speaker 6>He was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, can I offer something up that he told us,

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<v Speaker 2>because sure, he said he was worried he may have

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<v Speaker 2>offended you by prying too much into your job because

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<v Speaker 2>he found out you helped organize security for big time celebrities.

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<v Speaker 6>My gosh, yeah, I just made that up to sound interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait what, oh man, I was interested even We were

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<v Speaker 2>prepared with all these questions to try and get you

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<v Speaker 2>to reveal who you do security for.

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<v Speaker 3>Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff. You're laughing like a joke to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.

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<v Speaker 1>What can you tell us your real job?

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<v Speaker 6>I guess at this point, if I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 6>see him again and share, I'll tell you what my

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<v Speaker 6>real job is.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 6>So I am actually part owner of the dating site?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Oh, some friends had the idea and we were

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<v Speaker 6>just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well,

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<v Speaker 6>they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>be an early investor, and so let's do it. And

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<v Speaker 6>it just kind of blew up.

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<v Speaker 3>So it says when it says high flyer on your

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<v Speaker 3>dating app, that just means like CEO or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, we were looking for trying to like do

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<v Speaker 6>a feature like on the app, and I just said

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<v Speaker 6>I'll do it. I'm single, I don't care about the

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<v Speaker 6>attention whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, market research apparently it makes an impact.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So Okay, so wait, why did you just tell him

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<v Speaker 3>that you were the app owner?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,

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<v Speaker 6>and I mean eventually I would tell people what the

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<v Speaker 6>deal is, but also it would be a little creepy.

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<v Speaker 6>I would think. In the beginning, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to help him figure out what's the reason that

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<v Speaker 2>you're not going out again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what he's confused about.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, is.

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<v Speaker 1>It so many men? Just so many men you can't

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<v Speaker 1>choose one?

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, that is not the reason. So as a admin,

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<v Speaker 6>I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and

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<v Speaker 6>when we are on a date and talking, he told

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<v Speaker 6>me in conversation that it was just him and I talking.

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<v Speaker 3>That feels like invasion of private Listen.

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<v Speaker 6>When you check off on the agreement. I mean it

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<v Speaker 6>says any co founder or manager can monitor your account

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<v Speaker 6>in your activity, So well, am I right.

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<v Speaker 1>To do that? That's crazy and it.

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<v Speaker 6>Just proves that men are pigs.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?

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<v Speaker 6>Wow?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Lisa?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I forgot to tell you, Lisa, it's down way

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<v Speaker 2>way deep in our agreement. When you come on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone listening, okay, we got Oh wow, you're super chill.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that

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<v Speaker 4>you can that why you had to put that in

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<v Speaker 4>your profile.

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<v Speaker 5>And then feels like the last time you were on

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<v Speaker 5>the show, like you just agree with women no matter

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<v Speaker 5>what they do to you. If woman's been light, she

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<v Speaker 5>like invaded your privacy and you're just chill still.

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<v Speaker 4>So wait a second. You could actually go into my

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<v Speaker 4>app and see all the messages, like everything that I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever written on there?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I can.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you keep a PG on their money. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>you know she cares.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't see pictures, right, Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I can, so you can zoom in on them too.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you'll have to zoom in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why do I doubt that?

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt that a bad path.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either.

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<v Speaker 6>Because I mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I was honest about that. On the dates, he implied

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<v Speaker 6>that I was the only person he was talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you wouldn't have cared if.

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<v Speaker 3>He has said, but see that. Why why did you

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<v Speaker 3>say that, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you're the only person that I've met on the

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<v Speaker 4>app that I actually like and respect.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you don't respect?

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<v Speaker 5>You don't respect any other person you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, not good.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I came out wrong, baby, But here's the

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<v Speaker 4>only one I have really found interested in, and I

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<v Speaker 4>haven't met anybody like you, whether it was on the

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<v Speaker 4>app or not.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and

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<v Speaker 6>it looks like that you're trying to set up something

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<v Speaker 6>with somebody named Clarissa.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. Respect Lisa. You said a little bit jealous of that.

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<v Speaker 6>Even I don't know about jealous. But look, I would

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<v Speaker 6>have been totally fine if he had said, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>talking to other people too. I get it. It's not

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<v Speaker 6>a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm blocking.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm blocking Clarissa right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>It just sounds like you need to be truthful about

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<v Speaker 3>everything the other app Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>Something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.

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<v Speaker 2>It does feel good. And I'd like to offer to

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<v Speaker 2>send you guys out on another date that we will

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<v Speaker 2>pay for once once.

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<v Speaker 4>Again, Can I just reiterate that I'm serious. You are

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<v Speaker 4>the only one I've taken serious that I've met on there,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm really hoping that you're gonna say yes.

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<v Speaker 3>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, that's very sweet, Anthony. I appreciate that. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 6>mean I'm a yes. I would say yes, start over,

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<v Speaker 6>fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on

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<v Speaker 6>the table, we start.

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<v Speaker 2>Over, okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who

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<v Speaker 2>want to know if you'll go out with them.

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<v Speaker 1>What would you like to say to them?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still

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<v Speaker 6>talking to other guys. Fourteen's on the other side for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but how many of those guys do you respect?

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<v Speaker 6>All Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, more research with the second day on our bill,

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna pay for it. Okay, good, before you go,

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<v Speaker 2>can you force matches because there's a couple of girls

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<v Speaker 2>that aren't responding to that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a hard no, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, the thing that I'm coming to terms with

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<v Speaker 2>is we just have to get it through our heads

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<v Speaker 2>that people.

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<v Speaker 1>Lie on dates.

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<v Speaker 2>It can be small, little white lies or big giant ones,

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<v Speaker 2>but people do it all the time, whether it's to

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<v Speaker 2>make themselves look better or for whatever reason, and we don't.

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<v Speaker 3>All have the access to fact check them like she did.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,

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<v Speaker 2>it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied

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<v Speaker 2>about what her job was out of boredom from all

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<v Speaker 2>the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that

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<v Speaker 2>she was the only girl that he was talking to

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<v Speaker 2>on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would he even offer it up?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you know, like, just don't it sounds like one

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<v Speaker 2>of those nice lies that you tell someone that they're

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<v Speaker 2>the only one that you like, or.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like I never do this when you know that

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<v Speaker 3>that person always does.

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<v Speaker 1>It really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I do feel like society has really progressed because

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<v Speaker 2>they were both totally okay with each other's lies.

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<v Speaker 3>In the end, well we have put each other out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how lies work.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes right, yes, no matter what, no lie. You can

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<v Speaker 2>always email the show for help. We're willing to call

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<v Speaker 2>that person who wasn't calling you back. It's Brook and

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.