Speaker 1: Second date Update.
Speaker 2: Occasionally, we check back in with callers months after they
Speaker 2: come on the show to see how their relationship.
Speaker 1: Is going love.
Speaker 2: When we do that, we call it a second date
Speaker 2: update update. Yeah, but today we're doing something kind of new.
Speaker 1: We have a second.
Speaker 2: Date update Update update.
Speaker 1: That's a triple update.
Speaker 3: I feel now we're getting clingy, can you know what
Speaker 3: I mean? Like, can't we just let people live their
Speaker 3: lives at some point?
Speaker 1: Jeff, It's second update Square.
Speaker 2: No, we want to be as deeply involved in our listeners'
Speaker 2: lives as possible.
Speaker 1: If with them, we're doing a trup date today.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a few of those different meaning though, but seriously,
Speaker 2: one of our listeners, Anthony, reached out to us again.
Speaker 2: So first of all, Anthony, welcome back to the show.
Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I having a hard time placing with Anthony what you
Speaker 3: were on before.
Speaker 2: So last time Anthony was on, you're dating a woman
Speaker 2: named Mallory, and you guys were saying that you were
Speaker 2: happy together, but she was having you pay for a
Speaker 2: lot of her and her friend's activities.
Speaker 3: Oh. I kind of remember this, and we're like, oh,
Speaker 3: she's using you, and then you're like, no, she's hot.
Speaker 3: Is that in I remembering?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 4: That's pretty close.
Speaker 1: No, Mallory, it's just you today, Anthony. What's going on?
Speaker 4: H So with Mallory? I ran out of money?
Speaker 3: Oh wait, you broke what?
Speaker 1: Just go get a bank loan? Man?
Speaker 3: Did she wait? Did she leave you?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she basically dropped me after I stopped paying for
Speaker 4: everything for her and her friends.
Speaker 1: So alexis good.
Speaker 3: Right, I see where she's coming from, Like.
Speaker 1: You go, girl. That sucks, man, But it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're better off without.
Speaker 3: That, which I think we told you so Yeah, I
Speaker 3: think that.
Speaker 1: Okay, So is that it?
Speaker 5: Guess if you went on at a date with another
Speaker 5: person that you're interested in.
Speaker 4: Yes, that has been happening.
Speaker 1: Okay, who's the new girl?
Speaker 4: I found a new woman named Lisa.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, and what do you like about her?
Speaker 4: Well, the first thing that stands out to me about
Speaker 4: her I find fascinating is that she does private security
Speaker 4: detail for celebrity whoa.
Speaker 2: Wow, that's interesting one of your employees.
Speaker 1: Amazing.
Speaker 3: Let's get her on the phone.
Speaker 1: Was that was that like right there on her dating profile?
Speaker 4: No, that's just something that came out after but she
Speaker 4: won't tell me who these clients are. And that's what
Speaker 4: I'm always trying to get out of it.
Speaker 1: That's a job at least. Yeah, privacy.
Speaker 3: Okay, So have you guys been on one date? Two dates?
Speaker 3: Were you at?
Speaker 4: We just got out once?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: I mean, how did it go?
Speaker 4: It went pretty well.
Speaker 6: I mean.
Speaker 4: The other thing that I thought was pretty funny is
Speaker 4: one thing I did see on her profile is there's
Speaker 4: like an ad that comes up on people's profiles that
Speaker 4: says today's high flyer of the week, like when they're
Speaker 4: getting a lot of action. I guess that's what they
Speaker 4: call it.
Speaker 3: App it's funny.
Speaker 4: Is that a good thing for you or a red
Speaker 4: flag jury's I don't know, but I mean I I
Speaker 4: was calling her the high flyer as as a joke. Though.
Speaker 3: Is that something that she puts on her profile or
Speaker 3: is it something that the app does automatically? Sorry, I'm
Speaker 3: an idiot when it comes to apps.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the app does that if you're really
Speaker 4: popular on the app.
Speaker 2: That's another interesting talking point though, to bring up on
Speaker 2: the date, like how did it go?
Speaker 4: I was good At first. I couldn't tell if she
Speaker 4: was like gonna be a real person or not. But
Speaker 4: she was exactly how she described herself.
Speaker 3: So she's real pretty, is what you're saying.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well she's pretty casual. She showed up in
Speaker 4: Gucci sweats, a Tupac couldie.
Speaker 1: Okay, she doesn't have a sense of style, she could do.
Speaker 3: It's kind of cute.
Speaker 4: But I thought it was pretty cool and we did
Speaker 4: have fun. She talked a lot about this charity work
Speaker 4: she does, so she's really big on giving back to
Speaker 4: a community, and I was able to relate because I
Speaker 4: was just involved with a charity with my ex girlfriend
Speaker 4: and her friends.
Speaker 1: So I hope say that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, is that how you brought it up?
Speaker 4: No, No, I made that joke in the failed to
Speaker 4: go in to further detail about it with their books.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, so we didn't even ask what were
Speaker 3: you guys doing? Were you drinking? Eating? What was the
Speaker 3: date about?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we got a couple of drinks, we went to
Speaker 4: a happy hour.
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's chill. So that's why she could wear
Speaker 3: the sweatshirt and the sweatpants.
Speaker 4: I see you budgeting that idea. I think she wanted
Speaker 4: to see me in the daylight.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had a good connection with
Speaker 1: her though, I did.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I could definitely tell why she is the
Speaker 4: high flyer because her phone keeps buzzing the whole time
Speaker 4: we're together. I have a suspicion that she's definitely talking
Speaker 4: to more guys than just me.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Probably.
Speaker 2: I mean, Jose, if you were out on a date
Speaker 2: with someone who was a high flyer, is that a
Speaker 2: red flag to you?
Speaker 1: No, I would just be happy.
Speaker 4: That I'm on a date.
Speaker 1: You're buying a ticket onto.
Speaker 3: That point, maybe she wants to take step off the
Speaker 3: fast plane move on to the slope plane with him.
Speaker 2: And I'm definitely over overall, though, how do you think
Speaker 2: the first date went good?
Speaker 4: Bad? I think it went good, Okay. I was hoping
Speaker 4: that we're gonna go on another date. But her responses
Speaker 4: are a little spotty.
Speaker 2: I don't know, and I don't know if you did
Speaker 2: this or not, But did you ever point out, hey,
Speaker 2: your phone is buzzing a lot, or youre getting a
Speaker 2: lot of dudes trying to hit you up right now?
Speaker 4: Come across as weirdly, I didn't think that would be
Speaker 4: a good style on my fire. I played it cool.
Speaker 4: I played it cool. It was it was just slightly
Speaker 4: up inside.
Speaker 2: Okay, they seem to have answers. Let's find out what
Speaker 2: Lisa has to say for herself. We're gonna call the
Speaker 2: high flyer directly.
Speaker 3: Maybe as well.
Speaker 1: What's on her chart? We do your second date update
Speaker 1: right after this updates.
Speaker 2: Imagine being out with someone you're very interested in and
Speaker 2: finding out that they do security detail for the rich
Speaker 2: and famous, but they won't tell you who. Not only
Speaker 2: that they're a verified high flyer on the dating app
Speaker 2: where you met them.
Speaker 3: Which means that they get a lot of action yea on.
Speaker 2: The front page yeah yeah, or I don't know, someone
Speaker 2: just paid to feature them or something like that. And
Speaker 2: they wear Gucci sweats with Tupac hoodies to first dates
Speaker 2: like it's no big deal.
Speaker 3: I mean, they're cool for me personally.
Speaker 2: This is a very interesting second date call because, like
Speaker 2: jose said before, I really hope that she actually answers
Speaker 2: us because we don't get to talk to people like
Speaker 2: this very often.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he cannot be the one that also like prize
Speaker 3: into who the celebrities are she works for. Just asked
Speaker 3: why I know he already did want the date. She
Speaker 3: didn't want to answer her.
Speaker 2: But if she's like standing next to Kim Kardashian right
Speaker 2: now is like I can't talk. I mean, we do
Speaker 2: want a lot of answers from her, but the main
Speaker 2: thing we want to know is why she's not going
Speaker 2: out with Anthony. That's true because this is a very
Speaker 2: unique type of woman and Anthony. The best part is
Speaker 2: she hasn't made you pay for anything yet either, but
Speaker 2: you are willing to yes.
Speaker 3: Wait, oh yeah, wait you paid for the date though,
Speaker 3: right Anthony? You paid for happy Hour?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I paid for the date at the bar, but
Speaker 4: it wasn't like with Mallory. I wasn't paying for her
Speaker 4: parking and you know.
Speaker 3: The last girl that you were on the show with.
Speaker 2: Okay, but you'll pay for her parking on the second
Speaker 2: date at least.
Speaker 1: Let's let's call her and try and figure out where
Speaker 1: that's going to be and if she'll go out with you.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Lisa?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 1: It is Hey Lisa. What's up? You're on the radio
Speaker 1: right now with Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Lisa.
Speaker 6: Oh hi, I guess I can't project us.
Speaker 2: If you haven't heard us before. We're low key bougie,
Speaker 2: the lowest key I feel like.
Speaker 3: He's wearing a free show shirt.
Speaker 6: Got Okay, what is this all about? I don't get it.
Speaker 2: Well, we're one of those weird shows that helps listeners
Speaker 2: with their dating lives. When they go out with someone
Speaker 2: and they're not getting a return callback, we reach out
Speaker 2: and try and help figure out.
Speaker 1: The reason why.
Speaker 6: Uh okay, I.
Speaker 2: Know, pretty pathetic on our part, but people get paid
Speaker 2: to do it.
Speaker 3: Thanks Jeff. I kind of like this segment, but I
Speaker 3: like it to My.
Speaker 1: Parents are really ashamed of it. But that's not it's
Speaker 1: not about us.
Speaker 2: We're trying to ask about you and your relationship with
Speaker 2: a guy named Anthony.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, you guys went to a happy hour?
Speaker 6: Yeah we did.
Speaker 1: Okay, pretty great guy, huh.
Speaker 6: I mean yeah, he's a nice guy, good looking.
Speaker 3: Oh what was your thoughts on the date?
Speaker 6: I mean it was really chill. We just had a
Speaker 6: couple drinks at happy hour and it was just a date.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, nothing to write home about.
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, was there any like big red flags
Speaker 2: to you for why you're not going out with him again?
Speaker 2: Because he said he's been trying to organize a second
Speaker 2: meet up and it's not quite happening.
Speaker 6: I mean, No, there weren't any red flags when we
Speaker 6: were sitting there talking. I mean, he was very interesting.
Speaker 6: He was interested in me, asked me a lot of questions.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, can I offer something up that he told us,
Speaker 2: because sure, he said he was worried he may have
Speaker 2: offended you by prying too much into your job because
Speaker 2: he found out you helped organize security for big time celebrities.
Speaker 6: My gosh, yeah, I just made that up to sound interesting.
Speaker 2: Wait what, oh man, I was interested even We were
Speaker 2: prepared with all these questions to try and get you
Speaker 2: to reveal who you do security for.
Speaker 3: Usually when somebody lies on a date, there's like shame
Speaker 3: and stuff. You're laughing like a joke to you.
Speaker 6: Well, I couldn't tell him what my real job is.
Speaker 1: What can you tell us your real job?
Speaker 6: I guess at this point, if I'm not going to
Speaker 6: see him again and share, I'll tell you what my
Speaker 6: real job is.
Speaker 1: What do you do?
Speaker 6: So I am actually part owner of the dating site?
Speaker 1: Wait way, wait a minute, you met Anthony?
Speaker 6: Yeah. Oh, some friends had the idea and we were
Speaker 6: just talking about stuff and it's just an idea. Well,
Speaker 6: they moved forward and they asked if I wanted to
Speaker 6: be an early investor, and so let's do it. And
Speaker 6: it just kind of blew up.
Speaker 3: So it says when it says high flyer on your
Speaker 3: dating app, that just means like CEO or something.
Speaker 1: Pretty much.
Speaker 6: I mean, we were looking for trying to like do
Speaker 6: a feature like on the app, and I just said
Speaker 6: I'll do it. I'm single, I don't care about the
Speaker 6: attention whatever.
Speaker 3: Wow, market research apparently it makes an impact.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 3: So Okay, so wait, why did you just tell him
Speaker 3: that you were the app owner?
Speaker 6: Well, to be honest, I go on a lot of dates,
Speaker 6: and I mean eventually I would tell people what the
Speaker 6: deal is, but also it would be a little creepy.
Speaker 6: I would think. In the beginning, we're.
Speaker 2: Trying to help him figure out what's the reason that
Speaker 2: you're not going out again.
Speaker 1: That's what he's confused about.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, is.
Speaker 1: It so many men? Just so many men you can't
Speaker 1: choose one?
Speaker 6: No, No, that is not the reason. So as a admin,
Speaker 6: I can tell that he's been messaging other women, and
Speaker 6: when we are on a date and talking, he told
Speaker 6: me in conversation that it was just him and I talking.
Speaker 3: That feels like invasion of private Listen.
Speaker 6: When you check off on the agreement. I mean it
Speaker 6: says any co founder or manager can monitor your account
Speaker 6: in your activity, So well, am I right.
Speaker 1: To do that? That's crazy and it.
Speaker 6: Just proves that men are pigs.
Speaker 1: Oh, Anthony, what do you think about hearing all that?
Speaker 6: Wow?
Speaker 4: Hi, Lisa?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot to tell you, Lisa, it's down way
Speaker 2: way deep in our agreement. When you come on the
Speaker 2: phone listening, okay, we got Oh wow, you're super chill.
Speaker 4: I'm a little shocked, but I totally understand like that
Speaker 4: you can that why you had to put that in
Speaker 4: your profile.
Speaker 5: And then feels like the last time you were on
Speaker 5: the show, like you just agree with women no matter
Speaker 5: what they do to you. If woman's been light, she
Speaker 5: like invaded your privacy and you're just chill still.
Speaker 4: So wait a second. You could actually go into my
Speaker 4: app and see all the messages, like everything that I've
Speaker 4: ever written on there?
Speaker 6: Yes, I can.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: I know Anthony's thinking of like three things said.
Speaker 1: Hope you keep a PG on their money. That's how
Speaker 1: you know she cares.
Speaker 4: You can't see pictures, right, Yes.
Speaker 1: I can, so you can zoom in on them too.
Speaker 4: I don't know if you'll have to zoom in.
Speaker 3: Yeah, why do I doubt that?
Speaker 1: I doubt that a bad path.
Speaker 3: Does that mean that you weren't talking to anybody else either.
Speaker 6: Because I mean, yeah, I'm talking to some people. Oh,
Speaker 6: I was honest about that. On the dates, he implied
Speaker 6: that I was the only person he was talking to you.
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't have cared if.
Speaker 3: He has said, but see that. Why why did you
Speaker 3: say that, Anthony?
Speaker 4: Well, you're the only person that I've met on the
Speaker 4: app that I actually like and respect.
Speaker 3: Oh you don't respect?
Speaker 5: You don't respect any other person you're talking about?
Speaker 3: Well, not good.
Speaker 4: I mean I came out wrong, baby, But here's the
Speaker 4: only one I have really found interested in, and I
Speaker 4: haven't met anybody like you, whether it was on the
Speaker 4: app or not.
Speaker 6: Well, I have your profile pulled up right now, and
Speaker 6: it looks like that you're trying to set up something
Speaker 6: with somebody named Clarissa.
Speaker 1: Oh. Respect Lisa. You said a little bit jealous of that.
Speaker 6: Even I don't know about jealous. But look, I would
Speaker 6: have been totally fine if he had said, yeah, I'm
Speaker 6: talking to other people too. I get it. It's not
Speaker 6: a big deal.
Speaker 1: I'm blocking.
Speaker 4: I'm blocking Clarissa right now.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 3: It just sounds like you need to be truthful about
Speaker 3: everything the other app Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 2: Something is happening here for sure, and it feels good.
Speaker 2: It does feel good. And I'd like to offer to
Speaker 2: send you guys out on another date that we will
Speaker 2: pay for once once.
Speaker 4: Again, Can I just reiterate that I'm serious. You are
Speaker 4: the only one I've taken serious that I've met on there,
Speaker 4: and I'm really hoping that you're gonna say yes.
Speaker 3: That's cute.
Speaker 6: Well, that's very sweet, Anthony. I appreciate that. Yeah, I
Speaker 6: mean I'm a yes. I would say yes, start over,
Speaker 6: fresh slate, start from the beginning. Now that everything's on
Speaker 6: the table, we start.
Speaker 2: Over, okay, And we also have fourteen other guys who
Speaker 2: want to know if you'll go out with them.
Speaker 1: What would you like to say to them?
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, if I'm being honest, I am still
Speaker 6: talking to other guys. Fourteen's on the other side for me.
Speaker 1: Okay, but how many of those guys do you respect?
Speaker 6: All Right?
Speaker 2: Well, more research with the second day on our bill,
Speaker 2: We're gonna pay for it. Okay, good, before you go,
Speaker 2: can you force matches because there's a couple of girls
Speaker 2: that aren't responding to that.
Speaker 3: That's creepy.
Speaker 1: That's a hard no, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: You know, the thing that I'm coming to terms with
Speaker 2: is we just have to get it through our heads
Speaker 2: that people.
Speaker 1: Lie on dates.
Speaker 2: It can be small, little white lies or big giant ones,
Speaker 2: but people do it all the time, whether it's to
Speaker 2: make themselves look better or for whatever reason, and we don't.
Speaker 3: All have the access to fact check them like she did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and it's not so much if you lie,
Speaker 2: it's what you lie about that's really important. She lied
Speaker 2: about what her job was out of boredom from all
Speaker 2: the dates that she goes on. He lied saying that
Speaker 2: she was the only girl that he was talking to
Speaker 2: on the dating app, and she found out that was untrue.
Speaker 3: Why would he even offer it up?
Speaker 2: Don't you know, like, just don't it sounds like one
Speaker 2: of those nice lies that you tell someone that they're
Speaker 2: the only one that you like, or.
Speaker 3: It's like I never do this when you know that
Speaker 3: that person always does.
Speaker 1: It really good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do feel like society has really progressed because
Speaker 2: they were both totally okay with each other's lies.
Speaker 3: In the end, well we have put each other out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how lies work.
Speaker 2: Yes right, yes, no matter what, no lie. You can
Speaker 2: always email the show for help. We're willing to call
Speaker 2: that person who wasn't calling you back. It's Brook and
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.