WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Falling To Pieces

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<v Speaker 1>Brand new second ate podcast for you today. It's Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you really liked this episode. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was kind of a fun one.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope you don't like it at first, and then

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<v Speaker 3>it sneaks up on it. We do.

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<v Speaker 2>We definitely do learn a new strategy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know it's new renewed strategy for getting a

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<v Speaker 1>guy's attention at a bar. Okay, it's kind of rom

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<v Speaker 1>coming to me, a little cheesy, but it worked for

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's on a guy. Everything works, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>But for her she pulled off.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, before we get to it, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you see on the board, Alexis.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Hudson McRae said, we've got to fix the comments. Guys, Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>what's wrong with the comment When did we just start

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<v Speaker 4>saying that we love the podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, duh, we do.

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<v Speaker 4>But I want to hear your thoughts on the episode,

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<v Speaker 4>not for everyone to seek a shout out.

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<v Speaker 1>LL like this part, I didn't like this, or I

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<v Speaker 1>can relate in this way that happened to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone's just like, oh, I love this whole experience is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I love a little praise not going, but

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<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying a little bit more back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth in that comment board.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, specific press.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, there's some inspiration for y'all comment away after

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to the brand new second date starting right now.

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<v Speaker 3>The second date of date. I want to ask alexis

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<v Speaker 3>a dating question? Yea, But I know that she would

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<v Speaker 3>never do this, So I'll ask a more uninhibited person

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<v Speaker 3>brook your single days. If there was a cute guy,

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<v Speaker 3>how many times would you attempt to get his attention

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<v Speaker 3>before you finally gave up and settled for his dad?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>What's the maximum number of times that you would go in?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a subtle person, so normally I would just

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<v Speaker 1>approach the dude and start chatting with them, and then

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<v Speaker 1>if they pushed me off, then I move on to

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<v Speaker 1>the next physically.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the next. If the next dude at the

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<v Speaker 2>bar happened to be his dad, then so be it.

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<v Speaker 3>You're a one strike and it's done type of policy.

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<v Speaker 2>Get take the hint.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know, well, you're different than one of our

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<v Speaker 3>listeners who admits that she had to try multiple times

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<v Speaker 3>to get a cute guy's attention until it finally worked,

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<v Speaker 3>so maybe we can all learn a lesson from her.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Angie, So Angie, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you're a more subtle lady than I or.

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<v Speaker 3>You really got to spell stuff out for us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we don't know anything about this guy or how you

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<v Speaker 3>met him, so tell us the whole story. Like what's

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<v Speaker 3>his name?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, his name is Jason, And I met him like

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<v Speaker 6>just out at the bars as my friend a little

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<v Speaker 6>while ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, And was his father with him too? Or was

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<v Speaker 3>it just like a guy's night.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a girl's night for me. I was there

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<v Speaker 6>as a bunch of my girlfriends, but he was just

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<v Speaker 6>there with like one other.

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<v Speaker 3>Money And so you saw Jason come into the bar

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<v Speaker 3>or how did it work?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I like noticed him come in, and when he did,

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<v Speaker 6>I turned my girlfrien and so I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 6>my gosh, he's so cute. They were like giving me

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<v Speaker 6>suggestions on what I should do. So they were like,

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<v Speaker 6>go order a drink, like over near where they're at

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<v Speaker 6>the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe like if you can catch his eye, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can get a free drink.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean a lot of options for you.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So I went up and I ordered like right

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<v Speaker 6>next to him, and I even like bumped into him

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<v Speaker 6>so that I could apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>I would guess, I don't know, because I'm not a dude,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would guess no matter what, he'd be flattered

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<v Speaker 1>by all of this, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Well I would think so. But I guess he thought

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<v Speaker 6>it really was an.

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<v Speaker 1>Accident, yeah, okay, or he's not single, Like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that some random person across the bar is single.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. So that was strike number one, the attempt that

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<v Speaker 3>didn't work.

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<v Speaker 6>So I went back to my friends and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 6>I guess he's not interested.

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<v Speaker 3>I did all the what you said. I went to

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<v Speaker 3>order a drink and I bumped him from behind, made

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<v Speaker 3>him spill everywhere. Nothing's working, get in the line, all

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<v Speaker 3>of us for another okay, So what was your next try?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? So their next suggestion was like to go back

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<v Speaker 6>up when I finish my drink and order another one,

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<v Speaker 6>but this time order like next to his friend and

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<v Speaker 6>start and explaing to if I could make him jealous?

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<v Speaker 2>You make him jealous? What are your girlfriends saying? Like

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds like an empty bar and you're the old

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<v Speaker 2>does not have a girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl is drinking.

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<v Speaker 6>Well. The second time, the friend actually did start talking

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<v Speaker 6>to me, but then I started to feel like he

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<v Speaker 6>was interested in me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe that would have made him a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>more jealous if you had started making out with his friends.

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<v Speaker 6>And then I don't want to get the situation where

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<v Speaker 6>I'm breaking bro code.

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<v Speaker 5>You know you're thinking, right, Actually.

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<v Speaker 3>I like this. I mean, at what point do you

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<v Speaker 3>ever get to a conversation with him or does that

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<v Speaker 3>even happen?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we're getting there. So I go back to the

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<v Speaker 6>table and I'm like, okay, I really think he like

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't care. And I'm drinking my drink and I'm getting

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<v Speaker 6>a little tipsy because I drank the first one a

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<v Speaker 6>little fast. And then they were like, okay, this is

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<v Speaker 6>a dumb idea, but we think you should go up

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<v Speaker 6>and fall fall, like for friend to trip and fall

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<v Speaker 6>next to him, walking up for.

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<v Speaker 2>You and say, seeing, look at that cute girl. She

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<v Speaker 2>likes you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, no, no, have twenty drinks and fall in

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<v Speaker 3>front of him, then love you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not saying it was the best idea, but it

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<v Speaker 6>was the one we came up with.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>So I did that, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So did he notice you then or did he turn

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<v Speaker 1>back around and just keep drinking.

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<v Speaker 6>No, that time at worked. He noticed and he like

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<v Speaker 6>got up and helped me up, helped you, Yeah, he did,

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<v Speaker 6>he did.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 3>So now this is your inn. What do you say?

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<v Speaker 5>What was your line?

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, oh, sorry, I think I'm just a

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<v Speaker 6>little bit tipsy, Like I really need to sit down.

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<v Speaker 6>Would you mind like walking me to a table? And

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<v Speaker 6>he sat down with me just to make sure I

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<v Speaker 6>was okay, And we ended up talking for like thirty minutes,

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<v Speaker 6>and by the end we like had exchanged numbers and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, yeah, I'm free next Friday, and he

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<v Speaker 6>was like, okay, cool, I'll like text you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, oh wow, okay worked well.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought it did, but then I never got a call.

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<v Speaker 3>That's where we are now.

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<v Speaker 2>I still think that he could be in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>You're right now.

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<v Speaker 3>He could have just done it to get her out

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<v Speaker 3>of his way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's never going to end. She said she was

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<v Speaker 2>a drunk girl falling in the bar brook.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you give out your numbers to guys who asked

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<v Speaker 3>for it drunkenly? Just out of kindness, no text right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's so easy to block a number.

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<v Speaker 6>Why not.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that if he's like in a new

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<v Speaker 1>relationship or something and whatever and he doesn't call back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a good point. And how long did you

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<v Speaker 3>say it's been since this bar interaction.

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's been like a week and a half.

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<v Speaker 3>Still Hazy still got a concussion when she found right

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<v Speaker 3>that hangover plus the bruise, saying you needed time to

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<v Speaker 3>get yourself back together. So we we'll get ourselves together.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll come back. We'll call Jason for you, and we'll

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<v Speaker 3>try to get you your second date update. Even if

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<v Speaker 3>we have to try three four, seven hundred times to

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<v Speaker 3>get him on the phone. We'll do it, one of

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<v Speaker 3>us will. Right after this hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a reason they call it falling in love, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>because sometimes you literally have to fall down in a

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<v Speaker 3>bar to get a guy's attention. Wow, And that's what

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<v Speaker 3>our listener Angie did on purpose to strike up a

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<v Speaker 3>conversation with a guy named Jason, but it did. It

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<v Speaker 3>was actually her friend's idea to fake a tumble, but

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<v Speaker 3>it ended up starting the connection. He helped her up.

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<v Speaker 3>They sat together for a while, just chatting and getting

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<v Speaker 3>to know each other and checking for concussion symptoms.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, let me check your pupils one more time.

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<v Speaker 3>So romantic. But after they exchange numbers, there's really been

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<v Speaker 3>no contact between Angie and Jason.

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<v Speaker 2>God, he hasn't even called to check up on her.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, what a chuir. And here's the thing. My

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<v Speaker 3>plan going into this is not to tell him that

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<v Speaker 3>the fall was just a ruse designed to get his attention. Jeff,

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<v Speaker 3>I like being on the same page with you about

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<v Speaker 3>this stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, was going.

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<v Speaker 1>To mention it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm just clarified.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's weirdy you have to even say it out loud.

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<v Speaker 3>Angie, are you okay with us not bringing up that

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<v Speaker 3>it was done on purpose?

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't even think that was an option.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it was, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all the options are on the table. It's good

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<v Speaker 3>that we're all on the same page though, that we're

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<v Speaker 3>not going to say that, Yes, you're not still hung

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<v Speaker 3>up on one of your ex boyfriends, right, because I

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<v Speaker 3>won't bring that up either. Okay, You're really lucky that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm the one driving the car on this one, because

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<v Speaker 3>we're going to stay right in between those two lanes.

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<v Speaker 2>So should we bring up childhood traumas?

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<v Speaker 6>Now, you always can, only if I get a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a good stipulation.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to be shocking that people still call

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<v Speaker 2>it for I know, entertaining.

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<v Speaker 3>We just know how to do this. Okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>dial Jason. Let's see if he answers. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>is this Jason?

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<v Speaker 5>This is him? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Man? We're actually a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Jason, welcome, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Jeffy.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not Jason so Strong.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffery. H Hello, Yeah, okay, up, my bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me just tell you what we're calling about, because

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<v Speaker 3>this is a segment we do call the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>We're trying to help out one of our listeners get

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<v Speaker 3>in touch with you after you met recently at a bar. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>girl named Angie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there was never any real first Yeah, you like

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<v Speaker 2>helped her.

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<v Speaker 5>I helped her get up off of the ground.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah right, that girl girl. We're just calling her Angie

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<v Speaker 3>because that's her name, and we know you didn't hang

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<v Speaker 3>out for too long. But there was a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of a connection romantically maybe between the two of you

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<v Speaker 3>that night, maybe a little bit of a spark laugh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I did laugh a little bit there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, like a good laugh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why are you laughing? Romantic laugh?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about having a romantic connection there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Well maybe maybe that was a little bit strong.

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<v Speaker 3>But she felt like that you guys were hitting it

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<v Speaker 3>off and there could be and you exchange numbers. She's

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit confused that afterwards you haven't reached out

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<v Speaker 3>to her at all.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what she remembers.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, she mentioned she had a couple of dreams.

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<v Speaker 2>What did she do?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she fell?

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<v Speaker 2>Well I know that part.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we heard I'm talking about it sounds like something

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing happened or embarrassing Brooks.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's like I do that every time I'm watching.

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<v Speaker 5>In a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Was there more than the falling?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know what it was? She was interested in me,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's interesting. So I was asking her questions about

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<v Speaker 5>herself because I was open to the possibility.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, well, okay, there you go. So I mean

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<v Speaker 3>it sounds like something changed your mind.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. When I asked her what makes you laugh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it took her a while to think of the answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's a hard question even though it's answered.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I was I was helping her. I was

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<v Speaker 5>giving her suggestions different movies, TV shows.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, And what did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, what makes her laugh is videos of little children

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<v Speaker 5>falling down and getting hurt.

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<v Speaker 6>Isn't that what America is? Funny?

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<v Speaker 3>Some videos? Yeah, Instagram pages is called the kids getting hurt?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>But what really was that a red flag? Too? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>That's a that's a pretty strong red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe she was trying to be funny because she

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<v Speaker 1>had just fallen down.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, let's not make excuses for her. Let's let's

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<v Speaker 3>hear what is it about children falling down that's so

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<v Speaker 3>off putting.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't just that she said, yeah, sometimes on Instagram

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<v Speaker 5>I might see videos of kids falling down. It was

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<v Speaker 5>that she had saved in her phone compilations. Oh wait,

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<v Speaker 5>and anytime she's got a bad day or had a

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<v Speaker 5>long day, she comes home and opens these videos of

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<v Speaker 5>kids falling down.

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<v Speaker 3>But I do it, I approve, Jason. Why is that

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<v Speaker 3>like a big red flag to you that she finds

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<v Speaker 3>humor in children falling getting hurt.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not one video, it's not a couple ofdeos. She

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<v Speaker 5>has dozens of videos.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, did you give the videos a chance? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you watch any yourself?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean she was trying to show them to me,

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<v Speaker 5>but she couldn't get to them wherever they were. She

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<v Speaker 5>had a head injury.

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<v Speaker 3>From falling.

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<v Speaker 1>She's laughing trying to find them, even she was more

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<v Speaker 1>drunk than can cusson.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, Jason, the good news is it sounded like

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<v Speaker 3>you were genuinely concerned about Angie's well being checking in

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<v Speaker 3>on her. Sure, and I'm happy to inform you that

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<v Speaker 3>Angie is fully recovered, doing really well. In fact, she's

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<v Speaker 3>on the other line of this phone call right now,

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<v Speaker 3>probably just laughing at the idea of children falling all

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<v Speaker 3>over the place.

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<v Speaker 6>But I don't like them getting I'm not saying the

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<v Speaker 6>injury part it's funny, but like people falling is funny,

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<v Speaker 6>and when they're little kids, like, they're just more awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but why do you have so many of them?

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<v Speaker 5>You told me you have over one hundred videos.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I mean, I just if I see one and

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<v Speaker 6>it makes me laugh, I save it for a bad day.

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<v Speaker 6>And I just like, I don't know, they build up.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not like I've been that's the only thing I collect.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just like one of the things that I will save.

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<v Speaker 5>Given that's different than what you told me. You told

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<v Speaker 5>me the only thing you save are videos of them falling.

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<v Speaker 5>You even said kids falling downstairs crack you up the most.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you asked me what made me laugh, and

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<v Speaker 6>I told you, And now you're being super judgy about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I wasn't gonna call back up. Monsters sits at

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<v Speaker 5>home watching the.

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<v Speaker 2>Jason, you are not sounded very funny right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't knock until you try it. You wouldn't even watch one.

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<v Speaker 6>So how do you know you should the page?

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<v Speaker 3>Go follow it?

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<v Speaker 6>Like, I have this video of this little kid in

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<v Speaker 6>this little Ranger car and he like drives into like

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<v Speaker 6>this little vine and he you know what I mean, Like.

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<v Speaker 5>It's so fucky you drive a monster truck into a ravine.

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<v Speaker 5>That's sick.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh come.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I think I have my answer here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, last, just to be you know, totally

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<v Speaker 3>fair on this, we do need to offer Jason, we

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<v Speaker 3>would send you on an official first date with Angie

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<v Speaker 3>and we would pay for it, if you're willing to

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<v Speaker 3>give her a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't think we're going to get along very well.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Wow, I mean what makes you laugh?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? I like classic clowns from the seventies.

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<v Speaker 2>Nineteen seventies.

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<v Speaker 6>Clown I mean you mean those things that terrorize children.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I mean, look, maybe you guys have more in

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<v Speaker 3>common than you realize, Jason.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there's a lot of slapstick in clown work.

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<v Speaker 5>You see a kid get squirted in the face with

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<v Speaker 5>a flower, Those aren't true clowns. That's sort of the

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<v Speaker 5>downfall of Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you know it sounds like you like the

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<v Speaker 2>French clown face.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if this whole thing is finished and you two

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<v Speaker 3>aren't going to be going out, then I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 3>come out and say it, just so you know, Jason,

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<v Speaker 3>Angie really is into falling, not just kids falling, but

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<v Speaker 3>adults too. Because she orchestrated the whole falling thing just

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<v Speaker 3>to meet you. Why would you do that? Well, it's over.

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<v Speaker 3>It's over. He's already said that he's not into it.

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<v Speaker 2>What point are you trying to make.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying she's really liking falling. That's her love

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<v Speaker 3>language layer, weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you two together for a little listen to our show, jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, let's bring a child in here and have

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<v Speaker 3>them fall over, so get you back on my side.

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<v Speaker 6>Mind, I'm not interested in him anymore anyway. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I fell for you, and I regret it.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the morning. I think the question that we

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<v Speaker 3>really need to ask ourselves here is how many videos

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<v Speaker 3>of children falling can you save in your phone until

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<v Speaker 3>it becomes a red flag? He said, ten children, one

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<v Speaker 3>hundred children, a thousand children falling.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only a red flag if it's the same child

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<v Speaker 1>falling over and over again, and that child isn't yours.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's all you have on your phone.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's different children, you're cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Man point. I mean, it sounds like most people in

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<v Speaker 3>this room were on Angie's side, saying it's funny. It

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<v Speaker 3>shouldn't really be that big of a deal. Doesn't need

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<v Speaker 3>to be a red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>They took the time to look up the account he

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<v Speaker 1>follows and seven over seven million people followed the account

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<v Speaker 1>about kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it is very popular, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>It was funny. I watched quite a few videos.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree. I think they're all litally funny. But maybe

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<v Speaker 3>he had some sort of experience in his past where

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<v Speaker 3>he fell as a child, drove his power wheels into

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<v Speaker 3>like a coy pond, and that memory has stuck with

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<v Speaker 3>him forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Creepy Clown shared him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he seems like a serious guy, I know. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>God for Bozo and all of his weird clownings.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh man, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Makes sense that his buddy's name was Gary.

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<v Speaker 3>That checks out, So it didn't work out for the

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<v Speaker 3>two of them, But it doesn't mean it can't work

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<v Speaker 3>out for you. And whoever you meet in the world,

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<v Speaker 3>you can always email the show. We'll call that person

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<v Speaker 3>who's not calling you back, and go check out all

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<v Speaker 3>of our second dates. They're up online wherever you get

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<v Speaker 3>your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey