1 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: Last Class, This listeners, RuPaul's Jag Race Superstars and former 2 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: Last Cultures. This guest, Alaska and Willam are hosting a 3 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 1: blowout live performance of their hit podcast, Race Chaser, and 4 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: tickets are on sale right now. Folks. This is not 5 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: your whole home podcast taping. This is Race Chaser Live 6 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: with Willem and Alaska. One of a kind of event 7 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: that you do not want to miss. There's gonna be 8 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: special guest, special performances, a special crew, drags, songs, tea spilling, 9 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: and yes, live ponies. It's true William is bringing literal 10 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: live ponies and so much more. 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How is that culture? Yes? Goodness? 31 00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: Well lost culture? Just calling I fellow? This one under 32 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: a big day. This is a pretty big day. File 33 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: under a big day. And then put it in the cabinet, 34 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 1: cabinet of my heart, of your heart? Can I say something? Yes? 35 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: You remember? Do you recall? You recollect When we hosted 36 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: a show for our guests, and our guests gave a 37 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: speech to all the performers, and then she walked away, 38 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: and you said, you turned to me, fill up your 39 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: hands and said, she's the most cultured person I've ever seen. Oh, 40 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: so our guest put on this comedy show, brought champagne 41 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: for everybody, poured it for everybody, had had people pass 42 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: it around, gave an eloquent, eloquent toast, just so gracious, 43 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: thanking us for being there. Meanwhile, we're just we're like, 44 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: why this is so? We love inverted And then yeah, 45 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: as soon as the toast and I turned to you, 46 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: I go, I'm I'm truly captivated, like in a way 47 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,959 Speaker 1: that I haven't. It's crazy that we would ever call 48 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: ourselves lost culture reestus. I mean, while my culture is 49 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: like I've been to Epcot. Yeah, my culture is um, 50 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: eyes are very sweet. I'm gonna take you with me. Everyone, 51 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: we need to come. That's what this is about, is 52 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 1: we need to join you in your world to do um. 53 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: This is and and I just remember the moment too, 54 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: when this moment happened where she just tweeted at us, 55 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: or she followed it when she followed me on Twitter. 56 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: I was at the dentist's office back in Colorado, got 57 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: down at your little phone. I was about to get 58 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: a root canal. I was so strong. I was like, 59 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: what a terrible day this is going to be. I've 60 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: been there, and then but then you you just turn 61 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,119 Speaker 1: it all around for me with with within a matter 62 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: of seconds. I truly, I mean that this is the 63 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: power of this person. Before before we get into it, 64 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: let's just say not only is this person famously the 65 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: host of the Emmy Award winning Top Chef and it's 66 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: sixteen season it was Insane hosted the show since season two. Yes, 67 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: all right, award winning best selling author, activists, model, actress, mother, 68 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: a CLU ambassador. Hello. Also wait um, I just want 69 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: to say the season that I got into into Top 70 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: Chef was five, which was New York, right, yes, And 71 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: that was the that was the year that I moved 72 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: to New York. That was the year we started college. 73 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: And it was just her. So her, she like her 74 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: presence is very tied into the company. For you, we'll 75 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: just me moving to New York like she was. She 76 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: was in that mythos in a way she don't have. 77 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: So this is true. That was part of your coming 78 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: to New York origin stories of New Yorker. Yes, it 79 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: was like pat Well Patten is in New York with 80 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: the Top Chef, like I gotta go and here we are. 81 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: If you don't know who we're talking about everyone. Please welcome, 82 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,559 Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to be here on this rainy, 83 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: cold night with you, and we thank you for joining 84 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 1: us in Brooklyn. Umre, We're truly like, where are you 85 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: downtown brook It's born Hell, it's your your Michelle Williams 86 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: is your in Hathaway's your Ethan Hawks all sort of 87 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: wander around here and Mat and bow and Matt and 88 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 1: bowen Ethan Hawk, Ethan Hawk is that Brooklyn Inn which 89 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: is one of my favorite bars in the neighborhood. He's 90 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: there all the time. Um, I should say, I think 91 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: Anne has since moved away, Miss Hathaway. Although Mr bru 92 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: big Leia I see wandering around in his pajamas. Oh yeah, 93 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: that's because he's a new dad. So dad, he doesn't 94 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 1: get out of his pajamas unless he goes on a stage, 95 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: and after that not much. After that, not much, and 96 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: even on stage it's debatable. But anyway, Uma, how how 97 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: often are you splitting time between the coast But you're 98 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 1: mostly are you mostly here? I'm not splitting any time 99 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: between the coast. I go to l A if I 100 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: need to, and then when I'm done, I come back. 101 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: I remember my mom, I come back. If I'm working, 102 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: that's fine. But I live in New York. I'm such 103 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: a New Yorker through and through. Would you say that 104 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: was your favorite season of Top Chef? Then what was? No? 105 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: Because I was home Usually you know, I have to 106 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: go away to film the show, and I worked so intensely, 107 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: but at least you know, I'm not home, so I 108 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: don't have like the normal responsibility days of my house 109 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: or my work or whatever. And when it was in 110 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 1: New York, I found I had all the responsibilities of 111 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: when I'm home with all the responsibilities of being away 112 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: on location together, thank you. And I was just like, 113 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 1: this is too much. It's too much now. But I 114 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: feel like as the years go by, you seem to 115 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 1: be picking up more and more just I mean, I 116 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: feel like you're just you're out there more and more 117 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: in this way that is I mean inspiring, but also 118 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: like truly it like defies all sort of like career fatigue, 119 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: Like I at this point feel very tired and not 120 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: even like nowhere close to that level quote unquote, and 121 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: I'm I'm disgusted at myself or even speaking about myself 122 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: in these terms, but like, how how do you so? 123 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: Then has it been like what what's been the challenge 124 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: and managing all that as like things, things grow and grow. Well, 125 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: it is hard, you know, Um we've been on air 126 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: for sixteen seasons, and you know, I also I come 127 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: at it as a food writer and I'm a writer first, 128 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: so I always have my writing to you know, procrastinate against. 129 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: But um, you know, it's like an old marriage. You 130 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: have to keep it fresh, it really is. And you know, 131 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: luckily we go to a different city every season, which 132 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: keeps this show really fresh. And I think, you know, 133 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: I have been speaking out um a lot more as 134 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: I've gotten more comfortable in life and feel secure that 135 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: I've you know, I'm able to do that. You know. 136 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: I think when you're young, you're just so afraid people. 137 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: It's gonna not ruin your career, but like you don't 138 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: want to. You want everyone to like you because you 139 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: need them to like you to book you and give 140 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: you work. And you know, ours is a personality driven business, 141 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: and so you're so busy charming people. You sometimes you know, 142 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: you forget that you have opinion or you know you 143 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: have opinions, but you forget that you can express them 144 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: for greater good. I guess and um, there was so 145 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: much to talk about, you know. Um, when I did 146 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: start talking that, I just was like, okay, here we go. Yeah. 147 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: I mean famously, you started the show off that we 148 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: hosted few with Fuck Louis and it killed. There was 149 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: a successful stand up and there well I had like 150 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: just do one joke because I'm not a comic and 151 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: I have immense respect for stand up comics and so um, 152 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,440 Speaker 1: that show was amazing and I had to tell you 153 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: it was such a fluke and literally like every single 154 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 1: person we asked, unless they were already booked around the 155 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: town said yes. And you know you were saying I 156 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: brought champagne. That's because we weren't paying anyone. We brought 157 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 1: pizza and champagne just because to say thank you, you know. Um. 158 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 1: And it was so nice that we just put it 159 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: on Twitter and we didn't even put it on Instagram 160 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: and it's sold out within minutes, hours, hours, hours, And 161 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: then we had to add a second show, as you know, 162 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: and everyone said yes again who could And you know, 163 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: it was really like the goodwill in the room was 164 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: quite palpable. In a really great experience for me because 165 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 1: when we filmed the show, we do it largely in secret, 166 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: and it's a told different thing, you know, energy. But 167 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: I started in live television in Italy, um, and so 168 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,599 Speaker 1: I like having I like doing live TV, but I 169 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: also like having an audience, you know, a live audience, 170 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 1: so you really you really feed off of them. And 171 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: it was wonderful to experience just for a second what 172 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: you guys experienced all the time or on the road 173 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: or whatever. That was a really special one though. And 174 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: I will say you did nail it with the lineup, 175 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: because that really is like those are all the most 176 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: those it's crazy that they're all our friends, but it 177 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: is truly the most exciting. Like Pat Regan and Catherine, 178 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: I have coution, how did you find everybody? Like how 179 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: did you initially like start following everyone? Like, well, we 180 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: I followed him. Yeah, I saw something you had posted 181 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: some videos, some wacky video almost like lying on your side, 182 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: and it was a little way And this is a 183 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: while ago. I don't even remember what you were parodying, 184 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: but it was so funny. I like, this person is crazy. 185 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: This is I just went thing. You know, I had 186 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: no clue that you guys had a podcast or that whatever. 187 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: You know, I just thought you were funny. Also follow 188 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,719 Speaker 1: this Haitian nurse from you know, like every now and 189 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: then I do these random you know, yeah, and I 190 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: just like to see you know, because you just remember 191 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: I started out there was no social media, you know, 192 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: and it's like, I think social media has actually given 193 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: me a megaphone that brown girls didn't get before the internet, 194 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: you know, in this country. And so for me, it 195 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: was a great, um pleasant surprise to find people who 196 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: were like me out there, you know, gay Asian boy, 197 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, like all these people that were my people, 198 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: and it was really nice to find them. And so 199 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: I just go random trolling. And but I mean I 200 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 1: knew Michelle Wolf and I didn't know her, but I 201 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 1: had I had seen her work, and a couple of 202 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: the others had also seen some I had and and 203 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: then um, but you know, I obviously there are other 204 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: comedians that I I know, like I had gone to 205 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: see Leslie Jones around that time, who was doing stand 206 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: up at Caroline's. I you know, I love Ali wong 207 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: Um because I also think like Asian culture is such 208 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: that just to just to speak up and make fun 209 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: of anything is so antithetical to how you know, at 210 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: least for women, but across the board you have to 211 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: be more reserved, you know, um the expectation in a way. 212 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: And and so it's wonderful to just discover these people online. 213 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: And I just thought, you know, there's so many interesting people. 214 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: Why do we have to pick this pervert? It's so true. 215 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 1: I actually was just talking about it before we got here. 216 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: And it's also interesting with like the whole Kevin Hart stuff, 217 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: It's like, you know what, we can move on. There's 218 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: a lot of other people who we can have. There's 219 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: all you know, interesting comics, there's there's there's that oh wait, 220 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: maybe we just won't have a home. It's having a 221 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: white man. How about this way man? How about you know? 222 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: It's like hello, yeah, yeah, I mean that's just I 223 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: feel like it's just sort of built into you have 224 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: a conversation about something that you have a strong feeling about, 225 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: and therefore it's like to drive clicks. It's like, well, 226 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: let's keep talking about this one thing that everyone is 227 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: upset about or has an emotion. I didn't think about 228 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: it like that, but yeah, but like the Oscar host 229 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 1: thing specifically is we can't find one. And so now 230 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 1: it's like we're all on a wild goose chase to 231 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: find who's going to be the next. Everyone is like me, 232 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: you've heard online online fell Yeah, I saw other people too. 233 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: I feel like, would would you ever do it? I 234 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: feel like you would be great. I don't think I 235 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 1: would start out that big two shows at the Bellhouse. 236 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: I'm feeling pretty good with that. I want to build. 237 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: I mean, there's so many people that are I think 238 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 1: one to Sikes would be amazing. Wos so funny and 239 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: you never even hear her name discussed. The first White 240 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: House Correspondence Dinner of Obama. I went to that dinner 241 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: and Wanda Sykes was doing it, and she was amazing. 242 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: She killed, she killed. I thought I was gonna be 243 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: in my pants. God, and I wasn't wearing very much. 244 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: But you know, God, thank god you kept it together. 245 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: But you were pants at least I didn't. You know what. 246 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I even brought up my wardrobe because that 247 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: was my biggest regret. It was a wardrobe malfunction. The 248 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: worst places Chiffon gown, which was really beautiful, and it 249 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: was two layers of burgundy, and you know, I just 250 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: had my little flesh colored or the pedic thong on 251 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: it so nothing would show, and like everything showed because 252 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: the lights. The Luckily Natalie apartment also had a wardrobe 253 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: malfunctioned at the table and her nipple came out, So 254 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay. Later I saw in the paper 255 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god. You know in 256 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: that light there, You've never like at Pacha at five 257 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: in the morning, any bisa, you know, in the nineties 258 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: when everybody's you know, likes me at the White House below. Yeah, 259 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: I mean Natalie Portman didn't have it together. My god, 260 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: I loved at least so much. Do you know her? Yes? 261 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 1: I do? She um. She came to Top Chef when 262 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: we were in Vegas. You know, I think the Vegas 263 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: season was the hardest for me, just because of the heat. 264 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 1: We were there August and I don't know, I mean, 265 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: it was horrible, but she made it better. I'm not 266 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: a gambler, so you know, I don't I don't care, 267 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: you know, I see I see chips going, I'm like, 268 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: this could be a bair of Luputan's right. Yeah. Both 269 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: times I've been to Vegas, I've performed that. So they've 270 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: been paying me to go there. And one time I 271 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: was on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire? Um, but 272 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: it was crazy Vegas. The film in Vegas. So it 273 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: was kind of like, it makes sense though a little bit. 274 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: They used to film in like Connecticut or something very 275 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: easy to No, no, they've they've never shot in l 276 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: It's always be New York. And then it was Connecticut, 277 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: and then I now they shoot in Vegas, and so 278 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: I went out there. And so I did make a 279 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: little bit of money on the show, okay, god, but 280 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: it was so it was kind of like, oh, I 281 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: can feel good about like rolling a her of dice. 282 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing with but like, we'll 283 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: see how it happens. And I lost money, but in 284 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: the grand scheme, I was up and I would never 285 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: go like voluntarily, Yeah, well we were shooting there because 286 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: I think a lot of chefs have big restaurants there, 287 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: and it made sense. And um, Natalie came up from 288 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: l A and she was just so funny. She's really 289 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 1: really funny. I've known her a little bit for a 290 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: really long time, you know, since she did like V 291 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: I want to say V for Vendetta, Um, and I'm 292 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: a huge fan of hers, you know, I I see 293 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: this is scary, but I'm scary. But when I see 294 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: when I'm hanging out with my daughter, Christian would walk 295 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: in like in the city, in the village or in 296 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: East village or to me, like I feel like I'm 297 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: with Natalie Portman and I'm Sean re No, you think 298 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: Christian Christian? Yes, wow, she has really long hair in 299 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: that sense in her like I'm grown up. Yes, since 300 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 1: like she she's edgy. It has always carried herself as 301 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: if she was in her mid thirties and the best 302 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 1: in the best way. Now are you? Are you trying 303 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: to raise christ to become a certain way, to become 304 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: a Natalie port No, I can't. I couldn't do that 305 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:22,360 Speaker 1: if I tried. But I'm an activist, a political activist. 306 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: I mean, she's very active. Not already she um. She 307 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 1: complained about not having enough lunchtime, and she ran for 308 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: student council and she got it from a class and 309 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: she ran on a platform of you know, we don't 310 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 1: have enough term for lunch and we need more chicken nuggets. 311 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: I was like, you don't even need chicken nuggets. She's like, 312 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: that's why I needed more at school. She's able to 313 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: code switch. She's a code switcher. She's great, She's going 314 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,360 Speaker 1: to be awesome. What does she want to do? Because 315 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: less I saw an interview where she said she had 316 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:00,640 Speaker 1: pop star aspiration, still still going strong. Think I think 317 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: we can make it happen, and we as a together 318 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: will manage her and then the two of us well after, 319 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: I will play you a song on my iPhone. I 320 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 1: can't play it on Arab No, no no, She'll be 321 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:18,959 Speaker 1: like copyright of that ship from this and I love that. 322 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: I think Krishna can just be a mononym one name 323 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 1: Christian anonymously as Krishna Christia. And then and then you 324 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 1: have some divine aspect to it, which have you the 325 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: god's name, and that you have accessible name for everyone 326 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 1: to pronounce all over the world in any language. I think. 327 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: I think this is now. She has to do the 328 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 1: sing well. She sings incredibly well. Speaking of speaking of 329 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 1: Natalie Apportman and pop star, have you heard of vox 330 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: Lux and do you think it will come? Is it out? 331 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: I think she's doing press actually, so I must be 332 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: out soon. I can't wait. The radar. I think it 333 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 1: is because the subject matter is pretty, it is pretty, 334 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 1: very dark, very dark, like it did you hear what 335 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: it's about? It's she survives. She's just a young girl 336 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: who survives a school shooting. And so then at the 337 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: memorial for her friends who passed, she performs a song 338 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: that she wrote, and then they make her a pop star, 339 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: and this video from the memorial goes viral and then 340 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: she becomes, so she becomes. It's it's a movie that 341 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 1: I think it's really the comment. It's definitely a comment 342 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 1: the intersection of tragedy with like very that and I think, 343 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: like then it flashes forward many years and Natalie Apartment 344 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: is playing the adult version and she's this sort of like, 345 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 1: you know, pop star. We recognize that's like crazy, and 346 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 1: it's been kind of driven nuts by the fact that 347 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: like not only is this expectation of being a pop star, 348 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 1: but also how she got famous and the ghosts figuratively 349 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 1: and right. And then then like it on, there's like 350 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: another tragedy that happens that it's clear that they were 351 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 1: mimicking the one from when she was young. It just 352 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: sounds like a fascinating I can't wait. I saw a 353 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: clip of it because she was on ellen Um the 354 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: episode I was on, and I was like, I have 355 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: to see this movie. Yeah, I love all her movies. 356 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: I do. I'm a huge fan. We we actually we 357 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: were in college when when The Black Swan came out, 358 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 1: and that's one of my favorites. I didn't homage to 359 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 1: Black Swans Halloween, remember, Trishner was homaging Angelina Jolie is 360 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: um Star and Pama told me this in person at 361 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,399 Speaker 1: the Bellhouse show too, and I forgot already know. But 362 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: I mean, you can't see pictures on this podcast, but 363 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: if you go on to my Instagram you can see 364 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: pictures and videos. We had so much fun. We were 365 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,880 Speaker 1: just walking around soh like, yeah, we know we look 366 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: better than you bitches. Do people recognize you in costume? Um? 367 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: Well yes, when actually recognized my voice. It's really funny. 368 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 1: Um Like, I'll be at a restaurant and then the 369 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 1: person with their back to me, like I heard your voice. 370 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:13,239 Speaker 1: I thought that was just some local signature. That's the 371 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: Tamber it's the Tamber Cross. Yeah, you do have a 372 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: fantastic voice. And we were discussing before before the before 373 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: we went on that W magazine does the celebrity SR videos, 374 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: Patma would be fantastic and you can't see that. You 375 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 1: can't see the photos of her and Chrishna dressed up 376 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: on Halloween first famously not a visual medium. But when 377 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 1: you say that, here's the thing, let's talk about Matt 378 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: for a second. Can see a moment? Yes, yes, yes, 379 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 1: check out at Padma las Yes, I do. I wanted 380 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: to thank you for the plug. I want to talk 381 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 1: about let's just dig into Matt for a second. No, no, no, 382 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: Because we were I know where this is going. Patma 383 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: was very playfully ribbing about how you you know. She 384 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: was like, one of you doesn't read, and we were like, 385 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,160 Speaker 1: it's Matt. She knew that going in. But I feel 386 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: like Matt is able to break down any piece of 387 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 1: art in a way that is really well I have. 388 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: I started talking about I was a dramatic writing major, 389 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,360 Speaker 1: and so like I am also I also acted and act, 390 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: and you know, I do lots of different things. But 391 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: but you, I think you are able to analyze and 392 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: break You're able to give the cliffs notes version of anything. 393 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 1: I think better than most people. And I think that 394 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: you're robbing yourself and other people by not reading more. 395 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: This is a runaway train. I do read. I just 396 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: don't read all the time. We have packman at her 397 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: thinking I don't read well, No, you know you can 398 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: also I read very slowly, I really do. And I 399 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: have started listening to books on audible and whatever audio 400 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: books and I love them. I love them so much. 401 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: And I you know, when I was um and living 402 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: in l A and auditioning as an actress, I would 403 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 1: be in the car all the time, and there was 404 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: this place that was like a video rental um when 405 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: we had vhs and we rent it. Then we went 406 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: to places and got them and come back and then 407 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: gave them back in a timely fashion. But there was 408 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 1: like Talking Book World and you could get these boxes 409 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 1: of like Jeremy Irons narrating the Leader. Yeah, creepy in 410 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 1: the I when you were in the late nineties. Yeah, definitely. Anyway, UM, 411 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 1: I think you should start there. I'm going to I'm 412 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: going to do audio books and I would love especially 413 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 1: because a lot of the books that I enjoy reading 414 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 1: are memoirs and I love to hear someone read their 415 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 1: on like I would love to read your book. That's 416 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Absorb the book. I'm trying to you 417 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: know what it is. I'm very sensitive and so the 418 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: last book I tried to read was A Little Life. 419 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: Do you know? A Little Life Kanye's last book, And 420 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: it's kind of about like it's sort of like a 421 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 1: coming of age. It doesn't take place in any specific time, 422 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: but it's about um uh. I think it's the nineties. 423 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: A couple of them are. It's a group of friends, 424 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: and one of them has like sort of like a 425 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:11,680 Speaker 1: debilitating um chronic pain. And it's just a really emotional book. 426 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: And I realized, like, as I've gotten older, I've gotten 427 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: much more sensitive where things affect me. And so like 428 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 1: when the book got a little thick, I had to 429 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: put it away because it was driving me, like I'm 430 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: very sensitive and I'm not saying that stopped me from reading. Okay, 431 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm looking for something sad to read. You should read 432 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: this a little I'm serious though. I I this is 433 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: maybe t M I, but I don't care. I had 434 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 1: this massage therapist slash healer comes to me my normal 435 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 1: massage therapist set hand surgery. Anyway, so UM and I 436 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: have a little back things. So anyway, after she finished, 437 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 1: she said, I think you have a lot of sadness 438 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: to get out of you. And I said, um, yeah, probably, 439 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: and so she was saying, if you can't, you know, 440 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: get it out, you could just go watch just you know, 441 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: sad movie or something. And I went to watch at 442 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,640 Speaker 1: ten am, the Julia Rharts movie. Then is Bad. I 443 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 1: wanted to bring this up. How was it? It's it's 444 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: what you think it is. You know, it is really heartbreaking, 445 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 1: and they both give great performances. And I don't want 446 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: to spoil the ending, but I'll just say that it's 447 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: it's not a good ending, like it not as in anything. 448 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: It's just like it just stops, and you're like, no, 449 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: I want to know what happens, because I mean the 450 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,120 Speaker 1: reality I kind of you know, and that's frustrating from 451 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: like a narrative standpoint because you're like, oh man, give 452 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: me this Catharsis of knowing what happens, good or bad. 453 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 1: But also I kind of like that kind of comment 454 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: in a movie like that, because that is something that 455 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: families all across our country. It's it's a true right now. 456 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: And it does end with an ellipsis, So I do 457 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 1: kind of love that. Do you know what Bad Is 458 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: Back is about? So Lucas how just plays Julia Roberts's son, 459 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: and he has in in drug rehab and he gets 460 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 1: hooked on drugs as a teenager, like fourteen, and we 461 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: learned that in the movie. And so he's done everything, 462 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: he's dealt. He's like broken into his own mother's house, 463 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 1: the neighbors houses, and I think, you know, he's he's 464 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 1: gone deep. And so like the whole community knows he's 465 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,879 Speaker 1: an addict. And it's a rampant problem because throughout the 466 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 1: movie you meet other people who, you know, we're just 467 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: throwing a frisbee in a call to Sack a few 468 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 1: years ago, and now they're like these you know, heroin addicts, 469 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: and it's really dark. Did not shed a tear though? 470 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: Really I didn't. It was I am I'm normally sap. 471 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,360 Speaker 1: So maybe she's sent or something. I don't know, Like 472 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: I just felt like I really wanted to. It's why 473 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: I went to go see didn't have a good cry 474 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: and I leave it behind. But no, because I just, 475 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: you know, maybe it's because it's like not melodramatic. It 476 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 1: was very realistic. It was super slice of life. And 477 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 1: I like that. I mean, I like, you know, did 478 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: you cry to Stars Born? I cried more? Yeah, but 479 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: that was Yeah, it was, I mean, I kind of. 480 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 1: I mean, it's such the subject is frough for me 481 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 1: because you know, I was in a movie with a 482 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: star the same story, right, Why Lady Gaga wanted to 483 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 1: be in a movie? Just let her be in a movie. 484 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 1: As you saw, she's a good actor, right, I think 485 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 1: she did a great job, you know, very nice and 486 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:40,199 Speaker 1: kind of on, you know, and that was great. And 487 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 1: you also got to see the beauty of her voice 488 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 1: a cappella and really understand that, you know, under all 489 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: those me dresses there's this incredible talent. And it turns 490 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 1: it turns out she's a great actor too. And for 491 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 1: the first for the first part of the movie, Jeff 492 00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 1: Bridges way of speaking, heally was distracting for me. I 493 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: was like, why is he speaking like the tall guy 494 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 1: with the white hair who always plays the character actor 495 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 1: in a Western or Tommy Jones movie. And then he 496 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: comes on and I'm like, oh, he's playing his brother. Yes, 497 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: so Bradley Cooper as Jackson made aka Jeff Bridges is 498 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,719 Speaker 1: doing it, doing it Jeff Bridges basically, I mean, basically, 499 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: why wasn't Jeff Bridges in it? That was jeffred is 500 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: crazy Heart it's crazy high. Yeah, and and so so 501 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: it's really that I have the same questions too. And 502 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 1: also the line of the script was like you stole 503 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 1: my voice. I was like, do we need this? It's so, 504 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 1: but you are dead on the ending of Glitter, that 505 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: is the ending of Stars Born. Yeah, they're the same. 506 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 1: It's the same story because the ending of Stars Born 507 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 1: is just her basically doing a Whitney Maria moment, like literally, 508 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: so sure, I feel like you've always had a sense 509 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 1: of humor about Glitter, but is this is it's still 510 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: a thing where you are, you are, you're you're watching 511 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: other media and you are sort of still sort of 512 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 1: seeing things through that lens of like, oh well I was, 513 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: I was in a version of this and like does 514 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: that how does that affect affect me at all? It 515 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,239 Speaker 1: doesn't affect me at all. I mean, you know, I 516 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: think in defensive glitter like there, you know, it came 517 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: out ten days after nine eleven, right and came out 518 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: the day up, that's right, And it was really you know, 519 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: light popcorny movie. You know, do I think it would 520 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: have been considered this Citizen King anyway? Now? I don't, 521 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: But you know, whatever, it wasn't you know, the worst 522 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: thing out there. But um but I do think that 523 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 1: you know, when when when a performer who has reached 524 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 1: a height of Saint Mariah or Gaga, you know, wants 525 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: to get into movies, like, I think we should be 526 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: a little more creative about how we utilize them. Because 527 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,719 Speaker 1: I thought the movie it was lovely. I thought, you know, 528 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:06,479 Speaker 1: they both gave great performances. Um, I just wanted to 529 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: see more. Yeah, I get that you knew what was 530 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: going to happen, you did. I mean, it's it's a 531 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: very sort of mythic sort of thing where it's like 532 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: everyone knows the story so well, and I feel like 533 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: it does sort of we talked about type right, Yeah, yeah, 534 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 1: you know it's a version of you know, there's that myth, 535 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: then there's the pretty woman myth of someday my principill come. 536 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: You know. It's Yeah, so you liked Venus Back despite 537 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 1: like I really liked it. I wish you wish satter 538 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: and darker. Is I know that's odd to say. I 539 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: was going in with a certain intention and destroy me film. Yeah, 540 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: it takes a specific kind of film. I'm not a crier, 541 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: and it takes a very specific kind of I mean 542 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: I remember crying in Out of Africa. Yeah, okay, I 543 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 1: mean that was beautiful. It's Sophie's choice, bald like a baby, 544 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: you know, I call it happy things. Maybe try that, 545 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: Maybe try like you have, Maybe try this like I'm 546 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: a healer. Now wait, have you seen Big Fish? Yes? 547 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: I love that movie, very nice. It's so sweet and 548 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,719 Speaker 1: it's so magical, so beautiful. I don't think movies are 549 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: missing that now, yes, you know, just good scripts like 550 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: Fish Called Wanda. 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Do you have a favorite movie 604 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: that's come out this year, like now Oscar season? Have 605 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: you seen anything that you're like, oh, hell, Black Panther. Yes, 606 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 1: every Oscar? I agree. I agree that what's powerful, and 607 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: it's like it was a game change. It was so 608 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 1: exciting to see the costumes and their the cinematography, the 609 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 1: battle scenes, just everyone being not white. It's I love 610 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:54,960 Speaker 1: movies with white people. It's all I've ever seen, so 611 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: just like I want to see. I was so great. 612 00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: I saw it four times in the first week and 613 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,360 Speaker 1: came out. I went to the premiere and Leslie Jones 614 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: was like three rose behind me, and I wish I 615 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: could take Leslie Jones to every movie. She was so 616 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 1: funny screaming at the screen, and because it was really 617 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 1: packed crowd, it was just such a fun experience. And 618 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: then I wanted to take Christians, so I grabbed her 619 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: out of school, took her street from school to the 620 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: movie with a book bag like at three thirty. Then 621 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,840 Speaker 1: we went to my cousin's house over the weekend, and 622 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: I have two nephews who are around her age. I 623 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,799 Speaker 1: took them to see it um and a couple of 624 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: those times we're in three DS. Well, I think I 625 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: just think I love I love this the soundtrack from 626 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: Hendrick lemont bos and at my boxing gym, like they're like, 627 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: we can't possibly play this anymore, like yes you can. 628 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 1: You're from Africa. About forever that means forever, essentially rule 629 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:58,919 Speaker 1: culture number seven whatever means forever. I think I think 630 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,359 Speaker 1: it's a movie that rewards repeat viewings. Truly. I saw 631 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 1: I saw it. I saw it twice, and the first 632 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: time I saw I I had a bad experience because 633 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 1: it was a past leader, thank god, but I just 634 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 1: had this group of like rowdy asked children with like 635 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,840 Speaker 1: some baby some caretaker type, like baby sitter type, just 636 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: like sitting there sort of letting them run them up 637 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: and like being on her phone totally, and I just 638 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 1: like I literally couldn't take in what was going on. 639 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:23,320 Speaker 1: And I was like and then by the end of 640 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 1: bad O Pair I walked out. I was like, I 641 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: was like, oh no, I don't think I understood what 642 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 1: was happening. In there because because all the chatter I was, 643 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 1: I didn't have an opinion on the movie, and I 644 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,320 Speaker 1: was like, I have to see this again just to 645 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: like not just clean, just to like know what this is. 646 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 1: And this sounds so crazy just talking about it now, 647 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 1: but literally walked out of that the first time not 648 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,799 Speaker 1: having an idea of what it was, but then seeing 649 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 1: it again, like you, I also just picked up on 650 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 1: the things that like I had taken in the first time. 651 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 1: It's just an incredible movie. And that was one of 652 00:36:55,560 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: the most beautiful, powerful um scenes of the year I think, 653 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,840 Speaker 1: which is you know, spoiler alert right now if you 654 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: haven't seen Black Panther you have, but that scene where 655 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: Michael b. Jordans dies at the end, and it's so beautiful, 656 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: So I mean, it's it's it's just like wow, it's 657 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 1: just it's just so abuff and beyond. Because you could 658 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: have made you could have done the Superhero movie, but 659 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 1: they made that art that's better than any more of 660 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 1: a movie I've ever seen. And I mean also, the 661 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: women characters were not appendages. They were all different, had 662 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 1: all different personalities, you know, they were so um in 663 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: their own essential selves. Yeah, you know, had inner lives 664 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 1: and that's something we don't usually see. And I say, like, 665 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: you know, people are talking about Michael B. Jordan's for 666 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 1: a Supporting Actor nomination, which you know, I think he's 667 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 1: one of the most famous, so that makes sense. But Nigeria, 668 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 1: she is stunned the movie as person, and I was like, 669 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: this is someone who's multi multitalented and the playwright she's 670 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 1: I didn't know she was an as powerful as I watch. 671 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: I saw her in Eclipse. Ye oh, and she was 672 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: isn't that the play? Yeah, she was amazing. And I 673 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 1: saw it when it was at Joe's Joseph pat Theater, 674 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 1: the public theater. I saw it there before it went 675 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 1: to Broadway. It was so powerful and everyone l Peto 676 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: and Yango was in that too. Everyone in that cast 677 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: was so fantastic. It was brilliant. I mean that's the thing, 678 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 1: like I want to hear other stories, which is why 679 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: I read, which is why you read. And you too 680 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 1: have to go see Slave play. Jeremy O. Harris. It's 681 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,320 Speaker 1: at the New York Theater. We're going together. We're going together. 682 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 1: I'll try to get a ticket. No, but seriously, it's 683 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 1: Josh Sharp and I went we walked away from that 684 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 1: thinking and he's the guy who knows theater, our friend, 685 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 1: but we were both like, that's the best piece of 686 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 1: theater I've ever seen in my life. Truly, so smart 687 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 1: leaves no stone unturned when it comes to like there's 688 00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: there's something that happens in the play that like just 689 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,279 Speaker 1: blows your mind age and like that's all I can say. 690 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 1: But like, truly, I'm getting everyone at work like into it, 691 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 1: like you've been talking about. Colin came over to me, 692 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: he was like, I think I'm gonna go see Slave 693 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: Play this weekend because like you, you're so into it 694 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 1: and you're so you're like its biggest cheerleader. The thing is, 695 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 1: I can't. So it starts out with these vignettes of 696 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 1: like sexual sort of it's essentially like you, like you 697 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:26,320 Speaker 1: think it's about like sexual sub subjugation in Antebellum times um, 698 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 1: and then it just like it becomes it becomes all 699 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 1: these other things, and truly such such such an inspired 700 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 1: piece of work by Jeremy O. Harris. Check him out. 701 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: He's he's he has a career. He's writing the show 702 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,240 Speaker 1: that Alan Cumming is in called Daddy, that's off Broadway. Um, 703 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 1: it all takes place in a swimming pool on stage. 704 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,480 Speaker 1: That's all people know about it so far. But everyone's 705 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 1: like losing their minds over there, like it's going to 706 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,320 Speaker 1: be great, Like we don't know what it's gonna be, 707 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: but like it's gonna be something brilliant. So anyway, we 708 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: do need more pools on stage, and we need more 709 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:03,799 Speaker 1: pools on stage. Um, But I think I just want 710 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 1: to I want to ask patn of this before we 711 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,520 Speaker 1: get into the central question of the show, what you want. 712 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 1: I'm just always stunned at just the way that you're 713 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: able to just not only talk about food like you 714 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,360 Speaker 1: do on on Top Chef and like just in regular 715 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: sort of life, I guess, and the way you write 716 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: about it. But also I just feel like you're someone 717 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 1: who is so able and so adept at taking in 718 00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 1: all different types of culture. And this is a culture show, 719 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 1: which is a very broad definition of like everything basically, like, yeah, 720 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 1: what we consume um in all forms is there? Are you? 721 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 1: What is your discerning element? And like picking out things 722 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 1: that you like or dislike or just like what you like? 723 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 1: How do you figure out what to give attention to? 724 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,879 Speaker 1: Is what I'm asking basically it's hard. You know, things 725 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,879 Speaker 1: go across our screens now that um at a velocity 726 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 1: that it's hard to really absorb them. But I think 727 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 1: something's always bubble up, whether that's an issue or a 728 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:05,399 Speaker 1: new thing or lately, I think what there's been such 729 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: a lack of common sense, So I'm attracted to things 730 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 1: that are just like it's a stupid example, okay, but 731 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: in microcosm, very microcosm, Like I posted a picture of 732 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 1: this toast with peanut butter, I know, you know what 733 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, and pome and pomegranate, like last minute, 734 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: late at night on a weekend, and you never know, 735 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,880 Speaker 1: and that thing. We've had like hundreds of people posting 736 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 1: those pictures and sending them to us and we repost 737 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,319 Speaker 1: them and every you know, I've just done Pressed for 738 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 1: Top Chef because it just premiered um last week, right 739 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:46,360 Speaker 1: and um, every single interview I did from from Busy 740 00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 1: to like BuzzFeed, I mean everything. I mean, I was 741 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: on Access Hollywood. I got there, they greeted me, it 742 00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:58,279 Speaker 1: was we made this okay, so lust and it's just 743 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: become this random thing because as I think, it tapped 744 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 1: into something that was so familiar put in a different 745 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,799 Speaker 1: way together, and I think, you know, and I think 746 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: that's what attracts people to to you know, anything I 747 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:17,360 Speaker 1: say or do, I don't. I don't discriminate between um, 748 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: you know, the importance of tradition or what's better or 749 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 1: you know, food and politics, I think, and womanhood and 750 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,879 Speaker 1: parenting and family and all of that. I don't think 751 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: it's any different. I treat everything with the same interest 752 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: because if I'm not interested in it, then I leave 753 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: it behind. But you know, I was. It's funny to 754 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,279 Speaker 1: hear you say that you were a drama student. I 755 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,240 Speaker 1: was a theater major in college as well. And so 756 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: I think when you when you think, you know, leaving 757 00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,160 Speaker 1: aside the performance aspect of it, when you try to 758 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:55,400 Speaker 1: find a key into someone you look at you know, 759 00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: what are the things they're drawn to, what are things 760 00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 1: they like? And that collection of opinions forms who they 761 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:05,319 Speaker 1: are because it's informed by what they've gone through. Um, 762 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,440 Speaker 1: And I think it's very important. And you know, social 763 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 1: media is really bad and evil. However, however, for me 764 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:18,160 Speaker 1: it's been a way to control my narrative and talk 765 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 1: about things that I don't get to talk about on 766 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,320 Speaker 1: top Chef because the show is so formatic, and you know, 767 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:25,359 Speaker 1: in order to do my job well and make sure 768 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,919 Speaker 1: everybody gets heard and the business of the show gets through, 769 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: you know, you don't really see a lot of me. 770 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you see my opinions about food in an 771 00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 1: analytical way. But um, so it's been great for me 772 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 1: to UM. I used to write. I used to I 773 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 1: had a syndicated column for for a bit and then 774 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 1: for the New York Times. You know, I also um 775 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 1: due to Style Column and Harper's Bizarre And so I 776 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,480 Speaker 1: come at everything as a writer mostly like whether it 777 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,120 Speaker 1: you know, it's plays, I'm always or movies I'm always 778 00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: listening for the script and and I think, what the 779 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 1: hell was my point is that is, oh well, just 780 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 1: controlling my own narrative. And I think, like it's it's 781 00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,000 Speaker 1: more interesting to see what a full person is like. 782 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 1: And I'm I can be that um in Instagram or 783 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: Twitter or whatever, especially because you know, like when when 784 00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 1: I would imagine that when you are Pod Malakshmi and 785 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: you are like put up on this pedestal of being 786 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,320 Speaker 1: like the top chef host who has this like cultured 787 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: opinion about food and all these things it's like you 788 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 1: know you do you there would be a part of 789 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,319 Speaker 1: you that wants to express everyone like get to know 790 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,000 Speaker 1: the real me. I also have like I'm interested in comedy, 791 00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm interested in these things. I like these films like yeah, yeah, 792 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,719 Speaker 1: it's true. I mean, look, I'm very proud of of 793 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,120 Speaker 1: the show. And I'm you know, like I I am 794 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,360 Speaker 1: genuinely an egghead about food, Like I published an encyclopedia 795 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,279 Speaker 1: for God's sake, you know, you know what you're talking about. Ever, 796 00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe the spices and book. I was like, 797 00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:59,320 Speaker 1: there's a whole book about this. Yeah, well I wanted 798 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: one to exist, and I really couldn't find a good one. 799 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: So I was like, darn it, I'm gonna write one. Yeah, 800 00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 1: and now now everyone knows about green mango powder, everyone truly. 801 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:12,839 Speaker 1: That was that was crazy for me. That really blew 802 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:16,760 Speaker 1: it up. Green mango powder, especially in fried chicken crust. 803 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 1: It delicious because you have this sourness already in should 804 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: we put it into basically like whatever mix and I 805 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,360 Speaker 1: put like rice crispies in there and coin flakes and 806 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 1: bread crumbs and all that, so you like dredge it 807 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 1: and in that you season that. You season that with 808 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,440 Speaker 1: salt and cayenne and green mango powders that secret ingredient 809 00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 1: in there. So you're this this season takes place in Kentucky, 810 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,800 Speaker 1: and obviously you think, like every year it gets influenced 811 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 1: by this city or so here you are, like in Kentucky? 812 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 1: Does that mean a lot of fried stuff? Are you? 813 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,400 Speaker 1: And are you eating all of it? I'm not eating 814 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:55,040 Speaker 1: all of it. I ate a good fair amount. Yeah, 815 00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 1: I ate my share of it the first half of filming. 816 00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 1: And then I was like, girl, you were eating so much. 817 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,040 Speaker 1: Like I always eat a lot on on set, but 818 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,760 Speaker 1: I do want to try the local specialties of wherever 819 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm going. So I did. I had all these pork 820 00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 1: pies and banana croquettes and I was having mint julip 821 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 1: s lush, She's bourbon and the like. The second week, 822 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't feel so well right between 823 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,399 Speaker 1: you and Tom, Like you're you're eating much more than 824 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 1: he does. I eat double what he does. That's crazy 825 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,479 Speaker 1: that there. I mean, he's there for the first quick 826 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,800 Speaker 1: fire at the season, but I'm there for every quick fire. Yeah. 827 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,000 Speaker 1: He just breezes in every other day and gals out 828 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: the whole season. Yeah, yeah, she's actually saw our Last night, 829 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 1: I was at Andy's holiday party and she looked great. Um, 830 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,160 Speaker 1: she you know, she was very pregnant. And the second 831 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: was the quick fire was for her, was like her 832 00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 1: craving did you see? I was like, this is a 833 00:46:55,960 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 1: joke for two days after that to was it was 834 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 1: it twins that that was a he has a beautiful 835 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 1: boy to do. So do you feel like, Okay, so 836 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:15,839 Speaker 1: obviously you can't like have favoritism, but every season, are 837 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: you like, oh, I'm definitely pulling for that person or 838 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,160 Speaker 1: do you stay pretty removed? Are you like a route 839 00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:24,359 Speaker 1: Paul about I'm very RuPaul about it, you know, I am, 840 00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:28,799 Speaker 1: because like I just honestly, I just judge them on 841 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: their food, and then when they make a stupid mistake, 842 00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you're so capable of more than this. 843 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 1: You know, you're rooting for all of them in a 844 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,840 Speaker 1: sense to get out of their own way. You know. No, 845 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 1: and again there's the annoying person. You're like, all right, yeah, 846 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:48,280 Speaker 1: but you know, like for the most part, I luckily 847 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,840 Speaker 1: stand by all the decisions that we've made at the 848 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,360 Speaker 1: time we made that, So, um, I think this season 849 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: is no different, Like you wind up rooting for the 850 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,600 Speaker 1: three or four it at like mid season, you know, 851 00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 1: aren't doing consistently well, and it's interesting to see their 852 00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 1: cooking styles and how they differ and how they interpret 853 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,640 Speaker 1: the local ingredients or whatever. I don't know, I'm I 854 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 1: get super into the weeds about stuff like that, like 855 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,240 Speaker 1: I love you know, and when it's at that level, 856 00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,880 Speaker 1: especially the later episodes, it really is like, oh, well, 857 00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,839 Speaker 1: if there was only one more leaf of Parsley, because 858 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 1: you have nothing else to judge it on, you know, 859 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 1: in the whatever. Just in the first quick fire off 860 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: this season, it was just like everyone was pretty solid 861 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,279 Speaker 1: and it was like, well, what do you when you 862 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,359 Speaker 1: realize like it's the true Like you also slayed your 863 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,759 Speaker 1: episode of RuPaul's Dragons, Yeah, you were so good and 864 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:50,879 Speaker 1: also well I wanted to be constructed. I'm not doing 865 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,719 Speaker 1: any of them a favor if I'm just like, wow, 866 00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,240 Speaker 1: you makeup was a little you know, and I got 867 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 1: it really into that ship because I'm already deep into 868 00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:02,280 Speaker 1: that ship at home badly. I was away filming something, 869 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,920 Speaker 1: so I had bought tickets, but I couldn't go, So 870 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:09,839 Speaker 1: I made Chrishna's dad take her to dragon Oh my god, yes, 871 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: in New York. And she's like, mom, that was great, 872 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 1: But next year you're going. I'm like, listen, that start 873 00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,200 Speaker 1: just for just for braving that whole braving it. But 874 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 1: you know, so many people, it's families. It's so many 875 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:30,040 Speaker 1: families tournament right exactly. Oh my god, my god. Everyone 876 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,080 Speaker 1: would have been a gag to see you there. I 877 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:38,680 Speaker 1: do you golf dragon girl. We are already planning our outfits. Yes, 878 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 1: we just we we have a punch for uh, we 879 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 1: have a punch on for dressing up at home. Yes, 880 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,399 Speaker 1: we start planning on Halloween colastumes at like I don't 881 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:57,000 Speaker 1: know Easter, literally, like we go to M and J. Jerming's. 882 00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 1: We have our blu guns on. We have like we 883 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,280 Speaker 1: only have four packets of clear glue sticks versus fabric 884 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,280 Speaker 1: glue sticks. I think we're better get some more challenge. 885 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,560 Speaker 1: It's so much fun. It's so much was that the 886 00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,839 Speaker 1: first or second episode of All Stars that you were on, 887 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:15,720 Speaker 1: it was like you were on I was on season 888 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,319 Speaker 1: ten but it was early Yeah, and you know, I 889 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,360 Speaker 1: he's so funny and I got to know him really 890 00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,399 Speaker 1: well because it was a really long day and he 891 00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 1: was so great. We became friends from that. I had 892 00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,359 Speaker 1: known him a little bit again for a long time 893 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 1: because I would see him at Emmy things or you know, 894 00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:37,279 Speaker 1: just see in l A or whatever. And through that 895 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 1: filming we became friends and and he's really cool, you know, 896 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 1: he he was very Sweetie said he drove to all 897 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 1: the Max stores in the Los Angeles area. He bought 898 00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,520 Speaker 1: everyone out of my brown eyeliner because I was like 899 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,920 Speaker 1: a girl, it's really hard to find a brown that 900 00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,839 Speaker 1: turns up on I was like, I know, that's why, Yes, 901 00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,279 Speaker 1: your brown works on him really well. Yeah, my round, 902 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 1: I had a I did. I designed a makeup lind 903 00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:07,640 Speaker 1: for mac Um earlier this year, and um he you know, 904 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,520 Speaker 1: he just loved it, because you know, I love makeup. 905 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,799 Speaker 1: I'm like, this step away from being a drag queen 906 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 1: if you let me go. It's really they were going 907 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 1: to have a full contour, honestly, wage contouring. Okay, So 908 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,520 Speaker 1: let's ask the question that we ask every every guest, 909 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 1: and I can't wait to hear Padma's answer. So this 910 00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:29,799 Speaker 1: is the question of our show, which is what is 911 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,719 Speaker 1: the culture that made you say? Culture is for me 912 00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 1: the pop culture that was defining in your life that 913 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 1: from a young age, like still as a touchstone that 914 00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 1: you can call back to. You know. I didn't want 915 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 1: to go to college until I watched a Different World. Wow. 916 00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,319 Speaker 1: You know my parents were always like steady heart study. 917 00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, whatever, you know. I saw a 918 00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 1: Different World and I was like, wait, you get to 919 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 1: live away from your parents? Interesting what I do? Wow, 920 00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 1: I haven't seen it. I've never seen. A Different World 921 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,880 Speaker 1: is a classic. It is the spinoff when Lisa Bone 922 00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:14,160 Speaker 1: got kicked off of Cosby being sexually to Cosby the 923 00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 1: irony and for doing Angel Heart with Milosh you directed 924 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:21,440 Speaker 1: by Milosh Foreman with what's his name Mickey Roy. Yeah, 925 00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 1: that was a sexy They did not get along. They 926 00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,440 Speaker 1: did Lisa and Bill Cosby and so basically they knew Lisa. 927 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,120 Speaker 1: It was a star, and they said, well we're going 928 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:34,400 Speaker 1: to do this other show was good for her. Yeah, 929 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 1: and so and so you watched a Different World and 930 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 1: you were like, oh, this is I want to be Lisa. Yes, totally. 931 00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: But like my culture, all my cultural touchstones start from TV. 932 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 1: So really I am the generation of MTV. Yes, MTV 933 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,040 Speaker 1: started right at the time I was hitting puberty and 934 00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 1: I was like, what I remember like watching Cindi lauper 935 00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 1: I am Member when we didn't know who was going 936 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:08,680 Speaker 1: to be the bigger star Cyndy Lauperta. Yeah, yes, yes, 937 00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,960 Speaker 1: but I mean Michael Jackson. I remember being scared at 938 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,920 Speaker 1: watching Thriller, like really like, oh, maybe I shouldn't watch it, 939 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:21,640 Speaker 1: and then fall asleep after I know. Now, you know, 940 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,640 Speaker 1: like I grew up with music videos. I remember Annie 941 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,640 Speaker 1: Lennox all that stuff, but it was always TV, like 942 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:29,800 Speaker 1: you know, I grew up. I say that Oprah was 943 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,920 Speaker 1: a second mother because you know, I would come home 944 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:35,560 Speaker 1: from school and watch Oprah. We all did. We all 945 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:39,200 Speaker 1: watched Oprah and baked potatoes in our new microwaves, right, 946 00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:44,439 Speaker 1: that's so funny. Microwaves really came out around the time 947 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:53,319 Speaker 1: of m Culture number fourteen, but I actually know it's 948 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 1: and I think it's literally like their articles about this 949 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,879 Speaker 1: about how Velvita came out the same time that MTV did, 950 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 1: and like making helpmade nachos was like wet hand and 951 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 1: now Velvito was before. So I may be wrong, but 952 00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:13,840 Speaker 1: you can make Velvita at home without movie with real cheese, 953 00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 1: like you can eat as long as you add sour salt, like, 954 00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: oh my god, to um cheese, gray cheese. It'll melt better, 955 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 1: isn't it. Isn't there some irony in a way where 956 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,959 Speaker 1: it's like you're making cheese and like actual cheese into 957 00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:34,400 Speaker 1: something sort of worse than I mean, here's here's a 958 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:38,439 Speaker 1: real true confession. Please. I like this nasty movie theater 959 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:45,360 Speaker 1: nachos like hot cheese because it's so creamy. I love it, 960 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:47,800 Speaker 1: but I won't get it unless they have the pickled 961 00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,279 Speaker 1: halapenos like more, no more. You know I'm gonna get 962 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,319 Speaker 1: through half these chips. Oh my god, palapenos are going 963 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 1: to be gone. This is the beginning of it. I 964 00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,239 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. The halapenos have to be because 965 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:05,680 Speaker 1: otherwise it's just sodium on its very basic. It's very 966 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:07,799 Speaker 1: basic without very basic without them. But I love it 967 00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,320 Speaker 1: that hot cheese. Did you almost burn your fingers sticking 968 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:14,839 Speaker 1: into Do you have a favorite music video from that time? Yes, um, 969 00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:20,680 Speaker 1: hungry like the Wolf. They filmed it in Sri Lanka. 970 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:26,279 Speaker 1: I think Duran durand years later, I um, I mean, 971 00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,800 Speaker 1: I wasn't like the biggest freak. I didn't have posters 972 00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,880 Speaker 1: and stuff that was so teenage. I was already like 973 00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,400 Speaker 1: in my mid twenties when I was a freshman, like 974 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,800 Speaker 1: mentally and emotionally, but I did I did love Duran Durance. 975 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: So later, when I actually was twenty two or twenty 976 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:44,360 Speaker 1: four something, I was a model, I met Duran Duran 977 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 1: and I became friends with them because I don't even 978 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 1: remember how, and I don't think I could speak full 979 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:54,080 Speaker 1: sentences for like the first couple of times that I 980 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:58,160 Speaker 1: was around that because I was so start struck. What 981 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 1: is is there? What is is there some quality about 982 00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,320 Speaker 1: Diranda in that like makes them stand out above What's 983 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,879 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, I mean they were pretty sad. They 984 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,280 Speaker 1: were the only they were the first ones who weren't 985 00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:13,799 Speaker 1: afraid of being beautiful as men like you you know, 986 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:15,799 Speaker 1: you had all these rock stars and if there were 987 00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 1: guys that you know, yes, Michael Jackson, but he was 988 00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 1: the whole different thing. Prince and Michael Jackson. Yes, I 989 00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:26,920 Speaker 1: remember when we thought Prince was the weird one. Michael, yeah, 990 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 1: he was. He was like bracing the Yeah. So like 991 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,160 Speaker 1: these were the first white men that were actually like 992 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,040 Speaker 1: we're going to address like really fabulous and we're eyeliner 993 00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 1: and everything. But we're straight. And you know, I I 994 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:47,000 Speaker 1: my best friend was gay in high school and so no, 995 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,080 Speaker 1: I mean I I knew he was gay, and he 996 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,560 Speaker 1: knew he was gay, but you know, he came out 997 00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,560 Speaker 1: to me like on the phone in college and I 998 00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:57,640 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I knew that, but I'm glad you 999 00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,719 Speaker 1: told me. You know. But then you were a huge 1000 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,200 Speaker 1: part of life then, which is yeah, yeah, I mean 1001 00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,640 Speaker 1: we wound up moving in together and then you know, 1002 00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,279 Speaker 1: and then other stuff happened and whatever. But when I 1003 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,960 Speaker 1: moved back after modeling in the nineties, I used to 1004 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:13,160 Speaker 1: live in Milan in Paris, and then I moved back 1005 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:17,000 Speaker 1: to the States at the end of my late twenties 1006 00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,680 Speaker 1: and so um, I had an apart with apartment with 1007 00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 1: him again for a bit. But I mean, most of 1008 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:29,280 Speaker 1: my I'm so embedded in the culture. You know, I'm 1009 00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 1: just gay without the sex icon and like, so is 1010 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,960 Speaker 1: that do gay men like literally throw themselves at you, 1011 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:41,280 Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm so happy that they do. I think 1012 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:47,320 Speaker 1: my pollen is what every gay b needs, what every 1013 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:53,040 Speaker 1: that's a title of every gay, every gay being gorgeous 1014 00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:56,760 Speaker 1: and poetic. You get the sense to some people like 1015 00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:58,680 Speaker 1: it takes them a minute to adjust to being a 1016 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:01,320 Speaker 1: gay icon, like even back in the they like share, yeah, 1017 00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,760 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like she I think it 1018 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 1: took a second because even remember she had to calibrate 1019 00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,120 Speaker 1: and adjust to that. Well when Chaz first came out 1020 00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:12,360 Speaker 1: as a lean, when was chasted, like it was this 1021 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,480 Speaker 1: moment and shares on the record of saying like I 1022 00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,680 Speaker 1: felt that I had failed as a parent. And that's right, right, 1023 00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:21,960 Speaker 1: So she's seventy something years old. That's why. Yeah, I know, No, 1024 00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:25,200 Speaker 1: I didn't have to adjust. I mean I was I 1025 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:30,360 Speaker 1: was praying on Ben Didney for the crown, like what 1026 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:33,120 Speaker 1: I mean with on my gays, like I openly invited it, 1027 00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,280 Speaker 1: like when I was living in Laws. I'm from New 1028 00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 1: York and I grew up, you know, my early childhood 1029 00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:39,520 Speaker 1: here because I came here when I was four. But 1030 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 1: I was in high school in a suburb of Los 1031 00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:46,400 Speaker 1: Angeles and in Santa Monica. People who were you know, 1032 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 1: around in the eighties and l A, We'll remember this. 1033 00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 1: There was a gay club on Santa Monica Boulevard where 1034 00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 1: the French market still stands, called Peanuts. Peanuts that and 1035 00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 1: I used to sneak into Peanuts when I was in 1036 00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:01,440 Speaker 1: high school. Wow. But it was a really sexy crowd, 1037 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,480 Speaker 1: like it wasn't like now I find that you go 1038 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,919 Speaker 1: to gay bars, which I do, and it's mostly men 1039 00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,560 Speaker 1: and a few of the chosen few like me, or 1040 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,920 Speaker 1: or you go to the covey hole that is it, 1041 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:21,320 Speaker 1: and yes, which is fine, but um um, you know, 1042 00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:23,440 Speaker 1: my boyfriend doesn't like to go there with me anymore 1043 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 1: because you said it's like worse than fighting off men. 1044 00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 1: But like it's I I love going everywhere, like I 1045 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:34,240 Speaker 1: want to meet everyone, but they don't. I want. I 1046 00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:36,480 Speaker 1: want peanuts in New York again. Let me tell you. 1047 00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,600 Speaker 1: Let me set the scene. So there it's a mixed crowd. 1048 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:44,160 Speaker 1: Everyone smells good and is fashionable. And I'm there and 1049 00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:49,800 Speaker 1: they are like these very European elegant um women women, 1050 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:53,640 Speaker 1: lesbians women at the bar. They were probably lesbians, but 1051 00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:58,240 Speaker 1: like very you know, lipstick lesbians, like you know, picture 1052 00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 1: like Jane Fonda. You know. Yeah, so like you know, 1053 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:07,280 Speaker 1: I don't know, like it was just cool. And then 1054 01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:09,280 Speaker 1: there were gay men obviously, but then there were straight 1055 01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,920 Speaker 1: couples there. It was the I mean, put it for you. 1056 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 1: It was the era when Madonna was dating but really 1057 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:24,000 Speaker 1: close to Sandra Bernhardt, three would show up at Peanuts 1058 01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:29,919 Speaker 1: so extended there, howord I love that And they would 1059 01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:34,040 Speaker 1: have these like balls and dances. And there was one 1060 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,520 Speaker 1: woman named Paula that you know, I think she was transgendered. 1061 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,800 Speaker 1: But I was like, there's no way that's a guy. 1062 01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,440 Speaker 1: But I didn't really know about Tucking then, you know, 1063 01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,680 Speaker 1: so maybe it was a guy. You know, I didn't know. 1064 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,920 Speaker 1: So I was really around that a lot, like at fourteen, 1065 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:52,320 Speaker 1: at fifteen sixteen, so you know, I I'm very comfortable 1066 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 1: in that element because it was a part of your culture. 1067 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 1: It is it is really a part of my culture. 1068 01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I um, I remember also New York in 1069 01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:06,120 Speaker 1: the seventies, you know, because my we didn't know any better. 1070 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,760 Speaker 1: My mom would let me run around, like I skated 1071 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:10,880 Speaker 1: all over the city when I was in fourth grade alone, 1072 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:14,080 Speaker 1: you know, like, yeah, you couldn't do that now, but 1073 01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:17,440 Speaker 1: you know, we all and people would, you know, the 1074 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:23,040 Speaker 1: kids were carded to these parties, you know what I mean. No, no, no, no, 1075 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,240 Speaker 1: not that bad. But I did go to the I 1076 01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:30,640 Speaker 1: mean I would have been seven, but but I did 1077 01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:34,640 Speaker 1: sneak into Peanuts and I remember it was so sexy 1078 01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:38,080 Speaker 1: and you know, like I thought, maybe I'm a little gay. Yeah, 1079 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:42,120 Speaker 1: I think everyone's a little gay. Everyone's on the kinzie. Yes, 1080 01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:45,959 Speaker 1: I agree, but um, you know, I just I feel 1081 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,640 Speaker 1: at home there. Wow. I mean this is start. A 1082 01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 1: lot of our crew on Top Chef is actually really love. 1083 01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 1: Do you only get different crews in different seasons. No. 1084 01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:56,040 Speaker 1: In fact, we're like a very tight knit family. We 1085 01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,000 Speaker 1: do hire a lot of locals in each city, but 1086 01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,720 Speaker 1: there's a group, a core group of us. Like my 1087 01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:06,960 Speaker 1: stylist is gay, my makeup artist is gay, My um 1088 01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:10,960 Speaker 1: assistant on the show is gay, you know, And that's 1089 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:15,320 Speaker 1: just like my little mini tribe with the larger structure 1090 01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,560 Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, I get that from the show. It's weird, 1091 01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,360 Speaker 1: but I get like a gay thing from the show. 1092 01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 1: A lot of the a lot of the chefs are 1093 01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:23,600 Speaker 1: come in in the require order and then and there's 1094 01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,240 Speaker 1: no What I think Top Chef has done that a 1095 01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:29,440 Speaker 1: lot of other reality competition shows I didn't used to 1096 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:33,000 Speaker 1: do was that it didn't make They wouldn't make the 1097 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,320 Speaker 1: queerness or the sexuality of its of its contestants like central. 1098 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,560 Speaker 1: It wasn't a central thing, yes, which I think is 1099 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,920 Speaker 1: refreshing and even on Project Right, it doesn't matter, it 1100 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:47,360 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. It matters, but not when cooking doesn't matter 1101 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,560 Speaker 1: if you're a man or a woman. Yes, exactly when 1102 01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:52,280 Speaker 1: you're watching Project One Way two when you find out 1103 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,000 Speaker 1: one of the designers is straight, and it's like, whoa, 1104 01:02:54,120 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 1: what you had to do that with the impedi men 1105 01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 1: of like missing. In fact, I think one of the winners, 1106 01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:06,440 Speaker 1: one of the one one of the finalists, was like 1107 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:09,480 Speaker 1: a straight man who was just like very European and shot. 1108 01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:11,240 Speaker 1: I did not realize he was until the end, and 1109 01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:14,600 Speaker 1: I was like Dmitri or something, but like I was like, 1110 01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:20,000 Speaker 1: but like he was like so talented, and I was like, okay, 1111 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:25,720 Speaker 1: well you cantinue to open your mind. Man. Actually I 1112 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,400 Speaker 1: three years later, but I'm almost like within pages of 1113 01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:34,480 Speaker 1: finishing um tinny easy between the world and me. It's 1114 01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:38,080 Speaker 1: so good, it's so I've inhaled it like I started yesterday, 1115 01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 1: and it's great. It makes me want to have a kid. 1116 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,760 Speaker 1: But also it's it's the suffused and tragedy and racial. 1117 01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:48,880 Speaker 1: It's so right, it's so succinctly and poetically beautiful, really 1118 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 1: renders the situation palpable. You know, I read all kinds 1119 01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:55,720 Speaker 1: of funky things. The other thing I read was The 1120 01:03:55,840 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 1: Year of Yes, Yes, Yes. I love a celebrity autobiography 1121 01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:07,200 Speaker 1: and even if they're like, oh my god, I roll. 1122 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,600 Speaker 1: Like when I read Lena Dunham's a lot of page 1123 01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: to page, I had a different opinion on it, but 1124 01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 1: I love it because you get it. It's a true 1125 01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:15,160 Speaker 1: slice of life. It's true and like what I like 1126 01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:18,880 Speaker 1: about it is like it's someone telling their own story 1127 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:22,440 Speaker 1: which speaks volumes. Yes you know what I mean, Yes, yes, 1128 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,360 Speaker 1: it's true. It's like how important they think they are, 1129 01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: like you know, definitely, how their take on the situations. 1130 01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 1: Like I think that some of these different though Lena's 1131 01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:36,320 Speaker 1: book is a book of essays, and you know, it's 1132 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:40,280 Speaker 1: different than a memoir looking back. The best memoir, one 1133 01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,560 Speaker 1: of the best memoirs I think ever written, is called 1134 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:46,200 Speaker 1: The Liars Club by Mary Carr. She's a poet. I mean, 1135 01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:51,720 Speaker 1: you will, you'll love it. It feels like um Laura 1136 01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:54,960 Speaker 1: during movie like wild at Heart, Like it's just it's 1137 01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:58,280 Speaker 1: beautiful and it actually I think, you know, sent this 1138 01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:02,440 Speaker 1: kind of rebirth or this renaissance and memoir writing in 1139 01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,680 Speaker 1: this country like ten years ago whatever she's very talented. 1140 01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,640 Speaker 1: I I was. I love that book. It's one of 1141 01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:12,240 Speaker 1: my favorite books. Yeah. I like memoirs too, I really do. 1142 01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,720 Speaker 1: I there's if I know something's coming out, I'll always like, 1143 01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:17,360 Speaker 1: you know which one I really want to read? Which 1144 01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:18,840 Speaker 1: is old now? But I really want to read it 1145 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:25,000 Speaker 1: because what Nia Ferris is great too. I'm sure. Oh, 1146 01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:27,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure that one is rich. It's so rich. So 1147 01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:37,040 Speaker 1: is Jane Fondas. Did you based on the memoir just Talk? 1148 01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:39,760 Speaker 1: I thought it was only me who like Sonic of 1149 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:42,640 Speaker 1: my life in periods of the men I've hated. That 1150 01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:46,080 Speaker 1: was so phenomenal. We all do that. I mean after 1151 01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,000 Speaker 1: you get out of school, Like, what are the measure 1152 01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:58,320 Speaker 1: do you have? Structure? Just sor I'm a Dave, my Carlos, 1153 01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:03,560 Speaker 1: a Teddy. I'm I'm in my post Hansel phase right now. 1154 01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:08,959 Speaker 1: Oh my God spoke his name whatever, Hancil. He's great. 1155 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,560 Speaker 1: I'm getting dinner with him on Thursday. We're going to 1156 01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:16,040 Speaker 1: hang still friends. No, we like. He Literally the day 1157 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:18,560 Speaker 1: that he broke up with me, he was like, well, 1158 01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm giving a talk tomorrow about transgender health. You should come. 1159 01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I think that's too soon. Yeah, you 1160 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,200 Speaker 1: have to just be you know, sometimes you just have 1161 01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:36,160 Speaker 1: to cut the finger off the sod my eye lived 1162 01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,520 Speaker 1: with my X after we broke up for seven more months. 1163 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 1: I'm looking back and I was like, oh, I should 1164 01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,880 Speaker 1: have gotten out of there. Matt and Matt nurse to 1165 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:46,000 Speaker 1: the finger, Matt polished, I put a new nail on 1166 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 1: the thing. Yes, yes, no, but yeah, you gotta. I'm 1167 01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:57,479 Speaker 1: I'm taking my dating advice from Pad. Absolutely. Yeah, it's great. 1168 01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,720 Speaker 1: She's lived so many, so many and I love the hair, 1169 01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:04,320 Speaker 1: the different hairstyles. It wasn't that amazing? Amazing? The clute 1170 01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:10,080 Speaker 1: hairstyle is beyond and then the Barbarella. Yes, can we talk? Yes, 1171 01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:16,160 Speaker 1: we do? Forget how many, how how much icononography there 1172 01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:20,280 Speaker 1: is with Jane found in the Vietnam War, the Aerobic 1173 01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:25,560 Speaker 1: That was probably one of my first touchstones really, and 1174 01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:28,120 Speaker 1: I was very very young, and I remember my mom 1175 01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:32,400 Speaker 1: buying it. Yeah, the Bunch of Steel, Yes, I think 1176 01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:35,480 Speaker 1: so we had that. Did you watch soap operas? Yes, 1177 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:40,680 Speaker 1: all my children children, Erica Kane, Erica Caine. This is 1178 01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:50,840 Speaker 1: the first time, my first like touchstones of like womenhood, celebrity, idol, worship, fashion, hair. 1179 01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:54,920 Speaker 1: I mean when I started watching Erica Caine. She had 1180 01:07:55,040 --> 01:08:00,080 Speaker 1: a full on bouffant. She was, but she was the 1181 01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,959 Speaker 1: bitch goddess she was. She was the first, like fun 1182 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:09,040 Speaker 1: to watch diva's And I think, like people like Susan 1183 01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:10,560 Speaker 1: Lucci is like a punchline now because of it, and 1184 01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:14,560 Speaker 1: was going to say, Susan Lucci is a part of culture. 1185 01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:20,920 Speaker 1: She was, yeah, well, Susan Lucci Eric but my mother one. 1186 01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 1: I mean, she's nice. But other than the fact that 1187 01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,639 Speaker 1: she's a nice person, they're the same person in my mind. 1188 01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:27,320 Speaker 1: I met her, I thought I was going to shoot. 1189 01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:31,800 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, she is even the 1190 01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,360 Speaker 1: fact that my immigrant mother kept up with all my children, 1191 01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:36,960 Speaker 1: like just says it was. I don't know what it 1192 01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 1: was because and I don't know when the how I 1193 01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,280 Speaker 1: watched it except because I went to it. No, but 1194 01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 1: it was on at one right even though I guess 1195 01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:49,200 Speaker 1: everyone or like you know, Columbus or whatever, because like 1196 01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:51,479 Speaker 1: I got sent to India every summer and my mother 1197 01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,800 Speaker 1: worked full time, so I don't know like when you could, 1198 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:56,880 Speaker 1: but I knew enough like I would watch it, you know, 1199 01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:59,120 Speaker 1: every few weeks or months that I knew what the 1200 01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 1: hell was going on, and husband seven or eight she 1201 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,320 Speaker 1: ends up with husbands. It was fucking crazy. Yeah, there's 1202 01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:07,600 Speaker 1: just something. She had so many different lots and she 1203 01:09:07,720 --> 01:09:10,040 Speaker 1: was always want to watch and Susan she always played 1204 01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:12,920 Speaker 1: it for everything. It was worse. It was camp in 1205 01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:17,000 Speaker 1: the best way and just on and off the screen. 1206 01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:19,040 Speaker 1: It's like you keep up with the marriages. It's it's 1207 01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:21,559 Speaker 1: it's the Liz Taylor of it all. I also miss 1208 01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:25,320 Speaker 1: on TV. Yeah, I missed the camp of television, right, 1209 01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:27,479 Speaker 1: you know, it's sort of it looked like it was 1210 01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:31,000 Speaker 1: going to come back with Empire, yes, and it kind 1211 01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:35,000 Speaker 1: of didn't didn't. It feels like it's still on and 1212 01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:36,920 Speaker 1: I like people still watch it, but it's not as 1213 01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:40,720 Speaker 1: like culturally powerful as it was the first reason she 1214 01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:47,040 Speaker 1: was fully doing that was such a juicy juice. Well 1215 01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:49,120 Speaker 1: that's what I saw glitter as. I saw it as camp, 1216 01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:52,800 Speaker 1: But I think we were all in a different movie, 1217 01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:56,200 Speaker 1: like I saw it as care But you know you 1218 01:09:56,280 --> 01:10:02,280 Speaker 1: were greatly that you singing, Yeah, it's so good, and 1219 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:07,280 Speaker 1: I was actually because it's hard to sing bad. I 1220 01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:09,360 Speaker 1: mean I sing that normally, but it's hard to like 1221 01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,759 Speaker 1: trying to behind my mind, I was in a comedy. 1222 01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 1: You know like I don't know. I think I think 1223 01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:18,640 Speaker 1: you were. So the moment that you walk into that 1224 01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:22,599 Speaker 1: dressing room, like that first scene, I was just like, well, 1225 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:25,640 Speaker 1: like the way that you just back up, They're just 1226 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,360 Speaker 1: back up. Yes, they won't matter, like like turn Soak down, 1227 01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:32,360 Speaker 1: turn Billy away, Oh my god, it's my life. But 1228 01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:34,559 Speaker 1: just the way that Patton walks into the dressing room 1229 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:39,719 Speaker 1: with the manager, I'm just like that Howard. Of course, 1230 01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 1: I was like, that person knows the whole thing for me. 1231 01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:46,519 Speaker 1: Here's why I played that role the way I did. 1232 01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:50,960 Speaker 1: I think because you know I have I have lived 1233 01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:55,439 Speaker 1: my life until very recently very like in fear, not 1234 01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,360 Speaker 1: in fear, but I was really like insecure and felt 1235 01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:02,920 Speaker 1: like I didn't belong and in timidated by everyone else 1236 01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:06,640 Speaker 1: in the room. And so I know how I perceived 1237 01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:10,240 Speaker 1: those people, and that's what I was playing. I was 1238 01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,840 Speaker 1: playing one of those people who had all the power. 1239 01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:17,000 Speaker 1: And it was so fun to experience what that was like, 1240 01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:20,639 Speaker 1: you know, and to pretend at that can I ask 1241 01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:24,000 Speaker 1: you a character think about Silk? Yeah, do you think 1242 01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:27,519 Speaker 1: that Silk knew that Terrence Howard was using Maria's voice 1243 01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:29,720 Speaker 1: over her? And then she was in on it. She 1244 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:31,800 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, we'll use this ghost voice. And I 1245 01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:34,120 Speaker 1: don't think she cared. She didn't care. She was just out. 1246 01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:36,320 Speaker 1: She didn't want to know the details. Just make me 1247 01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:41,600 Speaker 1: a fucking start. You heard it from the source herself. 1248 01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:46,760 Speaker 1: We've all been asking about what silk motivations. Honestly, that's 1249 01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:48,960 Speaker 1: how I played it. You know, there's another scene in 1250 01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:53,040 Speaker 1: there which sadly gets cut where you know, there's a 1251 01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:59,360 Speaker 1: fight that happens between Mariah and Max Beasley's actor. Yeah, 1252 01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,200 Speaker 1: I don't know what he was doing in that movie either. 1253 01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, you couldn't find somebody from America within Like 1254 01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:08,519 Speaker 1: I love Maxi's you know, I used to live in London, 1255 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:10,479 Speaker 1: so I know him a little bit. Great actor and 1256 01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:12,080 Speaker 1: a great guy. But I was like, this is such 1257 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,680 Speaker 1: weird gasting. It's weird. They couldn't get like, yeah, it's weird. 1258 01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:19,679 Speaker 1: They couldn't get someone like like a McConaughey. It's actually 1259 01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:24,240 Speaker 1: he's doing Mary Mark drag, but the character was British. 1260 01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:29,479 Speaker 1: The character was literally Mark. He came in and did 1261 01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:31,879 Speaker 1: the whole mocky mock thing like they had a dialog 1262 01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:35,080 Speaker 1: coach on there. I think, So I don't know if 1263 01:12:35,120 --> 01:12:36,519 Speaker 1: it was for him, and there were a lot of 1264 01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:40,000 Speaker 1: people on set, but I mean, and this was when 1265 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 1: Maria was dating Louis Luis Miguel and you would see 1266 01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 1: there this is when people still use limousines. And maybe 1267 01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,000 Speaker 1: I can tell you from having just seen her in 1268 01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:57,760 Speaker 1: Goanas she uses it's like a black Okay, Well, these 1269 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:01,679 Speaker 1: were the days of like those really long and they're 1270 01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:04,680 Speaker 1: limousines like parked right next to each other. And then 1271 01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 1: he would go visit her in her trailer and they 1272 01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:10,599 Speaker 1: would deliver pizza boxes to it, and then like half 1273 01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,120 Speaker 1: an hour later, the pizza boxes would get thrown out 1274 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:16,040 Speaker 1: of the door for like like whatever the ones that 1275 01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:18,000 Speaker 1: hadn't eaten here, you guys going to have the rest. 1276 01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:23,679 Speaker 1: She had the craziest boyfriends there and then Derek J. Jeter. 1277 01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:26,240 Speaker 1: Did she go out with Derek Jeeter during the like 1278 01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:31,680 Speaker 1: butterfly eraw my all when that was a single, she was, well, 1279 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:35,960 Speaker 1: Mariah and that's been in was my number one. They're 1280 01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:39,320 Speaker 1: all these holes in my popular And when I was 1281 01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:41,320 Speaker 1: not only working, but you know, I was sent back 1282 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 1: to India evere summer, so like when hair came out, 1283 01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 1: I was not there for certain like Star Wars movies. 1284 01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:49,880 Speaker 1: I don't like Star Wars. I mean, I don't not 1285 01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:54,200 Speaker 1: like Star Wars. Actually just come for you. Well my 1286 01:13:54,800 --> 01:14:02,160 Speaker 1: prerequisite white mail over there. But you know, like it's 1287 01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:05,120 Speaker 1: just it's weird, like you know, so they're all these 1288 01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:07,479 Speaker 1: holes in pockets. So I must have missed Derek Jeter 1289 01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:13,479 Speaker 1: and everyone was the fact that they were both bi racial. 1290 01:14:14,280 --> 01:14:16,800 Speaker 1: That was like a story in the news. But I 1291 01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:18,880 Speaker 1: think they and then maybe even it was like something 1292 01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:20,800 Speaker 1: for one of them said like we understand each other 1293 01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 1: because they're both super famous and also bi racial. But 1294 01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:26,600 Speaker 1: that was like a thing or at least that my 1295 01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:30,600 Speaker 1: ten year old brain to this day. Um, maybe it 1296 01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:33,240 Speaker 1: was just some disc jockey talking about it. But Mariah 1297 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,040 Speaker 1: was my number one. Like when I was a little kid, 1298 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:40,559 Speaker 1: I would play the Butterfly album out and so did 1299 01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:45,280 Speaker 1: say You've got me feeling emotion. That was so that 1300 01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:49,800 Speaker 1: was But this was like once I started to actually 1301 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:53,600 Speaker 1: like music. It was like nineties seven and I I 1302 01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:57,160 Speaker 1: love that Butterfly album and so she was like at 1303 01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:00,439 Speaker 1: the height for me when later came out. So literally PANDMA. 1304 01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:04,880 Speaker 1: On the day of nine eleven, my mother pulled me 1305 01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:07,280 Speaker 1: out of school because of what was happening. We lived 1306 01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,800 Speaker 1: in Long Island, and I was like and I was like, 1307 01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:12,200 Speaker 1: are you taking me out? Because you know how excited 1308 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:16,639 Speaker 1: I am to get the Glitter album. My mom was like, no, um, 1309 01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,040 Speaker 1: something happened in the city and I don't want you 1310 01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:20,560 Speaker 1: in school. I want you home with me. And I 1311 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:23,120 Speaker 1: was like, well, we have to go get the Glitter album. 1312 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:26,360 Speaker 1: I'm so I've been so excited for September eleven one 1313 01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:29,960 Speaker 1: because that's the day that Glitter is coming out. And 1314 01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:32,439 Speaker 1: she was like, I think it's going to be closed, babe, 1315 01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:36,400 Speaker 1: and I was like no, and I freaked out. I 1316 01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:40,760 Speaker 1: said we have to go to the Tower Records and 1317 01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:46,000 Speaker 1: literally four literally, so I was like, I was like whatever. 1318 01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:47,840 Speaker 1: I was like, we must go. She was like, you 1319 01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:50,120 Speaker 1: don't understand. It's not going to be open. I was like, 1320 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:53,000 Speaker 1: if you don't take me, I'm gonna freak out. So 1321 01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,840 Speaker 1: then she took me to the store. The workers at 1322 01:15:55,840 --> 01:15:58,880 Speaker 1: the store were like, we are not We're gonna go home? 1323 01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:00,800 Speaker 1: Are you crazy? My mom was like, just give me 1324 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,320 Speaker 1: because like it's just gonna make anything for everyone. And 1325 01:16:05,400 --> 01:16:07,920 Speaker 1: we got it. And so, while like everyone was dealing 1326 01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:11,760 Speaker 1: with that day, I was listening to like you that 1327 01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:17,320 Speaker 1: freaking thing. It's a it's very good front to back. 1328 01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:26,120 Speaker 1: I love that ship. Yes, just like just like how 1329 01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,360 Speaker 1: my coming to New York story has pad mr fused 1330 01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:32,479 Speaker 1: in it. You're nine eleven story, but I'm deep in 1331 01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:34,960 Speaker 1: it in it, let me tell you. And I actually 1332 01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,200 Speaker 1: I don't think I saw them in theaters just because eleven, 1333 01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:43,240 Speaker 1: but I had the album and I still think hashtag 1334 01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:49,000 Speaker 1: Justice for Glitter just like it's true. Like I you know, 1335 01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:51,880 Speaker 1: one of my most proud things. There's this ice cream place, 1336 01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:56,680 Speaker 1: um called the Big a ice Cream Yeah we know, okay, well, um, 1337 01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:01,040 Speaker 1: one year for Balance, I say, they asked if they 1338 01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,040 Speaker 1: could do my recipe and all of their soft serve 1339 01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:08,000 Speaker 1: machine Oh my god, Rose pedal and they did a 1340 01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:12,240 Speaker 1: card of him one it's your recipe. Yeah, yeah, from 1341 01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:14,559 Speaker 1: one of my books. It was such a huge thing 1342 01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:17,040 Speaker 1: that I told like all my family. They were like 1343 01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:19,240 Speaker 1: all my friends. I think I sent like a general 1344 01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:23,200 Speaker 1: email like hey everybody, I don't even tell them when 1345 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm like on the Today Shop, I was like, there's 1346 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:29,639 Speaker 1: this ice cream store in the village and I made 1347 01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 1: them make I was like, you don't need have to 1348 01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:33,439 Speaker 1: pay me, just give me, like make me a cake 1349 01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:36,920 Speaker 1: for Christiana's birthday, because her birthday February. And I was 1350 01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:40,439 Speaker 1: so happy because the only other person they have done 1351 01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:44,080 Speaker 1: that with at the time was be Arthur, because they 1352 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:46,519 Speaker 1: do the Golden Girls stuff. They have all the Golden 1353 01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:54,960 Speaker 1: Girl's characters, and I have made it. Now. Maybe that's 1354 01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:59,120 Speaker 1: the title of m I can't let go of this 1355 01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:01,439 Speaker 1: thing that hadn't I said earlier where she was like, 1356 01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:05,320 Speaker 1: because like what the culture that you take in defines 1357 01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:07,680 Speaker 1: who you are. It's how you express yourself. And I 1358 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:09,600 Speaker 1: think that is like, I think that is why you 1359 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:13,760 Speaker 1: are so so well liked, well respected, is because you 1360 01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:16,799 Speaker 1: take in so much. You've you've processed so many different 1361 01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:20,040 Speaker 1: things from different areas and fields, and that that just 1362 01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:23,479 Speaker 1: makes you a complete person in other people's eyes. I mean, 1363 01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:27,640 Speaker 1: people come at you with respect but also re relatability 1364 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,800 Speaker 1: in this way that is so balanced and so so 1365 01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:32,960 Speaker 1: comforting and so wonderful. UM, so thank you for coming on. 1366 01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:39,800 Speaker 1: Thank you. I don't think so hunt Yes, which is 1367 01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:43,080 Speaker 1: our segment. That's UM Birth Many a live show. We 1368 01:18:43,200 --> 01:18:47,120 Speaker 1: are going on tour and you can buy tickets UM online. 1369 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:49,960 Speaker 1: We're on sale now. We're going to be in Portland, Seattle, 1370 01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:55,599 Speaker 1: San Francisco, Vancouver for JFL, Dallas, Austin, fer Moon Tower, Houston, 1371 01:18:56,000 --> 01:19:00,240 Speaker 1: d C, Boston, and Philly. So all those city used 1372 01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:02,439 Speaker 1: and probably more going to be added. We're very excited. 1373 01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:04,720 Speaker 1: It's gonna be February through April and we're gonna be 1374 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,040 Speaker 1: doing I don't think so honey live. So now it's 1375 01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:09,280 Speaker 1: I don't think so honey for one minute to rant 1376 01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:11,439 Speaker 1: against something in culture. Can I ask you when you're 1377 01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:16,400 Speaker 1: gonna be oh April nineteen for south By South but 1378 01:19:16,680 --> 01:19:18,960 Speaker 1: not for south By But things could happen when we 1379 01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:22,000 Speaker 1: happen where we go. Um yeah, if work, let's up, 1380 01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:26,360 Speaker 1: I will definitely if work, let's up, let's up, let's up. Yeah, yeah, 1381 01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:29,400 Speaker 1: you know how they let up? It was this thing 1382 01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:34,800 Speaker 1: after I did our comedy show at ascat TV. Yeah. 1383 01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:39,160 Speaker 1: I loved it so much. I love them so much 1384 01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:42,320 Speaker 1: the last time because I did improv with them years 1385 01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:46,639 Speaker 1: and years ago. I remember them, yes, and as part 1386 01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:49,240 Speaker 1: of this like you know thing because they were on 1387 01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:54,680 Speaker 1: because they did show that. This was like way back 1388 01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 1: when I was pregnant and I had a car toon 1389 01:19:56,880 --> 01:19:59,640 Speaker 1: on my way there, so like CV since then, but 1390 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:03,519 Speaker 1: it was great. Yeah, it was so cool. Yeah. They 1391 01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:05,360 Speaker 1: had to do storytelling you monologues and stuff, and then 1392 01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:08,000 Speaker 1: they improvised so fun. You're the perfect estra that I 1393 01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:13,599 Speaker 1: wanted to improvise with them, he liked. Of him, Oh 1394 01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:16,400 Speaker 1: my god, an improp star. Yeah. Okay, so Matt, Matt 1395 01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:18,000 Speaker 1: and I will go first that we have pad Matt, 1396 01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:19,240 Speaker 1: and then we'll close out. I have a good one, 1397 01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:21,320 Speaker 1: you have a good one. Here. This is Matt Rodgers 1398 01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:23,360 Speaker 1: is I don't think so, honey, and his time starts 1399 01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:26,320 Speaker 1: and now I don't think so honey. Anyone who says, oh, 1400 01:20:26,600 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 1: I don't know celebrities, like that's supposed to be a 1401 01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:31,360 Speaker 1: good thing to impress me that you don't care about 1402 01:20:31,439 --> 01:20:35,439 Speaker 1: pop culture. I'm specifically talking honey to my lift driver 1403 01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:37,640 Speaker 1: in l A, who was the chattiest of them all, 1404 01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:39,840 Speaker 1: and you know they get chatty on the lifts, and 1405 01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:42,639 Speaker 1: l A, who said to me after I got out 1406 01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:44,160 Speaker 1: of a podcast, said what were you doing? I said, 1407 01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:45,880 Speaker 1: I was on a podcast where I talked about pop culture. 1408 01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:48,879 Speaker 1: He says, oh, I don't know celebrities. And then somehow 1409 01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:51,400 Speaker 1: Ben Affleck gets brought up and he all of a 1410 01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:55,920 Speaker 1: sudden has a big opinion on Casey Afflet and Manchester 1411 01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,160 Speaker 1: by the Sea. And I'm like, okay, so if you 1412 01:20:58,320 --> 01:21:00,360 Speaker 1: don't know celebrities, why the hell well do you have 1413 01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:03,759 Speaker 1: an opinion on Casey Affleck and this niche ass movie. 1414 01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:06,759 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why. It's because you only said 1415 01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:10,639 Speaker 1: that to try to impress, because it's the straight male 1416 01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:14,720 Speaker 1: thing that's like heater thing, like, wow, we're too cool 1417 01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:16,920 Speaker 1: for pop culture. If you think you're too cool to 1418 01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:18,960 Speaker 1: know what's going on in the world, I have another 1419 01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,360 Speaker 1: thing coming for you, honey. I don't think so, Honey, 1420 01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:24,160 Speaker 1: you know about Casey Affleck, you know about culture. Stop 1421 01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:29,600 Speaker 1: lying to me bit and oh my god, spirited. I 1422 01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:31,400 Speaker 1: don't know if I can do this is I don't 1423 01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:35,800 Speaker 1: think when you were talking about what were you talking about? 1424 01:21:35,880 --> 01:21:38,639 Speaker 1: Just you got fired up about nachos, about the movie 1425 01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:42,280 Speaker 1: theater Nachos? I did, But I think I have something better. So, 1426 01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:45,040 Speaker 1: but but can you believe I can't believe you think 1427 01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:49,000 Speaker 1: it's like cool. Celebrities doesn't mean pop cultures exactly. Pop 1428 01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:53,200 Speaker 1: culture is so much more than celebrities to do with people. 1429 01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:57,320 Speaker 1: I hate that word celebrity too, because everyone's a celebrity, 1430 01:21:58,080 --> 01:22:01,120 Speaker 1: you know, everyone is. That's the problem. That's like five 1431 01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:05,880 Speaker 1: minutes and their celebrity. I mean, Matt. I like to 1432 01:22:05,960 --> 01:22:09,240 Speaker 1: say people of note people, but I will say Twitter 1433 01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:12,320 Speaker 1: and Instagram, thank you for my new blue check. Got 1434 01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:15,080 Speaker 1: you got blue check on Twitter too? Yes, congrats, thank 1435 01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:19,720 Speaker 1: you thing. You probably been verified since the age of one, 1436 01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:26,920 Speaker 1: so you don't even care started started last. I was 1437 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,320 Speaker 1: born before Twitter. My fame was born before Twitter and 1438 01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:36,800 Speaker 1: the verified life. Okay, so this is Bowen Yanks. I 1439 01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:39,200 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey, And as time starts now, I 1440 01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:42,600 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. White elephant, honey, this is the 1441 01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:47,479 Speaker 1: Christmas season, do not Yes, white elephants are structurally flawed. 1442 01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:50,040 Speaker 1: It's for the fact that other people can steal. Is 1443 01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:54,040 Speaker 1: just crushes people's dreams. And I am all for a 1444 01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:57,680 Speaker 1: secret Santa with no cap, with no price cap. It 1445 01:22:57,840 --> 01:22:59,360 Speaker 1: just means as long as everyone's coming in with the 1446 01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:01,559 Speaker 1: understanding that it's not about the price of the gift, 1447 01:23:01,640 --> 01:23:04,000 Speaker 1: it's about what, you know what, the sentimentality of it, 1448 01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:08,640 Speaker 1: the feeling of it. Whatever. I think white elephant is 1449 01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:11,960 Speaker 1: study sexually insane. I was just part of the New 1450 01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:14,840 Speaker 1: York Magazine strategist Celebrity White elephant gift exchange. I got 1451 01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:18,559 Speaker 1: gorgeous a bars locks um from someone. It was great. 1452 01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:21,880 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's locks so I'll eat it vacuum 1453 01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:24,840 Speaker 1: had they'll ship it to me in a box. I 1454 01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:28,960 Speaker 1: just think gift exchanges should be I think, I think 1455 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:31,599 Speaker 1: out with white elephant just Secret Santa's Only. White elephant 1456 01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,960 Speaker 1: is crazy. It's not personal, it's randomized five seconds not personal. 1457 01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:39,280 Speaker 1: It's literally impersonal and therefore Secret Santas only. I'm a 1458 01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:41,719 Speaker 1: purist at heart. That's my minute, and that's one minute. 1459 01:23:41,760 --> 01:23:44,240 Speaker 1: I agree with you. The white elephant thing is crazy 1460 01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:46,519 Speaker 1: because if I if I was given a gift, I like, 1461 01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:56,200 Speaker 1: the gift is support and I didn't know if I 1462 01:23:56,280 --> 01:24:00,560 Speaker 1: have too much champagne for the mind, A grateful for 1463 01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:04,640 Speaker 1: the ground, so grateful for the champions, I don't know. 1464 01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:07,800 Speaker 1: I don't like white elephants. I don't like Secret Santa's either. 1465 01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:11,360 Speaker 1: I think, you know, gifts should only be given when 1466 01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 1: really felt like there's a reason to give a gift. 1467 01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:16,960 Speaker 1: We don't. In my family. We only give gifts to 1468 01:24:17,000 --> 01:24:19,799 Speaker 1: the kids. And everyone wants to know, you know, Christian 1469 01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:23,200 Speaker 1: wants and I'm like, she doesn't need anything about their 1470 01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:28,839 Speaker 1: pants which she keeps looking. And she's a New Yorker. 1471 01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:31,960 Speaker 1: She wants to become a pop star. She does, and 1472 01:24:32,040 --> 01:24:34,760 Speaker 1: she will become when yet Yes, all right, listen, this 1473 01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:38,439 Speaker 1: is Poma. I don't think so, honey. And your time 1474 01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:42,040 Speaker 1: starts now. Okay, did you steal that from me when 1475 01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,760 Speaker 1: time starts now? Because that's what I mean. Sure, let's 1476 01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:48,080 Speaker 1: say we did. We still your time starts now, we'll 1477 01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:50,320 Speaker 1: say let's say, yes, we still love from you. But 1478 01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:52,080 Speaker 1: all you have to do is say I don't think so, honey, 1479 01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:55,320 Speaker 1: and go for you steal this from us? Ready, and 1480 01:24:55,800 --> 01:24:59,680 Speaker 1: your time starts now? I don't think so, honey. I 1481 01:24:59,800 --> 01:25:03,200 Speaker 1: have to tell you what I really get upset about is, um, 1482 01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:08,000 Speaker 1: I've been getting a little bit of slut shamming fan mail, 1483 01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:12,519 Speaker 1: which I guess is not I almost posted one of 1484 01:25:12,600 --> 01:25:14,080 Speaker 1: these letters, but then I was like, you know what, 1485 01:25:14,640 --> 01:25:17,720 Speaker 1: I'm not going to but I got three. You know, 1486 01:25:17,800 --> 01:25:20,439 Speaker 1: the show started two weeks ago, so we've had two 1487 01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:24,160 Speaker 1: episodes on air, and after the first episode I got 1488 01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:27,000 Speaker 1: a letter about you know how I was wearing something 1489 01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:31,679 Speaker 1: too provocative and I was like, what the hell. First 1490 01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:33,600 Speaker 1: of all, they're like, you know, the show is not 1491 01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:37,040 Speaker 1: about you it's about the chefs. I'm like, well, then, 1492 01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:40,280 Speaker 1: why are you talking about my nipples? I don't think. Yes, 1493 01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:43,439 Speaker 1: it's just like you're the one fixated on them. I 1494 01:25:43,560 --> 01:25:45,760 Speaker 1: am not. And I like to dress the way I 1495 01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:48,000 Speaker 1: like to dress. And by the way, I thought everybody 1496 01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:54,280 Speaker 1: had nipples seconds, Okay, I really don't understand that. And 1497 01:25:54,520 --> 01:25:56,360 Speaker 1: I just want to say that I can be a 1498 01:25:56,439 --> 01:25:58,559 Speaker 1: feminist and show my nipples too, And I don't think 1499 01:25:58,560 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 1: it's fair that you boys get to show your nipples 1500 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:03,240 Speaker 1: and I'm not showing my nipples anyway. And I don't 1501 01:26:03,280 --> 01:26:10,880 Speaker 1: think one minute quote unquote fan mail unbelievable. And also there, 1502 01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:13,840 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not about the look, but the hat 1503 01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:19,879 Speaker 1: that you were Television is a visual medium and otherwise 1504 01:26:19,920 --> 01:26:23,160 Speaker 1: it's a stainless steel kitchen, and most people in coats 1505 01:26:23,360 --> 01:26:26,880 Speaker 1: chef coats, you know what I mean. Like, I like 1506 01:26:27,040 --> 01:26:29,439 Speaker 1: to dress the way I like to dress. Like like, 1507 01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:31,160 Speaker 1: it's not about your clothes. I'm like, that's right, So 1508 01:26:31,280 --> 01:26:32,800 Speaker 1: I can dress how I want. I'm at in the 1509 01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:36,240 Speaker 1: kitchen cooking, but that fascinator was happulous. I was going 1510 01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:38,320 Speaker 1: to say, I was going to compliment the fascinator that 1511 01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:41,559 Speaker 1: look so chic. That was such a good triumph. Albert 1512 01:26:41,680 --> 01:26:44,200 Speaker 1: did a great job that day. That was a Brandon 1513 01:26:44,320 --> 01:26:49,839 Speaker 1: Maxwell Maxwell Designer jumpsuit. And you know, we tried everything. 1514 01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:54,920 Speaker 1: We tried band aids, we tried silicone. Also, our friend 1515 01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:56,840 Speaker 1: Dave wants us to tell you it was important to 1516 01:26:56,960 --> 01:26:58,960 Speaker 1: him that we tell you that you were a ponytail. 1517 01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:04,800 Speaker 1: That fucking slay it for him. Thank you want. The 1518 01:27:04,880 --> 01:27:07,080 Speaker 1: only thing I could think of was like, oh, I 1519 01:27:07,160 --> 01:27:12,280 Speaker 1: have great hair this season. I have like yeah, yeah, 1520 01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:15,400 Speaker 1: my girlfriend Genie Genie who is my hairdresser on the show, 1521 01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:17,880 Speaker 1: she also does me, you know in New York. Whenever 1522 01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:19,960 Speaker 1: I've read carpet or what if she's fantastic, we just 1523 01:27:20,080 --> 01:27:22,479 Speaker 1: get bored. Yes, I'm like, I don't know, funck it. 1524 01:27:22,640 --> 01:27:29,759 Speaker 1: Let's you know, like all the way to the floor. Yeah, yeah, 1525 01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:31,800 Speaker 1: we have done like you're going to see there's the 1526 01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:36,680 Speaker 1: twenties episode like episode it's a great Bellman dress and 1527 01:27:37,760 --> 01:27:42,280 Speaker 1: a real like Louise Brooks BG. Yeah, it's beautiful and 1528 01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:44,000 Speaker 1: it's just like it gets you know, we've been doing 1529 01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:45,559 Speaker 1: the show for a long time. Like I said, it's 1530 01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:48,160 Speaker 1: like an old marriage. So this woman was like, I 1531 01:27:48,280 --> 01:27:50,439 Speaker 1: know it really affected me. I was honestly, like really 1532 01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:53,200 Speaker 1: upset for two days because she said I'm ashamed to 1533 01:27:53,320 --> 01:27:58,080 Speaker 1: watch the show with my teenage and I was like, 1534 01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:01,880 Speaker 1: I really took it her personally because you know, I 1535 01:28:02,000 --> 01:28:04,920 Speaker 1: have a daughter, so and i find myself on top 1536 01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:06,559 Speaker 1: Shop being one of the few things you can watch 1537 01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:08,519 Speaker 1: with all your family, and I'm just like, you know, 1538 01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:11,400 Speaker 1: we're going over no no, And I just felt like, 1539 01:28:11,960 --> 01:28:14,519 Speaker 1: you know, I think I've done my share for for 1540 01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:19,920 Speaker 1: the ladies, you know, as far as fighting, Like I 1541 01:28:20,080 --> 01:28:23,000 Speaker 1: was like, I was so mad. You know, I think 1542 01:28:23,120 --> 01:28:27,200 Speaker 1: we also we have such a weird relationship to sexuality 1543 01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:32,320 Speaker 1: and naturalness. You know that we've forgotten, we've forgotten that 1544 01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:35,880 Speaker 1: it's it's a normal part of life. But also but 1545 01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:39,080 Speaker 1: not not that, not that the conversation should even be 1546 01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:42,479 Speaker 1: about sexuality in that moment, because it's not. I watched 1547 01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:47,320 Speaker 1: those I've watched episodes where I'm like, oh, Padma looks nice, 1548 01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:49,360 Speaker 1: great and what about the food. I mean, it can 1549 01:28:49,439 --> 01:28:52,800 Speaker 1: coexist in this space way. People are not just one thing. 1550 01:28:53,120 --> 01:28:59,800 Speaker 1: We're all layered, complicated, multifaceted, dimensional human being, multitudinous people. 1551 01:28:59,840 --> 01:29:03,360 Speaker 1: And it's what Matt said that speaks more that's her 1552 01:29:03,439 --> 01:29:05,439 Speaker 1: issue and has nothing to do with you. And also 1553 01:29:05,520 --> 01:29:07,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but there probably is something to do with 1554 01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:10,880 Speaker 1: the fact that, like, like, but when when certain women 1555 01:29:10,920 --> 01:29:14,439 Speaker 1: wear certain things, people are outraged and if Taylor Swift, 1556 01:29:14,479 --> 01:29:16,800 Speaker 1: where is that ship all the time? And it is 1557 01:29:16,880 --> 01:29:19,080 Speaker 1: about women of color, and it is about women with 1558 01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:21,479 Speaker 1: certain body types when they were certain things, like when 1559 01:29:21,520 --> 01:29:25,679 Speaker 1: they were alter tops, etcetera. It's a fucking scandal. Meanwhile, literally, 1560 01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:28,120 Speaker 1: they're not wearing anything different than a lot of other women. 1561 01:29:28,200 --> 01:29:30,439 Speaker 1: So it's like, seriously, sit and spin and I don't 1562 01:29:30,439 --> 01:29:32,600 Speaker 1: think so honey, that woman and she's not sending a 1563 01:29:32,680 --> 01:29:35,439 Speaker 1: good example for her daughter. Also, I think I'm judged 1564 01:29:35,600 --> 01:29:38,000 Speaker 1: much more harshly now than I was when I was 1565 01:29:38,120 --> 01:29:42,240 Speaker 1: younger because I have spoken out about women's issues. It's like, 1566 01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:45,160 Speaker 1: you know, for certain people, I can't be a serious 1567 01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:48,760 Speaker 1: thinker or somebody who you know stands for these things 1568 01:29:48,840 --> 01:29:51,640 Speaker 1: but also likes to look good in a bikini, like 1569 01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:56,840 Speaker 1: you know, can coexist and do coexist, and they will 1570 01:29:56,840 --> 01:30:03,120 Speaker 1: continue to exist. They are This was the episode. I 1571 01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:06,200 Speaker 1: had so much fun and this is so great. I 1572 01:30:06,280 --> 01:30:08,000 Speaker 1: feel like if I'm oh, wait, what we have to 1573 01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:10,400 Speaker 1: ask you? What did you do Union Square last. Oh 1574 01:30:10,439 --> 01:30:12,880 Speaker 1: my god, oh my god, Yes, thank you for asking. 1575 01:30:13,080 --> 01:30:16,960 Speaker 1: I I got the biggest sugar rush of my life. 1576 01:30:17,000 --> 01:30:18,639 Speaker 1: I felt like Daffy Deaf for the rest of the day. 1577 01:30:18,720 --> 01:30:24,040 Speaker 1: I hosted and judged this holiday bake off Kellogg's. So 1578 01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:26,200 Speaker 1: I go to the Union Square green Market and I 1579 01:30:26,320 --> 01:30:29,120 Speaker 1: go there like twice a week to buy whatever vegetables 1580 01:30:29,160 --> 01:30:31,320 Speaker 1: and brand and stuff. And I always saw this little 1581 01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:33,559 Speaker 1: Kellogg's logo across the street by Barnes and No when 1582 01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:34,600 Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell is that? And I 1583 01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:37,400 Speaker 1: actually thought it was like their corporate headquarters. It's actually 1584 01:30:37,439 --> 01:30:41,080 Speaker 1: a cafe you go into and it has like a 1585 01:30:42,400 --> 01:30:45,920 Speaker 1: cereal bar, like sixteen handles like all of that. That's 1586 01:30:45,960 --> 01:30:49,320 Speaker 1: my dreams, WiFi and their couches. It's like, you know 1587 01:30:49,439 --> 01:30:53,360 Speaker 1: Central Perk from friends. That's really a cereal bar. It's 1588 01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:56,880 Speaker 1: really funny. Anyway, they reached out to me and they 1589 01:30:56,960 --> 01:30:59,240 Speaker 1: asked me to do this, and I was like, yeah, sure, okay, 1590 01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:03,400 Speaker 1: And so these four finalists had to make a dessert 1591 01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:08,000 Speaker 1: using any Kellogg's product cereal at least Kellogg's cereal in 1592 01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:11,640 Speaker 1: their holiday dessert. And so I did that just a 1593 01:31:11,680 --> 01:31:14,519 Speaker 1: couple of days ago and the winning dish was this 1594 01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:19,479 Speaker 1: amazing pear and very frosted flakes tart, and she won 1595 01:31:19,600 --> 01:31:21,560 Speaker 1: because she did this genius thing. First of all, she 1596 01:31:21,680 --> 01:31:24,840 Speaker 1: ground up the frosted flakes and use them in the 1597 01:31:24,920 --> 01:31:27,760 Speaker 1: crust of the tart. And also like these short red 1598 01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:30,600 Speaker 1: star cookies that she used to decorate powdered sugar. But 1599 01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:37,240 Speaker 1: she also made the cream custard with um Kellogg's frosted 1600 01:31:37,320 --> 01:31:40,559 Speaker 1: flakes soaked in the heavy cream until they got super 1601 01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:44,479 Speaker 1: soggy for twenty minutes, then strained it, then use that 1602 01:31:45,120 --> 01:31:49,200 Speaker 1: so you have cereal milk flavored custard under the fruit, 1603 01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:52,439 Speaker 1: which is sliced razor thin with nothing but a pairing knife. 1604 01:31:52,479 --> 01:31:56,400 Speaker 1: She didn't Madaline. No Mandoline, I asked her because I 1605 01:31:56,520 --> 01:31:59,640 Speaker 1: was like these you are really o c D. And 1606 01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:03,160 Speaker 1: it was so beautiful. That's amazing beautiful. You can you 1607 01:32:03,240 --> 01:32:05,920 Speaker 1: go on the red side if you want to. If 1608 01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:08,240 Speaker 1: you have a death bullish and want to reproduce this, 1609 01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:12,240 Speaker 1: we have to go to this. I think we gotta go. 1610 01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:17,760 Speaker 1: I will meet you there on Monday. When's your Friday? Now? 1611 01:32:18,000 --> 01:32:22,160 Speaker 1: The market isn't on Tuesday and Thursday. Usually they're between 1612 01:32:22,680 --> 01:32:24,960 Speaker 1: eleven thirty and twelve thirty love that will buy Our 1613 01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:26,840 Speaker 1: preserves are bread and then well, oh my god, there's 1614 01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:29,240 Speaker 1: such good preserves. They have a chili jam, which is 1615 01:32:29,320 --> 01:32:32,240 Speaker 1: the hottest fire hell have an arrow jam. It loves 1616 01:32:32,400 --> 01:32:35,679 Speaker 1: so delicious. Try chili jam on toast with peanut butter. 1617 01:32:36,160 --> 01:32:43,639 Speaker 1: You will die A spice spicy queen. I mean different 1618 01:32:43,640 --> 01:32:45,800 Speaker 1: than hot hot. No, no, no, I like it hot. 1619 01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean now, I like like. I can't take it 1620 01:32:48,479 --> 01:32:51,680 Speaker 1: as hot because my digestive tech has really taken a 1621 01:32:51,760 --> 01:32:56,400 Speaker 1: beating from from sixteen seasons, so I have to be, 1622 01:32:56,720 --> 01:32:58,599 Speaker 1: you know, a little mindful of that. But I still 1623 01:32:59,000 --> 01:33:03,160 Speaker 1: I love making hot sauces at home. I love making chutney's. 1624 01:33:03,240 --> 01:33:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm a big condiment girl, because if you have good 1625 01:33:05,280 --> 01:33:07,559 Speaker 1: condiments in the first you can just fling a dollar 1626 01:33:07,840 --> 01:33:10,559 Speaker 1: something in a frying pan, grilled some fish or chicken thigh, 1627 01:33:11,360 --> 01:33:13,720 Speaker 1: you know, will some spinach in the pan, juices. And 1628 01:33:14,800 --> 01:33:16,760 Speaker 1: I actually am so thrilled that we did not do 1629 01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:18,600 Speaker 1: the grilled cheese thing, because I don't want you to 1630 01:33:18,760 --> 01:33:21,960 Speaker 1: judge me making food. It is not up to tell 1631 01:33:22,080 --> 01:33:25,080 Speaker 1: you something. I don't want to talk about that first lady, badly, 1632 01:33:25,280 --> 01:33:29,000 Speaker 1: but I don't want to. I don't want to do 1633 01:33:29,600 --> 01:33:31,760 Speaker 1: Michelle Obama because I love her and worship the girl 1634 01:33:31,800 --> 01:33:35,080 Speaker 1: and she walks on. But I read the preface of 1635 01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:40,920 Speaker 1: her autobiography, Becoming, and I almost it was like nails 1636 01:33:40,960 --> 01:33:44,080 Speaker 1: on a chalkboard that I was reading that Michelle Obama 1637 01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:52,360 Speaker 1: microwave to grilled cheese, and I was like, no, I 1638 01:33:52,479 --> 01:33:54,519 Speaker 1: just care about her image. Just fine. But I was 1639 01:33:54,600 --> 01:33:56,559 Speaker 1: just like, no, girl, let me show you the way. 1640 01:33:56,760 --> 01:34:00,560 Speaker 1: This is an opportunity. It's an opportunity for you to 1641 01:34:00,800 --> 01:34:02,880 Speaker 1: just to just strike up a relationship with her where 1642 01:34:02,920 --> 01:34:05,080 Speaker 1: you show her the way. Oh. I do have to 1643 01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:07,639 Speaker 1: ask Patma, have you seen this video that's this old 1644 01:34:07,720 --> 01:34:12,040 Speaker 1: clip from Oprah speaking of Oprah where this woman. Yes, 1645 01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:14,240 Speaker 1: I posted it. I know what you're talking about. The 1646 01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:17,160 Speaker 1: million dollars million dollar chicken thing. I think it's so funny. 1647 01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:21,840 Speaker 1: I used it as a meme's so because I would 1648 01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:25,000 Speaker 1: have been I think the same thing so many times 1649 01:34:25,080 --> 01:34:31,280 Speaker 1: in a day. And the thing is, I thank God 1650 01:34:31,520 --> 01:34:35,519 Speaker 1: and we have to end on that now. Oh my god, Padma, 1651 01:34:35,680 --> 01:34:38,320 Speaker 1: thank you so much for being here. The show is 1652 01:34:38,479 --> 01:34:40,640 Speaker 1: top chef. I mean, you know what, you love it 1653 01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:43,679 Speaker 1: and you know Padma, you love Padma, Um. I want 1654 01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:46,760 Speaker 1: you to listen to my memoir. I really do. I 1655 01:34:47,040 --> 01:34:49,719 Speaker 1: mean I'm going to. And you said becoming And actually 1656 01:34:49,720 --> 01:34:51,920 Speaker 1: I know for a fact that my mother got me 1657 01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:58,479 Speaker 1: becoming for Christmas, but I would imagine she is. Um. Well, anyway, 1658 01:34:58,600 --> 01:35:00,120 Speaker 1: we'll close out with the song as we all is? 1659 01:35:00,240 --> 01:35:03,320 Speaker 1: Do you know you will? Here we go? Here, we 1660 01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:14,759 Speaker 1: got myself a lover come every times, good daddy, There's 1661 01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:28,599 Speaker 1: wherever where we go with Delirium Sime. This has been 1662 01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:33,120 Speaker 1: a Forever Dog production executive produced by Brett Bahum, Joe Cilio, 1663 01:35:33,479 --> 01:35:37,920 Speaker 1: and Alex Ramsey. 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