WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Friends Schmends

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<v Speaker 1>second Update. Today's second date update should be a lesson

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody out there, something that I've been saying for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. When you're out with your friends and

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<v Speaker 1>there's an awkward moment or you're saying goodbye to them,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do like a fist bump or a handshake. Always

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<v Speaker 1>kiss them on the mouth, preferably French style and passionately.

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<v Speaker 1>Always kiss your friends. Whatever, it's a guy friend, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend, it's somebody that you're doing business with, it's

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<v Speaker 1>man's best friend, to your animal, whatever. Always kiss your

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<v Speaker 1>friend because if you don't, you're gonna wind up regretting

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<v Speaker 1>it at some point. And that's what happened to Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>who is on the phone to do a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right now. He's kicking himself because he didn't make

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<v Speaker 1>out with his friend like everybody knows he should do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that right, Mike? Well kind of yeah, okay, kind of, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me what happened. Yeah, Well, her name's Arin, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've been friends for years. You know, we've always hung out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's never been anything more than friends because she's always

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<v Speaker 1>been dating and I was dating someone at the time

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<v Speaker 1>too for a while. But yeah, I mean I've always

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<v Speaker 1>found her attractive, you know, I've always played with that idea.

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<v Speaker 1>But recently we've both been single for a while, and

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<v Speaker 1>I started kind of flirting with that idea of maybe

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<v Speaker 1>there's something more here. So would you say to ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out? We both weren't doing anything for the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>or other friends had dates and stuff, So I just asked, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to hang out, you know, just this

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<v Speaker 1>is friends, and she said yes. Did you have any

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<v Speaker 1>alter your motive? Like, were you planning on trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be romantic with her? I mean I would be cool

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<v Speaker 1>if something happened, but I wasn't really expecting anything. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you think that she knows that you like

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<v Speaker 1>her if you asked her to hang out as just friends. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>once we were on the date, it happened a little

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<v Speaker 1>differently than I thought it would, Like she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>came off a lot more flirty than I expected, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, giving me prolonged eye contact and all that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds weird, but like more so than I'm used to.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she just caught her staring at me a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and well that sounds creepy. More than anything, it wasn't creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>So you felt like she was flirting with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, touching her hair a lot, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>laughing with me a lot. You know, the non verbal

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<v Speaker 1>things that girls do to show that they're interested in you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the nonverbal girls. That's just did you reciprocate

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<v Speaker 1>any of the flirting? Yeah, I mean the things started

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<v Speaker 1>getting flirted between us, which was really cool. We're laughing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, We're having a lot of fun, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. It just it felt like we were

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<v Speaker 1>a couple. So it felt good. But your email says

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<v Speaker 1>the real issue came when you dropped off at her house.

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<v Speaker 1>Right There was a moment right before she went in

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<v Speaker 1>where she kind of lingered at the door and I hesitated,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think she wanted me to kiss her, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't. And you know that's how the night ended.

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<v Speaker 1>We just said goodbye to each other. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean by always kiss your friends anytime there's some

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<v Speaker 1>awkward silence just right on the lips, so you could

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<v Speaker 1>tell that she wanted to kiss you. I think so

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm reading the signals right. But you know, ever

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<v Speaker 1>since then, I kind of regret that I didn't make

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<v Speaker 1>a move. Are you scared that maybe you're not reading

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<v Speaker 1>the signals right? Well now, I don't know. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling because we've been texting back and forth and

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to get like a second hang out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a second date with her, and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't seem open to that. I mean, she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>giving me the run around. Um what she's saying to you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the first time she's I asked if she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out, she's like, oh, I don't know, l ol u.

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<v Speaker 1>And then other times she's like, oh, I'm busy, I've

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<v Speaker 1>worked tonight. I don't know. I literally haven't seen her

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<v Speaker 1>since then. Are you Are you going to be okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really upset about this. Well, yeah, it's just, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm just hoping for what I want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a girlfriend once called me in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of hanging out with one of our mutual friends, and

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<v Speaker 1>she called me and said Oh my god, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just accidentally on a date with him. Fast forward

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<v Speaker 1>five years and they're married with two kids. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I could see that actually happening to us. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been friends for so long and in the end

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<v Speaker 1>I could see us working out together. Okay, So basically,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna find out if you can date her romantically

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<v Speaker 1>or you're about to get friend zoned live on the radio. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and thanks for putting it that way, No problem. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. All right, Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in for the second part of the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date update. Mike is on the phone and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call his friend Aaron today. They've been friends for

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<v Speaker 1>a while, ended up hanging out one night and he

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<v Speaker 1>felt like things were getting more romantic. There was an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward moment where he thought that she wanted to get kissed.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't take her up on it, and now he

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<v Speaker 1>feels like that's where he screwed up, Like he should

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<v Speaker 1>have kissed her, should have seized the moment and taken

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<v Speaker 1>advantage of that opportunity, but he didn't do it. And

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<v Speaker 1>now she's like, Okay, well maybe things are weird. Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to give her a call? Yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do this. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Aaron please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Aaron. Hey, Aaron, how are you. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? I'm calling you because you recently went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with one of our listeners. Okay, his

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<v Speaker 1>name is Mike. Mike called you, Yeah, he did. He

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<v Speaker 1>actually emailed us and told us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your date. And he also says that you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back now where you are, like, you're always busy

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't hang out, so you wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>call you and find out why. Um, okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>this is a little weird because we didn't really have

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<v Speaker 1>a date. So when you guys hung out the last time,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a date. It was just a friend's hangout.

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<v Speaker 1>So this doesn't really make any sense to me. Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because he emailed us and said that during your little

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<v Speaker 1>hangout as friends, he thought maybe you were giving him

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<v Speaker 1>signals like you wanted more. It's all as fun as

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. When you say that about somebody in they

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<v Speaker 1>end up laughing when they hear it. Are you joking

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<v Speaker 1>with me right now? No, I'm not joking with you

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<v Speaker 1>at all. He asked us to call you because he

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<v Speaker 1>felt like the friends date that you were on turned

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<v Speaker 1>into more than a friend's date. This is so bizarre.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you do you really have like no clue at

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<v Speaker 1>all that he has like maybe a little crush on you. Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>well there was something, but I wasn't going to mention

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<v Speaker 1>it to you because it was going to be really

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing for him. Oh that's perfect. Then we'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>hear it. We definitely want to know. Now I can't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Is it reason you're not like calling him back? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah pretty much? Okay, can you tell us

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<v Speaker 1>what it is he wants to know? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know too, but mostly he wants to know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he emailed us to call you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what am I say? He just told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys hung out and had fun, and then when you

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<v Speaker 1>got back to your place at your door, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a moment where you guys are both kind of quiet

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<v Speaker 1>and it felt like you might want to kiss. And

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<v Speaker 1>then he was like, I should have taken her up

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<v Speaker 1>on the opportunity and kissed her, but I didn't, And know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm stupid for not doing it. Guys

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<v Speaker 1>are so dumb. I guess I can agree with that

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part. So what's the story from your side?

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<v Speaker 1>So we've been joking around all night. We have like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, friend banter. It's nothing, it's it's fun. But

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<v Speaker 1>things got a little weird in the car at home.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, oh my god, could you imagine if we

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<v Speaker 1>got married? Whoa? But he was like, in a friendly way, well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I first I thought it was a joke, and I

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<v Speaker 1>laughed at it, and then he laughed back. But then

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<v Speaker 1>it started to get even worse. What do you mean

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<v Speaker 1>by that? He just kept going like, I want a

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<v Speaker 1>big family. He started explaining that there's a house on

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<v Speaker 1>the market two doors down from his parents' house, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was like he was planning out your entire future. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even know the half of it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at first I was still laughing, and then he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to have three girls and one boy, and

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<v Speaker 1>every time we're going to go in vacation. So this

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<v Speaker 1>was more than just like a couple of friends joking about, like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>how crazy it would it be of you and I

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<v Speaker 1>are a couple. Yeah, I mean I stopped laughing, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's going on and on about how it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be planned out, and I'm like, this is way too much.

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<v Speaker 1>He thought about this way too much. Did you try

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<v Speaker 1>to like stop him from talking about it at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you just gonna let it go? And then

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say something, and then he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>should we do private schooling for the kids? What? And

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first time he has ever like come

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<v Speaker 1>on to you at all. I mean all friends were

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but it's innocent, and I thought this

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<v Speaker 1>was innocent, and it just took a turn and kept going.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that why you've been telling him that you're

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<v Speaker 1>too busy to hang out lately. I think it's best

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<v Speaker 1>if we let this die down a little bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or you just bite the bullet and get married already. Hey, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, I would love to tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>Mike is actually on the other line listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious, yep, hen I'll be going, Oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really I'm really sorry that you had to hear the say.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I was really just joking in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, like we were laughing about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you took it too far, and I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty clear that you are curious. Well, No, I wasn't like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this was just a big you know, these

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<v Speaker 1>were what if you know, I thought we were both

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<v Speaker 1>laughing at it, okay at the start, but after a

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes you were the only one laughing. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>not notice that she had quieted down when you started

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<v Speaker 1>talking about your family and if the kids you go

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<v Speaker 1>to private school and everything else? Mike, No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we were just having a conversation, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember it that way. I thought we were

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<v Speaker 1>just having a good time. On the way home to

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<v Speaker 1>your house, you asked me what color you wanted our

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom painted. You went that deep, Mike, that one was

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<v Speaker 1>a joke. That one was a joke, so that that

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<v Speaker 1>one was a joke, but the others weren't a joke. Mike, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I we're both single, we're getting older.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm is just you know, these what ifs. I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>if I went too far, but I really was. You

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<v Speaker 1>asked you what kind of diamond cut I wanted in

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<v Speaker 1>my ring. Oh my god, Mike, are you having like

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<v Speaker 1>some regret right now about going so fast? So quick

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<v Speaker 1>with her? It's not fast. I mean we've been friends

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<v Speaker 1>for a really long time and she was giving you

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<v Speaker 1>were giving me signals like like you were flirting with me,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is as much your fault as it is mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Mike. I agree. Listen, every time I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to a girl about something and then she just gets

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<v Speaker 1>cold and stops talking to me and is awkward, It's

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<v Speaker 1>obvious she's flirting with me and she wants me to

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<v Speaker 1>keep going. She should not have done that to you, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>If you were picking up signals, you just you misinterpreted

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<v Speaker 1>the signal. I guess. Oh, Aaron, have you ever thought

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<v Speaker 1>about I mean, like, if you were to take yourself

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<v Speaker 1>out of that situation right now, could you think of

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<v Speaker 1>him romantically at all? Because sometimes the best relationships are

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<v Speaker 1>born of friendships. I mean we've talked about, like other

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<v Speaker 1>people that We've dated with each other before, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>always been some kind of flirtation between us. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just it couldn't start this way. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>too much, like you've been thinking about this for so

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<v Speaker 1>long and I had no ideas. I haven't really been

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about this that long. You haven't been thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it that long. You asked if your kids to go

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<v Speaker 1>to private school or not? Mike. That just came out.

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<v Speaker 1>Often that stuff just flies out of our mouth. Hey, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go on a second date with Mike?

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for it. Aaron. I am sorry if

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<v Speaker 1>I went too far and if I offended you, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously I care about you. We've been friends

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, and you know, I hope you will

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with me again because we have fun together,

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<v Speaker 1>and who knows, maybe we'll laugh about this on our

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<v Speaker 1>wedding day. Mike, I'm joking. Oh okay, Aaron, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you say? Would you go out with Mike again? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>give it one try. It's not going to hurt anything. No, really,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be more than happy to hang out with you

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<v Speaker 1>and group hangouts, but I think it'd be best if

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<v Speaker 1>we just don't hang out alone together for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be alone with you. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update first. Sorry Mike. Yeah, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of screwed up. Oh, my parents are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be disappointed in this. Your parents are well, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I told them all about the wedding date and all

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<v Speaker 1>about Aaron and I'm joking again. Oh. I cannot pick

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<v Speaker 1>up on when you're joking at all. Mike broken jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Seve