WEBVTT - Ep 209: Blind Sex (Ft. C-Note) 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:06.040 I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:13.880 Welcome y'all. It's all roble decisions. What's up this year? 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:20.360 Made to be hi. I'm weasing we have a special 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:23.119 guest today. I feel like this is probably one of 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:25.280 the coolest episodes we ever gonna have. Not to put 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:26.759 the pressure on you, because I don't want you to 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:33.000 mad pressure like he wasn't And you see she come 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:37.559 out the gate and pressure. Bro, you gotta ease people in. 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.080 But I'm so high. This is a lot of insight, 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:42.600 no pun you know what I'm saying, because I feel 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:49.879 like get I meant no, because um, he did a 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.639 consult with me for his new podcast blind but now 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:55.160 I see he was bugging on the first name. But 0:00:55.200 --> 0:01:00.120 we got with But yeah, I really wanted to have 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:03.000 somebody on. And I feel like I can't use the 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:06.640 word disability, but you're visually impaired. And it's so interesting 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:09.880 to me to have this conversation because we hear so 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:11.319 many things about We just had a guest a few 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:14.120 weeks ago to talk about sensory deprivation and how she 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.319 was blindfolded and ship and how things are heightened and 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:18.039 I think it's gonna be so dope to just learn 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:20.679 about you your sexual experiences. I know you may not 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:24.360 talk about sex too much on your pod, but like anything, 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:30.200 but like, yeah, this is just really exciting for us. So, um, 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:32.959 can you introduce yourself, tell people what you do, and 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:35.800 just a little bit about your story on yeah, how 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:38.080 you lost your vision? Well, my name is c No. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:43.720 I called myself blond Poppy, blond Poppy to her Ray 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:47.920 Charles like, I'm I'm a party promoter. So pretty much 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:51.160 nine years ago, I was shot three times being wrong 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.000 but they was trying to wrong me and shot me 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:56.720 three times, left me there to die. Pretty much seven 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:59.200 days in the hospital, four days I see you, three 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.040 days recovery. That's it. And I told my mother mouth 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:05.080 I got to get him to my son. Doctor said 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.000 he couldn't come up, that he was one years old. 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:11.160 Oh I thought your son. I have misunderstood when I 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:15.120 met you from of your son was not nine. Okay, 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:18.880 so you've seen your son, Yeah, I'm sure this first birthday. 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:30.280 Wow wow, So when when this happen survived you gotta 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:40.839 take away some sins. So okay, I totally misunderstood. So 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.920 you had your son you get out your blind I 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.079 know you told me a little bit briefly about how 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:49.000 you did anger management while blind, but just from a 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:52.360 sex perspective, like how long did you go before you 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:55.040 even want to have sex or could? Yeah? I came, Oh, 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:57.359 I wasn't even a hospital. I said worked. I strayed 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:58.760 up in that toil the doctor it ain't working. It 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:01.960 ain't even that's what you said. That's you were in 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:04.320 the hospital just from being shot, and your concern was 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:07.680 whether you would get hard again. And you took my eyes. 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:11.600 I don't want to know what else you took. That's 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:15.000 going ain't no use. What was the response, like, how 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.320 was I mean what the doctor's response when I said 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.520 doctors response to that? He was like, pretty much your 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:22.440 body going through trauma. Got to see a couple of 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:26.240 days and started moving. I'm like, I'm good to go. Wow, 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:30.399 I went home. That's extra first day, won't the first day? 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:33.000 You think it was sympathy pussy Yeah, I had a 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:37.520 whole lot of that. The whole lot of that sympathy 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:45.120 if you're not getting pussy shot everybody, Okay, I did 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:48.360 na that got shot. We know you like niggas asleep 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:50.920 with guns. And that I'm gonna him anyway. But I 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:54.440 was like, see him you hurt? So wait the sympathy 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.520 pussy that you were getting, was it girls who already 0:03:56.520 --> 0:04:00.560 had sex with girls are sex with girls that dubbed 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.200 me before. But I wanted to see what it was about. 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:08.360 Huh they thought it changed, Like I hear the way 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.960 this question is, you know the whole lot, You still 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.880 know what you're doing, And I'm like, what should be 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.640 confusing to the after? Then it's like, yeah, you do 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:18.960 know what you're doing. Stef pussy is not confusing though. 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:24.120 All you gotta do is the legs. That's it. But 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:29.880 I'm not but a new pussy the same anatomy brow 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:33.840 pussy be kind of different because I now it ain't hard. 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:37.520 I'd be hesitating. You can't see that ship, so it's 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.359 not like you don't know what the got bumped on 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:43.520 there was Oh my god, didn't be nervous. It's your 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:47.240 sense of smell like crazy now, yeah, the touching taste, 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:50.159 but like with pussy specifically, yeah, I could definitely smell 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:51.840 it if it ain't something guy ain't doing it, Damn 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:57.880 I keep spell us. Yeah, and I'm nervous. Was just look, look, 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:00.800 we just said the way the way we were sweating 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:06.159 last show, just white took some wet white, some unarmed, 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:11.159 so it was a little much. I do want to 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:13.200 start with some icebreakers, and one of the first ones 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:15.719 you almost told me saying wait till that was not 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:17.920 an icebreaker, bro. Hell no, that's how we jumped out 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:19.679 the gate. How long you've been listening to our shows? 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:22.880 You know, for a long time. Stay in the house 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:26.880 and just listen. So my first icebreaker question for you 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:33.200 is what do you think we look like? Tell me this, 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:39.480 I think you slim a caramel color. You're giving her 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:45.359 way too much melon at bit slim carmel color. I 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:50.560 like a little booty, very little accurate. It's a medium, Mandy. 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:54.320 I say, carmel kind of showing thick, kind of short 0:05:54.920 --> 0:06:00.200 and think he had that right. Huh. Well, the anything 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:01.919 I'll tell you, I think that really might help you 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:04.080 think about what I look like. We always kind of 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.440 have the same Like I wear braids a lot. I 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.880 realized that how podcast. Listen to the podcast, I'll be 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:11.880 talking about them. You said there and said, braids is you? 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:16.480 That's true? Mandy? Who knows what? Nobody knows what? I'm 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:18.080 a look like when I come in, I ain't gonna 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.280 hold Sometimes you got a wig, sometimes you got short. 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:23.240 Oh that's right, I was talking about that different. See, 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:27.039 he'd be listening. Ladies. You may just need a block 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:33.200 because they listen. Damn, you you're a good true Do 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:34.800 you notice that with yourself? Do you feel like you're 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.880 like paying extra attention? I feel like way more attention now. Damn, 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:40.960 probably sniggers and lies all the time. Didn't you tell 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:44.360 me that all the time. That ship was two years ago. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:50.000 I still remember what you said all the way. That's crazy, 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.240 like you can't write it down or you can't see 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.279 it to keep going over it. You play that in 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:57.360 your head over time. Yeah. I um. When we did 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:01.480 our console, I've been leaving people notes like written, and 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:03.320 I was like, well, let me do this different with 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:05.400 you know, and I did a voice note so that 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.680 he listened to it. And I was thinking to myself, like, 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:10.880 how annoying is this gonna be if he got played? Nah, 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:15.240 listen to it like times. Really they don't get annoying. 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:18.960 It's like a talking book. Honestly, I'm I'm really excited 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:23.400 to listen to your podcast because it's so interesting to me, 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.920 you know, like we were just saying when we spoke, 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:28.760 like you don't really meet a lot of blind people. 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.120 Maybe you'll come across them, but like, how many conversationally 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.920 do we have? Never even befo I went blind. I 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:35.760 really did see a lot of a lot of people. Yeah, 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:39.600 And I mean it's just just it's different. So you 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.840 don't you don't meet more people now that you're blind. Na, 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:46.400 you don't like when you get a pt cruiser than 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:49.640 all you notice is it's not It's not like that 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:52.240 would be until like hearing I went to some blind 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:55.120 incot management that it was just straight blind people in there. 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.720 It was just like you didn't like No, I finished 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.680 the class. I had no choice. Why are you and 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.320 my cousin was not playing that? Yeah you want to 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:07.440 bug out, let's go. How long did it take you 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:14.320 to stop being angry? The first six years? I was angry? Wow? 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:18.480 First six years? Every night? And then you do something 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:22.160 I don't like. I would snap ship is like, treat 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:25.480 me like I'm I'm regular, So don't tippy toe around me, 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:29.080 don't lie, keep it round because I'm angry. I'm not 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.640 gonna beat you up. I'm gonna just distance myself from you. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:34.600 What's crazy is everyone that I think we've even interviewed 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.920 that has some form of a disability that's been like 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:41.520 their number one request, treat me like you would anybody 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:45.240 the funk else. So that's why we talking that you 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:50.559 are here with I had niggas wearing that little hoodie 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.480 back and you know what I mean. And CJ don't 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.840 have fights. My mother still cursed me out. Ain't any 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:59.720 changed good? So CJ, treat your brother who's your eyes? 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:03.720 Pretty much? Right? Yeah? That's so let's talk about when 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:06.760 you meet somebody, do you give c J all the 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:08.840 credit to tell you he straight up a dad tell me. 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:13.520 Sometimes it depends if I'm drunk, I don't care. I 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.480 mean I don't care. Sometimes I don't care. I can't see. 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:19.240 Did you ever watch the movie Shallow Hell? So it's 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:23.160 a movie. Yeah, yeah, I seen that they in his 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.280 eye they look skinny, but really they have you said 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:28.280 it all? Yeah? Okay, but don't you feel like that's 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.439 like a blessing that disguise that some Yeah, but then 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:36.280 sometimes it'd be like NI, your friend b what you're doing, bro? 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:39.800 And I'm like, what what I'm doing? To me and 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:41.679 they don't got no face too. I can't see the ship, bro, 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:45.319 I can't see the shape but my right here? He 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:46.800 like not can't let you go out like that? Bro? No, 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:48.920 that's no now that can let you go out? Like? 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:52.240 What did you say? You ain't never met a real 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:55.839 funny bitch? I did? I met all different type of 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:59.840 girls being block. So that's interesting because I wonder if 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:04.280 that's are ego, Like do you think that knowing not 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.640 even being able to see that someone's attractive knowing they're 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:11.600 attractive weighs that much? Mm hmmm. I can said you 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:15.840 probably like a personal Yeah. Do you feel like you've 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.320 been having more intellectual conversations women like you've been getting 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.280 closer to them? I ain't someone mat straight dub after 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.960 the two weeks? Where are you dubbing bitches? And tell 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:28.560 me when you hit me with that? Send me a cat? 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:35.360 What cash apps? I can't do, cass. I like that 0:10:35.360 --> 0:10:42.080 they don't treat you different, like what you got money? 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:45.800 You ain't getting settlement to be different. They come to 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:48.880 me like they had talked like money. What I'll be 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:52.360 right back? I spent off his over. Do you find 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:55.160 it like when dating though, like, what's just something common 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:57.079 that happens with women. Do you think that you become 0:10:57.160 --> 0:11:00.120 almost like a fetish Do you feel like girls want 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:01.839 to know what it's like to somebody blind because you like, 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.720 you know, I had a couple of girls that yeah 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:07.640 I ran into that was like that. But it was like, oh, yeah, 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.760 you're definitely like I see you more into it. You're 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:13.640 us your hands more. It's passion but it's really like, 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:16.599 I'm not trying to be passionate with you. You just 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:18.599 need to do this stuff. Just get it off and 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:22.439 I'm out. Have you ever had like a threesome or 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:26.280 sex with yes before? Have you had it before you 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:29.760 were blind? After after but he can't all the put 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:32.800 like they just don't need to talk to this man 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:35.800 like he blind anymore. He gave let's just talk about 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:40.520 because I'm be read at you. Like for me in 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:42.800 a threesome, there's a lot of ship you gotta watch 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:45.560 out for, like his legs flying and ship like you're 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:53.280 telling you after that, I can have a foot hit 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:56.400 me in the face. You can't complain after that. I 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:59.240 also want to know, out of the two of us, 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:03.839 you've been listening for you said it basically since we 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:06.480 started right, So what guess did you think was the 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:10.440 sexiest based on listening? Oh, I ain't gonna live after 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:19.520 last week? What's that? The pussy poet? Poet? This is different? 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:23.640 Right here? She was talking some ship that should make like, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:27.240 close your eyes you can imagine everything. Yeah, she did 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.000 a really good story. She did. I can see liking 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:32.839 if I just had to listen to her. Yeah, just 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:35.439 a voice. She does have a good voice, because switch 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:41.760 it up. It's just different, even still different. You can 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:43.600 see it better even though I can't see. I still 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:47.199 close my eyes division Maybe no, I didn't that you 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.079 feel like when my eyes open, I really don't see it. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:52.839 Now we were talking about one of the segments for 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:56.079 your show. We could maybe make um dumb questions. I 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:57.360 don't know if you still want to do that, but 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:01.600 let's ask Chris. Sorry, see know some dumb dumb ship. 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:03.679 One of the things you said you felt like was 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.880 dumb that people ask you is are you really blind? 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:07.280 But I think really what they want to know the 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:12.280 hand in front of my face. No, it's like I think, 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:14.599 really that question is more so, how blind are you? 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:17.599 So when you're seeing? What are you seeing? Like? I 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:21.280 know when I close my eyes, like it's like spotty okay, 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.360 light and shadow, light and shadow like a brightness? Is it? Like? 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:34.679 So you should see weezy because she bright? Right. I 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:36.160 just want to let you know. You know, you could 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:41.800 ask the j later. I am the darker one now 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.720 I'm real time times, you know, in this crucial time 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:47.120 or when you know we both crucial time. I win up, 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:49.000 they might be like is she or ain't she until 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:52.480 they see our edges. Um. Yeah, so you're seeing shadows 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:56.040 and lights. Um. So does that mean when someone's in 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.240 front of you, you know they're approaching from just that 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:00.800 movement of a shadow or from the perching when the 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:04.000 perching approaching. I could feel it. So it's like my 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:07.160 ass closed. I mean somebody getting close. Yeah, so I 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:08.640 can feel with somebody walking on the side of me. 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.679 You can't creep on me. I hear it. Do you 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.280 think you always? I feel like we all kind of 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.319 I'm about to say that my panting house has been 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:17.640 a bit can't ship, but I hear about to come out. 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:22.520 Now you can when you want the dog. It's even 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:26.440 more stronger. Yes, you can't creep because I feel you're 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:29.280 coming from a Crystal Street. Yeah, and I heard people 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:30.640 like you know what you're talking to him? Like, bro, 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:32.400 I know who he was before you walked up on me. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.360 Think looking at your phone, I don't know nobody touched 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:43.000 my phone. Still he's still a nigga. I don't like 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:48.200 that my phone sleep under me, like my phone because 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:49.680 like I can't go through your phone and said, are 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:53.280 you going through my facts? That's really true? And less 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:54.840 we called my brother in the room and he told me, 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:58.880 with whatever you'd be doing for him, I need you 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:08.160 to stop. They still ain't gonna be ship now. I 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.600 haven't seen it all, Like I didn't see I'm nade 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:12.680 on the girl lap and I'm like, what you're doing? 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.120 Not on Facebook? But same, just like no, I know 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:19.120 she's not. I snatched it and I'm like gonna said, 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:23.160 we re message to a whole nigger. So it was 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:26.520 like what then you sorry? Sorry? What you got caught 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.320 by block? Honestly, that's really fucked up. I'm off this 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:31.520 called yo, bro, come pick me up. Bro, that's just 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:33.920 two things out there just dropped you off. You want 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:37.480 us to beat her up? Now? She cool? Because that 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:40.680 bit tried it so with the phone like using your phone, 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.320 You've got social media, you have shipped like that, You're 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.960 talking to Serie the whole time. What about when you 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:48.200 want to say something nasty, because I'm sure this moment 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:51.600 respond to it. You don't need voice now. So I 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:53.720 feel like I couldn't tell Sirie. I called that whole 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:55.920 a bit and she was like, I'm sorry, I don't 0:15:55.960 --> 0:16:02.200 like that language. Serie, SERI what saying? So you said, yeah, 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:10.720 she would I think pronounce She's definitely pronounced nigga. Really 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:16.800 does she better try c J? Can you like, I'm 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:19.040 in the text or maybe you could text him first 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:21.320 of all while we're getting vanilla ship, but I want 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:24.320 you to text him some wild ship. You text his 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:28.760 phone and once we're going through the vanilla ship, Tex 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:30.560 texting wild should be like you want to come over 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:33.880 night and out this. She's really gonna say it too, 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:47.240 but oh no, no, I like, damn nigga. All right, 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:48.920 while he's tiping that up, we're gonna get to our 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:51.080 vanilla ship. This one's from the cut this week. This 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.120 one I thought was really interesting, just to spark some 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:56.720 comment with us France, the country is finally setting on 0:16:56.760 --> 0:17:00.680 an age of consent and The age they're choosing is 0:17:00.800 --> 0:17:06.159 to better protect children against sexual abuse, and they're setting 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:11.200 an age of consent to fifteen years old. Um, basically, 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:16.199 there wasn't an age, so fifteen is frankly what they 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:19.800 find to be a good age of consent. Um they 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:21.560 don't currently have one, like I said, so there really 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:25.080 wasn't anything they can do, but they basically now can 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:28.200 criminalize sexual relations with a minder who are under fifteen. 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.520 And I wanted to ask y'all what you think of 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:37.800 I think the beteen is weird and I still can't 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:42.040 look at no. Yeah, and also like even even going 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.959 back to just conversations that we've had when we were 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:49.080 having uh sex, even at sixteen, seventeen or eighteen, I 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.359 still feel like there were decisions that were made that 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:55.200 we're made only because you just were young. You didn't know, 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:58.360 and I do think that there were men that took 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.800 advantage of the naivety of being that young as well. Like, 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:05.000 so I don't know fifteen to me, however, if you 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:07.800 look back on like again, because sex is nothing new 0:18:08.320 --> 0:18:10.639 back in the olden times, you would get married and 0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:13.520 wet off at twelve or type of But see, I 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:16.760 think fifteen isn't bad if it's kids having like to 0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:19.320 get like if they're working around together, Like if you're 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:21.880 both to you know, freshman in high school and y'all 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:23.760 start sucking, Like what what? What can you really do? 0:18:23.840 --> 0:18:25.520 How can you stop that? Yeah? But to be fair 0:18:26.200 --> 0:18:30.040 as as women, as girls, even society, like you go 0:18:30.240 --> 0:18:33.480 after the older guys so to be like when we 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:35.360 were in high school, we were dealing with older guys. 0:18:35.400 --> 0:18:37.480 And it's funny because I just had this conversation too, 0:18:38.080 --> 0:18:40.840 and it made me look at it weird. Even club scenes, 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:43.600 you could be eighteen enough for women in the club, 0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:45.760 but the men had to be twenty one enough. They're 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:51.720 literally like these overdrawn like instances where they almost push 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:55.040 women to be with older menen the idea that we 0:18:55.200 --> 0:18:58.120 mature quicker, Like it's all fucking fluff, because there's still 0:18:58.520 --> 0:19:00.920 in terms of conversation and one needs to be had 0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:04.120 with sex. No, no, we're not ready. We just talked 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:06.440 about a couple of weeks ago how even women don't 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:10.440 talk about their periods enough, and and the health surrounding 0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:12.959 women and STDs and all that. It's not talked about enough. 0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:14.840 So not fifteen. To me, it's crazy, Chris, when you 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:16.760 were working in the clubs and I know you still 0:19:16.800 --> 0:19:19.960 do parties, Like, did you ever find that like girls 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:22.520 were like hella fucking young? Did you ever have sneaking 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:28.160 in where? I know where were your parties that Brooklyn, Manhattan? 0:19:28.280 --> 0:19:31.840 You pay the bouncer you getting in? Yeah, so it 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:33.600 doesn't matter. Did you think that did you find it 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:35.159 was mostly the women paying the bouncer? Are like the 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:39.720 dudes that brought him mostly to women. They they like 0:19:39.840 --> 0:19:42.040 three of them. That's twenty one. But you got the 0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.639 tool that's not on my birthday next week. But I 0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:48.960 left my d home. You got to do a show, 0:19:49.320 --> 0:19:52.160 get a bounce of you ain't he don't care. Yeah, 0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:56.760 it's twenty the deal. I feel like they definitely charged 0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:58.760 a little bit more than that. We never got away 0:19:58.760 --> 0:20:01.399 with it. No, I didn't tell you real quick what 0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:04.439 they did because they did this a lot to you, bro. 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:06.400 They did it in Orlando, m Miam because I don't 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:10.159 have a good liar phase. She doesn't that nigga. We 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:12.000 went to the club one time and we shouldn't have 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:13.920 been there. We did have school the next morning. This 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:16.440 nigga broke her idea and half gave it back to 0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:17.800 her and said you got school in the morning, you 0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:20.159 should go home. And I was like, damn bitch. She 0:20:20.240 --> 0:20:21.600 was like, don't worry. I know the owner of this. 0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:25.359 So we we did. It was like what Vincent. It 0:20:26.080 --> 0:20:29.280 started with bro you you was yeah. And then let 0:20:29.359 --> 0:20:31.119 me also tell you. We drove all the way to 0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:34.399 Fort Lottadale to go to Cheatah's one toime Andy to 0:20:34.440 --> 0:20:39.199 tell them we was like sixteen seventeen club. Yeah, Cheetahs 0:20:39.280 --> 0:20:41.679 is like everywhere, It's like a franchise. We went all 0:20:41.720 --> 0:20:43.080 the way to four a lot of deal to go 0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:46.280 to Cheetah's and they looked at this one. She always 0:20:46.320 --> 0:20:49.200 sucked us up. They looked at Wesi was like mm hmmm, 0:20:49.640 --> 0:20:51.960 this ain't huh. She not. We can't let her in. 0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:54.520 So then we had to drive another four to five 0:20:54.600 --> 0:20:56.480 minutes to Miami to go to the Cheetahs in Miami 0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:58.919 and somehow they let us in there. But I think 0:20:58.960 --> 0:21:01.680 we were at West Pam for the first and then okay, 0:21:01.760 --> 0:21:05.359 yeah either way, just act like I was back then. 0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:07.520 But let me tell you really how I got away 0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:10.920 with some ship. So so you know, I was in Hawaii, 0:21:11.240 --> 0:21:14.119 um this past week and while I was there. I 0:21:14.160 --> 0:21:16.640 don't know if you've heard, but I don't have a license. 0:21:16.920 --> 0:21:19.280 But my nigga, she now I got her confidence, you 0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:22.960 know what I'm saying. And just like the New York 0:21:23.040 --> 0:21:24.760 I d it looked just like the New York license. 0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:26.199 And I was thinking to myself, I'm really gonna get 0:21:26.200 --> 0:21:28.080 this hooper? Am I gonna get a mother fucking convertible? 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:29.760 So I went right up to the budget counter and 0:21:29.800 --> 0:21:31.560 I was like, look, I don't have a lot of time. 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:33.600 I just need we got to work quick, so please 0:21:33.640 --> 0:21:35.800 just get me a deal. Here's my stuff, here's my 0:21:35.880 --> 0:21:38.200 credit card, Like I was trying to put more focus 0:21:38.240 --> 0:21:40.160 on the car. And then nigga didn't even see the ship. 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:42.119 So now if I could have been in my body, 0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:44.240 then bitch, we would have been in all thee That's 0:21:44.240 --> 0:21:46.720 what you got to do when you talk like you 0:21:46.760 --> 0:21:48.359 all get on the phone giving them the I D 0:21:51.800 --> 0:21:54.720 like I used to do what I used to be 0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:57.840 eight nineteen kidding. Can't get in the clothes with anybody else. 0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:01.000 They do past me day back up, I dam act 0:22:01.080 --> 0:22:03.520 like I'm on the phone arguing that's really smart. They 0:22:04.119 --> 0:22:05.920 just go ahead after while, you see me every week 0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:07.879 you like. Now you're good. Just let me search your 0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:10.959 glad going, let me search you ship then check out 0:22:10.960 --> 0:22:13.480 I d no more. Wait uh you got it ready? 0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:16.359