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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Melanie in Philly. Melanie writes,

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Speaker 1: my ex got caught cheating and I broke up with him.

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Speaker 1: This morning. He brought my personal belongings to my job

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Speaker 1: in six Walmart bags. Everybody is in everybody is in

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Speaker 1: my business?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: How could he turn this situation around on me and

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Speaker 1: act like he's the victim?

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Speaker 2: You know, my brother taught me something when I was

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Speaker 2: about eighteen, I got busted by these two girls. My

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Speaker 2: brother had an interesting theory that I can see has

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Speaker 2: carried over even in today. In people's lives, the best

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Speaker 2: defense is a good office. Oh you break up with

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Speaker 2: me because I was cheating? Well, don't nobody down at

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Speaker 2: your job know that I'm gonna pack all your stuff

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Speaker 2: up in these six Walmart bags and drop them off

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Speaker 2: down at your job. Now you explain that? And why

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Speaker 2: are they in walmall day? Why? Why is he at house?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why he didn't have to go to her.

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Speaker 2: Now, I see if she went to his job and

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Speaker 2: packed up his stuff, Oh would have been harbor. Well,

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Speaker 2: she ain't think of it.

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Speaker 3: First offence, take the hot so he flipped it on

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Speaker 3: her all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Harrison in upstate New York, Harrison says,

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Speaker 1: I had overnight company. I woke up at two am

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Speaker 1: and she was using the bathroom down the hall and

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Speaker 1: the door was locked. I asked her not to roam

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Speaker 1: all over my house while I'm asleep. She apologized and

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Speaker 1: said she should have asked first. We've had sex, so

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Speaker 1: why is she scared to use the bathroom around me? What?

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Speaker 2: Oh well, maybe she No. I got to get this

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Speaker 2: down the hall somewhere. I gotta get some distance. Ain't

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Speaker 2: no need to be going to the one right here,

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Speaker 2: not the one that's in the bed norm. I need

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Speaker 2: to go down the hallway now, she apologized. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: asked her not to roam around your house, but some

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Speaker 2: fellas y'all can't. Y'all got to understand now, first of all,

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Speaker 2: if you're not comfortable with a chick, why y'all spending

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Speaker 2: the night exactly go over to her house, get your

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Speaker 2: boy to give you that phone call at the right

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Speaker 2: up amount of time where it to be over with.

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Speaker 2: Whereas emergency where you answer the phone and go, huh

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Speaker 2: what dog? Pun hold of dog? Where you at? No, man,

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Speaker 2: I mean where you at right now? Are you cool?

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Speaker 2: How many y'll is it now? The whole time? Dog?

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Speaker 2: You putting socks on, You're getting dressed, but they in

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Speaker 2: a concerned, frantic mold dog. I'm on the way, man.

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Speaker 2: Why you call me earlier? Man? What you let her

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Speaker 2: hear this? Baby? I got to get out of here.

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Speaker 2: My homeboy called me here to jam They got him

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Speaker 2: jammed up, and I got to go. I'll go with you, babe. No, no,

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Speaker 2: you don't need to be in this. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: let you get hurt. Just let me handle this. This

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Speaker 2: is my boy here in trouble. He always been there

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Speaker 2: for me. I'll explain it to you. Let me go.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, that's it. Stop having people over your house

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Speaker 2: that you are not comfortable with. How many times? And

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Speaker 2: you know how I know that phone call because I've

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Speaker 2: had it made to me. Yes, Tom, Now what you

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Speaker 2: say to your boy when you get to him? Hey, man, listen,

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Speaker 2: I was with this babe. I know you don't know it,

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Speaker 2: but you anything happened, man, you had any emergency, You

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Speaker 2: was on the side of the road and they put

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Speaker 2: you in a van. That's all you got to say.

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Speaker 2: There you go. See, that's why, I asked how many

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Speaker 2: of them? Was it all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Cheryl and Raleigh, Cheryl says, my husband

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Speaker 1: and I were fusing, so I asked his best friend

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Speaker 1: for advice. My husband saw the text messages and he

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Speaker 1: broke my phone. He said, his best friend isn't a

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Speaker 1: therapist and he's off limits. Why can't I talk to

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Speaker 1: the person that knows him best?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Lady? Lady? You can't go call You can't

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Speaker 2: have an argument with your boyfriend then call his friend?

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Speaker 2: Do you know how? And look? First of all, we

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Speaker 2: as me and we don't do that. All we use

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Speaker 2: our friends for is to cover a lot. That's it.

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Speaker 2: We ain not. Yeah, we don't go to here.

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Speaker 1: For counseling, advice, none of that.

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Speaker 2: No, dog, what would you do?

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Speaker 1: This happened?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know that can happen occasionally, but that's very rare.

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Speaker 2: But we we not. We are not therapists. Do not

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Speaker 2: call my friend. You're the reason we go to therapist.

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Speaker 2: Well you know, surely I don't really like the way

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Speaker 2: you said.

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Speaker 1: That, But but the truth sometimes Yet, because.

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Speaker 2: The secret is called ask the e c l O.

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Speaker 2: Ain't nobody asked? Surely not you in the Strawberry Left.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to you, you in the Strawberry letter anyway.

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Speaker 2: S get your segments together, okay, poems. You know.

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Speaker 1: I don't do pranks, man, because I said us go

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Speaker 1: to the therapist.

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Speaker 2: Well, surely have y'all need that?

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Speaker 1: We all do? We all do?

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Speaker 2: No? No, yeah, all y'all do you right? I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to I tried to be say half y'all,

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Speaker 2: but all y'all do need therapyst I agree men and women.

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Speaker 2: Nay man, I ain't never need it therap but I

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Speaker 2: ain't never been down there. It don't do nothing for me.

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Speaker 1: Last one.

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Speaker 2: We're moving on way. I know I got good seness.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit up here at you because you

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Speaker 2: got a legal pad, you went to school.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know me anyway.

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Speaker 2: And it's hard to be my therapist because I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: lie to you, so you can't. That's why you can't

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Speaker 2: possibly get to what it is with me. You have

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Speaker 2: to tell your therapist the truth. Do you know what

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Speaker 2: a therapists job is? No therapist is there to cure you.

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Speaker 2: A therapist is there to listen to you. Every Thursday

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Speaker 2: ten thirty sit in town. They're not trying to fix you,

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Speaker 2: bro I know a person who told me they've been

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Speaker 2: going to the same therapist for twenty five Oh, it's broke.

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Speaker 2: You just down there telling this lady what you did

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Speaker 2: this week. You can't possibly, okay, be still going down

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Speaker 2: there for he mus be wrong. Oh you need to

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Speaker 2: go all right. You got a paid friendship, that's all

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Speaker 2: you do. So going down here. Gil My girl is

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Speaker 2: two fifty, and tell her what happened this week? All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one, Jerome and Montgomery says, my girlfriend lives with

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Speaker 1: her baby daddy's family. She's been there since she's had

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Speaker 1: her son four years ago. I hate going over there.

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Speaker 1: As her man, am I obligated to provide housing for her.

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Speaker 2: I'm not in that at all. This is a breakup

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Speaker 2: right here.

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Speaker 1: Should he get her an apartment?

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Speaker 2: No? I don't see them money.

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