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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: All right, this is.

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Speaker 1: From Ray and Tampa right right to My wife's face

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Speaker 1: always looks like she's not happy when we're in social settings.

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Speaker 1: She's very reserved, so others think she's annoyed with them.

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Speaker 1: It's getting worse and I can't get her to stop

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Speaker 1: doing this. Should I start leaving her at home when

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Speaker 1: I go out?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? See this right here, folks that I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: be real honest with you. This is the beginning of divorce.

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Speaker 3: This is what it looks like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and why do you say that?

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Speaker 4: I know?

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Speaker 2: It's the faith.

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Speaker 1: It starts at the faith.

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Speaker 4: And in every fac Yo. Then you start thinking about

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Speaker 4: leaving hood home. Okay. Then you're sitting up.

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Speaker 3: There wondering why you buy yourself. Then you're at there

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Speaker 3: talking at the little social gathering and one of them

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Speaker 3: Finnes come up to you say are you okay? And

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Speaker 3: you say, as a matter of fact, I'm not, And

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Speaker 3: then she say And then you tell them what's wrong

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Speaker 3: without exaggerating, and they, being as nurturers that they are,

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Speaker 3: they try to start fixing. Man, You're sitting up there

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Speaker 3: being the victim that you are need healing and don't

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Speaker 3: mind getting fixed.

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Speaker 4: And next thing you know, you're over there with your

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Speaker 4: shoes off.

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Speaker 2: You can suit at the beginning of an affair.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, over there watching TV.

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Speaker 3: You laughing.

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Speaker 4: The next thing you know, her face ain't ever messed up.

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Speaker 1: That's leading to a divorce. Wow, all right, you went

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Speaker 1: through the steps. I get it, I get it all right.

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Speaker 3: Moving on to Patrina, divorce is a step program. It's

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Speaker 3: like getting off quick drinking. You know, they have twelve

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Speaker 3: strup programs, quit smoking and all like that. I'm opening

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Speaker 3: up new twelve step program, how not to be mad

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Speaker 3: no more.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it starts with the face. It starts with the face,

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Speaker 2: you say, all right? Moving on to Patrina and Denver.

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Speaker 1: Patrina writes, I'm dating someone new and he's very critical of.

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Speaker 2: My skills in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: It's like he's teaching a class, and if I get

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Speaker 1: something right, he says, good job or much better. That's

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Speaker 1: zapping all of the fun out of love making. Can

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Speaker 1: I tell him to shut up?

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Speaker 4: Well, you can, but I just want you to know

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Speaker 4: that you're dating a pimp. What do you think. I

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Speaker 4: just want you to know that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's that's that's some pimp stuff you in training.

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Speaker 2: Good job, good job, good job.

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Speaker 4: Here's a tree.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, How I.

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Speaker 4: Don't buy yourself a little bracelet or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, you can tell him to shut up. I'm

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Speaker 3: just telling you what's happening.

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Speaker 2: So congratulations, congratulations.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Not a lot of people get to do that.

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Speaker 2: All right, she breathed between those lines. All right for reading.

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Speaker 1: Bethursday writes, I came home early from a work trip

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Speaker 1: and my wife of six years was frying pork chops.

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Speaker 1: We have a pork free home, and she told me

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Speaker 1: she hasn't eaten pork since she met me. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to kiss her pig eating mouth ever again. Why

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Speaker 1: does she lie?

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Speaker 4: You stupid, came Homer. You so damn stupid.

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Speaker 3: Why you don't never want to kiss her pig eating Okay?

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Speaker 4: Okay, lose your wife over that pop chop?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, this sounds like the beginning of divorce too.

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Speaker 4: N that's he is dog.

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna tell you just poke chop, not just one. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm just telling you. I don't tell you family out

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Speaker 3: the window. Because she had poke chop.

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Speaker 4: She listed she missed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all. Don't do that, doog. Yeah, never gonna

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Speaker 3: kiss her pork eating mouth again. Broh, you better, you

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Speaker 3: better get a grip on yourself. Extreme, You stop this foolishness.

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Speaker 2: You're talking extreme here, Yeah, because.

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Speaker 4: They know you just gonna never kiss this porkyating mouth again.

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Speaker 3: You're finna lose half of everything you ever, you need

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Speaker 3: to run that upper flag pole. You need to consider

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Speaker 3: the cost of that pok chop man. Ride this one

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Speaker 3: out a little bit of listine. It's all gone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, he was supposed to be out of town.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, last one, Steve, this is the

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Speaker 1: last one. This is from Kia in Memphis. Kia says,

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Speaker 1: my ex put lighter fluid on my clothes and shoes

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Speaker 1: that he bought me.

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Speaker 2: He took my watch and my jewelry too.

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Speaker 1: After I got caught cheating, I talk to the police

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Speaker 1: about pressing charges.

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Speaker 2: The officer advised me not to do that.

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Speaker 1: Should he get away with it?

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Speaker 4: Should he he done got away?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I think you're lucky. Yeah, he just set

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Speaker 5: the clothes on fire everything he bought you.

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Speaker 3: You know what, lady, excuse and lemonstraighten you out on something. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know, Uh, everything has consequences. So the man buys

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Speaker 3: you all this stuff, you want to cheat on him,

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Speaker 3: but you don't want no consequences.

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Speaker 4: It's consequences.

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Speaker 2: You agree with the officer.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you can do it, but you gonna what what?

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Speaker 3: What's her basis?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I cheated and so much.

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Speaker 4: You gotta get a lawyer. You gotta prove it, you

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Speaker 4: gotta do all this here.

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Speaker 3: The argument is gonna be I bought this, it belonged

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Speaker 3: to me. I was just letting her wear. So then

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Speaker 3: she's since she cheated on my I guess she didn't

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Speaker 3: appreciate or want what I had nor more. It's just

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Speaker 3: some clothes. He didn't hurt you. So, no, you ain't

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Speaker 3: this This case ain't.

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Speaker 2: Gonna go nowhere.

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Speaker 3: No, this case ain't gonna go nowhere. Ever thought about

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Speaker 3: not cheating on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her her question is, though, should he get away

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Speaker 1: with it?

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Speaker 2: You? You did what you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But you know what, don Shirley, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: You know, nowadays, there's there's really a new norm. If

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Speaker 3: you look at our questions, our strawberry letters, there is

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Speaker 3: a new norm in this world. It's people living these

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Speaker 3: alternative lifestyles.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and making.

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Speaker 3: Them real normal, and the rest of us have to

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Speaker 3: sit here and listen to these letters with our mouth

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Speaker 3: hanging open and people talking about them like it's just

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Speaker 3: every day occurs. Yeah, all I did was cheat on

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Speaker 3: this man. He gonna set my clothes on You.

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Speaker 5: Saw the movie.

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Speaker 2: Waiting to Exhale.

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Speaker 3: You saw that movie then line, Yeah, you had our

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Speaker 3: clothes set on fire.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, your wardrobe, and you're to take into account what

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Speaker 5: you got in your closet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but did you let me ask you something? All

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Speaker 3: the movies, all them clothes got set on fire. You

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Speaker 3: see anybody take anybody.

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Speaker 1: Court time because they knew wrong, they knew what they

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Speaker 1: did to make that happen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they won't be ignored.

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Speaker 4: Dan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cheating is big in some circles, maybe not yours,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, but.

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Speaker 4: It's gnom now man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, cl o, thank you, thank you, thank you,

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Speaker 1: you're listening.

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