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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 3: Is your girl lexp And it's your girls very in

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Speaker 3: the cold and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 3: of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 4: Where speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: What's up, girl?

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Speaker 3: You're looking real fancy today. You have the pearls. Give

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Speaker 3: you diamonds and pearl It's given diamonds and pearls.

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Speaker 2: It's not about to play with you. You look not. The

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Speaker 2: girls is sitting Yeah, girl, these titty.

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Speaker 3: Once you went up to about this to wear to

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Speaker 3: one of our shows.

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Speaker 2: But then why aren't wear it's cute? I decided not

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Speaker 2: so wear it's cute.

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Speaker 3: You know? It looks like did you see that one

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Speaker 3: piece that Meg had on one week?

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Speaker 2: It was like brown. It kind of looked like that.

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Speaker 3: And I found the little sites where all they have

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Speaker 3: all the little onesies that they're really really cute.

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Speaker 2: I can't yeah, I can't think poster girls. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 2: something like that. It was real, real cute. But anyways,

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Speaker 2: what's been up?

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Speaker 3: Brow woral nitty you know, tour life, tour life, chanel life,

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Speaker 3: road life. Yeah, touring has been you know what's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I always think like I always felt like when I

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Speaker 3: was younger, like if I would be on tour, like

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Speaker 3: you see people and they used to do like the

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Speaker 3: the documentaries and you would see them on tour like

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Speaker 3: living out the tour bus and you'd be like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, I wish I could do that that.

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Speaker 2: It's so fun. But it's just shit tired. Yeah, mama

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Speaker 2: be tied like I'm.

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Speaker 4: It's tired, Like I'm glad that we have three more dates.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it will break until twenty twenty three. So sorry

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Speaker 3: y'all to the people that have been asking us. It's like,

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Speaker 3: are y'all gonna add some more dates to y'all gonna

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Speaker 3: add some more daisies here?

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Speaker 2: No, we's hid. We's hid, but.

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Speaker 4: We will be going back on tours.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So we're not gonna be like it's gonna be

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Speaker 3: like beginning Good twenty twenty three. Yeah, it's not gonna

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Speaker 3: be long, and it's gonna be We're gonna do cities

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Speaker 3: that obviously we didn't hear, some cities we're gonna come

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Speaker 3: back to and all that good stuff, you know what

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Speaker 2: So what have all been up to besides that? I

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Speaker 3: Like what it's just chilling, Like I have been on

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Speaker 3: this little like self journey as of lately and trying

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Speaker 3: to discover myself again. Like I feel like there's certain

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Speaker 3: goals that we want to reach and meet, right And

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Speaker 3: it's like I am now living what I've always wanted

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Speaker 3: I get to tour and I get to meet people.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm making.

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Speaker 3: People laugh or living. I'm making people feel good. And

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Speaker 3: it's like once you get there, it's like you still

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say happy, but it's like something

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Speaker 3: So I've just been doing a lot of soul searching

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Speaker 2: I'm like on some eat, pray, love shit. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: I feel like I think that all people kind of

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Speaker 2: So I have some things that I need to fix

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Speaker 3: And you know, some demons I guess I need to

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Speaker 3: But yeah, Like I think that when you get to

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Speaker 3: or anything. Like they say, your energy gotta be right,

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Speaker 3: me to want you around, right, And I feel like

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Speaker 3: for me too, it's like I'm trying to find peace

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Speaker 3: I have you know, lost this year obviously, but even

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Speaker 3: just growing as a person. You lose friends, you know,

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Speaker 3: you you lose lovers, you lose family members, whatever the

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Speaker 3: I've kind of been like that too, especially like you know,

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Speaker 3: I've just been really really big on like getting rid

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Speaker 2: All that good shit.

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Speaker 3: So we gonna get into these topics today because obviously, y'all,

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Speaker 3: it's been just a lot of miss.

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Speaker 2: Ant going on.

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Speaker 3: Y'all been blowing up, I dms, talk about this, talk

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Speaker 3: about that, and you know, it's been a lot going on.

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Speaker 2: We've had a lot of guests on the show.

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Speaker 3: But now it's a solo episode, so we can really

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Speaker 2: Some t bits. Yeah for real tho.

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Speaker 3: So this first topic, this first topic is an absolute mess.

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Speaker 2: And y'all know we obviously don't name drop on this show.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not going to get into specifics about it.

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Speaker 3: But I wanted to talk about hanging out with people

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Speaker 3: because of their aesthetics and how they look.

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Speaker 2: You know, there was a whole movement for a while

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Speaker 3: Bad Bitches Link Up b B M. You the bad

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Speaker 3: Bitches is linking up. You can't come out with me

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Speaker 4: Not a bad bit Yeah, they had T shirts and every.

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Speaker 2: Day they had T shirts and everything.

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Speaker 3: It was like a whole big movement like if you're

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Speaker 3: It was like, really they kind of popularized that mean

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Speaker 3: I had to go back. No, actually I didn't go

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: As I've grown and I've changed, you know, my views

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Speaker 2: It used to be your Honestly, my view used to

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Speaker 3: I used to feel like I have to separate my friends,

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Speaker 2: Just separate my friends, like who would turn up or not.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, Okay, I don't want to bring her

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Speaker 3: Like I think that is literally, like that's high school mentality.

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Speaker 2: That's high school mentality. I feel like that's just.

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Speaker 4: A dumb ass mentality to have. Period.

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Speaker 3: They don't have shit to do with high school, middle school, none.

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Speaker 3: Because I don't know me as a person. I have

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Speaker 3: So it's but I mean, like by society standards, like

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Speaker 4: They should be hanging to get there.

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Speaker 3: I've never picked my friends based off of that, even

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Speaker 2: I mean, the people who have money. You know. That's

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Speaker 3: And in high school, like me and my friends were

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Speaker 4: Being having a big booty, stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: Saying that out loud like, let's be friends. Both of

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Speaker 4: And if you not that beach, I can't make you

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Speaker 2: Out, Dreda was getting chosen and she definitely.

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Speaker 4: And that's what matters.

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Speaker 3: Like a lot of people are beautiful as fuck on

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Speaker 2: They I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's like just a whole bunch of lifeless bodies, I

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Speaker 3: But looking good on the outside only gonna get you

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Speaker 3: You know what's crazy because working in the club, in

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Speaker 3: When I see people with that type of mentality, they

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Speaker 3: always go further than the surface level of people. It's

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Speaker 2: I've been in Atlanta since twenty seventeen. And when I

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Speaker 3: The growth that I've had as a woman, as a

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Speaker 2: Like if you knew me in twenty seventeen, Hell, if

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Speaker 2: On my inner self.

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Speaker 3: I am not the same person I was six months ago.

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Speaker 3: I promise you I'm not so to see these women that.

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Speaker 3: When I first moved here, I felt I wasn't good enough,

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Speaker 2: And your friend was like, oh, what kind of person

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Speaker 2: is this? I was like, heir, I don't know, rainbow

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Speaker 3: Know, it's but look at life now. And I'm not

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Speaker 3: saying she's down bad or doing bad, but it's just like,

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Speaker 3: does that matter? What does that matter? Because you know

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Speaker 3: what had to talk? She was probably designer down. But

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Speaker 3: I couldn't tell you five nice things about that woman

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Speaker 2: I couldn't.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't because you know what you have to realize

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Speaker 3: when you Gucci down, Louie down, you got your BBA,

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Speaker 3: your titty's done, all that stuff is fire. That's very

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Speaker 3: nice because I just describe myself, But that doesn't matter

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Speaker 3: if you don't, if people don't remember you off of

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Speaker 3: anything else, because guess what, it's gonna be thirty other

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Speaker 2: Good on the outside that have all this shit on.

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Speaker 3: But what are they gonna remember about you as your personality,

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Speaker 3: want to surround myself with people that just look good.

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Speaker 2: You know how much of a bad energy that is?

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Speaker 3: And we you're just talking about that, like surrounding yourself

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Speaker 3: with people with good energy, like I couldn't imagine just

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Speaker 2: Bad bitches, but they got bad energy. But her ass

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Speaker 3: Way small, So yeah, I'm gonna bring her out versus

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Speaker 3: this girl because this girl is really nice, but she

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Speaker 2: Come with me. Her energy is great.

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Speaker 3: But I'd rather be around her because she got a

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Speaker 3: just want to be around people because they make you

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Speaker 3: being around people that hold you accountable, right, Like those

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Speaker 3: It is like losing access to people or whatever. Like

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Speaker 2: Who are you trying to please?

444
00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,920
Speaker 3: Because for me, I don't give a fuck about how

445
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:22,720
Speaker 3: people around me look as long as if you like

446
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,600
Speaker 3: what you put on, dang, got shit to do with me.

447
00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,959
Speaker 2: I care about what I look look like, But they

448
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:27,719
Speaker 2: don't have nothing to do.

449
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:31,160
Speaker 3: We're not affecting each other in any way, shape or form.

450
00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:34,400
Speaker 3: So to me, it's like, I'm glad though, that we're

451
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,800
Speaker 3: starting to have this kind of turnaround with social media

452
00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,520
Speaker 3: though too, or turnaround. I feel like now people are

453
00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:44,560
Speaker 3: starting to realize people's fucking bullshit. Like you know, people

454
00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,240
Speaker 3: are still kind of caught up in that oh you

455
00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,400
Speaker 3: gotta wear this, you gotta have this on. But I'm

456
00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,359
Speaker 3: glad people are starting to catch on like that shit

457
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,000
Speaker 3: don't really matter. Like we were in an era for

458
00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 3: a very long time of like oh the Instagram models,

459
00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,040
Speaker 3: the bad bitches, But people starting to really see through

460
00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,639
Speaker 3: that shit, Like if this would have been, if this

461
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 3: would have happened, like maybe I don't know, like five

462
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 3: years ago, a lot of people would have been like

463
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 3: mm hmmm, I agree, like, shit, if you don't look

464
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 3: the part, you know, you gotta pay to play, you

465
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 3: gotta you know, I know. I feel like people still

466
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,720
Speaker 3: feel I feel like a lot of people still feel

467
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:18,200
Speaker 3: this way.

468
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:19,920
Speaker 2: I mean no, I mean like a lot of people

469
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:20,840
Speaker 2: do feel that way.

470
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people are getting older

471
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 3: and their mentality is evolving. But I do think that,

472
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,400
Speaker 3: like especially when it comes to like the younger generations,

473
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 3: like if if now more than any time, people give

474
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,520
Speaker 3: a fuck about the city, I mean, they done hanging

475
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,360
Speaker 3: with people because of what they got and what they

476
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 3: put on and how many followers they got, right, I'm agree,

477
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is now we are starting to

478
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 3: realize that there's more than one standard of beauty. Literally

479
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 3: five years ago, it wasn't that you would either look

480
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,320
Speaker 3: like this and you was a bad bitch or you didn't.

481
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 3: That's why, like, like I said, we were talking about

482
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 3: the whole bad bitches link up, like you had to

483
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 3: look one way. Now it's like, okay, there's other standards

484
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 3: of what a bad bitch is or what a beautiful

485
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:06,400
Speaker 3: woman is.

486
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 2: Like it changes so much and it's evolving.

487
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,359
Speaker 3: And that's why I said, I feel like if this

488
00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 3: would have came out, like you know, five, six, seven

489
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 3: years ago, nobody probably would have said anything. They probably

490
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 3: would have been like, okay, yeah, because that's the look.

491
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 3: That's what's seeing right now. But I feel like people

492
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 3: don't mind speaking on being like, okay, bitch, No, I'm

493
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 3: still a bad beach too, and I.

494
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 2: Low key I look better than you.

495
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,400
Speaker 3: Like people will speak out and say that shit because

496
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 3: people just have more confidence now and they see through

497
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 3: a lot of people's bullshit because they also know you

498
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 3: can see a girl who has three hundred thousand followers

499
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 3: on Instagram, and first of all, you see her in person,

500
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 3: she don't look the same. Or some of these men too,

501
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,719
Speaker 3: they have all this stuff on Instagram. You see them

502
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 3: in person, they don't look the same. They don't got nothing,

503
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,119
Speaker 3: they don't got no money, or whatever the case may be.

504
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 2: But also they don't even have any confidence.

505
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 3: You know, they sit on the Internet and they pop

506
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 3: all this shit all day.

507
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 2: You meet them in.

508
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:59,719
Speaker 3: Person, their personality is even different. They're a completely different

509
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 3: fun person. So I will say I'm glad that people

510
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 3: are starting to see through people's bullshit and they don't

511
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 3: take offense to the things that people say, because i

512
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 3: feel like, even even with this show, I know we have.

513
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,879
Speaker 2: Probably said things in the past. When the show first started.

514
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 3: I mean shit, we was what I was like, twenty

515
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: seven then versus now I'm thirty three, so it's like, yeah,

516
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 3: my views on a lot of shit has changed. So

517
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I probably said some shit in the

518
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 3: past that was very shallow in surface level that probably

519
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 3: offended some people. But I'm glad now, Like if I

520
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 3: say something on the show, the girls be like, oh,

521
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 3: that's you wrong for that. You know you I don't

522
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 3: like that, And I'm not saying you got to agree

523
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 3: with everything, but I'm glad that people are starting to

524
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 3: be sure of themselves and not let influencers or Instagram

525
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 3: models or rappers or whatever the case may be, influence

526
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 3: on how they feel about themselves.

527
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:47,399
Speaker 2: If that makes sense.

528
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 4: I mean, no, that makes sense.

529
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 3: But I just think it's just a confident thing, a

530
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 3: confidence thing. I think that you shouldn't give a foot

531
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 3: with other people say or think anyway, right, Like you

532
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 3: should be living for yourself.

533
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 4: I think so the influencer thinks of.

534
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 3: Bad beach is supposed to look like, or what a

535
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 3: nigga think of bad beaches supposed to look like, you

536
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 3: shouldn't let that influence how you feel about yourself. I

537
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 3: feel like anything that you do, and I've said this

538
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 3: before about like getting surgery all that type of stuff,

539
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 3: If you're doing anything to your body, you should slowly

540
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 3: be doing it because that's what you want to do,

541
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,919
Speaker 3: and that's the aesthetic you want to have, right, and

542
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 3: that's how you want to look, or that's what you

543
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 3: think is sixy like not doing some shit because all

544
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 3: rappers be saying that they like beaches with fat asses

545
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 3: in twenty three inch waist, right, you know you shouldn't

546
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 3: be going to get surgery.

547
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 2: Three that's a wild I mean three, Look, she got

548
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 2: kidney this bitch y.

549
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 3: Yeah she gotta be all booty too, but but yeah,

550
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 3: like I just feel like you gotta do things for

551
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 3: you like I don't. But again, I'm also not a

552
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 3: person who internalized the things that people say when I

553
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 3: see stuff online, because it's a lot of things people

554
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 3: could say that I could take offense to, Like when

555
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,120
Speaker 3: people when guys say that they prefer today life skin.

556
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 4: With me, I can get offended by it. But why

557
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 4: would I get offended by about here?

558
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm calling.

559
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like who like me, But I also don't

560
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 3: feel the need like I need to try to convince

561
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: this nigga, well, no, brown skin girls and dark skin

562
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 3: girls are attractive too, and saying it like that's you

563
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 3: for a friends.

564
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: Right, right?

565
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 3: Or even when I see sometimes when a woman would

566
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 3: be like, oh short girls aware and saying you need

567
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 3: to get you a short girl, people be like uh.

568
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 2: And they get mad. It's like what does that have

569
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: to do with you?

570
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,399
Speaker 3: Or she's just saying she didn't say tall bitch is

571
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 3: trade right, it's like short girls and that's her opinion, right.

572
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 3: People just get so offended. Yeah, it's definitely weird. But

573
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 3: I will say this too because y'all know I'm a

574
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 3: part of the chop shop community. I would lay on

575
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 3: that table and let the doctor just go to work.

576
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 2: Bitch, I don't care.

577
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 3: But let me also say this now to the chop

578
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 3: shop family. Stop going to the chop shop and then

579
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 3: talking down like you wasn't bad Bill before, And this

580
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,959
Speaker 3: ain't including you because you wasn't bad Bill before.

581
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 2: I was part of the bad built community before the BBC.

582
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 3: Okay, it was never a part of mine. I'm talking to.

583
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 2: The BBC right now because I see y'all. I know y'all,

584
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 2: we see each other. Okay, Stop doing that.

585
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 3: Stop going to the chop shop and thinking, all of

586
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 3: a sudden, you can make other people try to feel

587
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: some type of way about their bodies or whatever, because you.

588
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 2: Know what, just because you decided to change how you

589
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 2: look or we I would say weed, because we in

590
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 2: this together.

591
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 3: Just because we decided that we didn't like the way

592
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 3: we looked and we wanted to switch it up, doesn't

593
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 3: mean these people feel a way about their bodies or

594
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

595
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: Stop doing that. Stop projecting on people.

596
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 3: That is so ugly, and that says a lot about

597
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 3: your character. Right, So nasty and rude.

598
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does.

599
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 3: I just feel like people need to stop having so

600
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 3: many opinions on other people and what they do if

601
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 3: they're not asking.

602
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 2: And then it's just like it just be funny.

603
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 3: I mean, like, ask you for your opinion, that's a

604
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 3: little But I don't care how beautiful you are on

605
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 3: the scale of whatever people rate you ask. But when

606
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 3: you have an ugly spirit, I don't care how fone

607
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 3: you are.

608
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 2: That makes me look at you like ugh.

609
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,479
Speaker 3: But that but again, and that's why you shouldn't be

610
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 3: making friends and basing your friendships off of surface level sheep,

611
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 3: because it's a lot of people who again look good

612
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 3: on the outside, but they terrible people on the inside.

613
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 2: Child, It's an ugly world. But shout out to the

614
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: BBC and the chop shops out there.

615
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 3: Look, if y'all need to know what a chop the

616
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 3: good chop chops is, I'll tell y'all. Would to go now,

617
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 3: I forgot you about to start, uh having a little vendors, Lise,

618
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 3: I am you know how people.

619
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: I got a doctor's list, But you know what's crazy?

620
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 3: And I also think this is weird when girls be like, oh,

621
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 3: I just got my body done, or you know, they

622
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 3: post a little Nikki.

623
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 2: Song you ain't fuck me, you fuck the old body.

624
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 3: Then people be in the comments like oh, where'd you

625
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 3: get your body done?

626
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 2: And they'll be like, oh, I'll tell you.

627
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:59,719
Speaker 3: I'll charge you, or oh they don't even respond. Let

628
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 3: me say, y'all something about these docs. They are not

629
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 3: about to pay y'all for no promo. Some doctors will,

630
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 3: but I'm sorry, if a doctor is offering free promo

631
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 3: for surgery.

632
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 2: You want to go. I don't trust you because why

633
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 2: nobody going to you already? Why you not already booked up?

634
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 2: Why you need me to promote for you? So I

635
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 2: always give.

636
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: My doctors information because surgery is very serious.

637
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: It's a big thing.

638
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 4: So it's just like for me, I mean, I just

639
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 4: think it's weird to like.

640
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: Gate keep stuff like that.

641
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 3: Anyways, Like who girl, they got off the BBC and

642
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 3: they ain't trying to go back.

643
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: They get mad, but you can't go something. But my

644
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 2: thing is you can't go back.

645
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 3: It's like, Okay, if you watch your surgery, you look good,

646
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 3: and now why not go back?

647
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 2: I was debbing my foot that bitch I went back.

648
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 2: You ain't gonna let me back in the cloud.

649
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 3: You could have go back though, because you're still you

650
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 3: still had a big bud like that.

651
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 2: Wasn't going nowhere.

652
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 3: I'm like, once you once you need surgery and you

653
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 3: got a booty now in comparison to not having no booty,

654
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 3: your booty not going nowhere, like you ain't gonna be again.

655
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 4: You just got bigger than what it was.

656
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 2: It was. It was getting kind of a round. Things

657
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: were getting row Ton getting a little pleasantly. Plus things

658
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 2: were row Ton that shouldn't have been row Ton. Okay,

659
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 2: that's all we gonna say about that. Yeah, I don't know.

660
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 2: That shit is weird. It's very weird. Activity.

661
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 3: So ladies, we're gonna stop gate keeping the chop shops

662
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 3: and the BBC is bad bitches in the DBC because

663
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Speaker 3: I was still a bad bitch even though I was

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Speaker 3: in the BBC. I was still a bad bitch because

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Speaker 3: I had the confidence I was feeling myself.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, all right?

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Speaker 3: Saw, Yeah, So for this second topic, I wanted to

668
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 3: talk about asking people for money online. I think that

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Speaker 3: is the fucking weirdest shit ever. Now, the post that

670
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Speaker 3: I initially found or whatever, or that I saw online.

671
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 3: It had basically said something like, why are you online

672
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Speaker 3: asking people for money on cash app on your birthday?

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Speaker 2: Are you a bum? Now?

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Speaker 3: I disagree with that. I feel like on your birthday

675
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Speaker 3: for a person, and I haven't done this in a

676
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Speaker 3: really long time, Like I think I did this one

677
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Speaker 3: time in my whole like like for my birthday, I

678
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Speaker 3: had posted my cash up and it was probably like

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Speaker 3: four or five years ago.

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Speaker 4: But I don't think anything.

681
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 3: Is wrong with that because I feel like that's the

682
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Speaker 3: same as when somebody paying a dollar on you, and

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Speaker 3: everybody be putting a dollar on the person on their birthday,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Yes, it's my birthday. Donate

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Speaker 3: to the dren the cald Birthday Fund.

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Speaker 4: Why not. I don't see nothing wrong with it.

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Speaker 3: It's the same shit that we grew up doing with

688
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 3: our parents, with our class mad but I don't see

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Speaker 3: anything wrong with it.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 4: If you're a person who you always online asking for.

692
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Speaker 3: Money, that shit is weird. Okay, that shit is mad weird,

693
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 3: like people who are always posting their cash up being like, yes,

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Speaker 3: send me some money like they cash app and they

695
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,959
Speaker 3: bio like that shit is weird, okay, so let me

696
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Speaker 3: but let me make the difference, Like it's different if

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Speaker 3: you're like you're going through you're bigger. Yeah was it,

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Speaker 3: baby Bundy.

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Speaker 2: I'll say this, I don't mind. Like sometimes shit happens.

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Speaker 3: Now we're not talking to people about the people who

701
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702
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Speaker 3: little short things like that, whatever shit happens, Okay, I'm

703
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Speaker 3: talking about the bitches that be like, who want to

704
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Speaker 3: send me coffee money for Starbucks this morning?

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Speaker 2: Who want to send me lunch money? Bitch? I think

706
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Speaker 2: that is so tacky.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie certain that you don't got money

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Speaker 3: for Starbucks.

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Speaker 2: But not only that.

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Speaker 3: Imagine you see a fine ass man or a fine

711
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712
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Speaker 2: I like water a shi, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden, you go to the.

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Speaker 3: Twitter page and they keep tagging cash out because they

717
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Speaker 3: giving away the cash out. You know how cash out

718
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Speaker 3: be like tag us if you want to win one

719
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Speaker 3: Why are you tweet cash up for fifty dollars bro

721
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Speaker 3: in the middle of a Tuesday. And I get it though,

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Speaker 3: because I mean I understand, like, you know, life.

723
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Speaker 4: Is hard or whatever.

724
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Speaker 2: Life is hard for some.

725
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Speaker 3: People, we really and I understand that. But it's like

726
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Speaker 3: find you another way, though, find you another way because

727
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 3: being on the internet begging for money, asking people, asking

728
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: strangers for money all the time, especially if it's not

729
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Speaker 3: an emergency. When it's an emergency, I can understand it.

730
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Speaker 2: That's it.

731
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Speaker 3: I actually had seen something the other day on Instagram.

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733
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734
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735
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Speaker 3: like donated the lady one hundred dollars. But to me,

736
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Speaker 3: that's like an emergency situation and stuff like that you

737
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Speaker 3: can help people out.

738
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Speaker 4: And also, she didn't create the golf me.

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741
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742
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743
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744
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745
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746
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Speaker 3: I'm the same way like I've actually I've helped people

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Speaker 3: pay the bills a few times, like.

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Speaker 2: Rent whatever, because I don't mind, because I've been there.

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Speaker 3: One thing about me back, bit, Oh, I've been the brokest.

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Speaker 3: I've been the brokest bitch. You know.

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Speaker 2: No, I told y'all, and I think, like I said,

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Speaker 2: I say this all the time.

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Speaker 3: I was in Dubai with three dollars. It was actually

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Speaker 3: two ninety eight.

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Speaker 2: If you want to get specific, bitch, very specific. When

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Speaker 4: The country it had been three dollars a year.

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Speaker 2: Count, I ain't nothing left to loose, That's why.

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Speaker 4: What was you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: If?

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Speaker 4: He was like, I'm not, I'm not booking your fleets?

820
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Speaker 2: He said this, what was I gonna do?

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Speaker 3: No? This is why I already I already got scared

822
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Speaker 3: because my flight had got delayed because I had a

823
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Speaker 3: layover in like London or something I can't remember.

824
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 2: So he had actually landed before me. So he was like,

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Speaker 2: we are going to go to the hotel. Here is

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Speaker 2: the address, meet us dam. I was like, I don't

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Speaker 2: bet y'all. Y'all know who the money, So what did

828
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Speaker 2: you do? I was just like, you know.

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Speaker 3: I was like, okay, let me get my dray on.

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Speaker 3: I said, where's my car?

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh my, I am story. Let me

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Speaker 2: send you a com Let me send you a god

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 5: I said, oh, bitch, maybe I was at the airport Swington.

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Speaker 2: I ain't know how it was going.

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Speaker 3: That is nothing one found a way that it found

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Speaker 3: right way.

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Speaker 4: I would be terrified.

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Speaker 3: I just always feel like, if you go somewhere with

840
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Speaker 3: a nigga, you gotta have an emergency fund. I did not.

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Speaker 2: You were nervousy fun. No my Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: Yes, mm hmmm, because I was wanted to be like, uh,

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Speaker 3: why would you go to Newbi you got you know

844
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Speaker 3: that you didn't even because you're just now.

845
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Speaker 4: Telling me about this.

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00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 2: No, because you know.

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Speaker 4: I would have been like to ninety eight legs, I did.

848
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 2: I did, and I do it again. Do it again, bitch,

849
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Speaker 2: but let me I live rave.

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Speaker 3: So no, no, no, I left on like a Wednesday,

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Speaker 3: and my paycheck hit that Friday. So then I was

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Speaker 3: so it hit Why Yeah, so I had three on

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Speaker 3: two ninety eight period.

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Speaker 4: Bro, I'm not about to play with you.

855
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 3: But no, Like I'm just saying, I feel like nothing

856
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 3: is wrong with if it's show birthday, and.

857
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 2: You know I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I posted a cash up a few years ago and

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Speaker 3: I made like five hundred dollars, like a lot of

860
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Speaker 3: cash up. I did.

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Speaker 2: I got some money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But I just I don't know, because I mean,

863
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 3: it's a trend. I see this happen all the time

864
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: on social media. I'll be seeing people asking for.

865
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 2: Send your girl lunch money, the post a cash up.

866
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 2: It's just kind of tacky.

867
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,720
Speaker 3: It is not kinda yeah, it's a little tacky.

868
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 4: It's just a little tacky.

869
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 2: So we gonna fall back on that little bit we night.

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00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: It ain't us, it ain't. And let me also give

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Speaker 2: a disclaimer. Please don't go to Dubai with two ninety eight.

872
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 4: Please, yes, let lex be a cautionary tale.

873
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 2: I always say, let's be with through that. So you ain't.

874
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 3: Got I cannot believe you did that. I would have

875
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Speaker 3: been shot. And you know what's crazy? That was probably Honestly,

876
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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I've never had a bad flyout trip,

877
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Speaker 3: but I had a good time.

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Speaker 2: Man, I had a time. I'm trying to think how

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Speaker 2: much money I think. When I went to Legos, I

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Speaker 2: was doing well.

881
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 3: But it's crazy because every time I go on these trips,

882
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 3: I think I felt okay because I never spent any money.

883
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 3: When I went to Paris, I spent zero dollars. I

884
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 3: had so up to the point of me going to

885
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 3: do But I had been on a few flyouts before,

886
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 3: so I already knew I'm not gonna.

887
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 2: Spend no money, no way. So I literally I already knew.

888
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 3: But see, you know, I guess because I I just

889
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 3: used to be on some other SHP when I used

890
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 3: to be going fly out with people like I used

891
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 3: to be like, I'm not giving up, no coo cheat, Nope.

892
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 4: So I just used to feel, oh no, see.

893
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 2: That's the difference. But I knew I had to pay.

894
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 3: My tab, so I used to feel like, yeah, I

895
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 3: gotta make sure I got money. So you.

896
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 4: Want to book my flight.

897
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 2: You run out on the tab, I'm gonna pay it.

898
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 3: I definitely see running out on the tabach. I used

899
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 3: to be there for a good time, but not a

900
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: long time, right, But also like it would be kind

901
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 3: of like situations where like I was like, okay, like

902
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 3: I liked the person, you know, and it wasn't like

903
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: oh he just find me out and then we never

904
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 3: talk again. You know, it would be like cool situations

905
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 3: and it was like, you know, I mean, if he

906
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 3: was in Atlanta, we was gonna do it anyway, might

907
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 3: as well do it in Dubai.

908
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean. But you know, like

909
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 2: I said, would I do that now? No, because I

910
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 2: like to do things on vacation, Like when I'm on

911
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 2: vacation too, I like to shop now. I like to

912
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 2: do things now.

913
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 4: But you know, would you post your cash up in

914
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 4: twenty twenty.

915
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 2: Two, would I post my cash app?

916
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 4: Or would you put your cash tag and yo bio.

917
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 3: No.

918
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 2: I always think it's weird when, like, I mean, I

919
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 2: want to use my words carefully. I always think it's weird.

920
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 3: Like, okay, so you know how like Twitter has the

921
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 3: thing to where like people can pay for extra content,

922
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 3: so it's like a super tweet, so people can pay.

923
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 3: It's kind of like an OnlyFans or a Patreon for Twitter,

924
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 3: so they're just paying to see what you tweet. I

925
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 3: think it's weird when people who your regular tweet's not good,

926
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 3: why am I paying for it? It's that's a little weird, now,

927
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 3: unless you're like, like if you're like a hairstylist and

928
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 3: you're like giving away you know how I do my

929
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 3: methods or you know, like I don't really think that's

930
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 3: weird though, because I feel like, if every platform is

931
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 3: offering monetization, now, why not try to get your money?

932
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I get it, no, I feel you, but

933
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:19,479
Speaker 2: it's just kind of like.

934
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 3: Shit, if people gonna be crazy enough to pay for

935
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 3: your tweet.

936
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 2: Why not see if they gonna pay for the ship.

937
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 2: When you put it that way, I guess it's just weird.

938
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: I mean you I ain't even know you could do

939
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 2: how you said that, I'm dead. No, it definitely works.

940
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: I mean they're gonna be having it, But like I said,

941
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 2: I just feel like it.

942
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: Kind of takes away from the fun of social media though.

943
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 2: Like I'm not here to pay people.

944
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 3: Social media events stopped being fun out like it's about

945
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 3: getting to the money now. It ain't about It's not

946
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 3: about like just having fun no more. I feel like,

947
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 3: if you smart, you monetizing your platforms, if you can.

948
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 3: You know what I realized yesterday, So I'm begging for money.

949
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 3: Asking for money is completely different from like trying to

950
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 3: make trying to monetize your costs, you know what, trying

951
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 3: to sometimes your content is actually worse.

952
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 2: And let me tell you why. Let me tell you why.

953
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 3: Because I had like a moment I was like, I'm

954
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 3: about to be a TikToker.

955
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna be a TikToker. They're making money. People

956
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 2: know the TikTokers.

957
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 3: And when I really got on TikTok and I was scrolling,

958
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, you motherfuckers, is crazy.

959
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,280
Speaker 2: Why motherfucker's on TikTok is looney.

960
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 3: I seen a guy He's sitting in a for I

961
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 3: swear to god, he's sitting in.

962
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 2: A restaurant, y'all, they start shooting. He gets on TikTok.

963
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, they're shooting, y'all. They're literally shooting in

964
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: the restaurant. Yes, oh my god, I gotta go. I

965
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 2: gotta They will do anything on TikTok.

966
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 3: I mean that's a little extreme, no, and it's I

967
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 3: seen a lady sitting in a line to go pick

968
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 3: up her kids because they had an emergency call because

969
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 3: they said there was a shooter in the school ended

970
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 3: up being.

971
00:41:56,200 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 2: A false alarm. The lady is on TikTok crying, and

972
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 2: the care were like, girl, get off the phone. Call somebody.

973
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you got to rush in the.

974
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 3: But if my nephew was at school and there was

975
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 3: a shooter in the building, the last thing I'm thinking

976
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 3: about is, oh my god, let me get some concent

977
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 3: for pull mind speech.

978
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll see that type of stuff.

979
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 3: I don't necessarily think it's so much be about monetization

980
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 3: it is.

981
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 4: I don't think that's what it is.

982
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 3: I think that a lot of people just want attention,

983
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 3: people be wanting to be popular on It's so many

984
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 3: people that don't even recognize or realize that it's that

985
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 3: you can even make money from certain No, they just

986
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 3: be wanting to be.

987
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 4: Popular, They be wanting to get the view.

988
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 3: The thing that is different about TikTok is because TikTok

989
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 3: has Montig has found a way to monetize. Anybody can

990
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 3: get paid from TikTok.

991
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 2: Literally, on Instagram, you could have five hundred.

992
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 3: Thousand followers and you're not getting paid for your Instagram.

993
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 3: On Twitter, it's barely anybody getting paid to tweet.

994
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 2: On TikTok. Once you hit the ten thousand.

995
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 3: Follower mark, you can get paid for your videos and

996
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 3: they've already everybody if you hit that ten thousand follower

997
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 3: And y'all can correct me in the comments.

998
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: Because I'm not sure, but last last time I checked.

999
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 3: It was ten thousand followers. You're able for monetization. Now

1000
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 3: the pay, I'm not gonna say.

1001
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: Is great, because I think.

1002
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 3: Once you get in a millions, that's when the pay

1003
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 3: kind of gets different. But it's just like you remember

1004
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 3: how we were on YouTube when we first started out.

1005
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,280
Speaker 2: We wanted to be eligible.

1006
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 3: For monetization so bad we were trying to do anything

1007
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 3: to kind of Now we weren't going to the extreme.

1008
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 3: We were just trying to we were trying to make

1009
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 3: that content that pumps like, we were just trying to

1010
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 3: knowing stuff.

1011
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 4: That was popular at the time.

1012
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: That bab Yeah, what did you say it?

1013
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 4: Like, that's how you spelly?

1014
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 2: Why did you say?

1015
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 4: That's how it's spelled?

1016
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: Is it not spelled? Like? Stop saying it like wrow?

1017
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 3: How do you say it?

1018
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 2: If I saying it wrong?

1019
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 5: No?

1020
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:15,919
Speaker 2: How do you say you say bang? No? Why did

1021
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: you do that? Is this how I say it?

1022
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 3: In my mind everything, I'm always saying that bag, oh

1023
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 3: my god, and you keep doing it.

1024
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 2: I was like, why it's weird? Is it weird? It's

1025
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 2: just weird. I don't know, it's freaking.

1026
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 4: I feel like that's how he's supposed to say it.

1027
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,439
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll give that to you. You can have that.

1028
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,839
Speaker 2: But like I said in the beginning, yes, we were

1029
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 2: trying to do.

1030
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 3: Things to just catch on because we wanted to reach

1031
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 3: that that mark of being monetized. And then once we

1032
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 3: got monetized on you, so we was like, damn bitch,

1033
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 3: like we can get monetized.

1034
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 2: Our checks used to be five sixty eight a month.

1035
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 2: Now I was happy because that was more than it's

1036
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,879
Speaker 2: not five yeah, five dollars, but shit, that was more

1037
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:04,879
Speaker 2: than my networks. So I was happy.

1038
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 3: Personally, but I think on YouTube they don't even let

1039
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 3: you cash out unless you.

1040
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:12,320
Speaker 2: Hit one hundred dollars. Yeah, that's like they don't let you.

1041
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 3: But anyways, but I feel like TikTok, I'm not gonna lie.

1042
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 2: TikTok is full of unhinged people.

1043
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 3: Like I'll be going to some people's account, they'd be

1044
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 3: having like millions of followers, and I watch what they

1045
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 3: do and.

1046
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is insane.

1047
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 3: So I realized I'm and then like the content that

1048
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 3: they create. Now, there are some great content creators on TikTok.

1049
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna take that away from them, but I

1050
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 3: can't imagine. Like I was trying to TikTok at the

1051
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 3: live show, and I think this is when I realized.

1052
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, y'all making a TikTok. I'm making

1053
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 2: a TikTok. I'm like, damn, I'm trying to fucking get

1054
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 2: in the moment.

1055
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 3: I'm not.

1056
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get ready for my people. I can't

1057
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 2: even I cannot do this all day. I can't do

1058
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: this and.

1059
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 3: Hold a camera. Like, if I ever became a TikToker

1060
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 3: or a blogger, I'm definitely gonna have to hire somebody.

1061
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 3: That's the thing that's weird about TikTok to me. It's

1062
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 3: just like people recordinate into, like recordinate into like when

1063
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 3: you be seeing like the TikTok couples, and like they'll

1064
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 3: be like, oh, a day in the life, and then

1065
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 3: they're posting them like in the bed, like smuggling up with.

1066
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 4: Hey, come on, let's make Wait this didn't work, Let's actually.

1067
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 2: Do that again. Yeah, hold on, let's that again. I'm

1068
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 2: gonna set the camera back up.

1069
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 4: And then they start dancing, and I just think that's shame.

1070
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then the baby brushing eighteen baby baby heaving,

1071
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 3: the babies involved too, Like it's just weird to me.

1072
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 3: It's one thing to like go on vacation, right, Like

1073
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 3: if you on a vacation with your man and you

1074
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 3: want to post like a cute little blog or you

1075
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 3: want to post a cute little TikTok, so you like

1076
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 3: recording a little content of y'all in the pool or

1077
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,280
Speaker 3: something and you adding it, inserting it into.

1078
00:46:59,040 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 2: Your little mini blog.

1079
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 3: Right, that's cool, But like to literally lay in bed

1080
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 3: in the morning and like record your intimate moments which

1081
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 3: I'm in just so you can make a TikTok. But

1082
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 3: like I said, you have to realize the moment they

1083
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 3: gotta get out of bed, set up the ring.

1084
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: Like yeah, I just I'm not that.

1085
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 3: But the weirdest thing about it too is that those

1086
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 3: are usually the couples that have a lot of followers. Yeah,

1087
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 3: even the people that like do their my vlog in

1088
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 3: the day in the life, they will literally set their

1089
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 3: phone on the ground, get in their car, reverse their

1090
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 3: car just so they have a clip of.

1091
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 2: Them backing out of their parking spot. Yea shit like that,

1092
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 2: Like them are them walking into a store, They'll set

1093
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: up their phone somewhere and walk in the store. I'm like,

1094
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 2: I'll never be a TikToker.

1095
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 3: I won't unless I, like I said, I do want

1096
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 3: to get into vlogging, and that is something. But I'm

1097
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 3: definitely hiring somebody, and it's gonna be a day that

1098
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 3: I prepare.

1099
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lit to y'all. It's gonna be like

1100
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,959
Speaker 2: a day in the life. But be sure, I made

1101
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 2: four appointments today, So this is what I'm doing. Today.

1102
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not gonna lie

1103
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 2: to y'all.

1104
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep one honeying whenever I start blogging, and

1105
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, and I also have a videographer with me

1106
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 3: today because I can't do it.

1107
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 2: I just cannot do it. So yeah, I don't know

1108
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 2: how we got on that topic.

1109
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 4: But because TikTok is a weird place, TikTok.

1110
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 2: Is fucking wild.

1111
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 3: I've never seen so many people cry in the camera.

1112
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 2: The camera is wild.

1113
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 3: It is not so wild to me because people been

1114
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,760
Speaker 3: doing it on Instagram and shit for years, Like people

1115
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 3: been crying.

1116
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:24,720
Speaker 2: Would you cry on camera?

1117
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,240
Speaker 3: No, I'm not gonna lie though, but I barely cry

1118
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 3: and real like, no I cry.

1119
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I've cried before.

1120
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 3: I cried, I don't get me wrong, Like everybody cries sometimes,

1121
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 3: but I'm like.

1122
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,760
Speaker 2: Not really a crier though. Well see this is what happened,

1123
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 2: so Patreon. I've cried before, but it was just.

1124
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 3: Like I was talking about something and I got emotional.

1125
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so sometimes that happens. I wasn't looking to cry

1126
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 2: like some people really be. Like guys like this girl

1127
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 2: literally her snack like her snake died.

1128
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 4: Okay, it was her pig.

1129
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 3: So what she did is she got her snake out

1130
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 3: of the out of the cage.

1131
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 2: The thing.

1132
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 3: She set her phone up and she wrapped and around.

1133
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 3: She was like she did the countdown. She sat there,

1134
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,720
Speaker 3: she rocked, camera stopped.

1135
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 2: Okay, next scene and then and then she added the

1136
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 2: music in the background. So afterwards she added the ship

1137
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 2: that understanding.

1138
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 3: TikTok is for unhinged people, So if you are an

1139
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 3: unhinged person, TikTok is for the unhinged. I'll be trying

1140
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 3: to get into it, but like it's.

1141
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll be too old. We restart. This is where

1142
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 2: we are. And I mean, I'm a I'm.

1143
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 4: Still like those stuff occasionally, you know what I mean?

1144
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 2: But like a period period.

1145
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: Ah, you're not gonna do your period show you no,

1146
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 3: because that period period. Stupid fucking video this on the

1147
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 3: internet right now. I hate that fucking video.

1148
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 2: Did you see?

1149
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 3: I had reposted some video to this dude the other

1150
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 3: day and the girl was like period a period?

1151
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 2: Uh he took his shoe off and hit her account.

1152
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, bro, Like that video is literally the laziest

1153
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 3: most But what I'm saying that and then like somebody

1154
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 3: had posted something about her.

1155
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 4: I guess yesterday some.

1156
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 3: Guy on TikTok, because I guess she's been like imitating

1157
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 3: people who have disabilities, Like she's been like faking a

1158
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 3: speech impediment, but she really don't have one. And he

1159
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 3: provided the videos that shows that she didn't really have one,

1160
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 3: and then the videos where she was like faking the

1161
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 3: speech impediment.

1162
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:55,280
Speaker 4: That type of stuff is weird.

1163
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 2: It is weird. But that's that's why I said the

1164
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 2: thing about TikTok is crazy.

1165
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 3: Because people on there are on and you can create

1166
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 3: anything that you want to create. I think the reason

1167
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 3: that poor minds is different, and it's because we've just

1168
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 3: always just been ourselves.

1169
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, these people.

1170
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 3: Sometimes and I don't know this girl or where she's from,

1171
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 3: and I'm not just talking about her for some reason.

1172
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 2: I don't know why people are fascinated by white people

1173
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: that can cause play or act black.

1174
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 3: When a white boy has rhythm, the world goes crazy. Child.

1175
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 2: Don't let a white boy know how to douggie bitch.

1176
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 3: He about to go vioral for four years and be

1177
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:39,839
Speaker 3: on sword, Well, they'll go crazy. In the UK, the UK,

1178
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 3: the UK, white people got sold a mean.

1179
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 2: Shut up to it.

1180
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 4: That's I think that's just not normal. Maybe here in

1181
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 4: the stage right right right.

1182
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 3: But I mean I'll agree because what's his name?

1183
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 2: Sam Smith can sing?

1184
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 3: But we are just in timber, like you know what,

1185
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 3: I feel like all JT's are good. This is what

1186
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,800
Speaker 3: I realized the other day, justin.

1187
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 2: Jack Thriller, Jack Throllyer is a JT.

1188
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 3: And now we're gonna give him his flowers because that

1189
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 3: couchie like a dyke is a hit. Eating Yo Kuchi

1190
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 3: like a dyke is a white you know. And I

1191
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 3: can't say that I know what it's like. I can't

1192
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 3: wait to get you know what everybody said.

1193
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get everybody that has sat on

1194
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,919
Speaker 2: this on this table with us.

1195
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 3: And saying, oh, Lex, you can come to the studio

1196
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 3: with us.

1197
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 2: Now. I did have some people really hit me up

1198
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 2: and be like, Lex, you coming to the stoop. I'm

1199
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 2: going to the studio with Jack goddamnit. And we're recording

1200
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 2: Koochie like a dyke.

1201
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 4: Y'all gonna record like I'm recording Coochie like a dyke.

1202
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 2: Period that is a hit. That is a hit.

1203
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 3: I mean, I have to hear more lyrics.

1204
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 2: It was only two bars.

1205
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 3: I got him whatever he means, I'm a jo, asked

1206
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 3: like a bike, and each show cool chee like a.

1207
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 2: Poetry.

1208
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 4: Now it was a bar, but that's it.

1209
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 2: Like, I don't know if it's more where that came from?

1210
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 2: Why I see it in his eye? So now we

1211
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 2: gonna get.

1212
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 3: Into the bow. So today I wanted to switch it, y'all,

1213
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 3: ain't she? So today we usually do sex facts, but

1214
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:37,439
Speaker 3: today I want to do sex myth that you might

1215
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 3: still believe, because I feel like there's a lot of

1216
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 3: things about sex that we talk about that we'd be like, oh,

1217
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 3: I know.

1218
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 2: This is true, but it's low key not true.

1219
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 3: So we're gonna read a few of them to debunk

1220
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:54,240
Speaker 3: these sex myths. So the first one, the myth is

1221
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 3: that sex burns major calories. That is completely false. So

1222
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 3: if you skip your workouts today, you'd be like, Okay,

1223
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 3: I'm about to fuck this nigga tonight. No, bitch, you

1224
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 3: still need to go to the gym. Okay, being a

1225
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 3: whole does not mean you gonna be skinny. Trust me, Okay,

1226
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 3: trust me all right. So experts estimate thirty minutes of

1227
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 3: sex burns eighty five to one hundred and fifty calories.

1228
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: That's nothing.

1229
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 4: It's schaulane. You burn more than that in the sauna.

1230
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 3: Literally, one hundred and fifty calories is not nothing for

1231
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 3: thirty minutes of wit.

1232
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: Oh hell no.

1233
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 3: So that's sex meth fact number one. Sex you not

1234
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: burning no calories, bitch Min's number two. There's a ten

1235
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 3: year difference between women and men's sexual peaks. Men tsosterone

1236
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 3: peaks at around age eighteen, but women's instrog levels peaks

1237
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 3: in their mid twenties. And that's crazy because but they

1238
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 3: always said that, I feel like this is something we

1239
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:56,800
Speaker 3: had a new though.

1240
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't know this because.

1241
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 4: Us we mad horny in high school.

1242
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 3: And yet, but what I'm saying is we always thought

1243
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 3: for us that we always peaked later because I always

1244
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 3: felt like, oh, when I turned thirty, I got super horny,

1245
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 3: because I did. I did, But I was always horny.

1246
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 3: Though you was horny your twenties. You was mad horny

1247
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 3: all the time I've known you.

1248
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 2: Okay, but wait, though, all I'm saying is what I

1249
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 2: realized it, ay changed. I am extremely horny. Yes, I'm

1250
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: not gonna lie.

1251
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:35,720
Speaker 3: Yay creepy horny, b I'm not a creepy as who

1252
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 3: do you think I'm a creep I think you're like

1253
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 3: mad horny, like top ten top not even top ten,

1254
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 3: like you like top three horny as people I ever

1255
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:45,399
Speaker 3: made him horny?

1256
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 2: Me or Ryan?

1257
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 3: You what?

1258
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 2: No? You lying?

1259
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 3: Now?

1260
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 2: I swear to god shit shitlex.

1261
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:57,800
Speaker 4: You are horny.

1262
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 3: Bro't make people on comfortable, But it.

1263
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 4: About making people uncomfortable.

1264
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:02,839
Speaker 2: You don't.

1265
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 4: It take a lot for a person to make me

1266
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 4: uncome right, right, so you don't make me uncomfortable.

1267
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 3: And I don't think you make people uncomfortable, but you

1268
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 3: are a mad horny.

1269
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 4: You always want to have sex.

1270
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 2: All day, every day over anyways. But I'm not individual.

1271
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 2: I thought, I'm not gonna lie.

1272
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 3: I thought when women hit thirty, it's like, oh we

1273
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 3: hit this thing and oh it's so different.

1274
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. Did I hit thirty and become warnier?

1275
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:32,279
Speaker 2: I thought that it was.

1276
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 3: But I just think I discovered I started discovering things

1277
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 3: that I liked in the bedroom. I think if you

1278
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 3: had a choice, like if you could only do one thing,

1279
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 3: like say you had to choose between like eating and

1280
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,879
Speaker 3: rubbing one out, you would choose to rub one out.

1281
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,240
Speaker 2: I don't even like food. I'm skinny now.

1282
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. Because you're a horny nigga. I

1283
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 4: will starve and see I gonna choose food never.

1284
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,919
Speaker 2: I'm never. I'm trying to combine the two. I'm weak, hot,

1285
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 2: no good, Okay, I wanted to I love this.

1286
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 3: Myth, and I'm glad we are debunking this. Sex can

1287
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 3: give you a heart attack. That is not true. So

1288
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 3: all you young bitches out there, fucking old niggas, you

1289
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 3: thought you did something because.

1290
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 2: You're like girl. I gave him my heart attack.

1291
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 3: He couldn't breathe, but his heart was already made.

1292
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 2: That shit was already dead to the bee beach.

1293
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 3: The chance of having a heart attack while you were

1294
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 3: having sex is very low if your heart has already problems.

1295
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 3: The reality is that the physical exertion most people put

1296
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 3: in on having sex.

1297
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 2: It's similar to walking up two flights of stairs.

1298
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 3: So the chances of somebody like having a heart attack

1299
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: during sex because of the activity is very low because

1300
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 3: sex doesn't require a lot of physicalness unless y'all into

1301
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 3: some other chit.

1302
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 2: Damn, I'm sad. This is crazy, right.

1303
00:57:56,040 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 3: Mex Oysters and chocolate are turn ons sa he has

1304
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 3: ever shown any sexually enhancing effect from oysters. They do

1305
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 3: contain a lot of zinc, which is good for sparm health,

1306
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 3: but otherwise scientists have found no special ingredients to suggest

1307
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 3: it has any sexually enhancing effects.

1308
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 2: You know what I think it is.

1309
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 3: It's like a placebo effect, like if you're at dinner

1310
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 3: with somebody and you're like, oh, oysters are an aphrodisiac,

1311
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 3: and you're sitting here sucking on these oysters. Of course,

1312
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 3: his dick gonna get hard. You can tap anig on

1313
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 3: the shoulder and his dick get hard.

1314
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1315
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 3: It's something about like like all of a sudden, like

1316
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 3: it's like I'm horny.

1317
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 2: What was his name? All of a sudden from white girls?

1318
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 2: He was like this. He ain't that. If I was

1319
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 2: on the data man, oister like that, I'd be like

1320
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 2: this because I'm like, we about to be at the

1321
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 2: table cutting up bit.

1322
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 4: Why Because you horny?

1323
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 2: That's why.

1324
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 4: And so for chocolate, it said. My studies suggests that

1325
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 4: chocolate is.

1326
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 3: Tied to lower blood pressure and bitter functioning above thissus,

1327
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 3: which may enhance blood flow to the penis, which is

1328
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 3: important for erections. And to the woman's pelvic region as well,

1329
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 3: which stimulates arousal.

1330
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 2: However, this is just speculation. M okay. So this is

1331
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 2: another one that I thought was true.

1332
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 3: It says it's a myth men think about sex every

1333
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 3: seven seconds. Bro.

1334
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 4: Whoever thought niggas think about.

1335
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 3: Thought that, like they just like they see a bitch

1336
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 3: and they be like, oh, because I mean you see

1337
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:34,959
Speaker 3: not let me not say a bitch.

1338
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 2: I'm a little tipsy.

1339
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 3: Now you see a woman a woman and you be like, damn,

1340
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 3: that's what I used to think.

1341
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 2: And you know, you see women all day every day.

1342
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 3: So a study in twenty eleven and the Journal of

1343
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 3: Sex Research has debunked that myth. So the findings revealed

1344
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 3: that men think about sets set way less than we think,

1345
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 3: averaging about nineteen six thoughts per day instead of the.

1346
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 2: Eight thousand that people assume.

1347
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I literally never thought niggas think about

1348
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 3: sex eight thousand times a day.

1349
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 2: That's a lot of times. I honestly think that, like nineteen.

1350
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 3: Eighteen nineteen is more on brand, because I mean that's

1351
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 3: like about once every hour that you await on how

1352
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 3: long you will wait? That's how what do you think

1353
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 3: you average what I'm know. I mean, I know, but

1354
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 3: do you think about sex every hour?

1355
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 2: No? I don't a lot. I don't care who tell it.

1356
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 3: I don't think about sex every hour. M. We already

1357
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 3: talked about this, so we're gonna skip that. M.

1358
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 4: It's a lot of these Yeah, this is actually a lot.

1359
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 2: Who thought this? Though? Nobody ever thought. I don't think

1360
01:00:58,760 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 2: nobody ever thought.

1361
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 4: That sex and intercourse are one and the same.

1362
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 2: That's a myth. That's what they're saying.

1363
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 4: Generally means penetrative sex.

1364
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 3: However, sex can and should include much more than the

1365
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 3: A licensed professional counselor and sex therapist in Alphabeta Georgia

1366
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 3: Melissa coates, she said sex has an emotional component and

1367
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 3: encompasses a wide variety of sexual activities, which may or

1368
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 3: may not include intercourse.

1369
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 4: She explains, Okay, so that's true.

1370
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 3: Though, because a nigga can be like, yeah, I had

1371
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 3: sex with Drea and he just ate Yo Kuchi.

1372
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 2: That was oral sex.

1373
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 3: So whatever the next person assumes is on now. But

1374
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 3: technically y'all had sex, y'all didn't have intercourse. Some of

1375
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 3: these myths is like for people who I feel like,

1376
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:54,439
Speaker 3: don't know no bitter because what you can tell who

1377
01:01:54,480 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 3: has a STD. We all hope y'all all everybody already

1378
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 3: knew that that was a me. That's definitely a myth

1379
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 3: because you can't you can't look at people intel lamid.

1380
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 2: He ain't got no face, God damn it. All right,

1381
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: So those are the sex menths that we have today.

1382
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 2: If y'all have any other sex myths.

1383
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 3: That y'all want to add, let us know, because I'm interested,

1384
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 3: because I feel like it'd be a lot of sex

1385
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 3: menths going around and you don't know what the fuck

1386
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 3: is going on. So now we're gonna get into about.

1387
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 2: Okay, my bop of the week.

1388
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 3: I'm actually really excited about this song. It's actually I

1389
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 3: think it's a year or two old. And when let

1390
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 3: me tell y'all something, when I hear a song for

1391
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 3: the first time and it's good to me the first.

1392
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 2: Time, that's how I know it's a good fucking.

1393
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 3: Song Because a lot of times you have to listen

1394
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 3: to something a few times. You got to listen to

1395
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 3: albums a few times, No grow on you. I heard

1396
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 3: this song the first time and it was so fired

1397
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 3: and I'm I have to do my research on this girl,

1398
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:03,919
Speaker 3: and really just like listen to more of her music,

1399
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 3: because this is the only song I've heard about her.

1400
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 3: A listener actually sent this to me and I couldn't

1401
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 3: find it. When y'all send meself, I kind of put

1402
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 3: them on a list and whenever I have extra time,

1403
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 3: I'll go listen to it.

1404
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 2: So the song is called Nothing Without You. It's a boy.

1405
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 3: I don't know how to say it, tan Reel tan Rel.

1406
01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 3: I don't know how to say your name at all,

1407
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 3: Tanner Tannerrel.

1408
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 2: It's t A N E R E L l E.

1409
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 3: The song is called Nothing Without You, and her voice

1410
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 3: is so smooth. It's an R and B joint and

1411
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 3: she's just basically like confessing her love to her boom

1412
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 3: and she in love. And when I tell you, she

1413
01:03:45,160 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 3: gets it. Whenever they was in the studio making this song,

1414
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 3: they they understood the assignment and they got it. It

1415
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 3: is such a good song. The first time I heard it,

1416
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, now, whoever sent me this song,

1417
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 3: please see in me because you get my taste of music.

1418
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: Sometimes y'all be sitting me stuff, I'm like, why would

1419
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 2: you think I would like this?

1420
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 3: But sometimes y'all send me stuff and y'all get it.

1421
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 3: And whoever sent me this you understood the assignment. So yes,

1422
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 3: nothing without you by ten ten real.

1423
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 2: I hope I'm saying you're right. So yeah, that's my

1424
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 2: bop of the week.

1425
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 3: What you Got sees Loving a Way by Blue and

1426
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 3: Nicki Minaj. Okay, but you'll know I love Nikki, right,

1427
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 3: we love Nikki around here.

1428
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm not gonna lie, and I like Bluetooth.

1429
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 3: I was just about to say that he has actually

1430
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 3: surprised me because sometimes I feel like things can get

1431
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 3: a little gimmicky with the industry sometimes, and I feel

1432
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:42,480
Speaker 3: like he has done a good job, like like showing

1433
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 3: me like, Okay, you really you are really.

1434
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 2: An artist, because sometimes you can tell.

1435
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 3: When people kind of be like industry plants a little bit,

1436
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 3: but you can tell like he's really an artist and

1437
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 3: he's very serious.

1438
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 2: About, you know, the music that he makes. He's very intentional.

1439
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 2: He makes hits.

1440
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't really heard like no songs.

1441
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 2: Yeah I don't good. Yeah he can sing. I know

1442
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 2: he be like this, you know when niggas hold that.

1443
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, so those high vibes. So now you know, we

1444
01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 3: go to get into our favorite segment of the show,

1445
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 3: which is Pour your Heart Out. So if you have

1446
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 3: any questions, you can always send them to ask Poor

1447
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 3: Minds at gmail dot com. That's ask p o U

1448
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 3: r M my n ds at gmail dot com. We

1449
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 3: take testimonials to period. So question number one, Dear prow Andre.

1450
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my name. I'm a thirty year.

1451
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 3: Old black man who has been dating the same thirty

1452
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 3: year old black woman on and off for about three years.

1453
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 3: I've extonated her exclusively at least twice, and she turned

1454
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 3: me down each time, saying that she was weighing her options.

1455
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 3: I recently let her use my macwook for a job interview,

1456
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 3: and when she unlocked it, it was on the tab

1457
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 3: showing my in business and bank account, which is slightly

1458
01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 3: over eight figures altogether. After seeing that, she suddenly got

1459
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 3: the urge to cut off all of her holes and

1460
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 3: wants me to propose to her.

1461
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 2: Here's the issue.

1462
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 3: She's upset with me because she claims I hid the

1463
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 3: amount of money I make from her.

1464
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 2: This isn't true. She just always thought.

1465
01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 3: I was lying or exaggerating when I told her about

1466
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 3: my business ventures. She always thought I was joking when

1467
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 3: I said I own the vacation homes we stayed in,

1468
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 3: thought my mayback was rented because I drive a Nissan

1469
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:29,280
Speaker 3: every day and said my apartment just doesn't scream millionaire.

1470
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 3: In her exact words, I'm definitely not proposing. So my

1471
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 3: question is should I match her new energy and date

1472
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:38,040
Speaker 3: her exclusively or trust the feeling that she only wants

1473
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 3: to commit to the money and not to me.

1474
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 2: Piz.

1475
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 3: She also thinks I know Drea personally and it's convinced

1476
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 3: we had something going on because she saw me DM

1477
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 3: her to thank her for recommending a restaurant in Atlanta

1478
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 3: on the podcast.

1479
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 4: H you don't know me, but you could.

1480
01:06:56,520 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 2: I'm week not a lady man.

1481
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 3: Now she really about to beat your assaying.

1482
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 4: I'm playing, but I'm a red Yeah.

1483
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 3: I definitely think it's a red flag for sure. Like

1484
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 3: why the hell would you even still date her exclusively?

1485
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 3: Right because she showed you her car exactly if you

1486
01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 3: said yourself, I'm not gonna propose. So like, if you

1487
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 3: know that there was a turnof for you when you

1488
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 3: don't want to propose to her, you don't. I was like,

1489
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 3: once you hit thirty, you need to date intentionally. Then

1490
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 3: you have to have intentions when you dating people. We

1491
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 3: hang out here just dating people for fun, no more

1492
01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 3: once you hit thirty, like it needs to be somebody

1493
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 3: you can see y also building something we and so

1494
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 3: I feel like if you've tried numerous times to get

1495
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 3: in a relationship with her critically, but I feel like

1496
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 3: if you tried numerous times to be in a relationship

1497
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 3: with her and she turned you down, what all of

1498
01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 3: a sudden it has shifted her narrative, shifting her mindset.

1499
01:07:58,160 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 4: And we know it's the money.

1500
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 3: But let me ask up play Devil's advocate. You left

1501
01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:05,919
Speaker 3: that tab open on purpose. You want to let if

1502
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 3: you give somebody your computer, you're making sure all your

1503
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 3: information and.

1504
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 2: That shot like that is closed out.

1505
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 3: You knew what you were doing and you really got

1506
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 3: what you asked for.

1507
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 2: He ain't sleek and even he said too because he

1508
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 2: wants me. He want Yeah, Drea, what the fuck going on?

1509
01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 3: Let me tell you I drive a Nissan, but I

1510
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 3: gotta make back and vacation.

1511
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 2: Home that we stay in. You as not slick. I'm

1512
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:41,080
Speaker 2: on to you. We you show me the backday.

1513
01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 3: He trying to call you p road to the butter

1514
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 3: you all.

1515
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 2: You are a red flat. Your god damn self. See

1516
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 2: how we found him out real quick?

1517
01:08:57,080 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 3: Ya you probably made that ship all up and he

1518
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 3: about the sliding your dms as soon as it's empison drop.

1519
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:04,840
Speaker 2: I see you read my question.

1520
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 3: I need another restaurant recommendation if you don't mind, oh

1521
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 3: Edney question. Hey ladies, I've been following you all for

1522
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 3: a few years and I've learned so much from you

1523
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 3: in regards to dating.

1524
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:19,560
Speaker 2: I'm almost twenty.

1525
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 3: Seven and I recently had my first flyout experience, and

1526
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 3: thanks to your tips, it was super successful. It was

1527
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:28,479
Speaker 3: a great weekend getaway to Fort Lauderdale. I didn't have

1528
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 3: to lift a finger or pay for anything. He was

1529
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Speaker 3: a complete gentleman and we had so much fun going

1530
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Speaker 3: to dinners and the casino.

1531
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Speaker 2: I don't care what anybody else says.

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Speaker 3: Y'all are one thousand percent right and keep keeping your

1533
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Speaker 3: standards high and not settling for less.

1534
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Speaker 2: Please keep doing the Lord's work.

1535
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Speaker 4: Ah man A me and sister and we will.

1536
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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, because you know what, what's crazy

1537
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Speaker 3: to me, I feel like we when I hear those

1538
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Speaker 3: stories about like bad flyouts.

1539
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Speaker 2: I have never been on a bath flo out bro never,

1540
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Speaker 2: not once.

1541
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep doing the lawyer's work because that's why

1542
01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 3: he put me here. Mary Clarence, it's definitely not given

1543
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Speaker 3: that because sister Mary.

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Speaker 2: System marriage improved version the whole. No, that does.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So if y'all want to email us, make sure

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1550
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Speaker 2: You talk about me? Why did you say that like that?

1551
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Speaker 3: Because that was my boy www dot min dot com.

1552
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 2: I know we're about to read the ads. I'll get

1553
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Speaker 2: my voice.

1554
01:10:50,320 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 5: Okay, you need to do this song? Oh wait, I

1555
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Speaker 5: just had a revelation. What I can see them?

1556
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Speaker 2: No?

1557
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 3: No, did did Drake sample this song when he needs

1558
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Speaker 3: the intro to legend?

1559
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Speaker 2: He did? I'm slow you realize it because you heard

1560
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Speaker 2: my hoss. I really hated laying eggs. I'm paiging you

1561
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Speaker 2: wishing you come on over min please, I have the world.

1562
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Speaker 2: Let me know we can just keep talking. Build the

1563
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Speaker 2: last ship.

1564
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Speaker 3: Hey, he.

1565
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Speaker 2: Whoa weeded? Come on?

1566
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Speaker 3: Drea Sae too, money only.

1567
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Speaker 2: Bubble bags and bang ground.

1568
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Speaker 3: Hit me back and girl I hope you hurry acious.

1569
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Speaker 2: At eleven thirty.

1570
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Speaker 6: Hey, even when it's a Kidgert He said, I'm so show.

1571
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Speaker 3: Girl.

1572
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Speaker 2: Okay, you quip this starling.

1573
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Speaker 4: Hey, you know I'm gonna sax.

1574
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Speaker 2: So Holly said, I'm so.

1575
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Speaker 6: Anxious love it when you're a kid. Gerty said, I'm

1576
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 6: so so ago. Guess girl, can you click this stalling?

1577
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Speaker 2: You know I'm gonna six a hunt. It's tensing. Where

1578
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Speaker 2: are you big?

1579
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Speaker 3: Where are you mad?

1580
01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 2: Get my message? Getting my message? Your specially serious that

1581
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Speaker 2: you're doing the.

1582
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 5: Same they same thing I've been thinking.

1583
01:12:57,520 --> 01:13:00,600
Speaker 6: You say you're working, sir, you're wrong and hit me

1584
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Speaker 6: just a slial shift this sole but oh.

1585
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Speaker 2: I don't be away. I can't sleep. I can't sleep

1586
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Speaker 2: for money.

1587
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Speaker 6: Says about windle me bad.

1588
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Speaker 2: Bad steaming god. Damn nigga.

1589
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Speaker 3: Okay, nigga, I'm gonna hit you back with my shift

1590
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Speaker 3: over who your aid?

1591
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Speaker 4: Thirsty shout out to he had him in a choke hold.

1592
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Speaker 2: I love Jin because he's been on tour living his

1593
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Speaker 2: best life. Shout out to jingy Wine. Anything else you

1594
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Speaker 2: want to add?

1595
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:50,760
Speaker 3: No, you know you still want to see she's talking

1596
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 3: about me.

1597
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 2: It's really hard. She's I love this all. I'm wak

1598
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Speaker 2: by y'all. Are you out next week? B?