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Speaker 1: I uninvited my sister from the wedding because I hate

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Speaker 1: her husband, good reason divorce him. So I twenty nine female,

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Speaker 1: am getting married in a few months, and I decided

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Speaker 1: not to invite my older sister, Emily thirty two female.

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Speaker 1: Before you judge, here's why. Emily's husband, Jake is a nightmare.

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Speaker 1: He's always rude, makes inappropriate jokes, and always tries to

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Speaker 2: Dude, he's just an alpha. Dude. Now, it's just an

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Speaker 2: alpha being an alpha.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm so sigma babe. A family gatherings, he interrupts people,

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Speaker 1: brags about his job, and even tries to talk down

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Speaker 1: my fiance, Mike thirty male. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from a Nanamu person from the Boru updates. So the

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Speaker 1: last straw was at our engagement party a few months ago.

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Speaker 1: Jake got wasted and made a speech uninvited, of course,

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Speaker 1: where he joked about how I could finally find someone

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Speaker 1: who could put up with me. Everyone was uncomfortable, Mike

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Speaker 1: was furious, but we let it go.

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Speaker 2: To keep the piece. What a terrible speech.

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Speaker 1: I feel the piece is about to be not kept

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Speaker 1: for much longer.

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Speaker 2: Yep, peace Keepers ain't doing a good job. The districts

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Speaker 2: are going to rebut.

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Speaker 1: Well that's rrch hunger games games. Fast forward to my

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Speaker 1: wedding planning. Mike and I agreed that we did not

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Speaker 1: want Jake ruining our big day. So I called Emily

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Speaker 1: and explained that while we love her, we didn't want

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Speaker 1: Jake there because of his behavior. I even offered to

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Speaker 1: have a separate celebration with her after the wedding, but

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Speaker 1: she was livid. She said I was forcing her to

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Speaker 1: choose between me and her husband, and that it was

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Speaker 1: cruel to exclude her because of him. Now my parents

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Speaker 1: are upset too, saying that I'm tearing the family apart.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think I'm in the wrong for wanting

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Speaker 1: someone who disrespects me and my fiance at our wedding.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? We have some comments, we

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Speaker 1: have a judgment, and an update just twenty four hours later.

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Speaker 2: All right, First of all, yes, it's your wedding.

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Speaker 1: It's your wedding.

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Speaker 2: It is your wedding. You do not have to have

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Speaker 2: anyone there that you do not want. So have your

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Speaker 2: wedding and the way that is going to make you

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Speaker 2: feel like you can experience the joys of love and

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Speaker 2: life the best way possible. So no, I do not

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Speaker 2: think you're the a hole for not inviting someone that

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Speaker 2: is actively rude to you and actively might f it up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this guy is making unannounced speeches like the

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Speaker 2: best side of the wedding outside of the wedding. The

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Speaker 2: best place to make an unannounced speech is at a

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Speaker 2: freaking wedding. You have the floor, other people are doing it.

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Speaker 2: You clink your glass and you're like, I want to

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Speaker 2: say something, and then just yell obscenities at the happy couple, like, no,

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Speaker 2: have that person far far away. It sucks that your

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Speaker 2: sister's caught in the in like the trapannel or the

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Speaker 2: throstfire crossfire, but you know, like she chose to mary

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Speaker 2: in a hole, so it's kind of her fault.

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Speaker 1: That's true. I wonder bye, by the way, dude question.

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Speaker 1: I wonder how the sister is and how their dynamic

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Speaker 1: and relationship is.

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Speaker 2: And she being dominated too.

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Speaker 1: She might be or not a yo the other way

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Speaker 1: around compensating.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's kind of like how like powerful CEOs love

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Speaker 2: to have their balls being stepped on, you know, ouch.

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Speaker 3: I know too powerful.

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Speaker 4: You're trying to say Sam dude set this promotion.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. But yeah, I'm kind of curious if

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Speaker 1: birds of a feather flock together and if the sister

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Speaker 1: is actually like the husband and Opie just hasn't gotten

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Speaker 1: around yeah revealing that yet. But ultimately I agree with you,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, I think Opie did as much

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Speaker 1: in saying like, listen, I I hate to say this,

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Speaker 1: but I just don't want your husband this way.

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Speaker 2: You know, could be behind every powerful a hole man,

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Speaker 2: there's a powerful a whole woman pulling the strings.

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Speaker 1: Exactly mm hmmm out.

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Speaker 2: Out of the hole.

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Speaker 1: If you get what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Class Edition.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Let's get into these relemant comments.

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Speaker 3: So class glass edition, Glass edition.

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Speaker 1: Oh I heard you the first time.

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Speaker 3: With glass, Like with a glass thing. Glass is better

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Speaker 2: Right, pulling it out of for dildo's Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 2: you told us. Well, I don't think anyone's using wooden.

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Speaker 3: Glass was the best.

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Speaker 2: Glass is better than latex because it has like self

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Speaker 2: cleaning properties like glasses, it's like harder for bacteria to

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Speaker 1: Didn't know that anyway, all right, let's get to these

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Speaker 1: Roman comments. Gothic Lablin says, you're not the ahole. You're

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Speaker 1: not tearing this family apart. Jake is boom and honestly,

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Speaker 1: if your parents are going to choose his side over

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Speaker 1: their own daughter's good point, they're not doing a great

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Speaker 1: job of keeping the family together either. Miss Moonlight Love says,

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Speaker 1: it's your wedding day and you have every right to

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Speaker 1: decide who attends. You've given your sister an alternative option

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Speaker 1: to celebrate, so it's not like you're excluding her completely.

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Speaker 1: Your sister's husband has shown clear disrespect, and it makes

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not like she's not saying the sister

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Speaker 1: That without the glass.

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Speaker 2: She's saying because she's giving an option for her to come.

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Speaker 1: Yes, op said. Okay called to Emily and explain that

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Speaker 1: while we love her, we didn't want Jake there because

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Speaker 2: Can invite her and just say not Jake, Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like why would you uninvite her from that makes.

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Speaker 2: Less Yeah, but again like if you just don't want

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Speaker 1: not sure. But your sister is understandably upset, but that's

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Speaker 1: more about her choosing to defend your husband's boor behavior

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Speaker 1: rather than acknowledging your feelings. You're not tearing this family apart.

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Speaker 1: You're simply standing up for yourself and your boundaries judgment,

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Speaker 1: not the ahole. Something funny, Sophia, did someone reading the

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Speaker 1: I did? Okay, we read so many words and sometimes

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Speaker 2: she's coming up. So just to clarify, Opie sister's husband,

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Speaker 2: big old Floppy. Oh yeah, op is like, I don't

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Speaker 2: And I think I think, like it's it's fine, you

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Speaker 2: can again, like what I said, you can do whatever

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Speaker 2: I don't want your husband there, and give that option too.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what the alternative wedding.

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Speaker 1: And let me know if I'm misinterpreting that chat, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the only mac whack move that I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jody Maine says, invite the sister, not the husband.

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Speaker 2: If the sister chooses not to come, that is her choice.

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Speaker 2: I think I think that's where I'm at.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because why Yeah, why go through all the trouble

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Speaker 2: With just what does that even look like? Too? It's like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: let's go all to go to in and out and

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Speaker 2: I'll be in my wedding dress. Like, like, what is

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that is?

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Speaker 1: That is that an a whole move on Opie's part

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Speaker 1: to not invite the sister, Yeah, to do offer the

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Speaker 1: a what's the word like aloof for like, uh, what's

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Speaker 1: a faux pas? It's a faux pa. It's a faux pas?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I would love to know what

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Speaker 2: I would invite the sister and not the husband. Yeah, definitely,

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Speaker 1: Well we have an update.

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Speaker 2: Mingming says, Yeah, OPI was a bit of an a hole.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. See that's I think some people will say that,

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Speaker 1: changes her tune. Let's find out. Thanks so much for

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Speaker 1: To my surprise, Emily was really receptive.

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Speaker 2: Dude, I see you, she's going to divorce him. That's

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Speaker 2: my icee you mm hmmm, are the rose colored glasses

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Speaker 2: And she's just seen a covered man ooh, little little

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Speaker 1: The glasses have come off, and she is off coming

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Speaker 1: She said she had been feeling inflicted about Jake's behavior too,

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Speaker 1: biggest shock. She offered to talk to Jake herself.

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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, that's a win complete one, aid dude. I

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Speaker 2: Are we sixteen minutes?

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Speaker 2: I kicked my brother out of my wedding because he

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Speaker 2: all that rights.

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Speaker 1: Nope, nope.

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Speaker 2: Also, this comes from Moan Irab ninety six, and they say, well,

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Speaker 2: it was until my brother decided to ruin it. For context.

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Speaker 2: My brother thirty mail, has always had a weird thing

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Speaker 2: Growing up, I'd laugh it off or get mad, and

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Speaker 2: this time it went way too far. I feel like

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Speaker 1: Whole generation of rabble rousers rousing.

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Speaker 2: The wrong way, rousing the wrong rabble. Rabble can be

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Speaker 2: No, by this time it went too far. During our reception,

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Speaker 2: Oh god, he got up to give a speech.

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Speaker 1: Yep, there it is.

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Speaker 2: I thought it would be nice, maybe sorry, Ophie, Maybe

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Speaker 2: he'd say something heartfelt for once, but no, he pulls

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Speaker 2: Of course No, this man is illiterate. He just kept

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Speaker 2: really quick. We got way more of this story. But John,

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Speaker 1: I think that's what should be done because it stops

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Speaker 2: Like and also win the rest of the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Dude, Ruin, get him out of here, Round up the

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Speaker 1: boys and take care of it. Like boys, let's go

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Speaker 1: stick them.

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Speaker 2: We ride pantsome kick him out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get him.

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Speaker 2: Out of there. That's a lot.

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Speaker 1: You know what else looks like it's wig?

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Speaker 2: Oh got him? Got him? I said he was done

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Speaker 1: Also sorry, real quick, Kim says, why does he why

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Speaker 1: Just the the malicious levels of actually insane preparedness he

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, projectors at wedding are are crazy. Have you

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Speaker 2: projectors can are tools of massive destruction.

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Speaker 1: Projectors in your wedding at your own cost.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a video out there on that.

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Speaker 1: Well, I got to watch that now.

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Speaker 2: Wild. Wow, it's wild. Maybe we could watch it and

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Speaker 2: react to it after this story. I like that. Okay. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: my wife was humiliated. He tried to brush it off,

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Speaker 2: saying I was ruining the fun and that everyone else

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Speaker 2: He stormed out, calling me an effing drama queen on

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Speaker 2: ruined my own wedding over a joke. I get that

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Speaker 2: I blew up, but I couldn't stand seeing my wife

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Speaker 2: so hurt. Did I go too far? Am I the

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Speaker 1: He got up and stopped. He did exactly we should

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Speaker 1: gonna hurt her. More so, stop it as soon as possible,

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Speaker 1: which Obi did. He called security over to help you

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Speaker 1: everything right. What is wrong with these parents?

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00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:39,639
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, someone said golden child syndrome. Thing could be

439
00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:42,280
Speaker 2: could be it? I think this brother maybe has had

440
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,320
Speaker 2: like Alicia, it's been a little bit too long, and

441
00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:47,199
Speaker 2: no one's ever ever reigned him in, and this is

442
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 2: I think probably a long time coming.

443
00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,520
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, the.

444
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,080
Speaker 2: One thing I would maybe like if if I was

445
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:58,480
Speaker 2: in this position, I would privately make a stink, but

446
00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:00,800
Speaker 2: publicly I would try to smo with it over as

447
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,960
Speaker 2: so as to like not draw attention to how bad

448
00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,400
Speaker 2: it was. I would take the uh yeah, I would

449
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,680
Speaker 2: take the mic, and I would probably make like a joke.

450
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:12,760
Speaker 2: It's like, well, obviously someone has been been doing a

451
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,880
Speaker 2: little bit too much stocking on this Instagram, but uh,

452
00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 2: that's my brother, thank you so much, And then walk

453
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,399
Speaker 2: them off stage and then go into him privately because

454
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:25,119
Speaker 2: I think going into someone publicly focuses more like discussion

455
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,680
Speaker 2: on that moment this is true, which gives it a

456
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,239
Speaker 2: little bit more gravity, which gives I think Riley from

457
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,920
Speaker 2: the video, which gives it like a like a little

458
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 2: bit more gravity. And so I think like for for

459
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 2: like the the the the sanctity of like it running.

460
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,360
Speaker 1: Well, I see your point, but but raise you one

461
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 1: question for the wife who is like really really hurt

462
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 1: by this, does she see you saying that as kind

463
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 1: of like oh, like playing along with it and like,

464
00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,639
Speaker 1: oh it's all now. Obviously you can later tell her

465
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 1: and everything, but like in that moment, it does that

466
00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 1: feel like you kind of have it? Because that was

467
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 1: alls my initial thought about.

468
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I think there's like, well I think it.

469
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,040
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking like what ruins the wedding more? Yeah,

470
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 2: and I think like more elegantly just getting open like

471
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 2: but getting op out. That's enough, buddy, But yeah, like yeah,

472
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 2: literally that's enough, buddy, does like the the same like

473
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 2: a forceful that's enough, buddy. Yeah, I think not to

474
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 2: say op did anything wrong, yeah, to be clear, but

475
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 2: I might have like I might have been too mad

476
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: to actually do do it. But I feel like I

477
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 2: feel like there might be a little bit more elegant

478
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 2: way to do it instead of like like that, I

479
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 2: would try to do it in the way that would

480
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 2: make it as minimum as a scene as possible. Yeah,

481
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 2: and then kick him out a little bit more privately.

482
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 1: Which, in fairness is a probably easier said than done things.

483
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:47,919
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like if you can ideally diffuse as

484
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 1: much as you can with with it not being as

485
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 1: much of a stink. But also, wife's already crying, like

486
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 1: it might have reached the point of no return, like

487
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: especially when she started crying.

488
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, it's pretty it's it's definitely. It's a pretty

489
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,959
Speaker 2: tough it's a pretty tough situation. It's pretty tough situation.

490
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 2: It's also like what would your wife want to Yeah,

491
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: like like would your wife want him to be thrown

492
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 2: out like immediately or like done in something that is

493
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 2: It's like, it's kind of more I think it would

494
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 2: be more like what do you want in this moment?

495
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,959
Speaker 2: You think you kind of have to interpret what that

496
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 2: person would want?

497
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, your best guess.

498
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 2: Your best guest. Yeah, And like op knows most it

499
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 2: seems like Chat wants a big scene, but Chat always

500
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 2: wants it a bit of a big see.

501
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: Stafen though says no big oh, no.

502
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 2: Big big scene.

503
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 1: Okayj was saying no big scene, don't do that. He's like,

504
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 1: no big scene, make it happen.

505
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think some people are like some people are

506
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,640
Speaker 2: like avenged the wife, and some people like I don't

507
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 2: want a big scene. It's very dependent on what the

508
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 2: wife would want.

509
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: Which is why it's best guess on what the wife. Okay,

510
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 1: what a wife want.

511
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, Kimberly find apparently drop some wisdom, talk about it, silence,

512
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 2: endorses behave bad behavior, don't pathalize bs can he finds

513
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,360
Speaker 2: says his lack of interference would have made his lack

514
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 2: of interference would have made onlookers question the strength of

515
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 2: the marriage. They were there to support and literally just happened.

516
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 2: But I think there's like, uh, like that's enough, buddy.

517
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 2: It does it without like making it like I think

518
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 2: you can show force without.

519
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,959
Speaker 1: Uh making it more of a scene.

520
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is I think I think there's way to

521
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 2: ways to elegantly do that. Yeah. It's not like you would,

522
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 2: by by no means endorse the behavior, But it seems

523
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 2: it's interesting to see that there's like a mix of

524
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: responses in the chat. Some people are like avenger wife,

525
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 2: some people are like do it elegantly. But we got

526
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: some relevant comments, Opas, did I go too far? Am

527
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 2: I the a whole? I don't think so. I think

528
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 2: you did what was best in the moment.

529
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: I definitely agree. Yeah, definitely agree.

530
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,640
Speaker 2: Acceptable. When seven three to three too says your brother

531
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 2: really embarrassed your wife in what was meant to be

532
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 2: your special day to celebrate you both, it sounds like

533
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 2: he's got a lot of growing up to do, and

534
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 2: you are the first one to tell him.

535
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 4: So.

536
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 2: Your wife is now a part of your family, and

537
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,439
Speaker 2: your brother needs to realize that he has seriously messed up.

538
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 2: Your parents have probably been enabling your brother to He

539
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 2: needs to man up and apologize. Not the a hole,

540
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 2: music Mammy says, And now everyone knows what a complete

541
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: a hole the brother is. Someone has just got to

542
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: tell the parents that they backed the wrong child, and

543
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: construction note nine six seven eight says I'd bet good

544
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 2: money that fractured the family means that everyone else now

545
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 2: thinks Opie's brother possibly the parents too, are weirdos. For

546
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 2: the whole situation, This wasn't a prank. He curated a

547
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 2: effing slide show and row session for the wedding. It's

548
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 2: even stranger because it was completely uneven. Why does he

549
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 2: feel the need to pick on the bride over his

550
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 2: own brother. Probably because he knew she'd give him the

551
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 2: reaction he wanted. And he's an a hole. Everyone says,

552
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 2: not the a hole. And we do have an update.

553
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 1: You know what, This is such a sad waste of

554
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 1: a slide show because you could have done such a

555
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: fun like light roasting, you know, like do a picture

556
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: of the brother like in the bathtub, you know, as

557
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 1: he's a kid, or like with a little goofy little

558
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: like pinwheel.

559
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:02,360
Speaker 2: Hat, the brotherly stuff. Yeah, there's like I couldn't imagine

560
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 2: making Sophio look bad, like look like like bad in

561
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 2: her wedding. Like I might, I might, like tell like

562
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 2: a funny story or something, but I wouldn't. I wouldn't

563
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: tell a story that would make her feel or look bad. No, no, no,

564
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 2: like not in a million years.

565
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 4: I think what you would say is like, oh, something embarrassing,

566
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 4: Like every time she looks at you, she gets this huge,

567
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 4: biggest smile I've never seen.

568
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 2: She's exactly Yeah, exactly stuff like that.

569
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 1: One real life example, there's an infamous picture and this

570
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: is kind of classic of my family. My uncle was asleep,

571
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: so we took our They took our cousins wiener dog

572
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: and then two tennis balls and put it in between

573
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: his legs as he was napping. And now it's a

574
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 1: classic pick. It's a classic family pick.

575
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 2: I see that pick.

576
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 1: That's that's like, that's where it's fun.

577
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna see the real pick, though.

578
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: You won't see that dog.

579
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 2: That dog dong.

580
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: I don't got it on me. Sorry, Sorry, guys.

581
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 2: Eighty two percent say big scene, they want a big scene,

582
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 2: or eighteen percent say no big scene. But let's get

583
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 2: into the update still now. So hey everyone, I posted

584
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 2: here a little while ago about what I went down

585
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: at my wedding, and I just wanted to say thank

586
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 2: you for all your comments and support. It's been a

587
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 2: rough week, but I figured i'd update everyone on what's

588
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 2: happened since then. After kicking my brother out, I stuck

589
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 2: to my word and told my family we were taking

590
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,439
Speaker 2: a break. Good. I blocked my brother on everything, and

591
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 2: my wife and I decided to focus on each other

592
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 2: for the week. Good. Yeah, should just trying to recapture

593
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 2: some of the joy that was stolen from us. On

594
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 2: our big day, we went on a mini honeymoon to

595
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 2: a cabin we'd rented and tried to shut out the

596
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 2: drama for a bit. However, as soon as we got back,

597
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: my parents showed up unannounced. They claimed they just wanted

598
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 2: to talk it out, but the second they sat down

599
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: it was clear they were there to defend my brother.

600
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 1: Get out of you, dude.

601
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: They kept repeating that I overreacted, that he was just

602
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 2: trying to be funny. My mom even said, you know

603
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: how your brother is. He didn't mean to hurt anyone.

604
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: I told them that whether he meant it or not,

605
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: he did hurt my wife and that is not something

606
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 2: I can just brush off.

607
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:56,959
Speaker 1: Boom.

608
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 2: My dad then hit me with family's family, don't turn

609
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: your back on blood, and I honestly lost it. I

610
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 2: told him that my family is the one I chose

611
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 2: to build with my wife and if they can't respect her,

612
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: then they don't get to be part of our lives.

613
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 2: Got them wow Wow. They left in a huff, saying

614
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: that I was being manipulated and that my wife was

615
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: too sensitive. The day after that, my brother tried reaching

616
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 2: out through a mutual cousin, this time saying he didn't

617
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: mean any harm and that he's willing to forgive me

618
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: if I apologize for embarrassing him in front of everyone.

619
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: This absolutely floored me. I realized in that moment that

620
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 2: he still doesn't see what he did is wrong. I

621
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 2: haven't responded and I don't plan to. What do you

622
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 2: think about that, John, Dude.

623
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: It's just further clearly proves that you I don't know, Like,

624
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: I'm like basic, go go like super low contact at

625
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 1: least at least for now.

626
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you go. I think you go low

627
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: contact with the brother. Yeah, And maybe it's like, hey,

628
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 2: when you're ready to actually come to the table and

629
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 2: learn and get curious about what you've done to hurt

630
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 2: me and my wife, then we can establish a relationship.

631
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 2: But if you can't even like, if you can't take

632
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: the time to understand how you've hurt us, then you're

633
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: not going to be involved in our lives. For the parents,

634
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: I think it's kind of the same thing because they're

635
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 2: defending the brother immediately, but maybe it's just because like

636
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: they want the family to be together. I would go

637
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 2: very low contact with brother, I would go lowish contact

638
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: with parents.

639
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 1: And I think with what Opie said, I'm almost like

640
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 1: not that he necessarily has to act on it right now,

641
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: like immediately cut them off, but I kind of feel

642
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: like the parents need to hear that just being set,

643
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like he wasn't like he

644
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: wasn't like I'm over, it's done. He's like, if you

645
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: can't respect my wife, then you don't get to be

646
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: a part of our life. It's more of this like

647
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: big warning shot of like listen, if you continue down

648
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: this path, down this path and inch down this path,

649
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: how can I keep the relationship with you? You're not

650
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: respecting my wife? Like this is not this is not.

651
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: Going to work off keep aiming to even understand me

652
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 2: and where I'm coming from exactly, Like that's not a relationship.

653
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 2: I want to be a part of one where I'm

654
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 2: not understood. I realize that in that moment, he still

655
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 2: doesn't see what he did is wrong. I haven't responded,

656
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 2: and I don't plan to. My wife and I have

657
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 2: started couple's therapy, not because there's anything wrong between us,

658
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: but because I want to make sure that she feels

659
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 2: supported and knows that I'm fully on her side. It's

660
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: been helping her process with what happened, and I think

661
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: it's helping me realize just how toxic my brother's behavior

662
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: has been. We've decided to have a small, private vow

663
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 2: renewal next year, just us and a few close friends

664
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: to reclaim what the day was supposed to be for us.

665
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 2: In the meantime, we're focusing on our future together and

666
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: cutting out anyone who doesn't respect us as a couple. So, yeah,

667
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 2: maybe I did fracture my family, but if my brother's

668
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: jokes are more important to them than my wife's happiness,

669
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: then I'm honestly okay with that. Thank you again for

670
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: everyone reached out. And there's another update. Oh there's another update.

671
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 2: That's another thick, juicy updates. Ready, ready, get ready, there's

672
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: another freaking update. Let's do it so, Faithful Neighbor says,

673
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 2: I'm going to get some relevant comments before the update.

674
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 2: Faithful Neighbor says, not the a hole, as we said

675
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 2: in your previous post. Screw your family. You deserve a

676
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: good life with your wife. Ope Jellico Alpha three onces

677
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: his mom, dad, brother. Here's the bill for a wedding

678
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 2: and the reception until I am reimbursed in full. I'm

679
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 2: going no contact with all three of you. I don't

680
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 2: know if I would do that, but it's pretty funny funny,

681
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 2: And for the record, this is my decision. My wife

682
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: wants to let it all go and move on, but

683
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 2: I do not. You have all made excuses for my

684
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: brother's crappy, immature behavior his entire life, and now it's

685
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: cost you one of your children. The three of you

686
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,959
Speaker 2: will pay for the wedding my brother ruined, even if

687
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: you have to mortgage your house in work until you're

688
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 2: eighty to do it, or this will be the last

689
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 2: time any of you see or hear from me again.

690
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 2: Not the a hole. Holding them financially responsible doesn't mean

691
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 2: you forgive them. It just gives you the ability to

692
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 2: have a wedding two point zero without them. And Jewelfie says,

693
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: I love this response for three reasons. Anytime they try

694
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: to initiate contact, you can imply do you have the money? No? Okay, goodbye,

695
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: she says, Read it the burden In terms of fixing

696
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:03,239
Speaker 2: the situation, it's clearly in their court. No ambiguity. And

697
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 2: three people who owe you money tend to avoid you.

698
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 2: With the problem resolves itself, and then we have the update, John,

699
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 2: what do you think that.

700
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: As hilarious as it is to read, not the move,

701
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: because one, what if they're rich and money's nothing, they

702
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: pay it off and they keep doing it. But even

703
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: to too, even if they agree to this crazy, ridiculous thing,

704
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: they could still pay the money and not be changed,

705
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's not a change of behavior,

706
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: which is that which is the actual root cause. So

707
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: they could just turn right around and then keep doing

708
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: the same. Man as much, listen, as much as I

709
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: love charging people for their for their bs, and John

710
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: does love that, and I listen just loves to make

711
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: a nickel, someone coach us and tries to do some

712
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: bs the best best believe the price is going up.

713
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: Not not here, not here, not here, not here, this

714
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 1: is not else, not place that the parents.

715
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: We got a thick update, So hello everyone, I'm back

716
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 2: with another update, and Wow, I'm honestly still blown away

717
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 2: by how much support this post has gotten. My wife

718
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: and I have read through all the comments that it's

719
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 2: really helped validate our feelings during this tough time. Thank

720
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 2: you all so much for that. A bunch of you

721
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 2: suggested I show my parents' post to help them understand

722
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 2: just how wrong my brother's actions were. Kind of good move.

723
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that.

724
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 2: I did, And let me tell you, the reaction was mixed,

725
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: to say the least. I sent them the link and

726
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 2: told them to read through the post and comments. I

727
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 2: wasn't expecting them to suddenly change their minds, but I

728
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 2: was hoping they'd see how almost no one is defending

729
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: my brother's actions. My dad hasn't said much since, but

730
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 2: my mom doubled down, saying the internet doesn't know family

731
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: and that people are too quick to judge. She ain't wrong,

732
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 2: like like, the internet is too quick to judge, and

733
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,959
Speaker 2: they don't know the full context of your family.

734
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: She's not wrong, but she's wrong.

735
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 2: She's not wrong, but she's exactly She's not wrong, but

736
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: she's wrong. But out here be do be a judge.

737
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: It's true, they do judge, Like the comment of like, oh,

738
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: make them pay for the whole wedding.

739
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: That's crazy, that's crazy. It's hilarious, but it's hilarious, but

740
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: it's crazy.

741
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: We put the goof and give advice.

742
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: Goofy come on, yeah, yeah, come on, we put the goof,

743
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 2: we put the goof in there. She even tried to

744
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 2: say that the commenters don't just understand that my brother

745
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: just jokes like that. Needless to say, we're still not

746
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 2: seeing eye to eye. I told her that this isn't

747
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: about my brother's intentions, but about the harm he caused

748
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 2: my wife, and if she can't understand that, then we

749
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: need more time. Apart as for why I didn't punch

750
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: my brother in the face, like many of you suggested, good,

751
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: I get it, trust me, the thought crossed my mind

752
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 2: in the heat of the moment. I think it's good

753
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 2: that you did not punch your brother in the face, indeed,

754
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 2: but honestly, I knew that if I reacted physically, it

755
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 2: would have taken the focus on what really mattered my

756
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: wife's feelings, which is what I was trying to say before. Guys,

757
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: before you're like, oh, Sam's ever gonna get married because

758
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: he won't punch a guy in the face.

759
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 3: I think that's why. That's why it's been so tough

760
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 3: for him.

761
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: Man, Dang, that's what I've been missing this whole time.

762
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: But we can fix that.

763
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: But I think what Op's saying is like, I don't

764
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 2: want to take I don't want to. I want to

765
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 2: take as little attention away from my wife as possible. Yes,

766
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 2: but honestly, I knew that if I react physically, it

767
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: would have taken focus away what really mattered my wife's feelings.

768
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 2: It wasn't easy to keep my cool, but I didn't

769
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 2: want to give my brother the satisfaction of making me

770
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,760
Speaker 2: look like the bad guy in front of everyone. Plus,

771
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: I didn't want to escalate things even further and turn

772
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 2: an already horrible situation into an even bigger disaster. Agreed,

773
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 2: I needed to be there for my wife, not in

774
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 2: a brawl. At the end of the day, kicking him

775
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 2: out was the right call. I chose to stand up

776
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 2: for my wife in a way that protected her dignity

777
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: and our marriage. My wife has been incredibly supportive and

778
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 2: we're focusing on moving forward together no matter what my

779
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 2: family thinks. Thank you all again for your commence, advice,

780
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: kind words. Guess what, there's another freaking little update for Ope.

781
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,399
Speaker 2: They've been a lifeline for us during this difficult time,

782
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: and we got a bunch of responses from op in

783
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 2: the comments. We read them right now, Let's do it?

784
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 2: Or do you want John? Do you have anything to

785
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: say for yourself.

786
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 1: No, I think I think, uh I I respect Opie's

787
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: level headedness and or maybe I'll say approach at like

788
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 1: every checkpoint. You know, it's like he had they had

789
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: the thing at the wedding. He put a stop to it,

790
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, tried to stop the situation for his wife's sake,

791
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: you know, stood up, stood up to the parents, stood

792
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: up to the brother, didn't acquiesce. I think his wife

793
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: has been pretty well protected and soultd.

794
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 2: I think he's just basically doing everything textbook right exactly.

795
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,479
Speaker 1: And you know what like jut like, yeah, he maybe

796
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 1: could have made slightly less of a scene, but this is.

797
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is you know those are those are

798
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 2: like you know, that's like one point off exactly. He's got,

799
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:38,439
Speaker 2: He's got he's.

800
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: Got a ninety nine percent. Yeah, that's extra credit on

801
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: that's extra credit. There we go. Yeahs Obie's crushing it.

802
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 2: So what's it the echo? I don't know.

803
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 4: I've fixed so many other things.

804
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: Broken heart, someone someone had the string go off.

805
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 4: Boomo fix it. Chat's messed up, Boomo fix it. Tl

806
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 4: drs aren't there boom?

807
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 1: This I did ask I asked a few weeks ago

808
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: to lower the noise gaate or whatever, which does increase

809
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: the echo. That's my that's my that's my only guest

810
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: right now.

811
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 2: You have to do it on mine, though I'll mess

812
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: it up.

813
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 3: You know what, You're right here we go.

814
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 2: Also, stop chewing.

815
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: What are you doing?

816
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 2: Move that mic? Oh my gosh, Rador says I don't

817
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: have an echo.

818
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone flooded the comments with if you have an echo,

819
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 1: actually pull to get the.

820
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 2: True particular timber is just easily picked up. What my

821
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 2: particular timber is like a musical term.

822
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: Oh where it's like, oh, tamped tamber. I think I've

823
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: heard it chewing. I think I've heard of that, or

824
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 1: maybe it's not the right the right term for it.

825
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 2: I think we fixed it.

826
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: Everyone, No, I think it's timber, but I might be

827
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: thinking of something else.

828
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 2: I think you might be thinking like timber is a

829
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: drum or, tamber, it's a drum thing, yea tamber?

830
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: Can you hear what? I go? Right now?

831
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll read another story.

832
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: It's not done.

833
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 3: It's not done. You still going, baby? What the echo's gone?

834
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 2: Everyone?

835
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 3: I did the best.

836
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 2: Sad confidence nine five sixty three, says your mother defending

837
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 2: your brother's boorish behavior just showed off what a crap

838
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: bag she raised him to be. You may want to

839
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 2: point out that he embarrassed both of your parents with

840
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 2: his display too. He showed your family and the world

841
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 2: they taught him that attacking a woman on our wedding

842
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 2: day was not only acceptable to them, but defensible. So

843
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: their crap parents. Congrats, Hope, he responds, I see what

844
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: you're saying, and it's hard to ignore that my parents

845
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 2: have enabled my brother's behavior for so long. It's not

846
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: just about the prank, it's about the pattern of pranks.

847
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: The fact that the defending his actions on such an

848
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 2: important day speaks volumes. My goal isn't to bash them,

849
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 2: but I do hope this serves as a wake up

850
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 2: call for them. At the end of the day, my

851
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 2: wife comes first and I won't let anyone, family included,

852
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: treat her like that. They needed to see that actions

853
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: have consequences, no matter how funny someone thinks they are,

854
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 2: and sad Confidence responds, it wasn't a prank. A prank

855
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: involves a joke like if he hit a rubber ducks

856
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 2: all over the venue, that's funny, That would be a prank.

857
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 2: What he did was spend from the sounds of it,

858
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 2: hour on finding pictures, editing them into a slideshow, and

859
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: writing a horrible speech. All this was to humiliate you

860
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 2: both on the happiest day of your lives, in front

861
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 2: of everyone you love and care about. Ope, he does

862
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 2: have another response, but each sir turd says, absolutely, that's

863
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: your weirds. Oh it's your turn, sir, Absolutely, that's premeditated cruelty,

864
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 2: not a pranky, clearly planned to hurt you both. Focty

865
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 2: sly old stony fox says, And to your parents' home

866
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 2: urinate on the floor, then say that's just how I am.

867
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 2: I know it's dreadful behavior, but you're my parents and

868
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 2: should enable me to behave as badly as I like. Leave.

869
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Speaker 2: Repeat every time you visit. This can be substituted for

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00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 2: any other extreme but attention grabbing act. You wish a

871
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 2: double decker, responds do a double decker? Oh God, Opie responds, well,

872
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 2: if that's the standard we're going by, maybe I'll just

873
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 2: bring my bullhorn next time in announce I'm not disrespectful,

874
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 2: it's just my quirky sense of humor. I'm sure they'll

875
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: love an excuse. Right, let's see how many family gatherings

876
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 2: I get to be invited after that.

877
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 1: Actually bad advice, but just just so fun to read,

878
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 1: so fun, just so fun to read.

879
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 2: And that's where that story at all. Right, it was

880
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 2: a fun story to read. Oh this is nice, Nicole

881
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: eight said. I actually had to pull my coworker aside

882
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: the other day and tell him he needed to find

883
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 2: a new source of his jokes because the jokes were

884
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 2: crossing the lines, boundaries bound. We love that.

885
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: Put him up, put them up.

886
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 2: What are we on in terms of time? Riley forty eight?

887
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 2: But we have another story about another story.

888
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Oh, Mike attack, Here we go, there

889
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: we go.

890
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: Yo, So what's what's It does feel like these stories

891
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 2: are the same length as the one hour stories almost

892
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 2: to my brain.

893
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is another Yes, yes, that's another. That's another

894
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,479
Speaker 1: weird it. I totally see what you're saying, and it, Yeah,

895
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: it feels like it's like the energy is still high

896
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: because like, oh, we just did one story. No, we

897
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 1: did one whole episode. Yeah, and then we're like getting

898
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: into the next one.

899
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. It's kind of I think I feel like long stories,

900
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 2: long stories, dude, long story stories for the win. Here

901
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: we go, dude, check it ald time, just one long

902
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,720
Speaker 2: story for six hours.

903
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: Part we do. The whole week's episode is just part one,

904
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: part two. It's five far that that that just might

905
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: be too long, but we have found that long before.

906
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: But we found like sixteen we did.

907
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 2: What if we this is this is I don't think

908
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 2: this is the worst. What if we did like a

909
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 2: six part story. It could be fun. It could be

910
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: fun because we post five times. It might be it

911
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 2: might be the five parts a five so that would

912
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: be what a fifteen thousand word story? Yeah that we

913
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 2: just read.

914
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, we could.

915
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 2: And we do part one, part two parts and they

916
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: all would feed into each other.

917
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: And this is true. This is true. It could be

918
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: a the ten hour sleep video effect a bit. But

919
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: it has the part one part two, so that does Maybe.

920
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 3: It's like a TV and then we do series and

921
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: then we do.

922
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: Series episode it goes from part one to episode one.

923
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, what what like we like dive deep?

924
00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 1: We do that podcast company type short Jesus week week long.

925
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 2: Yes, week long seasons. Yeah, and then we only have

926
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 2: to find one story a week a week crazy long. Yeah,

927
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 2: you write that down, put that on the notion.

928
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:21,240
Speaker 1: That's the insert insert typing sound effects done.

929
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 3: I was gonna do it. I was just I was

930
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 3: just being lazy, which I.

931
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: Still while you're doing that, I need to stop not eating.

932
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, John, you're eating. It's hurting our productivity. Bro,

933
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 4: need you know what you're doing. You're shoving food in

934
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 4: your face whenever you should be shoving words out your mouth.

935
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:38,879
Speaker 1: Stop eating. That's right.

936
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 3: Wow, this is what God But Sammy boy can read

937
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 3: some nemonomes.

938
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: I can or I can read them. Linda, thanks for

939
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 2: the ten Bukkarooney's celebrating seven months. Wow. Yeah, Bonna Borgstorm,

940
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 2: thanks for the six months of membership a new axe wielder.

941
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 2: Please make a later Halloween live stream for us. Tricker

942
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 2: treating Mamas. I don't make live streams much because of

943
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: working the baby, but I love y'all. We love you,

944
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 2: Groovy Hippy Chick. Shot at groovy Hippy Chick. We haven't

945
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: seen in a second. I just want to say, hey,

946
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 2: I don't get to see you live a lot, but

947
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 2: I watch when I can. Thanks for making my days better.

948
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 2: We love you too. Yeah, we haven't seen you in

949
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 2: a stream and a sec. Groovy Hippy check and then

950
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 2: m J Crow thanks for the five bucks. Can we

951
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: get a spell? John? Can we get a spill that tea?

952
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 2: For old times sake? Don can we get one?

953
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 3: What's that white stuff on your lips?

954
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: That's crazy? Still there, it's still there.

955
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 3: In the corners.

956
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,439
Speaker 2: There you go. Good boy, good boy is wild? Good

957
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: boy is wild? Oh man, John, you're really really.

958
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 4: You're edge us bro, give it to us comedy?

959
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: Spell that?

960
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 2: See?

961
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: Why is it all? Let's see what all together? Right?

962
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 2: Wait? I think we got to another story coming up? Boys,

963
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 2: Maybe we should.

964
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 1: Spell that teas so much? Ro Why was it just

965
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: me MJ?

966
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: Grow so much?

967
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: Anyways? Al right, ready, ready, boys, boys, stream, let's go