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Speaker 1: And I'm not is that what it is? Yeah? I

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Speaker 1: make out? You what happens after you say? If you

424
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Speaker 1: don't give me that five grand, I'm not fucking missing

425
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Speaker 1: out on five brands. I think Kofe is mine And

426
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Speaker 1: the only reason I'll do the make out is because

427
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Speaker 1: I really think if I kiss him well, I can

428
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Speaker 1: get the dick kof Don't ask me to say his

429
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Speaker 1: last name, kof copy Kofi my boom cere bo. I

430
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Speaker 1: was wondering. I was like, oh, yeah, no, I'm taking

431
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Speaker 1: a brand. He's only twenty seven. Always said this reason,

432
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Speaker 1: like damn, I want to suck the skin off his dick. Um.

433
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Speaker 1: Here is one of my favorite vanilla ships I've ever

434
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Speaker 1: fucking read ever. Girlfriend white woman draws up maybe it

435
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Speaker 1: is one from the umbarrasing bar draws up a seventeen

436
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Speaker 1: page contract for tinder Flame after dating for two weeks.

437
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Speaker 1: Racial Green is definitely a twenty or no sorry, a

438
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Speaker 1: modern day Rachel Green any right one years old, drafted

439
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:22,360
Speaker 1: a seventeen page relationship contract only after dating her boyfriend

440
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: for two weeks. While it's no eighteen page letter to

441
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Speaker 1: Ross Geller, Okay, we get it, like friends and white

442
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: people stuff. Sorry. The contract came with four main objectives honesty, communication,

443
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 1: awareness of partners needs, and clarity and alignment in their intentions.

444
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 1: But all of that literally off falls under the category

445
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Speaker 1: of communication. You know, communication, maybe not um a lot

446
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: of uh alignment, like making sure that the same things

447
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 1: that you would you have to communicate that. Yeah, yeah,

448
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Speaker 1: I mean like I don't know if they're talking about

449
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: their goals for like a relationship, like things like that. Now, Um,

450
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Speaker 1: she says, I'm made the idea as a joke, and

451
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: then he said, no, seriously, we can do that and

452
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: talk about it. Um. So they met on Tinder while

453
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: she left a toxic relationship and she was determined to

454
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Speaker 1: make it work. Um with a law student by the way,

455
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: And did she think that that was supposed to make

456
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Speaker 1: the relationship. Maybe she was trying to be like, oh,

457
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Speaker 1: here practice for school. I don't know, but at the

458
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: time I had braces in college. I was very embarrassed.

459
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: It was also a pandemic time, and I got to

460
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 1: the point where I was like, screw it, I'm going

461
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: on dates with guys and I don't care anymore. I

462
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 1: matched with almost anybody on Tinder, and I would tell

463
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: my matches, I'm gonna walk my dog around two pm today?

464
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 1: Are you free? Who I should do that? It was

465
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: a fluke to meet him. I was going on three

466
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Speaker 1: Tinder dates a week just to get out and meet people.

467
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Speaker 1: And finally, um they met and he said I want

468
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Speaker 1: us to be boyfriend girlfriend and she said, in order

469
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Speaker 1: to be ready that I'm laying ground rules. And she

470
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: made a seventeen page document terms and conditions. She went

471
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Speaker 1: over to his place. They sat on either end of

472
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Speaker 1: the bed and read them out loud. I felt like

473
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Speaker 1: the biggest issue I had in my relationship was it

474
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Speaker 1: was like boundaries of mine was crossed that I never

475
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: established any one, Like what type of nigga across the boundary?

476
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: He didn't meet you at the lunch table in high school?

477
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 1: Like one's cute. She asked for a romantic gesture once

478
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: every two weeks and to work out at least five

479
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: times a week. We treat our relationship almost like a

480
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Speaker 1: business interaction. We deal with conflict like partners in business.

481
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: We sit down and treat it more like partners in life.

482
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: Maybe we should have them come in and help us. Yeah,

483
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: well no, that's why, that's why we pay lawyers. That's true. Now,

484
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: she joked that her boyfriend will want to add a

485
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: clause or two on his own, like taking off shoes

486
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: in his apartment, which she forgets to do and stuff

487
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 1: as jokes. But um, yeah, I one pro of this.

488
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: You gotta say a pro, nigga. I know husbands that

489
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: have won against their vows and that's a business contract

490
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: as well that I don't think they're very fair anyway

491
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: at all. I think that that's a good point. So

492
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Speaker 1: basically she made them very Yeah, that's a that's a contract.

493
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: That's exactly what marriages and so to me, I feel

494
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,439
Speaker 1: like she hasn't worked past whatever trauma she has with

495
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: how old niggas was pulling up in the past to

496
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: introduce this to a new partner. This doesn't need a contract.

497
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 1: You communicate what you want and see if he can

498
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: meet you or see if he's capable of providing that

499
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 1: to you, and if he's not, bitch, take your eyes

500
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Speaker 1: on another date. This to me seems above and beyond

501
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: for someone that a you just met um and be

502
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: to me. It takes the excitement out of really seeing

503
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: how someone was. Yeah, it's it's very controlling. Also, it's

504
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: PTSD from her other relationship, which isn't fair to bring

505
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 1: into the new one. But I mean he's a lawyer

506
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: and they worked for them. They thought it was cute.

507
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 1: I think the headline when I first read it, I

508
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 1: was just like, but also, girl, girl, that's right, and

509
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: if you're listening and the nigga you dating now is

510
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: not the nigga you're gonna keep dating. There was this

511
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 1: place I went to our Lady of Rocco after party

512
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: for a fashion week. A guy came up to me,

513
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: African dude. He said, is the little sister is little

514
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: cousin listened to us. She's seventeen, and he said that

515
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: every time he sees me, he doesn't want to bring

516
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: it up, but he's seen me before and he's like,

517
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: she's like really a fan and bitch, I just want

518
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: you to know. Yes, I called you a bit because

519
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: you're grown enough to be listening. Don't be taking our

520
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: stories off. Grown enough to be listening. She's grown enough

521
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 1: on her mom. She's grown enough to have an iPhone.

522
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: That's it like to be listening just as they grown

523
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: as show. So if you want to be grown up,

524
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: talk to you like you grown. I'm gonna tell you

525
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: right now, don't you have no scenarios going on? And

526
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: he is saying you learned X y Z from horrible decisions. No,

527
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 1: maybe I was sucking dick in high school, but I'm

528
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: not saying I shouldn't, And I'm not saying you should

529
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 1: have what you should be learning from us? Miss ma'am,

530
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: not miss ma'am is what not miss ma'am, ma'am not

531
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 1: miss ma'am is the educate. Listen to the abortion episode.

532
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: Let's talk to the episode about trigger warning skip thirty seconds.

533
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: Anybody uh domestic violence, about having conversations like how to

534
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: how to protect yourself against STDs. Listen to the doctors

535
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: we have on Do not listen to Mandy and I

536
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: when we're talking about the nasty dirty ship we why

537
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: technically she's sucking digging if she's having now, the very

538
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: least that I want her to do is enjoy herself.

539
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: Like That's the thing. When we were young, I feel

540
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: like we had a lot of pointless sex. We had

541
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 1: a lot of meaningless sex. We had a lot of

542
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: sex with people despite us even wanting to really take

543
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: it there with them. So if she does listen, what

544
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: I do want her to take from our sex stories

545
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: is that we're having sex with people that we actually

546
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:45,479
Speaker 1: like now and we're having sex with people that fulfill us. Okay, well,

547
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: hopefully you started on episode one thousand, because we're on

548
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: one thousand and one. That's when we started doing that.

549
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: Are you gonna lie? We did gotta start doing that

550
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: in our thirties, so but you got a whole decade

551
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: of sex that you go and regrets this have fun

552
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 1: because the rest of it, you know. So the hord

553
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: Nerve comes this week from Sofia Vergara. Okay, who is

554
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: the modern families? How most people know? But I found

555
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: some cool celebrity horde derves and I thought her would

556
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: be good. I mean, I didn't google celebrity Horderve. I

557
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: just google celebrity sexis but Romantico that's what she's saying.

558
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: She's saying, no one can be a sex king every day,

559
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: and I hate I fucking hate your accent. I fucking

560
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: hate it. Okay, because I don't know if that's what

561
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: she said, she's sounding like that. Go pull it up.

562
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,239
Speaker 1: Pull up her voice. While I'm reading this, No one

563
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: give me a sex kid in every day, and anyone

564
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: who tells you that is lying. But I do wear

565
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: negligees and Japanese silk robes. For a long time, I

566
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: lived alone with my son, and I only saw my

567
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: boyfriends in a hotel. So at home I slept in

568
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: old T shirts. And I realized when I moved in

569
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: with my ex fiance, I couldn't do that. Now I

570
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: only keep nice pajamas around because whatever is there, I'm

571
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: going to wear. The actress also opened up to Esquire

572
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: magazine about bedroom etiquette. I guess, at the end of

573
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: the day, all women like to be appreciated and treated

574
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: with respecting kindness, and we all want to have sex

575
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: in a romantic way. The only thing I wanted to

576
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: bring up from this the old T shirt thing. I

577
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: thought that was a great tip. I actually did this

578
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago. I got rid of really shitty

579
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: pajamas and just bought nice ones. That way, it's not

580
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: like oh my laundry, or like I feel good no

581
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: matter what, Like it's appropriate ship. I can answer uberrys

582
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: at the door and I'm still cute. Well, I used

583
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: to actually say, like even when when I was I

584
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: was maybe not as happy with my size and my weight.

585
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: I literally was just like, even if I'm at the

586
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: home at the house alone, I want to feel good

587
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: in what I'm in. And so like nice lingerie or

588
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: Teddy's or like you said, just new ship popping tags

589
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: all ship makes you just feel good. I don't know why,

590
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: because it's just like, oh, never wore brand new, let

591
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 1: me do this. So even just having the things that

592
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: are like cheap, and I'll be honest with you, I

593
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: love just something that's cute and cheap. So like you

594
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: can get your laundry from you can get she in

595
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: rass Target, like they have very affordable, good looking, nice

596
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: feeling things. Um, So I like that. So our horrible decision.

597
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: This week, we've talked about a lot of stuff like

598
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: that goes on around the country, you know, like I

599
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: love doing those, but I found some new ones that

600
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,959
Speaker 1: are funny as buck to me. Um And if if

601
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: you're on Patreon, we do a lot of that, like

602
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: historical sex and ship like that. This is a list

603
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: of some practices that are going on certain certain places

604
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: in the world number one, Brooklyn. I wanted to start

605
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: with where polyamory is on the rise. Small polyamorous communities

606
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: are booming in Europe, um North America, but specifically Brooklyn

607
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: has a full blown social scene for polyamory. I'm bringing

608
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 1: a couple on the couple that's coming from UH and

609
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: they're into It's not even Polly, they have their own

610
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: name for it. So I can't wait to talk about it.

611
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: But I believe this. I believe in Brooklyn that felt

612
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: like that's where I'm finding all this, Like all the

613
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: swingers and the people they go to the sex clubs,

614
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: they all listen like a full web website that in

615
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: New York ship. I believe the practice takes its root

616
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: from the sixties counterculture crowd that rejected mainstream values and

617
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: politics and sex positive communities where they share everything including

618
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: partners and basically the poly crowd today has no issues

619
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: with mainstream culture, but um they are generally when they're like,

620
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: no matter where you are in the country, coming for

621
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: events in Brooklyn, making their own communities in Brooklyn, and

622
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, you get a better deal out there

623
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: in Bushwick. On a department with size you can be

624
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: in a lot that treehouse I was in Bet You

625
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: Lovers Live there Now episode four? Check it out. Um,

626
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to make mention of something. I just don't

627
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: go to that bar. Um Jesus wait wait wait, I'm

628
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: talking sh I'm trying to think. What else gonna say

629
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: about Polyamory? Oh yeah, the show on Showtime. There's a

630
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: patron of ours whose sister was on a show. Anybody

631
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: who watches the show Polyamory, if you have any connection

632
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: to someone on the show, please have them come on,

633
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: because that is the catalyst I think to what let

634
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Speaker 1: me know? I wanted to be in a struble and

635
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: I was only like, it's weird too, Like I said,

636
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: when when that couple comes, they don't identify their relationship

637
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: as polly open or thrubble ish. So it's just it's

638
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: really interesting how talking to so many people, like like

639
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: I said, I do couples night, we do game nights,

640
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: double days. I've been doing everything probably for the last year,

641
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: in a couple of settings well, and everyone's everyone's relationship

642
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: is literally tailored so differently that I really just love

643
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: to hear the dynamics, which brings me back to like,

644
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: even if you're listening to the show. There's literally not

645
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: one successful way to have a relationship even when you're monogamous.

646
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: I know people that are monogamous but tweak monogamy even

647
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: in a way that's very interesting. So no, I agree

648
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: that monogamous Jan Savage, we need to work all right

649
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: outside of the us um. In the Cook Islands, when

650
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: a boy in the Mangia tribe turns thirteen, he's taken

651
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: away from the village by an older man for the

652
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: next two weeks where he will learn about all things sex.

653
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: But rather than being shown how to put a condom

654
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: on with a banana or something, he will be taught

655
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: about all kinds of lady pleasing positions, heavy focus on

656
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: a partner's achieving orgasm multiple times. Female members of the

657
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: tribe don't follow a similar ritual, but they are encouraged

658
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,760
Speaker 1: to fully explore their sexuality and have multiple partners before marriage.

659
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: So the Mangia tribe and the Cook Islands leave with

660
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: a mentor to learn about sex fortunities. Atten, I love

661
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: this just not at thirteen, yeah, thirteenas even if it

662
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: had to be like sixteen, like just a little bit older.

663
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: So I mean, we we also have to acknowledge that

664
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: in different countries the legal age on saying not even

665
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: the legal age, but there's responsibilities put on people younger,

666
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: Like sometimes in other countries, you're taking care of a household,

667
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: you're taking care of children, maybe you're cooking, maybe you've

668
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: already started working to add to the household. Like the

669
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 1: life expectancy and a lot of things in other countries

670
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: are so different, Like I would have to know what

671
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 1: that looks like in the cook Islands before like really

672
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: saying it's too young, but understand I think too young

673
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: because just like I know you're going through puberty still

674
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: at that age, right, I think learning about sex and

675
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: I had like, but I think you should have learned

676
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: more about your body than pleasing at I mean, but

677
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,439
Speaker 1: that's middle school. And girls were pregnant at my middle school,

678
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,720
Speaker 1: and you're right, they might be hush and with their teeth,

679
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 1: so who knows. And now you literally if they're if

680
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,919
Speaker 1: you're on Twitter, you're looking at porn, Like I think

681
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: the access and what people are able even to view

682
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: right now is leaps and bounds even from what we

683
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: had access to growing up. So I don't know. Now

684
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: you meet a try boy, like, yeah, I used to

685
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: live in the cook out, so you're not the A

686
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 1: plus that's what you're telling. I'm just saying a lot

687
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: of niggas we know was having sex with thirteen. Yeah,

688
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 1: like and we in America. So okay, the the chatti

689
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: scar chat scar India, that's not how you say that.

690
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: I am. Oh you want to see the word about nigga.

691
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,479
Speaker 1: I bet you mark? What was that? Mandy chat god?

692
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:27,959
Speaker 1: And that could be wrong? But what did I just say?

693
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: Kudarie bit? I want to spell the h H A

694
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: T T I S g A r H niggas. You

695
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: figure it out as well now the tribe. I just

696
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 1: don't see the purpose as well for double h maybe

697
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 1: because it's not English. Oh I really, but like in

698
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: India they use double hes. Is there if you said

699
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: that ship like you got you speaking speak Indian? I

700
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 1: know Indian? P that's my I'm five percent wedding. What

701
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: do they speak in India? Wait? Heard that it was

702
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: a slur. I hope it's not script as the uh

703
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 1: Like A tattoo artist told me that. When I got

704
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: my Buddha tattoo, I was like, oh, can I get

705
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: like some sense? Great? And he's like, oh, you can't

706
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: say that's a very dated term. I was like, you

707
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: act like I said, wait what but Buddha is I mean,

708
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: but that's when things the funk up enough. He put

709
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: a Buddha on me. Didn't tell me that, mom, you

710
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: added that. I told y'all when my motherfucking lived in Asia,

711
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: and y'all know I was rocking my little Buddha tattoo.

712
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: The first thing you see when you go into temples

713
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 1: is Buddha. Not for tattoo, Buddha not for tattoo, Buddha

714
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: k not for furniture, Buddha k not for everything that

715
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: we use. Boutiful over here, pretty boutiful, boutiful. But yeah,

716
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: damn okay, he wouldn't they speak what oh Hindy, that's

717
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: right Indian broad No, no, no, I was talking about

718
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: the Okay, I'm sorry, sanscrit is like the way that

719
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: it looks, not the language, but like the was airbic. No,

720
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: that's listen, there's the brown girls. I listened to this spot.

721
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: Oh wait real quick. Yes, by the way, shout out

722
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 1: to the beautiful, lovely lady that works at Lenox Mall.

723
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say which store, and she knows she's uh.

724
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: She had something around her her head, so I don't

725
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: want to just say what she is. She's Muslim, I

726
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 1: know that, but that could come from any country. What

727
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: she's Muslim, That's all I know. And I needed a

728
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: mask because I was going to the watch store and

729
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: I asked for a mask and there wasn't mask in

730
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: the front of the first stepping on her head. But

731
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: she's Muslim. I don't know what country was flagrant to.

732
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, what speaking of I did? I'm thinking

733
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: her head, don't listen. First off, she was beautiful as fun.

734
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 1: She had this guchy about what these nights as people,

735
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: and she was like so she went to hand me

736
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: a mask, and she said, by the way, girl, I

737
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: know who you are. And yes, this Muslim woman rocks

738
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: and listens to the horrible decisions and I just want

739
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: to thank you. And she said, yes, this Muslim girl.

740
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: So she black, No, she was Muslim, Mandy. She wasn't

741
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 1: like Harla Muslim. That's where the black Muslims are. She

742
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: wasn't like Harla Muslim. She was like Muslim from the

743
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: country Slims there are, like you're telling me when you

744
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: go to the braider they don't be taking time to pray.

745
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: She just said Muslim and she was your color bitch. Okay,

746
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 1: that's all I know. Well, that's all I know him.

747
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 1: Why are you asking? You know? Okay, but that's not

748
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: what she was. She was wheezy coling baby said, speaking up,

749
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 1: and he said worse than it needs to be. Obviously

750
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: here trying to shout out a fan. And now you

751
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: just sorry, boo, that was wee They fall if you know, so,

752
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: go back to the ce double h India something every

753
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: year the Mauria tribe in India celebrates go to a

754
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: festival where local teens learn all about songs, dances, folklore

755
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: and sex. And as the nightfalls, the girls drink a

756
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: natural liquor which they believe to help prevent pregnancy. Nika,

757
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: let me get somebody, and they head off to use

758
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 1: a condom. Well, let's let's tribe anyway. They head off

759
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: to mixed gender dormitories. Well they got a dorm. They

760
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: might have condoms um where they practice pre marital sex,

761
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: sometimes with a single partners, sometimes several and in go

762
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 1: to teens are paired off in monogamous relationships. In others

763
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: they're discouraged from becoming emotionally attached to their partners. Is

764
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 1: this way? Is this only a teen thing? I'm gonna

765
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 1: go to India and try this is a new one

766
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: and the other one was the cook. And they sleep

767
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: together for more than three nights. If they sleep together

768
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: for more than three nights, they're punished. The tribe is

769
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:13,320
Speaker 1: um the collective. So if a girl accidentally gets pregnant,

770
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: her baby is adopted by the whole village. Oh no, bro, yeah, Bro,

771
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:26,879
Speaker 1: she's dying. You got water into the couch. Oh, it's

772
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: probably what you're choking on, all that powder at the bottle. Sorry, bro,

773
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god. Shout out to the

774
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 1: chick who fucking asked for my address to send me

775
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: boxes of macha. She's living in Japan right now. Black

776
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: chick who listens to horrible decisions and she watches on

777
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: the YouTube. She said, we always got a green drink?

778
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: Is that much? I said, I'm sending you some Japanese

779
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: man girl, okay, because I know that shipping fee is.

780
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: I appreciate you all. Now, let's get back to these

781
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: weird ass country. Were already here, I mean we were here.

782
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: I was choking. Nigeria Niger. Sorry, because I know it's

783
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 1: not it's Niger. Okay, it's not what it's n I

784
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: g R it's Niger. I mean, it ain't a double G.

785
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: Why would we have a double G? Mandy, don't do that.

786
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,919
Speaker 1: Don't do that. The double Ahe doesn't make sense. There's

787
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: a lot of things with double G. Wait, is there

788
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: is there anything? I'm not Nigga? What else? Got a

789
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: double G? Words with double G? Ar pegging? Bit? Are

790
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: you the right person up in here? How about this aggression? Okay?

791
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: Now sorry, the wife's stealing tribe at the end of

792
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: every rainy treason, the wood tribe and ancient damn, that

793
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: sounded real. Why the guy? Okay, okay, okay, shut up.

794
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: Now you listen to me. They got it around in

795
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: the festival. So my god, you're gonna get banned from

796
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: everything he ever. Okay, okay, okay, okay, I'm d do

797
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 1: you let me shut up like? They just sounds real.

798
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: It is real. Castle right to go, there's no tour

799
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: sh shut up, go oh ship all right, hey, people

800
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: are working out their desk. Keep your wife like, keep

801
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: that bad, okay, if you have to explain it, it's

802
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: pretty bad. She cry, keep your compulsure people at work

803
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: right now, we're in their headphone. Sorry, guys. Now, now

804
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: I have a braider that shout out the shape. But

805
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: sometimes I'll go to the braiding salon, right and I

806
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 1: told you about them. So every time I'm going there

807
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: and they start talking about me, because I'd be asking

808
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: for like really random ship, I'd be like, we can

809
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: make sure they're not less? Can you make sure they're flat?

810
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:22,439
Speaker 1: And they start talking about like, don't do this, don't

811
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: stop talking about and now I don't know they'd be

812
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: tired of my ship. Okay, anyway, what are we talking about?

813
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: The trip? Okay, okay. The men dress up in a

814
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: strut in some kind of beauty pageant, and the aim

815
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: is to impress or steal the wives of other men

816
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: choose their favorites to sleep with. White teeth and a

817
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 1: straight nose are highly prized features, so the men wear

818
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:51,439
Speaker 1: lipstick to make their teeth appear bright, and they paint

819
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: a white stripe down the center of their nose to

820
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: make it look sharper. And women wait until their desired

821
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 1: man passes by, and then they tap him on the shoulder,

822
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 1: and at sunset, the couple disappears into the underground where

823
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: they spend the night together. That sounds like sensation island.

824
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: Here we go and Alabama? Oh here were there? Thank you?

825
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: Not an Alabama hot pocket? Right there is a cousin

826
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: fucker village. Oh my god, I'm just playing, but it's close.

827
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: There is a lesbian Now. That's when you have two females,

828
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: two women participants. And I'm not talking about the ship

829
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 1: you guys do where you turn into a woman or whatever.

830
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: I'm talking natural born. All right, damn you soundly. You

831
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: sound like the white people that I saw it. Trap

832
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:49,479
Speaker 1: here he can't hear me, Okay, all right, I'm laughing

833
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: to her. In Alabama, a female only commune took its

834
00:45:55,400 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: name from the lesbian communities found throughout the seventies. Today,

835
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 1: the village is a home to a group of women

836
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: who farm the land, host poetry reading, sing alongs, full

837
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: moon circles at night, and they're always looking for new members.

838
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: So if you like the sound of living in a

839
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: community based around female nurturing and support, get in touch.

840
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: The attendance is flexible and exclusive. Women enjoy range of diets.

841
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 1: They live there full time, part time, seasonally, in short

842
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: term but it's a lesbian village. Um, do you think

843
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Speaker 1: Don't I think? I think this is a very they'll

845
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846
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847
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Speaker 1: I was thinking they wasn't gonna except that chicken doesn't

848
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Speaker 1: mean you're allowed. Alright, that's exactly what the funk happened.

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Speaker 1: Now we will share some more of those on a

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Speaker 1: Patreon episode. But anyway, god damn it. All right, let's

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856
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857
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858
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Speaker 1: so you be I'm sorry, I hate you. Maybe she's French.

863
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Speaker 1: I have been bene listening to you guys about two

864
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Speaker 1: and freaking love you. I need help. You guys might

865
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Speaker 1: have answered a similar question already, um we have, but whatever.

866
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Speaker 1: I'm a single mom of two and I want to

867
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Speaker 1: do horrible things, but I don't know how to pick

868
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Speaker 1: up guys. Sad. I know, I'm a workaholic in an introvert,

869
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: and I hate dating apps because I always end up

870
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Speaker 1: with the cum chill at my house type of guys

871
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Speaker 1: and I'm not okay with that. I'm also not a

872
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Speaker 1: casual sex type of girl either. Why do you listen

873
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: to the show? I really want to bisexual masculine males. Now,

874
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Speaker 1: before I finish this, can I just say I don't

875
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Speaker 1: want someone who's like come Chell, I don't want to

876
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Speaker 1: be on a dating app. I don't want this, but

877
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Speaker 1: I want to bisexual masculine males. Bitch what anyway? I've

878
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: been craving this for years and I always thought it

879
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Speaker 1: was crazy for wanting this. I haven't had good dick

880
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Speaker 1: in ten months. Please help the future whore out what

881
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Speaker 1: am I doing wrong or need to do? At least

882
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Speaker 1: you knew you were doing something wrong. First of all,

883
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: you need to lower a lot of your own personal

884
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Speaker 1: where you're gonna find someone's standards, because you're one of

885
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: these people who like me. Sometimes I'm like, I don't

886
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Speaker 1: want to go online. I think I'm gonna go to Lucien,

887
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Speaker 1: which I go to every week, and just magically, a

888
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Speaker 1: big dick, big ass, black ass, rich ass Niga is

889
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Speaker 1: going to sit next to me and say, wow, I

890
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Speaker 1: want to take care of you and your dog, and

891
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Speaker 1: it doesn't happen. So what you need to do is

892
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: pick some of those things off. You should be joining

893
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: a dating app to bisexual males. I'm gonna be walking

894
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: down the street telling you that. So if you have

895
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: a fantasy that you want to play out, you should

896
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Speaker 1: be trying to look for that and be clear about

897
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: it on an app. But you can't expected to just

898
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Speaker 1: knock on your door, especially when you haven't had dick

899
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Speaker 1: for ten months. And trust me, I know what you're

900
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: going through because I haven't been fucking either, even though

901
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: I have a partner. Just I'm not into sex right now.

902
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: So I would suggest that you let a lot of

903
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 1: that ship go. Plus, you have two kids, you're too

904
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: busy to be like trying to go out every night

905
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Speaker 1: to meet someone and get on my felt life or

906
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Speaker 1: a Field. I was actually gonna say Field only because

907
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Speaker 1: it's the only dating app that I know that has

908
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Speaker 1: all of the fucking pan sexual, bisexual, trisexual, um by

909
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Speaker 1: curious and there's a lot of men on there with

910
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Speaker 1: bi curious and bisexual on their their thing. But also

911
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Speaker 1: it's one of the only apps too that you can

912
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Speaker 1: join with your partner. So if you're looking for two

913
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Speaker 1: bisexual men that maybe open or Polly or looking to

914
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: bring a third in, that app will have both of them,

915
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Speaker 1: so you can see both profiles at the same time.

916
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Speaker 1: And I think that's that's the way to go. Or

917
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Speaker 1: I mean if this was five, six, ten years ago,

918
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Speaker 1: I would say Craigslist. But what's crazy is you said

919
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Speaker 1: you're not into casual sex, but then you brought a

920
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Speaker 1: fantasy to the mix. I don't know what she's talking about.

921
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Speaker 1: She didn't, but she also said she didn't. She didn't

922
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Speaker 1: say she wanted to date and be in a relationship

923
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Speaker 1: with two bisexual men. She just said she really wants

924
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Speaker 1: to bisexual mask man. This is what happened me. He

925
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Speaker 1: found that sounds like a one time to say so

926
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Speaker 1: much of a ranch. She didn't even have periods in there.

927
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Speaker 1: You didn't spell binge right, And I want to give

928
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Speaker 1: you the Benedicts the job a bitch. As a mother,

929
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Speaker 1: you should have known how to spell that ship. So

930
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna safely assume you got lit and you were like,

931
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Speaker 1: let me write these bitches. I will also say that.

932
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Speaker 1: I will also say one of the things that I

933
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Speaker 1: would suggest to you as well is unfortunately, you are

934
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Speaker 1: going to have to get out of your your introverted

935
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 1: uh phase, because I do think that even if you

936
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Speaker 1: do find to mask bisexual men, this is something to

937
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Speaker 1: where you need to find a way spend time with

938
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Speaker 1: them and get comfortable. And unfortunately, you were either gonna

939
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Speaker 1: have to get a room or be comfortable enough to

940
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: do this at their space, because I don't find it

941
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 1: at all safe to bring two men into a household

942
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Speaker 1: with children. I don't think she would do that. I mean,

943
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Speaker 1: you don't know she can't, but I don't hurt her

944
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: how people have been raised. Mama's out, you're doing crack

945
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: and ship? Who know? So you don't want to bring

946
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: two men in your house to fuck? You want your kids? Okay? Okay, okay,

947
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not being shocked up saying, bro, there'd

948
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Speaker 1: be mama's out here that just be wanting to get

949
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: a nut and be bringing strangers in that out well,

950
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: So I'm saying if you want to mass presenting bisexual men,

951
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 1: not saying that they're just gonna be killers, but out

952
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: of safety, I would say, hey, you want to get

953
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: comfortable to deal with them being ugly too. I'm just

954
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: gonna say, because like you want to bisexual mask man

955
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: that will want to funk with each other and you,

956
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna a lot of your standards. The bisexual

957
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 1: men that I know is fine as fun because men

958
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Speaker 1: and women want Well, Mandy, maybe she doesn't have a

959
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: hundred million followers on instagrams. I don't either, and I'm

960
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: not hundred and nine thousand away from that bitch anyway.

961
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: As I offended you today, I am I'm sorry, I'm us.

962
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: You know what, let's go, we are really sorry, and

963
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: said the woman with the thing. No no one said

964
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Speaker 1: for you to repeat it. We just need to apologize

965
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 1: we offended you this episode because we should talk about

966
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: how many places we need to apologize to. I need

967
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:27,479
Speaker 1: to say Betty, Betty, she doesn't what happens. That doesn't

968
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Speaker 1: help it. Friend, sofia bad? Can you say it in

969
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Speaker 1: English with the English accent, with the American accent? You

970
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: knew I was gonna go, didn't you? Okay, Okay, okay,

971
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Speaker 1: I'm very sorry for make say your name I wheezy camera.

972
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Speaker 1: The camera also named Gila. I am sorry if I

973
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Speaker 1: said something offensive. It's some sorry I do. Here we go, okay,

974
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 1: I Mandy as well here on behalf of horrible decisions

975
00:52:56,640 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: to apologize. Uh do apologize sorry, Uh for everyone who

976
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Speaker 1: wear things, I'm sorry, sound real guilty, but I was

977
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: still trying to have fun. That was an apology, like

978
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: we really get canceled and kind of just say something

979
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 1: what we've been I was about to say, we've been

980
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: canceled every quarter for that. I was at the conversation

981
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,320
Speaker 1: with someone I work with and he was like, bro, cancel.

982
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: Culture does not allow for growth. And then I had

983
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: a conversation with Debbie Brown. Shout out to Debbie Brown.

984
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Speaker 1: She's also a Black Effect sister. She was saying, like

985
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: people don't get excited and like pipe their growth up

986
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: at all. She's like everybody just like tries to tell

987
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 1: you how they said sorry so much that they don't

988
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:42,240
Speaker 1: tell you how they learned now, while I learned nothing

989
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: from the things that I said today, because I know

990
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 1: we sucked up. All I'm saying is I'm just learning

991
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: that I just need to talk to about everybody because

992
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Speaker 1: I used to only doing this. Oh no, no, no, no,

993
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Speaker 1: no no no no no. You didn't just do that,

994
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Speaker 1: do you do? You do everybody? That's why I tell

995
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Speaker 1: you I know everything. So she can't be racist because

996
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Speaker 1: she's against everyone pretty much, is what you just said, Mom?

997
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Speaker 1: You know I mean, yeah, me too. I'll be talking

998
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Speaker 1: to my mama because she white like girl, I don't

999
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Speaker 1: even like your kind, So you know, I'll be talking

1000
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Speaker 1: about crackers all the time. Shout out to all the

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Speaker 1: if you wouldn't dropped all. Have you had white people

1003
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1006
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Speaker 1: around white people very often. They can't wait to tell

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Speaker 1: me in l A number seven they like, And I

1008
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1009
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Speaker 1: there's two looks. Either they really listen to Horrible and

1010
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Speaker 1: they look look a little different, or they're really white

1011
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Speaker 1: and they know me from Sophia. If you're if you're

1012
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1013
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Speaker 1: Although if you're around me in any of the establishments

1014
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1015
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Speaker 1: but feel free to come up and say hi. Um. Also, guys, again,

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Speaker 1: if you forgot by beginning of the episode. Again, we

1017
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Speaker 1: in O Horrible Decisions. But hey guy, sorry that I

1032
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Speaker 1: am late with this week's Patreon episode. Our guests for

1033
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Speaker 1: this week, the Bonus Bitch episode is a bit so

1034
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Speaker 1: many of you guys do know. Um, we have me

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Speaker 1: Dina Monroe from the Cocktails thirty time Girl. Medina, what's

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Speaker 1: your favorite podcast Temptation? I would ask, queen. The only

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Speaker 1: that because I am the podcast queen. But uh no,

1039
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Speaker 1: but I'm super excited. Again, Sorry that we're late. Last

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Speaker 1: week was Medina's birthday, and as you guys know, I

1041
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Speaker 1: took a mental break last week and went to Mexico

1042
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Speaker 1: for a few days with my friend, which, by the way,

1043
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Speaker 1: was supposed to be a trip that we both mourned

1044
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Speaker 1: our relationships. I'm so sick of telling y'all I'm single

1045
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Speaker 1: when I'm not, because you'll be lying. You were lying,

1046
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Speaker 1: asked like the more I and I'm a libra libras

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1048
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Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that. Well, I just want to

1049
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Speaker 1: That is, You're so lucky most of let's just have

1051
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 1: to walk to the bookstore and meditate in the park

1052
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: and we're like a mental break. But I'm not gonna lie.

1053
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to Loom. And I've spoken on

1054
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: here about how I'm not a fan because I'm not

1055
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: a fan of the Jungle. It's crazy to me because

1056
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: I do feel like I could have went to Vegas

1057
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: and had the same experience because everything was very every

1058
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: Vegas and Loom everything was to get a mental break.

1059
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: In Vegas, you walk in your hotel room, they're selling

1060
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 1: you prostitutes you want. Well, every fucking restaurant I went

1061
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: to in Tollom was like go ga, We'd yes, yeah,

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00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: no bits not with the fit and all a ship

1063
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 1: going around. Uh, what's crazy, two guys? Is this week? Uh?

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Speaker 1: This week we're gonna talk about three things. Actually, um,

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00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: we don't really have an outline, but I do want

1066
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: outlined that y'all are getting some specialty in this bonus episode.

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00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 1: I did have full permission from Medina to speak on it.

1068
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: If I wanted to speak on it, so she will

1069
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: be giving a horrid derve, which of course is a

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00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: sex tip, and we're gonna talk in during the Horrible

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00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: Decision this week on outfits that you can wear in

1072
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: the bedroom and of course with your partner for Halloween.

1073
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: So I'm super excited to get there. However, are you already?

1074
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: I'm mad I got her drum role or shas club,

1075
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: but I kind of wanted to share the story. So

1076
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: Medina came to New York and not only did she

1077
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: experience the sex club for the first time, she joined

1078
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: in with me and my boyfriend. Um, look, she really

1079
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: was trying to call him her boyfriend, y'all. Anyways, I

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00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: guess let's start off with your experience at the sex club.

1081
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are nervous and not

1082
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 1: knowing what to expect. And I took Chelsea and shot

1083
00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 1: a from Black Girl's texting podcast to end a s W.

1084
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: I also took you to end a SUPW. So could

1085
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: you kind of like open up with kind of what

1086
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 1: your experience was like there? So I'm not gonna lie.

1087
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: First of all, am I blurry on your end? Or

1088
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 1: is it just me? Uh? It might be just you,

1089
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: but it'll show up better at the end. It's ten

1090
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: a p so okay, cool um okay, So a walkthrough

1091
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: from beginning to end. So y'all have to story time.

1092
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: Mandy and Ice friendship happened in a very odd way.

1093
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: So for the longest time we were just talking on

1094
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 1: the phone, we shared the story. And then for even

1095
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: a longer time, I hadn't been to your place. You

1096
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, by the time I came to New York,

1097
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: you had been to Atlanta, but I had never been

1098
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: to your space in your space, and so I y'all know,

1099
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: Mandy were free and I don't put this on me, Medina, Wait,

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Speaker 1: don't start off this line with your line brand. Maybe

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01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 1: Oh now, Libra's lie me being the free spirited liber

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01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: that I am. I already know. I was like, you know,

1103
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 1: whatever we do. I know how her and her boyfriend

1104
01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: get down, but I did not think that this was

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01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:11,919
Speaker 1: going to happen. I need you don't know. This wasn't

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01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 1: like a planned thing. And Mandy was like, when you

1107
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 1: get down here, we're like we busting out booty holes,

1108
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 1: and like, no, that was not we were just like

1109
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 1: we're gonna hang out. I can't wait to meet your

1110
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: boyfriend is gonna be great. So we get there. As

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01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: soon as I get to her place, we start drinking. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Mandy is a great host. We're having the time of

1113
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: our life. We go to some bar or some Irish

1114
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: bar and we're having nasty as pickleback shots were not

1115
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 1: to hear and her fine acid nig being like, let

1116
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 1: me say man, because that's a man being like, well,

1117
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: we should go to the sex club tonight. My heart

1118
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 1: is racing. My heart is racing. It's like it's beating

1119
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: out of my chest because I'm like, Okay, what are

1120
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: we What are we going to the sex club? And

1121
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: we're all gonna do things together? Are we going to

1122
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 1: the sex club? And it's just gonna you know, be

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I have been to sex clubs before,

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Speaker 1: but I've never thank you're listening to this week's episode,

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Speaker 1: and don't forget for Hive dot com. Go get your

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Speaker 1: That's a Friday, then of course l a Friday December

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Speaker 1: three in Atlanta, Friday, December seventh. We're looking forward to

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Speaker 1: see you guys and taking you back to school. Baby,

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