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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. This hasn't just been and Ashley. We

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Speaker 1: have a special guest this episode. Yeah it's Jason. Jason

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Speaker 1: thought in the room yet, But I'm excited for this.

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Speaker 1: This It's gonna be so good. Ben. What did you

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Speaker 1: do this week? Uh? You know, I worked a coffee expo.

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Speaker 1: It's called the Denver Outdoor Retailer. So I stood and

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Speaker 1: served coffee and talked about life and connected with future

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Speaker 1: Generous Movement participants all weekend. We saw over thirty thousand

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Speaker 1: people during this expo, so we were busy. Were are

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Speaker 1: you doing that last week? Yeah? It's I mean they

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Speaker 1: go multiple days. You're a whole week of serving, a

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Speaker 1: whole week of it. So I took a I took Sunday,

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Speaker 1: rode my bike, I went on a a little walk. I

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Speaker 1: called it a day early and got my favorite meal

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Speaker 1: last night, which is marguerite of pizza and a bottle

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Speaker 1: of wine. And I kicked back, hung out and watch

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Speaker 1: the Cubbies play a St. Louis Cardinals. And I tell

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Speaker 1: you what, the Cubbies are looking good right now. Anyways, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: as I was hanging out last night, I was exploring

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Speaker 1: on my Instagram and I saw something that I wanted

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Speaker 1: wait till this podcast because why would we talk about

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Speaker 1: anything uh in life if it wasn't on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: You're getting married and part of getting married is exploring

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Speaker 1: the avenues at which uh the things you want to

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Speaker 1: where during this wedding. And it looks like your wedding shopping.

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Speaker 1: Did you pick a dress? What were you doing? Tell

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Speaker 1: everybody about it? Okay, So right after I got engaged,

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Speaker 1: I got an email from the people at say yes

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Speaker 1: to the dress or not say yes to the dress,

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Speaker 1: you know, more like Kleinfeld, which is where say Yes

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Speaker 1: to the Dress tapes. Um, it's always been a dream

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Speaker 1: of mine to go dress shopping there. So that was one,

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Speaker 1: you know, well as it checked off the bucket list,

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Speaker 1: and I got to bring my grandma. She's years old.

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Speaker 1: She barely leaves the house. She leaves the house well

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Speaker 1: once a week to get her hair done, but like not,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't go into the city like a big to

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Speaker 1: into the city. My aunt and my cousin came, my

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Speaker 1: best friend, and of course my sister and my mom,

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Speaker 1: and I've tried on some beautiful dresses. I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: if I'm going to say yes to one of them.

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Speaker 1: It was only my first stop on the dress tour,

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Speaker 1: but I found two I really really liked. Tell us

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Speaker 1: about him, I mean, smartly, do they have arms? Do

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Speaker 1: they have those? You know what I'm really into, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: What do they have arms? And sleeves? The big old

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Speaker 1: puffy things that come off the wedding dresses. If there's

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Speaker 1: one time in life you can wear a puffy thing

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Speaker 1: without getting judged for it, it's your wedding day. So

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Speaker 1: I hope your wedding dress is full of really puffy things. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's what I'm going for. I'm going for a

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Speaker 1: I don't remember what I was gonna say. Oh yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: So I don't want bling. I don't want them sparkly

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Speaker 1: I tried on some satin ones and I was like,

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Speaker 1: myself in Did you cry? I didn't, and I felt

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Speaker 1: so wrong about it. My sister didn't cry, my mom

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Speaker 1: because I didn't find the one. Maybe that's a that's

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Speaker 1: If i'm happy, I'm not going to cry. It's not

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Speaker 1: like highly emotional like getting engaged, you are getting married.

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Speaker 1: I just picture you, like every step the way crying,

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Speaker 1: Like you pick out the cake, you cry, you pick

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Speaker 1: emotional person? Oh? Yeah, obviously, No, that wasn't very obvious.

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Speaker 1: I was asking, come on, ben time. Yeah, but it's

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Speaker 1: I cry? I'm not heartbroken. I cried a lot of

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Speaker 1: so nice have we have? We talked about how Ben

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Speaker 1: doesn't she Nobody knows how affectionate we are unless they're

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Speaker 1: like with us for the weekend bar fee, but it's

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Speaker 1: like just below that. And at one point they made

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Speaker 1: me drive and they sat in the back. Well yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: why could we do that? They were doing an interview.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a little barfie. Anyway, I had a

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Speaker 1: I had a fantastic weekend, guys, and I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to just give a little shout out to Kleinfeld for

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Speaker 1: being so welcoming for me and being a dream come true.

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Speaker 1: And then um, I was able to go to Waitress

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Speaker 1: Carrie Russell. Kathy McFee is playing Carrie Russell's role and

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Speaker 1: Boots and that was amazing too. What did you do? Ben? Uh?

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Speaker 1: My goal for next year is to complete an Olympic trayathlon.

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Speaker 1: So I'm starting slowly like an iron man. Is that

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Speaker 1: think you'll have apps by the time we go to

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Speaker 1: Vegas for the radio music? I'll never have apps. What

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Speaker 1: and then I'll compare it to whether I would ever

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Speaker 1: do an iron Man? Ashley? Would you be more likely

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Speaker 1: to do an iron Man or eat a spider? Willingly?

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Speaker 1: Definitely eat a spider? Apps? Freaking lutely. I don't even

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Speaker 1: know if even if it was alive. Better. Can you swim? Yeah? Sure,

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Speaker 1: so I can jump off the diving board, Ashley. Would

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Speaker 1: Iron Man? Or look at toad? Lick at toad? I'd

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Speaker 1: probably do that for a hundred dollars. Yeah. I used

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Speaker 1: to actually joke that I would kiss a frog. What

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Speaker 1: I've been getting a lot of emails there. People are

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Speaker 1: excited about your wedding. At the expo this week, people

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Speaker 1: Is anywhere I go, people go, we listen to your podcast.

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Speaker 1: So everybody out there that came up to me at expo,

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Speaker 1: thanks for listening. Anybody out there listening, thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: want to lose like seven pounds within a year. Fair enough? Actually, okay,

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Speaker 1: my presumed wedding planner. And the final question that I

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Speaker 1: We think it's going to be July or August of

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Speaker 1: probably be in Rhode Island. I think we're probably going

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Speaker 1: to look at venues the week after next. Will Ben

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Speaker 1: be invited? Ben is definitely invited, and so are you, Amy.

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Speaker 1: I hear the easiest invite on the planet, because I

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Speaker 1: can't attend. Wait, this is such a good question. So Ben, Um,

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Speaker 1: you didn't have a plus one next your name. Um,

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Speaker 1: do you think that? Of course, if you get in

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Speaker 1: a serious relationship between now and next summer, of course

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Speaker 1: standard sure for adding a plus one should be to somebody?

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Speaker 1: I say, a serious relationship, like a serious relationship six

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Speaker 1: and they are like, yeah, if you've met the if

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Speaker 1: you can totally bring someone or not. Oh you know

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Speaker 1: You gotta stay true to who yourself. And I think

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Speaker 1: he did get a little off his game, his rocker

425
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: and just just who he is as a person. John

426
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: Blanc was the first. It was the first one, the

427
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Speaker 1: first thing said in the five minutes that you guys started,

428
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: and I think that got him fired up and he

429
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm rolling now, but bad. I don't know.

430
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 1: Were you ever like a w W F for w

431
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 1: C w c W fan like wrestling. You you know

432
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 1: royal rumbles, you remember them? You remember those? Okay, So

433
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 1: I was an only child. I used to take my

434
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 1: Hawk co game stuff. I think jump off my couch,

435
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 1: hit him down, and beat the living thing. But in

436
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 1: Royal Rumbles, the boys get in the ring and they

437
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 1: kind of feel each other out and then they pick

438
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 1: who they're going to go after. It was the opposite.

439
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: I mean we sat down, mits were flying off, punches

440
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 1: and upper cuts were being given. It got aggressive and

441
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 1: I got aggressive quick. Do you guys agree? And watching it,

442
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 1: you know, when I was there watching it over the

443
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: course of four hours, I was like, you know what,

444
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: it's actually kind of tame. But when you edit it

445
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 1: into the final product and you add every little element

446
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 1: of drama, it was like, wow, this is this is

447
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 1: fist It was feisty. It was supposed to be kissing

448
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: and telling. I think it was a lot more telling

449
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 1: than kissing. Hey, Mayson, you you know these guys better

450
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: than any of us. You lived with them, you dealt

451
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 1: with them. Uh what we saw during the mentel I mean,

452
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 1: even with Colton, is this who they are? I mean

453
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,479
Speaker 1: this Colton? Is he a bear that gets poked easily?

454
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: And why My question with this is because I was

455
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 1: watching this, I know quote I like Colton. Why was

456
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: he such an easy target for so many Outside of

457
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: the fact that Okay, maybe they were jealous. I mean,

458
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: they would have every right to be jealous of you.

459
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: Why Colton, I think because you know, Coulton and uh,

460
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: Colton and Jordan's kind of did go at it a

461
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 1: little bit, right, So I think they had unsettled business.

462
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 1: And I think, as you guys know, you go through

463
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: the show and you think one thing, and then you

464
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: start to see what happens in the I t m

465
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: s the interviews and you start to see what people

466
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: are saying behind your back, and I think it sparks

467
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: a fury for more people, and it's pent up because

468
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: we haven't seen these guys in that long. So I

469
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: think a lot of people have a lot on their

470
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: mind after watching it back, uh, and it was time

471
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: to share that. Obviously, Colton had taken a lot from

472
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: those episodes and he was going to bring the heat,

473
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: and he brought the heat. Coulton and Jordan actually saw

474
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: each other for some time in Paradise, but they really

475
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 1: but you know, they probably hadn't seen the episode. They

476
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 1: didn't see the episodes until now for sure. And I mean,

477
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: let's say Jordan's is Jordan's. He's through and through, He's

478
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: the same guy. Here that will be on camera. But

479
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: Jordan likes the attention. He likes to get under people's skin,

480
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: and I think he probably had a mission that night

481
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: to do so. And honestly, I think his goals accomplished.

482
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 1: Art is one step from really screwing himself because he's

483
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: gonna slip soon and say something that isn't funny or

484
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: or modelly or you know, like he was pushing it

485
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: with the making fun of the other guy's outfits. I

486
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,959
Speaker 1: really did not like that. Yeah, so Jordan is like

487
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: the biggest narcissist out there, right, But when you get

488
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: past that, to your point there, he is a little witty.

489
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: He does have some funny comments and you can be smart.

490
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 1: He's gotta be because he's quick unless he just sits

491
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 1: at home and like reverses these lines because the one

492
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 1: he drops line after line. But that being said, I

493
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 1: do agree with you. I think he's really pushing the

494
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: edge and once he crosses that line, he's gonna lose

495
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 1: a lot of people that support the funniness associated with him.

496
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: You know. One of the funniest things to me during

497
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: this whole season and especially mental all, we had him

498
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: here on the podcast and he was great. But is when,

499
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: first off, I would never pick a fight with Jordan's personally,

500
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: I can't. I couldn't handle it. You would see me

501
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: curl up in the fetal position, be like you want

502
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: right away? Is all you have to do is dig

503
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: one shot at me, and I would be I couldn't

504
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: handle it. But it's when David tries to argue with

505
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: Jordan's and it's it is so humorous because board David is.

506
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: It is actually you can tell he's a nice guy.

507
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: He like, for some reason, has this persona that he

508
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: wants to be mean or he wants to like go

509
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: head to head with Jordan's. But I don't think I

510
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: remember one time there in this season Jason tell us

511
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 1: from Wrong or one time during Mentel Law that David

512
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: even came close to win an argument with Jordan. And

513
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 1: that battle, I think David was defeated every single time

514
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: by Jordan's. And the funny thing was he kept going

515
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,479
Speaker 1: at him. That was it was my observation. Jordan actually

516
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: was never I didn't think attacking David. Jordan was responding

517
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: to all the punches he was getting, and when he

518
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: was responding, he was responding with fury and taking down

519
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: nine out of ten of the people and doing so.

520
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: We told him his mate his massive mistake was just

521
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: taking Jordan's so seriously for sure, and I think he

522
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: was way more focused on Jordan's than what he was

523
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: there to do was to build a relationship with BA guys.

524
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,959
Speaker 1: So I had a I had a funny interview with

525
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: some hockey guys from Buffalo today and they said, if

526
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: there was one guy I could throw the MITS off

527
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 1: and take the thread and put it over his head,

528
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: I think it would have been David. David Um. I

529
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: do think that during Mental All, or at least getting

530
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: to see like the whole four hours, he almost did

531
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: what he was almost like this is silly. Now I'm

532
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 1: going to back off, because I think Jordan's was like

533
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep playing with him, and he was like, dude,

534
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: it's a guy. I'm gonna chalk my losses off. And sure.

535
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: The Mental All is always one of the funniest events

536
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 1: to me when I was a party, because I was

537
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: at the Mental All during Caitlyn season. I love the

538
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 1: back row guys that get so heated, like you know

539
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 1: the first day or is They're like, yeah, you know

540
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: you were this guy, and you were this guy, and

541
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: you're like, you literally had three hours of interaction for

542
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: this show. You watched the show like a fan. You

543
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 1: had no clue what happened the whole Your mental all

544
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: was one of the most outrageous to me because it

545
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 1: felt like you had a lot of guys trying to

546
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: get their last words in. Absolutely, I think there's a

547
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: ton of guys and it's interesting are the makeup of

548
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 1: our group, Like you got some of these guys who

549
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 1: are models. You have some people that called themselves social

550
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: media influencers before the show, but they weren't. Half the time,

551
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 1: You're trying to have a conversation of what their career is,

552
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 1: and it just you can't really understand what it is,

553
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: right And it was interesting to see a lot of

554
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: those guys left early. And I gotta give credit to

555
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: Becca because I think she saw through that and kind

556
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: of who they were and what their intentions were. But

557
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,679
Speaker 1: to your point, those same guys who went home early

558
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: for probably that persona were the same guys that were

559
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: bringing the same heat at mentel all and I think

560
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 1: some of them are trying to do trying to get

561
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: attention for that. You know, Christian and Jordan or whatever.

562
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: The model walk off or whatever the heck. He's like

563
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: a New York model versus a Miami model. The funny

564
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: thing I keep hearing everyone's like, what kills me all

565
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: season is your looks. And I've said back, I'm like,

566
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: this is the most petty, ridiculous off I've ever seen.

567
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: I've seen it for two months now. So I sit back,

568
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: continue to drink my drink and give those looks. What's

569
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: where is that? I understand girls making a big show

570
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: out of women tell all because it's kind of their

571
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: audition for Bachelor in Paradise. But with you, guys, you

572
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: either we're on paradise or you're off. It's no audition anymore,

573
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: right there. So I don't understand what it is. But

574
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: there are a lot of guys are they're seeking that

575
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: attention and they were going all out for it. So

576
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: and it's what it is, you know, to be expected.

577
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: That's what I would say. I will say this, Jason,

578
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: this is credit to you. It's credit to Colton, Uh,

579
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: to Garrett, um and and Blake. I've actually been on

580
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: to me all four of you. Now. Garrett came to

581
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: the American Century Championship and jumped out off the beach

582
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: and goes Ben you know me, and I said, I

583
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: have no clue you are, And they took all the

584
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: sung Oh you're that guy from the show. Yeah, talking

585
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: about you every league. Um, she picked four really good generally,

586
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: I think, uh, good prospects for a husband. I you

587
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: all have a lot of depth and a lot of character,

588
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: and so you know, maybe this, maybe this is what

589
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: makes such a great Bachelor of Bachelor of season is

590
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: when you have a good mix of everybody, and you

591
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: definitely did. We saw it during the mentel all the

592
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: interesting thing Jason, um that I appreciate about you and

593
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: I have to start out and say this first, and

594
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: actually I've talked about all the time. She has to

595
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: hear me, Ramp. You don't describe yourself, Banner. You are

596
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: very self aware. You process through your mistakes and thoughts,

597
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: and you don't promote yourself out of any type of

598
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: insecurity or even out of confidence. When your season. I'm

599
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 1: telling you, man, this drove me absolutely crazy. I had

600
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: I didn't watch one episode. I forget what it was

601
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: because I was so frustrated. And David. I've told David this.

602
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: He sat down right next to me in student, I said, David,

603
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: I'd never want you to describe yourself again, and he

604
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: did it during mentor you can't help yourself, honest guy,

605
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: you got an advice from the godfi. I'm an honest,

606
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: humble guy and I'm like David enough anymore. Yeah, but hey,

607
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: you don't do it. You're one of the only ones. Um,

608
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 1: So thank you for making my time watching this show

609
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: bearable by just knowing every time Jason was on, I

610
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: wasn't going to punch my pillow. I appreciate that. I

611
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: appreciate I think there's that old adage. It's like, you know,

612
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: life is about ten percent what happens, how you react,

613
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: and if you don't take that into this scenario, you're

614
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 1: gonna fall on your face. And a lot of the

615
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: guys did and it was tough to see because there

616
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: are a lot of good people that in that show

617
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: that just couldn't handle the ups and downs, and to

618
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: your point, their self defense was just pumping their tires

619
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: for no reason. So thank you for noticing that. I

620
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Speaking of the ups and downs, and some

621
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: people are able to handle it and some aren't. I

622
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: have something to ask about Blake. Sure, I'm going to

623
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: do it after I ask how did you get your

624
00:31:53,920 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: skin so clear and beautiful? Thing? Alright? Well, as you

625
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: may or may not know, my dad and I are

626
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: very close by my mom's boy. I talked to my

627
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: mom every single day. I love in her door, and

628
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: every time I go back to visit her, she's always

629
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: doing something with her face and she's trying some type

630
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: of cream. So I'll be the first one to admit,

631
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna self deprecate myself. I use all those like

632
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: face lotions and stuff. I give it a shot. What

633
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: the hell, Ben, If you need any recommendations, let me know.

634
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: I'll give you one. I'll give you a good recommendation,

635
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: actually take it away. Um. We use Bioclarity. We love

636
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: it because I have really sensitive skin. It'll turn red

637
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Speaker 1: Let's go back to that Blake question. If he doesn't

659
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Speaker 1: win this thing and he becomes the next Bachelor, will

660
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Speaker 1: he lose it as the bachelor? Because the guy has

661
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 1: a lot of anxiety. So it's interesting about Blake is

662
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: early on he was very composed, uh, and he was

663
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: pretty diplomatic, and he's smart, and he was leading the pack.

664
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: And something happened in Bahamas with Blake, and I'm not

665
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: sure what it was, but he had already had a

666
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: one on one and he had been pressing hard at

667
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: the fact that he thought he should have had another

668
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: one on one. And for a guy like me, he

669
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 1: didn't get a one on one until week six, and

670
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: he didn't have a week two, and she forgot my

671
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: name week three. You know, was still falling in love

672
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: with her. I'm like, what, so, I think you know,

673
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: in in life and in relationships, battling adversity is huge, right,

674
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 1: And it's a huge competency of getting over different humps

675
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: and building a stronger relationship with your significant other. And

676
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: I do think in the Bahamas and hometowns, and I

677
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 1: think you saw in Thailand, Um, he got more worried

678
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: about the other people involved as opposed Tobecca. Uh. That's

679
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,399
Speaker 1: just an observation from looking back. So UM, I will say,

680
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if that was the state of his

681
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: feelings the way they progressed earlier. I'll give him credit there, Um,

682
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: but it does seem that as time passed, Uh, it

683
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: definitely got more difficult with him, and I think a

684
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: correlation to that was a little exposure to his nervousness

685
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: and in dealing with the situation. So who makes a

686
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: better bachelor, Blake Garrett or Jason? Jason? Actually? Actually so,

687
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: I actually love all those guys. And I think including

688
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: what I'm skidding you already said, it doesn't I don't

689
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,760
Speaker 1: pump my own tires. Um. I think they're all great guys.

690
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: It depends. My answer would be, it depends what they

691
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: wanted out of a bachelor. UM. So I think you

692
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 1: would get different things out of each of those people. UM.

693
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: The one thing I will say that is in common

694
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: with all three of them is I can say, from

695
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: the bottom of my heart, all of us are looking

696
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: for that someone. All of us are in that stage

697
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: of our life that we are looking for love. UM.

698
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: And I think that's as genuine and authentic as it

699
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: will get. So I think regardless of um who pursues it,

700
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: who's interested, and who has decided on UM, I think

701
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: they will find love. I think they will find take

702
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 1: this very seriously, and UM, the ending of that journey

703
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: will be a positive one. So that that amazing Jason,

704
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: great job there. You didn't answer my question in order Oh,

705
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: he's taking he's taking tips from the godfather that I

706
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: called you after like day one, I was out, what

707
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 1: do you think? Not answering to ask you a question,

708
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 1: I said that we would all do a good job,

709
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: but we would bring different things to the table. What

710
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: would you want to see out of the next bachelor

711
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 1: and that would help me identify who could do that best. Yeah,

712
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't know how now I'm answering a question after

713
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: you didn't answer mine, but I'm going to do it

714
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 1: because we're not gonna go back. And this is incredible.

715
00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: You're doing great, You're great, So I think I think

716
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: you're right. You said something which makes me think that

717
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: you would be the best. Because a great bachelor bachelorette,

718
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: I've always said, isn't you know necessarily who they are

719
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: as a person? Which you want somebody that is looking

720
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 1: for something that's that's a necessity. It's how they react.

721
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: And we need the next lead to be somebody that

722
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: reacts um in a way that is loving and caring,

723
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: one that is likable. This is that's my big thing.

724
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Speaker 1: We need a likable bachelor and I think all three

725
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: of you have that, and I think all three of

726
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: you respect people enough to react to situations in a

727
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: respectable way. So, um, the next Bachelor, if if I

728
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: were to say, what's the differentiator out of all of

729
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: those things, um, we need a really really likable person.

730
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: And what I mean likable? We need a humble, authentic,

731
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: genuine person who's willing to admit that they're not going

732
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: to do this perfectly so that America and the people

733
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,919
Speaker 1: following can relate and love and feel like they could

734
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: live vicariously through their next Bachelor. And so Jason, I think,

735
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I know Blake, I met Garrett, I know you. Um,

736
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: I think all three of you have that characteristic, but

737
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: I think you've just said it today is you have

738
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: an ability to admit your wrongs and to know that

739
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,959
Speaker 1: you you're great, but you aren't that great. And um,

740
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: so I think that's that's the characteristic we need next

741
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: next season. Actually, do you disagree? No? That was so

742
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:29,879
Speaker 1: beautifully worded, Ben, That's why that's those are very kind

743
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:31,919
Speaker 1: words and coming from both you guys, that means a lot.

744
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: So I appreciate that. Thank you, So don't mess it up.

745
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm doing what I can. You know, I hosted that

746
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 1: Instagram last week. I wanted to start a petition. I

747
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 1: would I would love to. I would love to see

748
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: how it work out if the Bachelor did a nationwide

749
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: pole not nationwide, you know, Bachelor nationwide, or it's it's

750
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: like you go to ABC dot com and you'd vote

751
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: for your next Bachelor. I think that would be a

752
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: great idea that would win. By the way, when you

753
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: posted that, I instantly blushed, saying I appreciate that. It's

754
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: just disgusting. Um, hey, you know we could do, Ashley,

755
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: what we can do it right here on the Almost

756
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: series thought, oh, hey, Ashley, let's set it up on

757
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: our instagrams and Twitter. Let's take a poll because we

758
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,919
Speaker 1: can do that voting thing, right, who would you rather

759
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: see as the next batch? Let's do our own little

760
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: almost famous bracket. Put it up after the show. How

761
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: does that sound? I don't know if we should do

762
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 1: after the show. Shouldn't we do it after next week

763
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: when we know who the runner up is. It's a

764
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 1: good point. Yeah, we could do like a four four

765
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: person bracket after next thing. Okay, next week we'll put

766
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: it up. That's fair enough. Hey, Jason, I wanna do

767
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 1: something fun here. Um, it's gonna be a blast. I'm

768
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: always just ask Ashley. Last week I tried to play

769
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: a game with her and she wasn't a fan of it.

770
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: So I love games too. I'm gonna be Mike Flice

771
00:39:55,120 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 1: for a second. Ashley is going to be the executive producers. Okay,

772
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: you have you, Bennett Taylor. You have one minute to

773
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: sell us on why you should be the next Bachelor. Okay, oh,

774
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: poor guys, all right, let's do it. You're ready. I'm

775
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 1: gonna start the clock. You have one minute. You're gonna

776
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: tell me you're gonna whack me up. Actually I got

777
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: a clock here too, so we'll be on the same page,

778
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: all right, go alright. So my whole twenties weren't dedicated

779
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: to my career. I relocated four times with a bank

780
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: and had seven promotions in eight years. And I earned

781
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: my MBA and accounting and finance while working, so I

782
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,919
Speaker 1: used the cash flow from my day job to pay

783
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: for that to ensure there was no debt associated with that.

784
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: So I've taken a lot of things seriously. I took

785
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: my athletics seriously in college. I took leadership as a

786
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 1: captain on my team seriously. And I've taken my work

787
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 1: seriously for twenties. And I'm now twenty nine years old,

788
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: and I'm at the point in my life where I

789
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: am looking for a best friend. I'm looking for a

790
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 1: part her. I'm looking for a wonderful mother of my kids, grandmother,

791
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: great grandmother, and hell great great great grandmother. And I've

792
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: never been in a better position to find that, whether

793
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: it's on the show as a bachelor or it's in

794
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: a different capacity. That's what I'm looking for, and I'm

795
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: in a position to do it. And uh, I'm single,

796
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: and let's go. Let's do bing bing bing. I'm sold.

797
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: I am. I'll now so I'll be your date to

798
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: Ashley's wing. How about that that dance floor. You lost

799
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: me after the first fifteen seconds because I was like,

800
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 1: screwed the bachelor. I have to sit up this man

801
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 1: with my friends. Oh and by the way, apparently after

802
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 1: this was the first one I've ever done. But I

803
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: guess I could scrap book now because that thing turned

804
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: out pretty damn good. Holy I heard actually give a

805
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: little like I always love this. It's happened to me

806
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: twice in my life. I will remember those moments. But

807
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: she gave a little like you know how some girls

808
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 1: are when they're interested somebody to give a little coup

809
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:13,439
Speaker 1: like she did that persons, it happened, It did. Yeah,

810
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 1: and uh it was in middle school and um, right

811
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: hit it was a big deal. I hit a half

812
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: court shot to win the conference championship. Was one of

813
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: the highlights of my life. And I walked off and um,

814
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: Alexa Souberts and my my middle school girlfriend goes oh,

815
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: and I said, oh jeez, so you can still pull

816
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: it off. I did forget one line. The one funny

817
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: line would be no, no, she I forgot something I

818
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: needed to say because it's actually pretty funny. Is and

819
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: as you guys know, because you met my family over

820
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 1: at hometowns. Yeah, my mother has got an awesome husband,

821
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: a great great son, another great son, and a great

822
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,320
Speaker 1: son in law. And I think she's i and for

823
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: a woman in the family. Yeah, yeah, good point. Yeah, good,

824
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: good for mom. Jason. And actually I want to tell you, Uh,

825
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,760
Speaker 1: first off, Jason, you're killing it. You're a great co host.

826
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: We're having a blast with you. Thank you for coming

827
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: on the podcast. I know giving up an hour of

828
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: your day right now is incredibly difficult, so we appreciate

829
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: you for coming on, But there's somebody else that we're

830
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Speaker 1: bringing on that I appreciate dearly. One of my favorite

831
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Speaker 1: people in the world. She's incredibly talented, incredibly intelligent. I

832
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: go on her podcast often. Um she talks everything bachelor's, sports, life.

833
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Speaker 1: She kind of has the perfect job and she's the

834
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835
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Speaker 1: Littmann from The Ringer is coming straight to the Almost

836
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Speaker 1: Fund fan. Jason, are you sold? I'm sold again? Sold again.

881
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 1: He's gonna give it to after he's the Bachelor. Yeah.

882
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna say to me, shocking. Hey, one of

883
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: my favorite people in the world. Are you out there, Juliet,

884
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: it's been an Ashley and Jason. Hi guys, Hi, congratulations

885
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 1: and thank you so much. Sorry we haven't made it

886
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: over Tar podcast yet. I know I've been harassing Garrett.

887
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 1: Did he tell you just just a time or two?

888
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: Everybody out there listening, Juliette Littman, Uh and I have

889
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: had a friendship now for I don't know two years.

890
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: I have consistently Uh gone on her podcast she had

891
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: as as as time gone on, she's continued to get

892
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:06,839
Speaker 1: promoted over at the Ringer. Juliet tell our listeners how

893
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: they may know you to get this thing started. I

894
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: host competing podcast called Party UM that covers a Bachelor

895
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:21,800
Speaker 1: and also the wider world of reality TV and Um Yeah,

896
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: Ben and actually you've both been on it and our

897
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: great guest, and I'm so happy to be talking to

898
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: you guys. Jack. Do you think you're enough Jason on

899
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 1: the podcast? I would love to Jason, will you come on?

900
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: You're my pick for Bachler. Oh, that's so nice to you. Yeah,

901
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: we'll have to figure that out. That would be great. Oh,

902
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: he's already got the celebrity lingo down of Yeah, we'll

903
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: figure that out. Assistant. Is Jason your pick for the Bachelor?

904
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 1: First of all, Jason, I thought your family seemed awesome

905
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: and I'd like to see more of them. Um definitely

906
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: definitely my favorite hometown date. And I'm also quite curious

907
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 1: about your friends for the Gronk, which I hope would

908
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: be in the show as well. And I just think

909
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: you seemed like over the course of um the season

910
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: like kind of like opened up in the way that

911
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: that works well for bachelors and batchelor Us like kind

912
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: of warmed up to the to the process, and it

913
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: seemed like you kind of got more comfortable as time

914
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: went on over over the course of the season, and

915
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: I just don't think we got to see enough of you,

916
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 1: so I would love to see more. Plus I feel

917
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: like you. I mean, this is perhaps the projection and

918
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 1: telling if I'm wrong, but I think it seems like

919
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 1: you know you'd be like both easy going with taking

920
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 1: it seriously and we'll just have fun with it. And

921
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: I think it's time for a fun season. I appreciate that.

922
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: I do you think I'd bring a little spice to

923
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 1: the season. It should be fun um To your point,

924
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 1: I did open up, but I opened up in the

925
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,360
Speaker 1: manner that I felt right was for me, and I

926
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,760
Speaker 1: stayed true to myself right. So I think at times

927
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: people might say things that they want becca to here

928
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 1: or they want the person making the decisions to here,

929
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: as opposed to saying what they mean and how they

930
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: mean it. So that is something I thought I stayed

931
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:04,800
Speaker 1: true too. And the best part, I think when you

932
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: can leave this all and look back and talk to

933
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: your friends and family, and all of them say, the

934
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: same guy we've known growing up was the same guy

935
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,359
Speaker 1: that was on that show, and we appreciate it. So

936
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: that was great and that I so thank you for

937
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 1: the kind words. But to your first point, yep, I

938
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 1: did grow up with Rob Gronkowski. He's a very good

939
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: friend of mine. He although then and now my head

940
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 1: was always at around his let's say hip level. You

941
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: always got a few feet on me. The guy's an

942
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: absolute monster, but great guy. He's done great with his career,

943
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: and um, I can tell you for sure that he

944
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:43,399
Speaker 1: is aggressively supporting the Jason for Bachelor fan club, which

945
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 1: is quite funny. Does Row watch the Bachelorette? He is

946
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 1: now watching the Bachelorette. And I've gotten too funny comments,

947
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 1: one from his beautiful girl friend Camille, who has said,

948
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: I think you've now made him more of a romantic.

949
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: So I bust I bust his chops about that. And

950
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 1: Rob's always joking around and so in a very facetious,

951
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: loving way, he said, ah, man, now every time I

952
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: go out with you, you're going to get all the

953
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 1: chicks and no one's gonna come talk to me. Well,

954
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 1: he said, he has a beautiful girlfriend. He just, like

955
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: I said, in a facetious, funny Rob joking with a

956
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: girl listening, that's like, there's Rob Gronkowski. Yeah, most people

957
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: don't know. Oh yeah, so he is. He's just a

958
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: fun loving guy and his name. He's the tight end

959
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: of the New England Patriots. Um, and he's had a

960
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: very successful career on and off the field with not

961
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: for profits charities. And also I think he is uh.

962
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: I think he's three three super Bowl rings. He's kind

963
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: of like a wild personality, wild personality, but fun and loving. Yea,

964
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 1: he did have a cruise. Yeah, he plays with Tom Browdy.

965
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: Had one cruise, one cruise weekend and um, I think

966
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: that was I did go, I was, I was on

967
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 1: the crew. Was a rob. Hey, Jason, are Bills fan

968
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: or Patriot fan? I'm a huge Bills fan, but I'm

969
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 1: also a Rob fan. I root for his success. Have

970
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: you ever partaken in any of the craziness that is

971
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: Bills Mafia? You know it's I'm sad to say this.

972
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: You know what Bill's mafia does? The town gates right, Yeah,

973
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 1: like crush each other crazy stuff. I don't, but I'll

974
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: tell you really quickly. A funny story. I had a

975
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 1: business outing, so I brought these people and I'm thinking,

976
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: we gotta show him a nice relaxed version of the

977
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 1: tailgate which doesn't exist, so we can get a limo.

978
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,240
Speaker 1: We go in the limo a lot, so I'm thinking

979
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,959
Speaker 1: we're safe. We're good getting the limo a lot. Two

980
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 1: limos over. Two guys are on top of the limo,

981
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: hands linked, jumping off the limo, smashed the table A right, guys,

982
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 1: you wanted to go to the Bill's tail gate. Welcome

983
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: to the Bill's mafia. I know that you are always

984
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: um super Anneglotte cool and how you watch the show,

985
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: and I know you're a fan of Jason, but you

986
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: criticize me, You've criticized everybody. If there is one word

987
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: of advice going in to let's say Jason being the Bachelor,

988
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: what would be your word of device for the young man. Wow,

989
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: you really put me on the spot. Oh yeah, don't

990
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: kiss everyone right away. I think I just think that

991
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: like that the waves of Bachelor bachloress is like just

992
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 1: to go in for the makeout as soon as possible now,

993
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: and just like it also becomes on the talk to

994
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 1: them as far as it seems to me, So I

995
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: would say, be a little more judicious and like thinking

996
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: out a little bit more, because you don't want all

997
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 1: of the women to be mad. You've made out with

998
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:45,800
Speaker 1: so many people, then you definitely made out too any girls.

999
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 1: I think it would be cool if there was a

1000
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 1: bachelor bachelor who only made out with their top ten.

1001
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: There is something to be said. I think like connecting

1002
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: emotionally before physically, I think that that's fair. Oh come on, Jason,

1003
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 1: don't take their side. You know this is absolutridiculous. You're

1004
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: gonna kiss every single girl that walks through that freaking door.

1005
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,879
Speaker 1: You don't sit here with your beautiful hair and your

1006
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: big old smile and go. You're right, Juliette, something about

1007
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: that romantic chemistry before the physical. I'll tell you what

1008
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: I think. My mom would instantly stop watching if I

1009
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: had to do the after morning fantasy shot. That's that's

1010
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:26,839
Speaker 1: a little little now. You told me with Access Hollywood

1011
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: that you wanted to get that fantasy suite, even if

1012
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 1: it meant you were going to be dumped the morning

1013
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: of Well, let me let me correct you. Let me

1014
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: correct you. Actually what I said when I believe and

1015
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: you could quote if it was differently, is that time

1016
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: was a big part of this game and it was

1017
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: a huge commodity. And of the other two guys, I

1018
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: had the latest one on one, I only had one

1019
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: on one. I didn't have a first impression rolls or

1020
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 1: group date. And I felt as though time could have

1021
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 1: put our relationship in a better position. And to cut

1022
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: it short when I didn't think at the time, there

1023
00:53:56,280 --> 00:54:00,839
Speaker 1: was a real justified explanation from her at dinner. Um,

1024
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: you know, I thought time would have helped. But you

1025
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: know just what to say, don't you. You're good man,

1026
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: really good. You're gonna do just fine. You're gonna I

1027
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: have a supporter. Thank you. You can give me some

1028
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: golf lessons. I need them. Um, hey, Juliet, before we

1029
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: say goodbye to you, I know that you know you

1030
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: have a an executive position at the Ringer. You operate

1031
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: a couple of very successful podcasts, and I want to

1032
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: hear about those before we go. But before we send

1033
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 1: you off, somebody like yourself, who was a very busy person,

1034
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 1: who works very hard, who is an extremely intelligent I

1035
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 1: am a big fan of you, and you know that

1036
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: why do you like the Bachelor or Bachelor at like

1037
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: somebody like you, why do you why do you enjoy

1038
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: watching I think it's two things. I wanted to totally

1039
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: escape this. I don't think I would ever go on

1040
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,320
Speaker 1: this show. So it's like just like watching it is

1041
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,959
Speaker 1: an utter fantasy, and just because like at the point

1042
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 1: of that in my career and sort of you know

1043
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: all that no judgments of course, um, and to like

1044
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 1: to that extent when you when I watch it, like

1045
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: you you just kind of like put yourself in the

1046
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: shoes of whomever, like whoever you like root for You're like, well,

1047
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: if I work in a spot, in her spot, like

1048
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: this is what I would do. And so it's just

1049
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: a way of like living out a reality you'll never have,

1050
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 1: like a reality TV and then something that you know

1051
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: you can like forecast yourself into that having to actually experience.

1052
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: And then on top about like over the last two

1053
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: years that I've been doing these podcasts, like it's just

1054
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: become so much more popular and it's like a talking

1055
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: point with was like like minded people, and so it's

1056
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: like being part of a big cultural phenomena. One thing

1057
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 1: fun question is if you if you did do it,

1058
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: what would your entrance out of the limo being a

1059
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 1: good question. That is a good question. Um, I would

1060
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: go a props, but like nothing to extravagant, Like I

1061
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't like ride them on a horse or anything. I

1062
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: think I would do some research on whoever the Bachelard

1063
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: was and like try to find one thing we had

1064
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: in common and present something. Because you like, it's so

1065
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 1: hard to remember everyone's name in the first night, right,

1066
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: then you need to Yeah, you need. I mean you

1067
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: were one of the first to quiz me on this

1068
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 1: how do you remember everybody's name? And it's associating whatever

1069
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: they do have the limo with their actual name. So

1070
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:17,439
Speaker 1: I mean, I think, Juliet, you need to come out

1071
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 1: firing because they need to know who you are. They

1072
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: need to keep you around. It'll be interesting. Um, you know,

1073
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 1: if you ever did sign up for the show, if

1074
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:29,879
Speaker 1: Jason is the next Batchelor, this could be really nice.

1075
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: I'll be like, you're what time we're on the same podcast. Yeah,

1076
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: and then people are like they met before they already

1077
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 1: had a bonding moment. Hey, Juliet, we really appreciate you

1078
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,320
Speaker 1: come on the podcast. I've I've you've been awesome to Ashley.

1079
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 1: I You've had us on your podcast multiple time, talking

1080
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 1: everything Bachelor, talking everything life. We became friends through it,

1081
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 1: and that's not easy to do, is a journalist or

1082
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: a podcast host becoming friends with your guest, especially during

1083
00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: this show. Um, it's in too long. We gotta have

1084
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: you back. I think Paradise is your sweet spot. So

1085
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 1: I think Julia Letman needs to come back during Paradise.

1086
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: I get so many tweets and interactions when I go

1087
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 1: on your show. I know you've a huge fan base

1088
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: before we send you off. Um, we we do have

1089
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: competing podcasts, but we consistently support each other. UM, tell

1090
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 1: our listeners out there how they can find you. Post

1091
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 1: this segment. What's for Bachelor Party? Wherever you get your podcast?

1092
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: It's up on Mondays after the show and on Thursday's

1093
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 1: usually in the afternoon. I call it the Thursday episode

1094
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor Party, said, capting up all whatever we

1095
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: forgot to cover, and also other reality TV because I

1096
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,920
Speaker 1: love Bravo as well. And um, I loved the Jersey

1097
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 1: Store were uni in the show, So you know, cover

1098
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: all that and check out the Wringer dot com. It

1099
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: is my company's website. I'm i right for it occasionally

1100
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 1: and there's a lot of good stuff to reads to

1101
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: check it out. Thanks for having me guys, Yeah, of course, Juliet.

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00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 1: You're kind of like um, the Howard Stern of Bachelor

1103
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: podcast for some reason when you have us on there,

1104
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 1: we just can't help but tell you everything. That's the

1105
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 1: nicest thing anyone who said to me you get the dirt. Yeah?

1106
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 1: I try anyway. I thank you, love by bye, Jason.

1107
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: Do you read the ringer? No? I don't, but I

1108
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: will know. Yeah, you have a lot of first coming

1109
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 1: off of podcast as wild. I have never listened, and

1110
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to change that moving forward, especially do you

1111
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: guys after being here, I've never listened to one Bachelor

1112
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: related podcast. Neither have I. I don't listen to our

1113
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 1: us back. Do you listen to us back then every week? Really,

1114
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 1: you're lying as many times as possible to get those

1115
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: listens up practice. Do you listen to it when you

1116
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 1: go to sleep on your sleep number? I enjoy listening

1117
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 1: to it every Tuesday night after it's posted on my

1118
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: beautiful sleep number mattress. Jason, I don't know how you sleep,

1119
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: or who you sleep with or what you sleep in,

1120
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: but I will tell you one thing you gotta get

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00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: a sleep number for all those Sleep is important. Your

1122
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,360
Speaker 1: mattress makes a big difference. Can you imagine a fantasy

1123
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: sweet night on a sleep number? Did you realize do

1124
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: you enjoy sleep or is it just a necessity? What

1125
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 1: are your sleeping habits? Partners? Sleeping habits? How does it

1126
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: affect your day? Have you thought to those questions? If

1127
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: you haven't, you need to start their big deals and

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Speaker 1: new sleep number three six e BED is designed to

1129
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 1: help you achieve a better quality sleep. My sleep number

1130
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: setting right now, I've got I've gone down this week,

1131
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: sore neck. It's it's weird not for my sleep Number've

1132
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: been traveling a bunch on a plane and fall asleep

1133
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 1: on a plane and my neck moves forward once I

1134
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 1: fall asleep. So I gotta figure out a way to

1135
00:59:57,560 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: get it right. And my sleep number just just that,

1136
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: My sitting is at a sixty five right now? Softer, Ben,

1137
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 1: a little softer? Is that where your iron man training?

1138
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: Just like I said, I think I got whip lash

1139
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: in the planes? Do you ever do that? He falls

1140
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 1: asleep on the plane. Yeah, hear one of those guys.

1141
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: I am. I am of those guys. Actually, I'm one

1142
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 1: of those guys in a lot of ways. Uh are

1143
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: you think guy had a collapse when the plan lanes?

1144
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: And I'm also the guy that yells at every single

1145
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: person to stay in line when they're getting off the plane.

1146
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: Back up, old man, I need to get off first

1147
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: because my seat isn't farn of you. Anyways, I digress

1148
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 1: actually tell all of our beautiful, wonderful sleep deprived listeners

1149
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: about Sleep number. Okay, well, you can only find sleep

1150
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: number at a Sleep number store. You can go in

1151
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: now and see the newest Sleep number three sixty, which

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01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: is a smart bed and it starts at n and

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01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 1: at the Sleep Number store, or you can see how

1154
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: the bed contours to your body and relieves pressure points

1155
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: to their individual fit technology. It's comfort that you actually

1156
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: have to feel. And there's a reason you can't, you know,

1157
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 1: order it online with a code. You have to go

1158
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: in and see how it is in real life, and

1159
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 1: then you're gonna be like, Wow, I cannot go home

1160
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 1: to my crappy bed. I gotta buy this thing. So

1161
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 1: you can head over to your Sleep number store now.

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01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 1: It is what the bed start at. There are five

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01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty Sleep number stores nationwide and you can

1164
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 1: find the nearest store at sleep number dot com. Now,

1165
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: I want to talk about your sleep. You know, Ben

1166
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 1: brought up some questions. What do you sleep in? Now?

1167
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 1: What do you sleep in? Clothing wise? Actually, come on now,

1168
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: just interested? Gauged? Damn it, Ben, No, no time out.

1169
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm interested, Jason. What do you say? Ben? How you doing?

1170
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: I'm a boxer guy. You know boxers. I don't want

1171
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: no socks. If you sleep in your socks, it's a

1172
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 1: red fat. I don't know about that, and no shirt,

1173
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 1: so boxers and I like to temperature to be super cool.

1174
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: So we're talking sixty degrees. Oh, girls are going to

1175
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: need to know that before getting engaged to you. Okay,

1176
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 1: that's a good thing. That Yeah, but then you put

1177
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: more blankets and you're you're more snuggled up with your

1178
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 1: significant up. There's always a win here. Are you a

1179
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 1: night owl or a morning person? I'm a morning person? Yeah?

1180
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: What time do you wake up? Naturally? Like? Wow, Actually

1181
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 1: this is gonna sound tacky, but can you be both?

1182
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: Because I'm the kind of guy like I can go

1183
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 1: l a and that could be like right up early

1184
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 1: and work out. Oh wow, you're special, that's what you are.

1185
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: I have decided that I am a night owl, but

1186
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm a home night owl. It doesn't mean I want

1187
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:50,919
Speaker 1: to be out at night. It means that I want

1188
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 1: to be on the couch at one in the morning.

1189
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm not. I'm not like a late

1190
01:02:56,120 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 1: afternoon guy, like three to four shot, yeah, or like

1191
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: a shot of espresso something. What is your job? I'm

1192
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: a banker everyone, Um, So I work with companies that

1193
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: earn revenues fifty million dollars in greater and there's like

1194
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: no industry niche I work with, and I do a

1195
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 1: lot of their financing as they grow and buy companies

1196
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: or by real estate, etcetera. So the main compancy of

1197
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: my job is placing senior debt to help them grow.

1198
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: I didn't understand any like that different, So I just

1199
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: I work with larger companies to provide all their financing solutions.

1200
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 1: You know, everyone gets a mortgage, and you get a

1201
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: mortgage through a banker, a mortgage banker. Um, I do

1202
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: similar type of debt placement for larger companies. Okay, so

1203
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: you're not like sitting at the Bank of America teller good. Hey,

1204
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: you guys have both heard of restructuring your debt. Yeah,

1205
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 1: Jason can help you do that. Hey, it doesn't have

1206
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: debt in the zones. To all the girls out there interested, hey,

1207
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 1: I was real, I didn't she good? Good? Hey, guys.

1208
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 1: As much as I know our listeners love talking about debt,

1209
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: they also really love talking about sex. So from Marissa Jason,

1210
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 1: this is a question for you. It's titled Fantasy suitets

1211
01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: Hi Been and Ashley and Jason. I have a question

1212
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: about the fantasy sweet dates to the Bachelor's Bachelor. Let's

1213
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 1: get a day between each fantasy sweet date to process

1214
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 1: and adjust or do they just wake up jump into

1215
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: the next day? For instance, did Becca wake up from

1216
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: the fantasy sweet date with Blake say goodbye and go

1217
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: immediately to Jason? Jason, do you know what an answer that? So?

1218
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 1: I think you guys can attest to this too. I think,

1219
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: especially at that level, the producers are very respectful of

1220
01:04:56,120 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: each of the candidates and cast members, and there's played

1221
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 1: time in between those dates. Um, so I was so

1222
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 1: much time. I mean I was sequestered in in Thailand

1223
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: when I lost, and I was there for quite some time.

1224
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 1: So that's an indication that there's definitely time gaps in

1225
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: between each date. I don't know what the time gap

1226
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: is because and as you guys know, we don't know

1227
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 1: who is going when and who is going first. Second,

1228
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:26,920
Speaker 1: we don't know the timing of anything. Um, so I

1229
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: know when I got there early in the morning the

1230
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 1: one day, I had the full day to relax, and

1231
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 1: then the next day we had our date. Okay, so

1232
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: you're saying that your entire date happens on one day,

1233
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 1: but you don't know how many days off the bachelorette

1234
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: has in between. Precisely, we need to ask a bachelor

1235
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: a bachelor at how many days there between. Then I

1236
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: just deferred another question to you. You know, that is

1237
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: one of the most brutal weeks. And I was joking

1238
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 1: about the sex part because I know for a fact

1239
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 1: that not every bachelor or bachelorette participates in physical contact

1240
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 1: outside of maybe some kissing and canoodling, um, during these

1241
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: fantasy sweet dates. But with that being said, they're exhausting

1242
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 1: because you only have one day or one night to

1243
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: spend with this person without cameras, and so you have

1244
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 1: I think it's eight hours to kind of break down

1245
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: life in the way that you want to without cameras

1246
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: around and so if you're pulling off an all nighter,

1247
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 1: you have to have the next day to rest, and

1248
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: so these next days are incredibly important. So there's a

1249
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: full day in between dates. You wake up in the

1250
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 1: morning from the fantasy sweet date. You have all day

1251
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: to kind of catch your breath, to sleep, to rest,

1252
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: to probably do some pickup interviews, um, to probably talk

1253
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: to a little press, and then you go to bed

1254
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: that night and you wake up the next morning and

1255
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 1: start the next day. So with that, there is a

1256
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 1: full day in between. It's needed. I don't think anybody

1257
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 1: could do it for multiple reasons without it. It is

1258
01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 1: I remember that week and it is so so exhausting.

1259
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 1: So Jason is you're resting and wherever in the heck

1260
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: you got kicked off at, you know, chilling drinking mohitos

1261
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 1: on the beach in between dates. Becca's out there just

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01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:15,800
Speaker 1: grinding literally, like talking to people pulling all nighters. Figuratively, yeah,

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Speaker 1: figuratively like talking to people. Yeah, that was a good one,

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Speaker 1: speaking of where you were drinking mohitos on the beach.

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01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 1: When you get kicked off during Fantasy Suite week, you're

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01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 1: often there left hanging for a while just to have

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Speaker 1: like your one handler or producer buddy who maybe not

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01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 1: who did you hang out with, but how many days

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Speaker 1: did you have left in Thailand and what did you

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Speaker 1: do to fill those days, especially since they were so

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Speaker 1: so sad? It was. It was a long one. I

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Speaker 1: think we may have alluded to this in our post

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01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:52,360
Speaker 1: interview of the last time we discussed, but it was

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01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: it was kind of an eye opening time for me

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01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: because I had literally everything that people would want. Right

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01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm on vacation in Thailand, beautiful village, pool spa. I

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01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:05,560
Speaker 1: could get massages, you could get your laundry done, all

1278
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: the food in the world, and at that moment of

1279
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 1: the moment was like the most empty moment of my

1280
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 1: life because I didn't have family there and if friends

1281
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: aren't anyone to share it with. Um. And it was

1282
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 1: about a week or so, so um. There was also

1283
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: some time. You know, I did go back and give

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01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 1: her the gift I had made for her, so but

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01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: there was a ton of downtime and it was difficult

1286
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 1: at that point. I mean, everyone's had a breakup in

1287
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: their life, and I don't know about you guys, but

1288
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 1: I rely on family and friends to kind of get

1289
01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:35,519
Speaker 1: me through those tough times and did not have them there.

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01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 1: It was pretty difficult. It wasn't easy. Um, so you

1291
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 1: didn't get to enjoy Thailand until it's fullest. But it

1292
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:44,640
Speaker 1: was a great learning experience. Um, Jason be you know

1293
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 1: we're getting ready close out this podcast. I think one

1294
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: of the most pointed moments of this whole experience for

1295
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 1: you is when you went back to give her the gift.

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01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: What went through your head? Why did you do it? Yeah?

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01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: So honestly, it ended so abruptly. And when I say,

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01:08:57,080 --> 01:09:00,559
Speaker 1: I know Becca talked about blindsiding me, but I had

1299
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 1: no proportional behaviors or responses from her during that day

1300
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 1: and when she had walked away and you see that

1301
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: she was going through this um episode where she couldn't

1302
01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: see our future, I had no indication of that. After that,

1303
01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,759
Speaker 1: her and I actually stopped at one place where drinking

1304
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:20,000
Speaker 1: and everything was great. So it ended abruptly. I felt

1305
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,479
Speaker 1: that our relationship was deep. She had brought my friends

1306
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:25,439
Speaker 1: out during the time to surprise me. I had met

1307
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 1: her best friends, she had met my family. We had

1308
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 1: deep conversations about family and lost loved ones and what

1309
01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 1: they meant to us. And I felt that I just

1310
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: the way we ended it just didn't do what we

1311
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 1: had justice. So two things I wanted to do was

1312
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 1: one uh ended with character in class, shut the door

1313
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: in the right manner to feel good about moving on.

1314
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 1: And then two was to give her the book that

1315
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 1: I honestly put a lot of hours into and was

1316
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 1: really just a still full story, everything from I had

1317
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:55,759
Speaker 1: a name tag in there, hello, my name is Jason

1318
01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 1: the day she forgot it, that to some of the

1319
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: more deep tell and telling and uh emotional dates and

1320
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:05,760
Speaker 1: connections we had. So that's you know. I didn't go

1321
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 1: back there trying to get her back or anything of

1322
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:10,160
Speaker 1: that nature. It was just closed the door the right way,

1323
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: give her a gift I had prepared to give her,

1324
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 1: and um, I feel good about it, and I think

1325
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 1: she does too. We talked about how getting broken up

1326
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 1: with or breaking up with somebody in the bachelor bubble

1327
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:22,240
Speaker 1: is different because you don't necessarily get the closure that

1328
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 1: you would in real life. It's so weird because usually

1329
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:27,760
Speaker 1: in real life you're like, oh, i'll talk to him

1330
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,559
Speaker 1: again next week, or like it'll be It's sort of

1331
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 1: a good drifting situation, but not for the bachelor. When

1332
01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 1: did you start feeling better. Yes, So I think first

1333
01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 1: of all, you don't get closure, um, and then you

1334
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: start feeling better. It's probably like a few weeks after

1335
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: it and you realize that you know she's doing well

1336
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:47,080
Speaker 1: and she's finding her happiness and it is what it is.

1337
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 1: But I think the most difficult thing isn't about maybe

1338
01:10:50,439 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: the closure when you feel better. The most difficult thing

1339
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:55,600
Speaker 1: is reliving it all over again. Because I'm at a

1340
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: point now I'm good. I feel good about what happened

1341
01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: and the experience, and I'm happy for the happiness she's

1342
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 1: gonna find. But to watch that episode again last week,

1343
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:07,759
Speaker 1: that was tough. Man, it was heart wrenching that. Really,

1344
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: it was difficult. Even though I'm over. I'm in a

1345
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:13,280
Speaker 1: better place now, it's never good to relive experiences like that,

1346
01:11:13,479 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: and um, you know, with this journey you have to

1347
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 1: al right, well, let's let's end this on a on

1348
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:23,040
Speaker 1: a lighter note. Um. Kate writes us a question, and

1349
01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm not even sure any of us know the answer

1350
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:27,920
Speaker 1: to this. She goes, I love your podcast list. And

1351
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 1: every Tuesday morning, right after feasting on everything that is

1352
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:34,639
Speaker 1: Bachelor and Bachelorette. The night before after watching last week's episode,

1353
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 1: I had a question when the date cards come from

1354
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: the Bachelor Bachelorette, is it really them who wrote it?

1355
01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 1: Or does a producer write it? The handwriting always seems perfect.

1356
01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:47,839
Speaker 1: I can only imagine my terrible handwriting on a note, Also,

1357
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:51,320
Speaker 1: is that Chris Harrison's handwriting on the fantasy suite guard

1358
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 1: enquiring minds want to know. I have no idea who

1359
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 1: writes them, but in my whole four seasons, the handwriting

1360
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 1: has been the exact same. Yeah, I mean this might

1361
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: actually be something I have to prefer to Ben because

1362
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 1: I don't know either, But sorry Ben, But honestly, like

1363
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: the handwriting is absolutely perfect, and Chris Harrison the guy

1364
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:14,679
Speaker 1: is smooth and karis medic and confident, well spoken. There's

1365
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: no darn way that is handwriting is that smooth? They

1366
01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: just can't be. But if there's one guy that can

1367
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:21,719
Speaker 1: pull it off and be him, I have to imagine

1368
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 1: that someone else. Do you have some intel? Is that

1369
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: when you were the Bachelor and you actually saw them

1370
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, there's a reason why it's the same

1371
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 1: season overseason. It's not Chris Harrison. But Chris Harrison does

1372
01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: have a say in the day cards, and it's actually

1373
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: kind of an interesting process on how the wording of

1374
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:40,559
Speaker 1: the day cards gets done. So that's just like most

1375
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:44,439
Speaker 1: things on the show. Right, Chris, you know, is overseeing it.

1376
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: He knows all about it, but you need help. If

1377
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 1: you think Chris Harrison come with forty day cards and

1378
01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:52,560
Speaker 1: those little what he's saying, it's time over time, you're crazy.

1379
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 1: And so it's actually a little group effort that comes

1380
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 1: up with him. And then there's somebody on staff that

1381
01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: writes the day cards who has a good writing and

1382
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 1: so there's times I'm not playing. There's times where you're

1383
01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: in some foreign country and whoever was doing it in

1384
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:09,720
Speaker 1: Los Angeles can't do it in that country, and so

1385
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:12,759
Speaker 1: whoever is there steps up and their handwriting gets displayed

1386
01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 1: for all to see, and it's never Chris Harrison. I'm

1387
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:17,080
Speaker 1: also going to give a clue for anyone that goes

1388
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 1: on this show in the future. A good way to

1389
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 1: indicate how out there some of the people are is

1390
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 1: they put these cards out there and they're kind of

1391
01:13:25,240 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: like riddles and you have to come up with what

1392
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 1: it could be. So just listen very carefully to how

1393
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: people speculate what these riddles are, and I'm like, yeah,

1394
01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 1: that dude's crazy. This guy has no idea about anything,

1395
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:39,320
Speaker 1: and that dude's really smart. So I use that and

1396
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:43,479
Speaker 1: worked out. That's where you're always guessing them. That's always

1397
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 1: you're always guess the ideas. People kind of like, dude,

1398
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 1: are you out of your damn mind? They do, they

1399
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 1: pause us and they're like, Okay, guys, let's debate over

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01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 1: what the car means for the next half an hour.

1401
01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:59,599
Speaker 1: And some people who have a realistic ideas and other people, yeah,

1402
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:01,519
Speaker 1: we're going to fly in New Zealand. Dude, are you

1403
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Speaker 1: out of your mind? I'm staying away from that. I

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Speaker 1: thank you for coming into studio. Uh, it's been an

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Speaker 1: awesome ride. We hope to get to watch you again

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Speaker 1: one day and if not, uh, then friendships will just

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Speaker 1: you guys having me on. It's been such a pleasure.

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