WEBVTT - You Taketh, Now Giveth Back 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:43.960 He with U. If you watch Coffee Time to Baby, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.360 you know the name Flame, my role also known as 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.000 my role Flame. Come in with last and come in 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.519 with then love lounds. Baby. You better catch it when 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:54.960 you can't drop a knowledge from fatherhood to politics, shouting 0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:58.279 now comics just paying homics. What's up? Tip? Yeah you 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.960 know she raped shot towns On speaking to the ground 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:03.920 a second. We're gonna last cut of the kicking and 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:05.759 at the end we leave it, which is a lift. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.160 Spirits think you want to revisit. So your first take 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.440 a list of gill folks like your slip, All folks 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:12.920 that we take it good. Cain't no kid do what 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:16.920 you doin't no kish do what you do. Can't no 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:42.800 kids do what I do. Welcome ladies, Jim to laugh 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:45.160 and learn. Today we are almost to the end of 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:47.680 this very first season and I'm here today with my 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:51.240 beautiful partner, Lauren Hogan, who did not wear black today, 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:55.040 so I wore black for her. You don't let me 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:58.520 talk about wearing black. Lack is my signature and favorite color. 0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:00.680 Black on you whatever you even when you don't want 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.640 it on your So on you so good. We're taking, 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:04.720 We're taking and We're glad that Lord is back this week. 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:06.800 Lord was traveling last week, ladies and gentlemen, and she 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:08.960 just could not make it, but she made it today 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.960 and she's still been traveling. Girl, where you've been? I 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.360 went to Florida. I literally got back yesterday and I 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:16.040 got to travel again tomorrow night. So it's rough. Just 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:19.040 give me to November and I'll be stationary with I'll 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.640 be happy about you make your paper, Lauren Hogan. We 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.680 know you had another job before you came and joined 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:25.520 us here and laugh and learned, and we appreciate you 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.119 being here where we're going because it's been a real 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:32.240 hectic week this week, Baby, the news has been all 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:36.519 over the place. Can we start in my hometown of Chicago? Oh? Absolutely, 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:40.760 you can go ahead up. I don't think I wish 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:44.560 you could write about that on it again. Let me 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:47.480 tell you something, and I want to say this, and 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.000 I'm never gonna stop listening to our Kelly's music. I 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:53.440 understand that we all have different size and personalities to us. 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.560 Sometimes you embark on some bad stuff and sometimes you don't. 0:02:56.800 --> 0:03:00.320 He will go down in history for two reasons. He yes, 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:05.560 he was accused of pedophilia and convicted, were convicted. He's 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.840 been convicted of all kinds of stuff, all kind of 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:12.200 racketeering and brandis scams and underage girls and all that. 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:14.560 But he will also go down in history as a 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.720 great artist, a great songwriter, and he will go down 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.400 to history for Step in the Name of Love. You 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.000 can't help a barbecue without abod even the white folks playing, 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:25.040 even the white folks play Step in the Name of Love. Okay, 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.960 so I agree with that. I think that musically, is 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:32.600 he a genius? Absolutely? However, I did delete all of 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:35.840 Our Kelley's music years ago when this first I think 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:37.760 it was like when Surviving Our Kelly first came out 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:39.600 and I watched the whole series on Netflix. I did 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:41.960 go in and actually delete all of his music. And 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:44.320 some people can call me a hypocrite because, like you know, 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:46.320 the Cosmey Show still comes on. I still watched The 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:49.280 Cosmey Show faithfully, but I did delete all of Our 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:51.920 Kelly's music. So you might have deleted it. But if 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:54.360 I have a barbecue and you're here and we step 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:56.480 into the name of love, you, I want to see 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.000 you rock into the beat. Now. I want to see 0:03:58.000 --> 0:03:59.600 you just eat your barbecue. I don't even want you 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:03.120 to either. What probably happened is you'll play the music 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:04.800 and I might move for two seconds and be like, 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:08.400 oh ship, I gotta what's going to happen. That's what's 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:09.880 going on. That is what's going to happen with a 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.320 lot of people, because you know, with all that that happened, 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.280 and it's you know, people saying that he was he 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:17.000 was railroaded and woo woo. I don't know what the 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:19.479 situation was. I don't even because I was out a 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:21.200 part of that. I was not in that. I do 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:26.400 have daughters. I still have issues with where was they 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:29.320 dance that? Where was the mom's that? Because the black 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:32.680 girls black mama was just worse than black daddies. For real, 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:35.320 I agree with that. So I'm like, well, where were 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:38.039 the parents that nobody stepped in to say, hey, let 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:39.840 me help? And I gotta wait with daughter right now, 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.559 who probably could be persuaded by an R. Kelly issue 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:45.279 type of purse. But then this decision comes down to 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:47.600 what you're gonna do. Oh, I know what I'm going 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:49.039 to do. I'm not going to say it, but I 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.440 know what I'm going to do. Well, I mean, I 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.560 agree with you, because even even some of the stories 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:57.360 that I heard of how these girls got involved with R. Kelly, 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.200 it just it didn't make sense to me, just the 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:02.200 stream of consciousness. I was like, Okay, where was your 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.800 parent and why did your parents think that it was 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:07.200 okay for you to, you know, go meet R Kelly 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.040 by yourself. Well, allegedly some of the parents were being 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:13.960 paid off. Allegedly, even Eliah when she married when he 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:16.440 married her and the family consented to her to marry 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.200 him under age. Apparently it has come out that the 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:22.280 mom even slept with Elia's mom is supposedly had slept 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:24.919 arc you are that I haven't. They said a baby. 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.640 R Kelly was throwing it from left to right. I 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:32.839 don't see nothing wrong and for the show a little 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:38.760 institution number, I don't see nothing wrong. I'm not. I'm 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:40.960 just cutting up. I've been in the R Kelly. I'm 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:42.640 just gonna tell you ain't got to drop the soap. 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.359 They know who you are. They're gonna get you, nigger. 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:47.360 Let me just be honest about your money is long 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:49.839 in jail, but people always say, well, how they gonna 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:52.080 know what he was accused of. Prisoners in jail me 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:54.120 and jail have had to do nothing but watch tvl 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:57.040 they play cars, and most of them, if you're good behavior, 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.640 work in the office, so they know what's coming long 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.039 before you even get there. They know your whole everything. 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.920 They know your health record, they know your physicality, they 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:07.119 know what you're accused of and where and how many 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:10.640 and so yeah, they they're waiting on them. Yeah, I mean, 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:13.600 I'm just happy that I feel like some of these 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:16.000 you know, young girls are finally getting some closure. But 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:18.920 the sad thing is is that because our Kelly had 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.120 so much money, and to your point, I believe it 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:24.280 that he was paying off a lot of people, probably 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:27.039 even some of the parents. I could see that. I 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.400 could really see that. So I mean, I'm just glad 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:33.720 that he's finally this is my ignition. Put the key 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:36.240 in ignition, because even some of his I know, one 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:41.640 of his girlfriends that did the Gail King special, she's 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:43.839 like she got out of I guess, the whole Stockholm 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:47.640 syndrome situation. But the other one, Joycelyn, she's like still 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:52.880 sticking beside him. Uh so, you know, you know what's 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.960 sad about that? And I can't say that, oh well, 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:58.040 maybe they didn't get enough hugs. Maybe they didn't get 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:03.080 enough love. Some people are their self esteem or their 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:08.479 how they feel about themselves. Women and something into so 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:12.960 easily captivated bad money and the fame and the notoriety 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:15.480 and somebody is paying attention to them that they allow 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:18.680 people to just stump over them for years and years 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:21.360 and abuse. That is though, to just have that type 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:23.840 of like that switch to go to the other side 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:25.360 in your brain, to say that I have to be 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:28.000 here and I can't be without him, and you endure 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:31.240 so much trauma. It's the truth, you know what it 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.920 is that they said that, You know, like what you're 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.040 saying that if so, if you didn't get it at home, 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:38.040 you seek it elsewhere. But what about the people who 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:39.920 got it at home because they have something? Look at 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:42.480 look at Patty Hurst, who the bank robber. She was 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.640 from a well to do family, She had everything she 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:46.680 needed and as soon as she got an opportunity to 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:50.120 go completely a different route, she want a different So, 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:53.280 you know, you, like you said, what what triggers that? What? 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:55.480 What in a person makes you say I'm just gonna 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:57.800 throw everything away and just go forward? What chemical and 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:01.240 balanced do you have or is it pipe that good 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.760 because r Kelly, I saw that videotape and real talk, 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:05.920 n you ain't had no skills that a young girl 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:08.640 put the thing on, y'all. Maybe I watched that she 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:12.840 was experienced. Let me just say that, Oh my god, 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.880 you saw where did you get the tape from? The 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:18.880 tape was up years ago? I saw that years ago. Okay, yeah, 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:21.840 when it was first in the store, you could do 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.880 all of it. But now I'm like, baby, if you 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.520 watch that tape, Mark, Kelly ain't had no stroke to 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:32.320 the yoke. Kelly was that little girl head, she was experienced. 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:36.680 Let me just say that she just needed an umbrella though. 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:43.000 Oh that is terrible flame. This is laughing. Laugh with me, baby, 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:47.960 because you'all know that. And I don't even know. Will 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:52.040 he ever? Do you think that he will ever get out? No? Right, 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.719 he has too many pending cases in different states at 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.440 the point, because he just was convicted where New York 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:00.400 in Chicago? I thought that was New York, stay, I thought. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:04.240 And then he has cases in Chicago and like Minnesota, 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.600 and every time some Chicago might might let him get 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.520 not a pass, but that might not be so severity. No, 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.679 the Attorney General in Chicago now was black female. I 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:14.520 don't think she's gonna let him get a pass. Well, 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.760 once you get the Minnesota, it's a wrap anywhere. Minnesota 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.840 plays no games with black people. If y'all don't believe me, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:21.800 George Floyd, Minnesota plays no games with black people, let 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:23.920 me just let you know that. I don't know why 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:28.480 y'all lat no ways to damn cold. I love you Minnesota, no, 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:30.319 but I don't think. I think this is just gonna 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:33.760 be a perpetual ripple effect of him just getting convicted. 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:36.040 And I will say, because I did say that, I 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.160 still watched the Cosby Show. I was mad as hell 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:41.760 because I think Bill Cosby's rep came out and basically 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:44.160 said that he felt that R. Kelly was being treated 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:45.880 the same way that Bill Cosby was. And I wanted 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:47.240 to be like, can you please just shut the hell 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:49.679 up so I can still watch the Cosby Show and 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:52.680 not be upset? Did you see that how was Bill 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:56.920 coz retreated? Well? According it, Bill Cosby didn't make the statement, 0:09:57.000 --> 0:10:00.360 his representative did, saying that he feels that our Kelly 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:04.080 was railroaded in his case similar to Bill Cozy, and 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:07.600 then proceeded to say and that is why you know 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:11.760 the state of Pennsylvania overturned his conviction and why my 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.560 client is now out because he wasn't given a fair trial. 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:17.720 Where I'll tell you what, Bill Cosby knew how to 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:20.200 play the game, because that nigga walked in court like 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:22.760 an invalid blind with the smith with the with the 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:25.560 stick bent down and hunched over, with the with the 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.840 John McCain m and the club foot and everything. But baby, 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:30.240 when they said you was free to go, there they 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:31.920 go walked up out of there like somebody had just 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:35.640 gave him that winning power. He came out seven like, 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.400 well you got well. They must have good doctors in prison, 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:42.120 because he got well all medical issues all of a sudden, 0:10:42.120 --> 0:10:44.320 they just magically went to hellot and they do it. 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:46.959 They do it. Look at Harry Wine, Howry Winanstein looked 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:48.839 like he damned on the deathbeard. But I bet you 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:50.760 if they let him go and they would be making 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:52.839 a movie to mind and be jumping doing jumping jacks 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:56.200 from the Mediterranean flying off of us. I know he 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.560 ain't getting out, but I'm just saying, if that is 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:00.720 the game that we have to play in order to 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:03.600 get past the hurdles and and I'm not giving Bill 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:06.720 Cosby a past at all because you had way enough money. 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:08.360 You could have did a whole lot of other things. 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.320 You could bad what you need because a lot of 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:12.720 women selling it. But you that ain't what. That wasn't 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:16.040 his turn on. So I still watch the Cosmey Show too, 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:18.880 And I don't think that as artists, because I'm gonna 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:20.840 make some mistakes in my life too. Probably this week 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.240 I'm going to land um as artists that you can 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.040 hold our feet to the fire for that, because that's 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.480 my personal life. Now. What you can try to do 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:31.400 as that artist is try to keep it out of 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:34.439 the public arena. But you know that goes with the 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:36.680 territory somebody always looking for the come up or to 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.439 throw out or I'm exposed you, I'm gonna tell your secret. 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:42.280 I ain't got no secrets to tell you. I don't know. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:45.120 I think it's too it's just like we need good 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:49.240 examples of just like black families and black culture and 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:53.040 just you know, black socioeconomic circumstances. I guess maybe that's 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:54.920 also too wild. Like I can't go let go of 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:56.960 the Cosby Show in a different world because it just 0:11:56.960 --> 0:12:00.600 celebrated black folks. Yes, what Bill Cosby did that horrible? 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.959 Wasn't sucked up? Absolutely? Was he wrong as hell? And 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:07.880 should he still probably be in jail. But we still 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:11.800 need those examples because there's so much trauma, and we 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.120 see the trauma all the time, like we see the 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:16.840 slave movies and all of the anguish and stuff that 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:19.599 we go through. We need like happiness to look at you, 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:21.720 I feel like and that's what the Cosby Show still 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:24.080 does for me in a different world as well. It 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:26.760 influenced black culture. You know what hurts the worst though 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:28.960 I'm not even a real woman, let me just say 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:31.319 this what hurts the worst out of all the beautiful 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.239 women in the world, Bill calls me black, white, or indifferent. 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.960 The one that you got caught up with looked like 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.720 a young Caitlyn Jenner if she would have transitioned in 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.520 her late twenties, didn't she? Baby? I think it was 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.800 funny looking. She looked like a full own man with 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.640 an afro. You know what was her name, Constantin or 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:49.720 something like that. I'm not gonna well, there was a 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:53.600 couple who I think her case was the one that 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:56.920 really pushed it over. The funny looking as hell. I'm like, 0:12:57.000 --> 0:12:59.040 that's the true average with my uncle, say, p ain't 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.840 got no face? Because is that one right there? Baby? 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:04.440 You all remember the movie Boomerang when Eddie Murpy ear 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:07.000 the Kiden make the lights real black? You couldn't even 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:15.240 get no black? Yeah she didn't. Oh, I'm like, Bill, damn, 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:18.640 it must have been a fetish because good God. So 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:21.280 I will say overall, R Kelly, I'm glad that a 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:23.720 lot of these young black women are finally getting some 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:25.560 justice in there. I hope the women that he have 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:29.160 damaged and have random up through fan counseling and or 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:32.559 get some help, because who's not to say that it 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:36.040 couldn't happen to them again? Oh? Absolutely? And also to 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:39.679 just what's it called? What's it called the Stockholm syndrome? 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:44.040 That is very prevalent and a lot of young younger 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:48.559 people because they easily manipulated old It's like me, I 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:52.120 can't be fooled, but I'm I'm it's different though, because 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:53.720 I know you fool to me, So why are you 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:56.120 thinking you fool to me? I'm fooling you. At the 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.200 same time, they just didn't know the difference because they 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:01.360 were young. Well, I just the trauma that they're going 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:02.959 to have to live with for the rest of their 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.720 lives and the therapy. And just let me ask you 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.840 a personal question, Lauren, because you're a woman, do you 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.800 think that you could meet a man? And I know 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:12.719 how you've been, I know your upbringing, I know who 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.040 your parents are, I know your hold on, hold on? 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.440 Do you think that if you a man came and 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.560 swept you off your feet and gave you all the 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.080 right answers to all the questions that you asked, he was, 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.640 he filed, he filled in all the blanks that you 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:30.440 could be one day knocked off your square to just 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:34.880 lose your man behind a man over sex or the 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:37.520 money or money. You're not even superficial like that, so 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.280 I knew it wouldn't be money with you. It wouldn't 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:43.040 be the money, but something else, you know, to take 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:47.600 you to a place where you just lost yourself. Um, 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:51.360 I'm gonna say no, but I am I can't predict 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:55.560 the future. It would have to be something phenomenal for 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:58.440 me to really just go batship crazy over a man. Oh, 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:00.400 let me tell you something, whoever you is out there, 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:03.600 you gotta get past the big bad woods. Yes, who 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:08.400 was the big He would have to have something, something 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:11.760 real special that just nobody else could in the world 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:13.440 could get me. That would have to make me just, 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:17.280 you know, just get stupid, like stuck on stupid. Ken, 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.400 That's a fair question to a straight man. Kendall was 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:22.520 a cameraman kinda straight Kendall, do you think at this 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:25.760 point in your life that a woman could come not 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:28.120 if you and your girlfriend broke up, y'all ain't going 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:30.160 to break up. I'm just saying this is a for instance, 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.400 and she just took you on a I mean, Kendall, 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.840 she just answered all the questions. She made you feel 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:38.480 extra special as a man everything. Do you think that 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:40.880 a woman could just captivate you and make you just 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:47.120 throw everything away? See as a man, the man and me, 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:51.880 I completely agree with Kendall. I don't know if well. 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:53.480 I mean, I could definitely see that because when I 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.440 think of something like Brittany Rainer, I don't know. You guys, 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:57.480 you know what I'm talking about. Kendall. You know, she 0:15:57.600 --> 0:16:00.600 literally was going through athletes like no other d p J. 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:04.560 What was this Washington stuck on stupid and she got 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:07.360 knocked up and like took him for all his money 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:09.960 and and like she had a reputation in the streets 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:12.360 for just being a hole and she still was able 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:14.840 to secure a bag. In the words of my girlfriend 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.000 dad and a good pussies peep for itself. Don't litle 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:19.960 body tell you different that dough baby, no shade. Like 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.400 you know, men are kind of y'all are wired differently 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:26.360 than women. So who preaches that all the time? That 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:28.360 what is the difference between a man and a woman 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:32.320 outside of the jen to tell you come and heart, 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:36.040 Yeah it is. The setup is different. You know. They 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:38.240 attacked me about that, but the setup is different. No, 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:44.120 I agree, because home rowns and everything else. Listen, I 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:46.960 could be a little crazy some days. Flames seeing different 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:55.240 size in the past year. I like it. Nobody used 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:56.920 to see that. Y'all need to cut and run if 0:16:56.920 --> 0:17:01.760 you see me get mad, Okay, cut and run. A synopsis. 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:05.080 R Kelly, um we I still would listen to your music. 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.280 I still play his music on Love Lounge. He is 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:11.520 from Chicago, so ill and I'm knew R Kelly for years, 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:13.919 long before he became the R. Kelly cousin when we 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:15.720 used to be on the host Straw back in Chicago. 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.520 He used to come to the Golden Legger restaurant and 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:19.800 hang out. Oh, I was a prostitut hunter like you 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:22.080 would't believe. I was the Maxicane baby. Wait for the book, 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:25.240 same baby, Max you used to walk around with many 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:29.160 dresses and no panties and made all the money. Uh 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:32.680 oh yeah, that's that's for the book. Was that a 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:34.919 different personality? Know? What's the same bitch? I was just 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.840 keating young and was a hustle baby. Oh my god. 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:39.680 I would not leave home with I wouldn't come home 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:43.280 with it. Was always had a goal right, But R. 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:45.640 Kelly was very respectful to come to where we because 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:47.080 it was a bunch of trainees that hung out it 0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:49.040 to go a nugger restaurant. He was always there with 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:51.840 with women, young girls. But he was young at this time. 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:56.359 This was could God eight and he was what's up 0:17:56.359 --> 0:17:58.879 in this lady? How are you doing like that? And 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:01.560 he said he entered used to tell us as Robert 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:04.920 back then, so he was a chameleon where he hadn't become. 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:07.520 He hadn't even dropped the song yet. He was in 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:10.399 the studio I think getting it ready and just was 0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:12.399 always respect So when we found he saw and he 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:13.960 I was like, oh my god, that's the guy who 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:15.760 used to be at the restaurant all the time. And 0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:17.720 people like, well, how was it. I was like, he 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:21.040 was cool, you know. But I think that I give 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:22.800 off even when I was young, I give off of 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:25.040 I'm gonna treat you the way you treat me. So 0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:27.040 if you're cool with me, I'm gonna be cool if 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:29.520 you're shitting with me. Oh you do now, y'all think 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:33.720 Laurenda bitch? Would she get mad? Asked? Asked him? Do 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:35.600 he I never been mad at him, but he's seen 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:38.000 me a be of amster. Yes, yes, we we've all 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:42.359 seen not today, not today. Today, I'm feeling like Tina 0:18:42.440 --> 0:18:47.560 knows showing to look cleavitch. It's Corney joke. Okay. Where 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.159 So I'm going to move to a bit of a 0:18:50.200 --> 0:18:52.239 more somber note because I just feel like we have 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:56.360 to acknowledge and offer our condolences. So over this past weekend, 0:18:56.600 --> 0:19:01.040 Maya Marciano was reportedly found dead. Um, she had been 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:03.760 missing for a while and her body was finally found. 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:08.639 So just to you know, girl, she's black. Yes. So 0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:11.879 the body was found around ten in a wooded area 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:16.879 near her apartment complex actually UH near Holding Heights, so 0:19:17.600 --> 0:19:21.440 UH search parties basically called the area Saturday morning and 0:19:21.600 --> 0:19:25.120 after data of the prime suspect, who was twenty seven 0:19:25.240 --> 0:19:28.920 year old Armando Caballero, placed him near there for about 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:34.600 twenty minutes after Marcano's disappearance. So it's a really sad 0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:38.159 story because the prime suspect, this guy apparently was actually 0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:40.719 the maintenance worker in her building and he had been 0:19:40.760 --> 0:19:44.199 harassing her, and so she wasn't he had access to 0:19:44.240 --> 0:19:46.800 her apartment, so it's like she wasn't even safe in 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:49.080 her own home. You know. Immediately when you said that 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:52.320 what it took me to to the sinus of the lamps. 0:19:52.760 --> 0:19:57.280 Dr Hannibal actually said, we covet what we see every day. 0:19:57.400 --> 0:20:00.040 He worked as the maintenance man, so he saw this 0:20:00.119 --> 0:20:03.280 woman probably every other or every day or every other day, 0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:05.280 and he probably got a thing for and he had 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:07.760 access to her apartment because he was the maintenance man. 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:10.480 That is messed up. That is That's why I think 0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:12.919 that when you live in an apartment, you know, and 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:15.280 I know that management is supposed to have a key 0:20:15.440 --> 0:20:18.000 or one one key to all the apartments. I usually 0:20:18.080 --> 0:20:20.560 change my locks when I moving in, though I do, 0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:22.639 I usually change my like you, that's no need for 0:20:22.680 --> 0:20:23.800 you to come to my house, and I paid you 0:20:23.920 --> 0:20:25.119 my rent. I don't need you to come to my 0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:27.080 damn house. I need to be there when you come. 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:30.600