1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: Alexis, what's the most romantic thing a guy has ever 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: done for you? 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: Like a rose petal path, like a hot tub? 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: Probably whoa, Yeah, that was your reaction. You broke it off, 5 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: not immediately accept it. 6 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: Remix to a song, Hey they're Delilah, but hey they're Alexis. 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 3: That one was bad too. 8 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't like any of it. 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 3: No, same guys, dude. 10 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: Apparently you and our listener on the phone today are very, 11 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: very similar because when her boyfriend of four months told 12 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: her the gesture that he'd been planning, her immediate response 13 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: was to try and stop him from doing it at 14 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:51,599 Speaker 1: all costs. And that's where we come in. Can we 15 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: help convince this Romeo to tone it down without fully 16 00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: crushing his romantic spirit. We're gonna try brand new awkward 17 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call next. It's awkward. 18 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 3: It's Tuesday. 19 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Some people in relationships enjoy 20 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: grand romantic gestures like surprise getaways, sending dozens of roses, 21 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: creating a life sized wax sculpture of your girlfriend, then 22 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: lighting it on fire because it's actually a giant scented candle. 23 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: Just you and her and your house full of cranberry cinnamon. 24 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 3: Ah, that's better than burning hair. 25 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: But you know what, stop the music real quick, because 26 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: not everybody wants that stuff. Like our listener Lindsay, who's 27 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 1: asking for our help today to tell her boyfriend chill 28 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: out with the romance. Lindsay, why do you insist on 29 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: pushing love away? 30 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 4: Hi? 31 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's I don't know how to respond to that. 32 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 3: Nice to start a convoy's really funny, Lindsay. 33 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: Hi, Lindsay, So tell us what's going on with you 34 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: and your boyfriend? What's his deal? 35 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 4: So? I've been dating Andre for about four months. 36 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: And relationship, I see, that's the best part too. 37 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 1: It's exciting clearly not for her. 38 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I mean, listen, he's very sweet, romantic, like 39 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 4: he is a great guy. But like it's only been 40 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 4: four months, you know, it's still very early. 41 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay it the other. 42 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 4: Day he came up to me with this idea that 43 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: he wants to get a tattoo of my name on 44 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 4: his leg on his leg. 45 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: Not so, can we go back to the couple dozens 46 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 3: of flowers? That's better? 47 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: I mean, you could be together for twenty years and 48 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: still that's a sketchy ass. 49 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 3: Why why would he want to put Lindsay on his leg. 50 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 4: Okay, so this is also a red flag. He says 51 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 4: he wants other women to know that they can't have 52 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 4: him he's mine, which is, you know, nice, But. 53 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 3: They only know if he's wearing shorts. 54 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: Probably it could be on the kneecap brook. 55 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 3: Still, how do you see it underpants. 56 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 1: With a hole in your jeans? 57 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 3: I see, I see right there. 58 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 2: Okay, so this is his way of deterring other women. 59 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: Because he's obviously so desired. 60 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 4: God, but you're going to get a kick out of 61 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 4: this one though, because it's he wants to cover up 62 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 4: an old tattoo of a different girlfriend's name. 63 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: You don't want another girlfriend's name. 64 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: Wait, but the first girlfriend's name didn't deter you. 65 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 4: I didn't know about that till a week ago. 66 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: Eye contact, everything above the belts. He is smart. 67 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 2: If you have another girl's name on your leg, you 68 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: should probably not tell a woman until two three years 69 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 2: into the relationships. 70 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: How does this man not learn his mistake? 71 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: Right, he's already made the mistake once and now he 72 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 2: wants to do it again. 73 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 3: Essentially, right, that's exactly what I'm saying. 74 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 4: But now he's already made an appointment and I need 75 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 4: to have a serious conversation with him. 76 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: Okay, the appointment's been made. 77 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 78 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Wow, so you're not into the idea, Like what is 79 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: giving you so much hesitation about it? 80 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 4: Like specifically, Well, one, it's way too early in the relationship. 81 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 4: It's four months. I don't think that matters to him. 82 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 4: I think he likes to move quickly. I think it'll 83 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 4: make things really awkward and put way more pressure on 84 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 4: a relationship that already is putting pressure on the relationship. 85 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's like an obligation to stay together because 86 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: your name's tattooed in relay? 87 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: Has he said I love you yet? No? Okay, that's good. 88 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: He shouldn't have. 89 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 3: But you would think. 90 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: That he doesn't have to say I love you when 91 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: he can write ITO have you. 92 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 2: So it's wild that you haven't said no, that's not 93 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 2: a good idea to me. 94 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 3: Why why haven't you just told him that outright? 95 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: I just I don't want to crush him because he 96 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 4: is a sensitive guy and this is a big deal 97 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 4: for him. But he's already made this mistake once before. 98 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 4: I don't want to be another face. 99 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand that's the tough part, because 100 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 1: when somebody goes all out for you and puts their 101 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: entire heart into something and you come at them like 102 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: ew or that's weird or that's gross, like that could 103 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: totally crush something. 104 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: It's just a terrible decision that he's already made once 105 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 2: and obviously regretted. 106 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 3: So why would she let him do it again? 107 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: Exactly? Those words would absolutely destroy him, said face. 108 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 2: Maybe he needs to hear that sometimes the hard truth 109 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 2: is just what has to happen. 110 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 3: He thinks it's for her, but she doesn't want to 111 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 3: add all. 112 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 5: Yes, I think he's romanticizing it in his head. 113 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 3: It's just so hard to call it romantic when it's 114 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 3: over the top of another woman's stay. Yeah. 115 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: So we haven't given our advice yet, but it sounds 116 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: like from the temperature in the room, it's going to 117 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: be pretty harsh. 118 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 3: I mean, we cover it in other ways. There's tons 119 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: of ways they cover a bad tattoos, But. 120 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: That's not the romantic way that he wants to do. 121 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: How do you like deliver that message to him in 122 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: a gentle way? Yeah, that doesn't crush him. 123 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 4: That's what I'm trying to figure out right now. 124 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 5: I mean gently like Brooke. 125 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 4: Imagine if jaff got your name tatted in his arm 126 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 4: without asking you. 127 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 3: We just have to cut the arm off. I mean 128 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 3: that would be the only solution. 129 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: I mean that would be extra weird because Brooke and 130 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: I aren't like romantically together or anything like that. 131 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 3: I don't want to get. 132 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: To show logo tatted that, but it'd be a weird 133 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: romantic gesture for someone you're not dating. That's not romantic. 134 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: I just think tattoos should be like a selfish thing, 135 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 2: like whatever you want, not for someone else. 136 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: Got it? 137 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree too. 138 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: Okay, So with that being said, Andre wants to do this, 139 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 1: maybe just for himself, oh somb to prove to himself 140 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: how much he loves her. This is his own challenge, 141 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: how much. 142 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 3: You love the last girl? Yeah, I'm just curious. What 143 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 3: was the last girl's name? 144 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Tiffany in the same good. 145 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 3: And they've both been with Why So there's that you 146 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: don't have to cover. 147 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 1: Easier for him. But we're gonna try to convince him 148 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: to not go through with that when we come back. 149 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: Give you our advice and let you make your awkward 150 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call to your boyfriend to convince him not 151 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: to get a tattoo of your name on his leg. 152 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 3: Yes, this is to cover up his ex's name. 153 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna ship that part. 154 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 3: It's important. 155 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: We'll do it right after this. Hold on, it's awkward. 156 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 3: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 157 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: You've heard of the five love languages, Well, tattooing people's 158 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: names should be the sixth. Yeah, because that's what our 159 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: listener Lindsey is dealing with. She has a very romantic 160 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: minded boyfriend named Andre, who, after four months together, has 161 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: told her I've made an appointment to get a tattoo 162 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: of your name on my leg so that you know 163 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent yours. 164 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and it's also covering up the ex's Yeah. 165 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good point to bring up. So Lindsey 166 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: thinks it's a little bit too soon to be doing this, 167 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: but regardless, she needs our help on how to tell 168 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: him gently that maybe this isn't the right time for 169 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: something like that, and perhaps we can convince him to 170 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 1: just think about it, or at least cancel his appointment. Okay, 171 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: So I'm interested to hear what my co hosts have 172 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: to say. Brook, how would you crush a man's dreams. 173 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 3: This may be shocking to you, Lindsay, but I think 174 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 3: you tell him do it. 175 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: And dare him, and then you follow it up with 176 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: but do you know what would be even more meaningful 177 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 2: than my name? 178 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 3: Is something that. 179 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: We love together, like a symbol. Or maybe you both 180 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 2: love burritos or you love pickles. 181 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 3: I'm thinking long and think with a lot of leaves. 182 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: What do you think about getting a case sur rito 183 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: tattooed on both of you? 184 00:08:58,240 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 2: I'm not willing to get a tattoo. 185 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 3: No, I'm not telling you too. 186 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: I'm just telling him to choose one out of something 187 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: that you both like, so that when you break up, 188 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 2: it's something he still likes. 189 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: Not when they break up they're going to be together forever. 190 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 3: It's not the vibe I'm getting. 191 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 5: No, I love that idea. That's good. 192 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: You still like him, You want to stay with him, 193 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: You just don't want him to get the name tattooed. So, hose, 194 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: what's your advice. I believe there's a compromise here that 195 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: we start with just one letter every year, right, every 196 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: Maybe you start with. 197 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: An l okay so he'll be liphany for a while 198 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 2: because it's covering up. They for a couple of years 199 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 2: that wave you guys continue to date. 200 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 3: You can add a letter each year. It's like a tradition. 201 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: Lindsey, what do you think that's cute? 202 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 4: I think that that's an idea and it's just like 203 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 4: a tally. Then it's not a crazy tattoo. 204 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: Have a big l tattooed them at first and the 205 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: second years I, which is also the start of his 206 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: ex's name. 207 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:10,959 Speaker 3: Second letter. So that's good. That's good. Yeah, it's like that. 208 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: I mean, that's the best advice that we've had all year. 209 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 4: Wow. 210 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: Thanks, I'm on very low bar that reads out for ourselves. 211 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: But that's what we've got for you, Lindsay. You can 212 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: do what you want with it. But I'm going to 213 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: die your boyfriend's number right now and let you make 214 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 1: your awkward Tuesday phone call. 215 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 2: Are you ready? 216 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: Yes? 217 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 4: I'm ready. 218 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, it's me. 219 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 4: How you doing holor day? Good dame? 220 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 5: Where are you calling from? 221 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 4: Oh? I just this different number I had to borrow. 222 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 5: Someone still on my phone died. It's fine. 223 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 4: I'm curious how your day is going. What's good? What's done? 224 00:10:59,080 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: Good? 225 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 5: No, they go and get things out. I took out 226 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 5: the garbage, So that's out there where you go. You know, 227 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 5: all right, how's going to go on there? Under your 228 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 5: phone dying? Obviously? 229 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 4: I know I need to bring a charger with me 230 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 4: everywhere I go, But I wanted to discuss something with 231 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 4: you real quick. Do you have time? 232 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I can take a break from kicking out the 233 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 5: trash for good. 234 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 4: Yes, okay, thank you. So this tattoo idea that you 235 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 4: brought up to me the other day. 236 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 5: That I don't wait to get Trippany's name off me. 237 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I can't wait for you to stop saying 238 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 4: her name too. But I think maybe we could do 239 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 4: something a little more meaningful than my name, and maybe 240 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 4: you could get something like that we both love together, 241 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 4: like chips and caso crosses my mind, or how we 242 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 4: both love Neopolitan style pizza. I think that could be 243 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 4: a tattoo that could definitely cover up her name. What's 244 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 4: the deal? Are you? Are you from drugs or something? 245 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 5: What's up? 246 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 4: What? Why would you even say that? 247 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 3: No? 248 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 4: Because I'm as cute. 249 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 5: It's cute and all, but it's like, I want your 250 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 5: name on it so that everyone else knows I'm taken. 251 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 5: I don't want them to think I'm taken by chips 252 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 5: and caso. 253 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 4: I understand that, but I think the biggest reason why 254 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 4: I'm bringing this up is that you don't even know 255 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 4: if you love me yet, so tattooing my name on 256 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 4: your body just seems like a really big jump. You 257 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 4: know what I mean? Babe? 258 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 5: You don't know if I love you or not? Are 259 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 5: you serious? 260 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 4: Well, I mean you haven't said it, so how would 261 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 4: I know. 262 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 5: I mean, I'll say it right now on the phot 263 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 5: I love you like it's been four months. Some people 264 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 5: just know, you know, it's just sorry. Like I thought, 265 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 5: with all the with everything that I show you and 266 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 5: done and put your you know, wanted to tap to 267 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 5: your name, I felt like it was one was implied. 268 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 4: But yeah, I love you, Okay, I this is how 269 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 4: you're going to say I love you for the first time. 270 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 4: We've been dating for four months. I think that four 271 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 4: months is a little too soon to be exclaiming love 272 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 4: for each other, don't you. 273 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 5: But for some people just know, and I mean four months, 274 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 5: some people just know in less time than that. You know, Like, 275 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 5: do you have that feeling like you don't you don't 276 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 5: feel the same way, Well, of. 277 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 4: Course I feel that way. Yeah, but I'm just trying 278 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 4: to wrap my head around it. 279 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 5: Will what if you know, what if you wrap your 280 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 5: head around this? What if. 281 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 4: You were my wife? 282 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: What? 283 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 2: What? 284 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: What did you just say? 285 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, let's just be one about it, Lindsey, 286 00:13:59,040 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 5: will you marry me? 287 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 2: Oh? 288 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: Get the button? So much earlier was waiting for the 289 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: answer from Lindsay. 290 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:07,839 Speaker 2: I think we know it? 291 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 3: Did he pass out? Andre? 292 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 5: Hello? What's going on? 293 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: Who is this? 294 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 5: Hey? 295 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: Andre? 296 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 5: Uh? 297 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: This is a radio show that you're on right now 298 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 299 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: We have never heard so much done in one small conversation. 300 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 5: So we're on the radio right now. 301 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 3: Yes, that make it more romantic. 302 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: I mean, had I known, I would have planned better. 303 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 3: But or planned it all my friend? 304 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean yeah, you guys called me off garb, 305 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 5: but whatever. Like I said it before, when you know, 306 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 5: you know, and some people just know when it's fine 307 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 5: like that. 308 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 3: Okay, you are a spontaneous man. 309 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 5: Yeah. 310 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: I don't know how how Lindsay's feeling about this right now. Lindsay, 311 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: you're still there, Yeah, I'm still. 312 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 3: Here's for a second. That was a long part. 313 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: I was okay, So there was a lot said there 314 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: in the last few minutes. You should probably just talk 315 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: to Andre about the feelings and the questions that are 316 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: all coming out at once. 317 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 3: Even though if we didn't trust. 318 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 4: The yeah, I think that's a good idea too, that 319 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 4: would be the time. 320 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I didn't really necessarily hear an. 321 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 1: Answer, so the question still sticks. 322 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 5: Hope, I have to say no to. 323 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 1: The chips and caeso. That's what you're saying no to, 324 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: Lindsay just to every. 325 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 4: Question, Jeff, I think it's moving way too fast and 326 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 4: it's starting to freak me out a bit. And as 327 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 4: much as I adore you, I don't want to be 328 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 4: just another name touching on your body that you're trying 329 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 4: to cover up in the year. 330 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 5: Okay, So I think I get it. It's not necessarily 331 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 5: like a no, it's more like a not yet. 332 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 3: That's a positive spin you. 333 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 4: Look at it that way. 334 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: Okay, to all the questions that have been posed today, not. 335 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 3: Yet, the tattoo, you, the L word, yeah. 336 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 1: Any other big moves you were thinking of making right now, Andre, Well, 337 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: we probably don't even want to go there. 338 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 3: You're right, why are you trying to fast forward everything? 339 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: I know it's not like a garbage that you're taking 340 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: out really quickly. You want to take your time and 341 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: enjoy it. 342 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 5: If I feel like these guys are trying to tell 343 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 5: us how to live our romantic life, He's not wrong. 344 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 1: We are We're trying to help them. 345 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 2: Truly. 346 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: Lindsay came to us seeking advice on how to have 347 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 1: this conversation with you, because as much as she really 348 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: enjoys your relationship and likes you, Andre, a lot of 349 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: these steps are happening too quickly for her speed. 350 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 351 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 3: Absolutely, Okay, are you hearing her? Andre? 352 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 4: Like I said, I'm all on the way. 353 00:16:52,400 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 5: If if it's what we're going to lead to, then and. 354 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: How about tonight at home? You get some not show 355 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: case so dip and some Neapolitan pizza and you see 356 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 1: what words come out of your mouth there. 357 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 5: But in the meantime, what am I supposed to do 358 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 5: with this Tiffany? 359 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: Probably stop mentioning her first thing? Maybe just do a 360 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 1: big black box on that one. 361 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 3: Just wear pants man. 362 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 5: All right, we'll figure something else on the cover. 363 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: Of the Look at what an understanding guy. 364 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 3: I hope you share pictures of it with us. 365 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll definitely send pictures. 366 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 2: And Jeffrey in the morning. 367 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: That call definitely lived up to the billing. It was 368 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 1: certainly awkward. But you know what's going to be really 369 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: awkward is if we check in in a few months 370 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: and Andre's back together with Tiffany because he couldn't get 371 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 1: her name off of her. 372 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 3: I didn't even think about that. 373 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: No, No, maybe he just felt like it was fake 374 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 1: at that point, or you only day Tiffany's yes another. 375 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 2: There are a lot of options out there. Sorry Lindsay 376 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:06,439 Speaker 2: if you're listening to. 377 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: Sorry Lindsay, but we did achieve a lot. We got 378 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: Andre to cancel his upcoming tattoo appointment. 379 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 3: Are we sure? 380 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, seemed like he was definitely backing off. We helped 381 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: shut down his marriage proposal, and we made him question 382 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: whether his girlfriend even loves him at all. Good work, team, Yeah, 383 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: and we could do the same wonders on your blossoming relationship. 384 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 1: If you email the show, we'll help you call whoever 385 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 1: you need, give you a little advice, and help you 386 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: settle all the problems that are going on in your 387 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 1: personal life. Yeah, this one's involving tattoos. Okay, we'll say that. 388 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,479 Speaker 1: Go find us online if you want to see our podcast. 389 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 1: They're available wherever you get them at Brooke and Jeffrey