1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all suck down giving them just like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: million buck things in the stuffings and not through good 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: to mother for Please, I don't join jo. You got 5 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: turning you go. You gotta turn to turn out, turn 6 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: you got to turn out the turn, turn water to 7 00:01:47,480 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: the water. Go. Come come on your thing. Uh huh, 8 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: I sure will. I come on, and everybody you are 9 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one 10 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man, got a radio show. 11 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: Do you understand that? I'm telling you? God been big 12 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: in my life. God, God is a gentleman, you know. 13 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: I want to I want to point that out to you. 14 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: God is an absolute gentleman. He will not come in 15 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: unless he's invited. He don't just barge into your life. 16 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: He gives us the power of choice. You know. If 17 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: you say you got it, I don't need you, He 18 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: let you have it. If you say I need you, 19 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: come see about me. He right there. It's just a 20 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: real simple thing. Man. So always say to people this, 21 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: if you've gotten yourself into something, and please know I 22 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: have I man see that. That's why I'm so adamant 23 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: about it because I've gotten myself in some circumstances and 24 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: positions in my life. But I've been I've had some 25 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: low moments, man, I've had some moments where I did 26 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 1: not know what to do. I didn't know what was next, 27 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: I didn't know how to go about it. I didn't 28 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: have no more ideas. I was stuck. I thought a 29 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: couple of times, well, might not make it past this one. 30 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: But then if I don't make it past it, what's 31 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: gonna happen? And then I held on to this little 32 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: thing that my mother kept talking to me about. She said, 33 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: sometimes when you ain't got nothing else in you, just hope, 34 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: she said, just hope it'll be all right, you know. 35 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: And what I've learned in my life is that hope. 36 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: It's the beginning of faith. Hope. It's just is there 37 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: a possibility out there for me? I sure hope something happened? 38 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: See hope, Hope it's okay, man, Because like I said, 39 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: for me, the way I've lived my life, hope was 40 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: the beginning of faith. It was just the idea. It's 41 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: just the thought that something could change from me, that 42 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: something could be a little bit different from me, that 43 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 1: maybe man, just maybe for some reason, I could be saved. 44 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: I could be rescued. Things could turn around, it could 45 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: head any other direction. Maybe I could quit messing up. 46 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: Maybe somebody will forgive me. Maybe somebody will just say 47 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: all right. I don't know, but I can't count the 48 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: times I've been in that position. But then once I 49 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: hope a little bit, and then I remember. Also my mother, 50 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: because she was a Sunday school teacher, she taught me 51 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: the most valuable lesson I've ever learned earned in my life. 52 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 1: Nothing has been greater in my life than my faith. 53 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: She taught me to pray. Mamma used to say, when 54 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 1: you get real dog for your son, prad changes things. 55 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: She said, when you seem like you lost and you 56 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: can't finding your way, stop and pray, she said, because 57 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: prayd changes things. You know, when you get a point 58 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: in your life when you've done all you can do 59 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: and you can't do no more and you just don't 60 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: know what to do next, she says, stop, so pray 61 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: and combine that prayer with that hope that you got, 62 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: she said, because that hope is the beginning of faith. 63 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: She said. If you pray just hoping, she's saying that 64 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: God come through for you. That will give you confidence 65 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 1: that he can do it again. And then after a while, 66 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: you quit hoping, She's saying, you start believing. She saying, 67 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: that's when you're on to something. If you can turn 68 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:11,679 Speaker 1: that hope into belief, that hope into faith's that that's 69 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: the ability to believe in something that you can't see. 70 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: But the key though the faith is you're believing in 71 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: something that you can't see see hoping a little bit 72 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: different from me now, I'm pretty sure, like I say, 73 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,679 Speaker 1: oftentimes to tell a lot of people who can explain 74 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,679 Speaker 1: this thing a lot better than I can to you hope. 75 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: It's just kind of I don't know how to I 76 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: don't know how to say it. But I'm just telling 77 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: you hope. You're just hoping it work out right. You 78 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: just have a thought in your mind that you know, man, 79 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: whoever you are, or whoever you are, whatever you are, 80 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: to me, God, I show hope something change. Hope helps. Man. 81 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: If you ain't strong enough to have faith, have hope, hope, 82 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: and then if you pray with some hope and God 83 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: answers your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence. 84 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: And after a while that confidence becomes faith. Now they're 85 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: just hoping, but I'm believing. I'm believing in something that 86 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: I cannot see. Faith has been the key to my 87 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: entire existence, even when I didn't have any It was faith, 88 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: as I look back on it, that has gotten me here, 89 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: and not just faith, but my faith. See, you will 90 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: only get to where you're going in your life based 91 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: on your faith. See. A lot of people get the 92 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: word faith confused, like what's your faith? And then they 93 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: started going down this whole list of all these different 94 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: religions out here. But really an essence, man, when I 95 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: talk to people about faith, I'm talking to you about 96 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: your your belief. How much do you believe in the unseen? See? 97 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: Faith is the core of all that is happening to 98 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: me today. It is the faith that I have in 99 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: my relationship with God that enables me to just oftentimes, 100 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: if I stay on the right course and believe a 101 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: certain way and act a certain way, his blessings just poor. 102 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: They just come. And it comes in a lot of 103 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: little ways too. I've started to notice. See it ain't 104 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 1: just a lot of people think blessings is money and 105 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: now man, that ain't it. It's coverage. It's every time 106 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 1: my plane lands safe. It's every time they predict bad 107 00:08:58,280 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: weather and I get up in the sky and it 108 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: don't be no bad weather. You know, this is this 109 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: is favor. These are blessings that get poured out to me. 110 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: Somebody call me and offer me something, not money, but 111 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: an opportunity. See, blessings come a lot of ways. But 112 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: once you tie into God, once you tie in and 113 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: you start doing the best you can do, and you 114 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: start asking for Him to make you a better person, 115 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: to help shape and mold you into the kind of 116 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 1: man or person that he wants you to be. You 117 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: be amazed what God can do with you. Man, if 118 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: you just invite me in and allow him to be 119 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: a part of your life. I mean, what you got 120 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: to lose out there? Come on? Why why would you 121 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: not change? Why would you not allow God to be 122 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: a part of your life? God got some big plans 123 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: for you. If he didn't, you wouldn't keep waking up. 124 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: You're listening to ladies and gentlemen, prepare yourself for the 125 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: awakening of a new day. We are here. God blessed us, 126 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: Lord her mercy, and we all to be grateful. I 127 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 1: know I am thank you God for a new day 128 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: and a new opportunity. It's a new chance to get 129 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: it right, one step closer to the goal. Oh man, 130 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: feel good about that. Ladies and gentlemen, this is about 131 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: to go down today. I don't know, I don't I 132 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 1: don't know what to tell you, but it's about to 133 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: go down. Only Steve arpen Martin show, Charley Strawberry calling 134 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: for real Mouth of the South, Junior, and ain't nobody 135 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: left but me? We might as well gonna get the started. 136 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 1: Junior's on your mind? Man, all right, let me ask 137 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: this U. Let me ask you something. You know, you 138 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: do a lot of business with a lot of people. 139 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: What makes a good business partner? Like? How what makes 140 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: it a good business partner? Yeah? I had that a 141 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: lot of bad ones. I'll tell you that he did. 142 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: Or I've had my share very very bad ones. Um 143 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: I think of you know, I mean, of course, what 144 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 1: makes a good partner is, first of all, you want 145 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: to find someone who is like minded, who has the 146 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: same goals and ambitions as you, that you can merge 147 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: into the same vision and goal. But right next to 148 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: that and equally is important even if they don't have 149 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 1: the exact same vision and goal. You gotta find somebody 150 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: that's honest and trustworthy that that right there will come 151 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: and get you more than anything. See, I could I 152 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: can deal really with a person that don't share all 153 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 1: my visions, because who is that gonna be? Right? You know, 154 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: you don't find somebody that's gonna share all your visions. 155 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: I mean it would be ideal because ultimately we all 156 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: start out on venturous for ourselves. That's how we all start. 157 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: I mean, of course, you know you want to make 158 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 1: a better life for yourself, better life for your family. 159 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 1: Then you meet somebody you're talking about partnering with, well, 160 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: you know you still want to take care of you 161 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: and yours right so that you have to understand that 162 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 1: part and everybody will make their decisions based on you 163 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: and yours. So hopefully that you and yours decision making 164 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: benefits both sides. That can come a time where will 165 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: it will not and the partner that you thought you 166 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:44,559 Speaker 1: have will become disloyal and then and then you have 167 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: a problem, brother, And then you haven't because there hasn't 168 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: come a day of awakening when you realize that this 169 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 1: partner right here is no longer loyal to you, and 170 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,080 Speaker 1: one of them taught me a very famous slogan that 171 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: I use now, Loyalty has an expiration date, which means you, 172 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: as a loyal person, sometimes are loyal to people far 173 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: longer than they are loyal to you. They're loyal to 174 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: you has been stopped. That's a hard one to understand, 175 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: and so your loyalty to them shouldn't continue. So loyalty, 176 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: trustworthiness and like mindedness are the two things for great 177 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: business partner. Man Steve Harbrun show man, all right, all right, 178 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: there we go. Got a junior. Yeah, all right, coming 179 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: up in thirty two minutes after the hour. We'll run 180 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: that frank back right after this. You're listening to show 181 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 1: It is time now to start your morning off with 182 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: Junior and for the nephew to run that frank back. 183 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: What you got for is this morning, Junior. I'm not 184 00:13:55,880 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: gonna waste no time. My bones a week, oh my, oh, 185 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: come on back. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to uh, I'm 186 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: trying to speak to Ron. Run hey, Ron, how are 187 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 1: you doing? It's folly man, How are you brother? I'm 188 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: doing folly Hey, Hey, I wanted to congratulate you man 189 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: on the on the baby. Man. I wasn't able to 190 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: make it to the baby shower, man, but I want 191 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: to congratulate you on the baby, man and and all 192 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: of that. Man. Much success to you, man, you and 193 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: the wife. Thank you, thank you, you appreciate that. Folly. Yeah, 194 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: well you're fully man. I didn't get to. You know, 195 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: my my wife denieda She came to the to the 196 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: to the baby shower, man, so you know, she was 197 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: telling me how how how nice was how successful it was. Man. 198 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: So I just you want, you know, I wanted to 199 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: give you big ups. I heard the baby came and everything, 200 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: and I wanted to just do a little girl, a 201 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: little girl. Y'all had a little girl. Yeah, yeah, all right, 202 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: we'll congratulations man. Congratulations Ron. I wanted to definitely call 203 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: and congratulate man and um baby real quick? What um? 204 00:14:57,960 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: What baby shower? Was your wife that because we had 205 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: at two we had one from my side of the 206 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: family and then one from my wife's side, because you know, 207 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: they lived different places and stuff. Man, So which one 208 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: do you think she was at? Um? Probably on your 209 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: wife's side, you know. Okay, okay, she knows my wife. 210 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: Well now I see see de Nader is actually friends 211 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: with uh with Kendra. Now you know Kendra, right? Oh yeah, 212 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: I know kinds are Yeah, yeah, that's good thing. She 213 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: was she was with Kendra, okay, yeah she comes. They 214 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: played cards, you know, Okay, okay, yeah she she was 215 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: with Kendra. Man, and um, she was just telling me 216 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: how successful man, how nice it was, and you know, 217 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: laid out baby shower. I wasn't able to make it. Man, 218 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: I've been a little under the weather, bro, you know, 219 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, with with God's help, man, I'll 220 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: be able to get back on my feet. You know 221 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's all right? Hey man, I just 222 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: you know, congratulations again, man. You know, a beautiful baby girl. 223 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 1: I man, that's a beautiful thing. Yeah, thank you, thank you. Um, 224 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, bro to her. I just I can't foldy. 225 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember you and trying to place you, 226 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 1: and I just can't do it. We met, no, no, no, no, 227 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 1: no no, no, my bad man. I'm sorry, job nah 228 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 1: me and you we haven't we haven't met at all. Um. 229 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: Like I said, you know, my wife knows Kendrill and 230 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 1: they hang out and uh, I guess she's She's dabbled 231 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: a couple of times and been around. You know, your 232 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: wife is uh, your wife is Maryland, right, Yeah, that's 233 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: no wife, Okay, Yeah, I guess she's been been in 234 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: the presence of Maryland. Man. So you know, you know, 235 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: I kind of got your number from uh, from my wife, 236 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: man um, and she got it from Kendrell. So I 237 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: kind of wanted to holl at you, you know, which 238 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: you weren't hed of me, actually, man, Like I said, Man, 239 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: I've been I've been down for a minute, you know, 240 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: and U I uh actually you know, came from doctor 241 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: yesterday and and my my bones, man, they my bones 242 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: are deteriorating. You know, that's kind of what I'm what 243 00:16:55,880 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: I've been going through, man um. And if I don't 244 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: uh get the proper medication that I need man the week, 245 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: you know it within the next three months here do it, 246 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: it could get pretty bad. You know what I'm saying. Well, Man, 247 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that, bro Um. It's you know, 248 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: all I can do is man. And you know, well, Man, 249 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: I the doctor told me that, bron the doctor told 250 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 1: me Man that you know, if I get the right medication, man, 251 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: that you know, I could get back up to seventy 252 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: healthy again. You know what I'm saying. So you know, 253 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: it's just a rare type of thing that I need 254 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: to try and get and I think that you might 255 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: be I think you can help me be strong. Man, 256 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: be strong, just man, sit down, man strong. It's gonna 257 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 1: be all right. But I think it's gonna be all right. 258 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,479 Speaker 1: God is with you. I pray for you. I do 259 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: all I can. You know, I don't know well actually actually, 260 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: uh the doctor told me, man that for six months, 261 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 1: if I drunk breast milk, it will it would it 262 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: would put enough calseum and stuff back into my bones 263 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: that would get me back up to seventy to eighty 264 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: five percent healthy breast. Yeah, I ain't got no breasts. 265 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: You know, it's not it's not you Ron you you 266 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: don't you know, but you know your your wife does. Thought. Whoa, 267 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: you're talking about my wife's breast. Man. I'm not not directly, man, 268 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that chickens, you know. I mean, if 269 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,400 Speaker 1: I had her breast milk for like six months straight, man, 270 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 1: I could get back hold again. Man. Oh, come, you'll 271 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: talk about a man's wife or her breast now. I gotta, 272 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: I just gotta. I'm just just all, I'm my breast milk. Man. Man, 273 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm just asking y'all to share it. For six were 274 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 1: kid getting the breast milk with you? Man, you got 275 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: the wrong one, man, the wrong one and you think 276 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: your name was but they is wrong? Man, this wrong. 277 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: I'm wrong. No, we're just talking about six months of 278 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 1: breasts milk. Man, six months your wife's prest milk. We 279 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: was talking about just no best mom and I understand 280 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: I press milk man, I understand that. Man. But we're 281 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: talking about you saving a life. Man, a life I 282 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: ain't the one. Okay, let me ask you this. One 283 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 1: of y'all would have had twins. Man, y'all would have 284 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: been prest seeding two babies. Just look at it as 285 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: if we're twins. The man, I'm getting them up this 286 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: phone because I don't know who you are. You need 287 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 1: to chill, man, you need to go get on your knees, 288 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 1: train that your bones get healed or whatever. You got 289 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: the wrong number. Man, Listen. Man, all I'm saying is 290 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I want to say, and 291 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 1: then I'll have to get on man. I just want 292 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: to get off the phone called Kendra and find out 293 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 1: wh give you my number, because that's how you got 294 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: Can I say one more saying? Man? Go ahead, go ahead? 295 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 1: Can I say it? Hey? Man, this is nephew Tommy 296 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kendra and your wife 297 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: Maryland got me to prank phone call you. Y'all are good? Man? 298 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 1: Whoa man? My wife? Man? Man? Did I get you? Man? Yeah? 299 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 1: Y'all got it? Man? Y'all having me ay? And I 300 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: got them too? They don't started something? Hey, one more thing. 301 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio station in the land? Man? Man? 302 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: It is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man. Wow? Man, 303 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Junior. There you have it in 304 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: for the nephew coming up next to his asked the 305 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: cello chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right 306 00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening string show coming up at the 307 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: top of the hour, our favorite vegan superstar, Tabitha Brown's 308 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: new shook cooking show gets moved from primetime on the 309 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 1: Food Network, and Tabitha says she will not change who 310 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: she is for anyone. And other entertainment news, have you 311 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: seen Drake's new throwback hair style? And celebrity baby news 312 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: for Colin Kaepernick, we'll talk about all of these stories 313 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. But right now it 314 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 1: is time for ask the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey, 315 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 1: who's been knocking it out of the park lately. It 316 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 1: is time for ask the CLO. Kaden Ocean Spring says, 317 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: I'm a recent college graduate and I want to follow 318 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: my boyfriend to another city and get a job there. 319 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: I will be living with him temporarily, and that's freaking 320 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 1: my parents out. We dated all through college and basically 321 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 1: lived together then, So why is it a big problem now? 322 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: Why are my parents so old fashioned? I mean, I 323 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: don't understand why y'all keep calling doing the right thing 324 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: old fashioned. They're concerned that you're gonna allow your boyfriend 325 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: to get the milk without buying the cow. When you 326 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 1: move in together, it's very, very different. See now, what 327 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: you're saying to your boyfriend when you move in is 328 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 1: you can have me and all of this that comes 329 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: with it, and then one day I hope you married me. 330 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 1: But there what's gonna be the rush because you're at 331 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: the house already, you're doing all the wifely duties. I 332 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,360 Speaker 1: just you know, it's not that parents are old fashioned, 333 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 1: is that they care that they know the outcome of 334 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: a lot of situations that you've never even seen before. 335 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about that? So, young people, do 336 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 1: yourself a favor. Quit telling old people that they old fashioned, 337 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 1: because old fashioned works in a whole lot of circumstances. 338 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: Just because y'all found a new way to mess it up, 339 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 1: don't mean that the old way it ain't gonna Because 340 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, the new way is not 341 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: really working that well. If you look at divorce rates 342 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: and all of that, it's not working that well, especially 343 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 1: for women. So I think a lot of it's concerned 344 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: on your parents' party. It's not being old fashioned. Yeah, 345 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 1: city cy, that's right. You're gonna move to another city 346 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 1: and live with a boy that won't even ask you 347 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 1: to marry him. Y'all all that tight jam and can't 348 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: live without each other, then go on and get married. 349 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,119 Speaker 1: Your parents would be a little bit more understanding if 350 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 1: he was willing to make a commitment. And then, of 351 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: course you're not gonna make the commitment because he got 352 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 1: to get his money right, And that's what he told you. 353 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: When we get it together, we'll get married. And you've 354 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 1: accepted that. Yeah, mothers tell their daughters don't follow boyfriends 355 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 1: to follow. Huh m, that's right, followed that? All right, 356 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:18,160 Speaker 1: here we go. Sharon in Baltimore says, I had a favor. 357 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 1: Excuse me. You know, ladies, y'a all so good at 358 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 1: following it. Men start getting good at following advice. M 359 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: you know she's so good at following men, Just start 360 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: getting good at following advice. Listen, it won't hurt to listen. Yes, 361 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 1: all right, sure, all right. Sharon and Baltimore had an affair. 362 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 1: She said, I had an affair with my next door 363 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,479 Speaker 1: neighbor three years ago, and he's held it against me 364 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: for three years. I'm dating this great new guy, and 365 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: I'm scared to invite him over. How do I stop 366 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: my married neighbor from harassing me? Should I tell his wife? 367 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 1: M Oh wow, this is a harassment that you could 368 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 1: stop very easily. Okay, well, listen to me. Call me 369 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: one more time, and I'm gonna call your wife. Yeah. 370 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: And what you should do? I think you should move. 371 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: Unless you're a homeowner, I think you should move. You 372 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 1: made a mistake. You slept with this woman's husband. He 373 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 1: lives next door now, unless you are Unless you're a homeowner. 374 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: I'd move because you I think you need a fresh start. 375 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: Pulling up next to hearing this all the time. Yeah yeah, 376 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 1: all right, all right. Moving on to Tequila and Arlington, 377 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,959 Speaker 1: Tequila writes, I'm dating a man that is brutally honest, 378 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 1: and he told me that he had better sexual partners 379 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: than me. I told him I've had bigger sexual partners 380 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 1: than him. We argued all night and he can dish 381 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: it out, but he can't take it. Is our relationship dune. 382 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you ain't doing it right. And 383 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 1: he's small, so yeah, yeah, why are we here and 384 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: y'all set up all night about that way better sexual 385 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: partner I had bigger than you? That shutt it b Yeah, 386 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: I can get better. You can't get bigger. What who 387 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: y'are with? How you saying I can get better? You 388 00:26:54,840 --> 00:27:03,719 Speaker 1: can't get bigger. That's at it down right there? All right, 389 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 1: all right, Tequila and Arlington, thank you. Moving on this 390 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 1: our last one, Steve Nisi and Saint Pete says, my 391 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: two aunts stayed with me over the weekend, and my 392 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: husband could breakfast daily and he put some meat on 393 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 1: the grill for them on Sunday. One of my aunt's 394 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 1: comments that he is henpecked and it didn't sit well 395 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: with him. He was disrespectful to her, and I'm so embarrassed. 396 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: How do I smooth things over? No? See, your aunt 397 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: got to get out your house, and your aunt need 398 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: to quit talking to your husband. He was disrespect call 399 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 1: you don't disrespect him in his house. He shouldn't have 400 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,199 Speaker 1: trying to be kindy y'all fixing the purpose and some 401 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: food all grill. He hen pecked you old bitter loss healthy. 402 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 1: I bet that's what they say, you old bitter, lost, healthful, 403 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 1: trying to help your old antique ass enjoy your little 404 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: ragged ass in life. And then you're sitting up being 405 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 1: and tell mart, I'm hearing pet? And what so? How 406 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 1: does the wife smooth all this over? And they're no 407 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 1: smoothing it over? It's checking your arm. You gotta side 408 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 1: with your husband, right. And then in y'all's house, she 409 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: ain't got no business saying nothing to this man. He 410 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 1: hearing pet because he cooking breakfast, because you ain't never 411 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 1: had a man fix you no damn breakfast. I'm service 412 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 1: you now, he hid pet? Why don't you being nice 413 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: or being hospitable? You know, she don't know what nice 414 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: and hospitable is because she ain't never seen it. Now 415 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,719 Speaker 1: he hearing pet because he hadn't here fixing breakfast and stuff. 416 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: Don't know man, fix no woman, no breakfast. Wow, right there, stupid. 417 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: That's why y'all's had time to be over there, because 418 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: it ain't Both of them is free and nothing going 419 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 1: on in their lives. Yeah, you got to aunten to 420 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: tell you how your relationship are to being I promise 421 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: you she ain't got one coming on. They're messing things up, 422 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: all right, Thank you, Ciello. Coming up at the top 423 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you. 424 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well, 425 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: our favorite social media vegan superstar, Tabitha Brown's new cooking show, 426 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: It's Compliplated, gets pulled from her primetime slot and move 427 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: back to a weekday afternoon slot on the Food Network. 428 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: We all know that Tabitha has found success as an actress, 429 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: as a vegan food influencer, best selling author, and of 430 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: course a fashion designer. Well, take a listen. It's Tabitha 431 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: talked about those who are critical lover Hello, the yellow 432 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 1: right real quick. I know I've said this so many 433 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: times before, but for whatever reason, people just don't seem 434 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: to believe me. Okay, there is not a company, there 435 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: is not a network, There is not a person, place, 436 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: or thing that it's going to change who I am. 437 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: If you don't like tab as this tab, if you 438 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: don't like the tab who gives God glory? If you 439 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 1: don't like the vegan tab, if you don't like the 440 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 1: cooking tab, the mama tab, if you don't like my personality, 441 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 1: if you don't like everything that makes tab tab, don't 442 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: work with me because I'm not going to change. I'm 443 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 1: not going to shift a little bit for your audience. 444 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: I'm not going to talk a little bit different for 445 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 1: your comfort. I'm not going to change this person I am. 446 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: This is who God created me to be. And if 447 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 1: it ain't enough for you, then you're not for me. 448 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: And if I bring it to your attention that wait, 449 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: I don't like how this feels. Um, I feel like 450 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: you're trying to change me or erase my personality or 451 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: my culture, and you get upset by that instead of 452 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: hearing me from my heart. Um, I also don't want 453 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: to be in business with you. Does that make sense. 454 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 1: It ain't personal for you, but it's personal for me, 455 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 1: and it's business. Everybody clear, Well, this relationship will be 456 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 1: coming to an end shortly. Yeah, yeah, it's very confident woman. 457 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: But I do understand exactly where she's coming from because 458 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: I've been faced with that same meeting with them before 459 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: and so and in radio I remember and radio yeah, 460 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: change change me. I know you need to wait, you 461 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: need to articulate your words are. First of all, I 462 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about. Don not not. 463 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what he was 464 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: talking to me about. It fault because I clearly didn't 465 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 1: even boy man in two thousand they brought me in. 466 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: That's when they brought me. We got to bring in 467 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: a radio person to handle him. Wait, Steve, this is 468 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 1: what Steve. You're not giving time checks enough what You're 469 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 1: not telling them what time it is? You got time 470 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: for that. I'm talking, I'm doing radio. I'm why they 471 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 1: doing Then I ain't the clock. You gotta do that, 472 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: and then you got to do station ID checks when 473 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: you come in. Welcome back. It's ten forty five right 474 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: here to one hundred point three to beat Wait a minute, well, 475 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: you have to tell people where they are if they 476 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: can hear me, what station is their own? I ain't 477 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 1: even what do you want me to keep saying that phone? 478 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,040 Speaker 1: If we own this station. If you ain't a one 479 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 1: hundred point three, you can't hear me say a one 480 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 1: hundred point three? So how did you stay true to yourself? Though? 481 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 1: That's the thing that's Tabitha? You know she still has 482 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 1: a show in streaming and all that. I just stayed. 483 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 1: I stayed look at me, look at me. You keep producing. See. 484 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: But here's a problem though, when you start having a 485 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 1: measure of success and you go into these meetings, everybody 486 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: in the meeting wants to put their hand on that 487 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 1: measure of success so they can feel a part of it. 488 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: So they start saying stuff to you so they can 489 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 1: say they were in the room and they reminded you 490 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 1: of this, or they got you to do that. But 491 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 1: you can't fall for that because he once I give 492 00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: you the success you're looking for in terms of rating, 493 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 1: what is you in here talking about for? Can you 494 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: say this a little more clear? No? They like you 495 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: where I said it just did back there, So now 496 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: why is you in here talking to me about talking 497 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:16,439 Speaker 1: about clear why but for what though? But I love 498 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 1: how she's standing her ground. She's going to be who 499 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: she is. She's very confident, you know, and she knows 500 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: who she is and she's comfortable in herself, and she 501 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 1: has an audience based on that. Yeah, you're trying to 502 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: make use somebody else. She gonna lose her bass, yes, 503 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: set target. Yeah, I never lost my bass, right. I 504 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 1: belonged to black people higher time. I never tried to 505 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:53,879 Speaker 1: do nothing for they wasn't with me. I sound like 506 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,800 Speaker 1: somebody else. And Steve Chang, why are you talking like that? No? 507 00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:01,720 Speaker 1: Hell no, it's how I talk. And when you send 508 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,760 Speaker 1: people in there to change me, when over, I promise 509 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 1: you they'll be changed. And then they came to you 510 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: just by you being yourself. And that's remember that dude, 511 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 1: they hide out there. He gonna come in here and 512 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 1: tell me white dude. Now, these are the top black 513 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 1: songs of all time? What no earth winning fire? Now? 514 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:33,240 Speaker 1: He had no earth winning follow hire top Black songs 515 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: of all time, didn't have no press on there to 516 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson song You Almost Died, No Luther music. No, 517 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,839 Speaker 1: they were beat it in black and white. Yeah, it's 518 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: not in the top three hundred. Luther no luthor. Yeah, 519 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 1: all right, we gotta roll out of Seve. Think you 520 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: made your point. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. 521 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,839 Speaker 1: Every Spears gets backlash over the Lizzo comments he made 522 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 1: us Aries versus Mike Epps. We'll talk about all of 523 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening, all right. So Lizzo 524 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 1: said Sunday night at the VMA's that she doesn't clap 525 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: back at her haters, she just wins. Lizza was probably yeah, yeah, 526 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 1: you know, you gotta yeah, give her props for that. 527 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:25,080 Speaker 1: Lizzo was probably addressing comedian Ari Spears, who recently said 528 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 1: some disparaging remarks about her. During an interview, Ari said 529 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: that Lizzo had a body of the poop poo emoji, 530 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 1: but has plenty but has a pretty face. Of course, 531 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 1: Aries received some major backlash for body shaming Lizzo, and 532 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 1: he responded to that backlash with a video on the 533 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: Graham saying he knew it was coming and he did 534 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: not apologize for those comment. Comedian Mike Epps commented on 535 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: the story via the Shade Room. Uh. Mike Epp said, 536 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: he looks dirty and sick, and he's not been on 537 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: TV since Matt TV, and now Aries has responded to 538 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,680 Speaker 1: like Epp saying, yeah, but people don't walk out of 539 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: my shows. Might want to turn down the volume on 540 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: those shiny suits jewelry and step your funny up. Oh wow, 541 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 1: not the comedian, all right, Steve Um. First of all, 542 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 1: I like Lizzo, Yeah, on the show for the first time. 543 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 1: She's a fan of the show. I didn't know too 544 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,400 Speaker 1: much about her, but I was very much aware of 545 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 1: who she was. But I don't know too much about her. Um, 546 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 1: I don't you know when Arie made the statement, I 547 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 1: don't know where he thought this was gonna go, but 548 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,319 Speaker 1: I could assure you it didn't go the way he 549 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 1: thought it was gonna go. And then to say I 550 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 1: stand by the statements, you apologize, That's not the most 551 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 1: intelligent way to do about it. Couldn't have just say hey, 552 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 1: I did a joking, bad taste. Mike Epps came to 553 00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 1: her aid by making the statement he made. Um, and 554 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 1: now he's talking about people walking out of Mike elp shows. Um, 555 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 1: all of us have had bad nights, every single one 556 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 1: of us. I've had bad boy. Absolutely, I'm talking about 557 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:30,399 Speaker 1: bad nights as a famous person, including Ari. I've I've 558 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 1: I've been on. I performed with him a few times before. 559 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 1: A good guy like Ari, but he's had bad nights. 560 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 1: I think Mike ELPs is dressing real pimp like and 561 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 1: I love it. Do it. It might as will be me, 562 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,120 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I ain't mad at. 563 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 1: I don't know why you think a shot at the 564 00:38:55,800 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 1: shiny suits. H It's called pimp gilt, not for the 565 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:08,280 Speaker 1: faint of heart. So there you have it. I really 566 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,839 Speaker 1: love Mike. That's not a battle that ariy Spears can win. 567 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 1: Now leave Litze alone. We love not with her or Mike. 568 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,880 Speaker 1: That's not a battle he can win. All right, thank you. 569 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,879 Speaker 1: Steve coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour. 570 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 1: We'll check Steve's voicemail right after this. You're listening to show. 571 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,280 Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is now time to check Steve's voicemail. 572 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: If you want to leave a voicemail for Steve, callum 573 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:41,360 Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. This person is Lenna 574 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:45,879 Speaker 1: as a lift driver as a response to Junior's latest poem, 575 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: Hello Steve's ladies, all of y'all, this is Lenn the 576 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 1: lift driver. I thought i'd give y'all a call. Now, First, 577 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 1: let me say I respect all your staff and Junior's youthful. 578 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 1: Now even tell you is always good for last. This morning, 579 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,239 Speaker 1: I was moved by the please of Jay Rat and 580 00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:06,359 Speaker 1: felt his humble request denies was a budget craft as 581 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 1: the oldest even you dar see riding a bike the 582 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 1: good show. But Tommy, now he's digging, is unwilling to 583 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:18,280 Speaker 1: multi task as we all know, and doing his job. 584 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 1: His junior humble, a bit scrawny and lighting the egg. Now, 585 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 1: if he don't deserve a raise, how about at least 586 00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 1: a damn meal from chick from leg he h the 587 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:42,959 Speaker 1: lift driver she is. We're not lending the middle of Hey, 588 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 1: you heard, did the lift driver for you? We don't 589 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 1: want you calling here no long trying to do the 590 00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:02,160 Speaker 1: poems that you do. This show has three comedians and 591 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,279 Speaker 1: all of us are doing well. And for you to 592 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,800 Speaker 1: come on here and try to suggest we don't need nothing. 593 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,680 Speaker 1: You trying to tell to keep all your ragged ass 594 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:18,479 Speaker 1: poems to your damn sell don't call here no more. 595 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:32,720 Speaker 1: There's other radio shows called somebody else. All right, Moving 596 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 1: on to um. Remember we recently talked about the State 597 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 1: of Missouri putting corporal punishment and padding back in schools. 598 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 1: This is a caller about that. All right, this is Britney. 599 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 1: I am from one Row, Louisiana. UM. I was calling 600 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 1: because I just wanted to say I allow, I checked 601 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 1: the box to get my kids, my kids full permission 602 00:41:56,080 --> 00:42:01,360 Speaker 1: to cattle down. Because I feel that a lot of 603 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 1: times some of these kids have a awesome impression of 604 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:10,360 Speaker 1: adults can't recommend them, and so I when when the 605 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 1: kids grow up adult, it's going to repommend them. And 606 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 1: so I just feel like if they're causing that school 607 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,799 Speaker 1: enough trouble that they have to get paddled, then they 608 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: deserve it. And that's my thoughtful that by that's cool. 609 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 1: You want somebody in your baby, go ahead. It's too 610 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,239 Speaker 1: many racists at school for me, Now what you mean 611 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 1: too many races? It's too many racists. There's too many teachers. 612 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 1: That's race racist racist. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, see, it's 613 00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,720 Speaker 1: just too many. It's too much integration in schools. Now, 614 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,720 Speaker 1: you know, when it was segregated, I probably go along 615 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 1: with it. That's what I was. I was at the 616 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: segregated school. There's too much integration. Now you're gonna be 617 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,080 Speaker 1: pulling black kids up there. Frankly, people ain't been to 618 00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,439 Speaker 1: handle that. Right now, this is down the dark hole. 619 00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,959 Speaker 1: It's the before the horse. You put your prayer back 620 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 1: into schools first, see how that work out for you. 621 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,440 Speaker 1: Allow corporal punishment in school. That will make no damn sense. 622 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 1: That don't make no damn sense. Ain't no prayer in school, 623 00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 1: But you can beat my baby ass in school, man 624 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:21,799 Speaker 1: shoe system, y'all trying to create it out of my 625 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,000 Speaker 1: daddy a little bit of gloria whooping my ass he 626 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 1: had never given you nobody, Wait what your Yeah, my 627 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 1: dad lived a glory or whooping my ass, and if 628 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 1: he had an audience, it works best for him, not 629 00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 1: a little ass. That's my job. I thought most parents 630 00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:43,839 Speaker 1: didn't like what spanking their kids. It hurt. My mom 631 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:45,800 Speaker 1: used to say, it hurts me more than it hurt shoe. 632 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: That's I'd be like, how you that? That's a lot 633 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: of junior. My dad had seen music when he was 634 00:43:52,120 --> 00:44:03,879 Speaker 1: my ass. I knew it was about to happen. Pump pump, 635 00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:18,919 Speaker 1: if you have me and the boy all right, all right, 636 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,319 Speaker 1: coming up next, it is today's prank phone call. We're 637 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: Junior in for the nephew. Right after this, you're listening 638 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: to show coming up at the top of the hour, 639 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,759 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for 640 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 1: today and the subject is did I make it all up? 641 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 1: We'll find out what that means. And just a few 642 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 1: but right now, Junior is in for the nephew and 643 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 1: today's prank phone call Junior, what you got today? You know, 644 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,480 Speaker 1: just just a ninth day I've been in for the nephew. 645 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: Uh count you know, Okay, I'm just nine day straight. 646 00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: I don't know what you got going on. But I'm 647 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,960 Speaker 1: not gonna keep sitting in here for the nephew. Whynot 648 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: for you? No, I'm no, I'm no. He ain't gonna 649 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: do that for me. You know what, I'm gonna do 650 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 1: my dates today now? Talking about his show on you 651 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,240 Speaker 1: know Ready to Love. I'll tell you what's ready? Was ready? 652 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:20,839 Speaker 1: It's Thursday Exceptember first. I'm gonna be in Huntsville, Alabama. 653 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 1: That's ready. That's ready right now, get your ticket stand 654 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:28,120 Speaker 1: up live coming you know what else? October seventh and eighth, 655 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in Virginia Beach. That's ready. You're gonna 656 00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: get your tickets right now Richmond, Virginia. That's great. All 657 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: the things like I do because here here I'm keep 658 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 1: doing all his show promote his Ready to Love. Oh 659 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:49,960 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, but watching Friday, you you're torn, 660 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 1: you be hating, but you love him through. Yeah, I'm 661 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 1: gonna hate at the same time his show too. Just 662 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 1: remember the first this Thursday, Huntsville, Alabama. Then October seven 663 00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 1: to eight, that's gonna be Virginia Beach. October twentieth, we're 664 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: gonna be in Richmond. All of that's happening now, all 665 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 1: that's ready, then watch Ready to Love on this rack. Alright, 666 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Tell y'all heavy right, let's 667 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,840 Speaker 1: get you this brank Yeah, brank. Today is tell gays, 668 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,200 Speaker 1: Tell gators. Come on, captain man, I'll speak to t 669 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:29,480 Speaker 1: Rock speaking. It is this t Rock. Yeah ahead, what's up? 670 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,239 Speaker 1: Hey man? Let me ask you something. All last year 671 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,239 Speaker 1: y'all was telgating here in the parking lot at the apartments. 672 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,120 Speaker 1: Or y'all doing that again this year? Yeah? Always, that's 673 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: what we do. Hey man, Hey listen man, I just 674 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: moved here about a year ago. Let me tell you something. 675 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:48,120 Speaker 1: All that noisy y'all be making down there. Mann't need 676 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,320 Speaker 1: to get y'all some money the game. Man, hold on, 677 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 1: hold on, man, hold on, hold on, hold on. First 678 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 1: of all, you walk. My thing is, hey, we we 679 00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 1: would do out of here. Man, we all get together, brother, 680 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 1: go to work now at the end if we want to, 681 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: we want to get together and throw a little barbecue whatever. 682 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,799 Speaker 1: That's what we do. Let me call with that. Dude, 683 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,439 Speaker 1: are you anyway? Come? Y'all making too much? I don't 684 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,320 Speaker 1: want you for you. I live, I live, hedn't have 685 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: been an apartment too. Man, Y'ALLNA can't even gonna tell 686 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 1: you what I tell you. We should want to talk 687 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,879 Speaker 1: all that noise about what we're doing out here. Man, 688 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,040 Speaker 1: I think you bring your bucket down here and say 689 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 1: it to my place for you. Man, don't don't worry 690 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:26,879 Speaker 1: about who I am but one man first. Man, I'm 691 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: trying to have a good day, and I'm gonna hear 692 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,040 Speaker 1: some like this. Come on, man, who are supposed to 693 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 1: be man? I'm te rock down, I come down. If 694 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:34,840 Speaker 1: we do what we do, we all get together, we 695 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 1: try to have a good time with it. You want 696 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 1: to come with this? I miss my day. He knows 697 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:42,839 Speaker 1: we gonna do. Call man. Man, you know y'all all 698 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,399 Speaker 1: that noise, man disturbing people water in there? No, man, 699 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,960 Speaker 1: I say, look here, I'm play at the end of 700 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,399 Speaker 1: the week, man, brother, get together, put the money together, man, 701 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: and we get together and we try to have a 702 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 1: good time. If you want to come down to Jars, man, 703 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: you more than welcome. I'm trying to tell you more 704 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: than welcome. Brother, come down to drive a play man. Man. 705 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 1: Please don't try to miss him a day of dot 706 00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:05,240 Speaker 1: Please don't, man, Please, Man, don't try y'all missing Monday 707 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: up with all that day I'm knowing. Man, Come man, look, 708 00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,840 Speaker 1: this is who we do. You want to join, you 709 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,879 Speaker 1: to join, you ain't gonna join. Shut the hell up, hey, man, 710 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,759 Speaker 1: let me do what you're gonna do. But let let 711 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,279 Speaker 1: us do what we do. This is we do on 712 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,319 Speaker 1: the weekend. This is how we out. We leave our 713 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:20,960 Speaker 1: fifth We're gonna try to do something, get together and 714 00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:22,880 Speaker 1: have a good time. And you want to try to 715 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 1: miss that up? Make all that man? Man, all understanding 716 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,960 Speaker 1: is man, if y'all tell game, why don't y'all carll 717 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 1: y'all down to the stadium. Man in white Place, We 718 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,040 Speaker 1: can't go down there. Man. We don't want to go 719 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,440 Speaker 1: down there. We want to get together where we are right. 720 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 1: This is what we do, man, this is who we do. 721 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,719 Speaker 1: Ain't nobody ever complain now, one time, now, one till 722 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,319 Speaker 1: you first fun ever complain. We've been doing this three 723 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 1: years and the first time we ever had to complain. 724 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,120 Speaker 1: You know, you don't drid your mother dying off of 725 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 1: white white white? Why y'all don'ta buy y'all some tickets 726 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,799 Speaker 1: to the damn game? Man? What w y'all go go 727 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,719 Speaker 1: to the game? Why the game went to be in 728 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: my parking lot? Well until like this, we can't afford 729 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 1: a ticket, man, So we do. We should get together. 730 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 1: We do what we can. We put our money together, 731 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 1: we get together, and that's what we do again. Like 732 00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,359 Speaker 1: I said early, man, you more the world comes down, 733 00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 1: you want to bring his old monkey? Oh yeah, go man, 734 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,640 Speaker 1: gone with that, doc, gone with that man. Man, Let 735 00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:14,960 Speaker 1: me let me, let me let me tell you this 736 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,400 Speaker 1: right here. Man, if y'all fire up that pit on Sunday, 737 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,879 Speaker 1: I'm coming down there and turning that yall. What over 738 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,400 Speaker 1: you got, y'all? What on? I'm turning y'all, y'all fighting 739 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 1: pit up. And I promise you I'm gonna turning the 740 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,840 Speaker 1: damn barbecue pitto, And I promise you'd be standing at 741 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,799 Speaker 1: the top of the church. You will be staring at 742 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,239 Speaker 1: the top of the church, and that she won't had 743 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 1: me to pick the floor. You're gonna hit the floor. 744 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 1: And man, you're gonna hit the don't don't find and 745 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: pit up Sunday you hit me. Do not fight it. 746 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: I can't. It's gonna be no fact. I'm looking for 747 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 1: the pit now. I'm looking for him. That it's gonna 748 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 1: be out there. It's gonna be out there. Curl your 749 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 1: monkey fire that they told you that you're disturbing people, 750 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,640 Speaker 1: and you're disturbing me more than anything, you know. And 751 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,880 Speaker 1: y'alla all last year, y'all tell Dudy right here in 752 00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: the damn apartments. Man, that's crazy. You know what. I 753 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,520 Speaker 1: would apologize you, but let me say like this here. Man, 754 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 1: you don't y'all, I don't tell you you come down 755 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:06,960 Speaker 1: and get a place to come down and join them. 756 00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:08,560 Speaker 1: You know, we're just getting together and trying to make 757 00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 1: it a family down here. Just what you want to 758 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 1: bring me? Man, you don't come out top. I'm on 759 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:17,360 Speaker 1: another level. Now I'm on that other level. I'm know 760 00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: I want on the other level. Midway through the season 761 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,839 Speaker 1: last hi went all that day. I'm nor its man. Man, 762 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Man, look let me tell you something. 763 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 1: Mom Me hit the show or somebody to come back 764 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,319 Speaker 1: and disturbing what we do. What we do, it's gonna 765 00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,120 Speaker 1: go down. I'm gonna tell you like that. We ain't 766 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,040 Speaker 1: trying to have no wish on the no proud. We 767 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,200 Speaker 1: donna get down like that. Len trying to have a 768 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 1: good time. That's all we do. We're we're doing this 769 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,439 Speaker 1: for three years. We got the kids out here playing. 770 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,359 Speaker 1: We got the big screen out where everybody to watch 771 00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 1: the game. You know, I extended my some law about 772 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 1: to come out half play with it. But you're gonna 773 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,200 Speaker 1: talk about coming knocking my metal as long as I work. 774 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 1: I promise you, if mat Me touch the ground, you're 775 00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 1: gonna touch the ground. Come on, man, don't go there 776 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 1: with that. Man. He don't do that. Okay, look at him. Man, 777 00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, y'all s BARBQ pit. So 778 00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,839 Speaker 1: when I smell a little charcoal, I promise you I'm 779 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: turning it. So y'all ain't doing this this year. Man, 780 00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,440 Speaker 1: y'all ain't doing it this year? Are you? Man? I'm 781 00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:13,520 Speaker 1: you little doc the bunch? You present yourself to me? Man? 782 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 1: What you do that? You know what? I man? You 783 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,799 Speaker 1: can meet me up at the leasing office. I'm at 784 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,880 Speaker 1: the leasing I wanna start walking whiting at the LEAs 785 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,879 Speaker 1: off right a flock. I see who the hell I'm 786 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 1: talking to this man? Listen, Okay, Well, you need to 787 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 1: see who's gonna turn this pit over. Y'all ain't gonna ye, man. 788 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,239 Speaker 1: I want to see that. I want to see that happen, 789 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 1: because soon as soon as you touched my pit, the 790 00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,040 Speaker 1: that mean hits the flow. You don't hit the flow 791 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:38,719 Speaker 1: quicker than the meat will. I'm trying to have a 792 00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,799 Speaker 1: good talent on black. You're trying to get together. Man. 793 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 1: Everybody comes and drinking bill. Nobody's saying nothing, but I 794 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 1: don't want to say getting your muscle's gonna come out 795 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,680 Speaker 1: this Okay, I'll tell you what. Bring you to the 796 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,200 Speaker 1: leasing office, and I polish you. I'm up in ahead 797 00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,399 Speaker 1: because i'm in ahead. You need you need to bring 798 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,399 Speaker 1: somebody with you. That's what you need to do. Okay. 799 00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm I think I'm a brain with me. I got 800 00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:58,840 Speaker 1: two pimp a brain with me. It's gonna be me 801 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,840 Speaker 1: myself and and I bet you this here. You won't 802 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,000 Speaker 1: putting no meet on that crib comes Sunday, Okay, I 803 00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,680 Speaker 1: won't putting all right on that crib. Now you re me, 804 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 1: y'all you're gonna need me. The leasing office is on. 805 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,680 Speaker 1: I'm a beat. Okay, okay, But dude, you know who 806 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,879 Speaker 1: you do? You know who you're playing with? No, I don't. 807 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 1: And I about Tomas when I find you. You don't 808 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 1: know who you're playing with? Let me let me let 809 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: me tell you who I am. Yeah, tell me who 810 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:23,759 Speaker 1: you are? Call you. I am nephew Toment from the 811 00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 1: Steve Harbin Morning Show. You just got prank by your 812 00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:39,839 Speaker 1: boy Bobby. Uh. I'm oh many he rocks you, y'all. Y'all, 813 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 1: y'all still man maning youth you ma'a. I'm sorry man, 814 00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 1: you you was fied up? You I am s It 815 00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 1: says hot out here anyway. We don't care. We're gonna 816 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 1: we can take it. Man, y'all, y'all gave a Sunday man, 817 00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,759 Speaker 1: that's what we do. Everybody pitching in and we all 818 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 1: get govern man it's a it's a family thing. Man, 819 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 1: you could man, you let me ask you. What's the 820 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,919 Speaker 1: radio show in the lay man? The Steve Hary Morning Show. Brother, 821 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, j here, thank you. Congratulations on 822 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 1: your shows too, Carlin. I gonna come and see you. 823 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 1: We really are coming up next. It is a strawberry letter. 824 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 1: The subject is did I make it all up? Did 825 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 1: I make it all up? We'll find out what that's 826 00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:33,040 Speaker 1: all about right after this. You're listening to the Steve 827 00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:36,800 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right. Before we get to the 828 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter for today, we've got to remind the Steve 829 00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:43,680 Speaker 1: Harvey Nation that they're about seventy one days until the 830 00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 1: mid term elections on November eighth. If you need to 831 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: register or check your voting status, please go to When 832 00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:54,479 Speaker 1: We All Vote dot org. When We All Vote dot Org. 833 00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,600 Speaker 1: Now it's time for the Strawberry Letter. If you need 834 00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, works, parenting, and more, please submit 835 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:05,040 Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click 836 00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:08,240 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 837 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,440 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're going to read this 838 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 1: one right here, right now, and you never know it. 839 00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,839 Speaker 1: Could be yours. That's right, please deal me his time 840 00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 1: for the Strawberry letter with my good friend Shirley Strawbeary, 841 00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 1: thank you my good friend juniors. Subject Did I make 842 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 1: it all up? Dear Stephen Shirley. My boyfriend and I 843 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:31,400 Speaker 1: are in our early thirties and we've been together for 844 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 1: two years. We've been on again, off again for the 845 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 1: past year of our relationship because he gets upset over 846 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,759 Speaker 1: the smallest things. I assumed he was cheating on me 847 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,920 Speaker 1: when we'd argue and not speak to each other. On 848 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,279 Speaker 1: our last breakup, we were apart for a month, so 849 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,760 Speaker 1: I took it upon myself to be the bigger person 850 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,279 Speaker 1: and try to fix things with him. He had been 851 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 1: living with his cousin in a townhouse about five miles 852 00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,799 Speaker 1: from my house. I went by the house and they 853 00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:02,960 Speaker 1: had moved. I called my boyfriend and his phone was 854 00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:06,040 Speaker 1: no longer in service. I got mad all over again, 855 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:09,200 Speaker 1: and I thought he'd taken the games too far this time. 856 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,959 Speaker 1: A few weeks passed and I really missed him, so 857 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,399 Speaker 1: I rode by his mother's house and I didn't see 858 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 1: his car, so I kept going. I noticed that he 859 00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:22,080 Speaker 1: had untagged himself in two group pictures I posted of 860 00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:26,400 Speaker 1: us on my Instagram page. My profile is private because 861 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 1: he doesn't want our love life on social media. He 862 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 1: hates taking pictures and always dodges my phone whenever I'm 863 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: taking selfies or when I try to take pictures with him, 864 00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:41,960 Speaker 1: And now I know why. When he went missing, my 865 00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 1: intuition finally kicked in and I found his ex's Facebook page. 866 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,479 Speaker 1: She lives in another city, and so does he, with 867 00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:55,359 Speaker 1: her and their newborn son. They got married two years ago, 868 00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 1: according to Facebook. That's right around the time I met him. 869 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,840 Speaker 1: I ran to my mother for comfort, but she was 870 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,239 Speaker 1: no help. She said that he gave me signs all 871 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:09,200 Speaker 1: along that he's married. But I made up a fairytale 872 00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,759 Speaker 1: relationship in my head. But he said he loved me 873 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:16,400 Speaker 1: all the time and we had unprotected intercourse. He was 874 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: mine and I was his. How could I possibly make 875 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:24,080 Speaker 1: it all up? What do I do now? Well? I mean, 876 00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:29,560 Speaker 1: you know, what do you do now? I mean you 877 00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: move on with your life And as hard as that sounds, 878 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 1: that's what you have to do. Two words. It's over. 879 00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,879 Speaker 1: It's over. He's married with a newborn. There's nothing else 880 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 1: to discuss. Don't be mad at him, because, like your 881 00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,400 Speaker 1: mom said, he gave you signs all along, but you 882 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,560 Speaker 1: were so disillusioned, so caught up, you made up a 883 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:52,400 Speaker 1: fairytale relationship in your head. You ignored all the red flags. 884 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,600 Speaker 1: We talk about this all the time on this show. 885 00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:58,080 Speaker 1: There are red flags. You cannot ignore them, but you did. 886 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,440 Speaker 1: They were there from the from the very beginning. You 887 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: just made the choice to ignore them. You said, finally 888 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:10,200 Speaker 1: your intuition kicked in and you finally paid attention to 889 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,239 Speaker 1: you know, and you got what he was saying. But 890 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,040 Speaker 1: your mom gave you what you needed in that moment. 891 00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:20,160 Speaker 1: You need it tough love. So you gotta stop calling him, 892 00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 1: stop writing by his mom's house, his old town house. 893 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,240 Speaker 1: You got to stop looking for him on Facebook and stuff. 894 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,160 Speaker 1: You gotta let this stuff go. You gotta let him go. 895 00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,280 Speaker 1: You don't need to talk to him. You don't need 896 00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,520 Speaker 1: to find out what happened. You don't need to get 897 00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 1: any closure. He already gave you that closure when he 898 00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 1: went back to his wife and with his child, So 899 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:43,800 Speaker 1: you need to block him. Anything other than that after 900 00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: what he did is just desperation on your part. And 901 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,320 Speaker 1: trust me, you'll get over this. You will many have 902 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:55,920 Speaker 1: and you will too, Steve, you know this letter is different. 903 00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:59,240 Speaker 1: Did I make it all up? Well? You know what 904 00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 1: I chose to do with this letter, Shirley, was I 905 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:08,960 Speaker 1: decided to talk about what she didn't mention. Okay, because 906 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:14,040 Speaker 1: this letter is full of what she didn't mention. My 907 00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I in our early thirties, and we've been 908 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:21,960 Speaker 1: together for two years. We've been on and off again 909 00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:27,720 Speaker 1: for the past year of our relationship. I've told women 910 00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 1: how many times, Shirley, that men don't do we don't 911 00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 1: do off. No, we own with somebody. If we off 912 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:42,400 Speaker 1: and own with you, it's cause we off with you 913 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 1: because we own somewhere else a schedule. So you've been 914 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,920 Speaker 1: on again, off again for the past year in your 915 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:56,360 Speaker 1: relationship because he gets upset over the smallest things. That's 916 00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:01,360 Speaker 1: just his out. You ain't look at right. Well, he 917 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 1: got to go home and he what you say? That 918 00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,840 Speaker 1: fault in the back of his mind. My wife, don't 919 00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,680 Speaker 1: talk like that. You just let me come and go 920 00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,240 Speaker 1: as I please. I gotta get home. My wife checking 921 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:18,040 Speaker 1: on me. You see what I'm saying. It's what she's 922 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:22,920 Speaker 1: not saying. I assumed that he was cheating on me 923 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:28,040 Speaker 1: when we'd argue and not speak to each other. You 924 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:33,080 Speaker 1: assumed he was cheating on you. Oh, shain't cool. What 925 00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 1: you're not saying is you didn't assume he was cheating 926 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 1: with you on our last breakup. We were apart for 927 00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:45,000 Speaker 1: a month. Yeah, he had to go get it together now. 928 00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: So I take it abon myself to be a bigger 929 00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,520 Speaker 1: person to try to fix it with him. We've been living. 930 00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,560 Speaker 1: He had been living with his cousin in a town 931 00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,720 Speaker 1: house about five miles from my house. I went by 932 00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,760 Speaker 1: the house and they had moved. He never lived at 933 01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:07,360 Speaker 1: He was using his cousin's house. Girl. When I come back, 934 01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:10,280 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you the rest of it. Sheldon 935 01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,160 Speaker 1: already tell you what you needed to do. I'm just 936 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:17,280 Speaker 1: gonna help you get the facts. All right, Steve, We'll 937 01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up at twenty 938 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:23,480 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject did 939 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:27,040 Speaker 1: I Make it All Up? We'll be back right after this. 940 01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, 941 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject did I make 942 01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 1: it all up? Oh? Yeah, your mother told you this, 943 01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:42,400 Speaker 1: but you don't listen. Relationship you're having with a boyfriend 944 01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:45,800 Speaker 1: for two years has been on again, off again for 945 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: the past year. That's I've told women, we don't do off, 946 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,840 Speaker 1: we just do own. If we'll offer you to cast, 947 01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:55,400 Speaker 1: we're own somewhere else. Our last breakup, they broke up 948 01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,120 Speaker 1: for a month, so she took it on herself to 949 01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,280 Speaker 1: be a bigger person to try to fix things with him. 950 01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,320 Speaker 1: He had been living with his cousin in the town 951 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:05,480 Speaker 1: house about five miles from my house. No, he wasn't. 952 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:07,600 Speaker 1: He was going over there for the hook up. There 953 01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 1: was the hook up pan in his cousin's house. He 954 01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 1: wasn't living there. So when you went by, they had moved, 955 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:21,000 Speaker 1: the cousin moved. He back at the house with his wife. Yeah. 956 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 1: I called my boyfriend and his phone was no longer 957 01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:26,720 Speaker 1: in service. He didn't got he didn't had to get 958 01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 1: rid of ever dance. I got married all over again 959 01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:32,400 Speaker 1: and thought he'd taking the games too far this time 960 01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 1: once again, thirty old boyfriend and y'all taking the games 961 01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,360 Speaker 1: too far this time. So you was in a gamesmanship, 962 01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:48,400 Speaker 1: not a relationship. A gamesmanship not a relationship. A few 963 01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:50,960 Speaker 1: weeks past, and I really missed him. So I rode 964 01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 1: by his mama's house and I didn't see his car, 965 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:57,520 Speaker 1: so I kept going. I noticed he had untagged himself 966 01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 1: in two group pictures I had posted of us on Instagram. Yeah. See, 967 01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,000 Speaker 1: he didn't get rid of the phone. He had to untagged. 968 01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:11,680 Speaker 1: He got busted by his wife. My profile is private 969 01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,640 Speaker 1: because he don't want our love life on social media 970 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 1: because his wife will find out. Girl. He hates taking 971 01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:24,160 Speaker 1: pictures and always dodges my phone when I remember I'm 972 01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:28,120 Speaker 1: taking selfish or when I try to take pictures with him. 973 01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:30,760 Speaker 1: He can't be in no picture. He ain't even famous, 974 01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:37,560 Speaker 1: and he doing that right. And now I know why Dan. 975 01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:41,000 Speaker 1: The light bulb went off in Dummy's head when he 976 01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:48,120 Speaker 1: went missing. My intuition finally kicked in. It finally kicked in. 977 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 1: Nor didn't Lady, it been kicking in you, jess ignored. 978 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,560 Speaker 1: Didn't try to make something of that. You've been in 979 01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 1: the own again all of gain relationship for the past year. 980 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:05,280 Speaker 1: He gets upset over the smallest things. Here's your other intuition. 981 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,120 Speaker 1: I assumed he was cheating on me when we'd dog 982 01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,760 Speaker 1: and not speak to each other. All that was intuition. 983 01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,560 Speaker 1: I called my boyfriend's phone and he was no longer 984 01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: in service. I got mad all over again. That was intuition. 985 01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,240 Speaker 1: I thought he'd taking the games too far this time. 986 01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:31,280 Speaker 1: That was intuition. Then he had untagged himself in two 987 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:35,880 Speaker 1: group pictures I posted on my Instagram. That was intuition. 988 01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,280 Speaker 1: Your profile is private because he doesn't want our love 989 01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,560 Speaker 1: on social media. That was intuition. He takes pictures and 990 01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 1: dodges my phone whenever I'm taking selfish where I try 991 01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:50,080 Speaker 1: to take rid of That was intuition. Then she say, 992 01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,800 Speaker 1: and now I know why when he went missing, my 993 01:03:54,040 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: intuition kicked in and I found his Facebook page. She 994 01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:05,640 Speaker 1: lives in another city and soldiers. He with her and 995 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 1: their newborn son. They got married two years ago, according 996 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,480 Speaker 1: to Facebook. That's right around the time I met him. 997 01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,800 Speaker 1: I ran to my mother for comfort, but she was 998 01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:18,040 Speaker 1: no help. She said he gave me all the signs 999 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:20,920 Speaker 1: all along that he was married. But I made up 1000 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:25,160 Speaker 1: a fairy ary relationship in my head. But he said 1001 01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:29,040 Speaker 1: he loved me all the time, and we had unprotected 1002 01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:32,120 Speaker 1: in the course. He was mine and I was his. 1003 01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,680 Speaker 1: How could I possibly make it all up? You just did? 1004 01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:39,440 Speaker 1: You just read this letter to us, and you said 1005 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 1: he was mine and I was his. How could I 1006 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 1: possibly make this up? You tell us your intuition kicked 1007 01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:53,280 Speaker 1: in from the very beginning. You ignored it until later 1008 01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:55,680 Speaker 1: on in the life before you went to his exits 1009 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:58,320 Speaker 1: Facebook page and found out he lived in another city 1010 01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:04,040 Speaker 1: with him and his newborn. Uh, what do I do now? What? Shure? 1011 01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:09,320 Speaker 1: He told you? What do you do now? You got 1012 01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:15,240 Speaker 1: to move on? Yeah? Yeah, you have nothing. You got 1013 01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:19,200 Speaker 1: to move on. He's married, he got a family, he 1014 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:21,920 Speaker 1: lived out of town. You ain't got no phone number 1015 01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:25,520 Speaker 1: on him. You've been untagged. You can't take no pictures 1016 01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:27,760 Speaker 1: with him. He don't want to take pictures with you. 1017 01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:32,600 Speaker 1: He's married. What do I do now? You move on? 1018 01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:38,360 Speaker 1: There's nothing else for you to do. I'm sorry. This 1019 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,680 Speaker 1: is the way it works. Stop writing by his mom's house, 1020 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:45,040 Speaker 1: that's for sure, because mama don't give it to you. 1021 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:56,800 Speaker 1: Just help you. Your mama didn't care, right, His mama 1022 01:05:56,840 --> 01:06:02,200 Speaker 1: could give lessons now interested in her new grand baby. Right? 1023 01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:06,000 Speaker 1: None of the mama's a senior kid. Your old mama 1024 01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:11,240 Speaker 1: didn't kid. No, she told you you made it up. 1025 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 1: It was in your head, a fantasy relation. So stop 1026 01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 1: making up stuff without facts. So what you had unprotected 1027 01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:22,360 Speaker 1: in it? He headed with that other girl too, and 1028 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:27,240 Speaker 1: she got a baby. Brenda got a baby. Nick, Your 1029 01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:32,880 Speaker 1: marvel's up, Go home, play somewhere all right. Post your 1030 01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:35,880 Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM and 1031 01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:38,920 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 1032 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:41,760 Speaker 1: demand coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, 1033 01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:45,480 Speaker 1: Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're listening to 1034 01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:49,840 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Time now for Junior and Sports 1035 01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:52,840 Speaker 1: Talk Junior. What you got all right? All right? Came 1036 01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,600 Speaker 1: to an end up, Man Little League World Series. I 1037 01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:57,280 Speaker 1: don't know if you've been watching that off, Man, I'm 1038 01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:02,120 Speaker 1: watching as much as I can. Man, Curious lost man 1039 01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:05,240 Speaker 1: to Hawaii. Man, I would rule the Curious. Look, them 1040 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:07,439 Speaker 1: little dudes had me happy. Man. The little boys could 1041 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,600 Speaker 1: play boys, bam. But let me tell you that Hawaiian team, 1042 01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:14,720 Speaker 1: that white team, Man, they ain't Joe. They thirteen to three. 1043 01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:18,640 Speaker 1: They lost, Curious I lost to Hawaiian thirteen to three. Man, 1044 01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:20,880 Speaker 1: But you know, it's just it's just good to see 1045 01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:23,560 Speaker 1: them little chats out there, Man from Curious Ound. They 1046 01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:25,680 Speaker 1: had a great tournament. They had a great tournament this year. 1047 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,280 Speaker 1: They was not playing talking about them little dudes get 1048 01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:32,960 Speaker 1: a hit and then curious curiousles in Jerry's small place. 1049 01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:36,439 Speaker 1: Yeah man, they lost. Man also and other sports dudes. 1050 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,560 Speaker 1: Man's just shout out to Rory McElroy. Man. He becomes 1051 01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,480 Speaker 1: the first person to win the Finnish Cup title three times. 1052 01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:46,960 Speaker 1: Wow and unk. The paycheck that go with that is 1053 01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:54,240 Speaker 1: eighteen million. Ye'all watched it came pulling for Roy too. Yeah, yeah, man, 1054 01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,880 Speaker 1: And that's great because no one in our marketing place listens. 1055 01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:01,120 Speaker 1: Took off. So I was shocked that you did golf story. 1056 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:05,120 Speaker 1: But thank you for me. But for the other millions 1057 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:09,400 Speaker 1: of people they could give less. Yeah. They don't even 1058 01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:13,840 Speaker 1: know who Roy Michael Roy is. They don't know from Scotland, Shirley. 1059 01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:16,960 Speaker 1: They have you know who Roy Michael Roy is? No 1060 01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:21,720 Speaker 1: no idea college you know. No, no thanks, Junior. I 1061 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,760 Speaker 1: don't even know why I tell you. I don't know 1062 01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:29,800 Speaker 1: why you about this damn story up Cup. They don't know. 1063 01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,320 Speaker 1: They don't have no clue. But because it was eighteen 1064 01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:39,360 Speaker 1: million playing golf, just they don't, Junior, They don't know 1065 01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Okay, Well I'm just saying, would 1066 01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,400 Speaker 1: you swing a club for eighteen millions? What I'm asking 1067 01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:51,799 Speaker 1: I'm down here swinging it for free. A great story, Junior, 1068 01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:58,280 Speaker 1: swing golf club for eighteen years. Ask damage person what 1069 01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:00,720 Speaker 1: theyre I'm trying to figure out what they won't do 1070 01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:05,760 Speaker 1: for a teen That's all I was just asking. Eighteen me. 1071 01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:10,200 Speaker 1: He don't speaking free, but man, that's a pretty good paycheck. Also, man, 1072 01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 1: we gotta say our prayers are with Brian Robinson. Man, 1073 01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: he's running back for the Washington Commanders. He was shot 1074 01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:20,960 Speaker 1: multiple times in attempted robbery. All um, I mean, he's 1075 01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:24,080 Speaker 1: just a young guy. He's playing for the Washings Commanders 1076 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:27,559 Speaker 1: and all his all of the shooting is none of 1077 01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:31,439 Speaker 1: his life threatening. So we just want to send all 1078 01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:34,559 Speaker 1: of the shootings and none of us like, yeah, it's 1079 01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:36,240 Speaker 1: not it's not life threatening. I mean he just was 1080 01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:39,280 Speaker 1: shot some good times, that's all. So we are praying 1081 01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:44,120 Speaker 1: for his family injuries. He's an injury, so we're praying 1082 01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:46,759 Speaker 1: for his family. Man. That's our sports talk right there today. 1083 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:51,800 Speaker 1: Eighteen me swing that club. Man, get out here, all right, 1084 01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:55,160 Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour, 1085 01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:59,000 Speaker 1: Steve a lie that you're going to be proud of 1086 01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:01,400 Speaker 1: we found this. We'll talk about it right after this. 1087 01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:09,720 Speaker 1: You're listening, well, Steve. We found this letter recently. It 1088 01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:13,200 Speaker 1: was posted on Baller Alert. I think you'll be proud 1089 01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:16,040 Speaker 1: of this letter. I think you'll be proud of this lie. 1090 01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:19,080 Speaker 1: This man wrote this letter to his girlfriend. It's titled 1091 01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:26,439 Speaker 1: to Bay from prison after Valentine's Day? Okay, well, uh, 1092 01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:30,680 Speaker 1: dear Bay, Sorry I missed Valentine's Day and for the 1093 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:34,840 Speaker 1: no call and no show, I got locked up on 1094 01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:39,320 Speaker 1: my day. On my way to your house. To surprise you, 1095 01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:42,920 Speaker 1: I use my only phone call to call my lawyer. 1096 01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:46,360 Speaker 1: I will see you Sunday when they release me. Can 1097 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,439 Speaker 1: you pick me up at Newark Airport? That's where the 1098 01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:53,840 Speaker 1: police dropped me off at because one of them live 1099 01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:57,280 Speaker 1: in Newark and was giving me a ride. If you 1100 01:10:57,400 --> 01:11:01,120 Speaker 1: see some pictures on Facebook, those are old pictures of 1101 01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:05,960 Speaker 1: me in Jamaica before we got together. I love you, 1102 01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:13,240 Speaker 1: your Bay, your boot man. Did that make you dog? 1103 01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm in prison, yeah, but I get out Sunday. Rocket 1104 01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:28,679 Speaker 1: Boy Balatie's death Boy. On his way to her house, 1105 01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:32,080 Speaker 1: I used the one call to call my lawyer, my dad. 1106 01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:36,920 Speaker 1: Can you pick me up at the New York Airport, 1107 01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,760 Speaker 1: though policeman gonna give me a ride there and see 1108 01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:44,040 Speaker 1: any pictures of me on faith. But that was last year. 1109 01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:53,000 Speaker 1: That ain't that ain't where I was. This lie nothing 1110 01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 1: the work, but is damn though the fact that you 1111 01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:04,080 Speaker 1: had the gumption to tell ye, boy, come on, man, 1112 01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:07,720 Speaker 1: say what not tell me what happened? Do you do 1113 01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:13,760 Speaker 1: on the way to her house? I got imprisoned. He 1114 01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:18,719 Speaker 1: in jail, he in prison. See. One of the comments 1115 01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:24,280 Speaker 1: was that is the most creative lie I have ever seen, now, 1116 01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:27,680 Speaker 1: one of them. When you go to prisoner, you've been sentenced, 1117 01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,479 Speaker 1: then you go to jail and await sentencing a way 1118 01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:34,400 Speaker 1: to try. Yeah, but you just went to prison dog. 1119 01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:39,160 Speaker 1: So that that right there is you know, he'd been 1120 01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 1: in jail, just sending for me, one more time, doing it, 1121 01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:48,439 Speaker 1: one more town for me. Hey. So you know what, man, 1122 01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:59,800 Speaker 1: I was baby baby, not the sign blowing crazy. It's crazy. 1123 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:02,360 Speaker 1: I remember when I was, when I when I was 1124 01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:06,720 Speaker 1: supposed to be seeing you on Valentine's Day. Yes, I 1125 01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:09,240 Speaker 1: was waiting for you. So I'm driving and all of 1126 01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:17,280 Speaker 1: a sudden, sound effects is that? And it scared me 1127 01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:22,320 Speaker 1: so bad I slammed on my brakes right, so the 1128 01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:24,599 Speaker 1: car ran up in the back to me. The police 1129 01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:28,120 Speaker 1: car ran up into the back of them, and and 1130 01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,280 Speaker 1: it messed my head up me and I hit my 1131 01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:33,160 Speaker 1: head a little bit, you know, because you know, I 1132 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:36,040 Speaker 1: ain't got no air bags because I disabled them because 1133 01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:39,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. I was reading on sixty minutes how 1134 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:43,760 Speaker 1: they hurt a lot of people, so I went on disable. 1135 01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:46,519 Speaker 1: Now I hit my head on that standing wheel. It 1136 01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:48,800 Speaker 1: kind of made me black out. And they got out 1137 01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:50,760 Speaker 1: the car and they thought I was drunk because I 1138 01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,920 Speaker 1: was woozy from me standing wheel because I disabled the bag. 1139 01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:57,719 Speaker 1: So they arrested me, and then they come to find 1140 01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:00,760 Speaker 1: out they had all these charge just because I had 1141 01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 1: these warrants. The next thing, you know, they had one 1142 01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:06,519 Speaker 1: phone call, so I they had a phone book then there, 1143 01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:08,840 Speaker 1: and so I looked up my lawyer and I called 1144 01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:11,360 Speaker 1: him and that was my only phone call. I couldn't 1145 01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:13,760 Speaker 1: call you because they kept my cell phone. And you'll know, 1146 01:14:13,960 --> 01:14:16,439 Speaker 1: being the cell phone, I ain't never memorize it, you know. 1147 01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:20,360 Speaker 1: I just hit the support person in my life, babe bag, 1148 01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:23,559 Speaker 1: and you know, and then the next thing, you know, man, 1149 01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:26,880 Speaker 1: I was just locked up. I couldn't have the number, man, 1150 01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:32,360 Speaker 1: So I'm getting out Sunday a point pick me up. 1151 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:35,600 Speaker 1: It's gonna be some pictures you see on Facebook, but 1152 01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:39,599 Speaker 1: that's last year. At the same time before I met 1153 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:44,559 Speaker 1: you had all right, we'll have more of the Sea 1154 01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:47,120 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up in twenty minutes after the 1155 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:54,200 Speaker 1: hour right after this you're listening show. All right, this 1156 01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:58,320 Speaker 1: story is crazy. Uh it was a lie of hoax, 1157 01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:01,840 Speaker 1: a prank gone bad. Did you guys see the viral 1158 01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:04,120 Speaker 1: picture of a man who went to McDonald's. I don't 1159 01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:05,960 Speaker 1: know how you missed this when it appeared he had 1160 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,719 Speaker 1: a case of monkey pox. It really did go viral. 1161 01:15:08,760 --> 01:15:12,080 Speaker 1: You guys saw that picture right right, yeah, because it 1162 01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:17,400 Speaker 1: really looked crazy. Yeah, yeah, that one. Uh huh. Well, 1163 01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:20,000 Speaker 1: this guy won on social media to announced it was 1164 01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:25,040 Speaker 1: all a prank to promote his music. You got monkey pock. 1165 01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:28,960 Speaker 1: You went all out, dude. The guy his name is Dwayne. 1166 01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 1: He admits that his marketing scheme didn't go too well 1167 01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,600 Speaker 1: and people were really mad at him for going to 1168 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:38,000 Speaker 1: McDonald's with monkey pox. Even posted the video of the 1169 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:42,599 Speaker 1: whole process of someone painting the fake fake pox on him, 1170 01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:44,920 Speaker 1: and he even took some of the props off to 1171 01:15:45,000 --> 01:15:48,160 Speaker 1: prove it was all a prank. I just think you know, 1172 01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:51,880 Speaker 1: doing way too much? Right, that was way too much. 1173 01:15:52,120 --> 01:16:02,800 Speaker 1: That's what your music really really must Yeah album that 1174 01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:08,040 Speaker 1: boy album? Man, I gotta do something to get somebody 1175 01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:11,080 Speaker 1: want to hear this. I'm no one. I'm tell him 1176 01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 1: I got market pops an album. Why would you do that? 1177 01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:24,760 Speaker 1: His mama don't have his album? Craby, This ain't good. 1178 01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:31,000 Speaker 1: You want to redo this without the monkeybox? Okay? Coming 1179 01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:33,080 Speaker 1: up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play 1180 01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:36,479 Speaker 1: around it. Would you rather right after this you're listening 1181 01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:40,479 Speaker 1: to the Steve Morning Show time now for would you 1182 01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:46,519 Speaker 1: rather would you rather have new picks, your nude picks 1183 01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:50,720 Speaker 1: be leaked to everyone at work? Or would you rather 1184 01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:54,719 Speaker 1: those nude pictures be leaked to everyone at your family gathering, 1185 01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:59,639 Speaker 1: your family reunion or whatever at work or family gathering. 1186 01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:06,080 Speaker 1: IM gonna let y'all see it. Yeah, yeah, that way 1187 01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:22,080 Speaker 1: you know they gonna know one. Yeah you go, yeah, 1188 01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 1: don't don't, all right? Would you rather break out into 1189 01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:35,960 Speaker 1: laughter at a funeral or would you rather break out 1190 01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:40,280 Speaker 1: into laughter at a wedding? Which one funeral? You bust 1191 01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:43,360 Speaker 1: stop laughing. Oh, you should have seen the people here talking. 1192 01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, because my cousin, you know, he 1193 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,920 Speaker 1: was his funeral, but my cousin his partner his bed 1194 01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:51,200 Speaker 1: friends said, you know, I know he ain't hear no more, 1195 01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:58,080 Speaker 1: but he ain't heaven right now, body rocking? Who says 1196 01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:05,000 Speaker 1: that at the funeral? Now, I've been in some funerals 1197 01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:10,200 Speaker 1: since I've been in Holly, laughing, Holly. This lady went 1198 01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:12,720 Speaker 1: up to the cask and was standing there talking to 1199 01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:16,280 Speaker 1: the body and then leaned down to lay her head 1200 01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:21,800 Speaker 1: on the chest, and the lid fell on her. You 1201 01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:23,840 Speaker 1: have seen her ass thinking she was siting to go 1202 01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,960 Speaker 1: with him. You've seen her big ass getting her but 1203 01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:29,360 Speaker 1: she damned and told the lid off the other weight 1204 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:37,240 Speaker 1: I was at the funeral, she told her satin out 1205 01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:41,680 Speaker 1: the top of the snatched so hard, she told her 1206 01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:44,519 Speaker 1: satin at the top of the funeral. The family was 1207 01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:48,639 Speaker 1: sitting over there. I'm mortified. I'm on the other side. 1208 01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:57,400 Speaker 1: I can't breathe. Well, that would laugh, Yeah, I was 1209 01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:05,400 Speaker 1: it now, wheezing her head on you. You know, she 1210 01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:07,479 Speaker 1: tried to lay her head on his chest, like I'm 1211 01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:16,920 Speaker 1: gonna miss you, and she snatched it lead open with 1212 01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:20,360 Speaker 1: a elbow and taul and satting off the top. I 1213 01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:27,840 Speaker 1: was sitting over there on the side. Who okay, all right, 1214 01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:36,400 Speaker 1: that's today's version of grieving that hard alright? Coming up 1215 01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:38,679 Speaker 1: in forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our last 1216 01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:40,360 Speaker 1: break of the day, and of course we'll have some 1217 01:19:40,479 --> 01:19:43,240 Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right 1218 01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:48,439 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Here we are 1219 01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:50,800 Speaker 1: our last break of the day before we get to 1220 01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:55,160 Speaker 1: Steves closing on this Tuesday. This is um Labor Day 1221 01:19:55,200 --> 01:20:00,880 Speaker 1: week right, girl, Yeah? Countdown the Labor Day weekend coming up. Yeah, 1222 01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:03,360 Speaker 1: this is man. This this year we say it all 1223 01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:07,120 Speaker 1: the time. This year is moving. Christmas is tomorrow. It 1224 01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:14,639 Speaker 1: really is, it really is. We got wight Holidays, folks 1225 01:20:14,640 --> 01:20:18,800 Speaker 1: that get here. I know, I know what now we 1226 01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 1: have three yeah what Thanksgiving? It depends on who you are. 1227 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:33,000 Speaker 1: You got Labor Day, yeah, Halloween yeah yeah, and then 1228 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:37,280 Speaker 1: you got to season you got you know, holiday season 1229 01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:47,960 Speaker 1: you got yeah, Christmas oh yeah, Nicle yeahs and Christmas yeah. 1230 01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:51,680 Speaker 1: You know. I was thinking one day, have you ever 1231 01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:55,080 Speaker 1: wondered about this is my closing remarks. So I'm just 1232 01:20:55,200 --> 01:21:00,240 Speaker 1: went through Have you ever wondered about why y'all life 1233 01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:06,240 Speaker 1: hands so many stumbling blocks and pitfalls and troubles? You know, 1234 01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:11,920 Speaker 1: I was talking to myself the healthy day, well not really, 1235 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:14,400 Speaker 1: I was really talking to God and it was kind 1236 01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:17,439 Speaker 1: of and it was funny because I read something I 1237 01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:19,680 Speaker 1: was just asking God about, you know, why I was 1238 01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:24,400 Speaker 1: taking so long for something to happen. And then I 1239 01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:27,960 Speaker 1: got reflective of it, and I started thinking about, hey, man, 1240 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:34,000 Speaker 1: what what is it about my life that's been so 1241 01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:42,599 Speaker 1: so troubling? Why so many troubles? And I've oftentimes at 1242 01:21:42,640 --> 01:21:45,280 Speaker 1: the times I wanted to ask God back then when 1243 01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:48,360 Speaker 1: it was happening to me, why am I going through 1244 01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:51,960 Speaker 1: this so long? I got it. I don't need this 1245 01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:55,320 Speaker 1: lesson no more? You know this living in this car? 1246 01:21:55,560 --> 01:22:00,280 Speaker 1: What I got it? Come on, man, let's make something happen. Happen. 1247 01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:05,080 Speaker 1: Why did these relationships be so disappointing? I got it. 1248 01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,800 Speaker 1: Make something happen. When I look back all on it. 1249 01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:10,960 Speaker 1: And you know what he told me. He sent this 1250 01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:15,519 Speaker 1: to me from from a friend of mine, and the 1251 01:22:15,680 --> 01:22:21,280 Speaker 1: saying said, I asked God why he took me through 1252 01:22:21,360 --> 01:22:26,639 Speaker 1: so many troubled waters? And God's response was because your 1253 01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:34,800 Speaker 1: enemies can't swim, and boy, lever tell you something. It 1254 01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:37,200 Speaker 1: was like I was really having a conversation with God 1255 01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:39,280 Speaker 1: about everything that had happened to me, and I just 1256 01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:42,000 Speaker 1: couldn't and the why of it I was struggling with. 1257 01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:45,160 Speaker 1: And then a friend sent it to me. I'm talking 1258 01:22:45,200 --> 01:22:49,960 Speaker 1: about within minutes and the slogan said, I kept asking 1259 01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:53,080 Speaker 1: God why he keeps taking me through these troubled waters, 1260 01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:59,320 Speaker 1: and God's response was, because your enemies can't swim. He 1261 01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:03,439 Speaker 1: took me out into deep He took me out there 1262 01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:07,840 Speaker 1: where the waves was crashing or and even though I 1263 01:23:07,920 --> 01:23:10,479 Speaker 1: didn't want to be out there, he was with me 1264 01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:14,479 Speaker 1: the whole time. And why he was with me the 1265 01:23:14,560 --> 01:23:18,320 Speaker 1: whole time, my enemies couldn't get to me no more. 1266 01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:22,519 Speaker 1: I was out of reach because I was out there 1267 01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:25,439 Speaker 1: in the trouble zone trouble zone. But I was tucked 1268 01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:31,280 Speaker 1: under the wings of my heavenly Father. And that's why 1269 01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:35,240 Speaker 1: sometimes you have troubles because you put down He put 1270 01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:38,559 Speaker 1: you out there sometimes in a condition, in a set 1271 01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:42,960 Speaker 1: of circumstances where very few people can can can deal with, 1272 01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:47,960 Speaker 1: can relate. I often wonder why they weight on my shoulders. 1273 01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:51,080 Speaker 1: It's so heavy, and I have to come to terms 1274 01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:55,760 Speaker 1: because I'm built for this. I have to understand why, 1275 01:23:57,080 --> 01:23:59,920 Speaker 1: why me, Oh Lord, why does it feel so crushed 1276 01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:02,360 Speaker 1: for me? I'm talking to those of you that have 1277 01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:07,080 Speaker 1: am wondering this sometimes, Oh me, Oh wonder why it's me? 1278 01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:11,800 Speaker 1: Oh Lord? Because you it. You're the one that has 1279 01:24:11,880 --> 01:24:15,800 Speaker 1: the stripth that he can demonstrate his power through. He's 1280 01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:19,720 Speaker 1: using you to show other people what he can do. 1281 01:24:21,439 --> 01:24:24,479 Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about that? Did you ever think, man, 1282 01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:28,240 Speaker 1: that he needed to show you on the ground. So 1283 01:24:28,439 --> 01:24:30,960 Speaker 1: when he picked you up and had you walking again, 1284 01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:35,400 Speaker 1: that was people who saw that who didn't think you'd 1285 01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:39,360 Speaker 1: ever get up again. Don't you understand that there are 1286 01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:42,519 Speaker 1: people in your life who just knew you wasn't gonna 1287 01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,920 Speaker 1: get up again, and God used you to show them. 1288 01:24:47,560 --> 01:24:53,040 Speaker 1: I'm God Almighty, I'm the powerful. I can do the unthinkable. 1289 01:24:54,720 --> 01:24:59,200 Speaker 1: I can make things happen when it seems happenless. That's 1290 01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:03,400 Speaker 1: that God, Man. And so sometimes when you're going through it, 1291 01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:08,519 Speaker 1: understand something. It's because he chose you for it, that 1292 01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:10,320 Speaker 1: he put the test in front of you, because he 1293 01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:14,840 Speaker 1: knows you have the ability to pass it. And that 1294 01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:19,400 Speaker 1: right there, Man explains a lot of my life. That 1295 01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:23,840 Speaker 1: right there can explain a lot of your life. It's 1296 01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:29,200 Speaker 1: tagged you it because you were chosen for this life. 1297 01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:33,920 Speaker 1: You can do it. Why are you the only one 1298 01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:37,320 Speaker 1: in your family ever went to college? Why are you 1299 01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:40,439 Speaker 1: the only one in the family had this then went 1300 01:25:40,560 --> 01:25:45,080 Speaker 1: down this path of the road. I used to be 1301 01:25:45,160 --> 01:25:48,200 Speaker 1: tripping all the time. Lord, I'm tired of swinging this machette. 1302 01:25:48,880 --> 01:25:50,400 Speaker 1: He said, Well, what you you want to go to 1303 01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:53,640 Speaker 1: where everybody else can win? Or you want to keep 1304 01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:55,720 Speaker 1: this machette in your hand and cut this path? I 1305 01:25:55,840 --> 01:26:00,240 Speaker 1: got you on, get your swinging and shut up. So 1306 01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:05,360 Speaker 1: I shut up and I'm swinging nice pad. Appreciate you. Lord. 1307 01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:07,760 Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks that they hope you got 1308 01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:11,160 Speaker 1: something from it. If not, yeah, I see you tomorrow. Hey, 1309 01:26:11,400 --> 01:26:13,800 Speaker 1: talk to God today, y'all. He'd love to hear from you. 1310 01:26:14,040 --> 01:26:22,439 Speaker 1: That's for real, peace for all. Steve Harvey contests no 1311 01:26:22,560 --> 01:26:26,000 Speaker 1: purchase necessary void where prohibited Participants must be legal US 1312 01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:29,600 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For 1313 01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:33,599 Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 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