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Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know me. We all about

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Speaker 1: that high school drama, Girl Drama, Girl, all about them.

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Speaker 2: High school queens, We'll take you for a ride.

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Speaker 3: And our comic girl sharing for the right teams.

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Speaker 4: Drama, Queens, girl Fashion, but your tough girl, you could

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Speaker 1: Girl Drama, Queens, Drama, Queens Drama, Queens Drama, Drahna Queens

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Speaker 4: Hey, everybody, we are back. Thanks for joining us. We're

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Speaker 4: going to do things a little differently today.

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Speaker 3: Hillary would love to share with our listeners. We're keeping

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Speaker 3: people on their toes. Yeah, you know. One of the

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Speaker 3: stipulations of this strike was that we cannot have guests

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Speaker 3: And we thought it was really important that we still included,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, the thing we're the show. We're not

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Speaker 3: discussing the show. The shell remained nameless whenever we have

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Speaker 3: know I've always appreciated is a Pruss questionnaire. If you

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Speaker 3: ever get like Vanity Fair magazine, this is the questionnaire

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, if no one can talk about work

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Speaker 2: and hello, we love iHeart. We're not striking against them.

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Speaker 3: Work, fantastic, Thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: It does feel really important that we figure out a

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Speaker 2: and you know, being able to do this with all

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Speaker 2: Figuring out what SEC wanted us to do this show,

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Speaker 3: So we're going to continue to reminisce just the three

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Speaker 2: We sure are.

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Speaker 3: I love this idea.

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Speaker 3: And normally we played twenty questions. Just for you guys,

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Speaker 3: We're just striking our brains out? How about you?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I just spit on myself when you said that

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Speaker 4: These are questions you never get from journalists and people

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Speaker 4: I'm excited as the dinner party toy.

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Speaker 2: First question is what is your idea of perfect happiness?

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Speaker 5: My idea of perfect happiness? Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: The first thing I work a lot in image, and

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Speaker 5: No, it's irrational. I understand the real bathrooms.

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Speaker 5: But I don't think that has anything to do with this.

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Speaker 5: That's my only memory of a pond.

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Speaker 3: I've ever learned about your dory. My money is that

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Speaker 3: What is your greatest extravagance?

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Speaker 6: Her name was Alena, and her products are called Alena

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Speaker 3: Like it's been twenty minutes, you are allowed to have

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Speaker 2: I can freak out for eleven minutes and then I got.

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Speaker 3: To move on. Sorry, that's so smart.

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Speaker 4: Forty five minutes of wallowing and then no more, We're done.

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Speaker 3: That's grow I like that, all right. What do you

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Speaker 5: Normally people only visit me for three. I'm a little

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Speaker 6: Like my friends have to know that stuff about me

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Speaker 5: And that's okay too, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, just manage the expectations, guys. So three sounds good?

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Speaker 4: I love the way this Christian is praised on what

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Speaker 4: occasion do you lie?

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Speaker 6: Oh oh, when I don't want to make it to

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Speaker 5: Most likely it's good.

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Speaker 3: Oops, i'm having cats in the kitchen. They just have baby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. You can't walk in Michigan. That's

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Speaker 5: I don't have Uber here.

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Speaker 6: I don't have Uber you, guys, I don't have Postmas

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Speaker 4: That was an adjustment for see why dinner?

446
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what is one thing you'll never do again?

447
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 5: I date my heck'.

448
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 3: But here here sky dive.

449
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 5: For sure. I was happy I did it, but I

450
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 5: didn't need to do it again. I was like, I'm good,

451
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 5: now we could tick that off.

452
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 3: Did you say tied die bie dive? Oh, skydive? I

453
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 3: was like, Torri, what did tie die ever do to you?

454
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 3: Skydive's different?

455
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 5: Sky dive.

456
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm glad you did it, but you wouldn't do

457
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 3: it again.

458
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm glad I did it so I could say

459
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 5: I did it.

460
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,439
Speaker 6: I had the experience, but I actually I had a

461
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 6: hard time breathing, Like I feel like it gives it

462
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 6: a pool of water and I couldn't catch my breath,

463
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,360
Speaker 6: like the air get in my mouth. I'm like, this

464
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 6: is not and then I get really motion sick.

465
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 5: So then by the time we were calmed down, I

466
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 5: was like, like just not feeling right. Yeah, it wasn't good.

467
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 4: So haven't you gotta you've done that several times? Right, Yeah,

468
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 4: do you have that same experience?

469
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 2: No, I mean I know what you mean about the pressure,

470
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 2: Like I think I got lucky because the first time

471
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 2: that I went, my instructor was like, just turn, you know,

472
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,399
Speaker 2: turn your head at an angle to the side if

473
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,239
Speaker 2: you're struggling to breathe in free fall. So I just

474
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 2: I kind of got a hot tip. But I I

475
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 2: don't know it does something for me mentally, like if everything,

476
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 2: if the whole world feels like it's on fire or

477
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: things are overwhelming, I'm like, I just got to jump.

478
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:49,920
Speaker 3: Out of an airport.

479
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 2: By the time by the time I'm on the ground,

480
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, everything is gravy.

481
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:54,959
Speaker 3: Life is amazing.

482
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 2: I'm so lucky to be on this planet. What are

483
00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 2: we getting for lunch? Like it's like a mental whole

484
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 2: version of a cold plunge for me.

485
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 5: So yeah, I don't know that's awesome.

486
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 6: I yeah, I mean I I intellectually understand that. I

487
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 6: that doesn't have that effect on me.

488
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 3: It's not for you.

489
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's so cool.

490
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 6: I love that.

491
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 3: It's cool to say that you've done it, But I

492
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 3: don't get motion sickness like that to be nauseous in

493
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 3: the air.

494
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 2: I don't that sounds like a nightmare. Oh god, I

495
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: would pass also in.

496
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 3: That my dad. My dad used to say this thing.

497
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 3: He'd be like, well, there's only so many ticks in

498
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 3: the ticker, which meant like you only have so many heartbeats,

499
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 3: and like you really want to waste him on that,

500
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 3: you like, it was always like only get so many

501
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 3: Skytime's one of those where I'm like, I spent my

502
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 3: ticks on that seems scary, scary.

503
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: I also feel like and I'm curious, like you know,

504
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: for us versus like for the two of you. I

505
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 2: don't think that one I have kids, I would ever

506
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 2: do that again, like y'ah children, Like, yeah, it feels insane.

507
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't even like the hot air have you

508
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: goes down hot air balloons? Bro, I don't drive at night,

509
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, yeah, probably someone drinking and driving right now. Stay,

510
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god, exactly.

511
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 4: I had an ex boyfriend or had a boyfriend once

512
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 4: who yes, he is an ex boyfriend. Anyway, what's the

513
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 4: point of the story, joy, Yeah, So, but I remember

514
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 4: he had scheduled this hot air balloon ride for us,

515
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 4: and he told me late that night it was for

516
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 4: very early.

517
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 3: The next one.

518
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 4: He was like, get ready, we have to wake up

519
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 4: really early in the morning because I'm taking you.

520
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 3: On a hot alone.

521
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, no, you're not so mad.

522
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 4: He still brings it up when we see each other

523
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 4: as a joke now, but for some reason it was like,

524
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 4: that's another conversation for another day. But the idea is

525
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,479
Speaker 4: that you can't, especially once you have kids. I'm not

526
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 4: getting in a basket that's going up into the sky

527
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 4: and controlled by some guy holding a lever to make

528
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 4: the fire go and on fire, Yeah, on fire, I

529
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 4: don't do.

530
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 3: I gotta sign a waiver for Nope. Okay, that was

531
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 3: a good question. All right, torys Ever jumping out of

532
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 3: a plane again. What is the strangest purchase you've made?

533
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 5: Oh, the strangest purchase?

534
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, mm hmmm.

535
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 4: I want to know.

536
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 3: Hillary's answer to this ques like something dead or you know,

537
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 3: body parts, poor choices.

538
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I really don't even know.

539
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 6: I mean hmm, I mean guess being at the farming

540
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 6: by weird things like I had like a little mouse

541
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 6: situation last year and obviously don't want to kill them.

542
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 5: So I bought these like little balls that were supposed

543
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 5: to be like smell repellence for them.

544
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 6: Oh no, And what's stranger than the purchase is more

545
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 6: the reviews that we're on because everyone's like, I put

546
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 6: them in my car like glove box.

547
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 5: They don't smell that bad, you guys. I went out

548
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 5: of town for a week. I came back. It took

549
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,199
Speaker 5: over a year for the smell to get out of

550
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 5: my house.

551
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 6: It smelled like spearmint mixed with rotten garlic. It was

552
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 6: disgusting and it lingers. And I'm like, who are these

553
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 6: people that have it in their car and said that

554
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 6: they enjoy the smell.

555
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 5: I want to meet Suy. I want to meet them.

556
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 5: Yeah that was weird.

557
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, gross?

558
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,719
Speaker 4: Who are your favorite writers? It's just a total pivot

559
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 4: in another direction, like book writers, Yeah, could be short form,

560
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 4: could be journalists, could be book writers? Songwriters? For your

561
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 4: favorite writers?

562
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 5: Well, I love reading, so book writers.

563
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 6: I feel like Zadie Smith had like a very like

564
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 6: flow to her, and it just it's easy to read,

565
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 6: and it just really like paints this picture and it

566
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 6: goes and I feel like all the classics have that,

567
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 6: and nowadays sometimes. I mean, don't get me wrong, I

568
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 6: love like contemporary books, but a lot of times I

569
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 6: feel like it's just like you're trying to be overwitty

570
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 6: or you're trying to just use every sat where you've

571
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 6: ever known, and you just stop and I'm like, we

572
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 6: don't need to overcomplicate this, and I just like so

573
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 6: I like the old love like and I also love

574
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 6: Chuck Palinik. I went through like a whole thing, and

575
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 6: then I reread some of the short stories I read

576
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 6: during that time, and I was like, it was very influenced,

577
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 6: not barely it's good, but very influenced.

578
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

579
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 6: So I think those are like a couple of my favorites. Yeah,

580
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 6: I'm trying to think if there's anyone I read consistently.

581
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 6: But I like Tom Robbins a lot.

582
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, daneil gave me Tom Robins books and we

583
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 3: were doing what, uh, what is another roadside attraction? Was that? It? No? Okay,

584
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 3: what was it?

585
00:27:59,240 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 4: I don't know.

586
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 5: Jennerbug Perfume is my favorite. It's so interesting.

587
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 6: I like when it's like interesting but not too complicated,

588
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 6: where you're like, what am I reading right now?

589
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?

590
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 6: Yeah?

591
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 3: Oh, I see no, it was it was even Cowgirls

592
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 3: Get the Blues. Oh okay, and then I read another

593
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:19,120
Speaker 3: roadside attraction. Yeah, dude, I think he's Daniel's favorite writer too.

594
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 3: She loves it really.

595
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's awesome.

596
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys have a similar vibe. You're both girls

597
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 3: with the crystols next to your bed.

598
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 6: Yeah.

599
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 5: You surely met her. I mean i've met her.

600
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 3: You guys haven't crossed over.

601
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 5: Not really, I've met her. I don't know her. We

602
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 5: never worked together, we never, like, yeah, we never.

603
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 4: We need to get you guys at a dinner table together.

604
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

605
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to get the five of us and

606
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: a couple of bottles of wine and go.

607
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, so fun.

608
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: Okay, another pivot. What is your greatest regret?

609
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, for all the people listening, please, it's just sitting

610
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 3: into the deep end of the pool. You can say bangs,

611
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 3: it doesn't have to be deep.

612
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 5: Yeah. Oh my god, my god, you're kidding me.

613
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: Every time.

614
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 6: My greatest regret, well, as of late, my dog just

615
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 6: got an eye infection and I didn't read the box

616
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 6: right and I was supposed to be giving him his

617
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 6: antibiotic three times a day and I only give it

618
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 6: one and his eye that used to look like a

619
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 6: cataract zombie now looks like a bright red zombie. And

620
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 6: I have to take him back to the VAT and

621
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 6: I feel like bad mom. And I regretted so much

622
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 6: that I just didn't read the fine print that's on me.

623
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 6: And I have deep regret for that because he's old

624
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 6: and he deserves to feel good.

625
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 3: And I feel like a bad mom. I mean, bright

626
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 3: red sounds better than cloudy?

627
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 6: Right?

628
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 3: Is it a step in the right direction? A little?

629
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 6: It's scary, it's scary, but you know, yeah, yeah, poor

630
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 6: little guy or baby.

631
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: Yeah right, here's another dark one. Geez, we might have

632
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 3: to split these dark ones up. U. What is something

633
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 3: you really dislike.

634
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 6: When people are eating and you can see the like

635
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 6: spit string when they're.

636
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 3: The stalagtite stalagmite spit.

637
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 6: I can't do it, and I yeah, it's a problem.

638
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 6: And it's actually the one thing that I've worried about

639
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 6: becoming a mom myself, Like when the kids get the

640
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 6: like globs of stuff everywhere, Like I can handle blood

641
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 6: all those things, but that like I dislike it so much,

642
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 6: And then it makes me weird because somebody's having a

643
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 6: conversation with me and it's happening. I don't want to

644
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 6: be rude and be like you have and I'm like, huh,

645
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 6: and then I start distracting myself and looking.

646
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 5: Every which way, and then I feel like this girl.

647
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 6: Has lost her mind, and I'm like, I just can't

648
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 6: look at you, and I can't look at you so much.

649
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hate that when you're in a conversation and

650
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 4: you have to strategize when you're gonna look at the person,

651
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 4: when you're gonna look down at your food. You're like,

652
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 4: I'm trying to listen to you, but also definitely can't

653
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 4: look at you. So I have to make this feel

654
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 4: real conversation and only look up when I know that

655
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 4: you've swallowed so that I don't have to deal.

656
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 2: So awkward. And it's terrible when it's someone who you're

657
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: not close enough to to go do you have a

658
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 2: really gross thing happening on your face?

659
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 3: Like? Can I just help you?

660
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: When it's a new person, you're like, do I say it?

661
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 3: I know not, which is the lesser of two evils?

662
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 6: And then some people just accumulate more just their mouths

663
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 6: and that's fine, and so sometimes you're like, I don't

664
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 6: want to comment on it, because what if it's just

665
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 6: the way they chew and eat, Like, can I really

666
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 6: say something about something how they about how they fundamentally

667
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 6: are Yeah.

668
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 3: Like is it the positioning of their molars? Like something they.

669
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 6: Know or says that and they forever think about it

670
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 6: or have an insecurity about it. I actually once had

671
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 6: to remove myself from a dinner table and started dry

672
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 6: heaving in the bathroom and I was like, tell my

673
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 6: appetite and my mom was like, honey, you got to

674
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 6: get over this.

675
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 5: You're so weird. And I was like, I don't know,

676
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 5: I just yeah, I dislike it.

677
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 4: So but also, it wouldn't happen if people chewed with

678
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 4: their mouth closed like they're supposed to.

679
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, you were on the right side of that one.

680
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 4: Sis you say, wants as in your round? No, thank you?

681
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 3: That's the title of this episode. Okay, here's here's a

682
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 3: good one. This is a nice shift.

683
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 4: What or who is the greatest love of your life?

684
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 6: Oh?

685
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 5: My gosh, so many. I mean right now, my two

686
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 5: year old niece.

687
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 6: And my sister just got a job, so I've been

688
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 6: on fool nanny duty like literally like five days a

689
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 6: week and spending all the time with her, and there's

690
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 6: like obviously there's like as you guys know, being around

691
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 6: young kids, there's like a level of but it's so

692
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 6: beautiful and she makes me see things through such a

693
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 6: different lens and it's like I.

694
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 5: Don't even know, I just adore. I just look at herself.

695
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 6: Like sometimes when I'm away from her, I just look

696
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 6: at videos and stuff and I'm like obsessed. I can't

697
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 6: beat my sister, who I love so much. She's always

698
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 6: been one of the loves of my life. Too, is

699
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 6: like had this.

700
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 5: Little baby that has her eyes and I'm like, just.

701
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 3: I love her. What's she into right now? I missed too?

702
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: Two is fun just like a fun phrase because they

703
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 3: could do tricks, but they also still love you.

704
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 6: Yes, and they say things so funny too, do you

705
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 6: know what I mean the way they say Like she'll

706
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 6: she's just like I'll be like, do you want to

707
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 6: do this?

708
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 5: She like yup, yup, yup, And I'm like, who told

709
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 5: you how to say yeah? Like where did that come from?

710
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 3: Ye?

711
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

712
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 5: I okay that you know, like yep yep.

713
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 6: She's into mermaids and snails and then she likes to

714
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 6: put that together and has you draw snail Mermaids God,

715
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 6: which I think is a right convention.

716
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 3: How is this not a kid's TV show already?

717
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 5: Right, Snail Morman, it's the strike.

718
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 3: The strike is a run.

719
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 4: That's right, That's right.

720
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 5: Exactly, Okay?

721
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 2: When and where were you happiest?

722
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 6: I actually probably, and I say ironically because I think

723
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 6: to a lot of my friends that are still like

724
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 6: in La or New York or whatever, They're like, where's

725
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 6: the closest Whole Foods to you? And I'm like, at

726
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 6: the time, it was Chicago two hours away, and now

727
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 6: it's closer, it's an hour away, and they're like, no, no,

728
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 6: could never live there.

729
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 5: But I think, like just now, like now.

730
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 6: I've always craved a slower pace, but I didn't know

731
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 6: how to do it given the industry that we've always

732
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 6: been in. And being able to finally do it, I

733
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 6: feel so common, so happy.

734
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,240
Speaker 5: So I get in Michigan and now.

735
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 3: Oh, babe, you deserve that.

736
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 5: Thank you you.

737
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 3: All right?

738
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 7: Well, while you're living in Shangri La, learning all sorts

739
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 7: of new farming tips and living your best life, which

740
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 7: talent would you most like to have?

741
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I wish I could like Mariah carey

742
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 6: sing that would be or enjoying. Let's just say, like, honestly,

743
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 6: I would give anything. I do it all the time

744
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 6: in my house, in my car, but I just.

745
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 5: I can't because I would have I would never even.

746
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:43,240
Speaker 6: Gone towards film. I just would have gone straight to Broadway.

747
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm here, all.

748
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 3: Right, and I can't and it me. But did you

749
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 3: ever like do like chorus or drama like musical theater

750
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: in high school and stuff?

751
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 5: No?

752
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 6: No, I actually feel like I can hold a tune

753
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 6: more now because I've just forced it so and so finally,

754
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 6: like at almost forty, my voice is like maybe we

755
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 6: could if somebody like tuned you right in a movie.

756
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 5: No, I never did it on stage or anything. Oh

757
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 5: I wish.

758
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 6: I can't even imagine what that must feel like to

759
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 6: just stand up and have it come out right like, oh,

760
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 6: it's the best the joy.

761
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 3: Literally literally we see what you literally joy do you have?

762
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 4: I mean, not to break away from the questionnaire, but

763
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 4: totally break away from the questionnaire. Do you have something

764
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 4: in your life that makes you feel like when you

765
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 4: you just like, this is it? I it so feel

766
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 4: so good, it's so easy. It's just this is where

767
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 4: I belong.

768
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you know.

769
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 4: That feeling that you're talking about, imagining what it must

770
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 4: feel like to saying like what in your life does

771
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 4: that mean?

772
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 5: You know, it's funny, it's not.

773
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 6: It's not performing ironically because I get so much like

774
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 6: anxiety and stage right and I love it because I

775
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 6: always love the final product and I love doing it.

776
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 5: But it just hypes me up so much, so I'm

777
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 5: like ugh.

778
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 6: When I started, like hospice work, being in that space,

779
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 6: I remember walking away and being like, oh my god,

780
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 6: this totally makes me feel like I'm doing something that

781
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 6: I really feel common and I like centered because it

782
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 6: makes me feel like I'm a part of like a

783
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 6: different kind of birthing process with somebody as they're dying,

784
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 6: and like that was like the first time I think

785
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 6: I ever felt like, oh wow, I'm so good at

786
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,479
Speaker 6: this and like but it just belonged. I belong here,

787
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 6: like it doesn't you know. I get why sometimes it

788
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 6: might affect someone differently or whatever. Like I just felt like, ah,

789
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 6: Like I walked away feeling like okay, like this is

790
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 6: a light for me, like a light.

791
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 3: How long have you been doing that? Yeah?

792
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 6: So I actually started doing it when I met the

793
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 6: three of you during that time.

794
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 5: I yeah, I was just looking for some it actually

795
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 5: like it found me kind of.

796
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 6: I did a random Google search, not even for hospice,

797
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 6: and hospice came up and I was like, what is this.

798
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 6: I didn't even know what it was, and so I

799
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 6: started doing it and I just loved it.

800
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 5: And now I'm that kind of.

801
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 6: Like took a slowed down during COVID because you couldn't

802
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 6: be in person, and I liked doing impatient care.

803
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 5: And so now the COVID's over, I'm like, Okay, do I.

804
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 6: Want to find another hospice in Michigan and redo the

805
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 6: training and all that kind of stuff.

806
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 5: Or I've actually been thinking about getting my death dual certificate.

807
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 3: Oh my Tori, I had no idea.

808
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 2: That's incredible.

809
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I think that's the next step.

810
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 6: I think, but it's like that thing is, it's on

811
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 6: the to do list, so we shall get there.

812
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:35,919
Speaker 5: When we get there.

813
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 3: You are blowing my mind right now, Like that is

814
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 3: God's work. That is like you have to have It's

815
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 3: like law enforcement when you're dealing with heavy subject matter,

816
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 3: like you have to have a very specific personality. And

817
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 3: I totally applaud that you jumped into that because that is,

818
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 3: you know, for a lot of people, a dark chapter,

819
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 3: and you may get better for people.

820
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 5: Thank you. That's very sweet. It's weird. It's like sometimes

821
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 5: you know, like you got to wonder.

822
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 6: I don't know, you know, maybe path lives exist, maybe

823
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 6: they don't, whatever, But it's like, why do we fit

824
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 6: certain gloves that other people don't.

825
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 5: I don't know, you know what I mean.

826
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 6: I don't feel like it's something that I can say like, oh,

827
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 6: I chose to do this, so whatever. I feel like

828
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 6: it chose me and for whatever reason, it fits and great,

829
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 6: but it's not for everybody.

830
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 5: And I get that, you.

831
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 6: Know what I mean.

832
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 2: But also what a special calling because it's such an

833
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 2: important part of the human life cycle and so many

834
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: people shy away from it. Death makes so many people uncomfortable,

835
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: big emotions, you know, sitting with people's pain makes a

836
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: lot of people uncomfortable. And so I think, if it's

837
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 2: something that you're capable of doing, it's such a gift.

838
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, And that's really sweet, amazing.

839
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if they' be related, but it

840
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: feels like not an accident, that this is the next question,

841
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 2: what do you consider your greatest achievement?

842
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 5: That's interesting.

843
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 6: I don't know, because I feel like there's so many

844
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 6: different categories of achievements, you know, Like I feel like just.

845
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 5: The fact that we have all done what we do

846
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 5: for so long and still have so much light and

847
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 5: love to you know, not broken yet, not broken yet,

848
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 5: and I'm over far. We're kind of good. You guys

849
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 5: did it?

850
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 6: Like that's such an achievement, you know. But yeah, just

851
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:40,399
Speaker 6: I think like.

852
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 5: Just navigating this life, this career.

853
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 6: You know, we've gone through all individually, so many things,

854
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, friendships, you know, friend breakups,

855
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 6: real breakups, family stuff, death things, you know, environmental things,

856
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 6: worldly things, so many things.

857
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 5: And I just feel like getting up each day and choosing.

858
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 6: To have a positive attitude and looking at it like

859
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 6: you can turn a palace into a prison or a

860
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 6: prison into a palace, and today I'm making it all

861
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 6: a palace. Like that is such an achievement in itself.

862
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 6: And I feel like we don't like pat ourselves on

863
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 6: the back enough just for making.

864
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 5: It through the day.

865
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 4: So yeah, especially for people who want to be hyper productive,

866
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 4: it seems like no matter what we accomplished, there's still

867
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 4: something that we're just looking at ourselves like, well, didn't

868
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 4: do this, this and this. It's so hard to turn

869
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 4: around and go, yeah, but look at all the things

870
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 4: I did do today.

871
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 6: Yes, it's like it's just you're always climbing the mountain

872
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,399
Speaker 6: and to just like stop and put up the tent

873
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 6: for a second and go on a hill and.

874
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 5: Look at all.

875
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 3: Put a timer on it again. Yeah, that's it, she

876
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 3: put a timer on the day done. I'm celebrating what

877
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 3: I did and love this.

878
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 5: Nobody bothered me. I'm celebrating.

879
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 3: I'm using this. I have learned things. Okay, Uh, if

880
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 3: you were to die and come back as a person

881
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 3: or a thing, what would it be?

882
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 5: Oh, I don't think I'd want to come back as.

883
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 3: A thing or like an animal or tree you could get.

884
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't trust other people enough to come back

885
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 5: as an animal.

886
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 3: That's smart. I well two kind of things.

887
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 6: Like I always felt like when I die in this life,

888
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 6: I want to be buried as like a mushroom or

889
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 6: a cherry tree or something, do you know what I mean?

890
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 3: Yeah?

891
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 6: But if I actually could be reincarnated something, oh my gosh,

892
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 6: I'd come back as like I don't know like gretitune versusthing,

893
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, Like someone's so much more

894
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 6: interesting than me. That's like really knocking off that to

895
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 6: do list of things that we need to do, you know.

896
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that checks. She's lived a lot of lifetimes.

897
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:04,479
Speaker 5: You've lived a lot of lifetimes for sure, for sure. Yeah.

898
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 3: I was still playing with barbies when I was her age. Man,

899
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 3: I'm just I know that the moxie.

900
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 5: Riding my bike till the street lights came on. That

901
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 5: was my biggest worry.

902
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, all right, so you're gonna come back

903
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 3: as a do gooder. Yeah. The hospice thing was definitely

904
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 3: a past life thing, Tori. There's a pattern here.

905
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 5: I see what's going I could see that.

906
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 6: I could see that definitely, Yeah, because it felt so

907
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 6: natural too, And I feel like when things just fit

908
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 6: and it's just like, oh, I've done this, I've been

909
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 6: here before.

910
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 3: This is the light for me.

911
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 5: Then it's yeah, there's something connected to it for sure.

912
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 4: Yeah. Okay, So if you could change one thing about yourself,

913
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 4: what would it be.

914
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 5: I would probably change.

915
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 6: I feel like I can be like I feel like

916
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 6: we all fall into this like hypercritical of myself or

917
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 6: like we talked about like not feeling like I'm doing

918
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 6: enough or you know what I mean, or you know,

919
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 6: if my pants are too tight that day. Even though

920
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 6: I'm like I look at my sister and my my

921
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 6: my friends, I don't always like everyone's I could find

922
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 6: something beautiful about anybody except for myself sometimes, and you.

923
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 5: Know that's frustrating.

924
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 6: I wish I could change that, because it's like to

925
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 6: wake up and just feel comfortable in who you are

926
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 6: all the time would be such like there's so many

927
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 6: other things to worry about, and then you have that

928
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 6: battle with yourself. You're like, well, I don't want to

929
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 6: live in that like space where I'm so hyper aware

930
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 6: of myself, like why do I feel this way?

931
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 5: And then you continue to beat yourself up more over it.

932
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 6: So I guess just that like hyper critical you know

933
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 6: self that I feel like we all have. I don't

934
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 6: think I've ever met somebody that doesn't have that.

935
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 3: No, our generation with all we grew up with, you know,

936
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 3: like we watch commercials our whole lives that were like girl,

937
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 3: really such a.

938
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, here's all the ways you're inadequate, and here's all

939
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 4: the things we can I offer you to fix it.

940
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: All the things will try to sell you, so you

941
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 2: hate yourself a little less. Congratulations and it's free. Yeah, exactly, Okay,

942
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 2: I think we know, but maybe it is somewhere else.

943
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 3: Who knows. Where would you most like to live?

944
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:19,720
Speaker 5: Michigan?

945
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 3: I love it.

946
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 5: I love it so much. I have the farm.

947
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 6: And then my boyfriend and I actually just got a

948
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 6: place together and it is built in nineteen sixteen. So

949
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,959
Speaker 6: I met her there are.

950
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: Wow.

951
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 6: So I'm just like, yeah, I just.

952
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 5: Love I love Michigan.

953
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is.

954
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 6: I have such a soul talk about other lives. I

955
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 6: have such a soul connection to Lake Michigan and Michigan

956
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 6: as state.

957
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 5: I don't know why. I don't know where it came from,

958
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 5: but it's here, and so yeah, I don't think i'd

959
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 5: live anywhere else.

960
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 3: Dollie, this is such good news, man.

961
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 5: I love this for you.

962
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 3: All Right, we've arrived at our twenty third question, and

963
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 3: so we would love to know what is your most

964
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 3: treasured possession?

965
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 6: Gosh, because I have like three that came to mind.

966
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 6: So I'm trying to see. I got a three, which

967
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 6: one was my most treasured?

968
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 5: I have this clock in my house that's mounted on

969
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 5: my wall, and it's one that you have to wind up.

970
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 6: And my parents when they met, they I came around

971
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:28,800
Speaker 6: three months later, and they knew they were going to

972
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 6: be together and they wanted to live together. And they

973
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 6: met while they were traveling, and so it was known

974
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 6: that my mom was going to go live with my

975
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 6: dad in New York. And before they got a house

976
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 6: and before they went there, and within the first three

977
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 6: months of their relationship, they bought a clock together.

978
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 5: And I was like, what is the all I don't

979
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 5: understand that that reasoning.

980
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 6: It's like, we don't have a home yet, but this

981
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 6: clock that's about this big makes sense to buy. And

982
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 6: I have this little plaque on the inside that my

983
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 6: mom had written that like something like like our love liberty,

984
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 6: our time, our love will is timeless or something like that,

985
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 6: which they're not togethered anymore, so that's fine, but I

986
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 6: still have it, and I love it so much, and like,

987
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 6: I just think it's so funny. I'm like, yeah, my

988
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 6: parents bought that clock before they had a home. We're

989
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 6: just meeting each other, and I love it. It's just

990
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,720
Speaker 6: like a little part of history that hangs in my kitchen.

991
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 3: That's so romantic beautiful.

992
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that.

993
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 3: Oh man, this has been fun. I would have never

994
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 3: known half of this stuff. I feel like I have

995
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 3: so many more questions now I'm just busting yay. Yeah, yeah, Tori,

996
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 3: this has been awesome. Are there any partied words that

997
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 3: you want to share with the audience regarding like the

998
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 3: strike or our business or what your hopes are for

999
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 3: our industry.

1000
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 6: My hopes, as I think are with a lot of people,

1001
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 6: is that things will just come out fair, not that

1002
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 6: hard to be fair and take care of people. So

1003
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 6: that's my hopes with this strike, that you know, the

1004
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 6: greed will die down and the kindness and fairness will

1005
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 6: kind of like start building its way back up.

1006
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 5: And yeah, just to everybody, keep keep doing your thing.

1007
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:24,439
Speaker 6: It's rough out there, but wake up, turn the turn

1008
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 6: the prison into a palace, and just keep breathing.

1009
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:29,760
Speaker 4: You're the best things, Torri.

1010
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for being here.

1011
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 6: Love seeing your coming, honey, Yay, We'll see you soon,

1012
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 6: you soon, guys.

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