Speaker 1: Second, it always sucks when you meet somebody and you
Speaker 1: hit it off, like texting back and forth. Everything seems cool,
Speaker 1: and then they just sort of fade away and you're like,
Speaker 1: what did I do wrong to meet somebody else? Did
Speaker 1: I say something weird? And you like check your text
Speaker 1: over and over again, You're like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: put dot dot dot when I should have put a comma.
Speaker 1: I just started thinking about it too much, like what
Speaker 1: did I say. It's even worse when that person actually
Speaker 1: texts you and says, hey, don't text me anymore. And
Speaker 1: that's what happened to Jake, who is on the phone
Speaker 1: with us right now. Jake, what's up? How are you hey?
Speaker 1: How's it going good? So the girl that you want
Speaker 1: us to call today actually said don't call me anymore? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she did? Okay? And did anything happen leading up to
Speaker 1: that that you can think of where she just all
Speaker 1: of a sudden said it. I really don't know. I've
Speaker 1: gone over everything a million times. She just one day
Speaker 1: just said I need you to stop texting me. And
Speaker 1: that was that. That was the last I heard of her.
Speaker 1: First of all, why don't you explain Lane, who this
Speaker 1: girl is? Who do you want us to call today.
Speaker 1: Her name is Isabella Isabella. She's a friend of a friend.
Speaker 1: I met her at a party at my place, and
Speaker 1: she's just amazing. She had great hair, great, she's like
Speaker 1: the perfect tight I'm not I'm not a really particularly
Speaker 1: tall guy, but what is the perfect height. I like
Speaker 1: women who are a little on the short side, like
Speaker 1: five five foot five one something like that. And yeah,
Speaker 1: right there. If you're a short dude, most of the
Speaker 1: time you like somebody's smaller than you. Me. I personally
Speaker 1: like women who are taller than me because I think
Speaker 1: it's funny when they have to bend down to kiss me.
Speaker 1: But that's just me. So you met her at your
Speaker 1: house at a party you hung out that night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she came in with a bunch of my friends and
Speaker 1: I immediately just made a bee line for her and
Speaker 1: just you know, out of my friends, and then I
Speaker 1: introduced myself and we just started talking and were you
Speaker 1: somewhat sober or were you guys pretty sloppy by the
Speaker 1: end of the evening. I wasn't too drunk. I was
Speaker 1: a little tipsy, but she was pretty drunk at the
Speaker 1: end of the night, and by the whole I you
Speaker 1: mean the whole night. So yeah, I mean she got
Speaker 1: there around like ten and then the party started winding
Speaker 1: down around Jake in the morning. Jake, I didn't ask
Speaker 1: really how long she was there. I was asking if
Speaker 1: you did her, did you guys? Guys? I mean, this
Speaker 1: is not the kind of girl that would happen with.
Speaker 1: This is the kind of girl I would take home
Speaker 1: to my mom. Did she stay at your place? She did? Actually,
Speaker 1: she asked if she could crash in my apartments. So
Speaker 1: I set up my couch, you know, asked her. You know,
Speaker 1: here's here's my couch. You can have a blanket, and
Speaker 1: here's a pillow, and if you know, I've asked her
Speaker 1: she wanted anything else, but she then she said she
Speaker 1: wanted to if it was possible to sleep in my room,
Speaker 1: in my bed with me, and you of course said
Speaker 1: yes to that. Well yeah, and nothing happened between you two,
Speaker 1: nothing really, I mean we just ended up kind of
Speaker 1: cuddling a little bit, and you know, we kissed a
Speaker 1: little bit, but that was it. Nothing ever happened. I
Speaker 1: have nothing but respect for this woman. She's perfect. So
Speaker 1: she obviously liked you and have to follow up with
Speaker 1: you after that night. How did your text conversations go
Speaker 1: before she stopped talking to you? Well, at first they
Speaker 1: were pretty they were nice. You know, we're just talked
Speaker 1: about stuff we talked about that night in here and
Speaker 1: there and then and then over time as we text
Speaker 1: each other a little bit more. After a few days,
Speaker 1: she just started not texting as much, and then they
Speaker 1: started feeling a little cold. And then she just said,
Speaker 1: I think you just stopped texting me. What was the
Speaker 1: last thing you had sent to her before she cut
Speaker 1: you off? All I did was ask her if she
Speaker 1: wanted to hang out this weekend, and that's when she said,
Speaker 1: stop texting me. Yeah? How much we how much were
Speaker 1: you texting her? I mean we were texting each other
Speaker 1: pretty often. I mean in the the beginning it was maybe
Speaker 1: one Jake, Jake. I didn't ask how much you were
Speaker 1: texting each other. How much were you texting her? A lot?
Speaker 1: Let's just say a lot, all right? You think it's
Speaker 1: too much? Or do you think there's anything that you
Speaker 1: said in any of your text messages. I guarantee you've
Speaker 1: read over all of them by now. If you're wondering
Speaker 1: why she told you to stop texting her, I didn't
Speaker 1: say anything offensive. I didn't say anything that could be
Speaker 1: even remotely controversial. So I don't know. I really I
Speaker 1: really don't know. I mean, and there's no interaction you've
Speaker 1: had outside of texting, like say, on Facebook. You don't
Speaker 1: have anything super offensive up there that she could have disliked. No,
Speaker 1: I really don't think i'd do anything wrong. I mean,
Speaker 1: I listened to you guys all the time. I know
Speaker 1: what people have done wrong in the past. I'm not
Speaker 1: the kind of guy that you're not withholding any weird
Speaker 1: information from us, are you, Because that's usually what else
Speaker 1: can you sound like? Just a generally nice guy? Maybe
Speaker 1: for them thinking about it too much, But maybe that's it,
Speaker 1: you know, the whole. Because I couldn't throughout the night,
Speaker 1: I just couldn't say no to her. I just brought
Speaker 1: her drinks. I brought her, I just brought things over
Speaker 1: to her. I just said pretty much yes to everything.
Speaker 1: Yes you can stay on my place. Yes you can
Speaker 1: stay in my bed a little bit of a dormat
Speaker 1: you think maybe yeah, yeah, the next time offer to
Speaker 1: get her a drink, go get it for and then
Speaker 1: drink it right in front of her. It's pretty good.
Speaker 1: You might want to go get your own all right, man,
Speaker 1: we're gonna play I saw come back, see if we
Speaker 1: can get her on the phone and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, all right, all right, man, hang on
Speaker 1: frooking Jubil in the morning. Jake, I think I figured
Speaker 1: out what your problem is. What's that? Well, you're having
Speaker 1: problems with a girl named Isabella who you want us
Speaker 1: to call. You were texting with her a bunch and
Speaker 1: then she finally just said, hey, don't text me anymore. Now.
Speaker 1: I was talking to everybody here off the air kind
Speaker 1: of about the situation and what they think it could be.
Speaker 1: Everybody in here thinks you're annoying, and I personally, I
Speaker 1: personally don't don't feel that way. I think you sound
Speaker 1: like a nice guy to me. But I mean, they
Speaker 1: say you might be kind of annoying. Maybe you were
Speaker 1: kind of annoying to her and texting her too much.
Speaker 1: I think you're a great guy. I don't think you're
Speaker 1: annoying at all. Thank you, You're welcome. But do you
Speaker 1: think that's a possibility though? Do you think that maybe
Speaker 1: you just texted her too much after you met her
Speaker 1: and she finally was like, okay, this guys a little
Speaker 1: owerboard right as possible. Okay, you're a nice guy. I
Speaker 1: just if she does end up saying something that's mean,
Speaker 1: just you know, don't let it crush you too much. Okay, Jake,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her
Speaker 1: right now. See we can get on the phone. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: there we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Isabella? Please?
Speaker 1: She's not here? Okay? Who am I speaking with you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning.
Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. Who am I speaking with?
Speaker 1: This is Aaron? So what do you want to talk
Speaker 1: to Isabella? Though? This is Isabella's cell phone? Correct? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's just not home. Something I can do for you? Yeah? How? Um?
Speaker 1: First of all, who are you? Aaron? Who am I? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm Isabella's significant other. You're her boyfriend? Yeah? Nice, holl
Speaker 1: I guys been together. I don't even know what you're
Speaker 1: calling about. Why do you want to know? Well, we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show, and this is kind
Speaker 1: of kind of be an awkward conversation here, Aaron. We
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, And that's where if a listener of ours
Speaker 1: goes out on a date with somebody and ends up
Speaker 1: getting blown off. We get an email from them asking
Speaker 1: if we can call that person and ask why so
Speaker 1: somebody sent us an email about Isabella. It doesn't even
Speaker 1: make sense. How long have you? Yeah, somebody recently met
Speaker 1: Isabella and has been texting with her and thought that
Speaker 1: everything was going well, and then Isabella kind of stopped
Speaker 1: responding to him and told them not to text anymore,
Speaker 1: and they were hoping to get a second date. Are
Speaker 1: you we've been We're together, so there's no way she's
Speaker 1: going out on a date with someone else right recently. Hey, Aaron,
Speaker 1: I don't want to try to blow up her spot
Speaker 1: like this might not be a bad thing. How long
Speaker 1: have you guys been together? Because she could it could
Speaker 1: be that she just recently met a guy or whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, it's not even possible. We've been together for
Speaker 1: a long time, on and off, so maybe during one
Speaker 1: of those off periods something could have happened, but even
Speaker 1: that seems unlikely. I know, I know, this is probably
Speaker 1: a hard phone call to take and to hear, not
Speaker 1: hard to hear, but it doesn't make sense. It's not
Speaker 1: even possible Aaron. A guy emailed us and he's been
Speaker 1: texting with Isabella. They met at a party a few
Speaker 1: weeks ago, hung out, had a good time. He thought
Speaker 1: that she was into him, and then she said, don't
Speaker 1: text me anymore and stop texting him. That's why he
Speaker 1: wanted us to call. Right But I've on her phone now,
Speaker 1: I've checked her phone. There's no text messages from any guy. Okay,
Speaker 1: I can assure you with that. Did you check her
Speaker 1: phone all the time? Enough? We trust each other? Whatever
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, trust two weeks ago, were you
Speaker 1: guys together or on a break? Because you said you
Speaker 1: guys have breaks. It's really none of your business at
Speaker 1: this point, it's not you don't even want to know
Speaker 1: if maybe your girlfriend is cheating on you, who are you?
Speaker 1: I've already answered all of your dumb questions, so I
Speaker 1: think you need to off. I'm just trying to help
Speaker 1: you get to the bottom of it. Because this is
Speaker 1: the phone number that we got from another dude who
Speaker 1: said that he met Isabella. Look, if you have some
Speaker 1: guy that's calling you, then why don't you tell him
Speaker 1: he's mistaken and he's got the wrong person and she's
Speaker 1: got a boyfriend and to just like back off and
Speaker 1: stop harassing her. Okay, I'll do that for you, Hey, Jake,
Speaker 1: back off. Isabella has a boyfriend. His name is Aaron.
Speaker 1: Is so uncomfortable. Aaron, Jake, the guy who says he
Speaker 1: met Isabella, is actually on the phone with us right now, Jake,
Speaker 1: say hi to Aaron. Hey, so how long have you
Speaker 1: guys in dating? You never really answered that question? Who
Speaker 1: are you? I'm not even going to answer this. I
Speaker 1: don't even know who you are. I don't want to
Speaker 1: know who you are. You sound like a little bit
Speaker 1: of a dweez and I met Isabella. Deal, dude, Oh,
Speaker 1: here's the deal. Hung out the whole night. She stayed
Speaker 1: in my bed. But it doesn't sound like you guys
Speaker 1: are really into each other. You won't even say how
Speaker 1: long even dating? All right, dude, here's the deal. I
Speaker 1: don't know who you are. I don't have a problem
Speaker 1: with you, but you keep pushing down this road, We're
Speaker 1: gonna have a problem. You need to back off. I
Speaker 1: don't know why are we going on. You've made a mistake,
Speaker 1: all right, Jake. Why don't we why we just ask Isabella? Yeah,
Speaker 1: why don't we ask Isabella? Yeah, it was. Why don't
Speaker 1: we ask Isabella? I mean, I know you have her
Speaker 1: phone right now, but how can we get a hold
Speaker 1: of her. I'm not going to give you any of
Speaker 1: your info. Where is she? She must be coming back soon.
Speaker 1: This is ridiculous. I am with Isabella. We are together. No,
Speaker 1: you can't talk to her. No, we're not going to
Speaker 1: go through I'm not going to listen to the pseudo shrink.
Speaker 1: Try to tell me that my relationship isn't working out?
Speaker 1: All right? So you maybe radio show. Maybe you guys
Speaker 1: weren't together two weeks ago? It was two weeks ago, Aaron.
Speaker 1: That's when Jake said, as he met Isabella and she
Speaker 1: spent the night at his house, in his bed, in
Speaker 1: his bed, they made out. I mean, I feel bad
Speaker 1: for you. Don't feel that bad, but Aaron, I mean
Speaker 1: that two weeks ago. Were you on a break? Two
Speaker 1: weeks ago? I'm not getting interested you guys, obviously. I'm
Speaker 1: going to talk to her and see what's going on here.
Speaker 1: I don't think they were on a break two weeks ago. Jake,
Speaker 1: why do you keep pushing this? I mean, why would
Speaker 1: you even want to see Isabella at this point? Dude? Look,
Speaker 1: I understand people sometimes they are in relationships just because
Speaker 1: they're convenient at the time. Maybe this is just because
Speaker 1: it's convenient saying this is not happening. D find another girl.
Speaker 1: I can't speak for her. Why do you play move
Speaker 1: out to your parents' house? Why don't you go find
Speaker 1: a girl? All right? Jake? You keep worrying about what
Speaker 1: she wants. But the last text message she sent you
Speaker 1: was not to talk to her again, so maybe she
Speaker 1: doesn't want to talk. Well, how do we know it's
Speaker 1: not him who just sent that? How do we know
Speaker 1: I feel bad? Yeah, Aaron, did you send that tech
Speaker 1: some message to Jake telling him not to text her anymore.
Speaker 1: This is a total waste of my time. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you guys got going on, but you got
Speaker 1: the wrong guy on the wrong day. I'm seting out
Speaker 1: and I'm done talking to you, and I'm done talking
Speaker 1: to that guy. And I do not listen to your
Speaker 1: radio show. That's what I was gonna ask you if
Speaker 1: you would still tune in on occasion, Yeah, you could
Speaker 1: check us out. Why don't you send your autograph picture
Speaker 1: to someone else? Because I don't give you we play
Speaker 1: all the hits? I mean, come on God, Hello, I
Speaker 1: don't think no, he's got Yeah, Hey Jake, Yep, what
Speaker 1: did you think all that? It sounds like he's really
Speaker 1: up in her business a whole time. He's controlling what
Speaker 1: she says to people. It sounds like she's not in
Speaker 1: a very healthy relationship. Yeah, but I mean it is
Speaker 1: her choice. She's in a horrible relationship. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: doesn't I mean, you're walking into a freaking pile of
Speaker 1: tornado craziness. That didn't even make sense. But you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, stay away from the situation. Well, maybe
Speaker 1: that's why I should talk to her. Maybe she needs help.
Speaker 1: I mean, she sounds like she's trapped with this crazy
Speaker 1: guys like trash. She probably doesn't have a job, but
Speaker 1: he's controlling her. Yeah, so you feel like you want
Speaker 1: to rescue her from me? Ja, Yeah, I want to
Speaker 1: help her. She needs help? All right? Well, good luck
Speaker 1: in your quest, Jake. And as I always do at
Speaker 1: the end of second date updates, I have to ask.
Speaker 1: I would love to send you out on a date
Speaker 1: by yourself, because Isabella has a boyfriend and currently won't
Speaker 1: do that with you. Maybe I can send you like
Speaker 1: a kickboxing class so you learn how to defend yourself
Speaker 1: when this guy kicks your ass. Broken jubil in the morning,