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Speaker 1: What's up. It's Lift Service.

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gig Maguire, I'm Jazz and Brand,

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Speaker 2: I'm kim On Sorrio.

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Speaker 3: Ashley Marie all right.

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Speaker 4: Well, kim On Sorrio, just for context, is a good

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Speaker 4: friend of mine who I've known since we both kind

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Speaker 4: of came up in this business together. And she's also

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Speaker 4: an executive producer in the world of TV and film. Okay,

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Speaker 4: and so she is currently producing The Impact New York.

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Speaker 4: All right, And Ashley Marie, as we should all know

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Speaker 4: by now, is one of the stars of the series. So,

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Speaker 4: Ashley Marie, I know your mom too. You know, I'm

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Speaker 4: Bernice Burgos and you guys are on the show together.

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Speaker 4: So we're gonna get all into that. But of course

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Speaker 4: we want to know more about you. You came in here

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Speaker 4: a little frazzle today.

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Speaker 3: Girl in the moment?

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Speaker 5: Hut what happened? Why are you?

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Speaker 3: I just wanna my me? And who not my man?

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Speaker 3: But he my man cheated on me?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is awful.

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Speaker 4: Now you've got to work and you found like you

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Speaker 4: said fifteen minutes ago, Yeah, so how did you find out?

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Speaker 3: I got a phone call on and they was like oh,

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Speaker 3: you're still dealing with such and such And I'm like yeah,

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Speaker 3: and they're like, oh, well he's dealing with such and

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Speaker 3: such and I'm like that's not true. She like they

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Speaker 3: like no, she told me herself, and I'm like, what,

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Speaker 3: like right? But I'm happy though, because the new year.

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Speaker 4: So do you you know the woman that he's okay?

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Speaker 4: She had like an enemy or no, not friend, something

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Speaker 4: like that.

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Speaker 6: So friendly me, like maybe a friend of me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, liked y'all say high viby.

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Speaker 3: We don't say high. But we know of each other,

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Speaker 3: like we used to be cool.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 4: And she knows that's your man. No, your man, that's

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Speaker 4: not your No. She on the show nobody knows okay, but.

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Speaker 3: She on the show No.

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Speaker 6: New York January twenty second.

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Speaker 4: Eat Relationship and going on Because when you said my man,

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Speaker 4: I didn't realize that. I thought you still were wear

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Speaker 4: Bubba who's the CEO of Highbridge, that's who you have

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Speaker 4: a daughter with.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but see there's my man who not

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Speaker 3: my man. So it's not really my but I'll be considerate.

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Speaker 5: Somebody kind of deal with Okay, man, Well we didn't

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Speaker 5: go together, were you under the pre a little bit

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Speaker 5: under the impression that it was just you and him

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Speaker 5: dealing with each other.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 4: So we had just started dealing redaling with each other

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Speaker 4: because I stopped dealing with my bayfather before the bull dropped.

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Speaker 4: What when y'all see the show, y'all gonna be like, girls,

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Speaker 4: it's just.

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Speaker 1: A lot in that girl like, I can't wait.

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Speaker 5: I know, well, it sounds messy.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 4: So, but this was a fairly new thing that because

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Speaker 4: y'all justice, Yeah, like three days ago it was really okay,

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Speaker 4: So can you forgive somebody when it's that early on?

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Speaker 4: Maybe there's like some overlapping.

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Speaker 8: So my whole thing is I feel like some everybody

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Speaker 8: always got somebody in some sort of capacity.

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Speaker 7: Like hold on.

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Speaker 3: We knew each other though we were dealing with each

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Speaker 3: other in September, in August, in August, and then we

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Speaker 3: stopped dealing with each other, and then we just we

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Speaker 3: started dealing with each other. But in that time, when

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Speaker 3: we started dealing with each other just a few weeks ago,

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Speaker 3: he told me that he wasn't dealing with nobody.

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Speaker 1: That was my next question.

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Speaker 8: Has there been a conversation of what what we got

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Speaker 8: going on and what our intentions are with each other.

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Speaker 1: But how long ago did you stop dealing with your ex.

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Speaker 3: Ago?

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Speaker 4: I mean, who got kids in here? You got kids,

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Speaker 4: you got everybody. Yeah, don't deal with daddy.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I told you.

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Speaker 5: But I did for a while afterwards.

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Speaker 7: So I get it.

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Speaker 5: I understand.

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Speaker 2: I don't get it to ye.

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Speaker 3: So y'all still gonna do with each other.

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Speaker 8: It's probably your same age. So and her father unfortunately

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Speaker 8: passed away, but even when he was alive, we didn't.

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Speaker 3: We wasn't nothing, okay, but I know my baby father

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Speaker 3: s when I was fifteen, okay. So and I was

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Speaker 3: like my first love, my first everything. So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Still to this day, we see each other and we

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Speaker 3: be like smiling every time. You don't get butterflies when

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Speaker 3: you see each other.

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Speaker 1: I said, why aren't y'all just together?

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Speaker 3: Because I have a lot going on? And I left.

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Speaker 3: We was living with each other for five years and

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Speaker 3: it was too much. Like I went from living with

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Speaker 3: my mom my sister and it was just being us

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Speaker 3: three where the house would be quiet, and then living

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Speaker 3: with him is like now I got a cater to everybody,

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Speaker 3: like it would be his family coming over which I

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Speaker 3: don't have a problem with.

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Speaker 4: I love them, but it's like I gotta cook for everybody.

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Speaker 4: I gotta make sure everything is clean. No, but they

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Speaker 4: don't want that. They don't want that. I put it

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Speaker 4: right in the plate like I made it's overnight.

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Speaker 3: You're right, it was cool, But I just felt like

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Speaker 3: I wasn't able to find myself like a housewife. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I was a housewife.

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Speaker 4: So you want some time on your own, basically is

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Speaker 4: what it is. Because she was dealing with him since

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Speaker 4: she was fifteen. They do have a kid together. She

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Speaker 4: lived with It's nice to live on your own.

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Speaker 5: This is my first time, So you live by yourself

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Speaker 5: right now on the show, you guys kind of talk

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Speaker 5: about the fact that you're living on myself. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 5: that's good.

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Speaker 3: This is the first time I went straight from living

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Speaker 3: with my mom to men.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, So let's talk about Berniece for a second,

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Speaker 4: because when I met your mom, she was working at

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Speaker 4: Baby and the Mall. This was before she really blew

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Speaker 4: up as like a he has an influencer as a

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Speaker 4: host and doing different things, and so she had you

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Speaker 4: when she was pretty young to fifteen years old.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and So what was that.

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Speaker 4: Like having a mom who was like a fun young mom.

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Speaker 7: Real quick, sorry and have something for you.

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Speaker 9: Oh gosh, okay, god, she almost dropped the cake.

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Speaker 7: That is so amazing.

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Speaker 3: That was so cute.

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Speaker 4: I just said where she was just saying that now,

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Speaker 4: I would say that about yesterday and.

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Speaker 5: I was like, where is this is a Q right?

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Speaker 7: I love this?

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Speaker 5: Okay, chanel okay, purple face.

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Speaker 6: That's how beautiful.

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Speaker 3: That's really cute.

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Speaker 10: You.

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Speaker 5: I love him.

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Speaker 10: His birthday to you, Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday,

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Speaker 10: deer Angela.

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Speaker 1: Hali Birthday to you. Am.

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Speaker 4: I like this because it looked like it's so pretty.

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Speaker 6: It is so nice.

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Speaker 1: It's a beautiful guy.

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Speaker 5: And I was like, oh that's pretty.

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Speaker 1: Look I got some rich friends, y'all not gonna rich.

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Speaker 5: This ain't no cheap cake.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna have to cut this.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Don't go anywhere.

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Speaker 6: It's set decoration though. You got to put it there.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is so cute. It is super cute. That's

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Speaker 3: his favor color.

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Speaker 7: Purple.

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Speaker 6: It's blanking. It's blanking. Oh, I should tell everybody.

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Speaker 2: Dan was gonna be like this was I should tell

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Speaker 2: I should tell everybody how Angela acts in the Chanelle store.

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Speaker 6: She's been buying everything. You would talk about having rich friends.

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Speaker 1: I'm not rich, No, I'm cash poor right now buying cash.

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Speaker 6: How much is that jacket?

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Speaker 1: I'll take that.

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Speaker 4: I'm like anyway back to Ashley Marie, but no, So,

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Speaker 4: how was that for you growing up with your mom?

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Speaker 4: She was young, fun, you know, popular, people knew her.

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Speaker 4: What was that like for you?

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Speaker 3: I have always been like doing my own thing, So

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Speaker 3: really realizing what was really going on, like I was

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Speaker 3: in school. But like I will be fighting people because

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Speaker 3: they'd be like, you know, she works in starlets, so

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Speaker 3: they'll be like, oh, your mom is a stripple, but

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Speaker 3: she's not even.

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Speaker 1: A strip a vitender. I started writing.

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Speaker 3: Starts in the rings.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I'll be going off on people a lot.

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Speaker 4: I'll be arguing I ain't know how to deal with

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Speaker 4: certain stuff. People be commenting stuff on my Instagram and

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Speaker 3: I was a rebel child though, So but that.

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Speaker 4: Is tough though, because I can imagine like going to

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Speaker 4: comment on this because I have a very similar situation.

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Speaker 4: I actually was a stripper, and like I said, my

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Speaker 4: daughter and your daughter are, how are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven, same age, she's.

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Speaker 8: Twenty seven, And the difference is we lived in Atlanta,

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Speaker 8: where stripping is the thing.

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Speaker 1: So when she was in middle.

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Speaker 8: School, high school, I was like the top stripper at

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Speaker 8: the top strip club, and everybody knew me the same

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Speaker 8: way everybody knows your mother and I. In hindsight, I

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Speaker 8: would ask her, like, you know, how was that, and

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Speaker 8: she's like, how was what? Like life was great? So

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Speaker 8: I was very eager to hear your response to what

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Speaker 8: that same life on the other side, but really as

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Speaker 8: a stripper. But now you know she's grown and Atlanta.

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Speaker 8: It's definitely then when it different when it comes.

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Speaker 3: When my mom started in Starlett's, she we moved to Jersey,

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Speaker 3: so we was in the Bronx for a long time

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Speaker 3: and then we moved to Jason. I'm like, this tough

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Speaker 3: kid coming to Jersey being around only kids, and it's

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Speaker 3: like some of these kids is bougie, some of them

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Speaker 3: is not. And it's like, you know, they on Instagram,

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Speaker 3: so they see what's going on, right, And then it

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Speaker 3: was like, you know, my mom's dating life and all

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Speaker 3: this extra stuff. And I was just like I was

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Speaker 3: on time and I'm like, whoever got's son? And stay

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Speaker 3: I'm or whatever. So I was really a rebel. Like

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Speaker 3: my mom really went through it with me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't imagine.

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Speaker 3: She was like, look, I was like a lot.

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Speaker 4: But then she also had her pajama line and still does.

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Speaker 4: So you work with that too or no?

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Speaker 3: No. I helped start it. I helped with the designs

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Speaker 3: in the beginning, and I stopped. I stopped doing that

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Speaker 3: why because that's not my passion. I had my own

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Speaker 3: business too. I was selling waide Streness. But I was

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Speaker 3: doing that for the money and I made a lot

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Speaker 3: of money. But that's not my passion.

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Speaker 3: I met him and a party was and hear, yeah

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Speaker 3: I wasn't have enough party, but he was like, and good.

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Speaker 6: That was And so she's still in love with him.

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Speaker 7: The impact.

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Speaker 1: She's breaking up with.

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Speaker 5: Daddy, she's really still in love with her.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she's really.

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Speaker 7: Do you think that.

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Speaker 2: I can tell We've been filming now for about three months.

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Speaker 3: No spoilers, but.

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Speaker 2: You can tell, right, just in terms of how she

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Speaker 4: What about when he's with other women? Since you guys

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Speaker 3: Literally like, lose my mind? What you mean, I'm a

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Speaker 5: Your birthday?

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Speaker 3: May night? Go ahead, Yeah, I'll be going crazy.

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Speaker 4: Like give us an egg, not now, though, Give us

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Speaker 3: Oh, I said it on the show. I did a

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I put all his clothes outside. We lived in a

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Speaker 3: I made like a I did like a board, and

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Speaker 5: He did a board.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did a board, bag bags all his stuff.

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Speaker 3: It was all in bags.

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Speaker 4: And all the neighbors came out at like seven in

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Speaker 3: They was like, oh, he ain't coming home.

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, But he came home.

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Speaker 3: He went through the window, came I.

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Speaker 1: Would have wanted to come home after the board.

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Speaker 5: I've never heard nobody do that.

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Speaker 1: Did anybody Did the neighbors take the clothes?

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Speaker 3: No, they were just laughing. They all knew us, so

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Speaker 3: Oh he had was his clothes. All his clothes is

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Speaker 5: More bag or just like y'all were together.

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Speaker 3: He was not cheating. She was definitely.

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Speaker 5: Did you ever fight any of the women.

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Speaker 3: One time? It was only one time, but they felt

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine having like that.

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Speaker 3: That's fine. I just got cheated on and I don't

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Speaker 5: I might hit you later.

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Speaker 6: That's growth. That's growth when you don't want to fight.

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Speaker 4: But though you never want to be so numb to

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Speaker 4: It's not because it's not normal, Like it's not anything

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I'm at the point like

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Speaker 3: if I get a man right now, whoever it is,

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Speaker 3: my baby father, the new guy, whoever, if you cheat

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Speaker 1: Have you ever cheated?

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Speaker 7: Hell?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What was your reason?

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Speaker 8: Because we have a theory that women cheat for like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, m.

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Speaker 3: The truth. Yes, please, I cheated on my baby father first.

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Speaker 3: He wasn't doing anything wrong. He was like the perfect, perfect,

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Speaker 5: Why did you? Why did you cheat on him?

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Speaker 3: Because he took me from somebody and I was I

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Speaker 3: still kind of liked them, but I was just I

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Speaker 3: you know, I really didn't know what's a good man

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Speaker 4: So that kind of ruined the relationship. And that's when

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Speaker 3: That's when it started.

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Speaker 1: Man, that's now. That's accountability though.

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Speaker 4: To say that I'm the person that that kind of

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Speaker 4: made it start. When you say you have daddy issues?

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Speaker 4: So your dad is he on the show?

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Speaker 3: Girl?

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Speaker 1: And what was your relationship like with him growing up?

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Speaker 3: He's on the show and he just he's just a

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Speaker 3: a hallm baby daddy. I wass y'all know.

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Speaker 4: You know, they's selling dogs, pit bulls and shit. They

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Speaker 5: So how is how is it filming with him on

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 3: I only feel with him one time. Okay, yeah it was.

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Speaker 3: It was weird because we don't we get into it,

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Speaker 3: but that was like I don't know, spoil spoilers.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, was he present though you're throughout your life?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 7: No, he wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Okay not at all. How does how does your mom

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Speaker 3: She don't at all? Like ill that that's the lute hush.

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Speaker 3: She don't deal with him at or she's like you've

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Speaker 3: grown you're grown ass woman. I don't got to deal

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Speaker 1: So, m so was he there even like when you

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Speaker 3: Was he jail when I was born?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, all right? Wow, this is a lot that

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Speaker 1: you see.

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Speaker 4: I think people have to also understand where people are

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Speaker 4: coming from because, like you said, you know, your mama's

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Speaker 4: you didn't know how.

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Speaker 3: To Like, yeah, I feel like that scarred me a lot,

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Speaker 3: Like in a lot of situations that I have now

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Speaker 3: for what I want. I know what I want, and

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Speaker 3: it's like now I'm not dealing with certain shit before

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Speaker 3: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: So what's an ideal man for you? Like, what would

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Speaker 1: you say? These are the things that I want in

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Speaker 3: A cultured man?

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Speaker 5: What is a cultured man?

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Speaker 3: I mean, my daddy's African, so he's very cultured. He's

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Speaker 3: very family orientated. Like you know, we've been to Africa,

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Speaker 3: so I get to see different things, different living and

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Speaker 3: stuff like that. I like a man that could cook.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, like that mad at that jas He's like

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Speaker 1: me too. The men that can actually could Like if

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Speaker 1: a guy could cook, can it really cooked?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 1: Not just on the grill either, you know every guy every.

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Speaker 3: Yeah for sure. What a dude that could dress, that

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Speaker 3: coulddress me, that could take care of me? Like I

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Speaker 3: already know I needed, right.

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Speaker 4: You know that's interesting because you've made money from a

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Speaker 1: You were an influencer, so you've always you know, I.

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Speaker 3: Never really needed a man, but i'd be wanting. I

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Speaker 3: got lucky, ma mee, Daddy Rich.

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Speaker 1: Do you get along with Ella because she's on the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my daughter's godmother.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that's nice.

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Speaker 4: So you guys asked you are on the impact to

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Speaker 4: look at him shaking her head. Yeah, so that's nice

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Speaker 4: that you guys are actually on there together and our

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's one of my closest friends.

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Speaker 1: Do y'all tell each other stuff? Like, girl, why I

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Speaker 3: She know everything me I didn't. I tell I'm a snitch.

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Speaker 3: You I can't know nothing.

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Speaker 7: They know.

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Speaker 3: You cannot say nothing around my ears.

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Speaker 7: I got ears.

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Speaker 3: I can hear through the room, my hair. I record

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Speaker 3: what they said.

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Speaker 1: I did not.

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Speaker 7: That's hard.

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Speaker 1: Now, let me ask everybody in the room that.

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Speaker 4: Right. Let's say you're in a relationship and but you're

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Speaker 4: if you know her man is doing something, you know

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Speaker 1: Let's say you know because.

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Speaker 4: He's you're Are you supposed to tell because your man

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: Business, I'm mind.

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Speaker 2: There's five people that I'm never minded my business for

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Speaker 2: five women that I'm like, you can't do anything.

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Speaker 6: I'm I'm bringing it to you. Everybody else, I'm minding

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Speaker 10: Right.

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Speaker 5: If it's something, then I might think it depends on

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Speaker 5: want to stay. I want to because the thing is

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Speaker 5: you'll tell them they'll stay together.

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Speaker 7: There. You can't exactly.

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Speaker 3: Like other people relations because I snitched.

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Speaker 4: I don't care, because then it might make like say

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Speaker 4: her around us because.

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Speaker 1: You can't care. But they.

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Speaker 3: Together, But they got to take that between them two.

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Speaker 3: The guys, they can take that. We you know, we close,

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Speaker 2: So it's kind of like, nah, I love that because

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Speaker 2: if it was the other way around, they telling they

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Speaker 2: snitching on us, for sure.

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Speaker 1: So have you gotten told on?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 7: I might have.

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Speaker 3: Said, you know, you never know a nigga be like

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Speaker 3: I heard, and he heard it from that person, so.

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Speaker 7: You never know.

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Speaker 4: But I was, now, what about bringing your child around? Like,

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Speaker 4: let's just say he brings your daughter around like another

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Speaker 3: She's fine. She'd be six in February. She talking and

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Speaker 3: both my mothers. Got the she'd be like, I heard that.

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Speaker 3: She like I asked her. I'd be like, indeed, daddy

453
00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,280
Speaker 3: got girlfriend. She'd be like, no, Mommy, you and my

454
00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:03,680
Speaker 3: daddy's gonna get married by.

455
00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:07,680
Speaker 1: Force, by force, okay whatever you think you guys will

456
00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:08,160
Speaker 1: get married.

457
00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,000
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know, maybe maybe not.

458
00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:13,960
Speaker 1: But you've never felt like you feel about him about

459
00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:14,560
Speaker 1: anybody else.

460
00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,640
Speaker 5: No, So wait a minute. So he can't bring anybody

461
00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:21,560
Speaker 5: around under no circumstances.

462
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:21,800
Speaker 1: What about you?

463
00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:25,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I've never I've never ever bought my daughter

464
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,879
Speaker 3: around me in respect. I think I think it's just

465
00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,120
Speaker 3: I've been so big on family. You know. I didn't

466
00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:32,720
Speaker 3: get that when I was a kid. So it's like,

467
00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,440
Speaker 3: if I'm gonna do that, like that has to be

468
00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,960
Speaker 3: my man. I can't do that serious relationship.

469
00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, Now what about your mom working a

470
00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:42,680
Speaker 1: lot too when you were young?

471
00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:44,080
Speaker 3: What about it?

472
00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:45,920
Speaker 1: You know, I'm saying, was that hard for you also?

473
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,000
Speaker 4: Or who was like, you know, if you have to

474
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Speaker 4: be in the house because she's working at nights as

475
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,280
Speaker 4: a bartender, then y'all.

476
00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:52,920
Speaker 3: I was the rebel child. I liked it.

477
00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:54,440
Speaker 7: I don't like that.

478
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,600
Speaker 3: I was like, bye, you need to fold your clothes.

479
00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 3: I was hyped, I got the frequentt I was.

480
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,200
Speaker 1: Perfect what I was.

481
00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 3: I was so like that didn't bother me at all.

482
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 4: And so you always all right, So when you talk

483
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 4: about what you want to do, which is music, you

484
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 4: always knew you wanted to do that.

485
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 3: I used to be a dancer for Radio Disney, Pece Star.

486
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all know who that is, but

487
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,359
Speaker 3: she was a rapper, so I was a backup dancer

488
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 3: for her. I was a backup dancer for Bianca, for

489
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 3: Young Bay. Yeah. So I've always been in the meg music. Yeah.

490
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 3: I was always doing as a kid though my mom

491
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,640
Speaker 3: had me and all types of stuff when I was six.

492
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Speaker 3: So I've always been a dancer and I've always been

493
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Speaker 3: in singing classes. So I thought originally I was going

494
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 3: to sing, and then I started rapping because I knew

495
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 3: how to write. I didn't even know I knew how

496
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 3: to write until I wrote Back on the Market.

497
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Speaker 1: But how did your baby daddy feel about that? He

498
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 1: liked it? Back on the Market. He liked it.

499
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 3: I was surprised. He was calling. He was getting calls

500
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 3: from jail, like yo, your baby. He's like, yeah, you

501
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,800
Speaker 3: want to hear it. I was like, wow, that's what

502
00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 3: I But it still when when his family want to

503
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 3: get him mad, like I'm.

504
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:10,359
Speaker 1: Back in the walking Oh my gosh.

505
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,640
Speaker 4: Do you ever Kim as an executive producer and you see,

506
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 4: like thinking about what we came up with, you know,

507
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 4: when we were younger and in the game and just

508
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 4: on our way up? Do you give advice or as

509
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 4: an executive producer? How involved are you get in people's lives?

510
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,920
Speaker 2: Like I had a cast member tell me one time

511
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: on a show I was doing. They said, damn, Kim,

512
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 2: how you just come in and out of people lives

513
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 2: like this?

514
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:33,880
Speaker 1: Because that's true.

515
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 2: It's because you have to really get into in order

516
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 2: to give a good show and tell good story, you

517
00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 2: have to really become you know, you got to get

518
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 2: into your cast lives.

519
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 4: So but how is that when the camera stopped rolling

520
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 4: then and now? Like you said, don't pick on my

521
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 4: phone business, you said, I.

522
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 3: Don't be kidding.

523
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 6: I'm Kidding'm kidding. No, some people will say that, they'll

524
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 6: be like, okay, am I going to court you when

525
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 6: the shows up. That's not true. I'm definitely all in

526
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 6: there business.

527
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 1: But you know, in a real way, what happens if

528
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: you don't like somebody.

529
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 7: I never not like.

530
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 5: Someone, Angela, Remember you didn't you didn't care for it.

531
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 1: That's impossible. Listen, it was a couple.

532
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 2: I'm at the point in my career where I think

533
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 2: that if I don't like you, I just don't have

534
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 2: to deal with you. You know, I don't have to

535
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: deal with casts on that level, right, Like, we have

536
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 2: a big team of producers, so I like to be

537
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 2: really involved, but I don't have to be involved. So

538
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 2: if I don't like you, I just won't be involved.

539
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 2: We have a show to do if you And really

540
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 2: I don't have any personal issues. I think there was

541
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 2: one person, like in my whole reality show career, right which.

542
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: Came and I was starting to.

543
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 6: Stand Angela, I'm just going to do this.

544
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 3: Both.

545
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 6: There was a man and a woman. Yeah, and it's

546
00:22:59,440 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 6: not personal.

547
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: It's just don't don't disrespect, don't just you know, like

548
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,360
Speaker 2: if we're here to do a job, so if there's

549
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 2: no personal like we're doing a job.

550
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 10: You know.

551
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 4: It's so interesting seeing people are telling like their realities

552
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 4: now and things that they've gone through.

553
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts about that?

554
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 4: Because I feel like we came in an era where

555
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 4: you don't talk about like things happen behind the scenes

556
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 4: and they stay behind the scenes.

557
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 1: But now I feel like it's everybody talking about reality.

558
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a bad thing.

559
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 4: It's a different thing because when we came up, it

560
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 4: was like you, if you want to be around people,

561
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 4: you gotta keep your mouth shut. Mind your business, you know,

562
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 4: stay focused, do your own thing. If something happens to you,

563
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 4: no one gives a fuck. You got to understand it's

564
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 4: just part of the job. That fucked up shit is

565
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 4: going to happen to you. But now it's a time

566
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 4: where something happens and we get to be like this

567
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 4: person did that, and not that it always turns out good.

568
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 3: You know.

569
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: Social media though, I feel like it's really like what

570
00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 2: social media has done, even even because.

571
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 6: Don't forget Angela and I did a show together.

572
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 2: So we did a show, right and instagram around it

573
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 2: or just was it now, right, So like we didn't

574
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 2: have social media in the way that we have it

575
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: now at that time.

576
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 6: So it's really like some YouTube stuff I think back then, Yeah,

577
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 6: like it wasn't.

578
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 3: It wasn't nothing.

579
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, something happened.

580
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 5: Is everywhere they all live and explaining what happened other

581
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 5: person's in the comments.

582
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: So being that this is your first reality show, how

583
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: was the experience for you?

584
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 4: I think I was mostly myself, Like I don't know

585
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 4: to be anybody else but myself. So I feel like

586
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 4: in certain times I was like a little bit too chill.

587
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 6: You would tell me you want the tea.

588
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 3: I was like really really laid back, cause it's like

589
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 3: I don't know y'all. Like, you know, so I'm gonna

590
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: act how I act when I don't know somebody. So

591
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 3: but it's like, you know, I'm meeting people. I have

592
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 3: to be open to it, have to be nice. I

593
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 3: am nice, but it's like I can come off mean

594
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 3: sometimes what you think.

595
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,400
Speaker 2: You're nice, but you're a little y'all got to really

596
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 2: tune in because here's the thing.

597
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 6: This, this is what I tell Ashley all the time.

598
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 6: This is her first job.

599
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 2: Tell them it's your first job, right, So like even

600
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: though we're shooting a show, you got to come to work.

601
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: You gotta come and and it's it's a lot, and

602
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 2: they sign up for the show and they're not necessarily

603
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 2: ready for the show of like your phone is going

604
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 2: off all the time.

605
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 6: You got to be responsive all the time.

606
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 2: You got to come to set all the time, to

607
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 2: get hair and make up every time you come or

608
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: you know, so it keeps They've never.

609
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 6: Been that busy, I think, I mean, I don't know

610
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 6: if they've.

611
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 5: Never been that busy.

612
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 4: So it's like, yeah, because that was hard for me

613
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 4: when we did our show is I had a full

614
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 4: time job on the radio.

615
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: Different outfit and fly. I'm like, oh, my dad using

616
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 3: all my ship.

617
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: Different looks and so it's it's it's keeps them busy.

618
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 2: But I think it gets you focused in a way

619
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 2: that you've never been focused before. So if you are

620
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: doing music, which is what she's doing, you're like, you

621
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 2: know what, now I see the grind because it's every

622
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: day with us, we always be looking for Ashley producers

623
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 2: be blowing up her phone.

624
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 3: Went for two days to do that.

625
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 5: What were you doing?

626
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 4: I just needed a mental I just needed one of

627
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 4: those mental breaks because it was just a lot going

628
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 4: on all at one time, and it was like, okay,

629
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 4: what the fuck, Like I need to gather everything together,

630
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 4: all my ship and I turned my phone off from everybody.

631
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 3: Nobody can fund me, but.

632
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 4: You know what, and see, we could have never did

633
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,199
Speaker 4: that because I feel like right now people are more

634
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 4: understanding of the fact that you do need a mental

635
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 4: break and you do need to.

636
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: Take a rest. When we were coming up, it was like,

637
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm so used to that every day stop like it's

638
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: when you off clock.

639
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's all day.

640
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: But it is important to make sure you take care

641
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: of yourself, because that's how you have a breakdown.

642
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 7: Dude, Yeah, if you don't.

643
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 3: I have a kid, So every day I wake up

644
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 3: six in the morning, make sure breakfast is ready for

645
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 3: my daughter, take her to school, which is like thirty

646
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 3: minutes away from my house. So it's like it's a lot,

647
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: Like I'll be needing a little break and I needed

648
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 3: those two days.

649
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 7: Baby.

650
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 1: I was like, is she coming back, y'all?

651
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 5: Is there anything that you learned about yourself throughout this

652
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 5: process of filming the show?

653
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: Clocking in at work?

654
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 3: I definitely known that. I mean, yeah, I would say

655
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 3: clocking the network for sure. Yeah.

656
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 1: Did you make friends? Something like that?

657
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 4: Clear trapping? She's been on lip service. I think she's

658
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 4: really Yeah, she's the same song we a day of.

659
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: Part Okay, Yeah, No, she was really good and she's

660
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: very talented and.

661
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,360
Speaker 5: A nice that's my girl.

662
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 3: That's my girl. I mean, I mean I made friends,

663
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 3: Like you know, we getting there. It's like it all

664
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 3: depends what happens after the show.

665
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 5: If we went staring.

666
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 6: Here, can we did together?

667
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 10: Right?

668
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 6: Like she said Kim, I'm like, I mean, I will hope.

669
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,719
Speaker 3: Nobody saying thatthing crazy about somebody? Does I know they are.

670
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 3: It's cool, but this is lipserver.

671
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 4: So let's talk about the new song Knock Knock, all right.

672
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 4: That there's one line in particular that stood up stood

673
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 4: out to me before you can hear, has this ever

674
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 4: happened to you?

675
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: Has your Joe have a lot?

676
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: No? But hold on, damn, I can say, go ahead.

677
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 3: What I gave my baby father head every morning?

678
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: That was every morning morning?

679
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 3: Really you but your teeth first, of course, but sometimes

680
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 3: I didn't. Everybody that's clocking in, I don't. She didn't

681
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 3: have that's a job. That's yeah, it was every day.

682
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 3: But I feel like I did it so much that

683
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 3: now my joy really be like locking.

684
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 5: Whose idea was it for?

685
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 7: Every day? The daily? You know who that was?

686
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 4: You never asked me you know what that because she's like,

687
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 4: you're not leaving the house with a loaded weapon, period.

688
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 3: I knew. Like, I feel like, this is my theory,

689
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 3: Like if a guy comes a lot, then he ain't

690
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 3: even doing nothing. But if he comes a little bit,

691
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 3: he been doing.

692
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: He could also have been masturbating.

693
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 6: Are you sure so you was really doing it to investigate?

694
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes he didn't know that was investigation.

695
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 6: There be like, let me see and he'd be like,

696
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 6: she had a little measuring cup on the side.

697
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 3: I know, I know.

698
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 5: So did you enjoy getting you got?

699
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 3: That's my ship?

700
00:29:58,360 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: So you never skipped a day?

701
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 7: No, what if you're mad?

702
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: I was mad at unless I was mad. That was

703
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 3: the only time.

704
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: Were there are times when you were like this wasn't

705
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: a lot?

706
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, scientist, I'm like, I know what I'm

707
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 3: talking about.

708
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 5: Are you going to do that for them every day?

709
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I dealt with a guy after my baby father,

710
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 3: the guy I was just dealing with for three days. Yeah,

711
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 3: I don't think I would do that with him. It's

712
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 3: just that I know my baby father to the team

713
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 3: like I know him. It's not if he gets with

714
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 3: another girl, he probably gonna love it there because she

715
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 3: ain't gonna no ship. I know everything. So it's like,

716
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 3: you can't pass up nothing with me.

717
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: You got to start all over it, right, Okay, Now,

718
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: how can a guy tell it for a woman is cheating?

719
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 3: I don't know.

720
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 4: We don't cheat because you admitted when you cheated, right,

721
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 4: did you act different whether like.

722
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 3: Some you know, he went through my phone? Yeah?

723
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: What made him go through your phone?

724
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: Not a damn thing. He just took it, and I

725
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 3: think I made him go through my phone. I started

726
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 3: going crazy. I could have just chilled and he would

727
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 3: have just been like, let me just see. He was

728
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 3: literally just going to see something. And I was like,

729
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 3: get my phone for sure, because I never did that,

730
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 3: he'll take my phone. I would take his phone. I

731
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 3: would look at the time, I would go on Instagram.

732
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 3: He would never care. But when he took it that time,

733
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 3: I lost my mind. He was like, he ran in

734
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 3: his car and he drove off.

735
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 1: You were like, oh, you were like, I can't even

736
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: go the cop has my phone.

737
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 3: That was the first time it happened. The second time

738
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 3: it happened, I called the cops when he took my phone. See,

739
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 3: I knew it.

740
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 7: I knew it.

741
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 4: That's big doing something crazy if you call the cops

742
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 4: because somebody has The.

743
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 3: Cops was laughing at me. They was dying laughing. I

744
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 3: was like, sir, I need my phone. I have stuff

745
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 3: in there.

746
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: Like wow, do you think you could ever get it

747
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,239
Speaker 1: back to where it was with him?

748
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 3: I think so. That's the one best friend. I think so,

749
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 3: But it's going to take He got to understand my

750
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 3: life now, my life is not the same does he

751
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 3: not like what you do? Like?

752
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: Does he not like?

753
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: I feel like he's like up and down. It's kind

754
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: of like sometimes he likes, sometimes he don't. It's like,

755
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 3: you know, how guys are.

756
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 5: Is it that you're more independent now that he can't care.

757
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 3: For I don't know if it's that I'm independent. I

758
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: just think like the posting on Instagram, the certain outfits

759
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 3: that I'm wearing that kind of bothers him. It's like

760
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 3: he can't have certain control over me the way he

761
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: will usually have there because it's like I gotta work,

762
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 3: like I wrap, I talk about certain things.

763
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 1: Right, So you think you'll ever chant him again?

764
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 3: Now? Yeah, I don't care. I'm doing my own thing,

765
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 3: don't I don't want to be.

766
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: Buying It doesn't sound like it's got work.

767
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 4: At first, it feels like it is. And then when

768
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 4: you say, I don't care, I'm doing my own thing.

769
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 4: Even when you're in the song and the song before

770
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 4: this where you said you're heartless, that's the same that

771
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 4: the first song where you broke up, the breakups back

772
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 4: and the work yeah.

773
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 3: Back, oh yeah that was I didn't think I was

774
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 3: going to get back with him after that, but he

775
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,959
Speaker 3: liked this, So I don't know, we weird. Nobody understands us.

776
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: Kim don't even understand. I just kim be like, yo,

777
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 3: what what is it with y'all? Like I don't want

778
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: to say it.

779
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 7: It's weird.

780
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just say we just flow.

781
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 6: But they're in love.

782
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 10: You know.

783
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes people in love, they just they just can't get

784
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: enough of each other. It's like, you're so in love,

785
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 2: you can't be together because you know, you get together.

786
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: It's so detrimental to like your functioning your everyday life.

787
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 5: That's why I don't like liking guys too much.

788
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: You can't.

789
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 6: You can't. You can't.

790
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:37,479
Speaker 5: You can't because I wouldn't.

791
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm like, oh, you mean, like I'm

792
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 3: like I want to cook for you. I want to

793
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 3: cater to you, like I want to wake up my

794
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: days to you or to my kid or whatever. And

795
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 3: it's like I really have my own stuff now, like

796
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 3: I got my own shit going on. I can't do that,

797
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 3: Fugu right now. I can't. It's not gonna work.

798
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.

799
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 4: When you were younger, a lot of people knew who

800
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 4: you were from social media, where there ever a lot

801
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 4: of like creepy guys.

802
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: Handing you up when you weren't even so creepy older people.

803
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 3: It's so crazy still to this day, creepy guys right

804
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 3: me and it's guys be trying to talk to me

805
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 3: and my mom. It's so weird. It's so weird. And

806
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 3: before I literally write do back, I will go to

807
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 3: her DM first just to make sure, just to sit.

808
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 4: I'll be like, wow, it's straight, like we're good over here,

809
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 4: Like it's good, funny, that's insane.

810
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's one thing that I don't got to worry

811
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: about with my daughter.

812
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 8: But the only thing is is I have an age

813
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 8: range that I don't straight away from because I just

814
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 8: feel like I don't want to be fucking on somebody

815
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 8: that we possibly fucking on my kid.

816
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just weird.

817
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 8: And I had her when I was seventeen, so we're

818
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 8: still that very short age gap, and it's like the

819
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 8: older she gets, the kind of closer we get in age,

820
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 8: even though I'm aging as well, but the age gap

821
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 8: kind of closes right, And that's really like it's just

822
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 8: like a morality thing, like I can't talk to a

823
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 8: guy that's this much younger than me just because he's

824
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 8: so much to the age of my feet, Like.

825
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I think about it, and she dates a

826
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 4: guy ten years younger, and you date a guy ten

827
00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 4: years older.

828
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: That's you're so.

829
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 7: Happy and they like her, you know, and I ain't.

830
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 8: Even the young ones be beating down my mind as well,

831
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 8: which is why I made the comment, because that's that's

832
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 8: who I attract.

833
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: Now they'd be like thirty and I'd be like.

834
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 4: Everybody in here, I feel like has been through a

835
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 4: really bad, dramatic breakup. What look at camstation in her head,

836
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 4: Like yes, you know, but all of us, like we've

837
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 4: been in long term relationships that have been like really traumatic.

838
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 4: What would be some advice that you would give, you know,

839
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,240
Speaker 4: when you look back at what you went through and saying, Okay,

840
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 4: this is what I would have done, you know differently,

841
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:51,439
Speaker 4: if anything, you know, what's that dang? I honestly feel

842
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,439
Speaker 4: like I should have spoken up more when I knew

843
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 4: things instead of keeping them in and just kind of

844
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 4: sweeping them under the rug. Like I feel like there

845
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 4: are so many times where I just allowed the bullshit

846
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 4: to happen where I should have and could have and

847
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 4: just decided not to for whatever reason.

848
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 7: In the moment.

849
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 8: I feel like, in hindsight, maybe I should have said

850
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 8: some shit back then instead of letting it comes. I mean,

851
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 8: I'm very good at communicating, but I just felt like

852
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 8: I was like keeping ship as attacking like ammunition, Like

853
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 8: I was holding on this stuff because one day I'm

854
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 8: going to shoot back, and I should have been shooting

855
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 8: back in a moment. And then it's also you're like

856
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 8: gathering information one and then that way, when you do

857
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 8: some shit, you'd be like, well, you did this exactly,

858
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 8: because sometimes when you let things like that faster, it

859
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 8: gives you an excuse to do what you want to

860
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 8: do because you know what they did.

861
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, What about you, Jasmine?

862
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 5: What if I think I would have two things? I

863
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 5: would have been more independent. I dealt with somebody and

864
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 5: they took care of me like everything, you know, and

865
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,320
Speaker 5: well I liked It's it made me less independent, so

866
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 5: certain things I didn't know how to do anything.

867
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: I was like, Jasmine, you gotta get your own phone line.

868
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 7: She's like, I don't.

869
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 4: Get off the family then, and I'd be like, and

870
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,720
Speaker 4: my therapist be like, yes, get your own bride.

871
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 5: You're an adult and I'm like, I mean, you know,

872
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 5: he would do everything for me, so it was just like, okay,

873
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 5: he would he would just do everything. Yeah, so I

874
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 5: would you know.

875
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 4: But I feel like, but that also could be a

876
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,280
Speaker 4: control thing too, because if you don't do these things

877
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 4: and then you don't know how to do them, and

878
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 4: then you're so reliant on somebody for them, it puts

879
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 4: them in a position where they.

880
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 1: Have a lot of control.

881
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 7: Yeah.

882
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 5: And the other thing I think I would have told

883
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 5: myself is, you know, when you're experiencing something, it feels

884
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 5: so intense, and later it doesn't. It's not really when

885
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 5: you're in it, it's magnified. And I would tell myself, like,

886
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 5: it's not going to feel like you just need some time.

887
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 5: It's not going to be this big deal.

888
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,479
Speaker 7: Right, Okay.

889
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 4: I would say for me, i'd be letting things go

890
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 4: on too long. I let my last relationship last for

891
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 4: so long, and I should have been like, I wasn't

892
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 4: happy and it was and you know good, but I

893
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 4: was just like whatever. And so I think that you

894
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 4: have to really like face those things and if it's

895
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 4: not good and you see it's not going anywhere, then

896
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:11,760
Speaker 4: it is time to just say.

897
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 5: Easier not to address it up.

898
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: It's easier to kind of like not me.

899
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 3: I'm a dress.

900
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 4: I'm a very like fade to black type of person.

901
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 4: I let something like run his course and just kind

902
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 4: of fade out. You're capital yeah yeah, instead of like

903
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 4: being like, all right, let's have a talk, let's do this,

904
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 4: let's do that, let's figure this out. And I think

905
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 4: that sometimes, like how you say you like to do

906
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 4: everything for somebody, I could be like that too, and

907
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 4: I do too much for people that when they don't

908
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 4: really deserve it.

909
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 3: I would say saying, like past relationships, right, I should

910
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: have took more of his money.

911
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 4: Honestly, you know, I look at it and now he

912
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 4: give me anything that I want. But we're not together.

913
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 4: But when we was together, would be so quiet and

914
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 4: he had so much money. Sure this car is and

915
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 4: I would ask for nothing. Okay, yeah, like that was

916
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 4: stupid as hell.

917
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 3: I would have took more his money.

918
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: He wasn't just doing stuff for you though, like just.

919
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was like I didn't need much that

920
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 3: was always in the house. I didn't need much. I

921
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 3: wasn't even going out with my friends for real, so

922
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 3: it's not much I needed and I would have got

923
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: on my ship like I would have got more addressed up,

924
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 3: more been outside, more looked good, got pretty like I

925
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 3: feel like I didn't really get in tune.

926
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 5: Sounds like you would have enjoyed life more.

927
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:34,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure?

928
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 1: What about you, Kim?

929
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 6: How much time you got, how much time you go

930
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 6: through it?

931
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: You did? You did?

932
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 3: I think?

933
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 7: I think.

934
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 6: One I would stop.

935
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 2: Falling in love with the idea of something, right Like

936
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: that would be my advice to women.

937
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 6: Stop falling in love with the idea.

938
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 2: So you see somebody, you know how they are, but

939
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 2: you trying to change them to what you want them

940
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: to be. They're not going to change for you. If

941
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 2: he did it to the last girl, he's going to

942
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 2: do it to you because that's in his character, right,

943
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 2: So stop trying to I'm special.

944
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no.

945
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: You have to like learn how to learn somebody and

946
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 2: be in love with who they are, right And if

947
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: you're in love with who they are, that's when you

948
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 2: could find some like real I think common ground. I

949
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: think for me, learning how to be happy alone has

950
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: been my journey, right, So like it's dangerous now you

951
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 2: do seems happy, So what do you be doing yourself.

952
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 3: It is dangerous.

953
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 6: I don't know what to do.

954
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 5: If I don't have my daughter, I'll be like what,

955
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 5: I'm about to go to New York. I don't even

956
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 5: know what to do?

957
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: Well I do?

958
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 2: I do say when I keep myself really busy with work,

959
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: So I do have a lot of work to do.

960
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 2: I have a lot of projects, and I focus on that.

961
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 2: But I think outside of that, just really enjoying yourself,

962
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: right and not being so a lot of us are

963
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 2: very co dependent, yes, right, so when you've been in

964
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 2: relationships like I was very co dependent, and I was

965
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 2: also I think through my divorce. You notice I was

966
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 2: afraid to be alone, right, So I didn't want to

967
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 2: be alone after I got divorced.

968
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 6: It was like the fear that I had of oh

969
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 6: my god.

970
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 3: Like are you gonna dielan?

971
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 2: No, you're gonna die a loan anyway, because when of

972
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 2: y'all is gonna die first, or you're all gonna break up.

973
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 1: But you're a tragic you know, like.

974
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 2: You are not going to die together, Okay, so at

975
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: some point you're.

976
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 6: Going to be alone. So you got to learn how

977
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 6: to be alone and be comfortable with that.

978
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 2: And so now I'm so comfortable with like being by myself,

979
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: and if someone is around, I enjoy their company like wholeheartedly,

980
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: like I enjoy the time we have together and being

981
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 2: with that person.

982
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 7: Do you know what I'm saying.

983
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 4: I always feel like it's so important for people to

984
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 4: understand how to be independent and be a great individual

985
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 4: on your own before you could be great in a

986
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 4: relationship with somebody. Yes, you know, sometimes some people will

987
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,399
Speaker 4: tell you like, oh, no, you're supposed to be able

988
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 4: to rely on the other person and be codependent.

989
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: I think that is not dangerous.

990
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 4: It's great when you're an independent, amazing person that I'm

991
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 4: with you because I'm choosing this, not because I have to.

992
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 3: When I was with my daughter's that my family, I

993
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 3: have a lot of women in my family's not a

994
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 3: lot of guys. They will be like, you need to

995
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 3: just stay with him because he take care of you.

996
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 3: Like they would never tell me get up and get

997
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 3: your own ship, like I did that on my own right,

998
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 3: And they would, like my grandmother everybody, like you need

999
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 3: to just stay there, Like where you're gonna go after this,

1000
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 3: what you're gonna do. I literally felt like, damn, this

1001
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 3: is all I got, So I just stood and I

1002
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 3: dealt with all the ship.

1003
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because sometimes that is something that is like

1004
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 4: a traditional thing to generation.

1005
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna be with.

1006
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but you know, even if you think about

1007
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 4: your mom, she's always got her own. Yeah, she could

1008
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 4: tell me the same ship too. We're gonna go, it's you,

1009
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 4: him and the baby.

1010
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 3: Need to just stay here.

1011
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 10: I was like.

1012
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 4: I would have been because she didn't do that, you

1013
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 4: know what she definitely, Yeah, she went and got her own,

1014
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 4: but she wanted you to be able.

1015
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 3: She felt like and a lot of people felt like

1016
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 3: I wasn't strong enough to be on my own. So

1017
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 3: when I did it, it surprised everybody, Like I just

1018
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 3: got up and I.

1019
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: Just I left, like me and that day, what what

1020
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 1: made that happen? That day? When you got up and left?

1021
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 4: I got call and again, don't go back, and I

1022
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 4: went back to that. But okay, I said that wrong.

1023
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 4: We were not together. I continuously told him we were

1024
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: not together, but y'all living together. Though he was living together.

1025
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 3: But I told him like, I'm about to go get

1026
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 3: my crib and this is gonna be what it is.

1027
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: But he never listened to me. He thought I was playing.

1028
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 3: And one day he went through my phone. But that

1029
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 3: night I prayed and I was like, I want to

1030
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 3: leave this man. I can't deal with this no more,

1031
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 3: like I can't be in this house my own stuff.

1032
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 3: I want to do everything on my own. And that

1033
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 3: day he went through my phone. I packed on my stuff.

1034
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:11,839
Speaker 3: Three days later I got my own grip.

1035
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 5: You got to stop going through the phone.

1036
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: I don't like that mean, I don't like because I've

1037
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: been telling my friends stuff.

1038
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,240
Speaker 7: I don't like talking.

1039
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: Crazy, reckless, you're not.

1040
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 7: Behavior.

1041
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 3: It's because he went through my phone where he wasn't

1042
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 3: even together, like a year ago, like that, and I

1043
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 3: was like, I cried in the car.

1044
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: I said, how dare you passwords? I was.

1045
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 5: Don't want to be somewhere where you feel.

1046
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 7: Like damn Joe, like I can't even like sleep you.

1047
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 6: Look that's too hard, like is too hard? But turn

1048
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 6: your phone off, silent and like what do you do?

1049
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 7: Like the phone?

1050
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: And sometimes when you go through somebody's phone, it's not

1051
00:44:59,239 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: what it seemed like.

1052
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 10: Too.

1053
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want them, it's definitely not yeah, because

1054
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 4: sometimes there's guys that you know him for ever that

1055
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 4: they'll be like, okay, I love you, be like I

1056
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 4: love you too, and you don't mean it.

1057
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 7: He looked it.

1058
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: I love him, then I love I don't, but it

1059
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: don't have to meet in a romance romantic. Romantic would

1060
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: be like like I have guy friends.

1061
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 6: That's the older thing though.

1062
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 4: Yeah I love you even like yeah, like he'll he'll

1063
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 4: do a place, just did a birthday post and he's like,

1064
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 4: I love you, and I'm like, I love you.

1065
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying.

1066
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 4: But I mean, if a guy saw messages between you,

1067
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 4: we don't text each other like.

1068
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 6: That, you and Donnelley, you and done, I'll be texting

1069
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 6: each other.

1070
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 1: I love you, you know what. It's funny that he

1071
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: does because he'll be like, love you, and I don't

1072
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: never say it be like.

1073
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,240
Speaker 5: An ongoing joke because she never I love you Angela.

1074
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 5: She'd be like, okay, yeah, so it's kind of like

1075
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 5: an ongoing joke. And so that's why it's funny. But

1076
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 5: if somebody didn't know.

1077
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 4: They can see something. I've known him since I end

1078
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 4: you know, all the friends. Yeah, I can't just pop

1079
00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 4: out with a guy friend.

1080
00:45:59,080 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 3: Who the fuck is this?

1081
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,240
Speaker 4: Has he ever messed with any girls that you know? Okay,

1082
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 4: he got ruled, he got cold Oka. Have any of

1083
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 4: his friends ever tried to holler at you?

1084
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like somebody did. No if they did,

1085
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: what you tell him?

1086
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 3: Hell yeah, I'm a snitch, so.

1087
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 7: I don't play.

1088
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 3: They know I'm gonna tell I don't care. Of course, guys,

1089
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 3: he knows he's in the industry, so of course, like

1090
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 3: people in that same industry that he knows.

1091
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, have you talked to anyone else in the industry?

1092
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 7: Oh?

1093
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: My girls, last last not too much for me.

1094
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 3: I'll take that, Yes, okay, I mean I have but

1095
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 3: like I have rules too, Like I don't. I wouldn't just.

1096
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 1: Nobody from high Bridge.

1097
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 4: No, hell no, nobody New York. It would not be nobody, Okay,

1098
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 4: whole I wouldn't. What about like ball, I know a

1099
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 4: lot of NBA players, I don't.

1100
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 3: I've never dealt with an NBA player.

1101
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: Baby in MDMs though they do, but I've dene with

1102
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: a football player. Okay, my team? Oh my god.

1103
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 4: Listen, and you had a viral moment that had to

1104
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 4: have well, how hard was that for you? Like the

1105
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 4: first time when you went viral there was a video

1106
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 4: oh when.

1107
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 3: I was younger, Yeah, yeah, that was like that was terrible.

1108
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 6: The guy who that was, he died.

1109
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 3: Actually he's not even around anymore. But yeah, I was

1110
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 3: what sixteen, he was sixteen too, and he wanted to

1111
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 3: be with me, and I was telling him we were

1112
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 3: sneaky links back in the days. We were sneaky links,

1113
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 3: and I really liked him, he really liked me. But

1114
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 3: we ended up not being together. I ended up getting

1115
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,919
Speaker 3: one another dude, and he got tight.

1116
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 7: He was mad.

1117
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 3: He so before he posted that video of me and him,

1118
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 3: he posted a picture of me and him, like two

1119
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 3: months before we was laid up, and he was like,

1120
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 3: I got your bitch with me right now. You don't

1121
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 3: even know it.

1122
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 4: It was to my boyfriend though, Wow, but I was

1123
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 4: with my boyfriend. He was literally in the house together,

1124
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 4: so yeah, like I'm not there right.

1125
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 7: And then.

1126
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 3: On his birthday June thirtieth, he a girl he was

1127
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 3: talking to posting him or something like that. I said

1128
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 3: something and then he posted the video and I was like,

1129
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 3: that was like the first time I ever wanted to

1130
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 3: like literally come in suicide.

1131
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 4: It was so sorry to hear that it was, because

1132
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 4: that's really hard and I always feel people are leaking

1133
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 4: any type of sex tape when you think about how

1134
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 4: that affects somebody, their family has to see that. It

1135
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 4: was bad.

1136
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 5: It was especially as a woman. I'm not saying it's

1137
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 5: not hard as a man, but it's really hard as

1138
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 5: a woman. Yeah, when it happens to us, because people

1139
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 5: just and ity be other women tearing us apart literally

1140
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 5: on social media.

1141
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: People act like you wanted that to happen.

1142
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 10: It was.

1143
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 3: It was so bad I could I really couldn't believe

1144
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 3: that he did that. And then it was like my

1145
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 3: mom was just getting lit at that time, like I

1146
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 3: was young as fuck, and it was like, you know,

1147
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 3: she didn't know what to do, and it wasn't really

1148
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 3: out there that she had a daughter my age. A

1149
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 3: lot of people didn't know that till later on. So

1150
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 3: she was like she was just looking at me like

1151
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 3: what the fuck is wrong with you? Like why would

1152
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 3: you do that? And I was just like I don't know,

1153
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 3: Like I just wanted to see my thing. I just

1154
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 3: wanted to see what I looked like doing it. And

1155
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:20,959
Speaker 3: it was like I was sixteen, I was being fast,

1156
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 3: I was being grown and I fucked.

1157
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 4: Up, right, But that's also like a learning lesson to you,

1158
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 4: Like I ain't letting nobody camera, no flash because I

1159
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 4: was done it before, right, Yeah, I would never allow

1160
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 4: anything that access, you know, I don't.

1161
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 1: Do that because I know you got a lot of teams.

1162
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,280
Speaker 1: She didn't like listen. Somebody Feulna looked my ship.

1163
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 7: Later like, oh I look good, because right, how did

1164
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 7: you get through it?

1165
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 10: Though?

1166
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 7: Like what did you?

1167
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: What helped you?

1168
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 3: Well, my mom wasn't talking. She was like really really

1169
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 3: disappointed after that. And my stepfather he helped me. My

1170
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 3: best friend at the time, she helped me. But I

1171
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 3: was really just like sucluding myself, like I didn't want

1172
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 3: to be around nobody. I don't know what the hell

1173
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 3: how I got through that?

1174
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 7: Like that was hard. That was hard.

1175
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 3: That was so bad. Like I feel so bad for

1176
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 3: girls that go through stuff like that because it's like

1177
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 3: you don't know where to put your head at, Like

1178
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 3: you feel like when you walk outside they seen nobody.

1179
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 7: Yeah, everybody looks bad.

1180
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 3: And then especially when me and my daughter's father got together,

1181
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 3: people started reposting it. It came back out, but he

1182
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 3: had already seen it. He didn't care, so when he

1183
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 3: when they was posting it, he came immediately to my house.

1184
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 3: He's like good.

1185
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: I was like that's sweet.

1186
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was crazy. You know.

1187
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 4: It goes back to a Jasmin said earlier though, because

1188
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 4: sometimes things happen and it feels like it's the end

1189
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 4: of the world and you can't move on from it,

1190
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 4: and then later on you look.

1191
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: Back and be like, while it was bad, you could

1192
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: be like, oh I got that, got through it.

1193
00:50:57,960 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was something I thought I would never get through.

1194
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 3: Like even my father's family was writing me saying bullshit,

1195
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 3: that's why it happened to you, and.

1196
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 1: Oh wow, if anything, that's the time when you're like,

1197
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: are you okay?

1198
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah? I feel like a lot of people didn't check

1199
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 3: up on me like that. It was just like I

1200
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,399
Speaker 3: feel like everybody was against me more than they were

1201
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 3: like checking on me. So I don't know.

1202
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 1: How was it for you when you found out that

1203
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: you were having a kid? Was that planned?

1204
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: We planned it, Daddy, We planned it. But people was

1205
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 3: mad too, Like my family was a little shady in

1206
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 3: the beginning. But I ain't give a shit, right, I

1207
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 3: don't care. I mean I was grown. I'm twenty one, right.

1208
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: And you can take care of her. He can take

1209
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 1: care and you guys put together.

1210
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 3: And I kept getting pregnant, so I was like, I'm

1211
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,759
Speaker 3: not about to get pregnant again, and I keep this one.

1212
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 3: Were gonna do this one? And we was like, fuck it,

1213
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 3: let's do it, and we did it.

1214
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 1: That's decision.

1215
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 7: That was it?

1216
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: Is she on the show?

1217
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1218
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 1: Okay, that's my bool. So how was it for you?

1219
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: Like what was the decision for you guys to even

1220
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 1: do the impact?

1221
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 4: How?

1222
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 7: How was that?

1223
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 3: Like?

1224
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 4: How did they approach you guys about it? What was

1225
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 4: the conversation like between you and your mom where there

1226
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 4: are reservations that you had?

1227
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 3: Well, my mom did not want to do the show.

1228
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:14,959
Speaker 3: She didn't know because it's.

1229
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,439
Speaker 1: That first time doing reality TV.

1230
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 4: I remember she was supposed to do a show that

1231
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 4: Lla was executive producing that end up happening.

1232
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 3: She did not want to do it. She was like,

1233
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 3: actually I don't want to do it. But I got

1234
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 3: a call from my two manager, Steven Amber, and it

1235
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 3: was like how you feel about being on reality TV?

1236
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 3: And I'm like it was love and hip hop, Bama

1237
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 3: want to do it? No shaite? But I was like

1238
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 3: then they told me what it was. I was like,

1239
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 3: fuck it, I'll do it, and it was like yeah,

1240
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 3: we want to get Lla two. I'm like hell yeah.

1241
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 3: And then when I told my mom, she was like,

1242
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 3: you could do it. I don't know about me. And

1243
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, it kind of go together, like you know,

1244
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 3: you from New York and you could tell a story too.

1245
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 3: But I don't want it to look like we always

1246
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 3: together because that's not really us. Like we we I

1247
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 3: have my life, you have your life. So Kim had

1248
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 3: to tell her and keep telling her and try to

1249
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 3: get her to record, because oh my god, it was

1250
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 3: like to get a record, it is like breaking next.

1251
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 3: So but we did it and it was cool.

1252
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:09,439
Speaker 1: And how was it for you guys?

1253
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 4: When you guys started being able to go out together,

1254
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 4: people had things to say about, Ah.

1255
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was fun. I like going out with my mother.

1256
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 3: I don't trust nobody, like I'm funny, like and y'all

1257
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,919
Speaker 3: going to see it on the show, Like I'm really

1258
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 3: like I could be standorfish, but I'm really not, Like

1259
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:26,760
Speaker 3: I'm really a sweetheart. But to be around my family

1260
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 3: and to be around my close friends, that's like my sanctuary.

1261
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 3: That's like home to me. Yeah, and I feel safe.

1262
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 3: So it was lit going outside my mother, be in

1263
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,959
Speaker 3: a bag with my mother. No, it was lit.

1264
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: Now when it comes to them music West the Plans.

1265
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 3: My main goal is to be a headliner. I always

1266
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 3: wanted to be a headliner. I want to headline shit.

1267
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 3: I want to be on Rolling Loud, like I want

1268
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 3: to be that girl, like I want to really like

1269
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 3: take this to the next level. And I know a

1270
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 3: lot of people say that, but it's like I'm really

1271
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 3: like blocked in. Everything with me is like music, Like

1272
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 3: I'm all the way locked in.

1273
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 4: Do you hesitate to ask your expert help and assistance

1274
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 4: and anything, or do you feel like I don't want Okay.

1275
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask if I need something, I need help,

1276
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 3: like what's going on? Like I don't mind asking nobody

1277
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 3: for help, like I write my own shait yet. But

1278
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,879
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like as a woman and as

1279
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 3: a rapper, I feel like we always need help. Like

1280
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 3: you know, dudes, they not gonna say that they was

1281
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 3: getting help, but they get help, so it's like there's

1282
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,959
Speaker 3: nothing wrong with it. Like I haven't used the writer

1283
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 3: for real, but I would. I don't give a shit,

1284
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 3: you know, I.

1285
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 4: Don't care see the big deal in that either, because

1286
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 4: first of all, it helps you put other people onto

1287
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 4: like when the guys be in the room together, you

1288
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 4: got a crew. Sometimes people throw out lines or they

1289
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 4: might have something dope or say it like this that

1290
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 4: is getting help.

1291
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 3: Actually, what's that movie? Shape out of Content?

1292
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 7: And easy? Yeah easy?

1293
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 3: Ice Cube wrote all those songs. Yeah, so what the

1294
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 3: fuck is the problem?

1295
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 7: Like, I don't see no problem.

1296
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 5: In its it's becoming it is.

1297
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 3: I feel like right now, it's hard to use a

1298
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 3: writer because they talk about men. Writers talk about the

1299
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 3: same ship. In my opinion, that's why I like to

1300
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 3: write my own ship. They talk about sex, they talk

1301
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 3: about what people what they think people want to hear. Right,

1302
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 3: So it's kind of hard to really find a good

1303
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 3: ass writer.

1304
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: But you've been trying to a little bit.

1305
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 4: I want and La sings right, okay, So are y'all

1306
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 4: gonna do anything like that?

1307
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 3: But hers don't don't come to the studio. She is

1308
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 3: hard to get her to the studio. She's good, I

1309
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 3: can I tell her that all the time. She's good.

1310
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 3: But to get her to go to the studio is

1311
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 3: like pulling hairs, Like I'm like, damn, girl, like just

1312
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 3: do it, do the ship like I do it for you,

1313
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 3: like so, but hopefully she'll come.

1314
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 4: I feel like that would have been a great storyline

1315
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 4: on the show to see the studio together.

1316
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:51,760
Speaker 5: Maybe yeah, maybe next season.

1317
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 1: Look at him. She's like, she's like, I'm in my business.

1318
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,359
Speaker 4: And there's also a lot of women on the show,

1319
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,240
Speaker 4: like we said, dreamed I was on there, Chinese Kitty

1320
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 4: Cleo Trapper.

1321
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: Who else is on it?

1322
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,240
Speaker 6: Millennie, Oh yeah, MILLENNI right, Scott Louis.

1323
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1324
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: But when it comes to artists, artists, you know these

1325
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 1: would be people too.

1326
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 10: Ye.

1327
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: How is it you think working with other women?

1328
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 7: Is it easy for them?

1329
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: Do they are they like receptive to I don't.

1330
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 3: Think girls are really that welcoming, not seeing the girls

1331
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 3: on the show, because I think they are welcoming. But

1332
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 3: I'm saying girls in the rap music, I don't really

1333
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 3: think that they're that welcoming. I've only made songs with dudes,

1334
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 3: so like a girl wouldn't hit me up, Like, hey girl,

1335
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,800
Speaker 3: I would hit a girl up. But I feel like

1336
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 3: sometimes girls be feeling like they better or they're bigger,

1337
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:41,319
Speaker 3: and it's like I don't feel that way, like I'm

1338
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 3: gonna do what I gotta do.

1339
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 4: Also, sometimes it's just a matter of because people might

1340
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 4: not even know until and when the show comes out

1341
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 4: they don't know that you do music. Some people may

1342
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 4: not even have you know, there's so much going on

1343
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 4: sometimes things like they're like oh yeah, yeah, yeah, and

1344
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 4: so I think this might help.

1345
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited, but what the help? I can't read

1346
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 3: music like the market is good, knock knock is good,

1347
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 3: and I don't even my music is actually sing like

1348
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 3: in the music that I really do want to put out,

1349
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 3: this is just ship that I know kids would like, like,

1350
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 3: this is ship that I know will get me a

1351
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 3: fan base. This is really not the music that I

1352
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 3: want to do. This is just easy sh strategy. Yeah,

1353
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 3: it's just whatever.

1354
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 4: So do you now, let me ask you this when

1355
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 4: it comes to dating, right, so we've seen your mom

1356
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 4: likes your your child's father because she's like staying with him.

1357
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: Do you like the guys that she dates? Like?

1358
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 3: Do you?

1359
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 10: No?

1360
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 3: I know you don't.

1361
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: Have you liked any of them? Have been like he's

1362
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: a good one.

1363
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 3: For you years ago? Okay years years years or years

1364
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 3: years ago? I don't like them? No, I don't. I'm

1365
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 3: I'm I'm a tough cookie, like.

1366
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 5: I'm trying to man.

1367
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 3: You want her to have a family, man, a man

1368
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 3: that's like you know, somebody and.

1369
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 7: Hairs.

1370
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: I just want her to look. I know when my

1371
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 3: mom is happy, and I just feel like she deserves everything.

1372
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 3: So I feel like sometimes seeing her cater to someone

1373
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 3: and they not catering to her the way that I

1374
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 3: feel like she should be getting catered to, that bothers me.

1375
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:15,960
Speaker 3: So I want her to have somebody that's going through

1376
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,919
Speaker 3: the whole nine, Like I need my mother, not even

1377
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 3: to lift a finger. I need you to take care

1378
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 3: of my mother.

1379
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 7: That's what I want us.

1380
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 4: All right, Well, I feel like all those good things

1381
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 4: we put it in the atmosphere. You know, you single,

1382
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 4: you're back on the market, like she's gonna get back

1383
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 4: together with her ex.

1384
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: But you know that's neither here nor.

1385
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 4: Your child's I honestly, the fact that you get butterflies

1386
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 4: and the faces that you make even when you talk

1387
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 4: about here, and the accountability that you've taken for things

1388
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 4: that have gone wrong, and the fact that your daughter

1389
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 4: wants you all to be together.

1390
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 6: He's facetiming you pick up, pickup, That's what I'm doing.

1391
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: She always do that, sister ship started.

1392
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 4: She's such a preducer, right right, all right, Well, Ashley Marie,

1393
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 4: thank you so much.

1394
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: For joining us.

1395
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 4: This is our first time having to sit down. The

1396
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 4: show starts on January twenty second, correct, yes, all right,

1397
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 4: January twenty second.

1398
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 5: You feel good?

1399
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, hell yeah, it's lit.

1400
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, lay back, all right, Well

1401
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 1: that is it. It's lip service and Chimosario for guest hosting.

1402
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, some guest hosting here. So it's birthday. I

1403
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 2: just came for the cake, just a birthday episode.

1404
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: Why don't you jump on the episode with us? Just

1405
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: because I want to make sure that people also see.

1406
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 4: Who's behind the scenes, just because Kim's been doing her

1407
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 4: ship for a really long time and sometimes it's a

1408
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 4: job that people don't understand how hard it is.

1409
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 2: Like it's it's let me just say, it's hard to

1410
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 2: get a show on that green Lit. Everybody has a

1411
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 2: show right now. Yeah, everybody comes up to me like

1412
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 2: I got to show. I got to show, I gotta show.

1413
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 6: You gotta come. I'm a TV power. It's hard to

1414
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 6: get green Lit.

1415
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 3: You got a good show.

1416
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 6: I think we have a great shot.

1417
00:59:57,640 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 7: I can't wait.

1418
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: She's excited about it. I will tell you all that. Yeah,

1419
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 1: she's excited about it.

1420
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 4: And we worked on my chewo scam story together she

1421
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 4: executed about Jennifer Williams. Yeah, that was a two episode

1422
01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 4: series on BAH one about Jennifer Gay Scammed.

1423
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: He did really well too, it did, and congratulations to y'all.

1424
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:16,919
Speaker 1: They didn't promote it much, but you know, it still

1425
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 1: did well. It's not nhr FI, it's the truth. They didn't,

1426
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: but you know what, we promoted it now.

1427
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 6: I executive produced that, yeah, yeah, I executive produced it with.

1428
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 7: Angela and I. Yeah. Yeah, it's good.

1429
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 1: You should watch it when you get some times.

1430
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 3: Watch it.

1431
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 4: All right, Well, it's lip service, and thank you for

1432
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 4: being so open to talk about everything, even the difficult things.

1433
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: All right, it's all right, yes,