1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you here. 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry LETTA thank you nephew. Subject teacher's pet. 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty two year old female 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: and I'm a part time professor at a local university. 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: Teaching is my first love and I'm hoping to get 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: a full time job as a professor. But there's one 7 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: little issue that I need your advice on. I have 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: a very handsome student athlete in one of my classes, 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: and he's a golden tan color, has hazel eyes and 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: the best smile. He is a beautiful young man and 11 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 1: he is making me think about risking it all to 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: spend time with him. I'm ten years older than him, 13 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 1: so he's an adult. But I could lose my job 14 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: for dealing with a student. I think he knows that 15 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 1: I am interested in him because he always sits right 16 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: up front and makes eye contact with me during my lectures. 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: He always takes his time to pack up his things 18 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: at the end of class, as if he's trying to 19 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: stay a few extra minutes in my room. It's getting 20 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: harder for me to play it cool. I was nerdy 21 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: in college and grad school, so I never had the 22 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: typical college dating experience. Being a younger professor, I seem 23 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: to relate more to the students than the staff. And 24 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm lonely. I need more to my life than just 25 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: going to work and coming home alone. I know I 26 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: won't have much of a future with this young man, 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: but how about just having a little fling during the 28 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,279 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving holidays. He's on the basketball team, so he's staying 29 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: in town for practice. I wouldn't be breaking any laws. 30 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: What do you think? Please advise? You already know the answer. 31 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: You already know it. Don't do this, okay, but you 32 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: already know when you wrote in so okay, well, humor 33 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: you all right? You do not want to do this? 34 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: You you do not, um, and why would you risk 35 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: at all? Why would you do that that? It just 36 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: makes no sense. You're smart, You're a professor, you know 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: better for a fling. You just said that your part 38 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: time and you're hoping for a full time professorship. So um, 39 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: it just makes no sense. Professor, um, You're you're really 40 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: smarter than this. It definitely sounds like an attraction is 41 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: there on both parts. But he he's young, and is 42 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: he that fine? That you should lose everything. I'm gonna 43 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: say no on that one. Um, if all you do 44 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: is go to work and go home, then you need 45 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: to get out and mingle with some people your own 46 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 1: age that are not your students at your workplace. You 47 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: know you need to meet people. Put some effort into it. 48 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure there's some good men you know in the 49 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: city where you live. Um, dating a student can just 50 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: get you in a world of trouble. You don't want 51 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: to do that with this twenty two year old, uh 52 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 1: student in your thirty two he's I can't believe he's 53 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: that fine that you would consider risking it all. Um, 54 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: call up a girlfriend, put on something really cute, and 55 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: go out. Okay, don't lose your job on this playing 56 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: on this student. Don't do that. Teacher's pet. I'm a 57 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: thirty or two year old female. I'm a part time 58 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: professor at the local university. Teaching is my first love 59 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: and I'm hoping to get a full time job as 60 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: a professor. But there's a little issue and I need 61 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: your advice on it. Well, let me stop right here 62 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: and help you out. Teaching ain't your first love. It's this, 63 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: damn boy. This is your first love. It's this damn boy. 64 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: So let's go tell me how much you love teaching 65 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: hoping to get a full time job. I got a 66 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: handsome student athlete in your class. He's golden tan color. 67 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: You're in Size him up. He got haze allies in 68 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: the best smile. He's a beautiful young man. He's making 69 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: me think about risking it all to spend some time 70 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: with him. What this boy got you thinking about risking 71 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: it all to spend some time with him? Are you crazy? 72 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: All you just said it? Risk all? Your tenue will 73 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 1: be over with as a professor. No one will hire 74 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: you when they find out why you was fired in 75 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: the school system. No one will ever hire you again. 76 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: It goes on your record. Now, he may be an adult, 77 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,239 Speaker 1: but it's against the rules at the college. I'm sure, 78 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: but you want to risk it all. I'm ten years 79 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: older than him, so he's an adult. But I could 80 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: lose my job for dealing with the student. Dude. He 81 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: won't you? Now? This is what she goes. I think 82 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: he knows that I'm interested in him because he always 83 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: sits right up front and makes eye contact with me 84 00:04:55,320 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: doing my lectures. He looking at you because your you're talking. 85 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: He looking at you. I made out contact with Mrs Adams, 86 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: my fourth grade teacher, to try to figure out what 87 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: the hair she was talking about. I'm figured if I 88 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: stare at her, the message might come clear. Was cute. 89 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: Mrs Avenue was cute. I couldn't get Ms Adams. This 90 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: boy ain't got no job, got no credit, got no money. 91 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: He's just a damn student athlete. He always takes his 92 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: time to pack up his things at the end of 93 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: the class, as if he's trying to stay a few 94 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 1: extra minutes in my room. It's getting harder for me 95 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: to play it cool. See. I was nerdy in college 96 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: and in grad school, so I never had the typical 97 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:03,119 Speaker 1: college dating the spiens. Being a younger professor, I seem 98 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 1: to relate more to the students than the staff. And 99 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm lonely. I need more of my life than just 100 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: going to work and coming home alone. What't you get have, 101 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: grown ass man? Mhm. See, if you just want to 102 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: have a fleeing, why have a fleeing with somebody that 103 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: can cost you everything. Just go have a fleeing, but 104 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: don't rest. Don't mess your life up for no fleeing. 105 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: But how how about just having a little fleeing doing 106 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: the Thanksgiving holiday. He owned the basketball team, so he's 107 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: staying in town for practice. Gonna lose your damn career 108 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: messing with this little pretty ass boy that don't won't you? 109 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: And now you ain't gonna have no job, no future, 110 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: or no career because you're just slept with the damn boy. 111 00:06:54,760 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 1: Man Bye, in the words of my wife, Felicia I 112 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: or by Felicia whatever she Selicia Bye, Felicia lady fit 113 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: to throw her whole damn career out the window. She 114 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: want to screw this little boy to play on the 115 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: basketball team. That's what it is. That's all this is. 116 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: She want to screw the little boy on the basketball team, 117 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: and she wants to do it. And Thanksgiving she got 118 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: it all worked out, She got hurt, dinner worked out. 119 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: You know exactly what I want on my plate? His 120 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: tan color or hazel color, eyes, pretty smile. I was 121 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: nerdy in college, in glad school, so I didn't get 122 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: the dating experience. You don't have it now, gonna risk 123 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: everything with a board of dot. Ain't gonna spend no 124 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: time with you. Might not even want you, old ass, 125 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: because see when you're twenty, you think thirty two old, 126 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: not sitting up in here with your craziest self, and 127 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: you have read this here like, ain't nobody in town 128 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: here in this damn letter? But you now everybody in 129 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,239 Speaker 1: here know the boy that play on the basketball team, 130 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: sit on the front road with the hazel eyes and 131 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: light skill, and you bought your nutt ass in here 132 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: and wrote a letter about him. What you professor? Friends 133 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: is listening to this letter right now? You know, girl, 134 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: I beat this Sheila? What ain't that the little boy 135 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: tip Tyrefus. Ain't ty Refus Tarifus in his class? Tyrifus 136 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,599 Speaker 1: in the class? Ain't he got hazel eyes? Girl? I 137 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: beat this girl? I bet she Sheila trying to sleep 138 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: with ty Refus? The girl. Have you seen Tyrifus daddy? 139 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: What's his name? What's his name? Clef world clear? Girl, 140 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: boy that Clei Reefers came to turn that game, had 141 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: that T shirt on. God, that man looks slave strong. God. Yeah, 142 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna get the 143 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: dean to go sit in the back of the class 144 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: and see what this help for doing. They might be 145 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: seeing each other. That's why we don't won the game 146 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: with the story. Gonna get this set up here and 147 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: put it on this little board where he can't make 148 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 1: a basket. I'm gonna call Tyrifus mama. That's what I'm 149 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: gonna do. I'm gonna call ty Refus ma. I'm gonna 150 00:09:54,080 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 1: call thy Refus mom. You know Tarifus mama. What's her name, Quintella. 151 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call Tarrifus mama, Quinteller. I'm gonna tell her 152 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: what this half of down here doing. And you know 153 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: his mama crazy because she came came into the game 154 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: one time, she was hot. Mm hmmm, mm hmmm. You 155 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: want to straight up and asked his mama to leave. 156 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: She failed down the bleachers. Who she was man this letter, Lady, 157 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 1: do not sleep with this boy. Find you somebody grown. 158 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: If you just want to have a fleeing, have a 159 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: fleeing somewhere, that's not gonna cause you to risk everything. 160 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: You can't risk everything for a fleeing. And Steve, that's 161 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: the problem because she thinks, because she's young, she relates 162 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: to the students more, she says, than the staff. You 163 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: can't well go go screw one of the kids at 164 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: the other school. Say that go to the basketball game 165 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: and find another pretty basketball player on the other team, 166 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: it's still gonna get the district. Yeah, but she don't 167 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: go to that school. Yeah, you can do that, you know. Yeah, 168 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: but it's still risk at Yeah right there. It ain't 169 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: that me the haze a lot of players on basketball. Yeah, 170 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: but have you seen that dog skin ball over that 171 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 1: John Tavians vis. Girl, what does that look like? Girl? 172 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: You're talking about jump out the gym John Tavians Girl, 173 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 1: he jumped so high one time. He had on some shots. Girl. 174 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: You can see like Michael Jordan's on that jump something. Girl, 175 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: that boy had legs when he jumped. I was standing down. 176 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: I was on the front row. You look straight up 177 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 1: his girl. Really, it wasn't enough. Jock is strength, John Tavius. 178 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: If you're gonna lose your job jumping John Tavius now 179 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:27,559 Speaker 1: the one to play for tech girl up jumping and 180 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:37,719 Speaker 1: Tyrefius pretty Tyreefus and what did cleanse something? Cliffs and 181 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: Quintella was the mama and quin clif and ty Refus, 182 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: But jumping John Tavius and John Tavius. Daddy, what's this? Dame? Harold, 183 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: just make a simple now just harol her. Heroll a'try. 184 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. That's the nickname. I say, 185 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: date someone closer to her own age. Please leave Tyrifius 186 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: alone and cause the quintell find out if who his 187 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: mom his mama Quintella keep up, Clirefus is his daddy, 188 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: Quintella is the mama. Ty Refus is the pretty boy 189 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: that she want to sleep with. But I'm suggesting go 190 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:48,839 Speaker 1: over there at the Tech and get your hands on 191 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 1: John Tavis, jump jumping John Tavins. And if you can't 192 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: get John Tavis, his daddy's name is Harold. Don't forget 193 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 1: her a girl, all right, we gotta get out of here, guys. 194 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: Oh we're gonna jump out of here with Jock take 195 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: Please email us our Instagram us your thoughts on today's 196 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey f M. You're listening to 197 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show