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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. It

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Speaker 1: is a special edition of Scrubbing In because it is

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Speaker 1: not just Halloween. It is the day after Becca Tilly's birthday. Also,

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Speaker 1: it's not well it's not Halloween, is what I said. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you guys, Honestly, I've been doing that a lot lately.

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Speaker 1: Like I did it on a red carpet. I was like,

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Speaker 1: we're at the bloody blood and it was alive hit

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Speaker 1: and I was like it is. Yeah, you're a couple

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Speaker 1: of years behind. Yeah, it's very common. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why it is so common. Weird, but anyways, you have

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Speaker 1: the majority of the year, right, you just needed it

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Speaker 1: too at the end, Yeah, well it is more importantly

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Speaker 1: to day after your birthday. So thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: In honor of such day, shall we the thirty four

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Speaker 1: lessons You've learned in life? Yeah, I definitely am not

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Speaker 1: going to do thirty four lessons I've learned in life,

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Speaker 1: but I do like the number thirty four. I feel

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Speaker 1: very good about thirty four. Cute. I just you know,

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Speaker 1: I was talking to Haley about this yesterday, like it

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Speaker 1: was so cool going into this next year of life

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Speaker 1: and like our relationship being public and kind of just

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Speaker 1: like I feel like vibes. I feel vibes, like I

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Speaker 1: feel good about thirty four, you know, I feel that

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Speaker 1: my life is where I wanted to be. Things are

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Speaker 1: out there. I think, Um, yeah, it's been it's been

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Speaker 1: good so far. Good day, feeling good, feeling empowered for

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Speaker 1: a new year. I do feel very empowered. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: about this year and all the things that come with it.

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Speaker 1: What do you want this year to come with? Podcast

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Speaker 1: to Skyrocket listen we we are not nominated for People's

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Speaker 1: Choice for It's okay, it's okay nominated, it's okay. But

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Speaker 1: I do I want next year? I want us to

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Speaker 1: be back in that and that you know likest Um,

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Speaker 1: I want to build a pool in my house. I

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Speaker 1: have like goals like that, Like I want to design

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Speaker 1: my home, get that done and maybe by another property.

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Speaker 1: I want to um travel more as always and just

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Speaker 1: you know, continue like I just I'm so great. I

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Speaker 1: think this year I really felt like how grateful I

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Speaker 1: am for the people in my life. Like I had

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Speaker 1: a moment where I was like, wow, I'm surrounded by

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Speaker 1: so many amazing people, and like that alone felt like

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Speaker 1: such a gift. It is such a gift. It's fair.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I realize it. And like certain moments

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Speaker 1: where I'm like, dang, like I feel very fortunate to

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Speaker 1: have the people in my life. Like I don't just

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Speaker 1: have good people, I have like really great people in

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Speaker 1: my life. And uh time, you know, got me a

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Speaker 1: ping pong table for my birthday and it's like outdoor

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Speaker 1: on this? Because like he's like this is it for him?

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Speaker 1: Like he will never win again. To be honest, it

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Speaker 1: was really a joint effort because I had like this

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Speaker 1: basket prepared Rebecca with like kind of all of her

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Speaker 1: favorite things in it. I've already gotten the candle and

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Speaker 1: the pop tarts and the Celsius to kind of put

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Speaker 1: that is exactly what I needed. And so I was like,

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Speaker 1: I can't just get her just like a normal ping

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Speaker 1: many years. And so we put our heads together and

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Speaker 1: we really got you a good one. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it got delivered this morning, and it's truly it's

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Speaker 1: beautiful good. Yeah, it's next level. And he should be

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Speaker 1: shaking in his boots now because yeah, I mean, what

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Speaker 1: a bold move on his part to even suggest that.

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Speaker 1: But it'll it'll be great. Yeah. Now we can do

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Speaker 1: think taco TuS at my house and we can oh no,

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Speaker 1: now we can really prep for the ping pong, the

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Speaker 1: Kershop ping pong tournament next year. You're really get our skills, right,

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Speaker 1: you're right? Yeah, yeah, Well he's a free agent, by

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Speaker 1: the way, who Clayton Kershaw. I'm saying he may not

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Speaker 1: what that means for the future of that tournament. Oh

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Speaker 1: the shocking intel. That's a really great event. So that

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Speaker 1: will be upsetting for the l A community. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: It is, but but it's he would do another team,

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Speaker 1: he would do it probably there, right, if you're playing

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Speaker 1: for the Texas Rangers, he would do it. In doubt,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do Like l A is really information that

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Speaker 1: could be pivotal, pivotal information, avotal information that Mark is sharing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have to put that in my back pocket and

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Speaker 1: info and we'll put it right in the back pocket.

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Speaker 1: Mark updates this again with something because we definitely won't

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Speaker 1: know about it. Not at the top of my news list. Um,

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Speaker 1: it was. It was like a busy weekend though, like

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Speaker 1: a lot has happened since we lasted our podcast, So

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Speaker 1: much has happened. Where do we begin Your birthday? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: my birthday was chill, like I woke up, Tony and

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Speaker 1: Robbie came and delivered a basket of pop tarts, Celsius

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Speaker 1: my favorite candle ping pong, like chic aesthetic ping pong

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Speaker 1: paddles and um. So that I started off my morning

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Speaker 1: with that, which was great. And then Haley and I

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Speaker 1: in Haley and we get there and the hostess takes

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Speaker 1: like a mistake to leave our drinks and was so confused.

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Speaker 1: more than you realize. I feel like we missed out

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Speaker 1: it a little personal. Yeah, but y'all are both my

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Speaker 1: to share that. It was. I had a really great,

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Speaker 1: relaxing birthday. It was exactly what I wanted. Great, glad

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Speaker 1: to say? Allison always brings up that the best pictures

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Speaker 1: Mass text I don't wanna were of. So Hailey was

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Speaker 1: and she was Velma. And so then Velma recently, I

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Speaker 1: Like he always is. Just he's such a ride or

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Speaker 1: Did everyone dress up? Was this the thing? Like the

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Speaker 1: I don't really know the difference between who's and who's,

425
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Speaker 1: so I don't know if you notice. I always just

426
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Speaker 1: say who is? I can't because I'm like, I don't

427
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 1: know the difference. I to say who is? That one

428
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 1: gets me too. I think, yeah, I just don't want

429
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:48,919
Speaker 1: to risk it. I know it's fifty fifty, but I

430
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: can't risk it who is? Who is she? Unless you're Yeah,

431
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 1: we have another Halloween party tonight and I need another costume,

432
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: and I'm tired, and I don't know if there's gonna

433
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 1: be anything left at the store. I'm not to be kleined,

434
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 1: like I might just have to do it. Nothing pains

435
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: me more. And I don't know if it's my age

436
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 1: at thirty five. But let me tell you, I am tired.

437
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,719
Speaker 1: And I only dressed up one night and like a morning,

438
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: one night and one morning for Halloween. And your girl

439
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:25,719
Speaker 1: is tired. But aside from the dressing up one all,

440
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: I mean we've gone gone out every night. Mama is

441
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 1: this is my second coffee of the day. I will

442
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 1: say there was an interesting moment I had last night

443
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: because we were at dinner and um, Haley and I

444
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 1: got a drink, but like, I don't even know if

445
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 1: I finished my drink, and then Ali an Tania didn't drink,

446
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 1: and I was like, we're at that age now, you know,

447
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: We're like we're all talking about it. We were like

448
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 1: we should drink. It's her birthday, like we should have

449
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 1: a glass of something. And then I was like I

450
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: don't feel at all, Like I don't care if anyone

451
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: drinks or not. I literally was like I'm so unwell

452
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 1: and tired today that like if I have a drink

453
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 1: and I knew how to get up really early for work,

454
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: I was like I can't. I just can't do it.

455
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: I was just thinking like um, and then our friend

456
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 1: was Brittany was apposed to go but her Grandma passed away,

457
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: and so she send money for to like send us

458
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 1: shots to the table, and I was like, no, one's

459
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: drunk table, wrong table, So no shots were It was

460
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: a really fun weekend. It's gonna round out tonight. And

461
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: then they were walking down the stairs to get to

462
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 1: the car. Literally all of us were like, it's so hard.

463
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 1: Our knees hurt walking down the stairs and heels all

464
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: he look like shaking. When she looked like no, she

465
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 1: looked like when your citizen, it is weird, like the

466
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 1: things you started noticing, just like that happened as you can.

467
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: I laughed, But I'm secretly terrified inside of the pains

468
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: and aches that are coming. I know, I know. So yeah,

469
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 1: it's a little bit, a little bit about what's going

470
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: going on for us. Should we do an email? Are

471
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: we there already? People were like, our brains are fried.

472
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,479
Speaker 1: How about this one? Let me read you this one.

473
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: It's not an advice email. It's just a very sweet

474
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 1: email we got from Rebecca. She said, today I decided

475
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 1: we'll be fun to go back to the first ever

476
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: episode were together. I think it is episode four, and

477
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: Tanya was technically a guest. I don't know what I expected,

478
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: or if I expected anything at all, but I was

479
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: blown away by how similar everything felt to listening today.

480
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: And I mean this in the best way possible. Of course,

481
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: the podcast has changed and growing and evolved in big

482
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 1: and beautiful ways, but the giggling, the banter, the love

483
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: between Becca and to and it was the exact same.

484
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 1: And that's why we love the podcast. We witness a

485
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 1: friendship so genuine and real it brings us joy every week.

486
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: I have personally been through a lot of change that

487
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: has proved challenging recently, and I can truly say this

488
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: podcast as a source of pure joy every week, and

489
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: that is a rare thing. So thank you both and

490
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: the team for your work on the podcast, and thank

491
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: you for sharing your lives and friendships with us. A

492
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: true blessing. I love that. I want to go that, mactual,

493
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: you want to go listen to it? I know we

494
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: should Actually, Yeah, that'd be fun we should do it,

495
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: and like film our reactions to it would be funny.

496
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 1: We should do that. We'll put that in her back pocket. No,

497
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 1: that's cute. I like that idea. We'll put that in

498
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: the Yeah, we can't do it. Live in the Facebook

499
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: group Oh no, I forgot how to do that. We'll

500
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 1: figure it out. Yeah, we'll put it. We'll have been

501
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: in that one. We'll figure it out. Also cute, thank

502
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: you for sending that. I love that the the core

503
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 1: of what the podcast is has been consistent for that long. Yeah,

504
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 1: and that it's just friendship because I think also too,

505
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: as you like are in. You know, we've been doing

506
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: it now for five years, and I think sometimes you

507
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: kind of get through, you know, like we see we

508
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: want to have this renaissance, and you see all these

509
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: other podcasts like flipping and changing and doing things different,

510
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, your gut tells you like, oh, we

511
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 1: should evolve and we should do things different. And then

512
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, you know what, I just think at

513
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: the core we should remain the same. Well yeah, I

514
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 1: mean I definitely agree. I think at the core we

515
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: have to say the same. Yeah. Like it's like an apple,

516
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: like we should have the seeds in the middle. It

517
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: should always be the seeds that grow from this podcast.

518
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: But we do have our photo shoot coming up for

519
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: new picks for the podcast, and we have a fitting

520
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 1: for our outfits. So we did say we wanted some

521
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: cohesive looks cohesive, but still the same, you know, elevated.

522
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 1: Well we're in scrubs in the last one. Yeah, but

523
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: just well it realizes that I got I read a

524
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,160
Speaker 1: lot of comments that people think that we're medical podcast,

525
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: and which thank you truly like from the bottom of

526
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: my heart, the fact that we appear official to that

527
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: degree that people skip to listen because they don't think

528
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: they'd be interested, thank you very much. And then the

529
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: other people think that we're just like only a Gray's

530
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: recap podcast. And so I was like, you know what,

531
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 1: I think maybe we need our photo to be a

532
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: little more broad and represent a little bit more of

533
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: what the podcast is, which is not medical chatter, not

534
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: medical chatter. My favorite message I got from a listener

535
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: was that they thought we were and and just like

536
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: that podcast recap podcast. I was like, excuse me, what

537
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: just came in at a very needle dropped at a

538
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: very random point when we were talking about it, and

539
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 1: just like that, which gotta be honest, I can't wait

540
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: for it to be. I mean, come season two, we'll

541
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: see what happens, right, we might turn into that if

542
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: we have anything to do with the Eastern no one

543
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: else here I don't think cares are watching. I do care,

544
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: but they don't have the passion that you, not as

545
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: much as Love Island. Okay, what is the Mole? Oh yeah?

546
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: Well did I open a can with the worms? I'll

547
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: let me tell you. Also, sometimes I feel very justified

548
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: because I'll find these shows and I'm like these baking shows,

549
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: for instance, I get so into them and I'm like,

550
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: am I weird? Or like are there other people out

551
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: there like me? Baking baking show? Well, this show The

552
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 1: Mole was one that I stumbled upon. I did not

553
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: realize it has such a following like I would like

554
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: I I saw all these people and be real posting

555
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: like they they're watching the Mole too, And I was like,

556
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: I feel very justified. So we did a Mole marathon

557
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: because we were towards the end and we just wanted

558
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: to get through because we were like, who is the Mole?

559
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: It is such good television. I am telling you, if

560
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: you were out there and you want just it's a

561
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: little like it's it's a mind game. So it's kind

562
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: of like you're watching people play like an escape room

563
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: with like all these different missions, but then there's like

564
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: a mole and you have to figure out who. It's

565
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 1: so good. It's on Netflix, and I think we watched

566
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: season six, which is the latest season, but we're gonna

567
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: go back and watch all of them because it is

568
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: wildly entertaining, interesting. I haven't heard anything about it. Check

569
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: it out. Okay, thank you. Well, it's the show. You

570
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: may remember it from twenty years ago. They did this

571
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: on ABC and Anderson Cooper was the host. It's the

572
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: same franchise now they just revived it for Netflix. I

573
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: did not remember this from twenty years ago. This was

574
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: brand new information for me, but I respect it that

575
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: it's a reboot. Did we talk about how I watched

576
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: Love Is Blind facing the other direction? Do we discuss this? No,

577
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: but Robbie saw you post that on Instagram and wanted

578
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,239
Speaker 1: us to do it too, and I was like, how

579
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: are you going to follow? All their voices sound the same?

580
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: Here's the thing that was the challenge a little bit

581
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: because I Hailey was watching it like facing forward, and

582
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: I was we were just like on the couch and

583
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: I was facing the wall, and so I was taking

584
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: notes and who's talking right now? And so I wrote

585
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: down everyone's name and then I would write anything I

586
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: heard them say. About themselves. I'd like right that next

587
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: to their name, and then I would like kind of

588
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: try and figure out it was. It was like, okay,

589
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: so I just watched the I did it the first

590
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: two episodes and or maybe just the first one. I

591
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: did it up until like the first reveal of the

592
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: first couple, and I wrote down, like what I thought

593
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: they would look like. It was actually such an interesting

594
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: way of doing it because Hailey would be laughing as

595
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: she would ask for the description and she'd be like,

596
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: you're going to be shocked when you see this person.

597
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: So then it got me thinking, what if there was

598
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: like a podcast where it was like couples dating, or

599
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,959
Speaker 1: like maybe one couple dating, and you got to like

600
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: picture what they look like, and then you got to

601
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: and then it turned into a series, like if Netflix

602
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: did like a podcast and then it was also a

603
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: TV show and like at the end of the week

604
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: you get to see the reveal. I would be into that.

605
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 1: I would listen to the podcast and then I would

606
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: watch for the reveal. It was too hard to do.

607
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: It was too hard to do because they're switching so

608
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: many and there's so many people and you can't keep

609
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 1: up and they don't announce their name obviously, because if

610
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: you're watching, you see their name under their little title

611
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: card or whatever. Um, what is that thing called. There's

612
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: a word for thank you. Put that in your back

613
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: pocket like the other things. Clayton Kershaw. Yeah, the visual

614
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: of you watching Beck is like so funny to me,

615
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: just like sitting on the couch sitting against the wall

616
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: with your stand up pat just going worst. I wish

617
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: I was against the wall. I was sitting like just

618
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: like hunched over on the couch facing and I would

619
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: just be sitting like this and then I'd be like,

620
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: who's talking right now? Yeah. We thought about doing it,

621
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: and then I was just like, I can barely keep

622
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: up literally watching it. I couldn't. I couldn't do it backward.

623
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: But I will say the thrill of turning around for

624
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 1: the first reveal was like that was fun. And I

625
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: was quite off on the appearance that I wrote down

626
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: one guy the whole time he was talking. I think

627
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: his name was Andrew. I thought he I pictured this

628
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: like tall, kind of linky white guy with a man bun,

629
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: and I just wrote down this whole description. He was Asian,

630
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: and he was he had brown hair, brown eyes, and

631
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: he was like kind of built, like he wasn't like

632
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: lanky at all. And I was just like, so yeah,

633
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, you just that's why the show

634
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: is so interesting, because they just Although I do feel

635
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: like this season, I'm not, I haven't gravitated to any

636
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: of them like I feel like the first few seasons,

637
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: I was like pulled towards some of these characters are

638
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: not charactering people. There are real people. Um, let's not forget.

639
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: Let's not forget. But this season I'm not feeling pulled

640
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: towards any of them. It's you know why early days

641
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: it's the pure purism of the first season of something

642
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 1: that we'll see. I'm gonna keep going. But I know

643
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: what the first season I was saying, the purity of

644
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: the first season. You said purism, which I don't believe

645
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: is a word. I thought, what you're trying to say,

646
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm tired. Don't tell Haley that, Um, don't tell I

647
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: said the wrong word. But um, yeah, the purity of

648
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: like people coming in, like not knowing what was going

649
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 1: to happen, if they were going to be like social

650
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: media famous, there was something about it, you know. Um,

651
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 1: But I do think we need to take a break

652
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: and get back and do some emails. Oh good, I

653
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: have to go to the bathroom. All right, we're back

654
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: before we get to emails. Did you see that Kim

655
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: Kardashian showed up to Tracy Ella ross party and it

656
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 1: wasn't in a Halloween party? And she was decked out

657
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: like she was? She was like fully decked out, like

658
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: blue paint and everything, and it wasn't a costume party.

659
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: Oh god, but I saw her with like did he

660
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: and stuff in his costume? Did she go somewhere else after? Maybe?

661
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: Because there was like this righte up, I think Daily

662
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: Mail or something, and it was saying like she and

663
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: her two friends dressed up in character and they showed

664
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: up at the party and it wasn't a costume party. Honestly,

665
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,479
Speaker 1: that's so good. I know it was funny. I enjoy

666
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: I do enjoy seeing what the celebrities do over the weekend.

667
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: They went all out, they did, but they didn't come

668
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: like as hot as I would expect. Like I feel

669
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: like I could name off the amount of celebrities that

670
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: dressed up this year, like I didn't see many. Well

671
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: it's also not Halloween night yet, you right, right, right?

672
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: Right right, So yeah, but I feel like the parties

673
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 1: were over the week, like the parties where people are

674
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: dressing up, but I actually feel like people like dressed

675
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,919
Speaker 1: up big time. And I also want to say, because

676
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 1: I saw this on TikTok a few times about how

677
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:17,760
Speaker 1: people like, uh, this is one girl that I followed,

678
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: she was just saying how she like. She was saying, like,

679
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 1: don't feel bad if you didn't get invited to a party,

680
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: like I didn't get invited, and it's like nice to

681
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: stay in or whatever. And I feel like these types

682
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: of things like really bring out the I guess fomo

683
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: or whatever you want to call it of like, oh

684
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 1: I didn't get invited or whatever, and yeah, and I did.

685
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 1: Like there was a friend of mine that was saying

686
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 1: she doesn't like Halloween because she doesn't have a significant

687
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 1: other to like dress up with, and I was like,

688
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: that's not what Halloween is about, you know. But I

689
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 1: guess I didn't really go all out until I had Robbie,

690
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like to like play off

691
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: of like a couple's costume. I always dressed up for

692
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: Halloween and I always went out, but I feel like

693
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: I didn't put as much like energy into my costume.

694
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: But I feel like Kylie Kylie gay Or dressed up

695
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 1: as a third wheel and it was so good, so good.

696
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: All her photos were her standing in the back of

697
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: like couples, like kissing or like and she just got

698
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 1: like a blow up tire like those are the things

699
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 1: that you float in the pool and just put it

700
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: inner too. Yeah. Yeah, it was so good. It was

701
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: really good. So you know, so on next year, but

702
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: next year, I help me want to go to step

703
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: it up. I Ali wants to make it bigger this

704
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,280
Speaker 1: next year, and I was like, maybe we get a venue,

705
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: and I feel stressed about making it bigger. At what

706
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: should you two do a couple's costume for this show? Oh?

707
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: Right now? No, I mean for three If we're planning

708
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: Halloween t three, Well, it'll be on a Tuesday next year, Yeah,

709
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: but the party will be on the weekend. But you

710
00:37:56,080 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 1: would be well, you know, but I thought about us

711
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 1: dressing up as something today for the podcast, but the

712
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,359
Speaker 1: thought of doing another costume made me, Hell, I know,

713
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: why don't we do that? We should be so much

714
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: more fun than that. Okay, next year, when we record

715
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: the podcast, even if it's on a Tuesday. Yeah, all right,

716
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 1: has to be pop culture either. You know where that's

717
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: going to go in the pocket with Clayton Kersha information alright.

718
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: The problem is you don't remember what else is in

719
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: that pocket? Do you? There was something else in the

720
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: post four things yeah? Shaw, the re listening to the

721
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: first podcast to our Halloween costumes and then the Grammar Police. Wow. Yeah,

722
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: I got a great memory. Mark. That was pretty impressive.

723
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: I couldn't have done that blanked for sure. Thank you, alright, Mark,

724
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: take it away with the emails, all right, Begga, thank

725
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: you very much. These are anonymous. She needs some advice.

726
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: My boyfriend about eight months is very against sex while

727
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 1: I'm on my period. Obviously, I'm trying to be understanding

728
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: and not bothered by the fact that it grosses him

729
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: out so much, but it literally treats me like I'm

730
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: diseased when I'm on my period. I'm very much like

731
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 1: Tanya and that periods do not gross me out, and

732
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: I would like to have sex still, especially in lighter days.

733
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: I'm used to maybe not doing it on heavy days

734
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: in other relationships, but in no touch situation for a

735
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 1: week every month, it's starting to wear on me. Any

736
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:32,959
Speaker 1: advice boy. Bye, Okay, I don't I don't think think

737
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: I think it's worth a conversation though of like letting obviously,

738
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: I think it's fair if he doesn't want to do

739
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: it on like the first or second day, if it's

740
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: like a heavy flow. But if you can't handle your

741
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 1: period today, what happens if your arm gets chopped off

742
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: in a lawnmower tomorrow, or like your leg goes under

743
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: a chopped off and you're bleeding from every extremity, we

744
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: probably not time for sex. So what I'm saying this

745
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: is not a good sign. I think it's just worth

746
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: like you having a conversation and normalizing, like you know,

747
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: saying like, hey, this is part of being a woman,

748
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: and you know, I don't want to feel like I have,

749
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: like you can't touch me when I'm on my period,

750
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 1: and and just like have a conversation about it. And

751
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 1: I think it's just he needs to be maybe educated

752
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 1: on it or something. It seems like he doesn't really

753
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: understand like the female anatomy. But I don't think you

754
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: break up with him for it. I just think it's

755
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: worth a conversation and saying like, hey, we don't have

756
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: to do it on these the first or second day

757
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: that like maybe towards the end, if it's a little lighter,

758
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: it would make me feel you know, desired and wanted

759
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: if we could meet in the middle of this. But

760
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 1: maybe the men have well, I mean it doesn't it doesn't.

761
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: Sorry to phrase this properly, I think that it shouldn't

762
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: slow him down personally. But why does he need to

763
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 1: know here's my here's my feeling. Don't tell him for

764
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: one thing, Like there are plenty of times when you're

765
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: it is that time of the month and and I

766
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: don't know what about my wife, or you don't know

767
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: what about your girlfriend or whatever. Don't let him know

768
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: and then just make it happen out of respect to him,

769
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 1: don't initiate on heavy days. But if it's just a

770
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: light day, why does he need to be aware of

771
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: that information, because he's I guarantee he will not. Like

772
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: there's been times where I have sailed the Crimson Tide

773
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 1: and uh my and my partners said like, oh, that's

774
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: so cool. You're like, so you know, most guys are

775
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: like not into this, and I'm like, what are you

776
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: talking about? Like I don't know what Men are very

777
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: clueless about everything, so I get it out. Yeah, if

778
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: you don't hang a lantern on it, I think it's

779
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 1: good to go lie to him. It's not happening. I

780
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: just said, you, guys, he's gonna have blood on his weien.

781
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: You could be like, oh my god, but that doesn't happen.

782
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: Like it happens. You're like, funny, funny thing, I just

783
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: came to town. Who again, guys are dumb taking advantage

784
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: of that? Yeah? Maybe then don't don't have a conversation,

785
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: just be like, I don't know. That would bother me.

786
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: I would like, really bother me if he acted like

787
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:42,959
Speaker 1: I was diseased. He acts disease, bothers me a little

788
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: bit more, kissed me off. It probably was like, yeah,

789
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm not going to touch you. Yeah. If he was

790
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: more just like, hey, you know whatever about the heavy

791
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 1: days and had something to say about that. But the

792
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: fact that he treats you like you're like fully disease

793
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 1: when it happens, that bugs me because I'm like, grow

794
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 1: up a little bit. Yeah, we don't know how old

795
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 1: this man is. He do we guys? It takes forever

796
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: for guys to grow up. We've covered this plenty of times.

797
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: On behalf of guys. All right, I was saying, just

798
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: going with the guy, just take advantage of him. It

799
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,439
Speaker 1: pisces me off because like a lot of these guys

800
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: will walk around the house just like burping and farting

801
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: and like doing like disgusting things and then like there's

802
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: like a tiny drop of blood which literally everybody has,

803
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: and like it drives me crazy, me too, Eastern. I

804
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: saw this TikTok today and this girl is like I

805
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 1: remember when I used to get good morning, beautiful text,

806
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: and now I get like the smell of his parts

807
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: and you and poop in the morning, so funny. All right,

808
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: well good luck. I mean, if he continues to make

809
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: you feel that way, maybe it is worth I don't

810
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: know if it's an immediate boy buy, but it's maybe like, hey,

811
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: if he's not gonna grow up and realize he's dating

812
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: a woman who first of all, the fact that a

813
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: man has the nerve to make you feel like you're

814
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 1: disease when we go every single month, I would literally

815
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: like I don't even want to know. And bravo, by

816
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: the way, in general to that relationship that a week

817
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: without is like it would be a horrible thing for you.

818
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: Good for you too for being so active in that way.

819
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 1: Just find some middle ground on that one, all right, Anonymous.

820
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: I have a friend who drastically edits her body and

821
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 1: her Instagram photos by thinning her face and waste. The

822
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: photos are reader to the point where the background is

823
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: often warped in blurry, so it's obvious to anyone looking

824
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: at the photos. I want to be sensitive to the

825
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: fact that body dysmorphia and body image issues are a bit.

826
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: But I've had various friends kindly bring up the edited

827
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,760
Speaker 1: photos to me, and I know others are likely chatting

828
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: about them too, not as kindly. Would you have a

829
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: conversation with a friend, do you frame it around self

830
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: love and not bring up the photos at all? I

831
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: cringe every time she posts a new one because I

832
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: know people are talking about them, and she doesn't think

833
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: people can tell. And I would want someone to tell me.

834
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. It's a sensitive conversation. Becca's pondering, Tiny's is grinning,

835
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 1: and I'm sure why because I like, it's not a

836
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 1: friend of mine, but I know people that like edit

837
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 1: their photos to the point where it's just like it's embarrassing.

838
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: There's like, you know, you can tell like it's waved

839
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: and but to me, it's not harming you. It's not

840
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: like it's sad. To me, it's like sad that somebody

841
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 1: has to edit their photos in that way because they

842
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 1: they obviously feel the need they need to for some reason,

843
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? And that comes from within,

844
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like that comes from self love,

845
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: that comes from confidence, that comes from and if you

846
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: go to her and you say, like, you know, people

847
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: are noticing that you're editing your photos, like that's going

848
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: to crush her even more, you know. So It's like,

849
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: I don't think saying something about the photos or how

850
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: people can notice is going to be effective in any way.

851
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: Maybe you can try and encourage your friend, uh by

852
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,279
Speaker 1: not using filters on your Instagram or like saying how

853
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: how empowering it is to post photos where you show

854
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: your acne scars or where you don't look as dolled up,

855
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like maybe you can kind

856
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: of encourage her in that way by being an example

857
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: and like being confident in your own skin. But I

858
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: feel like going to her and saying people are noticing

859
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: that your photos are obviously warped is like not the

860
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: way to go about it. I wonder if there's a

861
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 1: way to like, once you post one, if it's like

862
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 1: something in the background as a wor would be like hey,

863
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: like because one time I edited a photo and I've

864
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: I've definitely his face tune in my day, but I

865
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,399
Speaker 1: had like a really flowy shirt until it wasn't really

866
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 1: my body. But I was like trying to like bring

867
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: in the shirt and the girls like hey, like this

868
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 1: chair in the background was warped, and I was like, oh, embarrassing,

869
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: But I appreciated the fact that she like let me know.

870
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: So I wonder like a random person, right, it was

871
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: like a friend, yeah, but like where are my friends at?

872
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: Why didn't mean my friends text me and tell me?

873
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: But like it's different. I like you were all like

874
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,399
Speaker 1: I don't know. I knew that you faced. You would

875
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: face tune your photos and you you know, it was

876
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: like when I had like my bad like acne breakout.

877
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for like the younger generation who like

878
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: will post their natural skin and what it looks like,

879
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 1: because it's it would have made me feel so much

880
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: better my photos I looked like a cartoon character. I

881
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: would face tune and smooth them so much. But I

882
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: think like having a calm station and just be like hey,

883
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: like like I get it, we all edit our photos,

884
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: but I just wanted to you know, you gotta I

885
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know it's gonna crush her more. Well,

886
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: could you say to her like, but by the way,

887
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: I see what you do to your photos, and wait,

888
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: you're beautiful. You don't need that stuff, and maybe it's

889
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: not going to make a difference, but at least you

890
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: got that off your chest and you told her that,

891
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: and maybe that's something she would like to hear. I

892
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: don't know. No, you know, unlike you're on your period

893
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 1: and like you go to an event you just feel

894
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: like crap, and your friends are like but you just

895
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: look so beautiful, and you're like, shut it. You know,

896
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: I bloated. You can't put a ring on my finger,

897
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You know you're that bloated

898
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: where you like literally can't put your rings on your finger,

899
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 1: you can't zip up your jeans. Yeah. I was just like,

900
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: you know what those days when you go to put

901
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: your loose jeans on and they're tight and oh, but

902
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: you know it's okay. Because we all go through it,

903
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: I know, and you'll wake up tomorrow and you'll be

904
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,399
Speaker 1: on your way. Put that in your back. I kind

905
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: of like the what you said, Mark, I mean, I

906
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: don't know if it will like it might sting for

907
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: her to hear that, but I think that's saying like, hey, like, hey,

908
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: someone pointed this out to me, and I just don't

909
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: people are talking about your back. Yeah, but it could

910
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: be one of those obvious ones with a ripple in

911
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 1: the background. Me just like, look at the ripple. I

912
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 1: know what you're doing, but you just you know, you

913
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: don't need that. I don't know. It's just a way

914
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 1: of saying it without you know, and then it's just

915
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: planting a seed. It's not aggressive, it's not like you know,

916
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:35,399
Speaker 1: people are talking about you. I don't think you'd want that.

917
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: It's hard. I mean we've I've been so affected by

918
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: and still sometimes like if I see a photo or

919
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: like I have to post something and I like don't

920
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: like any of the options, and I'm just like, oh,

921
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I could just fix that. It's like

922
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 1: we live in this culture where they make it so

923
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:55,919
Speaker 1: easy to warp our bodies and like, yeah, I just there.

924
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: It's like a sensitive conversation. Why do we do that

925
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: when everybody went said, wow, you look really great today,

926
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 1: what are you kidding? No, oh my god, I'm look

927
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: awful my hair? Like, why do we do that? That's

928
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 1: how we respond to every compliment because we don't see

929
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 1: ourselves away like I think I think of I'll see

930
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: a photo of someone like laughing with like and they

931
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: just have the biggest smile in their face. Nobody I

932
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: love this photo of you, or someone will take something

933
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: of me and it'll be me and all I'm like,

934
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 1: I have a double chin, Like what are you talking about?

935
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: Like that is a horrible photo of me. But we

936
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: don't ever see ourselves the way that other people see us,

937
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 1: so we're so critical of ourselves. But it's also I

938
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: think that because now Instagram has been around for a

939
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: long time and everybody like curates these beautiful photos where

940
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: they're not smiling and they kind of have like a

941
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: look like they're stoic and like it's this, you know,

942
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 1: almost like a Vogue shot, you know what I mean.

943
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 1: Like everybody just doesn't look human anymore. And so it's

944
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 1: like if you post a photo where you're smiling, or

945
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: doing something silly. It's almost like weird to see it

946
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: amongst all these other things that makes sense, Like it's

947
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: just it's it's warped our our perception of reality, you

948
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like it's not these aren't like

949
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: real photos. These are like these images and stuff, and

950
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: so it's like, I don't know, it's very weird. It's

951
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:13,399
Speaker 1: such as that's where be real comes in. That's where

952
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 1: be real comes in. M h. But I don't know.

953
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 1: I just stopped using filters on Instagram because I was

954
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 1: like this, well no, but it wasn't working into they

955
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: like it was warping my own sense of myself. That's

956
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 1: the thing. It wasn't even like I'm like, I don't

957
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: like other people when they see me, they're gonna be

958
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 1: like Tanya looks totally different than she does on social media.

959
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: It was me, like I got so used to seeing

960
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: my face with this supermodel filter where my nose was

961
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 1: like skinny and my cheekbones were popping, and I was like, damn,

962
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,439
Speaker 1: she looks good that when I looked in the mirror,

963
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: I was like, look I look haggard. But I was like, no,

964
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,359
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm just so used to seeing my face

965
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: look like a snatch ten year old. That's literally I

966
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: did the same thing, and I was like, to hell

967
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,959
Speaker 1: with it, goodbye these filters. This is I'm just gonna

968
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 1: look at my normal face. I'll never forget ton you

969
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: being like showing me a photo of like her with

970
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: the filter on and be like do I need this done?

971
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: And I'm just like no, like, you're so much prettier

972
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: than this. Sent both photos of my normal face side

973
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: by side with the supermodel filter and sent it to

974
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 1: my plastic surgeon friend and said what do I need

975
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 1: to do to look like this? And I'm thirty I

976
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: mean maybe it was thirty three the time, so I'm

977
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 1: in my thirties. I'm like a fully developed human and

978
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: I had those thoughts imagine if I was younger tough.

979
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 1: By the way, I didn't do it, by the way,

980
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: because it was a lot of work. It was like

981
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: nose job, cheek filler, chin something. I was like I

982
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 1: would I just thought maybe a little little some something here,

983
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: a little something there. It was a full It was

984
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: like a menu like a thing that was like wow,

985
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: you're like damn um. We were at the mall, which

986
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 1: we were in Santa Monica. It was me, my older sister,

987
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 1: my brother in law, and my younger sister and Haley,

988
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: and we ran into Robert at Zara and it was

989
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: the first time Haley and Robert met. And it was

990
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: like so funny. It was very casual and easy going

991
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: and everyone was like happy to see each other and

992
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: meet each other. And it was so random. My brother

993
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: in will taps me on the shoulder and we're on

994
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: the escalator going upstairs. It's just us, and then Robert

995
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: was at like a few steps ahead of us, and

996
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: he's like, isn't that Robert And we turned around and

997
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: we were like, what the heck. But it was the

998
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,760
Speaker 1: first time Haley and Robert met. They were great. Haley

999
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: gave him some advice on what choose to wear for

1000
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 1: his Halloween costumes. Cute, good times, just Haley. Yeah, good

1001
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: on everyone, truly, good on everyone. Good vibes. We love

1002
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 1: good vibes. You know, we don't like bad vibes. Immatere vibes. Vibes.

1003
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: We are mature ladies. Here, put that in your back pocket. Yeah,

1004
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:08,760
Speaker 1: it was It was so random, but it was great.

1005
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need some new pants. Yeah, my pockets heavy.

1006
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: They're heavy. It's gonna tear the stitch. That's right, they're dragging.

1007
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: The bottom of my pants are dragging from the way

1008
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: they should be because you know what, you're going to

1009
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: rip those pants off because we are out of here.

1010
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: We are out. Time to take those heavy pants off.

1011
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,879
Speaker 1: Towsome outa towsome out for the until the next time,

1012
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: nothing but our birthday suits on and here. Alright. On

1013
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 1: that note, everyone, have a happy Halloween, Happy Halloween. Safe.

1014
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: We love you all, and thank you all for our

1015
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 1: the birthday love. I love the Scrubber so much and

1016
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 1: we love you so much. We love you by