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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date update. We've got an email
Speaker 1: asking for a second date update from a guy named Rick. Okay,
Speaker 1: and Rick said in his email that he met the
Speaker 1: woman that we're about to call for him today in
Speaker 1: a grocery store. Yeah, I've heard that that happens every
Speaker 1: once in a while. That's already a little bit cliche,
Speaker 1: I think, Oh, you don't like the way they met, Sorry, Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: So Rick, please just tell me it wasn't while you
Speaker 1: were squeezing the melons and she came up to you
Speaker 1: and asked, so are they ripe? Oh wow, Rick, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I can handle that. If that's what
Speaker 1: actually happened, Please tell me that's not the case. No,
Speaker 1: that's exactly what happened. Oh, that's exactly what happened. No,
Speaker 1: I'm joking that, thank God played out. But like I'm bad,
Speaker 1: amateur idiot. No, I like that though, I bet you. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: so how did you really meet her? At the grocery store.
Speaker 1: We're in the in the wine aisle and I saw
Speaker 1: this girl and I was like, she is gorgeous. So
Speaker 1: I kind of fibbed a little bit. Um. I kind
Speaker 1: of told like, I know a little bit about this stuff.
Speaker 1: So I just kind of found the most expensive one,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this one's worth the money.
Speaker 1: You know, that's the one you know you know nothing about, yea,
Speaker 1: And before you know it, you're telling her you own
Speaker 1: a vineyard yourself. Yeah, grows seven noog black in myn
Speaker 1: It didn't go that far at all, but you know,
Speaker 1: I mean you're yeah, you're not going to go wrong
Speaker 1: with that. So then I was like, you know, if
Speaker 1: you need someone to drink this with, I've also got
Speaker 1: some good bottles at my house. And whoa, you moved quickly, sir,
Speaker 1: nobody snucking hand. So it wasn't like a stake. That
Speaker 1: was a full out attack. I've come back to my
Speaker 1: house and drink with me. Well, got her number. It works, Okay,
Speaker 1: So what's this girl's name? Definitely? Definitely, definitely okay. So
Speaker 1: what did you guys end up doing for your date?
Speaker 1: We went to a wine bar. Oh no, see this
Speaker 1: is bad though. At some point you're gonna get called
Speaker 1: out for being an idiot when it comes to wine. Well,
Speaker 1: I know a little bit, but you know, and also YouTube,
Speaker 1: so I'm fine, you know, watching the wine videos. Sure,
Speaker 1: learning some vernacular and legs and nose, you know. So
Speaker 1: the legs on this very spelt very aromatic. Reds oky.
Speaker 1: Everything's oky? Is there anything that's not OK? That all
Speaker 1: sounds good? I'm down. Yeah. So, so how did things go?
Speaker 1: I said that, Yeah, they went great. So we were
Speaker 1: at the wine bar for a little bit and then
Speaker 1: we went to another place when we were playing pool. Fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and she that's exactly right. She's just fun. You know,
Speaker 1: she's recently divorced. Um. You know how those recently divorced
Speaker 1: women are. They're so fun, you want to do anything anything.
Speaker 1: You usually don't say one thing I've been writing into
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that was an odd placement. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's good that you're open to dating people who have
Speaker 1: been married. She just, you know, finally had some freedom.
Speaker 1: So I think she's just excited to go on a date.
Speaker 1: And we just had a lot of fun. I mean,
Speaker 1: there was even another couple playing pool, and she's like,
Speaker 1: let's play pool with these guys, and how we make
Speaker 1: him we're interesting? So we end up playing for money. Dude,
Speaker 1: this woman is out to make up for some lost time.
Speaker 1: Sounds like, well, she's got you gambling on night one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I felt bad, like I missed most of the shots.
Speaker 1: Actually it was on me. But she's just like, hey,
Speaker 1: let's have a good time, and hey, here's some other people.
Speaker 1: And you know, she just was just not like, oh,
Speaker 1: look at these guys or whatever. It's just let's have fun,
Speaker 1: let's interact. You guys fight each other, and I'll watch fun.
Speaker 1: So we I have a question though, I mean, do
Speaker 1: you know are you her first date out of being divorced. Well,
Speaker 1: that's a good question, like how recent are we talking?
Speaker 1: A few months? And I think I am, like there
Speaker 1: may have been like a coffee kind of thing, but
Speaker 1: it just it was it was vague, Okay, okay. I
Speaker 1: didn't want to keep pushing. So how did things with
Speaker 1: you and Stephanie end? Great? You know, I dropped her off,
Speaker 1: gave her a little kiss in the cheeks. I'd love
Speaker 1: to see you again, so you know, she said yeah
Speaker 1: she did. Okay, so she's smiling. I mean that was
Speaker 1: my first thought is like, maybe she's just not ready
Speaker 1: to date one person yet. Well there's more. Oh um.
Speaker 1: A few days later, I went to her complex apartment
Speaker 1: complex to drop off some flowers, and that main door
Speaker 1: you know, was open. So I go to drop off
Speaker 1: the flowers of her apartment door, setting them down. The
Speaker 1: doors open a bit, it's like unlocked. Please don't tell
Speaker 1: me you opened the door further you shut it and left.
Speaker 1: Well no, that's the thing. So I, you know, kind
Speaker 1: of hollered in there. You know, there was no answers
Speaker 1: and like go inside a bit. Um, Well it's I mean,
Speaker 1: the door was open, you know, I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: she's there, but hang on. Still, even though go set
Speaker 1: the flowers down, Hello, Hello, look around a little bit
Speaker 1: and nobody there. As I'm leaving, someone down the hall
Speaker 1: is also leaving, so they see me leaving the apartment.
Speaker 1: Oh look, neighbor. So yeah, the thing is like, I'm
Speaker 1: not sneaking out running, I don't have an armful of things.
Speaker 1: It's just a weird. You know, they don't know who
Speaker 1: I am. All that, and I bet you were acting
Speaker 1: super sketchy because you knew you weren't supposed to be
Speaker 1: doing that. So even if you weren't doing anything necessarily wrong,
Speaker 1: you probably still give that vibe off like yeah, well
Speaker 1: that might be it, or just the flowers in the
Speaker 1: you know, in the house, how yowers. So I've left
Speaker 1: messages tell her to call me back, and all that
Speaker 1: has So I'm like, it looks weird. I get it,
Speaker 1: but you know at the time, and I just want
Speaker 1: to say, look, I apologize for all of that now.
Speaker 1: I know, you know, should have just left them there
Speaker 1: and say sorry for breaking and entering my bad break. Okay,
Speaker 1: So after that whole thing happened, and have you been
Speaker 1: in contact with her at all? I have left messages,
Speaker 1: you know, saying hey, you know tall me back this
Speaker 1: in that phone calls, text, But you didn't explain the
Speaker 1: door situation to her in any of those, No, because
Speaker 1: you've kind of hit late. Like at first, I just
Speaker 1: thought they just want to talk to her, and then
Speaker 1: as time went on, I'm like, oh, now will seem
Speaker 1: weird if I'm like, oh wait, by the way, So
Speaker 1: it's like she'll call back, and then it gets that
Speaker 1: tipping point or where like hasn't got a hold of me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, now is it too late? So you
Speaker 1: really you gave us a real challenge today for the
Speaker 1: second date update. I know, I get it, but we're
Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna try and help you. Okay, well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song. We'll come back and then we'll
Speaker 1: call Stephanie the fun divorced Whino and we'll try and
Speaker 1: get you a second date update. All right, yes, please,
Speaker 1: thank you? All right, hold on date. If you're just
Speaker 1: tuning in for the second date update, We've got a
Speaker 1: guy named Rick on the line, and Rick knows all
Speaker 1: the secret tricks to seducing a woman, does he? First
Speaker 1: you need to find one wandering the wine aisle of
Speaker 1: the local grocery store and just start suggesting random bottles
Speaker 1: to her. It doesn't matter if you know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. Bonus points if she's recently divorced, because chances
Speaker 1: are she's probably up for a fun time. Then you
Speaker 1: take them out and lose some money in a billiards
Speaker 1: game to show not only are you not athletic, you're
Speaker 1: also not worried about your finances either. Take all your
Speaker 1: money and finally break into their place when they're not
Speaker 1: home to leave them some surprise flowers. Hey, I need
Speaker 1: to correction. That did not break in stor was unlocked.
Speaker 1: So but he was so sneaky you snuck through the
Speaker 1: first locked door of the apartment building to get to
Speaker 1: the second one that was open. What doesn't sneak That
Speaker 1: guy coming out held it for me. Yeah, no wrongdoing there.
Speaker 1: But now after that, Stephanie is not answering any of
Speaker 1: his calls or messages, so he wants our help. Yes, Rick,
Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine coming home, okay and finding
Speaker 1: flowers on your table from the person you went on
Speaker 1: one date with who has never been to your house.
Speaker 1: Sounds lovely? Oh my god, I'd be on surveillance cameras.
Speaker 1: I would be calling the cops. Yeah, I get how
Speaker 1: it sounds. But you know, like there is no intention
Speaker 1: of anything bad behind it. Okay, all right, all right, slick, Rick, Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna call Stephanie for you right now,
Speaker 1: you're ready, let's do it, all right? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Stephanie please? This is Stephanie. Stephanie.
Speaker 1: My name is young Jeffrey from the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing? I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: who is you haven't heard of young Jeffrey from the
Speaker 1: radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, yes, I've
Speaker 1: heard of you, but you liar. You don't have to
Speaker 1: make me feel good. It's okay, it's okay, stephany it's
Speaker 1: a radio show, a radio show. Yeah, you totally heard
Speaker 1: of us. Sounds like you're our biggest fan. Hey, we're
Speaker 1: doing something called a second date update. That's where if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with someone and afterwards
Speaker 1: they're not calling you back, you can reach out to
Speaker 1: us and we'll call them for you to try and
Speaker 1: figure out the reason why. Okay, and someone reached out
Speaker 1: to us about you recently. His name is Rick. Oh yeah, Rick, Yes, okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's actually a better response than I expected. So he
Speaker 1: reached out to you guys. You know what, Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how long it's been since you
Speaker 1: guys went out. But he says he's not been able
Speaker 1: to get a hold of you, and he's really hoping
Speaker 1: to reconnect because he had a great time on your date.
Speaker 1: He did say a lot of nice things about you, Stephanie, Well,
Speaker 1: that's very sweet, and he is very nice and the
Speaker 1: date was great. It's it's it's really it's my fault
Speaker 1: that I just I have not reached out to him.
Speaker 1: I'm not returned phone calls because I have just been
Speaker 1: My life has been crazy these last couple of days.
Speaker 1: I had to go check on my parents because my
Speaker 1: mom wasn't well, and it was a little bit of scared.
Speaker 1: But everything's fine now. But I'm good. I mean, at
Speaker 1: first I thought you were lying to us, but it
Speaker 1: sounds like legit. You It's totally legit. I saw a
Speaker 1: couple of messages from his number and I just wasn't
Speaker 1: in the head space to answer them. But I should
Speaker 1: give him a phone call back. So you weren't freaked
Speaker 1: out by Rick at all. No, on the date, No,
Speaker 1: he was so nice. Actually, when I came home there
Speaker 1: were some flowers from him, and it was just I
Speaker 1: thought that was very sweet. Okay, so you got the
Speaker 1: flowers that he dropped off for you. I got flowers.
Speaker 1: I don't know how they were delivered. Okay. Do you
Speaker 1: live by yourself, Stephanie, No, I have a roommate. Oh
Speaker 1: oh okay, why it's just interesting, that's all. Okay, I
Speaker 1: think I'm missing something. I know as I got flowers.
Speaker 1: Is there's something wrong with the flowers? Well no, I
Speaker 1: mean yes, no, Well I'm just saying, well, you look
Speaker 1: you want it. Sounds like you were going to call
Speaker 1: Rick back anyway, right Well, I mean eventually, yeah, but
Speaker 1: well sometimes eventually happens right now. Yeah. You know how
Speaker 1: they say that because Rick is actually on the phone
Speaker 1: and he's been wanting to talk to you. He's been
Speaker 1: listening this entire day. Oh okay, Ricky there, Hey Stephanie.
Speaker 1: How's it go? Hi? Rick? Hi, hear your voice. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry to hear. Yeah, so Hi, Hi. You you like
Speaker 1: the flowers? Huh yeah, I do like the flowers. Um,
Speaker 1: but apparently there's a story that I'm missing, and I'm
Speaker 1: what's going on. It's um, you're gonna love. It's a
Speaker 1: really funny story. Um. So after our date, which was great,
Speaker 1: I had such a good time, so I thought i'd
Speaker 1: bring you flowers. A couple of days later, went to
Speaker 1: your apartment building and guy was coming out the main door.
Speaker 1: So I went in and found your name. You didn't
Speaker 1: buzz to see if I was home. You just came in. Yeah. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I could have buzzed, but I don't want
Speaker 1: the guy hold the door and be like, well hang
Speaker 1: on a second. Then it just looks you know, it
Speaker 1: looks goofy. And then I saw your apartment number, you know,
Speaker 1: your name on the mailbox. Yeah, so I went up
Speaker 1: to your Um, you came our apartment. Yeah oh yeah
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Um so setting the flowers down owned by
Speaker 1: your apartment door, and you know, creaks open it, but
Speaker 1: I notice it's open, so I, you know, just kind
Speaker 1: of peek my head in and you know, hello, hello,
Speaker 1: anybody here, you know that kind of thing. Um check
Speaker 1: your head into my apartment? Yeah, yeah, just cut the
Speaker 1: doors open. You know, I don't know if you're there.
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave it. Did you knock? Did
Speaker 1: you knock? Or you just opened the door and came in.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe I did a knock knock or
Speaker 1: said knock knock, you know, something like that. You know
Speaker 1: how people do that? Yeah, I mean I addressed, Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is cute. And then um so then then I
Speaker 1: go in and set the flowers down the kitchen and
Speaker 1: so you were just walking around my apartment, all of them,
Speaker 1: just walking around. I mean, I just put them on
Speaker 1: the kitchen table. Then I have to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: What what you wait, your bathroom? Rick? Well yeah, I
Speaker 1: had to go yeah wow, okay, please don't give me
Speaker 1: more information on that than what. Well, let me see this.
Speaker 1: I know that makes you nervous. But it was just
Speaker 1: number one. So that's all don't work. Great, So it's fine. Fine,
Speaker 1: Well that's what she was getting after. I know that.
Speaker 1: M Yeah. So then I hear, I guess now your roommate. Um,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to scare her, so I pop in
Speaker 1: the closet. Um, you were hiding in a closet. You
Speaker 1: didn't tell us any of this? Well I didn't, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: let mean okay for real, how long were you in
Speaker 1: the closet for Rick, Just like fifteen seconds or something.
Speaker 1: They didn't want to scare it, and I didn't want
Speaker 1: it to come out and be like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: there's a guy standing here. Wasn't creepy. It was a
Speaker 1: sweet gesture, no harm, no film. Well it sounds good
Speaker 1: on our end, No, we don you used her bathroom,
Speaker 1: you hid in a closet. Ric, it's not good. It
Speaker 1: was only number one. It was only for fifteen seconds,
Speaker 1: and I don't even understand that. It's a bad thing.
Speaker 1: That may be the worst piece of it all. Well,
Speaker 1: it would have been worse if he had popped out
Speaker 1: in the close and scared the roommate. Yeah, shouldn't go
Speaker 1: into someone's house. Well, once you're already in, what are
Speaker 1: you gonna do what? Well, you shouldn't have been in.
Speaker 1: That's the whole thing. Yeah, that's the thing. It's not creepy.
Speaker 1: You're I mean, you're okay. So, like she just said,
Speaker 1: it's creepy that you don't get that. It's creepy, Like
Speaker 1: this is not normal behavior, Like this sounds like an
Speaker 1: episode of eight lines. He yelled hello, Yeah, the roommates
Speaker 1: say hello back. Oh yeah, it's the roommate's fault. Maybe
Speaker 1: she was doing laundry, Like, honestly, don't put this on
Speaker 1: my roommate. It's not responsibility to like yeah, and you
Speaker 1: know what. Some of the most famous serial killers also
Speaker 1: seemed very nice. That was kind of their whole stick
Speaker 1: head Bundee, Hello, yeah, yeah, you get supposed to be
Speaker 1: on my side, you know, Bundy, he'd ever brought flowers anywhere, So, yeah,
Speaker 1: thats a fact. Trust a man because of the flower. Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on, Stephanie, he's a step up from Ted Bundy.
Speaker 1: With that said, I'd like to offer to send you
Speaker 1: guys out on a second date. We'll pay for it. Now, remember,
Speaker 1: please consider before you answer the intent behind what he
Speaker 1: did when he was delivering you the flowers. He has
Speaker 1: an explanation for everything. I don't know. You don't min
Speaker 1: is strange, Yes, a lot strange, and I need to
Speaker 1: think about it. No, say no, Stephanie, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Sorry girl? The girl I got your back? That is
Speaker 1: that is too much? Yeah, I never made this phone call,
Speaker 1: and you don't know the story about the flowers. Can
Speaker 1: you get a little spontaneous amnesia, Stephanie? Can you do
Speaker 1: that for us? Come on you guys. I'm sorry, I
Speaker 1: can't give you an answer right now. I really do
Speaker 1: need to think about it. This is a lot I
Speaker 1: need to like chill out. Yeah, that's the moral here. Yeah, sorry, Rick,
Speaker 1: sorry forgot I mean didn't work out. She didn't say no,
Speaker 1: She just says she has to think about it. So
Speaker 1: there's still a shot for you. All right, I'll bring
Speaker 1: her some flowers, don't We don't broken? Jeffrey in the morning,