WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Father Permission

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. When it comes to online dating, you're definitely

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<v Speaker 1>going to come across some weird, out of the norm profiles,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe you run across a young lady with wings

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<v Speaker 1>and a tail. Okay, you don't see that all the time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe you found a guy with a handlebar mustache

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<v Speaker 1>which was quirky, but it was located in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of his neck. Yeah, you're probably gonna swipe left on

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<v Speaker 1>those the majority of the time. Yeah. Yeah. One of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Daniel, came across a unique profile and ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting a date out of it. So let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Hey, Daniel, you there all right? Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going good Dan, Daniel, Sorry, I couldn't resist her the

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<v Speaker 1>only time you're going to I don't know, we'll see,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see how I feel. But Daniel, thanks for being

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<v Speaker 1>on with us. Tell us about the woman that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. What's her name? Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Becca? Okay? Okay, and I mean Jeffrey Head alluded

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<v Speaker 1>to the fact that she had an interesting profile, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was so intriguing about it? Okay, So everything seemed

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<v Speaker 1>pretty straightforward at first, and then I go to the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom and it says and like all caps. FYI, this

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<v Speaker 1>account is operated by my father. I do not have

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<v Speaker 1>to password before. Yeah. No, at this the beginning, and

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<v Speaker 1>it says he will be the one checking it. You

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<v Speaker 1>will have to meet him one on one at least

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<v Speaker 1>once before you meet me with him present, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know you got to pass the one on one. Then

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<v Speaker 1>he's there to chaperone in your first day. Oh my god. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and wait, hold on that flags aren't flying up all

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<v Speaker 1>over the place. I would block that room, Daniel's thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>dream girl, Yeah, saving psycho family. I would never let

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<v Speaker 1>my dad read messages between me and the guy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know they're supposed to be hot and heavy. Did

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<v Speaker 1>it say anything else? Yeah? Yeah. It also said do

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<v Speaker 1>not message me if you've ever cheated or if you

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<v Speaker 1>are divorced for any reason other than your wife abandoned you. What. Okayeah,

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<v Speaker 1>except cheaters probably would still messages anyways. Yeah. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So Daniel, did you meet all those parameters? I did

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<v Speaker 1>pass through, and I, like you said, I thought, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, this seems like a lot of trouble. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also thought, Okay, if her dad is this protective,

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<v Speaker 1>then maybe she must be something really special. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>shoot my shot. I give her a ry nobly I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that. Yeah, and she's got some daddy issues

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<v Speaker 1>yeahs no divorces and dad joke. So you're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>you actually sent a message to this dad, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>said the dad, the whole family. Yeah, doesn't it feel

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<v Speaker 1>like so dated? Like you're asking permission to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with the file? Like it's just in certain

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<v Speaker 1>cultures that's the norm, bro Not in ours, though, I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, like you really will wean out a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the people that are like no hook up? Yeah exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and Brooke, if you don't like it, then you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to click on it. You don't have to meet

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<v Speaker 1>the father. You just swipe left and find another profile

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<v Speaker 1>of a girl that's one to go on night one.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting. What was your expectations of this? I honestly

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<v Speaker 1>had no expectations at all. I just saw something it

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<v Speaker 1>was interesting and unique and figured why not? Okay, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>it does feel like it could be Britney Spears's dating profile.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's ye. So obviously the dad must have responded, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing. So the next day I go check

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<v Speaker 1>my inbox and there's a message, but it's from Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>and she says that she just puts that on her

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<v Speaker 1>profile while like a way to keep out all the

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<v Speaker 1>creeps and the thirsty guys. And she really nice From

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<v Speaker 1>the response, I mean, she's got to be pretty cool

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<v Speaker 1>if she's able to come up with something that creative

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<v Speaker 1>as a way to like put on your profile to

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<v Speaker 1>stand out and make yourself unique. I think it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>that you think, Okay, we get it, we get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think this is cool? No, Jeff, imagine your

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<v Speaker 1>mom running your dating account. Fun fact, my mom did

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<v Speaker 1>set up a dating without my permission and love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a catch. Just no wonder you're siding with this

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<v Speaker 1>girl's so hard sometimes playing hard to get work. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to play it. But when people do

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<v Speaker 1>play hard to get it sounds like there's an elaborate

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get schemes. So I mean, what was the date?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said, you had fun conversation, yeah, and was

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<v Speaker 1>rebect to actually normal when you met her. He was

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<v Speaker 1>a normal, beautiful woman. You went out to dinner, We

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time. The one thing that I thought

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be railing at the restaurant. That turns

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<v Speaker 1>out that my old high school comm street teacher was

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<v Speaker 1>there and what did you get a bad grade? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that why you thought it was going to derail it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we hooked up too awkward. I would prefer the hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I did. He told her that he remembered me

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<v Speaker 1>because I just scraped by with a d But maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the teacher was like, but I am sensing some chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>between the two of you. Did she laugh at that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was mortified. But we had a good

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<v Speaker 1>laugh about it, and you know, we continued on with dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a good time and afterwards, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>did ended up just sort of walking around the city

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit and then went back to in

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<v Speaker 1>her car and kissed for a while, made out and

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<v Speaker 1>it's so good, right. It's been asked if she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to have a nightcap, but she said no, she she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't wanting to do that. I know, you're suddenly moving

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fast all of a sudden. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>would really feel like it that night, and everything I

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<v Speaker 1>got from her vibes wise told me she was too Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, but I said I wanted to see her again,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, let's do lunch on Wooden Day next week.

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<v Speaker 1>And she even suggested a place, you know, some sandwich places. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you had a date, you had a time, you

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<v Speaker 1>had a location lunch. Seems like a friend date to

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<v Speaker 1>me kind of all that. I mean, they just made

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<v Speaker 1>out like they were just done. Maybe now I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I want to see you in daylight, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But overall, it seems like a pretty good day. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would only have two words to describe it,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, Daniel, Man, so let's play a song. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, We'll try and get you a second day

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<v Speaker 1>down date. Okay, all right, that's great, all right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on willing to wait ten dates before getting intimate.

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<v Speaker 1>What That's what my mom actually wrote on the dating

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<v Speaker 1>profile that she secretly set up for me years ago

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<v Speaker 1>without my knowledge. That's a true story. I could not

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<v Speaker 1>believe it because she knows it's fifteen. Not cool, mom,

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<v Speaker 1>she knows I'm a virgin drinkingest person. I know you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not think it's weird at all that one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Daniel, met a girl online who had

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<v Speaker 1>a disclaimer on her profile saying her account was run

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<v Speaker 1>by her father. Yeah, and at least the father put

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<v Speaker 1>that because your mom didn't even put that up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the father was fake. Your mom is real. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't about me. This is about our listener, Daniel. Daniel,

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<v Speaker 1>I never asked you this in the first part. I'm curious.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you had a lunch date set up that

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<v Speaker 1>never actually happened with Rebecca. Did she cancel it or

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<v Speaker 1>did she just not show up? She just never showed up?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh dude, she left you sitting at the restaurant yep,

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting there by myself drinking water like a googer.

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<v Speaker 1>That you really want to hurt their feeling or something

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<v Speaker 1>terrible happened on the way, like, were you either get

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with her. I haven't heard anything. I'd have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. What if she's okay it, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>bad about something. I don't know. She just never showed

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<v Speaker 1>up and it's been radio violence everything that is so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's get to the bottom of this. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call her right now. You ready, I am? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Rebecca? Is this rebeccaa?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Rebecca. My name's Jeff from the radio show Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a weird tone to your voice, so I

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<v Speaker 1>know what. Well, okay, he's awkward, I guess. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>seems to be fine right there. I know. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that one was pretty strong. I form my

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<v Speaker 1>weird voice. But are you like at the radio? Is

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<v Speaker 1>this the radio station calling me? Yeah? I was like

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<v Speaker 1>a party. Yeah, it's pretty fun. We do this every morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a morning party. It's called Brooke and Jeffrey. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing something called a second date update. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>if that person isn't calling you back, you can email

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<v Speaker 1>our show and we'll reach out to them for you

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<v Speaker 1>to help you figure out the reason why. It makes sense. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you recently went on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who you are not calling back. His name's Daniel. Okay, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is weird. Oh gosh, I mean you left him

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<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant. I think that he feels like it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty weird. I didn't leave him there, I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>show up. That's okay, well, semantics, Yeah, they didn't show

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<v Speaker 1>up to the date. Is there a reason for that?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, I mean, put on the stand or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, let me put yourself in his shoes like

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<v Speaker 1>that would really suck. He had wonderful things to say

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<v Speaker 1>about you, and he doesn't even seem angry about the

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<v Speaker 1>no show thing, right, I mean, do you have any

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<v Speaker 1>intention of calling him back? Um? I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay, Yeah, okay, we're just trying to figure out why. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess if I was him, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know the same thing, So I get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much he told you about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he tell you anything about how we met on

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<v Speaker 1>the app or anything? Right? Yeah, he mentioned that you

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<v Speaker 1>put a disclaimer on there claiming to be your father.

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<v Speaker 1>That way, none of the weirdos would reach out to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just get like the pure guys had like some weird

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<v Speaker 1>overprotective dad that was overstepping his bounce. Okay, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>be real with you, guys. It is true that my

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<v Speaker 1>dad does run my dating app. You told him it

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<v Speaker 1>was you, and I don't have to lie any Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you told him it was a lie already. We already

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<v Speaker 1>heard that point. Please, So I wasn't the one that

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<v Speaker 1>wrote him that back. It was my dad. No, what

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<v Speaker 1>you let your dad impersonate you. No, no, I let

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<v Speaker 1>my dad filter out the crazies for me. It could

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<v Speaker 1>be it could be that you're the crazy one in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation. We still don't understand if your dad truly

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<v Speaker 1>runs your account, and if he agreed he vetted Daniel

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<v Speaker 1>for you, then really, why are you not calling him

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<v Speaker 1>back now? So let me just put this all out there.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad approved of Daniel for this date, hoping that

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<v Speaker 1>Daniel maybe would have changed since back in high school

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<v Speaker 1>when he was Daniel's chemistry teacher. Oh wait, your dad

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<v Speaker 1>was a chemistry teacher that you guys ran into at

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, So your dad was not only the guy

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<v Speaker 1>running the account with the dude at the restaurant. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is too much. So my dad always says he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to meet the guy one on one. First Daniel

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<v Speaker 1>from high school. He basically gave me his blessing to

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<v Speaker 1>go on the date, and he just said he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be watching from afar make sure nothing crazy happened. But

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<v Speaker 1>he just feels like Daniel didn't really change at all

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<v Speaker 1>since high school. And it's still kind of thing based

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<v Speaker 1>on what yeah, based on what exactly. Jeffrey I think

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<v Speaker 1>just the way he handled the conversation. Well, I just

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<v Speaker 1>think my dad doesn't see him as a very ambitious guy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that your dad sees it that way. But

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<v Speaker 1>you were the one that spent an entire night with Daniel.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you feel when you were with him? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I thought he was a good kisser. You do

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<v Speaker 1>make a good point. Kissing is above ambition. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of relationship rankings, So give it. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know if he'd want to go out with you again.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe we should just ask him, because

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<v Speaker 1>I need to tell you, Rebecca, Daniel's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening this higher time, very patiently, I might add,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>serious for now the whole time. Thank you? Still there? Daniel?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there? Yeah? No, I I am here, and

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<v Speaker 1>sun the disbelief. I don't know where to start. Your

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<v Speaker 1>dad wrote me back. Your dad is the chemistry teacher

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Your dad was watching us make out. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he was not watching us make out. That's the part

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<v Speaker 1>we're supposed to believe. Yeah, because I called a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station with my heart, you made me feel bad and

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<v Speaker 1>this was never my intention, and I'm sorry I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back like I really am. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>so nice. I just I don't know. You're such a

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<v Speaker 1>good kister. I'm sure you heard that too, So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish the best, but your future relationship hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen to the words that you're saying, Like it's obvious

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<v Speaker 1>that you feel something for Daniel. Why do you have

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to everything that your dad says based on

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<v Speaker 1>a grade that Daniel got years ago? Yeah, exactly. That

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<v Speaker 1>means like we hit it off, things were good. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a good job, I got four h one

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<v Speaker 1>k I'm doing things well. You guys are making me

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad. I'm just trying to do Like it's it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's hard to navigate on all of you hard though,

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<v Speaker 1>Like don't follow the pay. Your dad's a chemistry teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is probably statistics and ratios and his whole wife. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just like your dad will always see you

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<v Speaker 1>as his little girl. Okay, there's you can't let him

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<v Speaker 1>make adult decisions forward to you else you're never gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do anything that has any risk attached. Exactly. You could

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<v Speaker 1>end up pushing away an actually great guy, because your

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<v Speaker 1>dad's being too stubborn about this. Okay, So I have

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<v Speaker 1>an idea. Oh, you're gonna make him retake that chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>class again and get it. I've seen this movie, yo.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you just take a minute and like, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're still attached to my profile, you can

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<v Speaker 1>still message me aka my dad. But what if you

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<v Speaker 1>just took a minute and like wrote down how you

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<v Speaker 1>feel and sent it and like pursued and showed my

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<v Speaker 1>dad like you're serious about Rebecca, Rebecca, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>better idea. What if we all tried to convince your

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<v Speaker 1>dad together by doing an awkward Tuesday phone call. Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be awesome. I don't know if I could

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<v Speaker 1>talk to this man, Rebecca. I know you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what that is, but that's a segment where we will

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<v Speaker 1>call your dad and will help Daniel talk to him

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<v Speaker 1>and have that conversation to convince him that he's a

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<v Speaker 1>good guy and that he's worth giving another chance. To God,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a part of me that thinks that could be amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>because maybe my dad just needs to be put a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, you know, in his place, Daniel, Daniel, are

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<v Speaker 1>you interested in doing that? I really I really like you, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean this is super weird, obviously, but it

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<v Speaker 1>definitely felt like there was something really special there, So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, maybe okay, okay, so maybe okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>normally i'd offer to send you guys out on another date,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're going to put that to the side until

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<v Speaker 1>we get Rebecca's father's approval. So tomorrow we can come

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<v Speaker 1>back and call him in an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that when we time travel back to nineteen fifties

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<v Speaker 1>when this was still normal? Yes, if we have to,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So Daniel, make sure you do your homework

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<v Speaker 1>before tomorrow, not your chemistry home. It's like you're dating homework. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so this call is going to be a success. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have a pop quiz. It's my dad if you

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<v Speaker 1>already met and you know him, so like, it's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>no pressure, Yeah, I will be sure to do my

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<v Speaker 1>bet all right, man, awkward Tuesday phone call, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening tomorrow after this time, it's Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,