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Speaker 1: What epics.

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Speaker 2: Sela, Yee, I'm g G.

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Speaker 1: Maguire, I'm Jordie Jr.

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Speaker 3: I'm Algie Smith.

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Speaker 2: I'm on the coast God periods. Don't forget the middle name.

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Speaker 4: Listen, before this show started, we were saying the coast

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Speaker 4: Gout is a conversationalist.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she.

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Speaker 4: We do not want to label her as a relationship expert,

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Speaker 4: even though that's how I look at it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you're a conversationalist.

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, you asking me I'm going to say a comedy.

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Speaker 1: You're not going to say it. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: say it.

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Speaker 2: But you got whole games and everything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you got a game, the dating game, right, yes,

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Speaker 4: dating card game. Okay, And I want to tell you

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Speaker 4: that Jordan in particular was excited.

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Speaker 2: She was like, I cannot wait to do that's your single.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm ready. Well I don't know if I'm ready

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Speaker 5: to mingle, but I'm open to it.

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Speaker 2: You open to it, I'm open to it. I'm a

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Speaker 2: little break right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, your break is always good, you know, because

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Speaker 1: what you're doing on the break nothing.

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Speaker 4: And then how she was nervous because you know he

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Speaker 4: has a whole breakup ep and so we want to

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Speaker 4: dig into what type of person he is.

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Speaker 2: Because it was very and he's very tight lipped about

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Speaker 2: the relationships. That's what I was going to be.

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Speaker 6: We'll see.

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Speaker 4: My congratulations though. You know you've been killing it too

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Speaker 4: by the way out here. It's just I think it's

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Speaker 4: just amazing to see everything you've done, and then with

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Speaker 4: the music, because some people didn't even know you do.

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Speaker 2: Music, which is crazy.

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Speaker 4: So it has to feel good when you're putting out

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Speaker 4: music and it's really resonating with people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it does. It does because I love both.

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Speaker 3: I love both both of my crafts very deeply, and

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Speaker 3: I take them very seriously and I put a lot

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Speaker 3: of time into them. And so for people to respect

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Speaker 3: both of them and for me to be building the

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Speaker 3: respect in that in that world like I am in

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Speaker 3: the acting world, it's just it's dope.

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Speaker 2: I feel like people really want you to be an athlete,

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Speaker 2: like a lot of them that you play.

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Speaker 6: The film right now.

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Speaker 2: I really I was going.

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Speaker 4: To ask you, because that's you boxing. I was like,

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Speaker 4: is that for a roller for yourself?

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Speaker 6: Yes, for a role.

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Speaker 3: So I'm doing a film with Jamie Fox right now,

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Speaker 3: and it's based on the nineteen eighty four Olympic boxing team.

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Speaker 3: That's all I can say because they might.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's great. Boxes my favorite sport to watch.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you're gonna watch one on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: Crawford and Can Yes, I who you got?

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Speaker 6: I got Crawford Court.

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Speaker 4: Bo Okay that's what we went. Yeah, of course, Okay,

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Speaker 4: what do you I don't know if everybody in here

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Speaker 4: watching it.

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Speaker 2: To go watch you know what I'm saying. But I

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Speaker 4: But I was say boxing matches are a great place

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Speaker 4: to go because it it's definitely very male heads.

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Speaker 2: Sporting events in general. I was just saying this.

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Speaker 5: I went to a Jets game yesterday. Not a football girly,

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Speaker 5: but I do love the Ravens. I was like, this

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Speaker 5: is the perfect place for single ladies to me man,

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Speaker 5: and it was just me and one my cute little friend.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, they're.

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Speaker 5: Swimming and go to the Mail sports, golf, tennis?

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Speaker 2: Okay she did? Ye went to the US US. You know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I tell people to like, if you want to date people,

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Speaker 4: be thinking someone's going to just show up at the door,

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Speaker 4: Like you got to make an effort if you want to. Like,

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Speaker 4: I love that you're going on because you're also having

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Speaker 4: fun while you're going out, So you would do it anyway.

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Speaker 4: But then it's nice when like you don't got to

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Speaker 4: pay for a drink that part. Yes, are you the

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Speaker 4: type of person alg when you go out that you

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Speaker 4: buy drinks for ladies, even if it's you're not trying

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Speaker 4: to holler at them.

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing it all the time, but I don't

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Speaker 2: More it depends on where you are certain places.

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Speaker 1: It's regional because New So I'm a Jersey girl and

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Speaker 1: so that's what we do up here. But I live

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Speaker 1: in Atlanta, Georgia, and it's just not like that.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna talk.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna talk you to death forever.

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Speaker 7: I live in Atlanta too, And I literally have a

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Speaker 7: friend who was like, he's a guy, and he's like,

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Speaker 7: he's from Detroit, and we know the Detroit guys like

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Speaker 7: to spend money.

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Speaker 2: They're very generous, right, they won't even speak to you,

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Speaker 2: they just send a drinks.

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Speaker 6: Love that.

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Speaker 7: So we had a whole debate one day because he's like,

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Speaker 7: you should never have to spend money when you're outside.

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Speaker 7: He's like, if I saw you anywhere, I would just

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Speaker 7: walk up and pay your tab just because how.

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Speaker 2: Fine you are.

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Speaker 7: And I'm like, that's not my life. You chased and

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Speaker 7: spend much when I go out. Now there are the person.

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Speaker 7: You know, we do get, you know, the perks. But

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Speaker 7: the door watchuld never spend a dollar.

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Speaker 1: But that is from who you getting. Are you interested

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Speaker 1: in the one that you're getting the perks from? Then

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Speaker 1: that's the other thing.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 4: Well, we had a whole debate about this up here

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Speaker 4: with Snapdog. I'm going to ask you, Algie, as the

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Speaker 4: man in the room, if you're buying, like say you're

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Speaker 4: at a bar and you send a woman a drink,

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Speaker 4: does that mean that Let's say she accepts it, but

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Speaker 4: she's in a relationship, is that disrespectful to her man?

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Speaker 6: If her man is there, he's.

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Speaker 3: Not there.

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Speaker 2: Drink over she just says thank you? That's it?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: Is that like she disrespecting her man?

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Speaker 6: Or mmmm?

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Speaker 3: I want to say if it was my girl, then no,

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Speaker 3: you're not. He selling the drink from Why are you

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Speaker 3: selling and drink from a nigga? It don't matter. But

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Speaker 3: on the flip side, if I saw myself doing it,

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Speaker 3: I could see how a woman would accept it. So

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm just very contradicting myself.

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Speaker 4: Right, You're like, because you know your intentions, but you

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Speaker 4: don't know where somebody else's intentions are.

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Speaker 2: Might be like, I'm just getting you a drink exactly,

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Speaker 1: Would you just get someone to drink that You're not interested.

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Speaker 6: In that part too? And I'm not just buying drinks

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Speaker 6: because you're beautiful though.

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy. I was at the bar one

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Speaker 4: Was a girl sitting by herself, like across the bar.

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Speaker 4: He was like, let's pay for her drinks and I

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Speaker 4: was like, okay, And he paid for her drink, didn't

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Speaker 4: think anything. It was really nice to do it because

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Speaker 2: He didn't go over and speak like anything. I didn't.

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Speaker 2: And he's just a friend of mine, so even if

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Speaker 2: he wanted to, I wouldn't care. But he wasn't. She

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Speaker 2: was like regular. She wasn't you know, she wasn't bad.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't. He wasn't even looking at it, like to

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you want to and I've done that before the

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Speaker 4: people like I've been at restaurants and seeing like women

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Speaker 2: Like, let's take care of their tab. So I think

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Speaker 2: it's it's like sometimes to pay it forward type.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes in this world people don't just like sometimes you

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Speaker 4: just feel like I had a great day.

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just think like that though.

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Speaker 3: So yet last night I was walking home from the

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Speaker 3: bar and has spent I was watching the Lines and

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Speaker 3: we lost, so I spent a lot of money in

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Speaker 6: I'm very surprised because when.

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Speaker 4: Did Lines make it to the super Bowl? They lose

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Speaker 4: the Super Bowl? Yeah, that was they didn't make it

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Speaker 4: to the playoff. Yeah, and I was there at play

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Speaker 4: in Detroit when they lost that game.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I didn't have.

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Speaker 3: My card and so I went to the ice cream

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Speaker 3: I didn't have no more casual on my card.

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Speaker 2: So you're not lactose intolerant.

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Speaker 10: Was just like, I'll get it for you, Like, no

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Speaker 4: Cream crazy to me because I feel like people think

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Speaker 4: everything is so transactional when people really just do something nice.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the world we live in a lot of

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Speaker 6: It's like the.

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Speaker 3: Quality of relationships is low key being lost because of transaction.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy.

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Speaker 7: Do you think that it's an era of because a

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Speaker 7: lot of people equated to how people are looking at

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Speaker 7: other people's lives and things that are put on social media?

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Speaker 7: Do you think that they had something to do with

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Speaker 2: Ran right now.

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Speaker 3: You're saying, like like trying to keep up pretty much? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think yeah, for sure. Yeah, And everybody just focused

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Speaker 3: on like and it's not wrong to be focused on

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Speaker 3: year agos and what you want to do. But I

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Speaker 3: think the humanity and relationships is a real thing. Just

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Speaker 3: checking on people or just like talking to them on

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Speaker 3: the phone just because not because I got to ask

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Right, I want to ask you what is this fucking

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Speaker 4: jet to Holiday thing?

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Speaker 2: Where it's come from? So I know a little bit

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 7: So Jet to Holiday is a company based in Europe

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Speaker 7: in the UK where it's like, you know how it's

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Speaker 7: like a travel agency. So as Americans, we just book

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Speaker 7: our own ship and we travel. You know, we booked

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Speaker 7: through the airline or through Expedia or back in the day,

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Speaker 7: people actually used to frequent travel agencies. Well, in the

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Speaker 7: UK they have this company called Jetsu Holli. They were

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Speaker 7: people actually save up for their family vacation for the

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Speaker 7: year or whatever and they pay on it in jets lay. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: and Jetsu Holiday is the actual company. So this, this

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Speaker 7: sound that we're hearing is a is a it's a commercial.

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Speaker 7: So you know, wait, going back, you know vacation they

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Speaker 7: call it holiday, right, So there's a commercial that's been

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Speaker 7: running for years, this commercial that we hear. Somehow somebody

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Speaker 7: people on the internet, I don't want to say the

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Speaker 7: wrong word, the people on the internet ran with it.

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Speaker 2: It just blew it up into something that is just

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Speaker 2: dumb and then like money. Like somebody said in the

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Speaker 5: Every time you hear it, the vacation turns into a disaster.

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Speaker 5: It's all funny games and then show the gentlement down

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Speaker 2: Now, I'm like, what did they think about that marketing?

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Speaker 5: Because it's kind of giving disasters.

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Speaker 3: Like is it the argument of all press is good pressure?

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Speaker 3: Going to hold you. Yeah, I went and searched up

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Speaker 2: You need to make a movie? A jetsu holiday movement?

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Speaker 4: I already have yet, I already have you know, So,

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Speaker 2: Like been with on? I can't even vacation with a woman.

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Speaker 2: What was the first vacation you ever took? I went

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Speaker 3: Like that was like four years ago.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we went to Hawaii, a Paara cl for

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Speaker 6: But I was on. I was in Waikiki.

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Speaker 3: Next time, I want to go to a wai Ho

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Speaker 3: because I heard that's more it's not so touristic.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I place, you know what I'm saying. Nothing now?

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Speaker 2: Is this the young lady who this EP break up

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Speaker 3: So it's a different one, different real person.

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Speaker 3: taking a whole account of there for what I worked through,

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Speaker 2: But at the time you weren't acting like it was

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Speaker 4: Is this something that looking back you take accountability or looking.

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Speaker 3: I'm just go out and let me drink, let me

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Speaker 3: because when I think about it, I'm going to realize

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Speaker 3: it was my fault.

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Speaker 2: What was your fault? Like, what did you do?

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Speaker 3: I was cheating? Yeahship, why here we go?

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Speaker 6: Why were you?

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Speaker 2: Were you cheating to feel a void? Were you bored? I?

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Speaker 1: Did I have something to do with everything that's happening

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Speaker 3: I just at that time I didn't have as much

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Speaker 2: And how did she catch you?

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Speaker 3: She went to my phone a couple of times.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's always.

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Speaker 3: I woke about my sleep one time and she was

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Speaker 6: She woke me on just like huh wait right now,

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Speaker 6: like I just see black. I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: So was it with more than one woman or.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was with a couple m hmm. But it

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Speaker 3: four year relationship. But it wasn't like more than it

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Speaker 3: wasn't more than two people. Yeah, but still it doesn't

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Speaker 2: Right right?

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Speaker 4: You think it's worse when some the teats with like

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Speaker 2: Just have a problem. But if it's like one other person,

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Speaker 6: That wasn't the case though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't leading anybody on, like okay, sure, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I promise you.

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Speaker 1: You know, we'll make it what we wanted to be.

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Speaker 3: But you just said it though, so what I would.

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Speaker 3: I'm very I'll be very transparent at the top. I'll

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Speaker 3: let you know what I'm not looking for. I'll let

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Speaker 3: you know what I am looking for. Now. What you

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Speaker 3: decide to make up in your head after that is.

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Speaker 6: Not align with you.

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Speaker 3: I don't like. I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: Does where you protecting yourself?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the entire time.

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Speaker 2: With them to people he was getting you can't having

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Speaker 7: You know morning didn't on the street when they jump

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Speaker 3: We ain't gonna figure out what is crazy.

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Speaker 4: But you know, at a point like that, when someone

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Speaker 4: is get mad at you for going through his phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's what you like?

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Speaker 8: What you you don't my mama?

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Speaker 2: Clearly you can't have reason to go and check she

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Speaker 3: Turn it around some crazy you guys do you did No,

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Speaker 3: I didn't do that.

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Speaker 6: I actually took it on the chin.

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Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, you're right, Like I fucked up,

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Speaker 3: It's my fault.

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Speaker 2: Did you want to stay after that?

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Speaker 6: Did I want to stay?

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Speaker 2: The other day?

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Speaker 3: Like, this's a very good question because a lot of

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Speaker 3: it's like did you want to stay? A part of

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of work to stay after that.

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Speaker 3: That's why, because you know, you know that like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: You're always going to feel like this now, I'm always

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Speaker 1: Stop doing what you're doing just because she went through.

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Speaker 3: What she calls you exactly exactly. So that's why I said,

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Speaker 6: It's took me about six months.

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Speaker 3: To a year to really like have to be with

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Speaker 3: if I want to do this the next time, how

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Speaker 3: what do I want to not do and what I

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Speaker 3: want to do right for the relationship, not saying, however,

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Speaker 3: not saying what is writing what's wrong? But for me

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Speaker 3: want to do right? And what I want to do?

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Speaker 3: What I want to do anymore?

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Speaker 4: That it's interesting because on this EP right, Magic City

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Speaker 4: the first thing they're going to do is.

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Speaker 2: Try to act like they are extra and what they're

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Speaker 6: Come on, we're going to pick you up. Man, We're

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Speaker 2: Me and my women are the exact opposite were scribed.

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Speaker 2: But then we heal, you know, you let that. And

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Speaker 2: then when we heal.

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Speaker 3: Because y'all do the real work faster than we try

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Speaker 3: to avoid, and then.

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Speaker 6: We got to sit with the real work later.

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Speaker 3: Right, So y'all, y'all go through the feelings. First, we

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Speaker 4: Because even how guys express themselves to each other, it's

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Speaker 2: Like, man, and I'm really hurt.

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Speaker 4: I shouldn't like y'all would be like, yeah, she went

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Speaker 4: through my ship, yo, Let's go to Magic City.

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Speaker 2: That's how guys. But we'd be like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: We're gonna talk about every little detail three times, yeah,

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Speaker 4: a thousand times.

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Speaker 2: He ain't anyway, Like.

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Speaker 4: You know, we're gonna do all of that, Like we're

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Speaker 4: gonna talk about every single detail of what he did

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Speaker 4: to us, what happened, what was in those text messages.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna cry, we're gonna sit at home, we're gonna

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Speaker 4: have our girlfriends over.

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Speaker 3: That's the real work, though, like you're letting it out,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like y'all don't have the space to like,

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Speaker 4: ice cream, but they're not gonna come over.

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Speaker 6: Eat ice cream. The definitely.

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Speaker 3: Doing that.

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Speaker 2: And then so the song the way it goes.

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Speaker 4: I really like that song on the EP in particular,

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Speaker 4: and that it's really about knowing when to let it go,

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Speaker 4: about that, like when do you stop fighting?

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Speaker 2: Because that's hard to because people feel like, oh, you

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Speaker 2: just gave up.

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Speaker 4: Oh you're not gonna fight, Oh you're not gonna you know,

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Speaker 4: try to work through this. Then you didn't really care.

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Speaker 4: And I feel like sometimes women, if a man cheats,

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Speaker 4: have the right to do whatever they want. If they're like,

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Speaker 4: this is it, I'm not doing it, like nobody should

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Speaker 4: argue that. So what do you think about when is

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Speaker 4: when is it like, Okay, we got to just let

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Speaker 4: this go.

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00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 1: When he's not giving any more energy, Like if he's nonchalant,

450
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Like if she's pouring out her

451
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 1: heart and he's just sitting there with no response, no feedback,

452
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,080
Speaker 1: no nothing, and you leave me to myself to create

453
00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 1: this narrative in my head what's really happening, then that's time.

454
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 1: It's time to go. Every situation is different, though, because

455
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 1: not everyone is going to leave when their person cheeks. Now,

456
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 1: if he's remorseful and he's like, I apologize, y'all have

457
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 1: the difficult conversation, then I think it's cool to give

458
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,199
Speaker 1: especially if you're single and not married. I mean be

459
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 1: clear if you married, it's actually so if you're just dat,

460
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 1: you're just dating, then you're still trying to figure it out, right,

461
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 1: And just like we're on our own journey, the man

462
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 1: he's on his journey too, He's trying to figure it

463
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: out too. And that's a lot of times women don't

464
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 1: realize that we're both on a journey trying to figure

465
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 1: it out. So if he cheats, then that's the time

466
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 1: to have that difficult conversation and find out what it

467
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 1: is that you really want to do moving forward.

468
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 2: Did you guys live together?

469
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:43,880
Speaker 3: No?

470
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 6: I never lived, are you never having?

471
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 3: Always have my own spots, So even if I would

472
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 3: be over there all the time, I could still go

473
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 3: to myf.

474
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 2: I have a toothbrush here. Can I ask my question?

475
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 1: Algi, did you how did you feel about the other

476
00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,440
Speaker 1: woman that you cheated with? Like once you a girl,

477
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 1: she found out that she were cheating, Like, how did

478
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 1: you treat that situationship?

479
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 3: I think I didn't feel anything about it because it

480
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,360
Speaker 3: wasn't even a situation ship. It was just like one off.

481
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 3: It was just one off, Okay, So I didn't even them.

482
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,439
Speaker 6: People weren't even in my mind to be honest.

483
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 3: I hate to say, but it's the truth.

484
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 6: The truth.

485
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 3: So yeah, I didn't even have any feelings towards in

486
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 3: your real what did.

487
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 2: You learn from all this? To delete those messages?

488
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 6: I want my mother is just to be straight up

489
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 6: and not to lie, like.

490
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 3: Did you want to go do it?

491
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 6: I want to go do it?

492
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, did she just found out?

493
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 2: Did she asking? You said?

494
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 3: No, No, she just found out. But I mean, if

495
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 3: you're if you're dating someone and you're doing something behind

496
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 3: the back, that's low key line.

497
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, when are you going to be straight up like listen,

498
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 2: when you're gonna yes.

499
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 6: I've been doing this for no reason.

500
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: Made her go into your phone in the first place?

501
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 1: If these were like one offs and it wasn't.

502
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 2: Serious when I think that was the moment he had

503
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 2: that orgasm. She was wrong, right, something.

504
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 4: Different, different, going different, you know how your phone like that.

505
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 3: I don't think I was moving different. I just think

506
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 3: that she just had an intuition and that she just

507
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 3: I just think that she just didn't trust me off

508
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 3: top from jump because she just knew, like what type

509
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 3: of life so I'm in, So she just like maybe

510
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 3: she maybe in the back of her head she thought

511
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 3: it was going to come where she knew it was

512
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 3: going to come. So I feel like she always was

513
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 3: just like, you know, I'm here because I love you,

514
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 3: but I don't fully trust you.

515
00:23:58,760 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 2: So it started off that way.

516
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 4: I think that's a hard way to start a relationship

517
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 4: when you already don't trust it and nothing happened yet,

518
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 4: because you kind of got to start with a clean slate.

519
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, have you been cheated on?

520
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 6: Have I cheated on?

521
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 3: No?

522
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 2: Nothing, you know it's very good.

523
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,360
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, you're right, nothing I know, but I only

524
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 3: had two serious relationships. Well wow, so to my knowledge, no,

525
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 3: I haven't been because you're right, y'all are very good.

526
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 3: Though y'all are very good, Like I probably wouldn't even ship.

527
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 6: I probably wouldn't even know. But to my knowledge, do you.

528
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 2: Think women are better cheaters than men?

529
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely? Yeah, I think we're better at everything, no offense.

530
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: But though we have one foot out the door, best

531
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 1: believe that we're not just cheating and we're you know,

532
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: we're with you. We already got one foot out the door,

533
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 1: and it's just a matter of time before we let

534
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: you know.

535
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 3: It's so, would you say that, like if a man

536
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 3: cheats is not as serious as a woman cheating because I.

537
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 1: Think so because some times men can objectify women and

538
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: they just want to sleep with them. It's nothing, there's

539
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: no emotional attachment. It's something that they did right. Whereas

540
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: with us, if we make the decision to sleep with

541
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: another man, then there's a deficit in our relationship period.

542
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: It's something missing, something that's not happening, something that we're

543
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: not getting that maybe we did but we're not getting

544
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 1: now and we're already moving.

545
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: On subconsciously, or we was never fully in it, or we're.

546
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: Never fully in it.

547
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 6: Absolutely, So let me ask you something.

548
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 3: Do y'all think monogamy is like the real way for humanity?

549
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

550
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: It works for me.

551
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: It works for me.

552
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: But if that's not what you want to do, I

553
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 4: just want to say, Joey Badass sat up here and

554
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 4: acted like it wasn't for him, and now looking at.

555
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: Him, I love that.

556
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 6: He's all in.

557
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

558
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 3: I don't know.

559
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 5: I haven't been in a long term relationship in a

560
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 5: long time, and the last one that I was in

561
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 5: I felt myself getting bored. And I feel like at

562
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 5: some point, if I was with somebody for ten fifteen years,

563
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 5: I think I would have a conversation with opening it

564
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 5: up in some capacity. What that was, I don't know.

565
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 3: I don't know.

566
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 5: Maybe I wouldn't feel that way about the right person,

567
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 5: but I don't know. I think people are just so

568
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 5: closed off to ideas before they even allow themselves to

569
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 5: explore the concept or even have the conversation. So I

570
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 5: think i'd be at least open to you think if

571
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 5: I don't give a shit, that's the problem.

572
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 9: I don't really give anything.

573
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 5: I really don't, and that's one of my problems.

574
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 3: Do you feel like if you really had feelings for

575
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 3: a dude, though, and you really cared about them, that

576
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: you were still not give a shit?

577
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 6: I you really cared about them though.

578
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 5: When that happens, I'll let you know.

579
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 3: I don't.

580
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I like that me and vulnerability are that's my struggle.

581
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 5: That's my red flag right there. So I don't know

582
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 5: if I've ever let myself.

583
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 2: Get that far.

584
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 4: You haven't felt comfortable enough, right, you know? You did

585
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 4: this ep level loss, So I have to think that

586
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 4: this was something that meant a lot to you to

587
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 4: actually put together a whole project.

588
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, it did, it did.

589
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 2: What did she did you tell her that you were

590
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: doing this or no.

591
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 6: I didn't.

592
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 3: She probably obviously heard it by now, but definitely heard it.

593
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, but I.

594
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 3: Didn't tell her I was doing it. But it did

595
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 3: mean a lot to me. I think it meant a lot.

596
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 3: It meant a lot to me too, because I'm just

597
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 3: a very empathetic person, and so I know what I

598
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 3: did was hurt someone and I didn't feel good about that,

599
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 3: And I think that I just had to, like I said,

600
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 3: go through my process of dealing with myself in certain

601
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 3: aspects and then you know, I do art, so why

602
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 3: not put it in my art or share it? Because

603
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 3: when I was thinking, I was just like, this is

604
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 3: going to be the most relatable thing to people. Everybody

605
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 3: has been through heartbreak, at least a lot of people,

606
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 3: so a lot of people can relate to that. So

607
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 3: how do I be as authentic as I can be even.

608
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 6: Though it's you don't want to admit to the world.

609
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 3: That, yeah, I was, I was a trash nig relag

610
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 3: ship that wasn't good.

611
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

612
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 3: You don't want to admit that exactly what it's related

613
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 3: where people actually go through that, men actually feel like that.

614
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 3: So I'm like, you know, what I've been through. It.

615
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 3: It's my story. I'm gonna tell it, and.

616
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 7: Especially if you learn from it, Yeah, forwards a better

617
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 7: man exactly.

618
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I ain't trying to be out in these

619
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 3: streets whatever. Man, I want to build myself with family,

620
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: like I want to. I want to, I have. I

621
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 3: have plans and goals of owning like three hundred acres

622
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 3: and building my family compound and having my wife and

623
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: my kids and all that.

624
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 2: One wife, you know what I'm saying.

625
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 6: But what do y'all feel about that? Though?

626
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 3: Like I mean, obviously relationship is different, But what do

627
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 3: y'all feel about? But look at me?

628
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, women are opening up to the idea, especially where

629
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: I live in Atlanta, and they say that they're more

630
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: they're open to the lifestyle. But I just think that

631
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: they're tired of having a long shelf value, Like they're

632
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,239
Speaker 1: tired of waiting for meeting the right one. So then

633
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: they settle and tell themselves, Oh, I'm engaging in this

634
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: lifestyle and these are the benefits. But really and truly,

635
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: they're just tired of waiting for that one person. They're like,

636
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: I've been single for however many however, many years. However,

637
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: long and I want to be in a relationship.

638
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 4: You feel like that, no, younger men, do you think

639
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 4: that that could be you avoiding a relationship with somebody

640
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 4: who's ready to be in one.

641
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: No, the thing, this is my thing. So you you

642
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: probably know a little bit of my story. I was

643
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: cellibate for eight years, single, not dating, and those eight years, Yeah,

644
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: those years, it's like I got to make up.

645
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 3: Like and I.

646
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: Typically don't for the sake of a conversation because I

647
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: typically don't tell my age. But guys, I'm fifty one.

648
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 3: Right, amazing, Yeah, that's crazy, that's great.

649
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I attract younger men most people, and

650
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: then I feel like the men my age are older,

651
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: they're not gonna want to do the things that I

652
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: want to do. I feel like they're not gonna want

653
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: to go the places I want to go. They're not

654
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: even gonna dress like I want them to dress. I

655
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: just think at a certain age, it's those things are

656
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: just not important. And because of those eight years that

657
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: I didn't get to do it, it's like I'm making

658
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: up for that time. It's almost like I'm eight years

659
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: younger than what I really am. That's how I feel

660
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: because I really didn't live during those eight years, Like

661
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: my life literally went on pause. So I'm just like,

662
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: it's just I've tried it and it's just.

663
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 3: Not what I like to do.

664
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: And I don't try to say that you like to

665
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: do that. You feel like girl like to have fun.

666
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: I mean, do you know when you get like, you know,

667
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: at the fifties, when you start having health issues and

668
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: you know.

669
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 6: What, is it.

670
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: Not menopause for me, because that's good for them.

671
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 2: For the younger guys that.

672
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: Would a comes impotent.

673
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know that's the.

674
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: Age range for you that you're leaning towards. When it

675
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 2: comes to the younger man, I.

676
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: Would say, I would say a ten year gap. No, no, younger,

677
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: because I've tried it and it doesn't work. The conversation

678
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: is totally just it's crazy.

679
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: I have a sixteen year age gap in my relationship currently. Wow,

680
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: who's younger?

681
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

682
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 2: Actually, like my daughter like you, she don't care, she's

683
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: happy for me. I'm but you have fun, right, I

684
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 2: don't have a.

685
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 3: Different And I was.

686
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 7: Very skeptical at first because of that main reason of

687
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 7: my daughter being around his same age, like a not

688
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 7: even a year apart, and also like we it's a

689
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 7: long distance relationship. So those were the two red flags,

690
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 7: but we work through it. We waited nine months to

691
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 7: have sex, like it was like a whole like journey,

692
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 7: and now we're like fifteen months in and it's I'm

693
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 7: we're yeah, what do you think you're waiting to have sex? Algie,

694
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 7: Like if you.

695
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 2: Were like we did that on purpose?

696
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to know how y'all managed those nine months.

697
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 7: Well, there was a time you did didn't see each

698
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 7: other for four months. Four months went byble dollar seeing

699
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 7: each other.

700
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's that. And then honestly, there was a

701
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 2: time and we had sex in I think April.

702
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 7: There was a time in January that I wanted to

703
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 7: give him something, but I got sick so it didn't happen.

704
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: So in my mind it was gonna happen at night

705
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: I was getting It's like, because.

706
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 7: We still.

707
00:32:48,720 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 2: Don't see it, dur ship, there was like one time.

708
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 8: There was nothing touch So are you you'll please obviously relationships,

709
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 8: he said, no, Ship, I think waiting is.

710
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 6: Cool if that's what you want to do.

711
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: I think I don't you know, I think it just

712
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 3: depends on the relationship and the people in the relationship

713
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: because I've waited sometimes to depending on the person.

714
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 6: I don't know, but I think it just depends.

715
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 3: I respect. I respect people's boundaries and spirituality if they

716
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 3: are like, you know what, I want to wait and

717
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 3: save myself, or I've even fasted from sex some time

718
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 3: in a relationship, like I just need to take some

719
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 3: time for Like.

720
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 6: My plan was like three months only lasted like a month. Yeah,

721
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 6: what did I do for you? It did bring a

722
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 6: lot of clarity though for.

723
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 3: Me is it I was just able to kind of

724
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 3: just lock in more on certain things with myself and

725
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 3: even with her though, like we weren't focused on sex.

726
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 3: We were just focused on building outside of that. That

727
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 3: was our thing.

728
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 2: So then what happened after thirty days? I was there.

729
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 5: Because she was like, she was like, was that the

730
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 5: longest you've ever gone without doing anything.

731
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 6: In a relationship.

732
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't have sex during that time with the

733
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: other women, right.

734
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 7: As you about your celibacy after the like after the

735
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 7: eight years, when did you know that you were like, Okay,

736
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 7: I'm ready again.

737
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: Because at the time, during the eight years, I was

738
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 1: believing that someone was my husband and he was not.

739
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: So it was an erroneous belief and I had to

740
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: struggle and deal with that. And so once I put

741
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 1: that to rest, and I was like, Okay, I want

742
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: to start dating again. And I mean cause I was like, this,

743
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: ain't it you know what I'm saying, And I don't

744
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: think like I still don't know because I'm still single.

745
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can do it in a relationship.

746
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: Like I can do it by myself, yes, but in

747
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 1: a relationship, I'm not so sure I could do it.

748
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: I've never tried it. So we Shelsea. But for me,

749
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: it was just like I went from thirty three to

750
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: forty one and so all of my thirties it was

751
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: just like, Okay, I'm missing out on life. I ain't living.

752
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 2: This is crazy. I don't want to do this.

753
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: But now as I get older, I realize why that's

754
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: so important, because, like you say, it brings a lot

755
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: of clarity. It helps you make better decisions in your relationship.

756
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 2: Right.

757
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,240
Speaker 1: And so I just me, I hooked up with someone

758
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: who I was just infatuated with some years before. We

759
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: never you know, we never done it. So and he

760
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: was he lived in Atlanta. I moved to Atlanta, and

761
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: it's like it's always like, gosh, you're just in love

762
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: with this guy at the time, and he was like,

763
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 1: he's actually ten years before he was actually abstinate. He

764
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: was like on something else, and so I was coming

765
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 1: out of my season.

766
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 3: Yes it was.

767
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 4: You know, you talk a lot about having standards too, right,

768
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 4: and so I wanted to ask everybody as far as standards,

769
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 4: what would you say in a relationship your standards? All right, Jordan,

770
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 4: let's start with you for what you're looking for. What

771
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 4: are your standards.

772
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 5: I'm tough a job.

773
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:36,879
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not Tom.

774
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 6: Well, I'm just a job.

775
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: You need to have a job.

776
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 5: You need to have something that you do for fun.

777
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 5: You need to have friends, you need to treat your

778
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 5: parents well. You need to have a sense of humor.

779
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 5: I do like my men a little uptight, like okay,

780
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 5: reachable to these hosts, unaccessible that, but also like I

781
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 5: sometimes I like to bug out when I'm out, and

782
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 5: I don't want you to do that.

783
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 2: That's for me today. Okay, you want you were going home?

784
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, you need to get checked just

785
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 2: a little bit.

786
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, Because I feel like I can be very dominant

787
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 5: in relationships and I want someone to put me in

788
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 5: my feminine when appropriate.

789
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what if that's your standards?

790
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: Take everything that she said, But one of the more

791
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: important things for me is someone who's in purpose. Like

792
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: that is so important to have to have similar goals

793
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: and values, because what else is going to sustain the

794
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: relationship when there is no sex, right, you got to

795
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: have some level of compatibility or it's not going to work.

796
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: You just can't be handsome, and that's it.

797
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 2: It has to be something else to you.

798
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: So for me, it's purpose and that's something that I

799
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 1: feel like before you even consider being in a relationship,

800
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: you gotta have that locked in, Like what am I

801
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 1: here for? What is my God given assignment?

802
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 2: What am I called to do? All those things that

803
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: you said? But purpose plus purpose? What would you say, Alie,

804
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 2: is your standards in a relationship?

805
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 3: I would say security in yourself and loving yourself. First

806
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 3: of all, I've been through a couple of different situationships

807
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 3: where it's just when people don't love themselves, it makes

808
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 3: the relationship, situationship, whatever, harder because now you're fighting.

809
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: Two battles insecurity is a really tough thing to battle.

810
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: It's really tough. So I would say someone who's securing themselves,

811
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 3: who loves themselves, someone who has some type of spiritual

812
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 3: connection with the creator of the world. I'm not going

813
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 3: to say what your religion should be, but as long

814
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 3: as there's some spiritual connection that you feel like there's

815
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 3: something bigger than yourself, someone who is empathetic, who loves family,

816
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 3: the idea of family.

817
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 6: A hard worker.

818
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not trying to have my woman paying

819
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 3: the bills. So you can work if you want to.

820
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 3: But I think it's just like you said, purpose, even

821
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,800
Speaker 3: if you ain't bringing in whatever bread, what's your purpose?

822
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 3: Are you doing that every day? Are you living out

823
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 3: your truth? You know what I'm saying, what you want

824
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 3: to do and not just an at home person.

825
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 2: Have you ever dated somebody who made more than you.

826
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: Currently? No?

827
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 2: Okay, are you open to that?

828
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 3: Yeah? For sure?

829
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 9: He's like, you know, yeah, I think I think why not?

830
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 3: Like if my woman made more than me, I'm like, yeah,

831
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: what go back?

832
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:23,479
Speaker 2: But you would still pay the bills?

833
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 3: Yeah?

834
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 6: I still pay the bills for sure.

835
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

836
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: What about you?

837
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 7: What you're saying, I feel like everything everybody said is

838
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 7: spot on. I just want to add to those things

839
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 7: that me personally. Communication is the biggest thing for me.

840
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 7: I feel like, if you cannot communicate with your partner,

841
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 7: then why are you guys together? And the next thing

842
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 7: for me would be honesty. People have a problem telling

843
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,919
Speaker 7: the truth. People have a problem living in their truth,

844
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 7: and that kind of goes with the communication hand in hand.

845
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 7: I've dealt with in the past people that felt like

846
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,720
Speaker 7: they had the hide things or that weren't you with themselves,

847
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 7: and it just always ended in disaster.

848
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 2: You have a song called honest on the EP. Are

849
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 2: you honest?

850
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 6: You think I am?

851
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 10: Now you are?

852
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's and I want to say that's the most

853
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 4: important thing. Like we go through stuff in life, we

854
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 4: go through relationships, and everything should make us a better person, right,

855
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,959
Speaker 4: Everything is like a lesson learned, even if it didn't

856
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 4: work out, you know, we learn these different lessons. And

857
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 4: you you talked about insecurity. That's so interesting to me because,

858
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 4: for instance, right on Euphoria, you dating Sidney Sweeney on

859
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 4: the show, her character Cassie, Right, that's okay, So that

860
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 4: has to be hard for somebody because they look at

861
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 4: her as like this big sex symbol right now, like

862
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,240
Speaker 4: everybody's like Sidney, and so I can imagine how somebody

863
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 4: would feel like, damn, he was, you know, on the show,

864
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 4: and he was with Sidney Sweeney and doing X, Y and.

865
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: Z and having sex scenes.

866
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 4: But that is probably if you're a regular girl and

867
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 4: that's your man, that has to feel like damn.

868
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 2: I don't you know how can I compare that to that?

869
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, my girl at the time, she wasn't even really tripping.

870
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 3: I think she actually low key liked that.

871
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 2: She really Yeah, to be real with you, I.

872
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 3: Think she did, like, But I could I see the

873
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 3: flip side of that though. It's like, because I don't

874
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 3: know if I would want to watch my girl.

875
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 2: Can you imagine if yet, if that was your girl

876
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 2: doing the sex sye.

877
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's just acting, But I'm not trying to see

878
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 6: it either, you know what I'm saying.

879
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you never dated another person in the business, like

880
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 4: another woman who was an.

881
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 6: Actress dated, no, like messed around with Fine?

882
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 4: Would you want to you think you think that could

883
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 4: because then maybe you guys don't understand each other more.

884
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 4: But then to your point, you wouldn't want to watch

885
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 4: something like that.

886
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 3: I don't think I would want to be I think

887
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 3: when I come home, I wouldn't want to have a

888
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 3: conversation of like, oh yeah, I was set today for you.

889
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, this is how it was today for me.

890
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 3: When I come home, I don't want to talk about

891
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 3: set anymore. I want to talk about Okay, how was

892
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: your day in this other field that you're doing what

893
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 3: you're doing. How was that that interesting? You know? Like

894
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 3: so I don't think I would want to be with

895
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 3: somebody in my field.

896
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 4: You know how amazing it is that you are where

897
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 4: you are, Like coming from Saginaw, Michigan, I mean it's

898
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 4: a big deal. Do you ever have to sit back

899
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,439
Speaker 4: and think like I can't believe this is my life.

900
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't do it that often, but I did

901
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 3: have a moment like two weeks ago. I was just

902
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 3: like sitting with myself and I was just thanking God

903
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 3: because like nobody in my family or my you know

904
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. It's just I've just been so blessed

905
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 3: to get to where I am and to be able

906
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 3: to help the way I can. And I'm just I

907
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 3: don't take it for.

908
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 6: Granted at all.

909
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm just like, this is crazy. The only

910
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 3: the only ones about the Sacond is me. Draymond Green,

911
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 3: Stevie wonder. I mean, doesn't y'all Serena Lewis, They talked

912
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 3: like she's in confident but she was born in name.

913
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 6: But it ain't a lot of us.

914
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 3: Though, So it's just like, you know, it's it's really dope.

915
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean it's a big I remember watching

916
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 4: you and the hate you give because I of that

917
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 4: movie and seeing I know you were in the beginning

918
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 4: and then that was it. But that was a really

919
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 4: impactful part of that movie, you know. And I think

920
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 4: you've had like some great roles, I mean really legendary.

921
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 4: Just to think about where you are right now and

922
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 4: now you're about to play a box. You haven't told

923
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 4: us much about it, but I know that's gonna be

924
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 4: a big one because Jamie Fox is in the tube.

925
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 3: It's gonna be really big. And the story is when

926
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 3: I read the script, I got goosebumps. That's how I

927
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 3: always know if it's a good script or not. Yeah,

928
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 3: if I get goosebumps while I'm reading it, or if

929
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 3: I'm just like yo, I can't stop reading this. And

930
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 3: that's how I know when I read that, when I'm like, yo,

931
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 3: this is gonna be because it's a true story. It's

932
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 3: based on a true story too, and the true story

933
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 3: is very tragic.

934
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 2: So to find out more information, what's your training process?

935
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 3: Like, Oh, so I go to the gym from nine

936
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 3: to four every day and we are essentially just becoming boxers.

937
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 3: So when we get there, we have to either run

938
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:00,080
Speaker 3: on a treadmill for an hour or were outside it

939
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 3: and then we come back in. We do we jump

940
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 3: rope for a long time, and then we do sparring

941
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 3: with each other and then we'd spar the actual pro boxers.

942
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: Game and what you spired with.

943
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 6: So our trainers.

944
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 3: I'm getting trained by a guy named Chris Algery. So

945
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 3: he's from Staten Island. He was a pro boxer, very fire,

946
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 3: and they got Mike, his nephew, Mike Algery, who was

947
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,879
Speaker 3: the number one amateur in New York right now, which

948
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 3: is crazy to say. Then another guy named Jose Jose Gonzalez.

949
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 3: He's he was a pro boxer as well. So we're

950
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 3: in there with some people that have gone the distance

951
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 3: and fought in like the Manny Pacquias of the world.

952
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 3: Yeah all that, so, yeah, it's good.

953
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 2: You know, you can't have sex before you fight either.

954
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 3: So your energy.

955
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you have to be at this point in time.

956
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 2: This is a great time for you to.

957
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 7: The fact.

958
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 6: No, the weekends, the weekends. The weekends is good. You know,

959
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 6: take my Friday Saturday night.

960
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 3: It good.

961
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 6: I'm good with Monday. I'm cool.

962
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very funny though, because it's real. Me and

963
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 3: my castmate were just talking about that. Was like, like, bro,

964
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 3: one time I showed up and I was just drained.

965
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 6: I couldn't get through the day.

966
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:17,240
Speaker 3: I know that it is different.

967
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 2: Masturbate does.

968
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 3: Still releasing, like yeah, you gotta you gotta there you go.

969
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, but yeah, you really are, Like you think you're.

970
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 2: Good in bed.

971
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 6: I think I'm great in bed?

972
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, why, Like, who have women been like, oh my god,

973
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: you're the best?

974
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 3: As we say that.

975
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 6: The best. I mean, yeah, y'all do say that.

976
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 3: But one thing that y'all can't hide is faces, And

977
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 3: one thing y'all can't hide is faces and breaths.

978
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 6: Y'all can't hide that. You can't hide that, so you know,

979
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying.

980
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 5: But you're an actor, yeah, working all those things you

981
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 5: know you apply to women before and faked it like

982
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 5: it was amazing just.

983
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 3: To get out of it early.

984
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 2: Same Oh, my god, I can't. You did have to

985
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 2: get out of there early? Can you make yourself finished?

986
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 3: Like or do you?

987
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 2: Or have they been times when you have to pretend

988
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: you were done?

989
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:18,919
Speaker 3: Why?

990
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 2: Why did you want to get out of there? It

991
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: wasn't it just wasn't field or smell or oh my god.

992
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's because I'm like, what would be a reason dry.

993
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 6: Rhythm? Oh my god, Oh my gosh.

994
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 2: Like what's bad vagina in your definition? Is it just

995
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 2: the vagina or is it the whole experience.

996
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 3: With the woman? Okay, I'll just say this, like in

997
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,919
Speaker 3: my experience yet, bad vagina is vagina that's not well kept,

998
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 3: you know.

999
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,280
Speaker 2: Like groomed. Well it's well kept.

1000
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, the grooming, because I'll take like it's natural, right,

1001
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 3: like hair is natural. You feel me?

1002
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 6: Like, as long as it ain't looking hella crazy down there?

1003
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 9: Like you know I'm not, yeah, but.

1004
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 3: Oh damn, this is crazy. A specific time I had

1005
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 3: to get up out of there was when I was

1006
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 3: messing around with this girl and we had messed around

1007
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 3: times before and she her hygen really good, like she

1008
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 3: had no problem yet normally this time when I was

1009
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 3: just hitting it from the back, there was just there

1010
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 3: was just in Aroma that was coming up, and I'm

1011
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 3: just like, just like you knew I was coming over?

1012
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 6: Did you take a ship and then you didn't? It's

1013
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 6: like did you did you not get in a shower?

1014
00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 2: Or like what did it Tuesday? Taco?

1015
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 3: I don't remember the day The first time, it's.

1016
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 2: Usually like she was musty or trust not ship?

1017
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, shitty, And so I'm like, yo, I gotta get

1018
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 3: up out of here.

1019
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 9: Did you tell her?

1020
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 3: No? I didn't tell her.

1021
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 6: Maybe I should have told her in my mom like

1022
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 6: you know this?

1023
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 3: How do you not write?

1024
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,800
Speaker 2: But did you see anything? You know? Because that's the

1025
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 2: time when you'd be like, what's going on in Okay?

1026
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 2: Thank god? I feel like it was just that wasn't

1027
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: be crazy? Can you see that ship? She didn't smell it?

1028
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 2: Because that's what I'm saying, like.

1029
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 3: There's no way, there's no way.

1030
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 2: I was coming.

1031
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 3: Damn.

1032
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 6: After that, it's just I just didn't want to even.

1033
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 3: Talk to her no more.

1034
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: Really, so you never told her why you ended it?

1035
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 2: Well now she know we don't know who he's talking about.

1036
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 2: If you was the one who got ghost girl, you

1037
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 2: should have washed that ass. You should have watched that

1038
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 2: whole body.

1039
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 3: Even if I were, even if you were to take

1040
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 3: a ship before I have sex, I'm getting in the shower.

1041
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 3: I care about myself that much, like I'm really big

1042
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 3: on that before I have Before I have sex at all,

1043
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 3: I'm getting in the.

1044
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 4: Shower making I will never forget. I was when I

1045
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 4: used to work in artist management. One of my friends,

1046
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 4: like you know, the artist I was working with, had

1047
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 4: a show and she ended up sleeping with somebody from

1048
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 4: like the crew, and she was like, Angela.

1049
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 2: We were in the bad.

1050
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 4: He got it and took a ship in the bathroom

1051
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 4: in the hotel and got right back in what and

1052
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 4: she was like, she told him, She's like, you're not

1053
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 4: gonna take a shower. She was like, I can smell

1054
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 4: the ship like you in the hotel room and in

1055
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 4: the room and got in the bad and she told me,

1056
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 4: she was like, you're not gonna like you gotta get

1057
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 4: in the shower.

1058
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 3: Immediately, and as but me just just me personally, like

1059
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 3: I said, I care on my hygiene so much that

1060
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 3: I don't even want to even put you in a

1061
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 3: position of smelling me in.

1062
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 6: A bad way. So I'm going to be like, let

1063
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 6: me jump in the shower.

1064
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 2: You give me here smelling good today?

1065
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, men don't like to tell what Colonne they were

1066
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 4: because they don't want other people to buy what type

1067
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 4: of what colonne.

1068
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 3: It's a mix, I do, but it's a green bottle

1069
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:58,439
Speaker 3: with a gold top.

1070
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 9: But it's really green Cree. It's really is the brand Creed, No,

1071
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 9: it's not.

1072
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 6: Creed is cool, but I was.

1073
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 3: Like, I smelled Creed everywhere, so many.

1074
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 4: Different ones, you know. Yeah, yeah, they always have new

1075
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 4: sense coming out and everything like that. So you know,

1076
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 4: sometimes guys put too much cologne on.

1077
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: Good Lord, you're still trying to jay gone for a

1078
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: whole day.

1079
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 7: Calming down, bro, especially when it's a bad one, like

1080
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:31,400
Speaker 7: you drenched yourself with some bullshit and now it's lingering.

1081
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 3: Like I've smelled times when I put on too much

1082
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 3: colomny by accident, and I'm like, I got on too

1083
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:37,760
Speaker 3: much colomne.

1084
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 7: I've done that with perfume, but it's because I smoked weed.

1085
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 7: So I always try to cover up the aroma like that.

1086
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:47,240
Speaker 2: He's been like weeding perfume.

1087
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 6: It's crazy because we never goes anywhere, right, It's crazy.

1088
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 4: Do you mind if a woman like comes over smelling

1089
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 4: like we I feel like we's not a bad smell.

1090
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 3: Like if you can smell like cigarettes, that's different.

1091
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 7: Well unless you're somebody who actually hates it. Because I

1092
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 7: was outdated someone who hated my weed, and he didn't

1093
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 7: want to smell it, he didn't want to see it,

1094
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 7: he didn't want to taste it on my breath or

1095
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 7: my mouth, you know.

1096
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 2: So that was that became an issue in our relationship.

1097
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 5: Because and what you're rolling it into, I feel like

1098
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 5: makes a difference. Sometimes I'm like, I don't like what

1099
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 5: they Yeah.

1100
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 7: See you know I'm a no tobacco girl. Yeah, so

1101
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 7: I'm a I'm a clean smoker. But even still, when

1102
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 7: you got that good good do you know it?

1103
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 6: Lingers smoke papers?

1104
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and.

1105
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 3: We're on a healthier side, you know what I'm saying.

1106
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 6: All the backwoods don't work.

1107
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Speaker 4: Now, are you actively dating even though you're single? Like,

1108
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 4: are there do you what do you think about like

1109
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 4: a roster? Or do you think I can only date

1110
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 4: one person at a time?

1111
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, that is me.

1112
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 1: I can only date one person. I'm not actively dating

1113
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: right now.

1114
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 3: No, No, I mean I.

1115
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: I've entertained someone recently, but it wasn't a good fit

1116
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: for me. Why, Well, because he was he was a

1117
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: lot younger. The conversation just wasn't there, and he talked

1118
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: about his previous relationship too much on the phone.

1119
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 2: Every time we would.

1120
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: Get on the phone, he would just talk about the problems,

1121
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: like because they had a small child. I would they

1122
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: had a small child. And then the time that I

1123
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: because normally I would just listen. But then one particular

1124
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 1: time I thought to engage the conversation and I realized,

1125
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: this man doesn't take accountability for anything.

1126
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 2: That's everything is someone else.

1127
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 4: Whenever you are talking to somebody, and they are always

1128
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 4: the victim, and everything is this person did that, this person,

1129
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 4: did this, this person, and they never are like because

1130
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 4: you came in here and said at accountability, like I

1131
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 4: messed up, I cheated. I realized now there are people

1132
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 4: that will never admit the wrong and never take responsibility

1133
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 4: for the part they played.

1134
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,919
Speaker 1: It was just where he proposed to this young lady,

1135
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 1: and he took the ring back. But once you propose,

1136
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: like we're moving towards marriage, we're looking at houses, we're

1137
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: doing all these things. Well, she wanted to buy a house,

1138
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 1: and I don't think he was in a position to

1139
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 1: be able to do. So her mom helped her buy

1140
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:22,839
Speaker 1: this house. And he was like, who does that? Who

1141
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: gets engaged and buy a house? I said, everybody.

1142
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 3: Yeah he could.

1143
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 2: He didn't want to.

1144
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: Afford the mortgage though he couldn't he want in a

1145
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: position to do it.

1146
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, so I understand that out. Yeah,

1147
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 2: like this got to get your back against the water,

1148
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 2: figure some ship out.

1149
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 4: Okay, right, we're gonna buy this house, and then I

1150
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 4: got to figure out how to pay this mortgage. Sometimes

1151
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 4: that's what puts you in the position to be a

1152
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,439
Speaker 4: better person. And like, because I feel like there's people

1153
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 4: who cost through life they do yeah, and then there's

1154
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 4: people who are like, I got to make this happen,

1155
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 4: and I'm a figure it out and do whatever I can.

1156
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 3: But also it's like I don't know brush situation and

1157
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 3: how because everybody relationship is a certain relationship and we

1158
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 3: never know the ins and outs of it. But I

1159
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 3: feel like that's also a time where you're like, Okay,

1160
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 3: we've fit about this house, so we're going to put

1161
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 3: together a plan that involves both of us to be

1162
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 3: able to cover this until I can fully cover it myself.

1163
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 2: Right, right, But maybe he didn't like her doing something without.

1164
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: His Well, he wanteds to rent. And I'm like, if

1165
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: she was in a position to do this and her

1166
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,280
Speaker 1: mom just I think helped her with the down payment,

1167
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: then I think that's cool. But I feel like, if anything,

1168
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: he was slowing her down.

1169
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1170
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, And he just didn't want to admit that I'm

1171
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:37,760
Speaker 1: non a position.

1172
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 2: I was like, you behave me so.

1173
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 4: Right here, my gosh, and so Algie, can you see yourself?

1174
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,319
Speaker 4: You know, we're just talking about all of these different things, relationships.

1175
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 4: I wonder what it's going to be like to live

1176
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 4: with you, Like, can you see that happening?

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00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 2: Is that that's something that you want?

1178
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 6: Because when yeah, that you want living with me is

1179
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 6: I mean everybody will say this, right living with me?

1180
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 3: Yeah? Great?

1181
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 6: And dirty clothes I do, and the.

1182
00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: Floor in the bathroom.

1183
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 6: If I leave in front of the bathroom, coming right

1184
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 6: back to get them.

1185
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

1186
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 7: So streets.

1187
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,359
Speaker 6: I'm pretty, I'm pretty smooth going though.

1188
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 3: I can cook.

1189
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 6: I'm pretty to a dish.

1190
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 2: If a girl's coming over.

1191
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 3: I may do some steak and some mashed potatoes and

1192
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 3: like maybe broccolini.

1193
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 11: I've never heard anybody say that I may do some

1194
00:56:54,120 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 11: honey glaze, salmon okay, okay, cook low key my pops.

1195
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 3: But also myself. I did a lot of YouTube university. Yeah,

1196
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 3: I just go in there and find different meals that

1197
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 3: I like, like like the eating restaurants, and I figure

1198
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 3: how to cook them.

1199
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 4: So your father was a big, key part of part

1200
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 4: of your life kind of Yeah, that shapes a lot

1201
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 4: of how we deal with relationships and everything, for sure.

1202
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 4: I feel like even for women, our fathers shape a

1203
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 4: lot of that too, like our relationship with our dads.

1204
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot with y'all too, though, right, because it's

1205
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 3: like I fel like either that well, a lot with

1206
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 3: both sides. Because the absence of a father in a

1207
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 3: man's life is really great too, Like that's not great

1208
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 3: in a good way, but it's a great absence, you

1209
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Just like it isn't a woman's

1210
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 3: great impact.

1211
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, have you ever proposed to anyone?

1212
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 8: No?

1213
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 3: Not ship, not ship.

1214
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 2: Enjoy your life, you know what I'm saying. You got

1215
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 2: a lot of great things happening.

1216
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 3: I will say this, though, I don't want to wait

1217
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 3: too long to start my family, Like I would love

1218
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 3: to start a family and be married by the time,

1219
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 3: I'm like thirty six, thirty seven.

1220
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 6: Okay, I got a little I'm thirty right now. Yeah, yeah, time,

1221
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 6: I got some I'm not trying.

1222
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 3: To be fifty years old as a man and be

1223
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 3: like yah, I'm staying here playing the game and I'm like, no, bro,

1224
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 3: you're supposed to be building your legacy now, like absolutely.

1225
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: One of the things that you get to choose. Yeah,

1226
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 1: you get to decide as the man when you're ready

1227
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: to do that.

1228
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 10: What do you think from a woman's perspective, because we

1229
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 10: don't get to choose like we do the GFU we

1230
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 10: want to or not.

1231
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: But you set the tone for the relationship that's real.

1232
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, choose wisely.

1233
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, for sure.

1234
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 3: A thousand, a thousand.

1235
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 4: Well, listen, Algie, I appreciate you so much for coming.

1236
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 4: I always enjoy having conversations with you. And congratulations on

1237
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 4: the EP. I know it's been out a couple of

1238
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 4: months already, but you know, we were finding finally able

1239
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 4: to sit down and talk to you. But you've been

1240
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 4: doing tremendous things. I think we spoke when you did

1241
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 4: the new addition, you know, a serious also, but just

1242
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 4: seeing like everything that you've been doing and I cannot wait,

1243
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 4: since I'm a big boxing fan for that movie to drop.

1244
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 3: It's gonna be so hard.

1245
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 6: I'm literally becoming a boxer right now.

1246
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 3: It's crazy.

1247
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 6: But I got the hands, you know what, They've been

1248
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 6: training us to have the hands.

1249
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 2: Get too hype, now, anybody have any of the trainers

1250
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 2: dropped you yet?

1251
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 8: No?

1252
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 3: But I did get rocked.

1253
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 9: I'm not gonna lie.

1254
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 6: The thing the thing you learn is in order to

1255
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 6: give one, you got to take one.

1256
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, And so if you're going to go in

1257
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 3: and give one, you've got to be prepared to take one.

1258
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 2: Who's your who's your favorite boxer? Have you got to

1259
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 2: say somebody that.

1260
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 6: You are like, I'm gonna say Pernell Whitaker.

1261
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, from from Virginia, from Norfolk, some of

1262
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 3: the best defense ever in the sport of boxing. He

1263
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 3: fought on the Olympic.

1264
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 9: Damn, okay, that's what I'm playing.

1265
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 3: So he fought on the Olympic team with Evander, with

1266
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 3: Henry Tillman. You know, Mike Tyson was actually trying to

1267
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 3: get on that Olympic team.

1268
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 2: Are you gonna didn't make this out after check this out? Okay? Okay? Perfect?

1269
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 3: All right?

1270
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 4: Well again, thank you so much for coming through left

1271
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 4: to see and celebrate everything that you have going on.

1272
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 4: So now listen, thank you for being a great conversation

1273
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 4: and listen and your honesty. I love when you come

1274
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 4: up and talk to him and talk to me and

1275
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 4: talk to us.

1276
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: Anytime you had having us have a moment. Last time

1277
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: I saw you, yes, we show.

1278
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 4: We had She did way out, but she had DeAndre

1279
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 4: on and also doctor out to heavenly that Heavenly had

1280
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 4: no idea who DeAndre was.

1281
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 2: You know, she's a baby with Jack Queeze, And yeah,

1282
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 2: it was funny.

1283
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 6: That was something.

1284
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was funny. You was like, you have a baby.

1285
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 2: She wouldn't let the story get out though.

1286
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1287
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: I was like, let's let her tell the story.

1288
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 9: Let her talk.

1289
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 3: It was funny though.

1290
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 2: Atlanta, man, he's the friends. Atlanta is a wild place.

1291
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 2: You came out. Jacqueie text me like, really, I didn't

1292
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 2: say nothing bad about you. You know, it's how to

1293
01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 2: do my jobs, you know what I mean? And let

1294
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 2: the woman talk. But she didn't say nothing crazy. He

1295
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 2: was like, okay, I'm gonna watch it.

1296
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 3: Yeah she didn't.

1297
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't. You know, we weren't trying to

1298
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: have viral moments off of negativity and.

1299
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,440
Speaker 1: Was so worried about what her dad's gonna say anyway,

1300
01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 1: like my dad is gonna.

1301
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 4: Hear so yeah, that's tough to have a dad like that.

1302
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 4: Absolutely all right, Well listen you guys, Thank you so much.

1303
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 2: Love Lost.

1304
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 4: Make sure y'all check out that EP thousand percent now,

1305
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 4: Oh and congratulate she's on the on the position in

1306
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:13,760
Speaker 4: the black.

1307
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, chief, I'm an officer.

1308
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 2: Yes, in the network. Yeah. If anybody have anything they

1309
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 2: want to you know what I'm saying. Yes, yeah, thank you,

1310
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, just amazing, so thank you for

1311
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 2: joining us.