WEBVTT - “I WALKED ACROSS JAPAN”

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<v Speaker 1>Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your name?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jason.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Jason? Where are you calling from?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling from Japan.

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<v Speaker 2>You're calling from Japan? Yeah, what what are you doing

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<v Speaker 2>in Japan?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, so we've met before.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I know exactly who you are, all right, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell a story to the chap, to the

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<v Speaker 2>listeners real quick. I'm gonna set a little bit of context.

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<v Speaker 2>So two years ago, I took a trip alone to

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<v Speaker 2>Japan as a gecko because I wanted to go and

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to make some gecko content there, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was I did this. I was live streaming myself in

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<v Speaker 2>a gecko suit walking around. I never I never like

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<v Speaker 2>made a video out of this. It's just it was

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of a live stream that I did. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was live streaming myself as a gecko walking around

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<v Speaker 2>Japan and talking to people, and I was looking at

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<v Speaker 2>my chat and somebody in my chat was like, yo, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like within a mile of where you currently are

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<v Speaker 2>right now, and I'm like, you're lying. I'm in fucking Tokyo.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no reason that anyone who's watching my stream right

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<v Speaker 2>now would be where I am right now. And you

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<v Speaker 2>were like, no, I'm serious, and everyone in the chat

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<v Speaker 2>was like, this guy's fucking trolling you, Lyle. This guy's

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna make you wait and then be like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just kidding. I'm in Alabama. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, No, I have faith that this chatter

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<v Speaker 2>is not trolling me and he actually is gonna stream

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<v Speaker 2>snipe me. So and I'm gonna say And I sat

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<v Speaker 2>and I waited, and I was like, yeah, this chatter

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<v Speaker 2>is gonna come meet me wherever he is in Japan.

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<v Speaker 2>And everyone in the just not you had not one

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<v Speaker 2>supporter in the chat. They were all like, this fucking

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<v Speaker 2>guy is trolling you. And sure enough, a man comes

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<v Speaker 2>up to me and he's like you are you, Lyle?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, yeah, are you Jason? And fucking that

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<v Speaker 2>was it. And then we wait. We we walked around.

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<v Speaker 2>You hung out on my stream and we walked around

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<v Speaker 2>and we uh we had a good time. We went

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<v Speaker 2>to this fucking crazy mall and uh, you told me

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<v Speaker 2>your life story and uh it was cool, it was great.

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<v Speaker 2>And now we're on the phone together two years later.

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<v Speaker 2>How you do it with Jason?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all right, so, uh yeah, that's it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more than I was in Shibuia, and I

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<v Speaker 1>saw you and my younger brothers like, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go stream slamp and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that. I was like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I like, it's it's such an awkward thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, So yeah, we hung out for like an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half two hours, and then because of you,

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<v Speaker 1>I started streaming. And then after that, I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>watched another streamer read a book about a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>walked across Japan and thought, I want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I turned thirty last year and I was still

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of chunky, but I wanted to change my life,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I I this year. I just got back

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<v Speaker 1>from walking across Japan. I walked like two thousand miles

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<v Speaker 1>across Japan. And that was because I met you, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, go do content stuff and maybe it works out,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it doesn't, but you should try. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>fucking did the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And wow wow yeah yeah, so we were I we

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<v Speaker 2>so we were talking about it a little bit on

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<v Speaker 2>the stream. But then after I ended the stream, you

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<v Speaker 2>and I we were taking the uh subway somewhere. We

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<v Speaker 2>were just chatting about like content and stuff, and you

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<v Speaker 2>were telling me you wanted to do some shit and

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<v Speaker 2>we had it. We talked about it. Yeah yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think, I think, uh uh, you bought

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<v Speaker 2>me a paperry sweat.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. Yeah, so we because you had to go

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<v Speaker 1>to a sushi place across it was it was on

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<v Speaker 1>my way back home. And yeah, yeah, so I bought

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<v Speaker 1>you for christ and then you want you bought the

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<v Speaker 1>So I bought two drinks, O Kari sweat and a

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<v Speaker 1>Deca Vida, the vitamin orange citrusy drink.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, wow, Okay, that's awesome. So inspired by that conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>You've walked across fuck I didn't. Hey man, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>say to walk across all of Japan. That's overkilled. That's

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<v Speaker 2>too much.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, it's I Like I said, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a perfect storm of watching you and then

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<v Speaker 1>watched another like a Japanese woodlock printer guy who has

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<v Speaker 1>been in Japan for a long time. I read this

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<v Speaker 1>book and then it's like in the book he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty years old, I've been in Japan eight years.

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck am I doing? And I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty years old. I've been in Japan seven years.

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck am I doing?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>And I wanted to go out and it's something I

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<v Speaker 1>had to do, not necessarily content, but I had to

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<v Speaker 1>do it for myself. And then many people said, please

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<v Speaker 1>share it if you can, and so I did. I

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<v Speaker 1>streamed like ninety five percent of it because I thought

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<v Speaker 1>people might get something from it even if I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But were you streaming? Were you streaming while you were asleep?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, I didn't. I had work, So I

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<v Speaker 1>worked full time and walked, and so I would work

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<v Speaker 1>like six am to nine point thirty, leave the hotel

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<v Speaker 1>at ten, walk like twenty miles a day, fifteen twenty

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<v Speaker 1>miles a day, and then get to the next hotel

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<v Speaker 1>and work at night and go to sleep like that

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<v Speaker 1>was my routine.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fucking crazy. So where did you start and then

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<v Speaker 2>where did you end?

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<v Speaker 1>I started at the very very southern point of Japan,

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<v Speaker 1>Cape Sata in Kagoshima, and then I finished at the

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<v Speaker 1>very very northern part of Hokkaido, Cape Soya.

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<v Speaker 2>Holy shit, you walked to the entire country.

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<v Speaker 1>I walked the entire country.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's completely insane.

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<v Speaker 1>How long.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that take you?

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred and sixty nine days.

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<v Speaker 2>By yourself, by myself? Yeah, that's fucking crazy man. And

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<v Speaker 2>how did this I had, like go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I had. The reason it took so long

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<v Speaker 1>is because I had probably like ten days that I

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<v Speaker 1>like throughout the trip, I had injury days, like my

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<v Speaker 1>hip got messed up, my foot got messed up, stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. So I had to like sit tight in

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<v Speaker 1>a hotel room for a couple of days at a time,

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<v Speaker 1>but almost every day like my average walking I watched

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<v Speaker 1>thirty thousand steps on average for the six months.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fucking crazy man. So the streams did people were

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<v Speaker 2>people watching along while you were doing it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I grew quite a lot. I started, Like when

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<v Speaker 1>I started the trip, I was I don't know, twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five average viewers, and now it's like at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of it, it was a couple hundred, like one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty two hundred, you know, So it's wonderful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people because it's outside of like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you came to like Tokyo Osaka's cool, but like I

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<v Speaker 1>was in like the Montana of Japan, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I was placed there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that sounds fucking no.

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<v Speaker 1>We oh it was really fucking cool. And I made

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<v Speaker 1>like I have a whole stack of like every place,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I had to call so many places and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, you guys have any rooms, like ah,

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<v Speaker 1>now we're full, and I explained the project to them,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we might have a room, but are you like

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<v Speaker 1>a guest, are you a foreigner? Like what's what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>And so I had to call THEMM like almost negotiate

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of places to like let me in. And

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<v Speaker 1>there were like half a dozen to a dozen places

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<v Speaker 1>that were like you're the first non Japanese person to

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<v Speaker 1>ever be here, like ever, like this is one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>year olds in, you're the first one Like wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow Yeah, because I guess when you're walking across the country,

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<v Speaker 2>you run into a lot of places where it's like

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<v Speaker 2>like no tourist would ever go to this place of

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<v Speaker 2>the countryside.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it's so remote. There were some places I

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<v Speaker 1>was at where there was a bus that ran like twice,

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<v Speaker 1>like seven thirty in the morning, like five thirty the

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<v Speaker 1>afternoon or in the evening.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>So even if I like I didn't take transportation, but

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<v Speaker 1>if I had to. Then I got to like sit

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<v Speaker 1>at a bus stop or sleep at a bus stop

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<v Speaker 1>until you know, if I you know, emergency type shit.

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<v Speaker 2>So wow, did you ever have to sleep outside?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Twy the camp twice? It was I think day sixteen

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<v Speaker 1>or seventeen. I stayed at a campsite. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>work that night, and then I slept at a bungalow,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like, I guess that's not the way nowtside,

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a cabin type thing. But yeah, that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Every other time I stayed at like local inns, small

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<v Speaker 1>little hot spring towns or I mean it just I

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<v Speaker 1>mean one hundred and fifty eight different hotels or like

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<v Speaker 1>inns and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>So everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wow, where was the coolest place that you saw

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<v Speaker 2>along your route?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's hard, that's hard because there were there were

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<v Speaker 1>like I made paper, like I made traditional Japanese style

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<v Speaker 1>paper and made a bunch of friends in Etchison and Ukui.

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<v Speaker 1>But as far as scenery, I mean, Hokkaido is nuts.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a lot of people go to Hokaido and they

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<v Speaker 1>go to the cities Hakodate or Sathwoo or something. But

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<v Speaker 1>when you're out like towards the top of Hokkaido, there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing like there were some days I had to walk

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five miles to the next town, like there was

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<v Speaker 1>nothing between towns. So you have to pack food, pack water,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's it. Like it's it's so vast in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that like Tokyo is not, or it's it's vast

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that's different. Tokyo's vast is a city

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<v Speaker 1>out there, it's just like quiet, peaceful flat roads. Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's hard to explain.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get lonely walking across just being by yourself

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<v Speaker 2>for one hundred and sixty nine days.

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<v Speaker 1>I did well, you know, when I had stream on,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't too bad. But what really hit me is

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<v Speaker 1>like eating dinner almost every night alone. And that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>so like when you're in a hotel, and so it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, especially when you know in Tokyo, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I can have dinner with friends or you know, significant

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<v Speaker 1>other or whatever and it's uh, but on the road,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's just me. And sometimes the innkeepers would

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<v Speaker 1>come and have dinner with me, but a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times they would not. They would just be like because

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<v Speaker 1>even though I speak Japanese, they were like, ah, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a client and not client customer patron

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<v Speaker 1>type thing, so they don't want to like encroach on

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<v Speaker 1>the customer's eating experience or something.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you speak fluent Japanese?

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<v Speaker 1>I speak pretty good. I mean I had I traveled

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<v Speaker 1>for six months for one hundred and sixty nine days,

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<v Speaker 1>Sladay problems fluent. I don't like the word fluent. I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people throw fluent around, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Fluent means no hiccups at all, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not quite there.

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<v Speaker 3>But I spoke with like.

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<v Speaker 1>Old dudes for a couple hours at a time, politics

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<v Speaker 1>or I had trouble talking about religion because I just

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<v Speaker 1>never studied those words and so it's it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>have thoughts about it, but I couldn't articulate it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So pretty conversational, say above conversational.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me about some of these conversations that you had

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<v Speaker 2>with these like elderly Japanese folks on the country side,

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<v Speaker 2>Like there any stories, did you learn anything? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>like to tell? What would you take away?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I felt there was one guy in Particu.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I talked with a lot, but there was

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<v Speaker 1>the one guy that's kind of burned into my memory.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't old.

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<v Speaker 3>He was.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty eight, which I mean, I guess relative. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>some people in chat are going to be like fifty

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<v Speaker 1>eights old as anyway, but I remember it really kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt so weird because I'm doing this trip. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit past halfway. I'm in in yudah and

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<v Speaker 1>Igata and it's this kind of beach town type thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I talked to the owner of the Yokamda Japanese

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<v Speaker 1>in and he's drunk and we're drinking, and he goes, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you must be really rich to travel like this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, not really. I saved during COVID and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just an English teacher, Like I don't make money from

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<v Speaker 1>I make a few bucks from twitch or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 1>I said, yeah, I'm not rich. I just saved during COVID.

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<v Speaker 1>And he goes, well, it's it's really cool that he

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<v Speaker 1>said you're You're so cool and I'm so stupid. And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, what do you mean? And he goes, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in this town. I'm fifty eight years old.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in this town. I've been working at this

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<v Speaker 1>same inn for forty years and he's like, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I've only been to Tokyo like twice. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never traveled in Japan and I've never done this

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<v Speaker 1>and that, And he said, here, you are a foreigner

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<v Speaker 1>and you're doing this crazy thing. And I'm just a

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<v Speaker 1>fifty eight year old old man and I don't have money.

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<v Speaker 1>I just have this in and like that really stuck

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<v Speaker 1>with me because I'm like, fuck, like you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting there.

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<v Speaker 3>Like what do I say?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, you are you know, like what do you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know what? And so he and I

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<v Speaker 1>drank for a couple more hours, but it very much

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, I told him, I was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't you know, that's your life and you can still

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<v Speaker 1>make changes. Fifty it's young, you can still go travel

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<v Speaker 1>like you're gonna you're gonna outlive me, dude, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So But for me, that stuck with me, cause like

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<v Speaker 1>it's very much we make our lives and sometimes we

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<v Speaker 1>are born into family businesses, we're born into situations and

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to.

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<v Speaker 3>Get out of that.

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<v Speaker 1>But for that, it kind of hit me like if

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get stuck in something I have

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<v Speaker 1>to take active choices to get out of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Totally.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally. Yeah, that's that's so interesting because you know you

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<v Speaker 2>are a foreigner, but yet you've seen probably more Japan

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<v Speaker 2>than most Japanese people have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but almost Like that's one thing whenever I traveled

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<v Speaker 1>to like not that I'm not checking things off and

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<v Speaker 1>making a list, but just like in America, like how

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<v Speaker 1>many Americans have been to the Midwest, I mean, how

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<v Speaker 1>many like you know, flyover states, Like how many people

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<v Speaker 1>have actually been to Oklahoma or Kansas or you know whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>And so the same thing in Japan, like people go

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<v Speaker 1>to Tokyo, Osaka, Oki, Noawa, Hokkaido, but no one's going

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<v Speaker 1>to Shimani Prefecture to go, you know, check out hot

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<v Speaker 1>springs or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So I also love the perspective of like, I mean,

0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:41.520
<v Speaker 2>you know this trip that you take, I mean, you

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<v Speaker 2>have a remote job, but a lot of people have

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<v Speaker 2>remote jobs these days. It's like you would this trip

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<v Speaker 2>did it sounds to me? And you know, you can

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<v Speaker 2>tell me if if you don't know what the financials

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<v Speaker 2>are of doing something like this, But this isn't a

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<v Speaker 2>trip that it seems like it's something you are able

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<v Speaker 2>to do because you have a lot of necessarily a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of money. It's something you're able to do just

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<v Speaker 2>because you fucking put your because you had the fucking

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<v Speaker 2>balls to do it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So this is one thing, I mean, full disclosure,

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<v Speaker 1>the entire trip, food, lodging, everything, about eight to ten

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars. But when you think about, like that's six.

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<v Speaker 2>Months, eight ten dude, eight to ten thousand dollars over

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<v Speaker 2>six months is like what that's like that month nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's and I know some people are like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot of money. I'll never do it, But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I saved during.

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<v Speaker 2>COVID like that, that's not a lot of money. That's

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<v Speaker 2>seventeen hundred. That's like cheaper. That's seventeen hundred dollars a month.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cheaper than if you that's not a lot, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's cheap, literally cheaper than if you like rents an

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<v Speaker 2>apartment in a in a major city in America.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's like multiply seventy to seventy seventy five percent

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<v Speaker 1>of my hotel nights were like five to six thousand

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<v Speaker 1>in which were like forty to forty five bucks.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, Yeah, that's cheaper than a yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and some of those included one to two meals.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like some people ask me, that's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money. It's like, well not, I mean yes, if

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<v Speaker 1>you just like here's ten thousand dollars cash, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I had to work. Like some of

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<v Speaker 1>my other streamer friends are like, why why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>like just stream And I'm like, cause I make like

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<v Speaker 1>three hundred bucks a month from it, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let me just quit my fucking job to do this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, uh yeah, souse.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's uh. I mean that's like the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that you were able to like have a have a

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<v Speaker 2>remote job that you could do while you were doing this, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>is great. And I mean finding a job. You know what,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your remote job?

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<v Speaker 1>I still teach English? Yeah, I still do English teaching.

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<v Speaker 1>So again, I don't make a ton of ton of money,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have the schedule too, you know. I've I've

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<v Speaker 1>spent the last eight years kind of shaping my life

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<v Speaker 1>bit by bit, whittling away the things I don't need,

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<v Speaker 1>adding into things that I want.

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<v Speaker 2>And so m hmm, what are you gonna do now

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<v Speaker 2>that you've accomplished this.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people ask if I'm gonna write a book.

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<v Speaker 1>They they, uh, you know, I was inspired by a book,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll do that. I do need to put some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff up on YouTube. What book the Roads to Sata?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you were inspired by me? I was I

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna take like all the credit for this.

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<v Speaker 1>No I mean no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you you inspired?

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<v Speaker 2>Like no, I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 2>I'm completely kidding.

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<v Speaker 3>What's what's yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, what's that? What's that? What's the book?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So The Roads to Sata by Alan Booth. I con

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<v Speaker 1>sindu you a message or something later, but no, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean no, no, cap.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, go ahead, Oh what's the what's the book about?

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's about who again. The book is not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>earth shattering good. It was more of it's one of

0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.000
<v Speaker 1>those one of those things that hit you at that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I had read the book this year, I

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<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't have had the same But it was halfway

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<v Speaker 1>through the book. In the book, I'm like, God, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy is a British guy and he's writing about how

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<v Speaker 1>dreary countryside Japan is and how it because it's post

0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:28.480
<v Speaker 1>he did his walk in nineteen seventy seven, and I thought, man,

0:18:28.520 --> 0:18:31.200
<v Speaker 1>this guy's kind of boring and I don't you know whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>And so then halfway through the book, he goes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thirty years old, I've been in Japan for eight years?

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<v Speaker 1>What am I doing? And I thought, oh shit, I'm him,

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<v Speaker 1>like not not necessarily a mirror, but I go, oh,

0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:46.240
<v Speaker 1>this guy is just like me, and so it more

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<v Speaker 1>inspired me to just go out and do my own

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<v Speaker 1>shit and figure things out.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's so cool, man, I really, I really love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, it's you, like it's I'm not I'm not bullshitting

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<v Speaker 1>it like it if you hadn't it mainly the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>we had in the train after. But if you hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>did you start doing stuff? I would have probably never

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<v Speaker 1>watched that other guy's stream, never saw the book, never

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<v Speaker 1>saw like in a weird butterfly effect way like no therapy,

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<v Speaker 1>get go, no, like it wouldn't have happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm so, I'm so so honored, and I really

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<v Speaker 2>I I'm very very touched by that and very honored

0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.760
<v Speaker 2>by that because I'm inspired by you, brother, this is

0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:40.280
<v Speaker 2>we're we're playing a little inspiration tennis right now. To

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<v Speaker 2>be honest with you, because I'm I'm kind of like,

0:19:42.560 --> 0:19:46.119
<v Speaker 2>should I walk across fucking Ireland or not? I'm definitely

0:19:46.160 --> 0:19:49.200
<v Speaker 2>not Ireland, but some some other place. I'm like, you're

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<v Speaker 2>you're Because I'm about to turn twenty seven. Then I'm

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<v Speaker 2>really tired, and I feel it's like making me fucking

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<v Speaker 2>sad because I have so so much of my life

0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:02.920
<v Speaker 2>has been like on these crazy adventures and been fueled

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<v Speaker 2>by a desire to go on crazy adventures and do

0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:08.679
<v Speaker 2>weird stuff. And I'm like tired now, and I'm like, oh,

0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:13.679
<v Speaker 2>I hope I'm not tired forever. Yeah, you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>I want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is a struggle, Sorr, No, you go ahead,

0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:19.600
<v Speaker 3>I slug around.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's it's a struggle that because when I

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<v Speaker 1>did this trip, I had so many people asking me like, oh,

0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you should collab with this guy, you should do this,

0:20:27.080 --> 0:20:28.960
<v Speaker 1>you should do this, and I'm I had to tell

0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:32.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people there I'm like, I didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>this for content, Like I'm I am making content from

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<v Speaker 1>it and I am streaming it. If the camera blows

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<v Speaker 1>up tomorrow, fuck you guys, like I mean, I I don't.

0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:45.359
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yes, I'm very proud of my community. But

0:20:45.880 --> 0:20:49.840
<v Speaker 1>doing things simply for content, I think is and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying this, but doing things just to do them,

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<v Speaker 1>you get in this monotony and then it you do

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<v Speaker 1>get tired from it, like like I'm back in Tokyo.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been back in Tokyo a couple of weeks, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling tired of like, gotta do this thing, gotta

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<v Speaker 1>do this, like I don't. It's it's exhausting, dand.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean, I mean, look, dude, I I the

0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:14.760
<v Speaker 2>thing I was making when you and I met, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure I was streaming it, but I also planned to

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<v Speaker 2>make it into a YouTube video. But the main reason

0:21:20.680 --> 0:21:23.520
<v Speaker 2>I was streaming, the main reason I did the thing

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<v Speaker 2>that I did when you and I met, was because

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to fucking walk around Japan and like, dude, shit,

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<v Speaker 2>I went to fucking Thailand and I filmed a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of stuff and I still haven't put it out because

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<v Speaker 2>the main reason I did it is because I just

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to go and talk to people and have

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<v Speaker 2>have the weird cool adventure. Yeah no, and so I

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<v Speaker 2>just I've always looked at it as also kind of

0:21:47.760 --> 0:21:52.600
<v Speaker 2>like that's specifically that stuff, specifically going and making videos

0:21:52.640 --> 0:21:55.320
<v Speaker 2>in foreign countries and stuff. That stuff is just the

0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:58.960
<v Speaker 2>content is just like I'm gonna have way more interesting

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<v Speaker 2>and cooler adventure is if I have a camera and

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<v Speaker 2>I have my Gecko suit, then if I just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of went and didn't do anything, and it's also it's

0:22:06.440 --> 0:22:08.560
<v Speaker 2>fun to document it and share it with other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and that's that's one thing that I I didn't realize,

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<v Speaker 1>Like with you and I video, I did end up

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<v Speaker 1>shortening it down and I put it on my YouTube channel.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that's all right, because I didn't want.

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<v Speaker 2>To Yeah, sure here what before I ever? What's your

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<v Speaker 2>YouTube channel? I want to plug it to the people.

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<v Speaker 1>Since a Martian, Yeah, since a Martian, since a Martian?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sense a Martian?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. There's no underscore, Yeah, no underscore on the YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>There is on the twitch because like I originally had

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<v Speaker 1>the original and then I forgot all that ship and

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<v Speaker 1>I had to make.

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<v Speaker 2>Any one us Hey, how the hell do you spell?

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<v Speaker 2>Sense s E N S E? I okay, and then

0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:53.840
<v Speaker 2>Martian they can figure that one out ahead. What were

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<v Speaker 2>you saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, but no. I I A lot of people you know,

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<v Speaker 1>reached out through the therapy through you, sorry, and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could find that VOD And I was like, well,

0:23:04.840 --> 0:23:06.880
<v Speaker 1>it's on twitch, Like go to Lyles Twitch. It's on there.

0:23:06.920 --> 0:23:09.520
<v Speaker 1>That gets hard to find. I go, okay, I'll post

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<v Speaker 1>up our conversation part of it on my thing so

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't get lost. But I didn't realize how, especially

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<v Speaker 1>like because I do long streams, like I'll walk outside

0:23:17.960 --> 0:23:21.240
<v Speaker 1>for like eight hours a day type shit, and so

0:23:21.960 --> 0:23:25.080
<v Speaker 1>it's not like like your show is a show one two,

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<v Speaker 1>three hours maybe, and so people can watch that in

0:23:28.119 --> 0:23:31.560
<v Speaker 1>the entirety. But my streams were like second screen. People

0:23:31.600 --> 0:23:34.440
<v Speaker 1>were working, some people would fall asleep to the ASMR

0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:37.680
<v Speaker 1>of the rain falling or the highway trucks or whatever.

0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:40.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a different type of content.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm with you though on the yes, sometimes people

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<v Speaker 2>could be like with certain with certain things, and I

0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:54.600
<v Speaker 2>get it with certain because there's certain there's certain types

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<v Speaker 2>of and and my hold on I'm gonna try to

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<v Speaker 2>actually say a real thing. The there's types of content

0:24:01.160 --> 0:24:03.000
<v Speaker 2>certain ways. I've like looked at my career and looked

0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:05.080
<v Speaker 2>at what I'm doing where I have looked at it

0:24:05.160 --> 0:24:06.760
<v Speaker 2>in that sense of like oh I want to make

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<v Speaker 2>the best thing, or like do something that will go

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<v Speaker 2>viral or be popular. And still there's very like I make.

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<v Speaker 2>I do a lot of different things, and some things

0:24:14.440 --> 0:24:18.919
<v Speaker 2>I do look at with that lens, but there's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot a lot of things where it's like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>just I literally just want to do this, just to

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<v Speaker 2>do it because it's exciting and cool, and those are

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<v Speaker 2>of course, you know. I mean, that's where the most

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<v Speaker 2>compelling thing is for me. I mean, I fucking made

0:24:31.800 --> 0:24:37.720
<v Speaker 2>this video where I traveled, uh Like, I just walked

0:24:37.720 --> 0:24:40.520
<v Speaker 2>around the beach in Australia and I talked to people

0:24:40.760 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh, this is so cool. This

0:24:43.400 --> 0:24:46.159
<v Speaker 2>is like I'm in I'm in Australia on the beach alone,

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:48.800
<v Speaker 2>talking a random people and getting really interesting interviews with them.

0:24:49.119 --> 0:24:51.960
<v Speaker 2>And everyone was just like that, we want to watch

0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:54.879
<v Speaker 2>you take talk to people about diarrhea and the phone

0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:59.399
<v Speaker 2>from your house. And I was like, all right, that's fine,

0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:00.240
<v Speaker 2>but I don't.

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:02.800
<v Speaker 1>But I still like to do a question for you,

0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:05.840
<v Speaker 1>like how do you balance? I mean, because not I'm

0:25:05.920 --> 0:25:08.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm a drop in the butt like you know, but

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I am a lot of people have asked me like, oh, Jason,

0:25:11.320 --> 0:25:13.359
<v Speaker 1>you should push to be more full time, and I'm like,

0:25:13.400 --> 0:25:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't get to decide that. The universe like it's

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:19.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a luck thing. It's a luck and a networking thing.

0:25:20.000 --> 0:25:22.120
<v Speaker 1>But for you, like you're you're there, like you can

0:25:22.240 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 1>you have doda kata on or you have uh I

0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:27.879
<v Speaker 1>mean you you have these opportunities, how do you decide like,

0:25:27.920 --> 0:25:29.800
<v Speaker 1>all right, I want to have this person on versus

0:25:29.840 --> 0:25:32.919
<v Speaker 1>like I want to answer fan mail like is that

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<v Speaker 1>something you you do day by day or is that

0:25:35.040 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 1>something that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's I guess people through throughout my throughout the

0:25:41.680 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 2>four four or five years I've been doing this, it

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:49.960
<v Speaker 2>is that my motivations of strongly uh evolved, my motivations

0:25:49.960 --> 0:25:53.840
<v Speaker 2>and priorities and certain things have strongly evolved. Uh well

0:25:53.840 --> 0:25:56.320
<v Speaker 2>because for me, like there's certain kinds of content that like,

0:25:57.000 --> 0:25:58.919
<v Speaker 2>you know, well, there's certain kind of content that like

0:25:59.359 --> 0:26:01.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, make some money, and then there's certain kind

0:26:01.359 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 2>of content that like, oh I just really fucking want

0:26:03.840 --> 0:26:06.919
<v Speaker 2>to do this, and you know you kind of you

0:26:07.000 --> 0:26:12.680
<v Speaker 2>kind of you kind of balance it and then there's

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:15.359
<v Speaker 2>stuff like and then there's stuff like touring where it's like,

0:26:15.520 --> 0:26:18.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, this is like this makes money and is

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 2>really fun and exciting and cool.

0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:22.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah.

0:26:22.880 --> 0:26:25.159
<v Speaker 2>Ideally, if you can find something that makes money and

0:26:25.320 --> 0:26:28.800
<v Speaker 2>is really fun and exciting and cool, then then you've

0:26:28.840 --> 0:26:29.680
<v Speaker 2>hit the jackpot.

0:26:31.280 --> 0:26:31.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I actually talked to. And so after

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<v Speaker 1>my walk, like a few of the creators in Japan

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:39.399
<v Speaker 1>are like, oh, so you you like because some people

0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:41.480
<v Speaker 1>they heard it, but like it rumors out because it

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 1>is the content creation world in your pan is very

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:46.520
<v Speaker 1>wide but not very deep. So just take degrees with

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:49.160
<v Speaker 1>Kevin Bacon, like it's like two degrees of Chris broad

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 1>like and so people so anyway, and they're like, oh,

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:54.919
<v Speaker 1>so you like biked it and I was like, ah, no,

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I walked it and they're like what why? And that

0:26:59.119 --> 0:27:01.400
<v Speaker 1>was different, Like They're like I would like why would

0:27:01.440 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 1>you take the time to do that? And you know,

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:07.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like I had to. It was something that

0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:11.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I had to see for myself, kind of

0:27:11.600 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 1>like when I bought the one way ticket to Japan,

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:15.240
<v Speaker 1>Like what am I made of? And now I'm thirty?

0:27:15.520 --> 0:27:15.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:27:16.560 --> 0:27:17.199
<v Speaker 3>What am what?

0:27:17.280 --> 0:27:20.359
<v Speaker 1>Am I still made? Of you know, like, what am I?

0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:22.359
<v Speaker 1>What are my limits if I don't go out and

0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:26.040
<v Speaker 1>push them? And I found out, like I you know,

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:28.400
<v Speaker 1>hurt my body quite a bit throughout this thing, but

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I also found out I can do way more than

0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought I could.

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:35.920
<v Speaker 2>So dude, you're awesome. I think this is so cool.

0:27:35.960 --> 0:27:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Again we're playing we're playing inspiration tennis because you're I

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:42.920
<v Speaker 2>I really do I feel like tired And I'm like, uh,

0:27:42.960 --> 0:27:46.399
<v Speaker 2>I feel too young to be tired. And I'm like

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:48.639
<v Speaker 2>kind of nervous that I'm only gonna get more tired

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:50.680
<v Speaker 2>as I get older. And so to hear that, you

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:52.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, I mean, you're three years older the man

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:56.920
<v Speaker 2>you're going on this crazy, fucking it physically challenging thing.

0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, maybe I'm not. Maybe maybe I'm not.

0:28:01.040 --> 0:28:02.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm not dead yet, you know.

0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's well. And you know, like I said, I

0:28:06.200 --> 0:28:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I watch your stream as often as I can't. Time

0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>time difference kind of fucks with that. But yeah, I

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:13.480
<v Speaker 1>mean I started the trip at two hundred and ninety

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:18.880
<v Speaker 1>six pounds wow, and I hadn't because I last last year,

0:28:18.960 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I walked from Tokyo to Kioto as like a test

0:28:22.560 --> 0:28:25.159
<v Speaker 1>tour leg muscle, and then I spent three months recovering

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 1>from that, and I thought, okay, I got to do

0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:30.119
<v Speaker 1>this one because if you know, I got but I

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:31.199
<v Speaker 1>got to be smarter about it.

0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 2>But can I ask what you ended the trip on.

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:37.000
<v Speaker 1>About two sixty two fifty eight?

0:28:37.400 --> 0:28:41.680
<v Speaker 3>Whoa?

0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:45.600
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, you know, I'm not like chiseled or anything,

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:47.520
<v Speaker 1>but I feel a lot better.

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 2>That's awesome, that's wonderful.

0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 1>It's like and it's just walking, like walking doesn't even

0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I had a forty five pound backpack the whole time

0:28:55.160 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 1>because like York stuff, stream stuff, clothing and stuff. But uh,

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>just getting out there and taking some steps.

0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 2>What's well, well, I don't forgive me if I asked

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 2>this already, But what's next for you?

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Uh, there's there's a couple of So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>go in December. I'm going to try to go walk Chikoku,

0:29:18.840 --> 0:29:21.760
<v Speaker 1>which is a smaller it's one of the smaller main

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 1>islands of Japan.

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 3>I'll do that.

0:29:24.280 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>But there's actually a really big YouTuber that I would

0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:30.400
<v Speaker 1>like to There's a very big American YouTuber that's talked

0:29:30.400 --> 0:29:35.040
<v Speaker 1>about coming to Japan, and I would love to get

0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:35.720
<v Speaker 1>involved with that.

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 2>Guy who is he can your name drop? Is that bad?

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Can you throw it out there? Can you throw it

0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 2>out that? Can you throw can you throw your invitation

0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:46.040
<v Speaker 2>out there? On the Therapy Gecko show.

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I can't.

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Only if you want to, I'm just yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Ludwig has talked about motor.

0:29:54.720 --> 0:30:00.600
<v Speaker 2>Ludwig or Ludwig.

0:29:58.600 --> 0:30:01.280
<v Speaker 1>So I luga is how he how?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess.

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>I watched the video on him talking about it, and he's.

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:04.920
<v Speaker 3>Like it's blued big.

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 1>But a lot of people say Ludwig, and I'm like,

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:11.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know anyway, So yeah, Ludwig, he's

0:30:11.200 --> 0:30:16.800
<v Speaker 1>talked about driving a motorcycle across Japan, and who better

0:30:16.840 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 1>to help him than a guy who walked it, you know.

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 2>So well, if he hears this, maybe he'll maybe he'll

0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:24.600
<v Speaker 2>maybe he'll be inspired.

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:28.560
<v Speaker 1>Well I'm I'm gonna hopefully make I need to, I

0:30:28.560 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>think make a make an actual video calling him. But

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's it's hard, like it's hard to

0:30:34.240 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 1>break into those upper echelons when you're down. I mean,

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:42.840
<v Speaker 1>I anyway, it's the thing, you know, Well.

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 2>Shit, man, I might I've I don't know when, but

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:48.000
<v Speaker 2>I keep thinking about taking another trip to Japan because

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 2>I missed it. I had such a fucking good time

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:50.440
<v Speaker 2>last time I was there.

0:30:50.480 --> 0:30:54.680
<v Speaker 1>So if I'm back again and I will you tell me,

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:56.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll take you wherever you want to go. You want

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 1>to see some ship that no one's seen, I'll do it.

0:30:59.720 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 2>Cool, all right, now I'll hit you. I have your

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 2>you on an email or some shit right or Instagram.

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll reach out against you.

0:31:07.560 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right, out again? All right?

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:11.200
<v Speaker 2>Cool man, dude, I'm glad we got to have this,

0:31:12.680 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 2>this this reunition on yeah, on the podcast. I'm glad

0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:19.800
<v Speaker 2>you got to tell your story because I think I

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 2>feel like either I don't know where, but I knew

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:25.200
<v Speaker 2>that you were walking across Japan. I like saw it somewhere,

0:31:25.320 --> 0:31:27.680
<v Speaker 2>like maybe it was on your Twitch or or maybe

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 2>you reached out. I don't I don't remember where I

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:31.040
<v Speaker 2>saw it, but I just was like, oh, I remember

0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:32.640
<v Speaker 2>I saw you doing that, Like that's fucking cool.

0:31:34.080 --> 0:31:36.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think maybe I think you because I was

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 1>gone for I think you probably rated me a couple

0:31:38.440 --> 0:31:40.960
<v Speaker 1>of times. I don't know if you because I don't

0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:44.640
<v Speaker 1>know it's people I don't you know, other streamers, like

0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:46.360
<v Speaker 1>if they follow or not I don't know. I mean,

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's hard, like life is tough and people

0:31:49.320 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 1>are busy and so but no, I'm pretty sure you

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 1>rated me a few times and I got a lot

0:31:53.320 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 1>of like because they're like, oh shit, this is the

0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 1>guy that vile met to you. Like so it was

0:31:57.400 --> 0:32:00.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of full circle moment, like yeah, but.

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:04.760
<v Speaker 2>Well shit, Jason, isn't anything else us say to the

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 2>people the computer before we go.

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Just gotta take the first steps.

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 3>That's it.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:16.120
<v Speaker 1>It's gotta, you know, even if it's a giant journey.

0:32:16.720 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 1>As a cliche, that is, this is a quote.

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 2>From Loud Loud Tu. I think it's from the Fucking

0:32:22.640 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Maybe it's from the Art of War.

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what laud Su wrote, but I don't

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 2>even know who Lausu is, and I don't even know

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:29.760
<v Speaker 2>if this is a quote by him. But this is

0:32:29.800 --> 0:32:35.000
<v Speaker 2>a quote by Laotsu. It's a journey of a thousand

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:42.480
<v Speaker 2>miles begins with a single step, has been that's Gecko

0:32:42.840 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 2>on NPR.

0:32:43.640 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 1>Sorry, go ahead, no, but I think so many me too,

0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Like there are so many times where you're kind of

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 1>paralyzed with fear because you are so worried of failing.

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:59.960
<v Speaker 1>And that's future Jason problem or future Lyle problem. I mean,

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:03.360
<v Speaker 1>like today's today, and if you always worry about tomorrow,

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 1>then tomorrow never actually comes. Tomorrow comes, but those fears

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:10.560
<v Speaker 1>don't because you always put things off put that not

0:33:10.720 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 1>you the general, like you know, big you, not you individually.

0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:20.120
<v Speaker 1>It's yeah, it's it's kind of like what you were

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 1>talking about earlier with like when I was younger, Like

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>the problems that I had nine years ago when I

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:27.440
<v Speaker 1>got here are not the same problems I have now,

0:33:27.640 --> 0:33:32.520
<v Speaker 1>And all problems in relation to other stuff are not that.

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 2>Big Jason, great to talk to you, man, And I'm

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna follow you. I'm gonna follow

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 2>you on I already follow you on Twitch. I'll fow

0:33:43.280 --> 0:33:44.720
<v Speaker 2>you on YouTube. I'll be keeping up with your ship.

0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 2>And I'll let you know if I come to Japan again.

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Dude, Like I said, any on off stream, whatever you want,

0:33:50.600 --> 0:33:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I know, people all you want to make paper, you

0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>want to go to a take factory.

0:33:55.040 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean you let me know, okay, cool man, all right,

0:33:58.360 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 2>maybe I'll have to take the trip just for this.

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<v Speaker 1>It let me know. Yeah, But thank you so much,

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:06.320
<v Speaker 1>and take care of yourself man, like I you know

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:08.680
<v Speaker 1>you're doing You're doing good man.

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:11.279
<v Speaker 2>So thank you man, thank you, thank you man. Take

0:34:11.320 --> 0:34:11.840
<v Speaker 2>care of Jason.

0:34:13.040 --> 0:34:13.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, see you guys.

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:20.359
<v Speaker 2>That was really cool. Yeah, I oh yeah, I met

0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:23.400
<v Speaker 2>that guy. Uh just he fucking streams sniped to me

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 2>when I was in Japan and we hung out and

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 2>we had this conversation about content and about life and

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:33.640
<v Speaker 2>stuff and the train and it was it was uh,

0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 2>it was great. I really feel honored that he said

0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:40.560
<v Speaker 2>that I inspired him to take the trip, and again

0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:45.799
<v Speaker 2>he's inspiring me. So who knows. Who knows? Yeah, I'm hoping.

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I love I love crazy adventures. I do, I in

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:51.839
<v Speaker 2>my deep heart. I love them so much. I think

0:34:51.840 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 2>I've gotten tired because I've been on so many crazy

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:59.360
<v Speaker 2>adventures over the past, over just the years, and there's

0:34:59.480 --> 0:35:01.440
<v Speaker 2>were also beautiful and I want to keep that part

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:06.480
<v Speaker 2>of myself alive. So yeah, I don't know. Hopefully the

0:35:06.520 --> 0:35:09.799
<v Speaker 2>folks listening have been inspired by Jason's journey. Check him out.

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Go to Sense Martin on YouTube and then Sense Underscore Martin.

0:35:16.040 --> 0:35:19.840
<v Speaker 2>No crap, I keep calling him Martin. It's Martian Sense.

0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Martian Sense Martian on YouTube. Sense Underscore Martian on Twitch.

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Go check him out, go watch him walk across Japan.

0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:34.240
<v Speaker 2>I feel like if I walked across Japan, I wouldn't

0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 2>lose any weight because I would just gain all the

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:39.040
<v Speaker 2>weight back that I was losing by walking from eating

0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:48.200
<v Speaker 2>delicious Japanese food. Thanks for calling, Jason, Hello, Hello, Hi,

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 2>what's your name?

0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:50.720
<v Speaker 3>Seth?

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:55.640
<v Speaker 2>Seth? I had a friend named Seth once.

0:35:58.920 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 3>That's right.

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:03.720
<v Speaker 2>There's no how oh okay, I thought you were gonna

0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:06.920
<v Speaker 2>I thought you were going to struggle to figure out

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:09.920
<v Speaker 2>what to say in response to that, because there's nothing

0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:12.799
<v Speaker 2>there's nothing about what I just said that invites any

0:36:12.880 --> 0:36:16.200
<v Speaker 2>kind of good way for you to respond. Like if

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:18.840
<v Speaker 2>I if you were having a conversation with someone and

0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 2>you said my name is Seth and they say, oh,

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I have a friend named Seth, and then they stop talking.

0:36:24.560 --> 0:36:28.279
<v Speaker 2>There's not a lot of options you have from there

0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:31.160
<v Speaker 2>to response to. There's someone just stating that they have

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:34.560
<v Speaker 2>a friend named Seth. But you did a good You

0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 2>did it as good of a job as you could

0:36:36.440 --> 0:36:38.680
<v Speaker 2>with the given the situation you were in.

0:36:39.760 --> 0:36:42.400
<v Speaker 3>My friend does that a lot. He likes to I

0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:43.960
<v Speaker 3>like to be stuck in conversation.

0:36:46.719 --> 0:36:48.239
<v Speaker 2>What's up, seth, how you doing. What do you want

0:36:48.239 --> 0:36:48.719
<v Speaker 2>to talk about?

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm good. Uh well, I have two things I want

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:58.840
<v Speaker 3>to talk about. Either the fact that I got to

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:04.400
<v Speaker 3>college and I don't want to do anymore, or that

0:37:04.560 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 3>I have a friend that are like liked but like

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:16.360
<v Speaker 3>it's been low key weird, but like more than that.

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 2>Is this a lady friend? Yeah, okay, you have you

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:25.880
<v Speaker 2>have a friend that you like, but it's been like

0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:28.400
<v Speaker 2>kind of yeah. But the thing is is I've been

0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:34.759
<v Speaker 2>gay okay, and I kind of am, but like they're

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 2>kind of the exception is the thing. I mean, you

0:37:38.440 --> 0:37:41.840
<v Speaker 2>can be on a spectrum of oh yeah.

0:37:41.840 --> 0:37:45.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just yeah, that part I'm not weird about.

0:37:45.239 --> 0:37:47.120
<v Speaker 3>It's just that's like a little bit of awkward. It's

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:53.800
<v Speaker 3>more than just the been like completely friend zone friends

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:58.400
<v Speaker 3>for a really long time and it's just kind of

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:00.840
<v Speaker 3>like there's not really point anymore.

0:38:03.200 --> 0:38:06.400
<v Speaker 2>M hmm. What how old are you?

0:38:08.640 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 3>Eighteen and you just moved to the fresh out of

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:14.360
<v Speaker 3>high school? Yeah, just went to college.

0:38:14.640 --> 0:38:16.879
<v Speaker 2>Where did you go to college? Did you leave your

0:38:18.560 --> 0:38:21.279
<v Speaker 2>like hometown or did you go close to home?

0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:23.800
<v Speaker 3>So that's that's a part of the I don't know

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:27.680
<v Speaker 3>what to do because I stayed close to home, so

0:38:27.760 --> 0:38:31.400
<v Speaker 3>it's like I'm close to my friends, but my family

0:38:31.640 --> 0:38:35.719
<v Speaker 3>decided that they did not like where we were, and

0:38:35.840 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 3>so they now live around two and a half hours away.

0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you like where you were in going to school?

0:38:45.520 --> 0:38:46.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I like the school.

0:38:46.920 --> 0:38:47.319
<v Speaker 2>It's just.

0:38:49.200 --> 0:38:52.440
<v Speaker 3>No one's really here, and it's like the whole thing

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:55.319
<v Speaker 3>has been like I'll just get to college, just get

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:57.720
<v Speaker 3>to college. Now I'm at college.

0:38:57.840 --> 0:39:01.439
<v Speaker 2>Now, it's like, so you like, you like this girl,

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:02.480
<v Speaker 2>but it is weird.

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:08.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's more complicated though, because like, so we've been

0:39:09.000 --> 0:39:15.520
<v Speaker 3>friends since I believe my junior year, and like she

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:18.239
<v Speaker 3>had this one boyfriend she was friends with for a while,

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:23.360
<v Speaker 3>but then she they broke up because it was just stuff.

0:39:23.800 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 3>And then there's another other other dude and he like

0:39:27.040 --> 0:39:30.560
<v Speaker 3>instantly was like in our friend group and we were

0:39:30.600 --> 0:39:36.359
<v Speaker 3>all chilling with him, and then this one camping trip

0:39:36.520 --> 0:39:39.920
<v Speaker 3>shit went down that like indirectly led to like the

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:46.120
<v Speaker 3>downfall of my entire friend group. So shit went down

0:39:46.200 --> 0:39:49.840
<v Speaker 3>between the dude because he was going to go to

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 3>like military or something, but then he didn't, and if

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.880
<v Speaker 3>he would have left, everything would have been fine. But

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:59.200
<v Speaker 3>it's the fact that you stay on that camping trip

0:40:00.080 --> 0:40:03.280
<v Speaker 3>and stayed that fucked everything.

0:40:03.160 --> 0:40:05.360
<v Speaker 2>What how did what do you mean that fucked everything up?

0:40:06.120 --> 0:40:09.080
<v Speaker 3>So he was dating my best friend, which is the chick,

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:12.880
<v Speaker 3>and so he ended up cheating on her and she

0:40:13.120 --> 0:40:18.719
<v Speaker 3>fucking broke up with him, and but she like said that,

0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:20.879
<v Speaker 3>like so they kind of went through like a rough

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:23.120
<v Speaker 3>thing and they like were taking a break kind of,

0:40:23.239 --> 0:40:24.880
<v Speaker 3>but she said, we can still hang out with him.

0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:27.920
<v Speaker 3>But then apparently she's pissed at us for hanging out

0:40:27.960 --> 0:40:31.280
<v Speaker 3>with them and just is not talking to us at all. Okay,

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:37.120
<v Speaker 3>I a dude's like, gone.

0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:40.919
<v Speaker 2>I have I have I have thoughts for for you, Seth,

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:43.800
<v Speaker 2>I have some thoughts. I don't I'm I I have

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 2>some thoughts for you and about your friends being like

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 2>kind of weird and stuff. Yeah, I'm gonna just tell you.

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:55.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna kind of tell you my unfiltered gut reaction

0:40:55.880 --> 0:41:00.239
<v Speaker 2>and I don't want to minimize your I'm I just

0:41:00.280 --> 0:41:02.479
<v Speaker 2>tell you what's going on my brain, my in my gut.

0:41:03.520 --> 0:41:08.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm immediately minimizing your problems because they are all happened

0:41:08.320 --> 0:41:12.200
<v Speaker 2>in high school, which once you get older, you realize

0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:17.520
<v Speaker 2>it's not fake. It is formative memories. But very naturally,

0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 2>as you get older, starts to you realize, oh, that's

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 2>just so everything was nothing. But I empathize with you

0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:27.759
<v Speaker 2>because at the time it's not it's everything because it's

0:41:27.800 --> 0:41:31.600
<v Speaker 2>all you know at that point. But the fact that

0:41:31.680 --> 0:41:34.160
<v Speaker 2>you just you're eighteen and.

0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:35.040
<v Speaker 3>You just got.

0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 2>Into your you're in school, and you're at it like

0:41:39.680 --> 0:41:41.960
<v Speaker 2>a point in life where you where you start to

0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:45.759
<v Speaker 2>branch out of high school and build your own life.

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:48.839
<v Speaker 2>And when you cool thing about fucking you turn eighteen

0:41:48.880 --> 0:41:50.440
<v Speaker 2>you go to college is that you will start to

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:53.279
<v Speaker 2>be in charge of more aspects of your life, like

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:57.400
<v Speaker 2>who you choose to keep in contact with and how

0:41:57.480 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 2>much bullshit you choose to allow into your life, into

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:04.799
<v Speaker 2>your brain. And you get older and make it when

0:42:04.800 --> 0:42:06.960
<v Speaker 2>you get you get better at making those decisions as

0:42:07.000 --> 0:42:11.839
<v Speaker 2>you get older, and so I got to be less

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:14.040
<v Speaker 2>ethereal and bring it back board to where you actually are.

0:42:14.800 --> 0:42:19.680
<v Speaker 2>Is these people that you're talking about the downfall of

0:42:19.760 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 2>my friend group though whatever, whatever, whatever, how many how

0:42:22.719 --> 0:42:23.839
<v Speaker 2>many people are in this group?

0:42:24.880 --> 0:42:31.000
<v Speaker 3>So originally it was there's seven of us, okay, but

0:42:32.080 --> 0:42:37.120
<v Speaker 3>also there's a little bit more, uh, the camping trip.

0:42:37.239 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 3>Also ship went down there that led to another two

0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:42.680
<v Speaker 3>people of a friend breaking up, which is what I

0:42:42.760 --> 0:42:44.240
<v Speaker 3>mean by like the downfall.

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:49.160
<v Speaker 2>Yes, but that that's not That's my promise you, Seth.

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:54.440
<v Speaker 2>I promise you that information doesn't matter. How many how

0:42:54.480 --> 0:42:55.800
<v Speaker 2>many people are in this group seven?

0:42:57.320 --> 0:42:57.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:42:57.800 --> 0:42:59.839
<v Speaker 2>How many of them? Seth? How many? How much Seth?

0:43:00.000 --> 0:43:00.840
<v Speaker 2>How many is people?

0:43:01.200 --> 0:43:05.680
<v Speaker 3>Do you really like from all seven of them?

0:43:06.239 --> 0:43:09.240
<v Speaker 2>Do you like all seven of them? Is it important

0:43:09.280 --> 0:43:11.160
<v Speaker 2>to keep in contact with all seven of them and

0:43:11.239 --> 0:43:12.000
<v Speaker 2>be friends with them?

0:43:13.080 --> 0:43:17.080
<v Speaker 3>I would like to. And also but like I'm moved also,

0:43:17.360 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 3>which is so like it's even more.

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:20.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, you guys in a group chat, but yeah, but

0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 2>you're in a group chat, you have Facebook, you got

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:24.840
<v Speaker 2>discord but.

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but also the friend that's ignoring us, she just

0:43:28.160 --> 0:43:29.360
<v Speaker 3>doesn't respond to anything.

0:43:29.719 --> 0:43:31.359
<v Speaker 2>You can't do anything about that. You can't do anything

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:33.880
<v Speaker 2>about that. Yeah, every group of every group of friends

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:36.680
<v Speaker 2>has the one or two people who they just disappear

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.920
<v Speaker 2>and you'll see with them. But I one of the

0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:43.480
<v Speaker 2>things that like you'll figure out is with your friendships

0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:47.600
<v Speaker 2>is like, and I swear I'm trying not trying to

0:43:47.760 --> 0:43:49.640
<v Speaker 2>minimize how you're feeling right now about all this, But

0:43:49.760 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 2>I really do think this is important. The people that

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:57.560
<v Speaker 2>you like, you'll put effort into those relationships. And yes,

0:43:57.800 --> 0:44:00.919
<v Speaker 2>perhaps putting effort into one of your relationship ships will

0:44:01.000 --> 0:44:03.879
<v Speaker 2>cause another one of your relationships them to like get

0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:05.319
<v Speaker 2>upset with you, like, oh, why are you hanging out

0:44:05.320 --> 0:44:05.800
<v Speaker 2>with this person?

0:44:05.880 --> 0:44:06.080
<v Speaker 3>Whatever?

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:13.400
<v Speaker 2>Whatever, whatever you're you have to decide for yourself if

0:44:13.440 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 2>you think that person is being reasonable or not. And yeah,

0:44:18.160 --> 0:44:23.800
<v Speaker 2>I guess fucking trying to be a peaceful person and

0:44:23.880 --> 0:44:25.680
<v Speaker 2>just keep in contact with the people you like. And

0:44:25.760 --> 0:44:27.640
<v Speaker 2>then if you're trying to keep in contact with people

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:29.360
<v Speaker 2>that you like but they're not you're not getting the

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 2>energy reciprocated, it's okay to accept that you have no

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:38.840
<v Speaker 2>control over whether or not they reciprocate your energy, and

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:42.040
<v Speaker 2>to mourn the friendship like, oh, that's a bummer. I

0:44:42.200 --> 0:44:44.920
<v Speaker 2>really fucking liked this person and it's a bummer that

0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:46.960
<v Speaker 2>they're not getting back to me, or that than not

0:44:47.040 --> 0:44:50.000
<v Speaker 2>is part of my life. But but you just you

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:52.840
<v Speaker 2>just I swear my life. You you you mourn it,

0:44:52.920 --> 0:44:55.600
<v Speaker 2>and you just have to mourn it and accept it.

0:44:58.120 --> 0:45:00.320
<v Speaker 2>And you can still really like that these people and

0:45:00.440 --> 0:45:03.120
<v Speaker 2>and and love these people. But if you just can't

0:45:03.320 --> 0:45:07.359
<v Speaker 2>really have you just have such finite time and energy

0:45:07.440 --> 0:45:10.200
<v Speaker 2>in your life too for people for relationships like that,

0:45:10.719 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 2>and because you because you're eighteen and you're in college

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:19.360
<v Speaker 2>and you are like prime set up to level up

0:45:19.480 --> 0:45:22.680
<v Speaker 2>your life and make new friends and do new things

0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 2>were that are that are ideally drama free. And to

0:45:26.719 --> 0:45:31.160
<v Speaker 2>sit here and talk about this fucking camping trip is

0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:34.879
<v Speaker 2>what is tragic to me, Well because it because it's

0:45:35.280 --> 0:45:43.239
<v Speaker 2>it's neglectful of all all that could be because of

0:45:43.400 --> 0:45:46.960
<v Speaker 2>a fixation on all that that was at such a

0:45:47.560 --> 0:45:48.279
<v Speaker 2>pivotal time.

0:45:49.480 --> 0:45:52.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the whole the the friend group going to crap

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:55.200
<v Speaker 3>thing though, is like uh huh, it's more I'm kind

0:45:55.239 --> 0:45:57.759
<v Speaker 3>of I'm getting to the point where I'm over it.

0:45:58.360 --> 0:46:00.800
<v Speaker 3>It's just it's more backstory to the am at a

0:46:00.880 --> 0:46:02.839
<v Speaker 3>point where it's like where do I go from here?

0:46:03.000 --> 0:46:07.719
<v Speaker 3>It's like I I just sit here and wait for

0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:09.960
<v Speaker 3>it and just kind of do my own thing and

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:13.560
<v Speaker 3>see how it turns out. Or do I just move

0:46:13.640 --> 0:46:17.920
<v Speaker 3>on and like go do one of those like Australian

0:46:18.200 --> 0:46:18.480
<v Speaker 3>No not.

0:46:18.840 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Uh.

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:22.000
<v Speaker 3>You know how some people like when they get out

0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:23.880
<v Speaker 3>of high school they go for like the summer, like

0:46:23.960 --> 0:46:27.360
<v Speaker 3>Alaska and like gut fish and shit, just for the

0:46:27.400 --> 0:46:29.480
<v Speaker 3>summer and just come back. I was thinking of like

0:46:29.560 --> 0:46:32.480
<v Speaker 3>doing something like that and just like fucking going across

0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:35.560
<v Speaker 3>the country for the summer. Yeah, dude, fucking to anybody

0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:37.880
<v Speaker 3>do to go to Alaska.

0:46:37.520 --> 0:46:41.200
<v Speaker 2>And never fucking talk about this what this guy did

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 2>that was crazy at the campus. You can go to

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:49.680
<v Speaker 2>Alaska and talk to strangers and stand in the middle

0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:53.920
<v Speaker 2>of an empty town and look around and go I'm alone.

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Do shit like that. Do things like that instead of

0:46:58.200 --> 0:47:00.000
<v Speaker 2>thinking about your friend that want text your back.

0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:03.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I want to do that. And two of the

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:09.120
<v Speaker 3>people from the seven they're still like they still like,

0:47:09.400 --> 0:47:13.839
<v Speaker 3>haven't been weird about anything, okay, And I'm still kind

0:47:13.840 --> 0:47:17.440
<v Speaker 3>of close with them, Okay. They still are like trying

0:47:17.520 --> 0:47:20.400
<v Speaker 3>to salvage ship, and I'm like, come on, just like

0:47:20.880 --> 0:47:21.319
<v Speaker 3>I sed.

0:47:21.520 --> 0:47:23.960
<v Speaker 2>I still don't know what Seth, Seth, Seth, I still

0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:26.000
<v Speaker 2>don't know what you're talking about. Are you trying to

0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:27.120
<v Speaker 2>get them to come with you? No?

0:47:27.160 --> 0:47:31.680
<v Speaker 3>No, no, so yes is like Seth Seth.

0:47:31.600 --> 0:47:35.040
<v Speaker 2>Seth, Seth, I swear on my seth you if you

0:47:36.640 --> 0:47:38.719
<v Speaker 2>like go ahead and try go ahead and ask them

0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:40.359
<v Speaker 2>if they want to come with you. You know what, Seth,

0:47:41.080 --> 0:47:45.359
<v Speaker 2>you know what, seth fucking complete Go and tell them

0:47:45.400 --> 0:47:49.000
<v Speaker 2>they can come with you if they want. Okay, that'll

0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:51.320
<v Speaker 2>make your just to make your fucking life a thousand

0:47:51.400 --> 0:47:54.400
<v Speaker 2>times easier. I swear my life. Please trust me. If

0:47:54.440 --> 0:47:57.160
<v Speaker 2>you I don't know what your life is like, if

0:47:57.280 --> 0:47:59.480
<v Speaker 2>like how you're gonna get, like what your means are

0:47:59.600 --> 0:48:01.359
<v Speaker 2>to get to Alaska. But if you have the means,

0:48:01.440 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 2>you have the ability to go, please please please please go,

0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:08.000
<v Speaker 2>Please go and tell them that if they want to

0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:10.520
<v Speaker 2>come with you they can, and then leave.

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:10.719
<v Speaker 3>It at that.

0:48:11.640 --> 0:48:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Please do that, okay, Like at I like, just go,

0:48:21.440 --> 0:48:27.040
<v Speaker 2>go go alone, get into weird shit. Be if you go,

0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:29.640
<v Speaker 2>when you're alone and it's snowy and it's cold, just

0:48:29.840 --> 0:48:34.440
<v Speaker 2>feel that, you know, like, please just go. Just go

0:48:34.600 --> 0:48:36.000
<v Speaker 2>and tell them you're going and they can come with

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 2>you if they want. Because if you're gonna spend you

0:48:39.120 --> 0:48:42.920
<v Speaker 2>just want to, like to just to to tether your

0:48:43.200 --> 0:48:46.520
<v Speaker 2>growth as a human being to these people because you

0:48:46.680 --> 0:48:50.080
<v Speaker 2>need them is a is a real mistake to make.

0:48:50.239 --> 0:48:52.360
<v Speaker 2>It's a natural mistake of because that gues that's how

0:48:52.400 --> 0:48:55.920
<v Speaker 2>you've been living your life this whole time. In high school,

0:48:55.920 --> 0:48:58.680
<v Speaker 2>you're around a lot of people, but just just go, please,

0:48:58.800 --> 0:48:58.960
<v Speaker 2>just go.

0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:04.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have this like underlying though, like once or

0:49:04.960 --> 0:49:06.800
<v Speaker 3>like my through my twenties, I just have this like

0:49:07.120 --> 0:49:09.400
<v Speaker 3>these two friends that we have like a like a

0:49:09.480 --> 0:49:14.160
<v Speaker 3>Harold and Kumar type relationships though, and Loki, I got

0:49:14.200 --> 0:49:16.360
<v Speaker 3>the that's why I want them to come with, because

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:20.279
<v Speaker 3>like I don't want to have to try to socialize,

0:49:21.239 --> 0:49:25.920
<v Speaker 3>to try to meet more people why besides the two,

0:49:26.000 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 3>Because it's it's too much effort.

0:49:30.640 --> 0:49:33.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm you know, I'm so. Can I tell you can?

0:49:33.520 --> 0:49:33.799
<v Speaker 3>I can?

0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:34.160
<v Speaker 2>Ice?

0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:34.839
<v Speaker 3>Seth?

0:49:35.040 --> 0:49:40.120
<v Speaker 2>Seth, Seth, You're too I really mean this. You're too

0:49:40.200 --> 0:49:45.279
<v Speaker 2>young to be this tired. Well why are you so?

0:49:45.800 --> 0:49:45.920
<v Speaker 3>Why?

0:49:46.239 --> 0:49:48.160
<v Speaker 2>Why are you so? Why are you so tired? Seth?

0:49:49.160 --> 0:49:51.799
<v Speaker 3>No, it's just what I mean that. It's a sin said.

0:49:51.840 --> 0:49:54.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean that as a sincere question. Why do you

0:49:54.239 --> 0:49:58.480
<v Speaker 2>feel so tired right now? Eh?

0:49:59.200 --> 0:50:03.680
<v Speaker 3>I don't really feel tired. I just don't like people. Really,

0:50:04.320 --> 0:50:07.800
<v Speaker 3>they're not my I don't know, I don't like the

0:50:07.920 --> 0:50:10.000
<v Speaker 3>majority of people. I should put it like that.

0:50:10.239 --> 0:50:16.440
<v Speaker 2>Why again, how do you how do you know that? Uh?

0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:22.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It's just that easy to assume that

0:50:22.600 --> 0:50:26.080
<v Speaker 3>they would be not my people because.

0:50:25.800 --> 0:50:28.560
<v Speaker 4>It's yes, yes, it is easier to assume. It's correct,

0:50:28.640 --> 0:50:33.120
<v Speaker 4>it's correct, it's it is easier to assume. But why

0:50:33.400 --> 0:50:35.640
<v Speaker 4>your life will be your life will be richer if

0:50:35.680 --> 0:50:35.960
<v Speaker 4>you do.

0:50:36.080 --> 0:50:37.720
<v Speaker 2>Not assume.

0:50:39.760 --> 0:50:44.160
<v Speaker 3>That's true, that's true. I'd be nice, like I I I.

0:50:44.680 --> 0:50:49.239
<v Speaker 2>I said, I sow. I just so badly. I so

0:50:49.680 --> 0:50:53.200
<v Speaker 2>badly because I think about, like I guess, like when

0:50:53.239 --> 0:50:55.040
<v Speaker 2>I was in high school, I think about, like, oh,

0:50:55.120 --> 0:50:58.880
<v Speaker 2>if I knew now all the things I did, you

0:50:59.040 --> 0:51:04.120
<v Speaker 2>can't you You physically like cannot be aware at that

0:51:04.280 --> 0:51:06.680
<v Speaker 2>age of all the things that you don't have to

0:51:06.800 --> 0:51:09.080
<v Speaker 2>fucking care about. And then you get older and you're like,

0:51:09.120 --> 0:51:10.879
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I didn't have to care about any

0:51:10.920 --> 0:51:14.320
<v Speaker 2>of that. And I'm listening to you and I'm like,

0:51:14.360 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 2>there's just so many things that you don't even know

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:18.120
<v Speaker 2>that you don't have to care about, and you can

0:51:18.200 --> 0:51:19.120
<v Speaker 2>just go to Alaska.

0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:24.839
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Well that's what I mean is like I don't

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.120
<v Speaker 3>really think it's worth my time to socialize it because

0:51:27.120 --> 0:51:28.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm doing other stuff.

0:51:28.200 --> 0:51:30.839
<v Speaker 2>No, it's no, no, it's not worth your time. It's

0:51:30.880 --> 0:51:33.200
<v Speaker 2>not worth your time to sit around going All my

0:51:33.320 --> 0:51:35.160
<v Speaker 2>friends are being weird and stuff.

0:51:36.000 --> 0:51:37.240
<v Speaker 3>Well, no, no, I don't complain.

0:51:37.239 --> 0:51:38.960
<v Speaker 2>It's not worth there's time to No, it's nothing you

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:40.800
<v Speaker 2>can play. It's just it's not worth your time to

0:51:40.920 --> 0:51:46.040
<v Speaker 2>dwell upon that. It's very worth your time to go

0:51:46.239 --> 0:51:48.560
<v Speaker 2>out of your comfort zone and socialize with people and

0:51:48.680 --> 0:51:50.360
<v Speaker 2>do things that you didn't want to do before.

0:51:51.400 --> 0:51:53.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm probably doing the Alaska thing. I'm just waiting

0:51:53.600 --> 0:51:56.200
<v Speaker 3>for summer, all right, man.

0:51:56.680 --> 0:51:59.759
<v Speaker 2>Well, seth, I if I can, I really feel if

0:51:59.760 --> 0:52:01.480
<v Speaker 2>I can get through to you on anything, which I

0:52:01.640 --> 0:52:05.120
<v Speaker 2>I really I just I really if you I don't

0:52:05.160 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 2>know if you listen to my show or if you

0:52:06.719 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 2>care about any of this stuff. It's funny, but just please.

0:52:13.400 --> 0:52:18.480
<v Speaker 2>It's like genuinely tragic to me because I in like

0:52:18.680 --> 0:52:22.279
<v Speaker 2>in college and in my early twenties, and like I

0:52:22.440 --> 0:52:25.000
<v Speaker 2>feel like I went on these adventures and there they

0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:29.400
<v Speaker 2>were really life transformational and it's like feels tragic to

0:52:29.520 --> 0:52:34.080
<v Speaker 2>me to hear you say at at eighteen that you

0:52:36.239 --> 0:52:39.680
<v Speaker 2>assume you're not going to like the majority of people.

0:52:39.719 --> 0:52:42.600
<v Speaker 2>That's like tragic to hear. And I really just hope

0:52:43.040 --> 0:52:46.320
<v Speaker 2>that you, yeah, I hope that you dub that you

0:52:47.320 --> 0:52:51.239
<v Speaker 2>reanalyze that mindset and at least it's okay if you

0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:54.719
<v Speaker 2>if you go put yourself out there when you try

0:52:54.800 --> 0:52:57.200
<v Speaker 2>a little bit and you just decide you're an introvert

0:52:57.239 --> 0:52:58.880
<v Speaker 2>and you don't want to do it, but give it.

0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:02.120
<v Speaker 2>Let allow yourself to go out and collect some fucking data.

0:53:02.360 --> 0:53:02.560
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:53:03.760 --> 0:53:04.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I I do.

0:53:05.640 --> 0:53:06.920
<v Speaker 3>I do get what you're saying where it's like I

0:53:07.000 --> 0:53:08.879
<v Speaker 3>should keep that open mindset of people.

0:53:09.360 --> 0:53:09.560
<v Speaker 1>I do.

0:53:09.800 --> 0:53:11.680
<v Speaker 3>But it's just like I do always just have that

0:53:11.760 --> 0:53:16.120
<v Speaker 3>assumption that like I should say that I don't get

0:53:16.239 --> 0:53:24.920
<v Speaker 3>disappointed when people are shitty. I should say okay, more

0:53:25.040 --> 0:53:27.680
<v Speaker 3>like I'm always expecting, not not expecting it.

0:53:27.920 --> 0:53:33.280
<v Speaker 2>Just yeah, are you gonna go ahead? Go ahead?

0:53:33.560 --> 0:53:36.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna go do something, all right, crazy,

0:53:36.960 --> 0:53:39.719
<v Speaker 3>I hope. The other thing is the two friends, like

0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:41.719
<v Speaker 3>how I want to have them go. That's the thing

0:53:41.840 --> 0:53:45.160
<v Speaker 3>is they're kind of lazy and they don't really want

0:53:45.200 --> 0:53:45.640
<v Speaker 3>to do anything.

0:53:45.680 --> 0:53:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Don't fucking wait for them, set I know.

0:53:50.480 --> 0:53:53.200
<v Speaker 3>It would be nice if they game. I'm gonna try

0:53:53.239 --> 0:53:53.879
<v Speaker 3>to convince Seth.

0:53:54.000 --> 0:53:56.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm Seth. I'm actually going to kill you right now

0:53:56.080 --> 0:53:57.640
<v Speaker 2>with how badly I want you to go to No, no, no.

0:53:57.760 --> 0:53:59.920
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm still going I'm still going on.

0:54:00.000 --> 0:54:03.719
<v Speaker 5>I'm just gonna try to convince them, don't be an

0:54:03.920 --> 0:54:07.439
<v Speaker 5>interest that they come, but I se without them, Seth,

0:54:09.480 --> 0:54:10.080
<v Speaker 5>can I can you?

0:54:10.280 --> 0:54:11.400
<v Speaker 2>Can you do me a fake? Can you do me

0:54:11.440 --> 0:54:13.080
<v Speaker 2>a favor? Where in Alaska you to go?

0:54:15.600 --> 0:54:18.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I don't know if I'm specifically going

0:54:18.560 --> 0:54:20.680
<v Speaker 3>to do something like that, Probably just like an internship

0:54:20.719 --> 0:54:23.080
<v Speaker 3>over the summer, somewhere not here?

0:54:24.000 --> 0:54:27.640
<v Speaker 2>Where do you want to Seth, Seth, do me a favor.

0:54:28.800 --> 0:54:31.520
<v Speaker 2>Whatever energy you were going to spend into convincing your

0:54:31.600 --> 0:54:34.280
<v Speaker 2>lazy friends to come with you, put all that energy

0:54:34.800 --> 0:54:38.000
<v Speaker 2>into researching places that you would love to fucking go

0:54:38.120 --> 0:54:40.040
<v Speaker 2>to and things that you can do in those places.

0:54:41.440 --> 0:54:44.200
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I will do that.

0:54:44.360 --> 0:54:46.239
<v Speaker 2>Do that instead of trying to convince your friends to

0:54:46.320 --> 0:54:48.200
<v Speaker 2>do something that that that they don't want to do,

0:54:48.960 --> 0:54:49.959
<v Speaker 2>which is kind of what I'm.

0:54:52.320 --> 0:54:53.280
<v Speaker 3>Have you been a Montana.

0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:56.320
<v Speaker 2>Montana is one of the states I've never been to,

0:54:56.440 --> 0:54:58.280
<v Speaker 2>but I've been to states around it, and be beautiful.

0:54:58.280 --> 0:55:00.839
<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful part of the country to w beautiful.

0:55:01.040 --> 0:55:03.000
<v Speaker 3>It's even it's even prettier than why I'm like you

0:55:03.040 --> 0:55:03.400
<v Speaker 3>should go.

0:55:04.719 --> 0:55:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Do you live in Montana?

0:55:05.960 --> 0:55:07.560
<v Speaker 3>It's very green? I do not.

0:55:09.760 --> 0:55:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Do you have you ever been?

0:55:12.120 --> 0:55:12.320
<v Speaker 1>I have?

0:55:12.680 --> 0:55:12.879
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

0:55:14.719 --> 0:55:18.279
<v Speaker 2>Was this conversation helpful? Did you understand or anything that

0:55:18.360 --> 0:55:18.799
<v Speaker 2>I did?

0:55:19.000 --> 0:55:19.239
<v Speaker 1>I did?

0:55:19.280 --> 0:55:21.440
<v Speaker 3>It was helpful. Okay, good, it was helpful.

0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Are you all right?

0:55:25.280 --> 0:55:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:55:26.280 --> 0:55:30.239
<v Speaker 2>All right? Is there anything else you want to say

0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:33.560
<v Speaker 2>to the people of the computer before we go? Uh?

0:55:35.040 --> 0:55:36.000
<v Speaker 3>I don't think so, though.

0:55:37.280 --> 0:55:40.120
<v Speaker 2>Well, I'll see around the universe. Seth.

0:55:41.080 --> 0:55:42.320
<v Speaker 3>All right, let's see it.

0:55:44.600 --> 0:55:45.040
<v Speaker 4>M hm.

0:55:46.719 --> 0:55:47.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh man.

0:55:50.160 --> 0:55:50.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:55:50.360 --> 0:55:54.560
<v Speaker 2>Really, I felt like I get it. I get it. No,

0:55:55.000 --> 0:55:59.320
<v Speaker 2>when you're just when you're in high school and everyone

0:55:59.440 --> 0:56:03.840
<v Speaker 2>is being like weird and stuff, it's it's intense, it's crazy.

0:56:04.640 --> 0:56:07.560
<v Speaker 2>But I'm trying to give I was really trying to

0:56:07.600 --> 0:56:13.520
<v Speaker 2>give him my like twenty seven year old mindset on

0:56:13.680 --> 0:56:17.360
<v Speaker 2>what it was like being like in high school. And

0:56:17.360 --> 0:56:20.200
<v Speaker 2>because I wanted I would go back. I wouldn't go back.

0:56:20.640 --> 0:56:26.120
<v Speaker 2>You physically can't. You can't understand how little that shit

0:56:26.280 --> 0:56:28.319
<v Speaker 2>matters when you're in it, because it matters a lot

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:30.880
<v Speaker 2>when you're in it. Honestly, I could probably say the

0:56:30.920 --> 0:56:33.959
<v Speaker 2>fucking same about whatever problems I have right now. Here's

0:56:34.040 --> 0:56:36.120
<v Speaker 2>you know what's actually you know what? I just cut

0:56:36.200 --> 0:56:39.920
<v Speaker 2>you know what. Here's the thing. All the problems I

0:56:40.000 --> 0:56:42.719
<v Speaker 2>have right now are probably just as stupid as the

0:56:42.800 --> 0:56:45.759
<v Speaker 2>ones I had in high school. And even when like

0:56:45.960 --> 0:56:48.879
<v Speaker 2>I get diagnosed with cancer and I'm about to die,

0:56:49.320 --> 0:56:52.520
<v Speaker 2>which is what happens to all of us, Like when

0:56:52.600 --> 0:56:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you know, even if I get lucky and

0:56:55.960 --> 0:56:57.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm like eighty and I'm about to die and I

0:56:57.880 --> 0:57:02.680
<v Speaker 2>have cancer, even that is like not even that won't

0:57:02.800 --> 0:57:06.360
<v Speaker 2>matter once I've been dead for you know, thousands of years.

0:57:06.600 --> 0:57:09.880
<v Speaker 2>So I guess all of life's problems are similarly as

0:57:09.920 --> 0:57:12.160
<v Speaker 2>stupid as the problems that we had in high school,

0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:15.560
<v Speaker 2>if you just if you just because I feel like

0:57:15.880 --> 0:57:18.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm just looking back at ten years ago, and I'm like, oh,

0:57:18.240 --> 0:57:21.000
<v Speaker 2>those problems were all stupid. They didn't because they don't

0:57:21.040 --> 0:57:24.400
<v Speaker 2>matter to me anymore. But when I'm thirty seven, I'll

0:57:24.400 --> 0:57:26.919
<v Speaker 2>probably look back, Yeah, my problems from ten years ago

0:57:27.000 --> 0:57:29.160
<v Speaker 2>and go, those were stupid that I don't know why

0:57:29.200 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 2>I was freaking out about any of that. And I'll

0:57:31.440 --> 0:57:34.080
<v Speaker 2>just keep doing that every ten years and then I'll die,

0:57:34.760 --> 0:57:37.400
<v Speaker 2>and then you know, in a thousand years, none of

0:57:37.440 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 2>the things that I ever mattered about my life will leave.

0:57:42.040 --> 0:57:46.160
<v Speaker 2>Those will all be every grand problem or it's even

0:57:46.280 --> 0:57:51.200
<v Speaker 2>like dark, serious stuff will have mattered just as much

0:57:51.800 --> 0:57:55.320
<v Speaker 2>as my as my friends in high school having been

0:57:55.560 --> 0:57:59.400
<v Speaker 2>like kind of weird, you know, Okay, maybe that's everything.

0:58:00.760 --> 0:58:03.800
<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe I don't I think I don't know. I'm

0:58:03.800 --> 0:58:06.160
<v Speaker 2>only I'm not I'm only saying this because he comforts

0:58:06.240 --> 0:58:08.480
<v Speaker 2>me to think about that. Oh, everything is just as

0:58:08.520 --> 0:58:14.360
<v Speaker 2>stupid as the things that bothered me in high school.

0:58:17.280 --> 0:58:20.080
<v Speaker 2>Because here's the thing. Even like people who lived a

0:58:20.160 --> 0:58:22.840
<v Speaker 2>thousand years ago had really horrible people who lived a

0:58:22.880 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 2>couple hundred years ago had really horrible problems. They got

0:58:27.360 --> 0:58:34.080
<v Speaker 2>horrible diseases, and their children would get uh, what's the

0:58:34.360 --> 0:58:37.160
<v Speaker 2>diarrhea thing that they that kids would get in the

0:58:37.240 --> 0:58:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Oregon Trail. Close it starts with the claw, but they

0:58:41.720 --> 0:58:44.440
<v Speaker 2>would get it and they would die. And even and

0:58:44.640 --> 0:58:47.840
<v Speaker 2>now that it's now that it's like hundreds of years later,

0:58:48.440 --> 0:58:51.480
<v Speaker 2>even that kind of matters just as much as like

0:58:52.920 --> 0:58:55.960
<v Speaker 2>your friend, like something that happened in high school, the

0:58:56.080 --> 0:58:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Oregon Trail and everything that happened on it, I guess

0:58:59.120 --> 0:59:02.280
<v Speaker 2>matters as much is everything that happened in high school.

0:59:03.000 --> 0:59:10.080
<v Speaker 2>Kind of is what I think I'm trying to say. Yeah, Okay,

0:59:10.200 --> 0:59:12.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel I feel like I feel like I expressed

0:59:12.680 --> 0:59:17.880
<v Speaker 2>to this thought adequately, and I'm going to stop talking now.

0:59:19.840 --> 0:59:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Goes on the line, making your phone calls every night.

0:59:23.400 --> 0:59:26.600
<v Speaker 2>The reacon goes to his i's teaching your loud in

0:59:26.680 --> 0:59:29.160
<v Speaker 2>the mean of your life that he is not really

0:59:29.320 --> 0:59:30.120
<v Speaker 2>an expert.