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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl lex p and it's

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Speaker 1: your girls.

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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor

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Speaker 2: Minds Speaks.

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Speaker 3: So we got some guests today. We got some guests today.

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Speaker 2: You'll already yeah, I love them, I love them already.

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Speaker 3: Okay, look we have already started a bunta. Get that lot,

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Speaker 3: the buncher.

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Speaker 4: Okay, the Banta, the Banta. You couldn't even say that, right,

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Speaker 4: ship right.

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Speaker 2: So when we posted on our Instagram that we were

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Speaker 2: coming to London and like, who should we colliabe with?

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Speaker 3: Y'all blew us up?

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Speaker 2: Y'all were seeing me threats, y'all are sending me let

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Speaker 2: us in the man.

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Speaker 3: They was like, y'all ain't working for real? Did y'all

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Speaker 3: get on cut? Did y'all get on cut? Y'all ain't

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Speaker 3: working for real? So y'all know we had to do

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Speaker 3: our big one.

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Speaker 2: We have tammy be interested and sharing from the uncut.

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Speaker 3: Bo That's right, that was on our neck. They were

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Speaker 3: on our neck about y'all. Yes, calm down.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but first of all, let me go.

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Speaker 5: They need to calm down.

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Speaker 2: So first let me just say thank y'all so much

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Speaker 2: for pulling up on us like y'all know, y'all be

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Speaker 2: booked and busy.

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Speaker 3: I'll be watching.

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Speaker 4: Y'all busy, trying to get a check anyway, possible, Jack,

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Speaker 4: possible call me.

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Speaker 5: I feel I was going to be talking in an American

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Speaker 5: acts for Yes.

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Speaker 3: Sorry episode, Sorry, I love it.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, y'all just slipping off the tongue.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, y'all you're doing a good jobs.

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Speaker 5: Years of reality TV.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I love every house, every every single one.

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Speaker 6: I said, and I ain't changing it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So let me ask you all this.

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Speaker 2: There's three of y'all because I know sometimes when me

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Speaker 2: Andre on the couch and we do solo episodes, we

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Speaker 2: can get rowdy.

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Speaker 3: It gets rowdy.

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Speaker 2: So how do y'all, you know, work with like three

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Speaker 2: people and then sometimes y'all have guests on? So how

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Speaker 2: do y'all do that dynamic? Because I know it's a lie.

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Speaker 4: It's been a journey, okay, because at first, because we're

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Speaker 4: real friends. Yeah, some people where they have a podcast

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Speaker 4: where it's just like we're just doing a podcast and

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Speaker 4: that's it. But we have years of friendship before the podcast,

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Speaker 4: so it's literally just like a normal.

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Speaker 3: Girls link King. So at the beginning, m hmm.

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Speaker 5: The audio was mess.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, hours was terrible.

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Speaker 4: They were dragging us like every day terrible and then

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Speaker 4: get better.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, start off strong and then you're still you had

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Speaker 6: the worse. Then what's the point to say?

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Speaker 4: I feel like another issue that we have is that

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Speaker 4: we can finish each other's sentences. So sometimes we're like

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Speaker 4: we know what we're gonna say and we interject, but

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Speaker 4: I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: To learn how to just sit back, and so it's

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Speaker 3: real bad. Yeah we do.

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Speaker 7: We finished under is everything all the time. I started

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Speaker 7: busting out your.

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Speaker 3: Songs, and.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of times people be like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, let's stop interrupting.

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Speaker 3: You're talking.

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Speaker 7: I don't even be mad because I'd be like, she

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Speaker 7: knew what I was gonna say, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Because I have to say what I got to say.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes they feel like we're like arguing, like oh I

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Speaker 6: did like the way that Sharon call over bitches and

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Speaker 6: then like the way that.

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Speaker 2: Time, I'm like, yeah, oh my friends, for real, that

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Speaker 2: makes me feel so good. It will be comment about

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Speaker 2: our friendship all the time and it hurt my fings.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, y'all, me and my friend really love each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like my sister, y'all fight with y'all, sister,

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Speaker 2: I know, y'all do.

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Speaker 3: I love to hear that, not like I love that

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Speaker 3: at y'all too. It's a very interesting dynamic, though.

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Speaker 7: I would love for y'all to talk about that a

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Speaker 7: little bit more, just like working with your friends, because,

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Speaker 7: like you said, there's so many people who do podcasts

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Speaker 3: We got a little chemistry.

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Speaker 7: Why don't we just start some shit so we can

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Speaker 7: make some money, versus working with somebody that you're actually

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Speaker 7: friends with.

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Speaker 3: That shit is not easy. We all do a great

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Speaker 3: job of good on camera, yeah, y'all to come from

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Speaker 7: And it's like we do a great job of making

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Speaker 7: ship is nice.

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Speaker 3: Nice, it's not easy if you know where we're coming from. Hey, yeah,

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Speaker 3: we've been working, yeah, okay, trying to get the dark.

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Speaker 2: So have y'all ever recorded like when one of them

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Speaker 2: was like mad at one of y'all was mad at

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Speaker 2: wasn't talking in real.

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Speaker 5: Life, No, no, we haven't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we ain't trauma about it that I haven't

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Speaker 3: been speaking in real life, but you have to show up.

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Speaker 3: I was like this, and.

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Speaker 7: At one point it was so bad because this is

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Speaker 3: We used to record it by house.

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Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 7: I had like a two bedroom apart and we were

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Speaker 7: recording the second bedroom, and like she would come over

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Speaker 7: and I'd be like hey, I'd be like and then

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Speaker 7: I'd be like you ready, And then we started recording,

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Speaker 4: Have I I'm like, well, I'll see you next week.

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Speaker 3: And I would call my friend right after I'd be

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Speaker 2: So y'all just had y'all's first live show, right, How

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Speaker 2: was that for y'all? Because I know that was like

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Speaker 2: a I can't believe, because I will say, working with

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Speaker 2: you have moments like like look what we have done,

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Speaker 2: like doing that with each other and having that moment

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Speaker 4: So fun, Like I think is very She wasn't never

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Speaker 3: Give me a kind of sad I'm like, She's like

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Speaker 3: that kind of vibe me and Tammy like I think,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I was the most nervous, which was quite shocking

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, but really and truly it was like I'm

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Speaker 6: nice knowing that I could look to my right so

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Speaker 6: like we already do this in front of the camera,

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Speaker 6: so yeah, people have people watch us, So what's the difference.

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Speaker 6: Maybe just a couple of laughs and you know in

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Speaker 4: Nice to I think what helped me as well as

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Speaker 3: So that was good.

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Speaker 4: And also we opened for another podcast like late last year,

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Speaker 4: listening past Mecca. Yeah, yeah, they were talking. But then

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Speaker 4: afterwards we found out that they were actually just discussing

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Speaker 3: They were super engaged that with discussing here.

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Speaker 2: But we have our friends in the autists and I

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Speaker 2: always have designated laughers.

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Speaker 3: If and I'm like, yeah, please laugh yea.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I tell them jogging it on here and I

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Speaker 2: Last Oh yeah, I'm like, yeah, you got to have

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Speaker 3: That was out of this world.

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Speaker 7: I have inem just talking about that, like, I don't

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Speaker 3: For a live podcast. It was like a concert.

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Speaker 2: Yes, like I've seen actual artists not put on a

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Speaker 4: It was normally when an artist performed that you might

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Speaker 2: Was so I mean, yeah, the crowd control was amazing because,

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Speaker 5: And there was one point where they were talking and.

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Speaker 5: So that's the first time we've been in the where

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Speaker 3: On the floor. That's not calming. I know in.

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Speaker 6: America when you guys have like Beyonce arenas or the stadiums,

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Speaker 6: guys have chairs on the floor. Yeah, they don't. That's

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Speaker 6: like Europe they don't do that. We do standing for

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Speaker 6: the whole the first time I've seen it, like with

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Speaker 6: And the fact that you can like walk the eyes

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Speaker 6: When me and me and bitches wanted to get a drink,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they have such a diverse audience. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 7: Then we can't do we can't we can't not drop

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Speaker 2: So it's like it's people like we have to pay

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Speaker 3: Now, Bitch, these jokes better hit.

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Speaker 2: Bitch because they gotta pay their rent to I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So the thing that's about me Andre, that's a

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Speaker 2: little different though. It's like one thing about us. We're

449
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 2: so invested in our careers, so we're gonna take a

450
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Speaker 2: pay cut just to make sure everybody gets paid. But

451
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 2: we're good with our money told. So it's like if

452
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Speaker 2: we need to invest in something to like make it happen,

453
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Speaker 2: we're gonna be like, hey, we're gonna take this money

454
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Speaker 2: home this month, but we gotta invest in this. We

455
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Speaker 2: gotta make sure this person get paid and this because

456
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Speaker 2: we're gonna make something happen. I think we just believe

457
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Speaker 2: in ourselves so much, and I think once you take

458
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Speaker 2: that leap, it'll show with like everything, because even us

459
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: being here is crazy, Like I can't even believe that

460
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Speaker 2: we're here, like even recording with Y'alluse, I'm like, damn,

461
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Speaker 2: this is like a big thing thing for this. Like

462
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Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all we on the floor recording and they

463
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Speaker 2: love y'all.

464
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Speaker 3: Because I think not about you guys really here, just

465
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Speaker 3: you way you are literal than me. So nice to hear,

466
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Speaker 3: but I.

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Speaker 7: Mean it is I understand though, it's it's so much

468
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Speaker 7: to like I said, take that leap of faith, because

469
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Speaker 7: it's nothing like that consistent, just no coming in and

470
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Speaker 7: with us like for a while.

471
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Speaker 3: We know where it was crossing my fingers, like Lord,

472
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Speaker 3: please let some come through this month.

473
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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, now y'all know we're getting we get chatty now.

474
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Speaker 2: So I wanted to play a little game before we

475
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Speaker 2: get into these topics. Go ahead, go ahead.

476
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Speaker 7: Well, before we got into the game, I did want

477
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Speaker 7: to ask y'all, so, like, what do y'all want to

478
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Speaker 7: do with the podcast?

479
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Speaker 3: Like what is like y'all goal? Yeah, with the podcast?

480
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Speaker 5: Hmm, yeah, we're done, But.

481
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Speaker 3: I think it's such a great question.

482
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Speaker 4: I think for me, my goal, like my sole focus

483
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Speaker 4: right now is being able to do it full time.

484
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Speaker 4: Like for me, that is where I can like mark

485
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Speaker 4: success because I think numbers are great and everything, but

486
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 4: until it like actually materializes into actual cash, then it's

487
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Speaker 4: like we still are like kind of tied to our

488
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Speaker 4: like full time jobs. And I was saying to Beatrice

489
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 4: yesterday that like, for me, it's harder for me now

490
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Speaker 4: to sharp at work because I know how much joy

491
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Speaker 4: my podcast brings me. So now it's like harder because

492
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Speaker 4: like I'm like, I know this can make me a

493
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Speaker 4: check as well, though you and I can.

494
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Speaker 3: Be happy doing it at the same time.

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Speaker 4: So for me, my goal is to be able to

496
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Speaker 4: do it full time and to be able to do

497
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Speaker 4: stuff like we're doing, like tour and stuff like yeah yeah, yeah,

498
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Speaker 4: like if you call my community like our own community,

499
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Speaker 4: but it's also like community to other.

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Speaker 3: People, yeah, able to tall like yeah, I think that

501
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Speaker 3: for me would just be like chef. Okay.

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Speaker 6: I think for me, I want to be able to

503
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Speaker 6: step into a lot of other things. I think that yes,

504
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Speaker 6: the podcast is great, I'd love to see it success

505
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Speaker 6: to be successful, but I want to go into so

506
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Speaker 6: many different things. And yeah, I feel like I feel

507
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Speaker 6: like my full time job just I love my job.

508
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Speaker 6: I do like I can do it with sleeping, but

509
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Speaker 6: I just feel like there's so many other things that

510
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Speaker 6: I want to challenge myself with and my job isn't

511
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Speaker 6: challenging for me. I want to step into different things.

512
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Speaker 6: I want to do different things. I want to walk

513
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Speaker 6: into the room when people know who I am. Yeah,

514
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Speaker 6: that's why I want that, you know, you know that

515
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Speaker 6: kind of energy because there's so many people in the

516
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Speaker 6: UK where you know exactly as soon as they're walking,

517
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Speaker 6: you know who they are, right, and I want it.

518
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Speaker 5: That's your fear.

519
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Speaker 3: That's the thing I like.

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Speaker 6: No, But when I say the same when I say

521
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Speaker 6: that people I like to be I like to be

522
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Speaker 6: under the writer.

523
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Speaker 4: When I've been walking places, they'd be like, oh my god, right,

524
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Speaker 4: I feel like no.

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Speaker 6: But I'm saying it from an aspect, not that people

526
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Speaker 6: are like being in your business and things like that.

527
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Speaker 6: But I want people to like, no, like exactly your talent,

528
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Speaker 6: talent I am so if someone will so, if someone

529
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Speaker 6: will like, oh, I want to work with that person.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, fans.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I.

532
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Speaker 6: Want to walk into the room and people. I want

533
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Speaker 6: to work with that person. I've seen her, I've seen

534
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Speaker 6: what she does, I've seen her job, I've seen what

535
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Speaker 6: she can do. Maybe we can transfer some of the

536
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Speaker 6: skills that she's got here and her. Yeah, I just

537
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Speaker 6: want to have done. I feel like I've got so

538
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Speaker 6: much more to give, and I feel like time is

539
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 6: just wasting away with like just in this job and

540
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Speaker 6: things like that.

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Speaker 5: Like I feel like time is running out.

542
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Speaker 7: So yeah, you feel like you could be spending your

543
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Speaker 7: time more wisely, Like.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like even like I do I say I do,

545
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Speaker 6: I meant to like going to like makeup, doing my makeup,

546
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Speaker 6: like like to tours and stuff like.

547
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Speaker 2: By the way, I mean everybody what I'm saying, eat

548
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Speaker 2: with the makeup, y'all, eat down with the maker.

549
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Speaker 5: Thank you. So that's what I really want to do.

550
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Speaker 6: And I just find like I just literally have no

551
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 6: time to do anything because it's either I'm at work

552
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 6: or I'm recording the podcast or we're doing other stuff

553
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Speaker 6: for the pocket.

554
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Speaker 5: That has no time to breathe.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, it's crazy because I always said, look, I am

556
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 2: not shamed to work because in America is a thing like.

557
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 3: Oh, you got to hustle and get it. You're not

558
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 3: supposed to clock in me.

559
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: I'm a clock in work. If I got some extra time,

560
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 2: I'm going to work. Only reason I'm not working on

561
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: because I ain't got no time. But I always said,

562
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: like I wouldn't mind going back to work if I

563
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 2: have to. But like I'm so immersed in that, like

564
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm in way too deep, like because it's like when

565
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: I'm working, like she will tell you it's crazy because

566
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: like I'm very strict when it comes to work.

567
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Speaker 3: I'm like, we.

568
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Speaker 2: Gotta get up, we gotta do this, we gotta do that.

569
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Speaker 2: But it's just like I know what I can do

570
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Speaker 2: and I get that. Like when I walk in the room,

571
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Speaker 2: I want people to like straighten up, like, oh shit,

572
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 2: Lex be here, like you know, like Lex here, like ooh,

573
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Speaker 2: I gotta impress her.

574
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Speaker 3: I was like I wanted that present. You know what

575
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Speaker 3: I'm saying.

576
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Speaker 2: So I definitely get what you're saying, like you know,

577
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Speaker 2: And I think too, with podcasting, we don't get the

578
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: same respect as a lot of other people do in

579
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: the creative field because I think it's just sitting on

580
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Speaker 2: the couch and talking.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's so easy.

582
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Speaker 6: But it's like like, obviously we always referring to us

583
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Speaker 6: working full time, but we need be at the studio

584
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Speaker 6: at midnight.

585
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm telling you.

586
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 6: The only time that we can actually have like some

587
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 6: downtime because their jobs are quite demanding, so we're working

588
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 6: around them as well. So and I'm a friend, so

589
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 6: I'm not going to be like, oh no, guys, we

590
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 6: have to record it five ye right, yeah, yeah exactly.

591
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 6: So it's a lot of late nights and it's a

592
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Speaker 6: lot of just a lot of effort. And then when

593
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 6: you have people like they need to band mics, I just.

594
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, yeah, you don't even know what I say.

595
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 3: Like the podcasting bit, like what we're doing now is

596
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 3: probably like ten percent of what we do.

597
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, this is so much more than into it behind

598
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 7: the scenes of like making the actual episode be good,

599
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 7: presenting it, making sure that people like it, the clips,

600
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 7: like you said everything. It's like this is a very

601
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 7: small portion, but at the end of the day, our soul.

602
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 7: Let's clap it up for ourselves. Because to be able

603
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Speaker 7: to make money hello from being yourself. Yeah, it is

604
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 7: not something that everybody can do.

605
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Speaker 4: I was gonna say, like, I don't know how is

606
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 4: the actually, but yeah, for us growing up so we

607
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 4: grew up in Essex or not in London, so actually

608
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 4: there wasn't a lot of black people where we grew up.

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Speaker 5: So for us like being like being talkative, being loud,

610
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Speaker 5: not loud, but I.

611
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Speaker 3: Mean like just how express it. No, it was like

612
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Speaker 3: toned down.

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Speaker 4: So for me, it's so rewarding where people are, oh

614
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Speaker 4: my god, the way she's reacting to something. It's so loud,

615
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 4: it's so funny. But I'm like, I've literally been shamed,

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Speaker 4: yeah all my life.

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Speaker 3: And I love your reactions to subject. I was practicing girl.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna play a little game with y'all

683
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: because one thing on the show, I feel like we

684
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Speaker 2: kind of we know y'all's personality, but we wanted to

685
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 2: get into some like Tea really liked.

686
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all drink, sip, y'all drink.

687
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 2: So this is called who is most likely okay? So

688
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: y'all have to give an answer, and I want to see,

689
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 2: like the two versus one who's gonna be okay?

690
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 5: So be truth.

691
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: The first one is who is most likely to be late?

692
00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 2: Oh that's real meant and it's crazy because I'm not

693
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: too bad with time. I'm not great with time. But

694
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: like I do this thing and it gets on her,

695
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 2: nurse soull but I know it does.

696
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: I do this to her.

697
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 2: We in the hotel I'll stand in the door with

698
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: the door open, like come on, come on, because I

699
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: know she makes her feel rush you out.

700
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 3: She's like, oh but she don't care. She'd be like

701
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 3: she don't start moving slowly. One thing about me the

702
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 3: world stops wait on me. But is not punctual either,

703
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 3: lots more punctual than you.

704
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 7: Barely, barely, Like do you think more punctual? It's like, oh,

705
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 7: I'm there two minutes earlier.

706
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 2: Than you, but I'm the earlier than you here. Okay, okay, okay,

707
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: go ahead with the second dress.

708
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 3: Okay, So who is most likely to be kissing in

709
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 3: the club.

710
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 5: I think I'm going to say me actually.

711
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 3: Late for the club, maybe before, but I'm a head

712
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 3: over and direct here in the You love really.

713
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 4: But out of austri Yeah, yeah, depends like what are

714
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 4: we talking? Are we talking like relationship because that's betrip

715
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 4: it relationship? Were like maybe I'm feeling like yeah, man,

716
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 4: what the hell? You'll have a little dream everybody turns up.

717
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 3: The music is good. He might.

718
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 5: You know, snogging and tongue no no, no, but like

719
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 5: a little like sultry.

720
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 4: This podcast you never seen because I haven't exactly number one,

721
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 4: but number two. I'm like, I'm like kissing the club,

722
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 4: but nobody will see me. Tell people after that, that's

723
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 4: what happened.

724
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 5: You know.

725
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 3: I'm a low key baby sign aries.

726
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, of course Scorpio Ah, I love Okay,

727
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 2: that's fair, that's fair.

728
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 3: Okay. Who is most likely to cheat? I don't know.

729
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 3: Strong Yeah okay, I like that.

730
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 4: No che.

731
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: See if this was like goa be like me, I

732
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: was cheat Now I can cheat on everything, my man,

733
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 2: a test, whatever it is.

734
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 3: I just cheat for fun, for the sport. Now the game.

735
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 3: I love the game. She love the game. I love

736
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 3: I love it. I'm an Olympian baby right now in

737
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 3: my thirties. Yeah, no, not at all. I've changed. Yes,

738
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 3: what you got, Drea? Who is more likely to ask

739
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 3: a man for money? Oh? Temmy, Oh she knows. I

740
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 3: like her.

741
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: I love.

742
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 3: My girl. So how do y'all ask out here? Because

743
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 3: I say, you tell him? Because we don't. We don't know.

744
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 6: I don't particularly ask. I've never like asked a guy

745
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 6: for money. I've never been like, give you money.

746
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: Okay, damn, she said, hold on, hold were really gang?

747
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 6: I just be like I'm going like I'm going to

748
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 6: get my head on. Okay, I like that I'm going

749
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 6: to get my nels done indirectly. Yeah, not that they

750
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 6: feel too much pressure, but it's kind of like, yeah,

751
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 6: so you know, like I'm getting my toes.

752
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 4: Done, okay, but would you say an expectation you're talking

753
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 4: to a guy like typically guys pay for my hand nails. No, no, no,

754
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 4: it has like it gets to a stage where we're like,

755
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 4: is a relationship or like even before just before, just before.

756
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 5: Getting my nels done on the first day.

757
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 3: But it's so different. But I will say is a

758
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 3: little different.

759
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, the same way as like I'm more of an

760
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 6: indirect person, but I'm about positioning.

761
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I'm a throw the clothes out there. Yeah,

762
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 7: I'm just like, like, let me say about this one

763
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,479
Speaker 7: little date I have. So I have just started dating

764
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 7: this guy and Lex had wasted wine. She had just

765
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 7: moved to Atlanta and she wasted wine.

766
00:36:58,920 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 3: On my mech book.

767
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 7: I was and we could not turn it on, like

768
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 7: it was not working. We were trying to start pouring minds.

769
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 7: We needed that laptop. Yeah, So I went on date

770
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 7: with this guy and he was like, so, what you

771
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 7: want to do when you leave here? I said, I

772
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 7: about to go to the Apple store. Linx was not

773
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 7: about to go because I didn't have no money, but

774
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 7: I was like, I'm gonna go to the Apple store

775
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 7: and he was like, what you about to get? And

776
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 7: I said, I need to get another mac boog. I

777
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 7: was like, my friend had wasted wine on my Mac.

778
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 7: But he was like, I'll go get it for you'll

779
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 7: bring it to you.

780
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 4: Hey, now, let me tell I'm sorry you right there

781
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 4: because you came in and he.

782
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 3: Sorry, no, no, no, no, you came in. Hey, you

783
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 3: came in. I think that's very different, very different. You

784
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 3: have to you have to.

785
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 6: You're gonna get an iPhone, charge of the blockers, Okay,

786
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 6: let me, okay, want to.

787
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 3: Facts.

788
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 6: I'm a funk, which I don't even thought even give

789
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 6: me the two meet one.

790
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 3: I need the ten foot We love UK.

791
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 6: Member, there is a different There is difference even when

792
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 6: we go to Nigeria, like, oh yeah, it's different. It's different.

793
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 6: Even our friends talkless of the guys that are like interesting, Yeah, friends, the.

794
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: Culture in Nigeria is completely different.

795
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 4: Women do not women don't cute, women don't stand, women

796
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 4: don't pay.

797
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,879
Speaker 3: It is a soft life.

798
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

799
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 3: Yeah.

800
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 2: When I went to Legols, honestly, I went for I

801
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 2: went what was that twenty nineteen or twenty two?

802
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 3: Am I talk about life changing? Yeah, grand time, we're

803
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 3: yeah outside, I had a outside.

804
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: Yeah. And it's like I I've always kind of are

805
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 2: used to date Nigeria mean a lot, so I was

806
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 2: kind of used to that. But like seeing like all

807
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 2: the girls are getting treated like doesn't doesn't matter who

808
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: you are, what you look like, anything.

809
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 5: You don't even have to date.

810
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 6: You don't have to be dating your friends would be like, okay,

811
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 6: the billings here, Yeah, we're not even we don't even

812
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 6: know how much we spent nothing.

813
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 3: I've actually never and see I love it.

814
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 7: That's not like my type. Yeah, yeah, we're going in,

815
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 7: going into I'm coming with you.

816
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, we got one more. We got one more.

817
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 3: Who is most likely to give a man money? Oh

818
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 3: that's definitely oh.

819
00:39:53,440 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 4: Not big big, you know what before it depends, It depends, Okay,

820
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 4: I think it depends, but I don't know what the

821
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 4: difference is. I would say the difference is for you

822
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 4: relationship okay, yeah, okay, yeah, some people needed toe.

823
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 3: Just the way they were looking at amen. Okay, that's understanding.

824
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 3: When the Laura has worked though. You know that's commendable.

825
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 2: Good Samaritan, We like that. Okay, you want to bring

826
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 2: in the look, we didn't even got to the first

827
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 2: topic yet.

828
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 3: We have not got this. We should have been hanging

829
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 3: out the whole time. I don't want to go home

830
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 3: for you.

831
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 5: When you come back.

832
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 7: We're gonna come back in July. We're gonna be right big. Okay,

833
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 7: y'all for the first topic. I feel like people always

834
00:40:54,120 --> 00:41:01,479
Speaker 7: talk about red flags relationship, right, Nobody ever talked about

835
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 7: redflex and friendship. So what's some reflecs for y'all when

836
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 7: it comes to your friends, like you like m I

837
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 7: can't talk with you?

838
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 3: Okay, she had one. Y'all know everything. We are cued

839
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 3: up and mind you somebody. We ran into this guy

840
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 3: at the other day.

841
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 7: He was like, are y'all queueing? And I was like

842
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 7: what And he was like, are y'all queueing? I said,

843
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 7: are we in line?

844
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 3: Yes?

845
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: Line?

846
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 3: I'm so American.

847
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 4: I think for me, a red flag and friendships all

848
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 4: those friends are so unpredictable, like and then you just

849
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 4: never know when you're going out on the night out,

850
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 4: you just never know where they're gonna end up. Where

851
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 4: they're gonna be, if they're gonna be fighting with people,

852
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 4: if they're gonna be I just can't because I'm not problematic.

853
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 3: At least I would say I'm not problematic.

854
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 4: So for me, I'm just like, I just don't like

855
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 4: that thing where you're at a party and then you're

856
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 4: looking for your friend everywhere, the phone is awful dead,

857
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 4: and then you're just spending half of your night just

858
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 4: being like, where is this baby?

859
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 3: I hate that.

860
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 2: The one thing I can say about Drea, She's gonna

861
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: get lit in the club, but I can always find it.

862
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 3: I never have.

863
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I never have to search for my girl. Never

864
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 2: have to search for my girl. So that actually is

865
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: a good point. Who want to go next? Who want

866
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 2: to go next? Trying to think I'll go while you're thinking.

867
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: I do not like people who are tit for tet Like,

868
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 2: if I do something for you, I'm doing that the

869
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 2: goodness of my heart because you're my friend. I don't

870
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 2: like people that's okay, Well I did this this time,

871
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 2: that time, that time, and you only did this for me.

872
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 3: It's like I didn't know we was keeping tabs.

873
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: That is a big red flag for me because it's

874
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 2: kind of like you're doing stuff for me to throw

875
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 2: it in my face later whenever you're mad at me.

876
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 2: Because one thing I can say, it was like me

877
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 2: and this is Girnna been through hell and high water.

878
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 2: So but no matter what we went through, she never

879
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 2: threw it in my face. Of like the times that

880
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 2: she helped me and that I needed her, it was

881
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 2: never like that. If I did some ship, she was

882
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: just like, you're a bitch. But it wasn't like you're

883
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 2: a bitch that I loan money to think.

884
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 3: I'm a great friend.

885
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I will say, I like, yeah, yeah, these girls,

886
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 5: yeah beautiful. Yeah, they could not find me.

887
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 3: What do you mean can't find you? We were looking,

888
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 3: I said. We was still recording the podcast. We turned

889
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 3: up to the coding. Oh and they let you come back.

890
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 3: It's a real friend.

891
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 6: I was going I was going to break Okay, Okay,

892
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 6: it's a really heartbreak up two years ago.

893
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 5: Yeah it is two years.

894
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 3: Wow, glory, because how long have you been on your time?

895
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 3: For four years? Okay? Okay?

896
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I think for me, red flag and friendship probably.

897
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 6: I'm trying to think someone who's always someone who's entitled, okay,

898
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 6: always thinking that they like they need that they always

899
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 6: I don't know that they're like I've been through I've

900
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 6: been in some friendships where someone always feels like they need,

901
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 6: like they're they're old.

902
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 5: Something all the time. So I don't like entitlement period.

903
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:48,959
Speaker 3: Yeah.

904
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 2: So do you mean like like those friends like they

905
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 2: feel like they have to talk to you every day

906
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: and if they don't like something like that or no.

907
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 6: So, like I had a friend where he always felt

908
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 6: like he God told me, like I'm trying to hint.

909
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 6: I'm trying to hint to you who it is, like

910
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 6: he always taking take and take it, oh okay.

911
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:16,919
Speaker 3: Never really like yeah, reciprocated, oh.

912
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, and always feelings yeah, and thinking that they're you know,

913
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 6: I can't I can't deal with yeah.

914
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 5: Yeah.

915
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 2: And it's like when you draw that boundary, it's like

916
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 2: you're the most horrible person in the world.

917
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 5: Yeah exactly.

918
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

919
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:34,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, when people that's one thing, like I understand.

920
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 2: It's like when people draw boundaries, I'm not from like, hey,

921
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm cool, like just let me know if you need anything.

922
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 3: I'm here. I'm not like, oh my god, you can't

923
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 3: do this for me anymore.

924
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 2: Like I think that's real weird, but that's a good

925
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 2: one because a lot of people feel entitled to your time.

926
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, in space everything, How hard does it now? As well?

927
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 4: Like with the podcast, Like I just feel like it's

928
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 4: so much harder to be an amazing friend to like

929
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 4: all of your twenty friends or whatever. And I just

930
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 4: feel like the people who just yeah, like I don't

931
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 4: even have enough time for myself. Like I'm like literally

932
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 4: so like the.

933
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 5: People that always, oh my gosh, you never call me.

934
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 3: You never do.

935
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, you don't have a fun like you can

936
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 4: call me as well, Like I'm fighting for my live

937
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 4: hit chat.

938
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: And the crazy thing is, like you just said, they

939
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: don't be calling like but they be like, oh, you.

940
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 3: Too busy for me. I think it's like a weird thing.

941
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 7: As you start to become successful and your stars starts

942
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 7: to rise, people look at you and they're like, oh,

943
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 7: well you need to hit me up.

944
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 3: I don't need to hit you up. You see what

945
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 3: the fuck I got going on? I don't know what

946
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:43,320
Speaker 3: you got going business? Every day? See, I'm busy. You

947
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 3: see I'm recording, you see I'm in London. Yeah you

948
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 3: see what the fun?

949
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: Yeah that's but.

950
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 3: It's like they want you to like still have the

951
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 3: I don't want to say.

952
00:46:55,280 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 6: The same energy because they want that because yeah, because

953
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 6: of like the success of all of us, some people

954
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 6: feel like they still want to be attached to you.

955
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but don't forget me.

956
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 5: Don't forget me whilst I don't leave me behind.

957
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 7: It's like left, I want to say, or I haven't

958
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 7: forgot you. Yeah, I'm literally just busy. And if it's

959
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 7: one of people left, some people have got left.

960
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, But that's what I was agree because how people

961
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 6: have to get for you to shine, some people have

962
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 6: to go.

963
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually.

964
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 4: Haven't had that situation yet where people are like leaching

965
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 4: onto me for like anything, or like even or even

966
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 4: the fact that I haven't had to I haven't had

967
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 4: to like let anyone go. I feel like my real

968
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 4: friends like they understand. But then there's some people that

969
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 4: are just like I'm not gonna lie, Like, clearly you

970
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 4: an acquaintance because the fact that you're like pestering me

971
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 4: so much to always.

972
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 6: I'm not talking about like my ride or die friends

973
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,280
Speaker 6: or I have to so and so I'm talking about

974
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,439
Speaker 6: the extra ones, but like that still want to cling

975
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 6: on you, but like, oh you we used to have

976
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,240
Speaker 6: something on every single Thursday.

977
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 5: Now we don't have it. Yeah, because I'm in the studio.

978
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:12,760
Speaker 3: I'm busy.

979
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 6: And even from from when we were younger to now, yeah,

980
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 6: things change, Like I'm not doing the stuff I was

981
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 6: doing when I was eighteen. I'm now twenty seven. I

982
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 6: don't have the same time that I did before. Like

983
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 6: there's stuff going on, and like you said, we're on

984
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 6: the screen. You can see what we're doing. We're getting

985
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 6: one meal on Instagram.

986
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 3: You see what we're doing.

987
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 5: So it's like you don't have time.

988
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 3: What's up, y'all?

989
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 1: Girl Legs Pee and is Shagirls Ray and the Cow

990
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: and we are here to tell y'all.

991
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 3: Exactly what you get with being a Patreon member. Yeah.

992
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,680
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993
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,520
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995
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996
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997
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 3: on Wednesday.

998
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 2: They drop on Friday, but you get all the new

999
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: episodes two days early.

1000
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,200
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1001
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 2: But I like my contents early, go give it to

1002
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 2: me on Wednesday. All of y'all get the poor Chronicles now.

1003
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,280
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1004
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1005
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1006
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1007
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Speaker 2: got merch dropping. The Bottle Poppers get that extremely early.

1008
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1009
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,160
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1010
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1011
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1012
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 3: I want to take us with cool Spot.

1013
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 4: I have a question, how have you guys like navigated

1014
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 4: because I know it's my friendships, but how have you

1015
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 4: guys navigated like dating being as busy as you are, Like,

1016
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 4: how do you make time for that swifting?

1017
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,839
Speaker 3: I'm in time for my man. Okay, birl, she don't

1018
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 3: make nothing but time? Did you meet him before you

1019
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 3: saw it?

1020
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 2: The I did?

1021
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 4: You know?

1022
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 2: It's crazy because I always kind of liked like the

1023
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 2: nine to five guy that had a job because I

1024
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 2: felt like it brought me balance.

1025
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 3: But as my schedule got busier.

1026
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,320
Speaker 2: I figured that it wasn't it wasn't really working just

1027
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 2: because it was like my free time. Sometimes we go

1028
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 2: on a weird day in the middle of the day,

1029
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 2: like he's at work or this an x y Z.

1030
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 2: So now I'm dating someone he's kind of in the

1031
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 2: same space, like he creates content and like he works

1032
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 2: for himself.

1033
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 3: So it works for us.

1034
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 2: And I think also with the content I make, like

1035
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 2: I talk about everything, I'm talking about sucking toes like

1036
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 2: a big second. Yeah, But one thing about it is

1037
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 2: like he gets it because he knows it's funny, like

1038
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 2: I'm packing a joke.

1039
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:45,720
Speaker 3: He doesn't take it personal.

1040
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 2: So I think for me now in this space, it's

1041
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 2: easier to date somebody who does the same thing. But honestly,

1042
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 2: like we never like argue about us being busy because

1043
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 2: he's very busy as well. So I think, honestly, this

1044
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 2: is about like the easiest relationship I've been in just because.

1045
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 3: We do the same thing. Yeah, potentially, yeah, he understands.

1046
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 2: I used to avoid it because I was like, I

1047
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: don't want it to look like, oh, she's just dating

1048
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 2: him because they're in the same world. Because the kids

1049
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 2: kind of corny, I hate couples who create contents.

1050
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 3: I hate a couple's content in the morning with the

1051
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 3: camera over there, yes, like they like and then they's

1052
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:31,320
Speaker 3: all over like kiss each other. You set that camera

1053
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 3: up on this lady.

1054
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 2: She was like, my baby can't sleep, bitch, because you

1055
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 2: got the ring light on it. Let that baby rest

1056
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 2: you the time of ring, like the baby can't see.

1057
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 3: Blind with Jesus. I hate that type of content.

1058
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 2: So I always gott to avoid those type of guys

1059
00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,959
Speaker 2: because I always kind of felt like guys who.

1060
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 3: Created content, I hope.

1061
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: I don't know anybody, but I always thought that they

1062
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:05,479
Speaker 2: would like ask me or like, let's start doing content together.

1063
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 3: Let's start doing that. So I always kind of avoided it.

1064
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: But like meeting him is like, Okay, you do your

1065
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,959
Speaker 2: thing and I do mine, you know, so it works.

1066
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 2: It's real, real cool.

1067
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 5: Have you ever dated someone that had the problem is

1068
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,280
Speaker 5: like you did the podcast.

1069
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 3: Not to have Okay, I'll let you take this. I

1070
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 3: don't fuck with that, nigga.

1071
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 7: If it's gotta come between me and what I want

1072
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 7: for my life and what I'm choosing to do and

1073
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 7: dating you, nigga, goodbye. Because the thing about men that

1074
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 7: I hate about women is that we are always going

1075
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 7: to like choose love.

1076
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 3: Over our careers. Men they gonna be like, if.

1077
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 7: You think if that same nigga that is telling them

1078
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 7: he don't want you to do X, Y and Z,

1079
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 7: do you think he's gonna stop doing what he's doing

1080
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 7: because you're like, oh.

1081
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 3: I don't like that, I'm not gonna date you anymore.

1082
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 3: He's gonna be like, all right, girl, goodbye.

1083
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 7: Like men are always gonna put themselves first, and that's

1084
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:06,239
Speaker 7: that's one thing they ate. They ate that they put

1085
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 7: themselves first relationships. So how was dating for y'all now

1086
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 7: in this space that y'all are because I know you

1087
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 7: said being open was kind of like a bad thing,

1088
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 7: So how was dating for y'all now that y'all have

1089
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:19,280
Speaker 7: the podcast?

1090
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 4: I don't think I just I'm not just, but like

1091
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 4: I was in a relationship okay, and then that recently

1092
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 4: now becomes single.

1093
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 3: So like I'm still trying to navigate it. But I

1094
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 3: feel like you hit the ground. I've been at a

1095
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 3: single bus stop. I still ain't caught the bus. I

1096
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:41,880
Speaker 3: do think though, obviously you know they get this, like

1097
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 3: you're gonna mention me on the pod.

1098
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 5: I get.

1099
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 3: I don't like that.

1100
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 6: When I was like, oh, you're going to use this

1101
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:57,800
Speaker 6: for content, I'm nothing makes means nothing. There's nothing in

1102
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 6: this situation content. Even the outtakes the blue were not

1103
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 6: even including.

1104
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't even get a Patreon episode You're safe friends.

1105
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 7: But that's a cheat code though, dating somebody that's in

1106
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 7: the same space, because my last relationship it was the

1107
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 7: same thing, like we are in the same space.

1108
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:28,320
Speaker 3: He kind of works more behind the scenes. Yeah, I

1109
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 3: like that. I love me a low key. I don't

1110
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 3: want nobody who want to be all in front of

1111
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 3: the camera. Not my man, I call it.

1112
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 5: I like the guy.

1113
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 3: Like that.

1114
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 2: But it's the first time I've dated a guy that's

1115
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 2: really like it's fun because he's goofy.

1116
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,919
Speaker 3: Yeah I'm goofy. So yeah, we'll be having a ball.

1117
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 5: We having a ball. Yeah, And you don't have to

1118
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:55,320
Speaker 5: explain anything.

1119
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: And that's the main thing for me because one thing

1120
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 2: about it, like when I was dating when I was single,

1121
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 2: if you bring up anything I've ever said on the podcast,

1122
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,760
Speaker 2: my god in a angry way.

1123
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 3: Oh you're cut off.

1124
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's happened to me before.

1125
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, because he was waiting, you was you was

1126
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 7: holding pain, that pain was manifested, yeah, waiting to say yeah,

1127
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 7: I was gonna say as well.

1128
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 4: Like I think we were talking about dating, like now

1129
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 4: that we're online and stuff, and obviously we talk about

1130
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 4: our preferences, what we like, yeah, we don't like, And

1131
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 4: I feel like it gives men like a slight advantage

1132
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 4: because they come to me knowing about.

1133
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 3: Me, and I'm like, I fucking hate that. I'm like,

1134
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 3: so you like your to my man watched episode two

1135
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 3: thirty seven, Yeah you're not yea.

1136
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:47,800
Speaker 7: My man told me that though he said he was like, honestly,

1137
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:49,720
Speaker 7: he was like, if I ever wanted to know anything,

1138
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 7: like he was like, if I wasn't with you, obviously,

1139
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 7: like if I wanted to know anything about you and Lens,

1140
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 7: I would just go watch like episodes of from like

1141
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 7: two years ago because.

1142
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 3: It would tell me everything that I need to know.

1143
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 3: Do you think there's certain things that you like don't

1144
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 3: like to show on the puch? Really? You just like

1145
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:14,240
Speaker 3: girl when I said I hate say imagine the city,

1146
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 3: But now we have we share a lot of stories.

1147
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 2: We're very open with our listeners, but I will say

1148
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 2: I think behind closed doors, you will still never know

1149
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 2: the real us for real. Yeah, I think the conversations

1150
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 2: that me and Drea have on a daily basis, like

1151
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 2: me and this girl really be on the phone like

1152
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 2: them there every day for like.

1153
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,520
Speaker 3: Five hours, sometimes six hours. So I think it's like

1154
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 3: it's a life all the time. I'm for real, it

1155
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 3: really be like that.

1156
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 2: But I say because I feel like at the end

1157
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 2: of the day, we're y'all are only getting us for

1158
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 2: one hour per week, and we know what.

1159
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,720
Speaker 3: Entertains y'all this side.

1160
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 2: We're very complex women, as I'm sure y'all are too,

1161
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 2: So I know there's different sizes of y'all that the

1162
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,240
Speaker 2: public really doesn't see because it's not interesting. Y'all wouldn't

1163
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 2: find the shit interesting that I really every day Like

1164
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 2: that shit is not interesting, the same shit every day.

1165
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 2: So I think for us like there is like if

1166
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 2: we had a camera follow us around all day, they'd

1167
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 2: be like.

1168
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:15,919
Speaker 3: Oh shit, turn this shit out. I'm putting everybody to sleep.

1169
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 7: Because I go back a little bit to like the

1170
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,479
Speaker 7: friendship thing because I just thought of a pet peep

1171
00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 7: that I really have with people I cannot be friends

1172
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 7: with no mean big I hate mean people because this

1173
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 7: is my thing. I don't care cause some people to

1174
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 7: be like, well, I don't care if they don't treat

1175
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 7: me like that, as long.

1176
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 3: As like it's other people.

1177
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like it's a good indication of like,

1178
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,840
Speaker 7: however you treat other people, at some point, you will

1179
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 7: treat me like that too.

1180
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 3: I just don't like mean ass people, like some women

1181
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 3: and some men.

1182
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 7: Are just rude and nasty, Like I pay attention to

1183
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 7: people that are mean the servers.

1184
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because that's another thing too.

1185
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 7: I feel like sometimes people look down on people that

1186
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 7: work like the service industry, and like you're beneath me.

1187
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 7: I don't know if you if you treat service bed

1188
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 7: or you don't want to tip me, because that's the

1189
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 7: big thing in American culture.

1190
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 3: You'll be saying.

1191
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 4: That's so true though, and also because I just feel

1192
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 4: like I wouldn't want to be associated with someone that's mean,

1193
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 4: because I just feel like other people think I'm like

1194
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 4: you and.

1195
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 3: That is not me.

1196
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 5: So like.

1197
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm sometimes misunderstood. Okay, so you're a

1198
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 3: little street, I'm not. I'm not, but I think okay,

1199
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 3: so you mentioned that you're quite like.

1200
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 4: A strict person, right, I think for me, my delivery

1201
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 4: sometimes to some people.

1202
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 3: Can come across as strict. So like with my friends,

1203
00:58:59,000 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 3: I'm very direct.

1204
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 4: Like example, my girls know, like one of the core rules,

1205
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 4: like the principles that I stand back, I cannot find

1206
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:11,959
Speaker 4: out that you've got a problem with me from someone else.

1207
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 3: But that's real, that's real.

1208
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 4: But the thing is, though, like that, some people don't

1209
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 4: like that because, for example, I understand you might have

1210
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 4: a problem with me.

1211
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 5: You might want to discuss it with your friends, say, oh,

1212
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 5: how should I approach it?

1213
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 2: Right?

1214
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 3: Right? But I cannot stand it.

1215
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 4: So when I see that, not that I flip, but

1216
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 4: I'm very much direct, I'm like, I can't like, I

1217
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 4: don't like when you do X y Z. So maybe

1218
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 4: I need to work on my delivery. But I know

1219
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 4: that's one thing. Just think about the mean girl. Some

1220
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 4: people take it the wrong way to me that you.

1221
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 3: Know what I mean? That's really like staying out business.

1222
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 6: Something I just mean for like reason basic how someone

1223
00:59:54,640 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 6: looks or how someone like you just mean like I hate, yeah,

1224
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 6: you know what you mean for no reason, like you.

1225
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 5: You don't even know that person. Where is it coming from?

1226
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 3: Why you feel mean?

1227
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 2: Like?

1228
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 4: No?

1229
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 3: Draft.

1230
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 2: The other day she was like she says something. She

1231
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 2: was like something about me being a little mean or

1232
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 2: grumpy or something. But she says, because you're getting older.

1233
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 3: In that old age. Yeah, irritable. I'm irritated. I'm thirty four. Okay,

1234
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 3: I'm irritated, bitch. I'm tired, my heart.

1235
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 2: I need to lay down. And she knows this about me.

1236
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 2: One thing I love about dres you know when I'm tired. Yeah,

1237
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 2: she don't bother me. She just let that auntie go

1238
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:38,439
Speaker 2: to bed.

1239
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 3: Let me go to bed. Because one thing I hate

1240
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 3: another red flag to me.

1241
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 2: If I tell you I don't want to go somewhere,

1242
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 2: please don't ask me thirty times?

1243
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on please, friend, friend, bitch, we's in a

1244
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 3: fight home, I'm going to bed. One thing about me,

1245
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 3: I go by myself.

1246
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 2: And that's the good thing about Jo. She'd be like, hey, friend,

1247
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 2: you're gonna come with me, And I was like, oh, no, friend,

1248
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna go. She's like, okay, bye.

1249
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 3: But it's like it's just that peer that peer pressure. Yeah.

1250
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 3: If I say I don't want to take a shot,

1251
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 3: don't ask me take no shot.

1252
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 5: Respect.

1253
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 7: I said what I said and changing it because I

1254
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:22,959
Speaker 7: know what the fuck I said if I said no, bitch,

1255
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 7: no mean no.

1256
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: But I think we're so good friends. Like sometimes I'll

1257
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 2: be like, no, I want to shot you be like

1258
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 2: you sure, and I'm like, all right, that's.

1259
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 5: Different, are you sure?

1260
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I'm not, but I don't think that's mean

1261
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:40,959
Speaker 3: what you said.

1262
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 7: I would not want to find out that somebody that

1263
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 7: I'm friends with being talking to hell of other people like,

1264
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 7: oh I don't really funk with her like that, Oh

1265
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 7: she be doing this, so she'd be doing that, and

1266
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 7: like I don't like that, and then I hear from

1267
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 7: somebody else, but you can't come tell me.

1268
01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, But the things that some people don't like confrontation.

1269
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 4: So for me, i'm very much as immediate.

1270
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 5: I have an issue.

1271
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 4: You're gonna know that day, I don't know. Yeah, literally,

1272
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 4: So I think that's the issue. Though some people are

1273
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 4: very much and maybe I have to get used to it.

1274
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 4: But you know, friendship, that's one of the things that

1275
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 4: it's a bit difficult, is but how you.

1276
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not confrontational. She not neither. I'm go asleep.

1277
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 4: But I've learned a lot from you on how to

1278
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 4: because the thing is like I'm not confrontational, but there

1279
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 4: was a point in my life where things were really

1280
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 4: bothering me, but I was just allowing people to walk

1281
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 4: all over me and I just didn't I didn't like

1282
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 4: what they were doing, but I didn't know how to

1283
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 4: confront them. So she I've learned a lot from you

1284
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 4: on how to, like, you know, address those situations. So like, yeah,

1285
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 4: I feel like I've reached a semi balance. Yeah, because

1286
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:48,439
Speaker 4: confrontation is unavoidable. You're gonna have to at some point.

1287
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 7: You came with people play with you, though, like you

1288
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 7: have to stand I guess I just always kind of

1289
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 7: being like that, like you have to stand up for

1290
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 7: yourself because at the end of the day, I understand

1291
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 7: probably how frontation can make you uncomfortable, And the same

1292
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 7: thing with her.

1293
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 3: I tell her that all the time.

1294
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:07,960
Speaker 7: But if you don't say something though, like how many

1295
01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 7: times are you gonna keep letting somebody play?

1296
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, and then they feel like they could keep

1297
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 3: doing it. That's about of people. Once they think they

1298
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 3: got away with something, and.

1299
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 6: It's like they'll keep on doing it, but they'll be

1300
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 6: doing it more and more every time. It won't be

1301
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 6: the same thing.

1302
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:28,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just time. Three cookies.

1303
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:37,160
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Speaker 7: Whether unique cosmetics, accessories, clothing, or chek packaging.

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Speaker 3: I've got you covered. So what are you waiting for it?

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Speaker 7: Go to www dot mus Beauty collection dot com and

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Speaker 7: get your ebook your vendors list, or you can bottle

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Speaker 7: them both together.

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Speaker 3: There all right, by, y'all, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Y'all at your girl XP and it's your girls ray

1325
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Speaker 1: and to call And y'all do not forget to call.

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Speaker 2: Our shot line. I know you heard of a hotline,

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01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 2: but this is the poor Minds shot line.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all. Y'all need to

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01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:46,240
Speaker 7: call in y'all, and this is not necessarily for questions.

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01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 7: You know, we just want to hear from y'all if

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01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 7: we want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts on the show,

1332
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 7: or just what's going on in your life. So you

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Speaker 7: can always call six seven eight eight two seven one

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Speaker 7: eight two c Yes.

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Speaker 3: And y'all know, keep it short and cute.

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01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 2: Don't be calling letting us know about your baby daddy,

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01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 2: says a brother, cousin, boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well I want to hear about that. Actually, well you.

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01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 2: Know they can let a little some but you know,

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01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 2: we want to keep it cute and short. Like she said,

1341
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 2: this is not questions, This is not pour your heart out.

1342
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 2: So just call give us a little feedback, what you

1343
01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 2: want to see on the show, any suggestions, what you

1344
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 2: think about the show, if you just want to simply

1345
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 2: give us our flowers, you know, or any It.

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01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 3: Could be anything.

1347
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 2: What's bothering you this week, what got on your nerves

1348
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:23,920
Speaker 2: this week? If you just want to vent and get

1349
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 2: some things off your chest. Pull the shot line again.

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01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 2: The number is six seven eight eight two seven one

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01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 2: eight two six. Okay, So we're gonna move on. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the bed.

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Speaker 3: Hey wowow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we whirls. So the bad topic is more

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01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 2: of like a sex topic. But we're gonna play another

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01:05:57,240 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 2: game with y'all.

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01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 3: Okay, we have a good guys. I guess shy on camera.

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01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 3: Now it's not too bad. Well, look skip this part

1359
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 3: long now. So we have a game called this or that.

1360
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Speaker 2: Okay, So you don't have to give a you don't

1361
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 2: have to go into depth of what why if you

1362
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 2: do if you feel the need to explain yourself, you can't, okay,

1363
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 2: but just give us an answer.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So we're gonna start with this or that, the

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Speaker 3: booty or the cootie? What kind of sex do you like?

1366
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 3: The booty or the cootie? Which can you prefer? I'm like,

1367
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 3: okay on the night okay, okay, the second one for

1368
01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 3: play or straight to it? Oh, y'all like to make load.

1369
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 4: But the thing is, it's like, how can you get

1370
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 4: that if you if you haven't had full play, that's like.

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01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 3: Let's get You know, you gotta roll over and just

1372
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 3: throw that. You just let him slider. You hadn't even

1373
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 3: birched TV.

1374
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Speaker 1: I know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You you don't.

1376
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:41,520
Speaker 7: You gotta turn it over, Yo, don't kiss me. Don't

1377
01:07:41,600 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 7: got another way giving or receiving.

1378
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 3: Receiving for me receiving. Okay, she like both both?

1379
01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:01,760
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you like both the power the power

1380
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 2: of giving. It's just different, Okay, vanilla sex or wild sex.

1381
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:13,480
Speaker 3: The vanilla sex it's like very plain. Well I won't say.

1382
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,800
Speaker 2: Boring, it's just not all the bells and whistles. Well,

1383
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even say routine. I just feel like vanilla

1384
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 2: sex to me is just like it's not all the

1385
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 2: bells and whistles, Like it's not too freaky. We're not

1386
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 2: doing that, you know, we just we're having normal sex.

1387
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 2: It's like if somebody saw it on the camera, they're like,

1388
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Speaker 2: oh my god.

1389
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Speaker 3: I think it depends on the person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I feel like relationship relationship sex, I'm just

1391
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 4: outside of relationship sex, it's different.

1392
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Speaker 3: Okay, So which one do you have?

1393
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 2: Wild sexy in the relationship the circle back to circle back?

1394
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 3: Oh? Okay, because you're like, miss let me show you what.

1395
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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, so Vanilla's a while six the second one. Wow, wow,

1397
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 3: see that's the sweet one.

1398
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 2: It's always a quad. I'm Vanilla.

1399
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 3: I'm a Vanilla.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:20,800
Speaker 7: No, I like to get a little freaky, we know. Okay,

1402
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:23,799
Speaker 7: toys are poorn with your partner?

1403
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 3: Would you rather use toys? Yeah, with your partner? Toys? Yeah,

1404
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:31,400
Speaker 3: I agree. I'm the same. I'm the same one that one.

1405
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 3: Because I don't want to like look over you, like, yeah,

1406
01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:35,759
Speaker 3: it's good.

1407
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 2: Like this.

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01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,640
Speaker 7: I don't really want to watch other people fucking with

1409
01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 7: my man. Yeah, yeah, I'm not really into that. But

1410
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 7: like I kind of want to circle back to the

1411
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 7: second topic that we ain't touch on because I want

1412
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 7: to know what they think.

1413
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 3: Okay, So Little Dirk got this song, right, y'all know

1414
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 3: who Little Dark is. He got a song.

1415
01:09:55,520 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 7: What he said, bitch, get out the street, you're touching thirty. Yeah,

1416
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 7: but he ain't right here. In my opinion, he ain't lying.

1417
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 7: So I wonder do y'all feel like it's a cutoff

1418
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 7: time for being outside, Like once you get to a

1419
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 7: certain age, you need to be like lockdown.

1420
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 5: You need to be with me and oh, lookdown with

1421
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 5: the man.

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01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, like you need to be lockdown because he was

1423
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 7: saying beach out the street and thirty like, why are

1424
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 7: you still outside?

1425
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 3: Critical day?

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01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 4: Because it's like for men, they can be in the

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Speaker 4: streets forever, like they don't have a cut off point.

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Speaker 6: I don't necessarily point yeah, because some four year olds

1429
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 6: are bad. They're looking good. Yeah, she's like well into

1430
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 6: well into Yeah. Yeah, I don't think there's a cutoff point.

1431
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Speaker 4: I think the streets look different at that age though

1432
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:54,879
Speaker 4: they're not the streets like our streets.

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Speaker 5: You know, it's a different kind of street, like like

1434
01:10:58,320 --> 01:10:59,480
Speaker 5: an avenue.

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Speaker 3: Avenue.

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Speaker 7: I like that as long as it ain't a boulevard.

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Speaker 3: Thele. What's up, y'all?

1438
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 1: As your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the call.

1439
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 3: Y'all know.

1440
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 2: We have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of

1441
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 2: the Week. But do you have a product or something

1442
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:23,519
Speaker 2: that you want to promote and you want it featured

1443
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:26,719
Speaker 2: on Poor Minds. Your opportunity is here period.

1444
01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 7: If you have an item or you have a business

1445
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 7: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

1446
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 7: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1447
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,599
Speaker 7: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1448
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 7: of the Week. All you need to do is send

1449
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 7: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

1450
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:45,600
Speaker 7: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

1451
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 7: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

1452
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:52,960
Speaker 7: Send us an email and we'll work it out.

1453
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 1: We gonna figure it out. Get your product, get your

1454
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,639
Speaker 1: business sponsored, and yeah.

1455
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Speaker 3: Make you some money. We love what a small business now.

1456
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Speaker 1: In a black business said that, but.

1457
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Speaker 3: I mean anybody, We don't discriminated.

1458
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 1: Any business is welcome.

1459
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Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna get into the Item of the

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Speaker 2: Week really really quick. We want to shout out Yagy

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Speaker 2: World y'all where.

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Speaker 3: Y y Yes.

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Speaker 6: Airport because yes, because that's there's a the gray one

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Speaker 6: that everyone everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, so yeah, shout out to Yaggy World for

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Speaker 2: sponsoring all the outfits that we had all in London

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Speaker 2: the whole time period.

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Speaker 3: Pulled from Yaggy World. Yeah, so nice, thank you.

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Speaker 5: When this one before drops, I've seen this one, this

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Speaker 5: one I've never seen.

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Speaker 3: It's actually a three piece. It comes with like a

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Speaker 3: little jacket so.

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Speaker 5: Here.

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Speaker 3: So the heights.

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Speaker 4: Two I have five three, So that gives me because

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Speaker 4: like sometimes with the legs like you don't know if.

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Speaker 3: It is a little longer. But what I like is

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01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 3: that it has the zipper. You can eat a zip

1479
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Speaker 3: it or you can unzippy.

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Speaker 2: I see, I'm tall and I love a platform here

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Speaker 2: and even with tall like it fits me.

1482
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Speaker 3: So it's not like hot waters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And also when you're in London, make sure you check

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Speaker 2: out the Liquor Club. You can find independent brands like Chromati, Losts, Solas,

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Speaker 2: Casamigos nineteen forty two last okay, okay, so y'all make

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Speaker 2: sure y'all pull up on them period.

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Speaker 3: And also.

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Speaker 7: And also don't forget to check out mus Beauty collection

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Speaker 7: dot com. That's my lip gloss line. So I have

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Speaker 7: lip glosses, lip liners and Matt Liquid lipsticks.

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Speaker 3: Make sure you get you know, whatever you need makeup girl.

1493
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Speaker 3: Yeah that y'all have to send me y'all mailing the duri.

1494
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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, So do y'all give good advice?

1495
01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:39,880
Speaker 3: Of course, y'all feel like y'all give you.

1496
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:43,920
Speaker 2: That's a big thing on y'all shows, like yeah, so

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01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 2: we have a segment called pour.

1498
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:47,760
Speaker 3: Your Heart Out. I love that.

1499
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:56,080
Speaker 2: Girls don't know what just take that means? So, like

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Speaker 2: I said, because I'll be looking at y'all like, damn,

1501
01:14:57,880 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 2: we gotta give.

1502
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 3: Our ships, you guys what you guys have got on?

1503
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1504
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:08,560
Speaker 2: So this is called pour your heart out with the

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01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 2: girls right into us. But we don't be giving good

1506
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 2: advice time. So we glad y'all here to help us.

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01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:18,360
Speaker 3: People will help us out today. Okay, so you want

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01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 3: to read question number one? You want me to read it? Girl?

1509
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:21,759
Speaker 3: I ready?

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01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 4: Yeah? Please?

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01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 3: These questions is so like, I don't know what the

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01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:31,679
Speaker 3: fuck going on? They're a long, right business day? Yeah,

1513
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 3: on Christmas Day? You ain't got a.

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01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:37,519
Speaker 2: Roll?

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01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. Sometimes these questions me so long, I'd be like, lord,

1516
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 3: but we got time for one, So we just gonna

1517
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,639
Speaker 3: do one. We're gonna one.

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01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: Okay, did you question number one? Question number one is better? Hey, y'all,

1519
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: here we go.

1520
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 7: I have a friend that I've known for over twenty

1521
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 7: years and she's getting married. While I'm super excited and

1522
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 7: want to celebrate with her, she didn't offer me a

1523
01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 7: plus one and the wedding may.

1524
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Speaker 3: Be very uncomfortable for me.

1525
01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 7: I introduced her and her fiance to each other five

1526
01:16:10,640 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 7: years ago and they have been together ever since.

1527
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 3: Now the awkward part comes with the groom's family.

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01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:20,759
Speaker 7: I used to date his cousin and we were together

1529
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 7: for four years and we did not have a good breakup.

1530
01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 7: I had found out that my ex was cheating on

1531
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Speaker 7: me for over a year, and I told him that

1532
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Speaker 7: I had a one night stand while we were together.

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Speaker 3: Each other, She said.

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01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:43,439
Speaker 7: We tried to do an open relationship, and one day

1535
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 7: after we got into an argument, he popped up at

1536
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 7: my apartment door and saw me walking out with the

1537
01:16:49,000 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 7: day okay, period, He followed us to our destination.

1538
01:16:55,280 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 3: Walk what the living in his car just driving along behind,

1539
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 3: she said.

1540
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:15,320
Speaker 7: He followed us to our destination, got out of his car,

1541
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:20,320
Speaker 7: what knocks on the window? Hold on it gets better,

1542
01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:25,479
Speaker 7: told me to get out the car, started taking pictures

1543
01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 7: of us and sitting into his friends.

1544
01:17:28,240 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 3: Then he called my dad.

1545
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 6: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, now you've been through it man,

1546
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 6: What day that we started off with?

1547
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:46,639
Speaker 5: Oh, someone's getting married and now.

1548
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 3: Looking on the window, sitting daddy, she said, sitting into

1549
01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:54,400
Speaker 3: his friends.

1550
01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 7: Then he called my dad and basically told my dad

1551
01:17:57,120 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 7: I was a jesubel Jesus. I have not spoken to

1552
01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:04,800
Speaker 7: him or his family since then. I blocked him on

1553
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:07,880
Speaker 7: everything and his family went ahead and unfollowed me. I

1554
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:10,759
Speaker 7: have no idea how he spun this story to his family,

1555
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:13,560
Speaker 7: but I do know he was very creative in the

1556
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 7: message that he left my father, so I know he

1557
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:19,759
Speaker 7: didn't paint the best picture of me during the breakup.

1558
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 7: I just want to know if I should go to

1559
01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:25,439
Speaker 7: the wedding by myself to support my friend, ask her

1560
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:28,320
Speaker 7: for a plus one, or not go at all. Oh

1561
01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:30,439
Speaker 7: and I forgot to mention, as far as I know,

1562
01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:32,720
Speaker 7: my ex is dating the girl he cheated on me.

1563
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:35,600
Speaker 7: Why so she may be in the tennis at the

1564
01:18:35,640 --> 01:18:36,519
Speaker 7: wind yay.

1565
01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 3: Friend. Yeah, it's gonna give you a plus one. I agree.

1566
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:46,759
Speaker 3: He ain't even gotta eat the salmon.

1567
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,760
Speaker 4: You don't need no plate, No need him here, Yes,

1568
01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:58,599
Speaker 4: need somebody, Yes, I ain't no way, Yes, by myself.

1569
01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:02,599
Speaker 5: I'm just I can't go to a wedding my ex

1570
01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:05,920
Speaker 5: is there with the person that he cheated on me.

1571
01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:08,880
Speaker 3: Sorry, go forgive me.

1572
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:10,880
Speaker 4: If I could go to a website and find w

1573
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 4: w W do find the sexy six four black man

1574
01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 4: dot com, that's the same. That's where I'm gonna Ken Moore?

1575
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:24,439
Speaker 3: Yes at home? Like, now, why am I sorry? Girl?

1576
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:26,840
Speaker 3: You know I love you, but that goal was open.

1577
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 3: She's gonna let you have a because that was absolutely

1578
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:37,759
Speaker 3: absolutely same.

1579
01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:41,640
Speaker 5: The fact that her ex even followed her with no,

1580
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 5: that's crazy.

1581
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 3: I'm so pale. I'll be like, this puts the good.

1582
01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 3: I would take a picture of him back. I would

1583
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 3: bring my homegirls. Yeah, like I'm not here. Yeah, I'm

1584
01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 3: not bringing our niggs. I'm bring my friends so we

1585
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:01,920
Speaker 3: could laugh at y'all. Yeah, we have a ball, get drunk.

1586
01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 2: Like I'm thinking, she's your friend, you should definitely have

1587
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 2: a plus But I don't think you should just not

1588
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:08,280
Speaker 2: gout at the end of the day, even if she

1589
01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 2: can't allow plus one.

1590
01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 3: I don't know what kind of wedding she having, but

1591
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:14,040
Speaker 3: weddings are expensive. Yeah, so maybe if they're on a

1592
01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:14,839
Speaker 3: strict budget.

1593
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:16,960
Speaker 2: I think you should just go there ignore all that

1594
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:19,320
Speaker 2: because you're there for a reason, which is your friend

1595
01:20:19,360 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 2: getting married.

1596
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, so just focus on that, Like, don't be trying

1597
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,639
Speaker 3: to be there, like being like going, hey, how you doing,

1598
01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:26,560
Speaker 3: how you been? You don't need to do all that.

1599
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 3: He needs to be over here and you need to

1600
01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:30,679
Speaker 3: be over there. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

1601
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:33,599
Speaker 6: And the thing is with plus ones and weddings, especially

1602
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:36,599
Speaker 6: if you don't know anyone else at the wedding other

1603
01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 6: than maybe the bride and the grim. I think that

1604
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 6: you think you should be accommodating to that and then

1605
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 6: have a plus one by yourself looking around like, yeah,

1606
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 6: I'm not having any fun the bride of the room.

1607
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 3: You know, some people's budget don't extend to that, and yeah,

1608
01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:55,240
Speaker 3: my budget don't plus one. No, I have your plus one,

1609
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 3: Ben walk down. I would need to be comfortable, you

1610
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,840
Speaker 3: need to be good. Come on, we having a bar

1611
01:21:04,240 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 3: with that's crazy? Well, we couldn't have a ball, okay,

1612
01:21:11,520 --> 01:21:14,000
Speaker 3: so we have to wrapped this up. Unfortunately, because I'm

1613
01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:20,719
Speaker 3: having a ball now. I love to have a moment, okay.

1614
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:22,920
Speaker 2: And when I just I just want to say because

1615
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 2: I love seeing black women in the space, and when

1616
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 2: I say, y'all are doing absolutely amazing, and I really

1617
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:30,800
Speaker 2: just want to give y'all y'all flowers and just say

1618
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 2: like he yes, like it's it's so good to see

1619
01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 2: that because I know a lot of times, like I think,

1620
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:38,200
Speaker 2: a lot of times, like the way me Andrea look

1621
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 2: or wait, we present ourselves, sometimes people think, oh they're

1622
01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:43,760
Speaker 2: bitches there. They don't want to collaborate with us and

1623
01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:46,280
Speaker 2: work with us. And the fact that y'all, like show

1624
01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:48,960
Speaker 2: pulled up on us, you know, after work and stuff.

1625
01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,560
Speaker 2: We appreciate that so much because there's a lot of

1626
01:21:51,600 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 2: people in the States that still won't pull up on us.

1627
01:21:55,400 --> 01:22:01,320
Speaker 2: But it's amazing to have have episodes like this and

1628
01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 2: work with other people like for real.

1629
01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:07,320
Speaker 3: And people that don't know.

1630
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:11,160
Speaker 4: It's gonna say, like, you guys have been working honestly,

1631
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 4: if nobody like, I didn't know.

1632
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:16,840
Speaker 5: But the respect that I have for you guys, I

1633
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 5: was like, no, I've never seen someone come to me.

1634
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:20,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, we work.

1635
01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:22,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, we have a group on Instagram, so we'll be

1636
01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 5: sending the stories.

1637
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:27,599
Speaker 4: And they're here.

1638
01:22:27,960 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 3: Then they're here. Yeah, we've been moving them all for

1639
01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 3: like five six days straight. But I'm still about to turn.

1640
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:40,719
Speaker 3: That's okay, So we have this y'all talking about singing

1641
01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 3: in unison.

1642
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:46,880
Speaker 7: We do carry out Okay, let's go every episode, Okay,

1643
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:48,840
Speaker 7: but we do want first of all, we want to

1644
01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:54,799
Speaker 7: try to tell them where they can find Yes.

1645
01:22:53,240 --> 01:22:56,320
Speaker 4: You guys can find us everywhere basically, and we are

1646
01:22:56,400 --> 01:23:00,600
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Speaker 4: x everywhere, and so you can subscribe to our YouTube

1648
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1649
01:23:04,280 --> 01:23:06,120
Speaker 3: If you guys, yes, we are on.

1650
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:09,760
Speaker 5: The road to one hundred k subscribers. Want to see that.

1651
01:23:10,120 --> 01:23:11,800
Speaker 5: We want to see that at the end of the year.

1652
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:15,680
Speaker 5: We want to have that plaque. Yes, smiling, Yeah, you

1653
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 5: want to see that.

1654
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Speaker 6: So please make sure you're subscribe to us and also

1655
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Speaker 6: check us out on Spotify and also Apple Podcasts.

1656
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Speaker 3: He is we manifest me. Yeah, y'all, don't have it.

1657
01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 2: Y'all gonna show up for my girls. You'll better subscribe,

1658
01:23:31,479 --> 01:23:35,080
Speaker 2: all right, So y'all are R and B lovers? Oh yes, yes, okay,

1659
01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 2: Now I have the rest of my shot. So I

1660
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:41,720
Speaker 2: did this because this is a classic. Okay, classic from

1661
01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:43,600
Speaker 2: my girls. So I'm gonna start off, but y'all we

1662
01:23:43,680 --> 01:23:44,400
Speaker 2: are gonna join in.

1663
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm ready to left to left.

1664
01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 2: Everything you own and a bustard the left in the closet,

1665
01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 2: that's master, Yes, if I buy it.

1666
01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:58,800
Speaker 3: Please don't don't talk. Keep talking, that's that's fine. Can

1667
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:01,880
Speaker 3: you walk and talk at the same time. Man, it's

1668
01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 3: my name that's on that check to move your bags.

1669
01:24:05,240 --> 01:24:07,840
Speaker 2: Let me call you a cab standing in there in

1670
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:10,640
Speaker 2: the front yard telling me how I'm such a.

1671
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 3: Fool talking about I'll never ever find a man like you.

1672
01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:19,880
Speaker 3: You got me to stay. You must not nobody me.

1673
01:24:20,320 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 3: You must not nobody mean. Look, I can have.

1674
01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:25,120
Speaker 5: Another in a minute.

1675
01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 3: Matter of fact, help in a minute. Baby. You must

1676
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:32,880
Speaker 3: not know boy me. You must not know bout me.

1677
01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:36,000
Speaker 3: I can have another fat tomorrow.

1678
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:40,080
Speaker 6: So don't you ever for a second get to thinking

1679
01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:43,320
Speaker 6: in amplaceable.

1680
01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:50,760
Speaker 7: Shout out to the Bee HIGHI I like outside to

1681
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:55,560
Speaker 7: Houston period, ladies.

1682
01:24:55,400 --> 01:24:57,719
Speaker 2: When y'all come to the stage because y'all are gonna

1683
01:24:57,720 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 2: do a show in America, I know that's coming.

1684
01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah. Whatever y'all need, please never hesitate to hit us up.

1685
01:25:04,439 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 4: We love you.

1686
01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:15,559
Speaker 3: The poor crew, it's a group trap. Right's get right now?

1687
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:22,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yes, that's next on my docket. Now to leg

1688
01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:26,679
Speaker 2: a shower. Yes, so thank you ladies, so much.

1689
01:25:28,439 --> 01:25:29,320
Speaker 3: Poor crew growth.

1690
01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,880
Speaker 2: Subscribe to our girls, reach one hundred K and we'll

1691
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:37,920
Speaker 2: see y'all next week. Y'all. Make sure y'all share the

1692
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:41,680
Speaker 2: content like subscribe, follow all that good stuff. And let

1693
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:44,360
Speaker 2: me say this before we close off. Y'all, there is

1694
01:25:44,520 --> 01:25:47,439
Speaker 2: one Twitter account that is connected to four Minds.

1695
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:48,040
Speaker 3: It's p O.

1696
01:25:48,280 --> 01:25:52,040
Speaker 2: You are underscore in my n d s. Y'all are

1697
01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:55,120
Speaker 2: tagging the wrong four Minds page. If you see at

1698
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:57,599
Speaker 2: poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

1699
01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:00,919
Speaker 2: do not follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea

1700
01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 2: and the poor Minds page on both so we only

1701
01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:09,680
Speaker 2: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok it is p o.

1702
01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:12,760
Speaker 2: You are underscore in my nds all right, and we

1703
01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:16,160
Speaker 2: got hell a fake Facebook page on the Facebook page.

1704
01:26:16,240 --> 01:26:17,120
Speaker 3: It's our face.

1705
01:26:17,360 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 7: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

1706
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,799
Speaker 7: least amount of follow So if you're on Facebook, one that's.

1707
01:26:22,800 --> 01:26:24,960
Speaker 2: Ours got the least amount of file.

1708
01:26:24,880 --> 01:26:27,720
Speaker 3: But one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.

1709
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 2: Make if you actually look at the content because the

1710
01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:33,160
Speaker 2: caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because

1711
01:26:33,160 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 2: their captures.

1712
01:26:33,720 --> 01:26:36,760
Speaker 3: Are like bumba clad should men? Should men pay bill?

1713
01:26:37,880 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 3: Should men pay bill? Yes? No?

1714
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 2: Check answer below block block.

1715
01:26:43,360 --> 01:26:46,839
Speaker 1: Pull pull pull off Like that's literally with the captions.

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01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 3: I'm like