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Speaker 1: dating has gotten so crazy lately. Sometimes you just have
Speaker 1: to take a page out of the old nineteen fifties
Speaker 1: dating book. Yeah, I'm saying, just go back to the basics.
Speaker 1: Keep it simple, Okay, take your best gal to a movie,
Speaker 1: Split a cherry coke. Okay, do a little neck and
Speaker 1: in the back row. Before you know what you're going steady.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, say yeah, and you've got yourself a little
Speaker 1: housewife there, easy, you know. And that's what one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Josh did for his first date. He went
Speaker 1: old fashioned, took his girl to a simple movie. Isn't
Speaker 1: that right, Josh? Yeah? Kind of you? How is that?
Speaker 1: A kind of like you either went to the movies
Speaker 1: or you didn't. We went together, but we didn't go together.
Speaker 1: Not being clear here together but yeah, what do you mean?
Speaker 1: What what's this girl's name? First? Of all, this girl's
Speaker 1: name is Renee. Okay, okay, and what do you mean?
Speaker 1: You and Renee kinda went together, but not really well,
Speaker 1: Like long story short, we sat on opposite sides of
Speaker 1: the theater. Why wait, were you on a date with her?
Speaker 1: Or is this we're calling somebody you stalked for a
Speaker 1: couple hours and so I wore her skin the next day? No,
Speaker 1: I'm joking, but this was like the weirdest date I've
Speaker 1: ever been on. Okay, so where did you meet Renee?
Speaker 1: Sorry before the movie theater? I met her on a
Speaker 1: dating app. Okay, yeah, blah blah blah. But she was
Speaker 1: like so hot, right, you know, I don't want to
Speaker 1: sound shower or whatever, but she was like out of
Speaker 1: my league. Congrats, we're all proud of you. Bro. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Thanks my dude. So what happened with the movies? Well,
Speaker 1: when we matched, she messaged me she was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: we can hang out or whatever. I can get to
Speaker 1: know you, but have really specific rules. Oh I know
Speaker 1: that because they can, because they can. I never had
Speaker 1: any rules, and for some reason, women in their conditions,
Speaker 1: what were the rules? Well, the first one she was like,
Speaker 1: I don't get physical on the first date, and that
Speaker 1: has to be okay with you, of course. I mean
Speaker 1: that's a that's an understandable rule. I thought there was
Speaker 1: going to be something crazy, like you have to buy
Speaker 1: me steak dinner at a certain restaurant. Actually, I think
Speaker 1: the girls that don't want to get physical on the
Speaker 1: first date are the most quality women. Are holding it
Speaker 1: out of here. I wasn't. I'm just don't like sex, boring, rude.
Speaker 1: It shows that they know their own value and they're
Speaker 1: not going to give it up. On the fust we
Speaker 1: were back to her rules. What were her other rules? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so she only had one other rule, okay, and that
Speaker 1: was that we should see a movie, but we're not
Speaker 1: going to watch it in a traditional way. She was like,
Speaker 1: I'll meet you in the lobby. We'll share a snack
Speaker 1: for like fifteen minutes or whatever and talk, and then
Speaker 1: when we go into the movie, we will sit on
Speaker 1: opposite sides of the theater. Why, she said, at the
Speaker 1: end of the movie, if you feel a connection before
Speaker 1: when we were talking, you walk to the center of
Speaker 1: the theater and we'll meet up and get a drink.
Speaker 1: And if not, then you just turn and go down
Speaker 1: the aisle and we don't have to see each other
Speaker 1: ever again. But I don't like, why even do the movie?
Speaker 1: Why not just go get coffee and spend fifteen minutes
Speaker 1: together and then decide if you want to date? Then?
Speaker 1: Like what? No? I thought it was crazy, but I
Speaker 1: went through with it because I think it could have
Speaker 1: been worth it. Okay, yeah, so was it? Was it
Speaker 1: worth it? No? What happened? Well? I met her, We
Speaker 1: like shared popcorn in the lobby, and uh, I thought
Speaker 1: we had a connection. We were like laughing and we
Speaker 1: had a lot of the same interests and stuff. All right,
Speaker 1: it was great. And then like at one point she
Speaker 1: looked down at her phone and she's like, oh, the
Speaker 1: previous are about to start. I guess we should go in. Okay,
Speaker 1: you don't want to miss those previews. Yeah, And like
Speaker 1: before I could even say like, oh, yeah, that sounds good,
Speaker 1: she was already up and walking away. That's not a
Speaker 1: good sign, did you. I mean like I would have
Speaker 1: been like, oh man, I blew it. Yeah. Well, part
Speaker 1: of me thought that, and then part of me was like,
Speaker 1: is this just part of the rules that I don't understand.
Speaker 1: You were already hitting it off. She could feel if
Speaker 1: she wanted to kiss you and she had to leave.
Speaker 1: It does feel like some weird initiation into a club.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, well it creates it definitely creates a
Speaker 1: mystique around her, like she obviously doesn't just date any
Speaker 1: guy and let anything happen. So how did the movie
Speaker 1: part go? Well? I couldn't even focus on the movie
Speaker 1: because where we ended up sitting, I could kind of
Speaker 1: see where she was at, Okay, but I just was
Speaker 1: like kept looking at her a the whole time. I
Speaker 1: was like wondering, what's going to happen at the end
Speaker 1: of this movie. I couldn't even have fun and like
Speaker 1: enjoy the movie. Oh, I could totally see that. I
Speaker 1: mean that'd be weird. Yeah. What about her though? Like
Speaker 1: what was she doing? And she didn't even look over one?
Speaker 1: Oh she did really well, no, not a single feel
Speaker 1: your eyes burning into the back of her skull probably
Speaker 1: so by the end of the movie, what happened? So
Speaker 1: movie ends, credits start rolling, ok I was kind of,
Speaker 1: you know, the lights kind of come up in the
Speaker 1: theater like halfway Yeah, everybody else is getting up and
Speaker 1: walking out, and I'm looking over her and she hasn't
Speaker 1: even gotten up yet the credit star, She's like reading
Speaker 1: the credits. What were you doing? Was your heart just
Speaker 1: beating out of your chest? Oh? It was going like
Speaker 1: one hundred miles an hour? And then finally the final
Speaker 1: credits roll, and then she just walked right down the
Speaker 1: aisle and out of the theater. No. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: are you still interested in this? Check? Because I think
Speaker 1: that I think it's kind of messed up. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean my ego is not too big. I would definitely
Speaker 1: meet up with her again. Okay, you abuse, What do
Speaker 1: you think you did wrong during the movie. I mean, honestly,
Speaker 1: that's one of the reasons why I called, because I
Speaker 1: don't know what I did. He couldn't have done anything wrong, really,
Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like this who knows with her? Right?
Speaker 1: It could just because she was just saying if there's
Speaker 1: a connection. I mean, what a vague thing to say.
Speaker 1: But maybe it was a test where she wanted you
Speaker 1: to come up and break the rules. Bad boy. I'm
Speaker 1: going to tell you right now, stay away from women
Speaker 1: with tests. You definitely make sure that your women get
Speaker 1: tested before you go. I do not agree with that,
Speaker 1: But you know what, We're going to play a song
Speaker 1: we'll come back, We'll call Renee for you, and we'll
Speaker 1: try and get your second date update. All right, man,
Speaker 1: thank you guys. All right, hold on, is it possible
Speaker 1: to have a long distance relationship while being in the
Speaker 1: same room as someone? That's a really funny way to
Speaker 1: put what happened. I mean, i'd say, Brooks about six
Speaker 1: feet away from me right now, brook Are you feeling
Speaker 1: what I'm feeling? I'm not. You don't even know what
Speaker 1: I'm feeling. I just know that I'm not feeling a
Speaker 1: little bit weird, maybe a little bit drunk took. All right,
Speaker 1: there's something. But one of our listeners, Josh, told us
Speaker 1: he went to the movies with a woman named Renee,
Speaker 1: and she had some of the most extreme rules and
Speaker 1: conditions anyone could possibly put forward for a first date,
Speaker 1: because she said they were going to meet in the
Speaker 1: lobby talk for a few minutes while eating snacks, and
Speaker 1: then they could go into the movie, but they had
Speaker 1: to sit on opposite ends of the theater so that
Speaker 1: they wouldn't have any physical contact. Because we all know
Speaker 1: kissing out of wedlock is a sin, and if you
Speaker 1: do it, you go to h double bendy straws, and
Speaker 1: she never said that that was why. She just said
Speaker 1: that they was part of her rules. She said she
Speaker 1: wanted no physical contact. Could have done something else I
Speaker 1: could have I don't know. I think it's a game
Speaker 1: or she really doesn't like Well. After the film was over,
Speaker 1: she said if they felt a connection, they could meet
Speaker 1: up again in the middle of the seats and then
Speaker 1: go out for a drink. That was the agreement, and
Speaker 1: Josh was okay with that. The movie happened, lights came
Speaker 1: on and Renee walked out, no explanation for why, and
Speaker 1: sitting waiting for her to decide through all the credits.
Speaker 1: Even you guys barely hung out before, right, Like, how
Speaker 1: long were you together in the lobby? Couldn't have been
Speaker 1: longer than fifteen minutes? What could he have done in that?
Speaker 1: Have you tried to call Renee? Yeah? I've texted her
Speaker 1: and tried to call her and I haven't gotten any responses.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I really impressed it. Like, as she's
Speaker 1: walking out, you didn't just scream why you have that opportunity?
Speaker 1: Now after you hear what she says, because we're about
Speaker 1: to call her? Ready to do this? Man? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm nervous. It's like I'm back in the movie theater
Speaker 1: all over again. This won't be that brutal. It won't
Speaker 1: be that brutal. Okay, let's help. Let's dim the lights
Speaker 1: down like it's in the movies, and we're going to
Speaker 1: call her right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Renee? Please? Mayas? Who's calling? Yeah, my
Speaker 1: name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Who are you? You really know how to
Speaker 1: But my name's Jeffrey. I work on a morning radio
Speaker 1: show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. The whole
Speaker 1: crew is here, Brooke, Jose, Alexis yep. Okay, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: calling you today because we're doing something called a second
Speaker 1: Date update. Have you ever heard of that before? No? Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: it's a segment that we do on our show, and
Speaker 1: basically the idea is, if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: you can email us and we'll reach out to that
Speaker 1: person for you to try and help you figure out
Speaker 1: the reason why. Okay, I guess I don't know why
Speaker 1: you're calling me. Well, we're calling you because a guy
Speaker 1: reached out to us. His name is Josh. Oh. That's
Speaker 1: not a positive response when we said Josh, yeah, I
Speaker 1: take it you remember him. Yeah, I went on a
Speaker 1: date with him. It didn't let anything. That's pretty much
Speaker 1: well along and short of it. Josh told us all
Speaker 1: about your date, and I have to be honest, it's
Speaker 1: one of the weirdest first dates we've ever heard on
Speaker 1: our show before. I mean, that's your opinion. I just
Speaker 1: got out of like a really tough relationship, and I
Speaker 1: do have like conditions now because yeah, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of thirsty guys out there and I'm not about that life.
Speaker 1: So I think that's fine. But can I ask, like,
Speaker 1: what's the point of sitting on opposite sides of the
Speaker 1: movie theater? Because he told us about that, Like, how
Speaker 1: do you ever get to know anyone if you don't
Speaker 1: spend any time with them on a date? I mean,
Speaker 1: we spend the fifteen minutes together, like, you know, he
Speaker 1: was a gentleman. He bought Hoco. Like, okay, so before
Speaker 1: the movie you had a good interaction with him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, like I really wasn't sure if there was
Speaker 1: a connection. I you know, we talked, it was fine,
Speaker 1: and then he agreed to my conditions, which I thought
Speaker 1: was like a good sign. But then I don't know,
Speaker 1: like it just didn't really work out. And like, you
Speaker 1: guys don't have to agree with me on my conditions.
Speaker 1: That's just like how I feel. Like that's just how
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable. And he agreed to it, so there
Speaker 1: shouldn't be an issue. That's fine, Like, I'm not judging
Speaker 1: you on your condition It was just unusual. We've never
Speaker 1: heard of it before. It's just why after he went
Speaker 1: through with all of it, I don't think a lot
Speaker 1: of guys would have gone through that. Why would you
Speaker 1: walk out without even saying anything to him? Well, I
Speaker 1: mean I wasn't exactly alone in the movie theater. What
Speaker 1: do you mean, like other people were watching the movie
Speaker 1: with you, ycause it's a public playing theater. I mean
Speaker 1: obviously Josh was in the theater too, so it couldn't
Speaker 1: have just been you. That's not what I mean. My
Speaker 1: brother was there at the movie too. Actually I know him.
Speaker 1: You set up a spy, you know, just because like
Speaker 1: I said, I was in a really rough relationship and
Speaker 1: just like don't want to get hurt like that. Again,
Speaker 1: and my brother that right behind Josh and saw Josh
Speaker 1: texting and flirting with another woman during our dage. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold how one, how did your brother see that?
Speaker 1: And two, you guys aren't exclusive, You've gone on one
Speaker 1: date and you spent fifteen minutes with the man. What
Speaker 1: do you want him to stop talking to all other
Speaker 1: women during the movie, Like, I mean, I just think
Speaker 1: that's super disrespectful and classless, Like you don't text another
Speaker 1: woman like mid thing is really fairly I think texting
Speaker 1: in the movie theater is really period. But you know what,
Speaker 1: what did the texts say? They were just like super
Speaker 1: flirty to some girl named Andrea. And I was like,
Speaker 1: you can't refrain from texting other women for like an
Speaker 1: hour and a half. Like that's just kind of really
Speaker 1: shady and gross to me. So I'm not going to
Speaker 1: deal with that. That's why I walked out. I mean
Speaker 1: it sounds like, yeah, it sounds like you got really
Speaker 1: hurt and this past dude, your ax really scarred you.
Speaker 1: But just because he's like texting with another person while
Speaker 1: you're in the same movie theater, I mean, it's not
Speaker 1: even really a date. Your guys are on at that point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Brook supports cheating. It's okay, it's okay. Sleep with whoever
Speaker 1: you want, whenever you want, and you know who I
Speaker 1: want to know. I want to know what Josh thinks
Speaker 1: about all this, Josh, Oh, I need to tell you, sorry, Renee.
Speaker 1: Josh has been on the other line listening. He wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Fired up. Well, I think it's rude.
Speaker 1: But Josh, what do you think? I do not know
Speaker 1: how to process this right? Is it true? Is it true?
Speaker 1: It's kind of true? Okay, Sue, I mean, did you
Speaker 1: notice some dude city behind you looking over your shoulder? No?
Speaker 1: I mean to be honest, I was pretty sixtated on you,
Speaker 1: Renee for most of that movie, in between texts. Oh,
Speaker 1: he's not lying. He literally said you only termed maybe once.
Speaker 1: He almost never looked at him, and he knew the
Speaker 1: exact moment you left his eyes were on you. Majority yeah,
Speaker 1: not on he was texting Andrea. So I just don't
Speaker 1: know who Andrea is. Like, don't deny it because I
Speaker 1: have screenshot. Okay, what it was just one text to
Speaker 1: my friend Andrea, and I had been talking with her
Speaker 1: about this date before I went on it, and She
Speaker 1: asked me how the date was going halfway through, and
Speaker 1: I told her I already know that's alive because I
Speaker 1: have multiple screenshots of multiple texts. And do you send
Speaker 1: your friends to our girls fifty faces and linky faces
Speaker 1: and eggs plan emos. No. I don't think so, though, Dude,
Speaker 1: that is so weird. No, not, Josh Hers your brother
Speaker 1: is screening somebody else's cell phone. You can't spy on
Speaker 1: people during a date. I mean, Josh, are you upset
Speaker 1: or not? Yeah? I mean that's super invasive. I think
Speaker 1: that your brothers and you shouldn't be texting other women
Speaker 1: during a date. I think that's really crazy. Well, you were,
Speaker 1: so I guess the greeded. What am I to do
Speaker 1: twiddle my thumbs and wait for you to come over
Speaker 1: and sweep me off my feet? I mean, Josh to
Speaker 1: just honestly just be honest with me, Like, did you
Speaker 1: meet this Andrea Grule on the same dating site you
Speaker 1: met me? Yes? Oh, but we went on like one
Speaker 1: day and we immediately were like, there's no connection, wasn't romantic?
Speaker 1: And then we went out a couple more times as friends. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't know too much here. I just still think
Speaker 1: that's weird that you texted her during our date Like
Speaker 1: that just makes me feel like if you're willing to
Speaker 1: do that, then you do so. Like I mean, we're
Speaker 1: not concentrating on the spy brother. Okay, well, I'm focused
Speaker 1: on Renee and her feelings. Specifically, Renee, if you feel
Speaker 1: like going out on one more day with Josh, because
Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. I have to ask that. I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry to ask you if you'd like to see
Speaker 1: him again. Um, I think probably not. I already don't
Speaker 1: trust this person, so it's kind of point to go
Speaker 1: out again. Oh Josh, what do you feel? I am
Speaker 1: glad that I don't have to be watched again. I
Speaker 1: don't think I could go out with Renee and feel comfortable. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: what about Andrew? Would you like to go out with
Speaker 1: Andrea at one moment time? I look, now that everything's
Speaker 1: out in the open, I was going out with Andrea
Speaker 1: a couple of times. You're not so doing me like that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I could tell I knew this guy was shady and
Speaker 1: the room. Yeah, I don't know if this is a
Speaker 1: successful second date update or not. I don't think it is. Dude,
Speaker 1: Renee is not fixing her trust issues right now, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you that two point five