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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hayley,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. Tell us about this guy, Caleb,

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Speaker 2: how you met? About any dates you've been on? And

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Speaker 2: then where things stand now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we met on Hinge and just just had

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Speaker 3: one date.

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Speaker 4: But it went really well.

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Speaker 1: It felt like three dates.

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Speaker 4: Really.

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Speaker 3: We went out for drinks and you know, definitely fell

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Speaker 3: to connection, and yeah, I so much, so I invited

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Speaker 3: him back to my place so I keep the evening going.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we had.

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Speaker 3: A we had a great night, and then I haven't

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Speaker 3: heard from him.

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Speaker 2: I mean we were just talking about this. You know,

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Speaker 2: you go on a date, you feel connection, the conversation flows.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know some people. Sometimes you go

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Speaker 2: on and you just think like, wow, where have you been?

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Speaker 2: You know, this is this is how the communication, This

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Speaker 2: is how the conversation supposed to go. And you're vibing

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Speaker 2: and whatever so much so that you're back at the crib.

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Speaker 2: Except you haven't heard from this guy since then, and

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Speaker 2: you want to know why.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's weird.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well let's call it a Caleb. You'll

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Speaker 2: be on the phone. We'll ask some questions. At some point,

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Speaker 2: you're welcome to jump in on the call and hopefully

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Speaker 2: we can figure out what's up and then set you

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Speaker 2: guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 1: Sound good, That would be great.

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Speaker 2: You've got to hear what happens next Part two of waiting.

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Speaker 2: Met the phone after Nicki Minaji in two minutes Fred's Show,

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Speaker 2: Nicki Minaji. It's the Fred's Show commercial free for the

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Speaker 2: next forty five minutes. You don't have to go anywhere, Hayley. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: let's call this guy Caleb. You met on Hinge, you

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Speaker 2: went on a great date, you really enjoyed it. You

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Speaker 2: went back to your place even after the date, and

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Speaker 2: since then, you have not heard from this guy Caleb.

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Speaker 2: He hasn't called you, hasn't responded to you. You're being ghosted.

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Speaker 2: You want to know why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's call him now. Good luck.

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Speaker 2: Hello. Hi, this is Calem. Yeah, Hey, Calem, good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred's Show,

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Speaker 2: the morning radio show. The whole crew is here and

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Speaker 2: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 2: radio right now and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 2: continue with the call can which have for just a second.

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Speaker 2: Awesome for sure, Well, thank you so much. We're calling

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Speaker 2: on behalf of a woman named Haley. I guess you

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Speaker 2: guys met on Hinge and you went on a date recently, yes, yes, okay,

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Speaker 2: so you do know her?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: She called us and told us that she really liked

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Speaker 2: going on the date with you and thought there was

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Speaker 2: a connection, and I guess you guys went back to

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Speaker 2: her place. We didn't get very many details, but she's

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Speaker 2: surprised that she hasn't heard from you since then, So

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Speaker 2: why haven't you called her?

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: She was just a disaster.

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Speaker 4: I mean, the day was pretty great and we went

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Speaker 4: out for drinks and it was successful enough that, you know,

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Speaker 4: she said, hey, you want to come back to my place?

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Speaker 4: And I said yes, So we went to her place.

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Speaker 5: On the way there, we stopped.

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Speaker 1: We picked up, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, more alcohol, so I went to the liquor store.

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Speaker 4: We got about like three bottles of wine, and then

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Speaker 4: she picked out a really nice tequila and I was

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Speaker 4: vibing with her, so I was like, I got this.

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Speaker 4: I paid for everything. But it wasn't really long before

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Speaker 4: we like got into hanging out at her place. That

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Speaker 4: she just had overdone it and like it was blowing chunks.

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Speaker 1: It was gross.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, she definitely could not hold it. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: guys drink a lot, and and yeah that happens.

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Speaker 4: I mean I didn't drink too much. I was just

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Speaker 4: along for the ride. But I feel like for everyone

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Speaker 4: I had, she had like three, Like she was just.

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Speaker 5: Like a fish.

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Speaker 2: So she was kind of getting after it. She got sick. Now, look,

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Speaker 2: can we have any grace for this person here? I mean,

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Speaker 2: she liked you. Maybe she was nervous. I mean, people

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Speaker 2: overdo it. It happens all the time. You liked her

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Speaker 2: first day, are you right? This could be how she

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Speaker 2: this one time and she's just unlucky and had anxiety

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Speaker 2: or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Well there's more. Oh okay.

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Speaker 4: So just to make sure she was like okay and

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Speaker 4: didn't need to go to the hospital or anything.

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Speaker 5: Like, I tucked her in. I spent the night on

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Speaker 4: I just kind of like stayed up or you know,

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Speaker 4: if I need to hold her hair back, you know,

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Speaker 4: like a good gal pal, where you know the thing

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Speaker 4: you do is as someone who cares.

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Speaker 5: But the next.

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Speaker 4: Morning she woke up like before me and then like

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Speaker 4: shook me awake and was yelling at me that.

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Speaker 5: I threw up in her bathroom.

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Speaker 4: And she said like, what is happening? Like why are

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Speaker 4: you here? Why did you throw up in my bathroom?

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Speaker 5: And I was like, oh no, you have this story

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Speaker 5: all wrong.

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Speaker 4: I spent the night to take care of.

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Speaker 1: You because redroom.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I was like, I feel like you should

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Speaker 4: know you sho remember that you threw up. I guess

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Speaker 4: she was too drunk.

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Speaker 1: That's so much difference.

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Speaker 4: A few well taste out drinks and she popped off.

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Speaker 1: Well let me.

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Speaker 2: I forgot to mention that Haley is here. I'm so forgetful,

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Speaker 2: and Haley can probably tell us more about this. So

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, why are you yelling at him about

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Speaker 2: throwing up? But then you're calling us to set you

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Speaker 2: guys up again when it turns out, on top of

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Speaker 2: all of that, you were the one throwing up and

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Speaker 2: the only reason he was there was to take care

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is not what happened.

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Speaker 3: I never I never threw up there.

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Speaker 4: I didn't yell.

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Speaker 5: I just was like, Hey, what's going on? I never

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Speaker 5: threw up? You?

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Speaker 6: No, come on, we drank, dunk, throw up and leave

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Speaker 6: a mother, random drunk person walt get there?

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Speaker 1: You throw up? I mean who threw up? Then? Who

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Speaker 4: No? It was defintely Haley. I had two drinks while

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Speaker 4: before things got a little crazy.

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Speaker 2: Is there any possibility, Haley, that you did throw up

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Speaker 2: and that you don't remember because you were drunk and

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Speaker 2: now he's there to help you.

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Speaker 1: No. I never throw up when I'm drunk.

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Speaker 3: I think I have thrown up, like once in the

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Speaker 3: last seven years.

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Speaker 4: I would definitely And.

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Speaker 2: With Taylor, what I mean, like, what's the motive here

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Speaker 2: But then I think if I threw up and were

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Speaker 2: to get out before I ever saw you again. In

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Speaker 2: this case, the only reason he was still there was

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Speaker 2: because he was supporting you. It sounds like making sure

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Speaker 5: No, I mean like he threw up, but I mean

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Speaker 5: I was mad about it.

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Speaker 3: I was like joking about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know you even.

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Speaker 5: Had been it the night before.

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Speaker 4: You I remember you admitted the night before he said,

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Speaker 4: thank you so much for staying to take care of me.

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Speaker 4: I barely ate anything all day. That's you know, I

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Speaker 4: don't really do this. I'm so sorry. And I was like,

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Speaker 4: you're fine, You're in your house, like, we'll clean.

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Speaker 1: It up in the morning. Yeah, I mean that that

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Speaker 6: I do not.

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Speaker 4: I do not remember that.

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Speaker 2: It would it would make sense that you don't remember

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Speaker 2: because you were hammered and there's no judgment. I mean,

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Speaker 2: these things do happen, so it's fine. But like, I guess,

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Speaker 2: why not just say okay, thank you for you know,

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Speaker 2: being there for me or whatever, and let's go out again,

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Speaker 2: or I mean, if he wants to. I guess it's

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Speaker 3: Look, Caleb, I had a great time. I don't care

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Speaker 3: if you threw up.

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Speaker 1: I get it. It was great.

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Speaker 4: It was great, and honestly, I would have even been

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Speaker 4: continuing getting to know you. But that that's where I

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Speaker 5: You're refusing to admit that you.

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Speaker 1: Yelled at me and I was. I was not yelling.

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Speaker 4: I was not yelling.

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Speaker 4: Not yet, Haley, I felt very underappreciated for showing up

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Speaker 2: All you have to do is be like that may

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Speaker 2: have happened, and I'm really sorry for the misunderstanding. And

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Speaker 2: it sounds like maybe something's going would have gone on here,

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Speaker 2: but the fact that you're you're a vama denier.

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Speaker 4: I did not yell, Okay, I don't yeah.

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Speaker 1: Right right right now? Please? Yeah? Stressing me out? Remember

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Speaker 1: where she threw up. It doesn't tolerate bott. You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't play after a row. I don't yell.

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Speaker 3: I haven't thrown up in seven years?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I never yell.

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Speaker 5: I never y.

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Speaker 4: You want to hear a quick story in college?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Ready, I was in college. I went out with my boys,

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Speaker 4: we went drinking. I gotten like car home. I threw

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Speaker 4: up from my room all the way to the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: The next morning, I said, why is there throw up

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Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't know it was me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, So what I don't know is that people

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Speaker 2: do things when they're drunk that they later regret or

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Speaker 2: don't remember doing. And so we we we can. You're

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Speaker 2: willing to be forgiven, so you just own it and

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Speaker 2: say I screwed up, and then the other person goes, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you were really drunk, so we can deal with this.

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Speaker 2: But in this case, the vomit is imaginary vomit, or

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Speaker 2: it came from your mouth, Caleb. Because Haley doesn't yell

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Speaker 2: and has involved in seven years, we heard her. She

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Speaker 2: said it herself.

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Speaker 1: I need an answer before the ends. You're not going

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Speaker 1: to get let me give you the answer.

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Speaker 2: Hailey threw up, and Caleb is kind enough to Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, Caleb, Caleb, I don't even have to ask.

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Speaker 1: Please know you're still Yeah, you did the right thing.

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Speaker 4: You can't get over something like this. This is an

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Speaker 4: early red flash.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you did the right thing.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry it's not going to work out between you two,

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Speaker 2: but good luck to both of you.

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Speaker 1: Your lot, You're a lot, all right,