1 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: What's up y'all? 2 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 2: Is your girl like paint and to see a girl 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 2: dre in the cold and you are tuned in to 4 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 2: another episode of Poor Mind where a drunk mine speaks 5 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: sober though you are looking very classy today. 6 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 1: I love a good sweater dress. I love a sweater dress. 7 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: That ass was asked, it's gonna do that anyway, because 8 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: this is how I am. What's been up, girl? Natan? 9 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: What's me up with you? I'm excited? 10 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: Are you the holidays? Holiday season? You all love the holidays? 11 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 2: You know you know how I get down. Yeah, well 12 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 2: let's get this your pass. But it's so funny. I 13 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 2: love meeting the listeners. First of all, the list y'all 14 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: to so fucking funny. So I met I had we 15 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 2: had a pop up shop. 16 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: Yea, today one of the listeners walked up to me. 17 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,959 Speaker 2: Y'all always say the craziest shit because y'all have to realize, like, 18 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: of course on the show, this is us. But like, 19 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: I'm just being regular every day mode when I'm not recording. 20 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: Girl walking to me like, hey, lax, it's me. I'm 21 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: like what she's like, I'm the one who told you 22 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: my nigga got blue. 23 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 2: Balls, and I'm like, oh, okay, Like that's how they 24 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: that's how y'all introduced y'allself to me. 25 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm the one who told you I can time my 26 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: click in the bowl. 27 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: Like it's like, y'all say the time I click in 28 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: a boat, bitch, goodbye. I'm just saying, for example, like 29 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: that's how they like be like, oh, it's me. I 30 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 2: said this, and I said, you know, this is a 31 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 2: crazy ass show, and y'all be saying. 32 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 3: So y'all be saying crazy shit. But it's just so funny. 33 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 2: How like a lot of the listeners like introduce themselves 34 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: to us. I'd be like, okay, girl, I was like, well, 35 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: did you fix the problem? I think it's so like 36 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: one of the funniest things to me when we meet 37 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: listeners is like how some of them be so like 38 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: scared yeah, and it's like we so cool and down 39 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: to earth, but they be like, oh my god, Like 40 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 2: the little she was so so cute and she was young, right, 41 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 2: but she was so cute. 42 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: She was like, oh my god, I can't believe me. 43 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: And then some of them just be like, what's up, bitch, 44 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: It's no in between this like that they be scared, like, hey, beach, 45 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: what's up? They are very but I love I love 46 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 2: that it's always a good time. 47 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, I have on my eighty five bucket hats 48 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: together that hou is fired. 49 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: You want to get something get we gotta get something 50 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,679 Speaker 2: so cute. I wanted to wear mine too. 51 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't feel like my head day. 52 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 2: So I was just like, fucking got the eighty five 53 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 2: appair of on and I wore a Broad today. 54 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 1: You do have a bro and you never wear you 55 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: want to wear bro? I don't know. 56 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: I was just like, because it looks like I'm going 57 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 2: fishing up top to give a little sexy. 58 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: At the bottom. 59 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 2: So I was like, let me just kind of mix 60 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 2: it up a little bit, like I can't give them 61 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 2: too much. But honestly, I really feel uncomfortable right now. Yeah, 62 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: because they're so high, like I like the swing low 63 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: sweet Cherriot, Like I like it with my titties. 64 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: Hang Like you are so stupid, it's so funny, who 65 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: are we? Because I wore a Broad last night? What 66 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: I did out of control? 67 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 2: I definitely did, And I had the Warner bro in 68 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 2: so long, and I feel the same way, like what 69 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 2: you is, what you were saying they were. 70 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: Just so hot. 71 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: I was like, God, I just don't I like the 72 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: swing low sweet cherrias brush them over the shoulder like 73 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: I like for my shiites to hang. 74 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I feel like I'm more 75 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: real in the not timing about Like when I have 76 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: my titties up, I feel like it's not me, it's 77 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: not really hang low. I lie a lot, I lie 78 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: a lot. Y'all know. I don't keep it real about nothing. 79 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 3: But the thing I can keep it real about it 80 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: is my titties. 81 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: They not bro. You be exaggerating, though, but this. 82 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: Is exaggerating, y'all know, y'all do not. I ain't never 83 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 2: seen nothing up here. I can see him about peripheral. 84 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: That is that the only brow you own? 85 00:03:58,400 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 4: No? 86 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: I actually have a few bra. I just don't. I 87 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: got like two. Yeah, I don't wear it like I 88 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: have I have like four or five bras. I have 89 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: like two bras. 90 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 3: And you know, like you know you have that one 91 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 3: bra that you always wear. 92 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 2: This is like your comfortable that you can wear the 93 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 2: sleeve or if you got comfortable wearing a. 94 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: Broad of sleeve. 95 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: I wear like a little softy sports bra. It's like 96 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 2: a little stretch sports bra. Yeah, I'm thinking you talking 97 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 2: about a real regular bra. I'm like, we're wearing a 98 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 2: broad of sleeve. No, No, not a real regular braw 99 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 2: But like you know, I have a little softy, little stretcher. 100 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: I love a good sports bra. 101 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: But you know, like when the girls I used to 102 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 2: wear my bras down to the wire, the wires used 103 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 2: to be poking out. And I don't know why I 104 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 2: didn't ask my mom, like, hey, my bral is getting old. 105 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: I need a new bra. 106 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: Because it was because it's like it's like with shoes, 107 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, once you break them in, 108 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 2: may be way more comfortable. I feel the same way 109 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 2: about bras because bras traditionally are not comfortable, you know 110 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: what I mean. But like once you've been having it 111 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 2: for a while and you've been wearing it, he starts to, 112 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: you know, get a little more, and this bra is 113 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 2: very uncom the ball like, if y'all see your little 114 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 2: blood right here because heavy my. 115 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: Shoulders, Like Mitch, how long this episode is? The fuck? 116 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 2: They don't know what's going on, So y'all they're going 117 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: you're in an episode. 118 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: Just don't just don't pay attention. No, you are. I'm 119 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: struggling over here. I'm struggling over here. 120 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: Okay, so let's get into the topics today. I'm excited 121 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: to talk about these topics because I know it's gonna 122 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: be a lot of shade thrown today. 123 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 4: Wow. 124 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 3: I just love a good shady episode. 125 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 1: Why do you think it's gonna be shady? Because I 126 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: got a lot of shit to say. Oh okay, well, 127 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: let's get into week the end. 128 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 2: So the first thing we're gonna talk about today is 129 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 2: your friend being accomplished and not you, because in this 130 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: day and age, a lot of people just like to say, oh, 131 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 2: my homeboy is such and such, my part to do this, 132 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: my homegirl does this. It's like, okay, but what do 133 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:02,919 Speaker 2: you do? What do you do? It's so much dick writing. 134 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 2: It's absolutely insane, And I guess it's just weird for 135 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 2: me because I have a lot of successful friends. 136 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: I do. I know a lot. 137 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: I robed shoulders with a lot of people who was 138 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 2: really out here doing shit. But for me, that was 139 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: more so motivation. It was never like I want to 140 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: be like, oh, you know my homeboys such and such? 141 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 2: Are you know my homegirls such as such. I've always 142 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: wanted to be that person. So it's so weird to 143 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: me when people just take I take pride in my friends. 144 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong, I do take pride in my friends, 145 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 2: but I don't take pride and nobody knowing who I 146 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 2: am or what I do and them just knowing the 147 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 2: people around me. 148 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: I mean yo. 149 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 2: I actually had said something about that on Twitter the 150 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 2: other day. I was saying, like, it's crazy because there's 151 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 2: so many people who are not going to realize until 152 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 2: later in life that they beguest accomplishment. 153 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: It's who they was. Cool. 154 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: We right, That's but a lot of people don't care 155 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: like they just I just feel like this day and age, 156 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: our generation, like people just live for cloud and attention 157 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 2: and nobody is really not to say nobody, because I 158 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,679 Speaker 2: do feel like some people are focused on their future 159 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 2: and like what they're gonna be doing in ten twenty years. 160 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: But I think a lot of people just don't even 161 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: think that far. They just want to live in a 162 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: moment and have fun. Everything is about turning up and 163 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 2: being lead and being outside. Everybody just want to be 164 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 2: outside and be leading. Nobody wants to focus on a 165 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: career or anything. I feel like, well, also, I mean, 166 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 2: I don't feel judging about that, Like, if you want. 167 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: To go outside, go outside. But my thing, you know, 168 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: it's nothing wrong with being outside. 169 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: That's not what I was saying, But I'm just saying 170 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: I feel like that's where a lot of people's minds are, 171 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: like that's all they want to do is be outside 172 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 2: with they lit friends, or they want to wait, they 173 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: waiting for their partner to pop off, cause they're like, 174 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm gonna just wait because Drey about 175 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: to be lead Dre about Dredge is signed with eighty five. 176 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 3: I know she's about to get in her bag, so 177 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: I ain't gotta do shit. 178 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: I'ma just be her friend. 179 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 2: I wish some motherfucker would say that around me, because 180 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like, what they gotta do with you exactly? 181 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: Because but I think a lot of. 182 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 2: People don't realize even when I like, you are in 183 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: position to do a lot of things, but it's like 184 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: when you're in the beginning, it takes a long time 185 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: to get to where you are really to give people jobs, 186 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: make sure everybody is all that stuff. So it's like, 187 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 2: right now, I'm not focused on doing anything unless it's 188 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 2: like for poor minds or for me and my thing 189 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: with helping friends, and I feel like I've talked about 190 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 2: these before on the show. 191 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: I'm just not big. I'm helping people who don't want 192 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: to help themselves. 193 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 2: Like if you waiting on me to get on so 194 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: that you could get on, what the hell make you 195 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 2: think I will help you? Right? 196 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: Because what have you been doing all these times? 197 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 2: It's completely different if I get on and then I 198 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: see you been grinding, and I see you been working 199 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 2: on some shit and trying to make some shit happen, 200 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 2: but it just ain't popped off for you. And then 201 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 2: now that I'm on, if I can help you, yeah, 202 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that because you've been hustling and you've 203 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: been grinding. But a bitch or a nigga who ain't 204 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 2: been doing nothing, and then you feel like because I 205 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 2: am popped off or I'm doing something that I'm just 206 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: supposed to put you on, right, Absolutely naive. I think 207 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 2: that is so strange. But also it's like, like I said, 208 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: I take so much pride in the fact that we 209 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 2: created this this you know what I'm saying. So it's 210 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 2: like on the bottom, people just want to wait on 211 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: other people like start what you're supposed to do now, 212 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 2: like you could be that person in your own It's 213 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 2: so crazy because you know, I feel like a lot 214 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 2: of people are always writing us about like starting podcasts 215 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 2: and stuff because of the success of the show. And 216 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 2: the one thing that really kind of annoys me when 217 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 2: people write me or ask me questions about starting a podcast, 218 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: they're like, well, I just don't know how to start. 219 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 1: Just start to start, you have to, that's anything. Just start. 220 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: Like when me and you first started doing Poor Mind, 221 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 2: so we didn't have no said, we didn't have no 222 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 2: people helping us with production like how we do now. 223 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 2: It was literally just me and you and we had 224 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 2: to figure that shit out. And we used to use 225 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 2: my camera and my laptop to upload everything, and that's 226 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: what we was doing and just a two person show. 227 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 2: And like I said, I feel like somebody like says 228 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 2: your name or has anybody's name, like, oh, man, you know, 229 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 2: oh DeAndre, They're like, who was DeAndre? Oh that's Drake friends, 230 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 2: Like that's how people know you. Like literally, in order 231 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 2: for people to like be like, oh this is who 232 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 2: this is, they have to say who you around. 233 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: But that's weird. It's weird. 234 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, I think one good thing 235 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: about me and you. We have never been like the 236 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 2: type of people to want to ride other people way, 237 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like that just ain't never 238 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 2: been my thing. I remember I had this friend when 239 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 2: I was like twenty three and back, you know, like 240 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 2: when the Instagram models and all that stuff first he 241 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 2: got popular. Remember like some of the Instagram models when 242 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:42,199 Speaker 2: they would host parties, they would like post like oh 243 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 2: I need ten. 244 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: Girls to come out will show. 245 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she had wanted to go she Yeah, she 246 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 2: didn't wanted to go out. She wanted to go out 247 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 2: to the party with the girl. And so I just 248 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: thought it was so weird. Like I've just never had 249 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 2: the urs to do those type of things because not 250 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: trying to be cocky or nothing, but I just always 251 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 2: feel like if somebody else is doing something, why I 252 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: can't do the same shit, Like I can create just 253 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: like you created your own wave, I can create my 254 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 2: own wave. I don't need to be cool with a 255 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: bitch or be cool with a nigga so that I 256 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: can get. 257 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 3: On like or people can know who I am. 258 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like it's so many people. I just feel. 259 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: But I think that's a confidence thing too. 260 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people don't have that confidence 261 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 2: in themself that they feel like they can create their 262 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: own brand or create their own wave, and people gonna 263 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 2: fuck with me, right, you know what I mean? So 264 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: instead of trying to do their own thing, they would 265 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 2: rather just go follow behind the person around here an era, 266 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 2: like the girls used to be like I need ten 267 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: baddies and he's saying, bitches used to be going eve 268 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 2: and the girls used to be showing up like with 269 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 2: my bed, like you don't. 270 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: Even know this, this shit doesn't even go here, go here. 271 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,439 Speaker 1: It was so that was an era, bro. 272 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 2: But and again, like I said, and I used to 273 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 2: be cool with people who used to do that, but 274 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 2: like who used to want to try to do that 275 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: type of stuff? And I just always thought it was 276 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 2: so strange, like, bitch, what the fuck I look like 277 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 2: going link up with a beach that I don't know 278 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 2: at a party, sitting in her section, waiting on her 279 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 2: to pour me liquor. 280 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 3: I am dead? And the girls used to love. 281 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: It, like it's just and then hopefully she posts me 282 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: and I can get some following. That's what it was. 283 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 2: Hopefully she records me and I can get some followers 284 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: tag me. 285 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: It's like. 286 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 2: I hate to tag me as Be's like if I'm 287 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 2: like me and Drav being the club, like we'll be 288 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 2: recording each other. 289 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: Somebody in the corner, like who tagged me? Yeah, who 290 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: are you? 291 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: I just I definitely think it's strange and I think 292 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 2: it's a lot, but honestly, you know, not trying to 293 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 2: be funny, but I feel like with us, that's why 294 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 2: we're doing what we're doing. Like, usually those are the 295 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 2: people that end. 296 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: Up, you know, being the friends, being the friend No. 297 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 2: I was saying, that's where like us, we're usually the 298 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 2: type of people who end up creating their own ways 299 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 2: because we ain't never been the type of people that 300 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 2: want to follow behind the people. But also, contrary to 301 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 2: popular belief, I'm really not a people person. 302 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: You're not at all. 303 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 2: So it's like it's so funny because I'm much more 304 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 2: of a people person, sure, And it's just like everything 305 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 2: that people do is weird to me. Yeah, I think 306 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 2: everything is weird. And I said, I'm gonna stop doing 307 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 2: that in the new year. Stop thinking everything is weird 308 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: and stop being so like I don't want to use 309 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 2: the word judge, but shit, just be so fucking well. 310 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 1: I don't think you're a judge. I wouldn't never use 311 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: that word. 312 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 3: So just thinking like stuff is weird that people do. 313 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 2: Like when people just like all of a sudden want 314 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 2: to do things, I'll be like, why are you doing that? 315 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, but you know I'll be the 316 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: same way. 317 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 2: But that's why I feel like we don't have a 318 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: lot of friends either. We don't know you don't you 319 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 2: have Like I can literally think of all your friends 320 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 2: that you talk to on a consistent basis, and it's 321 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 2: about five people, including me and your mama. 322 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 5: Like. 323 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: My nephew. But I just feel like I don't know. 324 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm the type of person like you know how people 325 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 2: get like, oh, if you don't check on your friends 326 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 2: every day, are you really a good friend? And I'm 327 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 2: just not that friend. Like I don't have to talk 328 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 2: to my friends every day. I'm the same way I 329 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 2: like to be by myself. People be like, oh, y'all 330 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 2: need to check y'all friends. What is a friendship to y'all? 331 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 2: I'm just like, sometimes I just want to sit in 332 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: my bedroom and watch movies and I don't feel like texting, 333 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 2: Like does that make me a bad friend? 334 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: No, I just don't feel like talking. 335 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: I feel like real mature friendships as you get older 336 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: are the friendships where you understand that you don't have 337 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 2: to talk to your friend. 338 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: Every day for y'all to still be friends. Like life, 339 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: it's life. 340 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 2: We all get busy, we all be having a bunch 341 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 2: of shit going on, and I'm sorry, but I ain't 342 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: got time to talk to I just don't have the 343 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 2: time to talk to you every single day, right, And 344 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 2: I think a good thing about my friends too, is 345 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 2: like we all are going through things and it's like 346 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 2: whenever my friends text me and they're like, hey, are 347 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 2: you okay for me to like dump on you today 348 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 2: because I got some shit going on I need. 349 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: To talk about. And I'm like, yeah, girl, like. 350 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 2: Go ahead and talk to me, Like I feel like 351 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 2: that's being a good friend. It's like, sometimes I'm not 352 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 2: in emotional I'm not in the emotional capacity to like 353 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 2: hear what you have going on. Like sometimes I have 354 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 2: my own shit going on and I can't hear about 355 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: what your grandma can cussed you out about today or 356 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: something like that, Like I just can't listen to it 357 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 2: right now, So I feel like it's friendships are definitely 358 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 2: different now, and like people this definition of friendship is 359 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 2: just kind of weird to me. 360 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's what I was about to say. 361 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 2: Like, sometimes people not talking to you every day, it's 362 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 2: not because of you, right, They probably got some shit 363 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 2: going on that they haven't even told you about, that 364 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 2: you don't even know about, you know what I mean, 365 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 2: And they just not in the mood to talk. But 366 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: if that's your real friend, Like me and my friends 367 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 2: have gone a week without talking, right, I have friends 368 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 2: who live who still live in Houston and stuff, and 369 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 2: like we don't talk every single day sometimes, like I said, 370 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: we'll go a week without talking, but I'm not over 371 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 2: here like, oh no, are they mad at me? 372 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: Or is it we got an issue? No? 373 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: Perfect example, I have a friend this was like one 374 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 2: of my really really really really really close friends, and 375 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 2: like the past year, she was going through things and 376 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 2: we fell off. 377 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: Like it wasn't no beef. 378 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 2: We just lost contact, you know, and it's like she 379 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 2: randomly hit me up the other day and we're just 380 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: kind of like basically kind of like getting on my ass, 381 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 2: Like you haven't been a good friend. 382 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: It's like, first of all, we haven't talked in a months. 383 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: It ain't nothing. 384 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 2: The irony of the whole message is day you ain't 385 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 2: a good friend. 386 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 3: We'll see I ain't saying all that I said. 387 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 2: You ain't gotta set. But my thing is, it's like, 388 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 2: you know, I'm your little people. If I go, if 389 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: I'm like reaching out to somebody, I'm reaching out to you, 390 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 2: and it's just like we're not seeing out of aye. 391 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: Sometimes people just grow apart. It ain't no beef, and 392 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: then sometimes there's nothing to talk about, Like I have 393 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: just moved on with my life. 394 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 2: I'm in a totally different chapter in my life than 395 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 2: like we were friends, like close close friends. I would 396 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 2: say like a year and a half ago. It's been 397 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 2: like a year and a half since we were really 398 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 2: like tight like that. So it's like so much has 399 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 2: happened in the year and a half. 400 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: It ain't no beef. I'm just in a different chapter. 401 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 1: So I think it's also. 402 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: Weird that people carry that on them, like thinking like, oh, 403 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,120 Speaker 2: me and Lex, my friends, Me and Lex beefed up. 404 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: And the whole time you over here don't know what's 405 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 1: going on. All the time, I'm. 406 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 2: Just like, oh, we just we cool, we're cordial, were cordial, 407 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 2: we just grew apart. I wouldn't necessarily say that's my friend, 408 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 2: but you ain't Miami. 409 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. Like people will literally walk. 410 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 3: Around like fuck Lex, fuck Drell. 411 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: Yeah we got beef, we beefed up, and they're like, oh, 412 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: what's the night said y'all beefed up? I'm like, who child? 413 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 2: This should be funny as fuck to me because I 414 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: really be feeling like, yeah, people be having one sidey beef. 415 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 2: People really be having one sided beefs because I don't 416 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,640 Speaker 2: got beef with nobody, Like it's nobody walking God's Green 417 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 2: Earth is that I have beef with. So if you 418 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 2: think you got beef with me, you really beefing with 419 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 2: your sulf. 420 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: I just found out I had beef this morning. I 421 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: don't even know. 422 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 2: And I'm anybody association associated, I don't even know. 423 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: But the thing, but the thing is I don't give 424 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: a fuck, like truly. 425 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I don't either though, because it's weird, 426 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 2: like I've never And my. 427 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 1: Thing is people always like to play victim. Yes, that's 428 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: my issue. 429 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 2: People like to play victim to circumstances that they created 430 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: all the time. And my thing is you also have 431 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 2: to look at people's track record as well. 432 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be funny. I have friends. 433 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: Literally my longest friend we've been friends for twenty two years. Same, 434 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 2: I've have friends that I've been friends with for ten years. 435 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 2: Everybody that I've been friends with, I can literally count 436 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 2: on my hand the people that I've like fallen out with. 437 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: I'm still cool with people that I went to preschool, 438 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 439 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: So much in elementary school. But if you're kind of a. 440 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 2: Person like I see you kind of switch up friend 441 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 2: groups every year every summer, you on a different girls trip. 442 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 2: I ain't see the same girls on the girls trip 443 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 2: last year. Like that'd be kind of like raising a 444 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 2: little red flat. 445 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: Because you the problem, That's what I'm saying. 446 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 2: So it's like, how many times are you gonna play victim, 447 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 2: especially with a bitch like me? 448 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: Like you know me, Drea. 449 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 4: I do. 450 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm not saying. 451 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 2: I'm the perfect friend, but you know that I like 452 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: to resolve conflict. If there's an issue, I'm coming to 453 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 2: your dough like I'm not. 454 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 3: If me and Dre have an issue. 455 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be like, tell here, let me tell 456 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 2: you what dre d right, let me tell you the 457 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 2: bitch get on sick, you know, like I don't do that. 458 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 2: Like I feel like, if me and you were having 459 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 2: an issue, I'm gonna bring it to you as soon 460 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 2: as I feel weird energy, weird vibes. 461 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 3: So if somebody falls. 462 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 2: Out with me, it was because you really just was 463 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 2: not trying to talk about it and you was really 464 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 2: just avoiding. I just got you was avoiding me, so 465 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: I just got to the point to where I'm like 466 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: fuck it. So now I'm like, fuck it. It ain't 467 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 2: no beef, but we can just move on. But now 468 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 2: you've created a beef in your head, Like I don't. 469 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,280 Speaker 1: Like you you but then two, you don't do nothing. 470 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 2: I don't do. Thank you you don't. I'm not the 471 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: kind of bitch I don't sit. 472 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 1: The worst thing about Lex as a friend is that 473 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: she just played. 474 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 2: All like all day, all fucking day, Like even when 475 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 2: you mad, She'll still be playing. I play all day, 476 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 2: like not be antagonize you and make it worse than 477 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 2: me thinking it's funny. 478 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 1: I do. I do play. 479 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 2: So that's like the only but other than that, like, 480 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 2: you don't do That's what I'm saying, You don't do nothing. 481 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get on Twitter some tweet you. I'm 482 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 2: not gonna be posting a little just a little boy 483 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 2: posts that, you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not 484 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 2: gonna do that because if i feel like I have 485 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 2: to go that far and I've called you a friend, 486 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just pick up the phone and call you. 487 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely not not. 488 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 2: That's definitely like when it comes to your friendships, a communicator, 489 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 2: and I feel like that definitely has made me grow 490 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 2: as a communicator with my friendships because when we first 491 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 2: became friends, I definitely used to be the type of 492 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 2: person where it's like, we. 493 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 1: Ain't gotta talk no more. 494 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 2: Oh, I know, yes, And I feel like I was 495 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 2: like that with a lot of people too, Like I mean, 496 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 2: but I will say this when I really fuck with 497 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: people and I care about you. Even though I did 498 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 2: used to be that type of person, I still would 499 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: always end up talking back to the person again. But 500 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 2: it was certain friendships that were better lifted, better left. 501 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, better, it was better. It was best. The best 502 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: decision was for me to just be like okay, beach. 503 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: By right, right, So getting back because we aw we 504 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,120 Speaker 2: talk talking about friendship. No, we're supposed to be talking 505 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 2: about accomplishment because it ain't loyal. But was getting back 506 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 2: to the top of your hands. Be the person that 507 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 2: has everybody is successful. Don't be like riding somebody else coattail. 508 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: Like that's dead. 509 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 2: We gonna leave that in twenty twenty one, the dick riding, 510 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 2: we leave. We leaving that in the past. 511 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:31,640 Speaker 1: We should have lifted in nineteen seventy. 512 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 2: All right, nineteen seventy eighteen seventy, Niggas. 513 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: Was right, Washington did come. That's what she said. That 514 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: probably was my home. My homie just ran for president. 515 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: That probably was they was trying to first. That was 516 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 2: probably trying to be in the peak on a dollar bill. 517 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're pulling out a dollar bill. This is my 518 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: dog right here. I was standing on the side of him. 519 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 1: I was right on the side of him. You just 520 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: couldn't see me. If you look close, you could see 521 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: my pe Niggas can claim any bro. 522 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: Girl, any fucking thing way, Yes, like definitely that shep 523 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 2: in the past. 524 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:07,479 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 525 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: But I feel like too, it's up to the people 526 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 2: who are the people who have accomplished the like and 527 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 2: within their friendships, it's also up to you too, like 528 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 2: dead that sit right, because I feel like a lot 529 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 2: of people allow their friends to use them when they 530 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 2: get on and they become popular just off of them. 531 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 2: And then some people are just big on loyalty, like 532 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 2: of course, I mean, and I feel like we're big 533 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 2: on loyalty. But I'm not about to let you use 534 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 2: me though, just because we've been friends for a long time. 535 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: I'm not about to let you use me up. And 536 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 2: I know that you're doing any just because of loyalty. 537 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 2: You gotta let them people know, like Bena, it's not 538 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 2: what we're doing. You need to get on your set. 539 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 2: And I feel like we're good at that holding each 540 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 2: other accountable. My friends, I know, we always hold each 541 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 2: other like all my friends are like working on stuff, 542 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 2: like I just don't have that issue in my group. 543 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, but I see a lot of that. I 544 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: see a lot of that shit going on. Yeah, for sure, 545 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: what's up. 546 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 2: Y'all is your girl xp any your girls and we 547 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 2: are here to tell y'all about honeylove. I feel like 548 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 2: a lot of times women, no matter what your age size. 549 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 2: We've always been scared of shapewear because we feel like 550 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 2: it's only for like people who are out of shape 551 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 2: or bad shape. But honestly, shapewear is for everyone. 552 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 1: I mean the older I just. 553 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 2: Love shapewear because I feel like it just makes everything 554 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 2: look so smooth and flay. Sometimes it's not even necessarily 555 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 2: to like change your shape, right, and just to make 556 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 2: things look more you know, right. And the good thing 557 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:35,679 Speaker 2: about Honeylove is they have constructed their garments with signature X, 558 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,439 Speaker 2: so it targets and sculpts your mixed section without like 559 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 2: you know, you know how sometimes you wear something that 560 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 2: like squeezes your budd in, it squeeze your hips in, 561 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 2: and it just squeezes everything in. 562 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:46,880 Speaker 1: So you lose your shape. 563 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 2: Well, Honeylove has a formula that works that just you know, 564 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 2: accentuates the ways to make some hip set, that booty set, 565 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 2: everything just be sitting hunt. Yes, And it's been featured 566 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 2: in the New York Times on Good Morning Meat. 567 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: And on top of that, they have thousands of five 568 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 1: star reviews, so you know the words. 569 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 2: Yes, So make sure you got a Honeylove dot com 570 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 2: and get twenty percent off and use cold poor minds. 571 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 2: This p ou are in my nds, and you'll get 572 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 2: an additional ten percent off of your entire order. Honeylove 573 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 2: dot com code poor minds, y'all, you get twenty percent 574 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 2: off of a second item and ten percent off. 575 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: The whole order. It's a it's a steal it. 576 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 2: So, like I said, if you are scared of shapeweard, 577 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,199 Speaker 2: don't be scared no more. Honeylove got you. 578 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: Just try it out? All right, I'm gonna let you 579 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: bring in the next topic. Why you let me bring 580 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: it in? You the one that really put me on game? 581 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 2: About this, okay, about how much of a big of 582 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: a difference these things are and how you really need 583 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 2: to learn how to spot that shit. Now, we're not 584 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: doing the like whipster's definition of these words, so I 585 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 2: can be. 586 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 1: Like they ummy, they mean the same thing. Legs got ye, 587 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: I got y'all graduated. 588 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 2: No, we know they kind of basically mean the same thing, 589 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:03,440 Speaker 2: but we talk about like the hood definition of it. 590 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, So go ahead, go ahead, girl. 591 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: So for the next topic, we want us to talk 592 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:13,639 Speaker 2: about envy versus jealousy because I feel like, and I 593 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: told you this before, I feel like Jealousy is a 594 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 2: normal human emotion, right, anybody did say that they haven't 595 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 2: ever been jealous before something, you're lying, you know what 596 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 2: I mean? Because it's a normal human emotion that I 597 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 2: feel like we're all capable of. But envy is a 598 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 2: completely different thing. Like envy is like envy will make 599 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: you hate somebody, right, Like I feel like sometimes when 600 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 2: people be jealous of other people, like you might be 601 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 2: jealous because you like, damn, like I've been working on 602 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 2: this for a long time. I've been doing the same 603 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 2: thing as this person. How they end up getting the 604 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 2: opportunity or I wish that I had that. To me, 605 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: that's jealousy. But envy is like motherfuckers who be killing 606 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 2: their friends and she damn. 607 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna say fighting, nah, I mean for. 608 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: Real, people do be all murdering partners and fucking or 609 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,640 Speaker 2: or people who fuck like they friend man or fuck 610 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: they homeboy girlfriend and shit like that. 611 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 612 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 2: To me, those are people that are envious because you 613 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 2: don't let that shit fester into some shit that's making 614 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 2: you do some wild sup. 615 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 1: Right wild wild stup. And this is some wild disloyal shit. 616 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 2: This is what I'm saying about jealousy too, because I 617 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 2: have been jealous before. 618 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: I think has been jealous before. 619 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 2: But in my jealousy, I was still able to congratulate 620 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 2: people and tell them good job and say, you know what, 621 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 2: I'm proud of you, because even though I was feeling 622 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 2: a little jealous, it was still motivating. 623 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, you can. 624 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 2: Still be jealous of somebody a little bit, but you 625 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 2: don't be like, damn, you know what that's gonna be 626 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 2: me in a year. 627 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I was about to say, too. 628 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, jealousy, it depends on how you deal with the 629 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 2: emotion too, right, you know what I mean? 630 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,400 Speaker 1: Because for some people it. 631 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 2: Is motivating and it'd be like damn, Like if this 632 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 2: person doing that, I could do the same shit. 633 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 1: Like when Beyonce got that Grammy, I said, I know, 634 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 1: I don't mind coming, I know it's coming. It was jealousy. 635 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,360 Speaker 2: I still got on Twitter and I said good job, 636 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 2: but I knew, I knew my time it's still gonna come. 637 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: That was just an example but envy. But this is. 638 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 2: Also when y'all need to check y'allself. Y'all have to 639 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: check y'allself and y'all feeling this. This is the difference 640 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 2: when you're envious to somebody is because you see somebody 641 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 2: doing something, somebody that's close to you, and you don't 642 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 2: pack them on the back or say good job. Because 643 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 2: I had an instance that's like, I was actually very 644 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 2: shocked and somebody didn say, you know, good job in 645 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 2: your live show or I'm proud of you, and it 646 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 2: was just really fucking crazy to me, you know what 647 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 2: I'm saying. So Evie, usually come from the people around you, though, yes, and. 648 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,360 Speaker 1: That shit is crazy. So if you ever find yourself 649 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,400 Speaker 1: not telling somebody close to you, congratulations are good job, 650 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: because you kind of feel some type of way, bitch, 651 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 1: you're not jealous, you're envious, and you need to check yourself. 652 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: Like that's a nap, that's a s it is and 653 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 1: it's very it's very. 654 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 4: Rude. 655 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 1: So you missed this train ride, boot enjoyed the projects 656 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: because I damn you all my life, I had to fight. 657 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 3: But that's the thing that's crazy. 658 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: I will say that, well what she was about to say. 659 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 2: Because whenever I had three, I mean I still got 660 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 2: three dollars. No you don't, but no, it's crazy because 661 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,679 Speaker 2: everybody was like, man, look you so funny. 662 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: Man, I know you gonna. I know, I know you're gonna. 663 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 1: It's like when I actually started doing the ship, They're. 664 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 2: Like, man, she really ain't that funny, bro, He's really 665 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 2: not that big. 666 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: I mean she ah yeah. I mean it's like, I 667 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:40,719 Speaker 1: don't know. 668 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 2: I mean, people are definitely very weird, you know what 669 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 2: I mean. To me, envy is just a strange emotion 670 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 2: because you shouldn't. I just feel like it's no reason 671 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 2: to ever be envious of anybody because literally we all 672 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 2: like everybody is capable of doing great things. 673 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 3: Honestly, here you go with the d D quotes. Everybody 674 00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 3: got to say twenty four hours. 675 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 1: Well I wasn't about to say that, but true shot 676 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: out today. That is very true. Like everybody had the 677 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: same twenty four hours. 678 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 2: It's nothing that one person has accomplished that you can't accomplish. 679 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 2: I mean certain things like, for example, you thinking you're 680 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 2: gonna get a Grammy. No, that's not about the head pitch, 681 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 2: do you know? Because you can't sing, I can rap, 682 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 2: not enough to get a Grammy. 683 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: I can do. 684 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 2: Maybe you could get a Soul Train Music Award. I 685 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 2: think r A B T Award. 686 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 1: Don't do that. BT war is Harry prestigious. I'm saying 687 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 1: it is it is. I wasn't trying to be funny. 688 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm serious. 689 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 2: I feel like you could probably get like a little 690 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 2: BT award, Like if you sung a hook on the song, 691 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: you can get a BET Award for the hook. 692 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 1: But I don't know a lot of Grammy. 693 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 2: Though, looking for thank you when I get on that. 694 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 2: Y'all see this. This is envy, this is v spot. 695 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: It know it, learn it. Okay. 696 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: I'm just saying like I was saying though, But yeah, 697 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 2: it's certain things of course, like an idiot somebody can't sing, 698 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 2: and you're trying to be Beyonce, Well then nine times 699 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 2: out of ten that's not gonna happen. That's not possible. 700 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 2: But you're still capable of doing great things. And I 701 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 2: think that's the issue, you know what I mean. Instead 702 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 2: of people focusing their energy on themselves and trying to 703 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 2: make things happen for themselves, they just choose to be jealous. 704 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: Of other people. 705 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 2: I agree, you know what I mean? Or we're not 706 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 2: jealous envious envious and that's an ugly, ugly feeling. Like 707 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 2: I can honestly say, I have never been envious of anybody. 708 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, me either. 709 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 2: I just I cannot allow myself because it's so nasty, 710 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 2: like especially if it's a very strong emotion, it's a 711 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 2: very strong feeling, like it's. 712 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: Like, damn, you dislike that person that much. 713 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 2: I could never look at you do something and be like, bitch, 714 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 2: I'll not telling her congratulations, like I'm not. 715 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 716 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 2: Now it's different if it's like I'm like mad as 717 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 2: you're not fucking with you, Like remember when we wasn't 718 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 2: fucking with each other and I wasn't liking your pictures 719 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,719 Speaker 2: dread coming, like why you ain't liking my picture? Like 720 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: one usually gets thirteen thousand. It's so funny because twelve 721 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 2: ninety nine so funny because me and Lex are so petty, 722 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 2: Like if y'all knew how petty we we be. 723 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: When we be mad at each other. 724 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 2: I remember when we was like having our little problems 725 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 2: or whatever. You used to always be like, yeah, I 726 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 2: be knowing when you're not fuck with me because you 727 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 2: don't be watching my story. 728 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, cause you the first one I see that on 729 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: BAK when I don't see that bas picture. 730 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 2: I said this, and I'm always one of the first 731 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 2: people to watch your shit, so you would always be like, 732 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 2: I know Andrea mad at me because you were literally 733 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 2: because one thing about me. 734 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: When I'm mad at people, I don't give a fuck 735 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 1: what you're doing. I really don't like. 736 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 2: I don't care looking from your burn up, don'tla girl, 737 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 2: why are you telling them about my. 738 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: God damn girl. We have a good conception on And 739 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 1: it's so funny because Lex burn a paste. 740 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 2: She actually got like a picture sure right there, and 741 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 2: she'd be pretending like you said, nigga probably gonna be 742 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 2: watching y'all stories. Y'all don't even know. No, my shit 743 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 2: just look like a fake pain, like a fake page. 744 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 2: But I'll be like, because I had to ask somebody 745 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 2: on there one time, and I actually like sent a request, 746 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 2: so I had to make it look like I was 747 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 2: active who you had to add? They accepted you. 748 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 1: I'll be all with her Tea too. I'm not gonna 749 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: lie to y'all. I had this conversation with Rapper Bay 750 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: the other day. 751 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 2: I said, it doesn't matter, like if a nigga fuck 752 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 2: with a girl and you find out like a nigga 753 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:39,600 Speaker 2: that you was fucking with fuck with a girl. It 754 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 2: don't matter if he stopped fucking with that girl, you 755 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 2: have gained a stalker for life. Like I'm not saying 756 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 2: I stalk the girl, but like when I get on 757 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 2: my little berner and I see her. 758 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: Little circle, I go look at it. 759 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: I will say this, I think that everybody, like you said, 760 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 2: if you have dealt with a dude, or you was 761 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 2: in a relationship with a. 762 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: Dude and you and another girl and all. 763 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 2: About each other, I absolutely think everybody still occasionally occasually 764 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 2: go look at they don't deal with each other anymore, 765 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 2: Like you gonna go take a little peak. Like That's 766 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 2: why people say, like if you ever mess with somebody 767 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 2: nigger or something like that, you have gained a. 768 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: Stalker from I got a stalker right now. You have 769 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: a few, actually I have a few, but I have 770 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: one that's like real active way right now. 771 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 2: She only outside right now. 772 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 1: She real active with the stalking, and that ship is crazy. 773 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm not good at it, though I'll be having to 774 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: give her prompts. 775 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 2: No, she's definitely good at it because when she put 776 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 2: together this last time, I was like she even thinking 777 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 2: that ship out. 778 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: Expect the gadget camelbles on this bitch for real, bitch, 779 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: you are stupid. But back to. 780 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 2: Back to the topic though, back to the topic. So, yeah, 781 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like you have definitely 782 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 2: had like a crazy few years I have. 783 00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 3: And you know what's crazy, I think it's so. 784 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 2: You were cool, we being very like envy. Yeah, you 785 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 2: growing and the success. 786 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: And you know what's. 787 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 2: Crazy for me is because everybody that's around me and 788 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 2: knows me, like, I have my moments. I'm not perfect, 789 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 2: I'm not always happy, but eighty five percent of. 790 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 1: The time I'm in a good mood. I'm exuding positive energy. 791 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 3: I'm giving positive energy even if when I don't want to. 792 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 1: Like, but you clap for your friends. 793 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 2: For everyone everyone like, no matter what, especially black will. 794 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: Is crazy when it's not reciprocated. 795 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,839 Speaker 2: It's so crazy to me because honestly, like I said, 796 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,360 Speaker 2: I'm not a perfect person, but I have never done 797 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 2: anything to any of the people that didn't clap for 798 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,479 Speaker 2: me except plat for them and love them and show 799 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:44,320 Speaker 2: them support. 800 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 1: So it just be like it's weird, but it's like, 801 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:47,799 Speaker 1: you know, it is what it means. 802 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,879 Speaker 2: But that's the thing though, that's why it's like, that's 803 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 2: not your problem, you know what I mean, because on 804 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,800 Speaker 2: your end, and that's how I feel like with a 805 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 2: lot of friendships that I no longer have, people that 806 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 2: I'm no longer cool with, I sleep well at night 807 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 2: because I know I did well by you, like I 808 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,800 Speaker 2: did good by you. We're not friends no more because 809 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,839 Speaker 2: you was on some weird she you know what I mean. 810 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 2: We had to stop being friends because you were weird 811 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 2: because I had I definitely had a friend who was 812 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 2: very envious to me at one point. 813 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 3: I told you even before y'all started. 814 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: Being here's what happened. 815 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you just gotta let people see for theirself 816 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 2: and everything that I said. 817 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 1: I know that's right. I know that's right. 818 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 2: You say that ship right today because you definitely used 819 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:28,800 Speaker 2: to say frutition. 820 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 1: Pan, But I'm okay, yeah, I mean, it's definitely unfortunate, 821 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 822 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 2: But you just have to, like you said, be able 823 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,800 Speaker 2: to spotty and cut those people off because if you don't, 824 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,719 Speaker 2: that's dangerous. It really, it's really dangerous having somebody around you. 825 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 1: But like you said, a. 826 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 2: Lot of those like when you watch like True I 827 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 2: D and all those stories, like a lot of them, 828 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 2: be like people that be mad and jealous. But you 829 00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 2: know why, because I feel like people that are envious 830 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 2: of you they're envious because they know you on a 831 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 2: more personal livel I feel like somebody that don't know you, 832 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 2: it's not really capable of being envious because they don't 833 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 2: really know you. That's why it's more and so of 834 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 2: a jealousy thing. Like if somebody was to come and 835 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,840 Speaker 2: look at your Instagram, you know what I mean, and 836 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 2: they like, oh, licks, always traveling, licks, always doing this, 837 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,280 Speaker 2: that's jealousy, but they can't really be They can't really 838 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 2: be envious because they don't really know you at your core, 839 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I feel like people that 840 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 2: are envious to you they know you, and they're jealous 841 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 2: of a lot of things. They might be jealous of 842 00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 2: your success, but they might just also be jealous of 843 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,800 Speaker 2: you as a person for things that you can't control, 844 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 2: like the fact like how people fuck with you? Right, 845 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 2: somebody tweeted that other it was like, sometimes people hate 846 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 2: you because of how much people look yes, or because 847 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 2: you have things about you that they wish that they had, 848 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 2: Like you're so fucking funny. A person might be You're 849 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,400 Speaker 2: so stupid. A person might be envious to you just 850 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,720 Speaker 2: because of how you just organically can make people laugh 851 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,800 Speaker 2: without trying, and they wish that they could do that, 852 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I mean, if you watch 853 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 2: like I'm a true crime person, like I love the 854 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 2: true crime shows, and if you watch those things, every 855 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 2: time somebody gets murdered, the first thing they do is 856 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 2: look at people that are close. 857 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 1: To them every time. 858 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 2: And that's why I said, it's very important that you 859 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 2: get those people out of your life that you feel 860 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 2: are envious. Like I said, it's a difference between somebody 861 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,320 Speaker 2: being envious and somebody being jealous, Like I've been jealous 862 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 2: to people, but I'm still gonna clap for you, but 863 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 2: I'm still gonna be working on bettering myself. 864 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 1: But to be like envious, like, oh, I'm not saying 865 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,360 Speaker 1: nothing to this day, and you use that for motivation. 866 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 1: I feel like we both did. 867 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 2: Like it was shit that I wanted and shit that 868 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 2: I wanted to do, and I would look at other 869 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 2: people and be like, damn, I can't wait till I 870 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 2: could do that, And it was a little bit like 871 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,520 Speaker 2: you know, I'm inside, I'm like, Damn, I wish that 872 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,520 Speaker 2: I was doing this shit right now, but it just 873 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,800 Speaker 2: made me want to go harder so that I could 874 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,800 Speaker 2: get those things and become that person that I wanted 875 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 2: to be, you know, because life is not I think 876 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 2: that's the problem too. People always looking at shit like 877 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,760 Speaker 2: it's a competition, and I think that makes people jealous 878 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 2: the ENVSID because everybody's life is different. Like some people 879 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 2: aren't meant to pop off to their forties. Some people 880 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 2: gonna pop off when they twenty. It's like, I just 881 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 2: said that to my friend the other day because she 882 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,359 Speaker 2: was telling me how her cousin he been like kind 883 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 2: of depressed and stuff like me because he just feel 884 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 2: like he's not doing enough. But mind you, he's like 885 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,919 Speaker 2: twenty four twenty five, and I'm just like, I think 886 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 2: that that's because he wants so much out of life. 887 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 2: But at the same time, you have to understand, of course, 888 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 2: nobody wants to be thirty. I mean with thirty five 889 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 2: forty before they reached say first M. But realistically that's 890 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,280 Speaker 2: what happens. Some people don't be fifty until they fucking 891 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 2: touch your m. Some people never touch your im. See, 892 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,320 Speaker 2: I'm just being honest. 893 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,840 Speaker 1: So it's like you just can't be hard on yourself. 894 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 1: You gotta just live your life. 895 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,760 Speaker 2: And yeah, I think that's what be stressing people like child. 896 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into. 897 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 2: The bed duo dubbed bow bow about about crying because 898 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 2: the episode that we just deal with Mona what she 899 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 2: was saying. 900 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 1: So I here be back there bobbing his head and 901 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,400 Speaker 1: he really was, Like when we were singing and he 902 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:56,279 Speaker 1: was back like this. 903 00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,360 Speaker 2: You would have thought it was the flavor and you 904 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 2: read he was backed up. 905 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 1: Bobby, I am dad. Okay, so go ahead, this is 906 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,360 Speaker 1: the girl. Okay. 907 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 2: So for this topic, I really want to I mean, 908 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 2: for this segment, I really wanted to talk about your 909 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 2: body rejecting your partner. 910 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: That's a real thing. It is. 911 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 2: It's happened to me. It Actually it wasn't my partner. 912 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 2: I mean, depending on which you're partner, somebody you're fucking, 913 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 2: cause I think a lot of times I think. 914 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,960 Speaker 1: Your partner is the person you in a relationship with. 915 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 3: Well, if I don't care, there's somebody I'm fucking. 916 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 1: I got like five. 917 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:35,359 Speaker 2: Partners whatever, somebody that you've passed that you're constantly having 918 00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 2: sex with is what we'll say. Okay, yeah, but I 919 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,840 Speaker 2: feel like a lot of times people will be having 920 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,360 Speaker 2: sex and it's good sex. We're always having great sex, 921 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,399 Speaker 2: good sex, and then like all of a sudden, one day, 922 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 2: you try to have sex with your girl and she 923 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 2: not wet and you feel like, okay, well that happened. 924 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,560 Speaker 1: To me recently, and that's how I knew I didn't 925 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,359 Speaker 1: like that, nigga, I'm worried. Ye, like your body can 926 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: really reject. 927 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, And it's like I felt 928 00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,720 Speaker 2: it in my soul. I felt it in my spirit 929 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 2: that I didn't like him no more. But then when 930 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 2: we was about to FuG and I was not horny, 931 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 2: and I wasn't with it, said the pussy bone, your 932 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,919 Speaker 2: saal bone connected to your kouchie bone. 933 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,400 Speaker 1: Yes it is. It is as anatomy. I'm telling y'all. 934 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 2: I think that a lot of times men don't pay 935 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 2: attention to their women's bodies enough. 936 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 1: You think that's what it is. 937 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 2: I just think sometimes you be off people like for me, 938 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 2: that's what it was, just off that. But the signs 939 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 2: were there before y'all even got into the bed, the 940 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,879 Speaker 2: way that y'all have been like interacting with each other, 941 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:34,839 Speaker 2: So he should have known laying down in the bed 942 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 2: with you or probably the energy wasn't gonna be there. 943 00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but if we haven't really been talking, conversation 944 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,239 Speaker 2: has been short, the energy hasn't been there. Why do 945 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 2: you think we can just get into the bed and 946 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:46,319 Speaker 2: you're gonna have this amazing pussy waiting on? 947 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,360 Speaker 1: Then, even when he was like kissing on me and stuff, 948 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 1: I was like, you just be like, yeah, you just 949 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 1: be off fu. Yeah, I was just off here, like 950 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: your body can really truly. 951 00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 2: But I think that's for men as well, because I'm 952 00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 2: really talking for a woman's point of view all so, 953 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,759 Speaker 2: but I feel like that can happen to men too, 954 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 2: Like you know. 955 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,360 Speaker 1: You don't get hard, Yeah, you don't get hard, or 956 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,240 Speaker 1: you be fucking and it just the energy is off. 957 00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: The energy be off. 958 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that definitely happened to me and throw 959 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,479 Speaker 2: Back Bay one time. Like we were just fucking and 960 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 2: Dick was limp, Plussy was dry. 961 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,359 Speaker 1: We were just like what are we doing? We were 962 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 1: just looking at each other like, yeah, I'm gonna go ahead, 963 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and go you know, sometimes it 964 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: just happens. 965 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 2: But I feel like we need to listen to our 966 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 2: bodies because we're getting older. Sex is just so much 967 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 2: more than physical. Y'all should know that by now, Like, yeah, 968 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 2: so just trying to physically just with somebody that's not 969 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 2: it's not gonna work, like like, so we have to 970 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 2: pay attention to our bodies and listen to our partners 971 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,799 Speaker 2: for sure. For sure, because I feel like there's no 972 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 2: reason y'all should have even been in that situation. I 973 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 2: just feel like, yeah, when that happens, it's done. 974 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. 975 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 2: I mean, well, no, you can't think well, you would know. 976 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 1: I know what you was about to say. 977 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,879 Speaker 2: The problem the sol bone connected to the pussy bone. Again, 978 00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 2: it definitely reconnected now, so it don't be done. Yeah, 979 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 2: but it's also if y'all are both willing to work 980 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,200 Speaker 2: on it as well, because then you say, like the 981 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 2: conversation afterwards, y'all still was like, honestly, the issue is Honestly, 982 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:25,879 Speaker 2: the issue is I just don't like men that are combatist, 983 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 2: and I feel like he's very combatist, and so it 984 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 2: just turns over time, it has turned me off. It 985 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 2: wasn't like that in the beginning, but I feel like 986 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 2: now it's always like a power struggle. 987 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,840 Speaker 3: Like every time you say something he's like, yeah. 988 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,880 Speaker 2: It's like a power struggle, and I just don't like 989 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 2: situations like that, Like I like men that allow me 990 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 2: to be feminine and allow me to be soft and 991 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 2: be nice and be cool, Like I don't want to 992 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:51,920 Speaker 2: have to argue with you all the time. But when him, 993 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 2: it just seems like it's always an argument about the 994 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 2: most frivoly things. 995 00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 3: So let me write that down. 996 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 1: Start with. 997 00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 2: But yees, he'd just be tripping about the mouse fribbles, 998 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 2: like small things that I just don't be having time 999 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,279 Speaker 2: for it. And so I feel like it transfers over 1000 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,319 Speaker 2: to the sex lights. 1001 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 1: Now it's an. 1002 00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 3: Energy thing to me. 1003 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 2: Now, sex is all about energy, Like if my coaching 1004 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 2: is dry, it's not just because like we know how 1005 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,280 Speaker 2: the body works, like if you touch a girl's vagina 1006 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,720 Speaker 2: or insert something, it's naturally going to get wet. 1007 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 3: But it's like if. 1008 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 2: We're having sex and I'm like dry and I'm not 1009 00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 2: feeling it, it's just it's so much more. And I 1010 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 2: know that's how I be knowing I don't like him 1011 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,719 Speaker 2: because I'm gonna lie it don't take a lot of 1012 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 2: Nigga can blow on me and I be we. 1013 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:51,600 Speaker 1: We talked this way over there, but no, it really 1014 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 1: don't though. 1015 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,239 Speaker 2: If I like you, you not like that, Like, if 1016 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 2: I really like somebody, it really don't take much to 1017 00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 2: get me around. 1018 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm being serious, I get it. 1019 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:01,879 Speaker 2: I mean, but I feel like when I if I cause 1020 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 2: I mean, we've talked about these before on the show. 1021 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,360 Speaker 2: I only have sex with me and that I really like. 1022 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 2: So if I really like you, it doesn't take me you. 1023 00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 1: Know what I mean, especially like if you haven't seen 1024 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:17,600 Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, it's like, yeah, I do get that. Yeah, 1025 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: It's like it really don't take much. 1026 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 2: So it's like the fact that I just wasn't feeling it, 1027 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 2: and I'm like, y'all, I don't really like this nigga 1028 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 2: do want? But then he called me today he was 1029 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 2: being so nice. I feel like niggas be knowing when 1030 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:29,440 Speaker 2: they're about to lose they. 1031 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:34,240 Speaker 1: B yeah, I mean having bad niggas be knowing. Yeah, 1032 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: they be knowing. 1033 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 2: They can feel it, like they always try to like, 1034 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 2: oh ship, let me it. Especially the bad sex really 1035 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 2: is like the last straw for a lot of people. 1036 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 2: Like when you have bad sex with somebody, you kind 1037 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,279 Speaker 2: of like want to y'all, y'all avoid each other. It's 1038 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 2: always like that first couple of days, y'all don't talk, 1039 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 2: y'all don't say nothing to each other, and it's cause 1040 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 2: it's like, what was that? 1041 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,040 Speaker 1: What do we like? What is the next conversation? 1042 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1043 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:02,399 Speaker 1: Was that? What the fu? You know what I'm saying? 1044 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:08,560 Speaker 2: Likeas but no, I just I don't know. It wasn't bad, 1045 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,120 Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong, Like the sex was not bad. 1046 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:15,879 Speaker 2: It just took a little more effort, mean than usual. Yeah, 1047 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 2: because I just feel like I just mentally, you weren't there. 1048 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 1: I wasn't there. 1049 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 2: So that's why I say we have to listen to 1050 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 2: our partners outside of the bedroom to make the experience 1051 00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 2: in the bedroom as good as it can be, because, 1052 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,480 Speaker 2: like I said, makeup sex only works if like y'all 1053 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,359 Speaker 2: really really low key not that man, and then y'all 1054 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 2: get really I feel like, I mean like I've had 1055 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 2: some of the best makeup sex and we was like 1056 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:37,800 Speaker 2: mad as. 1057 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 1: Fun, y'all mad, but y'all have made up. 1058 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,879 Speaker 2: I threw a wine glass at a nigga head one 1059 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,920 Speaker 2: time and after that was fired. But before y'all had sex, 1060 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 2: y'all kind of made up a little bit to get 1061 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:50,840 Speaker 2: to the point of having sex, like y'all, wasn't just 1062 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,359 Speaker 2: made argument like in the movies and he was just like, 1063 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:54,640 Speaker 2: come here, girl. 1064 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 1: Oh that was a little I'll see it in y'all. Yes, 1065 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: that's how they may be in the movies. They be like. 1066 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:15,759 Speaker 2: And I'm sorry, you're being rob I'm sorry, but that 1067 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:17,000 Speaker 2: ends how they be in the movies. 1068 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 1: You notice how they beat they do right, that's really 1069 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:28,920 Speaker 1: how it me. But yeah, that's never happened to me 1070 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:29,439 Speaker 1: in real life. 1071 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:33,200 Speaker 2: That's how you know, movies be kelt, movies be fucking 1072 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 2: caut bro. 1073 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 1: What movies be cap bro? 1074 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:39,879 Speaker 2: Like even how may will be coming in the house, 1075 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,439 Speaker 2: like they'll just come in the house and then drop 1076 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 2: all they shep and then just jump all over each 1077 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 2: other and start taking their clothes off and be kissing 1078 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 2: and walking together to the bedroom and then following the 1079 00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,239 Speaker 2: bead like the airport scenes when they're like about to 1080 00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 2: get on the flight and they're like id or like 1081 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 2: they be on one side of the airport and the 1082 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 2: other person be over there and they be like look 1083 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 2: and they drop their ship and then start running to 1084 00:46:58,640 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 2: each other. 1085 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 1: They do not be in real. 1086 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 2: Life like go y'all knowing like you. 1087 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:11,800 Speaker 1: They film girl, y'all be girl movies. Is so fucking 1088 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:12,440 Speaker 1: funny with. 1089 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 2: You, bro, I just listen to your body. Yeah, do 1090 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 2: you want to you want to wait for this one? 1091 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,400 Speaker 2: Because I didn't get to watch it because I was sick. 1092 00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,360 Speaker 1: We could do the other wing if you want to. 1093 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,839 Speaker 1: It's up to you. We could do the other one. 1094 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 3: Okay, So we're gonna break down. 1095 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 1: What was it? What was it? The Unforgivable? 1096 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Sandra Bullock just came out with a movie 1097 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 2: called The Unforgivable. 1098 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:35,839 Speaker 1: I liked it. Drean didn't care for it too too much. 1099 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 2: I mean, it's not that I didn't care for it. 1100 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:42,400 Speaker 2: I was just waiting on the climax. They had a climax, 1101 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 2: and I feel like it wasn't exciting to me. I 1102 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 2: guess I thought it was gonna be more of an 1103 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,799 Speaker 2: action movie from the description. I thought it was gonna 1104 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 2: be way more action in and it was. 1105 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,920 Speaker 1: It was like a drama. It was a drama movie. 1106 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: But I don't know. It's just so even the way 1107 00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,319 Speaker 1: it ended it was weird. I liked the ending because 1108 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 1: I was like what what? 1109 00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 2: What? 1110 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: Like? 1111 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 2: That threw me for a loop because I'm just I'm 1112 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 2: just I like to watch movies and I try to 1113 00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,080 Speaker 2: figure them out. Because the person I watched it with 1114 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,880 Speaker 2: definitely figured it out, but I was just like, no, 1115 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 2: that's not gonna happen. 1116 00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:13,360 Speaker 1: Figured out anyway. 1117 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:17,279 Speaker 2: Okay, So the movie starts with a woman and like 1118 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 2: she's in a house with a little girl, and like 1119 00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,800 Speaker 2: the police are outside. They're telling her to come outside, 1120 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 2: and she's like, if y'all walk in this house, I'm 1121 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 2: gonna shoot y'all. Y'all trespass and we're not leaving, We're 1122 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 2: not going. Gunshot happens, and then it goes. 1123 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,319 Speaker 1: To the next scene and she ends up in jail. 1124 00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,720 Speaker 2: She ends up until she started twenty years in jail, 1125 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,480 Speaker 2: and so like she's getting out at the beginning of 1126 00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 2: the movie and like trying to adjust to being back, 1127 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:40,880 Speaker 2: you know, in society. 1128 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 1: They put her in a halfway. They put her in 1129 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:44,320 Speaker 1: a halfway. It's just like jail. 1130 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 2: Halfway houses are trash. You can just leave, but you 1131 00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 2: got a curfew. Because she was in that whole fighting 1132 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:51,280 Speaker 2: for her life. 1133 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 1: She not only one time, and not for her life. 1134 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,359 Speaker 1: She beat the hell up. She was trying to eat 1135 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:02,520 Speaker 1: her crackles. She who ris bitch. But y'alln't even think 1136 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 1: that was rich. This was the sultine. 1137 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 2: She would be the ass for them saltines. So anyways, 1138 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 2: like she's in the halfway house. 1139 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 1: She's working like construction type jobs. 1140 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,440 Speaker 2: Like a fish market. Yeah, like she has a little job. 1141 00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 2: Like she's just trying to like get back in society. 1142 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 2: But during this time, we found out that the little 1143 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 2: girl that was in the house with her was her 1144 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,479 Speaker 2: little sister, her little sister and their dad had passed away, 1145 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,239 Speaker 2: so she was raising a little sister by herself, right, 1146 00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,200 Speaker 2: So she's trying to get her at least not get 1147 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,200 Speaker 2: her sister back because at this point, the little girl 1148 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,239 Speaker 2: has grown up. And the reason why the police were 1149 00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 2: there is because they were about to a victim from 1150 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:38,840 Speaker 2: the house because I guess you know, she had to 1151 00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 2: be being ring, so. 1152 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,040 Speaker 1: They were there to a victim. 1153 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 2: So she's just been trying to like meet up with 1154 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 2: her sister and just like let her know that she's here, 1155 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,399 Speaker 2: that she's been writing her. 1156 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,520 Speaker 1: She wrote her letters, she wasn't getting. 1157 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 2: Them, and the sister got adopted by a family that 1158 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 2: already had a daughter too, right. 1159 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,720 Speaker 3: So the sister is adopted, so they got their little family. 1160 00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: Mind you the cop. Now she killed a cop. They 1161 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,439 Speaker 1: call her a cop. Yeah she did. She the cop. 1162 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:03,839 Speaker 1: The cop that. 1163 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 2: Walked in the house got shy and his sons are 1164 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 2: like kind of. 1165 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,719 Speaker 1: After her too. She's out, she's free, she gets to 1166 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: live her life. What the fuck is that? 1167 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1168 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:17,120 Speaker 2: So Sandra Bullock's character, I don't know why, decides to 1169 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 2: go to the house where everything happened at. 1170 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 3: So she meets the people that live in the house. 1171 00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 3: He's like a lawyer and. 1172 00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 1: I think she a lawyer too. She was a lawyer. 1173 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 1: Was she a teacher or something? Anyway, y'all know, I 1174 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,759 Speaker 1: love me somebody. She was acting her ass off and 1175 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,879 Speaker 1: I wish her rong, like I wish she had more. 1176 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was it was like a small she did 1177 00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:37,279 Speaker 3: she did? 1178 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 2: We need to be So basically, the lawyer that lives 1179 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 2: in the house ends up trying to help her. So 1180 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,239 Speaker 2: he tries to help her meet up with the daughter. 1181 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 2: So he reaches out with the family. They were like, okay, 1182 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:49,359 Speaker 2: well we'll meet up with her, not with the daughter, 1183 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:50,120 Speaker 2: just us. 1184 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,520 Speaker 1: They have a meeting. She'd go to the limp. 1185 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:57,600 Speaker 2: Maybe she starts pansing on them, but I would have 1186 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,320 Speaker 2: started spansing on them too, because come to find out, 1187 00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 2: they never gave the girl any of the letters that 1188 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,839 Speaker 2: she had been writing her for twenty years. But would 1189 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,320 Speaker 2: you really give your daughter letters that when her sister 1190 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,919 Speaker 2: killed the cop to your knowledge, like she killed the cop. 1191 00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 2: Would you want you want your daughter to kind of 1192 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 2: like grow up with a normal life and we adopted 1193 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,279 Speaker 2: her or closed adoption. I mean, yeah, I would want 1194 00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 2: my child to grow up with a normal life. But 1195 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,359 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, I would let her 1196 00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 2: know about her sister. I don't know if I would 1197 00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 2: necessarily give her the letters, but I would let her know, like, yeah, 1198 00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,840 Speaker 2: you have a sister. She was like, tell her about me, bitch, 1199 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah she did. She starts fasting on in people. I 1200 00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 2: was scared for me, and I said she was she 1201 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 2: about to. 1202 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 1: Kill you, you know, because she is see that fight for 1203 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 1: them crackers. I'm saying, yop, that cracker was about to 1204 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: get wood the other cracker. But they end up having 1205 00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 1: a full fledged fight. Well they was just arguing. When 1206 00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:58,879 Speaker 1: they was arguing. So fast forward, their other daughter ends 1207 00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 1: up finding. 1208 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,920 Speaker 2: The letters because she was listening to the convert to 1209 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 2: a conversation that they were having about the girl, and 1210 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 2: so she ends up finding the letters. And then when 1211 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,360 Speaker 2: she finds the letters, I guess, she decides she wants 1212 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,880 Speaker 2: to reach out to the sister, like so Sondra Bullick 1213 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 2: or whatever, So she reaches out to her. They end 1214 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,600 Speaker 2: up meeting at the park or some shit. And mind you, 1215 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,520 Speaker 2: the two niggas who the son, the sons of the 1216 00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 2: cop that she killed, they done devised this hall plan 1217 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:27,319 Speaker 2: that they gonna kill the little sister. So since the 1218 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 2: girl came and met with her at the park, the 1219 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:32,200 Speaker 2: dude was following them and he assumed that she was 1220 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:32,880 Speaker 2: the little sister. 1221 00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,719 Speaker 1: Got real, So now she don't fucking got kidnapped. 1222 00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,759 Speaker 2: Right, So look, the girl gets kidnapped, not the right girl, 1223 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 2: the kidnapped the sister. 1224 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,479 Speaker 1: So she ends up. 1225 00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 3: Meeting with the guy's house that the lawyer's wife. 1226 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:50,160 Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, and that ship was intense. Auntie was acting 1227 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,440 Speaker 2: one thing about lact. 1228 00:52:56,320 --> 00:53:00,319 Speaker 1: You got some motherfucking nerves. I love it. Oh, I 1229 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,120 Speaker 1: love her too, baby. It be the eyes. 1230 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,160 Speaker 2: So it is so intense, very intense, like that's how 1231 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,839 Speaker 2: you egg and y'all, mind you, the whole movie Sandra 1232 00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:09,800 Speaker 2: Bullock is like a tough she been in prison. 1233 00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:12,720 Speaker 1: Even Sandra was like holding her things. She was clutchy, 1234 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:13,439 Speaker 1: I want to talk. 1235 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,320 Speaker 2: I just want to talk, and like she was scared 1236 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,160 Speaker 2: because that one you ain't gonna beat that that ain't 1237 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,359 Speaker 2: gonna crackle. So they basically get in the car they're 1238 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:25,399 Speaker 2: supposed to go to meet the little sister because the 1239 00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:26,560 Speaker 2: real little sister had. 1240 00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:27,320 Speaker 1: A piano content. 1241 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,480 Speaker 2: So she was like, Okay, I'll bring you up there 1242 00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,400 Speaker 2: to meet with her, no problem. But she ends up 1243 00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 2: getting a phone call from the dude. Now we're skipping 1244 00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,759 Speaker 2: a part that doesn't really matter. Remember when they called 1245 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:39,880 Speaker 2: him sleeping with his wife and all that stuff. Oh 1246 00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 2: well yeah, but then also to tell them what happened, 1247 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,120 Speaker 2: like while all of a sudden she had the change 1248 00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 2: of heart and she wanted to like take her to 1249 00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 2: go meet her because she realized. 1250 00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: She wouldn't the one who killed the cop. 1251 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,160 Speaker 2: Wait, so but we have to say they was in 1252 00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,480 Speaker 2: the front yard arguing yeah, and then she was like, 1253 00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,799 Speaker 2: you don't know the truth. You don't know the truth, 1254 00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,560 Speaker 2: and like Valla was looking in her eyes and she 1255 00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 2: could tell she could tell. So she told her the truth. 1256 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,440 Speaker 2: Her and the little girl was in the house. The 1257 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,440 Speaker 2: cops was like, we're coming in, We're coming in. The 1258 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,080 Speaker 2: little girl took the shotgun and when the shot, it 1259 00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 2: was the little girl that killed the car, but the big. 1260 00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 1: Since she was five. She was five, so you the murderer. 1261 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,360 Speaker 1: But she but she was a shoo shooter. 1262 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,959 Speaker 2: That shit crazy. A whole lot of shooters. You don't 1263 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 2: want no problem. 1264 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:24,759 Speaker 1: You don't want no problems. But the sister, being a 1265 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,279 Speaker 1: good sister, was like, I'll take the blame because my. 1266 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,000 Speaker 3: Sister wasn't gonna do that. She was like, oh, get 1267 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:29,680 Speaker 3: her little ass. 1268 00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,880 Speaker 1: She did the ship. But I mean at five years always, 1269 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:33,839 Speaker 1: you really gonna go to jail, And that's what I said. 1270 00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: I would have just hold on her. They gonna do 1271 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:40,759 Speaker 1: nothing but be like, oh watch some cessame street. No, no, lie. 1272 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:42,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I would have 1273 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,080 Speaker 1: just took that big. 1274 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,479 Speaker 2: Because at five years old, are you what they really 1275 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,520 Speaker 2: they can't see that to jail. 1276 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:50,720 Speaker 1: She can't even go to juvie. 1277 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:52,880 Speaker 2: The girl at five, it's like, even if you do go, 1278 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:54,120 Speaker 2: you ain't an old remember this ship. 1279 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,000 Speaker 1: You don't remembering shit to you like eight she could. 1280 00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:58,719 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have I don't know 1281 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:00,160 Speaker 1: if I would have did this for my little. 1282 00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,880 Speaker 3: I my sister would have definitely not done that for me. 1283 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:04,560 Speaker 1: Would you do it if you had a little sit 1284 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:04,920 Speaker 1: right here? 1285 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 2: Hell no, I'm not going to jail for nobody. 1286 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:09,920 Speaker 4: That's me. 1287 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,840 Speaker 1: Bitch. Ain't going to jail for nobody, not even myself. 1288 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:13,279 Speaker 2: Man. 1289 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:13,840 Speaker 1: Fuck that. 1290 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 2: So anyways, Baba finds out that Balla's character finds out 1291 00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,600 Speaker 2: that she didn't kill the cop, so she agrees to 1292 00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,520 Speaker 2: take her to meet the little girl so she can, like, 1293 00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,239 Speaker 2: you know, just start developing a relationship. She gets a 1294 00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,520 Speaker 2: call from the CoP's son like, oh, yeah, I got 1295 00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 2: your little sister. I'm gonna kill her. You need to 1296 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,640 Speaker 2: come meet me over here. Blah blah blah. 1297 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 1: So she pulled up. 1298 00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 2: She pulled up and she's like, ladies, like what are 1299 00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,399 Speaker 2: you doing. Baba's like what are you doing? Like what's 1300 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 2: going on? And she's like, they have her, they have her. 1301 00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,279 Speaker 2: So she walks in and realized they have. 1302 00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:45,919 Speaker 1: The wrong girl. 1303 00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,160 Speaker 2: But all of them called the cops all and call 1304 00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 2: the police, and of course she realizes being like that's 1305 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:51,839 Speaker 2: not my little sister. 1306 00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 3: But I'm still gonna say, you know what, I'm saying 1307 00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 3: I wouldn't been like. 1308 00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh shit, I don't know her. You on 1309 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,400 Speaker 1: your own, bit, You on your own bitch? 1310 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:05,719 Speaker 2: Why I can't be neither neither are let alone be 1311 00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 2: in these type of situations in real lifecause I'm gonna 1312 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:16,160 Speaker 2: be like that, ain't my little set better? So long 1313 00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 2: story short, the cop end up coming, They saved her, 1314 00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 2: and everybody lives happily ever after. But and at the all, 1315 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,000 Speaker 2: and so throughout the movie the Little Sister, she didn't 1316 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,319 Speaker 2: remember anything, I guess because the situation was so dramatic. Yeah, well, 1317 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, but remember when she shot the shotgun 1318 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,720 Speaker 2: and hit her in the head and she knocked herself 1319 00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:34,200 Speaker 2: out all. 1320 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,839 Speaker 1: So you think it was like, bitch, you fin got 1321 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 1: a shot gun, bitch? 1322 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:44,239 Speaker 2: So it probably it probably affected her memory, so she 1323 00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,319 Speaker 2: didn't remember anything about her being. She still always have 1324 00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:49,799 Speaker 2: like a flashback of like a woman holding her shop. 1325 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:50,600 Speaker 1: Remember. 1326 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:52,080 Speaker 2: But then at the end of the movie, when she 1327 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 2: was at her recital, it ended up all coming back 1328 00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:58,200 Speaker 2: to her, and then she remembered her sister were her 1329 00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,839 Speaker 2: sister look like everything. So at the end, they ended 1330 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,800 Speaker 2: up pulling up and you know, they was hugging and embracing. 1331 00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 3: Each other dramatically and everybody. 1332 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,840 Speaker 2: And then that was the end, credit start rolling. 1333 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,359 Speaker 3: It was a good movie to me because I saw somebody. 1334 00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,360 Speaker 1: Was gonna get popped. I wanted to see somebody get popped. 1335 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,240 Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna pop that nigga. 1336 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 2: You like to see a little death, you know that. 1337 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:22,520 Speaker 2: I like to see a little death. 1338 00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,760 Speaker 1: I like action. I like a little death. I feel 1339 00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: like that at least could have killed the other girl. 1340 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 1: I feel like that should have killed the brothers. Somebody 1341 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,360 Speaker 1: needed to die. Somebody should have got murdered. 1342 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:35,040 Speaker 2: Somebody needed to die. But yes, I like movies where 1343 00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 2: I know what's gonna happen. Remember Romeo Must Die. It 1344 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,640 Speaker 2: told you you knew somebody was gonna die bach And 1345 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:42,920 Speaker 2: I was like, let me watch this ship. 1346 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: I know somebody about to get popped. 1347 00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,440 Speaker 2: They tell you when the cap shit in the title 1348 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 2: die Murder Romeo gonna die. 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Now into 1383 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,200 Speaker 2: the bot, baby, I need for these people to start 1384 00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:31,240 Speaker 2: cutting us the cheeks. 1385 00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,240 Speaker 1: Somebody need somebody needs to write a cheek. 1386 00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:37,560 Speaker 2: You know good is coming out because one thing about 1387 00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:40,360 Speaker 2: us when you manifest is she and that shit be happening. 1388 00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 1: Ain't men? Okay? 1389 00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:43,840 Speaker 2: So my bop of the week this week, y'all know, 1390 00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,840 Speaker 2: I love Lucky Day. I have been a Lucky Day 1391 00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,800 Speaker 2: fan from the beginning. I randomly saw Lucky Day perform 1392 00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 2: like two or three years ago at a pool party, 1393 00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 2: so random, So that just lets you let's you know 1394 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,720 Speaker 2: how far he's come in like three year span. So 1395 00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,280 Speaker 2: he has a song that he dropped called Candy Rip, 1396 01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 2: and it is just so fire, y'all, don't I mean 1397 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:04,400 Speaker 2: the song the. 1398 01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Title is self explainatory. I know what he's about, Candy Drip. Okay. 1399 01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:10,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, that's my bip of the week, Lucky Day 1400 01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,360 Speaker 2: Candy drip. He just he don't miss for me. 1401 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 1: I like lucky Day, Like I was telling you earlier, 1402 01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:17,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm late to the party. 1403 01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 2: But he has a very small he does a very 1404 01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 2: distinctive voice, so yeah, he did. 1405 01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:27,520 Speaker 1: So Okay. My fault of the week this week is 1406 01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:35,720 Speaker 1: b I don't know how to say this is it Nigeria. 1407 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's a song by Burna Boy and Whiz Kids. 1408 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:45,400 Speaker 1: Okay, sometimes I be into my Naja bee. 1409 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:52,000 Speaker 2: I know that I really do that go ahead, so 1410 01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:52,480 Speaker 2: so yeah. 1411 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,080 Speaker 1: But but that's what the Nageri is called. 1412 01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,320 Speaker 3: But the song, the music is called afrobeats. 1413 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:03,680 Speaker 2: But okay, we gotta be politically correct. We go afro beat, 1414 01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:04,480 Speaker 2: we don't go. 1415 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 1: So yes, like I love this song. 1416 01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 2: It's just a vibe like oh it's just the one, 1417 01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,320 Speaker 2: so yes, I love it. I feel like when I 1418 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,320 Speaker 2: listen to this song, like I need to I don't know. 1419 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,160 Speaker 2: And that's how all afrobeats music may. It makes me 1420 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:24,360 Speaker 2: feel like I need to be on a beach somewhere, 1421 01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:28,960 Speaker 2: just vibing with my need to drinking a Yeah, Berna 1422 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 2: Boy and Wizkir are like so fire likeright now. So 1423 01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,560 Speaker 2: I love the fact that they did another song together, 1424 01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:39,919 Speaker 2: love It with Yeah, I love it too. All right, 1425 01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,640 Speaker 2: So now we're going to get into the poor your 1426 01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:44,760 Speaker 2: hearts out segments of the. 1427 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:46,800 Speaker 1: Pol You know, I know who're reading the first question, 1428 01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,919 Speaker 1: not me? All right, your question. 1429 01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,040 Speaker 2: Make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at 1430 01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 2: gmail dot com if you're a Patreon member, and make 1431 01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:57,800 Speaker 2: sure you put in the subject that you're a Patreon member, 1432 01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:59,120 Speaker 2: so you get to skip the line. 1433 01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:00,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's go. 1434 01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 2: It says, Hey, Lexandrea, I'm a Patreon member and I 1435 01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,280 Speaker 2: have been dealing with this guy on and off for 1436 01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 2: two years. But the whole thing is kind of weird. 1437 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:11,640 Speaker 2: It's been two years and we don't cuddle kiss. We 1438 01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:15,320 Speaker 2: only hang out in the motel room. Our first time 1439 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,440 Speaker 2: hanging out was at my aunt's party, but after that 1440 01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:20,800 Speaker 2: we never went out publicly again. Whenever we do go 1441 01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 2: to the teley, he pays for half of the room. 1442 01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,080 Speaker 2: He says he doesn't have a lot of money, and 1443 01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:26,880 Speaker 2: when I say I want to go out, he says 1444 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:30,360 Speaker 2: he's a homebody. I'm an expiring actress and he's an 1445 01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,600 Speaker 2: aspiring rapper and entrepreneur. We talk about our goals to 1446 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,680 Speaker 2: each other and how to make money, but not about 1447 01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:36,360 Speaker 2: his feelings. 1448 01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 1: I just want something more from him. 1449 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:40,680 Speaker 2: I'm trying to I'm trying my best to be patient 1450 01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,600 Speaker 2: and not to force anything, but I need reciprocation. How 1451 01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:46,320 Speaker 2: should I go about this situation? I want him to 1452 01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:49,040 Speaker 2: hold me when we lay down, be more affectionate. At least, 1453 01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,280 Speaker 2: I massage his whole body with oil, I eat his ass, 1454 01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,080 Speaker 2: I make him nut, But he doesn't open up to me. 1455 01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 1: His friend got married the other day. Why wasn't I 1456 01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:58,200 Speaker 1: his date? 1457 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,240 Speaker 2: I told him I'd like to be around him more, 1458 01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:03,080 Speaker 2: even if it's just walking his dog. I'll bring mine 1459 01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 2: and we can walk our dogs together, smoke a blunt bob. 1460 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 2: But it's been weeks. Still no invite to the dog park. 1461 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:13,040 Speaker 2: Still nothing. I genuinely think there's some men who don't 1462 01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 2: know how to be affectionate, affectionate or intimate towards a woman. 1463 01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:18,800 Speaker 2: Am I making excuses for him? Or do I need 1464 01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,960 Speaker 2: to show him how to touch me? Or should I 1465 01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,400 Speaker 2: just throw away the whole thing? He's made it clear 1466 01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,720 Speaker 2: he doesn't want a relationship. Idi k if I don't 1467 01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 2: want a relationship because he doesn't want one, or if 1468 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 2: I'm truly chasing my career. It's given throwaway because at 1469 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 2: the end of the day, what do you mean two 1470 01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:36,880 Speaker 2: years and y'all all, y'all do is hang out in 1471 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:37,640 Speaker 2: a motel room? 1472 01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,720 Speaker 1: Do he not got a house? Do he got a wife? Like? 1473 01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 2: What's going on? Why you ain't ever been to this 1474 01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 2: nigga house? Why are y'all hanging out? And then on 1475 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 2: top of that, he can't even get you a room 1476 01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,080 Speaker 2: at the motherfucking wsting he. 1477 01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:53,160 Speaker 1: Can't get he's taking your hotel. All of that, he 1478 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:56,680 Speaker 1: taking you to the motherfucking motel. No, no, no, no, 1479 01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:57,760 Speaker 1: what's even worse? 1480 01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:58,320 Speaker 3: A sis? 1481 01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:00,160 Speaker 1: You just stoop solo. You're trying to go to the 1482 01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:02,560 Speaker 1: dog park, and then you splitting the morning. 1483 01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:05,240 Speaker 2: And then on top of him taking you to the motel, 1484 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:11,160 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, We're sorry. On top of on top of 1485 01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:14,360 Speaker 2: him taking you to the motel, you splitting the money 1486 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 2: with him to pay for the shape. You got the 1487 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:20,280 Speaker 2: nerve to reward him by eating his ass. I'm just 1488 01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:24,480 Speaker 2: getting rubbing him down with massage oils. I don't like 1489 01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:25,640 Speaker 2: this at all. 1490 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 1: Two years. He's not gonna change, He's not gonna give 1491 01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:29,959 Speaker 1: you what you want. 1492 01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 2: If a man doesn't show you like what you want 1493 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,400 Speaker 2: in like the first three to six months of a relationship. 1494 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:35,840 Speaker 1: That's it. 1495 01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,520 Speaker 2: I agree, that's it. He's not gonna feel like a 1496 01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,160 Speaker 2: man who really wants you. He's gonna do the most 1497 01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:42,240 Speaker 2: in the beginning. 1498 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:44,920 Speaker 1: Right, girl, you're trying to go to the park and 1499 01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:51,640 Speaker 1: walk Clifford is everything? Okay? Is everything? Okay? Girl? Let go. 1500 01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 2: I don't like that. And I'm sure you a beautiful girl. 1501 01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:57,720 Speaker 2: I'm sure you probably got a lot going for yourself. 1502 01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:00,800 Speaker 2: So I don't know why you with this fucking good 1503 01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:03,800 Speaker 2: because that's what he's giving, fucking goods. And it seemed 1504 01:05:03,800 --> 01:05:07,640 Speaker 2: like he hated something too. He got a wife, entrepreneur, 1505 01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:08,520 Speaker 2: he might. 1506 01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 1: Got a wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend. I don't know. 1507 01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,760 Speaker 2: It's something on y'all in the motel. What are you 1508 01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:19,280 Speaker 2: entrepreneuring at the motel? Because clearly you ain't got no 1509 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,920 Speaker 2: bread and you've been doing this for two years. We 1510 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:24,840 Speaker 2: ain't elevated from the motel to the hotel by now. 1511 01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:26,160 Speaker 1: I don't like it. 1512 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:31,400 Speaker 2: Question number two, Hey Drea, Hey lex Andrea, I'm back 1513 01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:34,080 Speaker 2: with my testimony about fucking with this nigga at my job. 1514 01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:39,960 Speaker 2: The old question I should I'm in short. Okay, I'm 1515 01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:41,760 Speaker 2: dealing with one of my co workers and I'm falling 1516 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,040 Speaker 2: for him when I shouldn't be. I just recently got 1517 01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 2: out of a relationship with one of our old coworkers 1518 01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 2: who no longer work there. But it's awkward because I 1519 01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:51,080 Speaker 2: don't want to seem like I get around at the job. 1520 01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:52,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. 1521 01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:55,040 Speaker 2: He also claims he's single, but he just recently had 1522 01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:56,919 Speaker 2: a baby, so I know he's still dealing with his baby. 1523 01:05:56,960 --> 01:05:59,960 Speaker 1: Mama. She said, I took y'all advice and this niggas 1524 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:07,120 Speaker 1: feel around and he liked it. I'm gonna stick beside him. 1525 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:07,840 Speaker 1: No cal. 1526 01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 2: He a red flag, but so many things about him 1527 01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 2: is green. I'm sorry, this is funny. I'm gonna just 1528 01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:21,360 Speaker 2: go ahead and tell him I love him. He's just 1529 01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 2: a sneaky link thought, but he applied pressures. 1530 01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:27,160 Speaker 1: Look you turn up. I love to see it as 1531 01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:28,880 Speaker 1: long as Hey, if you're happy, we have you. 1532 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 2: Girl, You only know how many red flags that me 1533 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:33,960 Speaker 2: and Lex be acting like he's green. 1534 01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:39,240 Speaker 1: A nigga will hold up around FLA. Actually I ain't 1535 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:40,720 Speaker 1: see that ship. God damn it. 1536 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,520 Speaker 2: Girl, It's okay. We ought to be nug all right. 1537 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:46,560 Speaker 2: Question three Hey, ladies. I've been with my man for 1538 01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:49,200 Speaker 2: about four years. His group of friends are either married 1539 01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:53,360 Speaker 2: engaged during long term relationships. All the girlfriends slash wives 1540 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:56,400 Speaker 2: hang out and get along. However, there's one girl we 1541 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 2: can call her Breathe, who is very problematic. She hits 1542 01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 2: on her man, destroys his belongings, accuses him of cheating 1543 01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:04,720 Speaker 2: with other girls in the group, and even try to 1544 01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:07,360 Speaker 2: get him arrested. Mind you, we were all friends with 1545 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,440 Speaker 2: her man before she came into the picture. Bree's behavior 1546 01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:12,520 Speaker 2: has caused the other girls in the group to drift 1547 01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:14,720 Speaker 2: from her. I've been trying to keep a friendship with 1548 01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:17,120 Speaker 2: her because I feel bad about her being alone. But 1549 01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 2: I feel like I cannot maintain this friendship. She is 1550 01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,720 Speaker 2: truly unhinged, and I do not want to spend time 1551 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:25,520 Speaker 2: trying to reason with a crazy person. I've been hanging 1552 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:26,920 Speaker 2: out with the other girls in the group, but I 1553 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:28,800 Speaker 2: just feel guilty about leaving Brie behind. 1554 01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:32,760 Speaker 1: Am I wrong girl? Fuck Bree? She's she's and you've 1555 01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 1: seen what happened. 1556 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,040 Speaker 2: If you watch Unhinged, You've seen what be happening with 1557 01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:36,960 Speaker 2: unhinged people. 1558 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:38,760 Speaker 1: I would keep my distance from her. 1559 01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:41,320 Speaker 2: She gonna beat your ass next and accuse you of 1560 01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:42,520 Speaker 2: fucking her man, people. 1561 01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:44,040 Speaker 1: Ain't you trying to get you a risk? That's what 1562 01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, people like that don't feel bad. 1563 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,200 Speaker 2: She put herself in that situation by being a weird 1564 01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:49,520 Speaker 2: old and like, why are you with the man that 1565 01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 2: you have to do all this to be with? First, 1566 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:55,040 Speaker 2: you can't reason with crazy people, that's number one, Like, 1567 01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:57,960 Speaker 2: it's no reasoning with them. And I feel like, girl, 1568 01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:00,040 Speaker 2: if you know she crazy, like all the stuff that 1569 01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,560 Speaker 2: you just said in this message or whatever, If you 1570 01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:06,600 Speaker 2: know that she's crazy, why do you feel bad? 1571 01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:09,000 Speaker 1: Like, why do you feel bad? Clearly she is not 1572 01:08:09,040 --> 01:08:09,480 Speaker 1: a good. 1573 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:14,280 Speaker 2: Person who destroys that man belonging he's him, accuses him 1574 01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:17,000 Speaker 2: of cheating, and then tried to get him arrested. 1575 01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,800 Speaker 1: This is not a good person. This is a psychopath. 1576 01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, girl, keep your distance from her because 1577 01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:24,080 Speaker 2: people like that are the type of people that will 1578 01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:25,599 Speaker 2: drag you down into the good. 1579 01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,400 Speaker 1: That's a good snake, and she gonna drag you in 1580 01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:33,400 Speaker 1: the good of tuci period, lead it hol alone. Okay. 1581 01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:37,920 Speaker 2: Question number four, Hey, y'all, I'm a Patreon member. I 1582 01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:39,960 Speaker 2: met this girl at a mutual friend's house and we 1583 01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:41,280 Speaker 2: really hit it off as friends. 1584 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:42,560 Speaker 1: We're both females. 1585 01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:46,280 Speaker 2: Another mutual friend invited us down to Nola, where we 1586 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:49,120 Speaker 2: were there for my friend for my new friend was 1587 01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:49,960 Speaker 2: super horny. 1588 01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:50,639 Speaker 1: Hold on wait. 1589 01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:53,160 Speaker 2: While we were there, my new friend was super horny 1590 01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:55,599 Speaker 2: and asked me to make out and I said sure. 1591 01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 2: She was like eh, and we never did, but we 1592 01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:00,880 Speaker 2: kept flirting the hallole trip. She said a few times 1593 01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:01,880 Speaker 2: she wanted to fuck me. 1594 01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:03,080 Speaker 1: Fast forward. 1595 01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:05,280 Speaker 2: We came back to our home state and we became 1596 01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:09,240 Speaker 2: best friends. I always been into females, but her flirtations 1597 01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,000 Speaker 2: really fucked up my head. I would be so wet 1598 01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:15,800 Speaker 2: around her and she'd just be speaking regularly. Once she 1599 01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,160 Speaker 2: had just gotten out the shower and I was rubbing her. 1600 01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:18,840 Speaker 1: Body with oil. 1601 01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:21,519 Speaker 2: Then her mom walked down the stairs, and she tried 1602 01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:24,360 Speaker 2: to act like we weren't doing anything. She houlds my 1603 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,480 Speaker 2: thighs sometimes when she's dropping and I'm in the passage, 1604 01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:28,800 Speaker 2: this Drea. 1605 01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:33,640 Speaker 1: Not one hand on the wheel, the other hand on 1606 01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:38,440 Speaker 1: a kouchie. She stares at me so lustfully. 1607 01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:41,320 Speaker 2: I ax her. While she's staring. She'll say, I can't 1608 01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:44,160 Speaker 2: admire you, I can't stare at you. That shit is 1609 01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:46,240 Speaker 2: weird to me because the people I date stare at 1610 01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,280 Speaker 2: me lustfully, like that. She's supposed to be my best friend. 1611 01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,599 Speaker 2: She would compare herself to the girl I was dating, 1612 01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:54,040 Speaker 2: and sometimes compare me to the guy she was dating. 1613 01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 2: Is she just liking on Is she just liking the 1614 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,439 Speaker 2: attention I give? Or playing with my head because she 1615 01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:02,760 Speaker 2: knows I'm by sexual? If she confused herself because she 1616 01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,439 Speaker 2: doesn't want to admit she may be bisexual as well? 1617 01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:09,960 Speaker 2: If why I she's a LEO, and I think that 1618 01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,839 Speaker 2: should help because I never know on the LEO female 1619 01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:14,280 Speaker 2: that didn't play games. 1620 01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:19,080 Speaker 1: That's all they do. I even have to say what 1621 01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:20,160 Speaker 1: that's all they do? 1622 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:20,680 Speaker 4: Like that. 1623 01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna say anything until you said she was 1624 01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:26,000 Speaker 2: a LEO. But I sometimes I just do shit to 1625 01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:28,360 Speaker 2: do it, Like I don't have any intentions of being 1626 01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:30,519 Speaker 2: with you. I just like the flirt. I just like 1627 01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,200 Speaker 2: the attention. I just need some attention at the moment. 1628 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:35,840 Speaker 2: So I feel like maybe she's just having fun and 1629 01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:37,640 Speaker 2: it's fun to her if. 1630 01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:39,400 Speaker 1: You're looking at it from a LEO perspective. 1631 01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I mean, I feel like I've talked about 1632 01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:44,880 Speaker 2: this being somebody who has like missed with girls and 1633 01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:49,439 Speaker 2: stuff in the past. I've talked girls, I don't eat legs. 1634 01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 1: What is the last time I missed with a girl 1635 01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:52,960 Speaker 1: like that? 1636 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:59,160 Speaker 2: You met all in my ps, you me all in 1637 01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:02,080 Speaker 2: my mother fucking be But now, as somebody who used 1638 01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:04,439 Speaker 2: to mess with with me, I just feel like it's 1639 01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:06,720 Speaker 2: always a bad idea to deal with somebody who is 1640 01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:07,639 Speaker 2: not really gay. 1641 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,760 Speaker 1: Mmmm, cause you get you gonna get your feeling hurt. 1642 01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:13,760 Speaker 2: Like like I said, I think I said this on 1643 01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:18,559 Speaker 2: another episode that we did recently. I definitely used to 1644 01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:21,000 Speaker 2: play this role and be trying to get this girl 1645 01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:23,320 Speaker 2: to really feel like I actually really dated a girl 1646 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 2: for real, for real one time. And I used to 1647 01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:26,719 Speaker 2: like trip on her because I felt like she wouldn't 1648 01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:29,679 Speaker 2: take me seriously. Yes, And I used to be really 1649 01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,360 Speaker 2: trying to convince her and myself that I was really gay. 1650 01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:40,200 Speaker 1: And she used to tell me I wanted to be 1651 01:11:40,240 --> 01:11:43,720 Speaker 1: gay so bad. I don't know why I wanted to 1652 01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:44,000 Speaker 1: be gay. 1653 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:47,400 Speaker 2: I wanted to be a lesbian so bad for this girl, y'all, 1654 01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:52,160 Speaker 2: it was pathetic. I used to be trying to really 1655 01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:55,000 Speaker 2: convince her that, like I was gay, Like no, she 1656 01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 2: used to be like so can you see yourself really 1657 01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:59,160 Speaker 2: like building a family with me and having a life 1658 01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:00,400 Speaker 2: for me. And I used to be like as I 1659 01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:09,920 Speaker 2: would nigga again, I would vitro and everything for our baby. 1660 01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:14,080 Speaker 2: So anyway, long story short, I did all of that and. 1661 01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:17,639 Speaker 1: To go start fucking with niggas again. 1662 01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:20,760 Speaker 2: Like it's just like not a good idea to mess 1663 01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:25,559 Speaker 2: with girls that are unsure of what they want and 1664 01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:28,080 Speaker 2: who they are, because for some women it really is 1665 01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:30,120 Speaker 2: just a phase. And I really like, now that I'm 1666 01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:32,840 Speaker 2: much older, I feel like it was definitely just a 1667 01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:35,160 Speaker 2: phase for me because nothing in me be wanting to 1668 01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:37,320 Speaker 2: deal with beaches these days, you. 1669 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:37,800 Speaker 1: Know what I mean? 1670 01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:47,880 Speaker 2: So, girl, I don't want you, you want me, she said, 1671 01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 2: driving Lexi her hand beyond my thought, I said, girl, 1672 01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:52,480 Speaker 2: my friend. 1673 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,880 Speaker 1: Putting my hand on your thigh? What you want? 1674 01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:00,960 Speaker 2: Why are you fucking lie? And that's what you want 1675 01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:05,000 Speaker 2: me to do? And I and I when I say this, 1676 01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 2: I mean this with all my heart. I would never 1677 01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:11,280 Speaker 2: fuck with Legs because lex is crazy, Like she's crazy 1678 01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 2: and emotional. 1679 01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:14,880 Speaker 1: She would be popping up at a be childs all 1680 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:16,719 Speaker 1: type of she I don't got time. 1681 01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:29,760 Speaker 2: It's okay, girl, You'll see and she I think that 1682 01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:32,320 Speaker 2: you just I think you just need to tell your 1683 01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:35,280 Speaker 2: friend and you just want to remain best friends. And 1684 01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:38,640 Speaker 2: if that's not an option, if she keeps continuing to 1685 01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:41,800 Speaker 2: like be extra and be all lusty and she, I 1686 01:13:41,840 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 2: would just stop being friends with her because I just 1687 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:49,559 Speaker 2: don't think that's a smart decision to make. Yeah, I think, 1688 01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:51,559 Speaker 2: but as a friend, you should respect the boundary. So 1689 01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:53,400 Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. If she talks to her and 1690 01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:56,120 Speaker 2: then she don't respect it, then I just feel like, yeah, 1691 01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:59,080 Speaker 2: you gotta stop being friends with her, because you're the 1692 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,439 Speaker 2: one who gonna really bastically speaking, You're the one whose 1693 01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:03,760 Speaker 2: feelings is gonna end up hurting this situation because she's 1694 01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:05,360 Speaker 2: obviously just playing games. 1695 01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:06,120 Speaker 3: I agree. 1696 01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:11,280 Speaker 2: So yeah, are you ready for this jam? 1697 01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:14,080 Speaker 1: Oh damn, we're not seeing egg? I thought it was. 1698 01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:16,439 Speaker 2: I forgot that we're not seeing that. We changed the song. 1699 01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:18,840 Speaker 2: I thought we was about to sing the John B song. 1700 01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:20,599 Speaker 2: It's okay, We're gonna make it next time. 1701 01:14:21,280 --> 01:14:25,759 Speaker 1: Okay, you ready? This is We're gonna drop this hole together? 1702 01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:42,760 Speaker 2: My du you ever dream? 1703 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 1: Candy called it a rain drops? Wow, this is I'm sorry. 1704 01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:59,040 Speaker 1: That was a good That was harmonization. For real? Have 1705 01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:03,120 Speaker 1: you whoever love someone so la you that you that 1706 01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:08,000 Speaker 1: give it so much of yourself? It seems the only way. 1707 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:11,599 Speaker 2: You tell me what you want and now and now 1708 01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:20,160 Speaker 2: we'll give it to you, coning you my love. 1709 01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:30,080 Speaker 1: You ever dream of candy? Call it rain drops? You're 1710 01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:41,560 Speaker 1: the same my candy, rain my my love. That's the 1711 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:46,280 Speaker 1: whole song. This is the raising. I don't know why 1712 01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:50,839 Speaker 1: thought it was another verse? Nah, you wrote it around lyrics? 1713 01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:53,160 Speaker 1: Who wrote this shit? 1714 01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:53,439 Speaker 4: You? No? 1715 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:59,280 Speaker 1: No, no, my my love? Did you ever dreams? 1716 01:15:59,400 --> 01:15:59,799 Speaker 2: Daddy? 1717 01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:01,040 Speaker 1: Love be soul? Right? 1718 01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:05,040 Speaker 4: I never thought that I was fun all that I 1719 01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:08,280 Speaker 4: need in life, all I want all of me? Now 1720 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:12,280 Speaker 4: I know, I know I found it in you, for 1721 01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:12,920 Speaker 4: my lad. 1722 01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:21,759 Speaker 2: It's a lot of my brain. That's all right, because 1723 01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:26,960 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. So for real, did not mean the butcher 1724 01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:31,679 Speaker 2: y'all ship like this fire. This was like the first 1725 01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:34,160 Speaker 2: like group that cause they came out before, like Drew 1726 01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:35,920 Speaker 2: Hills and all of them, like they were like the. 1727 01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 1: First little like boy Drew Hill head the bobs. 1728 01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:44,920 Speaker 2: We gotta think, tell me what you want? 1729 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:51,160 Speaker 1: You remember he was in the background, Like I love 1730 01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:52,439 Speaker 1: a good ad lib bit. 1731 01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,080 Speaker 2: I feel like I love that air limbs on my 1732 01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:57,639 Speaker 2: face was like, you gotta go off on the Alien. 1733 01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:00,080 Speaker 1: It's like your favorite at libe Keith. 1734 01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:08,000 Speaker 5: Hey, okay, I like for Rick Rossby, Like all right, 1735 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:14,800 Speaker 5: I swear I used to love when Rick Rossell. 1736 01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 2: Get on the track and be like that would make 1737 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,040 Speaker 2: me feel uncomfortable, Like what are you doing? 1738 01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:23,800 Speaker 4: Bro? 1739 01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:26,400 Speaker 1: Get me out of here. Thank y'all so much for 1740 01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:26,880 Speaker 1: tuning in. 1741 01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:28,040 Speaker 3: We'll see y'all next week. 1742 01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:36,400 Speaker 1: You mean Jesus, we lift in the scuar. 1743 01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:45,200 Speaker 2: In the secund Do you remember the episode The Glory, 1744 01:17:45,600 --> 01:17:48,120 Speaker 2: The episode she was like, oh, sing mama favorite song 1745 01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 2: and they was in church. She was like, shake your 1746 01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:56,880 Speaker 2: boody and what song is that? 1747 01:17:56,960 --> 01:17:57,360 Speaker 1: Evening? 1748 01:17:59,160 --> 01:17:59,639 Speaker 2: She was. 1749 01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:09,120 Speaker 1: Now he couldn't sing, And I remember that's what I was. 1750 01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:20,920 Speaker 1: I remember I was at that 1751 01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:26,000 Speaker 2: Video on uh our Instagram hack when we had first 1752 01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:27,640 Speaker 2: started off four Mind's Instagram