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Speaker 1: It's time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer. Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey's all right, Kenya and Atlantic City writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: is going on a cruise with his siblings to celebrate

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Speaker 1: his retirement. I think his sisters planned this trip because

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Speaker 1: they know I get really bad motion sickness and I

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Speaker 1: won't go. I understand they probably don't care for me,

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Speaker 1: But why wouldn't my husband speak up on my behalf

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Speaker 1: and plan a better vacation?

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Speaker 2: Mmm?

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Speaker 3: Hey on, Well, let me say this to you, sister.

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Speaker 2: There is a medication that you can get from your doctors.

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Speaker 2: There's prescription meds that you could take four days before

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Speaker 2: you go for altitude sickness and four days before you

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Speaker 2: can go for motion sickness, and it will solve all

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Speaker 2: your problems. Quit tripping. You'd make me sick. Always call

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Speaker 2: me a complains? I said, why ain't got to exclude me?

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Speaker 2: You learn how to swim?

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Speaker 1: Hell, that's your response from the person. Do you know

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Speaker 1: how to swear?

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Speaker 3: Yet? So y'all know how I know how to swim?

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Speaker 3: Get back? But you know, when you don't want to

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Speaker 3: deal with the letter, I just tell him.

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Speaker 1: Anything that's not helping.

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Speaker 3: This ain't a long question.

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Speaker 2: She mad because they don't playing the cruise. Everybody want

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Speaker 2: to go on cruise, but you're a little sick. Take

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Speaker 2: the pills, call your doctor and get on the boat

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Speaker 2: and celebrate your busband's retirement.

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Speaker 1: Mad at her husband, that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: No, but why you're mad at him? It's his retirement.

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Speaker 2: They throwing something from him. Naw, you want him to

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Speaker 2: go to his sisters and make them replaying it because

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Speaker 2: YO gets see sick.

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Speaker 3: Go to your doctor and get to.

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Speaker 2: Let me find out what the name of this medicine is,

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Speaker 2: because I just had a.

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Speaker 3: Drama. Meaning is over the counter medicine.

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Speaker 2: It don't work, you get sleepy, You gonna miss the

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Speaker 2: whole trip, sleeping, gonna be sleeping.

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Speaker 3: The name of the medicine is. I can't say it,

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Speaker 3: but it's a ce.

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Speaker 2: A z O l A M I d e okaya.

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Speaker 3: To zola mine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a prescription, man, Your doctor has a prescribety

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Speaker 2: Please check it to it and go enjoy your trip.

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Speaker 1: Next question, Journey in TWUSNS says, I'm in my late

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Speaker 1: thirties and I had a daughter when I was a

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Speaker 1: junior in high school. Now that she's grown, I want

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Speaker 1: to move into a smaller home and travel. My daughter

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Speaker 1: feels like I'm pushing her out of my life. But

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Speaker 1: she doesn't understand how much I gave up by being

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Speaker 1: a young mom. How do I get her to understand that.

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Speaker 2: Ain't her fault, No, it's not her fault. All she

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Speaker 2: got this whole mama. Yeah, all she knew is her mama.

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Speaker 2: Y'all been more like friends anyway. Y'all was close in age. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Now she gonna lose her mama and her friend. That's

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Speaker 2: what it sounds nunlike to hurt. Now you're talking about

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Speaker 2: what you gave up. You you made that decision junior high,

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Speaker 2: junior in high.

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Speaker 3: School grade the same thing.

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Speaker 2: No, No, hey, junior in high school two years before

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Speaker 2: junior high. Now see you're talking about now. Junior high

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Speaker 2: was seven through nine. High school was ten through twelve.

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Speaker 3: Now, go ahead. Shirley was different than that, all right?

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Speaker 1: Well, Lauren in d MB area says, I'm a professional

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Speaker 1: woman with a history of emotionally abusing my boyfriend, or

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Speaker 1: at least that's what he told our therapist. He won't

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Speaker 1: stand up to me when we argue, and that bothers me.

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Speaker 1: Why won't he take control of this relation ship?

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Speaker 2: Cause you crazy? What that hell up to me? Stand

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Speaker 2: up to you? He is tied of you. All this

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Speaker 2: fighting and stuff. You are emotionally abusive to man. And

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Speaker 2: why won't he stand up you? Because when he stand up,

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Speaker 2: you stand up?

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Speaker 1: Mo. Yeah, you're already in therapy.

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Speaker 3: Dang, she won't s up in here? Now you won't hit?

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Speaker 3: Why won't he fight me?

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Speaker 1: Why won't he take control of this relationship?

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Speaker 3: Why don't you quit? Ag?

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Speaker 2: He needs to leave, He don't want the relationship. This

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Speaker 2: therapy is just so he can say he tried. He

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Speaker 2: he already got somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Now go home.

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Speaker 2: Fight about that now? Now, anybody taking all that nagging off?

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Speaker 3: You? Please her? Boy? They't married?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: It's he got somebody else. No, no, he got somebody else.

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Speaker 1: She emotionally abuses him.

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Speaker 2: And he got he'd have wint somewhere where he don't

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Speaker 2: get emotionally abauting?

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Speaker 3: What man? Don't do that? All right?

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Speaker 1: Lauren? You about to lose your man.

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Speaker 3: He goes he's your man. You're about to lose.

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Speaker 1: Your man you love. And she didn't say she's a

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Speaker 1: professional woman with the history of emotionally abusing her boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: And that's what he told his therapist, at least that's what.

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Speaker 2: He told That's why he got somebody when we argue

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Speaker 2: because you nutty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is crazy. That's right here, all right, last one.

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Speaker 2: I probably nutted and probably got banned off the things.

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Speaker 2: You can't say no more. But but since I ain't

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Speaker 2: got the least, okay, nutty.

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Speaker 3: Empire over?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Moving on to Andrea and Lake Charles.

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Speaker 1: Andrea writes, my seventeen year old, seventeen year old son

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Speaker 1: snuck a female in my house and my husband caught

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Speaker 1: them in the act. He came and told me not

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Speaker 1: to go into the game room because he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to embarrass our son. He said he'd handle our son

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Speaker 1: later a few days past, and he didn't punish our son.

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't he be punished?

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Speaker 2: What he's seventy? Let me ask you a question, what

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Speaker 2: is the punishment fit to be that's gonna make him

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Speaker 2: not do that again? You break the seal on the

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Speaker 2: cookie job all you won't cookies?

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Speaker 3: So now whatment shure the go ahead? I'm listening.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's snug a female in the house.

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Speaker 3: Just what that bell?

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Speaker 2: That?

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Speaker 3: Okay? He can't drive a car.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, all of that focus on one thing.

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Speaker 3: Dog, But can I keep breaking this girl up here?

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Speaker 3: Can I know.

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Speaker 1: He cannot sneak another female?

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Speaker 3: They got face turned? Okay, what else you got?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: If we take his phone, he don't. Yeah, they take

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Speaker 3: no seventeen year old phone. Seventeen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the punishment. Though he's seventeen.

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Speaker 3: He's You don't think he gonna go down there and

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Speaker 3: get a track phone.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna Does he have a job? You have to

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Speaker 1: ask me for the money or his dad for the money.

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Speaker 2: You think you're.

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Speaker 3: Closed my life.

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Speaker 2: There's way too much technical stuff going on this boy.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I appreciate y'all wanting to put him more

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Speaker 2: punishment all the time.

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Speaker 3: The dad is probably one boy, crowd boy. I'll tell

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Speaker 3: you so. Come on now, thank you.

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Speaker 1: C l Ow coming up right after