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Speaker 1: Welcome to Jay dot Ill a production of I Heart Radio. Shellow.

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Speaker 1: That is that is like an official like black girl thing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's worldwide. I just want you to know that there

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Speaker 1: wherever you go on the planet, a black girl will

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Speaker 1: say hellow, Okay, it's gonna happen just like that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: It could be about anything, It could literally be about anything,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, we do that. So today we're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: about We're gonna continue talking about our favorite fucking things,

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Speaker 1: things that our our mama's and our grandmama's did not

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Speaker 1: get an opportunity to um enjoy it. But there's some

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Speaker 1: things that they definitely um gave us, like like a

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Speaker 1: footsak that's the favorite thing. Oh yeah, okay, oh an

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Speaker 1: Asian wash rag. My mother introduced me to those the

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Speaker 1: long scrubbies. Yeah, the long strubby that come with the

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Speaker 1: different colors. Combined it and not to mention you combine

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Speaker 1: it with the dtor bonners that most of our mothers

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Speaker 1: also used. Come on the peppermint soap. Now I will

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Speaker 1: have to say this, and I've said this on the

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Speaker 1: podcast before you're gonna want to dilute you don't put

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Speaker 1: it on the couchie so much. Yeah, ok, after after

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Speaker 1: a wax. Don't use it after a wax as a

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Speaker 1: clock shapes. But my mother also introduced me to the

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is the old school Clinique beauty bar

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Speaker 1: soap that the nice little green they still make it

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Speaker 1: slides out of the little green thing. It's it's it's

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Speaker 1: really really really mild, so for the skin Clinique makes it.

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Speaker 1: It's an old school black girl go to. Since we're

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Speaker 1: washing faces and diluting soap before we burn our couches,

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say that. This is Jim Scott and

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Speaker 1: I'm here with Agia Graydon Danzler and Saint Clair and

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Speaker 1: this is the podcast. Okay, so where we don't burn

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Speaker 1: our coochies and we keep our faces clean. That's right,

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Speaker 1: that's right, because a clear poor is a beautiful thing

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Speaker 1: to happen. And we struggle, I do, come on, struggle

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Speaker 1: for a clear poor situation. You ain't using your mama's

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Speaker 1: queen and green mask, Queen Queen Helene, I'm sorry, Queen

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Speaker 1: Helene green mask. What's the green dolls that you get

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Speaker 1: from Whole Foods and typically like wherever you can buy incense,

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Speaker 1: and you put apple cide of vinegar in it. Well

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Speaker 1: that's the thing with the Aztec, the astext Yes, I

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Speaker 1: didn't even put it in vinegar. It will suck literally

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Speaker 1: the your bad memories out of your long enough it

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Speaker 1: will look you don't have no sins, girl, mask girl,

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Speaker 1: you can't talk, you can't think. Nine time open. It

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Speaker 1: always looked too complicated for me because it come into

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Speaker 1: powder form, so I'd be like, wait what I got

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Speaker 1: and it's still be in your head? Um. You know.

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Speaker 1: I love when I've gone out and I've had just

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Speaker 1: a little bit around my edges. That's always been nice.

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Speaker 1: That's nice. That's that's that's nice. It's our favorite though

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Speaker 1: though it's a nostalgic phase, right, it's nice to have

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Speaker 1: just nice. But I still but it's not that it

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Speaker 1: takes the edges out, no, it just simply just it's

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Speaker 1: to wash it out. It's a can be a you

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Speaker 1: have to put a warm washcloth. For some of our

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Speaker 1: Caucasian folks. Is a small towel that specifically you can

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Speaker 1: use for your face and your right you should have

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Speaker 1: one specifically for your face if you're going to have

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Speaker 1: a washcloth at all. And then there's another that you

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Speaker 1: can use for your genitalil y'all. Okay, so you can

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Speaker 1: in there as well. Yeah, that's very true. You know

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Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of folks, you know, use wash.

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Speaker 1: They don't use wash. One of my new favorite things

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Speaker 1: is a small it's like a small wash cloth with

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Speaker 1: you put your finger in. It is white. My hand

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Speaker 1: motion ain't good. But it has a scrubby side and

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Speaker 1: any other time when I'm just putting my honey pot

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Speaker 1: you know, properly. Glad you mentioned that's a favorite thing.

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Speaker 1: That's a favorite. I just got the loop. I'll let

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Speaker 1: y'all know. Y'all know she made a loop. You said

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Speaker 1: It's honey in a Yes, that sounds like such a

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Speaker 1: lovely time. That's what it does. It does for one

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Speaker 1: of my favorite things. Yeah, I just I just passed

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Speaker 1: I bought her a whole box. Yeah, can wash the wipes,

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Speaker 1: the panty spray, the panty spray, yes girl, burger mine

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Speaker 1: and one. I'm got burger burg a coop trumber and

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Speaker 1: I think anybody who was around for when no body

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Speaker 1: There there's two stores from then there was the body

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Speaker 1: like the more natural. Always that the body smell like perfume,

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Speaker 1: just as like the Anti imporium. Yeah, like there was

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Speaker 1: You know, you know it. You know, the Body Shop

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Speaker 1: and that almond coconut shade butter. The shade butter came

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Speaker 1: out and they're hard to find now the body Shop

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Speaker 1: is not a realm. No, I don't see them that

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Speaker 1: much anymore. Are they still out? You know, you could

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Speaker 1: like a whole bunch of you walk out of there like, yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm straight for the summer. Yeah. The body shop was

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Speaker 1: the business. The thing with bath and body works, it

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Speaker 1: was all about the fragrances, the body sprays. That was

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Speaker 1: where the fruit he smells came from. And I always

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Speaker 1: felt like that lean more towards are dancing friends. They

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Speaker 1: smelled of strawberry. I'm really going, I'm gonna get my

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Speaker 1: coat and my keys. Where is my bad dancing friends?

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Speaker 1: Am I making up? And I'm looking? I definitely think

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Speaker 1: I definitely wore body sprayed from there at some boy,

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Speaker 1: and I know that I did. I know that I did. Huh.

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Speaker 1: It was like solid I'll never tell uh. That was

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Speaker 1: just my perspective. No, I'm joking. I listen, I feel

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Speaker 1: that I ain't got to be right. I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: it was my perspective. It was a faith for back

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Speaker 1: good lotion. The I don't know how aca. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what it's called. It's French. Is that in the

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Speaker 1: the mall though they have Is it in phips or Linux?

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Speaker 1: It's in Linux. It's probably you know, I'm asking you

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Speaker 1: a class question. You know. Is it in the echelon

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Speaker 1: But it's nice. I know exactly what I think. I

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Speaker 1: know the name either, more real talk after the break Well,

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Speaker 1: one of my favorite things in terms of like, you know, products,

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Speaker 1: It's like, I love what we talked about, honey Popper.

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Speaker 1: I do love that black women have all these really

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Speaker 1: of it, like it's just everything. Oh my god, it's

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Speaker 1: so many black women with dope hair products. I mean

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Speaker 1: the edge gel alone, and the number of Black women

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Speaker 1: Well I use I use one of my favorite products

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Speaker 1: from a company called Do d o u x Black Woman,

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Speaker 1: and I love her products and you know what she

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Speaker 1: Talk us through the beauty of the hair part of

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Speaker 1: the store. It is overwhelmed. Nothing I don't know and

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Speaker 1: This one the notion that I was speaking of earlier

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Speaker 1: that I really like it's a soy milk and honey

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Speaker 1: whipped body butter. It's it's from Kills. I knew. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Kill's got some good ships. Honey, honey, listen, it's worth

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Speaker 1: what I was saying was that there's a company called

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Speaker 1: ken Apperil and they do satin line hoodies. Oh they

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Speaker 1: really don't make no damn sense. Winter hats, which I

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Speaker 1: line winter hats which are lovely. Yeah, can apparel. I

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Speaker 1: you don't want your head touching touching that thing. Speaking

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Speaker 1: buy me a dope I gotta dope backpack on wheels.

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Speaker 1: And it's just funny when you travel, you gotta make

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Speaker 1: but I I just want to think. It comes a

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Speaker 1: top of your roller bag. So then you're just you're rolling.

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Speaker 1: You just you're chilling. Pay us free. I'm just the same. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: One stinking page? Yes, practice my curses with that. When

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Speaker 1: y'all know I love me a black and the Black holiday,

425
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Speaker 1: so y'all know I love me some June teens. Come on,

426
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 1: and um, I didn't grow up celebrating Juneteent's, so I've

427
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Speaker 1: on and I've only been celebrating it with my kids.

428
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: For man, Dean was like little so under ten years.

429
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: But um, as the years went on, I was like,

430
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that we have like some

431
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: traditions and things that we do consistently during that time.

432
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:20,120
Speaker 1: So I do I make my homemade um strawberry punch. Yum, yeah,

433
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: strawberry punch. Homemade strawberry soda is really what it's supposed

434
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: to be. But it's punch at my house because I

435
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: can't make soda. I'm gonna need that whole recipe. I

436
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: never heard nobody may no drink it. After the news

437
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: of emancipation, a lot of the formally enslaved people decided

438
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: that they wanted to do things that they couldn't do before,

439
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:43,239
Speaker 1: and one of those things was drink strawberry soda. Right. Oh,

440
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: I love that. But even back then, when I hear

441
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: that story, I mean, like, what was their strawberry soda

442
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: made up? And what did it taste? Did it tastes

443
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: like fantom? What is it natural? Did it come from strawberries?

444
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 1: Because you know another thing, another thing is that the

445
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: link to our parents enjoying butter pecan ice cream is

446
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: linked to that story too. Really, yes, because it's not

447
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: that I didn't even know that was the universal thing.

448
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: I thought that was just my daddy. People love cream.

449
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 1: But part of ice cream polor, I'm here to tell

450
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: you sending black people that came in the ice cream

451
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: polor got butter pecan or French vanilla inferiating vanilla ice cream.

452
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: Vanilla period was something that enslaved people just did not

453
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: get an opportunity to enjoy. So it was one of

454
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Speaker 1: the things that they incorporated in their celebrations after emancipation

455
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: was vanilla ice cream and butterfo kind of ice cream

456
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: is like an extension of that. And so those people's

457
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: parents and grandparents enjoyed that, and that's why they like

458
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: it because that was the ice cream they were introduced

459
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: to when they were young kids. So we like to

460
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: do that, do some cooking. But one of the things

461
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: that I enjoyed was that I bought a book from

462
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: my kids one time about thing called Pitts schools. So

463
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: a lot of the ore slaved ancestors were learning how

464
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: to read. They would leave in the middle of the

465
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: night and they would dig these big ditches, cover them

466
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: up during the day and at night they would go

467
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: down and the dishes, cover them up and buy candlelight

468
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: learn how to read and write that. Because they didn't

469
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 1: have pencil and paper, they would use flower and they

470
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: would write in the flower their letters and numbers. So

471
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,719
Speaker 1: on Juneteenth, what I like to do is take our

472
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: table and I put a cloth town and we put

473
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: the flower on the table and we right are we

474
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: say our ancestors names and we write their first names

475
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: into the flower. Yeah, I wanted us to have certain things.

476
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: And then also to my good friends, uh Sonny King

477
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 1: does a huge um um Juneteenth parade which we we

478
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,719
Speaker 1: attend now and that we've been a part of and everything.

479
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: So we try to do you know, we try to

480
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Speaker 1: do the thing. I enjoyed doing this like my favorite.

481
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: It's like my it really is my favorite. I mean,

482
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: I care of good people out here listening to day

483
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: dot il podcast right now. Look, you can create your

484
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: own holidays. That's that's that's two out of the three

485
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: thus far that have created a holiday. I create a traditions, tradition, tradition,

486
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: and you can incorporated into a holiday for sure. So

487
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: I love that, y'all. That's fantastic. Yeah, y'all. Yeah, we

488
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: like to do it. We like to do it. But yeah,

489
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: I enjoy that. I feel like one of my favorite

490
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: things always is going to be spending time family, been

491
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: telling my friends, talking to you about things I enjoy

492
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: and I love, and building with y'all, getting advice, getting love.

493
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: I live for that. That keeps me alive, that keeps

494
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: me going. So that's always gonna be my favorite thing

495
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: in the world. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what I love.

496
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: I love to get my head scratched, and I I

497
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: love a good massage, like a head massage. That is

498
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 1: a favorite thing. If you want to be my friend,

499
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: you go right here and start massage with my head.

500
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: There maybe some slopper, Okay, I might falling asleep a

501
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,239
Speaker 1: few times, but I'm trying to tell you that's one

502
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: of my favorite things in life. Don't walk upon you

503
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: and put your hand in her head. That's not what

504
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: she's saying. Don't walk upon you and put your hand

505
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: in her head. That's not what she's saying. I just

506
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,959
Speaker 1: had to say it because do y'all have a guilty

507
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: pleasure favorite thing? I'm afraid to tell people that You're like,

508
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: don't be nasty. I'm not gonna be nasty. I don't

509
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: ye ain't mine, ain't nasty. Mine is just lazy. I'm like,

510
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: my guilty pleasure is not doing shit. My guilty pleasure

511
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: is sitting on the couch and catching up with every

512
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: show that I may have missed in the past week.

513
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: Like that. Is that is, And in my world, I

514
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: like the world to stop so that I can do this.

515
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: You know, I know it don't, but I like to

516
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: imagine that the world just stopped and it's about guilty pleasure.

517
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: I'm with you. It might be with the boat and

518
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: what's on the boat and the beautiful and young the wrestles.

519
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: There you go. Okay, I just told himself. Okay, it's

520
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,719
Speaker 1: on the dvr. Okay, that's the only reason I got

521
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: the dvr. Okay. And the Housewives. Yeah, so that's what

522
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: I was trying to get at. What are you watching

523
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: my guilty pleasure? No, no, no, I love that any

524
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: ain't a Trump City Okay, come on, baby, come on.

525
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I don't know if you guys watched From Scratch. Yes,

526
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: I did not, yet y'all made me watch that show.

527
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: Have finished it yet? I enjoyed it very much. I

528
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: know spoilers. No, I enjoyed it very much, That's all

529
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And I enjoyed that that That might be

530
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: that that and um, something's gotta give with Diane Keaton,

531
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you took it back. I love that movie.

532
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: I just watched her new thing that she got on Netflix.

533
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: But something's gotta give. The joint she did is that

534
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: the one she did with Jack Nicholson when okay, oh yeah,

535
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: that's the best one. It's like about divorce or something

536
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: like that or something. She takes care of her her

537
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: daughter's boyfriend who happens to be sixty because he's injured,

538
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: and it's Jack Nicholson and they stuck in he's stuck

539
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: in the house with her and he doesn't date women

540
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: her age, and it's like the whole thing, fabulous beach house.

541
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: I have to go back and watch that. And The Steps, Jill,

542
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: The Steps when you can do the steps? Yeah, get

543
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: choose some sex. Yes, oh man, that's a favorite. She's Nora,

544
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: the woman who directed that. She even though she makes

545
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: the whitest the good movies, she makes some good white movies.

546
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: She made she just passed recently, Norah. I mean, my

547
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: guilty pleasure movies are the white rom coms. Oh girl,

548
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: Let's go dresses? Damn you went? Oh yes, yes, how To?

549
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 1: How To? What is it? The one with How Lose

550
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: a Guy in ten Days? I'll watch those back to back.

551
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: In her shoes. That's a faith for me. In her shoes.

552
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 1: I will watch every time in her shoes, every time.

553
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: I will watch that. Everything Tony Collette is my guilty

554
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: pleasure because Tony Colette does I'm not like her. We

555
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: like we like her? Yeah, I like those. What's the

556
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: one about Italy? The one? Um? She finds out her

557
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: husband is cheating on her. She's devastated. He ends up

558
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: taking pretty much everything, well he's about to, and she's like,

559
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 1: you know what, take it. And she goes off to

560
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: Italy for a trip because her friends were supposed to

561
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: go and they were like, come with us, but they

562
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: ended up getting pregnant and she ends up going to

563
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: Italy on her own. Um, oh oh god. And she

564
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: gets there and she she ends up walking into this

565
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: house and something is just telling her by the damn house.

566
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: She figures it out, takes everything she has and starts

567
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: fixing up this house in Italy underneath the Tuscan sun.

568
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: Diane Lane, that movie please watch that? Um like, yeah,

569
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: I freaking love that? And have you seen The Dressmaker? No,

570
00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: No call me? Is that movie? Is that? Yes? I

571
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: got some Yeah, I got some guilty. I will tell

572
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 1: y'all that I did wash the the whole crown. That's

573
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: a guilt. That's one of my favorite things. The Dressmaker

574
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: made me so damn happy as soon as it went off.

575
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: Over watch it again. It's I believe it's on Netflix

576
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: and his dad is on Amazon Prime or something like

577
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: we got the Dressmaker under the Tuscan sun. Yes please,

578
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: yes please. It is about. These things are kissment. These

579
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: things are about, isn't it? You know? She really did

580
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: no wrong one this way eternal Sunshine of a spotless

581
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: name now used to that was my job for a

582
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 1: very long time. When it comes on. I watched it.

583
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: It's so weird. I like it. It's weird. I like

584
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: it's Hiker Guide to the Galaxy is a movie. That's

585
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: that's my to wear no movie and I've never actually

586
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: completely understood it, but I watched it faithfully for see

587
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: it on him like watching it like the fourth of

588
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: that really weird movie that uh lakeith Um was that

589
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: I didn't even well I started. I think I'm the

590
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: only person, which just like I'm gonna watch just two times.

591
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: It was the one when he had the white man voice.

592
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: That's when he did the white man voice. And with

593
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: him and the guy we're having an argument without having

594
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: an argument. It's like to be one of the most

595
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,720
Speaker 1: classic moments ever on screen with two black smell gat.

596
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say, speaking of Lakif that I

597
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: want to just take a moment to say that Atlanta

598
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 1: the show and the cast individually as actors, and I

599
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: would just go say people nine three out of fold.

600
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I'm gonna just say that

601
00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: if I was zan Zy and my boy to play

602
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: paper Boy, what I just they are my favorite things,

603
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: like they are my like anything they do individually. Keith,

604
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: like I am here. I even watched Bullet Train on

605
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: the plane the other day just because my bro was

606
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: in it. I'm here, I'm here, I'm here. And that's

607
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: what y'all have done this season with this show. Do

608
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: you have me reparations just about that? Is that every

609
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: time I have almost say every time, I've only bumped

610
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: into l Keith once and I've bumped into Donald Glover

611
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: a few times, and it's very strange. Well, that doesn't

612
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: sound surprised. As people. Sometimes you shouldn't meet people, you

613
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 1: should just watch them on the TV. Yeah, because I

614
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 1: have a lot of respect and you know, I appreciate

615
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: what they do so much, and I'm like Hi, no, no, no,

616
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: no no, But I don't know what's going on in

617
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: their heads. I just also your jail Scott, so maybe

618
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: it's like I don't know. It didn't feel like anything

619
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: that I know. Yeah, so that's just I can love

620
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: you from before. You don't have to listen back your

621
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: artists talking about your artistry. Artistry on point. But you know,

622
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: will you guys know that my faiths and I talked

623
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: about this all the time. Everyone knows that I I

624
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 1: love Star Wars. Star Wars is my faith. I forget

625
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: every time you say that Star Wars is out. Please

626
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: don't pocket out star Wars. Okay, Um, Star Wars is

627
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: my faith, big got fan definitely got into the house

628
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 1: with a dragon this year. When you abbreviated, it's serious,

629
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: Oh yes, when it's when, it's all right, y'all know

630
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 1: what um Lord of the Rings. Oh you're you're watching

631
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: the show. Um, the movie saga's and the show brings

632
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: a power. So I love, Yes, I love all things.

633
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: I love a fantasy kingdom. Yeah, and swords and sabers

634
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 1: and beings, elves and dwarfs and all those things. I'm

635
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 1: here for all of that. And kudos to your Star warsness,

636
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: because one of your one of my favorite things this

637
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: year was like a Star Wars show or Disney the

638
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,839
Speaker 1: Jar with the sister from from the Woman King who

639
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: was the lead. Uh oh obi wan, right now, let

640
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: me just explain to somebody. My kids were like, if

641
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: you went to if we went to fan Con or

642
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 1: fan fans something, There's there's comic Con and then there's

643
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: another one that's called fans something. And the kids were like,

644
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: if we go, who are you going to be? They're like,

645
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: are you gonna be playing his lamp? Are you gonna be? Um?

646
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: Uh dearth are you gonna be? I was like, no,

647
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: obi wan, it's all about what we want from me

648
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: right now. It is absolutely And my son got me

649
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: a red saber and I let him ahead and give

650
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: me the Sits saber because he was thinking of me.

651
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: He okay, he does it was. I was like, okay,

652
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: I literally have this. He gave me this Sits saber.

653
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: I was like, I need a Jedi saber immediately. I

654
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 1: need a Jedi saber. So I am actually on the

655
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: hunt for an authentic, a very close to realistic. I

656
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: need a Jedi saber. Thank you very much. Sound it

657
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: needs sound. I like, Okay, the handle has to be

658
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: true to the movie's design. Okay, these are my faiths.

659
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: These are my faiths. I am. You know. I don't

660
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,439
Speaker 1: even like when people say stuff like blurred or black

661
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: geek or something like that, because I just feel like

662
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:51,240
Speaker 1: it's not nerdy. No, it depends on how deep imagination

663
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: it's nerdi is level it's not. I don't think there's

664
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: a such thing anymore. I don't because we have so

665
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: many we have, we understand so much more now that

666
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: we ever did. You know, some people just have Ansberger's

667
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 1: I'm just saying before we were like, oh he's nerd,

668
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: or he's a geek, he's this there or that. Maybe

669
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: it's just Ansburgers. That's true. That's true what I'm saying, like,

670
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 1: or maybe they're just freaking smart hunh right. And I've

671
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: always been a proud nerd. Nerds wind, nerds wind. I'm like,

672
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 1: I've just seen every Marvel movie for no reason. I'm

673
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: a nerd. I get it. I love it. Come on,

674
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: come on, I ain't watching she Hawk though. I ain't

675
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: doing that. No, No, I'm not doing that. I don't

676
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: know we're not doing it. I'm not doing it. No,

677
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: also too, I need an extensive backstory me me myself.

678
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: You're gonna get me Captain America. We're gonna do that

679
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 1: whole black New Orleans thing that we did, like we

680
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: got deep with a couple of these one I made

681
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: it extensive. Okay, what what you got, Jill? What is

682
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: anybody watching Interview with the Vampire? So I need you? Do?

683
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: I need you because I'm wondering if to put on

684
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 1: my list. Baby, put it on the list. I'm gonna

685
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: put that one list for every the other thing. Gonna

686
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 1: watch it? Baby, put it on the list. Okay, Okay,

687
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 1: they in season one, right, So and Rice, I read

688
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: interview a long time ago. But I also read a

689
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: Feast for All Saints, which I'm I don't which I loved,

690
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 1: but I know is a controversial thing to talk about

691
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: because white women talking about black people in slavery in

692
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: New Orleans. And but I have to say I liked it.

693
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm a circle back and decide now at forty four

694
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: if I still do so, I just don't want nobody.

695
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: Don't hit me up. Okay, give me a chance to

696
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: circle back. Okay, I think I'm gonna do the same

697
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: because I read that. I think I was in college

698
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: back there was a movie too, and I watched it

699
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: that WoT make it great? That woman getting right? Okay,

700
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 1: get all right, all right? I was in VC Andrews.

701
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,879
Speaker 1: I was saying, right, y'all smart, I get him. Girl.

702
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 1: We have VC Andrews in my house. To child well

703
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: up in the same Stephen king Andrew's. We had it

704
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: all in the house. Job was up in there eating

705
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:20,439
Speaker 1: Tony Morrison a ten. You know, I can't wait later? Yeah,

706
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: I was dear God, is me magareting with you? Okay?

707
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: Hardy boys? Ya rosa ge girl reading the same books?

708
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: We sure was right, Judy Bloom, Judy Bloom. I'm gonna go.

709
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take y'all back to the Archie comic books. Girl,

710
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: I'm mess with me. I used to collect them. Who

711
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: are you talking to me? Because black? How black is

712
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: a bad She couldn't even Archie, you know, but just

713
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: that just wants the thing in my household. I don't know.

714
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm just mine either. Would like to normalize not putting

715
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: blackness in any box. Yes, there's no boxes for for

716
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 1: all the things that we that we can see or

717
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:19,720
Speaker 1: enjoy become our favorite. So we love to support black businesses.

718
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 1: I want to go back real quick to hair Uncle

719
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: Funky's Daughter. That's a really good product. Jet uses that

720
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: he's got really um curl the hair Uncle Funky's daughter,

721
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: and they you can shop the products by pattern by

722
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: curl pattern, which is which is very nice. It's it's

723
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 1: completely emollient. We like emollients. Yeah, check that out Uncle

724
00:45:47,520 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: Funky's Daughter. More conversation after the break. Y'all know, I

725
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: like the internet and I did talk about this a

726
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: couple of times. Do y'all have any faiths from the socialists,

727
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: like the people that we follow? Yeah, people you might

728
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: follow people who you think I think just do a

729
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: wonderful cool stuff on the social media's. Yeah. I have

730
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: to just say that I really really love TikTok. I

731
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: love TikTok. I love a TikTok challenge. I love a

732
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: dance challenge. I just I just love being able. I'm

733
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: a boyer, so being able to get inside people's houses

734
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: is a thing. Um, They're talking and I'm looking in

735
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 1: the background like m mmmmmmm. I love it. I love

736
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: being able to watch people's expressions when they're having a conversation,

737
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 1: like that just thrills me, Like, I'm gonna go ahead

738
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: and say that of all the things that I could

739
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: possibly do in a day, um, from shopping, which I

740
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: love consignment shops and and thrift stores and things like that,

741
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: and then you know freaking birdwarfs huh, A little ish it,

742
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: But it's the people watching for me, baby. If I

743
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: can find a little cut, a little spot where I

744
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: can just watch people be people. M m m, that's

745
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 1: a wonderful day for Jill. Okay, wonderful. One of my

746
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: favorite accounts is account on i G calls some Jazz playing,

747
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: and basically what they do is they find like the

748
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: videos of black people doing in some instances what might

749
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 1: be considered ratchet, but then to jazz mus the already

750
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,760
Speaker 1: was putting it in only one of my favorite things.

751
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: What's it called again, some jazz playing? Oh yeah, yeah,

752
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: that's a that's a hard question to answer because you

753
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: gotta look at your whole fee. But I was just

754
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: gonna stay top of mind one of my favorites that

755
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: I kind of fantasized, and look at her. I don't

756
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: know how to kind of if they're living real life.

757
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: But whoever, this Coco Brown Travels is who who is

758
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: this Coco Brown Travels? What the ship? Who are they?

759
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? Luxury like beautiful Nowadi

760
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 1: they somewhere on the continent with Sunday brunch vines having

761
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: brunch in front of a water fall and Morocco. Excuse me, Morocco.

762
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: Bill I traveled. I fought. I follow a lot of them,

763
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: like travel folks because also like a page called we

764
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: Are Urban We Are, And I feel like what I

765
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: like about them is that they're going to give you

766
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: a quote. Baby. Every day, they're gonna give you a quote,

767
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: and that quote is gonna be exactly what you're going through.

768
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: And I don't know how they do it. I don't

769
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: know where it comes from, but they will. I know

770
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: they're about to get They about to snatch my edges

771
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: in a lovely way when it starts. I don't know

772
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: who needs to hear this, but I can't even wait

773
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: to get involved with this some dass play because I

774
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: love the this when you just change the narrative real

775
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: right fast, same thing, uh, but you put some put

776
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 1: some other cops on shift that perspective on it. In

777
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 1: about two point two seconds and suddenly it's beautiful, and

778
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 1: that's what I want for us so bad. Then that

779
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: what we want, yes, and that what we want, yes,

780
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: but with the joyful people, for the people who are

781
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: really just trying to, you know, and enjoy life. You know,

782
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: it seems beauty in it, Like, that's what I want.

783
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: I want us to be able to change the narrative

784
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 1: of some things. So you caet that taste out your mouth, baby,

785
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 1: get that from Dan. I love that. I can't wait. Yeah,

786
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: those are some of my face I have. I have lots,

787
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: because y'all know, I probably more of the socials more

788
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: than y'all. But I do enjoy. I enjoy a good

789
00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: dance challenge. I enjoy good TikTok. Definitely enjoy those two

790
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: pages quite a bit. I enjoy Uncle Pucci. And Uncle

791
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 1: Pucci is the uncle of a journalist and she just

792
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: decided to start like his page for him. And he

793
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 1: wears these outfits and he's just a joy to watch

794
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: Uncle Pucci get dressed every day and his gators and

795
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: his heavily creased wide legged pants, silk shirt and do

796
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: ragon hat to match. He is a joy Uncle Pucci.

797
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: And he has a paramit a cock or and he

798
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: has more than one Cadillac. Get into it. I told

799
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 1: you then coming back. No, it's no, he's he's he's

800
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,399
Speaker 1: from another time. Yeah, we enjoy Uncle Pucci. Well he's

801
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 1: still doing it. So I'm sorry. I'm just throwing some

802
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,919
Speaker 1: few things out there that brings me some general joy

803
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: every day that I'm saying, I'm gonna I'm gonna go

804
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: right here with um. Don't call me white girl. Yes,

805
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm happy to see her every time I see her.

806
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 1: Every time I see her. I don't know what she's

807
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 1: talking about. Girls. I just enjoy her. It's the ultra

808
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: philly for me. Like as she's so fully strong. I

809
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: love it, so fully strong. We love her, we do,

810
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 1: we really really do, we really do. Yeah, She's a

811
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: joy love, very enjoyable, very but I love it because

812
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that little bit of joy goes a

813
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: long way. Like I know, people downplay the you know,

814
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: content creators sometimes, but they do bring people joy and

815
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: I have experienced that joy. Like it's cool. A hard

816
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: time with the whole concept of content creator. I'm like,

817
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: aren't you a producer? Yeah, well we've been doing it

818
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 1: for a minute. It's just a term to something that

819
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,800
Speaker 1: everybody else has been doing. You a content creator. You

820
00:51:56,920 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 1: a content creator, the gentleman, I guess, but you know,

821
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: you know me going into a different generation, like yeah,

822
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 1: here you came out. Jenn had been telling me for years.

823
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 1: YouTube is rich. Mom. I was like, that's some bullshit.

824
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: Then don't borrow some stuff from some people that's not real, Jet,

825
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 1: But I'm learning. Did you apologize? I did? I was wrong?

826
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:30,439
Speaker 1: I was he wrong? Okay, I didn't know. I want

827
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: to know who these sets that goes over mos some things.

828
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's been there for a minute, she

829
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 1: kIPS call me good. I don't know. I just like

830
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: to watch your mouth move when you're do it well,

831
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: I mean personally, as far as when I don't want

832
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 1: to do anything at all, when I'm just like, okay,

833
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 1: I just want to chill. It never really works out

834
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: that way. So I always end up in a conversation

835
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: with one of these people that lives up here in

836
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 1: this house. And honestly, they are some of my favorite

837
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 1: things because they're funny as hell. Yeah, they are funny.

838
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: I love them. I love spending time with them because

839
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:19,799
Speaker 1: they're like my little besties. I shouldn't say that because

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Speaker 1: I know we grew up like I'm your mom, I'm

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Speaker 1: not your friend. I'm not your little friend like my

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Speaker 1: girl like that. But I did our community and that

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Speaker 1: your little friend. That's when, that's when you didn't stepped

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Speaker 1: over your bounds. But yeah, and I ain't your little friend.

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Speaker 1: I didn't got that. They are my friends, friends good.

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Speaker 1: They're always aware that my mother was my mother. She

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Speaker 1: she rall talked me though, and that I've always appreciated.

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Speaker 1: There was really no filters about anything. I enjoyed that.

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Speaker 1: That was good stuff. Yeah, it was a favorite thing.

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Speaker 1: I try to be that way with my kids for us.

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Speaker 1: You had a smell because my mom had a smell. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And when I got her stuff after she passed, when

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Speaker 1: I got her stuff, yeah, I was like folding up

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Speaker 1: T shirts because she had like a ton of T shirts.

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Speaker 1: I don't my mother's laid in her life, honey, Like

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Speaker 1: she had like thirty five pairs of black pants like

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Speaker 1: my wife. But I was going through her stuff and

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Speaker 1: y'all like I sniffed it. Yeah, she she had a smell.

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Speaker 1: And it's literally like, yeah, every time I go back

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Speaker 1: to my mom's house, my grandmom, you know, she had

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Speaker 1: a room there and her clothes are still hanging up

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Speaker 1: in the closet. I always go in there and go

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Speaker 1: on the closet and I h it's like, oh, we

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Speaker 1: moved out of that house, um that my grandmother was then.

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Speaker 1: Uh so I don't. I didn't get a chance to

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Speaker 1: go back in that room in that way, but I

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Speaker 1: got a lot of her night counts. And even after

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Speaker 1: I washed, and I can still smell her. You can't

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Speaker 1: wash it out. The smell I'm talking about doesn't come

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Speaker 1: out in the laundry, No, it doesn't. That's a favorite thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a favorite thing. I love when when this boy

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Speaker 1: of mine comes and now he's so much taller than me,

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Speaker 1: I can't um, but I love it when he bends

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Speaker 1: down and he puts his his face and but deck

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Speaker 1: because you know, he smells it. I know he's I

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Speaker 1: sniff everything. I'm a bad person in that way. I'm bad,

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying the smell that we smell, he smells it.

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Speaker 1: You you have one, Yeah, you got one. You got yo,

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Speaker 1: somebody's gonna be sniffing by ship with I'm going they

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Speaker 1: sniffing your ship now, Oh my gosh, I don't know, man,

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Speaker 1: that that you're gonna have you at a happy place

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Speaker 1: where I leave you here off for this off of

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Speaker 1: this uh this show. I thought about our kasical stuff

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Speaker 1: to that. That what it's all about. That's what it's

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00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: all about. Happy places and enjoying those favorite things and

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00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 1: talking about them and then going and doing it. Somebody

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Speaker 1: goes somewhere and get a scoop butter pecano on a

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Speaker 1: sugar cone. H don't get that. Go to Ben and Jerry,

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Speaker 1: get that waffle corne and come out the oven. That's

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Speaker 1: my name, that's mine, out the wafflet the oven. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know they wrapped their fresh. Go to one. Don

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Speaker 1: only go to it. Only go to a shop that

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Speaker 1: rapid fresh. I worked there. Yeah, Card and Jerry's, Hilary

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Speaker 1: and from my lifestyle, Hilary's with the jit Oh, Hilary's.

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Speaker 1: That was good. Yes, Ben and Jerry's is my favorite

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Speaker 1: ice cream. But I'm telling you, man, oh my goodness, gracious,

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Speaker 1: there was an ice cream parlor when I was a kid.

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Speaker 1: We used to go to the game, I really remember,

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Speaker 1: but it was that was my favorite until you know,

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Speaker 1: I discovered but Ben and Jerry's. But my favorite in

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Speaker 1: Ben and Jerry's is that chocolate fudge brownie situation? Chocolate

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Speaker 1: fudge brownie, yes, Benn, Jerry's mm hmmm, I'm Erry Garcia.

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Speaker 1: It kind of girl, me too, girl and all they

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Speaker 1: just should just know all the chips is chunky, Cherry Garcia,

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Speaker 1: chunky monkey trip. Whatever you want. Just know you' getting

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Speaker 1: a chunky you know, And that's a dark it's kind

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Speaker 1: of a dark chocolate ship to see, circle back to circle,

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Speaker 1: back to the dark chocolate because that thing ain't That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm saying like that and that felt sexual life.

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Speaker 1: Are you sure to have the way you were received

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Speaker 1: in it? I think I think I'm free for all

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Speaker 1: the time, all the time. I'm just your favorite things,

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Speaker 1: favorite things all the time. I was gonna say, well,

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Speaker 1: that's that's another episode of another time. Y'all for listening

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Speaker 1: to Jay dot Ill the podcast. It is our pleasure

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Speaker 1: just to have conversations to what spark conversations. Thank here, y'all.

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Speaker 1: How do you Eat an Elephant? One by kind Hey listeners?

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Speaker 1: Is Amber the producer here. I love this series of thaves.

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Speaker 1: I'm learning so much about all three hosts. I hope

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Speaker 1: these conversations help with your holiday wish lists just in

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Speaker 1: case miss them. I want to shout out a few

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Speaker 1: Be sure to share your favorite things with us. Hi

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Speaker 1: episode called eight six six, Hey Jill, if you want

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