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Speaker 1: It's your girl. May d b back?

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Speaker 2: Get it again with another episode of selective Ignorance, the

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Speaker 2: pod where we question everything, even the things we think

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Speaker 2: we know, while also talking about the selective outrage, because

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Speaker 2: y'all got that shit too. Today we are talking about

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Speaker 2: the word that makes everybody tense up.

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Speaker 1: Privilege.

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Speaker 2: That's right, baby, we talk about privilege. Now, before you

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Speaker 2: roll your eyes, stick with me here one little bit. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: we hear privilege. We usually think of it like something

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Speaker 2: that you kind of should be ashamed of. But what

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Speaker 2: if we look at it a little differently? What if

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Speaker 2: we admitted that every type of privilege comes with pros

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Speaker 2: and cons And some of y'all out there are blessed

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Speaker 2: in one area and struggling in another. So think about

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Speaker 2: it pretty privilege. Yeah, you might get the free drinks,

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Speaker 2: the job interviews, the good looking men, but how often

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Speaker 2: do people underestimate you just because of how you look?

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Speaker 2: And we've talked about patriarchy, so I'm not gonna do it.

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Speaker 2: But privilege also comes with higher risks of being sexually assaulted.

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Speaker 1: We don't talk about that enough, though, do we.

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Speaker 2: All Right, let's get into then, the socioeconomic privilege you

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Speaker 2: got the money, you got the access, but it also

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Speaker 2: means dealing with fake people, pressure to stay successful, and

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Speaker 2: sometimes the.

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Speaker 1: Guilt for what you have.

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Speaker 2: Maybe how many of y'all made more money during the

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Speaker 2: pandemic and feel bad for even sharing that?

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Speaker 1: What about white privilege?

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Speaker 2: That's what we all know about, and listen, we're not

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Speaker 2: denying that it exists. But does the experience of that

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Speaker 2: privilege look the same in every country? I don't know

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Speaker 2: if y'all know, but the Asian population is actually the majority.

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Speaker 1: Look it up.

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Speaker 2: I promise you also not to start the pot, But

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Speaker 2: is there such thing as black privilege? Like? Can there

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Speaker 2: be advantages to the culture, the creativity, the resilience we

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Speaker 2: build because of what we've survived. Can our community or

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Speaker 2: our influence of our voice be kind of a privilege

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Speaker 2: in itself? I don't have all the answers, and that's

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Speaker 2: why we're here today to break it down. I got

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Speaker 2: my good friends with me, Sit and Reezie, and today

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Speaker 2: we're pulling it all apart, no holes barred. Literally, make

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Speaker 2: sure you get your book, because sometimes privilege looks like

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Speaker 2: a blessing, but sometimes it's actually a burden, And sometimes

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Speaker 2: it's both At the same goddamn time.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into it, all, right, guys.

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Speaker 2: Today's episode, I want to talk about something that some

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Speaker 2: of you guys have made negative and I'm not sure why,

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Speaker 2: because technically it should be positive. Right on today's episode,

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Speaker 2: we're talking about privilege. Now, there's a hierarchy of privilege.

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Speaker 2: There's white privilege, there's gender privilege. You see, I didn't

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Speaker 2: say black privilege, but there's all of these privileges under

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Speaker 2: the sun. And what happens is when we go into

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Speaker 2: talking about it, we make people feel less than for

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Speaker 2: having those privileges.

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Speaker 1: We bring up the entitlement around it, we bring up

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Speaker 1: all the things.

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Speaker 2: However, I want to let y'all know that I want

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Speaker 2: to be as privileged as possible in my life, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you want to bring up that

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Speaker 2: it's a negative thing. Today we're going deep into it

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Speaker 2: with my two good friends, and I'm really excited because

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Speaker 2: we're gonna dig into the higher ky.

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Speaker 1: Of privilege essentially.

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Speaker 2: Essentially, now y'all know, I'm also joined with only one

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Speaker 2: of my producers today, a king, because Jason has the

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Speaker 2: Puerto Rican privilege to show up late.

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Speaker 1: Not sure why. Look, Okay, he's not micd up. He's

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Speaker 2: He might be yelling to his aboila, but I'm not

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Speaker 2: listening to him today.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I'm also joined by Sid and Reezie, the host of

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Speaker 2: Mess where they dive into the mess that is life

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Speaker 2: on earth and try to make sense of it all. Hey, guys, now,

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Speaker 2: I want to say that they also somehow have late privilege. Well,

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Speaker 2: I don't know where we land who gets late privilege,

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Speaker 2: And I think you have to also consider the amount

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Speaker 1: How do you work towards late privileged?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 1: You know, the only time I was early was when

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Speaker 1: with the late privilege you got?

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's New York City, we're just blaming, okay,

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Speaker 2: so that's geographical privilege.

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Speaker 3: Actually, you know the ubers, they show up when they

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Speaker 3: want to. Somebody's getting you know, hit by a train,

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Speaker 3: first of all, what is the rush we're gonna get there?

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like exactly, buses in two lane? What

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Speaker 1: the wheelchair? The wheelchair? Nigga trying to get on the bus.

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Speaker 1: I don't take the bus, but I'm just saying for

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to have this combo with y'all because I

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Speaker 2: think there's so many elements of privilege that I think

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Speaker 2: we all exude or that we all like to call

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Speaker 2: out for people that we would never have it, Like

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Speaker 2: we none of us would ever have white privilege, and

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't like many now my mind, Winter day,

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Speaker 2: we're not doing this, y'all know, y'all know I do

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Speaker 2: not have white privileges. I have never in any environment

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Speaker 2: been able to claim or be white, even though I

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Speaker 2: am a biracial is blix Like, excuse me, ma'am, No

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Speaker 2: one has been. When you have a blazer on, they

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Speaker 1: I don't wear blazers.

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Speaker 2: And then as soon as I open my mouth, it's

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Speaker 2: like they hear the blackness.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that.

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Speaker 3: One of those white women that have like the long

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Speaker 3: that is I can see it.

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Speaker 1: First off, I'm a black woman.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you don't have white privilege, you definitely have

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Speaker 3: thick privilege.

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Speaker 1: You got that, So.

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Speaker 2: Thick privilege is not a thing. There is no saying.

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Speaker 2: First off, you're adding categories. Now, wait, privilege is not

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Speaker 2: a thing. How many times you've been absolutely some times

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Speaker 1: First off? How many times? How many times? How many

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Speaker 1: tricks have you taken and you didn't have to pay?

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Speaker 1: How many? Wait? Privilege? Yes, we do this. Yes, the

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Speaker 1: nerve to hip to waste ratio. No, no, no, that's

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Speaker 1: not a privilege. It is a privilege. The privilege. No,

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Speaker 1: I have been like people have like fat shamed me

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, just because yeah, with the BBL era and

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Speaker 2: this isn't natural. No, no, as a natural thick girl.

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Speaker 2: Uh uh, there's no privilege here. Like my pants don't

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Speaker 2: like it takes I have to go multiple sizes up

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Speaker 2: to get baggy pants. No privilege here, brag, No privilege here.

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Speaker 2: Now you skinny girl privilege.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to be ho in the black culture.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. It's like you need to eat, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: You sick?

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Speaker 3: You sick, what you're going through? Spressed, That's all those things.

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Speaker 3: I've heard it all.

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Speaker 2: So so I believe in Like, and we talked about

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Speaker 2: this on an episode with Meryl, like that fat phobia

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Speaker 2: is a thing. Skinny shaming is not you're saying it

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Speaker 2: is just within our community.

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Speaker 1: Skinny shaming, it is a thing. It's a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: It was a whole thing on TikTok.

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Speaker 2: They try to drag me on our podcast because I

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Speaker 2: was like, I like me and skinny, and they were like, City.

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Speaker 1: Was like you really gonna say that? Wait a second,

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Speaker 1: so now we can't be happy with our side.

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Speaker 2: You say that you're happy to be thin, they will

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Speaker 2: drag you on TikTok Like that's a privilege.

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Speaker 1: Check your privilege? What huh?

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Speaker 4: I mean?

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Speaker 2: I believe so skinny to me is a privilege, Like

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Speaker 2: skinny privilege exists, especially like growing up five seven nine,

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Speaker 2: it didn't even go to ten, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like there were actual stores made just to keep us out,

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Speaker 2: Like why was I twelve and people telling me to.

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Speaker 1: Go to Lane Bryant, Like, what are we talking about?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like, I'm sorry that metabolic privilege no, but a metabolg.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 2: But like like in terms of the fact that when

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Speaker 1: It was always someone thin, it was always skinny, like.

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Speaker 3: There hasn't in white people. That has never been a

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Speaker 2: As Tyro Tyra was Babe, Tyra wanted them girls to

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Speaker 2: and it was just a car with big tip.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Seeing the car in person, I was like, wait,

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Speaker 3: hold on, now, I've been duped, I've been tricked.

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Speaker 2: We've eve do now, y'all just threw a whole bunch

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Speaker 2: of different privileges that we weren't gonna talk about because

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Speaker 2: thick privilege.

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Speaker 1: Is not a thing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you want to say while you have all what

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Speaker 3: you're going on in them jeans, don't listen, don't.

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Speaker 1: Do it right, Okay.

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Speaker 2: The video holes, Hold on, the video holes back in

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Speaker 2: the day were skinny, slim, They were slim, and then

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Speaker 2: one day I don't know what happened. I don't Jalo

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Speaker 2: booty fell out of a limo or something, and they

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Speaker 2: were like, oh, we just want ass. You know what's

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Speaker 2: crazy about that task? I found out her role in Selena.

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Speaker 2: She had butt pads in she If you look at

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Speaker 2: really Jlo, Now for back in the day, where was

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Speaker 2: the ass?

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Speaker 1: The ass was actually not there like our minds believed

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Speaker 1: it was there.

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Speaker 2: You don't know, it's not our minds, it's white people

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Speaker 2: that were like, she got a big ass because they

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Speaker 2: loved a paper plate booty. And then Jalo came out

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Speaker 2: and they were like, oh, hefty, hefty, hefty. Nothing that

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Speaker 2: white people say is big is actually big.

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Speaker 3: And also the camera does add ten pounds today that

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Speaker 3: it dude, you know what I mean? And Jalo is

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Speaker 3: on camera it was, but.

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Speaker 2: I mean she had that to my last it was

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Speaker 2: to the floor, to the windows, to the wall. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: I do want to read the actual definition of privilege

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Speaker 2: so that we could have some jokes, but some real

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Speaker 2: dialogue around it, because like I said, I want to

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Speaker 2: exude all the privilege I can in this world while

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Speaker 2: knowing that I am still not privileged.

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Speaker 1: Just a little bit, just a little bit okay.

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Speaker 2: So privilege is a special right, advantage, or immunity granted

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Speaker 2: privilege refers to a certain social to certain social advantages, benefits,

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Speaker 2: by virtue of belonging to certain social identity groups. So

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Speaker 2: we know that there's microaggressions. We get that from white

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Speaker 1: Beach m h. I guess I'm just gonna say pretty privilege.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But that didn't happen until later on in life,

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Speaker 2: At what point did you exist in pretty privilege until adult?

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Speaker 1: They kept calling me Gabrielle Union.

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Speaker 3: They kept calling me the girl from Pharrell's video front,

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Speaker 1: I was like, that is so good.

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Speaker 3: I said, white people are crazy because they can't see

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Speaker 3: But no one said that in Harlem because they were

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Speaker 2: You never felt like you're pretty privileged existed in your

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you look through the photos, I was

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you feel that same pretty privilege with your

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Speaker 3: I was really skinny, didn't have that boy, I didn't

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Speaker 1: You know, where did you Where did you grow up?

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Speaker 2: Oh, Okay, which is crazy because going to California was

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Speaker 1: When I was bigger, I felt like, fuck, how loud

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Speaker 1: Then I was like, ooh, Starlet's wants me in there?

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Speaker 1: This is real.

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Speaker 2: But like to me, I only got the privilege of

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Speaker 1: We'll talk to later. Reezie.

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Speaker 2: What about you, I know this is a whole list

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Speaker 1: Geographical privilege? I think that's it. You don't have no

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Speaker 2: I think being in New York, being from New York,

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Speaker 2: that's a privilege. Being around people who are like, uh,

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Speaker 2: That's that's count That counts of what Manhattan is. A

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying the landlocked states, the people are like

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Speaker 2: instead of brunch. Well they do brunch after, but like

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Speaker 2: I literally give it all to being in New York

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Speaker 1: Like I moved here at twenty one, left to thirty four.

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Speaker 2: Like being here throughout my entire twenties, I don't think

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Speaker 1: Like that's that's a privilege that New York that New

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Speaker 2: Yeah, New York privilege is absolutely a thing or geographical privilege.

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Speaker 2: But like just like Sidney, when I was younger, I

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Speaker 2: But I heard that, and I was like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm never gonna bleed every month. I'm never gonna be

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Speaker 2: You're when you're fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, and everybody else has them,

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, I think if you're straight in twenty twenty five,

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Speaker 1: No no no, no, no no no no.

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Speaker 2: Right now, when I talk to people, especially like younger,

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Speaker 1: They'd be like, you straight and I'd be like yeah,

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Speaker 2: You No, no, no, no, no, this is this is

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I actually, for people listening, I look this up

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Speaker 2: Heterosexual individuals may not face discrimination or harassment. I've also

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Speaker 1: I'm not even putting like I've actually not.

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Speaker 2: Put my first off, I don't think it's a job's

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Speaker 1: Applied for it? I mean, no girl on LinkedIn? No, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I mean but even as me wanting to be a

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Speaker 3: I my my my girlfriend is gay.

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Speaker 1: She she looks my girlfriend is gay. Yes, she's gay.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, and I know we've had a conversation even

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Speaker 1: You could bring.

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Speaker 2: An abusive, cheating ass man to Thanksgiving Day dinner, but

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Speaker 2: about you know what I mean, but your roommate to

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Speaker 2: thank guzziness exactly. They don't even acknowledge that there's a

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Speaker 1: They're like, oh, you found love, you're in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like he's here.

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Speaker 3: it's not a privilege considering how terrible they are. But

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Speaker 3: you know, you don't have to worry about going to

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Speaker 3: They all don't.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that there's a lesbian privilege over gay privilege?

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Speaker 3: You don't know how they're gonna act or what they're

440
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 3: gonna do to you, and you have to be It's

441
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,199
Speaker 3: the same thing with blackness. It's like sometimes you just

442
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 3: can't hide it, and if they feel a certain way,

443
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: they can act on it.

444
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 2: And see that's the crazy thing being like, bye, I

445
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 2: don't experience homophobia because.

446
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: Hetero men live it. They'd be like ooh, I get

447
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: two girls at once.

448
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 2: And so it's weird because in terms of even how

449
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 2: we realize or see homophobia, even within our own community,

450
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 2: it's more so towards men and masculinity. I don't really

451
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: see it as much towards women, but of course not

452
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,479
Speaker 2: I don't also publicly date and exist.

453
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: It was in Jamaica with her girlfriend.

454
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: She not trying to be the test object to see

455
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 2: how cool they are with Let's listen, I'll catch you

456
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 2: when we cross whatever that ocean is where jam is.

457
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 2: I want to ask both of you before this next one,

458
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 2: because this one is gonna be a hot take. Okay,

459
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 2: do you believe in educational privilege?

460
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 6: Yeah?

461
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: People who are dumb vote bad. People who are smart

462
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 2: and can read good. You know, they make decisions based

463
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 2: on what they know.

464
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 1: Do both of y'all have Did y'all go to college

465
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,479
Speaker 1: at all? Do y'all have degree? Fortunately? Okay?

466
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 2: See, okay, so we might all have the same take care.

467
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 2: I was so proud to have my two bachelor's degree.

468
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 2: I got to I got to BS in accounting and

469
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 2: then a BBA in business administration.

470
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: Focus them listed.

471
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 2: Both of them are now but now and so I

472
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 2: know that, like, and we're millennials, so growing up, it's

473
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: like you go to school, you get your degree, and

474
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:04,199
Speaker 2: then you like it's it's a thing to have completed

475
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: your degrees. And now they look they look good on

476
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 2: my shelf. And now we do this and I ignore

477
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 2: Sally made when she calls me. But the thing is

478
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 2: down that just fuck my goddamn credit.

479
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: Oh damn really counting.

480
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 3: But you know what it really is. I think college

481
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 3: is about It's about the network. It's about what That's

482
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 3: why sororities, fraternities are so good because you stay connected

483
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 3: and when it's time to get jobs, you have these

484
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 3: people for references.

485
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: They're recommending you for other things.

486
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 3: The NYU Princeton, all those big schools. I mean literally

487
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 3: there's so many people in uh in acting and writing

488
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: or whatever. They went to those schools and they're helping

489
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 3: each other get into these rooms and auditions and the privilege.

490
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: Now the directors, we all went to the wrong school.

491
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah right, it's who you know, not what you If

492
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 2: I went to n YU, I would have an egoch

493
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: right now.

494
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: Which I went to. I was in the Bronx. I

495
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: mean it me to e Y Goldman Sachs. It did

496
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 1: a little something.

497
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 2: But now that I'm not there, it's like, Okay, it

498
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 2: looks nice on my on my mom's wall.

499
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: No, it's in my shelf.

500
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 2: By the way, I am now the age that my

501
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 2: mama said, you want this box the trophies or if not,

502
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 2: I'm gonna throw these bitches away because I moved about

503
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,640
Speaker 2: five different houses and it's just a mess.

504
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: Trophies you have. First off, don't do that. The athletic privilege.

505
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 2: I know you can't tell that I did. I did soccer, volleyball,

506
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 2: track and field and basketball.

507
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: No overachievers, I am, you're really doing a lot. I'm

508
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: over cheap, you know what I mean.

509
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: I knew I didn't have uh status privilege growing up.

510
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 2: I knew I didn't have white privilege growing up. So

511
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 2: to me, I felt like I had to excel and

512
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: do everything. Like I was just telling someone in here

513
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 2: I was in chess club. I was like I did everything.

514
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: I was like, let me, were you good at chess?

515
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 2: The people listening one of good at chess?

516
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: Was it? Even Queen's camps?

517
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 2: Like like a part of me growing up, like my

518
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: my dad was in construction, my mom was in nursing

519
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 2: and she was a tech forever because she couldn't get

520
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 2: past the goddamn math courses to get her degree to

521
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 2: become a well she's an LPN now, but like they

522
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 2: both just did these blue collar jobs. And to me,

523
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, if I want to leave Florida, if I

524
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 2: want to do anything, I at that point thought I

525
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 2: had to show up to school on time, which is

526
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 2: why I hate you bitches to be late, because I

527
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 2: was a perfect attendance as bitch, so was I.

528
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 1: You know, growing.

529
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 2: But I thought order in order to experience any sort

530
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 2: of privilege outside of maybe yes, the light skin privilege

531
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: that all acknowledged later because.

532
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: I get later. Why later, I mean, what do you mean?

533
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't say like skin privilege on the

534
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: thing that.

535
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 2: There there, I didn't see what my our skin eye

536
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 2: you you know what's crazy. So kind of like what

537
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 2: you said where you experienced pretty privilege within the white

538
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 2: community but not the black community. I only experience pretty privilege,

539
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: and maybe because of my size in the black community,

540
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 2: never in the white community. I've never been hit on

541
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 2: by white men, even if a white man like it

542
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 2: wasn't until I moved to New York and even their

543
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: pickup line was. But I think it's because of my

544
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 2: size that I've never been attractive to white men, because

545
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: they like dinner dinner types.

546
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 6: So they put more water in it battery.

547
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: They you know, especially in the South, right.

548
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 2: But also I'll be honest with you, and and I

549
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 2: don't know where we where it stems from. Honestly, I

550
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 2: know that there's self hate in our community. I know

551
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: that black men don't even steer all the way white

552
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 2: until they go to these pwy's, until they're in those spaces,

553
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 2: where as soon as they have access to white women,

554
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 2: they take it. I don't know where the light skin

555
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 2: privilege within our community comes from.

556
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 3: Slavery, Oh, because they had the house, Sally, I'm gonna say,

557
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 3: Thomas Jefferson, Oh, because they were they had the house access.

558
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: Is that what it was?

559
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: I just think it was during those times like black

560
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 2: people were so yuck that the lighter you were, the

561
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 2: closer to light you were, the more attractive and appealing

562
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: that person was. And so that just trickled down. Even

563
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:29,479
Speaker 2: that just trickled down even for us as girl. I

564
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 2: know you, I know you watched the NBA draft, right,

565
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 2: but it'd be white girls.

566
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I'm sorry. It's the players. Now.

567
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: All the players are mixed. That's why they're not as cute.

568
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna lie to you. They're all not

569
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 2: as cute. They all got the same curly hair. They

570
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 2: all got the same you know, foot shaped face. You

571
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 2: know what I mean, they got the tiny light LATINX

572
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 2: mom or you know whatever, mom and black basketball playing

573
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: dad And I was watching the draft, which is crazy

574
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: because in terms of even our own community, light skin

575
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 2: privilege is only really associated to the women. I don't

576
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: think the men. I just know men get light skin privilege.

577
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: Drake is light skin privilege. How is Drake light skin privilege?

578
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 3: I think because when he first came out, it was

579
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 3: like he's he wasn't cute, he was he was wed,

580
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 3: he was odd looking, but somehow he he slit in

581
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 3: his weight in his way in.

582
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: And was that not talent privilege? Are we gonna talent?

583
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 2: Are we gonna say that Drake only got here because

584
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: of light skin privilege?

585
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 3: I mean, wasn't he in de Grassi? That was that

586
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: was like skin privilege, that was Canadian.

587
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: They let him sit the whole time too. He was

588
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 1: in a wheelchair, if.

589
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 6: He applied a job his name before you even meet him.

590
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: Aubrey is the.

591
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 4: Degenerate ship that you might think of us, Aubrey Graham.

592
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: Really, I mean, even if you look at and this

593
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 2: is gonna become virtual if you look at Tyler Perry.

594
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: Movies, right, the it's always the same.

595
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: And mind you, I've maybe seen like three Tyler three

596
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: or four Tyler Perry movies.

597
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 1: The girl is always you.

598
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 2: Know, she she's dating a dark skinned man who's nasty

599
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: to her, and he's mean to her, and maybe he

600
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: hits her one time and or you don't go to church.

601
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 2: And then the guy that she falls in love with

602
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 2: is a light skinned guy with fussy braids who is

603
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 2: a construction worker.

604
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: Her right call a job. But he's good the okay,

605
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: But this is just Tyler Perry's mind.

606
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: No, that's not his mind. It's a lot of people's mind. Really,

607
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 3: it's narrative.

608
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 2: The way that they cast black male actors is like

609
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 2: that to the dark skinned dude is a Nigerian scammer,

610
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: and the light skin guy is you know, a friend

611
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 2: of the best friend of the main character. You know

612
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. They do it in TV. They do

613
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: it in film. Light skin male privilege is a thing

614
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: like safe, you're safe black?

615
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: Oh, safe black? Okay black. Even look at Chris Brown

616
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: and Jonathan Major's Oh is this what we're doing? Yes,

617
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: what we're doing? Okay late, but we can't prepare it.

618
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm curious with how you view the difference in treatment

619
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 2: between both of them, because Chris Brown has been black balled,

620
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: still is to this day.

621
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 3: Oh he's black, bald, he's on tour and he's charging

622
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 3: one thousand dollars for a meet and greet, one thousand.

623
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: One eleven dollars and eleven cents to the exact. Let

624
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: me yeah, one, I love you so Chris Brown. And

625
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: what's crazy is he not a fan of Jonathan Majors.

626
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 2: But I think there's pretty privilege.

627
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: There, not light skin, dark skin privilege. That's a pretty

628
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: privileged thing. They do be calling Jonathan Major's a slaves.

629
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: The civil rights they said he got but they said

630
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: he looked like what are they called it?

631
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: No, I'm curious to know your breakdown into how you

632
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 2: receive the differences to be treated between the treatment of

633
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: Chris Brown and Jonathan Majors because of whatever privilege one

634
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 2: holds over the other.

635
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 3: Like Jonathan Major, this white woman, we don't who is

636
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 3: she who? Like, yes, I'm I'm against domestic violence all

637
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 3: of that stuff, but we we don't know who this

638
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 3: white woman.

639
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: Is Rihanna, that woman.

640
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 3: He was able to physically attack her.

641
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: And still have a job, many jobs.

642
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 3: He's still features, travels, he can go into places. Jonathan Major.

643
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: I haven't even seen him on a to b No. No,

644
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: it's out now Magazine Dreams, Magazine Dreams, and it looks good.

645
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: But it's on two.

646
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 2: Breen movie theaters and movie theaters. It was bought by

647
00:32:55,160 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: actually zeus the way, Okay, that's the way, Now I

648
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: do I do see? Okay, So then do you take

649
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: this completely back if he goes back into the Marvel

650
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 2: universe and even uh, Michael B. Jordan stood up and

651
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 2: was like, if there's a Creed four, I would like

652
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: to play alongside him as well.

653
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 3: Again, well, that's male privilege, that's mal that's just like

654
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: it's just male privilege.

655
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: That's male privilege in that sense.

656
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 3: But Chris Brown, I feel like he had a hard

657
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 3: time for maybe a couple of years with Jonathan Major's

658
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know if he can recover

659
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 3: from them.

660
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: I mean, he's he.

661
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 3: That's why he's trying to do the whole rebrand. I'm

662
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 3: a married man.

663
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: Do y'all know if any are there any celebrity women,

664
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 2: because people who hits, who hits their partners outside of

665
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: who was it the Johnny Depp and oh Amberhard's.

666
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: Dumping his bend, that's white women for you.

667
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 2: But but what's crazy is even on that the audience

668
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 2: was swayed either either way, Like you had a lot

669
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: of people that still wanted to not look at the

670
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 2: hole that she was, the abuser that he was as well,

671
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: like they were both abusing each other essentially.

672
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: Well above white.

673
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 3: That's probably and they come from they stem from that.

674
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: The Evil City said, it's within them, it's in the DNA.

675
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 3: Historically speaking, I can't trust white men, can't trust white women.

676
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy about you saying can't trust the

677
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 2: white men? And I do want to ask this then,

678
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 2: because in talking about male privilege and oh, we're like

679
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 2: pulling the layers out here, right, why then is black

680
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: women with that connotation?

681
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: Are we feeling like white men are safer for us

682
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 1: than black Oh.

683
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, No, I don't

684
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 2: think that white men are safer for us, because I've

685
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 2: heard this be said, especially white men. First of all,

686
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: I've watched enough Lifetime movie Channel films to know that

687
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 2: a white man is it's more likely to murder me

688
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: than anybody else. Agree, and then he's don't get on

689
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 2: a jet ski and people are gonna be like, it's

690
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: so sad that she died like that.

691
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 4: You know.

692
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 3: The thing is is that white men, I feel like

693
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 3: you kind of like, especially in the workplace, you're gonna

694
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 3: know how they feel about you. White women, they're gonna

695
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 3: get in, they're gonna they do a lot of acting

696
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 3: and a lot of their passive aggressive and microaggression.

697
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: And a lot of sneaky I don't know, you're like, oh,

698
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: this is my friend, but she's going to HR. She's

699
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 1: going to HR. She's doing a case against you.

700
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 3: So I think that they're both The deception is prevalent,

701
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 3: but they're gonna go about it in different ways. And

702
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes it's easier to align with the

703
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 3: white man in the sense of like they're gonna tell

704
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:44,919
Speaker 3: you how they feel. They're they're they're not as fake

705
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 3: you think black men are fake. Not black men, I

706
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 3: think like white women, white women. Okay, yeah, and I

707
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 3: agree with that too. That's why feminism is one of

708
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: those things where it's just like.

709
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 1: It's for them, yes, for them, but they will try

710
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: to group it. No, this is for everybody. No, but

711
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: a lot of it benefits y'all. We are not really

712
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:07,720
Speaker 1: thought about all of it benefits them. It's crazy.

713
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: And now after like Kamala lost, all the white women

714
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 2: are like, well, why are the black people fighting for us?

715
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 2: Why is Obama and them not? He's retired, babe, he

716
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 2: got a Netflix thing that he's working on.

717
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: He's not, he's not. He don't work for you. It's

718
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: crazy that they are.

719
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 3: Like the whole thing about abortion, I mean, growing up,

720
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: they said it's it was only black and Latina girls

721
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 3: getting abortions. Now it's now, but at the marches it's

722
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 3: all white women. So what is it who is really

723
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 3: getting these abortions y'all?

724
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: Do y'all want to just have the right to have it?

725
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: Or do y'all get them?

726
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 2: Do you believe then, if we're talking even about abortion rights,

727
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: are there any privileges that women have?

728
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 1: Women?

729
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: Like?

730
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: What what being a woman? What is our privilege?

731
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 2: As women only because I'll get into it during Hypocritical

732
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 2: met Hypocritical youth segment where we all did take a

733
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 2: privileged test and I'll put it in the link of

734
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: this episode so that you guys can take it as well. However,

735
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 2: there were a lot of questions, like there was even

736
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 2: one where that said, I'm a man because clearly there's

737
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 2: male privilege. Yes, absolutely, is there any privilege in being

738
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 2: a woman? If so, where do you see it?

739
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:23,439
Speaker 1: At bars? At restaurants. I'll bring my tiniest lizo purse,

740
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: they dropped the check, I'll be like, Okay, valid, I guess.

741
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 2: But that leans into patriarchy essentially, that goes to our

742
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 2: benefit that we get from patriarchy, where a man is

743
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 2: supposed to be a provider's spender and we're supposed to

744
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 2: be the Listen.

745
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 1: Do you want me to be here or not? Because

746
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't have to be here. I got wine up

747
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:43,879
Speaker 1: the house.

748
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but even even leaning into that, you're taking away

749
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 3: your power, like having a man provide solely, right, and

750
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 3: then what else are we So I'm I'm gonna be

751
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 3: in the house, cooking clean and doing all that.

752
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,320
Speaker 1: That sounded like a job. No, No, I'm not. I'm not.

753
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 2: So basically, are we all kind of because I was

754
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: when I asked this question. I was like, I'm thinking

755
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 2: of it. So we have no privileges then, I mean

756
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 2: we outside of walking into a room getting free shit

757
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 2: because men are gawking over us. We don't believe that

758
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 2: there's any privilege in existing as women.

759
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: Oh, I believe they do it here.

760
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 3: I believe that there's like in certain jobs, like the

761
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 3: beauty aspect of it all, Like we can create jobs

762
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 3: that are not necessarily jobs that men can do.

763
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: It's a double edged sword. So you and I reason,

764
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: did you ever work in night life? Yeah?

765
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so we've all worked in nightlife right where, Yeah,

766
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: we can make all this money. We only get the

767
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 2: job if we look a certain way. Let's be very clear.

768
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 2: It's a place where they can hire and fire you.

769
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 2: But you gain too much weight, they could fire you.

770
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 2: If you don't fit the aesthetic that they want, they

771
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 2: can let go of you. It's very pretty privilege driven,

772
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 2: women driven because they want women in there to attract

773
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 2: the men.

774
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: Right.

775
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 2: However, it's a double edged sword because within that same environment,

776
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 2: you're at risk for harassment, you're at risk for so

777
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: many things where it actually becomes a very toxic, mentally

778
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: draining environment, where where the privilege kind of essentially gets removed,

779
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 2: like yeah, you make money, but at what costs? And

780
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: I think in terms of women, yeah, we could be

781
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 2: on only fans. There's clearly we could sell ourselves. What

782
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 2: privilege is that really? Like you know what I mean

783
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 2: essentially that ooh great, our body can be these fucking

784
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to call us corpses to men, but

785
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 2: essentially like we can just be there and be at

786
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 2: their given will.

787
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: To me, I don't view that as a privilege.

788
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 2: However, in terms of men, I used to always say, like, damn,

789
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 2: if I was a man, I could at least sell drugs,

790
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 2: like when I was down and out.

791
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: I didn't want to lay all my back for it.

792
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: I would have loved to, like slang a little thing.

793
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 2: And I did try it one time what in Miami,

794
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 2: And let me tell you how it did work out

795
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 2: because the men weren't tip the day to me and

796
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 2: I have to go get a body. I had to

797
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 2: go get a man with protection. So right before I

798
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,280
Speaker 2: left Miami, I got out the clubs.

799
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 1: Uh is this your big meach story, right? Now Grigeldam.

800
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 2: So literally right right before I moved from Miami to

801
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: New York. This was two thousand and eleven. Oh no, baby,

802
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: we passed the seven years.

803
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: They think like it happened. I said what I said.

804
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: I was there. So basically, this was the Molly era.

805
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: This was what got Ross in trouble, put Molly all

806
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: up in it. She ain't even know.

807
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 2: This is when literally men for fun were dropping Molly

808
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 2: pills into bottles at the table, and you didn't know

809
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 2: what the fun was happening because everyone was drinking out

810
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: of the bottle, so they didn't even feel like they

811
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 2: were drugging women because they were drinking out of the

812
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:56,399
Speaker 2: same bottle too. Anyways, in Miami, everybody wanted molly at

813
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: the time, as well athletes. Sorry if y'all were there

814
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 2: during that time, it wasn't coming up. It was one

815
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 2: of the drugs that actually got out of your system

816
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 2: within twenty four to forty eight hours, so that athletes

817
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 2: was on molly. Everybody was on molly. So I ended

818
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 2: up getting a connect that sold it to me pure

819
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:18,280
Speaker 2: so cut that thing up with It was like vitamin

820
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 2: sea powders. So you know how when you took molly.

821
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 2: You're supposed to drink orange juice.

822
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: I cut it. Oh, I was a whole. I was

823
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 1: in the kitchen baby.

824
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: From Nixon, and I ended up going half with another

825
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 2: guy and he tried to like body me into selling

826
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,439
Speaker 2: his portion for him because I was in the space,

827
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:39,320
Speaker 2: and I literally felt like you mind you white skinny

828
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 2: squatty nigga. Clearly white male privilege wasn't there with him

829
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 2: in the drug game, but against me, he definitely felt

830
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 2: like he had something over me, and I had to

831
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: get someone.

832
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: To come and protect me, essentially, but a man Julius,

833
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: don't do this.

834
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,959
Speaker 2: His name was Aaron, but yeah, he was big, big body,

835
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 2: brawlick and had a gun because I have a gun

836
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 2: at the time at all time. Actually I live in Georgia. Now, okay,

837
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: there's multiple, there's multiple.

838
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 1: She's a trier if you want to.

839
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 2: But but even as that, I was like, oh, this

840
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: life isn't for me, Like Queen of the South was

841
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: the only one who got it correct. But other than that,

842
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 2: I don't think I know of many women who are

843
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: able to even infiltrate their space. There's that that was

844
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 2: that series on Netflix. Then there's the construction worker. There

845
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 2: are bodyguards. There's so many jobs that actually we literally

846
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,479
Speaker 2: don't qualify for just because we're women.

847
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: Hey, Rihanna has a female bodyguard? Really she do?

848
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 2: When she's in all the pictures behind her, people think

849
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: she's like her. I don't know, nanny or resistant or whatever. No,

850
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,240
Speaker 2: has a black female bodyguard?

851
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: Oh wow, oh wowos Now she got good shoulders, Tony Tailby.

852
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: Now ask both of you. Now, we took this test again.

853
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: It's in the link. I would like to know how

854
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: privileged we all are. Now. I took a screenshot of

855
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 1: my results.

856
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 2: Y'all, I am forty eight out of one hundred, which

857
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 2: says I am not privileged at all. You grew up

858
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 2: with an intersectional, complicated identity, and life never let you

859
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 2: forget it. You've had your fair share of struggles, and

860
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 2: you've worked hard to overcome them. We do not live

861
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 2: in an ideal world, and you had to learn that

862
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 2: the hard way. It is not your responsibility to educate

863
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 2: those with more advantages than you. But if you decide

864
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 2: you want to, go go ahead and send them this quiz,

865
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: which again I'm sharing with you guys. So I am

866
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: not privileged. I did not grow up privilege. However, now

867
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: I have busted my ass off, I do believe I

868
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: exist with pretty privilege e and maybe status privilege a

869
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: little bit. I removed myself from geographical privilege by moving

870
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 2: from New York to Atlanta.

871
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Atlanta's still a hub like, Atlanta is still

872
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:55,959
Speaker 1: a place of pop in city.

873
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 2: Like. The only privilege I think I have there is

874
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 2: being able to witness black black excellent.

875
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that everybody's this celebrity is there, everybody's somebody.

876
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 2: It's it's nice to be able to see black people

877
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 2: in those spaces.

878
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: Now, now, what was yours? Because I felt like we

879
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: were very.

880
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 2: Similar forty eight out of one hundred checks, same exact thing,

881
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 2: the same exact thing.

882
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 1: So me and Resy talked off air.

883
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 2: We we don't align the same sexuality, however, our upbringing

884
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 2: fairly similar. And then we both don't have all of

885
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 2: the religious attachments.

886
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 1: There is a huge gap of religious privilege in certain communities,

887
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: in certain spaces. Now, you you are the least privileged here,

888
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: and you you are the least privilege What was your results?

889
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: Nineteen out of one hundred.

890
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 3: Wow, you checked more than five percent of quiz takers

891
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 3: you are under privileged under the world is not a

892
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 3: fair or ideal place. And you know that because you

893
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 3: grew up with several identities that the world is not

894
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: kind to. You had a lot of challenges to overcome

895
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 3: simply to get on the level playing field with most

896
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: people in the world. It is not your job to

897
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,359
Speaker 3: educate the world about its injustices. But if you choose

898
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 3: to go ahead and send them this quiz, hopefully it

899
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 3: will help.

900
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: Hopefully this helps you.

901
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 2: Guy on, hold on, go ahead now, oh now, now, Jason,

902
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 2: the Puerto Rican is what I'm saying.

903
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: It's okay that she was like because she's the most

904
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: underprivileged here on set.

905
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that is And I say that every time

906
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 3: I say that, I say I'm a black gay woman.

907
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 3: The the the weight of the world is on my shoulders.

908
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 3: It is exhausting. When I wake up, I'm like, another day,

909
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 3: I made it. So yeah, yeah, it's hard.

910
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 1: It's hard. On here now, I wanna, I wanna.

911
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 2: I want to dig in before we get out of

912
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 2: here to our flip the script segment. Okay, and this

913
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 2: is an interesting one, Jason. I might need you to

914
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 2: hop on the mic and tell me your thoughts.

915
00:45:59,200 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 5: Here.

916
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 2: So this is an interesting element of privilege as well.

917
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 2: Have y'all ever heard of woke privilege?

918
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 4: No?

919
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so I want to ask you if athletes exhibit

920
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: woke privilege? Now, a Standard university think tank led by

921
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 2: Condelliza Rice Stanford, I'm reading what you.

922
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: That's why he's doing the edit right now. Actually, privilege

923
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: is crazy. That's crazy, well because there are parts of

924
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,720
Speaker 1: the world. Okay.

925
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 2: So, a Stanford University think tank led by Condelliza Rice

926
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 2: published a podcast called The Classes hosted by a conservative

927
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 2: commentator named Victor Hanson, and in an episode, they argued

928
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:55,240
Speaker 2: that professional athletes and franchise owners have embraced the language

929
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 2: of revolution while getting rich off of the status quo.

930
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 2: So add the context there. I would love to know

931
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 2: your thoughts on this, Jason.

932
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 5: I think this is coming from like when they were

933
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 5: playing in the bubble and they had like Black Lives

934
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 5: Matter on the court, a lot of stuff in the

935
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 5: back of their jerseys. But they're still selling tickets. They're

936
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 5: still or even like the arguments to people making against

937
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 5: Kaepernick right that it's just performative, but he still has

938
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 5: a multi.

939
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, it was performative because his career of

940
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 2: the time was on the dclan because then just a

941
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 2: couple years later he was trying out for the same ly.

942
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 5: Sure, but in the event for these dudes, right, let's

943
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 5: just say they're at the protests with y'all, but then

944
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 5: they're like, cool, my suv is waiting, you know, keep

945
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 5: up the good fight.

946
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 6: I'll catch you at the next one.

947
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: So I don't think.

948
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 2: I don't think what privilege exists within our community as

949
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 2: much as it is maybe more of a quote unquote

950
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 2: privilege monetarily for corporations, because we see recently them Nigga said, actually, fuck,

951
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 2: oh y'all, no more d no more pride months, no

952
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 2: more because it no longer sells. We now have we're

953
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 2: within a Trump administration. I think people are tired, unfortunately,

954
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 2: of the fight because there's been a lot of pushback.

955
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: I mean even for women's rights. Baby, they just said, oh,

956
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: y'all women think y'all.

957
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 2: Are getting ahead. We're gonna reverse Roe v. Wade and

958
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 2: now you know what I mean. Like, So, I don't

959
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: know about Wilke privilege to me being anything more than

960
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: a money grab up for corporations. I like, when we

961
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 2: exist in a world that removes our selective ignorance and

962
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 2: actually educates ourselves on things. I don't think it exists

963
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 2: outside of corporations.

964
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 5: And I will say influencers, what about the what about

965
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 5: the And this is not me, this is just me

966
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 5: putting this for the script to be fair.

967
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 6: So what about the activists who do they?

968
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 5: Are there certain influential influencer activists that have the privilege

969
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 5: to message this, but still by multimillion dollar homes.

970
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 2: You know what that is you're talking about, Talcolm X,

971
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 2: Sean King. Okay, this is this is this is something

972
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 2: in there. I will lean that and this is gonna

973
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 2: sound so bad. Oh my god, we're gonna sound bad.

974
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 2: I think that there is a privilege informing sentences. I

975
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 2: think that because of educational disparities, that if you are

976
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 2: able to speak a full sentence, if you are able

977
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 2: to express yourself to where you can get people to

978
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 2: follow you. I think it's why certain people are pastors.

979
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 2: There's really nothing more than motivational speakers that interpret the

980
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 2: Bible the way they want to and can get people

981
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: in the congregation to get them a tax break. Like

982
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 2: I think that, and it's what I've been seeing going

983
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 2: to churches now it's like, oh, are you dragging the

984
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 2: pastors right now? I mean, I'm just I didn't know

985
00:49:50,320 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 2: he was going here Sunday the Dungeon. No, no, no,

986
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 2: I'm just saying there is a privilege in articulation, specifically

987
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 2: within our community in terms of activists, pastors, or community leaders,

988
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 2: because a lot of us don't want to allow people

989
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 2: who get up and sometimes speak like us to lead

990
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 2: us because we view them as ignorant just because they're

991
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: not articulate. But is it is it what did you say,

992
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,919
Speaker 2: sentence privilege or is it no articulation like in terms

993
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 2: of maybe their education or they're right, I hear what

994
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 2: you're saying, But is it a privilege or are they

995
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 2: just charismatic people like charming people, people like people who

996
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 2: you know, like personality hires, people like people who who

997
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 2: make them feel good or like bring light into a room.

998
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 2: Like I feel like that's I wouldn't say that that's

999
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 2: a privilege that I have. Like if you have a

1000
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 2: personality that people want to be around, or that you

1001
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 2: you make people feel good, But is that a privilege

1002
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 2: or do you just like you just got goovia.

1003
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 3: You no, no, no likability? It makes is a thing,

1004
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 3: and it's like, like a lot of jobs I should

1005
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 3: got fired immediately. I was fucking up left and right.

1006
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 3: They love me that I am charismatic. That makes people

1007
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 3: feel good. I do know how to do the job.

1008
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: Is it perfect? No, But there were people getting fired

1009
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: over me because they didn't like them.

1010
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 2: Right now, is that a privilege that they like you

1011
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 2: if you're unlikable? Does that mean you don't have privilege

1012
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 2: or you just got a bad personality or maybe.

1013
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 3: It's always the Amanda Seals of it all. It's like

1014
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 3: she is, she is talented, she does do the job,

1015
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 3: but it's like, girl, you are unbearable, You're unlikable.

1016
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 1: They don't like are you fun? Sorry?

1017
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 3: And because there's probably somebody who is not as talented

1018
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 3: as her that is booking the gig that she should

1019
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 3: have because it's.

1020
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,479
Speaker 1: Like, girl, we just can't have you in the room.

1021
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You're going live, mab that's know.

1022
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 3: We're on set, like we know that you are going

1023
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 3: to go tell everybody about what's going on.

1024
00:51:58,360 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: We don't like that.

1025
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm curious to know, while wrapping this up, if you

1026
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 2: could have one privilege, what would it be?

1027
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: Whatever? Privileged? Rich people pets have.

1028
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 2: Whatever privilege that, Like Lisa vander Pump's little dog got

1029
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 2: that when she died, She's gonna leave all her money

1030
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 2: in the will to the dog.

1031
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: Like I feel like that.

1032
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 2: Like if I could come back as a as a

1033
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 2: rich person's pet in the next life, I think i'd the.

1034
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 3: Eye and I'll go up on that a neo baby,

1035
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 3: I would.

1036
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: Love thee yes.

1037
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,959
Speaker 3: Don't understand I under like, yes, you are working hard,

1038
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 3: and we never or are working or you're trying or whatever.

1039
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 3: But just to come into the world already set up

1040
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:55,400
Speaker 3: five times more than the average person. I mean, do

1041
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 3: you understand how you wake up, how you live? To

1042
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 3: know that, oh my god, if this isn't go right,

1043
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be homeless. To know that you're getting

1044
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 3: in a door and somebody's already like, hey, they don't really.

1045
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 1: Know what they're doing, but let's give him a try.

1046
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 3: Like to know that you have a checkings, a savings

1047
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 3: or trust like that you just no matter how hard

1048
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 3: you work, It's like, even if you don't want to work,

1049
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 3: you still are gonna be just fine.

1050
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie the that's not the money doesn't

1051
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 2: buy happiness. Came from someone who didn't have like there

1052
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 2: is a there is a blessing, a privilege and all

1053
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 2: of that and being able to pay your goddamn bills, like,

1054
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 2: oh my god, the relief, because baby, when I was

1055
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 2: deciding whether I was gonna get oodles and noodles, the

1056
00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 2: toilet paper ship was rough.

1057
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: The reason why rea ship was rough.

1058
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 2: You was using the little code. You was using the

1059
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 2: tube to wipe your blasses. The way the way that

1060
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 2: Scott made it.

1061
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,359
Speaker 1: Made it rough. You didn't need to get the Scott.

1062
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 1: You could have got the one, the one, the one

1063
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 1: point five ply, the point five fly. What makes me

1064
00:53:58,560 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: so upset?

1065
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 3: It's like, of course you can work with creativity, with ease,

1066
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 3: you're not doing it as a with lack. You're not

1067
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 3: doing like, oh, I have to do this because things

1068
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 3: have to get paid, No wonder. You can have this

1069
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 3: imaginative outlook on things and walk like you're floating, yeah,

1070
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 3: because you're not thinking about I have to take care

1071
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 3: of me and seven other people in my household. Like

1072
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 3: it's just it's insane to be like to fight people

1073
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 3: on the no, no, no, I belong here. It's like

1074
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 3: hush and I'm not saying that you don't belong here,

1075
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 3: But you belonging here is not what we're talking. We're saying,

1076
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 3: like you, you had it a lot easier than everybody

1077
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,760
Speaker 3: else that have applied My last.

1078
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,439
Speaker 2: Question because I think that the people listening they would

1079
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 2: find this interesting.

1080
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, she did that.

1081
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 2: We all did not acknowledge at all any privilege in

1082
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 2: being a woman. If you had the opportunity, would you

1083
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 2: change places with a man for.

1084
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: Like a day, maybe like a month? When's the men's

1085
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: history months? You don't need you don't. Don't you have

1086
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 1: the privilege all year? Look now you watch a goddamn

1087
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 1: what would you change places with a man?

1088
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 6: If you?

1089
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: If you could? This is gonna be rough. But I

1090
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Speaker 1: feel like there's a soullessness that men have. But I

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Speaker 1: don't want to touch. Oh I don't want to Sydney.

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Speaker 1: You lean freak soulllessness on a Sunday. I'm sorry, guys,

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Speaker 1: she said, I ain't got no soul. Wait, what do

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Speaker 1: you mean by that?

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Speaker 3: I mean, first of all, I think men are corrupted

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Speaker 3: by power. Like some men don't have that some, but

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Speaker 3: a lot of men strive for they want to be

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Speaker 3: the most powerful person in the room even when they

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Speaker 3: don't have anything.

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Speaker 2: What's funny with you saying that, I actually found this

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Speaker 2: in my research look at that hidden costs of male

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Speaker 2: privilege actually do include males being expected to subscribe to

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00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 2: a toxic ideal. They may prioritize money and status over

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Speaker 2: healthy relationships, and they this can have serious costs to

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Speaker 2: their well being later in life. So they do have

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Speaker 2: all of these, which is I think literally goes to

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Speaker 2: what you just said, like, there is almost a lightness

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Speaker 2: although it's hard, it's it's there's a lot on our

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Speaker 2: shoulders to nurture. There is kind of a lightness in

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Speaker 2: being able to exist as a woman. Yes, but I

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Speaker 2: think that there's Yes, I was gonna say there's a

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Speaker 2: heaviness to being a man because they're expected to be strong,

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Speaker 2: they're expected to provide, they're expected to be like manly

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Speaker 2: men and not have feelings and not show emotion, and

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Speaker 2: everybody should be able to do that, and these men

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Speaker 2: are all there's a there's probably a soullessness there because.

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Speaker 1: They can't be like, hey, you know, I'm sad today,

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Speaker 1: like they hear society.

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Speaker 2: They can they can do that, they just don't do

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Speaker 2: it because they don't want to look weak or they

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Speaker 2: don't want to seem like I don't know you made

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Speaker 2: or whatever. But it's like it's twenty twenty five, Like

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Speaker 2: you should all have therapists. You should all be sharing

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Speaker 2: with somebody how you're feeling or what's going on in

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Speaker 2: your head. And you don't have to carry all of that.

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Speaker 2: And if you guys did that, it'd be less. I

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Speaker 2: don't know school, which is all so crazy, because I.

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Speaker 1: Do feel like, let's school shootings. It's crazy.

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Speaker 2: However, I do think and because we have two male producers,

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Speaker 2: I want to ask you, guys, at any point in

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Speaker 2: your life, have you.

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Speaker 1: Wanted to be a woman? Oh, because he's in my

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Speaker 1: male privilege.

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Speaker 6: No, but I will say the answer to By the way,

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Speaker 6: this is.

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Speaker 1: An audio experience, can you please give the answer. They

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Speaker 1: didn't see the headshake.

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Speaker 6: I have never wanted to be a woman.

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 6: I don't know the answer to.

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Speaker 1: I just you said it seems hard.

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Speaker 6: It just never happened.

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Speaker 4: I do have compassion to seeing my mom, seeing my sister,

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Speaker 4: my aunts, and my women cousins challenges that they have faced.

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00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 6: You know, through their journeys. You have empathy and compassion.

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Speaker 1: It seems hard, but I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I never thought of it like that. Okay, but I

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Speaker 4: will say that all of this stuff starts in the house, right,

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00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 4: being taught that ma chiese mo and you know our

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00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 4: uncles and for whatever they were taught, right, it's just

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Speaker 4: passed down. So we talked about breaking generational curses. We

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Speaker 4: always look at it from a financial but it's more

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Speaker 4: so behavioral right, and see how we're able to unpack

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Speaker 4: this at our age and shit.

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Speaker 6: But it's like, how do we nurture the.

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Speaker 4: Ones coming up to say hey, it's okay to you know,

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Speaker 4: showing emotion or unpack it, you know where you have

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Speaker 4: some sort of emotional intelligence, especially when you're dealing with others.

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Speaker 3: But what's crazy about for me, for men is that

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Speaker 3: they'll have mothers and sisters and women that do everything

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Speaker 3: or work hard, and then they'll turn around and date

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Speaker 3: people and treat them just as bad or worse than yeah,

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Speaker 3: the people that treated the women in their life or better.

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00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: Yet, it's like men will see women and you treat

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Speaker 1: them like the cat calling and stuff like.

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Speaker 3: But you wouldn't want somebody to do that to your

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Speaker 3: sister or your mother or your grandmother or whatever. And

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Speaker 3: it's like, how could I feel like women have more

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Speaker 3: compassion because they're like, I wouldn't want somebody to treat

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Speaker 3: me like So that's why.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we are so giving and thoughtful and work hard

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Speaker 1: or whatever. But and forgiving. Yeah, and forget you say forgiven,

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00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: because that's why. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's start holding grudges, ladies twenty five, Let's start

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Speaker 2: holding holding grudges. Let's start holding grudges. What question do

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Speaker 2: we want to end off with for our audience? Jason,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pass you the mic because I'm curious because

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Speaker 2: this was we we we we pulled out.

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Speaker 1: Laterst today, I don't know I got here we could do?

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Speaker 5: Is there a real hierarchy to all these privileges we discussed?

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Speaker 3: I e.

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Speaker 5: One over the other or all the privileges just trailing

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00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 5: behind white privilege and male privilege.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm not gonna lie. Everything is behind. Like I

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00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: heard y'all's answers. If I could, I would pretty privileges

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00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 1: putting up some good fight.

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Speaker 2: Thought, Yeah, but yeah, I'm not a lie because he's

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01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 2: not pretty. I would want all of the privilege that

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01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 2: Jeff Bezos has. So yeah, he's the farthest thing from

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Speaker 2: pretty baby and her farthest That's what I'm saying. Any privilege,

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Speaker 2: actually to me comes at such a higher cost. I

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01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 2: would want to be white, male, rich, status, geographical, all

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Speaker 2: of the privileges with that.

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Speaker 6: To be white, you don't even need the status though.

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Speaker 1: Status, Yeah, but with money, being white and a man

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01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 1: their status. There you go, like you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like you said, it sounds like mega, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. She is from Florida,

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Speaker 1: do not do that. I don't wish to be a Republican,

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01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: but if I.

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Speaker 6: Can adjacent You said, what just adjacent.

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Speaker 1: An adjacent?

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Speaker 2: Y'all are not gonna keep getting this All that is

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Speaker 2: crazy conservative sun liberal moves.

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Speaker 1: I think it's me that's it, right, I hear it.

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01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's the privilege I would want that

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Speaker 1: I'll never have.

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Speaker 2: But I'm cool existing in exactly where I'm at, and

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm just ready to be a part of the

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01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 2: battle that it's going to take for me to get

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Speaker 2: to all the places that I see myself being and

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Speaker 2: just acknowledging that it exists. I would implore the audience

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Speaker 2: not to lean into anyone else's privilege or look at

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01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 2: something like you can't do something because that privilege doesn't

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01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 2: exist within you. I mean, Sid just said there was

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01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 2: a lot of privileges she didn't have younger that now

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01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 2: she's exploring you can still you can gain privilege except

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Speaker 2: being black and going white.

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01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: We all saw that with Rachel Dolajaw. It doesn't matter.

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01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 1: You cannot transracial yourself into privilege.

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01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 4: But I.

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Speaker 2: She started doing braids and people was going on her

1223
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 2: to get day braids done. But she's got an only fan.

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01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, we're not doing new category. Trying

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01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: to clown value. So Malik Yoba said he does not

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Speaker 1: identify as what not.

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Speaker 6: He's not black anymore. He's non white.

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Speaker 1: He's non same is Malik. There's actually no application that

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01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 1: you could get.

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01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 6: He's trying to re engineer the privilege his name is.

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01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: He has to change his name as well, and he

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01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: books so like what's his what's the not? Really? Now

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01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 1: is he talking about I'm non white like that? That

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01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: sounds like, oh, the bookings are very He said he

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01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: wants to play colorless role.

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01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 2: Yes, so he wants anybody so he wants to be

1237
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 2: Terrence Howard, that's what we're hearing.

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01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no. He wants to be avatar.

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01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 2: He wants to be avatar. Okay, oh that's a colorless role.

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01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 2: Now it sounds like he needs to go into voice acting.

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01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: Said reason, where can my selective audience audience listen to you?

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Speaker 2: Did I say audience twice? Selective ignorance audience? Follow you

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Speaker 2: guys and listen to y'all weekly. Oh you know, we

1244
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1245
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 2: It's we unpack all the mess that is going on

1246
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 2: in our lives and in the world, and we do

1247
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,520
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Speaker 2: go over there, and then you can find me on

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Speaker 1: And then you know, my TikTok is on there too,

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Speaker 3: I believe.

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Speaker 2: And then if you guys follow both of them, they

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