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Speaker 2: My guy is the epitome of keep them guessing.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, O, king, King, King King, He's uh, no,

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Speaker 1: one will ever know his next move. No, No, he's

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Speaker 2: That is correct.

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Speaker 1: So I'm pretty straight, maybe slightly by if we count

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Speaker 1: I'm also Indian American male, around twenty six years of age.

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Speaker 1: I'd first like to clear up some misconceptions around arranged marriage.

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Speaker 1: A lot of non Indians seem to think it's literally

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Speaker 1: your parents choose who you marry and that's that. But

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Speaker 1: that is not the case. Instead, it's more like your

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Speaker 1: parents tap their network to five potential partners for you.

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Speaker 1: If you like each other's picks, then you guys meet

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Speaker 2: I love I love your parents are tender. That's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean it's kind of nice. It is

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Speaker 1: nice parents set you up. It's not quite as bad

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Speaker 3: It works way like like if you think about it,

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Speaker 3: I mean, different people have you know, some people as quick,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And I imagine like your parents like want good looking grandkids,

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Speaker 3: That is so true. Never never, I never thought about

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Speaker 1: They're probably there and they're like looking through all the qualifications.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I like the model all right.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, my parents have recently been getting on my case

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Speaker 2: Don't say it.

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Speaker 1: I decided it'd be a lot easier just to come

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Speaker 1: I feel like he's He's just me. You know, I

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Speaker 1: Basically, that would explain why I didn't want an arrange marriage.

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Speaker 3: not this never that this guy. This guy is a

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm doing it like a Southern

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Speaker 1: I did them as usual and was greeted by my mom.

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Speaker 1: What happened? You made your dad, and now you have

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Speaker 3: As of right now? I low key kind of hate

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Speaker 1: This is a case of like you know, I swallowed

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Speaker 3: Literally, I think, honestly, at this point it would be

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Speaker 1: So I think you have to commit it to being gay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, laid on me?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I visited my parents, and as always, I

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Speaker 1: So as for the date, we lived in the same state,

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Speaker 1: We've mostly just had discord calls and spent time together gaming.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it just really quick. Yeah, I want to know

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Speaker 3: First off, Opie a maniac for pretending to be gay?

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Speaker 3: That boom adorable ending, adorable, so cute, adorable ending.

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Speaker 1: I don't care. Why would you do that? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: We're flying four hundred miles above the center of the earth.

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Speaker 1: I like those airplane sounds. It was great, John, What

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Speaker 1: are your opinions of like two pays and wigs?

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Speaker 3: Two pays and wigs, if you need them, use them.

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Speaker 3: Actually, I will say, if you're a man going bald,

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Speaker 2: Male pattern baldness? I don't know why. Yeah, pattern isn't there,

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Speaker 1: You know, because it's creating a pattern, like like we

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Speaker 1: But you got you got your you got this kind

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Speaker 2: Interesting. I learned something new today.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes we do. But you know, some people need wigs,

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like seals have no hair, so that

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Speaker 1: Well, like, what if it's like a short wig, you

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Speaker 1: But wisps bro I was literally thinking too that. I

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Speaker 1: Okay, I kicked out my nieces after they hid my

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Speaker 1: First off, I want to start by mentioning that my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a wig. You can wear a wig. Bro.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, moved into her house with her twin daughters

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Speaker 1: Okay, my sister lost her apartment after a messy divorce

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Speaker 1: That, yeah, let me see your bald head, like bro

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Speaker 1: This is your literal aunts, like like ridiculous. Oh. My

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Speaker 1: They've been begging that I changed my mind, but I won't.

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Speaker 3: Let's sing it together, Samuel, No, no.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful, Yeah, get us on a barbershop quartet. Come on,

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Speaker 1: wait what barbershop quartet? Oh yeah the mustaches boom boom

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Speaker 1: saman Yeah, uh we were ready. We're reapy for the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because because think about it too, not only do

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Speaker 1: Not have to bring them in to his house.

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, it's good too, you know if you have

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean he's extending them kindness. But it's

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but you know what other choice is pretty obvious?

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