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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thought. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: back at it again. Hey, I need to learn the

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Speaker 1: rest of the words. That's all, you know. That's the

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Speaker 1: only part you ever say. I ever say. What do

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Speaker 1: you say in the kitchen? Exactly? I don't know. But

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Speaker 1: I don't always be singing a song. You always singing?

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Speaker 1: Because I really like yellow Bees and you know he's

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Speaker 1: a really good art. Would you give him some? Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: It's really not a lot of people. I wouldn't get

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's so dad, what about his baby mama?

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Speaker 1: The fuck the more the marrier, let be pregnant.

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Speaker 2: It's so pitbull in the corner. He pregnant, she pregnant?

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Speaker 1: Who cares? Everybody prigging? That's less work than I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: The more the merrier.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, so I would definitely give them a

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's up girl?

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 2: I just I feel like I'm turning over a new leaf.

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Speaker 1: You know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: I'm just I really feel like I for the first

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know like I feel like because.

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Speaker 2: We always talk about dating bdb's, and a lot of

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Speaker 1: If y'all don't know what a BDB is, it's a

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Speaker 1: big dick bow luck because I really be tired of

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Speaker 2: I don't get tired because sometimes people are new listeners.

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Speaker 2: You have to realize we've got an influx of a

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Speaker 1: Do your research. You can't be like that.

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Speaker 2: Why can't That's like you opening up a target and

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Speaker 2: somebody watching, like, hey, where's the diapers?

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Speaker 1: Do y'all research? They have signs above the out they

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Speaker 1: say diapers. Sometimes people need a little guy research. No. See,

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Speaker 1: this is why you don't have a job. This is

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Speaker 1: my job. I am. I'm gainfully employed. And then you

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Speaker 1: be mean to the consumer. Do y'all research? No, Oh,

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Speaker 1: my fucking god, you're just like the people so fucking

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Speaker 1: sensitive all that clearly because I was kidding. Oh, gosh,

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Speaker 2: But no, I feel like we always talk about dating,

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So, I don't know, I'm just really happy, Like I'm happy.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy. It's like, of course, you know, I still

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Speaker 1: We ain't gonna let them go completely, of course not.

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Speaker 2: But I just feel like everything is just kind of

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Speaker 1: Everything is about me. Like sometimes I'll be so focused.

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Speaker 2: On dating and going out and doing this and doing that,

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Speaker 2: and honestly, it's just really about like self growth, poor minds,

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Speaker 1: Right So I'm just that's a good that's a good

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Speaker 2: No, honestly, Like of course, like I have friends that

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Speaker 1: I'm really I'm really not doing this right now. So

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Speaker 1: who would you like break your man fast for with Khalifa?

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Speaker 1: So if he's slitting your dms, he's definitely getting you

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Speaker 1: It's a brand new branding. The whole song got so

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Speaker 2: That was poor pussy management, Like talking about that.

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Speaker 1: We told y'all about that poor pussy management. That was

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Speaker 2: Niggas got so fucking bold they know like some women

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Speaker 1: That's why the girls and the poor boys, we'll be

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Speaker 1: We gotta restore order. We do. We have to fucking

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Speaker 1: It's been fucked but I mean they getting bold. They've

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Speaker 1: I see show was so fine to him. I won't

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Speaker 1: I could never date a man with a ball head. Never. No,

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Speaker 1: That's probably future too. No, yes, no, I know that,

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Speaker 1: Let me, let me stop playing. She's always had very

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Speaker 1: fine hair. Okay, it's very fine hair. Yeah, my hair

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Speaker 1: What shout out to bars, shout out to my mama. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's get into these topics. Look, let me and

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm saying that she just she takes good

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Speaker 1: Okay, but all yes, all women's hair is beautiful. Amen.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna let you bring in the first topic

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Speaker 1: because I feel like you do this? Do you? I

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Speaker 1: Probably not? But I know that makes you feel good.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like most of the I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, hey, I'm just let you know me Andre,

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Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all my problem free philosophy almost same you.

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Speaker 5: It's hard to fight. It's some problem, right.

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Speaker 1: This bitch just called me a peak like you would

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Speaker 1: have to be boombo. I would be someone's going okay.

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Speaker 1: I when I was a young I was like man.

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Speaker 2: When I was a young warhog, I used to love

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Speaker 1: But I feel like that's opening doors for problems. But

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Speaker 2: Like he does not playing to that stuff. He's just

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Speaker 1: But to actually like blatantly ask somebody, can I do

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like do you post like? Are you

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, Because I feel like I'm me, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. So if you're gonna date me, you

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Speaker 1: like that. Well, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: The reason I asked because like, when I'm single and

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Speaker 1: They do, they do, you know what I'm saying. I

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Speaker 2: It wasn't who is he tell me he's splitting your

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Speaker 1: Oh you sent that to me. Yeah, I was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Just because I'm still gonna take sexy pictures. I'm still

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Speaker 2: so like poor vocative because I'd be showing ass, bootyhole,

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Speaker 1: That and not be showing bootyhole. I didn't show the

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Speaker 1: I'll turn around on the swim suit. You sa show

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Speaker 1: a little cheek, you know what I'm saying, But like

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Speaker 1: the picture and real cheak. Yeah. But like, honestly, when

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Speaker 2: Was like, like, niggas was mad. Niggas was mad. Don't

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Speaker 2: fucking post no picture that you fit me. Blah blah

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Speaker 1: Whatever I want.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not in a relationship, But like if

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Speaker 1: But one thing about me, whether I fucking with a

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Speaker 2: Right, I mean I feel like, well, like bikini pictures

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Speaker 2: me out in public with a throng bikini only.

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Speaker 1: Fans and see you in the throng, now people gonna

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Speaker 1: that you got one. We gonna name this episode Sneaky Link.

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Speaker 2: So, but I'm not gonna lie. It was a it

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Speaker 2: was a racy photo, but it was a cute photo.

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Speaker 2: Like my hair was cute, my makeup was done, the

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Speaker 2: pick when I'm in a relationship. No, I mean I

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Speaker 2: can I post this on Instagram?

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying going back to so, like what

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Speaker 2: You just yeah, I just already know, like I would

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But like I said, when I'm asking a nigga for

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Speaker 1: Let me do it. You can't stop me. You gotta

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Speaker 1: let me, right.

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Speaker 2: But I just feel like it's a nice little it's

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Speaker 2: a cute, little respecting and some men get that and

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Speaker 2: they play into it. Some niggas just don't and that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, give me like, if I'm asking you, just say

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Speaker 1: about road play with it. God, damn, I feel you.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: That's why I don't fuck with these niggas. Now you

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Speaker 1: I used to fuck with a nigga who used to

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Speaker 1: he would be like, yeah, you fishing. I know who you.

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Speaker 1: And I used to be like, yeah, how do you

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Speaker 2: Know it's crazy because a nigga will you'll pull a

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Speaker 1: what you're doing, I'm dead.

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Speaker 2: You've been cutting up on the ground, like yes, bro,

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Speaker 2: yes bitch.

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Speaker 1: Yes you have you have that Halloween picture you posted

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Speaker 1: actually sending me mad. She's like, damn, bitch, were your

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Speaker 1: Halloween costumes with me? They was yelling at me. I

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Speaker 1: I was forced to put on that bikini and take

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Speaker 1: mirror crying. Girl, Shut the fuck, seriously, I was. I

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Speaker 1: haven't been. I've been being consistent on Instagram, like consistently

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Speaker 1: popping that pussing, no posting pictures in regular clothes to

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Speaker 1: I do. And theyve been getting the same amount of likes.

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Speaker 1: Now you're lying, No, I'm really nice. I'm really nice.

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Speaker 1: The picture that I posted from key Key's party and

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Speaker 1: that ass picture got six. Yes, they they still getting

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Speaker 1: like twenty thousand likes. I have thought that. Nothing about

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Speaker 1: take itself and they're like, damn I feel but of

433
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 1: course I post that ass like but of course the

434
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 1: niggas any and bitches too, then bitches be horny too.

435
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:09,080
Speaker 1: People are horny. So of course, obviously, if you post

436
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 1: a picture in a pantsuit, not a pantsuit, bit posting

437
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 1: pictures in pants suits besides wearing pants suits, I'm gonna

438
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 1: buy you one for Christy Bro who's wearing a pantsuit. Honestly,

439
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna take you to get

440
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: it tailored and everything. You're gonna be so flying anyway. Period.

441
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 1: But anyways, like I was saying, I feel like, of course,

442
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 1: if you're posting a picture like in a pantschool, nobody

443
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: is wearing a pantsuit. I've seen somebody in a pantsuit yesterday. Okay,

444
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,199
Speaker 1: so what a good Okay, So whether you post a

445
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 1: picture if you because I hate when you do that

446
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: which you live you are so annoying. Yeah, so obviously

447
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: you posting a picture fully closed converses having on a

448
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 1: swimsuit or a thong or whatever. Obviously the picture with

449
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: the throng and swim suit is gonna get more. That's

450
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: that's all I was saying, Queen, Damn, you ain't have

451
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: to give me what like nigga that I no, I

452
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 1: don't facts, No, I don't mine. Mine is mine and

453
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:30,719
Speaker 1: yours what's yours mine? Girl? Get the fuck? What's yours

454
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 1: is mine?

455
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 2: Anyways, So asking for permission in a relationship, I think

456
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: it's cute as long as it's not serious. I feel like, now,

457
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: sometimes there are women that are definitely asking for permission,

458
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 2: but it's because they have a controlling boyfriend. I do

459
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 2: not like controlling niggas. I like niggas that let me

460
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 2: kind of do what I want and be free. Like

461
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 2: I said, it's more of a sexual kind of cute

462
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 2: thing for me. But some women really do have to

463
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 2: ask for permission.

464
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 1: I like, Yeah, I like today guys that let me

465
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 1: do my things, you know what I mean? Yeah? Period,

466
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: Could you ever see yourself, like really dating somebody who's

467
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: kind of controlling. I feel like I've dated niggas that

468
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 1: try to be controlling, but it just never works. But

469
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 1: I say this, a nigga cannot I'm a hard person

470
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 1: to control, like a nigga can't control me. But you know,

471
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: I will say I can kind of make a nigga

472
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: ease up a little bit before I allow him.

473
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,679
Speaker 2: You tried in one situation, you tried, but you just

474
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 2: couldn't do it, Like you tried to calm down a

475
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 2: little bit and like, you know, move accordingly.

476
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: You know. But then I also had to realize that

477
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm just not who I'm just not who that person

478
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 1: was looking for, right, you know what I mean. And

479
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: that's and that's okay, that's all right, It's really okay.

480
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: It's like if you have to try to change things

481
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 1: about yourself or try to dim your light or be

482
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 1: a little less outgoing and stuff like that to fuck

483
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: with people, you just not for them, you know what

484
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 1: I mean. Y'all are just not compatible. And it's really

485
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 1: like I said, it's it's okay, Like it's okay.

486
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,439
Speaker 2: And that's one thing I learned too, because I've tried

487
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 2: to be the I was just quiet and not you know,

488
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 2: you know.

489
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, niggas like that, Some niggas like that, you know

490
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,360
Speaker 1: what I mean, a lot of men like that. I'm

491
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: not built for a lot of men like that, you

492
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But like it's niggas out there

493
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: that's also gonna like how we are? You know what

494
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: I mean? It's niggas is gonna be okay with it

495
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 1: and okay with us being crazy and loud and loving

496
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: to go out and talk on the show. And that's

497
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 1: the type of person I want to date. I don't

498
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 1: want to date nobody that I have to like censor

499
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: myself today.

500
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 2: I know, cause it's so hard, like because you know

501
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: that I tried to do that.

502
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,679
Speaker 1: I really did. We both did. I feel like I

503
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: literally deleted all the pictures off my Instagram.

504
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 2: I was like, let me start fresh, let me take

505
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 2: all these risky pictures down, let me just like shut

506
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: up and tone it down. That lasted for like two weeks.

507
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 2: I cannot shut up like I have to be. Like

508
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: if I don't say a word for like three minutes,

509
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's like I just.

510
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: Can't hold it in, Like I can't be. It's super

511
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 1: hard for me to just be submissive to as guy

512
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: all around, you know what I mean, guess because I

513
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: feel like before I just completely submit to a nigga,

514
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: I will literally go make my own money and do

515
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: my thing, Like I'm not about to submit to you.

516
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: So I can get certain shit out of you.

517
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: Now, I not be myself, But I feel like submission

518
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 2: can be a good thing if as long as it's

519
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 2: not like a manipulative But that's what I actually don't

520
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 2: mind being submissive to my man, but not to a

521
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: point to where like I'm a fucking slave. Yeah, I

522
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 2: don't have a life and I can't do nothing, and

523
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 2: I can't be who I am, you know what I'm saying,

524
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 2: Because I feel like you can still have the type

525
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 2: of personalities that we have and do what we do

526
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 2: and be the women.

527
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: In the forefront and then behind closed.

528
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 2: Doors, you can still be submissive to your man and

529
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 2: still you don't have a normal, healthy relationship.

530
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: But you also have to date a guy that's okay

531
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: with that. A lot of men are not okay with it,

532
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: Like if you're gonna be dating them, they don't want

533
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: you to be doing this, you know what I mean.

534
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: I think sometimes that's kind of where we struggle with

535
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: dating and finding somebody who is compatible for us because

536
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: we be talking to bdb's, we be finding them we

537
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: ating on me and stuff like that. But it's like

538
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: everybody's not gonna be okay with us being on the show,

539
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: talking sheet sharing so much stuff about our personal lives

540
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: and things that we've been through, and I think that

541
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: that's where the problem comes in. Yeah, and so I

542
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: feel like I've had to kind of try to find

543
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: a balance between the two, and you know what's crazy.

544
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: I think that's for me.

545
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 2: Why one of the main reasons I always go back

546
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 2: to Rapper Bay too is because he doesn't give a fuck,

547
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 2: like he knows, he don't get about I mean, he

548
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 2: cares about the show, like he's proud of me. He

549
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: supports me, but he's like, well, that's your thing. I'm

550
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 2: proud of you. Just do your thing and keep going,

551
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And then he lets me

552
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 2: be me. He knows my personality, he knows I'm crazy,

553
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: he knows I'm loud. He just kind of lets me

554
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 2: just do whatever, you know, And that's I think that's

555
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 2: why I keep going back to him. Not saying that

556
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: we have a good relationship at all, but I think

557
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: it's a comfort thing because I don't meet a lot

558
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: of guys that are like, damn, this shit is lit.

559
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 2: Most niggas that think I'm lit are just like people

560
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 2: who like watch the show. But actually, they they'd be like, oh,

561
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 2: I want a bitch like lex P.

562
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: Do you really be cause for what comes to that?

563
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: Because I'm definitely like gonna wake up the next one.

564
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, I suck my man's dick

565
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,360
Speaker 2: last night, and they'll be like, oh, lets people talking

566
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 2: about sucking your dick on.

567
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: The right, you know what I'm saying. I mean, that's

568
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: just something that you gotta deal with, yeah, you know.

569
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a part of our life at this point,

570
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: is what it is. So I just feel like, yes,

571
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: like I definitely just want to find somebody who's comfortable

572
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: and that's like that. But it's so hard to find

573
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: like bbs like it, really, it really really is, especially

574
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: because they're so low key. They don't like their business

575
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: out there like that.

576
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's why another reason, like we've

577
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 2: made it a point to always use nicknames and stuff

578
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, And I feel like that's why a

579
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 2: lot of my situations, you know, that I've talked about

580
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 2: on the show have lasted as long as they did

581
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: because I tried to like protect the Enno scene to

582
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: a certainty. But I'm not trying to be funny, but

583
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 2: like even when like the time like you did name

584
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:55,959
Speaker 2: drop it.

585
00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: I mean it was like y'all didn't stop sucking around, right,

586
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: But that that kind of goes into to like how

587
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: niggas be trying to make it seem like, oh, I

588
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 1: don't want you to talk about these I don't want

589
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: you to talk about that. But sometimes I think niggas

590
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: wuld be like that really do Bro?

591
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: When I tell you when that that clip when we

592
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 2: dropped that clip about me talking about the plan bing

593
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 2: like was it worth and I was like yes, Like

594
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 2: he was like, yeah, that shit was worth it.

595
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: I thought you didn't watch the show. I really feel

596
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 1: like sometimes God's trying to make it seem like, oh,

597
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: I don't want you talking about me on the show.

598
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 1: I don't want you to do any city to that.

599
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: But then once we do say, we remember that Nigga

600
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: could not He would literally bring that ship up every

601
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: chance he got, bro.

602
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: Anytime we said anything remotely we wouldn't even say his nickname.

603
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: And he would be like, y'all talking about me? Are you?

604
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: Are you a poor boy? At this point? Everything poor boy?

605
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: He's like, he's definitely too.

606
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: Nig He probably watching this right, I know you talk

607
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 2: he's tuned in right the fuck now?

608
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: This shit dropping at men? None a Patreon me. I'm

609
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: pretty sure he probably do got somebody there. It's like

610
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: a Patreon on me, but not kind to be funny,

611
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: but for real, it's definitely a Patriot. Oh you know what,

612
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: I actually am not being funny.

613
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: I really think that he got somebody that's a Patreon

614
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 2: I member because when you dropped that episode with your ex,

615
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 2: remember it was an issue about that.

616
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's definitely a He got the top tier too,

617
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: he paying the fifteen dollars a month hunt I am dance.

618
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: So yees. So let us know how y'all.

619
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 2: Feel about asking for a permission and relationships.

620
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: Did you see yourself being that type of girl? Do

621
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: you like being submissive and for men? I actually want

622
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: to know how the men feel about your girl asking permission,

623
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: Like do you like that or do you feel like

624
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: that's a little bit too controlling and writing for you?

625
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 2: Okay, So this next topic I want to talk about

626
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 2: is because I saw a lot of this going on.

627
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,959
Speaker 2: This actually happened to one of our close friends, Mandy,

628
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 2: from a horrible decision. She actually got COVID and she

629
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: was just like talking about it, and it was like

630
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 2: the whole Twitter was like jumping on her back, like you.

631
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

632
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 2: So I wanted to really talk about I hate to

633
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: use this term because it's not a real term, but

634
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: kind of like quote unquote COVID shaming, okay, because I

635
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 2: feel like people are treating coronavirus like it's a fucking

636
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: like red a on your fucking chest or something like.

637
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: I mean, it kind is, but how it's like, I mean,

638
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: nobody wants to catch it. Well, I would say nobody

639
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: wants to catch this she but everybody's still moving like

640
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: they don't give the food. That's what I'm saying. But

641
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: I'll say this definitely is open. But I feel like this, Okay,

642
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: So you have to realize that some people are still

643
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: quarantining and doing what they have to do protecting themselves,

644
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: and they're still getting corona, they're still getting COVID.

645
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: Some people are moving on and traveling doing what they're doing,

646
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: and they're catching COVID. Either way, it goes, why are

647
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 2: we shaming people for the decisions that they decide to

648
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 2: make in this pandemic?

649
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: Because I feel like this we've been COVID shamed.

650
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 2: We have been COVID shamed a lot. But I'll say this,

651
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 2: every time I go out, I wear protective gear. When

652
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: I go mask at work, I have to go to

653
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: my job, I gotta wear protective gear. But I'll say this,

654
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: it's like until our government does what they have to

655
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: do and shut the ship down.

656
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: People are going to be moving around, you know what

657
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's crazy too, Like I feel like we was.

658
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: We got COVID shamed, like when we had my birthday

659
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: party right back in April, right when quarantine kind of

660
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: first started. But then we got shamed when we started

661
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: doing the episodes with masks on. Right, they're right.

662
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: But you know what's crazy though in that city from

663
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 2: my birthday, we was in the club and nobody said

664
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 2: nothing to me.

665
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: You know what it is.

666
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 2: Though, I think people picking and choose who they want

667
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: to COVID shame quote unquote, because they shame.

668
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: Both of us for my birthday. Yeah they did, But

669
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is they didn't say nothing to me

670
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: on my birthday and I was actually in the club.

671
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: And the same thing with Meg the Stallion. Everybody.

672
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: Meg didn't even post nothing about Hotty Ween or whatever

673
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: on her story or on her page, because so.

674
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: Many people like, why's Meg outside? Why is Meg doing this?

675
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: Why's Meg that been in that same breath y'all under

676
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 2: uh sweety sweety pictures talking about, oh my god, you

677
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 2: look so good, oh my god, this is a fire

678
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: constant blah bah blah. And she was in the club too. No,

679
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 2: no shame. I'm not shaming either one of these women.

680
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is just because you like somebody,

681
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 2: that's not fair to shame this person just because you

682
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 2: don't like them, Like you don't like Meg, but you

683
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: like Sweety, so you praise the sweetye, but you shame

684
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: and made and they're doing the same exact thing. And

685
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 2: I think that is so corny, Like why has this?

686
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: Why has this? Why has corona virus become like a

687
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 2: oh my god, you have corona Like that's what you get.

688
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 2: You deserve it because you were outside. It's like, is

689
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: this become a wee your elitist thing too? Like I'm

690
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: better than you because I get to work from home

691
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: and I'm staying at home and you're a dumb ass

692
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: because you're gonna pump your gas, right, But that.

693
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: Goes into the conversation that we have the other week.

694
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: Like people just love feeling above somebody like they like

695
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: to they love they love to point their fingers and

696
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: shame people.

697
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: Y'all will find any reason to shame somebody.

698
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, I understand, I

699
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 2: want the I want all this stuff to end too,

700
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: I really do. But like I said, I live in

701
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 2: Atlanta and the city is not shut down.

702
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: I have to go to work. I don't have a

703
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: choice to stay home, you know. And I mean, although

704
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: we technically don't have to like go out or go

705
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: places like go to like hookah bars and stuff like that,

706
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: when we go, it's just kind of like, but at

707
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: the end of the day, that's what we want to do.

708
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: That goddamn mind, don't be disneys.

709
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I guess some people's view on it, we're

710
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: making it worse and we're spreading it and things like that.

711
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: But which I do get that point of view point

712
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: of view as well. I do get that point of view.

713
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: But at the same time, if you're staying in the house,

714
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: then you shouldn't be worried, right, That's how I feel too.

715
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: It's like if you're staying at home since you care

716
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: so much about what everybody else doing. That means that

717
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: you're probably saying in your house and you're not going nowhere,

718
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: and you're following all the precautionary measures and stuff. So

719
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: why you're worried about what we're doing?

720
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 2: Right, And and that's why I said, I think they're

721
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: worried about what people are doing because it's prolonging this.

722
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 2: It's prolonging the pandemic or us. But it's just like,

723
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 2: at the same time, we live in a city that's

724
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 2: just not shut down.

725
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 1: Honestly, this is bad to say, but I really forget

726
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,280
Speaker 1: that we're in a pandemic sometimes because it's so fucking open,

727
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: and like I said, I don't go out honestly, I

728
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: don't be going play, but I'm being I'm just transparent,

729
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: you know, with the with the listeners, Like we have

730
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,280
Speaker 1: went to like a hookah bar maybe once or twice

731
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: in like the past, you know, a few months or whatever.

732
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: But that's realistic. At the same time, it's like people

733
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: get tired of being in the house all day, right, right,

734
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: but that shit is literally depressed, right And then I'm

735
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: not gonna lie, like, but some of y'all, some of

736
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: our listeners are living in cities that are completely like

737
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: shut down, so it's easy for you to stay home.

738
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: Y'all have the option to work from home, Like like

739
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 2: I said, I don't have that option. Like we gotta

740
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 2: record the show, you know what I'm saying, because they'll

741
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: complain about us being outside.

742
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 1: But as soon as we couldn't drop an episode, y'all

743
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 1: was like, y'all need to get in the studiout, y'all

744
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 1: need Oh you want us to go outside? When you

745
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,720
Speaker 1: want us to go outside, you know what I'm saying.

746
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: That's not we let us not drop an episode. He

747
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: gonna break all fucking hell breaks. So but I was like,

748
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 2: it's not fair, you know what I'm saying. But it's

749
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 2: like I don't know. I just think it's really really

750
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 2: fucking weird that it's like a COVID shaming thing. And

751
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 2: it's what makes it even more upsetting is like, like

752
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 2: I said, Mandy being my friend, she was cool, She

753
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 2: really didn't have any a lot of symptoms, she just

754
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 2: had it. But it was so weird to see people

755
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 2: calling her a dumb ass and be like, that's what

756
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: you get, Uh, this hole is so dumb. What do

757
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: you think is gonna happen when you go outside. It's like,

758
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: why are y'all giving that type of reaction? Neat there's people.

759
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,240
Speaker 2: There are people people that are know, that are sitting

760
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 2: at home and they might go somewhere or they gotta

761
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 2: go to work and they.

762
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 1: End up catching corona steal. Different you. It's no me.

763
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: You only gotta come across one person person with it.

764
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: It's not like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, there's

765
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: people that Diamond has been outside every.

766
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 2: Fucking day even when the pain when they were like

767
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: shut everything down, Dimond was like, no.

768
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: Diamond never quarantined.

769
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 2: Domond never quarantined, and she hasn't gotten sick ones.

770
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes shit just happens. You can't control it.

771
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: But to be like clapping your hands and praising when

772
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,720
Speaker 2: somebody gets it, honesty'.

773
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: Are literally dying from these Why did you we have that?

774
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: Somebody called it?

775
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 2: Like people were like, cause, you know, Joe caught it

776
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: now Joe Budden. Yeah, and they were like trying to

777
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 2: blame Yeah. Yeah, they were trying to like, well, I

778
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: don't know, well, by the time this episode is, he

779
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 2: probably doesn't happen anymore. But they were like trying to

780
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 2: blame Mandy for giving it to Joe. But it's like

781
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 2: Mandy wasn't even at the show for like two weeks.

782
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It was just a lot.

783
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 1: It was just a lot of bullying I saw going on.

784
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 2: You know, we all know Mandy has tough skin, right,

785
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 2: so it wasn't an issue. But I was just like, damn,

786
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:14,439
Speaker 2: like y'all going hard, Like it's just so like I said,

787
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 2: people just love to be elitist about the weirdest, weirdest,

788
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 2: weirdest shit.

789
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: It is crazy. I just always be feeling like, you know,

790
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: you should just worry about you. Yeah. I feel like

791
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: the world, the world be a better place that people

792
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: just worried about their self and their self owns, right,

793
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like me, I be worried

794
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: and focused on me not catching coronavirus, right, I don't

795
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: be worried and focused about what everybody else is doing.

796
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 1: And I'll say this, but like I said, I think

797
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: the reason a lot of people are saying that is

798
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,359
Speaker 1: just because you know I mean and I.

799
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 2: Know that, but but this is another thing. People have

800
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 2: to realize the world is changed forever, even once they

801
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 2: fine the vaccine and stuff. We're staying mass Massive are

802
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 2: still going to be a environment. It's going to be

803
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 2: like a part of our everyday life. So at this

804
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: point we need to adapt and adjust and figure out

805
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 2: how we can fucking live.

806
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: Like y'all want us to just be locked up forever,

807
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: you know, be hermits, you know what I'm saying. And

808
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, some of y'all, like I said, some

809
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: of y'all have the option to stay home.

810
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 2: But at this point, we gotta adapt and adjust and

811
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 2: figure out what the fuck we can do to still

812
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 2: keep life pushing. Don't slide in my DM telling me

813
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 2: nothing about being outside cause of coronavirus.

814
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: You know what I thought.

815
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: I really thought they was gonna get on our ass

816
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,959
Speaker 2: for that about doing the meet up. I thought people

817
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 2: were gonna say, but nobody said nothing to us about

818
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 2: it's fine.

819
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: They could have blocks. I'm dead, so yeah, But honestly,

820
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,879
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm not trying to be uh insensitive

821
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: to anybody who has corona, who has caught corona, or

822
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: anybody who has had, you know, a death in their

823
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: family or friends situation. Yea, I talked about that on

824
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: the show. Is that's really something that we for we

825
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,439
Speaker 1: definitely know people are catching it. I definitely know people

826
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 1: are getting sick from it and stuff like that. But

827
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 1: at the same time, you gotta let people do what

828
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: the fuck they wanna do. It's not being annoying and

829
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: like trying to reprimand people for living their life how

830
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: they set. The girls are getting rid hell alone, it's

831
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: getting scary. It's scary hours hours for real. But I learned,

832
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 1: like I said, when I was a young wardhog, my

833
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,919
Speaker 1: mother told me, if you don't have nothing nice to say,

834
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 1: don't say it at all. So, well, your mom was

835
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: an old world hog, all right, now call you a warhog,

836
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: I ask So I did not call her that, I asked.

837
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: I said, so if you're a young world dog, because

838
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: that means O you. I can't wait to tell any

839
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: I love your mama anyway, So let us know how

840
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 1: y'all feel about the quote unquote. I hate to use

841
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: that term COVID shaming because people like, what is COVID shaming.

842
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 2: I feel like they're about to go in on us

843
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 2: about this because you know how I don't care.

844
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: Well, it's all right, neither do you to be any

845
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all just leave me alone.

846
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 2: Anyways, Okay, so let us know how y'all feel about that.

847
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 2: Now we're about to get into the bed, the bed.

848
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 2: So I'm so excited because we're about to really record

849
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:14,919
Speaker 2: the bed song.

850
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: We found a producer and I don't Yeah, we ain't

851
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: supposed to tell them that we were supposed to drop it.

852
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 2: I know, but I can't because I'm gonna be singing

853
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 2: on that joint. Bro, I'm about to be I'm about

854
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 2: to go in there and sing my ass off.

855
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 1: So what are you thinking? I'm thinking, like, what do

856
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: you How do you think you're gonna get a jump

857
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: on the track, because I need to know how I

858
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 1: need to come Well, see, I don't know, because I

859
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,479
Speaker 1: feel like there's gonna be the Bed and it's gonna

860
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 1: be the Bead remix. We're doing a remix too.

861
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 2: I'm already planning for remixes. We're gonna have the Bad album.

862
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,280
Speaker 2: Oh okay, we're gonna have when we dropped the second mixtape,

863
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 2: it's gonna talk about getting out the bed.

864
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 1: You know, you know how Little Baby got hard, harder

865
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 1: than hard, harder than ever.

866
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 2: We're gonna have getting into the bed, getting out the band,

867
00:40:58,520 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 2: getting out the baby.

868
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: Making the bed. You see see the vision, I got

869
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: a new bed.

870
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 2: It's going down, bro, I'm telling you, I'm.

871
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: Telling you, the bad series is going down. Y'all.

872
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 2: Just wait on what if the song blow up? I'm

873
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: gonna be performing that motherfucker.

874
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into the bab a dub bab. I

875
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: can't wait for sing it though. We can't just be

876
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: like the bed ah. I can sing the fuck me.

877
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: I got skills, We know our lanes. Just stay in yours.

878
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: My vocals is hard harder than harder. Okay, So anyways,

879
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about non sexual turn on. Okay,

880
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: I feel like this is something that actually you do,

881
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: actually very very well. It's something that i've like.

882
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 2: Recently like noticed, you know, like notice with me, no

883
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 2: with myself, like I try to make sure, like you know,

884
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 2: it's a non sexual like doing things that are like

885
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 2: non sexual at all, but you might trying to, you know,

886
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 2: turn a nigg on, make sure you know you're looking

887
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 2: sexy at all times.

888
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: I think you naturally do this though, Like give me

889
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: an example, like just like what you did just now,

890
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: moving the water bottle like these little beatie beads off.

891
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 2: No, okay, but Honestly, I feel like it's like little

892
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 2: stuff like the way you walk, the way you talk.

893
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 2: Like even if I'm like having a conversation with somebody

894
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 2: and we're having a normal conversation, if I'm like trying

895
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 2: to flirt with the guy, Guys love to be touched

896
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 2: or they like to feel like they're being funny.

897
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's like when a guy's like telling the joke.

898
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:48,439
Speaker 1: It's really not that funny, but like.

899
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god, they be like you like that on bench, nigga,

900
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 4: I'm funny, huh, Like they do.

901
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: They like that shit, like when you touch on the man.

902
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: But I'm saying that's like a non sexual and like

903
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 2: it's like you're not like sucking his dick or sticking

904
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 2: your tongue down his throat, but it's things that like

905
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 2: it's in the eyes.

906
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all the best. That's one of the

907
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that.

908
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 2: The best non sexual turn on for me as far

909
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: as like talking to a man is like looking dead

910
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,959
Speaker 2: in their eyes, like staring into their eyes.

911
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: They love that, you know what I'm saying.

912
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 2: I feel like, what is the same you look into

913
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: somebody's eyes and see their soul or something, snatch whatever.

914
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 2: But I feel like, whenever you're talking, whenever you having

915
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: a conversation with a man, definitely look into his eyes.

916
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: Give me you'll tips now how to catch a man.

917
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 1: And when you look into his eyes, make sure if

918
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 1: you got a lazy I don't let that hole drift off.

919
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 2: Now you know some people got lazy eyes.

920
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: You gotta focus, bitch, you gotta focus. I'm not making fun.

921
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: You just looked away. I was trying to make sure

922
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: that they focus. That's all I'm saying.

923
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 2: Like, looking into somebody's eyes is a big fucking deal.

924
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: You gotta look and you gotta mean it. But don't

925
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: be like weird about it, Like don't be like or

926
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: like these Yeah, you gotta just you know, have a conversation.

927
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:23,280
Speaker 1: You know what, bro, You know, I had a conversation

928
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: with one of my niggas, one of my old niggas,

929
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 1: one of them that came out wrong.

930
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: I was having a conversation with him and he was like,

931
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 2: you know, I watched your show and he was like,

932
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 2: when you talk to Drea, like you really be looking

933
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 2: in her eyes.

934
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: But that's how I talk to people.

935
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 2: He was like, I cannot talk to people and look

936
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 2: into their eyes like that. It makes them feel uncomfortable.

937
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 2: But I feel like whenever you're looking into somebody's eyes,

938
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: they get more vulnerable with the conversation because that means

939
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 2: I'm really engaged with you and I'm really talking a

940
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 2: lot of times men feel like they can't be vulnerable

941
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 2: with women. Women don't listen to them, or they don't

942
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 2: feel comfortable because they feel like they have to be

943
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 2: a manly man.

944
00:44:58,480 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: So the most.

945
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: Important thing about having a good conversation is listening. The

946
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 2: people that you're gonna have the best conversation with are

947
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: good listeners.

948
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: So being a good listener, you gotta looking in my eyes. Baby,

949
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: you do gotta look in eyes. You guys looking at

950
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: I'll be having to look away though. Wow. Like I

951
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: will look in people's eyes and talk to them with occasionally,

952
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: I'll be just having to look away because again, it

953
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: does get awkward.

954
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 2: It'd be like, damn, now, if I'm drunk and you fine,

955
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna be like Grace. I love to look

956
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 2: in people's eyes, like I can. I can sit there

957
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: and talk to a nigga and be looking at his

958
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 2: eyes all fucking.

959
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: Day, Like really it'd be cold for a while. But

960
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: like I said, after a while, to get a little awkwards.

961
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 2: What are some other non sexual turn on things that

962
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 2: you do. I think the way you walk is a

963
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 2: good example. You have a little you have a little

964
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 2: sway in your hips when you walk.

965
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: I could agree with that. I could agree with that.

966
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: I know that.

967
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 2: Like when I'm in heels, nigga, I'll be I'll be

968
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 2: walking like niggas hear me coming from a mile.

969
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: I do, I walk hard, but when I put my

970
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: heels on, I definitely walk different. I definitely put that

971
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: work on.

972
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 2: So I definitely I noticed like when I put heels on,

973
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 2: I definitely try to put a little more sway in

974
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 2: my hips when I walk.

975
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 1: It just be little stuff.

976
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: I feel like when I walk somewhere, I definitely make

977
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 2: sure I walk with my head up, my shoulders back,

978
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 2: you know, got my little purse, and I'm just kind

979
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 2: of swaying.

980
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm on my phone, like you know. Yeah, I

981
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: think I'm just very flirty in general. I feel like confidence,

982
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: like your body language. Yeah, I think I think I do,

983
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: like have very I guess like kind of exude company

984
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: or whatever to a certain extent and then I think, yeah,

985
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: I'm just flirty. Like so I like to like make

986
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: the conversations fun and then lighthearted with guys, and I

987
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,800
Speaker 1: feel like they just always liked it and it's like

988
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: real playful. Yeah, so you know what else I do.

989
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: This is gonna be kind of weird.

990
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 2: Like sometimes like if I'm like talking to a guy

991
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 2: and I just sometimes I just I'm very touchy pheey.

992
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: First of all, I'm sup touching Philly. So like sometimes

993
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 2: I'll be having a conversation with a guy and we're

994
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 2: like really close and I'll just be like.

995
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: Pretend like he got so many hands and he don't,

996
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:12,879
Speaker 1: he don't. I'll pick out a pretendant. Oh thank you baby,

997
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: I'm like I got you, welcome, I got you. I

998
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: don't want you out here, And it works every time.

999
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: They'd be like sometimes I go, exuse you do the

1000
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 1: wrong with the speech, okay, okay on line.

1001
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 2: But still I feel like little things like you know,

1002
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm not necessarily like you know, rubbing on you, on you,

1003
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 2: but it's just like it's the gesture of me touching you,

1004
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,839
Speaker 2: but also me being like helpful.

1005
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 1: Like you know, so, so what are like some non

1006
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: sexual things that a man does that turns you on?

1007
00:47:52,320 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: Give me many honestly, like non sexual things that like

1008
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 1: turn me on. I feel like I love this is

1009
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 1: very weird.

1010
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: But like when I see like a man like get

1011
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 2: off the shower and he's like it has like a

1012
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: skincare routine. He's like in the mirror like doing his

1013
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 2: face stuff and doing I'm like, Damn, I love men

1014
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 2: that get off the shower. They do their whole like.

1015
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 2: I think that is just so Like I be like, Damn,

1016
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 2: you really wipe your ass good. I know you wipe

1017
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: your ass good. That's how you can tell if a

1018
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 2: nigga wipe his ass good.

1019
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: If they if a nigga takes the time to get

1020
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: out black heads out of his nose, you know he

1021
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: wipe his ass good. That's very true. Does don't even

1022
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: put lotion on I remember I was talking with this nigga.

1023
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: I used to have to lotion him down. Oh, it

1024
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:49,479
Speaker 1: used to go between his toes feet niggas said.

1025
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 2: A nigga said over he'll talk about a nigga on

1026
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 2: Twitter said that he don't put lotion on his ass

1027
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 2: because that's gay.

1028
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: So it's just as probably all for That's why I said,

1029
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: I know, when you get off the bed, you leave

1030
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 1: a chalk outline. There ain't no fucking way that's discussing.

1031
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: That's disgusting. I feel like sometimes.

1032
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: Men are just so homophobic and they just do weird ship.

1033
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: Like but it's your own ass, Like, how is that

1034
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: homosexual touch on your arm? I don't know, br but

1035
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: men are fucking crazy. But I ain't never heard that

1036
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: that's something like non sexual that I really like. I

1037
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: love men that have like a good skincare routine.

1038
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 2: And I don't know like when, especially like if I've

1039
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 2: been dating somebody for a while.

1040
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: And I like when like men like let's go hang out.

1041
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna come pick you up, because usually people aren't

1042
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 2: picking when.

1043
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: A nigga come pick me up. Niggas don't pick pick

1044
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: people up no more meet them at the restaurant.

1045
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 2: Honestly, they'll either send you an uber are you they

1046
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 2: can just meet you up there type shit. So when

1047
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 2: niggas like really be like, hey, I'm gonna come pick

1048
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 2: you up at seven, this pussy is.

1049
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: Ready, I'll be ready.

1050
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 6: It seeks you know what I'm saying. It's that I'm

1051
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 6: in my drop dock cruise in that street. Oh hey,

1052
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 6: hang on a real little find for me.

1053
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: See and dude, okay, moment God damn.

1054
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 2: So let us know what are some non sexual turn

1055
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 2: ons that y'all like. I love a good non sexual

1056
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 2: turn on. I feel like because it makes when y'all

1057
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 2: actually get into the sex act, that makes it more intense,

1058
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 2: like you're low key like building up.

1059
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: To that moment without even doing it on purpose. Oh yeah,

1060
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: I love sexual turn on. Yeah, it definitely is like

1061
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:49,479
Speaker 1: mm mmmmm. I like when niggas have like specific sense too.

1062
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: I really don't like men that switch up their cologne

1063
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: a lot, Like I like to identify you by one cent.

1064
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? What's your favorite scene? I

1065
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: don't fucking known.

1066
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 2: No, just I mean, I don't know what it is,

1067
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 2: but I like when I smell it, I'm like, yeah, oh.

1068
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: You need to find out next time you smell. But

1069
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 1: you know, niggas don't like to tell you what they

1070
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: wearing unless you buy it. Yeah, I've never experienced it.

1071
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 2: I have niggas be like, no, you gonna buy it

1072
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 2: for the next nigga. Like now, every time I ask

1073
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 2: a nigga when he goes, oh.

1074
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:21,840
Speaker 1: Now, I gotta come to your house and go to

1075
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:29,800
Speaker 1: Yoshi bitch cool. So now we're gonna get into the

1076
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: bybe a the bye a bye bye. What's your bob?

1077
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: What's yours? Bit Ya? Don't think I got dang. You

1078
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: ain't even giving me no time to get ready? Okay,

1079
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: So I was actually put on this uh what is

1080
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: it called? This EP? It's actually came out in twenty seventeen.

1081
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: It's not new. But this guy's his name is Molly.

1082
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 1: It's like an R and B soul.

1083
00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: So he has a song called Love by You feature

1084
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 2: Jazzma Sullivant and y'all know, I'm a Jazzmasullivant stand Okay,

1085
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 2: baby can sing down?

1086
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: So using she does sing down.

1087
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: And it's just so crazy because there's so many good

1088
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 2: R and B artists.

1089
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,320
Speaker 1: That just aren't getting a recognition that they deserve.

1090
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, I feel like he's been out for a

1091
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 2: while and people just not They not catching on quick

1092
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 2: enough from all life and what did you say? His

1093
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 2: name is Molly, m A l I. And the song

1094
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 2: is called Love by You, feature in Jazzmine Sullivan and

1095
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 2: y'all know, Oh we love us. Some jazz men love

1096
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 2: us some jazzmae Sullivan. Like the talent is crazy, but

1097
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,919
Speaker 2: when you think about it, her voice is just that's

1098
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 2: this is kind of off topic, but it's so crazy

1099
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: how somebody can be so talented, but there's people that

1100
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 2: she can sing under the table that are out selling her.

1101
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 2: And it just makes no sense to me, because not

1102
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 2: only can she say, let's.

1103
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 1: Be real, we know how the industry works. Yeah, but

1104
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: she can sell a lot of politics. But it's not

1105
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: even that.

1106
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I've seen like women that can or men

1107
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 2: that can sing really really good, but their music is

1108
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 2: not good. Jazmine so up and actually has firefucking music. Yeah,

1109
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: so it's not clicking and making the sense because even

1110
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: the last song that came out, what was one that

1111
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 2: came out like a few weeks ago that we have

1112
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 2: for our bop of the week, what's it called Lost One?

1113
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 2: Lost One is such a fire song. I just don't

1114
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 2: understand why this is not getting played everywhere. You see

1115
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, it's just be stuff like that,

1116
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 2: Like I just be so confused. But yeah, my bop

1117
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 2: of the week is Molly Loved by You featuring Jasmine Sullivan.

1118
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:33,280
Speaker 1: Okay, so ty dollars, I got this song called Spicy.

1119
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: Did you listen to his whole album? I haven't listened

1120
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: to the whole album, but I ended up listening to

1121
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 1: that song just because it was like on my suggested

1122
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: new tracks on a title or whatever. So I actually

1123
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 1: like it is Sea Trim post Malone, But I do

1124
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: need to go listen to I know, I don't really

1125
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: like the song. Okay, it's like a little catchy little song.

1126
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: My thing with thy.

1127
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 2: Dollar Sign is I tend to like his features better

1128
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: than his own songs.

1129
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm the expensive song too. Though. With

1130
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: NICKI minized, Okay, you haven't, but you haven't listened to

1131
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 1: that song. I think it's a single. Indeed, I don't

1132
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: know y'all saw this episode is not getting monetized. Okay,

1133
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: but no, I feel like I'm more so like his features.

1134
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: That's why I haven't listened to the album. I haven't

1135
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 1: taken the time out to really listen to the album,

1136
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: to be honest. He got a song on here called

1137
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: doctor Cebe. I thought his name was doctor Sebby, well,

1138
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 1: doctor Sebby whatever, I'm dead. Do you know doctor Sebby? Yes, bitch,

1139
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: I know who it is. But at the same time,

1140
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:40,360
Speaker 1: sometimes I don't be pronouncing ship right, neither do brain.

1141
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know if you knew what he was. I

1142
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: was just making Shoot, why would I not know who

1143
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: he is? You know how be trying to be fake healthy?

1144
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: I don't know why he wants to be fake me

1145
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: and so bad every dragons on my fucking nerves.

1146
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,760
Speaker 2: Draon, have a whole night of smoking hookah drinking dogholey,

1147
00:54:57,920 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 2: Let you wake up like y'all.

1148
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,919
Speaker 1: This is the sea min stuff. I just wonder. And

1149
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:07,479
Speaker 1: I take this with my uh water and my green

1150
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: and drops in white water. Girl, I'll be like, and

1151
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: I take my black elderberry syrup every day, and my

1152
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: black I mean not yeah, and my black seed oil. Oh.

1153
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: I got a whole list of stuff I take every morning.

1154
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: Did you include the nut you'd be swallowing on there?

1155
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: I don't swallow nut every day, my every day REGI

1156
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: I only do that a few times. Okay, Okay, you

1157
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: gotta get that in shorter, okay, but I get okay, okay,

1158
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: But yes, you know who he is like you was

1159
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: if he was he's okay, okay, okay, a little hotel

1160
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 1: all right, See, I don't like that. We're gonna stop

1161
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 1: using the word hotel. You you is it more than me?

1162
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: Because I am a woke sister.

1163
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 2: So the first thing y'all gonna realize is I'm here

1164
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 2: for the black advancement. Okay, we're gonna get to where

1165
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 2: we need to go on the back of the white

1166
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 2: man period.

1167
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: Thanks miss Omar. That's what this is. How you know,

1168
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: when you preach it to make people think that you

1169
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about her project, You've got to

1170
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 1: talk slow and chop the words up because people feel

1171
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 1: like this sister know what she's talking about. So when

1172
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: you catch on side. So when I talk like this,

1173
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: if you have this clip on you, they gonna be like,

1174
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: I can't wait to get home and listen to what

1175
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 1: she's talking about because I know she's saying something important

1176
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: and you ain't talking about and I'm not saying shit.

1177
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 1: But don't suck cut nigga again. You see how I

1178
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: did that ball? That's all. That's what they be doing

1179
00:56:56,200 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: on Red Table Talk. Oh my god. Yeah, it's a

1180
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: good show.

1181
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 2: But sometimes Jada don't be really saying nothing. She just

1182
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 2: talks real soft and slow.

1183
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 1: After that, why I was wanted to say, what the

1184
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: fuck I mean? August Elsina. It's that August Elsina ship.

1185
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,399
Speaker 1: I cannot listen to this show no more. I just can't.

1186
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: I just can't. Bro I can't cause it's like Jada,

1187
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: you been getting down like the rest of them. Yes,

1188
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 1: I just I cannot play at all. But nould we love?

1189
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: I'm dead bitch, So I know. I think I'm gonna

1190
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 1: watch that tonight. Why I just tweeted about it the

1191
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: other day. The movie is terrible, you know what. I

1192
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 1: haven't seen it in so long. I watched Boomerang the

1193
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: other day. It was so boring. Is like the best

1194
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 1: plastic black fil like a rom con. Okay, that's you know,

1195
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 1: that's like my favorite movie. Oh it is. No I

1196
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: was saying, like, oh that's cute girl. Fuck you Jesus

1197
00:57:54,920 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: tough crowd. Anyway, let's get into the motherfucking question. Oh

1198
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: were here? The question? I don't know. I feel like

1199
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: it's just a big blur. This boy. You ain't even

1200
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 1: drink today.

1201
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 2: I think I feel like I'm still high from last night.

1202
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 2: I drank so much last night for no reason.

1203
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: You didn't even drink that. First of all, when I

1204
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: left here, I was drinking. See you in my business,

1205
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: don't do that. So I peeped your tweets. You was

1206
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: drinking before we came. See how you by you put

1207
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 1: my business off there? You just drink, you put it

1208
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 1: out there. I just said I ran your tweets. Anyways,

1209
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: if you want your question to answer me the show,

1210
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 1: make sure you email us at Ask four Minds at

1211
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. That's a s k p O. You

1212
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: are M I N.

1213
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 2: D S at gmail dot com. Please keep it to

1214
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 2: a paragraph if you can.

1215
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: Thank you, So go ahead, dreya mm hmm, no you

1216
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 1: don't want Yeah, I read it. I was just trying

1217
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: to make sure I was going to the right way right.

1218
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: So hey, ladies, First, I would like to say that

1219
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: I love love, love you both, but I definitely see

1220
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 1: myself and the hot shit that I be on in licks. Lol.

1221
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: So my name is Lee and I'm twenty six. I

1222
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: recently met this guy on this guy online and he's

1223
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: thirty scros oh okay, but he's for sure a BDB.

1224
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:22,480
Speaker 1: So we went out a few times, had deep conversations

1225
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: and whatnoight. He gave me a good vibe and really

1226
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: expressed his feelings about me. We had sex on our

1227
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: second date and it was the bomb, but now we're

1228
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: kind of in a dry place. He's not giving me

1229
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: the same vibe. He seems like a good guy, but

1230
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I asked him directly about his feelings

1231
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: via text message, I need some advice. Tell me what

1232
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: you guys think. I'm going to attach the screenshot. Okay,

1233
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: so did you read the screenshot? I'm gonna read it.

1234
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: So she sent him a message and said, I'm just

1235
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and ask since it's on my mind

1236
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: and I need to know. Are you more so wanting

1237
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: a friend, a friend with benefits or something serious. I'm

1238
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: asking because I need to know how to deal with you.

1239
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 1: No pressure, but I think we should have lablish each

1240
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 1: other's intentions, which is fair, and he responded, right now,

1241
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: I want to learn each other and continue to grow

1242
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: and grow from there. Just because I get crazy busy,

1243
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: like today been crazy, I feel like things excuse me

1244
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 1: to me When a guy says something like that, he's

1245
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: not looking for nothing serious, because if he wanted you,

1246
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 1: he would have been like, no, my bad, today's just

1247
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: been busy. But I definitely want us to spend more

1248
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: time and get to know each other.

1249
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, we gonna grow. I just want to

1250
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 2: see where it goes. That's because he got the pussy already.

1251
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 2: So unfortunately, it's kind of like God says so much

1252
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 2: and when they can really just be honest. But obviously

1253
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 2: I don't think he's trying to hurt your feelings, but

1254
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: it seemed like he wants like a friend with benefits

1255
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 2: type of situation.

1256
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: He just want to be able to keep fucking on

1257
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: you and doing his things. So I mean, you just

1258
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: gotta exh your selfuse if that's what you want, you

1259
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 1: cool with that girl in the night, I would just

1260
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 1: let it. You know what I'm always say, move around.

1261
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 2: Then, because that's why I feel like a lot of

1262
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 2: times women say that we want gods to tell us

1263
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 2: the truth and what their intentions are. But a lot

1264
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 2: of times when if a guy told us their true intentions,

1265
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 2: we'd be like, oh, I'm not fucking with it right.

1266
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 2: So that's why guys don't tell us the truth because

1267
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 2: a lot of women can't handle that. You know what

1268
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Because honestly, if he told you right now,

1269
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 2: yeah I just want to be friends with benefits, you

1270
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 2: probably gonna cut him off. Yeah, yeah, say, that's why

1271
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 2: he's not gonna tell you that he just wants to

1272
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 2: be friends with benefits. I don't think that that's fair

1273
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 2: because honestly, if a nigga told me, y'all want to

1274
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 2: be friends with benefits, as long as that.

1275
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: Includes some money, we can make it work. Cut it,

1276
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 1: you know.

1277
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 2: But I feel like sometimes I'm a different type of

1278
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 2: girl though, Like you know, I just be moving how

1279
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 2: I want to move, and I kind of have a

1280
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 2: more free spirit when it comes to stuff like that.

1281
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 2: So I just feel like he kind of pretty much

1282
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 2: told you what he wants. When a guy wants you

1283
01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 2: like yeah, as far as being serious, when he wants

1284
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 2: you like that, he's gonna let it be known and

1285
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 2: he's not gonna shy away from that. Like when niggas

1286
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 2: want you, they be like I want you, Yeah, I

1287
01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 2: want you to myself like they gonna let that shit

1288
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:00,919
Speaker 2: be No, No, that's the right licks.

1289
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: Please, somebody done told you, y'irl. I told you, I

1290
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 1: told you. I said it on the show. How rapper

1291
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: By was putting that pressures me alone. I seen her

1292
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 1: tool with her licks. She got the lex pe poles down.

1293
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: She showed dude, and you're a beautiful girl. So if

1294
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 1: that's what you want. Cool.

1295
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 2: But if that's not, If that's something that you want, cool,

1296
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 2: But like if the friends with benefits type thing, then

1297
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 2: go ahead. But if friends with benefits is not what

1298
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 2: you want, I wouldn't fuck with him because.

1299
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: He wants to be friends with benefits.

1300
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 2: Like he still wants to fuck on you, maybe take

1301
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 2: you on some dates and stuff. But like I said, yeah,

1302
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 2: make sure that you're getting out the situation what you

1303
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 2: want out the situation.

1304
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Always what y'all want out

1305
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: of the situation they want exactly period. Okay, so let

1306
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: me move on to the next one.

1307
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 2: This says, Hey, y'all, please keep me anonymous or you

1308
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 2: can call me big L lo o L.

1309
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: I know that's right, queen.

1310
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 2: I know there's a little back up on letters. The

1311
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 2: universe may solve my problem before y'all get to me.

1312
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 1: But still, at least she knows, at least you know.

1313
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

1314
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 2: This was saint like when we first started the show.

1315
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:12,919
Speaker 1: I'm bad.

1316
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 2: So I just got a new boo and he seems

1317
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 2: to be a bdb Ooh. I've been praying, so I

1318
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,959
Speaker 2: hope for success. But the only thing I have read

1319
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 2: because she said, ooh, I've been praying.

1320
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: That's what I say. It says four ohs ooh.

1321
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 2: But the only thing is I have been seeing this

1322
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 2: boy local to where I live, and we have been

1323
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 2: going steady for maybe seven months. He's chill, but we're

1324
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 2: the same age, twenty six and I'm twenty five. Turned

1325
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,280
Speaker 2: twenty six in November, and he's just at that growth

1326
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 2: phase where he's trying to level himself up to be

1327
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 2: in a better position. So I understand him not being

1328
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 2: able to do all the things I want to do

1329
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 2: all the time because I'm doing the same thing with myself.

1330
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 2: But the New Bay was on top, was on my

1331
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 2: type wait, oh, okay, I see, sorry, but the New

1332
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 2: Bay was on my type of time. The first day,

1333
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 2: we went on amazing date in the city he lives

1334
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 2: about two hours for me.

1335
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 1: I spent the night and we had sex. He sent me.

1336
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 2: Home with some cash for my commute, and we are

1337
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 2: still talking consistently, making plans for the week. So Local

1338
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 2: Bay has outstanding D and New B and New Bay

1339
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 2: D is okay, but everything else can make up for it.

1340
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm ready to cut off Local Bay,

1341
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 2: but juggling two niggas makes me nervous.

1342
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: I like New Bay and I want to see where

1343
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 1: things will go.

1344
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 2: Not to mention, he's been on me since about February

1345
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,439
Speaker 2: this year, and I'm giving him a chance now.

1346
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: I try to keep this as short as possible. Sorry, y'all,

1347
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:37,800
Speaker 1: thank you. So what you think I will talk about

1348
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: him right make you nervous? But I mean, why why

1349
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: you gotta realize as long as they don't know each other,

1350
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: as long as you're being safe, I don't see the issue. Like,

1351
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 1: let's said, you're single, you're single, You're supposed to be dating.

1352
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 2: I think a lot of women need to realize this,

1353
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 2: especially in your twenties.

1354
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:57,439
Speaker 1: I'm in my thirties and I'm still doing this shit.

1355
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm dating until I find exactly what I and it's

1356
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: okay today.

1357
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 2: It's okay today multiple people. People act like it's fucking

1358
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 2: the end of the world. If you're dating multiple people,

1359
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 2: if you can handle that, and you have to be

1360
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 2: okay with possibly them doing the same thing because most likely.

1361
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 1: Possibly let me tell you something, New Bay and Local

1362
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: Bay dating other people. You know what I'm saying. I mean,

1363
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to say that because we don't know them,

1364
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 1: but be we have y'all know, i'mould be blunt with

1365
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: you and be real right. They're both dating other people.

1366
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 1: What nigga you know, Daton one beach. Even niggas that's

1367
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: married ain't dating one beat me. I was supposed to say,

1368
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: not mine. Even married niggas got more than one beat.

1369
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 2: You're right about that, so I would say, you're single

1370
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 2: until you're tied down a relationship. You don't know owe

1371
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 2: anything to anybody, so have fun, figure out what you want.

1372
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 2: You're still young, You're only twenty six, so yeah, they

1373
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 2: both of them.

1374
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,320
Speaker 1: Just keep it lighthearted and keep it cool.

1375
01:05:56,720 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 2: I think girls juggle niggas.

1376
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: We haven't the cuties be right now. I'm sorry, y'all,

1377
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: I was alrighty, that's the next six question. Okay, but yeah, girl,

1378
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: just keep it cute, keep you know, dating both of them.

1379
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't see no harm in egg

1380
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:14,880
Speaker 1: because obviously they both got different strengths and weaknesses. Best

1381
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 1: about the worlds Okay, next question, my BDB ain't no

1382
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: free guilt. Hey, ladies, keep me anonymous. I love the show.

1383
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: I heard about you from cocktails and have been hooked

1384
01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:31,320
Speaker 1: since I live for Wednesdays. So the team, or should

1385
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 1: I say the water'd I've been involved with my BDB

1386
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: for almost four years and the six is so I

1387
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: make it fun for us. The stork. The stork is

1388
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 1: good as fuck, but he's no freak, doesn't eat pussy,

1389
01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: always wants me on top and comes quick. Mind you.

1390
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm thirty two and he's thirty five. He complains, I

1391
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 1: take too long to come, But niggas just don't know.

1392
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: But niggas just wait, But niggas just don't know. Once

1393
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: you start the engine, you gotta keep that motherfucker ribbed up,

1394
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: meaning after every thirty seconds we have to stop, slow down,

1395
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 1: or change positions so he doesn't come. I slow, I

1396
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: go slow, I meg the stallions, DE suck it between you,

1397
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 1: A free girl between dad. I know you see him

1398
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 1: over here. I suck it in between and anything else

1399
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 1: I could think of to make it last longer. I'm

1400
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 1: at the point of not wanting to interact with this

1401
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 1: because this man is getting a whole meal and I'm

1402
01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: getting leftovers. I feel like I sexually intimidate him. I

1403
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 1: have communicated how important foreplay is so he can get

1404
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 1: a head start on making me come and the last

1405
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: time we had sex, this nigga tried to finger me

1406
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: like he was digging for change at the bottom of

1407
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: a purse. Help I attached pigs just because I know

1408
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 1: y'all see me in y'all comments twenty four to seven. Yeah,

1409
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 1: she is bad. Sex for me is a no.

1410
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 2: It's especially when you're telling this man like you're you've

1411
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 2: told him, you've told him, and he hasn't.

1412
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 1: Changed, and he's not.

1413
01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 2: You might just be a little more sexually advanced to him,

1414
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 2: and that's just that's just what it is.

1415
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: Like.

1416
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 2: Sometimes you can't do shit about that. Like I've had

1417
01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 2: a partner where I was just like way more sexually

1418
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:20,240
Speaker 2: advanced to him and we had conversations and no matter what,

1419
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 2: he just couldn't keep up. Sometimes your pussy just be

1420
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:24,760
Speaker 2: too good fors and they just.

1421
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: Can't handle it. Like sometimes, like I'm not, sometimes.

1422
01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 2: Niggas just can't hang like you. And he got it's

1423
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 2: levels to this ship and he's just not on your level.

1424
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 2: So it's just got that wop. You definitely got that whop,

1425
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 2: but you gotta have a wop handler, period, you know

1426
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1427
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: He's definitely not a wop handler. He's not doing what

1428
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: the fuck needs. Should she stopped talking to him? What

1429
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:50,600
Speaker 1: she said, he's a bd B, he does what he

1430
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 1: needs to do. I feel like you can still, you know,

1431
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:54,760
Speaker 1: hang out with him and go have fun. But as

1432
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:56,640
Speaker 1: far as like making him your main nigga, because that's

1433
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 1: what it seems like to me, like he's your main nigga,

1434
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 1: you definitely need to start data around to find his replacement.

1435
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 1: CIEs yeah, because it sounds like it's time to replace him,

1436
01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 1: because yeah, good bad sex is just it's just a no.

1437
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 1: It's a note for me too, so good. Look, my

1438
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:18,599
Speaker 1: phone stopped working. This is the next one? Is it?

1439
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 1: Did you read that one? Or to die? I just

1440
01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: read that?

1441
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:21,880
Speaker 2: No?

1442
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: I ready, what are you talking about? I just read that?

1443
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 1: Is this the last one? No? This is the third one?

1444
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 1: Oh fucking brother, I'm just playing. Put it on a

1445
01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:35,519
Speaker 1: makeing moan of man remain, That's what I'm saying. I know,

1446
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: put the morning, make the morning a man remain. Why

1447
01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:44,560
Speaker 1: did was she to do that? Rashida sis okay, but

1448
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 1: that's Beyonce. We're talking about Rashida. Suck around with no

1449
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: man who won't. First of all, she got a ring too,

1450
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about the song like why would she

1451
01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: do that? Kirk was in the car like first thing,

1452
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: I set them around with no man that won't eat us?

1453
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 1: I know that's right.

1454
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 2: Okay, hey, Lexing put that in our body? What funk

1455
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:13,800
Speaker 2: around with no man that won't eat her?

1456
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: You're all right? Leave me along, please, poor mind say

1457
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: get a wait for me, Hey, Lexandrea, I found your

1458
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 1: pot through Joe Budden podcast. Oh y'all know when Harry

1459
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 1: used to walk down the stairs on family matters? They

1460
01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:39,000
Speaker 1: did not used to do that for Harry, Yes they did.

1461
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 1: They used to do that for Laura. Why you said

1462
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 1: they didn't do that for Harry because Harry Harry was old.

1463
01:10:52,760 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 1: She was torow what was the grandma name? Grandma? When

1464
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 1: the grandma would put on her red lips, when you

1465
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:03,680
Speaker 1: would put on her red lipstity, the would be like

1466
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:11,600
Speaker 1: foremost every fuck if it comes show. She said she

1467
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 1: found you from the Joe Buddon podcast. So she said

1468
01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 1: she found us from the Joe Wit But you the

1469
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: only person that's been on the Joe Budden podcast, money bag.

1470
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 1: I could get time for you to go ahead and

1471
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 1: read the question.

1472
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 2: And I've been listening heavy ever since I'm thirty years

1473
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 2: old and I've had a couple of bead bes under

1474
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 2: my belt.

1475
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 1: But I can never keep the nigga because my sex

1476
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: game is trash. So why did you title the question?

1477
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: I'm so confused.

1478
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 2: Okay, she said, I can never keep the nigga because

1479
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 2: my sex game is trash.

1480
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm a lazy fuck. I only like to lay on

1481
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:53,519
Speaker 1: my back or get dog fucked.

1482
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 2: I cannot ride pick Can y'all give me some tips

1483
01:11:58,120 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 2: on how to be a better fuck because the next

1484
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 2: bd B I get, I'm trying to put him on

1485
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 2: and make him want to marry me.

1486
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: And my sheet, or just advice on how to ride

1487
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:11,320
Speaker 1: the dick? Bro, what do men like in bed other

1488
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 1: than head? I need help asap. From the West Side

1489
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,720
Speaker 1: with love. I don't want to say I'm from the

1490
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 1: West Side. We love ses. First of all, you are

1491
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 1: a lazy fuck because that's what you're choosing to do.

1492
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:32,639
Speaker 1: Like everything you do, well, no, not even that, everything

1493
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 1: takes practice. If you know you're a lazy fuck, get

1494
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: up and ride some big girl, Ride some big or

1495
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 1: at least when you get it, hit from the bag

1496
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 1: like hauld your ass cheeks open, wear a booty, pulls,

1497
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: throw it back. Are you throwing that pussy back? She

1498
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:47,800
Speaker 1: probably not.

1499
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 2: When you at least when the nigga on top, grab

1500
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 2: your legs and put them behind your heads.

1501
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 1: Do something, get active? You know that you're just laying

1502
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 1: there on the pussy. Why he fucking you from the bag?

1503
01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:01,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't. You're getting a little too detailed.

1504
01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 1: You got carry it away, hit it from the back,

1505
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 1: swall the nut, let the bowels. Okay, now you're taking

1506
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 1: shit too far.

1507
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:15,680
Speaker 2: I cannot believe if any of y'all ever want to

1508
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 2: take Dre out, just remember that she sucks niggas toes

1509
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 2: weird though.

1510
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 1: I've only sucked two niggas about to say one. No,

1511
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:29,800
Speaker 1: you're a sick bitch too anyway, So I feel like

1512
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 1: you know that you're being lazy in bed. So put

1513
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: it in your mind that you know what today when

1514
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 1: I have sex, I'm going to ride some.

1515
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 2: Dick and like Drea said, watch some porn, see what

1516
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 2: the porn girls are doing, get some tips.

1517
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,679
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you know what you're doing.

1518
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 1: You're you're actively choosing just to lay there in bed.

1519
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:49,559
Speaker 1: Me I cannot just lay there.

1520
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 2: I'm not saying there's I mean, obviously there's something wrong

1521
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 2: with it because you know you're lazy fuck. But it's like,

1522
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 2: if you know that you're being lazy, just be more active,

1523
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 2: do your research, watch some porn, see what the porn

1524
01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 2: girls are doing, and learn how to suck some dick.

1525
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,840
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. When you are getting hit

1526
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 1: from the back, there's things that you should be doing.

1527
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 1: You shouldn't just be asked up in the air getting fucked.

1528
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Put in that archie because

1529
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 1: you if you're a lazy fuck, you'd probably be like bees.

1530
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry y'all listening y'all obviously can't see what we're doing.

1531
01:14:20,439 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 2: It's like when a cats, Oh my god, that is

1532
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 2: so ugly. That's what she probably be doing. That's why

1533
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 2: she can't keep a bad b. Oh Man, since you

1534
01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 2: gotta keep your bad b. So yeah, make sure you arch.

1535
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 1: That bad I don't like that. Get up and ride

1536
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:38,559
Speaker 1: some dick. Just get more active. You are your tip

1537
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:42,640
Speaker 1: tip toes. That's that's a little advance. Easy it is

1538
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:45,759
Speaker 1: for somebody who's not riding dick at all. I actually

1539
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 1: feel like it's easier to ride dick on your feet

1540
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:50,760
Speaker 1: than it is on your knees, unless you've just got

1541
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 1: some good ass knees. I like to ride dick on

1542
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:54,599
Speaker 1: my knees. I like to be on my feet because

1543
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 1: I like to hop, bun and hop with me. Hey,

1544
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 1: the the thought I fucking did? I like the hop?

1545
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:09,560
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, next question what to do? Let it

1546
01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 1: go or keep trying? Hey lexp Andrea girl girl, girl girl?

1547
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 1: Now you know, goddamn will he's questioning too long. She

1548
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 1: talked about I've been seeing a man since I was

1549
01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to read it quick. I've been seeing a

1550
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 1: man since I was eighteen. At the time, he was

1551
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: twenty eight, and now he's twenty nine. I'm twenty the

1552
01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:29,560
Speaker 1: very first older man I've ever deal with, and he

1553
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 1: claims I'm the first young lady that he's deal with.

1554
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: We've been at it about a year and a half,

1555
01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 1: and anytime we get into it, he blames it on

1556
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 1: my age. I've never met any of his friends. We've

1557
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 1: been out on one day. Any other time that we

1558
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:43,240
Speaker 1: hang out is to get food and back to my

1559
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 1: place or his. Recently, we got into it and he

1560
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:48,679
Speaker 1: decided to end things. I'll usually blow up his phone

1561
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: or do pop ups please don't judge me, and we'll

1562
01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:54,160
Speaker 1: eventually get back on good terms and go back go

1563
01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 1: back to our situationship. We usually communicate with trigger the

1564
01:15:57,840 --> 01:16:00,600
Speaker 1: argument and move forward. I'm beginning to wonder could this

1565
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: just be something that's for him to do, or does

1566
01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 1: he really care by me. It's been a year and

1567
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: he tells me that he loves me, but his meaning

1568
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: is I have love for you. What should I do?

1569
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:12,680
Speaker 1: He boosted my confidence, He's like my shoulder when I

1570
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 1: need advice, and he's basically a big support system the

1571
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:17,680
Speaker 1: last time he broke things off with me. Now he

1572
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:20,639
Speaker 1: won't respond to any of my messages or answer my calls,

1573
01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: and I recently did a pop up. He was home

1574
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 1: and did not answer the door, which he usually does.

1575
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 1: Should I take this as a hint that it's really over?

1576
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:29,840
Speaker 1: He did make it clear in the beginning that he

1577
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 1: did not want a relationship, but seriously, after a year

1578
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:35,120
Speaker 1: and a half, still nothing. I seen him once a

1579
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 1: week during hold on. I've seen him once a week

1580
01:16:38,920 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 1: do the work schedules, but we talked daily throughout the week.

1581
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: Should I give up or keep trying? Y'all are like

1582
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: my big sisters. Please help? Might I add this? The

1583
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,880
Speaker 1: sex is wonderful. He's the first person I've ever felt

1584
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:52,479
Speaker 1: comfortable with fully in the bedroom so much that I

1585
01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: ate his ass. I feel like somewhere we lost the

1586
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: sparks and now it's just arguments in very good makeup. Six.

1587
01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 1: But this last time seem like it's really over. Should

1588
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: I give up? I'm complete? Girl? How old you think

1589
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 1: we are? We all big sisters. I mean we're older

1590
01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: than her. She's only twenty. I thought she said she's

1591
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 1: twenty eight. No, she met him. People always be in

1592
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 1: the commers. Hey, aunt Tiela, they think you are a

1593
01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:24,439
Speaker 1: lot of our listeners are young, Dreya like they young?

1594
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:28,599
Speaker 1: Why twenty east we could be? Yeah, that's what I say.

1595
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 2: So this is my thing, sees. First of all, it's

1596
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:34,640
Speaker 2: a big age difference between y'all. Nine years difference is

1597
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,720
Speaker 2: a big age difference one, and for him twenty nine

1598
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 2: a man at twenty nine, they are not even close

1599
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:44,720
Speaker 2: to where they're gonna be as as far as maturation,

1600
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,720
Speaker 2: like being mature in their maturity level. So you have

1601
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:49,640
Speaker 2: to realize, even though he might be mature to you,

1602
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 2: twenty nine for a man is very immature as far

1603
01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:53,200
Speaker 2: as knowing what they want.

1604
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:55,880
Speaker 1: This man does not know what he wants. Trust me.

1605
01:17:56,520 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 2: He yes, he's very old compared to you, but this

1606
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:03,280
Speaker 2: man is very young and he doesn't know what the

1607
01:18:03,320 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 2: fuck he wants.

1608
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 1: Girl. So I feel like, you're young, you don't even

1609
01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:07,880
Speaker 1: know what you want.

1610
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:10,560
Speaker 2: The man that you're attracted to right now is not

1611
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: gonna be the same type of man you're attracted to

1612
01:18:12,400 --> 01:18:14,800
Speaker 2: when you're twenty five, and that's when started dating you

1613
01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 2: twenty That's what I'm saying, And that's not gonna be

1614
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 2: the same type of man you're attracted to at thirty.

1615
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:20,879
Speaker 2: Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

1616
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 1: I would just move on, you.

1617
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying, Like you doing pop ups at

1618
01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 2: his house. I feel like once you get to that

1619
01:18:27,080 --> 01:18:29,559
Speaker 2: point of relationship, it's like you need to step back

1620
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 2: because it's starting to become toxic.

1621
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 1: So I feel like, if you feel like you have

1622
01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:35,519
Speaker 1: to pop up and if he's not answering your calls

1623
01:18:35,560 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: and stuff, like if he told you that he's over

1624
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 1: and he not answering your calls, it if you do

1625
01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:43,080
Speaker 1: a pop up and he not answering the door. He

1626
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 1: just really just didn't want to see you. You know

1627
01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And I hate to be I.

1628
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,560
Speaker 2: Hate to be so harsh. It does sound harsh, but

1629
01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:51,360
Speaker 2: it's just the reality of it, you know what I'm saying.

1630
01:18:51,600 --> 01:18:55,800
Speaker 2: One thing about me, believe flood. But you have to

1631
01:18:55,880 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 2: believe a man when he tells you things, especially when

1632
01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 2: that because a lot of times men will lie because

1633
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 2: they don't want to hurt your feelings. But when they

1634
01:19:03,200 --> 01:19:04,760
Speaker 2: get to that point to where they're like, fuck it,

1635
01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:07,240
Speaker 2: I gotta tell this girl the truth. Once they start

1636
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 2: telling you like, hey, I don't want to be with you,

1637
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 2: I don't like this, this is over, you need to

1638
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:13,439
Speaker 2: really believe them when they tell you they don't want

1639
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:16,240
Speaker 2: a relationship. Believe them, you know what I'm saying, because

1640
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 2: at that point they not lying, and we all know

1641
01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:21,080
Speaker 2: niggas love to lie. So once they through, once they

1642
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 2: start getting to the point to where they don't care

1643
01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:24,800
Speaker 2: and they just telling you how they honestly feel, you

1644
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 2: just need to believe in. Like I said, you're a

1645
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 2: young girl, you gonna look back at this shit and laugh, okay,

1646
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:30,960
Speaker 2: and it's just yeah, it's.

1647
01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:33,360
Speaker 1: Like come on, y'all, Like when y'all be like twenty

1648
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:36,240
Speaker 1: to like twenty, I'll say, like twenty to like twenty four,

1649
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:39,800
Speaker 1: hell even twenty five. It's like, live your life. They

1650
01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:44,000
Speaker 1: a lot of people have fun. You're young at fucked,

1651
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:46,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like you, why are y'all?

1652
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 1: Why do y'all be in such a rush to be

1653
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 1: so serious with people? Sometimes sometimes shit is meant to

1654
01:19:52,439 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 1: be exactly what it is right in that moment, and yeah,

1655
01:19:56,800 --> 01:20:00,080
Speaker 1: you gotta close that chapter and move on, Yes, and

1656
01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 1: just go date somebody else. And like I always say,

1657
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 1: y'all be so scared to leave niggas alone. I don't

1658
01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:08,840
Speaker 1: understand that, nigga, because I would leave a nigga alone

1659
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,000
Speaker 1: in a heartbeat, because if a nigga really want me,

1660
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 1: he gonna apply pressure to get me. Bag right, I agree,

1661
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: if a nigga really want like if you leave, if

1662
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:18,800
Speaker 1: you're not happy in a situation and you leave a

1663
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:22,439
Speaker 1: dude alone and he wants you back, he's gonna apply

1664
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 1: pressure to get you. And my favorite thing to do

1665
01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:25,599
Speaker 1: is to turn the tables.

1666
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 2: So if a nigga doing something that I don't like her,

1667
01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:29,679
Speaker 2: he trying to cut me off or whatever, he thinks

1668
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 2: he doing Okay, you're not talking to me, bitch, I'm not.

1669
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm not talking to you.

1670
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:36,559
Speaker 2: And once he figure out, oh shit, she not talking

1671
01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 2: to me. Niggas love to chase yup.

1672
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:39,920
Speaker 1: They do.

1673
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:42,599
Speaker 2: Once you start ignoring a nigga and doing him bad,

1674
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,520
Speaker 2: they gonna be fucking crawling.

1675
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:48,000
Speaker 1: At your fucking no matter how long y'all been talking exactly.

1676
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:50,600
Speaker 2: So just ignore that nigga. Girl, He'll come back, you

1677
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So, yes, that was the last question,

1678
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:55,560
Speaker 2: I think so.

1679
01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 1: I think that was the fourth question. Girl. I don't know. Wait,

1680
01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:00,920
Speaker 1: let me make sure. Hold on, are you deleted on?

1681
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 1: It's okay, I don't know you did no one m

1682
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,639
Speaker 1: I think that was for are you sure? I don't

1683
01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 1: fuck it? He's like, yeah, cut that off. Okay. So

1684
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:18,360
Speaker 1: thank y'all so much for tuning what you're singing? Oh

1685
01:21:18,800 --> 01:21:22,760
Speaker 1: I forgot see how she do y'all? See how y'all

1686
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:27,080
Speaker 1: Dred doesn't want me to sing this? What? What song?

1687
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:29,080
Speaker 2: You know what I told you Ill was singing because

1688
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 2: I've been singing this song all fucking I don't think

1689
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 2: my phone is working for some reason, I don't have

1690
01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:34,720
Speaker 2: service in here.

1691
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 1: Mean is it like, oh here a girl here, girl here,

1692
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:42,599
Speaker 1: can start playing the the instrument. I don't know why,

1693
01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:44,720
Speaker 1: my my dumb it's about to say the musical. So

1694
01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: the reason that I want to sing this song is

1695
01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 1: because a lot of y'all be in the comments being

1696
01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 1: mean to us, trolling us, bullying us. And I just

1697
01:21:57,080 --> 01:22:01,040
Speaker 1: need y'all to understand that me and right we gotta

1698
01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 1: hold hands. We're just all and every people. That's how

1699
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 1: he's saying. You gotta say at the Yeah, we.

1700
01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:14,519
Speaker 3: Don't know which way to go well because we're all

1701
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 3: and every people. Yeah, maybe we should take it slow.

1702
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 1: Jake it slow. Oh listen, take it's slow. Yeah, take

1703
01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 1: allrow what's the part?

1704
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 3: Maybe we'll live Lona, maybe we'll crush and murna, maybe

1705
01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:42,559
Speaker 3: we'll grow.

1706
01:22:42,800 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: We'll never know, baby, And I I sucked myself. Why

1707
01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:55,160
Speaker 1: did y'all let you do that? That? Did you notice

1708
01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:57,479
Speaker 1: that he does that? He has a yeah at the

1709
01:22:57,560 --> 01:23:00,760
Speaker 1: end of everything. Yeah, you.

1710
01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:06,120
Speaker 2: Just want me to do the Trace songs again, and

1711
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:10,719
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it. I'm not doing the Trace songs again.

1712
01:23:11,160 --> 01:23:16,720
Speaker 1: Fine, we're just every people. How you gonna indy like

1713
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 1: they gotta go out with a band. I'm trying to

1714
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 1: if you would shut the hell up. I really thought

1715
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 1: you was done because we started talking and you started singing,

1716
01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:31,280
Speaker 1: it's slow here, o hoeah. This time will tell you, yeah,

1717
01:23:32,280 --> 01:23:39,240
Speaker 1: it's slow here. That was fucking terrible what he does, terrible, Indie,

1718
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 1: that's what he does. Thank you opportuning there. We'll see

1719
01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 1: y'all next week. Bye y'all, Bye,