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Speaker 1: Give me all your inheritance because I'm your daughter. I

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Speaker 1: said no, because I know exactly.

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Speaker 2: What you're gonna spend it on.

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Speaker 1: Fendy Makeup, gonna blow it all Kylie Cosmetics twenty onlyfan subscriptions.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's hashtag worth it.

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Speaker 1: It's worth it, am I right? Do you want to

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Speaker 1: see those bear cheeks? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Hey, you gotta pay up the dough, that's right. Maybe

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Speaker 1: she wants an indoor slipping slide. Ooh sounds fun of me?

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Speaker 1: Sounds fun. Ten thousand dollars Light work, Light it on fire. Baby,

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Speaker 1: My now deceased ex wife and I have five kids together,

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Speaker 1: twenty one female, twenty four female, twenty eight male, thirty male,

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Speaker 1: and thirty five male. A few years ago, their mother

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Speaker 1: passed away and left them each with a very large inheritance,

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Speaker 1: over three hundred thousand dollars each evenly distributed among them.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 1: Prior to her passing, she made it clear to them

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Speaker 1: that this money was not to be wasted. It was

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Speaker 2: What about Funko pops though? Yeah? What about a Bugatti. Ooh,

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Speaker 2: that's nice. Like, what color is your Bugatti? Ooh, oh,

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Speaker 2: don't have one? Oh, poor horror.

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Speaker 1: Two of my kids, twenty four female and twenty eight male,

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Speaker 1: have completely squandered this money in just a couple of years.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Three hundred k three hundred grain in a couple

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Speaker 2: of years. Oh wow, how how even, dude? A lot

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Speaker 2: of Bugattis is true? Only two?

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Speaker 1: Actually, probably my daughter spent it all traveling across the

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Speaker 1: I completely understand going on a vacation. Who doesn't want

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Speaker 1: on travel against her mother's wishes its bloody shameful. Is

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Speaker 1: even worse, he has spent literally all of it on drugs, alcohol,

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Speaker 1: and escorts over this time. I can't believe his dad

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Speaker 1: hey dad, this is it's an escort. This is crystal.

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Speaker 1: None of it. None was going towards self improvement as

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'd say that maybe some of those escorts improved something.

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Speaker 2: Come on, now you know something's going up. Yeah, something's

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Speaker 1: So I continued to hound them over this time and

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Speaker 1: time again, until, as I expected, it was all bloody wasted.

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Speaker 1: Once has happened, I decided to cut them both out

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Speaker 1: of my will, as I don't want my hard earned

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Speaker 1: hedonistic list for a few years. I told this to

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Speaker 1: I died yesterday, one of them not sure who let

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Speaker 1: a dad, et cetera. God, I don't want to go

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Speaker 1: into the long bitter feud of my kids, but damn

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Speaker 1: if I'm going to have my life savings wasted by them. Also,

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Speaker 1: any advice on how to fix this, you know, I

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Speaker 1: and they say, give you give your son the number

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Speaker 1: You should do control, not not like shut down. Yeah

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Speaker 1: Also like why would the two golden children spill the beans?

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Speaker 2: That's true, I'll come on, not so golden, maybe not

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Speaker 2: so golden, not so golden. I can tell you that much.

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Speaker 1: So I took the advice of the previous thread, which

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Speaker 1: very apologetic. Well, my daughter was clearly still upset with me.

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Speaker 1: I told them that I would reinstate their inheritance, but

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Speaker 1: it seemed genuine. He also offered to go to therapy

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Speaker 2: Knows what I need exactly.

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Speaker 1: However, my daughter did not take it well, Oh, dear Christ,

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Speaker 1: far worse than I expected. Here, I am willing to

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Speaker 1: that they don't get the money. Outright. I explained that

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Speaker 1: hence why I would leave it to them outright. Nope,

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Speaker 2: There we go, baby, the double down.

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Speaker 1: She had the gall to call me extremely upsetting names

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you won't give me three hundred thousand dollars. Why

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Speaker 1: You're giving me so many intrusive thoughts that you would

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Speaker 2: You're gaslighting me. Dad, you're gaslighting me. You're gatekeeping your

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Speaker 1: So? I told my daughter that as I'm retiring soon,

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Speaker 1: I should spend her inheritance that I've worked for my

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Speaker 2: Do it? Bro? Why not?

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Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. Come on, she seems like a brat.

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Speaker 1: She seems What would you do if you had you

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Speaker 1: had five children that like literally just squandered away all

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Speaker 1: I would do the trust, but I would I would

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Speaker 1: I'm Samuel.

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Speaker 1: And none of oh yeah, oh yeah, and John, I

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Speaker 2: Let's see where this goes.

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Speaker 1: My brother male thirty and me thirty eight. Male grew

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Speaker 1: I noticed he went to many gay support sites, so

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Speaker 1: Years passed and he didn't come out, even after losing

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Speaker 1: All the families feel united.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to this week. Julie calls us sobbing and

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