WEBVTT - Everybody's Tired 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:44.159 He laugh. If you watch Coffee Time the baby you 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:46.519 know the name Flame, my role also known as my 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.159 role Flame. Come in with last and come in with 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:51.640 don love Lunds. Baby, you better catch it when you 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:55.200 can't drop a knowledge from Fatherhood of politics shouting now 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.440 comics just paying homics. What's up? Tip? Yeah? You know 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:01.520 she raped shot towns on speaking to the grown a second. 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:04.200 We're gonna last cut of the kicking and at the 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:06.400 end we leave it, which is a lift dispirit, like 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.600 you want to revisit, so your first like a listen, 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:11.000 young folks, like it's lit all folks that we take it. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:15.960 Do what you do, no less, do what you do, 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:40.959 no less, do what I do? Good Hello, Hello, Hello, 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.840 welcome to laugh and Learn. I'm your hosts Flaming Row 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:47.520 along with my beautiful co host Lauren Hogan. Hello Laurence. 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.760 Hey flame, how are you welcome to laugh and learned? 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:55.320 Let's party, Let's party, Let's party. Girl. You know I 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:59.640 had a baby over the weekend? Oh did you? Uh? You? 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:02.440 But one point seven pounds. His name is Dexter. I 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:04.560 keep going to call his dog Denver and I'm not 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:07.040 even on one of my loveliest How are you, Lauren, 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:11.280 I'm good. I'm good. Um, I know that you did 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:14.600 some traveling this past week. How was that? I went 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.320 to the A t L two for the Mr and 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.959 Mr Mr and Mrs Black Universe Passion. It was the 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:22.000 thirtieth year anniversary. I had a great time. You know 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:25.320 who came to the pageant? I think our executive producer 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.760 came to the Passian didn't with me as a guest. 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:29.840 She's on the filming the movie, Tiffany Hattes, and so 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:32.120 she wanted to hang out stay. So she said, what 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.720 you're doing, So I'm going to the Padget and Sunday 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:35.320 come going to the Padget with me. So she came. 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:38.000 She brought her security guard, Danny, who was very pleasant. 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:40.520 I love Danny, and she had the best time. She 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:43.120 wants to put that damn thing on film. But Mornique 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:45.640 was also there with Cherry to Boom. I didn't see Monique. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:47.480 I saw Cheery, but I didn't see Monie. I think 0:02:47.480 --> 0:02:50.240 she would shit way in the back. And uh yeah, 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:53.040 I had a great time. Tiffany had a wonderful experience. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.960 Uh it was it took it took me back to 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:58.080 yesteryear when I used to do pageant, So I won't 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:00.000 do that no more. But I had a great time, 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:03.440 uh home, and I'm ready to take laughing learning. And 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:06.200 you've been home, and yeah, oh, because you had just 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:09.839 left Atlanta. I realized, Well, first of all, I left 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:12.720 Atlanta because I went from homecoming, came back had the flu. 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:14.519 So I'm just getting over the flu. And I still 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:18.040 sound a little crazy. I was spreeing, I was spreading 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.000 my life, thought I was. I caught the flu. And 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:23.399 then because last Wednesday I even did a day trip 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.840 to San Francisco for work and I should have kept 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:27.960 my but um home. But I did the math. I 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:33.120 realized I had seven flights in fourteen days. Oh seven fourteen. 0:03:33.160 --> 0:03:35.280 That's my lotter, you know, and that's my birthday. Oh well, 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:37.600 we go back, and you sound so much better, look 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:40.480 so much better. As it is done, let's get into 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:42.760 a low and Hogan, Oh before we get into it. 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.040 If you guys are listening to us to that today, 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:48.760 please listen to the latest episode of Horrible Decisions with 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.680 Wheezy W t F and Mandy B. I was a 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:54.080 special guest on the show and it aired yesterday at 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:57.280 Oh we raised it up just a little Tan a 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:00.120 little tank. I love that. I know they all will 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:05.000 start talking about horrible decisions. Right we were talking about sex, baby, 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:09.640 mama's baby, daddy's swallowing, catching and throwing it out, all 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:14.200 of that. So you have to listen to the conversation. Well, 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:16.120 I had to let the lady so I don't swallow. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:18.680 That's babysitting. I don't babysit. I don't watch Hildre I 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:22.320 don't I got my own keys. I don't babysit. If 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:24.039 y'all want to know the explanation and go listen to 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.599 the go listen to the YouTube, Go to my Heart 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.720 under the Black Pact Network, or wherever you listen to 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.640 your podcast at what we're going along with Hogan because 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:34.279 in the news this week has been just just you 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:36.359 know what bothers me the most. I'm just gonna hit 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:37.680 because it's going to be the first thing I want 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:40.800 to talk about. Everybody who knows looting, all my framemts 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.640 and all the listeners know that I loved me some 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:45.760 Nancy Pelosi. Y'all know I loved me some Nancy Pelosi, 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:48.080 and I thought it was so sad saying and so 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:51.840 tragic that her personal residence was invading. I'm telling you 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:53.920 you please spare attention to the timing of the things 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:56.640 that happened. This lady is second in command to run 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:59.360 this country behind Comla Harris, who is the vice president, 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:04.200 and and somebody got to her personal residence. That it's 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:09.320 very scary. And thank god that Paul, who's eighty two 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:12.360 years old, were praying for him too. Was was agile 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:15.440 and was able to fight off this terrorists that broke 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:18.280 in her home with a conspiracy theory because and now 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:19.960 that you're not gonna try to push and say, oh, 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:22.880 he was mentally unbalanced. Someone's wrong with him. He asked 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:25.560 were as Nancy three or four times on different occasions. 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:27.599 There was nothing wrong with him. He knew exactly what 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:29.920 he had to do. He was trying to kill Paul Felosi, 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:31.840 but Paul was strong enough to fight him off. So 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:33.680 pressed to Paul, and he beat that man and all 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:37.080 that he able to hammer, uh, fractured his skull and everything. 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:42.679 It's just it's and now the Republicans are saying that, um, 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:46.760 it was whatever, the conspiracy, it's a conspiracy theory, whatever, 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.640 and it came up with some outlandish bs and it's 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.440 ridiculous when we are living in a crazy time, which 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:53.960 is why we need to get I s is to 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:56.280 the pole or mail in your mail in balance so 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:58.960 y'all can vote. I thought it was saying, lord, I'm sorry, 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:01.400 but it was about Nancy. Those girl was ready going 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.560 to in fight the man. No. I mean, in general, 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:06.480 it's just unacceptable that that happened. But I think that 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:09.640 because Trump became president, he really just opened up a 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:13.400 can of worms of violence that you know, a lot 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:17.359 of these crazy you know, white folks feel emboldened to 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:21.279 do these things. And I'm glad that Paul Pelosi is okay, 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:24.240 But I can't imagine you being attacked in your home, Like, 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:27.400 how would you ever ever feel safe there? Again, that 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:30.760 somebody broke into your residence and he's in his eighties, Like, 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:34.120 he's not, you know, young, So for you to attack 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:37.320 this old man based on whatever conspiracy theories you have 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:41.839 concoct in your head about the Democrats, it's crazy. And 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:43.840 he was really looking for Nancy, he was really trying 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:48.080 to harm her. Yeah, So whist was out on Nancy 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.880 since January six. Nagent's gonna hear as that woman, Nancy 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:52.640 is a woman of a certain age. She's not even 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.840 a young woman, y'all doing all this and making all 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:57.719 this ub just for power. But these Republicans are playing 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:00.200 chess and that checkers, and I wish the Democrats get 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:04.400 on board. Well I saw too that apparently since Trump, 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:07.360 she's received like the most death threats and threats of 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:11.840 violence against her than any other political UM figure in 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:16.080 d C. She's gotten the most of everything um and 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:20.280 partly it's because of you know, Trump and what they've 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:23.120 said about her and everything else. So it's just it's 0:07:23.120 --> 0:07:26.640 it's crazy that the level of promoting violence like this 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:28.800 is supposed to be the political space, but everything is 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:32.160 just turning into violence. Case in point in January six, 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:36.480 it's it's it's ridiculous, and I'm like, my heart just 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:38.240 goes out to Paul Pelosi, the fact that he got 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:39.920 hit in the head with a hammer and has a 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:44.040 fractured skull behind some lunatic. I also want to say, 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.920 where's where the hell was their security? But anyway, well, 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:50.080 hopefully after this incident, thank god nobody was killed, and 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:52.840 even though Paul has been in critical condition and I 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:55.600 see you for a couple of days, uh, hopefully it 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.000 will beef up the security around that speak of the house. 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:04.360 So security should people all the time, but unfortunately, see 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:06.800 it doesn't. I don't think she gets security like that. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:08.160 I think she has to come out of her own 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.600 pocket to pay for security. It's not like the president 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:13.520 of the vice president where taxpayer dollars pay for secret service. 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:16.240 I could be wrong, but I don't think that she 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:21.240 gets that. So our president's nephew, so I mean governor's nephew, 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:22.720 So I think he would chip in and make sure 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.320 that she's safe because we got the best governor and 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:29.120 state in the country. He is the auntie. That's his auntie. 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:35.040 Yes in need. Yeah, it's tragic lowing. And I'm telling 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:36.960 you all these because of a dog was because of 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.319 this spootionce that Trump did. And now you see on 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.680 the news today it comes out to say that the 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:44.200 person who was helping to push the conspiracy theory on 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:50.160 the Supreme Court was Clarence Thomas. Yo. I'm sick of him, 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:51.800 I really am. I'm sick of him. I'm sick of 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:56.199 his wife. Um, I can't say that. I can't say 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:58.320 what I'm thinking because I can't wish to uh, you know, 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:01.840 bad on people, but uh Clarence Thomas is probably the 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.720 most problematic black person, or one of the most problematic 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:09.960 black persons that we've seen in a long time. And 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:11.959 I know he's trying to you know, he's against it 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.240 from the action. He tried to say that his wife 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:18.000 wasn't involved in the whole election fraudence, the election steal 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:20.880 that Trump tries to promote, and she was. He initially 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:24.240 tried to block Lindsay Graham for from testifying, but you know, 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:25.880 I got a tap on his shoulder and now all 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:28.160 of a sudden he said he wasn't involved. I can't 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:31.240 stand Clarence Thomas. I really can't. He also said that 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:34.240 him and his wife never discussed politics. They left those 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:36.439 in the in the ballrooms. They never brought it to 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.680 the being room. He would know what he brought to 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:40.000 the being room, because I don't think he's been in 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.440 the being room with him. I e a black woman 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:44.480 blue the whistle, one of many, many many years ago. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:47.480 What was her name, lorn Anita Hill, and we didn't 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.040 believe her. They wanted to say that she was this 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:52.920 and she was there. Believe They tried to create this 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.560 at every level, and the trooper always comes out I 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:59.080 don't even understand why he's still sitting on the Supreme Court. 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:02.680 Shoot well, I mean a similar situation happened with get 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.600 Brett Kavanaugh, and that woman who came out against him 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:08.520 was white, and that still didn't do anything. So we 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:14.600 see what happens in this country. Two women exactly. It's ridiculous. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.600 And I guess color don't make a difference because we 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.200 are doomed, and we are doomed, and we are doomed. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:22.000 And hear me when I tell y'all, if the Republicans win, 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.960 they're going to be more embolding to be more nasty 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:27.280 than they have been. If they lose, we go on 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.800 the war. So all you were here times somebody got labels. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.880 I got rear bottom, I got Gucci. They bulls go 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.920 through those. I just purchased my firearms. So I feel 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:39.240 much better now. It's times that we're living in. On 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:43.920 all honesty, it's crazy. And I was in Atlanta and 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:46.360 we were in Georgia side we had they had a 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:48.840 branch and I was talking to so many of the 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:53.599 younger demographic. They were all gay, but they were younger demographic. Um, 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:55.680 and I'm like, okay, y'all came to the pasget. We 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.040 had a great time, y'all. You know, did you get 0:10:58.040 --> 0:10:59.920 your vote in? Did you cast your vote? Did you 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.440 I don't even know if I'm gonna vote. I don't 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.360 think it's gonna make no difference. When I heard it, 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:09.000 I was so heartbroken, and I got I got angry 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.000 about it, but not in a way too. I wanted 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:13.160 to push back. I just was like, you know how 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.680 important it really is for you guys to vote. You 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:17.480 went through all this and got a new outfit to 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:19.680 come to the pageant, You flew in from out of town, 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:23.040 you got a hotel room. The vote is free, especially 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:24.720 when you live here, because a lot of them lived there. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:25.880 But I was talking to the ones that from out 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.400 of town too, I said, the voting is free. The 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:33.000 difference will be freedom and the loss of democracy, because 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:36.160 we don't have that much democracy on our side already 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:38.160 in this country, and we if we lose a little 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.240 bit that we got, I don't even know what kind 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:43.520 of situation we gonna live. Me. These were between twenty 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.400 and thirty year olds. They were very uninterested in voting. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.800 They were very uninterested in voting. It was very disheartening 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:53.240 for me and to hear that's happening in Atlanta. You know, 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.760 last week we talked about the article that I read 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:58.280 about the student from more Our School of Medicine. Where 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:02.199 they're especially in Atlanta and Georgia in general, they are 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:06.280 really trying to suppress folks from voting. So and it's 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:09.400 it goes back to what I've said before. If your 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.240 vote wasn't so important, they wouldn't go through such links, 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:13.719 so that way you wouldn't vote. So to hear that 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:15.760 somebody saying that they don't want to vote because they 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:18.079 feel like it doesn't matter, I really want to smack 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.640 people like that because I'm just like, can you look 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:23.720 at history? Can you do some research, like can you 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.840 understand this concept of what not voting could potentially lead to? 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:29.320 Because you're all the same people that want to complain 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.440 when you get people elected that aren't going to actually 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.760 do for your community like you need them to. But 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:36.480 you the same person you don't want to vote, So 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:40.720 what you're complaining for. It's chucial times. Lauring Hogan. He's 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:45.680 your people, here's your young he's your young folks. He's 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.559 your young folks, Lauring Hogan. I don't know where we're going. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:50.679 But Joe Biden made the speech to day talking about 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:58.600 just the Yeah, and I loved that President Obama has 0:12:58.679 --> 0:13:01.600 jumped on the bandwagon, has finally hit the campaign trail 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:04.640 to really push push, push, push push. I only hope 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:08.719 and pray that it's not too late. I don't think 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:10.679 it is. I think that this is he's doing it 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.560 right on time. I'm gonna be honest, it's the last push. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.320 I think that he didn't earlier and it probably wouldn't 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:20.320 have had maybe less than that. But because we're literally 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:25.480 going some molection day and month, I think he shot. Yeah, 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:31.199 it is God Jesus. Well else are we going, Lauren 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:35.480 Hogan because you got to leave look you the top. 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:40.480 We gotta talk about Dwayne Way and what's happening with 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:43.480 him with his ex wife. Yeah. So the ex wife 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:46.080 apparently came out and see it that she didn't want 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.880 Zion to change. Zia is the way way transgender daughter, 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:53.400 that she didn't want the desire to change her name 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:57.120 AI and possibly her sex. I think because they were 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:00.640 talking about listening her as female and to until she 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.360 was eighteen, and possibly a sex change. You're not really 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:06.400 hate to talk about that subject. But I know that 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:10.240 that is Dwayne and that lady's child. But as they 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:15.959 transiender person that's well passed eighteen. In stages of life, 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:19.240 your mentality changes. So from eighteen to twenty four, I 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:21.680 might want this, but from twenty five to thirty one, 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:24.440 I might want something else. From thirty three or forty, 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:27.840 I might want something entirely different. The difference is if 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:30.160 I changed my man, I could change my mind back. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:34.320 If I changed my sex, I cannot. So I hope 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.360 that they take the time to actually let this child 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:42.080 live a little life, experience some things before making such 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:46.560 a drastic, irreversible situation, because it is really common to 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.800 light now that there are so many trans people who 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:55.360 want to a revert back that's male and female, and 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:58.760 science ain't caught up with that yet. Science ain't caught 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:02.840 up with that once it's gone. Yeah, from what I 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:05.400 read is that she wants to legally change her name. 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:07.920 I didn't read. I didn't see anything about the sex 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.440 change part. Well, that was the clickbait that they put 0:15:10.440 --> 0:15:12.880 on there because I listened to it that click. But 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:16.960 usually if the parents is giving that child that much 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:19.240 leeway and the child decides they want to do something 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:22.080 else because it seems to be popular, they just roll 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:23.800 with it. And I'm not saying that that is the 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:27.120 situation in this case. I'm saying usually because I can't 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.720 speak for nobody else's house, but that would be so 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:33.840 messed up because that child may like something else down 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:36.240 the lane, and if you take it away, you can't 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:39.080 put it back. No. I hear you, and I agree 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.240 with you. I think that I think we've do sentence before. 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:42.880 I think that it's a beautiful a way that you know, 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:46.400 Dwayne I supported his trials and has said that, you know, 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:48.840 this is how my child identifies, this is what she 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:51.120 wants to be called. So I'm gonna fully support her. 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:54.160 I think that's beautiful that he's done that. Um, and 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.880 this is laugh and learned. So let me take let 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:59.120 me put the laughing out in the words a little boushi, 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:02.240 don't cut us, dick off mine, don't credits dick off 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:10.000 my girl saying that that was my god. You know 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:13.720 that Boothy does it for me. I've read that. Um. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:17.680 You know, dwayne ex wife is basically trying to say that, 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:21.520 you know, the name changes for them to profit off 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.040 of money and deals with Disney and those sort of things. 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:25.600 We don't know if that's I don't know. I don't 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.240 know what the circumstances are. I just read what I 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:30.680 read online. But I think that is good that you're supporting, 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:33.520 you know, your child, and if I get what you're 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:35.760 saying in terms of not changing the name officially, wait 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.440 until she's eighteen. But um, I don't know. I think 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:44.240 it's kind of a catch twenty two situations. So yeah, 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.600 it is. And I'm telling you as a being a 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:50.600 transgender person for so many years, if I had a 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:55.240 kid that decided that they were transgender, what have you? Yes, 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:58.160 I have the experience, but when a kid gets a 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:00.400 certain age and they're grown, they make their own this scisions. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:02.080 But when I tell you, I would I would try 0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:05.360 to really put on paper the pros and the cons 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:07.679 of what it is and what it could be, because 0:17:07.720 --> 0:17:10.280 there's a lot of ifs, and there's a lot of 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.480 wise and there's a lot of this could happen and 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:14.680 that could happen. And I wouldn't push all the negative. 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:19.680 But you do know that that decision is forever forever. 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:22.160 And I think that it's kind of like they say, 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:24.560 a person who lost the limb if they used to 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:27.480 having that arm or that lag. They still have that 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:30.520 tingle or that itch cutting off that LIAMB. I don't 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:32.679 know if you're still gonna have that that feeling. I 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:36.280 talked to one of my transgender girlfriends in in Atlanta 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:39.120 just this weekend who just had who had an SRS 0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:41.960 maybe two years ago, and she says she still has 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.520 the urge to masturbate to like a man, but she 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.920 don't have the equipment, she said, but the urge sometimes 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:50.840 hits her every She says, every blue moon is sporadic, 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:54.199 but still no one day. What if it gets stronger 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:57.200 and stronger and it starts happened repeatedly every day. There's 0:17:57.240 --> 0:17:59.160 nothing you could do to get that feeling back because 0:17:59.200 --> 0:18:02.239 you didn't took the way. I was like, wow, And 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:04.520 I love the fact that she was honest enough to 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:07.480 admit that to me, like almost like she regretted the 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.600 decision that she made. Well, I wouldn't say regretted, but 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:14.199 she said that she still has that urge to to 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:17.159 you know, to stroke. And I was like, well, what 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:19.080 you do about it? She's like, I just try to 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:21.919 go sleep, she said. But the more it happens, the 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:26.520 longer it happens. Oh so like the first, she said, 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:28.440 it will just happened. Like she think about it for 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:30.840 a few minutes, she said, Now she found herself thinking 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:32.840 about it more and more. So, mind you, this girl 0:18:32.920 --> 0:18:36.320 is only forty six, forty seven years old, so what 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:38.080 if she needs to be a hundred, it'll be stronger 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.240 and stronger. That is my thing. I don't it's the 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:42.960 unknown for me. Well, I that's not something I desired, 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:46.159 but it would be the unknown for me because clearly 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:47.920 I'm not going to give up my orgasm. I could 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.199 be a miserable bitch walking around here, but if I 0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:51.680 need to pull it out, I can pull it out. 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:57.440 I'm just saying. And I think that that happens because 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:00.200 people don't be honest with each other. I don't. I've 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:02.399 never had a sex change. I couldn't tell how they feel, 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:04.760 what it feels like. But I think that people should 0:19:04.800 --> 0:19:08.080 be They that the Wayne Wade's family need to get 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:11.400 one girl who has had an SRS for ten fifteen 0:19:11.520 --> 0:19:15.720 years to just give all different fasies of what they 0:19:15.760 --> 0:19:19.399 that person has went through, good and bad, to that 0:19:19.480 --> 0:19:21.480 girl and give it to her in the wrong, give 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:24.639 it to her straight. Don't sugarcoat it, make it what 0:19:24.760 --> 0:19:26.800 it is, so that the least they have the option 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:30.680 of saying, you know what, maybe not or maybe you know, 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:32.960 but I don't know. People want to hit People don't 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:34.760 want to hear the truth. People want to hear the lines. 0:19:34.840 --> 0:19:36.679 They want to hear the fantasies. They want to hit 0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:39.760 us the bad stories. Want it's something bad. But if 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:41.320 it's something that they really want to do, they don't 0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:42.680 want to hear the bad part. They don't want to 0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:44.439 hear the dark side of it. And most things have 0:19:44.480 --> 0:19:47.560 a dark side. Well that's also if too, you know, 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:50.240 she wants to get you know, the sex change. You know, 0:19:50.359 --> 0:19:53.560 like you said, it was clickbait, so we story behind it. 0:19:53.680 --> 0:19:56.800 But um, I mean, I hope that she does wait 0:19:57.080 --> 0:19:59.879 if that's something that she wants to do, because you know, 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:03.320 your hormones are still developing, you're still growing, you're still changing, 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:05.560 your ideologies are going to be different from when you're 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:08.960 this age, you know, twenty years from now. So I 0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:12.199 hope that she does wait, um to do that, But 0:20:12.880 --> 0:20:14.920 I don't know how I feel about the mom basically 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:17.000 saying like, oh, you only want to do this for 0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:22.840 our child because it's a profiting thing because mom was 0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:25.760 headed but acting like she was homeless, and a whole 0:20:25.760 --> 0:20:28.280 lot was going on back and then so who knows. 0:20:28.320 --> 0:20:32.880 But in respect of the mom, again, she is the mom. 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:37.200 She is the actual mother. She is. That is true. 0:20:38.880 --> 0:20:40.520 But we also, like you said, we don't know the 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:47.680 home situation, so that that is a very touchy subject. 0:20:47.680 --> 0:20:51.080 And I hope that whoever, whatever decisions they make for anything, 0:20:51.520 --> 0:20:55.040 that that town has somebody, honestly besides just her parents 0:20:55.040 --> 0:20:58.960 that she could talk to of trans experience, and not 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:01.840 for the click bake or the likes or the fame 0:21:02.040 --> 0:21:05.080 or the money, but for the happiness of that person, 0:21:05.200 --> 0:21:09.520