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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one,

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Speaker 1: Behind a Thing with a member of the show Habby weekend. Everybody,

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Speaker 1: Abby is joining me this weekend for part one. What's

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Speaker 1: up Abby?

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Boy? Do we have some fun things to talk about?

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Speaker 1: Because the last time you were on Best Bits you

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Speaker 1: were a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: I was this time on Bets Best Bits, you are

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Speaker 2: a fiance. That is so crazy. I still am not

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Speaker 2: used to saying it, like I'll be like, this is

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend? Oh shoot, Waitance, does he like correct you?

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Speaker 1: Is he really good about saying it? Yeah? He is,

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Speaker 1: maybe well, but he's also been living with it for

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Speaker 1: a while, for however long he's planning to propose, He's

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Speaker 1: been like, in his head already identified with it. So

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Speaker 1: you got to take that same amount of time to

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Speaker 1: catch up till now.

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Speaker 2: It's just such like a fancy word. It's just I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 1: Beyonce. Beyonce, do you keep staring at your finger all

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Speaker 1: the time?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I cannot stop. It's so pretty especial because I

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Speaker 2: don't even like own a diamond, you know, yeah, my

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Speaker 2: first diamond. I don't really wear rings, so I just

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Speaker 2: looked down. I'm like, oh my gosh, you're beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we need I want to hear all about it.

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Speaker 1: First of all, did you have any input? What was

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Speaker 1: like the lead up to the engagement?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So for probably like two months ago, I would

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Speaker 2: say he was like, you want to go look at

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Speaker 2: rings because I have no idea like what you would want.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I mean neither. I've never looked. I've

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Speaker 2: never thought about it. I don't even know what the

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Speaker 2: cuts are, you know, like they're like emerald and pair

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Speaker 2: shaped and all that. I had no idea what that was.

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Speaker 2: So we went into look. I was very overwhelmed, you know,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my gosh, they're all pretty, Like,

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Speaker 2: how are you supposed to pick? I'll be happy with

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Speaker 2: any of these? And so I could never narrow it down.

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Speaker 2: And then we went another time, and then another time.

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Speaker 2: So we went three times to three different places, and

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Speaker 2: the last experience was like the best that I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, these are like super nice. I love them.

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Speaker 2: But I was down to three different rings. I knew

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Speaker 2: I wanted an oval shaped, okay, and then not just

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Speaker 2: like a plain band with diamonds around it that would

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Speaker 2: make it look kind of different, but I was down

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Speaker 2: to three choices, and then after that I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, you pick like I I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know, Sorry, give me overwhelmed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just very and I'm so indecisive, so

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Speaker 2: it's just, oh my gosh, all the options was stressing

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Speaker 2: me out. So and did he have any idea of

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Speaker 2: what he wanted to give you or was he just

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Speaker 2: kind of watching and seeing how you were taking everything in? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: He was kind of me like he I'd always be like,

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Speaker 2: do you like this, and He's like, oh yeah, kinda

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Speaker 2: oh no, And then I was like, oh wait, this

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Speaker 2: is like mine. You know, sometimes I get so caught

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Speaker 2: up in like what are other people's opinions, But I'm like,

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Speaker 2: at the end of the day, like I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: wearing this, so I guess I need to like do

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Speaker 2: it myself. I'm used to people helping me decide things.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, Abby, pick wich you like and

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Speaker 2: what like feels right? And it's funny because there was

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Speaker 2: it was just like all these different ovals just kind

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Speaker 2: of the same, just smaller sizes, and I didn't really

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Speaker 2: like that one. But he's like, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 2: if that's the one. I mean, I'd still be fine

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Speaker 2: with it, but you know, I'm glad he picked the

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Speaker 2: right one.

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Speaker 1: Well, and it's hard too, because it's one thing you

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Speaker 1: both obviously have your own taste, but then the ring

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Speaker 1: is supposed to be this identifier of your love, so

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Speaker 1: like he buys it with you in mind, and also

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Speaker 1: with what you like, because you went and looked at

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Speaker 1: rings for a reason to like have the preferences and stuff.

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Speaker 1: So you're kind of tying all things together to find

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Speaker 1: that one ring that adds it all.

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Speaker 2: Up and is like this is complete, yes, And I

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Speaker 2: remember it was just I was getting like hot in there.

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Speaker 2: They need just the pressure, it's so bright. And then

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Speaker 2: you have the salesperson like, so what do you think

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Speaker 2: do you like this one? I'm like, well, of course

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Speaker 2: I love it, but I don't know if I love

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Speaker 2: case and there's just like a whole nother section of

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Speaker 2: ones that you can pick, and I'm like, oh man,

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Speaker 2: how are you supposed to know? But luckily you narrowed

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Speaker 2: it down well and It.

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Speaker 1: Makes me think of that scene you've seen Sweet Home Alabama,

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Speaker 1: right that movie at the very beginning when she is

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Speaker 1: getting proposed to and he just takes her into a

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Speaker 1: ring shop at Tiffany's or somewhere in New York and

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Speaker 1: it just turns on the lights and he's like, pick one,

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Speaker 1: oh okay, and that's how he proposes. He proposes there,

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Speaker 1: like proposes to her, and then he's like, okay for

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Speaker 1: the ring, choose one.

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Speaker 2: Just pick one?

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Speaker 1: Is that great?

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Speaker 2: No price limit or any wild that is?

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Speaker 1: So how do you feel about the ring now?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 1: You say you picked the right one?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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Speaker 1: So you did good?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Love it?

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Speaker 2: Love it so much.

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Speaker 1: And it is the oval, and you've got other diamonds

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Speaker 2: So there's seven total, which seven is my looking number,

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Speaker 2: so that's kind of funny, but it's oval. And then

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Speaker 2: there's two round small round ones on each side of

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Speaker 2: the oval, and then an emerald shaped which is kind

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Speaker 2: of like on its side, and then it points it's

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Speaker 2: like pointed on each side, okay, which I didn't know. No,

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Speaker 2: that's Marquee. Sorry not, I said, Marquee is market the

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Speaker 2: actual diamond shape, So that's it's it's the one that's

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Speaker 2: an oval but it's pointed right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I said emerald like, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: Still, I think emerald cut is when they're a rectangle.

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Speaker 2: That's right. See, Oh my god, I knew I didn't

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Speaker 2: want that, so I I guess it just never. I

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Speaker 1: Okay, But you found the one you loved. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: Not really, No, I really didn't.

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Speaker 1: Obviously knew you guys were going to get engaged because

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Speaker 1: you were looking at rings. That was the hope, that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I thought it would be like next year.

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Speaker 1: You did not think it was going to happen this year.

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Speaker 2: No, huh, Because I guess I just didn't think he

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Speaker 2: would do it like during the holidays. I don't know

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Speaker 2: why I thought that. I guess I just thought he

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Speaker 2: was like super busy with things.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, he was super busy with things.

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Speaker 2: So one thing in particular, Yeah, and it was really

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Speaker 2: weird because some random times, like he'll just be like,

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Speaker 2: go to karaoke after, Like he just kind of like

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Speaker 2: like a week ago was in karaoke. So it kind

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so and it was random. When at what

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Speaker 2: So when we were walking along that sidewalk because I

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Speaker 2: We met on an app and I remember seeing him

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Speaker 2: moment when we walked by there, and so that's where

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Speaker 2: And then that's when like he was like, so this

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Speaker 3: My gosh, and it's happening yeah, and then they're going everywhere, yes,

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Speaker 3: and then like I don't like being like watched by

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Speaker 2: And so there was like a couple coming towards us,

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Speaker 2: and then a group of girls that were coming towards us,

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Speaker 2: and so he got down on one knee and then

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Speaker 2: they were behind him, and I was like, no, people

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Speaker 2: then he asked me, and then that couple was like

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, can we get your picture? So before

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Speaker 2: he even put the ring on my hand, they like

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Speaker 2: we just stood up real quick, and then I was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. And then he got

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Speaker 2: then they took that and it was really it was sweet,

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Speaker 2: but it was just a lot going on because yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I was shaking, like, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Did he give you his insight on why he chose

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Speaker 1: that spot, like his thought process behind anything. Yeah, Because

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Speaker 1: so I.

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Speaker 2: Told him he was like, you know, if I were

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Speaker 2: to propose to you, like what do you want? Like,

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Speaker 2: I don't need a whole elaborate thing. I was just

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Speaker 2: like at the beach and thoughtful. But I mean, it's

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Speaker 2: it's hard to get to the beach. We've already had

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Speaker 2: like our vacations. We're not going to be at the

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Speaker 2: beach probably till later next year. So I guess that

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Speaker 2: wasn't a thing. And so he was like thoughtful. He

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Speaker 2: remembers like when I told my mom that that, I

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Speaker 2: and so he thought, I guess that would be, you know,

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Speaker 2: something special to always remember walking by there in twelve South.

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Speaker 1: It's the moment, it's the place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was super simple, but yeah it was really cute.

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Speaker 2: He had like roses in his.

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Speaker 1: Car after so, and then you guys went out to dinner.

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, yeah, I'll trade my venmo. Yeah, that's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: The marketplace is a wild wild West.

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Speaker 2: It is something, but you can get some good stuff

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Speaker 1: I think of people who do really good on Facebook marketplace.

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Speaker 1: the nice stuff to da Wi or whatever. I also

435
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Speaker 1: think of them as the same people who are really

436
00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:46,000
Speaker 1: good thrifters in vintage stop people, because there's a talent

437
00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,439
Speaker 1: to finding things out of other people's stuff, and I

438
00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,520
Speaker 1: don't have that talent. You don't know, Like I can

439
00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,320
Speaker 1: find cool things that I like. I just don't think

440
00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,639
Speaker 1: there are things that other people like, you know what

441
00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,840
Speaker 1: I mean. I went to vintage shops and I like

442
00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:05,000
Speaker 1: things and I want them, but I don't have that

443
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,920
Speaker 1: eye that other people will be like, that's really cool

444
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:11,160
Speaker 1: you found up at a vintage place, or like somebody's garbage.

445
00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:12,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

446
00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,520
Speaker 1: Like I was watching this girl online the other day

447
00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:18,560
Speaker 1: and she was, Uh, she goes to get things off

448
00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,199
Speaker 1: of people's side of the road that they put out

449
00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,360
Speaker 1: in front of their house for free. Right, I've done

450
00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,240
Speaker 1: this before. I put I put sandbags out there one

451
00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,080
Speaker 1: time I had. I had to buy a whole bag

452
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Speaker 1: of sand to put in as like a heavyweight for

453
00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,720
Speaker 1: my microphone stands. Oh yeah yeah, but the only sand

454
00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:34,480
Speaker 1: that was available was a seven pound bag that I

455
00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,200
Speaker 1: didn't need that much sand, So I put it out

456
00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:38,600
Speaker 1: like in front of my house. And I was like,

457
00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,800
Speaker 1: if somebody needs to make like a play pit or something,

458
00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:43,360
Speaker 1: and maybe this is great for that. Somebody took it, Oh,

459
00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:45,280
Speaker 1: they have no idea what it kind.

460
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Speaker 2: Of ast for.

461
00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:48,560
Speaker 1: But this girl goes and takes things from like the

462
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Speaker 1: front of houses. That are out on the curb for

463
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Speaker 1: free and she flips them and turns them in.

464
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Speaker 2: They this really cool thing. Okay, that is cool and

465
00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,439
Speaker 2: that's a talent. Yeah, I want to be that person.

466
00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,280
Speaker 2: I am not that person. I got like this console table,

467
00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,639
Speaker 2: you know, like an entryway table made and it was

468
00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,680
Speaker 2: like homemade by this guy and he just like makes

469
00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,040
Speaker 2: thee sells them on there, and I was like, that's

470
00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:09,760
Speaker 2: pretty genius.

471
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:10,560
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

472
00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:12,280
Speaker 2: Because I was like, oh, it's awesome. It's homemade. Like

473
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:13,960
Speaker 2: I'll pay a little more. It was kind of expensive,

474
00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,720
Speaker 2: but I was like he made it himself, that's cool.

475
00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:17,760
Speaker 2: It was like it looked really good. He stained it,

476
00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:19,760
Speaker 2: and then I kept noticing that he kept adding more

477
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,480
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, that's what he does. He

478
00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:23,280
Speaker 2: sells that he's on it. He just keeps making them

479
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,720
Speaker 2: and selling them like he's probably making some good money.

480
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Speaker 1: I do know there's people who's sell things on Facebook

481
00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,960
Speaker 1: marketplace too that are like new. They aren't like it's

482
00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,920
Speaker 1: it's a marketplace beyond just other people's stuff.

483
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:34,760
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

484
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,360
Speaker 1: It's also people selling through a business.

485
00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,399
Speaker 2: Oh right, I've seen that too, Yeah, which must be

486
00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 2: like what that guy kind of is yeah, like instead

487
00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 2: of using an Etsy aura, because I think it costs

488
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Speaker 2: money to host an Etsy platform page.

489
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Speaker 1: It's like an e commerce page.

490
00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like cash only, so yeah, he's too face

491
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Speaker 2: with marketplace, you don't have to have that or pay

492
00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 2: I guess that overhead and no taxes, but I guess

493
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Speaker 2: the difference. I mean, you can ship, but I've never

494
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,160
Speaker 2: like bost something on Facebook marketplace to ship to me.

495
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,919
Speaker 2: I mean either because I always also just sell in

496
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 2: town because I don't want to pay whatever shipping costs

497
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:10,040
Speaker 2: there are.

498
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Speaker 1: I also am not good at that. If I take

499
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Speaker 1: something I don't I'm not a good judge of how

500
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,680
Speaker 1: much something's gonna cost a ship. There's been times where

501
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm good, I'll just keep it.

502
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 2: It's a lot more than you think it's gonna be too.

503
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 1: Always like a letter sometimes is six dollars or something.

504
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,679
Speaker 1: I know I'm would make that make sense to me,

505
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:29,720
Speaker 1: right if you put it in a little bit bigger

506
00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,119
Speaker 1: of a thing. It just keeps adding up money. For

507
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 1: what I know, all the things I'm not good at.

508
00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 1: What are you?

509
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 2: Let's begin, I'm just yourself our flaws.

510
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 1: Anyways, back to the engagement. So how are you feeling

511
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 1: like right now in this moment, how are you what's

512
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:47,359
Speaker 1: your thoughts?

513
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 2: A little Well, I'm just a little overwhelmed because for

514
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,680
Speaker 2: one thing, like at the Christmas party, we had everybody

515
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 2: I talked to, I'd say, I talk to like twenty people,

516
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 2: everybody that was there, and They're like, you have a

517
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 2: date set literally everybody, And I'm like, oh my gosh,

518
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: I no, I haven't even thought about it. I just

519
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 2: have I'm not one of those people. I feel like

520
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,919
Speaker 2: there's two types of people that you've been thinking about it,

521
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 2: like your whole life, since you were a kid. One

522
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:11,120
Speaker 2: of my roommates did that. She had like a binder

523
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:12,640
Speaker 2: in or.

524
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Speaker 1: Pinterest board more digital version.

525
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,359
Speaker 2: Uh huh. And I've never thought about it in my life.

526
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Speaker 2: I don't know why. I just I haven't. I was like,

527
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 2: I'll cross that bridge when I get there.

528
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 1: I'm just see, you have nothing that like has been

529
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,679
Speaker 1: on your heart to have do for your for a

530
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Speaker 1: wedding one day.

531
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Speaker 2: Ever, not really, I got I kind of thought, like

532
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Speaker 2: a beach wedding. I love the beach. You're a big

533
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 2: beach's just bury me on the beach. Why don't I

534
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Speaker 2: live on the beach.

535
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 1: I talk about it all the time, thinking about you're

536
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 1: literally in a landlocked stay.

537
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,160
Speaker 2: I know, I don't understand it, but it's fun to visit.

538
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,639
Speaker 2: So uh So I've thought about that, and it's just

539
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 2: like a lot of back and forth. I'm like, because

540
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 2: that'd be a smaller wedding, and then are people mad

541
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 2: that they didn't get invited because it's smaller. There's just

542
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:54,439
Speaker 2: so much to think.

543
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 1: About mm hmm. And it's overwhelming right now too, because

544
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: you're I think we need to give people at least

545
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 1: six months after getting engaged to just enjoy being engaged.

546
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I'm not in a rush.

547
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 1: And if they want to plan on a wedding immediately,

548
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 1: that's everybody's prerogative. And if they want to talk about that,

549
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,879
Speaker 1: that's everybody's prerogative. But why is it like we you know,

550
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: I even think inherently it's part of us where it's

551
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: like somebody gets engaged, like when's the wedding, or somebody

552
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,479
Speaker 1: is about to have a baby, or they just had

553
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 1: a when's the next one? Right, it's like always this

554
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 1: rush to the next thing.

555
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 2: I need to rush.

556
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: We don't you can enjoy the engagement for five years.

557
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: I have a friend who's been engaged I think two now,

558
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 1: and they are She's like, don't ask me about it.

559
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it. When we get married,

560
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: you'll know, like, and I love that. I love that

561
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 1: for them because it's them. So I don't think you

562
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 1: should feel any pressure to do anything at any point

563
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: in time, yeah, or have anything picked out. And if

564
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: you did, that's also cool. But you don't and that's fine.

565
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just how to make it past the holidays.

566
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 2: I think that's what it is. I'm like, I still

567
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 2: have presence to wrap and shop, me to do. I

568
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 2: have not thought at all about it.

569
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Speaker 1: But are you the pressure on now to get him

570
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,120
Speaker 1: a really cool Christmas gift? Because you got your ring?

571
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 2: I've went a little over word yeah. This Yeah just

572
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 2: says he's so easy to shop for, which is amazing

573
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 2: usually guys, because he doesn't buy anything for himself, you know.

574
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: He's just like always getting stuff for his kids or me.

575
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my gosh, that's great. I have

576
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 2: all these things. And I told him and he's like,

577
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, are you serious. I don't have anything

578
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 2: for you. I'm like, well, you're you're kind of good

579
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,400
Speaker 2: this year. I mean maybe something small, but I think

580
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 2: you're good. I feel like I have a lot of

581
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 2: catching up.

582
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 1: To do, and I listen, if you can engage around

583
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 1: the holidays, that's a gift, it is. Yeah, I'm sorry,

584
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 1: have you guys seen the what you give me? Some

585
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: French fries from McDonald's. That's fine. I go with any

586
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: version of rings, like, any type of jewelry is expensive.

587
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 1: It is, and I cannot imagine a real diamond engagement ring,

588
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's the gift it is.

589
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I'm good. I don't know, I don't

590
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 2: need anything, so yeah, but it was. I do feel

591
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 2: like I'm like, I just keep getting stuff because it's justified.

592
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 1: You're like, I can do it this year. Yeah, but

593
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 1: then you're gonna be helped out for more. Seriously, I

594
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 1: was like, do not don't like? But his birthday is

595
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: also like two weeks after Christmas. Okay, so do you

596
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: have him split?

597
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm yeah, I'm right now I'm deciding what should go

598
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 2: for what? Okay, I want whatever he can use the

599
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 2: longest it would make more sense, like around Christmas, I'll,

600
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 2: you know, put that for Christmas. So that's what I'm deciding.

601
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Speaker 1: So basically, this is your favorite thing ever because you

602
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: love shopping.

603
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, but I've done all my shopping

604
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 2: this year online. I took advantage of like Black Friday

605
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:34,479
Speaker 2: and Cyber Monday.

606
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Speaker 1: So I'm proud of you.

607
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 2: I am too.

608
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: He's changed to you.

609
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

610
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 1: And when it comes to like finances and stuff, because

611
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: you used to be a shopping in person all the time.

612
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 1: You would just go on a random Tuesday.

613
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 2: And go to the mall, yes, and just wander, and

614
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: that does nothing. This year, I tried to be more intentional,

615
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 2: to be like, Okay, this is what I want to get,

616
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna look for it.

617
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 1: You are your fiance is a financial advisor, and it shows. Yeah.

618
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 2: It's funny because we went Target to shop for what

619
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 2: he wanted and I'm like, you're not gonna have any

620
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 2: you can't just wander, and he got everything done in

621
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: that one trip because he sets his mind to something

622
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 2: and he's like, okay, I want this. He had like

623
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,959
Speaker 2: on his notes app he had for each kid, what

624
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 2: do you like? How many gifts? I'm just like, you're

625
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: so organized. I just go in. I'm like wandering like

626
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 2: a lost soul.

627
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: Like well, and sometimes it's hard if you have something

628
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 1: that's hard to shop for and you just don't even

629
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 1: know where to start. Wandering does help because you're looking

630
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: and seeing if you get any inspiration or ideas. Yes,

631
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 1: so there's that. But you wandered like every day.

632
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I'd see things for me and I

633
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 2: know what I want that.

634
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: And this is okay, I love this. And mentally, where's

635
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: your head at? How you feeling?

636
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 2: I'm good? Yeah, I mean I'm excited. It is really exciting.

637
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 2: Like a lot has changed in two years obviously, and

638
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 2: even since, like you and I used to talk. I

639
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 2: remember like two years ago, we're like when are we? Like,

640
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: what's happening?

641
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: It is wild. I would love to pull one day

642
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: our best bits from two years ago. Yeah, and just

643
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,479
Speaker 1: hear the conversations you and I were having, whether we

644
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: were going through breakups, whether we were you know, dating

645
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: and trying to figure it out. And there were a

646
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: lot of episodes for you and I where it was

647
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: just like this is never going to happen. You know.

648
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: We were trying to keep the hope and trying to

649
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: believe in it, but there just wasn't and now you

650
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 1: have a ring on your finger and you're engaged and

651
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: life is going crazy. Yeah, and does this change Christmas

652
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: plans this year now that you're engaged, where you're just

653
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,919
Speaker 1: like still still going free ball whatever.

654
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: So I know in the future, obviously things are going

655
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 2: to change because he will always need to be here

656
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 2: with his kids. It's every other year, but he has

657
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: them this year, and so his mom and brother coming

658
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 2: into town. And I'm still going home because this might

659
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 2: be the last year that I go home, like Christmas Day,

660
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 2: I don't know if we start our own traditions and everything.

661
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: So I was like, Okay, I'm really I'm going to

662
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,120
Speaker 2: go home this year. I'm going for like a week

663
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 2: or so, just because I love my family and it's

664
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: hard for my mom to kind of break tradition, you know,

665
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: like I need to try to persuade her to start

666
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: like coming here, like my mom and stepdad be like

667
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: come here for Christmas because she's always like, you need

668
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: to come here, you know, And I'm like, but that's

669
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 2: not really how it works. Like they're the kids now,

670
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 2: I'm not the kid anymore. Yeah, So they're the kids

671
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: and Santa comes for them. So we'll see. That's all

672
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: in the air. But he's been very like he's understanding

673
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 2: that I want to see my family and he'll have

674
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: fun with his family in here. I wish I could

675
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: be here, you know. I wish it was easier to travel,

676
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: Like if it was just like a three hour drive, Oh,

677
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 2: that'd be amazing. Yeah, it's hard to get home to Witchitah,

678
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 2: and the flights are getting worse.

679
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: It is. This is getting harder and harder, and the

680
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: road trip itself is every bit of eleven hours. Yeah,

681
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: so I get it. I could do.

682
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 2: I just get nervous of the weather that it's like,

683
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 2: what if it blizzarding? Yeah, halfway through and I'm stranded.

684
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess I have to plan for like, Okay,

685
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 1: I might leave this day, but I could leave that

686
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: day in case weather changes, or I might have to

687
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: leave early in case incoming weather. I've done that a

688
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 1: lot with having to road trip. Really Yeah, yeah, you

689
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: drive all the time.

690
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: I never drive. I drive once during COVID h I

691
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: always fly. But it's because of I have Rimy and Hazel,

692
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 2: and they come with me. I don't I don't not

693
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 2: want to have them for the holidays, So it's like

694
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: a necessity and.

695
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 1: We're like a little zoo traveling down the road. But

696
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: I get it, and it's hard. It's hard to balance

697
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 1: to families no matter what, and you know, bringing and

698
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: breaking different traditions to make new ones. It's tough. It's

699
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: not an easy thing to do.

700
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 2: It is, yeah, because my dad and stepmom live like

701
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 2: an hour and a half from Wichita, so it's also

702
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: finding the time to mate see them because they you know,

703
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 2: she has her kids and family too, so it's always

704
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 2: a lot the logistics. And then his family is all

705
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 2: over the place. And but I mean Nashville would definitely

706
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 2: be like the you know, the home base.

707
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it would always be easier to just have

708
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: everybody together, like anybody who wants to come mur during

709
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: Christmas right here, anybody's welcome, yeah, right, And that's the

710
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: cool idea. Yeah, we were dealing with it this year.

711
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm thankful his mom ended up coming down to spend

712
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: the week with us this previous week, so we've been

713
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: hanging out with her up until she's here, literally until

714
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: we drive to Kansas. So it worked out that way.

715
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: But I had so much concern because it was like

716
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: this side of me that, Okay, I want to be

717
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: with my family and we have all these different traditions

718
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: and we do these things, and like I'm trying to

719
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: let go of things while also still holding on to stuff,

720
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: and he wants to see and be with his family

721
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: and their traditions, and it was like just such a

722
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: balancing act of making both of us happy and trying

723
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: to make everybody else happy at the same time.

724
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. It's yeah, it's really hard.

725
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 1: And when you have kids a part of that make

726
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: sure as a whole different layer.

727
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 2: I know.

728
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I love this for you, and I'm excited

729
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,959
Speaker 1: for this season thing you so much love and whatever

730
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: comes and whatever you guys plan to do for your

731
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: wedding and all of that. I'm excited for you your

732
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: beach wedding, though.

733
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 2: I know. I think that's the hard thing is there's

734
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 2: just like on social media and everything, it's like people

735
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: are trying to have the biggest and best wedding and

736
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: try to I don't know, I'm like, what if you

737
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 2: want to be different.

738
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: You should be different. Yeah, I you know what's funny

739
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: is everything that I thought I wanted for a wedding

740
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: and all kinds of things like I had Pinterest boards

741
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: and stuff, but I look at my life now and

742
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: that is not the same person really who wanted those things.

743
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: Wow.

744
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want a small, intimate wedding on a mountain somewhere,

745
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: like genuinely, that's what I want.

746
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 2: That's so cute.

747
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't care about decorations. I don't want

748
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: to spend a bunch of money on things that I

749
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: don't need. I'm so like simplistic and I just want

750
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: it to be intimate and pretty and full of love

751
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: and maybe some Christmas lights because I love flights no

752
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: matter the time of year.

753
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I was like, this

754
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 2: is but there's just so much happening this time of year,

755
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 2: you know, It's like it's a lot, so it's hard

756
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: to know there's a lot of days in the year.

757
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: But this is to get there, We're gonna take more

758
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: more quick break and we will be right back with

759
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 1: a little bit more. Thank you for giving us the

760
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: entire breakdown engagement things. I needed it. I had so

761
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: many questions when you announced it, but I was like,

762
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: I'll just wait for best bits because I'm gonna get

763
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: the full breakdown.

764
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yeah, I was gonna text you and

765
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: Amy before we're the girls, you know, And I was like,

766
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: you know, I'm just gonna wait. Let's just wait and

767
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: just surprise them.

768
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: It was fun surprise and it's honestly, as soon as

769
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: Bobby said personal update, I was like, I think it's happy.

770
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: I just had a feeling you're plenty at that time

771
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: where I saw it coming. Yeah, you guys have been

772
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: so happy. Everything's been awesome. It was like not a

773
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: shock to me, but I was more like it was

774
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 1: cool to get to experience it with everybody.

775
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 2: It was really funny, like lunchbox because he had been

776
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: saying that for like a year, just as kind of

777
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: like a joke, like what I was engaged and it

778
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 2: was like no, no, And it was just funny because

779
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: he's like and he like got out, like you.

780
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: Would have thought that, like you you won the lottery

781
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: or something, how much he freaked out.

782
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 2: He like got up to look at my hand. I

783
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 2: guess I had it like under my jacket. Yep. It

784
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 2: was really that was hilarious.

785
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: You were hiding me. You were a good, good, inconspicuous spy.

786
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: All right, some random thoughts. I have become that person.

787
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: We thought I was a crazy Christmas elf before it

788
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 1: was my four Christmas trees apparently, but now I have

789
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: escalated my Christmas elfing what And I think you know

790
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: what it is because you saw the entire tire.

791
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: Okay. So I saw that a couple of days ago

792
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, that's not hers, like it's

793
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 2: it's that's so cute. And then you drove by the

794
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: and waved at me, and I was like, oh my gosh,

795
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: it's adorable. Yeah.

796
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: So I decorated the bronco on the tire, the spare

797
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: tire on the back of my bronco in a Christmas

798
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: wreath and then lights right, yeah, yeah, there's lights on

799
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,719
Speaker 1: it to you in a little big red bow in

800
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: the middle.

801
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: I love when people do that to their cars, do

802
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 2: you know. Okay, I've seen some that are like they

803
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 2: like wrapped their entire car.

804
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought about that the other day. I was like,

805
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: I feel like that I would damage the car. So

806
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to like damage my car, just trying

807
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: to bring a little joy.

808
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: No, it's so cute. I'm surprised you didn't do it before.

809
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: I know. I'm shocked too. I think i've had this

810
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: idea a few years, even when I had my jeep,

811
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: because they also have it, but I just I never

812
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: wanted to put in the work. But what actually spearheaded

813
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: it was I was in Michael's the other day getting

814
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: cooking supplies. Yeah, and they had fifty percent off all

815
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: Christmas stuff, and I saw all these garlands. That's it, Like, okay,

816
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: I'll do it this year. And it just turned into

817
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: a whole thing because I needed a whole lot more

818
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: garland than I really anticipated. Really, oh yeah, that's a

819
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: big tire. I bought like seven strands Okay, I probably

820
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: seven to nine foot garland, thinking that's plenty.

821
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

822
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: I started working on it and I had like three

823
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: little spots of garland. I was like, dang, I'm gonna

824
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: need a lot of feet of this garland. So I

825
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: had to go to two other michael stores to track

826
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: down some more because I bought it out from everywhere.

827
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: That's hilarious. It looks so good. Thank you. It's really cute.

828
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 2: It gets me in the festive mood when I see people.

829
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: Driving and I'm like, that makes me happy. That's all

830
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: I wanted was to just make people smile. And I

831
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: also made The joke is like, hopefully I can make

832
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 1: people smile if I cut them off on accidents. Yeah,

833
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: oh see, that would do that on purpose. But you know,

834
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: would that make you smile if you actually got it?

835
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 2: Would I wouldn't fliff you off. I'd be like, oh,

836
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: you're good, I'm just kidding.

837
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: I never do that.

838
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 2: I never do that, but sometimes I hunk and I'd

839
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: be like, oh you're.

840
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: Okay, your fine, Spiry, that's fine.

841
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: You're not a gran show.

842
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: I tried really hard not to cut people off, but

843
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:27,720
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not a perfect person.

844
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 2: In case it happens.

845
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 1: In case it happens, hopefully it makes me somebody smile. Yeah,

846
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: that's my running joke.

847
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 2: No, I love it. I want to do that. I

848
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 2: don't have a spare tire, but I should come up

849
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 2: with some creative way.

850
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 1: You could do the reindeer ears.

851
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 2: I was just going to say that I love when

852
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 2: people do that, like out their windows, the rain andlers.

853
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: That's what people were doing with the Broncos with the

854
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: retire and my dad even calming out my video identity,

855
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 1: He's like, where's the reindeer ears? I'm like, dude, and

856
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 1: apparently I need to I don't even know where you

857
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: find those. I'm either.

858
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: And then you can put like a red ball in

859
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: the front, like.

860
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Rudolph, like I had, then I would have ears

861
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: a nose in a bulling out tail.

862
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 2: That'd be really cute. And you put eye stickers on

863
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 2: the windsho We're taking so far.

864
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: And then I am that person right now, I'm just

865
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: like half that person. Yeah, but I am. I'm a

866
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 1: little Christmas elf. Thank I liking it?

867
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was really excited. I texted you right away.

868
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: I love that more than lunchbox. You saw me. I

869
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 1: was like, you're so weird.

870
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 2: What he's just jealousy?

871
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 1: Is he drove in behind me. He's like, that's weird, Morgan.

872
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, man, you know he loved it.

873
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 2: He secretly loved it. Deep down.

874
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: I secretly think so too. Okay. I also saw this

875
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: video on TikTok. Do you have a jacket, a winter

876
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: jacket that has fur on the hood where it's like

877
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: outside of the not like the whole thing. But you

878
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, The rim of your face

879
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: is fur?

880
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 2: I do.

881
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so this video that fur jacket. We've all been

882
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: wearing it wrong. But I mean, if you have a jacket, ladies, guys,

883
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 1: you might. I don't. I don't know if they make

884
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: these for men. If you have this jacket, you're supposed

885
00:35:58,680 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: to zip it all the way up, just like you

886
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: would to wear it out in the cold. And you

887
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: put that on your head, well, the fur flips inward.

888
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 2: Oh, so you're not supposed to see it.

889
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to see the fur. The fur is

890
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 1: supposed to align directly up with your face and blocks

891
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: the cold. Otherwise, if you leave it up your ears,

892
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: your neck, everything's exposed your face. So that's why those

893
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 1: jackets did nothing to anybody. I thought it was just

894
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 1: like stylish and cute to have like this fur. I mean,

895
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: it is stylish and cute, but the jacket's actually supposed

896
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: to be practical. And the jacket literally if you take

897
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: it and roll it upward underward to like go by

898
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 1: your face, you'll even see that we did this with

899
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 1: my my boyfriend's mom's jacket. You'll see that the coat

900
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 1: was specifically made to be exposed that way.

901
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you've got to be kidding. Yeah, it

902
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 2: makes sense.

903
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 1: But what oh, I need to do a video like

904
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: reenacting that and like and showing it because wild like

905
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 1: that has no idea. This is a thing.

906
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 2: Been doing it all wrong my entire life. Sorry, that

907
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 2: reminded me real quick of something I saw one and

908
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 2: it was like, people have been putting their front doors

909
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: on wrong. The window part is supposed to be down

910
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 2: below so that your pets can look out the window.

911
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's so dumb.

912
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: Actually, Like the joke is that we've been putting it

913
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: on wrong.

914
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: I think that was a joke. It was like probably,

915
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 2: but I kind of fell for it for one second

916
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: and I was like, no, but you could see, you

917
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: know how like some people's front doors have like a yep,

918
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: a vertical or the windows horizontal window. Well they flipped

919
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,959
Speaker 2: it upside down and then you can see their dogs

920
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:33,720
Speaker 2: looking out the window.

921
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: But that's so cute.

922
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 2: It's but the comments were funny because some people actually

923
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 2: did believe it, and then some people didn't. It's funny.

924
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, not a bad idea of your dog

925
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 2: wants to or.

926
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: Door makers out there to start making it so there

927
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 1: can be a window on the bottom.

928
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they can only look out if you have

929
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: like a glass or a screen door.

930
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: Yep. Exactly. Can you imagine I'll be so cute right,

931
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 1: like specifically dog doors, I would I'd buy one of those.

932
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: My my door has like quite a big window piece

933
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: on it, but I have a blind that comes down

934
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: in the house to like for protection, security whatever. And

935
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: Remmy's really good at like if there's a delivery driver

936
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: that shows up, she'll run to that door, put her

937
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: paws up. She's the perfect height. She puts her paws

938
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: and like hits the blind so it goes up and

939
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: then you just see her little nose in her eyes.

940
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: Looking at so she knows how to release that she

941
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 2: go up.

942
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:28,760
Speaker 1: She does. I don't think she does it on purpose,

943
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: but it just does. But she hits it every time.

944
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: She's a perfect height.

945
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 2: Hilarious.

946
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, So she has her window, yeah she does, and

947
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: you can't even see on like the back of my door.

948
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: There's only scratch marks from her like falling down from

949
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: like getting up on.

950
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 2: It, and her nose yet no marks. Yep.

951
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: That's like how it is in my car. I always

952
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 1: get so sad to clean my car because her little

953
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: nose prints are in the window where her car seat

954
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: is and she like sits there and it's just like

955
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,240
Speaker 1: stamped into the window.

956
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: That's so cute.

957
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I love it. Okay, And one

958
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: more thing I have for us. Okay, I'm curious if

959
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,280
Speaker 1: you've noticed this about how I talk, and I'm curious

960
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,839
Speaker 1: if you have it and when you talk. M My

961
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: sister's a speech language pathologist, so she loves to make

962
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 1: fun of me when I talk. And I cause I

963
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: say things wrong all the time obviously, and I do

964
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: things wrong a lot, but apparently I have crispy rs,

965
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: and so I think you do.

966
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even know what that means, but you do,

967
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 2: like the.

968
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: So sometimes not always because especially since she's pointed out

969
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: to me, I try really hard not to. But like

970
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: when I say Christmas, sometimes it'll be I don't actually

971
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: say it that way, but like I'll say Christmas and

972
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: sometimes if I'm talking really fast, it'll come out Christmas

973
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 1: like a yes, like I'm I'm not fully saying it.

974
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 1: It's called the crispy R.

975
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 2: I love that some of my friends have that, and

976
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's so cool. I don't have it. I

977
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 2: love it.

978
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: I've tried to train it out of my brain. I

979
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: just did it there and I didn't even mean too

980
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: with train and I like, if I talk too fast,

981
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: it just rolls off.

982
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 2: My my friend Casey does that. Really, she's done that

983
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: time i've known her. That was really funny. Yeah, but

984
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 2: I've always like that is so cool. I wish I

985
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 2: did that.

986
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: It might also be why I can do like that,

987
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 1: like I can roll really easy with things, because not

988
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 1: everybody can do that. I guess I didn't know that,

989
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: but I can't do the that's crazy.

990
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 2: Then it just goes into something.

991
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: Else, crazy Christmas cars. Sorry, yeah, I have Chrispy. You

992
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: got any weird? But I just a problem.

993
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't you have none. I don't

994
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 2: think so sometimes I don't enunciate things and they all

995
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 2: spill together.

996
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,479
Speaker 1: Okay, how do you say the word when like dudes

997
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: get snipped? How do you say that word? Yeah? Okay,

998
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 1: So I was watching Selling Sunset on Netflix and apparently

999
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: they went to go get look at getting vaseect mees

1000
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: or whatever. So they went to a doctor and the

1001
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: doctor pronounced it visect to me.

1002
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: Excuse me, the doctor? Did they go to this doctor

1003
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 2: to do it? Because that's kind of scary? He was right.

1004
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know if we've been saying

1005
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: vaseect to me wrong and it's visect to me, or

1006
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: they said, I don't know issect to me. But like

1007
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: I did the pronunciation on Google, which is like my

1008
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 1: best friend because I pronounce everything wrong, and she says

1009
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 1: vaseect to me. But this was a vsect to me. Doctor,

1010
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 1: and he said visect to me.

1011
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, I never heard it that way or

1012
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 2: something to that effect.

1013
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm also butchering how he pronounced it, but

1014
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: he didn't say it like he did not say vzect

1015
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: to me. Oh, like there was an I or an

1016
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: E or something else in there, and now I am

1017
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: questioning everything. The English language makes zero sense to me.

1018
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 2: Oh, I can't even imagine learning it as your like

1019
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 2: second language. I can't even imagine.

1020
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: No, I learned French and that was hard, but like

1021
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: if I had to learn English, nothing would make sense

1022
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: to me. At least there's like an art form to

1023
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: other languages. Yes, I'm pretty sure there was somebody who

1024
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: was putting together our language and just said.

1025
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that works right, use that word. It makes no sense,

1026
00:41:59,000 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 2: or like.

1027
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 1: When we spelled things. I'm a very phonetic person. If

1028
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 1: I see something, I'm going to say it exactly how

1029
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,240
Speaker 1: I see it. So if there's another pronunciation of something,

1030
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: then how it's spelled, I'm not gonna get it correct.

1031
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: And that happens a lot in my life. But it's

1032
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: so dumb to me. I'm just like, why can't you

1033
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: spell it in the way that it's supposed to be pronounced.

1034
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 2: I know, No, I feel bad for people trying to

1035
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 2: I do.

1036
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,919
Speaker 1: The English language is difficult for what reason? Tell me why?

1037
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm glad. I'm glad we know it

1038
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 2: because if I tried now, it wouldn't work.

1039
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: I know, I know. It baffles me every time, and

1040
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: every time I say something, I mispronounced something in a

1041
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: sentence somewhere. And it's just because I'm phonetically doing things correctly.

1042
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: Hooked on phonics. Man, I was good at that. I'm

1043
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 1: not good at it every day. But anyways, Yeah, I

1044
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: have crispy rs. You got nothing. I'm just a weirdo.

1045
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 2: I do that. I've noticed I probably do no.

1046
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: But you know, maybe that's that's the difference between your

1047
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: your private education and my public.

1048
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we really got in there with the pronunciation.

1049
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: I took a pronunciation course. No, I'm just gonna help.

1050
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: I was in there like typing fifty eight words per

1051
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,720
Speaker 1: minute or whatever, and you were in there being taught

1052
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: the actual English language. Yeah.

1053
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 2: No, I took Spanish for nine years and I still

1054
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 2: cannot speak like fluent Spanish.

1055
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: You can't. I mean I had, I nearly had a

1056
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: minor in French and college. And if you do not

1057
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: use it every single day or write it or whatever,

1058
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna lose it within days weeks. Yeah, you could

1059
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: learn as much as you want to do, and I

1060
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,240
Speaker 1: swear it goes away because you're it's like a memory

1061
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 1: thing in your brain. Yeah.

1062
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 2: I mean I could conjugate verbs till next year, but

1063
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 2: like I don't know vocabulary that much, so I'm like

1064
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:51,959
Speaker 2: I can't say much.

1065
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I could when we went to Paris last year.

1066
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: I could read signs and I knew certain words, and

1067
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: I could place things, and like I could be on

1068
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: the subway and be fine because I could understand basic things,

1069
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 1: but I would it was like I would get every

1070
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 1: other word people were talking about in French, so I

1071
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 1: would never understand context.

1072
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 2: It's just like words you're like, slow down, so I

1073
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,919
Speaker 2: need that too, like you really got to slow down

1074
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 2: so I can process.

1075
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: But once upon a time of girls Morgan whoa, oh

1076
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: my god, all of it. Yeah, and you're the same

1077
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: way with Spanish, I wish. I mean, nine years is

1078
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: a long time to study a language.

1079
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 2: But we would just keep going back to the same things,

1080
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 2: you know, It's like the colors, numbers, verbs, Yeah, like

1081
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 2: yo two wait is one yo yo is? I like

1082
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 2: yo a blow English to oh bliss.

1083
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: Oh you speak English? Do you speak English? Yeah? Like

1084
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: because it's the same in like French and Spanish have

1085
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: similarities like two tapel uh not see, I can't remember speak,

1086
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: but like tutepel is like what's your name? Kescase is

1087
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: like a what if? Like they had similar similarities in

1088
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: the two languages. But then it also hurt my brain

1089
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: when I looked at both languages because I was like,

1090
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: that feels the same.

1091
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. All I knew how to say was puoto ear albano,

1092
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 2: let's kind of go to the bathroom. That's how one

1093
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 2: day poeto ear albano, Poeto ear albano. Can I go

1094
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: to the bathroom? And you just said I did I

1095
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: do there? Pueto ear albano, poto ere.

1096
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: To do that. Why that's not a tum roller. Oh

1097
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 1: my gosh, you did. But I love that in my head.

1098
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 2: It's like a SMR or whatever. It's like, it's in my.

1099
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: I'm probably annoying a lot of people because I bet

1100
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: there's a whole lot of people that don't like that.

1101
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1102
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 2: Now they're going to notice it.

1103
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you called it out. If I do it fast,

1104
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 1: if I talk normally. And that's also the thing. My

1105
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: language just changes in general when I talk really fast,

1106
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: I might as well be an alien. So it's fine,

1107
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 1: we're gonna get out of here. Yeah. Well, we're gonna

1108
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: go answer some listener questions, but we're gonna get out

1109
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 1: of this one. So Merry Christmas, everybody, Merry Christmas. This

1110
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 1: is the last one for Christmas.

1111
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 2: Oh crazy, I know. Well, so sorry about my voice.

1112
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 2: It's little lunchboxy today. He was around, he gave us

1113
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: whatever he had. You sound great, though, you sound great, Okay, Yeah,

1114
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: you had a moment during twelve Days of Christmas and

1115
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 2: it's okay, good gosh, I'm so mad. And Eddie was

1116
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 2: so annoying. After you're the singer of our group. He's like,

1117
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 2: you're the singer. You're supposed to sound good. I'm like,

1118
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 2: I can't help it.

1119
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: See when you go up hi, yeah, well, and your

1120
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: voice might be trying to go out on you, and

1121
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: it always starts tying, starts to like come down low.

1122
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 2: So and if I was gonna go low, I would

1123
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 2: have really sounded like a man like you know how

1124
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 2: when you have something and you're with your.

1125
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: Voice low, I think you should have just done it

1126
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 1: to throw them all off and just gone really low

1127
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: on the.

1128
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 2: My true love gave to me. Oh my gosh, I'm

1129
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 2: just telling a guy.

1130
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: Okay, But there will be new best bits next weekend

1131
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: and the following weekend. They're already recorded and stuff for

1132
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: you guys. But this is the last one until Christmas. Wow.

1133
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 2: We will see you guys next year.

1134
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: I know, twenty twenty six.

1135
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1136
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: Bye everybody. Oh you're not gonna see me for twenty days. Yo,

1137
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: you'll see me soon. Unfortunately I'm still here alright, Bye everybody.

1138
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 2: Bye.

1139
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays. We can do a little. This

1140
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: is the thing that I do with Scuba coming up.

1141
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 4: Merry Christmas and Happy Holodays. Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas and

1142
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,760
Speaker 4: happy halday.

1143
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 1: You sounded great. The heck, that's all right. We just

1144
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: it's fine. We're gonna let that go in.

1145
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 2: Are we? It's on video. We're not gonna let it

1146
00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 2: go not in.

1147
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,959
Speaker 1: It's leaving it staying in twenty twenty five, Yeah, nothing

1148
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: in twenty Good my everybody.

1149
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 5: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

1150
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 5: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two

1151
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,240
Speaker 5: parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social

1152
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 5: platforms on Bob.

1153
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 1: Show and follow ed Webgirl

1154
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,280
Speaker 5: Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.