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<v Speaker 1>Native Lampod is a production of iHeartRadio in partnership with

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<v Speaker 1>Resent Choice Media.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome, Welcome home, everybody. This is Native Lamppod. I'm your host,

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<v Speaker 3>Angela Rye with our other host Andrew Gillim and Tiffany

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<v Speaker 3>Cross and Hey, so we have a little mess from

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<v Speaker 3>the d n C that we're going to talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>This is uh after dark. You know, no name.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say anybody's name.

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<v Speaker 3>More these clowns.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think we just start chronologically.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, now you have the floor.

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<v Speaker 2>I will tell it. So this wasn't any of us,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm just telling the story of must be told exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Was what happened was we were in line going through

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<v Speaker 1>security and this was somebody in front of us that

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<v Speaker 1>it had something in their bag. So I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to point out that in Illinois, marijuana is legal.

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<v Speaker 2>You can possess you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Not breaking the law, not a federal well, federally, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>marijuana is still listed as a Schedule one drug and

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<v Speaker 1>considered illegal, which puts a lot of local municipalities at

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<v Speaker 1>odds with the federal government. A lot of airports at odds.

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<v Speaker 1>So really that is just a policy that I think

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<v Speaker 1>needs to change, not even for people who use it,

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<v Speaker 1>but for people who.

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<v Speaker 2>Are impacted by it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's an unnecessary thing for people to have to go

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<v Speaker 1>through anyway. So I don't know the rules. Perhaps my lawyer,

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<v Speaker 1>who is present with me, can weigh in. If you

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<v Speaker 1>are on federal property, which I think the United Center

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<v Speaker 1>was where everything was happening at the d NC, does

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<v Speaker 1>it then become illegal. I don't know if the TSA

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<v Speaker 1>finds it in your bag on an air force, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that the airport is a TSA. They are

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<v Speaker 1>a federal organization, even though the state, you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're traveling to another state where it's legal front with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know all those rules. We weren't trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find out it. So somebody in front of us had

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<v Speaker 1>something in their bag and so normally they're not looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>We allegedly that's what they started yelling out right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but the magnetopaitis are looking for like magnet, looking

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<v Speaker 4>for material, magnetic petic material.

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<v Speaker 1>So when this person in front of us, when their

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<v Speaker 1>bag was flagged, one of the officers pulled out and

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<v Speaker 1>said what is this? And you could see that it

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<v Speaker 1>was a j in a little tube, A.

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<v Speaker 3>J for the people who don't don't know what that is.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a joint in a clear glass container.

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<v Speaker 4>To have something magnetic.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a pop on and you know when the

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<v Speaker 1>officer said what is this, I immediate we thought, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>bet that person one probably didn't know they had it

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<v Speaker 1>in their bag, and two probably didn't know that the

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<v Speaker 1>top was metal, because otherwise it would have gone through.

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<v Speaker 2>You could have thought that was it would have gone

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<v Speaker 2>through it no problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Any know why they had to be right in front

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<v Speaker 3>of us, But.

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<v Speaker 2>I was crazy so great.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt bad for them, but they had They were like,

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<v Speaker 4>look that is mine.

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<v Speaker 3>But we don't we don't, we don't, we don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>We wanted to make sure that we were clear that

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<v Speaker 3>it was not ours.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But but what I love is how everybody kept a

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<v Speaker 1>steady hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody was like right, oh my god, you know, everybody

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<v Speaker 2>was like we.

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<v Speaker 3>Were talking to them.

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<v Speaker 4>We felt like, you know, we were with them, so

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<v Speaker 4>we were like, that ain't his that I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>where that came from. I was like, I ain't see it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, and was like, look, it was the

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<v Speaker 4>exetllnal pocket. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so now let's move along. So here's the other

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<v Speaker 3>shortly thereafter. I just want to it was good, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>me too, Andrew. After that was chilling us because Tiff

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<v Speaker 3>saw Omerosa. Oh that was the only name. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean to say her name, Andrew. She yeah, he

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<v Speaker 3>does need to apologize because Tiff saw her, and then

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<v Speaker 3>we said some things because we didn't know why she

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<v Speaker 3>was there, Like you go to the rn c our show.

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<v Speaker 3>It's interesting, So Andrew apologize yet.

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<v Speaker 4>So let me give some perspective here. You know, we

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<v Speaker 4>were we were closing out the show on one of

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<v Speaker 4>these days, Tuesday, I think I think it was Monday.

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<v Speaker 4>That wasn't it was Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever you came over and said next to us.

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<v Speaker 4>She came over because there was another co host. It

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<v Speaker 4>was Tuesday. That was the only night that it was

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<v Speaker 4>just the three of them.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I came over at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what, because the over there, You're right Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, you're right.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, thank you again. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, sorry, did you say.

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<v Speaker 4>When you're dead? Wrong? So I agree. We all agree.

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<v Speaker 4>When you're dead wrong, you apologize.

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<v Speaker 3>So things.

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<v Speaker 4>We're asked by our host friend Angela to offer some

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<v Speaker 4>reflections about the day, and we're all high on that,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you know, as happened. Sometimes. I was speaking

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<v Speaker 4>and giving my reflections on the experience and I look

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<v Speaker 4>over and I see they're hitting each other like each

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<v Speaker 4>other should. Yeah, y'all were y'all were doing this tag

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<v Speaker 4>team and hit you too. And then you look at

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<v Speaker 4>the video, y'all because it's indisputable. And then what happens

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<v Speaker 4>is I say, what's going on now? Like name, such

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<v Speaker 4>person is taking pictures of us? Such person who works?

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<v Speaker 3>Who is that doing?

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<v Speaker 4>So I said, y'all, I'm you know, we're in our show.

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<v Speaker 4>So they're like, I'm sorry. They come back to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>A few moments later, not very many moments later, it's

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<v Speaker 4>again you see see you see you. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 4>is God?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, you know what we signed, y'all know.

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<v Speaker 4>The same person, except it's a new experience for you.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, we got to interrupt again the show

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<v Speaker 4>and so's not of her.

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<v Speaker 2>You were like, tell me, why would you think that

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<v Speaker 2>kept in your life?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I don't ever recall seeing you all pay attention

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<v Speaker 4>to anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody don't like it's tap dance in front of you

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<v Speaker 1>and taking pictures of you.

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<v Speaker 2>You may feel pictures about the whole time. No, but

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<v Speaker 2>why I trust them? I don't trust her. I agree,

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<v Speaker 2>she's still concerned.

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<v Speaker 3>She still love.

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<v Speaker 4>That the Feds look And this is without regard to whomever.

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<v Speaker 3>What about I got followed in the elevator.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get to that. Let's get to that. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about. So I got followed.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to do people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so number one, I think that we learned that

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<v Speaker 3>we feel real pedestrian, but we're not real pedestrian. And

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<v Speaker 3>Jay r J. Andrew's wife just told her, just like

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<v Speaker 3>y'all be moving like you not who you are. You

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<v Speaker 3>need to follow Sometimes that catches. Yeah, we definitely need

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<v Speaker 3>to all.

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<v Speaker 4>We need to go in groups, go in groups, always going.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I went on the elevator by myself, allegedly, but

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<v Speaker 3>I was on the phone talking to my manager and

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<v Speaker 3>another guy got on the elevator and he was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you've been calling me crazy DC for ten years And I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like, what who are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Who are you? And he said his name which shall

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<v Speaker 3>not be repeated. Actually don't remember his name again, said.

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<v Speaker 4>I got it, I got it.

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<v Speaker 3>She only got the first name.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I got both. I know what I know to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you searched it, Okay. So anyway that this man

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<v Speaker 3>works in a financial services company. He's a minister and

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<v Speaker 3>my friend's church, come to find out. But I haven't

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<v Speaker 3>been there and sometimes so I don't know him. And

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<v Speaker 3>it was just a whole mess. And he was you've

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<v Speaker 3>been calling me crazy, and DC call me to b

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<v Speaker 3>wergeing off the elevator.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's important to say, you know, because don't

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<v Speaker 1>let me just let me just say, as men on

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<v Speaker 1>an elevator with a man who was speaking to you aggressively,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't want to make light of this. A

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<v Speaker 1>man who was speaking to you aggressively. Angela had already

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<v Speaker 1>hit her floor because I was like, why would you

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<v Speaker 1>like get off on your floor?

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<v Speaker 2>She had already hit it. He came on after her,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's said.

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<v Speaker 3>He would have got off, I would have got back

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<v Speaker 3>on another O.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, but he's speaking to her aggressively, and then when

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<v Speaker 1>she's getting off the elevator, he says, bitch. Now, imagine

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman, it's one thirty in the morning. You

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<v Speaker 1>buy yourself on this elevator. It's not very populated in

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<v Speaker 1>the halls. Some crazy person's on here talking crazy to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you getting off the elevator you don't know they

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<v Speaker 1>about to get off with you, and they say, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a problem. So Angela tells us this story the

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<v Speaker 1>next day, and Andrew's like, who.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this dude? Like, we gonna google and were gonna

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<v Speaker 2>look him up to see who he is.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we were going to do something else, but we

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<v Speaker 4>but first we.

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<v Speaker 2>Had to know who he was and what he looked like.

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<v Speaker 3>We were just gonna report, and we weren't gonna do

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<v Speaker 3>anything threatning I was. I think, no, it just this

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<v Speaker 3>is a recording. We are not I'm not saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna cause physical violence, but I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to do more than.

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<v Speaker 2>Just report him.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he has been reported and hopefully his pastors talked

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<v Speaker 3>to him and he's figured it out. But we did

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<v Speaker 3>see him on the convention floor night.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked Angela, point him out when you see him

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<v Speaker 1>this is the night Yea, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think froggy froggy not high. We were on the moment

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<v Speaker 3>it was, but I think on that floor it was

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<v Speaker 3>packed and it was high tension because you couldn't move,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was stressful, and I was watching people.

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<v Speaker 1>And all these tying around you. Literally, somebody would be

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<v Speaker 1>like this on you, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Move. Charlamage and I were standing next to each other.

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<v Speaker 4>I look one way. Next thing I know, I look back.

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<v Speaker 4>He's platform. This dude had got up on a bitcher

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<v Speaker 4>or something.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, the thing is the guy was there and

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<v Speaker 3>he still had the crazy eyes. The funny thing is,

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<v Speaker 3>how are you going to confront somebody crazily in an

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<v Speaker 3>elevator at a crazy time to say you call me

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<v Speaker 3>crazy and ten for ten years? Who I never know? You?

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<v Speaker 3>You crazy for saying it, but you actually sound crazy

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<v Speaker 3>doing it. That's interesting too, but I digre. The point

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<v Speaker 3>is we saw crazy eyes on the floor and crazy eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>When I saw him, I said, tip, that's him, and

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<v Speaker 3>then Tiff said.

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<v Speaker 4>I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been ready and Peaches and herth came out.

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<v Speaker 3>No they didn't. She didn't swing at nobody.

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<v Speaker 2>I walked up to him.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, I'm being silly, but this is the truth

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Fence that a man would put a woman

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<v Speaker 1>in that position, and I do want people to know.

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<v Speaker 2>You were not just talking to Angela.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking to me too, You talking to Andrew, You're

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<v Speaker 1>talking to anybody who rocks with us. And so at

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<v Speaker 1>this point Andrew is like we First of all, at

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<v Speaker 1>this point we have gotten on Andrew's last nerve about

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<v Speaker 1>ten times a day. So Andrew is with us, but

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<v Speaker 1>he like, I need five five feet away from y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>He needed five hundred feet apparently.

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<v Speaker 1>So I walked up to the guy on the floor

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<v Speaker 1>because I wanted him to know it was not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said you better watch your mouth. And he

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<v Speaker 1>said you don't know me. And I said you better

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<v Speaker 1>watch your mouth. And so Lolo was with us, and

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<v Speaker 1>lo Lo is like, you know, let's go. So we're moving,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wanted him to know. I'm like, I wish

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<v Speaker 1>he would. So he's behind us, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Balloons are dropping.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it's necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>You would have done the same thing. I'm froggy. You

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling froggy on the elevator. Now we all feeling froggy.

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<v Speaker 1>So now and you would just.

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<v Speaker 2>Angela because he knew better.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is we not five seconds off this incident, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Angela is taking a picture with somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I just saw a former A former. Well he's

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<v Speaker 3>still a friend, a friend who I worked on Capitol

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<v Speaker 3>Hill with Darryl Doss. I will name check him. I

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<v Speaker 3>love you, Daryl. I'm sorry we had We were trying

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<v Speaker 3>to get our selfie and there was a fraud that

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<v Speaker 3>was trying to like he just was in the picture,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, can you please get out of our picture?

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<v Speaker 1>Someone who has publicly harassed us, who's been saying ugly

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<v Speaker 1>things about us, and someone who is has done and

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<v Speaker 1>said fraudulent things with people we know.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that fair to say?

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<v Speaker 3>To get resources, you had to get resources from extract

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<v Speaker 3>resources from the organizations that helped to fight against the

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<v Speaker 3>thing that we talked about on our most recent podcast,

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<v Speaker 3>voter fraud, Alleged voter fraud, voter fraud, intimidation, voter suppression,

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<v Speaker 3>or voting rights protecting voting rights all across South organizations

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<v Speaker 3>that do that work. This individual has taken money out

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<v Speaker 3>of their hands to do whatever it is they want

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<v Speaker 3>to do. I'm not naming one.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to be in the picture, right, that's no.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want him photo bombing me, So I just

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<v Speaker 3>was like, can we wait a second, there's I don't

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<v Speaker 3>take pictures with thieves in them. And then he didn't move,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, this person took money from my friend.

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<v Speaker 3>And then then he was like.

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<v Speaker 4>What you said? What you said? So then I was like, why.

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<v Speaker 3>My friend her money back? I named her, and then

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<v Speaker 3>he was like, no, we got to have a conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>And then Tip says, we're a walk.

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<v Speaker 1>We're being escorted off the floor, and again he is

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<v Speaker 1>aggressively pursuing Angela. So I held my hand out and

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<v Speaker 1>if you're listening, bleep me and mute this part. But

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<v Speaker 1>I said, no, you ain't got ship to say that, Angela,

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<v Speaker 1>get the f away from us, and he is trying

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<v Speaker 1>to push past me to get to Angela in a

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<v Speaker 1>very aggressive way that made me uncomfortable. So I continue

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<v Speaker 1>to yell. I don't know what I said at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>but we were with Leonard.

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<v Speaker 4>She carried away in somebody's arms, and she's still.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no away, but just a person was aggressively pursuing Angela.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was yelling, you're a fraud, You're a f

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<v Speaker 3>and fraud, which is the truth. But also I'll just say,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, thank God that Leonard's security was there to

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<v Speaker 3>make sure that it didn't get any worse. He prevented

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<v Speaker 3>the man from doing anything further. Lenard is a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit taller than me, but he's very protective of all

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<v Speaker 3>of us and wanted to make sure that this man

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<v Speaker 3>was understanding that there was no conversation to be had

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<v Speaker 3>with any women, and so did the security.

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<v Speaker 1>But literally, why are you aggressively going after women that way?

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<v Speaker 1>Do not aggressively approach these women? And he he did

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<v Speaker 1>not listen. So and then at this point it's a

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<v Speaker 1>melee guy like there are people around us, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole wow.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks crazy. And then he's feeling bad because there's

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<v Speaker 3>literally we're robbing people of this really historic moment, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's like for what. And I think part of it

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<v Speaker 3>for me was like there were people even like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Blue Vess walked up during our podcast, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you have been like going above and beyond to try

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<v Speaker 3>to get folks to not pay attention to this very

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<v Speaker 3>important case, trying to ensure that Marilyn Moseby gets pardoned

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<v Speaker 3>over a case that, sure, I disagree with the outcome

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<v Speaker 3>of the case. I wish that that prosecutorial office didnt

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<v Speaker 3>follow that, but that was in Maryland's work, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and for you to go above and beyond you're allegedly

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<v Speaker 3>a justice reform advocate. But my only point is I

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<v Speaker 3>got suspended in the seventh grade, and it was because.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm making a point. I'm making a point.

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<v Speaker 3>I got suspended the seventh grade, and it was for

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<v Speaker 3>fighting a fight that wasn't mine. I am far more

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<v Speaker 3>protective of the people in my life than I am

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<v Speaker 3>for myself. It's probably something I need to work on

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<v Speaker 3>in therapy. But I will just say I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to be at something as historic as the DNC and

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<v Speaker 3>there's beefs popping up all around. Most of them were

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<v Speaker 3>not ours. Most of them were not ours. But I

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<v Speaker 3>do think that people need to be accountable for the

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<v Speaker 3>things they say, especially when they're engaging in dangerous, toxic

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<v Speaker 3>rhetoric and engaging in dirty, nasty work behavior. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think those are the things that we're running. When I

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<v Speaker 3>look back at what happened, I'm not pleased at how

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<v Speaker 3>I engage with these folks. I think it could be

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<v Speaker 3>done in better ways. But like also, there are some

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<v Speaker 3>people I don't want to have a sit down conversation

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<v Speaker 3>with because I don't think that you are mindful enough

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<v Speaker 3>about your actions to care. I think some people are

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<v Speaker 3>attention hos, you know, like they they're gonna do what

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<v Speaker 3>they need to do to get attention. And I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to engage with you because you're Yeah, that's a

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<v Speaker 3>nice way to put it to you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to engage with you because there's no sincerity in

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<v Speaker 3>what you're doing. You're just gonna do what you think

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<v Speaker 3>is gonna go viral. And that's why it's funny blue

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<v Speaker 3>best because your little tweets didn't get no traction.

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<v Speaker 1>But I honestly, to me, whatever the reasoning behind it

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<v Speaker 1>was is irrelevant to me. Whatever reason this person on

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<v Speaker 1>the elevator had, whatever reason this person on the floor had,

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<v Speaker 1>and pursuing you, whatever reason you know, somebody taking pictures up,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is. If you are making me uncomfortable, if

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<v Speaker 1>I can't go like this without touching you, you are

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<v Speaker 1>infringing on my right to exist and it makes me

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<v Speaker 1>feel uncomfortable. More so, it makes me feel in danger.

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<v Speaker 1>So again to a PSA, do not put anyone in

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<v Speaker 1>that position. And also, look, I think we're all intelligent people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, with intellectual curiosity here and that is how

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<v Speaker 1>we show up. That is who we are for the

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<v Speaker 1>most part. But like many in our community, there is

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<v Speaker 1>another side, and we are you know, we work to

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<v Speaker 1>check ourselves and you know, to sit across from people

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<v Speaker 1>we disagree with and still maintain a collegial atmosphere. Once

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<v Speaker 1>you cross a certain line, well now we're just two

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<v Speaker 1>people with the problem with each other, and you're infringing

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<v Speaker 1>on my right to exist. You don't want to put

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<v Speaker 1>yourself or any of us in that situation. We are

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<v Speaker 1>living in crazy times where people are absolutely batshit crazy

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<v Speaker 1>out here. Don't conduct yourself that way. Don't put yourself

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<v Speaker 1>or us in harm's way or make anybody feel uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>So or you're in conflict with me and I'm not aware,

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<v Speaker 4>right and we're not from are and then now you

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<v Speaker 4>we got beef, we got We don't have any of

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<v Speaker 4>that because we don't know each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what who said what to me two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago on social media. We're not looking at at

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, like that's a I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Read comments, I ain't seeing them. I don't know it

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<v Speaker 4>was interesting to then later learn about this other dude,

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<v Speaker 4>last dude we're talking about, then went on and trashed

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<v Speaker 4>us all through.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was before the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>What you are.

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<v Speaker 4>But y'all to the hotel the day we checked in,

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<v Speaker 4>and this very person embraces me, and I embraced it

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<v Speaker 4>a full fledged rug.

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<v Speaker 2>They get tweeted the same day.

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<v Speaker 4>The insult is herald and I would never have known

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<v Speaker 4>is whatever. No, it's all good. I mean, please, it

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<v Speaker 4>is what it is. I feel worse about what happened

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<v Speaker 4>because by the time y'all get to be I'm in

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<v Speaker 4>the tonnel, I got ear plugs in, I'm listening to music.

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<v Speaker 4>Even the people as they go by, I see them

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<v Speaker 4>coming in my but I see something has gone down

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<v Speaker 4>because I see the security guard is a little at

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Emptop. I said, Tiff, what's up? You're like nothing,

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<v Speaker 4>everything is great, not.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I know in your nerves.

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew, I'm like, let's just get out of here, Balinarie,

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<v Speaker 1>to just get out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, don't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I got in trouble. When we got in

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<v Speaker 1>the car, He's like, don't see anything, like you just

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<v Speaker 1>keep walking.

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<v Speaker 4>And I missed all of that. I had the ear

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<v Speaker 4>plusant and went to sleep. So I learned about it

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<v Speaker 4>the next morning. And then at this point it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>oh man, you know, but all that to say to

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<v Speaker 4>some of the one it was a overwhelmingly great event too.

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<v Speaker 4>It was. It was great connecting with a whole bunch

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<v Speaker 4>of people. The downside, and I think some of this

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<v Speaker 4>yellers we give. I think we we We are really good,

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<v Speaker 4>decent people who try to create a family atmosphere with

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<v Speaker 4>everyone that we come into contact with, and especially y'all

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<v Speaker 4>who are our listeners and supporters and friends, and that

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<v Speaker 4>kind of thing, to the point where you know, beefs

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<v Speaker 4>can be had. You might be mad at me for

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<v Speaker 4>something I said on the show or something and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't even know, We don't no, and so this tension

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<v Speaker 4>gets well into a situation and it escalates and it's

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<v Speaker 4>so unnecessary. And listen to if you said, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't conduct to myself. Listen. Sometimes people put you

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<v Speaker 4>in situations that we don't like to be in, and

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<v Speaker 4>you can do what it takes as a human and

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<v Speaker 4>your survival instincts get in to do what's required. That's

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<v Speaker 4>what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>We welcome disagreement. We do not invite confrontation in a

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<v Speaker 1>negative way. You see me out and you want to

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<v Speaker 1>don't agreement without those prospect right exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I prefer it in an email.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't. I don't want you to email email me.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can come back to me and disagree with people.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't if itsrespectful, I don't mind.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I think if if that could just offer

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<v Speaker 3>a best practice for myself. I'm not putting this on y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that if I could go back, what I

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<v Speaker 3>would have done is to try to tamp it down

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<v Speaker 3>a bit. Like I think that my my feelings were justified,

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<v Speaker 3>but my feelings did not have to come out and

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<v Speaker 3>rage the way they did. And I think that there

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<v Speaker 3>are some things that just don't deserve it, like me

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<v Speaker 3>yelling about blue vests on a stage. What did that

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<v Speaker 3>really resolve? Like, sure we might have exposed some things,

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<v Speaker 3>but what's really the point telling the dude he's a fraud.

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<v Speaker 3>Clearly he knew who he was a fraud because I

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<v Speaker 3>never said his name, But he was the only person

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<v Speaker 3>out of that huge group that responded. Will always holler,

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<v Speaker 3>and so that's the thing I think that I specialize

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<v Speaker 3>in calling out, and I would like to be better

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<v Speaker 3>about calling up. It's just not necessary. And so the

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<v Speaker 3>thing I want to work on is like filtering out, like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>here's how I'm feeling. How can I resolve those feelings

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<v Speaker 3>so that I can have an uplifting conversation if at

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<v Speaker 3>all with people. And then to Tip's point, one of

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<v Speaker 3>the things that she's saying to me opten and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>trying to put it in a practice every day, is like,

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<v Speaker 3>is this person telling me this because they want me

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<v Speaker 3>to resolve it?

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<v Speaker 2>Or do they need an issue spot or do they

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<v Speaker 2>need a strategist?

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<v Speaker 3>Do they need a listening ear or do they need

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<v Speaker 3>an end or do they need to vent? And I

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<v Speaker 3>can take on I've heard my friends problems. They didn't

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<v Speaker 3>ask me to go start to go be an MMA

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<v Speaker 3>fighter or even to be you know, a mediator. Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>they were just sharing and maybe I can just hold

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<v Speaker 3>them and hold space for that thing instead of trying

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<v Speaker 3>to resolve it myself. Ain't nobody asked me to roll

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<v Speaker 3>up no sleeves.

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<v Speaker 1>I think all that's fair, But I also just want

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<v Speaker 1>to punctuate for the people listening who may find themselves

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<v Speaker 1>in these positions. You did not invite that, like it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't matter what you said, how you responded. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>call people out too. I'm also very prepared to face

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<v Speaker 1>the consequences. I don't say anything on social media that

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't look somebody in their eye and say I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have Twitter fingers if I'm not gonna be able

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<v Speaker 1>to back it up in person. And I told here,

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<v Speaker 1>But I also don't want to put people around me

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<v Speaker 1>in a bad situation.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like my mother told me that when I was little.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, don't put the men in this family in

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<v Speaker 1>a bad situation. I mean, your brother, you'll follow your uncles.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if I say one thing to my brother, my

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<v Speaker 1>brother is when I said, my brother will be ready

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<v Speaker 1>to throw knuckles on the spot, like he just don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a filter. My uncles would gladly do some jail

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<v Speaker 1>time for somebody who hurt me. So I always had

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<v Speaker 1>to navigate that space carefully. But that does not mean

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<v Speaker 1>that any woman is inviting you to confront her in

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<v Speaker 1>an aggressive way that looks like it can get physical.

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<v Speaker 1>That's out of pocket, no matter what was said to

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<v Speaker 1>you on the front end. But I will say when

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<v Speaker 1>Angela and I left the hotel. The next day on

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<v Speaker 1>the airport, we had on our dark glasses, our sneakers,

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<v Speaker 1>our haros and ponytail.

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<v Speaker 2>Like who else wants up?

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<v Speaker 4>They had, they dashed up.

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<v Speaker 2>We was ready. Okay, all right, we gottad it.

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<v Speaker 3>We love y'all. We're not inviting it. But also we're

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<v Speaker 3>not putting these dudes in a bad situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Some situations you just got to pull up. Welcome home,

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome home, y'all.

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