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Speaker 1: Native Lampod is a production of iHeartRadio in partnership with

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Speaker 1: Resent Choice Media.

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Speaker 2: Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome.

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Speaker 3: Welcome, Welcome home, everybody. This is Native Lamppod. I'm your host,

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Speaker 3: Angela Rye with our other host Andrew Gillim and Tiffany

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Speaker 3: Cross and Hey, so we have a little mess from

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Speaker 3: the d n C that we're going to talk about.

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Speaker 3: This is uh after dark. You know, no name.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say anybody's name.

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Speaker 3: More these clowns.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think we just start chronologically.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, now you have the floor.

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Speaker 2: I will tell it. So this wasn't any of us,

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Speaker 2: but I'm just telling the story of must be told exactly.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it happened.

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Speaker 1: Was what happened was we were in line going through

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Speaker 1: security and this was somebody in front of us that

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Speaker 1: it had something in their bag. So I do want

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Speaker 1: to point out that in Illinois, marijuana is legal.

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Speaker 2: You can possess you're.

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Speaker 1: Not breaking the law, not a federal well, federally, unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: marijuana is still listed as a Schedule one drug and

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Speaker 1: considered illegal, which puts a lot of local municipalities at

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Speaker 1: odds with the federal government. A lot of airports at odds.

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Speaker 1: So really that is just a policy that I think

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Speaker 1: needs to change, not even for people who use it,

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Speaker 1: but for people who.

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Speaker 2: Are impacted by it.

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Speaker 1: It's an unnecessary thing for people to have to go

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Speaker 1: through anyway. So I don't know the rules. Perhaps my lawyer,

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Speaker 1: who is present with me, can weigh in. If you

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Speaker 1: are on federal property, which I think the United Center

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Speaker 1: was where everything was happening at the d NC, does

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Speaker 1: it then become illegal. I don't know if the TSA

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Speaker 1: finds it in your bag on an air force, but

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Speaker 1: I'm saying that the airport is a TSA. They are

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Speaker 1: a federal organization, even though the state, you know, if

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Speaker 1: you're traveling to another state where it's legal front with it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know all those rules. We weren't trying to

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Speaker 1: find out it. So somebody in front of us had

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Speaker 1: something in their bag and so normally they're not looking for.

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Speaker 2: We allegedly that's what they started yelling out right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but the magnetopaitis are looking for like magnet, looking

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Speaker 4: for material, magnetic petic material.

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Speaker 1: So when this person in front of us, when their

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Speaker 1: bag was flagged, one of the officers pulled out and

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Speaker 1: said what is this? And you could see that it

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Speaker 1: was a j in a little tube, A.

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Speaker 3: J for the people who don't don't know what that is.

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Speaker 3: It was a joint in a clear glass container.

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Speaker 4: To have something magnetic.

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Speaker 1: They had a pop on and you know when the

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Speaker 1: officer said what is this, I immediate we thought, oh, I

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Speaker 1: bet that person one probably didn't know they had it

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Speaker 1: in their bag, and two probably didn't know that the

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Speaker 1: top was metal, because otherwise it would have gone through.

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Speaker 2: You could have thought that was it would have gone

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Speaker 2: through it no problem.

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Speaker 3: Any know why they had to be right in front

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Speaker 3: of us, But.

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Speaker 2: I was crazy so great.

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Speaker 4: I felt bad for them, but they had They were like,

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Speaker 4: look that is mine.

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Speaker 3: But we don't we don't, we don't, we don't know.

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Speaker 3: We wanted to make sure that we were clear that

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Speaker 3: it was not ours.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 1: But but what I love is how everybody kept a

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Speaker 1: steady hand.

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Speaker 2: Nobody was like right, oh my god, you know, everybody

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Speaker 2: was like we.

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Speaker 3: Were talking to them.

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Speaker 4: We felt like, you know, we were with them, so

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Speaker 4: we were like, that ain't his that I don't know

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Speaker 4: where that came from. I was like, I ain't see it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, and was like, look, it was the

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Speaker 4: exetllnal pocket. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so now let's move along. So here's the other

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Speaker 3: shortly thereafter. I just want to it was good, Yes,

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Speaker 3: me too, Andrew. After that was chilling us because Tiff

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Speaker 3: saw Omerosa. Oh that was the only name. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: I mean to say her name, Andrew. She yeah, he

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Speaker 3: does need to apologize because Tiff saw her, and then

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Speaker 3: we said some things because we didn't know why she

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Speaker 3: was there, Like you go to the rn c our show.

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Speaker 3: It's interesting, So Andrew apologize yet.

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Speaker 4: So let me give some perspective here. You know, we

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Speaker 4: were we were closing out the show on one of

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Speaker 4: these days, Tuesday, I think I think it was Monday.

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Speaker 4: That wasn't it was Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Whenever you came over and said next to us.

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Speaker 4: She came over because there was another co host. It

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Speaker 4: was Tuesday. That was the only night that it was

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Speaker 4: just the three of them.

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Speaker 3: No, I came over at the end.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what, because the over there, You're right Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: You're right, you're right.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you again. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: I said, sorry, did you say.

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Speaker 4: When you're dead? Wrong? So I agree. We all agree.

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Speaker 4: When you're dead wrong, you apologize.

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Speaker 3: So things.

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Speaker 4: We're asked by our host friend Angela to offer some

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Speaker 4: reflections about the day, and we're all high on that,

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Speaker 4: and then you know, as happened. Sometimes. I was speaking

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Speaker 4: and giving my reflections on the experience and I look

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Speaker 4: over and I see they're hitting each other like each

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Speaker 4: other should. Yeah, y'all were y'all were doing this tag

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Speaker 4: team and hit you too. And then you look at

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Speaker 4: the video, y'all because it's indisputable. And then what happens

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Speaker 4: is I say, what's going on now? Like name, such

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Speaker 4: person is taking pictures of us? Such person who works?

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Speaker 3: Who is that doing?

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Speaker 4: So I said, y'all, I'm you know, we're in our show.

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Speaker 4: So they're like, I'm sorry. They come back to the show.

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Speaker 4: A few moments later, not very many moments later, it's

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Speaker 4: again you see see you see you. I'm like, what

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Speaker 4: is God?

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Speaker 2: I said, you know what we signed, y'all know.

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Speaker 4: The same person, except it's a new experience for you.

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Speaker 4: So you know, we got to interrupt again the show

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Speaker 4: and so's not of her.

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Speaker 2: You were like, tell me, why would you think that

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Speaker 2: kept in your life?

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Speaker 4: Because I don't ever recall seeing you all pay attention

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Speaker 4: to anybody.

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Speaker 1: Somebody don't like it's tap dance in front of you

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Speaker 1: and taking pictures of you.

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Speaker 2: You may feel pictures about the whole time. No, but

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Speaker 2: why I trust them? I don't trust her. I agree,

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Speaker 2: she's still concerned.

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Speaker 3: She still love.

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Speaker 4: That the Feds look And this is without regard to whomever.

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Speaker 3: What about I got followed in the elevator.

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Speaker 2: Let's get to that. Let's get to that. That's what

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Speaker 2: I want to talk about. So I got followed.

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Speaker 4: I want to do people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so number one, I think that we learned that

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Speaker 3: we feel real pedestrian, but we're not real pedestrian. And

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Speaker 3: Jay r J. Andrew's wife just told her, just like

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Speaker 3: y'all be moving like you not who you are. You

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Speaker 3: need to follow Sometimes that catches. Yeah, we definitely need

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Speaker 3: to all.

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Speaker 4: We need to go in groups, go in groups, always going.

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Speaker 3: Because I went on the elevator by myself, allegedly, but

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Speaker 3: I was on the phone talking to my manager and

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Speaker 3: another guy got on the elevator and he was like,

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Speaker 3: you've been calling me crazy DC for ten years And I.

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Speaker 4: Was like, what who are you?

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Speaker 3: Who are you? And he said his name which shall

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Speaker 3: not be repeated. Actually don't remember his name again, said.

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Speaker 4: I got it, I got it.

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Speaker 3: She only got the first name.

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Speaker 4: No, I got both. I know what I know to do.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you searched it, Okay. So anyway that this man

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Speaker 3: works in a financial services company. He's a minister and

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Speaker 3: my friend's church, come to find out. But I haven't

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Speaker 3: been there and sometimes so I don't know him. And

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Speaker 3: it was just a whole mess. And he was you've

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Speaker 3: been calling me crazy, and DC call me to b

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Speaker 3: wergeing off the elevator.

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Speaker 1: I think it's important to say, you know, because don't

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Speaker 1: let me just let me just say, as men on

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to make light of this. A

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Speaker 1: man who was speaking to you aggressively. Angela had already

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Speaker 2: She had already hit it. He came on after her,

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Speaker 1: Yes, but he's speaking to her aggressively, and then when

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Speaker 1: she's getting off the elevator, he says, bitch. Now, imagine

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Speaker 1: next day, and Andrew's like, who.

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Speaker 2: Is this dude? Like, we gonna google and were gonna

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Speaker 2: look him up to see who he is.

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Speaker 4: No, we were going to do something else, but we

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Speaker 2: Had to know who he was and what he looked like.

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Speaker 3: We were just gonna report, and we weren't gonna do

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Speaker 3: anything threatning I was. I think, no, it just this

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Speaker 3: is a recording. We are not I'm not saying.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna cause physical violence, but I was going

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Speaker 1: to do more than.

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Speaker 2: Just report him.

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Speaker 3: Well, he has been reported and hopefully his pastors talked

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Speaker 3: to him and he's figured it out. But we did

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Speaker 3: see him on the convention floor night.

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Speaker 1: I asked Angela, point him out when you see him

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Speaker 1: this is the night Yea, but I.

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Speaker 3: Think froggy froggy not high. We were on the moment

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Speaker 3: packed and it was high tension because you couldn't move,

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Speaker 3: and it was stressful, and I was watching people.

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Speaker 1: And all these tying around you. Literally, somebody would be

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Speaker 4: Move. Charlamage and I were standing next to each other.

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Speaker 4: I look one way. Next thing I know, I look back.

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Speaker 4: He's platform. This dude had got up on a bitcher

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Speaker 4: or something.

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Speaker 3: But no, the thing is the guy was there and

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Speaker 3: he still had the crazy eyes. The funny thing is,

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Speaker 3: how are you going to confront somebody crazily in an

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Speaker 3: elevator at a crazy time to say you call me

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Speaker 3: crazy and ten for ten years? Who I never know? You?

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Speaker 3: You crazy for saying it, but you actually sound crazy

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Speaker 3: doing it. That's interesting too, but I digre. The point

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Speaker 3: is we saw crazy eyes on the floor and crazy eyes.

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Speaker 3: When I saw him, I said, tip, that's him, and

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Speaker 3: then Tiff said.

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Speaker 1: I've been ready and Peaches and herth came out.

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Speaker 3: No they didn't. She didn't swing at nobody.

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Speaker 2: I walked up to him.

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Speaker 3: really resolve? Like, sure we might have exposed some things,

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Speaker 3: but what's really the point telling the dude he's a fraud.

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Speaker 3: Clearly he knew who he was a fraud because I

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Speaker 3: and so that's the thing I think that I specialize

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Speaker 3: trying to put it in a practice every day, is like,

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Speaker 3: is this person telling me this because they want me

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Speaker 3: to resolve it?

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Speaker 2: Or do they need an issue spot or do they

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Speaker 3: Do they need a listening ear or do they need

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Speaker 3: can take on I've heard my friends problems. They didn't

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Speaker 3: ask me to go start to go be an MMA

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Speaker 3: fighter or even to be you know, a mediator. Maybe

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Speaker 3: them and hold space for that thing instead of trying

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Speaker 3: to resolve it myself. Ain't nobody asked me to roll

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Speaker 3: up no sleeves.

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Speaker 1: I think all that's fair, But I also just want

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Speaker 1: to punctuate for the people listening who may find themselves

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Speaker 1: in these positions. You did not invite that, like it

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Speaker 1: didn't matter what you said, how you responded. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: call people out too. I'm also very prepared to face

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Speaker 1: the consequences. I don't say anything on social media that

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Speaker 1: don't have Twitter fingers if I'm not gonna be able

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Speaker 1: to back it up in person. And I told here,

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Speaker 1: But I also don't want to put people around me

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: It's like my mother told me that when I was little.

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Speaker 1: She's like, don't put the men in this family in

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Speaker 1: a bad situation. I mean, your brother, you'll follow your uncles.

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Speaker 1: Because if I say one thing to my brother, my

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Speaker 1: brother is when I said, my brother will be ready

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Speaker 1: to throw knuckles on the spot, like he just don't

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Speaker 1: have a filter. My uncles would gladly do some jail

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Speaker 1: time for somebody who hurt me. So I always had

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Speaker 1: to navigate that space carefully. But that does not mean

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Speaker 1: that any woman is inviting you to confront her in

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Speaker 1: an aggressive way that looks like it can get physical.

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Speaker 1: That's out of pocket, no matter what was said to

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Speaker 1: you on the front end. But I will say when

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Speaker 1: Angela and I left the hotel. The next day on

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Speaker 1: the airport, we had on our dark glasses, our sneakers,

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Speaker 1: our haros and ponytail.

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Speaker 2: Like who else wants up?

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Speaker 4: They had, they dashed up.

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Speaker 2: We was ready. Okay, all right, we gottad it.

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Speaker 3: We love y'all. We're not inviting it. But also we're

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Speaker 3: not putting these dudes in a bad situation.

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Speaker 4: Some situations you just got to pull up. Welcome home,

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Speaker 4: Welcome home, y'all.

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