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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can say what it is.

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Speaker 1: Jason's not here. He had knee surgery. I don't know

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Speaker 1: when he's coming back. We texted yesterday. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 2: No, I can't because his leg has to be like

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Speaker 1: We got to do something here because I don't know

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Speaker 3: You'll be all right.

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Speaker 1: I miss him a lot, and also I need him

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Speaker 1: Maybe you have to know all of them. And if

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Speaker 1: I actually do. I do have a burner. I do

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Speaker 1: I've never used it, but I have one. I know

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Speaker 1: not Hi Kaylin He Hikki Morning Shelby Shelley two fifteen

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Speaker 1: The showdown. If you beat her in five questions Snapper

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Speaker 1: a second, we'll get to waiting by the phone. Why

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Speaker 1: does somebody get ghosted? That's next after blogs or audio

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Speaker 1: journals and the Entertainer Report. This hour, what are you

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Speaker 2: A major true true crime. I had to slow down there.

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Speaker 2: Case is being reopened. Also, I will tell you who

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Speaker 1: this morning too. Yeah, they talk better than they about.

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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. It's

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Speaker 1: like queer writing in our diaries, except we say to

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Speaker 1: them a lot. I don't know if this is kind

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Speaker 1: of a joint blog Kayle and Kiki Yes, kay Leaky.

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Speaker 1: Oh I like Kate Leak Yeah, something like that. Anyway,

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Speaker 4: Yes, well all of us really can chime in on

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Speaker 4: this because yesterday I got micro blading done to my eyebrows.

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Speaker 1: What is that? Even? What is that? So?

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Speaker 4: Basically your eyebrows are tattooed on your face?

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Speaker 3: But like the newer version of yes.

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Speaker 4: How they tatt you and what you already know for you,

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Speaker 1: How do you tattoo an eyebrow? Well, so you lay on.

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Speaker 4: The table and they put some numbing cream on and

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Speaker 5: you mean, like go where? They're not going anywhere? They're

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Speaker 5: never moving. But how a tattoo is like I know

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Speaker 1: I signed you up. I don't have a lot of things,

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Speaker 1: but I do have eyebrows, yes, and that's fine. I

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Speaker 4: I have eyebrows, but it's like you get them shaped

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Speaker 4: perfectly so you never have to really feel the man.

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Speaker 4: You know how every morning you watch me do a

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have it. It's like supposed to look

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Speaker 4: It just shapes it for you and makes it look perfect,

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous. That was a tattoo that looks good.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for now, let's pray it still has the heal.

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Speaker 3: It looks so good.

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Speaker 4: I was wondering, like, I know, Paulina is never a

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Speaker 4: stranger to a beauty hack, neither is Kaylin. So what

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Speaker 4: other things are we doing as a show? Because friends

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Speaker 4: getting his eyebrows does yes.

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Speaker 3: So he just learned about tattooing eyebrows.

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Speaker 2: I mean, next, I'm going to teach you about a

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Speaker 2: with the sperm of a salmon.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, So micro needling has been around for a minute.

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Speaker 3: It actually is.

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Speaker 2: Do you know that you stop making collagen at the

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Speaker 2: So it's a collagen inducing procedure and it's been around

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Speaker 2: for a minute. But then you add these salmon DNA.

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Speaker 2: Now I feel like a scientist or a doctor. If

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Speaker 2: I don't say sperm and that will help your skin

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Speaker 2: YadA YadA. And then micro needling it kind of like

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Speaker 2: makes your face start to heal itself, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: It like triggers your face.

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Speaker 2: So like the things we do for beauty, a little

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Speaker 2: needle going in and out and shout out to my girl,

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Speaker 3: I went in for a consultation. I call her doctor.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know what's kind of school she

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Speaker 3: Has all the lessons. Why really, she's very amazing.

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Speaker 1: What is do you have any formal training in this?

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Speaker 3: So she has all the formal training in.

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Speaker 1: The sperm from the fish? How did you get it?

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Speaker 3: Okay, right right now?

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Speaker 2: She has all the letters, but you know, I don't

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Speaker 2: but like, she has all the qualifications to do this,

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Speaker 2: and she's amazing, and she kills me.

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Speaker 4: You can just eat the fish like this like a

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Speaker 4: nice grill piece of salmon.

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Speaker 3: No, it needs to be injected on. Let me see

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Speaker 3: how how she gets it. She gets her salmon's how

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Speaker 3: I think I think I know, I think I know,

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Speaker 3: but it's like, is there a dealer.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's like a massage thing. I think

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Speaker 1: it's I think it's like bye bye fishy. And then they,

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Speaker 1: you know, they use.

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Speaker 3: Various collecting the sperm. I think you get that.

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Speaker 1: You get the salmon fil a when you go to

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Speaker 2: She's amazing, but there is some like scary, not scary,

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Speaker 2: but like downtime after you micro needles. So if I

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Speaker 2: come in here looking like a tomato, I better never

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Speaker 2: hear anything from you.

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Speaker 6: Guys.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that I would say anything about any

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Speaker 3: The way I've altered this body, No, you have never.

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Speaker 1: I would never, under any of the circumstances, comment on

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Speaker 3: You'll be like, why are you so rad? I would

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Speaker 1: I know better. I have said that I have. I

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Speaker 1: have to know. That's that's. I love the word you said,

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Speaker 1: but generally not a word, not a word for me.

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Speaker 6: He's ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: It's the frend shout harcy, good morning. Yeah, well here

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Speaker 1: we are. We're doing waiting by the phone where we

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Speaker 1: love this. We're good at this. It's an institution around here,

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Speaker 1: and we're trying to help people. Is a public service.

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Speaker 1: You want to know what's going on with you and

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Speaker 1: this guy? Jed, how did you meet? Tell us everything so.

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Speaker 7: Dead DMPN Instagram And he was very charming and very

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Speaker 7: sweet from the beginning and exchange numbers and then we

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Speaker 7: went out and we had an amazing time. I had

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Speaker 7: so much fun with him. He's so cute and funny

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Speaker 7: and just like Prince Charming. I honestly can't describe him

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Speaker 7: any other way. He's perfect. Wow, and yeah, I just

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Speaker 7: But here's the thing, though, I'm confused because he's kind

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Speaker 7: of ghosting me now and I don't get ghosted, so

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Speaker 7: I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know what is up with us.

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Speaker 7: It's kind of bizarre. But I'm wondering, you know what

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Speaker 7: happened because we had such an amazing time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, really successful first date. You can't get a hold

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Speaker 1: of this guy now, he hasn't called you. Have you

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Speaker 1: reached out to him? Oh? Yeah, of course, Okay.

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Speaker 7: But he hasn't responded to my tech.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, full on ghosts going on, and that's frustrating

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why. So that's where we

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Speaker 1: come in. We're gonna call Jed and we'll see if

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Speaker 1: we can get him on the phone. You'll be on

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Speaker 1: the phone as well. Hopefully we can get you some info.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome to jump in at any time, and if

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Speaker 1: we can straighten this out, then we'll pay for another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Can I have you hang on for a second? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: far too a waiting by the phone, Marcy hic welcome back.

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Speaker 1: for a second. My name is Fred from the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: My whole crew is here, and I got to tell

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Marcy. I

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Speaker 6: By Look, he's way too high matenan for me.

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Speaker 7: Well, I told him it was my birthday, Okay, I

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Speaker 7: Well, I've been wined and dined really nicely before on

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Speaker 1: But don't you think the guy or the girl whoever's

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Speaker 7: I wasn't trying to use him at all like that.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't there anyone else you wanted to spend it with?

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Speaker 7: Of course I have friends, But I just I just

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Speaker 1: Fair enough, fair enough, Jed, Look that's your explanation, would

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Speaker 6: No, I'm not interested. This is it's so I hate this,

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Speaker 3: You don't have to do it, jet.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you could have just said no, But then

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I gave it a shot. I my fears were

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Speaker 7: You're the one who DMed me, so oh tell them.

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Speaker 1: Caitlin's entertainment report and he's on the bread show Man.

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Speaker 2: The mystery around Kurt Cobain's death is back in the news.

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Speaker 2: You've probably seen some of this on social but it's

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Speaker 3: Kurt was found.

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Speaker 3: All Right.

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Speaker 2: HGTV's Rehab Addict star Nicole Curtis, I mean former I

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Speaker 2: She claimed someone tried to extort her threatening to release

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Speaker 3: Lady, shut up.

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Speaker 1: How about don't use the word and then nobody can

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Speaker 2: You apologize, shut up, you control yourself. I mean, it's giving,

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Speaker 2: Like I have a black best friend. I don't know

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Speaker 3: There would be no video if you didn't use the word.

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Speaker 3: Stop talking. I don't believe your apology.

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Speaker 1: I'm all for redemption. I'm all for people coming out

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Speaker 1: That's it, And then over time, maybe people will forgive

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Speaker 1: your No, no, it's so what so if you paid them,

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Speaker 1: then we never would have known that you make racist

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, No, I cannot stand people who blame the

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Speaker 3: It drives me insane. Yea, And I.

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Speaker 2: And I do think we as a society we went

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Speaker 1: So yeah, because people are gonna scrub at them, I

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Speaker 1: mean that's pretty awful. Yeah, no, that's not a misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: That's not I didn't know that was going to event people.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, it flew out exactly so that it's awful.

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Speaker 1: But but that being done with you, Like, if people

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Speaker 1: they can learn, they can offer you know, their sincere

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Speaker 1: it took.

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Speaker 2: Away her apology. For me, it's a credibility. Now I'm like, oh, okay.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't pay money, so they ruined me. No, you

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to a happier story, Taylor Swift was well,

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Speaker 2: twenty five top ten. Bought her cross platform dominance from

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Speaker 2: streaming to Vinyl.

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Speaker 3: Which is crazy. He kept her firmly ahead of the pack.

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Speaker 2: And lastly, joh Rule did apologize for that beef with

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Speaker 2: Tony Yeo and his G unit beef.

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Speaker 3: He does say that they will.

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Speaker 2: Never be friends, but he doesn't want to be at war,

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Speaker 2: but he actually says having enemies in life is something

447
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Speaker 2: that you should do.

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Speaker 1: I want to.

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Speaker 4: Commend you for even apologizing for the Plaine incident, but

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Speaker 4: what paid you apologize? I was surprised that you apologize.

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Speaker 4: I know that's right, So we got to ask you

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Speaker 4: to when can we have this sit down?

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Speaker 3: You fifty Tony Yo?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, job listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 1: I'm Trying's the reality, right, Sometimes in life people have

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Speaker 1: enemies and that's okay. You know what I'm saying, That's

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Speaker 1: okay to have enemies. Everybody can't be friends a friend

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Speaker 1: of a friend of everybody's enemy.

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Speaker 3: Do shut right? Well, what I'm saying is you don't

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Speaker 3: also have to be at war.

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Speaker 7: You feel me?

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Speaker 3: How do you guys feel about that?

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Speaker 1: You? Jo?

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Speaker 2: I feel you, brother, I do feel I do agree

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Speaker 2: with a friend to all as a friend to none,

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 3: I don't believe in being friends with everyone.

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Speaker 2: But I also don't think I need enemies. I don't

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Speaker 2: think that's something I need. I don't think that's a

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Speaker 2: part of life.

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Speaker 1: The enemy to me a little different, but it has

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Speaker 1: the same kind of action word as hate, because I

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Speaker 1: think it to have an enemy means I'm for me,

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Speaker 1: I'm putting energy towards this rivalry. So there are people

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Speaker 1: that don't like me, but I don't put in I'm

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Speaker 1: not putting energy towards that, and I don't like them.

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Speaker 1: But like, the enemy means were like actively to me,

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Speaker 1: the same way that hate means, like, I'm actively disliking you,

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Speaker 1: Like I choose to hate very few people and consider

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Speaker 1: very few people my enemy, because that means that's almost

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Speaker 1: saying I'm giving you too much.

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Speaker 4: Crests right, But he did say you don't have to

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Speaker 4: be a war, so he's acknowledging that they would ever

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Speaker 4: be friends. And he knows a thing. I don't like him,

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Speaker 4: so we won't be friends. Were enemies, but we don't

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Speaker 4: have to be a war.

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Speaker 3: And he said sorry, and I love that. P I

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Speaker 3: feel like you have an enemy? Do you have? Is

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Speaker 3: there anyone who picture I really don't think I have

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Speaker 3: enemies like freend zed, Like I don't like walk around

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Speaker 3: and go this is my enemy, Like that sounds like

493
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Speaker 3: Mortal Kombat, Like I'm not.

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Speaker 2: To do that.

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Speaker 3: But I do believe that you need haters to be popping.

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Speaker 3: I really do.

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Speaker 2: Or at least haters are different points of your life

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Speaker 2: and that's okay, happen then the girl's okay.

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Speaker 1: I know, like there are people that don't like me

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Speaker 1: for reasons that aren't that they've come up with that

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Speaker 1: aren't real reasons. So like I can't I can't battle

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Speaker 1: with you there, Yeah, like I can't. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what to tell you, like if I didn't do it,

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Speaker 1: this this reason that you've concocted that that you don't

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Speaker 1: like me and I didn't do it, Like I I've

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Speaker 1: spent so many years of my life trying to trying

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Speaker 1: to reason with people over things that don't exist. Correct.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I haven't done things to upset people,

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Speaker 1: but some of the people who'd like me the least

510
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Speaker 1: are mad about things I didn't do. So it's like

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Speaker 1: or they're not taking into consideration their part in how

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Speaker 1: we got there. So I can't reason with you. So

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Speaker 1: I can't put any energy into that because because I'm

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Speaker 1: a pleaser, believe it or not, and I spend a

515
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Speaker 1: lot of time trying to make people happy and trying

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Speaker 1: to explain my way out of things that you're but

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't explain somebody even actually do so, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do you go be mad somewhere because I can't.

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Speaker 2: I think most conflict both people played a part in it,

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Speaker 2: and so if there's not no one willing to acknowledge

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Speaker 2: their part.

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Speaker 3: Then it's like we're not getting anywhere. It's very rare.

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Speaker 3: There's just one person I have.

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Speaker 1: Removed from my life, everyone who will not take accountability

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Speaker 1: for their side of the.

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Speaker 3: Stream, except for family, which I'm stuck with them.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, fortunately my family doesn't do that. Thankful. I

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Speaker 1: love that, But I don't have many. Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 1: coren group. We all have our things, but like, no

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Speaker 1: one's not taking responsibility. I will say that, yeah, but no,

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Speaker 1: there are a lot of people in my life who

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Speaker 1: are like, you know, Fred's bad guy or I don't whatever,

533
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Speaker 1: it's a hymn problem, but like we're not talking about

534
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Speaker 1: you apparently, and I just can't. I can't do it.

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Speaker 1: What can you do with that nothing, So I choose.

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Speaker 3: Not to do their business, not yours.

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Speaker 1: Sadly, it means that my already small friend group is

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Speaker 1: even smaller. But like, I'm sorry, Like, if you quality

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Speaker 1: over city, you're you projecting onto me the reason why

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Speaker 1: we're not cool. Except that's not a real reason and

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Speaker 1: it's not and you've made that up. And then additionally,

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Speaker 1: we're not talking about your part of this, So then

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Speaker 1: what's the point. We're never going to get to any

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Speaker 1: resolution unless I just take the sword every time, won't

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Speaker 1: do it?

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Speaker 3: There you go, boom, there you go.

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Speaker 1: Wrap it up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, The free iHeartRadio app is where you can get

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Speaker 2: more of this wisdom.

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Speaker 1: This really people over the last couple of weeks have

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Speaker 1: been trying to Oh, frends really fired up about this

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Speaker 1: and that and the other thing. No, that's just I'm

553
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Speaker 1: just you know who is stirring it up. That's just

554
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Speaker 1: me stirring it up. This was deeply personal. Thank you

555
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Speaker 1: for that therapeutic moment. My therapist is at home listening.

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Speaker 1: She'd be so happy.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm proud of you because I do think like me.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you try to like bargain or convince people why

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Speaker 2: that they should not dislike you for a reason.

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Speaker 3: It's like, no, if you like me, you're going to

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Speaker 3: like all of me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, whether it's personal, whether it's around here where there's

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Speaker 1: people who listen, you know people. I've seen people over

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Speaker 1: the last couple of years get so fired up about

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Speaker 1: things that and and they've come up with their own

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Speaker 1: reason to be angry, and it's not the real reason.

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Speaker 1: And I try and explain it, but people don't want

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Speaker 1: to hear it because they've already convinced themselves of why

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Speaker 1: they want to be angry. I can do nothing with that.

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Speaker 2: Are committed to being angry? Sometimes them Yes, okay, now

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Speaker 2: here we go, Here we.

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Speaker 1: Go, there we go, come through. Thank thanks for having

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Speaker 1: us on the radio, on the iHeart app, on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok,

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Speaker 1: and Instagram. Search for the Fred Show and the Highlights

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Speaker 1: tab on the iHeart app for bonus Fred Show content.

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Speaker 1: It's there. We got a trip to Sydney, Australia to

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Speaker 1: see Harry Styles starts Monday. We got a bunch of

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Speaker 1: keywords that you got to know. We're gonna give them

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Speaker 1: out on the show starting Monday. You got to know

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Speaker 1: all the keywords. You know all the keywords and you

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Speaker 1: could be going to Sydney, Australia to see Harry. So

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Speaker 1: either you're a Hairy fan or you're a Sydney fan

583
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Speaker 1: of you're both, or you're just like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I've never thought I was going to go to Australia

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Speaker 1: in my whole life. And now I'm gonna go, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hang out with a kangaroo and I'm gonna

587
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Speaker 1: drink a beer out of a boot and I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: come up with a bunch of what is this guy?

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Speaker 1: A friend of mine just texted me. He's uh, he

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Speaker 1: was just there in Australia. Yeah, and he was. He

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Speaker 1: was trying to be It was a group chat, remember that.

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Speaker 1: Remember the guy's trip I went on last year with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of guys I didn't know.

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Speaker 3: Still going, Oh yeah, Apparently.

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Speaker 1: I must have passed the test because I'm on the

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Speaker 1: group chat and I'm being reinvited. Now. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you uninvite somebody. I feel like once you invite

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Speaker 1: somebody to a group, you kind of like it's gonna

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Speaker 1: take it's it's real bad if you don't reinvite them, right,

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Speaker 1: Because so I feel like, when is it in the summer.

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Speaker 1: But this dude just I guess he just got back

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Speaker 1: from Australia, so you know, he had to get a

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Speaker 1: little clever with the group chat good day, fresh back

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Speaker 1: from Australia, making me think of summer here. I guess

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Speaker 1: it's summer there, Gonna stick with my mates. He just

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Speaker 1: keeps going on. He's like, you know, he's he's being funny.

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Speaker 1: But it's the equivalent of the person who comes back,

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Speaker 1: you know, from Europe after a couple of weeks. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: preservatives and everything here. When I was in Europe last week.

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Speaker 2: My friend from Minnesota was in Turkey and she'll be like,

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Speaker 2: American snap cheese. I'm like, you're from the Midwest, girl,

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Speaker 2: I don't care how you come back.

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Speaker 1: From a week and you know wherever all the water

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Speaker 1: was so much pure American. Well have you ever had

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Speaker 1: the water in Icelands and come dow to the tap

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Speaker 1: It's just like from a glacier. It's unbelievable. This this,

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Speaker 1: this this muck that we consume here.

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Speaker 3: It's true.

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Speaker 2: You just sounds in Iowa.

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Speaker 1: Were you drinking there? You know, it's like, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: The tapas, they they don't compare. I'm sorry, yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: what my friend just did.

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Speaker 2: But I'm sure Australian people love when when we say

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Speaker 2: good day, may shrimp on the barbie.

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Speaker 1: Because that's that's how they all talk, right, that's how

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Speaker 1: they all talk, every sentence and stay there. But you

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Speaker 1: know what, if you win this trip, you want to

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Speaker 1: come back and call us and say gooday? What do

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Speaker 1: if you do whatever you want, I don't care. Sau

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Speaker 1: Min Shelley's up next and the Throwback Throat out More

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Speaker 1: Fresh show next