Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and starting your
Speaker 1: week with a brand new second Date episode.
Speaker 2: Thanks for being here today. You never know who you're
Speaker 2: gonna meet, especially if it's a sexy shoe Sailles.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was toes done before you buy shoes neck.
Speaker 1: So saying, because one lady definitely met that guy. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna do that in just a second. But first
Speaker 1: comments yep or okay, prepare for this one. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: warn you it's a long one.
Speaker 2: No you'll see. Hey, guys.
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Speaker 2: new episode starts right now.
Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second Date Updates.
Speaker 4: When you meet someone special, what's the first thing that
Speaker 4: usually draws you.
Speaker 5: In their eyes?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: Their laugh, their hair, their laugh, you speak for yourself. No,
Speaker 4: today it's their feet.
Speaker 2: Oh we're gonna start here. We usually end up here.
Speaker 6: Try to be.
Speaker 5: Creepy about it.
Speaker 4: The reason that I bring it up is because our
Speaker 4: listener Claire says she met a guy that she's interested
Speaker 4: in at a shoe store.
Speaker 2: Oh, she's like the modern day Cindere could be.
Speaker 5: Claire.
Speaker 4: Does it ever go through your mind that shoe stores
Speaker 4: are the hotspots for all the pervs. It's where they
Speaker 4: congregate you.
Speaker 7: No, I don't think so.
Speaker 4: Okay, you don't hang out at the shoe stores that
Speaker 4: I hang out at.
Speaker 1: So I've never had a weird interaction at a shoe store, Jeff.
Speaker 2: So I think it's maybe just you.
Speaker 4: Oh, I will give you some addresses that will change
Speaker 4: how you think. But okay, maybe there's a different type
Speaker 4: of shoe place. So tell us about how you met
Speaker 4: this guy. What's his name, by the.
Speaker 7: Way, Yeah, mine wasn't privy at all. His name was Dan. Okay,
Speaker 7: Then while I was basically he wasn't actually helping me.
Speaker 7: He was helping this girl that was next to me.
Speaker 2: I was, he's an employee.
Speaker 4: There or is he just a random guy that goes
Speaker 4: around helping people at shoe stores?
Speaker 7: No, he was super sweet. He actually does work there, okay, shoeman,
Speaker 7: All right? Like I said, he wasn't helping me directly,
Speaker 7: but he was helping a woman that was next to me,
Speaker 7: and every time he would go get her some shoes,
Speaker 7: he kind of would like chat up with me a
Speaker 7: little bit and like be like, oh, those shoes look great,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like, I mean, out of all the departments you could
Speaker 1: work in, it would be the easiest to meet someone
Speaker 1: in the shoe department, because you're just there longer, like
Speaker 1: you're saying, like you're waiting for other shoes to come
Speaker 1: back from the back.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's not like you can get up and leave.
Speaker 7: You guys.
Speaker 6: He was really nice.
Speaker 2: He was like and more than just like I make
Speaker 2: commission nice like, I.
Speaker 7: Mean, that was the best part. I wasn't his customer.
Speaker 7: He wasn't making any commission off me.
Speaker 2: Did you make a move?
Speaker 7: Yeah, here's the thing. I went up to go buy
Speaker 7: my shoes and I told the girl that was checking
Speaker 7: me out, I actually need her my number, and said,
Speaker 7: can you give it to that guy over there, that
Speaker 7: shoe guy over there? And she did?
Speaker 2: Whoa?
Speaker 7: I thought, you know, why the heck not? I never
Speaker 7: find anybody in the while anymore. We see dating apps,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: This is great.
Speaker 5: Feet stores are better than Tinder.
Speaker 7: Now.
Speaker 5: Who would have thought.
Speaker 4: We've gotten to that point in life, but we made it.
Speaker 5: This is awesome. So did he reach out to you?
Speaker 6: He did?
Speaker 7: He totally reached out to me, and he suggested a
Speaker 7: Mexican place home the wall.
Speaker 4: It was really nice, Like how much attention did you want?
Speaker 5: Jose wants to ask specifically, about the menu. We do
Speaker 5: know that.
Speaker 2: All I wanted to know is how many margarita she had?
Speaker 4: Was this like a lunch date or like a happy
Speaker 4: hour type of date?
Speaker 7: It was more of a happy hour.
Speaker 5: How was the connection between you and Dan?
Speaker 7: I thought it ended up being very natural. I was
Speaker 7: very happy, like I left, Okay, was that Dan?
Speaker 5: Or was that the margaritas? Though? That was.
Speaker 4: That's true, but maybe something specific about Dan that happened
Speaker 4: that made you happy.
Speaker 7: It was really playful between us. I felt really good.
Speaker 7: And at one point we were feeding each other chips
Speaker 7: and salsa.
Speaker 4: So little messy, yeah, but it was.
Speaker 7: Kind of sweet. It was really sweet.
Speaker 5: That is okay. That was like a romantic move.
Speaker 2: It was to know who started that.
Speaker 7: I kind of started it. I kind of wanted to
Speaker 7: like show him that I was playful, and he reciprocated.
Speaker 4: So we'll see that in romantic movies, where like at
Speaker 4: a certain point they feed each other like an ord
Speaker 4: deruv or something.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever said anyone outside of
Speaker 1: my toddlers, I really can't.
Speaker 4: They've never been making a cake and you put some
Speaker 4: frosting on your husband's nose, and you guys have a
Speaker 4: frosting fight.
Speaker 2: No, maybe I'm not romantic enough.
Speaker 4: I mean, don't you think it would be nice at
Speaker 4: our next show dinner if at one point we all
Speaker 4: just stopped and fed the person to our right, put
Speaker 4: a sushi role in the next person's mouth.
Speaker 2: I'm sick. I can't go.
Speaker 5: Just the three of us.
Speaker 2: Then, well, every way, it doesn't matter what we think
Speaker 2: or do.
Speaker 1: It's that you liked it, and you think Dan liked
Speaker 1: it because then he fed you, right, that's the indicator
Speaker 1: that he was into it.
Speaker 7: If he did feed me back, Yeah, it wasn't just
Speaker 7: me feeding him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta be careful with sharp tortilla chips.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, gollm or something. All right, I mean this
Speaker 4: is sounding pretty good. How does the date end?
Speaker 7: So basically we got to know each other, we talked
Speaker 7: about our jobs, and then when we last he walked
Speaker 7: me to my car, obviously, but he did not try
Speaker 7: to kiss me, which.
Speaker 2: You know what I would books outreached.
Speaker 1: Why am the only reason I say?
Speaker 2: What is you just fed each other. You would think that, like.
Speaker 5: But you feed your toddler, You're.
Speaker 1: Intimately connected in a different type of way, right.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I totally know what you guys are saying, but
Speaker 7: I was actually okay with it. I don't really like
Speaker 7: to kiss on the first date.
Speaker 2: So he read you right, So that's good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so even if he had gone for the kiss,
Speaker 4: you would have said no, no, okay, all right.
Speaker 5: So that's how you left it. What's happened since then?
Speaker 7: Not a whole lot have happened. I've texted him and
Speaker 7: he just kind of hurts my text, just like reacts.
Speaker 7: I'm kind of confused.
Speaker 5: Well, it started off so great.
Speaker 4: I don't I can't imagine what would have made him
Speaker 4: not want to kiss you and not want to call
Speaker 4: you back.
Speaker 5: So let's try to figure that out for you. Maybe
Speaker 5: a pair of shoes.
Speaker 4: On the date.
Speaker 2: Judging about shoes, right, that's a good point.
Speaker 1: We'll find some people think a shoe says everything about
Speaker 1: a personal.
Speaker 4: I don't know who those people are, but we'll find
Speaker 4: out if your shoes weren't sexy enough when we come
Speaker 4: back and do your second date update right after this.
Speaker 7: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Second date update.
Speaker 4: How does that romantic saying go? Couples who love each
Speaker 4: other feed each other.
Speaker 2: I've never heard that. Is that something that's hanging in
Speaker 2: your kitchen.
Speaker 4: It should be one of those cute little.
Speaker 2: Left because love Sciences.
Speaker 4: Our listener Claire is well on her way to that
Speaker 4: because on her first hang out with Dan, the shoe salesman,
Speaker 4: they were hand feeding each other chips and salsa.
Speaker 5: At a Mexican restaurant, and you.
Speaker 4: Don't do that on a first date unless there's an
Speaker 4: obvious connection happening. True, not to mention the flowing Margarita's
Speaker 4: I probably assist.
Speaker 1: I do think we have to send him to an
Speaker 1: Italian restaurant if they go out again, just so they
Speaker 1: can lady and tramp some again.
Speaker 2: It's kind of their thing.
Speaker 5: Or a breadstick.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, there was no kiss at the end of
Speaker 4: the date. So Brooke, what's running through your mind? Why
Speaker 4: wouldn't she be getting the call for date number two?
Speaker 7: Here?
Speaker 1: It's so hard to know anymore. I mean, how single
Speaker 1: was this guy? Like you met him out in the wild.
Speaker 1: Did you do any Internet research on him?
Speaker 7: I mean, he doesn't really have social media.
Speaker 4: So you've already had your hands in each other's mouths
Speaker 4: at this point, So what could be stopping him from wanting.
Speaker 5: A little bit more of that?
Speaker 2: Why are they going in.
Speaker 4: Or two, a finger and the thumb. I gotta get
Speaker 4: my thumb in there, push it all the way to
Speaker 4: the back.
Speaker 5: I don't know how you do it, Claire.
Speaker 4: Let's just call Dan and we'll see if he picks
Speaker 4: up and hopefully has some answers for us.
Speaker 7: You ready, thanks, guys? Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 4: Think she's kind of over us at this point.
Speaker 2: By this point in the call, regret their decision.
Speaker 4: Pert they were right on track. Let's dial his number.
Speaker 5: Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Dan? Yeah? Who's this? Hey?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 5: This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 5: the Morning. How you doing?
Speaker 2: Hey Dan?
Speaker 6: Dan?
Speaker 4: Good morning brother?
Speaker 6: Oh okay, okay, why are you calling?
Speaker 4: We're calling because we're doing a segment. It's a really
Speaker 4: popular one called the Second Date Update. I'm not sure
Speaker 4: if you're familiar with that.
Speaker 6: H oh okay, so I still but why are you
Speaker 6: calling them?
Speaker 4: So the way that the segment works, the Second Date
Speaker 4: Update is trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 4: who went out with you recently says she had a
Speaker 4: really nice time and is confused why there hasn't been
Speaker 4: a second hang.
Speaker 6: Oh, okay, okay.
Speaker 5: So this is a woman named Claire.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, of course, expecting it interesting.
Speaker 5: So what was your what was your take on Claire?
Speaker 6: Uh, Claire really nice, Claire's really sweet. I had a
Speaker 6: good time with Claire.
Speaker 2: That's awesome.
Speaker 6: It's a bit of a mixed bag.
Speaker 2: For me, really, I mean for you.
Speaker 1: Were you impressed when she was the one that gave
Speaker 1: her number to your friend at work?
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was nice. You know that's not something that
Speaker 6: happens all the time. That makes me feel good.
Speaker 5: Okay, but you use the term it was a mixed bag.
Speaker 5: Usually that's not good and bad.
Speaker 6: Well, there's nothing bad. She didn't do anything bad. Let
Speaker 6: me be clear about that. I'm just a little a
Speaker 6: little more of a maybe.
Speaker 5: What's making it a maybe and not a definite yes.
Speaker 6: So like when we're walking to the table, I felt
Speaker 6: someone touched my back. Yeah, and she was like hold on,
Speaker 6: she adjusted my collar, she just my shirt collar was
Speaker 6: a little crooked.
Speaker 1: Nice, Okay, I mean I could see how some people
Speaker 1: would be because you just met her right like.
Speaker 6: It was fine. I appreciated it. It just I just
Speaker 6: I noted that like, oh, this person is very comfortable
Speaker 6: with me right away, and I just like, you know,
Speaker 6: we had just met, but it was sweet.
Speaker 1: Okay, so this isn't a bad check yet.
Speaker 6: Yeah, none of these are bad checks. I just don't
Speaker 6: know how to take it.
Speaker 5: Was there anything else?
Speaker 6: So so we order our food and they bring the
Speaker 6: chips in salsa.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we heard a little bit about the chips and salsa.
Speaker 5: Tell us about it.
Speaker 6: Oh you did?
Speaker 5: We did? She said that you two fed each other.
Speaker 6: Yes, ye, yeah, she fed me and I fed her back.
Speaker 6: But mostly it was just like I thought, it was
Speaker 6: pretty funny.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: It's interesting because I would have thought, you know, you're
Speaker 1: listening these things and you're just noting them, but you're laughing,
Speaker 1: and you sound like you're remembering the moments fondly.
Speaker 6: I'm laughing because when we were finished, she takes her
Speaker 6: napkin and she wipes a little bit of salsa from
Speaker 6: the corner of my mouth.
Speaker 4: She takes her napkin and wipes your face with it. Yeah,
Speaker 4: what was your take on that?
Speaker 6: I was surprised by it. I laughed out loud. I
Speaker 6: can't remember the last time somebody wiped my face for
Speaker 6: me with a napkin.
Speaker 2: Probably your mother did it.
Speaker 4: Probably didn't want to say that exactly, okay, but did
Speaker 4: she ask like, hey, you've got something there? Did she
Speaker 4: just go in for it?
Speaker 6: So she like said, oh, you got a little something,
Speaker 6: and just like this what and did.
Speaker 5: It as she's doing it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's funny because you can see this kind of person.
Speaker 5: She's just comfortable with you.
Speaker 4: She's trying to be kind, but you're crossing a boundary potentially, right.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it wasn't that boundaries were crossed. It was just
Speaker 6: that I I just wasn't there yet. We're still just
Speaker 6: getting to know each other. Yeah, and then she's like
Speaker 6: putting my napkin on my lap for me.
Speaker 2: Oh, well you don't want a little smothering.
Speaker 4: Okay, but you don't dirty live So I could see
Speaker 4: why she did that.
Speaker 1: But she cares, you know, like she's doing things totally.
Speaker 6: I get that, And no other girl would ever do
Speaker 6: that for me or ever has done that for me.
Speaker 5: Oh that's sweet.
Speaker 4: I mean she's looking out for you. She's watching over you,
Speaker 4: even listening in on this phone call to make.
Speaker 5: Sure that you're okay right now. She's there always.
Speaker 6: Oh that makes sense?
Speaker 2: Really, doesn't do you think it fits with everything else?
Speaker 5: Because I'm serious, I.
Speaker 6: Mean I just didn't that she's on the phone. Of
Speaker 6: course she is. I didn't think about them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's really there, Claire.
Speaker 7: I did hear all of it, and you know what
Speaker 7: I do like hearing the voice of my dirty little
Speaker 7: Danny on the phone.
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, Dan, do you know that that nickname already?
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was using it at the restaurant.
Speaker 4: It like a like a dirty like a sexy thing
Speaker 4: or is it No?
Speaker 6: It was like when she went to wipe my mouth,
Speaker 6: she was like, oh, it was my dirty little Danny.
Speaker 5: And then it just came back throughout the night.
Speaker 2: She said it in like it turned on Tony.
Speaker 4: Interesting. You know what, there's a lot happening. We should
Speaker 4: step back from this and let you two talk to
Speaker 4: each other. So Claire talked to dirty.
Speaker 7: Dan for your Oh you should know that I obviously
Speaker 7: like you because I don't do that with everyone. And
Speaker 7: I want to say that I know that I untopped
Speaker 7: your shirt at one point, but why because he ate
Speaker 7: a little too much and I could.
Speaker 6: Tell that.
Speaker 2: Is the un like I like, no, you on tugget
Speaker 2: to take the shirt off. I mean at some point
Speaker 2: in the date, but not.
Speaker 4: But what does Dan think of that?
Speaker 5: That was?
Speaker 6: Actually that was funny, right.
Speaker 1: If a man came over and unbuttoned my parents because
Speaker 1: they look.
Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you it is.
Speaker 4: Not going over. Somebody shouldn't have had that six slice
Speaker 4: of pizza. I oh my god. But but you don't
Speaker 4: sound totally opposed to it.
Speaker 6: That's why I was telling you guys. It's like a
Speaker 6: mixed bag, like we do kind of fit in certain ways.
Speaker 5: Okay, you like being doated on just a tiny bit.
Speaker 2: Like this doted or mothered. I know, but he's mothered.
Speaker 2: I don't do that for my kids.
Speaker 4: I know. That's where it crosses the line with this
Speaker 4: dirty danny stuff. It's like right in the.
Speaker 5: Middle, you know.
Speaker 7: Like I told you guys, I want to be married
Speaker 7: and I want to be a mom one day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the maternalist.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, post kids, you're gonna feel very
Speaker 1: differently about also having to mother a man.
Speaker 7: I guess you're right. I mean, here's the thing. I
Speaker 7: just truly believe that we do need to spend more
Speaker 7: time together. Dan, So, I guess I'm sorry I untucked
Speaker 7: your shirt if you didn't like it, but I thought
Speaker 7: I was being helpful. That's all I'm going to say.
Speaker 4: Wow, Claire is just laying it out there, Dan, she
Speaker 4: really wants to see you again, and if you're willing
Speaker 4: to give her one more chance, we would pay for
Speaker 4: that date.
Speaker 1: I will say, it does sound like she's hearing you
Speaker 1: on some of these boundaries.
Speaker 6: Totally again, and it's it's partly on me for not
Speaker 6: speaking up. But Claire, I would love to go on
Speaker 6: another date with you, provided that you understand that. I
Speaker 6: just like, I'm a little bit of a slow mover
Speaker 6: and I'm going to have to get to know somebody
Speaker 6: a lot more before I'd just like to decide, Oh,
Speaker 6: this is the person that for me, whoa.
Speaker 4: Using his big boy voice to lay down there in
Speaker 4: the relationship.
Speaker 7: Claire, totally understandable. I just want to let you know
Speaker 7: I did hold back a little bit on this date.
Speaker 7: I almost put the straw to your lips for the margarita,
Speaker 7: and I chose that so.
Speaker 2: Straight.
Speaker 6: Dan, you know what I sense that I saw you
Speaker 6: go from my drink and then pull away from it.
Speaker 2: Okay, it be interesting to see where this goes.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like this is a success.
Speaker 4: We're gonna send you to out one more time, and
Speaker 4: dirty Dan, you're gonna have to behave yourself.
Speaker 2: I don't think she wants him to behave himself.
Speaker 7: Get so excited, Danny, I'll be watching you.
Speaker 2: Oh why.
Speaker 6: I love it?
Speaker 4: This is funny Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Well,
Speaker 4: this just goes to prove there's a relationship out there
Speaker 4: that works for everyone.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I guarantee nine out of ten times we
Speaker 4: make that call, the dude would say she was ah,
Speaker 4: she was trying to mother me and doesn't see the
Speaker 4: fun side of it.
Speaker 1: I know if I don't like you, Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: think she's gonna let him know that he does like it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that he's gonna have a choice
Speaker 2: in the end of.
Speaker 4: All of this, Brook, you have my full permission at
Speaker 4: our next show dinner to untuck my shirt post dinner
Speaker 4: if you feel like I've eaten too much.
Speaker 2: That is a hard pass.
Speaker 1: Like I said, she may think that type of behavior
Speaker 1: is cute. Now wait till she's got two or three
Speaker 1: kids under her belt. God, you're so annoying. An't you
Speaker 1: do anything yourself?
Speaker 4: But maybe you feel like you don't like it until
Speaker 4: you try it the same way that he did. Our
Speaker 4: listeners have my full permission to go to our podcast too.
Speaker 4: And comment what a big boy I am. After you
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