WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dirty Danny the Sexy Shoe Salesman 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.040 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and starting your 0:00:02.040 --> 0:00:03.880 week with a brand new second Date episode. 0:00:03.920 --> 0:00:07.200 Thanks for being here today. You never know who you're 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:09.440 gonna meet, especially if it's a sexy shoe Sailles. 0:00:09.520 --> 0:00:14.120 Oh yeah, it was toes done before you buy shoes neck. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.439 So saying, because one lady definitely met that guy. So 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:20.400 we're gonna do that in just a second. But first 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:23.000 comments yep or okay, prepare for this one. I'm gonna 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:24.400 warn you it's a long one. 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:26.880 No you'll see. Hey, guys. 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:30.160 Ruby from Sydney, Australia. I've been listening for about two 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:32.160 years now every morning on my way to work. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:34.480 But two days ago I crashed. 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:37.240 My car and nearly died while listening to the Sunset 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.800 Scribbles episode. But after it happened, all I could hear 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.920 was laughter from all of you while it was blasting 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:45.680 from my car, and it was so loud I couldn't 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.960 help but laugh and cry at the same time. 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:51.560 It really helped me in that moment. Thank you guys. 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:53.960 I'm just going. 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:56.840 I'm reading this because she commented, I'm assuming alive and 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:58.200 well and okay. 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:01.200 But at a hospital bet it'll cat Yeah, I don't know, 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:04.080 but we hope you're okay. I hope you're okay. 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:05.800 I always think about that, Like, if I were to 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.319 ever crash my car and like there was a song plane, 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.280 would I always associate that song? 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:13.720 Yeah, I'd probably have a sports radio talk on the 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:14.720 the most boring way. 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:19.039 So hopefully you don't associate us with that now, Yeah, 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:20.319 all right with us? 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:22.720 Yeah, and hope you're on those good paints. Okay, Yeah, 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.640 Ruby get well. Yeah, thanks for being here. Your brand 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:26.880 new episode starts right now. 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:30.039 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second Date Updates. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:35.160 When you meet someone special, what's the first thing that 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:36.839 usually draws you. 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.240 In their eyes? 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:38.840 Oh? 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:42.720 Their laugh, their hair, their laugh, you speak for yourself. No, 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:45.119 today it's their feet. 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:49.880 Oh we're gonna start here. We usually end up here. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:50.640 Try to be. 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:51.520 Creepy about it. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.600 The reason that I bring it up is because our 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:56.520 listener Claire says she met a guy that she's interested 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:58.200 in at a shoe store. 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:01.080 Oh, she's like the modern day Cindere could be. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:01.560 Claire. 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:04.480 Does it ever go through your mind that shoe stores 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:07.000 are the hotspots for all the pervs. It's where they 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:09.200 congregate you. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.080 No, I don't think so. 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:13.920 Okay, you don't hang out at the shoe stores that 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:14.760 I hang out at. 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:19.600 So I've never had a weird interaction at a shoe store, Jeff. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:21.040 So I think it's maybe just you. 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:24.080 Oh, I will give you some addresses that will change 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:26.720 how you think. But okay, maybe there's a different type 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:28.919 of shoe place. So tell us about how you met 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:30.040 this guy. What's his name, by the. 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:34.839 Way, Yeah, mine wasn't privy at all. His name was Dan. Okay, 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:39.840 Then while I was basically he wasn't actually helping me. 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:42.000 He was helping this girl that was next to me. 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:45.000 I was, he's an employee. 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:46.639 There or is he just a random guy that goes 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:48.320 around helping people at shoe stores? 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:55.800 No, he was super sweet. He actually does work there, okay, shoeman, 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:58.240 All right? Like I said, he wasn't helping me directly, 0:02:58.280 --> 0:02:59.920 but he was helping a woman that was next to me, 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.160 and every time he would go get her some shoes, 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.480 he kind of would like chat up with me a 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:09.119 little bit and like be like, oh, those shoes look great, 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:09.680 you know what I mean? 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.480 Like, I mean, out of all the departments you could 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:14.520 work in, it would be the easiest to meet someone 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:16.880 in the shoe department, because you're just there longer, like 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.240 you're saying, like you're waiting for other shoes to come 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:20.080 back from the back. 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:21.720 Yeah. 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:23.880 Yeah, so it's not like you can get up and leave. 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:26.320 You guys. 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:27.919 He was really nice. 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.080 He was like and more than just like I make 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.120 commission nice like, I. 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:35.360 Mean, that was the best part. I wasn't his customer. 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.160 He wasn't making any commission off me. 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.680 Did you make a move? 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.520 Yeah, here's the thing. I went up to go buy 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:45.360 my shoes and I told the girl that was checking 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:47.960 me out, I actually need her my number, and said, 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:51.520 can you give it to that guy over there, that 0:03:51.560 --> 0:03:54.560 shoe guy over there? And she did? 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:55.080 Whoa? 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:58.880 I thought, you know, why the heck not? I never 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:01.880 find anybody in the while anymore. We see dating apps, 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:02.360 you know what I mean? 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:03.080 This is great. 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:04.640 Feet stores are better than Tinder. 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:04.800 Now. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:05.680 Who would have thought. 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.960 We've gotten to that point in life, but we made it. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:10.800 This is awesome. So did he reach out to you? 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:11.600 He did? 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:15.200 He totally reached out to me, and he suggested a 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:17.800 Mexican place home the wall. 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:22.599 It was really nice, Like how much attention did you want? 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:24.719 Jose wants to ask specifically, about the menu. We do 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:25.040 know that. 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:27.839 All I wanted to know is how many margarita she had? 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.200 Was this like a lunch date or like a happy 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:32.480 hour type of date? 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:35.160 It was more of a happy hour. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:38.599 How was the connection between you and Dan? 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.919 I thought it ended up being very natural. I was 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:45.720 very happy, like I left, Okay, was that Dan? 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:47.560 Or was that the margaritas? Though? That was. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:52.880 That's true, but maybe something specific about Dan that happened 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:53.599 that made you happy. 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.839 It was really playful between us. I felt really good. 0:04:56.880 --> 0:05:00.719 And at one point we were feeding each other chips 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:01.760 and salsa. 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:08.000 So little messy, yeah, but it was. 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:09.720 Kind of sweet. It was really sweet. 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.400 That is okay. That was like a romantic move. 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.359 It was to know who started that. 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:20.279 I kind of started it. I kind of wanted to 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:24.920 like show him that I was playful, and he reciprocated. 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.440 So we'll see that in romantic movies, where like at 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.039 a certain point they feed each other like an ord 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:31.479 deruv or something. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:33.839 I don't know if I've ever said anyone outside of 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:36.279 my toddlers, I really can't. 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:38.479 They've never been making a cake and you put some 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.320 frosting on your husband's nose, and you guys have a 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:41.000 frosting fight. 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:43.760 No, maybe I'm not romantic enough. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:46.560 I mean, don't you think it would be nice at 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.920 our next show dinner if at one point we all 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:52.800 just stopped and fed the person to our right, put 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:54.920 a sushi role in the next person's mouth. 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:56.280 I'm sick. I can't go. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:05:58.960 Just the three of us. 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.279 Then, well, every way, it doesn't matter what we think 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:01.560 or do. 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:04.000 It's that you liked it, and you think Dan liked 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:07.440 it because then he fed you, right, that's the indicator 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:08.360 that he was into it. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.800 If he did feed me back, Yeah, it wasn't just 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.240 me feeding him. 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.119 Yeah, you gotta be careful with sharp tortilla chips. 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:19.719 Yeah, yeah, gollm or something. All right, I mean this 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.920 is sounding pretty good. How does the date end? 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:26.000 So basically we got to know each other, we talked 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:30.040 about our jobs, and then when we last he walked 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:33.240 me to my car, obviously, but he did not try 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:34.280 to kiss me, which. 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:36.240 You know what I would books outreached. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:38.719 Why am the only reason I say? 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.719 What is you just fed each other. You would think that, like. 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:43.320 But you feed your toddler, You're. 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.880 Intimately connected in a different type of way, right. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.120 Yeah, I totally know what you guys are saying, but 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:52.159 I was actually okay with it. I don't really like 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:53.280 to kiss on the first date. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:56.280 So he read you right, So that's good. 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:58.080 Yeah, so even if he had gone for the kiss, 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:05.760 you would have said no, no, okay, all right. 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:08.560 So that's how you left it. What's happened since then? 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:13.680 Not a whole lot have happened. I've texted him and 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.640 he just kind of hurts my text, just like reacts. 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:19.680 I'm kind of confused. 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:21.360 Well, it started off so great. 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:23.680 I don't I can't imagine what would have made him 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.240 not want to kiss you and not want to call 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:25.720 you back. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.720 So let's try to figure that out for you. Maybe 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:29.760 a pair of shoes. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:29.880 On the date. 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:33.600 Judging about shoes, right, that's a good point. 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:36.120 We'll find some people think a shoe says everything about 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:37.440 a personal. 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:39.720 I don't know who those people are, but we'll find 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:42.560 out if your shoes weren't sexy enough when we come 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.160 back and do your second date update right after this. 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:47.240 Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:48.640 Second date update. 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:53.840 How does that romantic saying go? Couples who love each 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:55.400 other feed each other. 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:58.600 I've never heard that. Is that something that's hanging in 0:07:58.680 --> 0:07:59.400 your kitchen. 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:01.240 It should be one of those cute little. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:02.559 Left because love Sciences. 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:05.320 Our listener Claire is well on her way to that 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:08.960 because on her first hang out with Dan, the shoe salesman, 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:12.720 they were hand feeding each other chips and salsa. 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.440 At a Mexican restaurant, and you. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.840 Don't do that on a first date unless there's an 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:20.760 obvious connection happening. True, not to mention the flowing Margarita's 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:22.760 I probably assist. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:24.560 I do think we have to send him to an 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:26.520 Italian restaurant if they go out again, just so they 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:28.360 can lady and tramp some again. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:30.400 It's kind of their thing. 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:31.280 Or a breadstick. 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:34.599 Oh yeah, there was no kiss at the end of 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.840 the date. So Brooke, what's running through your mind? Why 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.600 wouldn't she be getting the call for date number two? 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:40.880 Here? 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.920 It's so hard to know anymore. I mean, how single 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.160 was this guy? Like you met him out in the wild. 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:50.199 Did you do any Internet research on him? 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:52.960 I mean, he doesn't really have social media. 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.640 So you've already had your hands in each other's mouths 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:58.880 at this point, So what could be stopping him from wanting. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:08:59.760 A little bit more of that? 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:00.920 Why are they going in. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.439 Or two, a finger and the thumb. I gotta get 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.880 my thumb in there, push it all the way to 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:07.280 the back. 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:08.840 I don't know how you do it, Claire. 0:09:09.120 --> 0:09:11.000 Let's just call Dan and we'll see if he picks 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:12.640 up and hopefully has some answers for us. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:16.040 You ready, thanks, guys? Yeah, yeah, I. 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:17.760 Think she's kind of over us at this point. 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:20.599 By this point in the call, regret their decision. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.480 Pert they were right on track. Let's dial his number. 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:34.400 Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Dan? Yeah? Who's this? Hey? 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:34.640 Man? 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:36.520 This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:37.440 the Morning. How you doing? 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:38.319 Hey Dan? 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:39.280 Dan? 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:40.160 Good morning brother? 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.920 Oh okay, okay, why are you calling? 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:47.400 We're calling because we're doing a segment. It's a really 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:50.040 popular one called the Second Date Update. I'm not sure 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:51.080 if you're familiar with that. 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:55.640 H oh okay, so I still but why are you 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:56.160 calling them? 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:59.280 So the way that the segment works, the Second Date 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.800 Update is trying to help out one of our listeners 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.560 who went out with you recently says she had a 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.200 really nice time and is confused why there hasn't been 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:07.920 a second hang. 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.040 Oh, okay, okay. 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:12.720 So this is a woman named Claire. 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:18.720 Yeah, sure, of course, expecting it interesting. 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:21.520 So what was your what was your take on Claire? 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:27.520 Uh, Claire really nice, Claire's really sweet. I had a 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:28.560 good time with Claire. 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:29.480 That's awesome. 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:31.480 It's a bit of a mixed bag. 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:33.400 For me, really, I mean for you. 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.959 Were you impressed when she was the one that gave 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.600 her number to your friend at work? 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.080 Yeah, that was nice. You know that's not something that 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:43.160 happens all the time. That makes me feel good. 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:46.120 Okay, but you use the term it was a mixed bag. 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:48.559 Usually that's not good and bad. 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:51.080 Well, there's nothing bad. She didn't do anything bad. Let 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:52.880 me be clear about that. I'm just a little a 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:53.880 little more of a maybe. 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:56.640 What's making it a maybe and not a definite yes. 0:10:57.520 --> 0:10:59.560 So like when we're walking to the table, I felt 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.440 someone touched my back. Yeah, and she was like hold on, 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:04.920 she adjusted my collar, she just my shirt collar was 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:05.600 a little crooked. 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:09.000 Nice, Okay, I mean I could see how some people 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.200 would be because you just met her right like. 0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:13.200 It was fine. I appreciated it. It just I just 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:16.120 I noted that like, oh, this person is very comfortable 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:17.960 with me right away, and I just like, you know, 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:19.480 we had just met, but it was sweet. 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:22.840 Okay, so this isn't a bad check yet. 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.440 Yeah, none of these are bad checks. I just don't 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:26.040 know how to take it. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:27.840 Was there anything else? 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.040 So so we order our food and they bring the 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:32.200 chips in salsa. 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.160 Yeah, we heard a little bit about the chips and salsa. 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:36.920 Tell us about it. 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:37.640 Oh you did? 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.560 We did? She said that you two fed each other. 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:46.679 Yes, ye, yeah, she fed me and I fed her back. 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:48.719 But mostly it was just like I thought, it was 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:49.360 pretty funny. 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:50.600 Okay. 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:53.160 It's interesting because I would have thought, you know, you're 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:56.400 listening these things and you're just noting them, but you're laughing, 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.360 and you sound like you're remembering the moments fondly. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:04.000 I'm laughing because when we were finished, she takes her 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:07.280 napkin and she wipes a little bit of salsa from 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:08.600 the corner of my mouth. 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:14.200 She takes her napkin and wipes your face with it. Yeah, 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:15.640 what was your take on that? 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:19.440 I was surprised by it. I laughed out loud. I 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.400 can't remember the last time somebody wiped my face for 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:23.120 me with a napkin. 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:25.199 Probably your mother did it. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:28.839 Probably didn't want to say that exactly, okay, but did 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:31.400 she ask like, hey, you've got something there? Did she 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:32.559 just go in for it? 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:34.960 So she like said, oh, you got a little something, 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:36.200 and just like this what and did. 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:37.120 It as she's doing it. 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:37.800 Yeah. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.360 It's funny because you can see this kind of person. 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:42.600 She's just comfortable with you. 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:46.840 She's trying to be kind, but you're crossing a boundary potentially, right. 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:50.040 Yeah, it wasn't that boundaries were crossed. It was just 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:52.120 that I I just wasn't there yet. We're still just 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:54.640 getting to know each other. Yeah, and then she's like 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:56.280 putting my napkin on my lap for me. 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.800 Oh, well you don't want a little smothering. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.559 Okay, but you don't dirty live So I could see 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:02.240 why she did that. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:06.360 But she cares, you know, like she's doing things totally. 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:09.360 I get that, And no other girl would ever do 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:11.640 that for me or ever has done that for me. 0:13:12.040 --> 0:13:14.120 Oh that's sweet. 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:17.120 I mean she's looking out for you. She's watching over you, 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:19.520 even listening in on this phone call to make. 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:22.680 Sure that you're okay right now. She's there always. 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:24.520 Oh that makes sense? 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.720 Really, doesn't do you think it fits with everything else? 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:28.760 Because I'm serious, I. 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:30.800 Mean I just didn't that she's on the phone. Of 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:32.040 course she is. I didn't think about them. 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:35.520 Yeah, she's really there, Claire. 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:39.120 I did hear all of it, and you know what 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:43.120 I do like hearing the voice of my dirty little 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:44.280 Danny on the phone. 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:53.080 Wait, wait, Dan, do you know that that nickname already? 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:57.840 Yeah, she was using it at the restaurant. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:02.600 It like a like a dirty like a sexy thing 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:03.200 or is it No? 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.280 It was like when she went to wipe my mouth, 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.120 she was like, oh, it was my dirty little Danny. 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:09.240 And then it just came back throughout the night. 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:11.720 She said it in like it turned on Tony. 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:15.400 Interesting. You know what, there's a lot happening. We should 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.840 step back from this and let you two talk to 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.560 each other. So Claire talked to dirty. 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:24.240 Dan for your Oh you should know that I obviously 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.760 like you because I don't do that with everyone. And 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.880 I want to say that I know that I untopped 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:36.240 your shirt at one point, but why because he ate 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:37.680 a little too much and I could. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.080 Tell that. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:48.880 Is the un like I like, no, you on tugget 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.720 to take the shirt off. I mean at some point 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:51.480 in the date, but not. 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.760 But what does Dan think of that? 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:55.080 That was? 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:57.680 Actually that was funny, right. 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.760 If a man came over and unbuttoned my parents because 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:02.120 they look. 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:05.320 I'm going to tell you it is. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.240 Not going over. Somebody shouldn't have had that six slice 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:21.160 of pizza. I oh my god. But but you don't 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:23.320 sound totally opposed to it. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:25.560 That's why I was telling you guys. It's like a 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:28.040 mixed bag, like we do kind of fit in certain ways. 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:32.920 Okay, you like being doated on just a tiny bit. 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:37.920 Like this doted or mothered. I know, but he's mothered. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.160 I don't do that for my kids. 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:41.560 I know. That's where it crosses the line with this 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:43.720 dirty danny stuff. It's like right in the. 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:44.520 Middle, you know. 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.160 Like I told you guys, I want to be married 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:50.560 and I want to be a mom one day. 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:51.520 Yeah, the maternalist. 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:55.120 I'm gonna tell you, post kids, you're gonna feel very 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.640 differently about also having to mother a man. 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:01.960 I guess you're right. I mean, here's the thing. I 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:05.920 just truly believe that we do need to spend more 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.880 time together. Dan, So, I guess I'm sorry I untucked 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.560 your shirt if you didn't like it, but I thought 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:14.240 I was being helpful. That's all I'm going to say. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:16.840 Wow, Claire is just laying it out there, Dan, she 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:18.920 really wants to see you again, and if you're willing 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:21.680 to give her one more chance, we would pay for 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:22.240 that date. 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.160 I will say, it does sound like she's hearing you 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:27.240 on some of these boundaries. 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:29.720 Totally again, and it's it's partly on me for not 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:33.880 speaking up. But Claire, I would love to go on 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:38.360 another date with you, provided that you understand that. I 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:40.520 just like, I'm a little bit of a slow mover 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:43.480 and I'm going to have to get to know somebody 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.560 a lot more before I'd just like to decide, Oh, 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:49.080 this is the person that for me, whoa. 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:52.080 Using his big boy voice to lay down there in 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:53.000 the relationship. 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:57.080 Claire, totally understandable. I just want to let you know 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.320 I did hold back a little bit on this date. 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:04.320 I almost put the straw to your lips for the margarita, 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:05.679 and I chose that so. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:08.320 Straight. 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:12.520