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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and starting your

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Speaker 1: week with a brand new second Date episode.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for being here today. You never know who you're

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Speaker 2: gonna meet, especially if it's a sexy shoe Sailles.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was toes done before you buy shoes neck.

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Speaker 1: So saying, because one lady definitely met that guy. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do that in just a second. But first

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Speaker 1: comments yep or okay, prepare for this one. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: warn you it's a long one.

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Speaker 2: No you'll see. Hey, guys.

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Speaker 3: Ruby from Sydney, Australia. I've been listening for about two

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Speaker 3: years now every morning on my way to work.

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Speaker 2: But two days ago I crashed.

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Speaker 3: My car and nearly died while listening to the Sunset

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Speaker 3: Scribbles episode. But after it happened, all I could hear

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Speaker 3: was laughter from all of you while it was blasting

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Speaker 3: from my car, and it was so loud I couldn't

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Speaker 3: help but laugh and cry at the same time.

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Speaker 2: It really helped me in that moment. Thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: I'm just going.

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Speaker 3: I'm reading this because she commented, I'm assuming alive and

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Speaker 3: well and okay.

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Speaker 2: But at a hospital bet it'll cat Yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but we hope you're okay. I hope you're okay.

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Speaker 1: I always think about that, Like, if I were to

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Speaker 1: ever crash my car and like there was a song plane,

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Speaker 1: would I always associate that song?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd probably have a sports radio talk on the

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Speaker 4: the most boring way.

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Speaker 3: So hopefully you don't associate us with that now, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: all right with us?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and hope you're on those good paints. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Ruby get well. Yeah, thanks for being here. Your brand

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Speaker 2: new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 4: When you meet someone special, what's the first thing that

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Speaker 4: usually draws you.

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Speaker 5: In their eyes?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Their laugh, their hair, their laugh, you speak for yourself. No,

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Speaker 4: today it's their feet.

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Speaker 2: Oh we're gonna start here. We usually end up here.

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Speaker 6: Try to be.

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Speaker 5: Creepy about it.

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Speaker 4: The reason that I bring it up is because our

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Speaker 4: listener Claire says she met a guy that she's interested

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Speaker 4: in at a shoe store.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's like the modern day Cindere could be.

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Speaker 5: Claire.

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Speaker 4: Does it ever go through your mind that shoe stores

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Speaker 7: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you don't hang out at the shoe stores that

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Speaker 4: I hang out at.

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Speaker 1: So I've never had a weird interaction at a shoe store, Jeff.

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Speaker 2: So I think it's maybe just you.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I will give you some addresses that will change

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Speaker 4: how you think. But okay, maybe there's a different type

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Speaker 4: of shoe place. So tell us about how you met

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Speaker 4: this guy. What's his name, by the.

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Speaker 7: Way, Yeah, mine wasn't privy at all. His name was Dan. Okay,

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Speaker 7: Then while I was basically he wasn't actually helping me.

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Speaker 7: He was helping this girl that was next to me.

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Speaker 2: I was, he's an employee.

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Speaker 4: There or is he just a random guy that goes

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Speaker 7: No, he was super sweet. He actually does work there, okay, shoeman,

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Speaker 7: All right? Like I said, he wasn't helping me directly,

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Speaker 7: and every time he would go get her some shoes,

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Speaker 7: he kind of would like chat up with me a

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Speaker 7: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like, I mean, out of all the departments you could

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Speaker 1: in the shoe department, because you're just there longer, like

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's not like you can get up and leave.

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Speaker 7: You guys.

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Speaker 6: He was really nice.

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Speaker 2: He was like and more than just like I make

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Speaker 7: Mean, that was the best part. I wasn't his customer.

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Speaker 7: He wasn't making any commission off me.

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Speaker 2: Did you make a move?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, here's the thing. I went up to go buy

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Speaker 2: Whoa?

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Speaker 7: I thought, you know, why the heck not? I never

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Speaker 7: find anybody in the while anymore. We see dating apps,

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Speaker 7: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: This is great.

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Speaker 5: Feet stores are better than Tinder.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 5: Who would have thought.

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Speaker 4: We've gotten to that point in life, but we made it.

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Speaker 5: This is awesome. So did he reach out to you?

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Speaker 6: He did?

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Speaker 7: He totally reached out to me, and he suggested a

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Speaker 7: Mexican place home the wall.

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Speaker 4: It was really nice, Like how much attention did you want?

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Speaker 5: Jose wants to ask specifically, about the menu. We do

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Speaker 2: All I wanted to know is how many margarita she had?

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Speaker 4: Was this like a lunch date or like a happy

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Speaker 7: It was more of a happy hour.

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Speaker 5: How was the connection between you and Dan?

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Speaker 7: I thought it ended up being very natural. I was

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Speaker 7: very happy, like I left, Okay, was that Dan?

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Speaker 5: Or was that the margaritas? Though? That was.

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Speaker 4: That's true, but maybe something specific about Dan that happened

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Speaker 7: It was really playful between us. I felt really good.

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Speaker 7: And at one point we were feeding each other chips

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Speaker 4: So little messy, yeah, but it was.

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Speaker 7: Kind of sweet. It was really sweet.

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Speaker 5: That is okay. That was like a romantic move.

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Speaker 2: It was to know who started that.

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Speaker 7: I kind of started it. I kind of wanted to

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Speaker 4: So we'll see that in romantic movies, where like at

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Speaker 4: a certain point they feed each other like an ord

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever said anyone outside of

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Speaker 4: They've never been making a cake and you put some

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Speaker 2: No, maybe I'm not romantic enough.

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Speaker 4: I mean, don't you think it would be nice at

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Speaker 4: our next show dinner if at one point we all

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Speaker 4: just stopped and fed the person to our right, put

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Speaker 2: I'm sick. I can't go.

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Speaker 5: Just the three of us.

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Speaker 2: Then, well, every way, it doesn't matter what we think

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Speaker 1: It's that you liked it, and you think Dan liked

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Speaker 1: it because then he fed you, right, that's the indicator

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Speaker 1: that he was into it.

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Speaker 7: If he did feed me back, Yeah, it wasn't just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta be careful with sharp tortilla chips.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, gollm or something. All right, I mean this

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Speaker 4: is sounding pretty good. How does the date end?

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Speaker 7: So basically we got to know each other, we talked

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Speaker 7: about our jobs, and then when we last he walked

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Speaker 7: me to my car, obviously, but he did not try

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Speaker 2: You know what I would books outreached.

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Speaker 1: Why am the only reason I say?

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Speaker 2: What is you just fed each other. You would think that, like.

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Speaker 5: But you feed your toddler, You're.

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Speaker 1: Intimately connected in a different type of way, right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I totally know what you guys are saying, but

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Speaker 7: I was actually okay with it. I don't really like

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Speaker 7: to kiss on the first date.

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Speaker 2: So he read you right, So that's good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so even if he had gone for the kiss,

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Speaker 4: you would have said no, no, okay, all right.

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Speaker 5: So that's how you left it. What's happened since then?

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Speaker 7: Not a whole lot have happened. I've texted him and

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Speaker 7: he just kind of hurts my text, just like reacts.

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Speaker 7: I'm kind of confused.

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Speaker 5: Well, it started off so great.

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Speaker 4: I don't I can't imagine what would have made him

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Speaker 5: So let's try to figure that out for you. Maybe

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Speaker 5: a pair of shoes.

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Speaker 4: On the date.

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Speaker 2: Judging about shoes, right, that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: We'll find some people think a shoe says everything about

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Speaker 4: I don't know who those people are, but we'll find

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Speaker 4: out if your shoes weren't sexy enough when we come

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Speaker 4: back and do your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 7: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Second date update.

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Speaker 4: How does that romantic saying go? Couples who love each

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Speaker 4: other feed each other.

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Speaker 2: I've never heard that. Is that something that's hanging in

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Speaker 2: your kitchen.

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Speaker 4: It should be one of those cute little.

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Speaker 2: Left because love Sciences.

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Speaker 4: Our listener Claire is well on her way to that

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Speaker 4: because on her first hang out with Dan, the shoe salesman,

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Speaker 4: they were hand feeding each other chips and salsa.

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Speaker 5: At a Mexican restaurant, and you.

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Speaker 4: Don't do that on a first date unless there's an

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Speaker 4: obvious connection happening. True, not to mention the flowing Margarita's

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Speaker 4: I probably assist.

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Speaker 1: I do think we have to send him to an

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Speaker 1: Italian restaurant if they go out again, just so they

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Speaker 1: can lady and tramp some again.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of their thing.

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Speaker 5: Or a breadstick.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, there was no kiss at the end of

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Speaker 4: the date. So Brooke, what's running through your mind? Why

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Speaker 4: wouldn't she be getting the call for date number two?

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Speaker 7: Here?

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Speaker 1: It's so hard to know anymore. I mean, how single

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Speaker 1: was this guy? Like you met him out in the wild.

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Speaker 1: Did you do any Internet research on him?

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Speaker 7: I mean, he doesn't really have social media.

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Speaker 4: So you've already had your hands in each other's mouths

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Speaker 4: at this point, So what could be stopping him from wanting.

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Speaker 5: A little bit more of that?

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Speaker 2: Why are they going in.

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Speaker 4: Or two, a finger and the thumb. I gotta get

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Speaker 4: my thumb in there, push it all the way to

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Speaker 4: the back.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how you do it, Claire.

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Speaker 4: Let's just call Dan and we'll see if he picks

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Speaker 4: up and hopefully has some answers for us.

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Speaker 7: You ready, thanks, guys? Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Think she's kind of over us at this point.

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Speaker 2: By this point in the call, regret their decision.

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Speaker 4: Pert they were right on track. Let's dial his number.

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Speaker 5: Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Dan? Yeah? Who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 5: This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 5: the Morning. How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hey Dan?

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Speaker 6: Dan?

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Speaker 4: Good morning brother?

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, okay, why are you calling?

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Speaker 4: We're calling because we're doing a segment. It's a really

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Speaker 6: H oh okay, so I still but why are you

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Speaker 4: So the way that the segment works, the Second Date

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Speaker 4: Update is trying to help out one of our listeners

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Speaker 4: who went out with you recently says she had a

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Speaker 6: Oh, okay, okay.

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Speaker 5: So this is a woman named Claire.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, of course, expecting it interesting.

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Speaker 5: So what was your what was your take on Claire?

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Speaker 6: Uh, Claire really nice, Claire's really sweet. I had a

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Speaker 6: good time with Claire.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome.

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Speaker 6: It's a bit of a mixed bag.

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Speaker 2: For me, really, I mean for you.

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Speaker 1: Were you impressed when she was the one that gave

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that was nice. You know that's not something that

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Speaker 5: Okay, but you use the term it was a mixed bag.

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Speaker 5: Usually that's not good and bad.

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Speaker 6: Well, there's nothing bad. She didn't do anything bad. Let

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Speaker 6: me be clear about that. I'm just a little a

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Speaker 5: What's making it a maybe and not a definite yes.

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Speaker 6: So like when we're walking to the table, I felt

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Speaker 1: Nice, Okay, I mean I could see how some people

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Speaker 6: It was fine. I appreciated it. It just I just

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Speaker 6: I noted that like, oh, this person is very comfortable

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this isn't a bad check yet.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, none of these are bad checks. I just don't

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Speaker 5: Was there anything else?

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Speaker 6: So so we order our food and they bring the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we heard a little bit about the chips and salsa.

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Speaker 5: Tell us about it.

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Speaker 6: Oh you did?

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Speaker 5: We did? She said that you two fed each other.

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Speaker 6: Yes, ye, yeah, she fed me and I fed her back.

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Speaker 6: But mostly it was just like I thought, it was

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting because I would have thought, you know, you're

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Speaker 6: I'm laughing because when we were finished, she takes her

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Speaker 4: She takes her napkin and wipes your face with it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: what was your take on that?

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Speaker 6: I was surprised by it. I laughed out loud. I

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Speaker 2: Probably your mother did it.

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Speaker 4: Probably didn't want to say that exactly, okay, but did

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Speaker 4: she ask like, hey, you've got something there? Did she

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Speaker 4: just go in for it?

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Speaker 6: So she like said, oh, you got a little something,

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Speaker 5: It as she's doing it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It's funny because you can see this kind of person.

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Speaker 5: She's just comfortable with you.

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Speaker 4: She's trying to be kind, but you're crossing a boundary potentially, right.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it wasn't that boundaries were crossed. It was just

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Speaker 6: getting to know each other. Yeah, and then she's like

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Speaker 2: Oh, well you don't want a little smothering.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but you don't dirty live So I could see

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Speaker 1: But she cares, you know, like she's doing things totally.

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Speaker 6: I get that, And no other girl would ever do

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Speaker 5: Oh that's sweet.

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Speaker 4: I mean she's looking out for you. She's watching over you,

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Speaker 5: Sure that you're okay right now. She's there always.

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Speaker 6: Oh that makes sense?

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Speaker 2: Really, doesn't do you think it fits with everything else?

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Speaker 5: Because I'm serious, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean I just didn't that she's on the phone. Of

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's really there, Claire.

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Speaker 7: I did hear all of it, and you know what

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Speaker 7: I do like hearing the voice of my dirty little

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Speaker 7: Danny on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, Dan, do you know that that nickname already?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she was using it at the restaurant.

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Speaker 4: It like a like a dirty like a sexy thing

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Speaker 6: It was like when she went to wipe my mouth,

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Speaker 6: she was like, oh, it was my dirty little Danny.

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Speaker 5: And then it just came back throughout the night.

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Speaker 2: She said it in like it turned on Tony.

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Speaker 4: Interesting. You know what, there's a lot happening. We should

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Speaker 7: Dan for your Oh you should know that I obviously

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Speaker 7: I want to say that I know that I untopped

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Speaker 7: a little too much and I could.

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Speaker 6: Tell that.

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Speaker 2: Is the un like I like, no, you on tugget

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Speaker 2: to take the shirt off. I mean at some point

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Speaker 4: But what does Dan think of that?

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Speaker 5: That was?

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Speaker 6: Actually that was funny, right.

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Speaker 1: If a man came over and unbuttoned my parents because

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Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you it is.

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Speaker 4: Not going over. Somebody shouldn't have had that six slice

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Speaker 6: That's why I was telling you guys. It's like a

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Speaker 5: Okay, you like being doated on just a tiny bit.

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Speaker 2: Like this doted or mothered. I know, but he's mothered.

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Speaker 2: I don't do that for my kids.

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Speaker 4: I know. That's where it crosses the line with this

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Speaker 5: Middle, you know.

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Speaker 7: Like I told you guys, I want to be married

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the maternalist.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, post kids, you're gonna feel very

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Speaker 7: I guess you're right. I mean, here's the thing. I

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Speaker 7: I was being helpful. That's all I'm going to say.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Claire is just laying it out there, Dan, she

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Speaker 4: to give her one more chance, we would pay for

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Speaker 1: I will say, it does sound like she's hearing you

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Speaker 6: Totally again, and it's it's partly on me for not

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Speaker 6: another date with you, provided that you understand that. I

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Speaker 6: a lot more before I'd just like to decide, Oh,

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Speaker 6: this is the person that for me, whoa.

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Speaker 4: Using his big boy voice to lay down there in

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Speaker 7: Claire, totally understandable. I just want to let you know

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Speaker 7: I almost put the straw to your lips for the margarita,

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Speaker 7: and I chose that so.

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Speaker 2: Straight.

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Speaker 6: Dan, you know what I sense that I saw you

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Speaker 2: Okay, it be interesting to see where this goes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like this is a success.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna send you to out one more time, and

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Speaker 2: I don't think she wants him to behave himself.

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Speaker 7: Get so excited, Danny, I'll be watching you.

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Speaker 2: Oh why.

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Speaker 6: I love it?

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Speaker 4: This is funny Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Well,

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Speaker 4: this just goes to prove there's a relationship out there

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Speaker 4: that works for everyone.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I guarantee nine out of ten times we

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Speaker 4: make that call, the dude would say she was ah,

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Speaker 4: she was trying to mother me and doesn't see the

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Speaker 4: fun side of it.

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Speaker 1: I know if I don't like you, Yeah, but I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that he's gonna have a choice

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Speaker 4: All of this, Brook, you have my full permission at

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Speaker 4: our next show dinner to untuck my shirt post dinner

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Speaker 4: if you feel like I've eaten too much.

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Speaker 2: That is a hard pass.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, she may think that type of behavior

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Speaker 1: is cute. Now wait till she's got two or three

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Speaker 1: kids under her belt. God, you're so annoying. An't you

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Speaker 4: But maybe you feel like you don't like it until

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Speaker 4: you try it the same way that he did. Our

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Speaker 4: listeners have my full permission to go to our podcast too.

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Speaker 4: And comment what a big boy I am. After you

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