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Speaker 1: Hello, my Love, Welcome to the Give Them Lalla Podcast.

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Speaker 1: The Bonus episode my most favorite episodes because we're nice

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Speaker 1: and self deprecating. You know, we're just not nice to.

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Speaker 2: Beat each other, which we love sometime.

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Speaker 3: No, it's fun, it's cute, it's lighthearted. I'm excited about

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Speaker 3: the topic for today because the topic is best advice.

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Speaker 1: Someone ever gave you? So good?

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Speaker 3: I feel like I have. It's so good, Jess. I

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Speaker 3: love that you put this one in the notes. I

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Speaker 3: feel like I have a bunch and Ethan, you and

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Speaker 3: I may share a few, but do you want to go?

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Speaker 1: First season?

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Speaker 4: You go.

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Speaker 3: I think the advice that comes to mind is one

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Speaker 3: that my very first high school boyfriend's mom told me,

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Speaker 3: and we were going through a.

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Speaker 1: Rough patch in high school. The man right.

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Speaker 3: Still to this day, the most productive and healthy relationship

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Speaker 3: I've ever had. We had our little immature fights, but

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Speaker 3: I remember his mom kind of intervening because our parents

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Speaker 3: really liked us together. And this was a moment where

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Speaker 3: his mom intervened and I was sobbing and I just said,

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Speaker 3: you know, he's my other half, and she said, Lauren,

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Speaker 3: when you come into a partnership, I want you to

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Speaker 3: remember this for the rest of your life. It can

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Speaker 3: never be fifty to fifty. You have to be one

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Speaker 3: hundred and they have to be one hundred. It should

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Speaker 3: always equal two hundred, never one hundred.

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Speaker 2: Absolute genius, yes and so true, so true.

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Speaker 3: So that, And now when people come to me, especially

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Speaker 3: people who are trying to get sober, and you know,

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Speaker 3: there's like this rule in the program where it's like,

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Speaker 3: do not date for a year, you know, get settled in,

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Speaker 3: and so a lot of times they want to do

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Speaker 3: the transference of addiction where they want to find a

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Speaker 3: person and they go through like the drinking part being

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Speaker 3: taken away, where they're now very aware of what's going on,

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Speaker 3: and they talk about all these things, and I have

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Speaker 3: to remind them the reason you're feeling this way is

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Speaker 3: because you are not one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: You don't get to date until you are one hundred percent. Period.

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Speaker 3: And I always like thought that that was the most

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Speaker 3: I don't know that stuck with me, and that was

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Speaker 3: told to me when I was probably seventeen years old.

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Speaker 4: That's an amazing you can it's hard to love someone

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Speaker 4: when you don't love yourself.

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Speaker 1: No, absolutely not. So I dug that Easton what is yours.

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Speaker 4: Mine is from Mimi and Bob.

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Speaker 1: Okay, grandparents are Mom's parents.

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Speaker 4: This too shall pass. I love it. Yeah. So you're

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Speaker 4: on top of the world, This too shall pass. You're

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Speaker 4: underneath the world, This too shall pass. You feel smart,

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Speaker 4: so on and so forth right.

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Speaker 2: I love it, Yeah, because you're feeling.

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Speaker 5: It's the you're feeling yourself one that I have to remember, like, oh,

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Speaker 5: you think you're out top of the world right now.

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Speaker 1: That's gonna pass.

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Speaker 2: Get too much. Don't be too like your head's too big. No, no, right,

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Speaker 2: And even.

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Speaker 4: When you're in the deepest and darkest hole, remember that

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Speaker 4: you're gonna be back on top.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I love that you have a tattooed on your body, right,

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Speaker 3: you know you have, y'all, But.

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Speaker 4: I do want That was the next one I wanted.

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Speaker 3: Because y'all be sweet now. Because our grandmother, who was

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Speaker 3: a Southern bell, we would fight a biter. Yes, she ya,

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Speaker 3: that's adorable.

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Speaker 4: Yeah too.

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Speaker 5: On the car someone has stone in my car.

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Speaker 4: Also McDonald's drive through. How there's like pay window one

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Speaker 4: pick up two just speeds by. No.

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Speaker 1: I loved her and she had like the blonde bob with.

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Speaker 3: The really red lips. Really red long nails and like

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Speaker 3: fair fair.

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Speaker 1: But black, black blazer, shoulder pads, black catt eye glasses,

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Speaker 1: gold Mercedes.

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Speaker 2: This is the chakiest.

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Speaker 4: Woman I have.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she's so freaking chic. And her name was Mimi.

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Speaker 2: Of course she's Gigi's mom.

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Speaker 1: Of course, my mom could not be further. My mom

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Speaker 1: is Bob beyond my mom is Bob's on fire? No,

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Speaker 1: that's a great one. He's in.

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Speaker 3: And I do love when we talk about this because

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Speaker 3: it's like, when you are in the deepest, darkest days,

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Speaker 3: remember that is not your forever. And when you're you're

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Speaker 3: on top of the world, you better enjoy and practice

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Speaker 3: gratitude because that too, does not last forever.

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Speaker 1: Good one, good one. That's a good one.

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Speaker 5: I have quick ones, quick ones. My mom she said,

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Speaker 5: above all else, be kind to everyone.

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Speaker 2: So I that just has stuck with.

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Speaker 3: Me and we've practiced that on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you my Dad. Under promise over deliver. That promise

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Speaker 2: over deliver.

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Speaker 4: That's a business.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I do. I try and stick with that.

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Speaker 5: I always think, you know what, under promise over deliver.

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Speaker 5: And since I wrote these this morning recently, this was

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Speaker 5: just yesterday. Actually, this is from coach josh in jiu jitsu.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but.

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Speaker 2: It works for life. I use this in life all

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Speaker 2: the time. He told me this at the very beginning.

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Speaker 5: He said, when you try a move and it doesn't work,

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Speaker 5: don't look at it as a failure. Look at it

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Speaker 5: as a setup for your next move. And it's very

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Speaker 5: true in jiu jitsu. Right, you go to try a

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Speaker 2: You didn't fail.

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Speaker 5: You shouldn't be like, oh shit, It's just a good

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Speaker 5: setup for next move. And I use it a lot

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Speaker 5: in jiu jitsu, and I use it a lot in life.

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Speaker 5: When I try something and it fails, I'm just like, okay,

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Speaker 5: but what other doors do this open?

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Speaker 1: Right? And why did it fail?

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Speaker 3: What do we need to like, go back to the

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Speaker 3: drawing board and figure out. You know, his words are wise,

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Speaker 3: and it makes me want to try anal again.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I'm totally want to try.

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Speaker 5: I thought she was gonna be jiu jitsu no, and

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Speaker 5: it makes me want to try anal.

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Speaker 3: Jessica, I was down for jiu jitsu until you show

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Speaker 3: up with a bruised nose, looking a hot mess and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, my face, absolutely not what happened.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who knows?

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Speaker 5: It's all show baby ands all jiu jitsu baby.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I ain't show ball for the cause all. It's

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Speaker 1: all for the cause, dear.

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Speaker 3: It's all for the cause, the body, obviously, and for

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Speaker 3: her defending us in the streets of Los Angeles.

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Speaker 4: We need you keep taking those bruises.

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Speaker 3: Here's also some advice in business with punctuality.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's hear it.

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Speaker 3: If you're early, you're on time. If you're on time,

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Speaker 3: you're late. If you're late, don't show up. Who said that, Derenda,

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Speaker 3: I don't know what. The virgo in me loves.

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Speaker 2: It, like the virgo in me that I love that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because my mom will be like, we're gonna be late.

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Speaker 3: It's fine, it's five minutes. I'm like, we might as

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Speaker 3: well not even go.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of mom on that one. Five minutes.

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Speaker 5: My dad said, there's nothing more disrespectful than disrespecting someone's time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we talk about it all the time about David. Uh,

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Speaker 1: Larry David very quickly and then we'll move on. Okay,

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Speaker 1: then I have to talk about this. Larry David. In

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Speaker 1: one of the episodes the woman that he's living with, Vivica,

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Speaker 1: A Fox's mother is like, Larry, the next door neighbor

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Speaker 1: people are being robbed, and he goes, hold on, why

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Speaker 1: are you talking to the neighbors. He's like, because people

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Speaker 1: the community is scared, Larry, we're being burglarized. And he goes,

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Speaker 1: I don't care about this.

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Speaker 3: He's like, you don't care that people are being robbed,

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Speaker 3: that people are being robbed, and he goes, no, because

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Speaker 3: the thieves want you. Thinks the neighbors want my time.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather give give things than time. Don't talk to

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Speaker 3: the fucking neighbors.

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Speaker 2: Fuck, that is so funny.

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Speaker 4: It's so good.

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Speaker 3: If you don't watch curb your enthusiasm? What are you

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: It is but a podcast about nothing? Okay, but also

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Speaker 3: welcome and we hope you stay all right? What did

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Speaker 3: our friends say?

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Speaker 1: You guys?

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Speaker 2: So much good advice, little things, big things.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna start with your eyebrows are sisters not twins?

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Speaker 2: And how did you respond to that one?

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Speaker 3: You know, I really like this because that's how it

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Speaker 3: is with your tits.

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Speaker 5: Yep, which is like thank god, because when I was

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Speaker 5: younger and they started growing in.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, but.

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Speaker 1: It's like they're uneven. They're uneven, you guys.

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Speaker 3: Danielle showed me a picture Madison's sister. We used to

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Speaker 3: live together and we were wild wild. She showed me

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Speaker 3: we're topless in a pool, and so Smiley and I

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Speaker 5: I said, hey, Danny, at some point, send me photos

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Speaker 5: I want to say it was Google, but who knows.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure, but I'm looking at our boobs and the

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Speaker 3: was like, Wow, look that interesting. But why am I

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Speaker 3: holding two mangoes in a pool.

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Speaker 1: So happy to.

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Speaker 4: Take out?

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Speaker 1: It's like noon on Monday.

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Speaker 5: And also, by the way, I remember thinking when I

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Speaker 5: saw that you hadn't had implants.

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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, I had.

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Speaker 4: I got like, your.

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Speaker 2: Boobs are big? Why did you ever get okay?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 5: I had n't Okay, keeping composure bothers people way more

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Speaker 5: than reacting to their drama.

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Speaker 1: True, true, but we don't. Are you choking?

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Speaker 3: I'm so hot headed. People speak buffoonery. I have to like,

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Speaker 3: I haven't conquered the art of being like they are

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Speaker 3: speaking buffoonery. Actually, I feel like at the reunion I

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Speaker 3: did a pretty good job of just like keeping and

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Speaker 3: someone tried to be like, I know, you're always you

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Speaker 3: always talk loud and yell the loudest thing. I go,

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Speaker 3: I haven't raised my voice, not at once. And he

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Speaker 3: goes and he goes, she hasn't, And I'm very proud

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Speaker 3: of you for that, because usually when someone says one

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Speaker 3: wrong thing, I'm up with the double fingers. Well we

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Speaker 3: know from last reunion, and I've tried to stop the

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Speaker 3: it doesn't feel like I'm pointing at you.

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Speaker 1: But I'm still very serious.

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Speaker 2: And that's on growth, bitch, that's amazing.

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Speaker 5: I do this a lot, which Obama used to do,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Lah, You've said this before. Do not take advice

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: My mom always said you work till live. You do

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Speaker 1: So you live the fucking dream.

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Speaker 2: I love the dream.

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Speaker 6: introducing like a four day work week instead of.

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Speaker 1: That needs to happen.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you how productive we be guys.

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Speaker 4: Wait, here's the thing. Half day on Friday. Most people

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Speaker 4: two Saturdays and a Sunday wine day to recover.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not enough time.

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Speaker 5: This is based off of actual human social study too.

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Speaker 2: He's not just willing.

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Speaker 3: Well, and also, like nine to five is a joke.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The rest of the day is the rest. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's because America has been like if you are

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Speaker 2: You're lazy and not working hard enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot.

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Speaker 3: It's like, well, I kind of want to enjoy my life.

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Speaker 3: paying me more because I can't save if you're literally

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Speaker 1: This fucking office.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for not even a lot of money, and then

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Speaker 2: Yeah my rent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the amount of money some people are spending on rent.

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Speaker 2: How do these people live?

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Speaker 4: We can't buy a home. It's ridiculous because that's the reading.

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Speaker 4: No one can get a home. You have to make

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Speaker 4: this point, you have to make it's like two dollars

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Speaker 5: We live in a nation under God, indivisible with no.

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Speaker 1: Liberty and no justice at all. Oh my god, it's

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Speaker 4: I fall. I felt like I was an elementary school again.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, Okay, moving on.

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Speaker 5: Confidence is quiet insecurity is loud. I could not agree

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Speaker 5: with this more. Confidence is quiet insecurity is loud?

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Speaker 1: I don't fully agree.

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Speaker 4: Really, yeah, I feel like confidence.

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Speaker 1: I'm very confident. I am shouting it from the rooftop.

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Speaker 1: through this, I need to I need to conquer this.

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Speaker 1: I don't like this feeling.

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Speaker 4: Every time I see somebody like haven't you just seen

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Speaker 4: but one person catches your eye and you're like, dam

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, do you agree that?

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Speaker 1: Y'all loud? No, But I'm just saying, like walking.

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Speaker 4: But that's what I'm saying. I feel like confidence is

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Speaker 1: It's an aura.

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Speaker 5: I feel like it has to do maybe more with business,

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Speaker 5: they were in your place, it would be like, oh

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Speaker 5: my god.

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Speaker 2: Guys, big things like oh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, things popping.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, But you're just like quiet until it pops off.

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Speaker 5: And I feel like I'm like that and you.

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Speaker 3: Like that is sas saus does not you find out

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Speaker 3: about her stuff? Long long long, long down the line

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Speaker 3: when it's like come to fruition, yeah, which I love,

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Speaker 3: or count your chickens before they hatch yep.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this advice once more advice. You're not a tree.

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Speaker 5: You can move, move from situations, places, people, your body move.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna use that as an insult. You're not a tree.

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Speaker 1: Move you know you don't want me here? Well, you're

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Speaker 5: That's so true, and I'm gonna use that. I'm gonna say,

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Speaker 3: Yes, mm hmm, I'm gonna say, make like a street

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Speaker 3: and fuck off.

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Speaker 1: Just make no sense, make.

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Speaker 2: Like a tree and go to hell.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so funny.

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Speaker 3: It's like similar to mom crossing her eyes and dotting

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Speaker 1: Like just things that don't make sense. You should start

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Speaker 3: You want to who conquered that with Jack Taylor? What

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Speaker 3: saying things that make zero sense?

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Speaker 1: Anyway?

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Speaker 4: Do you think they made sense?

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Speaker 7: Or is that?

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Speaker 4: What? Is that?

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Speaker 1: What it is?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That sounds right.

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Speaker 4: I like it.

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Speaker 1: Hilarious.

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Speaker 5: Wow, we have a ton of follow your gut. It

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Speaker 5: will never let you down.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Your mind will screw you, your heart will

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Speaker 1: screw you, your gut will never steer you wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yes, is that you quote?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's also a me quote that goes, fool me once,

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Speaker 1: shame on you, fool me twice, shame on you fool

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Speaker 1: me three times. You are dead.

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Speaker 4: Tell me no accountability.

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Speaker 2: That is the funniest shit ever.

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Speaker 4: Your accountability?

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you?

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Speaker 3: When people are like, you know, you don't take accountability.

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Speaker 3: These are people on the internet, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, yes, I do. You can't tell me anything. You

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Speaker 1: just didn't see it. You must have missed that episode accountability.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys, I love this one because I didn't you.

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Speaker 4: Why does accountability?

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Speaker 1: I am not Are you joking?

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Speaker 4: You're not, You're not a little bit, But at any point,

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, name a story. We were supposed to

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Speaker 4: and she goes, well, I told Jess, I was like,

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Speaker 1: And then she goes, blame it on canvas.

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Speaker 3: No, but you were there when she tried to blame

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Speaker 3: I go, it is your purse. You brought it, and

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Speaker 3: just well, what I mean is it's not mine, Like

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, yeah, you're right now, are you joking?

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Speaker 4: Accountability? No, Casper the Ghost and that one.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's funny, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: Let's show her this podcast.

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Speaker 4: She'll forget it.

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Speaker 5: I don't agree with this one, but I see it

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Speaker 5: a lot. If they wanted to, they.

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Speaker 1: Would do you guys agree if we wanted to.

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Speaker 5: If they wanted to, they would've always heard that in relationships, like, oh,

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Speaker 5: he's not calling you, guess what if you wanted to,

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Speaker 5: he would move on.

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Speaker 3: The reason I don't agree with that is because the

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Speaker 3: going to, and thought about reasons why I shouldn't, and

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Speaker 4: But they're probably going through the same things you are. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think the biggest thing is we're all out here

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Speaker 3: being like we're worth fighting for, and it's like right,

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Speaker 3: but we all feel that, like what makes you so

450
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Speaker 3: special that you get to do no work?

451
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Speaker 4: Right? Because I'm me?

452
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Speaker 5: You know I gave this is a true story. It's

453
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Speaker 5: kind of said. I gave my friend that advice. I said,

454
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Speaker 5: if he wanted to, he would. This was in when

455
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Speaker 5: I went to college in Rochester and he wasn't texting

456
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Speaker 5: and it was a bartender she met, and I'm like, ah,

457
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Speaker 5: if he wanted to, he would, And I talked shit

458
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Speaker 5: on him and he had passed away.

459
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Speaker 4: Oh shit, did she.

460
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 2: Get him the night before?

461
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 5: And she found out a week later she saw on

462
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Speaker 5: a Facebook he died, So he may I wanted to,

463
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Speaker 5: but he was dead.

464
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Speaker 1: That's so sad.

465
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Speaker 2: I felt bad for that. Moving on to.

466
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Speaker 1: Sometimes I wonder if Marvin died.

467
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Speaker 5: I don't know, Marvin, if you're out there, let us

468
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Speaker 5: know you're okay, dance.

469
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Speaker 4: Your way into the comments.

470
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Speaker 2: I love God.

471
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Speaker 3: Where That's one thing about this pregnancy as well, is

472
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Speaker 3: I feel that it's given me even more truth serum,

473
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Speaker 3: and it makes me feel bad. Maybe not though at

474
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Speaker 3: all where I'm like, I have to be honest, I

475
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Speaker 3: don't care.

476
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Speaker 4: I get you, because with my anxiety, I'm starting to

477
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Speaker 4: just be like, you know what, that's kind of giving

478
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Speaker 4: me anxiety care anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like Mom was talking to me about something. I said, Mom,

480
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Speaker 1: I got to be honest, I don't care about this.

481
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Speaker 1: She got to move on.

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Speaker 4: I did that.

483
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Speaker 1: She was like, oh okay, and I was like, yeah,

484
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Speaker 1: all right, anyway.

485
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Speaker 5: I love that Kyle can do that, and I can't

486
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Speaker 5: say that. I sit there and I'm like, when is

487
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Speaker 5: this fucking gonna end? And Kyle will be like, hey,

488
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Speaker 5: is this gonna end soon? And not just to me,

489
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Speaker 5: he'll say to other people, Hey, I'm not very interested

490
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Speaker 5: in this.

491
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Speaker 4: Is this almost I need to just take life lessons

492
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Speaker 4: from Kyle. It seems like he's just straight.

493
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Speaker 2: Up or he'll go, hey, I'm not going to come

494
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Speaker 2: to that dinner. Why I don't want to?

495
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Speaker 4: Oh, I need to start. Hey, I'm going to start

496
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Speaker 4: doing more of who I want to be?

497
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Speaker 1: An asshole?

498
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because that's who I really want to be. But

499
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Speaker 4: I want to make people so happy all the time.

500
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Speaker 3: It makes me happy, makes me so and I'm just

501
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 3: gonna start saying fuck your plans, fuck you, I'm staying home.

502
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Speaker 3: You can't say the F word. You just have to

503
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Speaker 3: be like I don't. I don't care about this.

504
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Speaker 2: No, he has nothing to do with you. I just

505
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Speaker 2: personally don't.

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Speaker 4: Speaking from emotion right now. But yeah, no, I'm going

507
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Speaker 4: to say, you're it sounds beautiful. I won't make it.

508
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Speaker 1: I won't be there Tomorrow.

509
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Speaker 3: I may want to be there and I could feel

510
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Speaker 3: like I missed out, but today, like.

511
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Speaker 1: I don't care.

512
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Speaker 4: See, that's the thing I like. I like plans on

513
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Speaker 4: the day. Don't make a plan tomorrow and then tomorrow

514
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Speaker 4: I won't want to do it.

515
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, brutal, but true. Stop feeling bad for yourself.

516
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 2: You're not the victim. Some people are the victims, though,

517
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Speaker 2: and and my hearts go out to them.

518
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 3: But I agree, I would rather have that say. You're

519
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Speaker 3: not that special.

520
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 2: Your people don't care about you that much.

521
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Speaker 4: You are not the here's the thing, we're all the

522
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 4: main characters in our lives. No one gives a shit

523
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 4: about anybody else about that but themselves.

524
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Speaker 2: No one cares that much. You're not that special.

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Speaker 5: I know it's hurtful, Yeah, care right, No one gives

526
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Speaker 5: a fuck.

527
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Speaker 4: Love to talk about themselves.

528
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Speaker 3: Nobody goes against It goes against everything that we say

529
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Speaker 3: to teach your kids, like build them up, make them

530
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Speaker 3: feel But that's why it's for the outside world. You

531
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Speaker 3: are a special person out there though you're just one

532
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Speaker 3: and the same.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's why you have to feel okay and go

534
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Speaker 5: with yourself because at the end of the day, that's

535
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Speaker 5: who you die with, that's who you're left with. You'll

536
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 5: never be able to leave yourself until you've passed away.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I will say though.

538
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 3: I looked at mom this weekend and was like, do

539
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 3: you forget really sick of yourself? I go, I'm ready

540
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Speaker 3: to hang this face, this body, this personality at the

541
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Speaker 3: fucking door.

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Speaker 1: I just want to be of myself. I don't want

543
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Speaker 1: to hear myself talk.

544
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hate hearing myself.

545
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Speaker 1: I look myself in the mirror.

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Speaker 4: If you had a body, go to Saint George, take

547
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Speaker 4: down all the mirrors, no phones three days.

548
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Speaker 2: Well, if you had a body that matched your soul,

549
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Speaker 2: do you think you'd look the way you do?

550
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Speaker 4: I think I'd be more beautiful.

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Speaker 5: I think about that sometimes, not about the main character.

552
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Speaker 5: He still if you had a body that matched, a

553
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 5: face and body that matched your soul.

554
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 2: Have you ever seen Shallow Hal Yes?

555
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 4: I love that movie.

556
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Speaker 2: Do you think you'd look the way you do?

557
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Speaker 4: I'd be more beautiful way I No, I think i'd

558
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 4: be more beautiful. You would beautiful soul, you would. And

559
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 4: this jaw line does not do it justice?

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Speaker 1: You do?

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00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel that way. Thank you?

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Speaker 2: Do you think that way of you?

563
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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 3: I think you're already No, but like I would be

565
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Speaker 3: a little bit.

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Speaker 1: No, it matches, It matches.

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Speaker 3: If I were a better person, I would have really

568
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 3: really cute feet, more petite hands, smaller, more slicked back ears,

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Speaker 3: and a really good jaw line, and that would match

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Speaker 3: your soul.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that. I think i'd be a Ferbie.

572
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Speaker 5: So I think I lucked out with this body, because

573
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Speaker 5: if I had a body and face that matched my soul,

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Speaker 5: I'd be like a smiling Ferbie or like a potato

575
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Speaker 5: with giants.

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Speaker 4: Oh maybe i'd be like a panda bear. Then yeah,

577
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Speaker 4: that's how I feel.

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Speaker 1: I am. Well, you has a reading animals?

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Speaker 4: Now, I don't bringing up herbies, and I'm thinking, all right,

580
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Speaker 4: we're going.

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Speaker 3: That's the aid for Sureby and Orca On March fifth,

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Speaker 3: National Geographic captured in Orca killing a great white shark,

583
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Speaker 3: and as I watched it, I was like, that's me,

584
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 3: we are Orcas, we are in Orca pod.

585
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 2: That was a bad bitch Orca. We can slammed it

586
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Speaker 2: and then with the.

587
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Speaker 3: Mouth with oh yeah, I knocked it out first and

588
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: then it how it up?

589
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 2: I wonder why, though, I hope that wasn't bullying.

590
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Speaker 1: Are you joking?

591
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 3: This is called survival, it's called nature, it's called the

592
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Speaker 3: circle of life.

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Speaker 1: They're hungry.

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Speaker 2: Oh you think they were eating it?

595
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah? They eat their liver.

596
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Speaker 4: Damn.

597
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Speaker 2: I did not know that.

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00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Didn't you see all those sharks washed up along the

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Speaker 1: beach and they had perfectly almost like medical It looked

601
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Speaker 1: like medical incisions, and they were all in the same

602
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Speaker 1: place from Wales.

603
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Speaker 4: They don't eat the whole body.

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Speaker 7: Wow yeah, wow, Yeah, you just sounded like Jennifer Coolidge. Okay,

605
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Speaker 7: this is a good one.

606
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 5: Oh there's two good ones. Okay, I'm gonna say this one.

607
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 5: Though you are not obligated to love your family. Some

608
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 5: of them might not be your people.

609
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: Eastern I think we need to have a talk.

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Speaker 5: I agree, because guess what some of us are born

611
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 5: into horrific circumstances and I couldn't. I can't relate. But

612
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 5: you guess what, that's not your family. Goodbye, that's not

613
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 5: your family you have. Hopefully you can find family that

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00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 5: you do love, and that's your family.

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Speaker 1: I agree. What's the other one that you were going

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00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: to say? Was really good?

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00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 5: Create your own happiness? That's a big that's a hard.

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00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 4: A lot of people might be able to do that

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Speaker 4: with a fort He's really.

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Speaker 2: Is this, Bernie?

621
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Speaker 5: Is that you in an Eastern suit on to give

622
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,959
Speaker 5: them all podcast trying to push it?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: I love the idea, just coming from like working a

625
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 4: nine to five Monday Friday. It's like, you know what,

626
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 4: I got everything done. Friday was a fuck off day anyway,

627
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 4: So it's like, you know what, let's just do it.

628
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 2: Create your own habit and then.

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Speaker 4: On Friday everybody could create their happiness.

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you something?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, speaking of whatever you're talking about that I wasn't

632
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:25,120
Speaker 3: listening to because I A Stossy did Ocean's Human Design

633
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 3: and she said that ocean. It says about ocean. She

634
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 3: creates her version of heaven on Earth every day.

635
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Speaker 2: That is the most beautiful. I would get that framed.

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Speaker 1: How cute is that?

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00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 2: That is very so cute and does Yeah, she's so.

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Speaker 1: Cute right now.

639
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 4: She's the best.

640
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Speaker 1: And she has a little sing song voice where like

641
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Speaker 1: I got in the car last night and.

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00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 3: She I love you so much, MoMA, Where you go?

643
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 4: Mom?

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00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 2: Where you at?

645
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Speaker 1: She I love you too, mom.

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00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: Oh freaking She's an angel.

647
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 4: She was really excited to pick up Mama and Gigi

648
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 4: from the airport with you.

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Speaker 1: Was she with you?

650
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 4: Yeah? I drove and picked them up.

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00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really late, but that wasn't what it

652
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: was supposed to be anyway. That was a really fun podcast.

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Speaker 1: You guys, thank you so much for listening to another

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Speaker 1: bonus episode of the Give Them Laala podcast. Remember that

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Speaker 1: the audio and video dropped same day every Monday. You

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Speaker 1: can catch us on Give Them.

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Speaker 3: Laala pod on Instagram and also Give Them Llla podcast

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