Speaker 1: Welcome to can't fully reckless the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, and just like that, welcome back
Speaker 1: to you on another carefully reckless episode with your girl Jess. Hilarious.
Speaker 1: So y'all know fix the message what I do? And
Speaker 1: I still have not gotten my intro. So y'all ain't
Speaker 1: spam Charlemagne's comments enough. Y'all need to spam our Heart.
Speaker 1: Y'all need to spam the Black Effect. Y'all need to
Speaker 1: spam breakfast Club dj Envy because if dj Envy he
Speaker 1: pay attentions to his comments, if y'all go down there,
Speaker 1: he gonna send it to Charlemagne, and Charlomagne gonna see.
Speaker 1: So make sure y'all even spam my goddamn comments, Jess.
Speaker 1: We need to just fix my mess intro because it
Speaker 1: conna be something like, way are you gonna fix my
Speaker 1: mess today? They could be sorry like that. No it's
Speaker 1: not over here looking like bitch. No, it could be
Speaker 1: saying I need a jingle jam.
Speaker 2: You know who I can call up? I can call
Speaker 2: Nick Cannon. He can't make no rap songs. We can
Speaker 2: make a jingle. That's what all right?
Speaker 1: He is the jingle King. I ain't we can do that.
Speaker 1: I can get that all right, all right, that's fine.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have to reach out to my buddy
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon and see if he can write me a
Speaker 1: jingle or just seeing a Valentine. Somebody gotta write me
Speaker 1: a jingle or pretty V. I think, oh, I can
Speaker 1: get all of them on there, pretty V. No, it's
Speaker 1: it's given Nickelodeon all that, ain't it?
Speaker 2: No mine? All right? All right, so just fix my mask.
Speaker 2: That's We're just gonna have to do it like that,
Speaker 2: all right. This is a story, it's written.
Speaker 1: We ain't got no voice memos this week again because
Speaker 1: people people's boyfriends and girlfriends is catching on to there.
Speaker 1: It's it's like, bitch you over here talking about our
Speaker 1: business and just like I don't know your voice, bitch
Speaker 1: y'all forget y'allselves in trouble chap. I'm sorry, I can't
Speaker 1: say once he gets you hitting that choke hold. So
Speaker 1: but hopefully ain't none of you all getting choked behind
Speaker 1: sending in voice notes. So, hey, go to the first
Speaker 1: story about to dive right in. Hey, Jess, So the
Speaker 1: story I'm about to tell you I might sound like
Speaker 1: a bad person, but trust me, I'm not.
Speaker 2: Lol.
Speaker 1: So I was recently messing with this guy and he
Speaker 1: literally was a complete bum.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Oh no, a complete dream. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: He was literally a complete dream. But he started to
Speaker 1: become very clingy. Oh my god, girl, I've been in
Speaker 1: many a situations like that. Me personally, I love clingy,
Speaker 1: but sometimes he made me feel like I couldn't breathe
Speaker 1: or had any personal space. That's what clingy is. So
Speaker 1: she's definitely describing that it was never intrusive, but very overwhelming.
Speaker 1: As time went by, I would tell him how I
Speaker 1: feel about it, and things will change, but it would
Speaker 1: eventually go back to the same thing shortly after I
Speaker 1: told him that I needed space. Okay, he totally respected it,
Speaker 1: which I loved, but it also caused us to.
Speaker 2: Fall back from each other a lot. Oh wow.
Speaker 1: And it may sound fucked up, but I really didn't
Speaker 1: feel bothered by it, Okay, right, So no, So then
Speaker 1: it's not that that was just you showing your truest feelings.
Speaker 1: You were just being very, very honest, and it's okay.
Speaker 1: We always make the mistake of thinking and thinking that
Speaker 1: we're hurting somebody's feelings by just telling them the truth. No,
Speaker 1: the truth is like it's supposed to hurt. Sometimes the
Speaker 1: truth doesn't always have to be a happy thing. It
Speaker 1: can be very uncomfortable and it's okay. It's how you felt,
Speaker 1: So don't feel like that girl. Continuing now, girl, you
Speaker 1: know us females have our needs sometimes.
Speaker 2: Lol. I think you know where I'm going with this one.
Speaker 2: I think I do SCOO.
Speaker 1: So I was drunk one day and I went to
Speaker 1: a little brunch with my girls and got to lit
Speaker 1: and decided to go over my excess house right after.
Speaker 2: And you know what we did, and we did the
Speaker 2: do oh yeah?
Speaker 1: Is this girl from Baltimore all time? And we did
Speaker 1: the do She spelled deep do d e w like
Speaker 1: mountain dew. Yes, you're from the way she's around away.
Speaker 1: That's all it was, though, nothing more and nothing less.
Speaker 1: But shortly after that I left, I took a video
Speaker 1: and posted it on my story, not knowing that there
Speaker 1: was a huge ass hickey on my neck.
Speaker 2: Mmm.
Speaker 1: Child. The guy who I broke it off with called
Speaker 1: my phone about thirty minutes later and we were just talking.
Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, I'm blocked. And I didn't even
Speaker 1: realize that there was a hickey on my neck. Girl,
Speaker 1: When I tell you, this man is hurt, he is
Speaker 1: so hurt, and I just don't know how I should
Speaker 1: go about this situation.
Speaker 2: What should I do? Hashtag help? Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: Okay, So the guy that you broke it off with
Speaker 1: saw a huge ass hickey on your neck from your ex.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this because I feel like while
Speaker 1: you put a lot of meat on the bone, you
Speaker 1: still left some meat off. Did he know about your ex?
Speaker 1: Did you tell him about your ex? And how recent
Speaker 1: is this ex? How much of an X is this
Speaker 1: X shit? Because if he's doing shit like getting called
Speaker 1: when you need a little bit of Dyno dingy, then
Speaker 1: y'all ain't over each Other's what that tells me. It
Speaker 1: also tells me that you may have been calling the
Speaker 1: ex before he dropped off some Dino dingy. You never
Speaker 1: really lost contact with him. Now you could have taken
Speaker 1: a break from your ex. And we do this thing
Speaker 1: called getting over someone with someone else. We do that
Speaker 1: that's human, that's actually on both sides. That's not a
Speaker 1: woman thing, it's not a man thing. That is like
Speaker 1: a person thing, a human thing. Sometimes we may use
Speaker 1: one person to get over another person, not realizing that
Speaker 1: we're never going to really be over this person or
Speaker 1: we're not over them yet, and we actually fuck up
Speaker 1: the new person who actually develops real feelings for us.
Speaker 1: And not to say that it doesn't go the other way,
Speaker 1: because you could have had genuine feelings for this new
Speaker 1: guy too, But you didn't close the door on your
Speaker 1: ex like you didn't.
Speaker 2: You didn't.
Speaker 1: It's like you tried to move on before you were
Speaker 1: ready to move on. Now, you didn't say that y'all
Speaker 1: were together or anything. You said that y'all were just
Speaker 1: talking and all of that. But if he's questioning you
Speaker 1: about hickeys from a previous situation or just hickeys period,
Speaker 1: then y'all got a little bit somewhat serious because if
Speaker 1: he can have the audacity, then he then y'all was
Speaker 1: on that term.
Speaker 2: So I need to know.
Speaker 1: Did you get into a relationship with the new dude?
Speaker 1: Like where did you ever tell me he was your boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Did he ever tell you you were his girlfriend? And
Speaker 1: did you ever agree to those terms, whether it was slight,
Speaker 1: whether you did against your will or not, the decision
Speaker 1: that you made if it was.
Speaker 2: Yes, you were his girlfriend, y'all worked together.
Speaker 1: And then using somebody to get over somebody bites you
Speaker 1: in the ass when you got to break it off
Speaker 1: with the new person and go back and fuck with
Speaker 1: the old person. Especially if you told the new person
Speaker 1: that you were over or trying to get over, or
Speaker 1: you were just getting out of something. If you even
Speaker 1: gave them that little bit, then that clears up a
Speaker 1: little bit because he can't say he never knew about
Speaker 1: this person. He can't say that because some guys will
Speaker 1: try to play stupid like, oh damn, I thought this
Speaker 1: was the.
Speaker 2: Nigga I ain't have to worry about. Uh.
Speaker 1: Well, no, you chose to believe that you didn't have
Speaker 1: to worry about him. You ignored everything I said in
Speaker 1: the beginning because you thought that a lot of people
Speaker 1: have any minds that they can try to take you
Speaker 1: away from somebody too. But I'll let you know about
Speaker 1: this person. I'll let you know I was fresh out
Speaker 1: of a relationship. I'll let you know that I might
Speaker 1: not be fully over this nigga. You know, this is
Speaker 1: the meat that you kind of left off the bone.
Speaker 1: And that's okay, because I want an update, Oh I
Speaker 1: want an update. And also, do you think your ex
Speaker 1: left that hickey on your neck, that big ass hickey
Speaker 1: on your neck on purpose? And did you let your
Speaker 1: ex know about the new nigga that you would dealing with,
Speaker 1: Because you have to be honest to both people. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter why you broke up with the AX, it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're trying to move on, you have
Speaker 1: to leave that line of open honesty still because you
Speaker 1: don't know if you're gonna go back.
Speaker 2: You don't know if you're gonna fully move forward.
Speaker 1: So you have to keep everybody aligned with how you're
Speaker 1: feeling at all times. And that's just to cover your ass,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because the truth can be twisted,
Speaker 1: but not if it comes from the horse's mouth. And
Speaker 1: whenever you're feeling something, whenever your feelings changed, you.
Speaker 2: Gotta communicate that.
Speaker 1: Like if you even felt like you was going to
Speaker 1: go back to the AX, you should have let new
Speaker 1: YO know, Like, look, I'm not over them, I.
Speaker 2: Still think about them, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Because even all right, so my parents are divorced, right
Speaker 1: and it's only their second year being divorced, they both
Speaker 1: are still very honest about their feelings toward each other,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Now, that's a different comparison
Speaker 1: because they've been together thirty plus years and they just
Speaker 1: broke it off. However, the honesty is still the same.
Speaker 1: You know, you're not gonna jump in a new relationship,
Speaker 1: especially if you ain't gonna close this door. If you
Speaker 1: being you just was married thirty something years and to
Speaker 1: one person who you only know that person, it's gonna
Speaker 1: kind of be hard for you to jump out there
Speaker 1: and give somebody else new You're all.
Speaker 2: Somebody knew you're all. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So, ladies, just be careful when when moving from a
Speaker 1: relationship that was extensive and then dating new people, you're
Speaker 1: kind of vulnerable and this new person will come along
Speaker 1: and sweep you off your feet, or at least that's
Speaker 1: how it'll feel, you know, because she said she likes
Speaker 1: clingy until it's the wrong motherfucker being clingy, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Clingy is cool until it's the wrong
Speaker 1: motherfucker that's clinging to you, because then you got to
Speaker 1: how to You gotta try to figure out how to
Speaker 1: unclean that person. And if he's already a clingy person anyway,
Speaker 1: if that's already his personality.
Speaker 2: It's gonna to be hard to switch up.
Speaker 1: And if you're not a big fan of a clanky person,
Speaker 1: because what it sounds like is you do is you
Speaker 1: do like clingy, You just like it from a certain person.
Speaker 1: You like it as long as you're into the person.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants a clingy person to be honest with you
Speaker 1: unless both of you guys are okay with that. Like
Speaker 1: I'm clingy to my guy, I'm cleany with my boyfriend
Speaker 1: as he is clingy with me. Now, clingy is different.
Speaker 1: We both have jobs that allows us to be gone
Speaker 1: it will. It demands our time. So me and my
Speaker 1: man gotta be clingy because we're not with each other
Speaker 1: every day.
Speaker 2: He's a truck driver.
Speaker 1: He has his own company, so he makes his own
Speaker 1: schedule and he fills that motherfucker up. I am my
Speaker 1: own business. I am a stand up comedian. I'm an entertainer.
Speaker 1: My job demands my time where I have to be
Speaker 1: in this place, in that place, different cities, different states,
Speaker 1: every week, sometimes three times week.
Speaker 2: I travel Listen.
Speaker 1: Just two weeks ago, I was me and my sister
Speaker 1: was in three cities in twelve hours, three different states,
Speaker 1: in twelve hours.
Speaker 2: Crazy, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So that's that's the type of job I have, you know,
Speaker 1: So my time is demanded and accounted for, whether I
Speaker 1: like it or not. All I do is just say yes,
Speaker 1: I'm willing to do this on this date. So clangy.
Speaker 2: It works for certain people. Certain people it does not. Also,
Speaker 2: how old are you? That depends as well. Are you?
Speaker 1: If you're younger, clingy is gonna be what you keep
Speaker 1: running into, you know, because y'all y'all millennials, and well,
Speaker 1: I'm a millennial. You may be gen Z, you may
Speaker 1: be gen X. I don't know what's after that shit.
Speaker 1: I don't got to ask my sister. I gotta get
Speaker 1: the time capsules down for y'all asses.
Speaker 2: But and then, what do you want? What do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want a relationship? Do you not want to
Speaker 1: be committed right now?
Speaker 2: Like? What are you? How long was your last relationship
Speaker 2: with your ex?
Speaker 1: I need to know these things because I want to
Speaker 1: be able to properly assess you because while it's easy
Speaker 1: to say you should be with the new guy, don't
Speaker 1: let the new guy down, you know, because he didn't
Speaker 1: he didn't do what the ex did and if in
Speaker 1: your ex is the X for a reason, you should
Speaker 1: just go be with the new guy. That's easy to
Speaker 1: say that, but obviously you're stuck. Obviously you're stuck in
Speaker 1: a situation, or it was a situation. At one point,
Speaker 1: you felt like you didn't want the ex and that
Speaker 1: you wanted the new guy, but you didn't fully allow
Speaker 1: yourself to get over the.
Speaker 2: Ex, so you started missing him.
Speaker 1: And then you start critiquing what the new guy did,
Speaker 1: and you started indirectly comparing them, subconsciously comparing them. Oh, well,
Speaker 1: he don't got with this new guy guy. I mean,
Speaker 1: I liked the new guy, but he's annoying, and I
Speaker 1: can just go back and did with We talk ourselves
Speaker 1: into back into the ex's arms because that's where we
Speaker 1: were most comfortable.
Speaker 2: But comfortable ain't always good. You don't want to.
Speaker 1: Get too comfortable somewhere because then you fall back into
Speaker 1: old ways. I don't think think you need to be
Speaker 1: worried about and see, I don't know because I don't
Speaker 1: know how old you are, so you wanna have to
Speaker 1: update me. I need to know how old you are,
Speaker 1: because if you're a young girl, you do not need
Speaker 1: to be worried about being caught in between two guys.
Speaker 1: They need to be working on themselves before they get
Speaker 1: caught up with a sexy red or a sukiyana. And
Speaker 1: I don't believe you are either of the two, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't you know, or a glu rilla.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. We have these these beautiful black.
Speaker 1: Girls that are leading us some I don't know the
Speaker 1: hell where, but they're leading.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So while you seem very wholesome, I need you to
Speaker 1: put some more meat up on that bone and get
Speaker 1: back to me, all right, and we're gonna move on
Speaker 1: from that. If you love me, you'll listen to this
Speaker 1: commercial and then we'll be right back.
Speaker 2: And continuing.
Speaker 1: Okay, Jess, I need help with my mess. So I've
Speaker 1: been having these feelings that my man is cheating on me.
Speaker 2: Oh well, girl, you probably right.
Speaker 1: He's been acting distant and less communicative. He's usually an
Speaker 1: affectionate person and always that's how he feels about me,
Speaker 1: you know, for reassurance. Our past few days, our conversation
Speaker 1: started to get more and more dry. What about the
Speaker 1: pussy girl? Oh sorry, y'all, this is her story, not mine.
Speaker 1: And he would always hold my hand. There was none
Speaker 1: of that. Oh wow. So last night I decided to
Speaker 1: go through that phone. I know, that's right, I know
Speaker 1: the dumbest thing I could ever do. No, it's not,
Speaker 1: it's not if you've been feeling it, girl, wait till
Speaker 1: you go to sleep.
Speaker 2: But I need to know this.
Speaker 1: Did you take the phone and go in the kitchen,
Speaker 1: because some bitches make the mistake of trying to go
Speaker 1: through the niggaphone while he laying right there asleep, like
Speaker 1: if he move in Budge, he can't just take his
Speaker 1: goddamn phone back. And then he changed the password. Now
Speaker 1: you beg at square one looking stupid because you're trying
Speaker 1: to figure out the phone private. I know, take the
Speaker 1: phone and go in the garage. That's what it is,
Speaker 1: all right. So she went through his phone last night.
Speaker 1: I'm about to continue. I found everything I was looking for.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Saying that's why you needed to know?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: It made me question am I doing everything right? And
Speaker 1: what am I doing wrong? I was so hurt, at
Speaker 1: a loss for words. He had been talking to this
Speaker 1: girl from his job. Oh my god, ain't got the
Speaker 1: worst fucking ones. When the bitch got to work, with
Speaker 1: your nigga, and let me go ahead taking her out,
Speaker 1: calling her beautiful and even sending our flowers. I haven't
Speaker 1: gotten flowers from him in four years, oh my god,
Speaker 1: and we've been together five.
Speaker 2: That's your fucking fault. I didn't handle all this well.
Speaker 1: After I was done looking at the dumb shit, I
Speaker 1: woke his dumb ass up. I know it's right and
Speaker 1: hit him in his face with the phone and immediately
Speaker 1: started spansing out and fucking.
Speaker 2: All his shit up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that escalated very quickly. Jesus, what the
Speaker 1: fuck you've been listening to the glorilla bitch?
Speaker 2: Why you doing this? All right? Let me continue.
Speaker 1: All he did was deny and couldn't even own up
Speaker 1: to it. Well after you punched him in his face
Speaker 1: with a fucking phone. I wouldn't be able to admit
Speaker 1: much either, which hurt me even more that he couldn't it,
Speaker 1: because that means he would have kept doing it.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 1: I don't think nobody gonna want to see Willie lumplump
Speaker 1: after after you got done with him and shit and
Speaker 1: he got wait for his face to clear up to
Speaker 1: get back on any of these dat naps.
Speaker 2: Bitch. I wouldn't even want to go into work.
Speaker 1: I know the Vinch day he fucking with at work, Like, ill, exactly,
Speaker 1: I got a bitch, honey, I've never had my heartbroken before,
Speaker 1: and all I can say is, girl, this shit hurts.
Speaker 1: Oh you're a first time Okay, you're you were a
Speaker 1: vergin to the heartbreak.
Speaker 2: That's why you handled it so physically.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so I'm going to stop you right here.
Speaker 1: You was never supposed to put your hands on the man.
Speaker 1: I know it's a lot of y'all listening to this, like, no,
Speaker 1: she did what the fuck she was supposed to do?
Speaker 1: Bitch like no, no, gra gra keep it a stuck
Speaker 1: like all right, yeah, I get it. You want to
Speaker 1: be ratchet and rye Ryan and like Lorilla just said,
Speaker 1: she puts she put it out there. Then listen, in
Speaker 1: your twenties, turn it the fuck up. If you delusional,
Speaker 1: turn it the fuck up. You gotta get all your
Speaker 1: toxicity out in your twenties. You gotta live your toxic
Speaker 1: through your twenties. So I'm gonna just go ahead and
Speaker 1: say that you are in your twenties because this is
Speaker 1: being pushed.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna try to unpush it.
Speaker 1: You should have never put your hands on that man,
Speaker 1: because what if that nigga puts your ass behind bars?
Speaker 1: For not only did you hit them, you hit them
Speaker 1: with an object that could have killed him.
Speaker 2: You hit them with the phone.
Speaker 1: You know that's a piece of metal. This is glass
Speaker 1: and metal that these phones are made out of. You
Speaker 1: could be sitting behind bars all for this clown ass
Speaker 1: nigga who wanted to cheat on you at work.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, that ain't worth it.
Speaker 1: But since you ain't in jail, which I hope you not,
Speaker 1: all right, good, make this the last time because I know,
Speaker 1: I know you wanted to boom boom boom.
Speaker 2: I would even say hit them for me boom, But.
Speaker 1: That's not what we want to do, okay, because you
Speaker 1: could have took the bigger l than he did just
Speaker 1: by putting your hands on him.
Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold up, I know this shit getting good,
Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. What you do is
Speaker 1: you leave isz you leave them, you walk the fuck away.
Speaker 1: Y'all been together for quite a few years. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean and he han't gotten you flowers in
Speaker 1: four of those years. It seems like that's something that
Speaker 1: you allowed. Now if you've never voiced voice it, like, yo,
Speaker 1: what's up with this? Like you don't let years pass?
Speaker 1: If everything happened great in the first year and all
Speaker 1: of that shit great, when it starts stop happening, that's
Speaker 1: when you got to say something. When you see that
Speaker 1: the compliments go from every day. So once a week
Speaker 1: you start, you start saying something. When you see he
Speaker 1: don't hold your hand no more, you start saying something.
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying, because that don't necessarily mean
Speaker 1: it's someone else.
Speaker 2: That just means that he's bored now, and it could
Speaker 2: mean a number of things.
Speaker 1: That doesn't necessarily always mean that there's someone else he
Speaker 1: could be getting bored.
Speaker 2: He could possibly think that you fell off with some shit.
Speaker 2: You know. Have you sat down and talked to him
Speaker 2: about this?
Speaker 1: Even before y'all got at this stop right here where
Speaker 1: you see he fucking with somebody from his job. Have
Speaker 1: y'all had a conversation about y'all falling out of love
Speaker 1: with each other? Has he ever said, you know, has
Speaker 1: he ever complained about anything? Were you taking heed to this,
Speaker 1: like is he getting bored in the bedroom?
Speaker 2: Like it?
Speaker 1: You know, communication has to be on that level where
Speaker 1: y'all are willing to sometimes have uncomfortable conversations because that
Speaker 1: could lead to a spike in your marriage or in
Speaker 1: your relationship. That could lead to better things, or it
Speaker 1: can lead to worse things. But for better or for worse,
Speaker 1: honesty and communication definitely applies seriously because that's how you
Speaker 1: know whether you want to leave a situation or you
Speaker 1: want to work to keep it. You know you want
Speaker 1: to work at it. That's how y'all realize the worth
Speaker 1: in the relationship at all, to see, you know, regardless
Speaker 1: or not, you know, if we can.
Speaker 2: Make this work.
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna go cheat on each other because if
Speaker 1: I feel like I really want to step out, we
Speaker 1: don't belong together, we can't be together. It has to
Speaker 1: be like some type of maturity, some type of communication
Speaker 1: level where y'all can come together and say that, look, yo,
Speaker 1: before I cheat on you, before I make a selfish
Speaker 1: decision to not give you a choice to leave me
Speaker 1: or to fix whatever I feel like you ain't you're
Speaker 1: lacking or if I'm lacking, before I go down that
Speaker 1: road of betraying you and defying you. You know, I
Speaker 1: think we should give it a try, or I just
Speaker 1: want to break up with you because I don't want.
Speaker 2: To have to cheat on you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: People are not there yet, a lot of people ain't
Speaker 1: mature enough to make those decisions.
Speaker 2: But this is where we can start.
Speaker 1: If people start being honest like that, I think we
Speaker 1: would have a lot less cheating.
Speaker 2: Seriously, sometimes people cheat because they like it.
Speaker 1: It's fun. It's fun doing something you ain't supposed to
Speaker 1: be doing. You know, It's fun until it ain't fun
Speaker 1: no more, you know what I mean. So I think
Speaker 1: that shit could have been avoided this whole fight because
Speaker 1: now he probably don't even want to fucking deal with you,
Speaker 1: you know, because you don't turn the physical, which does
Speaker 1: not justify him cheating, but you don't probably put your
Speaker 1: hands on this nigga before.
Speaker 2: Some type of way. I don't know, girl, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You're not telling me, because if he getting abused at home, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would be shacking up with Bernardette from the job too,
Speaker 1: you know, and it is she older, because if she older,
Speaker 1: he probably felt like he can save it. She can
Speaker 1: save his ass from you. Shit girl, you can't be
Speaker 1: going mighty jo Young on these niggas.
Speaker 2: Man, you can't. You can't.
Speaker 1: And as bad as I feel for you, because I've
Speaker 1: had my heart broken by going through a phone too,
Speaker 1: you know you went through it for a reason because
Speaker 1: you felt you felt something. So your confirmation should lead
Speaker 1: you where you need to be, not with him. This
Speaker 1: is somebody he works with. If you're never going to
Speaker 1: be able to trust him again, Let's just go ahead.
Speaker 1: Let's just say this right now, because you already said
Speaker 1: you felt like if you never would have went through
Speaker 1: the phone, he would have kept going. And that's usually
Speaker 1: how it goes. You keep going until you caught, and
Speaker 1: then you're only sorry because you're caught, not because you
Speaker 1: love this person so much. Now, because while you're having
Speaker 1: your fun, you're not thinking about this person at all.
Speaker 1: You know, or you could be, but you ain't thinking
Speaker 1: about them enough to get the fuck up and stop
Speaker 1: doing what you're doing, you know, behind their back. So
Speaker 1: I definitely am not justifying his actions. I think you
Speaker 1: just need to leave, you know, before you become a
Speaker 1: little too physical and you lay yourself in jail or
Speaker 1: the nigga hits you back a little harder, harder than
Speaker 1: you hit because you know he's still a man, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So just check back in with
Speaker 1: me and just the side the side on what you want.
Speaker 1: I feel like you should move on. You could do
Speaker 1: better than this, And yeah, that's when shit get toxic.
Speaker 1: You don't want to be in a toxic, fucking really
Speaker 1: relationship if you don't have to be in one, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, You'll never be able to trust
Speaker 1: him again. He's still gonna fuck with the girl in
Speaker 1: the job because she ain't doing what you're doing. She
Speaker 1: ain't beating his ass up, she ain't going through his phone.
Speaker 1: And also he should be mad enough to walk the
Speaker 1: fuck away, but it's probably something keeping him there. Convenience.
Speaker 1: You take care of him, you got you know, good
Speaker 1: puss Puss. He also loves his girlfriend of five years,
Speaker 1: you know, but it needs to be a spark there.
Speaker 1: Something is missing on y'all. And to concern for the
Speaker 1: words and y'all growing apart, So grow apart.
Speaker 2: And stay apart. I love you.
Speaker 1: This is the end of yet another episode where Jessice
Speaker 1: fix a mess because that's what I do and that's
Speaker 1: what I do best, and then my.
Speaker 2: Deepest pan voice catch me next week.
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