WEBVTT - Cheater's Anonymous

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to can't fully reckless the production of iHeart Radio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effects, and just like that, welcome back

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<v Speaker 1>to you on another carefully reckless episode with your girl Jess. Hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all know fix the message what I do? And

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<v Speaker 1>I still have not gotten my intro. So y'all ain't

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<v Speaker 1>spam Charlemagne's comments enough. Y'all need to spam our Heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all need to spam the Black Effect. Y'all need to

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<v Speaker 1>spam breakfast Club dj Envy because if dj Envy he

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<v Speaker 1>pay attentions to his comments, if y'all go down there,

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<v Speaker 1>he gonna send it to Charlemagne, and Charlomagne gonna see.

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<v Speaker 1>So make sure y'all even spam my goddamn comments, Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to just fix my mess intro because it

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<v Speaker 1>conna be something like, way are you gonna fix my

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<v Speaker 1>mess today? They could be sorry like that. No it's

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<v Speaker 1>not over here looking like bitch. No, it could be

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<v Speaker 1>saying I need a jingle jam.

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<v Speaker 2>You know who I can call up? I can call

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<v Speaker 2>Nick Cannon. He can't make no rap songs. We can

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<v Speaker 2>make a jingle. That's what all right?

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<v Speaker 1>He is the jingle King. I ain't we can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can get that all right, all right, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna have to reach out to my buddy

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<v Speaker 1>Nick Cannon and see if he can write me a

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<v Speaker 1>jingle or just seeing a Valentine. Somebody gotta write me

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<v Speaker 1>a jingle or pretty V. I think, oh, I can

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<v Speaker 1>get all of them on there, pretty V. No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's given Nickelodeon all that, ain't it?

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<v Speaker 2>No mine? All right? All right, so just fix my mask.

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<v Speaker 2>That's We're just gonna have to do it like that,

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<v Speaker 2>all right. This is a story, it's written.

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<v Speaker 1>We ain't got no voice memos this week again because

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<v Speaker 1>people people's boyfriends and girlfriends is catching on to there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's like, bitch you over here talking about our

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<v Speaker 1>business and just like I don't know your voice, bitch

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<v Speaker 1>y'all forget y'allselves in trouble chap. I'm sorry, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>say once he gets you hitting that choke hold. So

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<v Speaker 1>but hopefully ain't none of you all getting choked behind

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<v Speaker 1>sending in voice notes. So, hey, go to the first

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<v Speaker 1>story about to dive right in. Hey, Jess, So the

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<v Speaker 1>story I'm about to tell you I might sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a bad person, but trust me, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>Lol.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was recently messing with this guy and he

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<v Speaker 1>literally was a complete bum.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Oh no, a complete dream. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>He was literally a complete dream. But he started to

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<v Speaker 1>become very clingy. Oh my god, girl, I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>many a situations like that. Me personally, I love clingy,

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<v Speaker 1>but sometimes he made me feel like I couldn't breathe

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<v Speaker 1>or had any personal space. That's what clingy is. So

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<v Speaker 1>she's definitely describing that it was never intrusive, but very overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 1>As time went by, I would tell him how I

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<v Speaker 1>feel about it, and things will change, but it would

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<v Speaker 1>eventually go back to the same thing shortly after I

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<v Speaker 1>told him that I needed space. Okay, he totally respected it,

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<v Speaker 1>which I loved, but it also caused us to.

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<v Speaker 2>Fall back from each other a lot. Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>And it may sound fucked up, but I really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel bothered by it, Okay, right, So no, So then

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that that was just you showing your truest feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>You were just being very, very honest, and it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We always make the mistake of thinking and thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>we're hurting somebody's feelings by just telling them the truth. No,

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<v Speaker 1>the truth is like it's supposed to hurt. Sometimes the

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<v Speaker 1>truth doesn't always have to be a happy thing. It

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<v Speaker 1>can be very uncomfortable and it's okay. It's how you felt,

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<v Speaker 1>So don't feel like that girl. Continuing now, girl, you

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<v Speaker 1>know us females have our needs sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Lol. I think you know where I'm going with this one.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I do SCOO.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was drunk one day and I went to

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<v Speaker 1>a little brunch with my girls and got to lit

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<v Speaker 1>and decided to go over my excess house right after.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what we did, and we did the

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<v Speaker 2>do oh yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this girl from Baltimore all time? And we did

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<v Speaker 1>the do She spelled deep do d e w like

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<v Speaker 1>mountain dew. Yes, you're from the way she's around away.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all it was, though, nothing more and nothing less.

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<v Speaker 1>But shortly after that I left, I took a video

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<v Speaker 1>and posted it on my story, not knowing that there

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<v Speaker 1>was a huge ass hickey on my neck.

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<v Speaker 2>Mmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Child. The guy who I broke it off with called

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<v Speaker 1>my phone about thirty minutes later and we were just talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Next thing, you know, I'm blocked. And I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>realize that there was a hickey on my neck. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>When I tell you, this man is hurt, he is

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<v Speaker 1>so hurt, and I just don't know how I should

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<v Speaker 1>go about this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>What should I do? Hashtag help? Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So the guy that you broke it off with

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<v Speaker 1>saw a huge ass hickey on your neck from your ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you this because I feel like while

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<v Speaker 1>you put a lot of meat on the bone, you

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<v Speaker 1>still left some meat off. Did he know about your ex?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell him about your ex? And how recent

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<v Speaker 1>is this ex? How much of an X is this

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<v Speaker 1>X shit? Because if he's doing shit like getting called

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<v Speaker 1>when you need a little bit of Dyno dingy, then

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ain't over each Other's what that tells me. It

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<v Speaker 1>also tells me that you may have been calling the

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<v Speaker 1>ex before he dropped off some Dino dingy. You never

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<v Speaker 1>really lost contact with him. Now you could have taken

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<v Speaker 1>a break from your ex. And we do this thing

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<v Speaker 1>called getting over someone with someone else. We do that

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<v Speaker 1>that's human, that's actually on both sides. That's not a

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<v Speaker 1>woman thing, it's not a man thing. That is like

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<v Speaker 1>a person thing, a human thing. Sometimes we may use

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<v Speaker 1>one person to get over another person, not realizing that

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<v Speaker 1>we're never going to really be over this person or

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<v Speaker 1>we're not over them yet, and we actually fuck up

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<v Speaker 1>the new person who actually develops real feelings for us.

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<v Speaker 1>And not to say that it doesn't go the other way,

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<v Speaker 1>because you could have had genuine feelings for this new

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<v Speaker 1>guy too, But you didn't close the door on your

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<v Speaker 1>ex like you didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you tried to move on before you were

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<v Speaker 1>ready to move on. Now, you didn't say that y'all

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<v Speaker 1>were together or anything. You said that y'all were just

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<v Speaker 1>talking and all of that. But if he's questioning you

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<v Speaker 1>about hickeys from a previous situation or just hickeys period,

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<v Speaker 1>then y'all got a little bit somewhat serious because if

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<v Speaker 1>he can have the audacity, then he then y'all was

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<v Speaker 1>on that term.

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<v Speaker 2>So I need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get into a relationship with the new dude?

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<v Speaker 1>Like where did you ever tell me he was your boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he ever tell you you were his girlfriend? And

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<v Speaker 1>did you ever agree to those terms, whether it was slight,

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<v Speaker 1>whether you did against your will or not, the decision

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<v Speaker 1>that you made if it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you were his girlfriend, y'all worked together.

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<v Speaker 1>And then using somebody to get over somebody bites you

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<v Speaker 1>in the ass when you got to break it off

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<v Speaker 1>with the new person and go back and fuck with

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<v Speaker 1>the old person. Especially if you told the new person

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<v Speaker 1>that you were over or trying to get over, or

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<v Speaker 1>you were just getting out of something. If you even

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<v Speaker 1>gave them that little bit, then that clears up a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit because he can't say he never knew about

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<v Speaker 1>this person. He can't say that because some guys will

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<v Speaker 1>try to play stupid like, oh damn, I thought this

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<v Speaker 1>was the.

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<v Speaker 2>Nigga I ain't have to worry about. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no, you chose to believe that you didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to worry about him. You ignored everything I said in

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning because you thought that a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>have any minds that they can try to take you

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<v Speaker 1>away from somebody too. But I'll let you know about

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<v Speaker 1>this person. I'll let you know I was fresh out

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<v Speaker 1>of a relationship. I'll let you know that I might

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<v Speaker 1>not be fully over this nigga. You know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the meat that you kind of left off the bone.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's okay, because I want an update, Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>want an update. And also, do you think your ex

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<v Speaker 1>left that hickey on your neck, that big ass hickey

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<v Speaker 1>on your neck on purpose? And did you let your

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<v Speaker 1>ex know about the new nigga that you would dealing with,

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<v Speaker 1>Because you have to be honest to both people. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter why you broke up with the AX, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter if you're trying to move on, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to leave that line of open honesty still because you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're gonna go back.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know if you're gonna fully move forward.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have to keep everybody aligned with how you're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling at all times. And that's just to cover your ass,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Because the truth can be twisted,

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<v Speaker 1>but not if it comes from the horse's mouth. And

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<v Speaker 1>whenever you're feeling something, whenever your feelings changed, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta communicate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you even felt like you was going to

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the AX, you should have let new

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<v Speaker 1>YO know, Like, look, I'm not over them, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Still think about them, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Because even all right, so my parents are divorced, right

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<v Speaker 1>and it's only their second year being divorced, they both

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<v Speaker 1>are still very honest about their feelings toward each other,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Now, that's a different comparison

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<v Speaker 1>because they've been together thirty plus years and they just

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<v Speaker 1>broke it off. However, the honesty is still the same.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're not gonna jump in a new relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if you ain't gonna close this door. If you

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<v Speaker 1>being you just was married thirty something years and to

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<v Speaker 1>one person who you only know that person, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kind of be hard for you to jump out there

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<v Speaker 1>and give somebody else new You're all.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody knew you're all. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So, ladies, just be careful when when moving from a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship that was extensive and then dating new people, you're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of vulnerable and this new person will come along

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<v Speaker 1>and sweep you off your feet, or at least that's

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<v Speaker 1>how it'll feel, you know, because she said she likes

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<v Speaker 1>clingy until it's the wrong motherfucker being clingy, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Clingy is cool until it's the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker that's clinging to you, because then you got to

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<v Speaker 1>how to You gotta try to figure out how to

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<v Speaker 1>unclean that person. And if he's already a clingy person anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's already his personality.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna to be hard to switch up.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're not a big fan of a clanky person,

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<v Speaker 1>because what it sounds like is you do is you

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<v Speaker 1>do like clingy, You just like it from a certain person.

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<v Speaker 1>You like it as long as you're into the person.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants a clingy person to be honest with you

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<v Speaker 1>unless both of you guys are okay with that. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm clingy to my guy, I'm cleany with my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>as he is clingy with me. Now, clingy is different.

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<v Speaker 1>We both have jobs that allows us to be gone

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<v Speaker 1>it will. It demands our time. So me and my

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<v Speaker 1>man gotta be clingy because we're not with each other

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<v Speaker 1>every day.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a truck driver.

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<v Speaker 1>He has his own company, so he makes his own

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<v Speaker 1>schedule and he fills that motherfucker up. I am my

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<v Speaker 1>own business. I am a stand up comedian. I'm an entertainer.

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<v Speaker 1>My job demands my time where I have to be

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<v Speaker 1>in this place, in that place, different cities, different states,

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<v Speaker 1>every week, sometimes three times week.

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<v Speaker 2>I travel Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Just two weeks ago, I was me and my sister

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<v Speaker 1>was in three cities in twelve hours, three different states,

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<v Speaker 1>in twelve hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that's the type of job I have, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>So my time is demanded and accounted for, whether I

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<v Speaker 1>like it or not. All I do is just say yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm willing to do this on this date. So clangy.

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<v Speaker 2>It works for certain people. Certain people it does not. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>how old are you? That depends as well. Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're younger, clingy is gonna be what you keep

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<v Speaker 1>running into, you know, because y'all y'all millennials, and well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a millennial. You may be gen Z, you may

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<v Speaker 1>be gen X. I don't know what's after that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't got to ask my sister. I gotta get

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<v Speaker 1>the time capsules down for y'all asses.

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<v Speaker 2>But and then, what do you want? What do you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want a relationship? Do you not want to

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<v Speaker 1>be committed right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? What are you? How long was your last relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with your ex?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know these things because I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to properly assess you because while it's easy

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<v Speaker 1>to say you should be with the new guy, don't

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<v Speaker 1>let the new guy down, you know, because he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't do what the ex did and if in

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<v Speaker 1>your ex is the X for a reason, you should

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<v Speaker 1>just go be with the new guy. That's easy to

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<v Speaker 1>say that, but obviously you're stuck. Obviously you're stuck in

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<v Speaker 1>a situation, or it was a situation. At one point,

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<v Speaker 1>you felt like you didn't want the ex and that

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted the new guy, but you didn't fully allow

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<v Speaker 1>yourself to get over the.

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<v Speaker 2>Ex, so you started missing him.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you start critiquing what the new guy did,

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<v Speaker 1>and you started indirectly comparing them, subconsciously comparing them. Oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>he don't got with this new guy guy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I liked the new guy, but he's annoying, and I

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<v Speaker 1>can just go back and did with We talk ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>into back into the ex's arms because that's where we

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<v Speaker 1>were most comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>But comfortable ain't always good. You don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get too comfortable somewhere because then you fall back into

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<v Speaker 1>old ways. I don't think think you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>worried about and see, I don't know because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how old you are, so you wanna have to

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<v Speaker 1>update me. I need to know how old you are,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you're a young girl, you do not need

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<v Speaker 1>to be worried about being caught in between two guys.

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<v Speaker 1>They need to be working on themselves before they get

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<v Speaker 1>caught up with a sexy red or a sukiyana. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe you are either of the two, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't you know, or a glu rilla.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying. We have these these beautiful black.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls that are leading us some I don't know the

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<v Speaker 1>hell where, but they're leading.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So while you seem very wholesome, I need you to

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<v Speaker 1>put some more meat up on that bone and get

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<v Speaker 1>back to me, all right, and we're gonna move on

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<v Speaker 1>from that. If you love me, you'll listen to this

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<v Speaker 1>commercial and then we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 2>And continuing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Jess, I need help with my mess. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>been having these feelings that my man is cheating on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, girl, you probably right.

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<v Speaker 1>He's been acting distant and less communicative. He's usually an

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<v Speaker 1>affectionate person and always that's how he feels about me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for reassurance. Our past few days, our conversation

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<v Speaker 1>started to get more and more dry. What about the

0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.360
<v Speaker 1>pussy girl? Oh sorry, y'all, this is her story, not mine.

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<v Speaker 1>And he would always hold my hand. There was none

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Oh wow. So last night I decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go through that phone. I know, that's right, I know

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<v Speaker 1>the dumbest thing I could ever do. No, it's not,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not if you've been feeling it, girl, wait till

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<v Speaker 1>you go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>But I need to know this.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you take the phone and go in the kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>because some bitches make the mistake of trying to go

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<v Speaker 1>through the niggaphone while he laying right there asleep, like

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<v Speaker 1>if he move in Budge, he can't just take his

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn phone back. And then he changed the password. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you beg at square one looking stupid because you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the phone private. I know, take the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and go in the garage. That's what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So she went through his phone last night.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to continue. I found everything I was looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Saying that's why you needed to know?

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>It made me question am I doing everything right? And

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<v Speaker 1>what am I doing wrong? I was so hurt, at

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<v Speaker 1>a loss for words. He had been talking to this

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<v Speaker 1>girl from his job. Oh my god, ain't got the

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<v Speaker 1>worst fucking ones. When the bitch got to work, with

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<v Speaker 1>your nigga, and let me go ahead taking her out,

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<v Speaker 1>calling her beautiful and even sending our flowers. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>gotten flowers from him in four years, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've been together five.

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<v Speaker 2>That's your fucking fault. I didn't handle all this well.

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<v Speaker 1>After I was done looking at the dumb shit, I

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<v Speaker 1>woke his dumb ass up. I know it's right and

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<v Speaker 1>hit him in his face with the phone and immediately

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<v Speaker 1>started spansing out and fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>All his shit up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that escalated very quickly. Jesus, what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck you've been listening to the glorilla bitch?

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<v Speaker 2>Why you doing this? All right? Let me continue.

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<v Speaker 1>All he did was deny and couldn't even own up

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Well after you punched him in his face

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<v Speaker 1>with a fucking phone. I wouldn't be able to admit

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<v Speaker 1>much either, which hurt me even more that he couldn't it,

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<v Speaker 1>because that means he would have kept doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think nobody gonna want to see Willie lumplump

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<v Speaker 1>after after you got done with him and shit and

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<v Speaker 1>he got wait for his face to clear up to

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<v Speaker 1>get back on any of these dat naps.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch. I wouldn't even want to go into work.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the Vinch day he fucking with at work, Like, ill, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a bitch, honey, I've never had my heartbroken before,

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<v Speaker 1>and all I can say is, girl, this shit hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're a first time Okay, you're you were a

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<v Speaker 1>vergin to the heartbreak.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you handled it so physically.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so I'm going to stop you right here.

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<v Speaker 1>You was never supposed to put your hands on the man.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a lot of y'all listening to this, like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>she did what the fuck she was supposed to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch like no, no, gra gra keep it a stuck

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<v Speaker 1>like all right, yeah, I get it. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>be ratchet and rye Ryan and like Lorilla just said,

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<v Speaker 1>she puts she put it out there. Then listen, in

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<v Speaker 1>your twenties, turn it the fuck up. If you delusional,

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<v Speaker 1>turn it the fuck up. You gotta get all your

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<v Speaker 1>toxicity out in your twenties. You gotta live your toxic

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<v Speaker 1>through your twenties. So I'm gonna just go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>say that you are in your twenties because this is

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<v Speaker 1>being pushed.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonna try to unpush it.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have never put your hands on that man,

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<v Speaker 1>because what if that nigga puts your ass behind bars?

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<v Speaker 1>For not only did you hit them, you hit them

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<v Speaker 1>with an object that could have killed him.

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<v Speaker 2>You hit them with the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that's a piece of metal. This is glass

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<v Speaker 1>and metal that these phones are made out of. You

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<v Speaker 1>could be sitting behind bars all for this clown ass

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<v Speaker 1>nigga who wanted to cheat on you at work.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying, that ain't worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>But since you ain't in jail, which I hope you not,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, good, make this the last time because I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you wanted to boom boom boom.

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<v Speaker 2>I would even say hit them for me boom, But.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what we want to do, okay, because you

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<v Speaker 1>could have took the bigger l than he did just

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<v Speaker 1>by putting your hands on him.

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<v Speaker 2>You understand what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up, Hold up, I know this shit getting good,

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<v Speaker 1>But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.

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<v Speaker 1>If you love me, you'll listen. What you do is

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<v Speaker 1>you leave isz you leave them, you walk the fuck away.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all been together for quite a few years. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean and he han't gotten you flowers in

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<v Speaker 1>four of those years. It seems like that's something that

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<v Speaker 1>you allowed. Now if you've never voiced voice it, like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up with this? Like you don't let years pass?

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<v Speaker 1>If everything happened great in the first year and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that shit great, when it starts stop happening, that's

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<v Speaker 1>when you got to say something. When you see that

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<v Speaker 1>the compliments go from every day. So once a week

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<v Speaker 1>you start, you start saying something. When you see he

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<v Speaker 1>don't hold your hand no more, you start saying something.

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<v Speaker 1>You understand what I'm saying, because that don't necessarily mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>That just means that he's bored now, and it could

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<v Speaker 2>mean a number of things.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't necessarily always mean that there's someone else he

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<v Speaker 1>could be getting bored.

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<v Speaker 2>He could possibly think that you fell off with some shit.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. Have you sat down and talked to him

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<v Speaker 2>about this?

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<v Speaker 1>Even before y'all got at this stop right here where

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<v Speaker 1>you see he fucking with somebody from his job. Have

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<v Speaker 1>y'all had a conversation about y'all falling out of love

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<v Speaker 1>with each other? Has he ever said, you know, has

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<v Speaker 1>he ever complained about anything? Were you taking heed to this,

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<v Speaker 1>like is he getting bored in the bedroom?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, communication has to be on that level where

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<v Speaker 1>y'all are willing to sometimes have uncomfortable conversations because that

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<v Speaker 1>could lead to a spike in your marriage or in

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship. That could lead to better things, or it

0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:44.600
<v Speaker 1>can lead to worse things. But for better or for worse,

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<v Speaker 1>honesty and communication definitely applies seriously because that's how you

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<v Speaker 1>know whether you want to leave a situation or you

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<v Speaker 1>want to work to keep it. You know you want

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<v Speaker 1>to work at it. That's how y'all realize the worth

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<v Speaker 1>in the relationship at all, to see, you know, regardless

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<v Speaker 1>or not, you know, if we can.

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<v Speaker 2>Make this work.

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<v Speaker 1>We ain't gonna go cheat on each other because if

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I really want to step out, we

0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:12.040
<v Speaker 1>don't belong together, we can't be together. It has to

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<v Speaker 1>be like some type of maturity, some type of communication

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<v Speaker 1>level where y'all can come together and say that, look, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>before I cheat on you, before I make a selfish

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<v Speaker 1>decision to not give you a choice to leave me

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<v Speaker 1>or to fix whatever I feel like you ain't you're

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<v Speaker 1>lacking or if I'm lacking, before I go down that

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<v Speaker 1>road of betraying you and defying you. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think we should give it a try, or I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to break up with you because I don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>To have to cheat on you. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>People are not there yet, a lot of people ain't

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<v Speaker 1>mature enough to make those decisions.

0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:50.040
<v Speaker 2>But this is where we can start.

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<v Speaker 1>If people start being honest like that, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>would have a lot less cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, sometimes people cheat because they like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun. It's fun doing something you ain't supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be doing. You know, It's fun until it ain't fun

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<v Speaker 1>no more, you know what I mean. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>that shit could have been avoided this whole fight because

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<v Speaker 1>now he probably don't even want to fucking deal with you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because you don't turn the physical, which does

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<v Speaker 1>not justify him cheating, but you don't probably put your

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<v Speaker 1>hands on this nigga before.

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<v Speaker 2>Some type of way. I don't know, girl, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not telling me, because if he getting abused at home, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be shacking up with Bernardette from the job too,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it is she older, because if she older,

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<v Speaker 1>he probably felt like he can save it. She can

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<v Speaker 1>save his ass from you. Shit girl, you can't be

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<v Speaker 1>going mighty jo Young on these niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, you can't. You can't.

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<v Speaker 1>And as bad as I feel for you, because I've

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<v Speaker 1>had my heart broken by going through a phone too,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you went through it for a reason because

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<v Speaker 1>you felt you felt something. So your confirmation should lead

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<v Speaker 1>you where you need to be, not with him. This

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<v Speaker 1>is somebody he works with. If you're never going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to trust him again, Let's just go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say this right now, because you already said

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<v Speaker 1>you felt like if you never would have went through

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, he would have kept going. And that's usually

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<v Speaker 1>how it goes. You keep going until you caught, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you're only sorry because you're caught, not because you

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<v Speaker 1>love this person so much. Now, because while you're having

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<v Speaker 1>your fun, you're not thinking about this person at all.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, or you could be, but you ain't thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about them enough to get the fuck up and stop

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<v Speaker 1>doing what you're doing, you know, behind their back. So

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely am not justifying his actions. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to leave, you know, before you become a

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<v Speaker 1>little too physical and you lay yourself in jail or

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<v Speaker 1>the nigga hits you back a little harder, harder than

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<v Speaker 1>you hit because you know he's still a man, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. So just check back in with

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<v Speaker 1>me and just the side the side on what you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should move on. You could do

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<v Speaker 1>better than this, And yeah, that's when shit get toxic.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to be in a toxic, fucking really

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<v Speaker 1>relationship if you don't have to be in one, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, You'll never be able to trust

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<v Speaker 1>him again. He's still gonna fuck with the girl in

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<v Speaker 1>the job because she ain't doing what you're doing. She

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<v Speaker 1>ain't beating his ass up, she ain't going through his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>And also he should be mad enough to walk the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck away, but it's probably something keeping him there. Convenience.

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<v Speaker 1>You take care of him, you got you know, good

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<v Speaker 1>puss Puss. He also loves his girlfriend of five years,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but it needs to be a spark there.

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<v Speaker 1>Something is missing on y'all. And to concern for the

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<v Speaker 1>words and y'all growing apart, So grow apart.

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<v Speaker 2>And stay apart. I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the end of yet another episode where Jessice

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<v Speaker 1>fix a mess because that's what I do and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I do best, and then my.

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<v Speaker 2>Deepest pan voice catch me next week.

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