Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode
Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shity. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up, my people,
Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so much for being
Speaker 1: here with us and lending us your ears, I know,
Speaker 1: for another episode. Yes, I love it. I love like
Speaker 1: the fact that we can like just chit chat and
Speaker 1: talk to the people and then and they're not talking back, interrupting,
Speaker 1: they're not talking about But the only part I hate
Speaker 1: is like we're chit chatting and then we might say
Speaker 1: one thing wrong and someone takes a little clipt on
Speaker 1: Internet and then we're like, you know, people who we
Speaker 1: weren't chit chatting to have a problem with where we
Speaker 1: said yes. But then we're trending, and that's all that
Speaker 1: really matters, I know, I know, Like because we never
Speaker 1: actually talked on the podcast about the whole your comment
Speaker 1: about um, Tamera and Teddy's podcast. Oh no, we did
Speaker 1: two teas in a pie and and and that ship.
Speaker 1: All the Little Housewives blogs picked that up and oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, and it gave them, um some gave them
Speaker 1: attention which they didn't have so you're welcome to tease,
Speaker 1: and you're welcome people like they're people like they gossip
Speaker 1: about housewives and and and let's let's just say this
Speaker 1: the differences. Yes, they're able to talk about what happened
Speaker 1: on their shows because they're no longer on it, whereas
Speaker 1: we can't do that. And to be quite honest, I
Speaker 1: don't even want to do that right exactly, like we
Speaker 1: see enough of each other on these shows, and y'all
Speaker 1: see enough of us, you know, Okay, so per usual
Speaker 1: while our shady moment of the week, and I'm like
Speaker 1: kind of hot about my shady moment. I know I
Speaker 1: was hot last week with my whole airplane tobacco. But
Speaker 1: I'm hot, okay. So I you know, all of my
Speaker 1: girls I've said, are working. They have a job, they
Speaker 1: get a paycheck. I have like joint accounts with the
Speaker 1: girls with the twins. Grace Hays her a little own
Speaker 1: because I got her off my little stuff. Um, and
Speaker 1: so because they were getting their little paychecks direct deposit,
Speaker 1: I wanted to set the twins up, so I need
Speaker 1: to take them to the bank where they work is
Speaker 1: around the corner from my house. So I was like, um, guys.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna like pick y'all up and take you
Speaker 1: all to the bank. And Grace was like, oh no, no, no, no, mommy,
Speaker 1: don't come to the job. We'll meet you at the bank.
Speaker 1: So anytime a kid says no, no, don't come, zoom
Speaker 1: zoom come. Oh it's the cute boys. So so you know,
Speaker 1: when you first pull into where the school is where
Speaker 1: they work, the parking lot is right there. That's the
Speaker 1: first thing you see is the parking lot. So I
Speaker 1: was like, I'll meet you on the parking lot. So
Speaker 1: they have to clean up after their kids, pack their
Speaker 1: backpacks and walk to the car, which is like they
Speaker 1: have to walk over hill to get to the car.
Speaker 1: So what are their friends? Was outside and saw what
Speaker 1: I saw when I pulled up, which was two boys
Speaker 1: on top of Grace's car waiting for Grace, literally literally
Speaker 1: laying on top there. One was laying on top of
Speaker 1: the food and one was actually standing on the tires
Speaker 1: in the back and kind of like laying on the
Speaker 1: back of the car. I was undone, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So I pull up and I see this bullshit, and
Speaker 1: somebody tells the little Gucci car on the little guccy
Speaker 1: car and then they're kind of like exactly and they're
Speaker 1: taking like selfies right, but they're like waiting for the girls.
Speaker 1: So somebody texted them and said, uh, you're two boys
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna remain no. They don't know that I'm
Speaker 1: their girl's mother. The two boys are laying on the car.
Speaker 1: So they were like two boys laying on the car.
Speaker 1: Mom's on her way. Holy shit, they start. I see
Speaker 1: them running from over the hill to try to get
Speaker 1: to me before I lose my mom and kirst these
Speaker 1: boys out, why are you laying on my kids car?
Speaker 1: First of all, y'all are real scraffee. Second of all, like, okay,
Speaker 1: so they're the lifeguards at the at the at the camp,
Speaker 1: so they're actually they have six packs. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just like if you take your shirts off, they're cute,
Speaker 1: but y'all need haircuts and y'all need clean clothes. Okay,
Speaker 1: So here go Angel, because she's a slick one. She
Speaker 1: gets over the hills, she sees the car and I'm
Speaker 1: like right in front of these boys laying on my
Speaker 1: daughter's car. And she started screaming, Hi Momhi Mom. So
Speaker 1: the boys like look up and they look at me.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh ship. So they proceed to like get
Speaker 1: themselves together. But but the one that likes grace like waited.
Speaker 1: The other one knew better and started like walking away
Speaker 1: because they want that. Apparently they have like some special
Speaker 1: handshake that they've learned together that they need to do,
Speaker 1: like a fist pumping around the back and a tuttie roll.
Speaker 1: I don't know what this is anyway, long story short,
Speaker 1: everything in me said, do not cuss these boys out yourself.
Speaker 1: Just don't cuss them out because I didn't want to
Speaker 1: embarrass my kids. Oh my gosh. So I stayed in
Speaker 1: the car. Angela door jumped in my car and they
Speaker 1: were like, drive off, my drive off, drive off. I'm
Speaker 1: not I'm not in a rush or race. I ain't
Speaker 1: going nowhere. So the shadiness of this all is boys,
Speaker 1: please act like you don't know who my kids are.
Speaker 1: I just want my children to be boy free forever. Okay,
Speaker 1: So my question is I feel like that's not the
Speaker 1: first time they've done that. That's how I feel. That's
Speaker 1: how they wait for them every every day and lay
Speaker 1: on the car. Yes, So I said, does this happen
Speaker 1: every day? And they were like, no, this is the
Speaker 1: first time. Y'all line, y'all lie. And then I said,
Speaker 1: I was like, look, if they want to wait for you, cool,
Speaker 1: they can stand next to the car, then laying all
Speaker 1: over the car. This is not their car, and then
Speaker 1: standing on the tires that can hurt the tires, bust
Speaker 1: the tires. And I'm not buying you all new ones.
Speaker 1: So I was literally thinking to myself, did this ever?
Speaker 1: Did I ever? Was a boy ever waiting by my
Speaker 1: car for me? And I want to say nor so
Speaker 1: and it was it was a boy ever sprawled out
Speaker 1: on top of my car. No. So yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like I just want every boy who is seventeen, eighteen
Speaker 1: or nineteen. These two boys are eighteen. By the way,
Speaker 1: Grace is seventeen. Was that like a problem or is
Speaker 1: that how are they Grace is seventeen? These boys are eighteen. No,
Speaker 1: that's not a problem. I mean, like, legally is that?
Speaker 1: Am I legally? Because if I could bring the law
Speaker 1: into this, legally, I'm gonna bring the law into this.
Speaker 1: It's so insane that that's legally a problem. Though. Okay,
Speaker 1: so then the next day, this is the side note.
Speaker 1: The shadiness is the boys guys. But a side note, um,
Speaker 1: the boys were like, so they asked, Grace, so what
Speaker 1: your mom say about us? Grace is like me, So
Speaker 1: she was like, my mom said you need a haircut.
Speaker 1: My mom said you need have on clean clothes. So
Speaker 1: guess what. The boys win't got a haircut. That is funny,
Speaker 1: and I think about, Oh my gosh, I like if
Speaker 1: that was like if one had daughters. Yes, he pulled up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I told the girls never again in life will
Speaker 1: I not say something. It took everything in me not
Speaker 1: to say because the new job, it's a new situation
Speaker 1: for them, and I didn't want to embarrass them. And
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't know who they are, but
Speaker 1: you want to be embarrassing them. The boys would be embarrassed.
Speaker 1: Well yes, but then the girls would have internalized and
Speaker 1: like and cursed people out. Yeah, they deserved it. I'm
Speaker 1: surprised you didn't say anything, and so you're saying this,
Speaker 1: it's so funny. We should have talked about this um
Speaker 1: last week. And I'm gonna get to my recently stay
Speaker 1: the moment, but I want to talk about this topic. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: this reminds me of and it's not the same thing,
Speaker 1: but it's similar on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Yes,
Speaker 1: when Erica Jane told Garcels fourteen year old son to
Speaker 1: get the out of here when he was helping clean
Speaker 1: up at his mom's and his mom's birthday party, picking
Speaker 1: up flowers, and you know, she goes to him, well,
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? Get out of here, get
Speaker 1: the out of here, get them and she said it
Speaker 1: like several times. Yes, So when I watched that, and
Speaker 1: then and then you know, the little the boy goes
Speaker 1: to his mom says, oh my god, I just got violated,
Speaker 1: she told And when can I tell you? I have
Speaker 1: so much I don't. It's the word respect or admiration
Speaker 1: for Garcel for the way she handled that, because I know,
Speaker 1: I know, how would that moment if somebody told me
Speaker 1: that a grown woman told my son, my fourteen year
Speaker 1: old son, Corey to get the out of here, I
Speaker 1: would have lost it. I that whole place would have
Speaker 1: been toward up. I mean I probably would have been
Speaker 1: you don't talk to my kids like that, like it
Speaker 1: would I mean all types of I would have gone
Speaker 1: off on her. I would have I would have lost
Speaker 1: my mind in so I'm just like, like I look
Speaker 1: at herself, I'm like, wow, I'm that's impressive that she
Speaker 1: held her composure, and I think so kind of like
Speaker 1: you should have gone off with her as Yeah, well
Speaker 1: there's that, but I think Garcella, you have to keep
Speaker 1: in mind, let's put this all in perspective earlier, well, no,
Speaker 1: earlier in the party. Okay, Erica is beyond drunk. She's
Speaker 1: totally wasted. So she's drunk. She has hit on Garcella's
Speaker 1: older son. She has asked to have a threesome with
Speaker 1: Garcella's older son, which is horrible because everybody knows he's
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and it's like, come on, this is
Speaker 1: not even cute or funny. You look real creepy, Erica. Um,
Speaker 1: and then the younger son you tell him get the out,
Speaker 1: Like what So maybe, okay, maybe she knew herself was
Speaker 1: like over her, Yes, but I guess she knew she
Speaker 1: was drunk, right, So so if Garcella knows, like, okay,
Speaker 1: she's really drunk, she already sees how she's acting, so
Speaker 1: maybe she's like, okay, she's not in full control of
Speaker 1: of what she's doing, what she's saying, So maybe that's
Speaker 1: why Garsela was like easing her, but she walked over
Speaker 1: and it was like, Erica, you told what's his name?
Speaker 1: I don't know the kid's name? You told Jack? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like what I would have been like, first of all,
Speaker 1: why am I leaving the party? You still here and
Speaker 1: you're disrespecting my kids? Bitch, get out my party right?
Speaker 1: Leave right? And I don't care how you getting home.
Speaker 1: I just, oh, my gosh, I know I would have
Speaker 1: lost it, like that wouldn't have gone to Yeah, that
Speaker 1: wouldn't gone okay. So when that just made me think
Speaker 1: like if if I if I had daughters and I
Speaker 1: pulled up and boys are like laying on her car, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what would I do? I know what wanted with you?
Speaker 1: But it was so many emotions that went through my
Speaker 1: body and I was like, let me age, just not
Speaker 1: embarrass them, let me And they got there fast they were.
Speaker 1: When I saw them running towards me, I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: now did they admit that's why they were running? Did
Speaker 1: you ask them? Like? Oh, they told me. They told
Speaker 1: me that they text messages that said that I was
Speaker 1: laying on the car and they knew I was coming,
Speaker 1: so they were like, oh, hell no, we gotta get
Speaker 1: there quick. So what it was all happening fast? But yes,
Speaker 1: I don't believe that's the first time that these boys
Speaker 1: do this and do it again, and I will be
Speaker 1: doing pop ups. Okay the end. Alright, So my recently
Speaker 1: shady moment um, it's more of just like a complaint. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I like complaints. I'm not coming here for that. So
Speaker 1: I really hate rude people on emails, meaning you send
Speaker 1: me an email, you don't greet me, and you don't
Speaker 1: that would be me. Okay, that's you. I would get
Speaker 1: on you. But I'm just all right, I want to
Speaker 1: read this email. So I want to read this email.
Speaker 1: I got this email today. It's like, so many things
Speaker 1: wrong with this email, and this is to my business,
Speaker 1: so embellished my e commerce business sell hats, t shirts, hoodies,
Speaker 1: all that, right. So the email says my order is
Speaker 1: the subject. The body of the email goes my order
Speaker 1: was returned because my apartment number was left off. I
Speaker 1: would like to read shipped to me order number two
Speaker 1: seven seven three. Okay, no, no please, first of all no, no,
Speaker 1: first of all, hello, no hello. I would have written
Speaker 1: what she wrote for the record, that's rudest ship. It's
Speaker 1: so rude. I hate it. First of all, no hello, okay,
Speaker 1: no please, because first of all, you left your apartment
Speaker 1: number off. This is not my fault that your apartment
Speaker 1: number was left off. And your package is being sent
Speaker 1: back to me, and now you're asking me to your
Speaker 1: you're asking me to read ship it to you at
Speaker 1: my cost. But it's your fault. Okay. But y'all not friends,
Speaker 1: So why why you got to get a hello? You're
Speaker 1: my friends? What y'all aren't friends? This is basic english?
Speaker 1: One oh one. See, I'm business. I'm straight to the point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you and and and we're on like email change together. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm horrible and like, so the so one person, they'll
Speaker 1: send an email, they'll send it to both of us, right,
Speaker 1: and so you know the emails say hi, Jazell and
Speaker 1: Robin you know this this, blah blah blah that that
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, thank you blah blah blah. Gela's response okay,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, hell no, I'm not letting her
Speaker 1: represent me like that. So then I will reply back
Speaker 1: hello blah blah blah, Yes, thank you for your email.
Speaker 1: Robin always cleans it up. I appreciate the information. Talk
Speaker 1: to you soon. And you know what, every time I
Speaker 1: see that Robin does that, I'm like a thank God
Speaker 1: for Robin. But b this is too much nicety. No,
Speaker 1: it's not. It's it's unnecessary niceties. Not it makes a
Speaker 1: difference for to people when you're asking for something when
Speaker 1: when you're like, do you think, yes, I'm gonna send
Speaker 1: this woman's package back to her? Right? Okay, but I
Speaker 1: just like, this is just rude. This is just rude.
Speaker 1: It's rude. One on one. I didn't know. You don't
Speaker 1: teach people that they don't You don't learn this in school.
Speaker 1: When you write an email, you you you put a greeting,
Speaker 1: to write a sentence, you say thank you, Like, where
Speaker 1: are the manners? Please? Thank you? I don't get it. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is the but but in this woman's defense, I
Speaker 1: feel like niceties Robin is giving me a dirty look writer.
Speaker 1: I feel like niceties are really for like people who
Speaker 1: you know, A that are your friends. You're so you're
Speaker 1: the type. I'm just straight to the point, you're rude
Speaker 1: to service people. No, I'm just saying you have did
Speaker 1: you think niceties are only reserved for people you know.
Speaker 1: Then that means you're just you're rude to anyone that
Speaker 1: I like in person niceties. This is email, this is
Speaker 1: very in person and no, no, I'm sorry, I don't
Speaker 1: do better. I don't care who I'm talking to. I
Speaker 1: don't care if it's customer service at Saxford Avenue, I'm saying, hello,
Speaker 1: my you know my order was misplaced whatever, you know,
Speaker 1: can you please help me? Thank you? Well, I can't
Speaker 1: say that, but because of you, Robin, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: do better because I see how nice you are to
Speaker 1: the world, and I'm like, damn, I'm not even I
Speaker 1: I just give two words at most, and I want
Speaker 1: to do better as a person. All right, yes, so
Speaker 1: so sometimes just because how my brain works, I if
Speaker 1: there's a question asked in the email, I have to
Speaker 1: answer it. I have to answer the question, and then
Speaker 1: I'll go back and put in the niceties. I'm saying, right,
Speaker 1: you'll answer it, and then you'll go and then you'll
Speaker 1: edit it. Yes before I press in, Yes, please do that. Please.
Speaker 1: It's just it's not that I'm rude. It's just that
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get to the next thing. I understand, okay,
Speaker 1: but I just I don't know. I just think nice,
Speaker 1: like being you know, respectful, having manners. Um, it goes
Speaker 1: a long way. And did I tell y'all, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you. I might tell you every episode Corey in
Speaker 1: his yearbook to tell you this, he was named most
Speaker 1: respectful because you because his mama, his mother, don't play that.
Speaker 1: His mama don't play okay, And it's like, I'm so
Speaker 1: proud of that. And then this also goes for this
Speaker 1: doesn't just go for emails. This goes for text messages too.
Speaker 1: So like it now, I'm not I'm not. First of all,
Speaker 1: I don't like group text. We've already talked about talked
Speaker 1: about that. That's fine, but I feel like and so on.
Speaker 1: On text messages, especially if it's not someone that I
Speaker 1: like text every day, you better say hi. Don't just
Speaker 1: don't just text me and be like what was the
Speaker 1: name of that recipe book? Again? No, you better be
Speaker 1: like hey girl. Okay. So for the record, I even
Speaker 1: worse on text messages. Okay, my Texas is like one word.
Speaker 1: It might even be a letter. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: can not stand the letter K. And I I don't
Speaker 1: ok I don't do K. Grace does kk okay, so okay,
Speaker 1: I might do Carl give me dirty looks okay, okay,
Speaker 1: but okay, so Rob and I are on a million
Speaker 1: text change together, a million. So again I'll respond with
Speaker 1: one word and Robin comes in, Oh my gosh, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. Yes, that was so nice and blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And the answer is, what why are we doing?
Speaker 1: I don't do all that, but you do? You do?
Speaker 1: You give three sentences? I give one word? Yeah, like
Speaker 1: you're I mean, I don't know. Okay, I'm gonna do better.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do better. I'm gonna do better. Everybody. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're moving on. So that's so people, if you're listening, like, say,
Speaker 1: how give me a greeting, give me a please and
Speaker 1: thank you and give me a salutation. Stop. This is
Speaker 1: just rude and and it's and I think and I'm
Speaker 1: still doing and I think it's because you know, our
Speaker 1: society has gone more digital with texting, texting and all that.
Speaker 1: Think about before we were texting, like now everyone's texting
Speaker 1: in shorthand and whatever, like everything is so short and quick.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't like that before. I know, we were
Speaker 1: all like very much. Um courteous. We're more courteous, yes,
Speaker 1: and we gave Yeah. I just okay. Never, we're moving on. Okay,
Speaker 1: because I want to talk about Scarlett jo handsOn. Okay,
Speaker 1: because this girl said she she put out a tweet
Speaker 1: she said, if you ever locked yourself in a bathroom, cried,
Speaker 1: washed your face, and came back like nothing happened, you
Speaker 1: are strong. Okay. So after she put that tweet out there,
Speaker 1: the people spoken, okay. So in other words, she's saying,
Speaker 1: if you had a party and you can't and you can't,
Speaker 1: you know you can't get past it, your strength is
Speaker 1: equal to you wiping your face and you're coming back. Okay.
Speaker 1: So the people said that I get what she's saying.
Speaker 1: But what do people say? The people said, she doesn't
Speaker 1: have social media of any kind, because clearly she would
Speaker 1: know that this is not what you should be doing. Okay.
Speaker 1: Somebody said, I lost count on how many times I
Speaker 1: did this. This was when I appreciate it. No, you
Speaker 1: are weak because you have the fear of what other
Speaker 1: people think about you. And when I read it, that's
Speaker 1: what I thought. You went into the bathroom and cried
Speaker 1: because you're concerned about what's going on. Out here in
Speaker 1: this party and you're mad about what's going on here
Speaker 1: at a party. Well, that's you know, that's the impression
Speaker 1: I she in my mind, she she painted a picture,
Speaker 1: and the picture was she was at the dinner party
Speaker 1: and cocked up party or something, and somebody had said
Speaker 1: something to her sideways or something that she didn't like,
Speaker 1: and so she went to the bathroom and had tears
Speaker 1: and then she her facing came out, and she was
Speaker 1: strong because she was able to wipe her face and
Speaker 1: no one knew she cried. I'm like, girl, Bob, get
Speaker 1: some problems. I mean, okay. So I feel like I
Speaker 1: understand where she was going with it. I think she
Speaker 1: was just setting a visual. But I think she's just
Speaker 1: saying to anyone regardless, like Okay, if you're going through
Speaker 1: something like, it's okay, step away, you know whatever, get
Speaker 1: your emotions out your whether it's your tears or your
Speaker 1: frustration and your anger, and and come back. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just I don't. I don't think it. But it
Speaker 1: is that an indication of strength or are you weak
Speaker 1: because you had to go to the bathroom and cry?
Speaker 1: How about suck it up? But a cup in the
Speaker 1: moment and just keep it moving. But I think it's
Speaker 1: but not everyone is strong, not everyone, Not everyone can
Speaker 1: be strong in the moment. Some people can't deal with
Speaker 1: um stress or controversy or you know, tension in the
Speaker 1: moment in a in a you know, a strong way.
Speaker 1: You know, some people do react differently. So if you
Speaker 1: are that person, it's like, okay, react, have your moment,
Speaker 1: but collect yourself and come back so clearly like you, yes,
Speaker 1: nothing phases you, right, right, right, But nobody's gonna like
Speaker 1: is anyone ever gonna sit and make you cry? Like
Speaker 1: are you right? You've never cried at a party? Robbing?
Speaker 1: I mean no, But so I look at it. It's
Speaker 1: not about crying. It's about your emotions. I have gotten
Speaker 1: to a point where I've wanted my where my head
Speaker 1: is about to explode, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: where I want to cut someone out and go off
Speaker 1: and I'm losing it. I'm mad and I'm angry. But
Speaker 1: that makes the party good. That's what I want to
Speaker 1: say at the party. But but that's also that can
Speaker 1: be also considered weak by not composing yourself. Right, So
Speaker 1: I look at it not just cry like I think
Speaker 1: it's just whatever it is. If something gets to you,
Speaker 1: if your emotions get the best of you, to step
Speaker 1: away and let your emotions keep, you know, like, get
Speaker 1: it out, cry, get your scream out, get your anger out,
Speaker 1: punched the wall, whatever, and then get your composure and
Speaker 1: come back. That's I thought she was talking about when
Speaker 1: you're raising babies and ship, because that's what I wanted
Speaker 1: to do when my kids were infants. Cry yes, go run, go,
Speaker 1: walk into a go to the bathroom like myself in
Speaker 1: the bathroom and scream until my lungs got sore. That's
Speaker 1: what I wanted to do when I had infants. Okay,
Speaker 1: well you you are actually helping people. This is just
Speaker 1: like an anti abortion like Robin selling people. It's really
Speaker 1: hard out here to raise some children. This is like
Speaker 1: the anti abortion pill. I mean, it's not look I'm
Speaker 1: telling anybody, Yes, it is not easy. That it's not easy,
Speaker 1: but it's like you get through it and it's beautiful.
Speaker 1: Being a parent is beautiful, yes, but I definitely had
Speaker 1: moments where I would literally scream into a pillow but yeah,
Speaker 1: baby won't shut up, and it's like, oh my gosh, Yes,
Speaker 1: it's it's hard. It's aining it's like the hardest job
Speaker 1: you'll ever have. But speaking of abortions, they have to
Speaker 1: do mandatory abortions now, mandatory emergency abort emergency and what
Speaker 1: constitutes that? I think like a like an a topic
Speaker 1: pregnancy or something. I feel like you have to be
Speaker 1: on the table right and something goes left and they
Speaker 1: and you have to the baby has to be aborted,
Speaker 1: I think I feel like, you know, yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: I felt like if it was that's an emergency has
Speaker 1: to emergency abortion. Like what do you mean by on
Speaker 1: the table? You're on the table like you're you're having
Speaker 1: a procedure for something else and you're about to die
Speaker 1: and they take the baby out. No, that's not right.
Speaker 1: I'm making this up as a baby. It's just there's
Speaker 1: if if the baby, if if being pregnant is causing
Speaker 1: health problem, Okay, then you can have an Okay. I
Speaker 1: like that. I like that better. Or like or if
Speaker 1: it's an e topic pregnancy where the what is it
Speaker 1: fetus is in the tubes and all that type of
Speaker 1: stuff that but what else, Like I feel like when
Speaker 1: does the person's what what what is the ruling or
Speaker 1: is there ruling on in the case of rape. Right, Well,
Speaker 1: they're saying that state by state, state by state, like
Speaker 1: I feel like that should be included. Yeah, so you're
Speaker 1: managed like as like no question about no, it's rape
Speaker 1: and says all of it. Um, so usually mental health, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you got mental health emergency, like if you have to
Speaker 1: give birth to a child that and you were raped,
Speaker 1: it's horrible, or if you have to carry a child
Speaker 1: that like why would you would you? I mean see
Speaker 1: in rape like I don't even want to think, like
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know how I'm I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about this. I just started watching my Okay, I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about my sister, but um, somebody told me that.
Speaker 1: Um that I asked somebody I know very well, okay,
Speaker 1: find my sister if because she watches P Valley do
Speaker 1: you watch don't? Okay, so before you go, before you
Speaker 1: go into it. I kept seeing P Valley, P Valley,
Speaker 1: so I google P Valley because I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: let me watch P Valley and the Revere you sucked,
Speaker 1: but continue Okay, So she was so I asked. I
Speaker 1: was like, yo, should I watch P Valley because you
Speaker 1: keep talking about it? She was like, now, and I
Speaker 1: don't think you should watch me because um, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just like debauchery. So I was like, okay, so then
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get my lashes done. And Brenda was like,
Speaker 1: Brenda does me and Robin's lashes? Well, maybe not Robbin's anymore,
Speaker 1: but that's a whole another story. Friday. Okay. So so um,
Speaker 1: she was like, girl, do you watch P Valley? I said,
Speaker 1: wait a minute, whoa, whoa, whoa? Should I be watching
Speaker 1: P Valley? She was like, yes, girl, all you need
Speaker 1: to do is watch one episode is gonna suck you in.
Speaker 1: For sure. I was sucked in episode one. Really, yes,
Speaker 1: that is so opposite of the reviews I read. Well,
Speaker 1: but the reviews. Who wrote the reviews, Scarlett Joe Hanson,
Speaker 1: that's who wrote the reviews. Okay, so it's good, it's
Speaker 1: it's it is all of that debauchery and just some nonsense,
Speaker 1: but it's a story behind the nonsense. And um, they
Speaker 1: have some great actors along the way. I like, um,
Speaker 1: the big guy, who's the guy the guy was running
Speaker 1: the strip club. He's great. There's like a guy that
Speaker 1: runs it's like a drag queen that runs the strip club.
Speaker 1: He's amazing. He's not a drag queen. He dresses like
Speaker 1: a woman every day. What are you talking about. He's
Speaker 1: not a drag queen, but I thought a man who
Speaker 1: dressed like women that makes you a dragqueen. No, he
Speaker 1: just likes to dress up in women's clue. Okay, speaking
Speaker 1: of drag queens, I know, I'm all over the place.
Speaker 1: So I went to go see Six. Okay. I took
Speaker 1: my daughter to see Six the musical and um, which
Speaker 1: is about all the wives, the six wives of Henry
Speaker 1: the Eighth I believe. So that was like am Boleyn
Speaker 1: and Catherine of Oregon, and there was another Catherine blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. Anyway, it was amazing, so definitely go see it.
Speaker 1: I recommended it's actually it's you know, on Broadway, but
Speaker 1: it's actually here also in d c Um. And remember
Speaker 1: when I went to the drag queen branch, some of
Speaker 1: those drag queens were there. So I had they invited
Speaker 1: me to like a little v I p reception and
Speaker 1: I walk in and my drag queens are there. Oh no,
Speaker 1: They're like just ok And I was so excited. I
Speaker 1: was like, the drag queens love me, yes, And we
Speaker 1: took pictures those pictures Okay, I don't say were like
Speaker 1: in the play. They were just there to watch because
Speaker 1: apparently whoever wrote the musical six I think a drag
Speaker 1: queen wrote it or had something to do with it.
Speaker 1: So they you know, we're all out there to support
Speaker 1: and yes, I love my drag queens. I was very
Speaker 1: excited about that. Thank you all for giving me love. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I did want to talk about Derek Jeter, okay,
Speaker 1: because recently he wanted to debunk the rumors. Remember there
Speaker 1: were rumors that if you had sex with Derek Jeter,
Speaker 1: he put you into a limo and then there was
Speaker 1: a gift basket in the limo for and they had
Speaker 1: all of Derek Jeter's memorabilia in the gift basket. You
Speaker 1: got like a two memorabilia, yeah, like you gotta. You
Speaker 1: got a Derek Jeter mug and a baseball and you know,
Speaker 1: you got signed baseball Like this has been a rumor
Speaker 1: for like twenty five years. Happy that you would get
Speaker 1: a gift basket that was in the car to take
Speaker 1: you home after your one night stand with Derek Jeter,
Speaker 1: which is borderline classy, gomaniac and classy ish. At least
Speaker 1: you get something. You got you got a toothbrush on
Speaker 1: some toothpaste. I mean, I mean, no, I'm joking. It's
Speaker 1: not classy. It's it's a mess. But I appreciated the rumor.
Speaker 1: It's been rumored after some of his romantic tricks, the
Speaker 1: Genial would have a car take that person home, and
Speaker 1: waiting in the car was a gift basket full of
Speaker 1: Derek rememberabilia, including a signed baseball. By the way, there
Speaker 1: was also a rumor that in the middle of love making,
Speaker 1: he would say yeah, so he was like, all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, out of nowhere. Twenty five years later, he
Speaker 1: wants to debunk the rumor. He wants to tell the
Speaker 1: world that this was never true and how do people
Speaker 1: Where did he debunk this? On what platform? I think
Speaker 1: it was a podcast? Yeah, he was like that. He
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know where people get stuff like,
Speaker 1: I would never do that. Like that's just ridiculous. Well
Speaker 1: that's good, that's good to ridiculous. But I'm mad that
Speaker 1: he did that because it was like because because Mariah added,
Speaker 1: because you know, Mariah and Derek had a moment and
Speaker 1: I think she added to the to the rumor a
Speaker 1: little bit. She said it was true and no, because
Speaker 1: she never got a gift basket. But I don't know
Speaker 1: anyway I wanted it to be true. Okay, Well, it's
Speaker 1: good to know that it's not, because that is weird.
Speaker 1: That's narcissistic. It's ego like like a sign of an
Speaker 1: egomaniac or something. But you might get a diamond bracelet
Speaker 1: in your gift basket. You never know. Don't take that.
Speaker 1: I don't want you'll take a baseball and a diamond bracelet.
Speaker 1: I mean, if he signed a babyball, it s warps something. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: maybe and you can put that thing on eBay. Honey,
Speaker 1: where would this rumor come from? That is a very
Speaker 1: random rumor, I think Maria true, well it is, but
Speaker 1: you know, we do know rumors get started. I think
Speaker 1: I think Mariah started it. They might have started like
Speaker 1: on National Enquirer. Does that thing still exist? Yes, that's
Speaker 1: still in the grocery store. Oh my gosh, that is
Speaker 1: like the funniest reading, Like would you like look at
Speaker 1: the headlines. It's like the most ridiculous headlines ever, so funny.
Speaker 1: It's like who makes the shut up? So I think
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say they made it up. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about one more thing before we
Speaker 1: get to ask us anything. Okay. So I was watching
Speaker 1: the latest Dave Chappelle comedy Situation. It's on Netflix, right,
Speaker 1: and it's really just a speech that he gave thanking
Speaker 1: Duke Ellington for naming their theater after him. Y'all know,
Speaker 1: I love me some Dave Chappelle. So in his stand up,
Speaker 1: he started talking about how great he is, right, which
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Dave, you can relate. So he
Speaker 1: was like, yes, pound for pound, blow for blow, joke
Speaker 1: for joke, there's nobody out there that could touch me.
Speaker 1: If somebody can please stand up, and so I was like, yes, Dave,
Speaker 1: that's what I like to hear. I mean, for you
Speaker 1: to have, for you to know that you're that good
Speaker 1: and be so confident in your greatness that you can
Speaker 1: say that ship and mean, it's amazing that. I mean,
Speaker 1: that is amazing. And I like, I'm not I'm like
Speaker 1: a very modest person, So that is uncomfortable for me
Speaker 1: for somebody just to be like talking about how great
Speaker 1: they are. Like, but but it's impressive. So it's a
Speaker 1: highly but it's impressive. Impressed stand up there, say it
Speaker 1: with your full gut like, yes, I was extremely impressed
Speaker 1: and I was born on like damn, Dave, you are
Speaker 1: the greatest because you got up there and said that
Speaker 1: ship like I was. I was like, wow, So do
Speaker 1: you believe he's the greatest? Dave is a genius. So Dave,
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, and I'm going to add that to
Speaker 1: my repertoire. Yes. Please, don't I know, right? Would I
Speaker 1: be comparing it to I'm the greatest Giselle that I
Speaker 1: that ever walked. You might maybe I don't know what
Speaker 1: other gizelles are there. I don't know what giselle. Do
Speaker 1: you know what gazelle? I don't know. I mean, I
Speaker 1: just listen, listen, Dave, thank you. I'm adding it to
Speaker 1: what monster? Oh my gosh. Okay. We got one question
Speaker 1: from Carly of ask us anything or maybe two or three?
Speaker 1: Will you guys ever invite other celebrities onto your podcast? Like, Carly,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? I've tried to get you
Speaker 1: to get who eminem to be a part of our
Speaker 1: podcast for how long? And so I you know, by
Speaker 1: the way I check in with Carley, I'm like, Carly,
Speaker 1: have you talked to Marshall Mathers and and their their
Speaker 1: team and you know how what's the progress and getting
Speaker 1: Eminem on the podcast? And she's like, oh, well, I
Speaker 1: don't know to the Allen blah blah what. Yes, we
Speaker 1: would like that, but our d o O has not
Speaker 1: followed through. Are you getting eminem on? Getting Eminem? Yes,
Speaker 1: your celebrity. He's the original slim shady. I agree, okay,
Speaker 1: but I'm not a celebrity, but you are. What does
Speaker 1: that mean? That means that you should have more access
Speaker 1: to him than me. But it's your job to get
Speaker 1: to find him, to find him and get him on
Speaker 1: his podcast. I don't think you've tried. You haven't tried, Carly.
Speaker 1: You have not tried, right, I haven't because it's ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Thank you, it's not ridiculous. I want to talk to Eminem. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so but yeah, but but you know what, Yes, we
Speaker 1: are going to start having you know, just a variety
Speaker 1: of guests. I know we've had guests in the past,
Speaker 1: but um, definitely we're you know, yeah, we're working on
Speaker 1: our line up for the Fall is Oprah and then
Speaker 1: we're gonna do Beyonce will be with this guy when
Speaker 1: the album drops Beyonce will be on the podcast. Yes,
Speaker 1: And Jay did email us recently instead that Kristen Wig
Speaker 1: from Saturday Night Saturday Night Live loves the Real Housewives
Speaker 1: of Potona and he said we should ask her. Kristen
Speaker 1: is gonna be on, and I would love her to
Speaker 1: come on because I want to like learn how to
Speaker 1: be like so funny, like like like improv. You know
Speaker 1: how to do like improv? You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like you're quick on your you're quick widded and stuff.
Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, well I think Rihanna's gonna announce
Speaker 1: the baby the baby's name on our podcast, on our podcast,
Speaker 1: no question, Yeah, so stay tuned for that guy's exactly
Speaker 1: all right, this is your last question, Carly, which city
Speaker 1: would you guys do a crossover with Housewives? Oh? People,
Speaker 1: stop the episode? Who would you across? Who would you
Speaker 1: doing with? I would like now that I see it
Speaker 1: has to be it has to be um episode in
Speaker 1: that episode has to be season by season. So years ago,
Speaker 1: I would have loved when Bethany was on New York.
Speaker 1: I would have loved to like hang out with those
Speaker 1: girls and ran around with Bethany a little bit. Okay,
Speaker 1: now Robin says, now, okay, now that we see what's
Speaker 1: going on in Beverly Hills, I would like to cuss
Speaker 1: Erica Jane out about what she said to I mean, right,
Speaker 1: can y'all just fly me over there so I could
Speaker 1: cuss her out for what she said to the kids,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not I'm done with that. No, I was
Speaker 1: not here for it at all. Yes, but I mean
Speaker 1: what I don't know. I mean, I think that's so hard.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think naturally, just as black woman, I
Speaker 1: would say, oh, Atlanta, because you know, we can instantly
Speaker 1: just you know, get in and kicky and understand one another. Um.
Speaker 1: But then it's like, okay, we'll be cool to kind
Speaker 1: of like expand my horizons. Yes, yes, and do some so.
Speaker 1: But I couldn't see you on like O C no
Speaker 1: or no. Yeah. I mean I guess for me, it
Speaker 1: would either be Beverly Hills or New Jersey. Oh Jersey, Yes,
Speaker 1: I can see you on Jersey. Yeah. Dolores is funny.
Speaker 1: You know you have the Melissa Teresa situation. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you would be cussing some people out. I won't say,
Speaker 1: but you would. There there are two people that would
Speaker 1: get on your last nerves. Yes, okay, okay, fine, Margaret
Speaker 1: and Uma, Oh I think Jackie out of here? No
Speaker 1: I heard she's not She's not. Oh Jackie for sure?
Speaker 1: For sure? All Right, We've got to go. Guys, thank
Speaker 1: you so much for listening, and we so appreciate. Every
Speaker 1: week on Mondays you'll be downloading Reasonably Shady. We so appreciate.
Speaker 1: Don't ever forget to live your life reasonable or should
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