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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shity. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up, my people,

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Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so much for being

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Speaker 1: here with us and lending us your ears, I know,

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Speaker 1: for another episode. Yes, I love it. I love like

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Speaker 1: the fact that we can like just chit chat and

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Speaker 1: talk to the people and then and they're not talking back, interrupting,

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Speaker 1: they're not talking about But the only part I hate

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Speaker 1: is like we're chit chatting and then we might say

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Speaker 1: one thing wrong and someone takes a little clipt on

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Speaker 1: Internet and then we're like, you know, people who we

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Speaker 1: weren't chit chatting to have a problem with where we

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Speaker 1: said yes. But then we're trending, and that's all that

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Speaker 1: really matters, I know, I know, Like because we never

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Speaker 1: actually talked on the podcast about the whole your comment

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Speaker 1: about um, Tamera and Teddy's podcast. Oh no, we did

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Speaker 1: two teas in a pie and and and that ship.

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Speaker 1: All the Little Housewives blogs picked that up and oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, and it gave them, um some gave them

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Speaker 1: attention which they didn't have so you're welcome to tease,

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Speaker 1: and you're welcome people like they're people like they gossip

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Speaker 1: about housewives and and and let's let's just say this

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Speaker 1: the differences. Yes, they're able to talk about what happened

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Speaker 1: on their shows because they're no longer on it, whereas

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Speaker 1: we can't do that. And to be quite honest, I

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Speaker 1: don't even want to do that right exactly, like we

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Speaker 1: see enough of each other on these shows, and y'all

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Speaker 1: see enough of us, you know, Okay, so per usual

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Speaker 1: while our shady moment of the week, and I'm like

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Speaker 1: kind of hot about my shady moment. I know I

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Speaker 1: was hot last week with my whole airplane tobacco. But

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Speaker 1: I'm hot, okay. So I you know, all of my

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Speaker 1: girls I've said, are working. They have a job, they

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Speaker 1: get a paycheck. I have like joint accounts with the

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Speaker 1: girls with the twins. Grace Hays her a little own

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Speaker 1: because I got her off my little stuff. Um, and

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Speaker 1: so because they were getting their little paychecks direct deposit,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to set the twins up, so I need

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Speaker 1: to take them to the bank where they work is

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Speaker 1: around the corner from my house. So I was like, um, guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna like pick y'all up and take you

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Speaker 1: all to the bank. And Grace was like, oh no, no, no, no, mommy,

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Speaker 1: don't come to the job. We'll meet you at the bank.

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Speaker 1: So anytime a kid says no, no, don't come, zoom

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Speaker 1: zoom come. Oh it's the cute boys. So so you know,

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Speaker 1: when you first pull into where the school is where

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Speaker 1: they work, the parking lot is right there. That's the

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Speaker 1: first thing you see is the parking lot. So I

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Speaker 1: was like, I'll meet you on the parking lot. So

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Speaker 1: they have to clean up after their kids, pack their

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Speaker 1: backpacks and walk to the car, which is like they

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Speaker 1: have to walk over hill to get to the car.

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Speaker 1: So what are their friends? Was outside and saw what

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Speaker 1: I saw when I pulled up, which was two boys

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Speaker 1: on top of Grace's car waiting for Grace, literally literally

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Speaker 1: back of the car. I was undone, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So I pull up and I see this bullshit, and

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Speaker 1: somebody tells the little Gucci car on the little guccy

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Speaker 1: taking like selfies right, but they're like waiting for the girls.

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Speaker 1: So somebody texted them and said, uh, you're two boys

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna remain no. They don't know that I'm

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Speaker 1: their girl's mother. The two boys are laying on the car.

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Speaker 1: So they were like two boys laying on the car.

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Speaker 1: Mom's on her way. Holy shit, they start. I see

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Speaker 1: them running from over the hill to try to get

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Speaker 1: boys out, why are you laying on my kids car?

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Speaker 1: First of all, y'all are real scraffee. Second of all, like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so they're the lifeguards at the at the at the camp,

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Speaker 1: so they're actually they have six packs. I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: just like if you take your shirts off, they're cute,

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Speaker 1: but y'all need haircuts and y'all need clean clothes. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So here go Angel, because she's a slick one. She

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Speaker 1: They're like, oh ship. So they proceed to like get

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Speaker 1: themselves together. But but the one that likes grace like waited.

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Speaker 1: The other one knew better and started like walking away

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Speaker 1: everything in me said, do not cuss these boys out yourself.

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Speaker 1: Just don't cuss them out because I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: embarrass my kids. Oh my gosh. So I stayed in

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Speaker 1: the car. Angela door jumped in my car and they

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Speaker 1: were like, drive off, my drive off, drive off. I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not in a rush or race. I ain't

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Speaker 1: going nowhere. So the shadiness of this all is boys,

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Speaker 1: please act like you don't know who my kids are.

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Speaker 1: I just want my children to be boy free forever. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So my question is I feel like that's not the

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Speaker 1: first time they've done that. That's how I feel. That's

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Speaker 1: how they wait for them every every day and lay

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Speaker 1: every day? And they were like, no, this is the

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Speaker 1: first time. Y'all line, y'all lie. And then I said,

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Speaker 1: I was like, look, if they want to wait for you, cool,

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Speaker 1: they can stand next to the car, then laying all

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Speaker 1: the tires. And I'm not buying you all new ones.

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Speaker 1: So I was literally thinking to myself, did this ever?

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Speaker 1: Did I ever? Was a boy ever waiting by my

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Speaker 1: and it was it was a boy ever sprawled out

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Speaker 1: on top of my car. No. So yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I just want every boy who is seventeen, eighteen

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Speaker 1: or nineteen. These two boys are eighteen. By the way,

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Speaker 1: Grace is seventeen. Was that like a problem or is

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Speaker 1: that how are they Grace is seventeen? These boys are eighteen. No,

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Speaker 1: that's not a problem. I mean, like, legally is that?

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Speaker 1: Am I legally? Because if I could bring the law

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Speaker 1: It's so insane that that's legally a problem. Though. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so then the next day, this is the side note.

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Speaker 1: The shadiness is the boys guys. But a side note, um,

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Speaker 1: the boys were like, so they asked, Grace, so what

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Speaker 1: she was like, my mom said you need a haircut.

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Speaker 1: guess what. The boys win't got a haircut. That is funny,

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Speaker 1: and I think about, Oh my gosh, I like if

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Speaker 1: that was like if one had daughters. Yes, he pulled up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I told the girls never again in life will

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Speaker 1: to say because the new job, it's a new situation

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Speaker 1: for them, and I didn't want to embarrass them. And

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Speaker 1: a lot of people don't know who they are, but

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Speaker 1: you want to be embarrassing them. The boys would be embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: Well yes, but then the girls would have internalized and

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Speaker 1: like and cursed people out. Yeah, they deserved it. I'm

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Speaker 1: surprised you didn't say anything, and so you're saying this,

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Speaker 1: it's so funny. We should have talked about this um

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Speaker 1: last week. And I'm gonna get to my recently stay

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Speaker 1: this reminds me of and it's not the same thing,

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Speaker 1: but it's similar on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Yes,

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Speaker 1: when Erica Jane told Garcels fourteen year old son to

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Speaker 1: like several times. Yes, So when I watched that, and

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Speaker 1: then and then you know, the little the boy goes

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Speaker 1: so much I don't. It's the word respect or admiration

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Speaker 1: earlier in the party. Okay, Erica is beyond drunk. She's

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Speaker 1: totally wasted. So she's drunk. She has hit on Garcella's

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Speaker 1: Garcella's older son, which is horrible because everybody knows he's

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Speaker 1: not even cute or funny. You look real creepy, Erica. Um,

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Speaker 1: why Garsela was like easing her, but she walked over

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Speaker 1: and it was like, Erica, you told what's his name?

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Speaker 1: I don't know the kid's name? You told Jack? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like what I would have been like, first of all,

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Speaker 1: Leave right? And I don't care how you getting home.

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Speaker 1: I just, oh, my gosh, I know I would have

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Speaker 1: lost it, like that wouldn't have gone to Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: wouldn't gone okay. So when that just made me think

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Speaker 1: like if if I if I had daughters and I

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Speaker 1: what would I do? I know what wanted with you?

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Speaker 1: But it was so many emotions that went through my

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Speaker 1: embarrass them, let me And they got there fast they were.

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Speaker 1: When I saw them running towards me, I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: now did they admit that's why they were running? Did

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Speaker 1: you ask them? Like? Oh, they told me. They told

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Speaker 1: so they were like, oh, hell no, we gotta get

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Speaker 1: I don't believe that's the first time that these boys

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Speaker 1: I felt like if it was that's an emergency has

420
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 1: to emergency abortion. Like what do you mean by on

421
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: the table? You're on the table like you're you're having

422
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,880
Speaker 1: a procedure for something else and you're about to die

423
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,959
Speaker 1: and they take the baby out. No, that's not right.

424
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm making this up as a baby. It's just there's

425
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: if if the baby, if if being pregnant is causing

426
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: health problem, Okay, then you can have an Okay. I

427
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: like that. I like that better. Or like or if

428
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: it's an e topic pregnancy where the what is it

429
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: fetus is in the tubes and all that type of

430
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: stuff that but what else, Like I feel like when

431
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: does the person's what what what is the ruling or

432
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: is there ruling on in the case of rape. Right, Well,

433
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 1: they're saying that state by state, state by state, like

434
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: I feel like that should be included. Yeah, so you're

435
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: managed like as like no question about no, it's rape

436
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 1: and says all of it. Um, so usually mental health, Yeah,

437
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: you got mental health emergency, like if you have to

438
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 1: give birth to a child that and you were raped,

439
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: it's horrible, or if you have to carry a child

440
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: that like why would you would you? I mean see

441
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: in rape like I don't even want to think, like

442
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know how I'm I'm thinking

443
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 1: about this. I just started watching my Okay, I'm not

444
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: talking about my sister, but um, somebody told me that.

445
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: Um that I asked somebody I know very well, okay,

446
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,439
Speaker 1: find my sister if because she watches P Valley do

447
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: you watch don't? Okay, so before you go, before you

448
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: go into it. I kept seeing P Valley, P Valley,

449
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 1: so I google P Valley because I was like, oh,

450
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: let me watch P Valley and the Revere you sucked,

451
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: but continue Okay, So she was so I asked. I

452
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: was like, yo, should I watch P Valley because you

453
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: keep talking about it? She was like, now, and I

454
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: don't think you should watch me because um, yeah, it's

455
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: just like debauchery. So I was like, okay, so then

456
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get my lashes done. And Brenda was like,

457
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: Brenda does me and Robin's lashes? Well, maybe not Robbin's anymore,

458
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: but that's a whole another story. Friday. Okay. So so um,

459
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 1: she was like, girl, do you watch P Valley? I said,

460
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: wait a minute, whoa, whoa, whoa? Should I be watching

461
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: P Valley? She was like, yes, girl, all you need

462
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 1: to do is watch one episode is gonna suck you in.

463
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: For sure. I was sucked in episode one. Really, yes,

464
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 1: that is so opposite of the reviews I read. Well,

465
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: but the reviews. Who wrote the reviews, Scarlett Joe Hanson,

466
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: that's who wrote the reviews. Okay, so it's good, it's

467
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: it's it is all of that debauchery and just some nonsense,

468
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: but it's a story behind the nonsense. And um, they

469
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 1: have some great actors along the way. I like, um,

470
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 1: the big guy, who's the guy the guy was running

471
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: the strip club. He's great. There's like a guy that

472
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: runs it's like a drag queen that runs the strip club.

473
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: He's amazing. He's not a drag queen. He dresses like

474
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: a woman every day. What are you talking about. He's

475
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 1: not a drag queen, but I thought a man who

476
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: dressed like women that makes you a dragqueen. No, he

477
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: just likes to dress up in women's clue. Okay, speaking

478
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: of drag queens, I know, I'm all over the place.

479
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 1: So I went to go see Six. Okay. I took

480
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 1: my daughter to see Six the musical and um, which

481
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: is about all the wives, the six wives of Henry

482
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: the Eighth I believe. So that was like am Boleyn

483
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: and Catherine of Oregon, and there was another Catherine blah

484
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,159
Speaker 1: blah blah. Anyway, it was amazing, so definitely go see it.

485
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: I recommended it's actually it's you know, on Broadway, but

486
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: it's actually here also in d c Um. And remember

487
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: when I went to the drag queen branch, some of

488
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 1: those drag queens were there. So I had they invited

489
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: me to like a little v I p reception and

490
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: I walk in and my drag queens are there. Oh no,

491
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: They're like just ok And I was so excited. I

492
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,959
Speaker 1: was like, the drag queens love me, yes, And we

493
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 1: took pictures those pictures Okay, I don't say were like

494
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,439
Speaker 1: in the play. They were just there to watch because

495
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 1: apparently whoever wrote the musical six I think a drag

496
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: queen wrote it or had something to do with it.

497
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 1: So they you know, we're all out there to support

498
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: and yes, I love my drag queens. I was very

499
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: excited about that. Thank you all for giving me love. Okay.

500
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 1: So I did want to talk about Derek Jeter, okay,

501
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: because recently he wanted to debunk the rumors. Remember there

502
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: were rumors that if you had sex with Derek Jeter,

503
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: he put you into a limo and then there was

504
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 1: a gift basket in the limo for and they had

505
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 1: all of Derek Jeter's memorabilia in the gift basket. You

506
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 1: got like a two memorabilia, yeah, like you gotta. You

507
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: got a Derek Jeter mug and a baseball and you know,

508
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: you got signed baseball Like this has been a rumor

509
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: for like twenty five years. Happy that you would get

510
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: a gift basket that was in the car to take

511
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: you home after your one night stand with Derek Jeter,

512
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: which is borderline classy, gomaniac and classy ish. At least

513
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: you get something. You got you got a toothbrush on

514
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,120
Speaker 1: some toothpaste. I mean, I mean, no, I'm joking. It's

515
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: not classy. It's it's a mess. But I appreciated the rumor.

516
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: It's been rumored after some of his romantic tricks, the

517
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: Genial would have a car take that person home, and

518
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 1: waiting in the car was a gift basket full of

519
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: Derek rememberabilia, including a signed baseball. By the way, there

520
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 1: was also a rumor that in the middle of love making,

521
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: he would say yeah, so he was like, all of

522
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: a sudden, out of nowhere. Twenty five years later, he

523
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: wants to debunk the rumor. He wants to tell the

524
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: world that this was never true and how do people

525
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: Where did he debunk this? On what platform? I think

526
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: it was a podcast? Yeah, he was like that. He

527
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know where people get stuff like,

528
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: I would never do that. Like that's just ridiculous. Well

529
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: that's good, that's good to ridiculous. But I'm mad that

530
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: he did that because it was like because because Mariah added,

531
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: because you know, Mariah and Derek had a moment and

532
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: I think she added to the to the rumor a

533
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: little bit. She said it was true and no, because

534
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: she never got a gift basket. But I don't know

535
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: anyway I wanted it to be true. Okay, Well, it's

536
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: good to know that it's not, because that is weird.

537
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: That's narcissistic. It's ego like like a sign of an

538
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: egomaniac or something. But you might get a diamond bracelet

539
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: in your gift basket. You never know. Don't take that.

540
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: I don't want you'll take a baseball and a diamond bracelet.

541
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: I mean, if he signed a babyball, it s warps something. Yes, okay,

542
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: maybe and you can put that thing on eBay. Honey,

543
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: where would this rumor come from? That is a very

544
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: random rumor, I think Maria true, well it is, but

545
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: you know, we do know rumors get started. I think

546
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: I think Mariah started it. They might have started like

547
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: on National Enquirer. Does that thing still exist? Yes, that's

548
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: still in the grocery store. Oh my gosh, that is

549
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: like the funniest reading, Like would you like look at

550
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: the headlines. It's like the most ridiculous headlines ever, so funny.

551
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: It's like who makes the shut up? So I think

552
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say they made it up. Okay, all right,

553
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: I want to talk about one more thing before we

554
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: get to ask us anything. Okay. So I was watching

555
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: the latest Dave Chappelle comedy Situation. It's on Netflix, right,

556
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: and it's really just a speech that he gave thanking

557
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: Duke Ellington for naming their theater after him. Y'all know,

558
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: I love me some Dave Chappelle. So in his stand up,

559
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: he started talking about how great he is, right, which

560
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Dave, you can relate. So he

561
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: was like, yes, pound for pound, blow for blow, joke

562
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: for joke, there's nobody out there that could touch me.

563
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: If somebody can please stand up, and so I was like, yes, Dave,

564
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: that's what I like to hear. I mean, for you

565
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: to have, for you to know that you're that good

566
00:30:56,680 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: and be so confident in your greatness that you can

567
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: say that ship and mean, it's amazing that. I mean,

568
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: that is amazing. And I like, I'm not I'm like

569
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: a very modest person, So that is uncomfortable for me

570
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: for somebody just to be like talking about how great

571
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: they are. Like, but but it's impressive. So it's a

572
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: highly but it's impressive. Impressed stand up there, say it

573
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: with your full gut like, yes, I was extremely impressed

574
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: and I was born on like damn, Dave, you are

575
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: the greatest because you got up there and said that

576
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: ship like I was. I was like, wow, So do

577
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: you believe he's the greatest? Dave is a genius. So Dave,

578
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, and I'm going to add that to

579
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: my repertoire. Yes. Please, don't I know, right? Would I

580
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: be comparing it to I'm the greatest Giselle that I

581
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: that ever walked. You might maybe I don't know what

582
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: other gizelles are there. I don't know what giselle. Do

583
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: you know what gazelle? I don't know. I mean, I

584
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: just listen, listen, Dave, thank you. I'm adding it to

585
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: what monster? Oh my gosh. Okay. We got one question

586
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: from Carly of ask us anything or maybe two or three?

587
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: Will you guys ever invite other celebrities onto your podcast? Like, Carly,

588
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? I've tried to get you

589
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 1: to get who eminem to be a part of our

590
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: podcast for how long? And so I you know, by

591
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: the way I check in with Carley, I'm like, Carly,

592
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: have you talked to Marshall Mathers and and their their

593
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: team and you know how what's the progress and getting

594
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: Eminem on the podcast? And she's like, oh, well, I

595
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: don't know to the Allen blah blah what. Yes, we

596
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: would like that, but our d o O has not

597
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: followed through. Are you getting eminem on? Getting Eminem? Yes,

598
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: your celebrity. He's the original slim shady. I agree, okay,

599
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: but I'm not a celebrity, but you are. What does

600
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: that mean? That means that you should have more access

601
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: to him than me. But it's your job to get

602
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: to find him, to find him and get him on

603
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: his podcast. I don't think you've tried. You haven't tried, Carly.

604
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: You have not tried, right, I haven't because it's ridiculous.

605
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: Thank you, it's not ridiculous. I want to talk to Eminem. Okay, okay,

606
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: so but yeah, but but you know what, Yes, we

607
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: are going to start having you know, just a variety

608
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: of guests. I know we've had guests in the past,

609
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,959
Speaker 1: but um, definitely we're you know, yeah, we're working on

610
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: our line up for the Fall is Oprah and then

611
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna do Beyonce will be with this guy when

612
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 1: the album drops Beyonce will be on the podcast. Yes,

613
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: And Jay did email us recently instead that Kristen Wig

614
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: from Saturday Night Saturday Night Live loves the Real Housewives

615
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: of Potona and he said we should ask her. Kristen

616
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: is gonna be on, and I would love her to

617
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: come on because I want to like learn how to

618
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: be like so funny, like like like improv. You know

619
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: how to do like improv? You know what I'm saying,

620
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: Like you're quick on your you're quick widded and stuff.

621
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, well I think Rihanna's gonna announce

622
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: the baby the baby's name on our podcast, on our podcast,

623
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: no question, Yeah, so stay tuned for that guy's exactly

624
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: all right, this is your last question, Carly, which city

625
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 1: would you guys do a crossover with Housewives? Oh? People,

626
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: stop the episode? Who would you across? Who would you

627
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: doing with? I would like now that I see it

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Speaker 1: has to be it has to be um episode in

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Speaker 1: that episode has to be season by season. So years ago,

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Speaker 1: I would have loved when Bethany was on New York.

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Speaker 1: I would have loved to like hang out with those

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Speaker 1: girls and ran around with Bethany a little bit. Okay,

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Speaker 1: now Robin says, now, okay, now that we see what's

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Speaker 1: going on in Beverly Hills, I would like to cuss

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Speaker 1: Erica Jane out about what she said to I mean, right,

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Speaker 1: can y'all just fly me over there so I could

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Speaker 1: cuss her out for what she said to the kids,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not I'm done with that. No, I was

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Speaker 1: not here for it at all. Yes, but I mean

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Speaker 1: what I don't know. I mean, I think that's so hard.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think naturally, just as black woman, I

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Speaker 1: would say, oh, Atlanta, because you know, we can instantly

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Speaker 1: just you know, get in and kicky and understand one another. Um.

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Speaker 1: But then it's like, okay, we'll be cool to kind

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Speaker 1: of like expand my horizons. Yes, yes, and do some so.

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Speaker 1: But I couldn't see you on like O C no

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Speaker 1: or no. Yeah. I mean I guess for me, it

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Speaker 1: would either be Beverly Hills or New Jersey. Oh Jersey, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I can see you on Jersey. Yeah. Dolores is funny.

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Speaker 1: You know you have the Melissa Teresa situation. Um. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you would be cussing some people out. I won't say,

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Speaker 1: but you would. There there are two people that would

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Speaker 1: get on your last nerves. Yes, okay, okay, fine, Margaret

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Speaker 1: and Uma, Oh I think Jackie out of here? No

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Speaker 1: I heard she's not She's not. Oh Jackie for sure?

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Speaker 1: For sure? All Right, We've got to go. Guys, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for listening, and we so appreciate. Every

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