WEBVTT - Home for the Kids 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.680 Hell I Suck at Dating with Denunglert and Jared Haven 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:11.120 and I heard radio podcast What's going on? Everyone? Welcome 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:14.520 to an all new episode of Help I Suck at Dating. 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:16.720 We got two weeks in a row, Jared and I 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:21.000 back together. Might be a new record for pretty good. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:22.360 We're on a good streak. If we do it three 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:24.400 times in a row, we're definitely breaking our own record. 0:00:24.920 --> 0:00:26.960 We're on a good streak. Jared, I've got a question 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.720 for you. I gotta answer for you now that I'm 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:32.320 back here America. I've been using TikTok again, and I've 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:34.720 noticed that you and Ashley are making quite a few 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:37.640 TikTok's lately. Yeah, we're we're putting some effort into the 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:42.880 old talk tick um. That was conscious. So the girl 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.880 who does our social media for Audrey, she's fantastic Sydney Gordon. 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:48.159 So we asked if she could help out with our 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:51.519 personal Instagrams and TikTok because we wanted to post more 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:54.800 videos on there to be more prevalent, uh, because it 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:59.320 will help us selfishly. So we started doing that and 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:02.640 we every week she comes over and we just do 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.520 like seven videos of trending sounds and we come up 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:08.840 with ideas and it was really funny. So we just 0:01:08.880 --> 0:01:11.280 posted this social network one yesterday. I don't know if 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:12.560 you saw a where it's a scene from the social 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:16.319 network were justin timber Lake. It's uh. In the movie 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.920 justin timber Lake plays um Sean Parker and it's the 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:21.760 first scene that we're introduced to him, and there's this 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:23.400 back and forth between him and a girl that he 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.920 ended up sleeping with, and he's like, I'm an entrepreneur 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:29.479 and she's like, what was your last preneur? And then 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:32.600 he's like, I created an online internet database that helps 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:35.280 friends share and download music. And she's like, oh, so 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:38.479 like Napster and he goes exactly like Napster and she goes, 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:41.640 Sean Parker invented Dabster and he's like, nice to meet you. 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:44.600 So anyway, we did that sound on TikTok and it 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:47.720 was quite funny because we were talking about what we 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:49.840 wanted to do on TikTok. I love movies. I was like, 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.360 I would love to do movie scenes, movie monologues. And 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.280 there's a scene another scene in the Social network that 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.120 we were talking about that I wanted to do, and 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:59.760 it's a part where Jesse Eisenberg, who plays Mark Zuckerberg, 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:01.840 is an the courtroom and he goes through this monologue 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:04.880 about how the other lawyer has the minimal amount of 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.320 his attention and the rest of his attention is back 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:10.400 at the Facebook offices where his people are doing, you know, 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:12.760 things that nobody in this room can do. So we're 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:15.120 looking at that and I'll and it didn't make sense. 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:17.359 So long story short, we're like, Okay, let's do something else. 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.680 And she's like, well, I have this other movie scene 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:22.400 randomly that's treading on TikTok that we can do. And 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:23.760 she's like, I don't know where it's from, but it's 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:25.840 just trying to go on TikTok And that was the 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:28.560 scene and it was from Social network, which was really 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:32.880 funny and uh, quite coincidental, quite a coincidence. Um, that's 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:35.480 great that you have someone that can help you do that. Well, 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:37.040 do you like the videos? What are you thinking? Are 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:40.320 we doing better? Worse? Should we? Uh? Here we go 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:43.600 there you're silence speaks volumes. My friend did have a 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:47.920 chance to respond, you had hesitated. Um. I like the videos. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:51.000 They're very they're very you guys, that's like every time 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:52.560 I watched one of the videos, I'm like, yeah, that's 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:56.480 actually and Jared for sure, especially what was the one Kalen. 0:02:57.960 --> 0:03:00.000 When I got back, Caitlin is obsessed with this video, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.320 the one, the most popular one now where the guys like, 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:05.640 I like corn to it, I like to eat it 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.440 like that video. Uh, and you guys use the audio 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.000 for that one. That one is pretty funny that I 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:13.560 like the poop Oh. Yeah, it was very relatable. Um, 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:15.400 you know, I love my corn time. I love my 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:17.720 poop time. And I love when Ashley's out there on 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.480 the outside at the end carrying Lois and Dawson. She's 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:23.200 like it has the juice as if she wants her 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:28.000 poop time. Yeah, it's pretty funny. You guys. Um, you 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:30.560 guys did pretty well with that one. That was the 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.080 first one that I saw, And then I clicked on 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:33.480 your guys page and I was like, wow, they've been 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:34.880 posting a lot and some of the videos you guys 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:36.720 have posted have gotten like three million. That one I 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.480 think got like three million views. You guys are crushing it. Yeah, 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:41.640 We've had two that have gone over a million. We're 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:44.560 finally at a million likes on TikTok. Which is pretty awesome. 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:46.680 So thank you for everybody who follows us on TikTok 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.720 and it's a lot of videos of Dawson and his 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.320 adorable face, so continue. So if you don't follow us, 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:55.200 please do so. Well, it's been fun. I mean, it's 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:57.840 it's just like anything. Man, It's like, all right now 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:59.800 we gotta put effort into it and it's time can 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.920 him ng? And I mean, I'm sure you guys, like 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.080 how frustrated do you guys get at each other when 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:11.080 you have to film Instagram videos or ads? Um, well, 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.440 like at each other, at ourselves or what do you 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:17.920 mean both? It's just such it's so interesting how I 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:22.120 can work a twelve hour shift at Audrey's and you know, 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:25.120 of course be stressed out, but I am so much 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:28.080 more stressed out if I'm filming an ad for Instagram 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:30.679 for an hour and a half and it's just tension 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.479 filled because I have to repeat the same lines. You 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:35.360 know what it is? It because it should be so 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:38.520 simplistic and yet it's so convoluted and complicated. You want 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.760 to perfect it and there's certain things that you have 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:42.800 to do in the video and so Ashley and I 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:46.400 just always get like mad, mostly at ourselves, and then 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.120 it ends up being at each other. I the only 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:51.520 thing I ever really get upset about, for lack of 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:57.279 a better word, sometimes is um like and I totally 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:58.840 get it, and I always like take a step back 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.080 and realize that I shouldn't be get like annoyed by anything. 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:03.279 Is like, let's say Kaylin and I are out doing 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.880 something and she has to film an ad while we're 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.080 out doing something, and I'm like, oh, you're taking away 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:09.960 from the moment. You know, we're supposed to be having 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:11.960 like a nice romantic dinner and if yet, here we 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:14.240 are having to like take a video or take a 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:16.080 photo or whatever it is. And then such such a 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:20.520 ridiculous thing to complain about, because um, obviously it's pretty 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:22.960 nice compared to the alternative. I know and I do 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:25.880 the exact same thing though. Anytime we're out and she 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:29.599 either has to film something or post she's like, okay, tonight, 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.080 you know it's my prime time. Now I need to 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:34.680 post this. And it's like, well, damn, we're out, like 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:38.200 we're out to dinner or we're doing something. She's like, well, 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.839 I have to do it. It's work. I'm like, yeah, 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:44.760 I guess son of a bitch. That's how I am too, 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.240 or yeah, or she'll like take a picture of me 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:48.720 to post on her story and she's like, what, I 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:50.320 got an ad to post and I want to post 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:52.120 something before I posted yet, And I'm like, okay, I 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:54.800 get it, but like that's not the reason why I 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:56.520 want to be on your story, you know, maybe just 0:05:56.560 --> 0:05:58.240 like just have a I don't know, I don't know. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.839 It's so silly. It's also funny before now. This hasn't 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:02.800 happened since we've had Dawson because we have no time 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:06.480 to watch movies. But at night, you know, she usually 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.560 posts like around eight o'clock at night, so it's like 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:10.080 seven o'clock and we're like, hey, you want to watch 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.400 a movie. She's like yeah, But just as it heads up, 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.480 I have to pause the movie halfway in because then 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:15.960 I have to post on Instagram. So I'll tell you 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.599 about twenty minutes and I'm like, well, we're not watching 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.520 a movie. Then I can't pause movies. I can't do it. 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.920 I like watching a movie from beginning to end, which 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:25.000 is why I like going to the theater because it's 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.120 the experience. I want the movie to suck me in. 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:30.039 I want I want the movie to feel like ten 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:33.040 minutes when it's actually two hours, and that is impossible. 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.560 And I just I can't I get into movies, man, 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.400 And so when a movie is paused halfway through, I'm out. 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:41.800 If the movies pause, I'm like, I just, I just 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.680 I don't have the same experience. I'm not gonna like 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:46.040 it as much. I want to pause there because I 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:47.680 have a question with that. I just want to say 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:49.599 one thing real quick. I just checked my TikTok and 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:53.040 I have almost two million legs, so I got your beat. Now. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:57.000 I haven't posted really anything at all, but I'm trying 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.800 to get back, not back, I'm trying to build the 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:04.479 TikTok because what brands are buying these days, it's not easy. UM. 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:08.120 My question for you is what is your opinion of 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:14.120 watching movies or TV with subtitles on? Uh? Well, is 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:17.480 the movie in a different language? Will and not understand it? No? 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.800 But you know, like how some people love watching like 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:24.840 Netflix or something with subtitles on UM or like let's say, 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:27.840 for instance, me personally, I hate subtitles. I don't know 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:31.400 why people ever use subtitles, but I will use subtitles 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:35.760 if the show, like, for instance, like Peaky Blinders, I 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:38.400 have to use subtitles because otherwise I wouldn't be able 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:41.600 to understand anything that's going on. Yeah, I'm not down 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:45.760 for that. I can. I mean, I know, if it's 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:47.720 in English, I don't want subtitles on. I want to 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.520 just watch it and then I'll understand. The movie is 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.200 supposed to let me understand what I need to understand. 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:54.920 Does that make sense? So if there's things that I'm 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:58.600 not understanding because the way the dialogue is being read, 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:02.520 or the way the screw was made, or how fast 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:04.160 paced it is, or so on and so forth, then 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:06.600 that is a poor job by the movie. Does that 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:09.400 make sense? Yeah? No, I understand that. So that makes 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:11.600 me not like the movie as much. I think I 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:14.400 watched one of the Dark Knight movies with subtitles on once, 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:18.040 and when there's like whispering or murmuring in the subtitles, 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.880 you can clearly see what they're saying, but in like audibly, 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:22.680 you can't make out what they're saying. And I think 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:25.360 to your point, you're not supposed to really know exactly 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.440 what they're saying. Yeah, or the director really wants you 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.720 to listen intently. You know, there's been stories about David 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:36.400 Fincher who intentionally lowers the volume of of his actor's dialogue, 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:39.320 stirring certain scenes because he wants the audience to really, 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:42.400 like kind of lean in and have to really very 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:45.280 much focused in order to understand what's going on. Actually, 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.280 funny story about the Darknight rises, and then we'll move 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.120 on to dating. By the way, this is what happens 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:51.800 when help us like a dating is only hosted by 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:53.520 you and I and we don't have anybody a co 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.800 host here to keep us in line. So I don't 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:57.960 hate the co host by the way, but you know 0:08:58.040 --> 0:08:59.840 this is it just feels like I'm just calling you up, 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.000 having to chat with you. So yeah, this is quite nice. 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:05.480 I agree. I think the sucky daters enjoy this. You know, 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:07.320 sometimes it's nice to just go off the rails and 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.560 talk about others. You know, there's only so much about 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:11.480 dating you can really talk about. But we will talk 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:13.640 about dating in a second, because you know, that is 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.560 what we get paid to do. But for the Dark 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:21.640 Knight rises. Interestingly enough, moving on segueing away, um, the 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:25.520 Dark Knight rises. So I think I've maybe told this 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:27.240 story in the podcast before, which tells you how much 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.480 we talk about movies, but we're talking about dialogue and 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:31.800 how sometimes it's really lowered. So the voice of Bayan 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:35.600 is very headlines, my dudes, that sorry, produces very upset 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.080 quick story and then then I'm done. I promised so 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:40.280 Bane in The Dark Knight Rises, if you guys have 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:42.280 seen this movie, who probably have, because it's made a 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:45.960 billion zillion dollars, Tom Hardy's voice is very difficult to understand. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.839 It was actually more difficult to understand. They did a 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:52.680 six minute preview six months before the movie came out. 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.319 It was with Mission Impossible Ghost Protocol. If you saw 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:58.280 a Mission Possible Ghost Protocol, which came out December before 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:00.959 the summer that Dark Knight Rises came out, you got 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:03.160 to see the opening sequence of The Dark Knight Rises, 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.959 which included Bain in that six minutes preview. There was 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:08.880 so much backlash because nobody could understand what Bain was 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:11.640 saying because his voice was so muffled and dark, and 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.280 you couldn't There were so many people that couldn't understand 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:17.120 it that Warner Brothers made Christopher Nolan go back and 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:20.160 actually alter Bain's voice a little bit so it was me. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.640 It wasn't as modulated so they can understand it more. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.719 A little interesting fact about that. Any who, maybe we 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:38.680 should talk about dating right there's a hot topic that 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:40.400 I really am dying to get to and I have 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.480 a lot of thoughts. And you know, I don't know 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:45.280 if you've read it or not, but it's the headline 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:48.600 is of course about Tom Brady, which Brady is going 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:50.200 through a thing right now, and I think it's so 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:53.439 ridiculous and I have so many opinions about this. So 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:57.760 Giselle bunch in this is the headline from people. Gazelle 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:01.280 Bunchen feels like Tom Brady quote needs to be home 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:07.160 for their kids. Let me read the article a little bit, 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:10.000 give you a little context before um I rip into this. 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.920 Gizell feels like it's time for Mr Brady to be 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:17.840 more present at home as his kids are growing older. Brady, 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:20.320 who's forty five, is of course back on the football 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:24.960 field with the Buccaneers after he unretired. Now, Giselle forty 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:28.079 two says she would like Brady at more more at 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:32.080 home with their three kids, Vivian, Benjamin, and their stepson Jack. 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:36.880 Quote from a family standpoint, These are critical years. This 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.199 is the source, not Giselle, but this is the source 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:42.280 close to Giselle. The kids are getting older. Ben is twelve. 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:45.199 Giselville is like, Tom needs to be home. This is 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.440 a quote from Giselle, and she says about his return 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:51.560 back to the football field quote, Obviously, I have concerns. 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:54.079 This is a very violent sport, and I have my children, 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:56.400 and I would like him to be more present. I've 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:59.240 definitely had those conversations with him over and over again. 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.800 But ultimately I feel that everybody has to make a 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:05.040 decision that works for them. He needs to follow his 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:09.200 joy too. She goes on to say, I've done my 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:12.080 part when referring to raising the children, which is to 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:15.920 be there for Tom. I moved to Boston. I focused 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.600 on creating a cocoon and a loving environment for my 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.640 children to grow up in and to be there supporting 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:31.480 him and his dreams. Okay, gezo, this man Tom Brady 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.400 is forty five years old. If he plays for another 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:39.600 three years, which would be crazy and I don't think 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:42.679 would happen, But say he hypothetically did, was like, I 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:44.360 want to play for another two or three years. And 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:49.560 he played until and then he retired. The man is 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:55.720 retiring in his late forties. Nobody gets to do that 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:59.840 unless you're a professional athlete. And luckily for both you 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:03.839 and Tom, I'm sure you have plenty of money saved 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:06.520 up where once he retires, you don't even have to 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.840 worry about working ever again. Furthermore, he has that ten 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.240 year deal with Fox where he's going to be an announcer, 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:14.760 so he's not playing violent sport, so he'll go back 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:16.440 to work, He'll get out of the house for a 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:18.600 few hours, and then he'll come back and be with 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.880 the kids. This makes it seem like Tom Brady is 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:24.800 a distant father, which is so ridiculous because he's home 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.160 four five months out of the year. How long is 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:31.440 the off season, Yes, when football seasons around, he's very 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:33.679 dedicated to the sport. You know what else, though, he 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.200 goes to work and then he comes home. You know 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:40.400 who else does that? Every single family in the world, 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:46.360 Like I, I sometimes this. I love Giselle and obviously 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:49.640 my you know, I side with Brady on everything, but 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.640 what she makes it seem like only one of them 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:55.120 can work at a time. It's like, oh, well, if 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:59.760 Tom's working, then I can't work. Why why are you 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:03.880 the only couple in the world that can only have 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:08.760 one person working at a time. That's wonderful you want 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:12.400 to be with your kids. But I believe, and you know, 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:15.400 maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I'm wrong, that you're able to 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.000 work and spend a lot of time with your family 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.640 as well. I don't know what does just l do 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.160 for work. I know she's a big fashion model, but 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.760 does she still do that. I think she does a 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:27.760 ton of things. I think she's a model. I think 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:30.640 she's a business I think she owns a lot of 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:35.080 different companies. I'm sure she's an entrepreneur. Um. I'm sure 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:37.400 she does a lot, you know, or did a lot. 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.200 I don't know if she still does. She makes it 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.440 seem like she doesn't work because she can't because she 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:44.960 wants to be home with the kids. But so what 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.120 does she want? She wants Tom to retire and then 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:50.200 spend his entire day at home with the kids, and 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:53.600 then she can go work. I just don't get you 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:56.080 both can work. Let me ask you this because I 0:14:56.200 --> 0:15:00.000 never I had never heard about this up until um 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:05.000 Sunday night football Buccaneers Cowboys, and Caitlin and I were 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:08.920 watching and she said something along the lines of oh, 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:11.240 that's Tom Brady, right, and I was like, yes, and 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:13.960 she goes, I heard that him and Gizelle no longer 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:16.800 live in the same house together. And so Caitlin was 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:19.760 saying this, who's not even a football fan? Well, she isn't, 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:22.920 she's she's she is a football fan. She's not. She 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.320 doesn't ever ear to the ground in terms of the 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:31.200 football sphere though, so she knew she of course, wait, 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.680 she's coming down. I guess I must have misspoke. But 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:39.600 you you said something along the lines of yeah, yeah, 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.640 but I'm saying it's crazy that you So she just 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:44.680 said that, she said they were just having issues. There's 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:48.600 been telling That's my point is that you you don't 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.640 follow football as closely as I do, let's say, and 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:54.920 yet here you are knowing more things about Tom Brady 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.560 than I do. That's what I was kind of surprised about. 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:00.880 Oh no, no no, I'm sorry, I didn't mean misquote you. No, 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:03.640 she said that they were having issues, which they are, 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:09.320 and apparently Jared is very passionate about this. There has 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.080 there have been reports that I have read that she 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.960 she moved out of the house as well. Right, So 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:17.120 Jael moved out of the house. Well, we don't We 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:19.680 don't know if it's confirmed or not, but we heard 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:22.040 reports that she like bounced for a little while to 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:25.640 like really sick of Tom Brady's crap. How long do 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:27.240 you think it is it's going to be until Kyle 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:30.600 moves out of the house for me, really depends on 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:35.200 your next adventure. Uh, backpacking over she had two fingers. 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:37.120 I don't know if that's two hours or two days 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:39.920 or two years right now. Maybe that was the peace sign. 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:43.600 Maybe she's leaving right now. Yeah, I could be right now. Um. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:47.640 We've been on very different sleep schedules lately because I 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:51.720 just got back from Pakistan, obviously, and the first night, 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:55.160 what happened. The first night, I woke up at like 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.320 three in the morning and I was just like was 0:16:57.400 --> 0:16:59.080 just down on the couch, like working on my computer. 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:00.800 And then she came down and she's like, what the 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:02.920 hell have you been doing since three in the morning. 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.199 And then two nights ago, I woke up at like 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.919 one in the morning and I just started painting the 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:09.520 house because we had a bunch of stuff I had 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.080 to paint, and so I was just going around painting 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:14.720 the house. Uh, and then last night, I didn't go 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:17.840 to bed until two am because today we're driving to 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:21.159 Colorado and we're supposed to leave at five am, and 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:22.800 I didn't go to bed till two. So now obviously 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:25.400 we did not necessarily do that. But that's a little bit, 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.520 uh sorry off topic. It's interesting. Are you guys going 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.479 to a Broncos game. We're going to my friends from 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:35.639 high school's wedding on tomorrow, and then Saturday, I'm playing 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:40.639 golf with Ben Higgins. You know Ben? Right? No, I 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:44.200 never heard of him. And then Sunday we're going to 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:47.640 a Broncos game, Broncos Texans. It's the matchup of the week. 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:51.680 Everyone uh is excited for the Broncos Texas. I mean, 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:54.679 you guys better win that game. Obviously you do not 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:58.639 lose to Houston at home. Um, what's your guys football 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:03.399 schedule this week? Oh? Well, I mean both the Pats 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:05.800 and the Bucks are playing at once, so I'll be working, 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.080 so I don't get out usually till about two on Sundays, 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:12.520 so I'll catch the first half at work and then 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:15.760 I'll come home and watch it. But it's right, they 0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:19.280 play at one Eastern time, which is ten am. Yes, 0:18:19.800 --> 0:18:22.600 I know, very good. I was thinking about this actually randomly. 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:26.000 I think maybe on what was it, maybe Monday Night Football. 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:28.840 I was like, man, I could not imagine living on 0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:31.639 the East Coast solely because I can't imagine going to 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:35.479 bed at eleven pm after watching like Monday Night football 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:37.560 or something like that. It's kind of nice though, because 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:40.000 you just like are watching it and then fall asleep 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.840 immediately as as it ends, you just tip over on 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:45.080 the couch. It's fantastic. I think the best time to 0:18:45.080 --> 0:18:49.400 watch football is whatever is it? What are the time 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:54.040 zones Eastern Pacific, Central Mountain now, and so maybe Central 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:57.239 time whatever. Whenever football starts at noon, I think that's 0:18:57.280 --> 0:18:59.320 probably the best time because then you're in bed by 0:18:59.359 --> 0:19:01.840 ten thirty. The ins over at ten thirty. That's literally perfect. 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:04.560 On a Sunday, I think West Coast is best because 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.040 then the games are all over by nine pm and 0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:10.240 then you can like, yeah, ten AM's way too early 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:12.800 for football to start. I want Sunday like my ideal 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:15.040 Sunday morning. It doesn't happen anymore because I work, but 0:19:15.280 --> 0:19:18.320 hopefully one day Sundays will be like I get my coffee, 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:21.800 maybe I play nine holes in the morning, it's crisp outside. 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:24.480 It feels like football weather. I get home by noon, 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:26.560 I shower, and then all of a sudden, it's like, oh, 0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:31.960 I got football for the next nine hours. I see that. 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:33.800 I see what you're saying. And it's funny because you 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:35.280 grew up on the East Coast and so this is 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:37.200 just ingrained in your brain and it's such a foreign 0:19:37.280 --> 0:19:40.080 idea for me that it's never crossed my mind. But 0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:42.760 I do agree with you. If you could play golf 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:45.320 in the morning on Sunday and then get home and 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:49.760 still watch from noon to eleven PM football, that's pretty 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:52.800 gosh darn that's a special day right there. Better than sex. 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:56.919 That's something that Gisele maybe wouldn't appreciate very much, but 0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:59.720 I know that Tom Brady and his fans would. Yeah, 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:02.240 do you have any thoughts on this scenario? I mean, 0:20:02.280 --> 0:20:04.520 I if you're talking about the macro, it's about like 0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:07.359 balancing work and relationships, even though I think that's all 0:20:07.400 --> 0:20:09.639 bs right now, because there's no reason for Tom and 0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:12.919 Gizell to have to balance work life right now, like 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:15.760 they could do whatever they want. Let Tom played football 0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:17.600 for the next two years or however long he wants 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:19.760 to play. He's still going to retire, He's still going 0:20:19.800 --> 0:20:23.760 to be at home. It's like, good God, I think 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:26.800 it's so when you were reading it or summarizing it, 0:20:27.160 --> 0:20:30.440 the thing that really stuck out to me was Gizell 0:20:30.560 --> 0:20:34.600 saying something among the lines of um, Tom Brady going 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:37.879 out and chasing his dreams, and the way that it 0:20:37.960 --> 0:20:42.200 was brought up, it sounded like she was saying, like, oh, 0:20:42.320 --> 0:20:44.479 Tom's just going out and chasing these silly dreams of 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:47.560 his as if kind of like diminishing the crazy stuff 0:20:47.560 --> 0:20:49.560 that he's done. Like he's already the greatest of all time. 0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:52.240 And and here's and the thing with it too, like 0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:53.919 if he retired at the end of this year, if 0:20:53.920 --> 0:20:55.880 you retired tomorrow, he still would be considered the greatest 0:20:55.920 --> 0:20:57.480 of all times. Like what else do you have to prove? 0:20:57.480 --> 0:21:00.159 I can see that side of it, Um, But if 0:21:00.200 --> 0:21:02.600 Tom Brady could play until he was forty eight, like 0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:05.160 maybe win one more Super Bowl, maybe you win two 0:21:05.160 --> 0:21:09.080 more Super Bowls, like and then have the rest of 0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:11.560 your lives to be happy and like insanely wealthy and 0:21:11.600 --> 0:21:14.400 beautiful and raise your kids all this stuff. I just think, 0:21:15.359 --> 0:21:19.320 with how much time Tom Brady potentially has left. Giselle 0:21:20.000 --> 0:21:23.159 should let him navigate that on his own, and she 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:25.800 shouldn't be a force pulling him away from football. He 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:28.680 should be pulled away from football on his own, you know. Yeah, 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:31.240 And of course, as you get older in life, there's 0:21:31.240 --> 0:21:34.080 probably more sacrifices he needs to make. He's nine his 0:21:34.160 --> 0:21:37.680 early twenties where he could just be solely focused on football. 0:21:38.240 --> 0:21:40.320 You know. Of course, there's games for his kids that 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:44.800 he wants to go to, or dances or you know, 0:21:44.920 --> 0:21:48.240 family affairs together that they want to go to. And 0:21:48.840 --> 0:21:50.800 you know, listen, if Tom is saying, no, I don't 0:21:50.800 --> 0:21:52.040 want to go to any of those, I just want 0:21:52.040 --> 0:21:54.359 to play football, then of course, yes there's an issue. 0:21:54.840 --> 0:21:57.320 I don't feel that's the case. Seeing how he just 0:21:57.359 --> 0:22:00.600 took eleven days off of training camp to figure out 0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:02.879 something within his family. Nobody still knows what the hell 0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:07.520 that was all about, but it does like it feels 0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:09.199 like he's still with his family all the time. He 0:22:09.200 --> 0:22:11.959 spends a lot of time with them, and he just 0:22:12.119 --> 0:22:16.840 also works, you know, a lot half the year. You know, 0:22:17.320 --> 0:22:19.040 there's a lot of people out there that would take 0:22:19.040 --> 0:22:21.360 that immediately be like, oh, I get my husband home 0:22:21.440 --> 0:22:26.440 for five months. Yeah, right, attention. Caitlin was also saying 0:22:26.480 --> 0:22:28.680 that Gizella was saying she wished she had more help 0:22:28.760 --> 0:22:32.000 from Tom, and I was kind of like, well, aren't 0:22:32.000 --> 0:22:34.359 they super rich? Can't they just like hire someone to 0:22:34.400 --> 0:22:37.920 help with the kids. I doesn't unders. I mean, of course, 0:22:37.960 --> 0:22:39.400 you want your kids to be raised by their father, 0:22:39.560 --> 0:22:43.000 not some like O pair or whoever it is. But um, 0:22:43.080 --> 0:22:45.639 it just seems I don't know, it's it seems like 0:22:45.680 --> 0:22:47.600 it's probably being over reported today. I bet you it's 0:22:47.640 --> 0:22:49.040 not as big of a deal as it really is. 0:22:49.400 --> 0:22:52.280 Just TMZ like spinning it. Oh really, I think it's 0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:54.679 a very big deal. I've I think Brady looks terrible, 0:22:54.680 --> 0:22:57.240 and I think it's because Brady Brady looks sad man. 0:22:57.320 --> 0:23:00.159 He looks depressed, like there is something going on in 0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:01.920 his life right now. That's why I give a lot 0:23:01.920 --> 0:23:04.920 of validation to these reports. Plus, whenever there's smoke, there's fire, 0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:07.399 and there's been so much smoke about this as of 0:23:07.480 --> 0:23:09.679 late that like there's a divorce, or they're in a 0:23:09.760 --> 0:23:13.120 bad place, or she's really piste off. He's still playing football. 0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:16.280 So I definitely believe in reporting. Not to mention here's 0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:17.960 a little side fact. I'll tell you how much I 0:23:17.960 --> 0:23:22.040 know Tom Brady. So watching Sunday Night Football, he always 0:23:22.040 --> 0:23:24.520 gives a postgame interview, not at the podium, but on 0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:27.399 the field to like whenever the Sunday Night Football reporter is. 0:23:27.640 --> 0:23:30.400 And then every single time he does this, he always 0:23:30.520 --> 0:23:32.280 ends the interview with I just want to say, how 0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:34.359 do my family? My wife, my mom, I love you, 0:23:34.440 --> 0:23:37.159 my kids. UM like, I'll see you guys soon. He 0:23:37.560 --> 0:23:40.479 I'm not joking. There's like YouTube compilations of this. He 0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:43.200 always does this. I was waiting to hear it on 0:23:43.240 --> 0:23:45.560 Sunday because they played Sunday n Football against the Cowboys. 0:23:45.840 --> 0:23:48.240 He was doing his postgame interview, and I know that 0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:49.960 he always says these things, so I was like, I 0:23:50.000 --> 0:23:51.760 want to see I want to hear it. I want 0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:53.359 to hear him say I just want to say how 0:23:53.359 --> 0:23:56.080 to my wife, my kids, because you know, there's obviously 0:23:56.119 --> 0:23:58.560 been a lot of reports. Dude. The interview ended and 0:23:58.600 --> 0:24:00.320 she was like thanks Tom, and he goes, thank you 0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:04.480 very much and walked away. He didn't say it this time, 0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:09.960 and I was like, oh my god, that because he all, dude, 0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:12.679 I'm not joking, always takes a second to say I 0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:14.639 just want to say how did my my wife, my kids, 0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.920 I love you very much, like go to bed something 0:24:16.960 --> 0:24:19.399 like that, And he didn't do it this Sunday. And 0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:22.399 he's aware there's nobody more aware of tom Brady's image 0:24:22.400 --> 0:24:24.800 than Tom Brady, and so he knows all the reports 0:24:24.800 --> 0:24:26.560 that are going on. He knows that there's a lot 0:24:26.560 --> 0:24:29.320 of reports that there's tension between images l So if 0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:31.520 he wanted to put these reports to bed and say, no, 0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:34.560 it's being blown out of proportion, we're actually doing just fine, 0:24:34.840 --> 0:24:37.080 he would do the things he usually does, which is 0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:38.920 I want to say, how did my wife, I love 0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:41.399 you very much? And he didn't do it, and it 0:24:41.480 --> 0:24:45.240 was definitely he definitely did it intentionally. How do you 0:24:45.240 --> 0:24:49.480 think this affects Lebron's legacy? Lebron? Where the hell did 0:24:49.480 --> 0:24:52.119 we get this from? Did you ever see those comments 0:24:52.160 --> 0:24:54.480 on ESPN where it's like they're talking about like women's 0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:57.480 college volleyball and people are always like, how does this 0:24:57.520 --> 0:25:02.919 affect Lebron's legacy? Oh? Yeah, always back to the Lebron anyway, 0:25:02.960 --> 0:25:04.360 That's my thought on Tom Brady. Do you have any 0:25:04.359 --> 0:25:05.880 finishing thoughts? So should we move on? To the next 0:25:05.880 --> 0:25:10.280 hot topic. So finishing thoughts Tom Brady, Um, Nope, no 0:25:10.359 --> 0:25:13.360 finishing thoughts. I like him as a person. It's hard 0:25:13.400 --> 0:25:15.200 for me to say that because he's beat so many 0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:17.840 times in football, but you guys have also done him 0:25:17.840 --> 0:25:20.960 a lot. We beat him a couple of times. But 0:25:20.960 --> 0:25:23.959 you gotta respect that. You gotta respect the greatness that 0:25:24.000 --> 0:25:25.800 he has. That's got the same with Lebron. I hate 0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:27.840 Lebron when he first came into the NBA. Now I 0:25:27.840 --> 0:25:29.280 really respect him. I think he's one of the best 0:25:29.280 --> 0:25:31.280 athletes in the history of the world. Same with Tom Brady. 0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:34.720 So um, I hope they figure it out. I don't know. 0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:39.160 My thing is, it's like, like you said, he's gonna 0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:42.560 retire at forty six, that's still twenty years earlier than 0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:46.639 like the standard in America to retire, and he's gonna 0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:49.760 retire with probably a thousand times more money than the 0:25:49.840 --> 0:25:53.919 normal person retires with in America. Like the situation is 0:25:54.480 --> 0:25:58.800 really good and to to like compile it to make 0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:01.560 it seem really bad is um. I get it. Like 0:26:01.680 --> 0:26:04.680 they've they've come from such a life of like liberties 0:26:04.720 --> 0:26:07.440 and luxuries and stuff where they can just basically take 0:26:07.480 --> 0:26:10.000 whatever they want, and right now, Giselle wants Tom Brady 0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:12.520 to be around more, and that's one thing Tom Brady can't. Like, literally, 0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:15.479 the one thing Tom Brady can't do is be around more. 0:26:15.520 --> 0:26:17.320 Like time is the most valuable resource for him right 0:26:17.320 --> 0:26:20.560 now and he can't offer that too. So I get it. 0:26:20.640 --> 0:26:23.800 I get where they're both coming from. But it's like 0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:27.679 the guy is you know, if he's forty six and 0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:30.359 playing quarterback in the NFL, that in and of itself 0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:32.120 as a feat. He was the first forty five year 0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:34.560 old to ever start an NFL game on last week, right, Like, 0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:36.840 that's insane. And he still is going to be like 0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:38.760 one of the people contending for an m v P 0:26:38.920 --> 0:26:41.679 this year. That's insane. When Brett Farve was playing at 0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:43.760 the end of his career, he was like forty two 0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:48.480 playing for Minnesota, I think, and he was and he 0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:50.960 was so bad. Well he had that he had that 0:26:51.000 --> 0:26:54.480 one good year and then he sucked afterwards. Yeah, I know, 0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:56.560 he's fine, Like he had flashes of brilliance and stuff. 0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:58.960 But Tom Brady consistently is like the best, like the 0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:01.080 top three best quarterback in the league. And it's just 0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:04.200 it's crazy to me. That. Uh, someone is trying to 0:27:04.240 --> 0:27:06.520 take that away from us. You know what I mean, 0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:10.840 I was trying to take that away from us. Uh. Yeah, 0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:13.440 it's just it's it's not you know. I wish the best, 0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:16.040 but I gotta if you know, I I want to 0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:19.400 choose whatever option is, uh, the option that Brady still plays. 0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:34.879 I didn't realize Dean Deanie Babies that there was a 0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:39.200 hot topic about you. Yeah. I thought that's the first 0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:41.040 thing you're gonna bring up. I didn't see the Tom 0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:43.760 Brady want. So thanks for let let's get our vocal 0:27:43.800 --> 0:27:45.200 chords warm. Do you want me to read this or 0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:48.000 do you want to read this? Well, you read the 0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:49.680 one about Tom Brady, so I guess I can read 0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:52.520 the one about Kaylin. Yeah. I feel like it's appropriate 0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.960 if you just really comes from the horse's mouth from 0:27:56.119 --> 0:28:00.400 the beginning. Yeah, let's see. So she's I was gonna 0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:03.080 overhear me and come down at some point. Can wait. 0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:06.439 It's gonna make the podcast even better. So here is 0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:09.320 the headline in our email. It says Kaylin Miller Keys 0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:11.359 reveals she and Dean might elope. We just want to 0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:15.639 focus on our love via people. Um, I actually haven't 0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:17.639 read this or heard about this, so let me just 0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:20.960 go ahead and give a quick synopsis for all my 0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:24.760 synops sisters and brothers out there. Uh. So she was 0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:29.000 in New York Fashion Week in New York for the week. 0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:33.400 She was New York Fashion Week in New York, thank you, 0:28:34.000 --> 0:28:37.840 where they had a fashion week and Okay, hey, Kaylyn, 0:28:38.960 --> 0:28:41.680 can you actually summarize this for me? So we're talking 0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:44.240 about this headline, Kaylen reveals she and Dean might elope. 0:28:44.280 --> 0:28:46.920 We just want to focus on our love. Can you 0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:51.600 come to any of the microphone. Yeah, I'm gonna got 0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:53.200 the shower, so I'm just gonna move the microphone over 0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:56.320 here out of frame. But don't worry, we'll so here. 0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:01.040 I basically just recapped everything that you said on this podcast, 0:29:01.400 --> 0:29:03.360 and I shouted out help by secure dating, but they 0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:05.760 cut it out of the article, which is kind of annoying. 0:29:05.920 --> 0:29:07.560 But I said everything that you've already said on here. 0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:14.600 But people, so there was there any specifics. Uh, I've 0:29:14.640 --> 0:29:16.560 got a whole article here, It's like a whole big paragraph. 0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:18.320 I could read it, or I would just rather hear 0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:21.480 from you. Yeah, I mean she asked me about the truck, 0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:24.800 and I was like basically told her I don't believe 0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.560 in engagement rings and the man fully paying for it 0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:28.960 if it's something that I'm wearing, So I want to 0:29:28.960 --> 0:29:32.000 buy him a truck. That was our compromise. And then 0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:33.960 she asked about the wedding. Have I started wedding planning? 0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:36.240 And I was like, absolutely not. We're not even engaged yet, 0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:40.280 so yeah. And then she also asked where we're getting married. 0:29:40.320 --> 0:29:42.880 She just asked a lot of like marriage related questions, 0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:44.520 but I was like, we're not engaged. We're focusing on 0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:47.920 the engagement, but we do want to Elope and I 0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:49.680 talked about your brother's wedding and how it was just 0:29:49.760 --> 0:29:51.560 focused on their love and that's what I want our 0:29:51.600 --> 0:29:54.960 wedding to be. All right, So there you have it. 0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:58.520 That's the basic gist of what she said in this interview. 0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:02.000 And for the record, we're splitting the tru uck. I 0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:04.280 mean you may be paid like sixty percent of it. 0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:07.040 I'm paying the other. So what what's you said for 0:30:07.080 --> 0:30:10.560 the record? Okay, what's the record? Who's paying for the truck? Uh? 0:30:10.680 --> 0:30:16.800 Sixty kiln paid the down payment and I pay everything else. No, No, 0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:18.760 I did the math. I just did the math in 0:30:18.760 --> 0:30:26.080 my head. At sixty seven um, uh, we got the truck. 0:30:26.120 --> 0:30:29.240 The truck is beautiful. It's a very practical gift. Caitlin 0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:31.640 and I plan and starting in a real estate empire 0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:34.360 here pretty soon, and with that comes a lot of 0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:36.280 you know, home renovation stuff. So I'll have the truck 0:30:36.360 --> 0:30:37.680 to be able to do a lot of that stuff, 0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:41.560 a lot of lumber. Um. So that's exciting. Kln knows 0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:44.200 that she has the ring. I just have the stone 0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:48.080 for it at this moment, and I'm I'm actually I 0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:51.080 could use your advice on this situation. So I have 0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:54.400 the stone. Uh, just the stone. I don't haven't mounted 0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:58.680 in a ring yet an amount or whatever. And part 0:30:58.680 --> 0:31:00.960 of me is like, well, I want kayle Into to 0:31:01.120 --> 0:31:03.920 do the mounting because I got the stone and I 0:31:04.000 --> 0:31:06.440 got what she wanted, but I I don't want to 0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:08.880 mount it in something that she doesn't like, you know 0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:10.560 what I mean. And I don't want her to have 0:31:10.600 --> 0:31:14.760 to wear amount that she would wishes was something else. 0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:16.440 And so she took it to New York with her 0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:19.280 to bring to one of her designers to get mounted, 0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:21.960 and she called me right before she walked into the store. 0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:24.719 And then I was like, well, no, let me design 0:31:24.840 --> 0:31:26.600 it and mount it for you, because I want there 0:31:26.640 --> 0:31:29.440 to be at least be some excitement and some romance 0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:31.360 in in that. You know, I mean like when I 0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:33.880 deliver the ring to her, And I asked her that question. 0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:37.280 I want her to at least have some surprise with 0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:40.920 the ring finally put all together. And my question for you, 0:31:41.040 --> 0:31:42.880 I guess it would be different for you because you 0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:46.479 did it on Bachelor, But but how did you go 0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:52.680 about picking out the design for the ring? I talked 0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:57.560 to Ashley's sister, Lauren, and she gave me a lot 0:31:57.640 --> 0:32:00.360 of the down low of what type of ring Ashley 0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:04.560 would like. And I already somewhat new just from knowing 0:32:04.600 --> 0:32:09.800 Ashley so well, what her tastes were, and um, talking 0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:11.880 to you Bachelor, I said, this is you know the 0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:13.880 ring I want? And we went back and forth about 0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:16.240 you know, the way it looks, and then they actually 0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:19.800 gave me advice because initially I wanted no halo, which 0:32:19.840 --> 0:32:22.520 is like the little diamonds that circle around the big diamond. 0:32:23.320 --> 0:32:27.080 And then the producers were like, we think you're gonna 0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:29.560 want a halo, like just judging, but like we see 0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:31.600 the ring. We're talking to Neil like we're gonna make 0:32:31.600 --> 0:32:35.120 the ring you want, but we're really thinking that hal 0:32:35.160 --> 0:32:37.720 it's gonna look better with the halo, and so I 0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:40.160 got it with the halo, which worked out because Ashley, 0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:43.400 I knew, never wanted a halo, but now after she 0:32:43.480 --> 0:32:45.800 got the ring, she was like, thank god I got 0:32:45.800 --> 0:32:47.480 the halo because I wouldn't have liked it as much 0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:50.320 without it. So I was like, huh, interesting, Um, I 0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:53.120 think for you, you should design it and mount it 0:32:53.480 --> 0:32:57.920 because I think um as wonderful as it is that, 0:32:58.040 --> 0:33:00.320 of course you want Klin to wear some thing that 0:33:00.400 --> 0:33:03.560 she loves, because she's gonna wear it every single day, 0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:08.560 I think there's also something to love about the imperfections 0:33:08.600 --> 0:33:13.160 of it because you created it, if that makes sense. 0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:16.560 I don't know if that's what she'd like, but even 0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:18.360 if it was like a little bit. First of all, 0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.600 I think you're in creative amount of beautiful ring, So 0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:23.280 I think she's gonna love it for that. But then secondly, 0:33:23.680 --> 0:33:25.840 I think the fact that you designed it and you 0:33:25.880 --> 0:33:28.880 mounted it and put it together just adds a special 0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:31.560 layer to it that wouldn't be there had you not 0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:36.200 done it. And I think that special layer outweighs you know, 0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:39.640 any type of like perfect ring that Calen come up with. 0:33:39.800 --> 0:33:42.560 Does that make sense? Yeah, that makes sense. I'm actually 0:33:42.560 --> 0:33:44.840 looking at Ashley's ring on the internet right now. It's 0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:47.000 very pretty and it's definitely something that I would I 0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:49.520 would never walk into a jewelry store like with the 0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:52.120 knowledge that this is what I should get, because this 0:33:52.240 --> 0:33:55.440 is like ring design is so foreign to me as 0:33:55.480 --> 0:33:58.520 it is to most men. I'm sure like the halo. 0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:00.200 I can clearly see what you're talking about with the halo, 0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:03.520 and I like the halo. Yeah. I I'm worried that 0:34:03.600 --> 0:34:06.000 the ring that I end up mounting for her because 0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:07.800 like I was thinking, it's just gonna be the stone 0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:10.200 with like a nice delicate gold band because she's kind 0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:14.960 of like a minimalist jewelry approach to it. But I 0:34:14.960 --> 0:34:18.640 think it's pretty. Yeah, Ashley is beautiful. I like it's 0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:22.800 called the princess cut her diamond something else I learned, 0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:26.759 uh that, you know, if she wanted and Bachelor was 0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:28.280 like Neil Lane was like, I could do a princess 0:34:28.280 --> 0:34:31.000 cut easy. I was like, that's fantastic. But there's a 0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:33.440 lot of rings out there that don't have any type 0:34:33.520 --> 0:34:37.360 of halo or are more not even simplistic. I shouldn't 0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:39.040 say that because I'm sure the ring you're buying is 0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:45.000 very expensive. Um, but um yeah, just because it's it's 0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:47.439 like not as intricate doesn't mean that it's not any 0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:54.120 less valuable or wonderful. I wish that Bachelor would hit 0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:55.680 me up and say, hey, do you want to propose 0:34:55.800 --> 0:34:57.560 on the show, and then they would give me a 0:34:57.600 --> 0:35:00.799 free ring. Dude, there's no way they I didn't at 0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:05.799 least inquired. Um, they haven't they I don't think they 0:35:05.840 --> 0:35:08.479 really like me very much. They love you very much. 0:35:08.840 --> 0:35:11.960 And if you, dude, if you reached out and said, hey, 0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:14.040 I want to pose on the show, they would do 0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:16.239 it in a a horrible not anymore because paradis already filmed. 0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:19.240 But if you wanted to wait till next June, dude, 0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:21.799 you could have a free ring and no time. Can 0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:24.080 I get you to chime in? I just sent uh 0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:27.279 u r L in the chat. That's not this ring specifically, 0:35:27.280 --> 0:35:29.400 but like, this design is kind of what I was 0:35:29.400 --> 0:35:31.920 gonna do. I'm very excited to see this. Wow, it's 0:35:31.960 --> 0:35:34.040 a big I feel like this is a big moment 0:35:34.040 --> 0:35:37.319 for me. I'm going to see that the ring. Oh 0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:40.080 this is gorgeous. This is This isn't the ring. This 0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:42.200 is just something I googled, like I google the cut 0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:44.080 of stone and then like minimalist after it, and it 0:35:44.080 --> 0:35:51.000 would look something like that minimalist. Um yeah, I mean, dude, 0:35:51.000 --> 0:35:55.919 it's it's freaking gorgeous. I mean, I don't know Calin would. 0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:58.360 I can't imagine Calin wouldn't love that. I think that's 0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:01.800 very much of a Kalin ring, you know, actually is 0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:05.600 more like glammy, you know, so that would make sense 0:36:05.600 --> 0:36:08.520 for you know, actually have like this is like, this 0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:11.719 is very much Klinkalen's not. Of course, Ashley is a 0:36:11.800 --> 0:36:16.200 natural beauty, but like Calin's very just like she's minimalist. Yeah, 0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:19.040 she's a minimalist like Ashley, you know. I mean she's 0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:21.680 very open about how like she spends four hours on 0:36:21.920 --> 0:36:24.600 you know, her skincare or makeup a day or like that. 0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:28.000 So I was telling Calin, I think the ring or 0:36:28.040 --> 0:36:29.840 the stone I got her is too big, and I 0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:32.959 think that's gonna be really gaudy looking, and she said 0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:35.200 and she responded was saying, no, she just she holds 0:36:35.200 --> 0:36:37.400 sometimes the stone just over her finger for hours at 0:36:37.440 --> 0:36:39.719 a time. Um, and it's not too big, I guess, 0:36:39.760 --> 0:36:41.800 but looking at some of these pictures of these emerald 0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:44.040 cut diamonds, which is the same emerald cut that I 0:36:44.120 --> 0:36:47.560 got for her, Uh, I don't know. I can't. I 0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:49.719 just couldn't imagine wearing a big, expensive ring on my 0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:53.120 finger pent at the time. Well, my piece of advice 0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:57.680 would be, if you have the option between getting a 0:36:57.760 --> 0:37:01.160 smaller stone or a bigger stone, and you I would 0:37:01.200 --> 0:37:05.800 advise to get the bigger stone if that makes because 0:37:06.320 --> 0:37:08.560 you don't want to get a ring and then put 0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:11.279 it on Kalen's finger and say, oh, and actually kind 0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:13.920 of looks small. I was wrong. You'd rather put a 0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:15.600 ring on her finger and say, oh, wow, this is 0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:18.040 a little bit big because then you can add a 0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:21.200 band and like you can do things a small you know, 0:37:21.880 --> 0:37:23.359 because what are you gonna do buy her new ring 0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:26.200 if you think it's too small. That's a good point. 0:37:26.480 --> 0:37:29.640 Another question for you is what is the um wedding 0:37:29.680 --> 0:37:32.239 band process like? Because Caitlin was like, well, do you 0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:34.080 want to get my wedding band designed at the same 0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:36.440 time at my engagement ring And my response was I 0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:39.880 literally never even crossed my mind anything about a wedding band. 0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:41.799 I know, dude. I for I didn't even know there 0:37:41.840 --> 0:37:43.279 was a wedding band. I gotta be honest. I just 0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:44.839 thought I got the wedding bed and they're like, no, 0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:46.640 woman gets a wedding bend too. She puts that on 0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:48.319 her finger along with her gagement ring. And I'm like, 0:37:48.360 --> 0:37:52.040 how many things do do do we need in order 0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:54.880 to just like sign the paperwork and say we're married? 0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:58.120 And half of your his mind, no, that's a that's 0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:01.520 a that's not a marriage that's uh what am I 0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:03.400 thinking of? What do you signed? Pretty nump pretty nu 0:38:03.560 --> 0:38:08.279 pret nuptial agreement? Um? Yeah, we Again, it was very 0:38:08.320 --> 0:38:10.719 simplistic for us because everything was through Neil Lane. So 0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:14.040 you know, after we got engaged, you know, we went 0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:17.480 to Neil Lane and uh, you know, I started looking 0:38:17.480 --> 0:38:19.399 at wedding bands and then she looked at a wedding 0:38:19.440 --> 0:38:21.000 band for her, and that's how we did it. So, 0:38:21.440 --> 0:38:23.319 I mean, you just go to a store, whatever store 0:38:23.360 --> 0:38:25.920 you buy this from, you go back and you say, okay, 0:38:26.000 --> 0:38:28.800 now we need to get you know, the wedding bands. 0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:31.040 I need one and she needs one, and then you 0:38:31.080 --> 0:38:45.200 spend more money back to the whole topic of this article. 0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:48.120 Sorry for all the tangents here, she's static. The big 0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:50.160 headline grabber here was her saying, we just want to 0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:52.960 focus on our love, and we might Elope. I don't 0:38:52.960 --> 0:38:54.239 think she said we might a loope, but she just 0:38:54.239 --> 0:38:56.239 said something about focus gonna love. Is there ever a 0:38:56.320 --> 0:38:59.880 moment where you wish that you guys had eloped? H 0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:05.359 Um No, I don't think so, because we were very 0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:07.839 lucky you got to experience it with us. We're our 0:39:07.920 --> 0:39:11.680 wedding day, our wedding weekend. The entire time planning the 0:39:11.760 --> 0:39:14.920 wedding was some of the best memories of my life. Um. 0:39:16.080 --> 0:39:24.080 So I would never want to change that by eloping. Um. Yeah, 0:39:24.480 --> 0:39:27.960 I understand the appeal of eloping. I understand the appeal 0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:31.319 of keeping it simple and just about us and really 0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:35.040 personalize it. Um. But I think for Ashley and I 0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:39.879 because we loved our wedding so much, and not even 0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:44.600 just like the wedding itself, of course, but I think 0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:47.120 when I think back upon that day or that weekend, 0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:52.920 I always think that was the only time those people 0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:56.120 are ever going to be in the same room again. 0:39:56.680 --> 0:40:00.640 That's it. They'll like, you know, they'll never there were 0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:03.239 people in their room that spend time together that became 0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:06.160 close over that weekend that will never see each other again. 0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:09.520 And um no, that's Eastern's in my funeral. Well hopefully, 0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:12.000 Well I don't want to die before everybody else. That 0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:14.359 would suck. Everybody goes to my girl I walked down 0:40:14.400 --> 0:40:16.520 the aisle with at the wedding. Courtney. Dude, she talks 0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:18.640 about you all day, every every day. I'm pretty sure 0:40:18.920 --> 0:40:21.399 your name leaves her mouth at least once a day. 0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:23.799 And that experienced me and Courtney never would have had 0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:25.840 that experience had it not been for you guys getting married. 0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:28.440 So yeah, and you'll probably never talk to Corney again, 0:40:29.960 --> 0:40:32.960 you know. Just that's the way life works, right right, 0:40:33.040 --> 0:40:35.279 except at your funeral maybe, yeah, maybe at my funeral. 0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:38.600 Hopefully you guys will bull show up. Um, but yeah, 0:40:38.680 --> 0:40:41.000 it just makes me think about, you know, because I've 0:40:41.200 --> 0:40:44.040 actually and I've always felt like this that sometimes that 0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:46.680 we that we live two lives almost where we have 0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:48.600 our Bachelor of life that we're so close with and 0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:50.319 we love so many people from and it's very much 0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:52.080 a family, and then we have our real family that 0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:54.719 you know, is is kind of separate from Bachelor and 0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:57.279 the fact that those two got to blend together for 0:40:57.560 --> 0:40:59.680 a night, for a weekend is something I would never 0:40:59.800 --> 0:41:02.640 change age. And I feel like a lot of people 0:41:02.680 --> 0:41:04.400 can relate to that because you know, people have their 0:41:04.480 --> 0:41:06.600 work family and then they have their home family, and 0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:09.200 then they don't ever cross over because you know, just 0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:11.719 schedules and everybody's got things going on, unless you have 0:41:11.840 --> 0:41:14.440 like a big event like a wedding or a funeral 0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:17.720 where it brings people together. Yeah, that's true. I guess 0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:22.040 it's I don't know. I know that we've talked about 0:41:22.040 --> 0:41:23.680 it quite a bit on this podcast, like what we're 0:41:23.719 --> 0:41:26.759 gonna do, and I guess that what I've come to 0:41:26.840 --> 0:41:30.360 realize is that an elopement is typically the guy getting 0:41:30.360 --> 0:41:32.840 what he wants, and a wedding is typically what the 0:41:32.920 --> 0:41:36.280 girl getting what she wants. Because from what I've gathered 0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:40.160 through the internet, I guess is eloping like, no girl 0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:42.759 ever dreams of an elopement when they're a child. You know, 0:41:42.880 --> 0:41:44.960 every girl dreams of having their wedding with all their 0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:48.400 friends there and all that kind of stuff. Um, no 0:41:48.480 --> 0:41:50.720 one ever really dreams of just running away getting married. 0:41:50.760 --> 0:41:53.840 I guess. So I don't know if that's what we'll do, 0:41:54.360 --> 0:41:56.719 but we'll see. Well, I think you can make an 0:41:56.760 --> 0:42:00.920 elopement very romantic. You know, it doesn't have to people like, 0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:05.480 would it be considered an elopement? Well here, let me 0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:08.000 let me start with this. What is the technical definition 0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:11.600 of getting eloped? Um, that's a really good question. I'll 0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:16.200 give you the technical definition right now. Because is it 0:42:16.280 --> 0:42:18.959 just going to the courtroom? Is that getting eloped? Because 0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:21.440 what if you just have like a private ceremony between 0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:24.880 you and like very just like a few of your friends, 0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:28.480 would that be getting eloped? It's to run away secretly 0:42:28.560 --> 0:42:31.800 with the intention of getting married, usually without parental consent. 0:42:35.520 --> 0:42:39.279 Well that's not what I'm thinking. Yeah, it wasn't really 0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:40.440 what I was thinking either. I thought it was just 0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:44.200 kind of like foregoing in the traditional uh way of 0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:46.160 having a wedding and going to like Italy or something 0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:48.600 and just getting married real quick. Yeah. My point being 0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:51.360 is that I think eloping is a vague definition. So 0:42:51.560 --> 0:42:56.320 I think, like, if you were like, hey, let's invite 0:42:57.000 --> 0:42:59.360 a few of you know, the our closest people that 0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:03.359 we love, ten people to the beach this Saturday, where 0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:07.759 we get married in like a very small ceremony, is 0:43:07.840 --> 0:43:10.759 that getting eloped? Because I would think it is and 0:43:11.840 --> 0:43:13.520 I don't think that would fall under the category of 0:43:13.560 --> 0:43:17.120 a lopement. So book, you have to have witnesses, don't you. 0:43:17.239 --> 0:43:18.840 So somebody's got to go to your wedding even if 0:43:18.880 --> 0:43:22.480 you get eloped or no, maybe maybe just like the 0:43:22.520 --> 0:43:26.640 people in the courtroom of the witnesses, the pastor or 0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:28.960 the whoever is the one that does it, I don't 0:43:28.960 --> 0:43:32.480 know who the heck knows. I guess the point is 0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:35.759 we still uh. I mean, obviously, why would we have 0:43:35.800 --> 0:43:39.319 anything planned. We're not even freaking engaged yet. I'm I've 0:43:39.400 --> 0:43:41.840 been wondering. Um, Caitlin and I have both agreed to 0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:45.040 propose to each other, and I obviously know what I'm 0:43:45.080 --> 0:43:48.160 gonna do, but I'm still wondering what the heck she's 0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:50.480 gonna do. She seems very convinced that she's gonna do 0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:54.160 it before me. Will you be disappointed if she proposes 0:43:54.160 --> 0:43:56.960 it before you? I would be a little bit, Yeah, yeah, 0:43:57.000 --> 0:44:00.160 I would be. But I don't think she's going to. Um, 0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:03.560 We've talked about it a little bit, and she seems 0:44:03.600 --> 0:44:08.279 to think that because I haven't gotten the ring mounted yet, 0:44:08.640 --> 0:44:11.080 that she is a certain that she's going to do 0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:15.320 it before me. But I don't think so, because I 0:44:15.400 --> 0:44:18.200 don't I I don't have anything in my in my 0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:22.040 calendar blocked for any type of thing that I think 0:44:22.080 --> 0:44:24.360 that she would do for me, well that you know of. 0:44:24.800 --> 0:44:28.480 I mean, what if she's been able to talk to 0:44:28.600 --> 0:44:34.160 this podcast and has been like I need Dean to 0:44:34.320 --> 0:44:37.200 think that he's actually recording, and then what's going to 0:44:37.320 --> 0:44:40.080 happen is that I'm going to walk in Maybe should 0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:42.239 contact Like maybe it's a golf outing. You think you're 0:44:42.239 --> 0:44:45.239 going golfing and then all of a sudden you turn 0:44:45.360 --> 0:44:48.359 on the seventeen and then there's Kalin on the green. 0:44:49.239 --> 0:44:50.520 I don't think that'd be a good idea. I think 0:44:50.520 --> 0:44:52.520 that'd be pretty I'd be pretty upset about that. I'd 0:44:52.560 --> 0:44:55.120 be like, well, I just want to golf though, Yeah, Like, babe, 0:44:55.200 --> 0:44:56.840 that's great and I love you and of course I 0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:58.880 want to say yes, but can I finish the eighteen? 0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:02.560 Could you imagine getting proposed to on a podcast? No? 0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:09.160 Thank you? Oh yeah I didn't, ca Ca, Yeah, I'm 0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:11.520 just kidding. That was that was a pretty fitting way 0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:15.560 for them to get engaged. Um, but perfect way. Not 0:45:15.719 --> 0:45:17.440 for me, but it's for them and it's not supposed 0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:18.440 to be for me. Why the heck would it be 0:45:18.520 --> 0:45:21.800 for me. I'm really happy for them. Um, if Ashley 0:45:21.840 --> 0:45:23.080 were to propose to you, how do you think she 0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:27.799 would do it? She would definitely incorporate movies probably. Um. 0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:31.400 You know, I saw one engagement years ago where a 0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:34.960 guy created a fake trailer and he had his girlfriend 0:45:35.000 --> 0:45:36.560 in the movie theater. He was able to work it 0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:39.520 out with the theater and they started playing the trailer 0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:43.120 on the screen and she it was so it, dude, 0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:46.200 it was quite intricate and so awesome, And I think 0:45:46.200 --> 0:45:48.399 I actually would do something like this where she went 0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:52.400 with her friends. Her friends intentionally made her late to 0:45:52.440 --> 0:45:54.480 the movie, so they walked into the theater where it 0:45:54.600 --> 0:45:57.040 was already pitch black, so she couldn't see anything. They 0:45:57.080 --> 0:45:59.560 found seats like in the middle. They're like, okay, perfect, 0:45:59.600 --> 0:46:03.200 these seats still viable. So they sit down. Trailers start playing, 0:46:03.239 --> 0:46:05.480 and then a trailer pops up and it looks like 0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:08.120 a homemade video and it's like this guy with the 0:46:08.160 --> 0:46:10.040 hood on you can't see him, and it's like in 0:46:10.120 --> 0:46:12.400 a quest to find love and does it that? And 0:46:12.440 --> 0:46:14.040 it's like following, and then all of a sudden, she 0:46:14.200 --> 0:46:17.239 realizes she's like, wait a minute, like that, I know 0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:19.080 that place, and I know that place, and then you 0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:22.880 find out that it's her fiance like going through like 0:46:23.040 --> 0:46:25.439 he's going through all these obstacles to try to get 0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:27.880 the woman he loves blah blah blah blah blah. And 0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:31.080 then she realized is kind of what's going on. Then 0:46:31.200 --> 0:46:34.080 there's a live camera at the last shot and it's 0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:37.479 him walking into the theater. And then he walks into 0:46:37.560 --> 0:46:42.359 the theater, he proposes, the lights come up and it's 0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:45.960 all of her friends and family in the theater, and 0:46:46.040 --> 0:46:48.399 that she didn't notice because the theater was pitched black 0:46:48.440 --> 0:46:52.560 when she first walked in. Would you say that a 0:46:52.680 --> 0:46:55.000 proposal like that? Do you think that they did it 0:46:55.160 --> 0:46:58.440 for the internet likes more so than they did for 0:46:58.480 --> 0:47:01.320 the love of each other, or maybe just joining of 0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:03.520 the two in a bit? I don't know. I guess 0:47:03.520 --> 0:47:05.360 you could say that about anything. Did Ashley and I 0:47:05.480 --> 0:47:08.760 get proposed proposed on Bachelor in Paradise for the clout 0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:13.080 or for our love? Mike? You know, well, not both exactly. 0:47:14.760 --> 0:47:17.040 You know, if we're gonna get engaged, let's get some 0:47:17.160 --> 0:47:20.000 Instagram followers while we're at it, Yeah, and get a 0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:22.239 free ring to you, lucky son of a gun. Well, 0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:23.960 that was the big one, honestly did. I was bartending 0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:25.800 at the time, and I was like Ashley, you know, 0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:29.640 you know Ashley, she's very um high maintenance. So I 0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:31.440 was like, I'm never gonna be able to afford a 0:47:31.520 --> 0:47:33.840 ring for Ashley that she's gonna love. And then of 0:47:33.920 --> 0:47:36.960 course Bachelor called and was like, would you want to propose? 0:47:37.000 --> 0:47:40.040 And I was like, yeah, I do get a free ring, baby, 0:47:40.760 --> 0:47:42.600 and it all worked out and the rest is history, 0:47:42.880 --> 0:47:45.080 and it all worked out. Well. I think that's probably 0:47:45.120 --> 0:47:46.800 gonna do it. For this week's episode of Help I 0:47:46.840 --> 0:47:48.520 Suck at Dating? Right, did we touch on all the 0:47:48.560 --> 0:47:51.000 things we wanted to touch on? Yeah? There was also 0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:53.560 Leonardo DiCaprio and g j he did are rumored to 0:47:53.640 --> 0:47:56.080 start dating, which is pretty crazy that Tyler Cameron's ex 0:47:56.160 --> 0:48:00.880 girlfriend is now dating DiCaprio. That's pretty good, but we 0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:02.239 don't really need to talk about that. I don't know 0:48:02.239 --> 0:48:03.799 why it's such a big deal. I mean, I guess 0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:06.520 because anytime DiCaprio is in a relationship or out of relationship, 0:48:06.560 --> 0:48:10.120 it's it's headlines. So, yeah, he's dating Gadid, but she's 0:48:10.160 --> 0:48:12.880 twenty seven, so she's a little old for him, two 0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:16.920 years older than his uh than his supposed limits. But 0:48:17.280 --> 0:48:20.920 he's grown. He's yeah, he's finally growing a little bit. 0:48:21.440 --> 0:48:22.960 That's really good. We're seeing it right in front of 0:48:23.000 --> 0:48:24.799 our eyes. Yeah, he must be listening to help us, 0:48:24.840 --> 0:48:27.759 like a dating Maybe him and Giselle will date at 0:48:27.800 --> 0:48:31.520 some point after Gizelle dumps Tom. As long as Tom's 0:48:31.520 --> 0:48:34.480 still playing, that's all I care about. Do you think 0:48:34.719 --> 0:48:36.600 do you think there's any possibility, let's say, like in 0:48:36.840 --> 0:48:40.560 six years, where they just decide mutually to call it quits, 0:48:40.600 --> 0:48:42.240 and Tom's like, you know what, now that I'm single, 0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:44.879 I'm going back to the NFL. He's fifty one years old, 0:48:44.920 --> 0:48:47.399 he hasn't played in four years, but he's got nothing else, 0:48:47.480 --> 0:48:50.000 so why not just go back and play quarterback for 0:48:50.160 --> 0:48:53.600 the Toronto Argonauts or something like that, the new expansion 0:48:53.600 --> 0:48:56.040 team in the NFL. The one thing I've learned in 0:48:56.160 --> 0:48:59.680 my experience rooting for Tom Brady for over twenty years 0:48:59.880 --> 0:49:04.040 is that you never bet against that man to do anything. 0:49:04.280 --> 0:49:07.240 So sure, why not? Yeah he'd come back when he's sixty, 0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:10.680 Who the hell knows? You know what? I actually kind 0:49:10.719 --> 0:49:13.560 of feel sorry for for you guys, for you guys 0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:17.279 being Tom Brady fans, because, like you said, twenty years, 0:49:17.440 --> 0:49:19.000 it really just kind of struck a chord more than 0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:23.360 twenty years, twenty two years, whatever it is. Years. You 0:49:23.480 --> 0:49:26.000 guys have lived so much of your life, a majority 0:49:26.040 --> 0:49:30.080 of your life, supporting this guy's question football, and I 0:49:30.239 --> 0:49:32.799 can't I can't imagine the pain you're gonna feel when 0:49:32.920 --> 0:49:35.600 that is now over. Yeah, I don't know what the 0:49:35.640 --> 0:49:38.920 hell I'm gonna do with myself. It's I only have 0:49:39.200 --> 0:49:41.640 known sports with Tom Brady. I mean when I was 0:49:41.719 --> 0:49:43.200 a kid, but I was twelve years old, Like, I 0:49:43.239 --> 0:49:46.279 don't remember too much about sports before that. And uh 0:49:46.480 --> 0:49:48.719 so he came into my life in such an influential 0:49:48.800 --> 0:49:51.759 part and then like dude, it's crazy. Man. He was 0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:54.080 my favorite athlete as a kid. He was my favorite 0:49:54.120 --> 0:49:56.200 athlete in high school. He was my favorite athlete in 0:49:56.239 --> 0:49:58.439 my twenties, and now as a grown adult, a father 0:49:58.560 --> 0:50:02.360 at thirty three years old, he still my favorite athlete. 0:50:02.440 --> 0:50:05.759 It's it's insane. So yeah, I don't know what the 0:50:05.840 --> 0:50:08.520 hell I mean. People are like, people ask why I'm 0:50:08.520 --> 0:50:10.239 so invested in this man's life. Oh, I don't know 0:50:10.480 --> 0:50:14.400 He's been a huge part of my life for twenty years. 0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:17.200 Like you know, when you talk about Dad's, like everybody 0:50:17.239 --> 0:50:20.719 has that athlete that's you know, a guy or or 0:50:21.040 --> 0:50:23.120 a dad or something you know where it's like, oh, 0:50:23.280 --> 0:50:28.440 Wayne Gretzky, like Jordan's or Larry Bird and it's like, dude, 0:50:28.760 --> 0:50:30.560 all those guys played for so long and they were 0:50:30.640 --> 0:50:32.360 so awesome and they were the best, but they played 0:50:32.360 --> 0:50:37.399 for like ten maybe twelve years. Brady double that investment level, 0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:40.920 and then you have what I have with Brady, right. So, 0:50:41.360 --> 0:50:42.960 I mean, like I said, I don't know what you're 0:50:43.000 --> 0:50:45.320 gonna do when that retirement ultimately ends up coming. I 0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:47.160 don't know what either. I think it's I think it's 0:50:47.160 --> 0:50:51.080 happening after this year. I think it's all done. I 0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:53.759 think you know what. I would say, you're right, But 0:50:54.160 --> 0:50:56.440 like you said, you can never count Brady out. And 0:50:58.160 --> 0:51:00.440 like we were kind of mentioning earlier, he still is 0:51:00.440 --> 0:51:02.480 playing at such a high level. You know, physically he 0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:06.200 could play one to two to three more years, maybe more, 0:51:06.320 --> 0:51:08.680 who who the hell knows, especially I don't think you. 0:51:09.000 --> 0:51:10.400 I don't think he was hit a single time in 0:51:10.440 --> 0:51:12.640 that Cowboys game, and the Cowboys have a pretty good defense, 0:51:12.680 --> 0:51:15.280 so it's like, if he's not getting hit, they're winning games, 0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:19.560 why wouldn't you except for the obviously the pressure from home. Um, 0:51:20.719 --> 0:51:23.080 I was gonna say, oh, I was gonna ask, actually, 0:51:23.480 --> 0:51:27.120 once Tom Brady ends up leaving the football sphere, what 0:51:27.760 --> 0:51:31.120 who's your fallback? Uh favorite athlete going to be? Well? 0:51:31.160 --> 0:51:32.879 I mean I'll still I mean, I always still root 0:51:32.920 --> 0:51:35.160 for the Paths obviously all of the paths as a 0:51:35.239 --> 0:51:38.759 favorite athlete in all four sports? Who is my number 0:51:38.800 --> 0:51:42.480 two right now? I love Protrice bergeron for the Bruins, 0:51:42.920 --> 0:51:46.400 um Xander Bogart's I'm praying that he stays with the 0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:49.120 Red Sox. Probably one of those guys. And then always 0:51:49.160 --> 0:51:52.000 like you know, I don't know, I mean this page. 0:51:52.040 --> 0:51:54.399 You know, Mac Jones is obviously good. I like him 0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:57.799 even though people are overrating him. But he's still good. 0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:00.840 I like him anyway. The people do not want to 0:52:00.880 --> 0:52:03.719 hear this. I promise you, poor people. Anybody who's still 0:52:03.719 --> 0:52:05.879 listening to this podcast, thank you because you're a true fan. 0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:11.200 M thank you for helping me afford Kalin's engagement ring. 0:52:11.440 --> 0:52:13.960 Because you're listening to this podcast, that's all. You're basically doing. 0:52:14.000 --> 0:52:17.280 It's not all you're doing. You're obviously being thoroughly entertained 0:52:18.040 --> 0:52:21.439 the past uh the hour or so, so that's really great. 0:52:22.320 --> 0:52:24.360 But but yeah, I appreciate that because I don't have 0:52:24.400 --> 0:52:27.279 the luxury of Bachelor producer's paying for my ring. He 0:52:27.400 --> 0:52:29.279 sent up a bit just call him in, They'll have 0:52:29.360 --> 0:52:31.200 you on in two seconds. That will do it. For 0:52:31.280 --> 0:52:34.680 this week's episode of Help I Suck at Dating, make 0:52:34.719 --> 0:52:36.359 sure you tune in next week, where hopefully we all 0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:38.960 suck just a little less. Follow help by Suck at 0:52:39.080 --> 0:52:41.759 Dating on I Heart Radio or wherever you listen to 0:52:41.840 --> 0:52:42.320 podcast