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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Teddy is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she

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Speaker 2: tells us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Teddy, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from her?

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Speaker 3: I've spent about a week.

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Speaker 4: How many times have you tried to reach out to her?

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Speaker 3: Maybe three times? Like what's every couple days? Two or

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Speaker 3: three days, just you know, saying what's up? How's it going.

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Speaker 5: We were talking before and after we went out that

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Speaker 5: it just kind of stopped.

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Speaker 4: She didn't respond to any of those.

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Speaker 3: I know, not not at all.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about the date and see if we

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Speaker 1: can see went wrong? What and see what went wrong?

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Speaker 5: We went to a really nice place we went to

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.

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Speaker 5: If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,

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Speaker 5: you know that we sit outside because it was a

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Speaker 5: really really nice day.

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Speaker 3: It was cool.

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Speaker 5: We had a really great conversation and she's got her

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Speaker 5: head on her shoulders, you know.

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Speaker 3: In the right way.

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Speaker 5: You know how a lot of people they focus too

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Speaker 5: much on like social media and stuff, you know what

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Speaker 5: I mean, they say about everything, like their job, and

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Speaker 5: that's I'm not I'm not trying to meet anybody like that,

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Speaker 5: you know. But she really loves her job. She's got

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Speaker 5: a really good job. She works, and she's got goals,

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Speaker 5: which is always a good thing, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Ye like like a five year plan.

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Speaker 5: That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that

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Speaker 5: I was I really thought we hit it.

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Speaker 3: Off on on that level.

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Speaker 5: And uh, you know, the food is great and the

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Speaker 5: hobby answer is great.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 5: So I really can't really think off the top of

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Speaker 5: my head of why after such a nice date that,

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Speaker 5: you know, I just she just stopped communicating with me,

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Speaker 5: Like I can't say that we stopped communicating.

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Speaker 3: I'm so you know, trying to reach out, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well, was

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Speaker 2: there anything awkward that happened on the date at all

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Speaker 5: I don't know if it's anything I did. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant even though

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Speaker 5: it was great. You know, but I picked it. That

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Speaker 5: might have been something. I will admit. The service wasn't

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Speaker 5: the best. You know, we wanted to sit outside like

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Speaker 5: that she suggested it, but then they sat as were

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Speaker 5: the suns like directly in our faces, you know, so I.

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Speaker 3: Had to ask them to move us.

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Speaker 5: And maybe like because the service wasn't so great, I

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Speaker 5: think maybe like the way, you know, I can be

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Speaker 5: a little assertive when I you know, when when the

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Speaker 3: And maybe that's part of the reason.

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Speaker 5: Why A feel like the second time that I had

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Speaker 5: to ask to be moved to get somebody's attention, that

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Speaker 5: might be it, you know. Other than that, we talked

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Speaker 5: for a while. We watched you know, the sun go down.

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Speaker 5: It was really really cool, you know. And again we

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Speaker 5: had a lot in common, and you know, we had

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem

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Speaker 1: to change her on my quote unquote assertive.

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Speaker 4: She didn't change her demeanor. Do you feel like she

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Speaker 6: Like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Brow No, I mean in the moment, I can't I

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Speaker 5: don't remember any disagreement I'm going to say.

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Speaker 1: No, you sound really really nice. So I'm having a

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Speaker 1: hard time picturing that, Like what did that sound like?

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Speaker 1: Do you mind like pretending for a second?

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Speaker 3: Well, no, because it's like, you know, excuse me.

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't know if you remember the old

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Speaker 5: US Bunny cartoon.

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Speaker 3: Where he's trying to see an other animal's attention. He's like, hey,

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Speaker 3: all the animals are just running. He's trying to figure

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Speaker 3: out what's going on, you know, And then finally I

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Speaker 3: was like, hey, excuse me for a second, you know.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I didn't like raise my voice or anything, but

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Speaker 5: I definitely had to like get up and go talk

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out. Like, it wasn't an excuse.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not going to do that. That's inappropriate.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys kiss or anything?

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Speaker 3: No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any

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Speaker 3: moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, not like a side hug.

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Speaker 3: No, it wasn't.

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Speaker 5: No, I wasn't like a side hug, but it was

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Speaker 5: very brief, like oh, thank you very much, A little

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Speaker 5: pack of the cheek.

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Speaker 3: That was it?

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Speaker 2: Well, plus song come back and then call her see

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Speaker 2: if she to tell us why she's ghosting you and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, great, all right, well plus song come back,

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Speaker 6: you get your first date. Follow up next. Right in

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Speaker 6: the middle of the first day follow up.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call her steps tell us why she's ghosting him, and

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Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why don't

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Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?

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Speaker 3: No, we met online, We talked for a while.

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Speaker 5: We went on a really nice date at dinner and

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Speaker 5: talk for a while, and.

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Speaker 3: I thought everything was going great. And I haven't been

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Speaker 3: able to get.

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Speaker 6: A tutter since you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Please?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, here we go, I may I speak to Maya. Please.

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Speaker 6: This is hey Maya. How are you? My name is

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Speaker 6: Jewbell and this is a radio show. It's called the

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Speaker 6: Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Maya, the whole show's here. My name's Nina Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 7: Hi cool.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 7: I'm good?

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Speaker 8: Are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm wonderful? Thank you for asking. Well, we're calling you

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Speaker 2: today because we do a segment on the show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the first Date follow Up. What that is is

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Speaker 2: if you go out on a date with somebody and

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Speaker 2: then you ghost them, that person can email us to

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Speaker 2: call you and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 7: Okay, that makes me nervous.

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Speaker 4: Are you ghasting somebody?

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Speaker 7: I guess like kin and I feel like I know

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Speaker 7: this is maybe about guess Teddy.

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Speaker 6: You're correct.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get any price

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Speaker 2: for that, but yes it's Teddy. Would you mind telling

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Speaker 2: us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 8: Uh? Well, so we So I met him online and

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Speaker 8: I had when I was when I was online.

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Speaker 7: And I was like going to the apps or whatever.

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Speaker 8: A friend of mine was with me, a girlfriend, and

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Speaker 8: she noticed him actually, and she was like, oh, I

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Speaker 8: know exactly who that is, and she was telling me

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Speaker 8: all about him. She like mentioned that he was kind

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Speaker 7: Dating him is kind of like getting a like a

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Speaker 8: And so for some reason that really meant that I

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Speaker 7: Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great. So I

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Speaker 8: Ended up going on the date, and I just like

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Speaker 8: the whole time he was complaining about things and like

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Speaker 8: I just felt like I was like, don't you actually

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Speaker 8: just see how it fits into my life that what's exactly?

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Speaker 4: Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?

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Speaker 8: Know? Of course, of course, I think it was just

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Speaker 7: He didn't ask me about like anything that I like.

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Speaker 7: He was just like, what's your job? Like do you

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Speaker 7: You know what I mean? Like it was very like

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Speaker 4: Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.

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Speaker 1: There's ways to get those answers without asking that question.

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Speaker 1: By the way, you'd like to learn.

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Speaker 2: But well, guess what maya Well, it's not as easy

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Speaker 5: I don't really know how much I want to have

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Speaker 3: Now. That's that's super messed up.

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Speaker 5: You know that, you know, you and your friends are

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Speaker 5: making fun of me, And that's that's really what's wrong

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Speaker 5: with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know

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Speaker 5: someone or or share a you know, like anything proper,

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Speaker 5: it's just, oh, let me go see what this person

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Speaker 5: is like really about with a you know, with a

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Speaker 5: with an agenda that you don't even like articulate.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 7: There wasn't like a vet or anything. I was just

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Speaker 5: You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that

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Speaker 3: You could have actually just said, hey, I spoke to my.

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Speaker 5: Friend, do you know whatever whoever your friend was, and

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Speaker 3: It's just a little on the ridiculous side, you know,

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Speaker 8: The only thing that you would have just acted probably

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Speaker 7: Like I just think that that's a silly thing.

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Speaker 8: I just I went on the date, I like tried

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Speaker 7: You just cared about like the way I like was

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Speaker 7: And I just think that that's a silly reason.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about other people online.

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Speaker 5: I'm definitely me twenty four hours a day, seven days

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Speaker 5: I would have told you exactly.

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Speaker 3: What you know, what I felt.

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Speaker 5: But when I meet with somebody, when I meet anyone,

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm very straightforward about you know, what's important

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Speaker 7: Know, I mean it was all me. I just I

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Speaker 5: Well when you when you say job interview, if you're

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Speaker 3: Or was that all just stuff that you were saying?

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Speaker 7: Of course I have some It's like a silly, silly

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Speaker 8: I just I just expected you to give a little

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Speaker 8: bit more like, I don't know, like swab about it

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Speaker 7: Tell me because if if it was good, then you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's not the point I'm trying to do.

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Speaker 7: All right now.

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Speaker 2: You know, Hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?

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Speaker 6: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 7: No, thank you, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to go out with you again. I

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Speaker 3: get I get it. You know, they just just have

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Speaker 5: Maybe you can meet somebody that you're not going to

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Speaker 5: be playing games with from the beginning.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Teddy, Well, you have fun playing games with yourself.

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Speaker 7: She was first date.

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Speaker 1: Follow up