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Speaker 1: My wife won't let me kiss my gay son, so

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Speaker 1: I called her a homophobe? Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: I mean we're talking on the lips.

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Speaker 1: Hey, my son, I get to kiss him consensually.

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Speaker 2: Hey yeah if he if he likes it, then it's fun. Hey,

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Speaker 2: you know everyone's doing it. Look at who's the quarterback?

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Speaker 1: Tom Brady, tom Brady? Something?

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Speaker 2: Look at Tom Brady?

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Speaker 1: Was tom Brady?

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Speaker 2: Is it tom Brady?

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Speaker 1: One of those guys?

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Speaker 2: The other other guy that it might have been Peyton Manning? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: look up? Look up? Who kisses football player that kisses

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Speaker 2: his kids in the lips?

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Speaker 1: Tom Brady making out with his son with tom Brady

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Speaker 1: kissing people compilation?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he kiss his son on the lips?

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Speaker 2: Is it tom Brady?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, three years after a video of Tom Brady

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Speaker 1: kissing his so on my vile? It is it is?

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Speaker 2: Hey, look at tom Brady. He's kissing all his kids

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Speaker 2: on the lips. Come on, come on, it's normal.

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Speaker 1: Let me do it. Why won't you let me do it?

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Speaker 2: Kiss your son's on the lips?

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Speaker 1: You are the a hole.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're not kissing your kids on the lips,

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Speaker 2: then your homophobic.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to give him a smacker Rooney. Not sorry,

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Speaker 1: that sounded like I was trying to hit him. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like a smooch Rooney. There we go. What am I thinking? Smack? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What am I your lips? Yeah, that's not That's not

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Speaker 1: what I'm mean.

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Speaker 2: I'm we put a compilation of Peyton Manning kissing kids?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, can we get can we get a nice, nice clip?

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Speaker 1: We we do have Tom Brady kissing people compilation.

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Speaker 2: Amazing, amazing, that's what we want.

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Speaker 1: You know, Let's let's see what's going on over here.

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Speaker 2: Let's see. Let's see what's going on behind those lips.

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Speaker 1: When I thirty seven, Mail was seventeen, I got my

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Speaker 1: then girlfriend sixteen pregnant with twin boys.

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Speaker 2: Wow, wow, we're coming out of this story. Sw Damn

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Speaker 2: so bullets.

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Speaker 1: L shot right there, rop lady. Her parents didn't want

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Speaker 1: the babies to ruin her future, so they said that

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Speaker 1: I had to either take them or give them up

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Speaker 1: for adoption because she was not raising them.

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Speaker 2: Damn. That's a tough choice. But in the words of

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Speaker 2: Gary Vee.

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Speaker 3: Fuck your parents, parents, Just fuck your parents. Kiss him

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Speaker 3: on the mouth and watched an n F T bro

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Speaker 3: Twin Babies n f t bro twin n of.

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Speaker 1: Ts just like like record the birth or take a

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Speaker 1: picture the baby, just like popping out of a vaginal cal.

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Speaker 2: I saw TikTok where it was like what your dad

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Speaker 2: first saw when he saw you, and it was like

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Speaker 2: a guy that had the the when it like when

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Speaker 2: it goes like this and it takes like it takes

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Speaker 2: like a like a screenshot every pixel, it goes like this.

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Speaker 1: Nice content baby. Now. I wanted to give them up,

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Speaker 1: but my parents told me not to. Not allowed. For

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Speaker 1: the first seven years of my boy lives, I didn't

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Speaker 1: act like a father. I was more of like a

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Speaker 1: big brother. They knew I was their father, though, but

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Speaker 1: we never bonded like father sons too. When I was

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Speaker 1: ready to move out, I wanted to do it without them,

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Speaker 1: but my dad let me know it was my responsibility,

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Speaker 1: so I had to take them. Yeah you know, true

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Speaker 1: kind of especially when they're seven, like you had it

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Speaker 1: for seven years. It's like these are your kids, bro, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: take care of it. Out of my house.

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Speaker 2: The kids, Damn is seventeen. Dude, seventeen. If we had

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Speaker 2: kids at seventeenty four, yeah, they would be twenty four.

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Speaker 2: We would have a seven year old seven seven, eight

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Speaker 2: years if we jointly carried a child, you know, pregnant,

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Speaker 2: pregnant John and I were both pregnant with each twin,

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Speaker 2: that would be interesting.

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Speaker 1: Conjoined joined, so like we literally had to just do

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Speaker 1: everything together. Tandem bicycles, tandem bicycles, crapping, crapping, Wow, all manner?

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Speaker 1: Eye content? Yeah, what choice do we? I guess we

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Speaker 2: We look straight into each other's eyes.

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Speaker 1: There's no other way. I'd rather defecate on that note.

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Speaker 1: Back to the story now. I didn't want to at first,

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Speaker 1: but I'm glad my parents made me take them. We

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Speaker 1: started bonding as father and sons. I started loving them,

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Speaker 1: and their love for me increased. And I remember the

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Speaker 1: three of us would sit on the couch watch movies.

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Speaker 1: One would sit on my left leg and the other

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Speaker 2: That's cute, that's cute. This is really wholesome.

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Speaker 1: They put their heads on my chest and I would

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Speaker 1: kiss them on the forehead. We've been doing this since

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Speaker 1: they were seven, you know, just some a sweet father, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: loving his sons.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 1: Nothing wrong, nothing wrong. Then we started making out and

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Speaker 1: I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Jak just okay.

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Speaker 1: I met my current wife five years ago. My kids

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Speaker 1: were fifteen. We married three years ago, and we welcomed

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Speaker 1: our own daughter. For female. I love when they do

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Speaker 1: like the young kids with the aged the.

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Speaker 2: Age of the female. I mean, I guess it's helpful context.

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Speaker 1: She saw me doing this with my kids when we

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Speaker 1: watched movies, but she never said anything, yeare off for

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Speaker 1: quiet wife? Wife supposedly love me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Why are you cheering me on as I'm making

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Speaker 2: out with my kids my tongue down, my son's who cares?

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Speaker 2: Who cares? This is called parenting?

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Speaker 1: Learn it? Learn it?

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Speaker 2: How am I supposed to tell my kids how to

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Speaker 2: make out with that good tongue?

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Speaker 1: You know that that would slippery? Serpent? Good god. I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to I'm trying to teach. I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: have a father son moment, teaching lessons, passing down wisdom

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Speaker 1: and knowledge. Sue me.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is oral tradition right here, if.

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Speaker 1: If if if giving my my son's oral traditions like

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Speaker 1: this is a consume me, you know, give you my

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Speaker 1: lock me up, Lock me up, okay, lock me up,

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Speaker 1: burw me away, lock up, lock me away, throw the key.

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Speaker 2: Way the key. I think they're throwing away at the

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Speaker 2: key at us, John, Yeah, smart, twin can joined children?

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Speaker 1: Never on our conjoined children. They will always be together.

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Speaker 2: You know, if if can joined twins murder someone, all right,

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Speaker 2: if a can join twin, if one twin murder someone

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Speaker 2: but the other twin didn't, who.

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Speaker 1: Was to jail? Absolutely? Oh true, true, true, yep, they

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Speaker 1: got to serve the sentence. It's not their faults. They're

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Speaker 1: they're absolutely like not at fault. But also, what other

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Speaker 2: I wonder if any conjoined twins have been have been murdered,

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Speaker 2: that would be I want to hear that court case.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is. What do you do because you you

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Speaker 1: you're sent you literally are sentencing an innocent person or

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Speaker 1: you're not sentencing a guilty person. Yeah, it's a conundrum.

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Speaker 2: What would you do?

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Speaker 1: What would you do? Internet? You are the judges in

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Speaker 1: this case? What is your decision?

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Speaker 2: Tell us?

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Speaker 1: Tell us? Now, my kids are no longer living with

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Speaker 1: us because they left for college, but they do come

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Speaker 1: to see me every now and then. My boys are

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Speaker 1: both twenty now and they still like to put their

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Speaker 1: heads on my chest while I wrap my arms around them.

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Speaker 1: And they do it every time that we visit and

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Speaker 1: we're watching TV. You know, it's just father son activities,

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Speaker 1: fatherly bonding. I don't want to hear anything anything, any slander,

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Speaker 1: no slander, no, no, it is pure, pure, pure hearted. Now,

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Speaker 1: my son Liam visited me two weeks ago. He came

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Speaker 1: out to me as gay and introduced me to his boyfriend. Wow,

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Speaker 1: there we go, package deal, package deal. I don't care

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Speaker 1: how my kids live, or their sexuality or who they love.

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Speaker 1: I love them absolutely, no matter what, and I just

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Speaker 1: want them to be happy. And I don't feel any

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Speaker 1: different towards my son Cool, and it doesn't make me

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Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable to hug him or kiss him on the forehead.

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Speaker 1: But it seems that my wife is a little uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't like that affection. She does it. She doesn't

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Speaker 1: love me showing affection and trying to build self esteem

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Speaker 1: in my own flesh and blood. How it's a crime.

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Speaker 1: Apparently it's a crime.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the trying show a little bit of affection. Maybe

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Speaker 2: get an erection? Who cares about that erect?

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Speaker 3: Show?

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Speaker 1: Tomato? Okay, good God?

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Speaker 2: About the erection, y'all kidding.

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Speaker 1: Now, my son visited me again last Wednesday. Now this

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Speaker 1: was watching Red with my daughter. She was on my left,

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Speaker 1: good to have you back, buddy.

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Speaker 2: It seems actually like really wholesome. I only.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it's because I'm legally blindly because I'm not

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Speaker 2: You legally blind?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm close to legally blind.

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Speaker 3: What what?

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Speaker 2: What's your prescription?

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Speaker 1: It's like five? Oh wow, okay, twenty four ninety or something. Actually,

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Speaker 1: I haven't been is that my elect prescription? Negative negative five?

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Speaker 1: it's like whole number point something.

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Speaker 2: Right point two five point five because.

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Speaker 1: Twenty twenty ye twenty twenty is like point two point two.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: For prescriptions for my my contacts, it's negative two point.

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Speaker 1: Two five negative two, Like what it's corrected to, yeah,

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Speaker 1: anyway better. Yeah, I think, yeah, I can't remember, but

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Speaker 1: I was. My doctor told me I was. My vision

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Speaker 1: I was twenty six. So we made it. There we go.

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Speaker 1: I'll take I'll take not good eyeballs for partially. I'll

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Speaker 1: take them partially right now.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna now, they're going to get better twenty six

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Speaker 2: onwards than it.

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Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: You've heard of macular degeneration, but what about ocular generation?

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Speaker 2: I haven't hev ocular degeneration.

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Speaker 1: Haven't even heard of those.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: We went to sleep and the next day my wife

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Speaker 1: told me that it made her feel uncomfortable what to

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Speaker 1: kiss my children. I didn't realize it was illegal to

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Speaker 1: love my children. Yeah, come on, And she asked me

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Speaker 1: never to do it again. That's weird. While she doesn't

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Speaker 1: mind me doing it with Lucas, my other son, who

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Speaker 1: is straight, she does not want me to do it

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Speaker 1: with Liam. Say that that is the weirdest part. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I understand more if you're like, hey, it's a little

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Speaker 1: weird you're kissing your children, like that makes sense, but

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Speaker 1: the whole like, don't kiss your gay son and kiss

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Speaker 1: your straight son, Like, that's what's he going to do? Like, Dad,

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Speaker 1: I've loved you for the first time I laid eyes

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Speaker 1: on you. He's a freaking newborn baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, that's weird. He also like he has

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Speaker 2: a boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: He's with someone, Sheryl, So come on, he doesn't want him.

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Speaker 1: I told her that she has no business being in

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Speaker 2: And I also called her homophobic. Honestly, like that.

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Speaker 1: It is homophobic. It literally is. She accused me of

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Speaker 1: not treating her like an equal parent to my son.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's his son's.

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Speaker 1: Last time I checked, he came from my ball sec. Okay,

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Speaker 1: none of your eggs. We're involved in the process. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And also like he raised them for much longer, for

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Speaker 2: for like fifteen years. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So she accused me of not treating her like an

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Speaker 2: It's true like she thinks she thinks because she parented

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Speaker 2: these kids, parented these kids for like a little over

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Speaker 2: an election cycle, that he like, she's suddenly a parent, bro.

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Speaker 1: I love that quantification. It's barely been a president. Can

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Speaker 1: we please tone it down here? Obama is still in office. Honey,

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Speaker 1: cool your jets. Now. My brother says, I should understand

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Speaker 1: because this is a big change for her a son

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Speaker 1: coming out. But seriously, I don't think there's anything to.

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Speaker 2: Get used to unless she's just bigoted. I mean, like

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Speaker 2: maybe she's bigoted and she's trying to get like I

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Speaker 2: think it sounds like she's bigoted looking for an excuse. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: well maybe not looking for an excuse, but like like

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Speaker 2: she's bigoted and she's uncomfortable with it because she doesn't

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Speaker 2: have these policee and it's like, I think the best

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Speaker 2: thing you could do is like point out, like, hey,

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Speaker 2: like you're having a double standard. You're literally being homophobic

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Speaker 2: and this is why. And like maybe she doesn't even

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Speaker 1: Totally possible, but yeah, it's like why why isn't an

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And I think like it's like like I think

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Speaker 2: like a feeling that someone has. And so if you

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Speaker 2: verbalize okay, like why do you feel that way? Or

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Speaker 2: why are you like why do you think that's not okay?

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Speaker 2: And then it's like you know, like it boils down to, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, I'm just uncomfortable with with gay people, right, Like,

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Speaker 2: then you can actually address the bigotry. Yeah right, because

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Speaker 2: if she doesn't think she's a bigot, then she won't

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Speaker 2: know how to actually like counteract that.

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Speaker 1: Also, No one, well maybe some people, but like the

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Speaker 1: majority of people are not like, yeah, you know, I'm

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Speaker 2: I mean, actually, I mean there's probably a fair amount

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Speaker 1: The majority of people who are accused of it are like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not me, bro, Yeah yeah, but you just gotta

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Speaker 2: you just gotta assess your biases. Everyone has them.

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Speaker 1: This is true.

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Speaker 2: Is everyone has them, and the whole point of living,

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Speaker 1: The shirt says it right there, bam life lesson. But

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Speaker 1: in my opinion, this isn't her problem, nor is it

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Speaker 1: my problem. Who my son loves? Am I in the wrong?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. I don't think so. I

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Speaker 2: mean like kissing on the forehead, I don't think is

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Speaker 2: a big deal. I mean, like my dad, like I

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Speaker 2: didn't grow up like that like my I mean hugs

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Speaker 1: But I think it's like if it's normal in that

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Speaker 1: well not anything that's normal in the household is normal.

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Speaker 1: But it's like that's something that like people who aren't

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Speaker 1: But I don't think there's actually anything wrong with it. No,

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Speaker 1: in reality, it's just like that's one way or so.

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Speaker 1: I mean all kinds of cultures kiss.

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Speaker 2: Everybody in the face, like yeah, like like most Italian cultures,

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Speaker 2: like you know, you're gonna say that's like wrong.

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Speaker 1: She's gonna come and say you cannot kiss your son.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, No, I think I think I think the

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Speaker 2: wife has some biases, needs to figure out.

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Speaker 1: Let the dad make out with the son. Casem