WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Eddie 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:02.960 The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan. 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:04.640 It's Listener Q and Daytime. 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:08.040 We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions. 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:11.559 Here we are Part three Listener Q and A. 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:12.360 Here we are. 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:14.840 We got some notes from listeners, Eddie, Okay, it's for 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:18.200 both of us. Think. Yeah, I tell negatives sometimes that 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:19.000 they're just like funny. 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:21.520 Are the telling us like, hey, this is what you 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.160 should do better? 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:24.640 No, like sometimes I'll give suggestions and stuff. 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:24.840 No. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:29.360 This, Lisa from California says she doesn't want you to 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:31.920 do the hair transplant. You look great and you should 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:32.319 own it. 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:33.120 Thank you, Lisa. 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:34.240 See these are good ones. 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:35.160 Thank you. I like that. 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.120 Kathy from Boston wanted to say she loves the Best 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:38.960 Bitch Show. 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:40.159 So shout out, shout out. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:43.200 Kathy Sierra from New York says we're her two favorite 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:47.200 on the show. Yeah, great shout out. And then Ibby 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:49.760 actually send me an email from a caller who was 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:51.760 hoping that maybe on the Best Bits I could start 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:55.080 listening TV shows that the show suggested each week. I'm 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:57.240 gonna look into this one, but I'm not sure if 0:00:57.280 --> 0:00:59.240 I can make it work because we kind of like 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.960 randomly s shows and sometimes it happens off of show, 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:04.679 sometimes during the show. I don't know if it's all 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:05.400 done in the same week. 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:07.800 But she is right though, I would say, like every 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.920 week someone talks about a show. 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:12.360 I know, but like, so every week, do I just 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:17.399 be like Amy mentioned American Nightmare. Okay, okay, so yeah, yeah, 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.000 so I gotta find a way to do it. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:19.360 Yeah. 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:22.240 Maybe it's once a month where I'm like gathering them all. 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:23.600 This is gonna be hard to keep track though. 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:25.520 I think I think we're doing a pretty good job 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:28.200 though as a show to cover what's out there. We 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:31.920 are because like really there's a lot of TV out there, 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:34.360 and I mean I don't really contribute a lot to it, 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:36.360 but like a lot of you guys watch a lot 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:38.520 of stuff, and I love hearing about it from you 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:39.319 all because well at. 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:41.720 Least helps because there's so much to filter through to decide. 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:43.400 About to watch exactly. Sometimes it takes me an hour 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:45.600 just to find out what I'm gonna watch, like searching everything. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:48.400 I will say, though, Twitter, you should follow us on X, Twitter, 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.280 X whatever you want to call it. I always live 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:54.160 tweet when we talk about shows always, so if you 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:57.160 follow that, you'll get those updates in real time. I 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:58.840 think that's the only place that I put it, like 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:02.720 all the time. Listener Q and A. Okay you ready, ready, Okay, 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:06.360 we're kicking off because Jane from Ohi, did I say 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.959 that right? My friend's a little foggies. I can't really 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:10.480 don't think where's are coming off for Vertigo? 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:11.520 Yeah you said that right? 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.359 Okay. Jane from Ohio wants to know how often you're 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:15.639 working out eat Shane, how it's going. 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:19.959 Ooh, good question. So Jane, we work out about three 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:23.480 days a week, but I've added a fourth day, not 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:27.280 not just by myself, because the three days a week 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.480 is Bobby. We have a trainer, so Bobby and I 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:32.639 work out together. The trainer goes to Bobby's house and 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:36.240 sometimes Ben Rector, the artist, he shows up. I'd say Ben, 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:39.160 I'd say, Ben is like a two days a week guy. 0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:43.280 He like he always says like, yeah, yeah, man, three days. 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:44.720 We're gonna do it three days a week, and then 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:46.320 like this the third days, like yeah, man, I got 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:49.880 to write a song with someone, and yeah he's busy dude. 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.079 So whenever we get him, it's always a pleasure, right, 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:54.040 It's great, it's cool and I like having been there 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:56.480 because it slows the rotation down. Oh, so you don't 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.639 have toes the three man rotation. We get a little 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:01.560 more break with that. So when Ben shows up, I 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:01.960 love it. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:04.000 Does Bobby compete with you when you all are working out? 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:04.280 No? 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:07.639 Or is it just pretty solo? Well, because like when 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.920 you're in a workout environment in general, you accidentally kind 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.079 of compete with people. Does that make sense? 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:16.239 Well, we hold each other accountable, so, like I think more, 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:20.560 Bobby always goes first. So basically, the trainer has been 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:23.200 working with Bobby a lot longer than any of us, 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:26.920 so he focuses the workout around Bobby. The rest of 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:29.600 us kind of have to keep up, got it and 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:32.480 Bobby's and he's gonna love this. But Bobby is always 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:36.480 a little heavier than us, like weight in the weights, 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:40.040 I would say ten to fifteen pounds more than me 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:43.840 and Ben, but I will say proudly it's Bobby and 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:45.800 then me a little heavier and then ben'zi loois. 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.320 Well, that's impressive for like you have to remember too, 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:50.720 Bobby's been working out every day for years. 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.680 For years, for a long long time. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:53.800 In the last year. 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:57.360 Yeah, impressive, Yes, I'd say I'm about ten ten pounds 0:03:57.480 --> 0:03:59.880 below Bobby as far as the weights that we. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:01.840 Week, you feel stronger, healthier. 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:05.280 I feel stronger for sure, healthier. I mean, I don't know, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:07.600 I've been working on that. I feel exhausted, Like I 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:11.360 feel exhausted every day, and so kind of that's kind 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:12.920 of what I don't like about it. And then the 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:15.080 trainers always just like, don't you guys love this, and 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.400 we're like, no, we hate it. We don't like this 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:19.680 at all. But so those are the three days a week, 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:22.800 and then on Wednesdays that's our day off. My son, 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:27.520 my sixteen year old, goes to a like a Bible study. Yeah, 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.000 it's kind of like on the other side of town, 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:30.760 so it's like a twenty minute drive to get there, 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.480 and so there's for me, it's a two hour Bible study. 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:36.960 So I don't ever like go back home. I'd rather 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:41.640 just drop them off and then like do something hang out. Yeah, 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:43.080 but what I used to do is just sit in 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:44.960 the parking lot and watch like basketball on my phone 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:47.760 for two hours, like really or just kind of like 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:50.200 or maybe I'd take work with me whatever, I'd sit 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.240 in the car. And then I realized there was a 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.640 YMCA by there, and so I was like, I have 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:58.120 a membership to all the YMCAs in the area. So 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.560 so like two weeks ago, I was like, I'm just 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:01.600 gonna go in and just like work out a little bit. 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:02.640 So I started doing that. 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:03.440 Good job. 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.120 I have a basket, they have a basketball court, so 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.400 I'll just shoot hoops. Then I'll run on the on 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:09.640 the what do you call elliptical? Yeah, and then I 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:10.039 feel like it. 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.159 You have a little elliptical runner. Oh yeah, I like 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:14.040 it watching your basketball while you're doing the elliptical. 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:17.120 That's exactly what I do. I watched my basketball and 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:18.440 I've bet on it too. I've been a lot of 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:21.479 basketball games. But but what I like Wednesday for is 0:05:21.520 --> 0:05:23.800 my cardio is not that great, so I kind of 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:26.960 like use that to just do cardio stuff so I'm 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:28.760 not so like tired when we do our workouts. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.840 No, that's good. Yeah, I'm so proud of you. 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:31.240 Thank you. 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:31.760 That was good. 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:33.960 Up, Thank you. But March is going to be my 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:37.360 anniversary for working out with Bobby and the trainer. 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.640 You're going to make it a year, a whole years. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.719 You can change your life, you can't change your life. 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.760 So proud. Okay, let's talk about in the last year 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:48.480 you were saying how like you're kind of exhausted, and 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.280 even in the part one you kind of mentioned it too. 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.880 Lauren and Virginia wants to know how your mental health 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:55.400 is doing, because like a couple of months ago, did 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:57.280 to check in and you're like, I don't feel great. 0:05:57.400 --> 0:06:00.320 You did the what was what was our advertise that 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:01.760 you worked with Better Help? 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:03.520 Yeah? Yeah, Better Help was awesome. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.599 Did some therapy. So how are you feeling? Where are 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:05.920 you now? 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:08.160 Oh my gosh, I'm a lot better as far as 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:12.160 like the family goes. Like I always talk about my kids. 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.200 I love my boys, but like it's a lot. It's 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:17.680 just a lot because there's when you kind of deal 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.240 with one issue with one of the boys, then there's 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:22.159 another issue with one of the other boys, and it's 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:25.120 just it's like whack the mole, you know, all right, 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:28.680 whack the mole, all right, dealt with that problem. Boom, 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:30.240 and then another one pops right up on the other side, 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:31.600 Like all right, let's deal with this one, and then 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:33.679 boom and then and then it's like what your grades 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:35.680 are bad again? Like we just dealt with this, Like 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.840 why are we dealing with this? And so there was 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:41.760 a time when it was really it was tough because 0:06:42.440 --> 0:06:43.920 my wife and I just felt like every day we 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:46.960 were dealing with something like every single day, and then 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:48.360 on top of that, you're kind of in the same 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.359 routine of things every single day. We do this, we 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:52.320 do that, we pick them up, we take them to practice, 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:54.520 we go home, and then we're exhausting, we go to bed, 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:55.560 and then we wake up and we do it all 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.040 over again. And then the weekend comes, ooh, time to rest. 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:00.920 At no time to rest, because now it's games like, Oh, 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:02.080 I got to take them to games. You gotta take 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:03.240 them to that game. Oh, this game is at the 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:04.680 same time as the other game. You got to take 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:06.320 them to that game. And then you go over there, 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.160 Oh we haven't eaten. Oh crap, I gotta go pick 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:11.320 up food. And it's just like that constantly, And so 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:15.480 I think we kind of have a grip on it 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:17.560 a little better. Yeah, we got to grip on it 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:20.360 a little better. And I know one that's been bugging 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:25.080 me a lot is just like finances, because it's expensive 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:27.040 to have four boys, four kids. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.600 It's expensive to just be by yourself. I can't imagine 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:31.280 having a whole freaking family. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.400 And it kind of pisses me off that like everything 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:37.920 I make goes like away so quickly, you know, so like. 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:39.960 Hey, this is also why we need to get you 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:41.800 in investments and don't listen to latch box. 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:43.400 No, no, I know, and not those kind of investments. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:46.160 No, Like I can help you more than he can help. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.400 But that's the scary thing. It's like, man, we spend 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:52.920 so our expenses are so much because of like everything 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.160 that that we need for the kids, and I don't 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.240 spend anything on myself. Like really, I have forty dollars 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.640 a month that I gamble with and that's it. Like 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.240 I don't don't buy I don't like go I don't 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:05.600 buy coffee, I don't go out to eat, I don't 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.320 I play golf, but I haven't golfed in like three months. 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:10.560 It's been so cold, Like I was gonna say it's 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.960 been cold though, yeah yeah, so like summertime, sure, I'll 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.280 spend money on golf, but I don't spend money on myself. 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:19.040 So there's there are seasons of like, man, like it's 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:22.920 so hard to save money when all of my money 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:24.640 is just going. 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:27.360 Out well, you know, I look at life and the 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.440 way that you're talking about that in general too, I 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:31.760 feel like we have been set up just to survive, 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:35.400 Like we haven't been set up And I don't know. 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:37.920 If it's like our country, I don't know, if it's society, 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.160 I don't I don't know. I just don't feel like 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:43.160 in general we've been set up to like live and 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:46.720 thrive and like enjoy life. We've really been set up 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:47.360 to survive. 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:50.960 Yeah, and that's what everybody's doing based on like our 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.160 economic systems. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:53.920 What you're saying, yeah, and like the way that how 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:58.120 expensive everything costs, the mental health in our in how 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:01.680 everybody's feeling. Like you look at if you talk to 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:04.200 a group of people right now, I bet you everybody 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:06.920 would be like I'm surviving. Not one of them is 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:09.200 gonna be like I Am living my best life. Like 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.480 I just don't know how to be kid, you know 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:14.280 what I mean? Like that doesn't happen very often unless 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.640 like somebody's just really good at prioritizing that. But like 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:19.280 life doesn't make it easy to prioritize that with the 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:20.840 way that we have to work and the way that 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:22.040 we have to pay for things. 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.959 Then whatever, and it just feels like we're gonna be 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:25.760 doing this for a long time. 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:27.960 Yeah, like it never ends, Like it never ends. It 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:28.760 actually gets worse. 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:30.760 Huh. And then I'm thinking like, oh, okay, good, like 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:32.480 I got one almost in college, it's gonna be great. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:33.960 Oh we gotta pay for his college forgot about that. 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:36.520 Oh and then and then and then we have three 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:37.920 more on top of that. Oh great, and then our 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.200 youngest is five years old. Oh my goodness, this is 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.640 never going to end, like it really it's I have 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.920 days where it's just like weighs on me hard, or 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:47.480 like this is going to be it's going to keep 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.640 going for a while. But one thing when I mentioned 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.679 betterhelp is one thing that I did take that was 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:54.920 really good from that was the therapist that I talked 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:59.040 to was like, hey, what I think. I don't know 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:02.240 if I was talking about like on vacation or oh, 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:04.040 I know what I was talking about. I was talking about, 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:06.320 like we need like a housekeeper. We need someone to 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:08.600 come in and like just clean our house once a 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.640 week because like we all we do that, and as 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:13.240 much as I get the boys to do it, they 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:15.439 suck at it, and I have to do it over them, 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:17.120 or my wife has to like do the dishes over 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:20.000 because their dishes are terrible. Yeah, you know, like you 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:22.520 know it's like nice put the laundry away, and then 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:24.400 they just met completely mess it up and you're just like, 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.199 if you know what, forget it, I'll just do it. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:31.240 And so the therapist is like, yes, get yourself a housekeeper, 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:33.959 or like somebody that comes in and cleans your house, 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:37.800 or somebody comes in that mows your a yard guy whatever. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:41.280 Invest in yourself. And I'm like, what do you mean 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:44.680 invest in yourself? And it was so true, Like you 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:48.200 would spend money on a nicer refrigerator, one that didn't 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.760 break every four years or every three years, right, that's 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:53.920 an investment. You would invest in something that would help 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.520 you in any other thing. You get yourself a nice 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:59.480 like vacuum cleaner, because you want your your carpet to 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:01.240 be cleaned, Like you invest in a vacuum cleaner. You 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:02.920 don't want to buy a vacuum cleaner, but you invest 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:05.840 in it. Invest in those things so that you can 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:09.480 focus on whatever you want to do versus what you 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:12.240 always need to do. So that was kind of cool, 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.600 and like we do have someone that comes by and 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:17.520 like cleans like once a week now not every two 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:21.360 weeks probably, And I do have a yard person that 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:22.880 comes by and does the yard because that was me 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.640 all the time, because it's like, oh I forgot it. 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:26.439 Look at the grass, it's like overgrown. Now I got 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.800 to do that, and so that's cool, And I've never 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:32.040 ever been on board to doing that. Like my whole 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.480 life is just like I can do the dishes, like 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.680 I can clean, I can mop the floor like, I 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.720 can do that, no big deal. I can cut the grass. 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:41.200 But if I can just get rid of that part, 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:43.680 then I have like an hour to do something else. 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:45.400 Yeah, you have some extra time to spend with your 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.160 family and so yeah, so I have a little bit 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:47.960 more living. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:51.840 But I am doing a lot better mental health wise. 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:54.720 Yes, yes, I'm glad to hear it. I feel like 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.160 that perspective changes the way you think about things, So 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.920 I like it. Well, thanks for sharing being a little vulnerable. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:01.319 Yeah, thank you, thanks for that question. 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:03.560 Yep, thanks Lauren. Okay, we're gonna take a quick break. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:10.000 Coming back. We got more family talk. Great, all right, 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.240 Andrea wants to know if you think you will ever 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.040 show pictures of your wife or your kids. 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.480 That's funny, Andrea, I would I would have showed it 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.600 a long time ago, like I'll always showed my wife 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.120 a long time ago. But she will not have it. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:23.880 So you don't think you'll ever be able to post 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:24.480 a picture of her. 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:27.760 No, she won't do it, Like there aren't very many 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.360 pictures of her, like in my phone, because she doesn't 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:34.960 like to take pictures, like if there's whatever, like if 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:36.280 we're all on the couch and like, oh, that's a 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:38.640 cute picture, and I take a picture, She's like don't, don't, 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:40.800 what are you doing and she'll cover her face and 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:42.480 I'm like, I'm not gonna do anything. But then I 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:44.360 just want to keep it. And even her parents are 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:46.719 just like stop doing that, like we're gonna want to 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.640 have pictures of you when you're like older, like whatever, 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:51.160 And so she doesn't kids. 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:51.720 Are gonna want pictures. 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:53.400 Do you tell her that, yes, your kids are gonna 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:55.720 want pictures all that stuff. She doesn't like taking pictures, 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.400 and she one hundred percent does that. Will never ever 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.599 have a picture out or want me to post a 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:02.280 picture about her. 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:04.400 That's funny. I think people loop like kind of put 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:05.960 your wife in with your kids. How like you don't 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:07.880 post about your kids. That's why they think you don't 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:10.200 post about your wife. It's funny that like she's the 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:11.280 one who do not post. 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:14.400 She's the one. And as far as my kids go, like, yeah, 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:16.640 I think eventually, like I think once my son is 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:19.480 like old enough to make that decision for himself, like 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:21.360 the older one when. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:22.400 He is getting pretty close. 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:25.360 He's sixteen. But I mean I would say, like he 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:28.920 doesn't even have an Instagram account, so he doesn't want one. 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.280 Did he have like I remember at one point he 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:34.439 had like an art one yeah, be real? No no, no, 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:36.520 he had like an art Instagram or is taking pictures. 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:39.080 Of oh h places and places? 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:40.600 Yeahs and places? 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:44.360 Yeah, no, he know. He never even asked me about it. 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:46.560 I think that account is still on my phone. But 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:48.760 for him, no, he just doesn't. He doesn't want it. 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:51.120 Like he's cool. He's on his phone, like he watches 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:53.959 YouTube videos and stuff, and she's not on TikTok, but 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.480 he'll watch. I mean you really, if there's a real 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.440 it makes it on YouTube. 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:01.439 Yeah, honestly, the trans the way it goes down is 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:04.200 like it starts on TikTok, it goes to real and 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:05.720 YouTube probably about the same time. 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:08.840 Yeah, so he just watches YouTube videos, and I like 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:11.160 that because I don't mind him consuming what's out there, 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:13.440 like all the funny stuff. I don't mind him watching that. 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:15.800 It's just like I don't want him posting stuff himself 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.920 and then regret it later and you know the whole 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:21.480 you know, like I still still in my mind on 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:24.120 like Thirteen Reasons Why, which I watched I don't know, 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:28.080 eight years ago. The interacting with people, it's it's an 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:31.440 extra element. That's the adds on to being a teenager 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:32.320 that like you don't need. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.520 Are his friends on like he some okay some are? 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:39.160 They do snapchat a lot, No, they don't want it. 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:41.640 The only thing he does good for him. 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:43.240 The only thing he does is be real, and he 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:47.720 rarely does be real. But but yeah, so I like 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.920 I like that. He doesn't like that. He doesn't want 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.720 that really. So, but if you know, he goes to 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:55.400 college or whatever, and he's just like gets an Instagram 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:58.120 account all of a sudden, and he's like, hey, Dak. 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.600 Even if he just goes to college and doesn't have 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:02.120 an Instagram account and you're like sending him off, would 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:02.640 you post. 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:04.440 A picture maybe. I don't know, it's just if he 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:06.600 wants to. If he wants it. He's kind of like 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:08.520 my wife too though, like he's just like no, no, Dad, 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:10.960 don't take a picture of me or whatever. Even if 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:12.240 like he knows I'm not gonna post it. 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.160 He's gonna go to college and like his whole world's 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:17.160 gonna open and everybody's gonna be on Instagram. He's gonna be like, dang, well, 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:18.680 Dad could just post me. I could get a couple 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:19.320 of followers. 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:21.800 Yeah, you know what, I know. I know. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:26.000 Oh, okay, would you guys foster again after maybe a 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:27.280 few of them leave the house. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.760 This is from Shelby and South Dcota Shelby. If you're 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.760 asking me, the answer is and no, i'd be asking 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:37.640 my wife probably, so I don't know, like, yeah, we're 0:15:37.720 --> 0:15:41.280 so far from empty nesters, Like so far. 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:42.920 Yeah you just said the youngest is. 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.920 Five, Fine, he just turned five, So like no, like we. 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:49.760 But even just a few like what if the oldest 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:50.440 one leaves? 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:53.640 See this is something that like we always do, Like 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:55.560 I tell my wife, like why do we make our 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:59.480 lives so hard? Like ever every time, like we're like, ooh, 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.320 you know what we got through this this part of 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:04.720 our life that was so difficult, and now it's like 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:07.200 it feels good. It feels too good. We should do 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:10.120