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Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today for our first Day
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Luca.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
Speaker 2: her another date. But first, Jenna, how long has it
Speaker 2: been since you heard from Luca?
Speaker 3: Uh? It has been a week. I haven't heard anything
Speaker 3: in a week.
Speaker 4: Okay, it's usually the spot where everybody starts to panic
Speaker 4: a little bit. How many times did you reach out
Speaker 4: to him in that time?
Speaker 5: Probably like once.
Speaker 3: A day, you know. I just usually sent him photos.
Speaker 5: Of my dog because.
Speaker 3: He that's how we met. Our dog totally hit it off,
Speaker 3: and at first I was getting like a little bit
Speaker 3: of feedback and now just nothing.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well let's talk about the date then.
Speaker 3: Well we met us a dog park, well actually our
Speaker 3: dogs met first. His golden doodle literally tackled my pug
Speaker 3: beans and it felt meant to be.
Speaker 5: And we ended up.
Speaker 3: Grabbing coffee after and I got a lavender oat milk
Speaker 3: latte obviously, and the he got like black drip coffee,
Speaker 3: so I are like, okay, edgy.
Speaker 5: Yeah. And then so we sat on this cute patio
Speaker 5: outside and we just talked for like two hours about astrology,
Speaker 5: about oat milk conspiracies, about his tattoo that he swears
Speaker 5: is the moon but it totally is.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, he has tattoos he says isn't the moon,
Speaker 2: but it is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was trying to say it was like some
Speaker 3: other I don't even like, some other edgy kind of
Speaker 3: niche thing, but I was like, that's literally a moon.
Speaker 6: So it's like when.
Speaker 4: People are like that's an artistoke and you're like, no,
Speaker 4: the tattoo on my neck he is a lotus flower,
Speaker 4: so yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: And at one point he literally watched me parallel park
Speaker 3: and he didn't even he didn't even judge. So I
Speaker 3: feel like that's intimacy.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean anyway, okay, think you feel comfortable?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Absolutely, it felt so comfortable and so natural.
Speaker 6: Well, then what could have gone wrong?
Speaker 3: I truly don't know.
Speaker 5: At one point, he wiped oat milk foam off of my.
Speaker 3: Nose with his finger and he licked it.
Speaker 5: It just made me feel like he was really into me,
Speaker 5: Like I don't know how else to interpret that, Like,
Speaker 5: it feels like he's he's into me. He was into it.
Speaker 6: I lick it off your nose?
Speaker 3: No, he wiped it off his finger and then licked
Speaker 3: it off of his finger, which still I'm like, I
Speaker 3: would think that too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, I'd be a little weird now if
Speaker 2: you liked it straight off them.
Speaker 3: And yeah, he said at one point of the day,
Speaker 3: he said, you're really calling to be around, Like that's
Speaker 3: not the friend zone, Like that's future wife in a
Speaker 3: linen dress. Energy.
Speaker 2: Okay, so what do you think the thing is? Well,
Speaker 2: why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 5: Okay, so when he when he wipes the oat milk
Speaker 5: off of my nose, I leaned in to kiss his nose.
Speaker 3: I justs he licks the phone off off my nose
Speaker 3: or with his finger. I just thought it was only
Speaker 3: right to balance it with like a romantic like little
Speaker 3: nose peck. In the moment, it felt really romantic. But
Speaker 3: but the way he reacted was was shocked.
Speaker 6: Really, so how did he do?
Speaker 3: We laughed about it?
Speaker 5: What about how silly it was? I thought I was embarrassed,
Speaker 5: but I thought we were back on track.
Speaker 3: But maybe he's still thinking about it.
Speaker 5: I hope not.
Speaker 6: I'm thinking about it. Okay, any think maybe it was
Speaker 6: the nose kiss that did it.
Speaker 5: That's the only thing I can think of, because other
Speaker 5: than that, we really vibed.
Speaker 3: We really did.
Speaker 7: She used tongue on.
Speaker 6: No, no French kiss.
Speaker 2: Okay, that goes too far. I feel better about that then. Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 2: for you. We'll play a song come back, and then
Speaker 2: call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
Speaker 2: ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up
Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Jenna is on the
Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Lucas.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if he'll
Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
Speaker 2: a second date if she still wants one. But before
Speaker 2: we do that, Jenna, why don't you break down your
Speaker 2: date for us again?
Speaker 6: Real quick?
Speaker 5: Well, our dog's got to meet cute in the park.
Speaker 3: We headed off the absolutely Vibe, so we went to
Speaker 3: get coffee and talked for like two hours about everything
Speaker 3: under this un really and he the craziest part is
Speaker 3: that he like, I had oat milt foam on my
Speaker 3: nose and he wiped it off with his finger and
Speaker 3: licked it. And I think I'm getting ghosted. So I'm
Speaker 3: just confused.
Speaker 4: Because that would be like, I'm into you moment. I'm
Speaker 4: not licking foam off in my finger.
Speaker 3: I don't like you exactly.
Speaker 2: And you think you might be getting ghosted because at
Speaker 2: the end of the day, you kissed his nose to
Speaker 2: balance the nose action.
Speaker 3: At the there was one awkward moment. I was trying
Speaker 3: to roll with the whole like kissing the nose thing,
Speaker 3: and so I kissed his nose and it was awkward,
Speaker 3: but we.
Speaker 5: Laughed it off, led it.
Speaker 3: Off, and so I'm hoping it I'm hoping it's not that.
Speaker 4: But that's the only thing I can what bass his
Speaker 4: nose action like that's flaws A not a lot of
Speaker 4: days dates first dates have nose action.
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 2: You ready for us to call him? Yes, Okay, here
Speaker 2: we go. Hell, hi, man, I speak to Luca. Please
Speaker 2: this Hey, Luca, how are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Luca, I'm Nina.
Speaker 6: Hi, I'm and my name is Jebel. How are you.
Speaker 6: What's up?
Speaker 7: I'm alright, So the three guys.
Speaker 6: Yeah you listened to the show ever?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Listened to you guys before. I mean, it's just kind
Speaker 1: of weird that you guys are calling me.
Speaker 3: Sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well we're calling you today because we got an
Speaker 2: email about you from somebody.
Speaker 7: Okay, a good email or like a bed like what
Speaker 7: kind of email.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a great email. Actually, but we do a
Speaker 2: segment called the first ad follow Up. That's where if
Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 2: you end up ghosting them, that person can email us
Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're
Speaker 2: ghosting them. Okay, so we got an email about you
Speaker 2: from somebody that you're ghosting.
Speaker 7: Okay, do you know that would be I mean, I
Speaker 7: got a guess, I got a guess.
Speaker 6: Take a guess.
Speaker 7: I mean, is Jenna the lavender Latte girl?
Speaker 6: Yes, j.
Speaker 2: Yeah, tell us why you're ghosting her?
Speaker 8: I mean, she was just she was just kind of weird,
Speaker 8: you know, like I mean, I mean the unique sign,
Speaker 8: you know, but like she brought a crystal to the
Speaker 8: coffee date, like she's like a little amethyst and sat
Speaker 8: on the table set and needed to charge.
Speaker 1: She proceeded to give me like a twelve minute speech
Speaker 1: about how she and her dog.
Speaker 7: Are twin soles. Oh you know, like.
Speaker 1: She asked me if I ever felt emotionally manipulated by
Speaker 1: her coffee.
Speaker 2: Order, you know, like mostly manipulated by her coffee order.
Speaker 7: What does that mean?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was a conversation starter.
Speaker 7: You Yeah, yeah, great, Yeah that mindsighted but that's nice.
Speaker 3: What's up? Generally? I was just being authentic, but you
Speaker 3: literally said that you wanted someone grounded and real. So
Speaker 3: I showed a reel you.
Speaker 1: You asked the beresta if the oak milk had been
Speaker 1: vibe checked, like there's a.
Speaker 3: Lot because mercury was acting weird.
Speaker 5: Energy matters.
Speaker 1: I mean you also tried to stage the table, you know,
Speaker 1: like it was palaesento.
Speaker 5: I was protecting our connection.
Speaker 3: I just slightly lightly burned it.
Speaker 1: Listen, you're super interesting, You're funny. But did you notice
Speaker 1: that I barely said two words about myself?
Speaker 3: What? No, Well, we had like a great slow Listen.
Speaker 1: You had a monologue, right, I know about your dog's dreams,
Speaker 1: your third eye chakra.
Speaker 7: You're playing abandonment issues. What about me? Did you even
Speaker 7: know that I'm an engineer?
Speaker 5: Oh, you're an engineer.
Speaker 3: That's cool, that's dope.
Speaker 6: So I guess that's didn't know. You didn't know that.
Speaker 3: No, I didn't.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's that's because we never got to meet.
Speaker 1: In the conversation, it was just, I mean, you don't
Speaker 1: know that I moved here where I moved from, or
Speaker 1: that I just simply don't believe in the chakras and
Speaker 1: the crystals and all this.
Speaker 3: You just moved here from where.
Speaker 6: I don't think that's the point, Jenna.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry for.
Speaker 5: Being in tune with myself.
Speaker 9: I'm not trying to knock it all right, Like, you know,
Speaker 9: I just felt you weren't really open to who I am.
Speaker 9: You know, you were interviewing me for a vibe check,
Speaker 9: like you wonder to see if we are vibes match.
Speaker 7: And that's it.
Speaker 3: I thought that we clicked.
Speaker 7: I mean, you're not. You're not boring, all right, I'll
Speaker 7: give you.
Speaker 3: Well, Okay, what if we try again, and maybe we
Speaker 3: do something quieter, like a walk with the dogs and
Speaker 3: no talking about past lives. Would you like.
Speaker 6: Another day with Jenna will pay for it.
Speaker 9: Listen, Jenna, I think you're a lot of things, but
Speaker 9: just maybe not my thing.
Speaker 7: Okay, like you're cool, but I don't think so.
Speaker 3: Just admit it. You vibed more with my dog than me.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, your dog is chill like I love the dog.
Speaker 3: That's because he's spiritually grounded, unlike some people.
Speaker 7: Can I can I go on a second date with
Speaker 7: just a dog?
Speaker 4: Is that cool?
Speaker 3: I mean no, we're inseparable. He gets separation anxiety. I
Speaker 3: couldn't just give you.
Speaker 6: I think he was joking.
Speaker 5: But oh okay, well then I mean, yeah, sure, okay.
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