WEBVTT - Doctor! Doctor! 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:04.000 We're taking you inside the mind of a man. This 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:09.080 is how men thick and I heard radio podcast, so yes, 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:12.040 this is how men think, even though you hear the 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:14.720 voice of the ladies right now. This is Amy and 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:20.320 Daniels here too, and we have all the ladies here today, 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:25.360 but we are turning the show over today to Dr 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:29.320 Joe Park. Now we call you Joe because I'm the bachelor. 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:32.920 You were Joe, but your zoom, says Joseph, So what 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:36.400 do you go by at the hospital? At the hospital, 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:38.920 I go by Dr Park, So none of the above. 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:43.839 But you called whatever you want, Joe, Dr Joe. What 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:47.600 did Tisha call you? What did call you? She called 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.080 me Joe. You know, we're there. We got there. It 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:55.440 was fine. So how many of your patients now are like, uh, Houstasia. 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.600 You know people ask you that, But if you really 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:02.120 think when I'm an anthologist, do you think about the 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:04.640 people who need surgery that generally, like, you know, for 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:07.120 the most part, in the fifties, sixties, seventies, sometimes eighties, 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:11.560 like barely anybody's asking me that so very rarely, which 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:13.119 I kind of like, I don't want to be known 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:17.039 as um. They didn't know I played trip Dodgeball National Television. 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:20.120 That would be okay to me. Yeah, you don't know 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.840 this yet because the world is so weird right now 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:27.800 that you're not going to like concerts or events. But 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:31.920 soon enough you will be are you that guy from 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:34.959 the Bachelorette? Or you'll get did we go to high 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:40.200 school together? I've gotten that a couple of times. You know, 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:41.880 I live in New York City. You know there's still 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.760 after dining at times, and sometimes I'll be riding, um 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:49.240 my bike and people will stop me. I'm super impressed 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.640 by because I'm wearing a mask and it's really cold 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:55.760 now I'm wearing a hat, so I've gotta do they 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:59.520 have ego eyes, they will spot you. I guess it's 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:03.760 the weirdest thing because it is weird. I always tell 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:05.440 them it's weirder for me. Like when if I'm going 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.480 for a run outside, I'm like someone stopped. I'm like, 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:09.200 this is so weird for me, Like what do you 0:02:09.200 --> 0:02:13.200 want to know? It's like it's just normal, you know, 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:17.120 It's like it's such a buddy. Let's catch everybody up. 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:21.640 So Dr Joe Park started on Claire's season, right, you 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.400 were one of the men that was originally there for Claire. 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:28.960 So tell everybody why, Like you're a hot doctor, which 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:32.680 doctors now we're always hot, but now doctors are like 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:36.720 way hot. So why did you want to go on 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:40.200 the Bachelorette? Like it is a little bit like why 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:45.440 is this guy need to go? That's fair? Um, yeah, 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:50.080 so you know, so it was. I got asked in 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:54.919 the toward the end of spring and the pandemic in 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:57.200 New York City, you know, it hit here first. Obviously 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:01.000 it was kind of slowing down and at that time, 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:03.880 I was, you know, going to work, you know, and 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.240 it was like a war zone. Everyone was just dinning 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.280 the pte and keeping their distance and it was just 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:13.200 a very scary time. And you know, unfortunately it's a 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:16.920 lot of people. I'm not doing well, and I would 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.640 come home, you know, to my shoe box on an apartment, 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.800 you know, I live in New York City and now 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.120 would be the routine, and I wouldn't see friends, obviously, 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:29.360 I wouldn't see my family. And so when I got 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:34.160 this this message, Um, I you know, I've never seen 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:37.760 the show, and I just said that you like what 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:39.920 I have to do. I was open minded about it, 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.720 and they said, you have to sit where you're sitting 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.920 and do a couple of zoom interviews and and I 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:47.840 asked to do enough to wear pants and like, no, 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:51.160 don't wear pants, It's fine. And uh, I did like 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.480 four or five ho interviews and one thing left another 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:57.080 and I was out in uh in the desert, in 0:03:57.160 --> 0:04:00.320 the palm desert with a bunch of strangers and again 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:07.080 at that in quarantine living like That's what people listening 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:10.200 may not realize, is you know, from we have a 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:11.960 lot of friends that are either on the show or 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.920 work on the show, and because of the way they 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:17.839 did it, they were extremely safe with a lot of 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:22.039 protocols and put everybody into a bubble and so you 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:26.040 guys basically got to sort of live a normal life. 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:31.080 It was such like such a dark contrast. I can't 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.960 tell you how it was going from the hospital, where 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:37.160 I was wearing like not just through masks, but I 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:40.119 was wearing the face shield and the gloves all the time, 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:44.239 and the gown, and to just being in a place 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:47.120 where I could like like hug somebody. Um. And I 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:48.880 know it's gotten a little bit normal now, but like 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:51.279 at the time, it was like really really really the 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:54.560 heightened again of such a scary thing, especially in New York. 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:58.560 In New York was insane during that time. So that 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:00.920 leads me to my question is how did you even 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:03.680 get the time off? Like you went to you know, 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:05.760 your boss and you're like, hey, I know it's the 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:08.640 middle of a pandemic, but I just got offered to 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:11.560 go on The Bachelor, Like how did that come there? 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:15.960 So it was a few It was like it was 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:17.960 a couple of months before they said, hey, the Game 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:19.359 of the green Light. You know, it was a bunch 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:22.400 of zoom interviews. And at the height of the pandemic, 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:26.839 which is early April UM, the cases were about six 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:29.560 thousand a day, and that was when testing wasn't really available, 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.680 so it was actually much much worse than that UM. 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:36.080 But by the time I left, which was you know, 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:41.200 early early summer UM, the case has actually gone down. 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:42.880 I'm not sure if I want the day, but they 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.520 left it the case were down at about three hundreds. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.279 So it was just it was actually a perfect time 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:50.920 where there weren't an elected surgeries going on because people 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.480 obviously were very afraid to be in a hospital, and 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:54.240 they were still taking care of a lot of COVID patients. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:58.159 But it wasn't that that peak had gone way way 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:02.120 way down. And I told my my boss that I 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:05.040 needed between four and six weeks off, which is all 0:06:05.040 --> 0:06:08.120 my week. And he asked. He's a very old and 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:11.880 very nice, old Indian man, and he was like, why 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:13.320 do you need this? And I was like, you know, 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:16.520 there's a show come back threat. He's like, what is 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:20.760 this show? And I tried to sound like, so there's 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.880 thirty guys and there's one girl, and you do a 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:26.880 lot of weird challenges, um, you know, like you know, 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:30.479 like dodgeball, you rustle each other and all that will 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:34.520 help this girl find find us. And after eight weeks, 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.640 the whole prison. It's ridiculous. It's ridiculous saying it now. 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:39.560 But to him, we never heard of He was like 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:42.160 it was like, he's like what I told him, It's 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.320 gonna be on television and it's a crazy opportunity. And 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:47.200 eventually like yeah, sure, like you know, it's actually perfect time, 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:50.000 so go for it. I hope he watched did that 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:56.440 guy watch? Definitely not? That's okay. I hope he doesn't. Well, 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:58.880 there's so much just there's so much just sort of breakdown. 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.160 So first before to get into kind of what we're 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.640 doing and how you're taking over the show today. Can 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.120 you just give us a little bit. I'm like, where 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:06.720 are you from, Where do you go to college, where 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:08.320 do you get Where did you go to medical school? 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:12.280 And then why did you choose anatsiology, which for people listening, 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:19.560 that is a quite challenging area of medicine. Yeah, it is. Um. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:22.360 So I'm from New York. I grew up born and 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:26.520 raised in in Long Island. UM in New York. I 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:30.040 went to high college at Georgetown University in d C. 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:34.440 And Um, I just insulting there um for two years 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.200 or not there but DC for two years, and then 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.600 I thought medicine might be my route. Um, I didn't 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:44.200 really love consulting, and I did some clinical research at 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:46.240 Sloane Kettering, which is a cancer center in New York. 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:51.320 And from there I really loved working with patients mentally, 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:54.640 super simulating, super like you're always learning in medicine. And 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:56.360 then pot of med school, went to med school in 0:07:56.520 --> 0:08:00.120 Stony Brook out in Long Island. Also from there, UM 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:04.000 incide to pursue as physiology, which, as you said, it's 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:07.160 a very very challenging feel I mean literally, you are 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:10.120 like keeping this person alive while they're going through their 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:13.800 their surgeries. So there's definitely and you don't get a 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:17.120 lot of the glory because you're not the heart surgeon 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:20.640 that came in or the doctor grouped a brain surgeon 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:24.000 that Kate comes in for those that are listening Dr 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:26.800 sanjayes on Ci and and he still goes and performs 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:32.480 brain surgery. But then is so important. But you're like 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:36.080 the man behind the scenes that no one ever sees. Yeah, 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:38.120 there's um. I like to consider. I like to think 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:42.880 of enthusiologists as the basis of a group and a 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:47.040 friend's uncle random but he told me once, Uh, it's 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:50.160 meant to be felt but not heard. Um. But obviously 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:53.200 you need that person there and it really creates that 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:56.160 that sets the tone for the band, the music that's playing. 0:08:56.160 --> 0:09:00.439 And so I feel that way about anesthesia and I'm 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:03.600 happy to do that. And it is really really interesting 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:06.319 to deal with physiology and all these medications were pushing 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:10.240 in to see like all these monitors and again just 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:12.719 to control from the physiology. I think, is such a 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:18.840 do you because of your expertise as an antistusiologists, does 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:23.160 that give you um insight into the vaccine in a 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.319 different way than maybe even you know, just a general 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:30.640 physician would, where you're able to sort of explain it's 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:34.920 safety and efficacy and why it's important. Um. Does the 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:38.480 antistusiology back front that you have give you that knowledge 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:43.199 more so than other doctors? More so than other some 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:46.480 other doctors, Yes, I mean there are immunologists, UM allergists 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.760 who probably have a better understanding. But that said, UM 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.640 dealing with a lot of drugs and formal kinetics, form 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:55.520 dynamics and from a college in general, UM, it is 0:09:55.559 --> 0:10:00.000 important for us to know how the body processes medications. UM, 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.640 different things that introduced for a body so, and also 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:07.119 the reaction that happened thereafter, clampatary reactions that can happen afterwards, 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:10.600 that can happen during surgery or two medications that we give. 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:13.200 SO in that respect, yeah, I mean, we definitely have 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:19.160 a better understanding of human physiology and how medications, especially 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:24.080 strange ones. So like So's people are getting the first 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:28.040 dose of the vaccine, and and the common side effect 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:31.400 is like arm pain. So is the arm pain because 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:33.679 it's where a shot went in? Or is the arm 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:37.600 pain because it's starting to like affect the body in 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:41.000 that area, Like why the arm pain? Sure, that's a 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:44.079 good question. So most people when they get this vaccine, 0:10:44.720 --> 0:10:48.880 similar to the flu shot, it's an intramuscular injection, and 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.000 every intramuscular injection is gonna have arm pain just because 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:56.720 you're introducing um, a fluid, a substance into the muscle. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:59.960 So there's gonna be a flampwary reaction and it's gonna 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.400 feel like someone punched you really harder the next day. 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:05.880 And that's not really the systemic and the reaction that 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.120 you're getting in from the va vacccene, which also happened, 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:10.679 which can happen, which puts a lot of people. Um, 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:14.760 that's just a local reaction and that's completely normal and uh, 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:17.560 completely yeah, and it goes away very quickly. And then 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:21.719 after the second dose, people are having some symptoms like 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:25.480 a sighte fever or chills or more flu like symptoms. 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:27.760 Can you explain why that is and let people know 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:31.800 like that's not COVID, You don't have COVID. You know, 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:33.960 I'll let you explain, But it's your immune system. So 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:36.080 can you explain why that happens and why people don't 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:41.760 need to panic? Absolutely? So, Um, first of all, Yeah, 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:44.080 so even after the first dose, it's possible that the 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:46.679 day after, or or two days after, up to two 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:50.559 days after, you can have some reaction. And these reactions 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:55.959 include um, generalized fatigue, generalized muscle pain. Some people will 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:58.600 have fever, some people will have some chills, um, some 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:01.160 people have some GI symptoms, it's some knowledges and diarrhea. 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:04.400 All these are very normal and generally last between one 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.040 and two days, and by the third day you're pretty 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:11.280 much action. Now, why that happens is because your body 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:15.280 is ramping up its immune system. Your body is practicing 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:18.880 for and creating the antibodies that will be necessary to 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:22.160 fight off the coronavirus. If you ever actually encount of 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:25.360 the real thing, um, and so it means it's working, 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:27.439 you know. It means that our body is revving it 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.959 up for a real infection in the future. And again 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:35.719 to your point, in no way can you get coronavirus 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:39.480 from the vaccine. It is merely a very small component 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:42.120 of the vaccine that creates that's kind of like a 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:46.000 trigger for for our immune system to respond. But in 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:47.520 no way can you get coronavirus. And I I want to 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:50.480 be very clear with that now, how many years into 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.920 medical school was it before you were able to say 0:12:53.000 --> 0:13:01.120 diarrhea without laughing? Machel in diarrhea, all of it. It's 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:05.839 still very funny to me. You delivered that like it 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:11.240 was like no problem. Yeah, you know, I think I 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:14.959 enjoyed the topic of diarrhea and it's grown to be comfortable. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:17.880 But I know that you can really shut a room 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:22.719 down if you say diarrhea. Here's a medical school is 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:27.160 such a journey, perhaps more than the best and the 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:28.680 faces to say, you don't want to know where this 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:35.079 finger has been. All right, it's it's stories, but I'm 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.080 telling you it's it's a right, it's a trick. Did 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.760 you ever have to utter the word diarrhea when you 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:46.360 filmed The Bachelorette? Um? I don't recall a time I 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:49.360 had to um, but I was ready to bust it 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:53.720 out if I had to question. How many medical questions 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:58.280 were those dudes asking you like was it constant or yeah? 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:00.280 You know a lot of them asking about like showing 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.319 me rashes and I'm like, WHOA, I do not want 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:06.559 to see that. I'm joking. I'm joking. Everyone was Actually, 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:09.640 I know, we know you're you're all pretty safe in 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:14.440 there because you're you're COVID tested and tested testing exactly. 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:18.360 I was gonna say testing anyways. So, so Amy, should 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:20.880 we go into kind of the premise of the episode 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:23.960 and what we have planned. We've been sort of pulling 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:27.640 our audience and as much as people want to have relationships, 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:31.240 love date sets, all the normal things that we always 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:33.720 talk about on the show, they also have a lot 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:35.840 of medical questions right now. People want to know it all. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:38.680 So you're the perfect person to talk about love, relationships 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:42.960 and doctor stuff. So we will let some people into 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:48.520 our podcast with their questions. But my last question before 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:52.040 we start that is who were your three besties that 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:56.960 you made during your claritatious season of The Bachelorette. You 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:00.360 have to pick three, and we know because saw the 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:02.680 instagram that you went over to Bennett's house for dinner. 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:05.400 So is he one of your best ties? I know 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.360 he's gonna be her. He's gonna be her. If you 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:13.480 don't say him, think I'm gonna say um so the 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:17.320 time on the show and after the show. Um, Brendan, 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:24.120 I've got really close to Brendon. He is turn like poppy. Actually, 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:27.440 I think it's the correct term. Turn like poppy. Um. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:33.400 But but yeah, he is such a kind, thoughtful um 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:36.720 and actually super funny. He's got this this really subtle 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:39.480 humor UM that I love and that a lot of 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:44.080 people love UM. And that's just a good human being overall. 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:48.360 And that was evident on the show, UM because such 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:50.400 a such a tense pressure field situation, and he kept 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:53.400 a real throughout, which also I appreciated. You know a 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.320 lot of people you know, who know there's a lot 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:57.280 of reason why people will want and beyond the Bachelor, 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.600 why be on TV? But he kept it one d 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:01.880 the whole time, and I respected him, like we would 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.080 have great chats, we would do this because always was 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.280 Mike's to do this thing and we tap my mics 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:10.440 like is this are you scared right now? Like ok 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.760 And I was just like, you know, it's not okay, 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:16.080 I'm real. This guy's like okay, good me too. I 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:19.520 would have picked him like he was my number one, 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:23.600 like I to this day and like ta you missed 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:25.640 the boat on that one. You know he was my 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:29.280 he was and is my number one. But he lit 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.320 he limited himself so she didn't even have the chance. 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:36.440 And and I respect him for why he did it 0:16:36.520 --> 0:16:42.720 and he kept a real number. Two is a spice surprise. 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:55.680 But Kenny um, Kenny, okay, Kenny looks how he looks, 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:59.040 and he has the job that he has. But one 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:03.560 of the most also subtly funny is um most honest, 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:09.879 genuine um and yeah, just like real people on the show. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:11.399 And you could tell that from the show. He's like, 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:13.040 you know, at a certain points like what the hell 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:15.359 is going on here? And that's just how it was 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:18.600 all the time. And I really I love the reverence. 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:23.560 What boy bands he manages, but we can figure that 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:27.480 out very quickly. I would say he has a bunch 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.240 of cover bands that he manages at A has a 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:32.800 bunch of cover bands, like one's a motown band. One 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:35.960 was like a like a boy band cover band. So um, 0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:39.879 he does it always a model, you know, manager events 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:44.200 space manager is a man of many times cover band. 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:47.480 It's actually sort of a legit idea. He was getting 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.159 fights with the other who was he brawling with? He 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:54.280 was having the I think everyone didn't like Yeah, no, 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:58.359 I don't think anyone like Noah, but especially Bennett. Well 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:01.399 you know what the mustache, the mustache. He was a 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:04.200 mustache man, formerly must he had a pretty must stache 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:06.879 phase in a post mustache pase, so he eras on 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.480 the bechelor gave us your number three, And I'm nervous 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:12.200 for Bennett because I know it's not Bennett. Number three 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:16.480 is Bennett? Actually, I will say Bennett and I have 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:18.680 gotten much closer. I mean, he lives in New York. 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:20.840 Were the about the same age or one of your part, 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:25.000 And he's super intelligent, and he's really thoughtful, and he's 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:30.720 just got interesting perspectives. And when he's your friend, he's 0:18:30.760 --> 0:18:34.480 your friend, like a good friend. He's with you, you know, 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:37.439 the car wreck you can't look away from. Like I 0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:42.440 find myself like on his Instagram watching the whole thing, 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:46.560 but going why am I watching this? Like like this 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:50.359 guy so cheesy, but yet like tell me more, you know, 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:54.320 like he's that guy. Bennett is the classic case of 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:57.720 you either die a hero or you live yourself, or 0:18:57.760 --> 0:18:59.600 you live long enough to see yourself become the villain. 0:19:00.119 --> 0:19:04.639 And he just, for some reason skewed that way towards 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.240 the end um because I don't remember the beginning that 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.520 Bennett was like, yo, it was all up for Bennett, 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:12.240 and for me, it's still all up for Bennett. You 0:19:13.320 --> 0:19:15.480 just a little bit of that Harvard guy, and he 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:21.119 kind of like became that so fast. He's sort of handsome. 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.960 He's sort of handsome in a like are you handsome? 0:19:24.080 --> 0:19:25.920 Or am I going to vomit in my mouth kind 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:29.440 of a way. But I mean Superman the Clark. Can't 0:19:29.440 --> 0:19:31.919 you like you're not into the big jaw and big muscle, 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:36.639 and he's handsome. He's like, by the book handsome, but 0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:39.919 he has sort of like this underlying cheese where you're like, 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:44.359 is that gonna herritate me dinner? You know, You're like, 0:19:45.480 --> 0:19:48.360 are you gonna like I don't know. It's like a 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:52.080 Disney character where they're like always looking in the mirror 0:19:52.119 --> 0:19:55.159 or something. I can't remember which one that is. But anyway, 0:19:55.200 --> 0:19:59.840 this is your show. Only one more, last one honorary 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:07.000 also okay, fourth best and that's it. Sorry, no, no, 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:08.720 we like it. We like it. We hope you're all 0:20:08.760 --> 0:20:13.440 in paradise to get so. We do have a bunch 0:20:13.440 --> 0:20:18.320 of people that are excited to talk to you. So fast. Yeah, 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:20.040 let's go ahead and take a break and when we 0:20:20.080 --> 0:20:30.800 come back, we'll get to some of our questions. Hey guys, 0:20:30.920 --> 0:20:34.359 it's Dr Joe, I've taken over for Gavinet Brooks on 0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:38.280 the Holm and Think podcast. Um, they'll be back. I'm sorry, 0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:41.359 don't worry, but for right now, you're stuck with me. 0:20:41.920 --> 0:20:45.479 So let's bring on the questions. Okay. So first up 0:20:45.520 --> 0:20:54.840 we have Crystal. Hello. Hi, Okay, So first question, UM, 0:20:55.080 --> 0:20:57.480 we would love to know I know you recently got 0:20:57.520 --> 0:21:00.520 vaccinated and UM, a lot of us are a little 0:21:00.560 --> 0:21:03.120 nervous about the vaccines. So could you kind of tell 0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:06.200 us your experience about getting it and what we might 0:21:06.200 --> 0:21:11.800 need to know about it? Um? Absolutely, Um. Crystal love 0:21:12.040 --> 0:21:14.840 your style also, so UM, I just want to say 0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:18.520 that in the just out front. Um, so sure. So 0:21:18.600 --> 0:21:22.680 the vaccine, you know, initially, like a lot of people, UM, 0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:24.760 when it first came out, I was a bit curious 0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:27.120 about it. I was. I was a bit apprehensive about it. UM. 0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:28.639 I wasn't sure about it either, because it did come 0:21:28.680 --> 0:21:31.080 out pretty quickly, and I think that's the kind of 0:21:31.080 --> 0:21:34.480 concern everyone had. But the more I read about it, 0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:38.560 and the more I learned about how the vaccine actually works, um, 0:21:38.640 --> 0:21:41.879 how the study was conducted, and read about how safe 0:21:41.880 --> 0:21:45.679 it was, I actually completely changed. I got really excited 0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:48.879 about it. And when the time came for me to 0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:53.840 actually get the vaccine, I was super happy, uh and hopeful, 0:21:54.440 --> 0:21:59.760 um that this tiny, really innocuous injection. It's really you know, 0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:02.720 take about all half a second at this tiny injection 0:22:03.560 --> 0:22:09.080 would potentially and likely save millions of lives and get 0:22:09.160 --> 0:22:13.159 us back two you know, eating in restaurants with friends, 0:22:13.800 --> 0:22:17.800 to traveling um and just getting back to life um 0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:22.880 as we knew it. Um. And again just go procedurally 0:22:22.920 --> 0:22:25.080 to go through how how it works, because I know 0:22:25.119 --> 0:22:28.399 a lot of people aren't in the phase where they 0:22:28.400 --> 0:22:32.560 can get the vaccine yet, but they will be very soon. Um. 0:22:32.720 --> 0:22:36.359 You sign up, you show up at the appointed time 0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:40.879 with your idea, and you get the vaccine, which literally 0:22:40.880 --> 0:22:43.440 takes literally a half second, a little wipe a alcoal 0:22:43.560 --> 0:22:46.199 and a little a very small needle, and you know, 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.159 and get the injection. And you stick around for fifteen 0:22:49.200 --> 0:22:51.960 or twenty minutes after just a monitor to make sure 0:22:52.320 --> 0:22:55.600 that there's no immediate reaction afterwards. And there have been some, 0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:59.199 but they are exceptionally rare thus far um, And so 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:02.440 you stay him on heard and then from there um 0:23:02.680 --> 0:23:05.840 likely the day after, as we talked about earlier, you'll 0:23:05.840 --> 0:23:08.560 have a little muster streness in the shoulder that you've 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:12.480 got the injection, and it's possible you'll have some fatigue. 0:23:12.960 --> 0:23:16.160 It's possible you'll have some generalized body pain. UM. It's 0:23:16.200 --> 0:23:17.840 possible that you could have a little bit of fever, 0:23:17.880 --> 0:23:19.919 a little bit of chills. UH, it's possibly could have 0:23:19.960 --> 0:23:24.040 some GI symptoms, maybe a little diarrhea and UM. But 0:23:24.440 --> 0:23:27.639